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Welcome everyone. 
We have a wonderful crowd here 

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today and we're so thankful we 
have visitors that are among us,

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and we want you to know that you
are our honored guest and we 

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welcome you back every time that
we have an opportunity to 

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assemble and worship God in 
spirit and in truth. 

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As always is the case, I do 
consider it a privilege to speak

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concerning the Word of God. 
And I will say this, it's even a

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greater privilege to speak words
that Jesus preached so long ago.

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We're continuing our series on 
the greatest sermon ever 

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preached. 
It's called the Sermon on the 

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Mount, found in Matthew 5-6 and 
seven. 

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And you might remember the last 
time that I taught you. 

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Remember that Jesus said, you 
have heard that it had been 

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said, you shall not commit 
adultery. 

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But Jesus says, but I say to you
that whoever looks upon a woman 

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to lust after her has committed 
adultery already in his heart. 

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We talked about what that means 
in great detail last time. 

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We'll not touch on any of that 
this morning. 

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When Jesus finished those words,
though, is the next two verses 

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and he talks about marriage. 
And I want to tell you where I 

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got the phrase or I got the 
title, Marriage is sacred and 

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binding. 
I just got it from my Bible 

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right above these two verses. 
As the Bible was being printed. 

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Somebody wrote marriage is 
binding and marriage is sacred. 

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So I just put that on as the 
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That's where I got it. 
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marriage, please. 
Marriage is the most primary of 

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all relationships. 
And I have to tell you, if you 

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have a good marriage, there's 
nothing in the world that's 

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better. 
And perhaps if you have a bad 

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marriage, there's nothing in the
world that's worse. 

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I get that. 
I will say this too. 

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It's all about who you choose. 
And that's not the topic we're 

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going to consider today. 
But you got to choose the right 

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one. 
Your happiness depends on 

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choosing the right one. 
The marriage relationship is the

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greatest relationship in all the
world. 

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When I think about that, I think
about this, that God has 

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ordained the marriage 
relationship meaning this. 

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That somebody that knows me, 
every bit of me, with all my 

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weaknesses, still loves me 
enough to want to be with me no 

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matter what. 
That's great stuff. 

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What did Jesus say about this 
great subject a long time ago? 

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First of all, I'm going to say 
this about marriage. 

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A lot of times in the world, 
people don't view it as sacred 

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or binding. 
In fact, did you know I looked 

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at this up this morning? 
These are the latest statistics 

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as of 2022 in the United States 
of America in 2020, two, 50% of 

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all marriages end in divorce. 
That's first marriages In the 

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United States of America, 60% of
all second marriages end in 

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divorce. 
You see a trend and 75% of all 

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third marriages end in divorce 
in the United States of America.

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Marriage though is sacred and 
binding. 

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What did Jesus say in Matthew 
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Jesus says. 
Furthermore, it has been said 

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whoever divorces his wife, let 
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divorce. 
But I say to you that whoever 

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divorces his wife for any reason
except sexual immorality or 

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adultery causes her to commit 
adultery. 

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And whoever marries a woman who 
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I have to say this before we go 
any further, please. 

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You're going to hear me use 
words like this old law, old 

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covenant, and you're going to 
hear me use words like new law 

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and new covenant. 
And this is what I'm talking 

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about when I say old law. 
I'm talking about the old law of

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Moses and the old law of Moses 
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And when I talk about the new 
covenant, I'm talking about that

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which is an establishment after 
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after he rose again the third 
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after the church was established
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OK, So when I say old covenant 
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the old law of Moses before 
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When I say new law, I'm talking 
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Christians in the church age 
that began in Acts 2 and it 

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exists even today. 
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refers to the old part in the 
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It's on here in verse 31 he 
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Furthermore, it has been said 
whoever divorces his wife let 

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him give her a certificate of 
divorce. 

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So in verse 31, it's basically a
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system legislated regarding 
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And what Jesus is doing is he's 
referring back to Deuteronomy in

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the Old Testament chapter 24, 
beginning with verse one as its 

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basis. 
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and marries her and it happens 
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eyes because of some uncleanness
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Please hold that phrase 
uncleanness because we're going 

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to get back to what that means. 
Many people misunderstand that 

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this is going back to the old 
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found some uncleanness in her 
and he writes her a certificate 

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of divorce, puts it in her hand 
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when she has departed from his 
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another man's wife. 
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her and writes her a certificate
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and sends her out of his house, 
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who took her as his wife, then 
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her must not take her back to be
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defiled. 
For that is an abomination 

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before the Lord. 
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the land which the Lord your God
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OK, remember, before we go any 
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happened under the law of Moses,
and we're going to get specific 

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about that, regardless of what 
happened, God hates divorce. 

