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Certainly is good to see 
everyone. 

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That's come to be with us 
tonight and we appreciate you so

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very much for coming tonight and
studying the word of God in this

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part of our worship service. 
We're continuing our study on 

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the book of Colossians chapter 3
and the questions that I have 

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here. 
The five questions cover verses 

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12 through 16, and I just going 
to read those verses for our 

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introduction and then get into 
our questions. 

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But in Colossians chapter 3, 
let's begin in verse 12. 

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Therefore as the elect of God, 
holy and beloved put on Tender 

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Mercies kindness, humility, 
meekness, long-suffering bearing

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with one another and forgiving 
one. 

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Another, if anyone has a 
complaint against another even 

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as Christ forgave you. 
So you also must do but above 

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all these things put on love 
which is the bond of perfection 

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and let the peace of God rule in
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were called called in one body 
and be thankful. 

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Let the word of Christ dwell in 
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teaching and admonishing. 
One, another in Psalms and 

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hymns, and spiritual songs 
singing with Grace, in your 

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hearts, to the Lord. so we're 
covering these verses tonight in

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the first question is about the 
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of God and secondly, what's 
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Tender Mercies. 
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the word elect and in the 
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chosen or picked by God. 
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talking about being chosen or 
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Now, one of the things that are 
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world is the concept of divine 
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doctrine that teaches 
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false Doctrine. 
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election would be that God chose
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they chose to do in their life 
that God hand-picked people and 

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there's nothing you can do to be
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picked you or didn't pick you, 
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And that's not what we believe. 
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teaches about Divine election, 
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In fact, we the people of God 
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Those that were going to be 
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Christian. 
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category of being an obedient 
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the laws of God finds. 
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obedient Christian. 
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about conditional election 
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not new, it's very familiar, but
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about conditional election and 
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There's God's part and then 
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doesn't matter what God did on 
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If man doesn't do his Park and 
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What man would do on his part if
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part. 
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going to save the world and he 
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his lamb, his sacrificial lamb, 
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before the foundation of the 
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world. 
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He really did all the work, he 
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of the world, and then he sent 
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Holy Spirit and those that obey 
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gospel are saved. 
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for the sins of the world. 
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sins of the world and became God
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He gave us the power to save 
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is the gospel that's God's part,
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Spark is obedience. 
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the elect of God. 
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new King James. 
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actually renders it bowels of 
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this. 
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something from the bowels, or 
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in Christ, So bowels is used in 
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figuratively. 
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says a couple things about that.
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bowels were regarded as the seat
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the Hebrews as the seat of 
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humility, and meekness, and 
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talking about, just that 
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my whole life is being patient 
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demonstrate that kind of 
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long-suffering or patients 
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that too. 
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reflected in my behavior. 
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So if you look at the verses and
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remember this was a continuous 
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by chapter and verse. 
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being said about long-suffering 
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verse 13. 
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another, the King James says 
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Can we forgive somebody that 
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Can we forgive somebody? 
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permissible to forgive somebody?
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forgiveness, the answer to that 
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time if you wish. 
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what I'm saying. 
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can receive forgiveness from God
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repentance. 
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I'm talking about something, for
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somebody of something, I'm 
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me. 
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Stephen was being stoned, he 
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their charge. 
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by saying the words, lay not 
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basically demonstrating the fact
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holding that against them. 
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them for they know, not what 
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about someone that was taking 
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Here's the point. 
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personal standpoint, if you want
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just demonstrate. 
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by forgiving. 
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someone, or if I do that, I am 
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obviously, if somebody does you 
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feelings, and you have hard 
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angry, and maybe you're bitter 
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you don't let it go. 
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you personally. 
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you're not letting anybody off 
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answer to God. 
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saying, I am letting go. 
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influence me anymore and you let
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where I preach it. 
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me but I did preach this not 
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this statement about this idea. 
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wrong. 
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they hurt your feelings or 
whatever, chances are they've 

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moved forward and not even 
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you give them the power to let 
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You feel the way that you feel 
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Let it go, let it go. 
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It is a Letting Go Joseph was a 
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firstborn son Manasseh. 
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forget all the trouble of my 
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said, I'm not going to be 
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all right, so bearing with one 
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Matthew 18 in just a minute. 
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this so that we understand what 
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I'm trying to make, but bearing 
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in the King James literally 
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the previous verse. 
It's the idea of having a spirit

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of patients with the faults of 
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manifested in the willingness to
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trespassed against us. 
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Jesus Christ. 
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another. 
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So maybe you're sitting there 
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18. 
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person first, and we're looking 
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You ever stopped to consider 
Matthew 18 is exclusive to one 

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between two people, that's it. 
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sometimes people want to bind, 
Matthew, 18, on all kinds of 

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what you do. 
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people one sins against another,
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If anyone sins against you, You 
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Now, notice why you go, there 
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And the Bible says, if that 
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favorably to you or repents and 
makes it right. 

