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We're in chapter 12 of 
Ecclesiastes, and I thought, you

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know, since it is Mother's Day, 
once you pass your Bible and 

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your notebook and your pen mums 
to your husband, he can take 

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notes for you today. 
No, really. 

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Compete. 
Yeah. 

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Wax eloquently upfront. 
Serve your wife here. 

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He says he's already given me 
his notes. 

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We're going to be an 
Ecclesiastes 12 and I want to 

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read the first 8 verses, but I I
want to read it to you out of 

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the message Bible just because I
know there's some Pretoria boys 

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high guys here and, and, and it 
just helps us sort of 

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disseminate Scripture. 
It says the following. 

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This is verse one of 
Ecclesiastes 12. 

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Remember your creator while 
you're still young, before the 

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years take their toll and your 
vigor wanes. 

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Before your vision dims and the 
world blurs. 

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You know? 
And getting those plus threes 

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from cliques and the winter 
years keep you close to the 

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fire. 
In old age, your body no longer 

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serves you so well. 
Muscle slack and grip weakens. 

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Joints stiffen. 
The shades are pulled down on 

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the world. 
You can't come and go at will. 

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Things grind to a halt and the 
hum of the household fades away.

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You're awakened now by birdsong.
True story. 

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It's a thing, they told me. 
Like every decade. 

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It's an hour earlier and this 
rains. 

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I'm going to wake up before I go
to sleep. 

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You're awakened now by birdsong.
Hikes to the mountains are a 

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thing of the past. 
Even a stroll down the road has 

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its terrors. 
Or at least Pitt tells me. 

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Your hair turns apple blossom 
white, adorning A fragile and 

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impotent matchstick body. 
Yes, you're well on your way to 

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eternal race while your friends 
make plans for your funeral. 

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Come to church, they said. 
It will be fun, they said. 

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Life, lovely while it lasts, is 
soon over. 

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Life as we know it's precious 
and beautiful ends. 

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And look at this. 
The body is put back in the same

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ground it came from. 
The Spirit returns to God. 

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It first breathed it. 
It's all smoke, says Solomon. 

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Nothing but smoke. 
Now, if I were to start where we

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normally start in life group and
ask you like what stands out 

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there for you? 
I'm sure you're probably going 

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to quote maybe verse 6. 
You know, life lovely while it 

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lasts us soon over. 
It's all smoke, nothing but 

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smoke. 
But that's not the point. 

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That's not the point that 
Solomon is trying to make. 

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His point is found right at the 
very beginning and we kind of 

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lose it. 
You know, you might be familiar 

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with this portion of Scripture 
because you, you, you can relate

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with waking up with the birds 
and you know, the house is 

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growing quiet and everything 
stiffens and gets sore. 

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But you've missed the point 
because he starts right at the 

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very beginning by saying 
remember your creator. 

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Remember your creator before, 
before it's too terrifying to 

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walk down the streets before 
you're getting old and on in 

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years before everything turns to
smoke. 

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Now, what's interesting, and I'm
sure you know this, but the 

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Bible wasn't written in English.
I'm sure you know that, right. 

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So the Old Testament was 
actually written in Hebrew. 

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Most of it is in Hebrew, a 
little bit of of Syriac. 

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But then the New Testament was 
written in Greek, not modern day

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Greek. 
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So ancient Greek for lack of a 
better term. 

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But what's interesting about 
Hebrew, which is what 

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Ecclesiastes was written in, is 
that someone went and they 

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counted every single Hebrew word
that is used in the Old 

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Testament and they found that 
there are 8000 unique Hebrew 

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words that make up the Old 
Testament. 

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Now that sounds like a lot, but 
while there are 8000 Hebrew 

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words, unique Hebrew words, 
there are 178,000 English words.

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And the reason for this is 
because each Hebrew word is like

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a, like a suitcase stuffed full 
of meaning. 

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You know, like guys, when, when 
she called you in December, just

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before the holidays to come and 
sit on the suitcase so you could

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zip it close because of all the 
things that were stuffed in 

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there. 
That's what each Hebrew word 

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looks like an overstuffed 
suitcase full of meaning. 

