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Well, good evening through CR. 
I'm feeling a little bit like 

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Britney Spears here with I've 
never, I've never had the 

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privilege of fishing with one of
these marks on, but it's a it's 

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an incredible privilege. 
Thank you for the opportunity. 

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Thank you to the elders, Dad, 
Steven and the elders. 

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Thank you for the incredible 
privilege. 

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I don't take this lightly. 
This is a, you know, it's a 

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very, very holy space for me. 
So thank you. 

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We have had the incredible 
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Romans over the last couple of 
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And I don't know about you, but 
it has probably been one of the 

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most life changing series of my 
life. 

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And the privilege to be a part 
of it and to see what God is 

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doing in and through it has 
been, excuse me, unbelievable as

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I've watched young people, 
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make decisions for Christ and 
actually not just hear the 

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preached word. 
Take it and thanks for coming. 

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It was a cool motivational 
speech actually take it apply to

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their heart and live transformed
lives and it is an unbelievable 

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privilege to be a part of that. 
So I'm excited and we're going 

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to continue. 
So we are in Romans 8 verse 14 

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to 17 and I'm going to be 
talking about sonship tonight 

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and what it and so the title of 
my message is living as sons. 

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I've had the incredible 
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father who has had an 
unbelievable revelation of the 

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father heart of God. 
And from that space, it has 

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created so much space for me to 
live in the freedom of what it 

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means to be as a son. 
And so tonight is not a bunch of

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a bunch of steps on how we can 
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It's actually an invitation from
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the fullness and inheritance 
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Is that cool? 
Amazing. 

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So Romans 814 to 17 For those 
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are children of God. 
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not make you slaves, so that you
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Rather the Spirit you received 
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sonship. 
And by him we cry. 

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ABBA, Father, the Spirit himself
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we are children of God. 
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are is is of God and Co is with 
Christ, if indeed we share in 

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his sufferings in order in order
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glory. 
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creative space where you guys 
can understand what it means to 

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be children of God, not just in 
relationship and what not just 

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in name, but in relationship, 
inheritance, identity and daily 

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living and hopefully to break 
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fear that grips us. 
Is that cool Amazing. 

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So you know that phrase like 
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So say it with me, I'm a son. 
Say it with conviction one more 

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time. 
If you've been around for any 

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length of time, that is not a 
new concept that we've had here 

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at 3 CR. 
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discrediting the girls. 
So when I say it, girls and 

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guys, say it with passion. 
I'm a son, I'm a son. 

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Beautiful. 
What Paul was talking about here

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was actually something quite 
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The first born son got all the 
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And what Paul is saying is 
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you actually have access to the 
inheritance that God is that God

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is talking about and Paul writes
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So I've got 6 Truths of Sonship 
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We might not get to all of them,
so don't don't worry. 

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I'm not going to talk for too 
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But the first one is No Fear. 
Then adoption assurance, 

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inheritance, intimacy, and then 
suffering or discipline. 

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The first, the first one is No 
Fear. 

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Second adoption assurance, 
inheritance, intimacy and 

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discipline. 
This is the invitation that God 

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has for us and he welcome 
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But I understand I've said, I've
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relationship with my father. 
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But I'm very aware that some of 
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father might actually be the 
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It might actually be the point 
of contention in your heart 

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because the word father actually
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It comes along with alcohol, it 
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comes along with violence. 
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paint a picture of a Father in 
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heaven. 
My dad is not perfect. 

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He's an incredible man, but he's
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But I want to show you a picture
tonight of a Father in heaven 

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who loves you, who is gracious, 
who is kind, who is compassion, 

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compassionate. 
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abounding in love for his 
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And I believe and I believe if 
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can walk into the fullness of 
who he calls us to be as His 

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children. 
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this series called More than 
Conquerors, we have to take hold

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of our full identity as sons. 
So the first one, No Fear, who 

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here struggles with fear in 
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the room, fear of punishment, 
fear of the future, fear of 

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failure, fear of performance, 
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the list goes on and on and on. 
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is he, he is saying that the 
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take hold of that fear, is no 
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And I'm not, I'm not saying that
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gospel. 
If you believe in Jesus, all of 

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a sudden your problems go away. 
But I am saying that the spirit 

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of sonship, we get to walk into 
the freedom that God has fought 

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for us, that actually fear 
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It doesn't hold us captive over 
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We did not receive a spirit of 
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Fear is used as a weapon. 
Fear is the language of slavery.