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He hates it. 
It's always been that way. 

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We know these very beautiful 
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I'm going to be very brief about
the passage, but I want to make 

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a point that maybe we don't 
always make. 

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In the book of Genesis, when God
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created man. 
God looks down upon man in his 

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loneliness. 
What does he say? 

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It's not good for a man to be 
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I'm going to give him a helper. 
We know the story. 

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I use this passage every time I 
marry someone, perform a 

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marriage ceremony. 
Absolutely, we all do. 

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Anyone that does that, He causes
a deep sleep to fall upon Adam. 

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He took a rib from his side and 
made the woman. 

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He brought the woman to the man.
Remember what he said. 

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You remember what the man said, 
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she is now bone of my bones, she
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She shall be called woman 
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man. 
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man leave his father and his 
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his wife, and they shall become 
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OK, here's the point I want to 
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If you ever stop to consider the
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the gift. 
It's not good for a man to be 

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lonely. 
It's not good for a man to be 

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alone. 
I wouldn't want to be that. 

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It's the greatest relationship 
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And I'm going to tell you this, 
the marriage relationship is the

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greatest relationship in all the
world except for your 

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relationship with Jesus Christ. 
That's the only one greater. 

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That's it. 
And God gave you that as a gift.

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He gave you a helper for life. 
He gave it for life. 

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But God hates divorce. 
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I didn't just speculate. 
The Bible says that Malachi 216 

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for the Lord God of Israel says 
that he hates divorce, for it 

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covers 1's garment with 
violence, says the Lord of 

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hosts. 
Therefore, take heed to your 

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spirit that you do not deal 
treacherously, OK? 

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In addition, did you know that 
God never authorized divorce 

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even under Mosaic Law? 
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because of Israel's heart being 
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How did He regulate it? 
He regulated it with a 

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certificate of divorce. 
I did a little research. 

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Historically, by the way, people
were getting divorces for 

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everything, anything and 
everything. 

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I don't like you anymore. 
That's it. 

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Al, you bother me. 
I'm really glad you can't get a 

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divorce or leaving your clothes 
laying around. 

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I might have been kicked out a 
long time ago. 

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People were divorcing their 
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It was never to be that. 
It was always to be man and 

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woman. 
And yes, one man married to one 

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woman and that was for life. 
That's always the way it was 

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supposed to be. 
But because of Israel's hardened

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heart, God regulated it with a 
certificate of divorce. 

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You had to have your paperwork. 
And This is why there were two 

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reasons. 
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Again, this is under the old Law
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It protected the woman from 
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impulsive husband, number one. 
Number two, you had to have a 

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certificate of divorce because 
it prohibited the marriage of a 

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divorced woman to her first 
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defiled by the second marriage. 
In other words, a husband needed

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to think twice. 
Do I really want to divorce my 

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wife? 
Because if I do and she marries 

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another, I can't take her back 
under the old law of Moses. 

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So it was regulated by 
certificate of divorce. 

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Here's another passage that 
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Jeremiah 3 and verse one. 
They say if a man divorces his 

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wife and she goes from him and 
becomes another man's, may he 

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return to her again, would not 
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So to understand the meaning of 
Matthew 5 and 31 and what Jesus 

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is about to say in Matthew 5 and
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following please Mosaic law, 
please get this did not allow 

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divorce for the cause of 
fornication. 

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Remember when I said in 
Deuteronomy 24 and verse one 

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that that phrase uncleanness, 
we're going to get to what it 

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means. 
I'll make the statement 1st and 

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I'm going to prove it to you, 
OK? 

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Under the old law of Moses, 
divorce was not allowed for the 

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cause of sexual immorality or 
the cause of fornication or 

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adultery. 
It was not. 

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So what do we mean? 
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then Deuteronomy chapter 24 and 
verse one, that phrase some 

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uncleanness is not referring to 
fornication. 