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There's, it's such a rich word 
that it took us 178,000 English 

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words to try and bring meaning 
and, and understanding to each 

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one of these Hebrew words. 
OK, so say all of that because 

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none more than that phrase 
remember your creator. 

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So we're going to do a little 
bit of a Bible study and unpack 

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some of the the clothing inside 
of the suitcase first before we 

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go any further. 
Remember your creator. 

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Remember is the word Zahar. 
It's kind of like a baddie in a 

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Disney movie, Zahar. 
And it means like we, we, we 

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write. 
And this is where it becomes 

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difficult because, you know, 
it's like you remember when you 

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lost your tooth. 
It does have remember, but it's 

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so much more because it also 
means to mock or to brand, you 

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know, like you would brand an 
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It means to draw a line in the 
sand. 

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You know, when you see on your 
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after, there's a line between. 
It's like that to to mock, to 

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draw a line, to make a memorial,
to build something that you 

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never forget to tattoo, write or
bind it to your heart. 

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Remember and crazy. 
I was busy prepping on this 

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during the week and I get an 
e-mail from the Bible project on

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this word Zakhar and they add to
focus your attention so that it 

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drives you to action. 
It seems like we miss when it's 

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just like you remember. 
There's so much going in here to

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remember to to bind it to your 
heart and focus your attention 

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so that it drives you to action.
Remember what it then says, 

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remember your creator. 
And there for me, the surprise 

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twist here is not so much in in 
what creator means, but what is 

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left unsaid here because he 
doesn't say remember Yahweh, 

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remember the God of your 
salvation because it's not. 

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He's not talking about salvation
issues. 

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He's not talking about the work 
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He also doesn't say remember 
Shafat the judge. 

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Everything you say and do will 
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of laws. 
Yes Sir, No Sir, 2 bags full, 

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Sir. 
He doesn't say remember your 

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judge or remember your God of 
salvation. 

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He says remember your creator. 
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Well, because when you talk 
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context, you're talking about 
the one who made you, obviously.

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And He didn't just burp you up 
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His imagination. 
Off you go one the clock, let it

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run. 
No, He created you with purpose.

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He has plans for you. 
He has a calling on your life 

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and that is worked out in His 
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earth. 
And so when you take those two 

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together He is saying remember 
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Bind His ways, His plans, His 
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Bind His calling for you the way
He made you, who He made you to 

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be binded to your heart. 
Focus your attention on His ways

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and His will so that it affects 
and directs your actions before 

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you get old and grumpy and it's 
just too much and church again 

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and oh, you know, the people 
behind me Can't Sing on note and

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the lights are too bright and 
the guitars, I'm sure it's 

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distorting and does the drummer 
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And no one else plays? 
What is it before? 

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Remember your creator, Zahar. 
Bind it to your heart. 

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Focus your attention now. 
I'm a pictures person and I 

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found a great picture that 
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And it comes from a story to a 
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he submitted a workers 
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You know, that's where you say, 
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of you that I got hurt. 
And so you need to pay those 

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bills. 
And so he did it and he 

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explained, you know, these are 
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This is what what I broke and 
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And then there's this little 
block that said, you know, how 

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did the accident happen? 
And he wrote, well, I lost my 

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presence of mind. 
And so they looked at this and 

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they thought, give us some, you 
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bones. 
What do you mean you lost your 

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presence of mind? 
So he put together an e-mail 

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which I'm going to read to you. 
He said I'm a bricklayer by 

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trade. 
On the day of the accidents, I 

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was working alone in a new six 
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When I'd completed my work, I 
discovered that I had about 200 

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to 300 KGS of bricks leftover. 
And rather than carry them load 

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by load down, floor by floor, I 
decided to lower them in a 

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barrel by using a pulley that 
was attached to the side of the 

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building at the 6th floor, 
securing the rope at ground 

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level. 
I went up and I swung the barrel

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out and I loaded bricks into it.
Then I went all the way back 

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down and I tied the rope, 
holding it to a sure slow 

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descent of the two to 300 
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You'll note in block 11 of the 
accidents reporting form that I 

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weigh 80 kilograms. 
Due to my surprise of being 

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jerked off the ground so 
suddenly, I lost my presence of 

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mind and clung to the rope. 
Needless to say, I proceeded at 

