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Such a treat to be with you guys
today and we're going through 

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Romans chapter 8. 
How lucky that I get to jump 

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onto that journey you guys are 
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And the first time in the book 
of Romans the word Father is 

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mentioned is in today's verses. 
Now I know Father is a big theme

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in three CI all around the 
country and probably the world. 

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When people speak about who has 
a revelation of God as Father, 

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the name Rory will be mentioned.
And no doubt you guys have lived

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in the wonderfulness of that 
emphasis. 

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So what a treat to preach on 
something. 

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I'm speaking to the choir. 
I'm speaking to the choir. 

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I've got faith today. 
Two things, everyone of you who 

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are new to church or back in 
church after a long time, today 

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is your homecoming. 
Not a single one leaves this 

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place estranged from God. 
And secondly, that everyone of 

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us, maybe for the first time, 
maybe for the 100th time, 

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experiences a fresh infilling of
the Father's presence and Holy 

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Spirit coming into your life. 
So we're going to do that at the

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end, but everything I say will 
lead to that. 

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It's not just Rory that loves 
God, his father. 

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It's one of the great themes of 
my life, your life, no doubt. 

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My dad died when I was 36 years 
old, sorry, when he was 36 years

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old. 
I was only 15. 

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And my dad, I'd lived with him 
for five years, that my parents 

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got divorced when they were 
young. 

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He died of HIV, AIDS, one of the
first hundred in the country to 

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die of that horrible disease. 
And the last five years my 

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brother and I lived with him in 
Seaport in Cape Town. 

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He supported our skateboarding, 
our surfing, he showed us the 

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zest for life. 
Just such a fantastic person to 

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have into our in our lives. 
And when he passed away we felt 

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such a void of his presence. 
I was truly fatherless. 

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The world felt much scarier. 
It was this deep, painful loss 

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that cut through the 
superficiality of my life, 

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because before he died, I think 
I'd just live for girls and 

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parties and surfing. 
But suddenly I'm wondering what 

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life and death are, really. 
About six months after my dad 

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died, I heard the gospel of 
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I grabbed onto it with open 
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My only Christian friend. 
I just had one Christian friend.

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But that's enough to find your 
way to heaven. 

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My only Christian friend invited
me to a camp organized by his 

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church, where I heard for the 
first time that I'm loved by God

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the way a good parent loves 
their child. 

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And I discovered a Heavenly 
Father whose ways of love swept 

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into my life like a high tide, 
filling the gap left by my 

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father's absence. 
What a joy to have God as my 

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father. 
And now I'm a father, too. 

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Julie and I tried for a year and
a half to fall pregnant with no 

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luck. 
And then Julie went for a prayer

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walk, came back and said God 
just told me we're going to have

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four children. 
He said what? 

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And then and then we tried for 
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miscarriage. 
We were broken. 

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And then came Eli. 
He came into the world and I 

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remember the thrill of a child 
being born, the fresh 

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realization that we are mammals.
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it's like you can't have 
imagined that we live in another

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world. 
We are mammals. 

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This human comes out of our ass 
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I remember going home late that 
night and starting to weep and 

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something happened that I did 
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Not only was a child born, but a
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I remember just weeping. 
I remember accessing God is 

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father in a new way because I'd 
lost a father. 

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Now I had a father, but to be a 
father, I suddenly felt 

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something of God's love for me, 
for you. 

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My wife said to me last night, 
Darren, don't perform for those 

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people. 
Ask God to feel his Father's 

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heart for them and look at me. 
I'm I'd love you guys and pray. 

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Gosh, where was I? 
OK, so comes Eli then, then 

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Finn, then Ivy, then I said to 
Julie, let's try for 1/4. 

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She says no, we're done. 
I said, but God told you that 

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we're going to have 1/4. 
She said, you know you must re 

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evaluate prophetic words 
according to God's character. 

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God would never be so cruel as 
to give us a fourth. 

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She was dead serious a few 
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me, Valentine's night, true 
story, Valentine's night and we 

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fall pregnant with and then 
Julie goes off and I didn't even

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go to the Ghani with her for 
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She comes back, she says Taryn, 
we're not going to have a child.

