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We're doing a Series 3 
Ecclesiastes. 

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If you have been here, you think
how do we go from that Easter 

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weekend back into Ecclesiastes? 
I'm not quite sure we're going 

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to give it a go, but let me just
put up a photograph to start the

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sermon. 
Two very famous South African 

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rugby players. 
Some of you won't remember the 

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one, he's very old, but but just
keep it up there. 

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That's that's the famous Frictu 
prayer. 

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And that's a room that we've got
underneath there. 

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It's called the war Room. 
And I just got this message to 

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say Frictu prayer has come to 
three CR And I thought, dear 

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God, what have we done wrong? 
He's 90. 

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He'll still smack you over. 
He's got hands like this. 

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I walked up to him. 
I don't know what they call him 

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boss or manure or Sir or what I 
end up like. 

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And he sort of hand and wrapped 
my hand and his English is worse

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than my Afrikaans, which is 
quite a thing. 

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And so so we got talking. 
And the only reason he's here is

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because of death. 
You can keep the foot up. 

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Only reason is here because this
time tomorrow this exact 

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building will be ready for a 
funeral and over here will be a 

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picture of a man called Heist 
Pitzer who played spring bug 

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rugby with him. 
The picture will be here and on 

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the screen is a picture of a 
very healthy Heist Pitzer 

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playing rugby for the Blue 
Bulls. 

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And over here will be his jersey
that he played against the 

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British and Irish Lions. 
And I said to him, Frick when 

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Frick said to me you don't talk 
much with Wim Frick. 

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He told me I took pars tourist 
van kais Pitzer Fertel the ESA 

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EN is that he Franck Wright 
captain, Ferkais Pitzer Hislon 

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head and Tuileri Franck Wright 
Captain Fanny felt Afrofert 

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Vande had boot Polish against 
his face, her heart and and I 

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had him off with up Bechdrav and
the Skunfan Pitzer hit the Frank

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Wright captain's kill Kaslan. 
So that's the first story I 

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heard. 
The second one I heard was the 

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Brits and eels like captain and 
a darker scrum in a letter say 

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Vietnam of yourself Slon. 
You see, you're thinking bad 

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words, but but frickin ram up 
Khan up Khan like a slon. 

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So the inglosser and Britsa 
Uraciliusa captain in Afrikaan. 

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So I'm thinking Oh my hat. 
So I said when frag what dengue 

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so hates spits of dunk, I say 
Vietnam, I say Engelsa Duminy 

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what say but craftsman's khandun
I say so you're blacksm. 

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I said you reflect by by a 
donkey Excel my best Afrikaans 

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per beer. 
But tomorrow there's a funeral 

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here. 
You can take it off. 

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Thank you. 
And we're doing this series on 

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Ecclesiastes. 
And today the title is Death is 

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an evangelist. 
Death is an evangelist. 

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And the reality is that when 
Frick would probably never come 

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to three CR, there's no reason 
for him to come here other than 

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death. 
That's what brought him here. 

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And actually there will be a 
whole lot of people that will 

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come here tomorrow, ex Bulls 
players and ex springback 

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players and ex business people 
that will come here because of 

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Christ. 
Pitzer's funeral. 

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And it might be the only time 
that they will hear the gospel. 

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Might be the only time, 90 years
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standing is with God, but it 
might be the only time. 

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And so actually death is not a 
thing to fear. 

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Death is actually a thing to 
embrace. 

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The book of Ecclesiastes says 
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evangelist's Death should teach 
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I will never forget. 
Clearly, clearly, clearly. 

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I've worked with Clint for 25 
years, being one of my very best

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friends, 25 years that we've 
travelled the world together, 

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we've preached all over the 
place, we've ministered pastors,

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we've cried together, we've 
raised funds to build the church

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together. 
But I'll never, ever forget when

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he was living in Durban, I was 
living in Pretoria, I was 

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driving down to Durban to go and
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I'll never forget as you come 
down through the toll gate at 

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the bottom of Fernandez Pass, 
you drive a little and then you 

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come towards the Together River.
And just before there there's a 

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big, like a big sheer rock face.
And as I came around the corner,

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I saw O8329-O and I won't tell 
you the rest number come up. 