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a rapid rate up the side of the 
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In the vicinity of the third 
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down. 
This explains the fractured 

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skull and the broken collarbone.
Slowed only slightly, I 

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continued the rapid ascent, not 
stopping until the fingers on my

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right hand were two knuckles 
deep in the pulley, which 

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explains the broken finger. 
Fortunately, by this time I had 

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regained my presence of mind and
held tightly to the rope in 

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spite of the pain. 
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however, the barrel of bricks 
hit the ground so hard that the 

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bottom of the barrel fell out. 
Devoid of the weight of the 

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bricks, the barrel now only 
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I refer you again to my weight 
of 80 kilograms that are 

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allocated in Block 11. 
As you can imagine, I began a 

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rapid descent down the side of 
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Once again in the vicinity of 
the third floor, I met the 

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barrel coming up. 
This accounts for the two 

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fractured ankles and the 
lacerations to my legs. 

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The encounter with a barrel 
slowed me just enough to lessen 

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my injuries when I fell into the
pile of bricks, and fortunately 

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I only fractured my pelvis. 
I'm sorry to report, however, 

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that as I lay there in the 
bricks in pain, unable to move 

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and watching the barrel 6 
stories above me, I again lost 

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my presence of mind and let go 
of the rope. 

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No offence to my professors at 
Bible college, but this is the 

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best description of Zahar to 
lose. 

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Your prayers do not bind this to
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And you're up and down the side 
of the of the building hitting 

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bricks and barrels and breaking 
bones because you have not bound

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his words and his ways and his 
call and your life to your heart

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is no longer driving your 
actions. 

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And so Solomon looks back on his
life having done just that, gone

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up and down so many countless 
buildings and it's every barrel 

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and brick inside. 
He said three CR please, for 

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heaven's sake, remember your 
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And there's so much in this that
I'm only going to have one point

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this morning. 
So guys, not that much writing. 

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Remember your creator, Zaha, 
bind it to your heart. 

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Focus your attention on his word
and His ways so that it drives 

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your actions. 
So where do we start? 

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Well, let's start at the 
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Let's go all the way back to 
Ecclesiastes chapter 1. 

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I don't know if you remember if 
you were here when we started on

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this series called Finding 
Sofia. 

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I can remember the first time we
were at Life Group and we were 

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all like deer in the headlights.
It was like meaningless, 

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meaningless. 
Everything is meaningless. 

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And I remember it was weighty. 
We were confronted with our 

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corner offices and our bank 
accounts and our Botox, our gym 

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routines. 
I mean, even our shell 

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collections were not left 
unscathed. 

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You know, it was like scripture 
set up a machine gun nest in the

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corner of our estates and just 
mowed everything down you can. 

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You remember that? 
It was almost like we were 

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shaken when actually scripture 
looked at all these things that 

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we prioritize and pursue. 
And he said meaningless, 

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meaningless, everything's 
meaningless. 

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And he challenged us to let go 
of Hevel, that which is 

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meaningless and pursue what is 
tov. 

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But it's funny, don't quite have
that same experience and same 

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emotion at Life Group at the 
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Could it be that as much as it 
impacted and challenged, that 

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scripture is no longer coming 
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dividing between bone and 
marrow? 

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Because I never really did any 
Sahara with what I heard. 

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Jews have a saying. 
I love this Jewish proverb. 

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We learn more through our feet 
and through our ears. 

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We learn more through our feet 
than through our ears. 

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Essentially, they're saying 
hearing is useless if it doesn't

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lead to doing. 
You learn more through our feet 

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than through our ears. 
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and you might not believe the 
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the Harvard. 
The Harvard did a study on this 

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very thing. 
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and Harvard Business College 
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dissonance between the students.
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to change subjects. 
What's going on there? 

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What what are they missing? 
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with their students and they 
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the value of Sahar. 
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They said if their students do 
what you and I do, come to 

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church, listen. 
No Bible, no notes, no pen or 

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paper, because I listen good, 
you and I, and they only retain 

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a maximum of 5% of what you 
hear. 5%. 

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And that's only until the next 
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Which explains why I came back 
from time away. 

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I wasn't here this past weekend.
Bump into people. 

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And of course I'm saying, yo, 
how was Sunday? 

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Next level? 
Were you here last week? 

