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To see you take your Bibles, 
turn to Ephesians chapter 3. 

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Ephesians chapter 3, that's page
1037. 

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If you're using one of the 
Bibles in the seat underneath of

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you, if you don't have a Bible, 
grab one of those Bibles in the 

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seat underneath you. 
We would love to give that to 

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you as a gift from us as a 
church family. 

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And just as you're opening 
there, I want to say a huge 

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thank you to everyone who served
at our block party yesterday. 

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We had an amazing day yesterday 
and we had hundreds of people 

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from the community who came out 
and engaged, and we were able to

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just connect with people and 
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conversations. 
There were several people who 

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came and just asked this 
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So what in the world goes on in 
that building anyways and feels 

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great just to be able to begin 
to have a conversation with them

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about that. 
Well, today is the final Sunday 

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in our summer series on ancient 
prayers from the Scriptures. 

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And I really trust that this has
been a helpful series for you 

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and has helped to strengthen 
your prayer life over the last 

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couple of months. 
You know, there are all kinds of

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different things people will 
pray for, different ways that 

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people will pray. 
For example, kids pray some of 

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the most profound prayers. 
Don't they like prayers that 

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make you stop and think? 
Like, huh? 

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For example, I heard a kid one 
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mom makes leftovers, do I need 
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again? 
Good question, isn't it? 

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If you're like most people, 
there's kind of three main 

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things that we tend to pray for.
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all, family or friends who are 
going through a difficult time 

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in their life. 2nd, we tend to 
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going through a difficult time 
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And then third, we tend to also 
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things that happen in our life 
and we pay attention to those 

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things and we say thank you to 
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And I, I recognize that for some
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these last number of months, 
talking about prayer, prayer 

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might be a real struggle for you
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Maybe you're wrestling with what
is the whole point of praying in

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the first place? 
If you're here today and you are

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just exploring and checking out 
the Christian faith, prayer 

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might seem something very 
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And so I just want to say a 
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that spot today. 
First, welcome. 

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We're glad you're here. 
Glad that you're here with us to

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learn more about Jesus and how 
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And, and if you're sitting here 
and you're struggling with what 

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is the big deal about prayer, I 
want to try to explain to you 

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really quickly why prayer is a 
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First of all, the Bible teaches 
that every human is made to be 

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in relationship with God. 
That might sound foreign to you 

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or different to you, but we are 
all made to be in a relationship

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with God. 
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we have done things against 
God's will in our lives, we have

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separated that relationship with
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We are not in relationship with 
him, but God loved you so much 

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that He sent his only son, Jesus
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price so that you could be 
reconciled to God, and not only 

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reconciled to God, but also so 
that you could become a child of

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God. 
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whoever believes in Jesus is 
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child of God, that God is not 
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but he becomes your heavenly 
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And so prayer for us is this 
beautiful gift that's not just 

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merely a spiritual checklist 
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It's this opportunity for you to
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heavenly Father. 
It's the privilege, it's the 

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gift, it's the, it's the, the 
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a God who deeply loves you, who 
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be able to, as he says, come and
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And it's such an amazing, 
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Now, for those of you who are 
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you're already adopted as a 
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I want to ask you this question.
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prayed for something that made 
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For some of us, it's been a long
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Some of us used to do that a lot
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For some of us, it's been a long
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knees. 
The scriptures have different 

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postures of prayer, and those 
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way of a physical representation
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So when you see the idea of 
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it, it often represents this 
concept of coming to God in deep

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submission to him and also in a 
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begging, wanting God deeply to 
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you know you are powerless to do
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For most of us, those moments of
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there's some type of crisis, 
when when you feel the heaviness

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in the weight of the problems of
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Maybe it's those moments where 
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something going on in your 
children's lives and you're just

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crying out to God to do 
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If you are deeply worried about 
a friend or someone that you go 

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to school with, you are crying 
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And sometimes you're just forced
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Or it's the spouse who's 
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their marriage right now who 
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and beg God to do something. 
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going to look at today is 
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the Apostle Paul. 
Paul is a guy who had a pretty 

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difficult life. 
He he was known for being deeply