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It says you have gained your 
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Now, the reason that it says 
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implies that you had lost your 
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Do you know why? 
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That's the reason you're not 
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with you. 
You're going there to help them,

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see their sin and repent and 
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And Jesus says this, if they 
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somebody else with you. 
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There's a reason that you take 
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the mouth of two or three 
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established as it says but 
there's more and is brilliant. 

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You ever stopped to consider, if
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and I go to him and I say Terry 
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says, well, no I didn't and then
I bring some others with me. 

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We go see Terry and we are at 
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Do you know of the people that I
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Might say, no a minute Frank, 
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One of the reasons that you 
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prove that there really was a 
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Why? 
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Matthew 18 is talking about Sin 
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forgiven, from God, and 
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So personally, though we can 
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any time that we choose to do 
so, but that's really not the 

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problem. 
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asking for forgiveness and 
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forgiveness or people might say,
well, we're just kind of see how

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it goes. 
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what happens in the future. 
Don't do that, because that's 

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not what the Lord does for us. 
So as the Lord forgives us, we 

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forgive others question. 
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But above all these things put 
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perfection. 
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is what's meant by the phrase 
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of perfection log will make a 
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bond of Peace. 
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your conduct be worthy of the 
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I come and see you or him 
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One more passage Philippians 2 
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like-minded. 
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one. 
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scholar said that such a love. 
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of Believers. 
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I really appreciate it so much. 
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And I always appreciate and I 
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appreciate when a brother. 
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peace. 
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peace. 
Can destroy the work, it gives 

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destroy the church. 
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have a bond of unity. 
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things that you have challenges 
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if you have the bond of unity, 
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rule in your hearts to which 
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and be thankful. 
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bond of perfectness is love 
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Now, I know that sometimes we 
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we get when things are going 
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them to go. 
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If you Google that you can get 
all kinds of definitions, you 

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can look up and dictionaries. 
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And one of the definitions, that
is reoccurring, I've looked it 

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up. 
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inside a feeling of contentment 
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want it to be, But the peace of 
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In fact, the phrase peace of 
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God. 
It's the peace that only God can

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give. 
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attributes of God. 
You know, God has many things. 

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We used to sing all the time 
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Come, let us all unite and 
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God. 
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One of the things that he is he 
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Peace. 
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the peace of God which is the 
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It is the calmness of mind 
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And by the way, when the Bible 
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surpasses all understanding You 
ever had a piece of mind? 

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In the midst of or in the face 
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And there's chaotic mess all 
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But were at peace. 
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on us from the world, they don't
know why, they're how you can be

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at peace. 
That's the peace that surpasses 

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all understanding. 
In other words, you are at peace

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and you have a peace of mind in 
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your life. 
There's no understanding to. 

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That is surpasses understanding 
you just have it. 

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You know why? 
Because it comes from God, 

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therefore that peace that God 
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It comes from God. 
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peace of God regardless of the 
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this the best way that I can 
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The peace of God that we're 
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ruler reign in our hearts, and 
these two, absolutely dictate 

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our hearts and Lead our hearts 
and minds and put us in the 

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proper mindset, is the peace of 
mind that knows this, that 

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regardless of the circumstances 
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they're very - it doesn't matter
because Everything is right 

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between my soul and God. 
That's number one. 

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Number two, I'm putting all of 
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God and I'm putting my life In 
Time and Eternity in his hands 

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and regardless of the, of the 
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And regardless of his answer, 
I'm okay, that is the peace of 

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God that passes all 
understanding. 

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So what he says, is this verse 
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Put on love. 
It's the bond of perfection and 

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let the peace of God rule in 
your hearts to, which also, You 

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were called in one body and be 
thankful, you know, the idea of 

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being called here in one body, 
you know. 

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It talks about that very same 
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it shows the very important 
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this peace of God. 
It is in one body. 

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It's in the church, Ephesians 1,
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You know, sometimes people can 
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can be an error, they can be 
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And if they could have a 
peaceful feeling inside but it 

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didn't come from God, the only 
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that comes from God, are his 
children. 

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His people, the elect that we 
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found. 
As this verse says, in this one 

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body, that's what comes from 
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It surpasses all understanding 
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circumstances of life. 
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verse 16 and very familiar. 
Passage verse 16 says, let the 

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word of Christ dwell in you 
richly in all wisdom teaching 

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and admonishing. 
One, another in Psalms and 

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hymns, and spiritual songs 
singing with Grace, in your 

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hearts, to the Lord. 
You know, you can look up a 

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number of commentators and 
they'll pretty much say the same

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thing if they're make if they're
giving definitions. 

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These definitions are straight 
from strong. 

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And defining the following 
words. 

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Psalm according to mr. 
Strong is a Pious song or a song

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of Praise a him. 
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written in praise to God a 
sacred song. 

