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The only time I've ever shouted 
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whole life is last night. 
Dennis, you've got to be the 

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bravest or dumbest man in the 
whole world. 

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So we're Manchester United 
Church or just blindly 

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patriotic, Patriotic. 
May God bless you, my brother. 

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It's nice to see. 
We were going to stop our online

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meetings, one of my friends 
said. 

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He said, I already see I was not
designed to be online. 

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And I said, I agree with you. 
And this thing's happened very 

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quickly. 
We never actually asked for 

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this. 
It just happened. 

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And now we've got to try and 
look after it. 

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And we've got all these people 
online and I just, so why don't 

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we just cancel our cameras? 
And then I, I walked into the 

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church on, on Thursday and I 
never answered the telephone. 

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But on Thursday I just answered.
I said, hello, 3 CR Rory 

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speaking like Rory here. 
I said, no Rory. 

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Rory, the guy from three CR said
Rory, my name is Mariana, I'm 

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finding from Polyquani and three
showers, my church. 

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Can I just have your bank 
detail? 

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I said absolutely ma'am, First 
National Bank 743-484-9424. 

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I said ma'am, sorry, I don't 
know. 

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And the young girl that's been 
employed since I've been away 

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came into my office said Roy, 
that girls just phoned from a 

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town in the Western Cape to say 
actually she just got baptized 

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because of what she's seen 
online. 

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So we've got some all sorts of 
problems like parking problems 

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and traffic problems and growth 
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But we can thank God. 
Let's not take it for granted. 

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Amen. 
So this is my shout out to 

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Mariana. 
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that are visiting us. 
They've been following us on on 

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for two years and they 
definitely say we must carry on.

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And so it's just, it's just nice
to be together. 

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So most organizations start the 
year with a yes, like a big yes.

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Let's go for it. 
Let's take the mountain, let's 

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take ground. 
Let's say yes to Jesus. 

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Let's go, let's let's win people
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Yes, yes, yes. 
Every public speaker, yes. 

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And the motivational speakers 
say yes. 

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And I felt God say just say no, 
just teach the people how to say

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no yes. 
And so I actually just want to 

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do 1 sermon on just no, No, yes 
to your no, yes to your no, yes 

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to my no. 
Do you want to support 

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Manchester? 
No, no, no, no, dear God, no, 

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not over my dead body. 
Lord God, please don't Lord God.

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And I don't ever want to be part
of a building project again 

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either. 
I just say no. 

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But I, I know what God's going 
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It's going to send me to the 
crew or somewhere. 

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So I want to talk about the 
holiness of no. 

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And when we talk about God's 
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sinners feel guilty. 
It should actually make people 

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feel inspired. 
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the church is we can take any 
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We can take the subject of sex. 
And immediately if you think sex

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and the church, you think of 
some kind of taboo subject that 

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the church has got a dark age 
mentality around that has not 

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kept up with the times. 
That's what some of you young 

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people are thinking now. 
That's not God's heart. 

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God created sex and alcohol. 
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created with his everything, 
with his character and his 

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personality and the color of 
which he expressed himself 

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through a rainbow and through 
space. 

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He said, I'm taking it to a 
spacious place. 

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So sexuality in the church 
should be colorful, creative, 

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adventurous, exciting, 
magnificent. 

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But he does put a restriction on
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And when he says no, it's not 
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It's actually because he's good.
And so don't take all these 

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subjects that you've inherited 
through your understanding of 

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what the church messages and 
think, No, God wants to spoil my

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fun. 
No, God wants you to have fun. 

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There's just absolutely 
different ways of having fun and

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expressing God. 
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understand that the know of God 
leads to holiness, not to a lack

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of fun. 
Are you with me guys? 

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And so just you'll just, you'll 
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year as we, as we go through the
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So we're going to start with 
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just keep the scripture, take my
face off and we're going to read

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the Scripture. 
Let's read it together for the 

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grace of God. 
You say that and just stop there

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and look at the Scripture for 
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OK, so so we're about to learn 
no, but but for the grace of God

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and so you have to understand 
Jesus and his grace before we 

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even think of no, you see, no 
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You can see it in the middle of 
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think of God's grace first. 
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The woman caught in the act of 
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that. 
He got down into the dust and he

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started to write in the ground 
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Cast your first stone. 
We think of the woman who'd been

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married five times. 
So where's your husband? 

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Oh, I'm not married. 
No, you're right. 