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And it was Clinton. 
I said, hey buddy, how's it? 

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His voice was quiet. 
So you're right, my mate. 

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He said, hey, roar, my dad's 
just died. 

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I said, where is he? 
He said we got into the truck 

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together to go out for something
to eat and he grabbed his chest 

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and I pulled him out the truck 
and he said he's lying on the 

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floor or where are you? 
I thought the amazing thing in 

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the time of his greatest need, 
the person that he phoned was 

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his dearest friend. 
I said I'm nearly there, buddy. 

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I'm just coming down from Rena's
fast, but I'll be there now. 

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I'll never forget Clint. 
By the time I got there, they'd 

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put his dad on the couch and 
allowance. 

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It covered him with a blanket. 
But I remember sitting with 

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Clinton with his sister and his 
brother. 

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We just sat in the lounge, 
remember? 

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And we had this deep fellowship 
around his dad who had died. 

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You think it's that's, but 
that's quite weird. 

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But it's like you sit there and 
you realize this man who was so 

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strong and so mighty and so fit 
and so healthy was gone. 

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And Case Pitzer, who was this 
unbelievable guy, you messed 

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with him. 
He knocked you out the field. 

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And he was fit and strong and 
healthy and he's gone. 

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And I can think of many times 
with Clint, but I will never 

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forget the time because when the
when the funeral director came 

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to take Clint's dad's body away,
it was a man that used to be in 

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church with us. 
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house, he said, hey, Clint, hey 
Rory, I know you from church. 

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And all of a sudden we realized 
that our lives are interlinked, 

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not just on the feel good music 
that we sing because there's no 

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good just singing like a music 
and having a nice vibe and 

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having the air conditioners 
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All right. 
If we don't actually face 

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mortality, if we don't actually 
say, what is this all about? 

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You've heard this story, 
friends, but they have a their 

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dad and husband was called 
Hubert. 

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My grandfather married him, them
married them. 

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My granddad married them 55 
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No, not 75 years ago. 197550 
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Listen, are you the preacher? 
I'm the preacher 57 years ago 

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and I did the funeral with the 
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did their wedding with. 
And then you realize the Bible 

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lasts, but life doesn't. 
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bathrooms, coming through here. 
I just saw a lady talking. 

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She lost her husband and her two
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People sitting on that side of 
the car and the people sitting 

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on this side of the car lived. 
We kind of sit and think, what 

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is this all about a precinct? 
Cape Town this week. 

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Yesterday a little 15 year old 
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given up on God. 
I'm crossed with God. 

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I don't like God. 
My dad has made a big mistake in

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my life and I don't trust God. 
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you're 15, you don't even know 
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Don't give up on a God you don't
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And I want to say to some of 
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because death has hit your 
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evangelist that's meant to teach
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So when things don't go 
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chucking your toys out the cart 
because you are not God, and the

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saying goes, life is short, you 
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I want to add in eternity as 
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Life is short, you must enjoy 
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And so we go from one pleasure 
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And we've spoken about the 
swallows that have their summer 

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in Europe, and then they come 
for their summer in France and 

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they go back to their summer in 
Europe and another summer in 

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France. 
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summer. 
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lives as a perpetual summer. 
He designed our lives in 

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seasons. 
And one of the great teachers in

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that season is death. 
Amen. 

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And Solomon says this. 
He says the coffin actually 

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preaches better than the cot. 
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the cot. 
And so tomorrow, friends, I'm 

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just introducing you to the 
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Tomorrow there will be an 
evangelism taking place in this 

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building with a man called Case 
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He's got 4 kids. 
Adele, beautiful lady, she's 

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going to talk about him as the 
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The second son is Case, the 
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He's going to talk about him as 
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The third son, Peter, is going 
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businessman and then he's got a 
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They're actually all beautiful 
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Yaku is going to talk about him 
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What are they going to say at 
your funeral? 