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committed to telling people 
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to Jesus and calling people to 
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But that got Paul in all kinds 
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He was thrown in prison. 
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Some people tried to kill him 
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And of all the problems that 
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times that the Bible records the
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in prayer. 
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chapter 20. 
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Ephesians chapter 3 where we are
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So just follow along as I read 
beginning at verse 14, Ephesians

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the Father from whom every 
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named. 
Now both Acts 20 and Ephesians 3

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have one thing in common. 
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and Ephesians 3, the one thing 
they both have in common is Paul

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is praying for the church in 
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The the Bible doesn't record 
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pray for his health. 
It doesn't record Paul falling 

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to his knees to pray for his own
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It doesn't record him going to 
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safety. 
What the Bible records is Paul 

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going to his knees to pray for 
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I don't know how many of you 
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your church. 
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church, I think if we're honest,
we tend to pray for one of two 

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different things. 
We first of all, we pray for 

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logistics. 
God, would you just bless this 

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event that's coming up? 
God, would you just move in a 

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great way at this activity? 
God, would you give us enough 

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people to serve here? 
God, would you just bring us 

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more people to help out in kids 
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God, would you just give us the 
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do the things we need to do? 
Nothing wrong with praying those

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prayers, but we tend to pray 
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thing we pray for when we pray 
for our church is we pray for 

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the things that we want in 
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We, we pray for our desires, our
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happens at church. 
I know that none of us have our 

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own preferences and desires of 
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like. 
I, I, I, I want to tell you a 

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true story. 
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I want to be clear about that 
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This is a real prayer that 
somebody gave about their 

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church. 
Dear Lord, I need some clarity. 

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I'm really struggling if I 
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If you want me to stay going to 
this church, God, would you just

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would you just show the 
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much I need to receive? 
My faith is caught not taught. 

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Bumper sticker God, if I've lost
faith in my church, how can I 

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share my faith with you and you 
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Crazy, isn't it? 
But some people will pray those 

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kinds of prayers. 
Today I want to give us a better

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way to pray by asking this 
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How should you pray for Forward 
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The city of Ephesus is a very 
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At the time, it was the center 
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gods, and it was a significant 
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It had all kinds of roads 
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other significant cities of the 
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And Paul spent two years in 
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Jesus with its citizens. 
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they're dealing with all the 
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that at best wasn't interested 
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very difficult for those who do 
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It was also a city that had all 
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busy and occupied in life. 
And in many ways, Ephesus is not

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a whole lot different than the 
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So what could be so urgent, what
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would drive Paul to his knees to
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There are a lot of things you 
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church. 
But Paul's going to give us two 

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things that I think are two of 
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can pray for our church. 
The first one is this. 

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Pray for the kind of power that 
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Look at verse 16. 
This is the beginning of Paul's 

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prayer. 
I pray that he may grant you 

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according to the riches of his 
glory, to be strengthened with 

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power in your inner being 
through his Spirit, and that 

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Christ may dwell in your hearts 
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The very first thing Paul's Paul
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Now, depending on who you are, 
you have wildly different 

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responses to this idea of 
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First of all, if you are a 
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competitive as a person, praying
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you, you, you look at the state 
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go, finally, someone's going to 
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power and not be so weak all the
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And what you want is the church 
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Some of you, you've been hurt by
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power. 
And, and anytime someone talks 

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about power, it might feel a 
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are naturally wired to be caring
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And this prayer for power kind 
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bit and go, I don't know about 
this because power has the 

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potential of becoming abusive. 
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happen. 
A lot of people don't even know 

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what it means to pray for power.
Are we praying for physical 

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strength for all of us? 
Is that what we're praying for 

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when we pray for power? 
Do do we all need to have Pastor

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Derek's biceps? 
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I was reading this week about a 
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lbs and squat over 900 lbs. 
And I read that and I could feel

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my entire body snapping into a 
million pieces just by reading 

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it. 
But that's, that's one type of 

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power that does it mean that we 
should be praying for power that

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puts us in positions of 
authority that that we should be

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seeking power to be put in place
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strength and power? 
Is that is that the kind of 

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power Paul's talking about here?
Well, when Paul prays for power,

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he clarifies what he means. 
He says pray for power in your 

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inner being. 
By the way, this power that he's

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talking about is not man. 
There's not enough words in the 

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English language to be able to 
describe what this how powerful 

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this power is. 
It is the same power that raised

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Jesus Christ from the dead that 
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That's the kind of power that 
Paul's talking about here, power

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in our inner being. 
It's not an external power. 