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It's not referring to adultery. 
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or what did Mosaic law say about
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There were actually 5 situations
in the Scriptures regarding 

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fornication, but not one of 
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I'm going to notice 5 things 
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They are #1 premarital impurity 
between a man and unmarried man 

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and an unmarried, unengaged 
woman results in marriage or a 

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fine, but not divorce, as the 
Bible says. 

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He may not put her away all his 
days. 

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Those passages are Deuteronomy 
22 verses 28 to 29 and Exodus 

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chapter 22 verses 16 and 17. 
That's number one. 

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Here's another one. 
Premarital unchastity between a 

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man and an engaged woman not 
engaged to him. 

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Get this? 
This is pretty rough. 

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Results in a death sentence for 
the man under the old law. 

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The woman's fate is dependent 
upon the location and 

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circumstances surrounding 
impropriety. 

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Deuteronomy 22, verses 23 
through 27. 

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Here's #3 the post Marital 
discovery of a wife's premarital

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unchastity resulted in the death
penalty for the wife. 

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Deuteronomy 2213 through 21. 
Don't you? 

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Aren't you glad you don't live 
under the Law of Moses? 

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Adultery between a man and a 
woman not married to each other 

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results in the death of both 
Deuteronomy 22 and 22. 

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How about one more? 
Suspicion of adultery resulted 

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in the priestly administration 
of a divine bitter water test. 

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If found guilty, the woman 
suffers a slow and shameful 

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death from the Lord. 
Numbers 511 through 31. 

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Now I'm going to tell you 
something. 

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If you want to know about this 
bitter water test, read numbers 

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five 11231. 
Please don't do it now, then I 

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won't have your attention. 
It's very long reading. 

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But if you want to know what 
that bitter water test read that

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after services. 5 situations of 
fornication. 

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In all 5 cases just mentioned, 
divorce is not an option even 

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though sexual immorality had 
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What resulted in those cases? 
Here they are, marriage, 

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monetary fines, or death, but 
not divorce under the law of 

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Moses. 
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I'll tell you why that's 
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Have you ever heard of the 
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Sometimes people have a no 
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Now, by the way, Jesus is going 
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are those that believe in a no 
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It means that there's no 
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There's never a case when you 
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Jesus is going to give the 
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People that believe in that 
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that the only thing Jesus was 
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He was reiterating what was 
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Not so fast, because under the 
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cause for adultery. 
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Fornication never resulted in 
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It resulted in marriage, 
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not divorce. 
OK, saying all that, this is 

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what Jesus says he says. 
But I say to you, So in other 

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words, he says, you've heard 
that it was said before this. 

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But now I say to you, you know 
what he was doing? 

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He was giving new authoritative 
law, just like he's done 

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throughout the Sermon on the 
Mount so far. 

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When he said, when he reached 
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that he'd been said, you shall 
not kill. 

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But I say to you, if you're 
angry with your brother without 

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a 'cause you've committed murder
in your heart, see the point? 

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You shall not commit adultery. 
But I say to you that if you 

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lust after a woman, you've 
committed it in your heart 

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already. 
Here's new authoritative law 

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regarding the marriage 
relationship, about marriage and

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divorce, and it exists for the 
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Then he says this, that whoever,
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very much misunderstood and 
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What does the word whoever mean?
It's caused confusion among 

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Bible students and so forth. 
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Is this word a universal word? 
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meaning anyone, period. 
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Is this word whoever referring 
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Christians? 
Does the laws that Jesus was 

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speaking here, does it refer to 
non Christians and marriages 

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that non Christians may have 
before they ever become a 

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Christian? 
The answer to that is no. 

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The word whoever is exclusive to
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Jesus was living under the law 
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not died, He was not buried, he 
had not raised from the dead, He

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did not ascend to his father, 
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established yet in Acts chapter 
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So Jesus, when he preached the 
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preaching New Kingdom law, 
living under Old Kingdom times 

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or the Old Testament times. 
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In other words, this is 
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referring to church members in 
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Jesus never dealt, by the way, 
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the New Testament that wasn't 
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Now Paul did and 1st Corinthians
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for another time. 
When Paul dealt with A2 people 

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and I think the context is they 
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They got married and then one 
obeyed the gospel and the Bible 

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says that the marriage is 
sanctified by the believer and 

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so forth. 
And Paul gave some rules for 

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that. 
And that's another sermon. 