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Love is the language of sonship.
Slaves obey from obligation. 

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Sons obey from love. 
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have to earn it. 
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receive it. 
There's nothing that you can do 

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or say that makes you any less 
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It is a gift. 
You receive it. 

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There's nothing we can do. 
It is just given to us freely. 

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And I believe many Christians, 
myself included, lived as safe 

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slaves rather than beloved sons.
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I meet with young people and 
they are whole gripped, gripped 

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by the the anxiety that the 
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And I'm throwing out an 
invitation to you, not to, to 

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you tonight to show you that 
there's a Father in heaven that 

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wants so much more for you. 
A little bit earlier this this 

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year, my, my wife and I had the 
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America. 
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called the Hazels, Greg and 
Michelle Hazel, and had an 

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unbelievable time with them. 
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conference for our kids 
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And we just spent about 3 days 
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their lives and ministry and 
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And we met their daughter and 
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And she started to tell us a 
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And she's gone through a radical
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several miscarriages along the 
way and was gripped by this fear

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and this anxiety of actually 
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They they believed that God had 
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for another child. 
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miscarriages in a row and was 
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And then came a moment. 
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her devotions and this phrase 
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Fear is not my future. 
You are. 

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Sickness is not my story. 
You are heartbreak. 

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Heartbreak is not my home. 
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And death is not the end. 
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And three, CR tonight I want to 
tell you there's a God, a Father

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in heaven who loves you so much 
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live in this space where fear is
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It is not he is. 
He is our future and our 

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fullness that we get to walk 
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I don't know, we're joking this 
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I don't know why, but all of a 
sudden you get like really bad 

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cotton mouth. 
There's a lot of people. 

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The second point is that we are 
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Jr. 
Packer says this adoption is the

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highest privilege of the gospel.
The traitor is forgiven, brought

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in for supper, given the family 
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To be right with God, the judge 
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loved and cared for by the 
Father is even greater. 

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Where's Dash? 
Dash, come here. 

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Bring me a possible This is my 
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Many of you won't know this man,
but I believe he is one of the 

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heroes of our church. 
If you've got a kid in kids 

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ministry, they are blessed 
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This man is an unbelievable gift
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He loves this church. 
He serves this church with his 

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whole heart. 
But Dash has gone on a journey 

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over the last little while and 
the reason I'm not, I'm not yet 

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to embarrass him, but he is. 
This is one of my closest 

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friends. 
Dash has gone on a journey over 

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the last little while where he 
hasn't had any identification 

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documents, none whatsoever, to 
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he was declared A stateless 
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that he stood before you, there 
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And through the kindness of this
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church, are we some incredible 
men in this church, they managed

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to get him back to Zimbabwe 
where he got it, he got an ID, 

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now he's got a passport. 
We're here. 

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This is a document that proves 
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We were chatting to him today. 
We asked what it felt like and 

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he held this thing. 
He said he held this thing in 

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his hands. 
And he actually said, you know 

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what much this thing is 
meaningless Yard opens doors and

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it gives him an opportunity to 
travel and I believe to step 

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into the fullness of what God 
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But actually he, he became a son
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His identity was so secure and 
who who Christ had called him to

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be as a son that this is an 
incredible gift, but it doesn't 

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define him. 
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See, there's two legal terms in 
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In that quote that I just read. 
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the second is adopted. 
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declared righteous and made 
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Adopted means we are welcomed in
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Adoption is the process that 
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establishes the child the legal 
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terminating the biological 
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responsibilities while 
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adoptive parents. 
This grants the adoptive parents

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the same rights, 
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standings as biological parents,
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treated in the law as if they 
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parents. 
We had a friend, friends of ours

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down in KZN, the Sanjika family.
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And then they adopted a little 
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When they walked into 
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orphanage that Glenridge 
partnered with, they saw this 

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little boy and they picked him 
up and his name was Tulani, 

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which means the quiet one. 
And they renamed him Elijah, 

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which means my God is Yahweh. 
And we watched this little boy 

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grow up in our in our church. 
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Tulani is because there's a 
thing with, with orphans, when 

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they cry and they cry and they 
cry and they cry and they 

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realize no one's coming. 
They just go quiet. 

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So actually, no one knew him. 
They found him in a dustbin. 

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They called him Tulani. 
They adopted him. 

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And I can tell you that boy, 
after growing up in a home where

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he was fathered so well by 
Elliot, he was loved as if he 

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was his own son. 
They raised that boy. 