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You're not married. 
You've been married five times. 

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The man you're living with now, 
how do you divorce? 

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People come into our church. 
They've got to come in with the 

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grace of God because most 
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been divorced 3 or 4 times. 
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Maybe you've been divorced 6 
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But when you walk in there, you 
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God. 
So when you hear the message of 

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no, you're not hearing the 
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hearing the grace of God. 
Does that make sense to you? 

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So we have to wrap it in grace, 
complete grace that brings 

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salvation, say salvation. 
So salvation is an amazing word.

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Stephen's clever than me, but 
the but the word in the Old 

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Testament, Yasser, the word in 
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And that word has got space 
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So when God talks about 
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space. 
What we think about salvation is

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a lack of space. 
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Some will take the narrow gate 
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gate. 
And you think salvation is a no?

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The excellent, the word 
salvation is spacious, but 

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inside of that word is a narrow 
gate where we have to say no 

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sometimes. 
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in the in the Genesis, he's a 
God of a very big yes. 

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You can eat of any tree in the 
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must not eat of this tree. 
Big yes, small no. 

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That's how we live our lives. 
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under an overgraced message is 
the nose disappeared. 

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It's like God says yes and you 
keep going. 

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Now there's a no and it's a good
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nose of God. 
Amen. 

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So salvation is incredible. 
It deals with my past. 

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The punishment of my sin is 
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Everything that I've ever done 
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I don't carry any burden of my 
past. 

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And if you sitting here, you're 
wicked, you're dirty, you're 

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divorced, and you've confessed 
your sin, your punishment is 

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dealt with. 
You're sitting here completely 

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and utterly free. 
Salvation present means that God

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is dealing with the power of sin
in my life and He's actually 

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teaching me to live 
victoriously. 

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I might fall and stand up and 
fall and stand up, but like a 

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child, you eventually learn how 
to walk and eventually learn how

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to run. 
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The government want us to be 
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And so fortunately I didn't get 
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but normally I do. 
But you know, I am on such a 

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journey of obedience, it's 
remarkable. 

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I am becoming so like Jesus. 
I honestly only speed when 

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somebody fosters in front of me.
I never speed alone. 

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Now I don't know if that's right
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I'm learning how to speak. 
No, I'm only joking. 

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I never got caught. 
Well done. 

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But when that guy comes out and 
he does that or her does that, 

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immediately everything inside 
think I have broken that. 

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Say it. 
You see, you've got don't and 

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can't do and don't. 
That's the law. 

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And under grace, you've got no, 
It's different. 

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I'm not talking about can and 
can't do and don't. 

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I'm talking about no. 
And God teaches me to overcome 

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the power of sin. 
And in the future, I'll be 

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released from the presence of 
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I'll be in the presence of God. 
And so salvation's doing its 

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work. 
I want you to take the scripts 

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and to learn it. 
Salvation has appeared to all 

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men, say all men. 
You see on the stage. 

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It was a black oak. 
It was a white oak. 

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There were some pretty girls and
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Did you see it all? 
All on one. 

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Did you see it? 
Yeah. 

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Yeah. 
You're actually looking at the 

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ugly oaks. 
I know that. 

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That's just how God works. 
It teaches us how it teaches us.

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Are you teachable? 
Are you teachable? 

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Hard when you get older to be 
teachable. 

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Hey, not easy to be teachable 
teaches us. 

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It teaches us always say you got
to take off your your teacher's 

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hat, you got to put on your 
student hat and you've got to 

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say, God, I'm 57 years old. 
I've served you for a long time,

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but I want you to teach me your 
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It teaches us to say no, say no,
say no in, in, in brackets. 

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I just feel like this year is a 
no year and it sounds so 

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negative but I want it to be 
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It teaches us to say no, say no,
turn the person, say no, say it 

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loudly, no now, no, no, no. 
And for 95% of you near? 

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Do you say I corner? 
Did you say that? 

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Are you churros telling me where
are you talking? 

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I corner, See. 
What do you What do you say? 

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Yeah. 
Every church needs a good Indian

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in the front row. 
And don't worry, He's my friend.

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It teaches us. 
It teaches us, Lord God. 

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This year I want to be teachable
with the people of three CI to 

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say no to ungodliness. 
That means systems and 

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situations and behavioral 
patterns that don't have God in 

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them, that we've learned that we
get surrounded by and worldly 

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passions and worldly passions 
and to live self controlled, 

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upright and godly lives in this 
present age, say this present 

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age in South Africa at this time
when people call themselves 

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cats, dogs, camels, there are 
all sorts of things. 