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What are they going to talk 
about at your you said bro, 

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that's unbelievably morose. 
No, but but sometimes church is 

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meant to be like that. 
It's not meant to just be a 

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happy feeling. 
Hey, cool. 

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The vibe was good, the coffee 
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were flowing. 
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The place was overflowing. 
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Bam, I'm going to give up on 
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I grabbed that 15 year old guy. 
I said, what sport do you do 

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boy? 
So if he says says rugby, I'm 

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going to come up with an 
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He said I'd do archery, Sir. 
I said this, I said this. 

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I certainly remembered that 
every time you've pulled that 

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bow back, remember this. 
Jesus Christ picked up your 

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arrow and he's stuck it in the 
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So I said every time you miss, 
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And I want to tell you, every 
time you stand in front of that 

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target, just see yourself in the
middle of the target, boy, 

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because God will never give up 
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Don't give up on God. 
Are you with me, friends? 

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Good morning, nice to see you. 
Ecclesiastes Chapter 7. 

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Let's turn there. 
Ecclesiastes Chapter 7. 

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I hope you hope you open your 
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A good name is better than fine 
perfume. 

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You can smell good but stink 
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You can smell like, oh, I'm 
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like. 
And the day of death is better 

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than the day of birth. 
You think I don't agree with 

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that? 
It doesn't matter what you agree

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with what the word of God says. 
So you've got to think about it.

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The day of death is better than 
the day of birth. 

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It is better to go to a House of
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of feasting. 
If you've got nothing to do 

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tomorrow, come to the funerals 
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For death is the destiny of 
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The living should take this to 
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Sorrow is better than laughter 
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the heart. 
Geez, I don't understand that. 

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God, the heart of the wise is in
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heart of fools is in the House 
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It is better to heed a wise 
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the song of fools. 
Hope, hope. 

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Spinner Corp go up. 
I mean, wasn't it Amy Winehouse?

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He told us we mustn't go to 
rehab. 

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Didn't she tell us that in her 
song? 

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Didn't Amy Winehouse sing we 
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So you listen to that fool or 
you listen to a wise man's 

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rebuke. 
And Amy Winehouse died because 

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she never went to rehab. 
Didn't Madonna and all of them 

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just teach us that girls just 
want to have all your girls just

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want to have fun and the 
Material Girl in the material 

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world. 
And so we hip hop to all these 

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things, but we're not actually 
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The only thing that you and I 
have in common is we're all 

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going to die. 
And whether I'm coming to your 

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funeral, you coming to my 
funeral, we're going to be at 

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each other's funerals. 
And we try to drown it out with 

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Hop Hop Spinner Cup. 
We try to drown it out with 

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Branavain and the bikini of 
vein. 

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Amen. 
How you doing now? 

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Sobering off the Easter service.
Like the crackling of thorns 

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under the pot, so is the 
laughter of fools. 

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Thorns burn very quickly. 
Extortion turns a Winder man 

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into a fool, and a bribe 
corrupts the heart. 

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The end of a matter is better 
than its beginning, and patience

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is better than pride. 
The end of a matter is better 

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than its beginning. 
Yes, like I wake up, one said I 

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think I'm going to fix my 
garage, so I go to boulders. 

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I said I want hooks. 
I want things I want, I want and

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now it's just a big pile of 
hooks in my garage and in my 

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imagination I could see my 
bicycle hanging and my ladder up

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against the wall and the 
firewood in the thing. 

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Now I just got flipping hooks. 
Can anybody fix my hooks? 

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The end of a matter is better in
the beginning. 

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I've seen some of you. 
You want to take up golf. 

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You look unbelievable, but 
you're rubbish golfers. 

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Your clothes are awesome, your 
shoes are awesome. 

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You've got those special things 
you wrap so the sun doesn't 

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burn. 
You've got matching hats, you've

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got these unbelievable titlists 
that are designed for 

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professionals. 
You've got the cover, you've got

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the bag. 
You've got to practice to play 

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golf. 
I've seen you, Gustav. 

