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Continuing our our series on 
John, it's been an amazing 

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series on this. 
Today we're going to dive into 

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John 14 a little bit. 
But before we do that, I just 

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want you to sit with something 
for a moment. 

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Just a feeling, a feeling that 
most people don't always talk 

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about. 
And I want you to think about a 

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time in your life where things 
didn't collapse all at once, but

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it just quietly stopped feeling 
right. 

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And not a crisis, just a subtle 
shift where if somebody asked 

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you, you would still say I'm 
good. 

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But underneath that, things 
weren't as steady as it used to 

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be. 
And it's not a panic. 

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It's not even an anxiety. 
It's something much quieter than

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that. 
And it usually shows up in just 

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quick small moments, moments 
when we have some time to be 

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quiet, moments when we're not 
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And in that moment, you can just
feel it. 

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Something is just not right. 
And in that moment, you also 

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can't fully explain it. 
Because if you can put a name to

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something, then you know how to 
deal with it. 

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But if you can't, it just sits 
there quietly affecting 

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everything else that's going on 
in your life. 

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So just stay in that moment for 
a second. 

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And maybe that's you today. 
Maybe you're sitting with that 

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feeling of something is just not
right. 

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And we can, we can get to the 
bottom of that feeling by asking

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one question. 
But it's a question that most of

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us tend to avoid. 
And that question is, do I 

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actually know where I'm going? 
Because that quiet instability 

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and that underlying tension, 
that's not random. 

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That's what it feels like when 
we are moving through life 

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without direction. 
See, in our modern life, we have

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more navigation than ever. 
We've got Google Maps, we've got

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Waze, we've got GPS on our 
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But also at the same time, we 
have more people feeling lost in

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their lives than ever before. 
So we can get to a restaurant 

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within 3 seconds, but we don't 
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heading. 
And the problem is that we are 

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very used to moving with 
confidence, right? 

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You you open your GPS, you put 
in the address and it tells you 

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where to go and you don't 
question it. 

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You don't question every second 
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route, you just follow. 
But see, that only works if the 

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source is accurate and true. 
And if the source is wrong, you 

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can drive for an hour completely
confident, but heading in the 

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complete wrong direction. 
And when that feeling shows up 

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for us, most people don't 
question the direction they're 

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on. 
They think they just need to 

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keep moving. 
I just need to do more. 

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I just need to be consistent. 
I just need to keep building. 

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So I want to ask you this 
morning, do you know where you 

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are going? 
Not today, but ultimately you 

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know, not your career, not your 
retirement plan, not next month,

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but do you know where you are 
going eternally? 

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And I want to tell you to answer
that question, we don't need 

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direction, we just need the way.
See, the reason why we 

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experience that feeling and why 
we struggle to put our finger on

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it is because we often rely on 
the world and not the word as 

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our source to answer that 
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Do I know where I'm going? 
Because one of the biggest lies 

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of our time is that as long as 
you're a good person, you'll 

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find your way. 
You know, as long as you have 

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good intentions and you don't 
offend people, that's the right 

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path in life. 
So when people say I love my 

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life according to the Bible, but
I only take all the positive 

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things and I apply that and all 
the harsh things, I stay away 

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from that because I don't want 
to hurt people's feelings. 

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You know, I don't want to box 
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And that sounds beautiful, but 
it's done. 

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And I hope that doesn't hurt 
your feelings because the world 

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instills in us just enough 
desire for other people to like 

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us that we tiptoe around hurting
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We twist and edit the truth so 
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And there's a quote by Leonard 
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shared the gospel like most of 
us do today, he wouldn't have 

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been crucified. 
That's because the world tells 

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us to seek comfort instead of 
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That tells us to take the the 
safer options instead of 

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standing for the truth, no 
matter the consequence. 

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And I love this, this verse in 
Colossians 2, verse 8. 