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Sunday, yo, everyone's saying 
Rory hit it out the park. 

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It's like the Rory of old. 
I'm like I said, what did he 

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preach on Ecclesiastes? 
Yeah, yeah, no, but yo-yo, I 

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mean, out the park. 
This is the one that once said 

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to me, he had Nico get up and 
and he was cheering about his 

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chicken. 
So that's your 5%. 

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What's your 5%? 
Can you tell me the points? 

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He had a guy coming up and 
saying, you know what? 

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I don't need to take notes. 
I've got a good memory. 

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And he said, oh, what did I say 
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Nico? 
It's chicken's good 5%. 

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We remember 5%. 
That's why we're not being 

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facetious when we say, hey, 
listen, take notes, nothing 

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more. 
At least bring a Bible. 

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But even taking notes is not 
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take notes. 
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you're after, in my words, not 
theirs is Zahar to come to 

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listen, to take notes, but then 
to revisit, to apply and even 

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better to teach. 
And you know, when, when they 

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found students doing that, where
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grasped it enough to be able to 
teach the the retention of it is

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disproportionate not just to the
next lecture, but for years to 

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come, because now you are 
actually retaining 95% of what 

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you're hearing now. 
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do when when we do a marriage 
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year, it's it's wedding season. 
We have a lot of younger couples

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who coming in there, you know, 
wanting to get married and they 

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often have to sit like 3 or 4 
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And when you've got 12 weddings 
to do, that just takes up, you 

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know, the next 15 years of your 
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So we group them all together 
and we do a little marriage 

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course. 
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start with one question. 
Brace yourself if you ever want 

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know you're coming to marriage 
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This is the question number one.
I want to know from you what is 

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your favorite verse in the 
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And I said to them, they're not 
allowed to tell me Genesis one 

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verse one in either Benini or 
John 316 for God so loved the 

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world and you watch them squirm.
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It's like you know, I'm and then
when they think made it through 

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that awesome. 
OK, so what's your favorite 

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chapter in the Bible? 
And then there's always, there's

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always dirt under the nails. 
And so I think it was last year,

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maybe the year before I had the 
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And so I thought, well, let me 
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So and Arvie and his wife are 
coming. 

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There's one of our band members 
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this is what I'm going to do. 
Just a heads up, you know, make 

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sure you come with a favorite 
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someone in the crowd can 
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So we did that and I asked the 
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And he smashed it. 
And everyone was like, you all 

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spiritual giant. 
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chapter, you know, all the nail,
dirty nail thing happened. 

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And I, I didn't want to condemn.
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So we've moved on. 
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his wife come to me and said, 
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And I explained to him. 
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be a condemning thing. 
You know, I just wanted to start

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a conversation. 
But it turns out Arvi had gone 

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home and memorized the chapter. 
I'm like, that's not what it 

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means. 
I'm like, you know, maybe like 

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as I 54, you know, lengthen this
the cause of your tent and how 

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God, you know, spoke to you 
through that, how he's going to 

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enlarge your capacity. 
And you know something, I'm 

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like, I didn't mean for you to 
memorize an entire chapter of 

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the Bible. 
But then he said this and this 

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was what I'm after. 
I'll never forget it. 

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He said, you know, the crazy 
thing is because I memorize it 

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now we're talking more than 95% 
retention. 

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He said everything I went 
through in the last week somehow

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was filtered through this 
chapter in the Bible. 

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The questions are the business 
meetings I had, the decisions we

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had to make in terms of rolling 
out certain elements within our 

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department. 
It was like God was just 

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speaking through that chapter to
me. 

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It's like all the answers were 
there. 

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It's as if He had bound that 
chapter to his heart. 

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It was as if he was focusing his
attention on the Word and the 

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ways of God to the degree that 
it was driving his actions. 

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You see, here's the thing. 
This is why I spent 20 minutes 

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laboring this one point. 
Because if we do not, if you do 

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not, if you have not, if I have 
not committed the Word of God to

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my heart, if I, if you have set 
through just the series on 

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Ecclesiastes. 
And we can barely remember what 

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Rory preached last week Sunday. 
And we've seen the highs and 

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lows of scriptures and we've 
been moved by the ministry and 

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we've gone home and like, whoa. 
And there's Nico's chicken and 

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then some. 
But there is no Zaha. 