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God. 
No mind you joking. 

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I know you play well because he 
do not be quickly provoked in 

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your spirit, for anger resides 
in the lap of fools. 

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Do not say. 
Why were the old days better 

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than these? 
Hey, you know when we used to go

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to Hatfield with Pastor Rabbit? 
Remember those days? 

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Remember when Dirky was at 
India? 

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Remember those days when when 
actually the bulls used to 

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remember those days? 
It's a long time ago and for all

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you Manchester United people, 
you can't remember how far back 

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it actually goes. 
For it is not wise to ask such 

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questions. 
Wisdom, like an inheritance, is 

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a good thing and benefits those 
who see the sun. 

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Wisdom is a shelter, as many as 
a shelter. 

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But the advantage of knowledge 
is this, that wisdom preserves 

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the life of its possessor. 
Consider what God has done, who 

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can straighten what he has made 
crooked. 

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You can't make life work in your
head. 

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You don't have control. 
When times are good, be happy. 

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But when times are bad, consider
God has made the one as well as 

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the other. 
I'm giving up on God. 

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Rory, you 15 years old, young 
man, you've got no idea how God 

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works. 
When times are good, that's God.

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When times are not good, that's 
also God, and you're going to 

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have to work it out. 
God has made the one as well as 

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the other. 
Therefore a man cannot discover 

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anything about his future. 
You can go to fortune tellers, 

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you can put all the money in the
bank. 

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The only thing you'll do is make
a greater lining for your 

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coffin. 
Let's start with this. 

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A good name is better than fine 
perfume. 

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You can just put that picture of
the pens up please. 

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I don't want to tell you what 
bank I bank with, 

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but during COVID I felt God say 
that I must pay my staff their 

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full salaries. 
The business I paid staff full 

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salaries. 
Everybody told me I was mad. 

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Everybody says not going to 
work, you're going to bankrupt 

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your business. 
And I very nearly did bankrupt 

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my business. 
But when COVID was over, I had 

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to raise 14,000,000 Rand to get 
my business going again. 

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And I sat with the accountants 
and I sat with my partners and I

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sat with the bank manager to 
apply for 14,000,000 Rand loan 

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with a business that hasn't 
traded for five months. 

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And he said, Rory, we can look 
at it, but you're going to have 

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to sign surety. 
And I said, no, I don't sign 

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surety. 
And they said, why not? 

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I said, because the Bible says 
that I can't. 

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And like, even bank manager 
laughed, accountant laughed, 

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everybody laughed. 
I said, it's not funny. 

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I don't sign surety. 
The Bible says I don't sign 

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surety. 
I said, Mr. Dyer, in the history

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of this particular institution, 
I don't want to mention it 

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because the head of credit is 
sitting in a meeting this 

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morning. 
I hope the man doesn't get 

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fired. 
Said in the history of our 

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institution we have never given 
a loan without personal surety. 

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So I took out those two pens 
that were given to my dad for 30

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years of faithful service to 
this banking institution and 50 

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years of the bank account of our
business with with this 

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institution. 
I took out these pens and I gave

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them to the bank manager. 
This is the photograph he took. 

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I said take a photograph of 
these pens and phone me back 

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tomorrow and ask me if I need to
sign surety for the loan. 

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And he phoned me back the next 
day and he said in the history 

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of our bank this has never 
happened. 

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But you don't have to sign 
surety. 

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The pens are good enough because
a good name, a good name is 

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better than fine perfume. 
You doctors and your lawyers in 

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this church, and I know you and 
I know we tease each other a 

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little bit, but the reality why 
your practices, your law and 

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medical practices are successful
is because you have a good have 

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a good name. 
My doctor walked in this 

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morning. 
It's a lady doctor, and because 

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she's so good, I've referred 
people to her and people have 

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referred people to her and 
people have referred people to 

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her. 
People have referred people to 

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her because she's got a good. 
And Ecclesiastes says, you know 

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what, you can smell good and you
can look successful and all 

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those things, but God is looking
for a good name. 