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I took this one from the new 
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It says beware lest anyone cheat
you through philosophy and empty

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deceit according to the 
tradition of men, according to 

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the basic principles of the 
world, and not according to 

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Christ. 
That's like when people say, you

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know what? 
Just do what works for you. 

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You do you. 
You'll end up where you're 

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supposed to be going as long as 
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And that sounds beautiful, but 
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Proverbs 1412 says there is a 
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but it is the it's end is the 
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And that verse doesn't describe 
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It describes people who are 
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And that's where the idea of 
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Because you can be completely 
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Because sincerity doesn't 
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And it also contradicts Jesus. 
Because if all we need is to be 

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sincere and have good intentions
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then that means that everyone is
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And if everyone is right, then 
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But if Jesus is right, then most
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even know it. 
So we just keep moving through 

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life with confidence, but no 
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going. 
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we see that truth isn't 
something you build, that's 

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someone you follow. 
I remember once running a trail 

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in the mountains and I thought I
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I was pretty sure about the 
direction and I was very 

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confidence running. 
And at some point, I just took a

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wrong turn. 
And when I looked up, the path 

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completely disappeared. 
And I stood there for a while 

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trying to figure out where I 
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And thinking back about that, I 
realized that confidence doesn't

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equal direction because you can 
be confident and still be 

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completely lost. 
But luckily you don't need 

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direction, you just need the 
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So when we get to John 14, we 
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because John 14 begins with 
Jesus talking to a group of men 

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who think they know where they 
are going, but actually they 

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have no idea. 
And if you've traced what's 

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already happened, like Stephen 
shared with us last week in John

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13, you start to feel the weight
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In 13 verse 21, Jesus has 
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will betray him in 13, verse 30.
Judas has already already left 

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the room in 13 verse 38. 
He's looked at Peter and told 

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him that he will deny him before
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And in that moment in the room 
they don't fully understand 

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what's happening, but they can 
feel something is just not 

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right. 
So by the time we arrive in John

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14, the tone has completely 
changed because these are men 

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that have built their entire 
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They've left everything to 
follow him, believing that they 

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are part of something that's 
going somewhere, something 

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stable, you know, something 
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And then Jesus says in John 13 
verse 33 where I'm going, you 

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cannot come, yo. 
Just like that, everything they 

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thought they understood shifts 
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unclear and the direction is 
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Now the person they've built 
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speaking in a way that sounds 
like he's leaving and that room 

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goes quiet, but not in a 
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where people are thinking and 
processing and they're trying to

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hold on to something that's 
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And in that moment, if you open 
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Jesus says do not let your 
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You believe in God, believe also
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My Father's house has many 
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If that were not so, would I 
have told you that I'm going 

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there to prepare a place for 
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And if I go and prepare a place 
for you, I will come back and 

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take you to be with me. 
That you also may be where I am,

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You know, the way to the place 
where I am going. 

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Do not let your hearts be 
troubled because you know the 

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way to the place that I'm going,
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And then Thomas says what 
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verse five, he says, Lord, we 
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and how can we know? 
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deep. 
That's a man trying to steady 

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himself because everything just 
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And then when things start to 
feel unstable, we all do the 

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same thing. 
We start reaching for things we 

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can hold on to in that moment, 
just like we experienced those 

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times where things just don't 
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Thomas realizes something that 
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and that is, I don't actually 
know where this is going 

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anymore. 
I thought I knew, but I don't 

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know where it's going anymore. 
And that's maybe maybe that's 

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you today sitting here where you
thought you knew where something

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was going, where your life was 
going, but you just actually 

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don't know where it's going 
anymore. 