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Jesus was saying Christians 
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So whoever means Christians, 
members of the church baptized, 

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believers baptized into Jesus 
Christ, church members today. 

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OK. 
Notice this of why it doesn't 

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apply to people before they are 
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Christians. 
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If Jesus teaching applies 
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include and would include non 
Christians as some believe, then

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a Sinner or a non Christian who 
is previously divorced and 

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remarried for other than the 
specific cause of fornication is

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duty bound to separate from his 
current spouse before he could 

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become a Christian. 
But nowhere in the New Testament

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is such an action required or 
even implied now. 

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Simply put, Jesus was referring 
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he says regarding divorce. 
Whoever divorces his wife except

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or for any reason except sexual 
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And then it goes on further. 
But the exception of our Lord's 

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instruction is here. 
But it doesn't diminish the rule

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or the force of the rule. 
Remember when I said God hates 

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divorce? 
OK, It doesn't diminish the 

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force of the rule. 
It just shows under what 

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conditions that rule may be 
amended. 

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Let's notice what the rule is. 
Here's the rule in Mark chapter 

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10, verses 11:00 and 12:00. 
So we said to them, whoever 

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divorces his wife and marries 
another commits adultery against

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her. 
And if a woman divorces her 

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husband and marries another, she
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That is the rule. 
So Matthew 532 is the exception 

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to the rule. 
And I want to say something 

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about the state of California. 
I know California gets slammed 

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pretty hard, especially from 
people of other States and even 

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people in our state slamming 
California. 

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And I'm just going to be 
realistic with you. 

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And to you at this time, first 
of all, I want to be honest. 

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I love living in California. 
And I'm to be honest with you, I

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wouldn't live anywhere else. 
My life is here, my work is 

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here, everything's here, my 
family's here. 

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So I enjoy and I love living in 
California. 

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Do I love everything about 
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No. 
Do I love liberal views and 

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liberal ideas in all aspects of 
California? 

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No. 
Do I love all the liberal laws 

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that exist in the state of 
California? 

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No. 
But I do love living in the 

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state of California. 
OK, all that being said, if you 

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want to get a divorce in the 
state of California, you can 

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only get a divorce for one real 
reason, under the umbrella of 

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irreconcilable differences. 
You cannot legally in the state 

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of California get a divorce for 
adultery as that cause. 

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They don't care. 
They just consider it whatever 

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whatever reason you call it. 
It's called irreconcilable 

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differences, and you can get a 
divorce for whatever reason if 

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it falls into the category of 
irreconcilable differences, 

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whatever that is. 
OK, I thought that's the way 

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that it was in all of the United
States and all the other states,

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too. 
But the other, well, a couple 

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months ago, I was holding the 
meeting in another state and I 

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heard of a case where somebody 
left a man, she left her 

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husband, and she wanted to get a
divorce. 

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There was no adultery. 
She had no scriptural grounds. 

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They were just people taking it 
to the law. 

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And they went to the law and 
they went to a judge and they 

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tried to get, she wanted to get 
a divorce because she just 

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wanted to leave her husband. 
You know what they said? 

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It's illegal to divorce your 
spouse except for adultery. 

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I'm glad there's at least some 
states out there that want to 

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stick to the Bible. 
Jesus says there's one exception

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in that sexual immorality. 
That is adultery for divorce. 

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Our state says whatever 
irreconcilable differences. 

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But notice what else Jesus says.
What happens when you divorce 

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your wife for any reason except 
for sexual immorality? 

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Notice what Jesus said. 
Not me. 

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Jesus says you caused her to 
commit adultery. 

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If a man dismisses or divorces 
his spouse for reasons other 

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than sexual immorality, he makes
her commit adultery. 

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Now, why is that? 
Here's the idea, by the way, if 

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the husband, and we'll get to 
why the husband's being 

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addressed so much here, but if 
the husband initiates an 

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unscriptural divorce from his 
wife, in other words, she's 

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innocent. 
She didn't cheat on him, she 

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didn't commit adultery and he 
wants to divorce her. 

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He is aiding in her immorality. 
Jesus says he's causing her to 

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commit adultery. 
Why is that? 

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Very startling words. 
The assumption is this because a

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divorced woman will probably 
remarry and if she had an 

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unscriptural divorce, she had no
right to remarry. 