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And if you've messed your name 
up, then Jesus Christ can save 

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you and it can heal you. 
And instead of sitting here with

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the label that people have given
to you, slut, God can redeem 

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that and call you daughter or 
liar, and God can redeem that 

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and call you son. 
Amen. 

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And the second part that goes 
and says a good name is better 

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than fine perfume. 
The day of death is better than 

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the day of birth. 
Why, why? 

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Why? 
Nicole? 

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You're going to be with Jesus, I
guess. 

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Awesome. 
But what do you say at the day 

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of birth? 
All you can say ha ha ha ha ha. 

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So cute. 
They're not the only body who 

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finds a baby cute is the 
parents. 

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They wrinkle. 
They like. 

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Yeah. 
Haha. 

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So beautiful. 
You look just like your mother. 

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Think. 
Oh, my head. 

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She's much more beautiful than 
that. 

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I mean, look at my wife. 
She's awesome. 

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She's 57. 
She looks like a queen. 

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Your kids never look anything 
like you at birth. 

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I mean seriously, you're one of 
the ugliest babies I've ever 

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shit honestly in my whole life. 
I looked at you, I thought, Oh 

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dear God no, Lord Jesus, I'm 
only joking. 

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How many You say the only person
who thinks a child is beautiful 

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is its mother and the father has
to act because you've been 

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through and you're so 
disappointed you'd hopefully 

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come out with a spring bug rugby
jersey or something. 

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But the reason, friends, the 
reason is because in the day of 

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birth, it's just potential. 
You can only say a few things. 

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It's just potential. 
But the day of death, you can 

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talk about fulfillment. 
So tomorrow they're going to 

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speak about Case Pitzer, the 
father. 

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And when you look at Adele, his 
daughter, he's a beautiful lady.

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You know how she got married? 
She came to one Home group AT3CI

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and her husband was at that Home
group and they met at that Home 

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group and that's how they got 
married. 

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They came to one. 
She only went to one Home group.

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She met her husband. 
But if you look at Adele and you

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say Adele, tell me about your 
dad, just tears fill her eyes 

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because the day of death, 
although it's sad, has got this 

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unbelievable legacy of a good 
dad. 

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And then you say to the son, 
Christ, Christ, tell me about 

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your dad. 
The rugby place is youth. 

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Rory Avastai strongman. 
But then you say to the other 

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son, tell me about Yaku. 
Tell me about your dad, the 

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Christian. 
He said, Rory Kanak, your say 

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Babel vase Kanak, your say babe,
connect for your say very Loftus

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on the on for the year and for 
us familiar. 

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And so you start to talk about 
fulfillment and about life and, 

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and, and it's basically saying, 
hey, guys, what do you want 

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people to say at your funeral? 
And now he's 17, now 17. 

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His day of birth was a great 
celebration, but I can tell you 

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much more about him now. 
He's humble and he's gracious 

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and he's determined and he 
played hockey and he got too 

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tall. 
And so last year he played 

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rubbish hockey. 
I thought, wonder why my son's 

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hockey's gone down so much? 
I realized he's too tall. 

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And he said, dad, I can't 
control the hockey ball anymore.

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I said, what are you going to 
do? 

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He said, dad, I think I have to 
play rugby. 

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I said, jeepers, well, you're 
Grade 11, you haven't played 

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rugby for eight or nine years. 
He's going on tour tomorrow and 

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he got his reserve jersey for 
the first team. 

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I can tell you about 
determination. 

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I can tell you about digging 
deep. 

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I can tell you about a young man
going to gym and doing gym in 

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the middle of them in the hot 
afternoons doing gym because he 

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has to change sport. 
But when he was born, I didn't 

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know that about him. 
I didn't know that about him. 

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I can tell you about this young 
man. 

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I saw him when he was born. 
I saw him when he was born. 