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It's a power that's needed in 
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And why? 
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that your life can be a place 
where Christ can make himself at

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home. 
I don't know if you've ever 

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thought about this before, but 
when you became a Christian, the

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Bible says that you become 
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You become one with Jesus. 
It's like a marriage. 

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And when you get married, for 
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you know this. 
When you get married, the 

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wedding ceremony is great. 
You have a good day at the 

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wedding ceremony, but that's 
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That's not the marriage, right? 
You move in together and life 

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changes. 
You realize how much life 

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changes when when Shannon and I 
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was amazing, but then we had to 
learn how to be in a home 

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together. 
I, I, I remember like the first 

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times I wasn't picking up the 
clothes off the floor in our 

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bedroom or wasn't cleaning out 
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And then I looked, My wife 
looked at me with that look only

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a wife can give. 
And I knew I'm not living on my 

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own anymore. 
We are sharing this space 

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together, and Paul's prayer is 
that you and I will be 

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strengthened with power in our 
inner being so that Jesus is 

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completely at home in your life 
Might go well. 

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Doesn't Jesus already dwell in 
me as a Christian? 

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Yes, he does, but it's about 
making him feel completely at 

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home in you. 
Now, I know you can look around 

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a room like this in our church 
and you can go, man, this is a 

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group of people. 
They all look like they have it 

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all together. 
They have no problems. 

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And I just want to like burst 
your bubble and tell you this is

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a room filled with messed up 
people. 

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And if you don't feel like 
you're a messed up person, I 

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want to tell you, you're more 
messed up than you know. 

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Some of us, we have parts of our
home, of our heart we don't 

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really want Jesus to see. 
There's shame because of things 

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we've done that we're not proud 
of. 

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You need the power of God to 
show up in your life to rid you 

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of that shame. 
Some of us have parts of our 

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life that have been deeply 
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It's like the part of the house 
that you try to fix the problem,

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man, but you realize every time 
you go into that room, you can't

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fix the problem because the 
problem's so big. 

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We need the power of God to show
up to bring healing in the 

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places we've been wounded. 
Some of us have parts of our 

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home that we don't really want 
Jesus to call his home because 

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we like that part for ourselves.
We like how we spend our time. 

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We like how we spend our money. 
We like how we carry certain 

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attitudes in life. 
We like porn. 

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We like our anger. 
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in that part of our house. 
We we like him in these parts of

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the house, this part of the 
house, but not in every part of 

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the house. 
And we need the power of God to 

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show up in our lives. 
Like imagine, imagine being 

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married and telling your spouse 
you can live in these rooms but 

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you can't have access to this 
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Good luck with that. 
But so many of us do the same 

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thing with Jesus. 
You can have access to this part

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of my life, but I don't want you
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For some of you, there are 
things that you know God wants 

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you to do, but for whatever 
reason, part of you is tired and

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you're ready to just give up. 
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afraid to even start trying to 
do the things you already know 

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God wants you to do because 
you're afraid you're going to 

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fail. 
You need strength. 

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You need the power of God and 
your inner being to keep going 

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and doing the things that God 
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All of us have things outside of
us that are trying to get our 

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attention and our affection the 
the countless hours trying to 

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find our value and worth by 
comparing it to other people in 

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our network of relationships or 
on social media. 

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We need the power of God in our 
inner being to help us stop 

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being defined by everybody else 
and to start being defined by 

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the One who made us. 
And here's the thing, it's not a

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DIY project. 
Some of you are really good at 

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DIY projects. 
Others of you should never pick 

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up a hammer or a screwdriver. 
But when it comes to the state 

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of your heart and your soul, 
your inner being, none of us are

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capable of this being a DIY 
project. 

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We all need the power of God to 
show up, you and I. 

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We can never become the people 
we were created to be on our 

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own. 
We desperately need the power of

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God at work in our inner being 
to do this. 