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What we are actually saying is 
thank you. 

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But Ecclesiastes is meaningless.
Meaningless. 

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Actually. 
There's this quote by Kolbath. 

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Because this is how we behave, 
he says. 

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Religion is the pinnacle of 
man's rebellion against God. 

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Religion is the pinnacle of 
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And I have to believe that if I 
am not moved, if I'm not binding

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to my heart the things that that
God is whispering and 

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challenging me on, surely all I 
can ascribe my actions and my 

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behaviour through the, the, the 
series of Ecclesiastes, surely 

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all I can ascribe it to is 
religious behaviour. 

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And so Solomon is saying, 
remember your creator, Zahar, 

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your creator. 
You see, the reason why I'll 

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labor this point is because we 
dare not look at what God is 

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doing here. 3 CR has never been 
so full and has never been so 

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big. 
We dare not look at this and 

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think that this is some kind of 
an indication of my relationship

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with my heavenly Father, that 
this is a measure of the the 

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depth of my intimacy with 
Christ. 

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You see, we dare not hear the 
reports of kids, men, there's 

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like it's a small village down 
there, 500 little kiddies and 

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say things. 
We who say things like, you 

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know, some churches aren't even 
that big and think that that is 

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a reflection of our intimacy 
with our heavenly Father, a 

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reflection of my walk with 
Jesus. 

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You see, we dare not be buoyed 
up with everything that's 

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happening in three CR and think 
that that's a reflection of my 

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quiet time and my obedience to 
this word. 

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You know, there's a tree in the 
city. 

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It's a thorn tree. 
It grows really, really big, but

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it's roots only get down to 
where it reaches the water 

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table. 
So if this tree is growing 

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during the season like we've had
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we've had, and these trees grow 
3-4 stories high once their 

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roots reach the water table, 
which is rather shallow right 

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now, as soon as the winds come, 
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these trees fall over. 
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to me the one day and explained 
this to me because he owned a 

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couple properties and he'd just 
come back from one of the 

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properties where he had one of 
these thorn trees fall over. 

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It went straight through the 
garage and both of the cars and 

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into the lounge. 
Fortunately happened in the 

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middle of the night when the 
family was sleeping on the other

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side, destroyed the property and
the cars. 

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And then he gets home. 
It was there like 2:00 AM. 

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He gets home just after sunrise 
and as he's driving past, he 

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sees, you know what? 
It's exactly the same tree 

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growing in our front yard, right
on the boundary line of our 

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driveways. 
And he said, I've seen your 

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little kids on the, you know, 
those black plastic box up and 

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down your driveway. 
He said, I'll die 1000 deaths of

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this thing falls over and one of
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And so I find the municipality. 
I don't know if you've ever 

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found the municipality to report
a pothole. 

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Hey, there's a really big 
pothole. 

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I think I've lost my family. 
They're down there somewhere. 

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And for months nothing happens. 
I was told the telephone number 

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to phone for streetlights. 
What's the chance? 

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But I phoned and I said, listen,
I don't know if you know, but 

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I've got this kind of a tree. 
They were there within the hour 

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because it is such a notorious 
tree in our city. 

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And then for me is a picture of 
you and I, if we do not, Zaha, 

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if we are buoyed by what is 
happening in this community. 

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And if you think that your 
wife's relationship with God is 

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what's carrying you through, you
face those storms and there's 

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things falling over and the 
collateral damage is immense. 

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And you know what, I think 
Solomon knew this because he had

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seen that exact same thing 
happened in his life over and 

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over again that he leans and it 
says, remember your creator, 

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Zahar, your creator. 
It's Mother's Day. 

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So I need to speak to mothers. 
Thank you, Sander. 

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He think he's not. 
No, just kidding. 

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I want to talk to moms on this 
because I think this can often 

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condemn. 
Tell your story, friend of ours.

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They won eldership with us, Andy
and Irene. 