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I mean, he's got lovely, 
beautiful parents with that 

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beautiful mom. 
They're always going to be 

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pretty. 
But but but, but this guy was 

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wild. 
He was wild. 

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And then I saw him go to 
boarding school and I saw him 

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learn respect. 
And then I saw him write him a 

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trick and it was difficult for 
him to study in the early years.

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And then I saw him get a 
complete full university pass. 

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And you start to speak about 
fulfillment and he's got manners

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and he sends you SM s s and he 
says thank you. 

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And but when you're bored, you 
don't know that. 

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It's just potential, but when 
you die, people will speak about

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how you've lived. 
Friends, God designed you, Johan

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and Yvonne, God designed you 
with a special DNA. 

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Who are taking our kids ministry
buildings down at the back here.

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And Johan came and said, hey, do
you mind if I take 1? 

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And I think for what, Johan, 
what are you going to take it 

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for? 
I said, I'm going to take it and

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I'm going to put it on my 
property. 

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And anybody that's in trouble, 
anybody that's in trouble, they 

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can just come to my property and
they can stay in that house and 

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they can just rest and be 
restored. 

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And Yvonne will take their food 
and they will get to recover. 

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And so people come from 
Mozambique to stay in the 

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property that used to be a kids 
ministry building here. 

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And and, and, and and they just 
get restored at their house and 

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they get served food and they 
get loved and they don't pay 

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accommodation And they just, and
I think that's what I'm going to

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tell people at your funeral. 
You know, Prattles Patty, all of

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you know Prattles Patty. 
His dad invented it. 

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He's just visiting us some Cape 
Town because he loves the 

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church. 
Him and his wife have served the

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church their whole lives. 
They're friends of them When 

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they planted a church. 
These are my friends, some 

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Qatar. 
I remember when he was a young 

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man, he used to come and sit in 
my office in Durban, say, hey, 

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Ro, what's God called me to? 
We planted a church in Cape 

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Place to phone him there. 
Most amazing job. 

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Beautiful man, beautiful wife. 
The third son's name is Clint. 

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Now I'm joking. 
He's Rory. 

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But we've walked together, we've
journeyed together. 

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Start to turn 21 this weekend. 
Happy birthday, Abby. 

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We journey together and we we're
starting to know each other. 

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He's coming to spend time in my 
house on Sunday. 

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He moves into my house for a few
days. 

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We talk about life and about the
Lord and about disappointments 

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and about heartache and about 
breakthroughs and about ministry

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and about prophecy. 
I saw him at his very worst. 

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I saw him about to have a 
nervous breakdown. 

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I walked in and I was in a 
meeting about the size and he 

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wasn't there and I walked into 
the kitchen behind the building.

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I saw him there. 
He was melting down. 

448
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,840
I hugged him because it's better
that we face mortality. 

449
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:08,880
It's better better that we face 
our failure. 

450
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:15,760
It's better than just Joeling. 
Hip hop spinner cop, hop, hop 

451
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:22,800
spinner cop. 
Sobering, eh? 

452
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,840
Sobering. 
Better to go to the House of 

453
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:33,040
mourning, into the House of 
celebration because in the House

454
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,480
of celebration you don't ask the
real questions. 

455
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,960
How is your marriage? 
How is your marriage? 

456
00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:46,920
How are your children? 
And there are four things that 

457
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:48,680
the scripture speaks about. 
I'll quickly look at it. 

458
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:50,640
You can just put it up again 
quickly. 4 things that we 

459
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,760
finish. 
The first one is greed, 

460
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:57,760
extortion and bribery. 
Said, if you don't understand 

461
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,560
death properly, you're going to 
get a completely 

462
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,160
misunderstanding of money and 
you're going to try and make 

463
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:07,160
money however you can through 
extortion and through bribery. 

464
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:09,920
And we start, you get a job, you
get a salary. 

465
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:14,160
Live with it. 
Live with it. 

466
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:18,040
Honor guard with it. 
Don't live above your means. 

467
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,760
Live within your salary. 
The second one is patience. 

468
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,200
The end of something is better 
than the beginning. 