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Please stay with me. 
It's going to get simple, I 

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promise. 
The idea is referring back to 

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maybe a culture that doesn't 
apply so much today about the 

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need to remarry. 
I know that in our cultures, we 

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have women that are educated, 
great. 

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We have women that are 
independent, able to take care 

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of themselves. 
So if a spouse of a husband left

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a woman today, she wouldn't 
necessarily have to be married 

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to another man to be taken care 
of because she can take care of 

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herself. 
So maybe culturally, that 

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culturally may not apply that 
example so much today. 

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Back then, oh, it applied 
ancient Jewish cultures, women 

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didn't work. 
The man provided, the man went 

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out and worked. 
The man had whatever career, the

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man had the job, the man 
provided and the woman was at 

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home. 
So if a man divorced a woman 

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unscripturally in those ancient 
societies, she would be all 

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alone, destitute, all alone, 
needing help and assistance. 

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She would actually have to be 
compelled to marry another man 

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to take care of her. 
What Jesus says is if he she has

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been divorced for any other 
reason except sexual immorality,

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you've just caused her to commit
adultery because she'll marry 

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another man, be forced to 
remarry. 

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Here's some other things that 
might apply today, and don't 

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underestimate this one. 
How about loneliness? 

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I'll tell you what, loneliness 
is rough. 

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I'm fortunate I'm not lonely at 
all. 

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But I know people that are 
really lonely because they're 

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all by themself, and sometimes 
maybe we should be more 

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considerate of the feelings of 
others that are lonely and maybe

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do more to come to their aid and
support when they're lonely. 

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Loneliness might cause somebody 
to get remarried. 

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What else? 
Even today, How about 

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unfulfilled natural desire? 
You got to throw that in. 

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That's true. 
How about this, How about a 

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negative or trying to avoid a 
negative social stigma? 

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Now, it's not that big of a deal
today, but there was a time and 

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some of you older folks, and I 
just say maybe a little more 

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seasoned than I am. 
You're older than 57. 

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That's my age. 
I'll just say it that way more 

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seasoned. 
Maybe you lived in a time like 

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maybe in the 50s when divorce 
came with a tremendous stigma. 

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Remember the phrase of the word 
divorcee? 

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There was a time when that 
phrase divorcee had a real 

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stigma to it. 
So maybe someone today might 

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want to be remarried because 
avoiding the social stigma of 

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being divorced. 
JW Mcgarvey said this. 

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A woman, when divorced by her 
husband, naturally seeks a 

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second marriage, if for no other
reason than to vindicate herself

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from being the imputation cast 
on from the imputation cast on 

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her by the divorce. 
So Jesus places the weight of 

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this teaching squarely on the 
man's shoulders because the man 

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has the role of or the 
responsibility of being the 

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family caretaker. 
But I will tell you this, though

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I have to add this The rules 
apply to men and women both. 

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The divorce and remarriage rule 
and law of the New Testament 

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applies to men and women too, 
both. 

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The weight of the teaching now 
is falling culturally, 

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especially on the man, because 
he's the caretaker. 

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It's his responsibility He is to
provide both physically and 

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emotionally by nourishing and 
cherishing his wife. 

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Ephesians 529 For no one ever 
hated his own flesh, but 

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nourishes and cherishes it, just
as the Lord does the church. 

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That's the husband's role, and 
to do otherwise violates God's 

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plan. 
I have to do it. 

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If you think that your marriage 
is difficult and you have to 

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work at it and maybe you're not 
happy, So what? 

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So what? 
Work it out and because you have

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to work with your marriage and 
work with your spouse and your 

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relationship, it doesn't mean 
your relationship is bad. 

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Anybody that says I've never had
to work something out with my 

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you're lying or something's 
wrong with you because that's 

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just part of it. 
Now, there is a reason there is 

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an exception, but I'm just 
talking about getting along. 

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I'm talking about working stuff 
out. 

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I'm talking about that I'm going
to get to some other things 

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later. 
So hold, hold that thought. 

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I'll get back to you if I know 
what you're going through your 

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mind right now. 
I'll get back to some of the 

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things you're thinking about. 
Let's just continue on our our 

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flow here causes her to commit 
adultery and whoever marries a 

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woman who is divorced commits 
adultery. 