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Irene was an architect by trade.
And the last house that they 

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owned in in South Africa before 
they moved over, they're now 

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relocated there. 
They're in the US The last house

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she built from scratch as an 
architect, designed every last 

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element. 
And so a whole bunch of friends 

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and family went over sort of to 
celebrate the first major events

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in their home. 
And we arrived early and Irene 

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was in the kitchen. 
And so Andy said, hey, let me 

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just show you around. 
We were walking around and 

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walked into Irene, into, sorry, 
into the bedroom, which had the 

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study on it and this floor to 
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And it was lovely. 
And then into the Andy's office 

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and right as we walked in, 
someone else arrived and because

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they're intercom wasn't working 
between the gates in the house 

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and he had to disappear and let 
someone in. 

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So I was left in Andy study. 
Now, if you know Andy, the is a 

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professor in veterinary science,
you know, kind of what I 

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encountered when I looked at his
Bible study. 

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He had a whole bunch of Bibles 
open and handwritten notes 

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everywhere, things and sort of 
almost like these mind maps on 

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the wall. 
I was like, I was very 

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intimidated. 
Commentaries piled up. 

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This thing you're like, yo, if 
you've ever heard him preach, 

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you'd understand. 
It's just, it's like drinking 

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from a fire hose when you hear 
him preaches. 

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There's such depth and knowledge
and insight into the word. 

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So he gets back and I'm sort of 
like going your respect. 

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He's like, oh, I see you're 
looking at my wife's notes. 

448
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:13,640
Don't tell me that wretched man 
that I am, he's like, Oh my 

449
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,720
gosh, He said, bro, you doing 
in? 

450
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,760
AI said it's probably not, but 
I'm going to tell you anyway. 

451
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,400
So what she does, she opens the 
Bible and she'll study a book of

452
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,440
the Bible till the cows come 
home. 

453
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:31,320
She'll write her own commentary 
on it and then she'd take other 

454
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:33,400
commentaries and compare notes 
to see where she missed 

455
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,680
anything. 
Is there something else 

456
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,200
different angle that she didn't 
see? 

457
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,480
But he said this. 
He said by the time she's done 

458
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:42,400
with that, she knows the book of
her heart took about 95% 

459
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:44,800
retention offer. 
And he said it just so happened 

460
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:48,360
that we went for a walk this 
morning and she quoted from 

461
00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:52,040
Ephesians chapter one verse 1 
all the way to the very end, 

462
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,560
which is Ephesians chapter. 
I know I also have to look it 

463
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,400
up. 
Chapter 6 verse 24. 

464
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,920
I didn't even know how many 
verses and chapters there were. 

465
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,080
She knew it off by heart because
she rolled around and scripted 

466
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,320
some. 
She had the heart, the word, 

467
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,680
right? 
But it's Mother's Day. 

468
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,040
Why am I telling you this story?
Because she wasn't a mother yet.

469
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,480
When she became a mom, 
everything changed. 

470
00:27:19,120 --> 00:27:23,840
And I watched from afar how that
gift of studying the word and 

471
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,560
memorizing it became like a 
noose of condemnation around her

472
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,720
neck because she just couldn't 
get back to where she was for 

473
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,000
years. 
And I often tell newly married 

474
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,880
couples about to have children 
this story. 

475
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,080
And I speak to moms in Milky 
Lane and Smallville. 

476
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:47,760
I say to the moms to be or the 
moms, I say, give yourself five 

477
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,720
years before you're anywhere 
near acquired. 

478
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:55,040
Time again. 
Really. 

479
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:56,200
Yeah. 
Thank you for that, Amy. 

480
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:04,240
Five years now in the light of 
Zahar and there's charge from 

481
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:05,760
Solomon. 
You're probably going but OK, 

482
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,920
well, hang on a second that 
cannot compute what's going to 

483
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:14,040
happen to to my relationship 
with God, my spiritual journey, 

484
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,000
my understanding of Scripture, 
my Zahar that's that's going to 

485
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:22,040
govern my actions or you know, 
God has thought about this and 

486
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,720
then Ephesians 5. 
He says the following. 

487
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,960
He says husbands love your wives
just as Christ loved the church 

488
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,720
and gave himself up for her to 
make her holy. 

489
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:33,360
We know this. 
We do, you know, pre marriage or

490
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:37,240
sitting with a marriage that's 
taking strain and and the guys 

491
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,000
know this and sure, I need to 
lay my life down for my wife, 

492
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,760
just like Jesus laid his life 
down for his bride. 