469
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,440
The end of something is better 
than the beginning. 

470
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,640
Live with patience. 
Don't become impatient. 

471
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:33,360
Don't become impatient with your
wife or your children or your 

472
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:36,800
boss, because death's coming, 
and if I knew that death was 

473
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:38,120
coming, I'd be much more 
patient. 

474
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,520
The third one is anger. 
You can read it in there. 

475
00:29:46,140 --> 00:29:49,820
Do not be quickly provoked in 
your spirit, for anger resides 

476
00:29:49,820 --> 00:29:53,260
in the lap of fools, just with a
quick show of your hands. 

477
00:29:53,260 --> 00:29:54,620
How many of you battle with 
anger? 

478
00:29:58,180 --> 00:30:01,020
50% Can I say this to you? 
You. 

479
00:30:01,420 --> 00:30:07,080
You're going to die. 
You're going to die and you're 

480
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,600
going to die sooner than you 
think. 

481
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,440
And you don't know when you're 
going to die. 

482
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,760
And Solomon says you don't. 
You cannot control the future. 

483
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,000
You don't know what phone call 
you're going to get tomorrow. 

484
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:17,960
You don't know what's going to 
happen. 

485
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,160
I got a phone call from a member
of this church. 

486
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,840
I was preaching in Cape Town on 
Friday and I was about to get up

487
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,560
and preach. 
And he phoned me with a shaky 

488
00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,960
voice, and he said, Rory, I've 
been diagnosed with stage 4 

489
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,680
prostate cancer that has spread 
to all my organs. 

490
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,840
He's listening now. 
He's listening. 

491
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:42,920
He's, yeah, listening. 
And if you knew that, then you 

492
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:46,640
would not become angry with your
wife and you would not become 

493
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:50,240
angry with your children. 
Anger, friends. 

494
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,160
There's some good anger, 
righteous anger. 

495
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,680
But the anger that is being let 
loose on your families is not 

496
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,160
right. 
Your life is short. 

497
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:05,000
Eternity is long. 
Prepare for it, Prepare for it, 

498
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:15,000
prepare for it. 
I've realized this boy is a 

499
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,880
precious boy. 
Great gift to me. 

500
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,160
He's a lot Lamicky. 
You've got two children, are 

501
00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:22,600
married. 
But this is a gift to me. 

502
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,040
If I asked you Honestly, boy, 
have you ever lived under my 

503
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:31,360
anger? 
I can't be angry with him. 

504
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:36,440
I don't know how long I've got 
him for, I don't know how long 

505
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:39,600
he's got me for. 
And when he stands up at my 

506
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,560
funeral I don't want him to 
stand up and say my dad was an 

507
00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:47,320
angry man. 
I have got anger issues but I 

508
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,720
don't want him to stand up and 
say my dad was an angry man. 

509
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,640
I want him to say my dad dig me.
My dad was kind to my mum. 

510
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,640
And I want you to leave 3 CR 
when you move to Cape Town. 

511
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,760
I think there was a pastor 
there, but he was angry. 

512
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,400
He was crossed. 
He was always, there was a 

513
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:15,600
pastor there is conga. 
He was really passionate about 

514
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:21,240
God and about life and about 
honesty and about never got 

515
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:25,600
crossed with us. 
He was quite direct and he was 

516
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,520
quite honest and he was quite, 
but he wasn't angry. 

517
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,040
I want to say to you and a 
woman, you must deal with your 

518
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,160
anger now because mortality is 
true. 

519
00:32:44,530 --> 00:32:48,250
And on your funeral day, you 
don't want anybody to say, oh, 

520
00:32:48,810 --> 00:32:51,970
he was successful. 
Oh, he was this, he was that. 

521
00:32:51,970 --> 00:32:55,490
But my goodness, he was 
impatient and angry. 