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I was broken. 
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So now I'm thinking, Oh my gosh,
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We've just been breathing like 
rabbits because that's more than

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four. 
So I go into the garden and I 

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the world is spinning like this 
and I say, God speak to me. 

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Something's gone wrong. 
And honestly, I feel the Holy 

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Spirit just say one word to me. 
Surprise, that was what he said 

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to me. 
Let me read today's passage, 

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Romans 8 verse 14. 
For those who are led by the 

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Spirit of God are the children 
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The Spirit you receive does not 
make you slaves so that you live

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in fear again. 
Rather you have received the 

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spirit of adoption, and by him, 
by the Spirit we cry, ABBA, 

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Father, the Spirit himself 
testifies with our spirit that 

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we are God's children. 
Now if we are children, then we 

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are also heirs, heirs of God and
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So this passage speaks about 3 
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The Father gives us the gift of 
identity, the gift of infilling,

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and the gift of inheritance. 
And I had wanted to speak on all

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three, but last night Matt in 
the car as he was driving me 

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from the airport said, you know,
I find the best messages only 

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make one or two points. 
So I took it as a sign. 

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I dropped my Third Point and I 
leave it to the next lucky 

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preacher to speak about the gift
of inheritance. 

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I want to speak to you about the
gift of identity and the gift of

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infilling. 
I heard two weeks ago, Rory, 

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saying that the that Romans is 
like the Himalayas of the Bible.

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Well, if that's the case, then 
Romans 8 is Everest. 

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But what's the 8844 meter peak? 
We're standing on it. 

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Verses 14 to 17 for those who 
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the children of God. 
In context, this means that if 

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you're a child of God, then you 
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you towards godliness and 
liveliness. 

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The Spirit will prompt us to 
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He won't force us, but He will 
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He might restrain us and there 
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guides us in our decision 
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True story, five years ago, it's
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I'm busy writing a 30 day 
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I get to verses 14 and 17 and 
it's exploding for me and I have

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this thought get hold of Rory 
and say that you will offer this

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teaching to his church on verses
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This is a very weird thought 
because if some pastor gets hold

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of me, hey, I want to teach your
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God told me I'll just go. 
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So now I'm doing the awkward 
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So I said to Rory, Rory 
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It might sound weird, but I 
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took me two days to act on it 
and at first he's interested, 

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but then we kind of lose comms 
and afters I'm a bit 

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embarrassed. 
What was I doing offering to 

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teach his church? 
Romans 8 verses 14 to 17. 

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So a few months ago Rory said, 
Hey, come invite, invite me to 

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preach this day. 
What are we preaching on? 

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Oh, you in Romans 8? 
So now I'm watching where am I 

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going to step in? 
Lo and behold, Rory gets to 

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verse 13. 
So today turns out I heard God 

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right. 
I just got the timing wrong. 

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Five years. 
But think how meticulous God has

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been planning today that you 
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message. 
So let's speak about the 

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Father's gift of identity. 
The Father's gift of identity, 

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Who am I? 
This is the question that runs 

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deep in every one of us. 
Some people say it's the 

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question of our generation. 
For many of us, our first 

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instinct is to locate our 
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Ask someone who are you? 
And soon they're telling you I'm

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a teacher, I'm an entrepreneur, 
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And yet, if we lose that role or
success doesn't come, who are we

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then? 
Others. 

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Others of us build our identity 
on what we've done, or rather on

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what we wish we hadn't done. 
Past failures, rejections, 

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mistakes can cling to us like a 
second skin, whispering shame 

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over and over. 
Then there's what others think 

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of us, how easily our sense of 
worth rises or falls on 

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someone's approval, someone's 
criticism, someone's 

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indifference. 
It's like to like trying to 

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stand on quicksand. 
There's no firm ground beneath 

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us. 
All of these are flawed places 

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to find an identity. 
They can't hold the weight of 

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who you are. 
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brings us the most breath taking
gift through Christ. 