493
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,160
And that was like dying on a 
cross. 

494
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:46,680
I know, I know, I know. 
But do you know what comes off 

495
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,400
to the comma? 
Cleansing her by the washing 

496
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:54,920
with water through the word? 
And that's in the Greek is the 

497
00:28:54,920 --> 00:29:00,800
word Rhema. 
A Rhema word is a personalized 

498
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,280
revelation. 
So this is what God is saying to

499
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:12,080
you through His word. 
Today, husbands, see God wired 

500
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:17,720
into your role as a husband and 
a father, the responsibility to 

501
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,360
wash your wife with water 
through the Word, which requires

502
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:28,000
A Rhema word, which requires you
being filled by God and His 

503
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,000
revelation through His Word 
every day. 

504
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:36,000
Because God delights in 
revealing Himself to you in this

505
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:41,160
Word so you can pour yourself 
into your wife and pour His Word

506
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,240
into your wife so she can pour 
herself into your children. 

507
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:54,440
Do you see the weighty call for 
us to Zaha yet? 

508
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,440
I think a lot of the time it is 
US men who are backfooted in 

509
00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:03,240
this regard. 
The ladies, maybe it's a more 

510
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,640
romantic thing to open up your 
Bible and and highlight it so it

511
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,680
looks like a paint by numbers 
and have your coffee cup and 

512
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:13,240
your your daily devotional. 
And for guys, we're like, you 

513
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:17,760
know, I've got to go to work. 
But it's Solomon who's saying 

514
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:22,120
Zaha. 
You know, I think a lot of the 

515
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:26,480
time men abdicate their 
responsibility this Ephesians 5 

516
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:31,800
responsibility, you know, we we 
call it serving Now, babes, you 

517
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:36,240
go into Sunday service you I'll 
I'll go to Smallville. 

518
00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:42,080
I'll look after little Johnny 
you you going and we actually 

519
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:44,960
abdicating that because the 
responsibility is not for your 

520
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:47,480
wife to wash you with the 
cleansing of the word. 

521
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:53,120
It's for you and I to wash our 
wives to have a daily 

522
00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,400
interruption with the revelation
of God through the Word, a 

523
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:01,880
rhythm that allows this to take 
hold of our hearts so that 

524
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:05,520
weakens our heart and we can be 
driven by the Word and the ways 

525
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:09,360
of God to lead our homes and 
allow them to follow suit. 

526
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,400
I heard going to love me for 
this. 

527
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:19,200
I heard a statement. 
They said come to their Sunday 

528
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:23,120
morning service and you'll see 
how popular the churches. 

529
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,640
Come to their Sunday evening 
service and you'll see how 

530
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,040
popular their preacher is. 
Come to their Monday morning 

531
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,040
quiet time and you'll see how 
popular their God is. 

532
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:43,440
Remember your Creator. 
Bind His word, His ways, His 

533
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:47,040
presence, His purpose and plan. 
Bind it to your heart. 

534
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:53,240
Focus your attention so that it 
drives your actions close with 

535
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,400
this. 
This is from Psalm 65. 

536
00:31:56,680 --> 00:31:59,440
David is writing the Psalm and 
he makes comments and this, this

537
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,680
struck me. 
He makes a comment about the 

538
00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:03,720
heart of God. 
He says, you know, he, he 

539
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,360
desires to visit the earth and 
enrich it. 

540
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,440
It's an interesting word choice 
that he he desires, he longs to 

541
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,600
visit the earth and enrich it. 
And the reason why I caught my 

542
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,320
attention is because I was 
consulting in the mining space 

543
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,600
with a guy who's a, who was 
basically given the 

544
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,520
responsibility to bring green 
energy to all their mines. 

545
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,440
And of course, the best way to 
do that is nuclear, right? 