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But you don't need direction. 
You just need the way Jesus says

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in John 14 verse six, He says I 
am the way and the truth and the

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life and no one comes to the 
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Now, when Jesus says that to 
them in that room, He's not 

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comforting them. 
He's removing every alternative 

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that they are looking to hold 
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And that's an uncomfortable 
thought for us because when we 

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do not know where we are going, 
we are searching for clarity 

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because clarity seems and feels 
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So if I can understand what's 
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And if I can see what's coming, 
I can prepare for it and I can 

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make sense. 
If I can make sense of it, then 

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I can handle it. 
And we do the same thing with 

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God. 
We say, God, just show me what's

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next and then I'll trust you. 
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it's no, you can't say that can 
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It's not, it sounds spiritual, 
but it's not because if you slow

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it down, it's not trust. 
It's a condition, Lord, I'll 

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trust you once I understand. 
And in John 14 verse 8, Philip 

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says, Lord, show us the Father 
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control disguised as trust 
because in Philip's mind the 

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certainty of the future is 
crumbling. 

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And so he starts to negotiate 
for a sign just like we do. 

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Lord, you say we will face 
challenges in this life, but 

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just give me a sign. 
Show me that you are in this and

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then I'll be at peace. 
Two Chronicles 32, verse 31 says

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God left him to test him and to 
know everything that was in his 

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heart. 
So when you experience that 

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moment, that feeling that just 
doesn't feel right, what's in 

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your heart? 
Is it trust or is it control? 

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Do you really have faith or are 
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So in John 14 verse 9, Jesus 
responds and he says, have I 

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been with you so long and yet 
you have not known me? 

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Philip, He who has seen me has 
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So how can you say show us the 
Father? 

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So notice what Jesus doesn't do 
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He doesn't give him plan or 
steps and He doesn't explain how

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everything's going to unfold. 
He just removes what they are 

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reaching for and he doesn't give
direction. 

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He gives truth. 
He gives the way again, John 14 

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verse 6, I am the way and the 
truth and the life and no one 

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comes to the Father except 
through me. 

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Not I'll show you the way, not 
let me show you the Father. 

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I am the way. 
You know the Father because you 

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know me, which means the issue 
is no longer do I know where I'm

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going. 
That goes deeper than that. 

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It becomes, do I trust the one 
who's leading? 

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And this reminds me of a story. 
There was a guy that hired a 

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guide to take him on this 
adventure through a a forest, 

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dangerous forest. 
And just as they've all prepared

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and as they start walking, the 
guy says to the guide, Are you 

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sure where we're going? 
And the guide just says, stay 

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close to me. 
So they keep walking through the

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forest and they walk for about 
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And the guy again says, hey, 
just to check, Are you sure you 

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know where we're going? 
And the guide says, just stay 

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close to me. 
And so they keep walking for 

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about another hour. 
And the guy says, just have you 

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double checked the coordinates? 
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And at one point, the guy says, 
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It's dark. 
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the Bush. 
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And as he comes through the 
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And the guide is sitting there 
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with the entire camp set up. 
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And as he's about to unleash 
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says, I didn't lose you. 
You left me, so do you trust the

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one who's leading? 
Deuteronomy 8 verse 2 says 

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remember how the Lord your God 
LED you all the way in the 

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wilderness to humble and test 
you in order to know what was in

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your heart? 
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Is it trust or is it control? 
When we get to this point, this 

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is where it starts to press on 
us because we are comfortable 

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with Jesus when He fits into a 
plan, we understand and when it 

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fits into a plan that we can 
control, just like Philip says, 

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Lord show us the Father and it 
is sufficient for us. 

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Let me take control of that 
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But we struggle when he replaces
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changes the plan like that 
moment where he says where I'm 

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going, you cannot come. 
And now it goes from I thought I

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knew where we were going, but I 
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You know, that wasn't the plan. 
And when people here I am the 

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way most people don't reject it 
immediately. 

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They just misunderstand it 
because they don't year it as 

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truth. 
They year it the way that we 

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were trained to think according 
to the world, we year direction 

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and we year steps and we year a 
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So we assume Jesus is saying 
here's how to get where you need

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to go, but that's not what he 
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And if you miss that, you miss 
the point. 