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We are adopted as children of 
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The Spirit you receive brought 
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by him we cry. 
ABBA Father, your deepest 

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identity is not what you do for 
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It's not the mistakes you've 
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It's not what anyone thinks of 
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Your truest identity is child of
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So let me say two things about 
this adoption and ABBA adoption.

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Firstly, what I heard when I was
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surprise, not everyone is God's 
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I just assumed all people are 
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But for my 1st 16 years, I 
certainly didn't know God 

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intimately. 
You see, it's a half truth that 

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we are all God's children. 
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of us. 
We're all made in His image. 

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We're all loved. 
It's why Paul in the Bible 

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speaking to Pagan says we are 
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But being adopted into God's 
family is a deeper, more 

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intimate connection. 
As John the Apostle explains to 

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those who received Jesus and 
believed in his name, he gave 

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them the right to become 
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And how do we become children of
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Well, amazingly, the Son of God 
became one of us so we can 

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become sons and daughters of 
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The Son of God became one of us 
so that we could become sons and

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daughters of God. 
Galatians 4 says when the time 

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had fully come, God sent his Son
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rights of sons. 
But how exactly did Jesus make 

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us sons and daughters? 
Well, interestingly, if you read

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the gospels, only once does 
Jesus call his disciples 

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brothers and sisters. 
It's on the day of his 

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resurrection when he tells one 
of the women, Go instead to my 

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brothers and tell them, I'm 
sending to my father and to your

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father, to my God and your God. 
It's only after his death and 

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his resurrection that Jesus 
speaks of the disciples 

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adoption. 
Hebrews 2 says that he tasted 

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death in our place to bring many
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It's as though on the cross he 
became an orphan so that we 

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could become adopted and then we
get brought into this cosmic 

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relationship with the Father and
the Son. 

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There's only another place in 
the book of Romans where God is 

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called Father in Romans 15 verse
6, where it speaks about God as 

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the Father of Jesus. 
These are the highest truths. 

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The Son is the Son of the 
Father. 

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The Son calls the Father his 
father, and we get brought into 

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that relationship. 
So we also have God as our 

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Father. 
But notice that in John 20, 

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Jesus doesn't say our Father. 
He says my Father and your 

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Father. 
Why the awkward language? 

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Well, our relationship with God 
as his children is a bit 

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different from Jesus's unique 
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I mean, He is divine, we are 
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He is worshipped, we are 
worshippers. 

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His sonship has existed from 
eternity past to eternity 

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future. 
Our sonship and daughtership 

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will exist to eternity future, 
but it has a starting point. 

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He is the Son by nature. 
We are sons and daughters by 

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grace. 
We are His adopted brothers and 

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sisters. 
What we do share in common with 

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our older brother, however, is 
that the Father loves us as much

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as He loves His Son. 
John 17 verse 23. 

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Jesus is praying and he says, 
Father, you have loved them even

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as you have loved me. 
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Read of God's overwhelming, 
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Son. 
All of that affection that He 

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has for His Son, He has for you.
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The Spirit enables us to enjoy 
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By him we cry ABBA, father. 
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father affectionately used by 
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It's similar to Papa, Daddy and 
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Mark 14. 
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disciples, because we know of no
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spoken to God so endearingly to 
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Small children of all cultures 
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syllable names for their 
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Always each child comes and you 
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say Dada or Mama. 
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Or OPA. 
Oh my, yes, more competition. 

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These two syllable names, they 
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But when we cry have a father, 
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dependency, it's also a cry of 
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3 verse 1. 
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Father has lavished on us, that 
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for that is what we are. 
See what great love the Father 

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has lavished upon us, that we 
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that is what we are. 
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Behold, could be translated. 
Wow. 

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It's an exclamation mark at the 
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then the translation. 
What great love? 

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says, see what country does this
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It's an ancient idiom. 
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experience. 
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something happened that nobody 
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country. 
It's like saying, what planet 

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does this love come from? 
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The Father has lavished upon us 
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children of God, and that is 
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emphasizes this parent child 
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ourselves. 
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father. 
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biography. 
I dared to call him Father, 

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telling of a Muslim woman who 
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alongside the Koran. 
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message of these two books was 
incompatible, she prayed to pray

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God, which is your book. 
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saying, the book by which you 
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As a as as a human species, we 
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powerful people, celebrities, 
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to them because they're 
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and by bodyguards. 
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where you've got a king seated 
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everybody standing to attention.
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they can be executed. 
Complete fear. 