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Jesus doesn't come and just put 
a fresh coat of paint over 

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things. 
Jesus comes to renovate from the

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inside out and you need this. 
Your family needs this. 

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Our church needs this. 
We need the power of God to show

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up and work in our inner being 
so that we are increasingly 

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becoming a community that is 
saturated with the presence of 

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Jesus. 
And here's what happens when 

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that when that is in control of 
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You can be free of the past 
pains that haunt you. 

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You can be set free from the 
power of sin in your life. 

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You can become a more loving, 
patient, gentle, joy filled 

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person. 
You get to be part of a mission 

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that's bigger than yourself, a 
mission that matters for 

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eternity. 
You will honor God with your 

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life when that power is at work 
in you. 

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You know, as Christians, we are 
famous for praying for everybody

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else who has a problem. 
But one of the things we really 

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need to be asking for. 
We ask, we need to ask for the 

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power of God to show up in our 
own lives, in our own church, 

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and change us. 
If you want to pray for our 

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church, pray this. 
Pray that we would be 

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strengthened with power in our 
beings so that this home 

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increasingly becomes a place 
where Christ is at home. 

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And the second thing Paul prays 
for is this, pray that we may 

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come to deeply know the love of 
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Look at the second part of verse
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He says, I pray that you being 
rooted and firmly established in

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love may be able to comprehend 
with all the Saints what is the 

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length and the width, the height
and the depth of God's love and 

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to know Christ's love that 
surpasses knowledge so that you 

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may be filled with all the 
fullness of God. 

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Jesus is not just a cleaner who 
is coming in to clean up the 

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mess of your life. 
He's not just a new homeowner 

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looking to renovate your life 
and then flip it. 

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The intention, the intention of 
Jesus towards you is just simply

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this. 
He loves you. 

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He really loves you. 
Everything he wants to do in 

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taking up residence in your life
is because of his love. 

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His love has no bounds. 
We talked about his love showing

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up on the cross, but his love 
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It's a love that can show up 
when you're exhausted as a 

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parent and there's just one more
diaper that needs to be changed 

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in the middle of the night. 
It's a love that can show up 

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just as much in that moment as 
in the moments when you're 

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desperate and you need some 
hope. 

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It's a love that shows up when 
you're at work and you're 

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looking at a big project and you
need wisdom because you are in 

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way over your head. 
It's a love that shows you, 

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shows up, and gives you a 
supernatural wisdom. 

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It's a love that gives you 
strength for today when you 

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aren't even sure if you can make
it another day. 

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It's a love that cares enough to
comfort the broken hearted and 

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also cares enough to warn and 
correct you when you've gone off

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track. 
It's a love that doesn't require

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an appointment for a 
conversation and a love that 

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will never leave you or forsake 
you. 

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It's a love that says your 
Heavenly Father, He's going to 

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supply every single need you 
have. 

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It's a love that's not defined 
by what you do or don't do. 

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It's defined purely by who He 
is. 

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It's a love that said you have 
so much value and worth, He 

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would send His only begotten Son
to die on a cross to pay the 

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price for your sins. 
It's a love that says one day He

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will make everything right, 
every wrong committed against 

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you and every wrong you've ever 
committed against someone else. 

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He will make it all right. 
And not only that, it's a love 

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that says one day I'm going to 
carry you from death into 

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eternal life. 
And that is just scratching the 

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surface of his love. 
Paul's prayer is that the church

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would comprehend what feels 
impossible to comprehend the 

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length and the width and the 
height and the depth of the love

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of God, that as God's people we 
would constantly be minding the 

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treasures of how much God loves 
us. 

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I I know that here forward we, 
we talk a lot about how much God

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loves you. 
Maybe you've heard it so many 

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times It now goes in one ear and
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But here's what I found. 
Far too many Christians don't 

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really know the love of God. 
You, you might know it in your 

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head because you've heard a few 
sermons about it or read some 

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Bible verses about it. 
But this prayer, this prayer is 

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asking for more than head 
knowledge about the love of God.

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This prayer is asking that you 
and I would deeply personally 

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experience the love of God in 
our lives. 