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And I want to show you how easy 
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There's a quote by Jiddu 
Krishnamurti say that three 

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times fast, if we can get that 
quote up, it says the day you 

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teach the child the name of the 
bird, the child will never see 

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that bird again. 
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criticizing knowledge. 
It's exposing what happens when 

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wonder dies. 
Because you see, when a child 

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sees a bird for the first time, 
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it doesn't know what it is. 
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how it flies, and he starts 
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colors and the way that it 
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And it starts studying the bird.
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there's a draw to it. 
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forming because he hasn't 
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subfolder Sparrow. 
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feels like he knows it, but he 
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the name. 
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it, he stops looking and he 
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paying attention. 
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certainty or confidence. 
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to make is that naming or 
labeling something can replace 

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direct, curious observation with
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And once that happens, we stop 
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And we do the same with Jesus. 
We experience Jesus for the 

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first time and there's a wonder 
and we start paying attention 

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and we start drawing closer and 
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But then something happens where
where something just doesn't 

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feel right. 
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they label Jesus. 
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Savior and Lord and Messiah, and
instead of encountering him and 

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experiencing him, we just label 
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And depending on how we've been 
exposed to him, those words 

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either become familiar or it 
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decided we don't agree with. 
But in both cases, it's possible

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to deal with the label without 
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So we stop listening and we stop
engaging, and somewhere along 

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the line we stop following Him. 
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assumption and we replace 
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And instead of engaging with who
He actually is, we operate from 

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what we think we already know. 
I thought I knew where I was 

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going, just like Thomas Lord, we
thought we knew, but we do not 

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know where you are going. 
And by the way, that's the same 

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for people who reject Christ 
because often what they reject 

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isn't actually Christ. 
It's a version of him that they 

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were given a label or distorted 
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So you end up with two groups of
people, those who think they 

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know him and those who think 
they've rejected him, but both 

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can be operating without ever 
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Now if we bring that back to 
what Jesus says in that room 

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when he says I'm the way A it 
often doesn't land the way it 

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should because we hear it as 
information and not as an 

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invitation. 
He's not saying understand this.

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He's saying come to me. 
And the more I read this chapter

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and the more I thought about it,
I realized it's actually so 

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simple. 
It's so simple. 

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He is not a way, He is the way. 
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the truth. 
And if He is the way and the 

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truth, He is the life. 
So if it's that simple, why do 

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people still live in 
uncertainty, like they lost, 

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like they don't know where 
they're going? 

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That's because once they go off 
the past path and they follow 

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their own direction, once things
stop feeling right, they don't 

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turn back to Jesus. 
See, Christianity is not the 

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absence of challenges, it's the 
absence of perseverance to turn 

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back to Jesus every time you 
face a challenge. 

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So they turn to the world and 
they start reaching for clarity 

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and control instead of truth. 
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We start going to other people 
and we collect opinions and 

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perspectives and ideas. 
And all it does is it reinforces

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confusion because truth is not 
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It's something revealed. 
That's something that we learn 

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to recognize. 
And I've seen this so often and 

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I've lived this, I've done this.
You feel lost. 

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So you go to someone for answers
and you say to them, just just 

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give me the answer. 
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that you don't like to you. 
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Or maybe it just doesn't work 
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And So what you do is you leave 
them and you go to someone else,

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and then the next person and the
next person, same question, 

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different voices over and over 
and over again. 

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And because I've lived it and I 
keep seeing it, there are 

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moments where I see people stuck
in this endless cycle. 

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I'm just tempted to put a Bible 
in their hand, slap them, and 

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say, start here, right? 
In a good way, but I can't do 

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that because it'll hurt their 
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Can't and won't are two 
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But jokes aside, at some point a
shift has to start happening for

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us if we are caught in that 
something just doesn't feel 

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right. 
Because instead of going from 

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one person to the next saying 
give me the answer or give me 

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direction, we have to start 
asking. 

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Show me where it is, Help me see
it. 

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Help me read what's actually 
there. 