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Somebody applied at one of the 
schools and said my child aligns

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as a cat, and they said, 
unfortunately we've got people 

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in our school allergic to cats, 
so your child will not be able 

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to be admitted. 
In this present age where 

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masculinity and femininity is 
completely and utterly 

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distorted, we are going to say 
no to ungodliness and worldly 

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passions in this present age and
we're going to represent God as 

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best we can while we wait. 
Say, while we wait. 

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It's not so like in a MacDonald 
organization while we wait for 

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the blessed hope, the glorious 
appearing of our great God and 

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Savior Jesus Christ next verse 
who gave himself for us to 

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redeem us say redeem us. 
Keep the scripture on that word 

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is an auction. 
It's an auction I love I love 

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auctioning. 
I go on online auctions. 

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One of my hobbies, but, but if 
you've ever listened to an 

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auctioneer going, going, going, 
and I myself sitting there and I

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think of the devil bidding for 
me and I think of Christ bidding

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for me. 
And the price is going up 

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because he wants to win me. 
Because if he can win me, then 

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he can use me for destruction. 
And so he's going to pay a 

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price. 
And every time the price goes 

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up, Christ lifts the price, 
lifts the price, lift the price,

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lift the price, and eventually 
he says no, to heck with this, 

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10 times the value going to 
Jesus Christ. 

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Rory Dyer redeemed, redeemed. 
And he does it over every single

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one of you, Georgina. 
And the enemy is fighting 1000 

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million, 10 million 100 million 
$10 billion. 

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Georgina Yes, Lord. 
Redeemed. 

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So when we read no, we read it 
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You and I have been bought by a 
price that is highly expensive. 

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It cost him his blood. 
But you and I are free. 

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And in that freedom he teaches 
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redeem us some all wickedness, 
and to purify for himself, for 

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people that are his very own, 
eager to do what is good. 

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He said, are we going for the 
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No, we're not. 
We're going for the church. 

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It represents Christ, Amen. 
So The Tonight, today I want to 

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speak about the nose of God. 
You can just put it up. 

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I'll show you what it looks like
the nose of God, not the nose of

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God in case some of you don't 
understand English. 

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So Hoovas Kat von duh nearly 
Domnica Pratt von uses an yes 

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NIA NIA NIA Pratt von say niyes 
NI say niyes NI N EE S not NEUSI

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say I had OK that. 
Can you spell me the nose of 

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God? 
Next slide, please. 

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Just keep that up. 
I've done hundreds of weddings. 

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Hundreds. 
And most of the weddings I've 

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done, and some of you are 
sitting here, have been through 

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salvation, the grace of God, and
redemption. 

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And we've done the wedding as if
you had never sinned. 

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But the last three or Four 
Weddings I've done have been a 

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group of young people that 
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they were going to say no to the
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ungodliness and live their lives
out of obedience to Christ. 

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And this message came from a 
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watched from a little girl 
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Durban. 
I worked with her mum and dad, 

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and her mum prayed for her. 
Titus chapter 2, verse 11. 

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Lord God, will you bring my 
daughter up in your ways? 

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And will you teach my daughter 
to say no to ungodliness outside

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of the in the grace of God, not 
because of law or not because 

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she's a pastor's daughter or a 
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God, what do you teach her to 
say no because of grace? 

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And I had the privilege of going
to her wedding. 

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And as she walked down the 
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presence of God. 
And I realized, no does not 

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produce law. 
No produces holiness. 

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And I just stood there. 
I just sobbed. 

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And I watched this man, Joel, 
receive this beautiful, pure 

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bride. 
None of you should feel guilt. 

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None of you should feel shame. 
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we're starting to raise a 
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saying no from young and it's 
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You see friends, one of my 
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from from the talent and he said
I'm so worried about the 

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government and the laws, that 
Christianity doesn't come from 

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the top down. 
It doesn't matter if the 

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government is ANC or communist, 
Christianity comes from the 

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bottom up. 
Christianity is subversive. 

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It doesn't matter what South 
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Don't be worried about 
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He's not in charge of South 
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Jesus is. 
And it doesn't matter what law 

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in education or whatever they 
stick in place. 