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running down the whatever that 
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King Daddy in the gospel, the 
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in the world, but the universe 
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He is ever available. 
He's not too important or too 

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busy or too distracted for us. 
His door is always open. 

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We simply cannot interrupt him 
from something more important he

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may be doing, for his chief work
is to love his children. 

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Point 1.2 Matt, you're keeping 
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My I got one more point. 
The Father's gift of infilling. 

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The Father's gift of infilling. 
What will satisfy me? 

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Every human heart is asking the 
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We may, we're not say it aloud, 
but we feel it and we go on 

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searching. 
Some of us think if we can just 

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find the right person, if I can 
experience that perfect romantic

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love, then I will be whole. 
Others think if I can succeed or

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make more money or gain that 
recognition, then I'll finally 

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rest this chase after pleasure 
or experiences or friendships or

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family or even ministry. 
Good things, but not ultimate 

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things. 
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Every well we dig in this world 
world will eventually run dry. 

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The career high fades, the 
relationship disappoints, the 

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thrill wears off Why? 
Because our hearts are too deep 

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to be filled by creative things.
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Spirit Himself testifies with 
our Spirit that we are God's 

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children. 
This is a reference to the 

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infilling of the Holy Spirit. 
Now, if you were to read the 

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book of Acts, there's many 
references to the outpouring and

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the baptism and the infilling of
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Always these experiences are 
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community for the ministry 
impact that they're going to 

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have, and Paul certainly 
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But what Paul contributes to 
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experience of this outpoured 
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powerful ministry. 
It comes packed with a 

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supernatural assurance and 
supernatural affection. 

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Supernatural assurance and 
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So let's speak about the 
assurance the Spirit's infilling

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gives us assurance. 
Bible scholars studying Romans 8

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debate what is the main idea 
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Some say, well, obviously it's 
the Holy Spirit. 

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It's referred to 18 times. 
But others go, no, no, it's not.

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It's not the Holy Spirit. 
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opening verse you've heard many 
Times Now over the last many 

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months is no condemnation, and 
the last verse is no separation.

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So which is it? 
Well, verse 16 solves our 

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problem. 
It's both. 

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In verse 16, these two things 
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The Spirit gives us everlasting 
assurance. 

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The Spirit himself might want to
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The Spirit is a person. 
You know, often hear myself and 

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others speak about the Spirit, 
isn't it? 

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Could you feel it? 
And there are many metaphors 

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that are impersonal. 
The spirit's presence is like 

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wind, like water, like fire, 
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So we the perpetuates this idea.
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in the word himself. 
The Spirit is a person. 

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The Spirit is not just a 
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Have you ever received the gift 
of tons? 

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The Spirit is not just a 
leading. 

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Many people will just be happy. 
That's all. 

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The Holy Spirit is to them. 
A once remarkable thing that 

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happened with their mouth or 
many times or they get little 

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nudges. 
That's it. 

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Now, the Spirit is a person that
you have a love relationship 

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with, so you get to know God is 
your Father. 

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There's a love relationship 
there. 

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You get to know God the Son, 
there's a love relationship 

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there, and you get to know the 
Holy Spirit. 

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You get to have a love 
relationship with the Holy 

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Spirit. 
Now let's speak about assurance,

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because let's be honest, it 
doesn't. 

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Even if you've been a Christian 
for a long time, it doesn't 

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always feel like God is near. 
Sometimes your prayers bounce 

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off the feeling, the ceiling. 
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So what do you do? 
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Well, the first thing that I 
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you testify to yourself that you
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The word testify in verse 16 is 
legal language that speaks of 

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speaking the truth in such a way
that doubt is castaway. 

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Now one of the things I could 
not believe when I studied this 

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verse 16 is that I'd read it 
wrong. 