522
00:33:02,230 --> 00:33:05,510
And finish with you. 
You've been an amazing son to 

523
00:33:05,510 --> 00:33:08,590
your dad. 
You've been an amazing son to 

524
00:33:08,590 --> 00:33:11,560
your dad. 
You've been an amazing servant 

525
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:15,280
of the church. 
You've been an amazing father to

526
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,920
your children. 
You've been an amazing supporter

527
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:22,560
of the church. 
And I saw when your leaders 

528
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,720
decided to go to Qatar in a 
conference you just came across 

529
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:30,640
just because you wanted to make 
sure your dad invented Pratley's

530
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,960
Patty. 
But what you've done is you've 

531
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:37,280
been the glue of your 
friendships way beyond what your

532
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,760
dad did in the natural. 
You have done in the spiritual. 

533
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:43,720
You have glued together years of
friendship. 

534
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,120
You have stuck like glue to that
beautiful woman God gave to you.

535
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:53,600
You are the spiritual artworking
of your earthly father's natural

536
00:33:53,960 --> 00:34:05,960
invention. 
Better a good name. 

537
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:15,480
Better a good name than fine 
perfume and many days because 

538
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,000
you've got your hands dirty and 
you've worked in the soil of the

539
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:22,159
factories. 
Many days you don't come home 

540
00:34:22,159 --> 00:34:28,320
smelling great. 
But the character, the name is a

541
00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:36,000
great fragrance to God. 
Nostalgia says. 

542
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,199
Why do we say the days of the 
past the better? 

543
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,080
You know, friends, I've been to 
the Kruger many times and I know

544
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,199
you'll all shout at me, but the 
Kruger is never quite as good as

545
00:34:45,199 --> 00:34:50,400
I remember it when I went with 
my mom and dad and we bride 

546
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,239
outside the Pretoria's Corp. 
I always go back and I try and 

547
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:57,320
rekindle those memories and it's
nice and you see things, but 

548
00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:58,960
it's not as nice as it used to 
be. 

549
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,280
But in my mind I romanticize it 
to this. 

550
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,640
Now you go to the, I think like 
leopard, lion, leopard, lion, 

551
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,200
leopard, lion, leopard, lion. 
And sometimes I go to the Kruger

552
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,640
and I drive for five days and I 
don't see anything but Impala. 

553
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:15,920
Roy Booker. 
Roy Booker in mere donors. 

554
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:23,720
Roy Booker flap just like Roy. 
That's like Roy. 

555
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:25,880
How was the crew get awesome. 
What did you see? 

556
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,320
Roy Booker? 
I don't want to see another Roy 

557
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:30,480
book. 
I don't want to see another 

558
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,960
giraffe. 
I've seen every job. 

559
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:37,400
Not the elephant, but but 
somehow the nostalgia. 

560
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,200
And then you go to a restaurant 
and you have this unbelievable 

561
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,920
meal and you tell everybody and 
six or eight weeks later the 

562
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,920
meal tastes better and you think
I want to go back. 

563
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,240
And you go back and the lettuce 
is not quite as crispy. 

564
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,160
And that starter that salmon 
started, it's not quite the 

565
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:53,360
same. 
It's a little bit more like 

566
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:57,800
slippery. 
The snails are not quite as 

567
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:02,360
fresh. 
And yet, Solomon says, you're 

568
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,760
watching a lot of photographs, 
but you've got to start thinking

569
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,320
about the future. 
You've got to start thinking. 

570
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,360
Forget what is behind and start 
thinking about what is ahead. 

571
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,920
You spend a lot of time thinking
about the past. 

572
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:19,440
When I was a schoolboy rugby 
player, when I was, and some of 

573
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:21,800
you bad when I grew up, it was 
really tough. 

574
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,440
And some of you like when I was 
a rugby player, I was. 

575
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,440
There's too much time in the 
past, Solomon says. 

576
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,000
You know what, guys? 
Start thinking about the future.

577
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,600
Don't be greedy, don't be 
impatient, don't be angry. 

578
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:40,640
Think about the future. 
And on your funeral day, which 

579
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:45,080
will happen, maybe they'll speak
well of your name. 

580
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:47,160
Amen.