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The Bible says the word of God 
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And every time the church gets 
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die. 
You can't kill the church, you 

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can't kill the word. 
And it doesn't come through laws

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in the land. 
It comes from young girls saying

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no. 
It comes from underneath there. 

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And when it comes, it starts to 
gather power. 

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And when the power starts to 
rise, nobody can fight it. 

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I'd much rather be in a 
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Christian government. 
But that doesn't actually that. 

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If you can read the whole book 
of Acts, it's got nothing to do 

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with the government. 
It's got to do with the name of 

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Jesus and the word of God and 
nothing can stop it. 

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It comes underneath, and when 
you come to church and you see a

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orthopaedic surgeon sticking 
behind the machine or an 

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entrepreneur of medical company 
standing behind the machine 

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serving you coffee, you don't 
even know some of you guys who's

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serving you coffee. 
You've got some of the best 

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specialists in the country 
sitting in our church and 

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they're serving you coffee. 
And while they're doing it, 

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underneath is coming. 
The power of God and the 

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holiness of God is busy rising 
up. 

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Amen. 
Connor and Selena and Cameron 

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and Jess. 
I saw a little girl getting 

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born. 
Her dad was a pastor, so getting

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born. 
I was there when she got born. 

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I saw her growing up in the 
church, parents at a very 

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difficult church in a very poor 
area. 

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They had 200 break insurance a 
year for four years in a row, 

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and her father responded to 
every break in their church was 

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right next to a Township. 
They had hundreds and hundreds 

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of break insurance. 
And I saw her family just break 

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under the emotional strain of 
that. 

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But I saw this little girl grow 
up and then eventually moved to 

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Tucky's as an 18 year old, never
been out of home to study 

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medicine. 
And in December she qualified as

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a doctor. 
I've just watched her growing up

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in my home. 
What's that? 

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And then when she walked down 
the aisle to say yes to her 

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husband, I thought this year's 
is because of 1000 no's and 

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those thousand no's completely 
overwhelmed me. 

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And I thought I get her parents 
are five steps away, 5 steps 

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away and I get to stand less 
than two feet from this sense of

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holiness. 
And I thought, I have to say to 

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us as a church guys, there's the
grace of God, there's the 

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salvation that sets us free. 
There is the redemption that 

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comes. 
But can we learn this here just 

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to say no? 
To ungodliness and worldly 

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passions that somehow will put 
into the heart of people not the

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law of God, not the policeman of
God. 

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Parents trying to get their kids
to behave. 

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Teachers try and get their kids 
to behave. 

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Politicians try and get their 
citizens to behave, but pastors 

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have to somehow teach the word 
of God that the grace says no, 

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not law. 
That grace says no. 

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You can put the next slide up, 
please. 

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The church is made-up of three 
groups of people, followers, 

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believers and obeyers. 
That's how the church is made. 

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Jesus said to me, come follow me
and he ends up in their house. 

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You can read it. 
It's in Matthew, come follow me.

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It ends up there. 
What we say to people is come 

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follow me and we expect them to 
end up in our house. 

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Jesus says come follow me. 
It ends up in their house and 

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the Bible says, and they're 
drinking whiskey and smoking 

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cigars. 
You can read between the lines. 

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So Jesus says follow me and he 
ends up in their house, says 

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hoeing single malt, puffing 
cigars. 

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And you think, what are you 
doing Jesus? 

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He said I'm getting people to 
follow me. 

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I met Mel when I was 18/17/16 
15. 

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We were young and we were free. 
Sunday night was the first time 

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we dropped our son at boarding 
school, was the first time in 29

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years we've not had a child 
living in our home. 

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I didn't say hi. 
I'm Rory. 

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She said hi. 
I'm Melanie. 

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I said, hey, Melanie. 
Hi. 

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Would you like to marry me? 
She'll say. 

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Listen to you, Randy, young man.
Leave me alone. 

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You don't. 
You don't get married on the 

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first date. 
You follow each other. 

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You learn each other's ways. 
You. 

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And so inside the church, 
they're followers. 

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How do I know you? 
You come in here at the last 

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minute and you take your last 
puff. 

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You think, oh hour of 
Christianity, now I check you 

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every Sunday. 
You're out there guys, and now 

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you think you can. 
Now you think with that little 

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that that that E tag thing you 
can just you pull your belt and 

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when an obeyer walks past you 
and says, oh, you must stop 

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smoking. 
Jesus doesn't like smoking. 