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All these years. 
I've always read it as the 

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Spirit himself testifies to our 
Spirit that we are God's 

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children. 
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Spirit himself testifies with. 
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which means alongside there are 
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you're God's child. 
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your spirit, which is a good 
reminder, your job to remind 

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yourself that you're God's 
child. 

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Even when you don't feel it, you
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And it's not just words you have
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God has demonstrated his love by
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place. 
Maybe every day you look 

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yourself in the mirror. 
You say it might feel like God 

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has abandoned you, but he 
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Might feel like he's rejected 
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Not true. 
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He's with you. 
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unimportant. 
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they're not the best guides to 

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reality. 
Emotions always feel real, but 

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they're not always based on 
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After two decades of marriage, 
if I based my relationship with 

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Julie on feelings, I think I'd 
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Imagine me saying, Julie, I just
don't feel close to you right 

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now. 
I don't even think we married. 

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Testify to yourself that you're 
God's child, but thank goodness 

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you're not to do it alone. 
The Spirit himself also 

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testifies that you're God's 
child. 

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In Scripture, there's the 
principle of two witnesses to 

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confirm a matter. 
So there's this picture that 

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Paul is painting of us 
testifying to ourselves about 

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God's love for us, but somehow 
the jury is not sure. 

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In walks a new defense witness. 
The Spirit who settles settles 

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the matter decisively. 
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infilling or outpouring of the 
Holy Spirit in Romans 5, verse 

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5, some chapters before Speaking
of the same experience. 

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He says God pours out his love 
in our hearts by the Holy Spirit

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whom He has given us. 
So there he's speaking about 

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this, these times when he 
becomes supernaturally aware of 

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God's love. 
Now he's giving it more 

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definition. 
We're also experiencing the 

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Father's intimate embrace and 
affection. 

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But let me just speak about 
these experiences. 

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There are times when the Holy 
Spirit supernaturally convinces 

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you that you are loved. 
He takes you beyond the fact of 

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your love to the feeling of the 
love. 

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You might believe something, but
we move from believing it to 

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knowing it. 
Doctrine becomes dynamite. 

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There's an immediacy about it. 
God's presence and power become 

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an almost tangible reality. 
Our spiritual senses are 

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supercharged with the nearness 
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The Bible has all kinds of names
for this experience. 

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Baptism or engulfing times of 
refreshing streams of living 

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water, inexpressible joy, 
tasting the powers of the coming

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age. 
We cannot generate these 

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experiences. 
God chooses these moments. 

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Sometimes they come upon us when
we least expect them. 

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Other times we're asking for 
more of God's presence in our 

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lives and the answers and these 
experiences vary in intensity. 

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Sometimes they come with the 
gentleness of a dove, other 

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times with Pentecost, like fire 
and wind. 

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But we can ask for them. 
We're going to do that at the 

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end of our time together. 
And then let me speak about 

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affection. 
Affection, I remember I'm 

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studying the father in Jesus, 
prodigal of the returning 

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prodigal son. 
The son's returning home, the 

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Father's Day. 
He stands up. 

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He runs to the son, filled with 
compassion for his son, and 

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embraces his son. 
I remember going that word 

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embrace. 
Where else is it used in the 

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Bible? 
EPI Pepto? 

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Amazingly, I find in Acts 
Chapter 11, Peter is preaching 

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to Cornelius and his family, and
he says that as he preached to 

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them, the spirit EPI Pepto fell 
upon them. 

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The Father fell upon the 
returning son, and the Father 

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falls upon you, embracing you. 
A couple came to faith in the 

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church that I lead, and a few 
weeks later she said to me, 

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something amazing happened in 
the meeting today. 

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I was standing there and I think
the Holy Spirit gave me a hug. 

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An 
analogy might help. 

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The child knows that her dad 
loves her. 

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You know, dad kisses on her 
forehead at night, says good 

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night to her. 
He's always around, but one day 

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the father and the daughter, 
Sunday afternoon, going for a 

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walk next to the lake. 
And then the father stops and 

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daughter wonders what's 
happening. 