546
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:31,960
And we are talking about 
enriching uranium, which can't 

547
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:36,880
do in South Africa, apparently. 
But to enrich uranium, this is 

548
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:42,480
the word enrich you. 
You take this bland, boring Gray

549
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,000
metal, you enrich it. 
You know what you get out of 

550
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:54,720
that is you get this eternal 
nucleus fission, this constant 

551
00:32:54,720 --> 00:33:00,400
supply of energy. 
And in the same way God is 

552
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,840
saying, you know, when you use 
the hard my word, it does the 

553
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:07,160
same. 
It's like a force field comes 

554
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,160
alongside to empower. 
You know, what you also get is 

555
00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:16,400
you get nuclear weapons to bring
down strongholds, principalities

556
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,240
and power. 
But one of the things you were 

557
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,800
saying was that they've managed 
to create this little modular 

558
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:27,240
version of the prototype and 
they're just patented it because

559
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,280
it was small enough to put on an
aeroplane. 

560
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,800
And the nuclear waste, you know,
that that sort of nuclear 

561
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:37,080
dangerous thing thing was so 
low, it was less dangerous than 

562
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,640
some of the machines that you 
find in hospitals. 

563
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,640
So there's no red type. 
And the plan is to, once the 

564
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,400
prototypes have done all their 
testing and everything, so you 

565
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,320
can take one of these, you can 
put it on an aeroplane. 

566
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,720
The plane can take off and it 
never has to land, which means 

567
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,240
that George Clooney never has to
be lost in space because his 

568
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:59,480
jetpack runs out of power. 
You can strap that thing and he 

569
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,920
can travel around the world 
until he's done and come home 

570
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:07,360
safely. 
And the crazy thing is for that 

571
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,159
they use a mineral called 
thorium. 

572
00:34:11,639 --> 00:34:15,800
Thorium is what it sounds like. 
Thorium. 

573
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,159
It's like the, the armpits of 
minerals. 

574
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,320
You know, when you, when you buy
a Willy's chicken, it's got that

575
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,320
funny little tail thing that 
you, you take off and you 

576
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,320
that's, that's thorium in the 
mineral world, you know, but 

577
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:37,840
thorium enriched and you have 
sustained nuclear fission, 

578
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:43,840
sustained nuclear power, your 
walk with Christ enriched. 

579
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:48,679
Why spend your days going up and
down the side of a building, 

580
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,600
hitting every barrel and every 
brick and enduring every broken 

581
00:34:52,600 --> 00:35:00,120
bone when God says, let me help 
your brother out Zahar, just 

582
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,920
take what you've heard. 
Bind it to your heart. 

583
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:08,160
Focus your attention on so that 
it drives your actions. 

584
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:16,720
He begins by saying in verse 
one, remember your creator while

585
00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:21,960
you're still young before, 
before, before life lovely while

586
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,920
it lasts. 
As soon over life as we know 

587
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,960
precious and beautiful ends. 
The body is put back in the same

588
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,160
ground it came from. 
The Spirit returns to God. 

589
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,200
He first breathed it. 
If we do not the heart, then 

590
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,960
what he says in verse 8 is true.
It will all be smoke, nothing 

591
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,320
but smoke. 
Let's pray. 

592
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,160
Heavenly Father want to bring 
you every home and every heart, 

593
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:53,760
every journey with you. 
Although I want to bring those 

594
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:56,680
who feel like they're just 
thorium lying on a pile of 

595
00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:01,080
bricks with nothing to give. 
Would you allow us to understand

596
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,880
and be gripped by the fact that 
when you enrich us, when your 

597
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,760
word takes a hold of us, when 
your ways captivate our heart to

598
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,480
the to the point where it drives
our actions, that then we 

599
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,320
genuinely see your Kingdom come 
and your will be done. 

600
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:18,240
Lord, I pray for those of us who
don't even know where to start 

601
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,760
that you would show yourself 
that you'd make it easy to find 

602
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:24,760
you, to find our futures and and
your word and your way. 

603
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,320
I pray for Life Group this 
coming week, Lord, that we would

604
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,120
be able to share something of 
our journey and impart to one 

605
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:38,160
another journeys that can be 
taken easy routes, ways to study

606
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,320
scripture or how you reveal 
yourself. 

607
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:42,920
I pray that we'd learn from one 
another. 

608
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:46,000
I pray that we would be a 
community that are known as 

609
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,040
those who's a harm, those who 
don't just tickle for some 

610
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:53,320
religious box, but those who are
genuinely influenced, directed, 

611
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:57,160
governed by your word, your 
ways, your calling and your 

612
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,640
Kingdom, Jesus name, Amen.