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That's what he means when he 
says to know Christ's love that 

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surpasses knowledge. 
And I, I know as soon as I start

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to talk about having a personal 
experience with something for 

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some of you, that now starts to 
feel a little weird because some

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of you go, I don't have 
emotions, so I don't want to 

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feel anything because I can't 
feel anything. 

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You do have emotions. 
You just need to get in touch 

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with them. 
You'll be OK. 

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All right, some of you, when I 
start to talk about having a 

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personal experience of the love 
of God, you've grown up in a 

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Christian environment where it's
all about how much knowledge do 

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I have that as soon as I start 
to say experience of the love of

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God, you start to feel a little 
bit, oh, Kirk, what are you 

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doing now? 
Where are we going with this? 

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But this is what Paul's prayer 
is that we would deeply know 

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this knowledge is good, but this
prayer is for experience. 

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Some of us are on the opposite 
side. 

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We're obsessed with Christian 
experiences. 

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Like you just, you need to be at
your next thing that's going to 

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give you your next high to be 
able to go, oh man, God just 

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loves me so much. 
And then you leave. 

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It's like a, a jolt of caffeine 
first thing in the morning. 

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And then you leave and you're OK
for a couple hours, right? 

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And it's great. 
Those are great experiences. 

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I don't want to diminish those 
experiences, but here's what I 

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want you to know. 
So many times they're a moment 

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in time. 
And what Paul's talking about 

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here is an experience that can 
be experienced not only when you

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have that high in a religious 
church service somewhere, but 

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when you are in the middle of 
your week and everything's 

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crashing down around you, that 
you can deeply know and 

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experience the love of God for 
you. 

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It's an experience that carries 
on into all of your life. 

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And I know this, that so many of
us, no matter how long we've 

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been Christians, we have seasons
in our life where we wrestle 

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with whether or not God still 
loves us. 

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Where is the love of God? 
It just feels dry. 

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You wrestle to really know it. 
I've had I've had those seasons 

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my own life, like I know God 
loves me in my head, but it's 

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not really alive in my heart. 
And what I learned was too often

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it's because I wasn't paying 
attention to where God's love 

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was already showing up. 
And so dare to pray a prayer 

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that just says, God, give me the
eyes to see where your love is 

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already showing up in my life. 
Help me to pay attention and see

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it and not miss what you're 
wanting to do. 

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You know why this matters so 
much? 

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That we deeply know the love of 
God? 

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Because according to Paul, this 
is the path to becoming 

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everything that God wants you to
be. 

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That's what Paul says. 
He says that we would know 

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Christ's love so that you may be
filled with all the fullness of 

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God. 
Like the whole point of the 

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Christian life is that you and I
are being so filled more and 

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more with the presence of God in
our own lives that it overflows 

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into the way we live our lives. 
Listen really carefully to what 

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I'm about to say. 
Christian maturity has nothing 

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to do with your age or how long 
you've been a Christian. 

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I have met 15 year olds who are 
more mature Christians than 75 

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year olds. 
It's not about your age. 

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You can go to church your entire
life and still be very immature 

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as a Christian. 
You can serve in every possible 

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way there is to serve in the 
life of a church. 

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You can know a ton of theology, 
all good things to do. 

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By the way, I'm not knocking 
these things, but you can do all

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those things and still not be 
filled with the fullness of God.

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That's the height of Christian 
maturity, that you are filled 

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with the fullness of God. 
All those things will not 

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compare to truly knowing the 
love of God. 

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There's nothing that will shape 
your life to be who God wants 

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you to be more than really 
knowing how much God loves you. 

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00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,760
Here's how DA Carson describes 
it. 

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He says our speech, our 
thoughts, our actions, our 

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00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:52,560
reactions, our relationships, 
our goals, our values, all of 

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them are transformed. 
If only we live in the 

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self-conscious enjoyment of the 
love of Christ. 

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You might be wondering, well, 
how does that actually play out 

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in our lives? 
Let me give you a couple of 

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examples. 
Some of you, you're really 

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struggling to forgive someone 
right now. 

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There's just stuff that they've 
done to you and you are 

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wrestling with how could I ever 
forgive them? 

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00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,520
I'm I want to forgive them. 
I'm trying to forgive them, but 

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00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,760
I can't forgive them for what 
they've done to me. 