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He was full of joy. 
He was the personification of 

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joy and life at his at his 
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Unfortunately, he died a few 
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The songs were glorious day 
praise and I think something 

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else that was just a wild. 
It was a celebration because he 

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that was the kind of life that 
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But three CR I want to tell you,
when you are adopted, when you 

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say yes to Christ, your name 
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No longer you are known as the 
quiet one. 

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No longer you're known as the 
divorcee. 

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No longer are you known as the 
pornographic addict. 

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No longer are you known as the 
alcoholic. 

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No longer are you known as the 
drug addict. 

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You are known as a son and a 
daughter of God. 

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Our name changes because we are 
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No longer are we sinners. 
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old name, but our new name as 
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Charles Spurgeon says this about
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first Advent, that the Lord was 
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When the fullness of time had 
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We moved not towards the Lord, 
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I do not find in a world in 
repentance sought after its 

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maker. 
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Himself, in infinite compassion,
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bless His enemies. 
See how spontaneous is the grace

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of God? 
All good things begin with Him. 

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Adoption is intentional. 
God chose you, He, God chose you

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and I. 
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infinite kindness. 
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death, we deserved hope. 
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towards us and welcomed us into 
His family. 

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Can I get those next the photos 
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How's that little guy? 
I can tell you the thrifters and

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the church would be loving that 
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My next point is intimacy. 
You can skip through the next 

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few photos. 
There's me and my dad at my 

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wedding day. 
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life. 
I had the privilege of my dad 

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doing my wedding. 
Rory might be a father figure to

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you. 
I've had the incredible 

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privilege of having many men 
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Men like Clint and Robbie and 
Damien, guys that have invested 

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into me, encouraged me, backed 
me, supported me in the most 

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incredible ways. 
But they're not my dad. 

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I have the privilege of calling 
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So as much as he's a father 
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And with that comes an intimacy 
as we cry out ABBA, Father ABBA 

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is a very, very personal way of 
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It's the same as saying dad or 
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It's incredibly intimate. 
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have with this man as my father 
that when I'm in trouble, 

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doesn't matter where I am or it 
doesn't matter what I've done, 

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the first thing that I do is 
iPhone. 

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Him. 
It's a privilege that I've had 

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from many, many years. 
After a little boy that was me 

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going to watch Sharks rugby. 
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again. 
My dad just bought season 

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tickets. 
I was probably 3 years old 

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there, but he bought season 
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My dad and my mom used to do it 
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And then I came along and my mom
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Unfortunately for her, sorry 
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relationship that was 
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I couldn't buy the tickets. 
I couldn't do anything. 

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That was the father investing in
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That has got to a point where it
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established over many, many, 
many, many years. 

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There was another photo of me 
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I don't know if it was there, 
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dire boy to play rugby at 
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I just wanted to like throw it 
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And I've also got rugby stories.
Good old first team for Woody, 

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old College Chancellor. 
Absolutely nothing. 

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This is what the father says and
this is not a new concept in our

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church. 
You would have heard it many 

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times. 
The three greatest needs of any 

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man, identity, affection and 
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This is my son whom I love with 
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I'm well pleased. 
We have access and even if 

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you've heard it before, I pray 
that tonight something will 

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settle in your heart that when 
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not an angry God waiting in 
heaven to hit you with a 

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lightning bolt every time you 
step out of line. 

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He is a Father that says you are
my son. 

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You are my daughter whom I love 
with you. 

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I'm so well pleased. 
This is an incredibly radical 

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statement. 
As he says, we have received a 

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spirit of adoption as sons who 
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It's a deeply relational image 
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So I ask you, do you relate to 
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clouds, or is he a father close 
with intimacy that is wanting in

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a relationship with you? 
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Sonship is affirmed by the 
Spirit. 

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The big S speaks to my little S.
The Holy Spirit speaks to my 

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Spirit moments after the Father 
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Jesus. 
This is my Son whom I love with 

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you. 
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He heads off into the desert and
immediately the devil tries to 

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sow seeds of doubt. 
If you are the Son of God, God 

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has just called him his Son and 
he's saying, if you are the Son 

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of God, words that my father 
spoke over me for my whole life 

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since I was a little little boy,
I'm proud of you, I love you and

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I'm special. 
Does not matter what you say to 

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me, doesn't matter how hard you 
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convince me. 
You'll never change my mind on 

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those facts. 
Even if he didn't say it again, 

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I know that my dad digs me and 
he backs me and he thinks I'm 

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freaking great, which is so 
cool. 