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Because if you don't anchor 
yourself in truth, you'll start 

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to drift. 
And if you start to drift, you 

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won't know where you're going. 
But luckily there's a way out of

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that because we don't need 
direction, we just need the way.

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When we hear that and we are 
honest, we still, when we hear 

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Jesus say I am the way, we still
try and leave room for something

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else, for alternatives. 
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but it's there underneath 
everything. 

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Because when Jesus says He is 
the way and Acts 4 verse 12 says

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salvation is found in no one 
else, for there is no other name

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under heaven given to mankind by
which we must be saved. 

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We still try to leave room for 
alternatives, not intentionally,

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but in a subtle way because we 
start thinking, surely God 

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understands my unique situation.
Surely sincerity counts. 

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Surely there are other ways. 
You know all roads lead to Rome,

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and it sounds reasonable until 
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Because the cross forces one 
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If there were other ways, why 
did Jesus have to die? 

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If there were multiple paths, if
sincerity was enough, if people 

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could reach God through 
different paths, then the cross 

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is unnecessary. 
And that's saying that God 

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allowed his Son to suffer for 
something that wasn't necessary 

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but just optional. 
But Scripture says in Isaiah 53 

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verse five, he was pierced for 
our transgressions. 

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And Hebrews 9 verse 22 says 
without the shedding of blood, 

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there is no forgiveness, which 
means the cross is not one 

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option among many. 
That's the only solution. 

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That's the only way. 
And that changes everything, 

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because now it's not about what 
feels right, it's about what is 

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true. 
See, if Jesus wasn't enough, he 

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wouldn't have had to die. 
And if the cross is one option 

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among many, or not one option 
but the only solution, then 

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what's happening in that room 
where Jesus is talking to the 

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disciples? 
It starts to make sense because 

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they are not rejecting Jesus in 
that moment. 

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They are struggling to accept 
Him on His terms, and that's the

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same thing we do. 
Most of most people are not 

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rejecting Jesus, they are just 
editing Him, keeping what they 

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like, removing what they don't, 
adjusting Him to fit their 

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lives. 
You know, this is what works for

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me. 
And then they wonder why nothing

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holds and why things just don't 
feel right in their life. 

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So you don't need a better 
version of Jesus, you just need 

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the real one, because a version 
of Him cannot lead you, only the

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real 1 can. 
And we don't need direction, we 

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just need the way. 
So within hours of that room, 

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that conversation, everything 
collapses. 

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Jesus is arrested, the 
disciples, disciples scatter, 

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Peter denies him, and everything
they thought was stable breaks. 

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And this life pulls us into 
situations like this. 

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And this is where his words 
become real when we experience 

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this in our life. 
Because in those moments, you 

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don't ask where to go. 
You fall into what you've been 

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following all along. 
You don't discover what you 

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believe, you reveal it in 
moments like that. 

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And if you've stopped seeing him
and you've stopped seeking the 

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truth, you'll default to what 
you think you know or where you 

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thought this was going. 
And if you've reduced the cross,

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you leave room for something 
else. 

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And slowly you build your life 
on something that seems right 

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and it sounds right, but it just
doesn't feel right because it's 

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not him. 
Because if He is the way, not 

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one of many, then he doesn't 
share space with other options. 

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See, there's no version of Jesus
and your truth, or Jesus and 

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good intentions, or Jesus and 
what feels right, or Jesus and 

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another path. 
Because the moment you add 

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something alongside him, you are
no longer following him. 

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You've replaced him. 
And when everything in your life

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starts to shift like the 
disciples experienced in that 

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room, the question won't be 
theoretical. 

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It'll be real and unavoidable. 
And it's not going to be, do I 

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know where I'm going? 
The real question is, do I trust

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the one I've been following? 
Because you don't need 

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direction, you need the way. 
And if you're sitting here today

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with that feeling or you've 
experienced that feeling, if you

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don't know where you are going, 
I want to say to you again, God 

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is not a way. 
He is the way. 

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He is the truth and He is the 
life. 

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God bless you.