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Here's the answer. 
Don't spend so much time trying 

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harder to forgive. 
Spend more time thinking about 

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how much God has forgiven you. 
And the more you realize how 

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deep and wide the forgiveness of
God is towards you, the more 

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He's going to give you the power
in your inner being to be able 

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to forgive that person. 
Some of us have other people in 

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our lives, family members or 
people we go to church with even

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who frankly just annoy us, 
right? 

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00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:06,040
Some of you, I'm going to be 
honest right now, some of you in

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00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,520
this room, there are people in 
this room that you, I just don't

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00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:13,040
like that person. 
They annoy you. 

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00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,320
Tell me that that's the fullness
of God in your life. 

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It's not. 
You want to change that? 

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Guess how you change it. 
Here's the reality about God's 

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00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,840
love for you. 
The Bible says that God has 

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loved you with an everlasting 
love, an enduring love. 

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Now think about how many times 
every week you do things that 

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disappoint God. 
Think about how many times every

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week you do things that let God 
down, and yet God just says, I'm

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00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:57,240
just going to keep loving you. 
It's an enduring love towards 

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you. 
And the more that you rest and 

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00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,800
understand the enduring, 
faithful love of God for you, 

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00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,720
the more that the frustrations 
you have with other people kind 

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00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,080
of become a secondary issue, and
you can't help but love them. 

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The love of God, knowing it 
changes us. 

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00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,640
Now you might think, Kirk, I 
already know all this, but 

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knowing it is not the same thing
as experiencing it and living 

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00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:32,800
it. 
We will always need God's help 

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00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,280
in these areas, no matter how 
successful we are as a church. 

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This church in Ephesus was 
growing, booming. 

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People are getting saved. 
All kinds of great things are 

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00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,720
happening in this church. 
And yet Paul's praying this 

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00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:50,120
prayer for them. 
No matter how successful we 

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00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:53,040
become, we will always need this
prayer. 

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The church in Ephesus shows us 
that we must never stop praying 

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00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,560
to know God's power and love as 
a church. 

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00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:08,120
You know, just 30 years after 
Paul praised this prayer, John, 

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00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,760
one of Jesus disciples, is on 
the island of Patmos and he has 

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00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,120
a vision we see. 
We call it the Book of 

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00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,360
Revelation. 
And in the Book of Revelation 

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00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:22,040
chapter 2, Jesus is speaking 
words, talking about the church 

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00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,680
in Ephesus. 
You know what Jesus says about 

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00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:29,400
the church in Ephesus just 30 
years after, after Paul wrote 

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these, this prayer, This is what
Jesus says about the church in 

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00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,720
Ephesus. 
This is Kirk's paraphrase. 

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You guys, you're rocking it. 
Good things going on. 

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00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,760
People are coming to faith. 
You're being faithful to good 

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00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,720
theology. 
You care deeply about people 

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00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:49,640
walking away from sin. 
You're serving. 

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00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:53,200
You're doing all the things, 
you're checking all the boxes. 

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00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:56,600
But then Jesus says this. 
I have one thing against you. 

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00:33:59,800 --> 00:34:04,600
You've lost your first love. 
You've walked away from your 

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00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:12,000
first love. 
Somewhere along the way, the 

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00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,600
church that Paul prayed would 
know the power and the love of 

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00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:20,360
God forgot that the Christian 
life is all about love. 

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00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,239
They forgot that it's all about 
God's love for us, our love for 

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00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:30,199
God and our love for each other.
And it's so serious that Jesus 

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00:34:30,199 --> 00:34:36,840
had to call them to repent. 
Church, I, I love you, I love 

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00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:38,719
this church. 
I love so many of the things 

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00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:42,840
that God is doing in our church.
I love the way that you serve. 

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00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,480
I love the ways that you reach 
our community. 

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00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:49,360
I love the hunger that so many 
of you have for the Bible and 

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00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,280
theology over the next few 
weeks. 

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00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,679
We've got all kinds of 
ministries launching and kids 

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00:34:55,679 --> 00:35:00,040
ministry and youth ministry and 
young adults and discipleship 

534
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,680
groups and equip classes and 
events and so many things that 

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00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,000
are coming over the next number 
of weeks. 