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And I've had the privilege of 
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haven't. 
But tonight I want to, I want to

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affirm that over you that this 
Holy Spirit is saying over to 

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you that he loves you, that he 
is so proud of you and you're so

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special to him. 
My favorite, my favorite story 

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in the Bible, story of the 
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And there's a quote, a quote 
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it says the idea of, of sonship 
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creation and the goal of 
redemption. 

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And the story, the story of the 
prodigal son, a son comes to his

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father and he says, give me my 
inheritance now. 

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I'd wish you, I'd rather take it
and go spin it now, which is 

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basically saying, I wish you 
were dead. 

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I'm going to go have a good 
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He takes his inheritance and he 
runs out and he squanders it on 

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prostitutes, on alcohol and wild
living absolutely messes it up 

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to the point where he ends up in
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And he comes to this 
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slaves live better than this. 
Surely he can welcome me back as

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a slave. 
And so he does, builds up the 

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courage and he decides to turn. 
And it says in scripture, while 

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he was still a long way off, the
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And it's this incredible picture
and I've many times I've 

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pictured it like I have the 
privilege of my wife's parents 

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are farmers. 
My in laws are farmers. 

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And I see these rolling hills 
and I can just see a father 

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waiting, pointing while he's 
still a long way off. 

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The father sees him and his 
runs. 

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He runs to the son. 
It's the only place in the Bible

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where the father runs, the only 
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will run when a Sinner comes 
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So the moment you decide enough 
with this nonsense, enough with 

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this stuff, maybe my father can 
accept me. 

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He sees you and he runs and he 
meets you in that place. 

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So you see how the father is so 
desperate for you to come home. 

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If you're sitting there and your
heart is pounding and you're 

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saying, oh, but you don't know 
the stuff that I've done, If my 

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life had to play up on that 
screen, I'd want the whole to 

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open up and swallow me whole. 
But I know when I made a 

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decision to follow Christ, I was
embraced. 

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I was wrapped up in the love of 
the Father as he put a robe 

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around me, as he put a ring on 
my finger. 

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And what that did, the ring was 
a sign of inheritance. 

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Actually, He was saying you 
might have squandered your 

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inheritance out there, but here 
it is. 

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You have access, full access to 
my inheritance. 

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Everything that is mine is 
yours. 

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We are is with Christ. 
We have an inheritance. 

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And I can tell you that the 
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it says you belong. 
Assurance comes from my comes 

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from the identity of the Spirit,
not our feelings or our 

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performance. 
Satan will attack this very, 

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very truth. 
If you're sons of God, if you 

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are daughters of God. 
That leads me to my next point. 

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Inheritance. 
If children then is is of God 

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and filler is with Christ. 
I have the privilege of being 

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married to this beautiful lady 
Tyler Page and we coming up on 

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two years which is amazing. 
But when we started dating I 

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phoned home and I said hey mom 
and dad, I think I've met my 

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wife and they were very excited 
and was amazing and my mom said 

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that's awesome boy, what do they
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I said no, her family are 
farmers down the South Coast and

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she was like oh that's so cool. 
Please send us a photo of what 

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she looks like. 
And my dad replied and he was 

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like, that's awesome boy. 
Send me a picture of the land 

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and how big it is. 
Hey Lecha, it's a fifth 

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generation Langton Fong and Paul
Langton had just girls, which 

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means after 5 generations it's 
going to turn into a dire farm 

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which I'll start show on. 
It ends up getting the dire 

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name. 
The jokes aside, when I walk 

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onto a piece of prophecy down in
the Free States or a farm down 

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the South Coast, not because of 
anything I've done but just 

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because of who I am, I find 
favor in the eyes of the people 

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there. 
We don't just get blessings, we 

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get God Himself. 
We are heirs of God. 

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Jesus shares His inheritance 
with us. 

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How insane is that? 
Inheritance is not just a future

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that's promised in heaven. 
We have access to it now in the 

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peace and the joy and the hope 
that is promised to us. 

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That is the stuff we get to walk
into her sons and sons and 

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daughters of God. 
John 14 verse 6 says this. 

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Jesus answered, I am the way, 
the truth and the life. 

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No one comes to the Father 
except through me. 

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By putting our faith in Jesus, 
we have access to the King of 

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Kings and the Lord of Lords as 
our Father. 

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I love that phrase, the scandal 
of grace. 

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It's a scandal. 
We didn't deserve it. 