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And the father bends down and 
scoops up his daughter and holds

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her to his chest, squeezes her 
and whispers in her ear, I love 

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you, you are mine, I am yours, 
I'm so proud of you. 

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Just holds her there. 
The daughter is not learning 

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anything new. 
She knew her father loved her, 

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but she's feeling a deeper 
inside. 

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It's going in the Holy Spirit is
able to communicate to the 

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depths our be of our being, the 
intensity and the reality of 

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God's love for us and and the 
Spirit's infilling is not just 

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God's assurance. 
It's, it's an experience of God 

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00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,400
delighting in US. 
When Jesus was baptized, he 

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comes out of the water and it 
says that the voice came from 

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heaven as his, the spirit came 
upon him saying, this is my son 

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whom I love, with whom I am well
pleased. 

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God's pleasure in him, God's 
pleasure in him. 

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I've got a friend who's an 
acclaimed artist. 

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He's been a Christian his whole 
life and he says that his 

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parents sent him to boarding 
school when he was six. 

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He knew that he they loved him, 
but they didn't find much joy in

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him. 
And he says this affected his 

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relationship with God. 
He thinks that when he's 

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praying, he's annoying God. 
One of the most important 

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spiritual journeys of his life 
is the discovery that God 

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doesn't just put up with him. 
God doesn't just love him, God 

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delights in him, says Lewis 
preached what they call his most

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famous ever sermon, The Weight 
of Glory. 

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What is this glory he refers to?
It's the glorious knowledge that

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God delights in me, that I make 
God happy just because I'm his 

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child, says Lewis writes. 
To please God, to be a is to 

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please God, to be a real 
ingredient in God's happiness, 

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to be loved by God, not merely 
pitied but delighted in the same

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way an artist delights in his 
work, or a father and his son. 

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It seems impossible, a weight or
a burden of glory that our 

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thoughts can hardly sustain. 
But so it is Andrew Murray and 

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Abide in Christ captures this 
perfectly as one of His redeemed

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works. 
You are His delight. 

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00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:03,200
All His desire is towards you 
with the longing of a love 

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stronger than death, and which 
many waters cannot quench. 

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00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:09,760
His heart yearns after you, 
seeking your fellowship and your

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love. 
Were it needed, He could die 

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00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,600
again to possess you. 
As the Father loved the Son and 

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00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,520
could not live without Him, 
could not be God the blessed 

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without Him, so Jesus loves you.
His life is bound up in yours. 

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You are to inexpressibly more 
precious than you can ever know 

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00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:32,600
and then a more contemporary 
writer, Peter Pete Gregg, who 

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heads up the 24/7 prayer 
movement speaks about what a 

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game changer it is to live in 
the reality that we are 

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00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,680
delighted in by God. 
He says the most important 

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00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,160
discovery you will ever make is 
the the love the Father has for 

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you. 
Your power in prayer will flow 

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from the certainty that the one 
who made you delights in you. 

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He's not scowling at you, He's 
on your side. 

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00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:59,680
And then he says unless your 
mission and your acts of mercy 

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begin and end in the knowledge 
of the Father's love, you will 

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00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:06,320
always act and pray out of 
desperation, determination and 

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duty instead of revelation, 
expectation and joy. 

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It's a game changer. 
And then two more things the 

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fact and experience of God's 
love means one, we are no longer

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slaves to fear and secondly, 
we're no longer enemies of God. 

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We're no longer slaves to fear. 
When Paul says that the Spirit 

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does not make you slaves so that
you live in fear, again, he's 

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saying that you no longer need 
to live under the crushing 

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weight of fear. 
Fear of punishment, fear of 

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rejection, fear of the unknown, 
fear of abandonment. 

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The these fears once held you 
captive. 

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They they subconsciously 
dictated your choices, but they 

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are rendered powerless. 
In their place. 

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God pours out his perfect love 
and love so deep and unwavering 

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that it dissolves every shadow 
of fear. 

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00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:56,280
Fear loses its grip not because 
now we must the courage on our 

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00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,000
own, but because we are embraced
by our Father, whose affection 

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00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:04,120
is constant and unshakable. 
Julie and I are plant with five 

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children into our planting a 
church next year. 