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00:35:06,720 --> 00:35:14,080
But let me say this, all the 
activities on our calendar, all 

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the Bible studies that we 
attend, all the classes and 

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00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,960
events and groups that take 
place in the life of our church,

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00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:26,960
and anything else that you might
love about our church, none of 

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00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:31,200
it matters apart from the 
presence and the power and the 

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love of God. 
Without Him, we're just a club. 

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00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,560
With Him, we are the body of 
Christ in this world. 

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00:35:48,460 --> 00:35:51,500
This prayer is the kind of 
prayer that if God hears us and 

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00:35:51,500 --> 00:35:55,780
God answers us, we should expect
things to always be changing 

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00:35:55,780 --> 00:35:59,100
amongst us. 
Because God's changing us, He's 

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00:35:59,100 --> 00:36:02,220
filling us more and more with 
His fullness of who He is. 

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00:36:02,740 --> 00:36:04,500
When you pray this prayer, 
you're not praying for the 

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00:36:04,500 --> 00:36:08,180
organization of Forward Church. 
You're praying for yourself. 

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00:36:09,740 --> 00:36:14,120
You're praying for your family, 
you're praying for the other 

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00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:18,920
people that are sitting around 
you in this room because you and

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00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:24,760
I, we are the church, You're 
asking God to change us. 

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00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,400
And I can tell you that this is 
a prayer that Pastor Derek and 

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00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,120
I, we, we pray for you on a 
regular basis. 

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00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:36,680
I know that our staff and our 
elders, we pray this kind of 

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00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,240
prayer for us as a church that 
we would become more and more 

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00:36:40,240 --> 00:36:42,400
like Jesus. 
This prayer happens all the 

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00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:45,680
time. 
But today I want to ask you to 

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00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:51,120
make it your prayer as well. 
In just a moment, I'm going to 

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00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,120
invite you to pray these prayers
for our church. 

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00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:59,640
And I know that amongst us 
today, some of you are 

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struggling to know the power and
love of God in your own life. 

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00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:07,400
And I just want to encourage 
you. 

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Ask Him to show you, ask Him to 
reveal to you how much He loves 

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00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:16,960
you. 
I know that some of you, 

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00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:21,240
frankly, you need to repent as 
Jesus has called us to. 

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00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:25,440
You claim to be a follower of 
Jesus, but you've lost your 

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00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,040
first love. 
You've lost your love for God. 

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00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:35,480
Your love for each other has 
grown cold and you need to 

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00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:42,080
repent. 
And all of us who call forward 

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00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,560
our church home, we need to pray
for our church. 

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00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:53,120
So I want to ask you to close 
your eyes and please close your 

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00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,120
eyes. 
I in this moment I really don't 

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00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,680
want anyone looking because I 
don't want anyone to judge 

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00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:05,280
anyone else. 
We need to be a church that is 

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00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:13,160
hungry to know and experience 
the power and the love of God 

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00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:20,800
amongst us. 
If you really want this for your

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00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:31,120
life and for your family and for
us as a church, I'm going to ask

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00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:35,280
you to consider doing something 
that's going to take you outside

579
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:42,040
your Baptist comfort zone. 
Do you want it bad enough that 

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00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:43,920
you would literally kneel before
God? 

581
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:56,600
In just a moment, when we start 
to pray, I want to invite you. 

582
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,640
I want to invite you. 
We got all kinds of space up 

583
00:38:58,640 --> 00:39:00,840
here at the front. 
I want to invite you to come and

584
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,960
kneel before God and pray this 
prayer. 

585
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,080
You aren't able to kneel because
of health issues. 

586
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,280
And I'm going to invite you to 
respond in some other posture. 

587
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,760
Maybe it's holding out your 
hands, maybe it's standing where

588
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:15,400
you are. 
I don't know what it is, but 

589
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,120
some posture that says God, I 
recognize that I need this 

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00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,480
power. 
I need to know how great your 

591
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,000
love is for me. 
And we need the same thing in 

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00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:35,990
our church. 
So church for the next couple of

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00:39:35,990 --> 00:39:42,480
moments, whether you're kneeling
or sitting or standing or 

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00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,920
holding your hands out.