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You know what happens when you 
have a Church of too many 

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followers? 
You become seeker sensitive and 

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you start to preach to tickle 
their ears. 

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When you have a Church of too 
many obeyers And normally very 

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small churches don't think don't
snake, especially their green 

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stuff. 
You guys from Durban, that's 

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called grass. 
Jesus invented it, but it's to 

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walk on and not to smoke. 
Church of the Bayers. 

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And so So what do we have here 
is we have got some followers 

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and you know what I want to say 
to you. 

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I want to say the grace of God 
and the salvation of God and the

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redemption of God welcomes You. 
Beautiful. 

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And then we've got a group of 
believers that are no longer 

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just wanting to follow God. 
They actually want to believe. 

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And so they said, you know what 
I'm going to do today in front 

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of 2 1/2 thousand people? 
I'm going to be baptized. 

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I want to make my faith public 
and I'm going to invite my 

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family and I'm going to go under
the waters because I believe 

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God. 
And then we're going to spend 

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the rest of our life learning 
how to obey him by his grace, by

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his grace. 
And when you have followers and 

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believers and obeyers all 
together, you start to find 

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amazing joy. 
You think that's where I've come

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from. 
That's where I'm going. 

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This is how God helped me and 
and we start to find something. 

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I was actually going to get 
Damian up here with a guitar. 

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Actually. 
Grab a guitar. 

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Damian, grab one of the guitars.
Grab the and Andy, grab another.

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Grab that guitar. 
Andy, grab this guitar. 

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Yeah, your son. 
Grab that guitar. 

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Come and stand together. 
Put it on. 

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So you guys don't know this, but
this is probably one of the best

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musicians in our country. 
No, seriously. 

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Hey. 
No, no, no, He is. 

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He is and, and if we got him to 
play a tune and we asked his son

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to follow, it wouldn't be so 
sharp. 

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It wouldn't be that good because
he's still learning guitar. 

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Do you understand that? 
And so, so I've served God now 

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for 30 years and I, I still 
stumble and fall, but, but 

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actually, if you live in my home
and you live with me and we, and

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we have eat together and we 
worship together, we eventually 

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start following the same music 
sheet. 

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And So what we had. 
So now we've got a follower and 

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eventually you'll get the tunes 
right. 

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And then eventually we'll become
like a believer. 

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Think actually, I can get on 
stage now and play because I'm 

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confident enough. 
And eventually you'll be able to

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put the music sheet aside and 
you'll be able to play. 

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So I can obey the song. 
I can obey the chords because 

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actually I know them and I trust
that guy because he's been doing

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it for a long time. 
And then you see a guy on a 

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guitar on a piano, white guy, 
and you see a black guy on a 

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guitar and somebody on the drums
and two ladies, and all of a 

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sudden they're singing from the 
same hymn sheet. 

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So what happens to us? 
We get blessed by the music, yes

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or no, because they obeying the 
script. 

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And as they obey the script, not
under law, as they obey the 

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script, the sound comes out of 
their mouths and you and I get 

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drawn into it. 
And when he misses the note, as 

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some of them do, you have to 
scowl and boost the note or turn

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to the guy in the music, change 
the slide. 

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Ricky and I've had to work 
together. 

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The the relationship between the
past and the sound guy is an 

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awkward one. 
I send Ricky a picture of a of a

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pastor turned around to the 
sound team and turned into a 

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pillow of salt. 
That's what I think. 

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Ricky, that's not the slide I 
sent you. 

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And as we work together, Ricky 
and I, we follow each other and 

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then we actually start to 
believe in each other. 

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And then there's an obedience 
that comes. 

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And from that obedience comes 
the slides that go up, and we 

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start to present a church that 
works together. 

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And the picture of this when 
these musical instruments start 

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playing together, I haven't ever
got to my notes. 

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Doing good. 
But when we learn how to say no 

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to ungodliness and worldly 
passion, we learn to play the 

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same tune who followers, 
believers obey us. 

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We learn to play the same tune. 
And what happens is you get 

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sucked into the moment of 
holiness. 

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You know, Jesse, every time I 
see you, I just want to cry. 

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I don't know why, but maybe 
there's 1000 no's that allowed 

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me to experience the yes of your
dad walking you down the aisle. 

451
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:48,680
Say no, say no. 
Say Lord God. 

452
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:54,720
Will you teach me to say no? 
We'll preach next week. 

453
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:55,280
Amen.