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There's nothing that you and I 
could have done to deserve it. 

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We've all fallen short. 
I love that picture of the arrow

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that my dad did a few preach a 
while ago, actually picking up 

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the arrow and putting it in the 
bullseye. 

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There's nothing we can do 
besides believe in Jesus. 

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When we believe in Jesus, we 
have access to our Father in 

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heaven. 
My final point, suffering and 

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discipline, not the one that 
people want to hear. 

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Hebrews 12 says this. 
My son, do not make lots of the 

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Lord's discipline and do not 
lose his heart when he rebukes 

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you, because the Lord 
disciplines the ones he loves 

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and he chastens everyone. 
He accepts his son. 

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We endure God's discipline as 
sons, not as slaves. 

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Believe it or not, I didn't get 
the most smacks in my family the

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way I grew up and I've got, I've
got quite a tender heart. 

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And so when when my parents said
to me, boy, we disappointed, I 

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was wrecked. 
I was absolutely finished. 

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I'd go sit in my room, I'd look 
out my window. 

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It'd feel like rain was falling.
I just have a real pity party 

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because I've disappointed my 
parents. 

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I can't say the same about my 
sister. 

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Same home, same mom, same dad, 
different children. 

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When my parents said NASA 
disappointed, she'd be like, why

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it was that NASA? 
Because you've done something 

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wrong. 
And she's like, where's your 

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proof? 
She'd be getting a smack and 

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like tears would be coming out 
of Oz. 

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And she'd turn around and be 
like, that's my soul. 

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It's an unbelievable thing. 
But my parents have to 

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discipline her differently. 
My sister is an unbelievable 

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woman. 
It has raised the way my parents

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have raised her, has raised 
something incredible. 

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I believe she could be present 
if she wanted to be. 

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There's nothing she couldn't do 
just because she'll tell you she

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can do it. 
But it's raised an incredible 

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young woman and my sister. 
But I remember when my parents 

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were disciplining us, when my 
dad was disciplining me, These 

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are the things he said. 
Discipline is not based on our 

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current behavior. 
It's always based on our future 

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calling. 
So the beautiful thing about 

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having an interfering father is 
actually, he loved me so much to

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get involved in my stuff, to get
involved in my behavior. 

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I always knew I was loved. 
I always knew that there was a 

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reason and there was a purpose 
for it. 

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So 3 CR when when the father 
disciplines you, don't endure it

453
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as slaves, endure it as sons. 
He's not disciplining you now 

454
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because of your current 
behavior. 

455
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He's disciplining you because 
there's so much more that he has

456
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for you. 
There's a future and a calling 

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that he has over your life. 
I believe over every single 

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person's life, he has called you
for specific reasons. 

459
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And some of you are not walking 
in the fullness of that. 

460
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And sometimes the father's going
to get you and you're going to 

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catch a little hiding. 
That's OK Pull yourself into 

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community. 
Walk it through in community. 

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It's good for you. 
Suffering doesn't disprove our 

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sonship. 
It proves it. 

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As sons and daughters, we follow
Jesus both in suffering and in 

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glory. 
Do not make do not let hardship 

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doubt your identity, and do not 
let hardship become your 

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identity. 
I've seen lots of people, they 

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live in a season and it becomes 
their story and it becomes their

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entire personality. 
This hardship that you live 

471
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under, the father is saying over
you tonight that there is a 

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fullness, a free full plan over 
your life. 

473
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You need to actually break off 
that spirit of slavery, break 

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off that spirit of shame and 
walk into the fullness of it. 

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So hopefully tonight is not a 
it's not a list of where we're 

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falling short. 
I can go through this thing. 

477
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There's times where I miss this 
often I've had the most 

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unbelievable dad and from that 
space, I've had an incredible 

479
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understanding of who the Father 
is in heaven, but I still miss 

480
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it. 
But tonight is an invitation for

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us 3 CR And I believe there's so
much more that we can walk into.

482
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If you can understand who God 
has created you to be as sons, 

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we can walk into the fullness. 
And I fully believe that we can 

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change this world. 
Inside this room, there are 

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people that can actually, 
they've got the whether they're 

486
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engineers, whether they're 
doctors, whether they're 

487
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businessmen, whether they're 
lawyers. 

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I fully believe that this world 
can be turned on its head 

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because of the people in this 
room. 

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If we can walk into the fullness
of our identity as sons of God, 

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is that cool? 
Amen. 

492
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:47,600
Amen.