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Thirdly, as spiritual song 
spiritual songs according to 

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strong our songs. 
Belonging to the spirit or that 

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have spiritual things. 
So if you look at these 

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definitions, there's really not 
a whole lot of Distinction drawn

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between any of those and really,
they're all, they're all quite 

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similar. 
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of Distinction in the definition
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The important thing is singing 
the word singing, and Says that 

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singing is voicing words and 
musical tones involving 

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modulations, and inflections, 
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that in our singing, It's a 
message and attitude and a 

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sincerity. 
I think that's great. 

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With our singing, it is a 
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It's an attitude and it's the 
sincerity that's important. 

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Now, if we're going to teach 
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another in Psalms, and hymns and
spiritual songs then it's very 

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imperative. 
That the words of our songs are 

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scriptural. 
And, you know, there are things 

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that are appropriate. 
I remember in a songbook years 

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ago, when I was a kid, we were 
going to congregation and 

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monitors Oaks, they had a, they 
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it up and one of the songs in 
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Well, you know, you're a grand 
old flag, is a fine song on the 

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fourth of July, but really it 
has no place in the worship 

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service at all. 
There's there was other songs 

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like that they're inappropriate.
Those are inappropriate things 

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in worship. 
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So songs need to be appropriate,
you wouldn't lead a song in the 

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morning? 
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When it's in the morning time, 
you would want sing something. 

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That would prompt people to be 
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obey the gospel. 
Then and right now almost 

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persuaded or something else. 
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use songs that are appropriate, 
and especially scriptural, and 

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do so, with spiritual content, 
and the melody is made in the 

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heart. 
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final point about the heart. 
Thayer says the heart is the 

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seat of our spiritual life. 
It is the source of our 

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thoughts, our passions, and our 
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That's different from bowels by 
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That's talking about affection. 
Here is talking about the seat 

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of our thoughts, passions and 
desires, everything it is the 

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seat of our spiritual life. 
It's the source of all that. 

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That's why the Bible says that 
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So is he it's the source of it 
all it begins in the mind. 

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It also is our Inner Man, our 
spirit and which we sing. 

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And with those words are to 
originate from the thoughts and 

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feelings of the heart. 
Art. 

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We had a great singing recently 
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We had some different, some new 
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And it's is so important to sing
songs that we know we can't sing

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them, or at least sing songs 
that we can follow. 

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But it's important that we sing 
songs where every aspect of our 

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attitude and our thoughts and 
our passions, and all of that 

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are involved. 
Instead of just singing the 

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words to get through the song. 
Here's a song, we've sung for 30

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years, we just go through the 
song then the songs over. 

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We shut the book, it needs to be
more than that, and we sing with

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the heart and we sing with our 
desires, our desire is to serve 

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and praise and please God. 
And in every aspect that we do, 

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and that's what it means in 
spiritual songs, singing with 

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Grace, in your hearts, to the 
Lord. 

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When you were saying that I was 
thinking about something that 

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happened a few years ago. there 
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car and they had been, they had 
both been drinking. 

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The one that was the passenger 
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And I remember that the mother 
of the young man that died said,

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I forgive you. 
And there was no asking for 

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forgiveness. 
It, I forgive you and I thought 

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I was so impressed by that 
because what she was saying, she

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was saying I release myself. 
I let go. 

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I'm not going to hold on to hate
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I'm not going to allow the 
bitterness to overtake my life. 

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She was saying that, that's what
she was saying to this young 

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man. 
She said, damn, she grabbed him 

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like this. 
He came into the funeral was in 

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Texas and she had him sit right 
next to her. 

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And she said, I forgive you and 
what she was saying is I'm not 

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going to be negatively 
influenced anymore. 

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And I think that's a, I think 
you're right. 

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Terry. 
Think you hit it on the head 

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when it said we can't have 
malice. 

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You're absolutely right. 
That's a sin got to turn loose 

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of that so I appreciate that. 
Preciate that ask you very, very

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much. 
I wanted to say this add one 

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more thing about the single. 
I am so thankful for the men 

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that have the ability to stand 
up and Lead new songs for us. 

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I think that is so important and
I remember what Linwood said one

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time is, he said that's so 
important to singing It's so 

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important to to learn new songs 
and sing new words as sing and 

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so forth. 
It really helps the singing. 

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And if you look at the 
definition of singing, with 

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Grace, in your hearts, to the 
Lord, I think sometimes that is 

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necessary to do that. 
So yes, we love the old 

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standbys, absolutely. 
We love those, but the new songs

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to, and to stretch ourselves, 
and learn new songs. 

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I'm so thankful. 
And by the way traveling, all 

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over the United States, we are 
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Traveling all over the country 
holding gospel meetings. 

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I'm going to tell you, we have, 
we really have it. 

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Well here and very thankful for 
the men that can do that and 

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they and the congregation that 
sings as well as it does. 

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at 10:30 a.m. and 5 p.m. and 
Wednesdays at 7:30 p.m. 

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Please make plans to join us. 
We would love for you to be our 

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honored guest.