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We're walking away from a 
fantastic church. 

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I can tell you why we're doing 
it. 

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It came from supernatural 
experiences of gods in folding 

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00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:17,520
presence, whereas filled with 
such a sense of His abundance 

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that doing this just seemed so 
obvious and natural. 

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00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,480
Earlier this year, I was in a 
time of quite a bit of turmoil, 

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and I remember someone praying 
for me. 

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00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,800
And as they're praying for me, 
the Spirit of God came upon my 

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00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,040
body. 
I never fall down, but I fell 

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backwards and I lay on the 
ground and I heard God just say 

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00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:43,880
to me, he said, look at you all 
worried about subtraction and 

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00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,480
division, like my life is 
getting smaller, all worried 

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00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:50,120
about subtraction and division 
when my word over you is 

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00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:53,960
addition and multiplication. 
Stand up after that, you're a 

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00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,440
different person. 
I know I could have gone to a 

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00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,480
psychologist 20 times. 
They couldn't have produced that

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00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,000
inner abundance that the Spirit 
of God does in US. 

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00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,480
What about you? 
What fears are holding you back 

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00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:10,400
from doing something exciting 
with your one and only life? 

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And secondly, we're no longer 
enemies of God. 

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00:32:13,600 --> 00:32:16,400
We're no longer enemies of God. 
The movie Blood Diamond sheds 

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00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,440
light on the brutal war world of
conflict diamonds. 

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00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:24,440
Have you seen Blood Diamond? 
During Sierra Leone's 1999 Civil

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00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,000
War, there's this powerful 
scene. 

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00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,200
Danny Archer. 
That's Leonardo DiCaprio and 

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00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,080
Solomon Vandy Jim on Hansu. 
They're digging for a buried 

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00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:38,400
diamond and they're surrounded 
by a battlefield of dead bodies.

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00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:42,200
Back story, Solomon has been 
looking for his son, who years 

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00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,880
before had been kidnapped, 
abused, and forced into being a 

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00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:50,000
child soldier. 
Spoiler alert, as they dig deer 

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00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,440
is Solomon's son suddenly 
appears, gun in hand, ready to 

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00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,240
kill the two men. 
He has forgotten his father's 

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00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,640
own face. 
One way the Bible tells the 

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story of humanity is the story 
of forgetting who we are. 

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Adam and Eve once lived in 
physical sunlight, but they also

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00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,080
lived in the spiritual and 
emotional light of God's love. 

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00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,560
They knew who they were, 
children of God, image bearers. 

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00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,480
But then Satan's life cast a 
shadow on their hearts by 

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00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:21,360
planting the idea that God was 
withholding something from them.

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00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:25,000
He made them dot. 
They were loved, and then they 

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00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,680
and and we were kidnapped by 
that lie. 

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Forgetting who we were, we 
surrendered more and more to 

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00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:35,320
darkness, even taking up arms 
against God. 

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00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,760
Back to the movie Blood Diamond.
How do you defuse such a moment,

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child? 
Salt is about to blow your 

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00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,280
brains out. 
Solomon speaks calmly. 

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You are dear Vandy of the proud 
mended tribe. 

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You are a good boy who loves 
soccer and school. 

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00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,920
Your mother loves you so much 
she waits by the fire with your 

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00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,640
sister and the new baby. 
The cows wait for you and Babu 

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00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,240
the wild dog. 
I know they made you do bad 

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00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,240
things, but you are not a bad 
boy. 

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00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,679
I am your father who loves you. 
And you will come home with me 

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00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,880
and be my son again. 
And what follows is one of the 

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00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:16,080
most touching moments in any 
movie I've ever seen. 

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Love breaks through dears 
amnesia. 

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00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:23,239
He drops his gun and with wet 
cheeks he melts into his 

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00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:26,800
father's arms. 
My friend, can you hear the 

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00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,080
words? 
I am your father who loves you, 

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00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,360
and you will come home with me 
and be my son and daughter 

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00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:32,880
again.