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The Lord's legislation, as one 
scholar said, if followed, 

456
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eliminates the immorality that 
results from an unscriptural 

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divorce. 
And when this the law is 

458
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,400
rejected, all parties become 
entangled with guilt. 

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00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,000
Please notice the following. 
Notice what happens in an 

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unscriptural divorce. 
Here's what happens #1 The 

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00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:19,120
husband, because of an 
unscriptural divorce when he 

462
00:28:19,120 --> 00:28:21,840
marries, commits adultery. 
That's number one. 

463
00:28:23,800 --> 00:28:27,720
Number two, the second wife 
commits adultery because he's 

464
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:33,840
ineligible to marry her #3 the 
first wife becomes a fornicator 

465
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,840
when she marries another Romans 
7 and two. 

466
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:41,440
Number four, and her new husband
is guilty too because he married

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00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:43,320
her. 
Wow. 

468
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,680
What's the Lord saying here? 
What the Lord is saying here is 

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00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:53,200
all four people are now involved
in the sin, all because a man or

470
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a woman unscripturally divorced 
his or her spouse. 

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00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,240
Here's my point, folks. 
The impact of the Lord's 

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00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:05,400
teaching is this, that one who 
does not have the right to 

473
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,400
divorce does not have the right 
to remarry. 

474
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,560
And again, we're talking about 
Christians in the Kingdom, 

475
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:12,440
church members. 
We're not talking about 

476
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,200
unbelievers. 
We're not talking about people 

477
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,240
that have never been baptized by
their mission of their sins. 

478
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,360
We're talking about Christians. 
So any attempt to justify an 

479
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:24,440
unscriptural divorce and 
subsequent remarriage is futile.

480
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,440
So remember this, God's plan for
marriage has always been the 

481
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,560
same. 
It's one man married to one 

482
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,560
woman and that's for life. 
That's number one. 

483
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:41,160
Number two, even under the law 
of Moses, remember God tolerated

484
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,600
divorce, but that was never His 
plan or His desire. 

485
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,720
Matthew 19 and verse 8 says 
this. 

486
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:50,880
He said to them, Moses, because 
of the hardness of your heart, 

487
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,040
permitted you to divorce your 
wives, but from the beginning it

488
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:57,480
was not so. 
He gave the rule of marriage 

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00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,000
that we've already established 
in Mark chapter 10, verses 11:00

490
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:03,200
and 12:00. 
So we said to them, whoever 

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00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,440
divorces his wife and marries 
another commits adultery against

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00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,080
her. 
And if a woman divorces her 

493
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,360
husband and marries another, she
commits adultery. 

494
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:16,240
That's the rule. 
Here's the exception, except for

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00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:20,960
sexual immorality. 
What am I saying, folks? 

496
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:28,160
I'm saying this under the Law of
Moses, adultery was not a cause 

497
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,840
for divorce. 
There were other things we read 

498
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,360
about what they were bad stuff, 
right? 

499
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:38,120
Fornication brought marriage, 
fines and death. 

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00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,760
What Jesus is saying is this, 
but I'm saying to you, if your 

501
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:52,360
spouse cheats on you, commits 
adultery, you have a choice. 

502
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:57,040
If you so choose, you can 
divorce that spouse for the 

503
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,840
cause of adultery, and yes, you 
can be married to another. 

504
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:05,640
That's the exception. 
That's the exception. 

505
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:11,640
There's no other exception but 
that if that spouse decides I 

506
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,920
don't want to divorce my spouse,
I want to forgive my spouse, can

507
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,120
they do that? 
Absolutely. 

508
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,560
Take them back? 
You bet, but it's up to the 

509
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:24,480
innocent party or the one that 
was affected in it to make that 

510
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,000
choice. 
They have the choice. 

511
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,960
What Jesus was saying is I'm 
saying you to you. 

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00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,600
This under new authoritative law
under the Kingdom, when the 

513
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,120
church is established, you got 
Christians that are married, 

514
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:40,280
right? 
Two Christians don't get a 

515
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:46,160
divorce. 
It's unscriptural except for the

516
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:50,320
cause of sexual immorality, 
fornication, which is adultery. 

517
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,920
This is not the only time that 
Jesus mentioned this in Matthew 

518
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:55,680
chapter 5. 
He also mentioned it in Matthew 

519
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,120
chapter 19. 
That's the exception. 

520
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:02,000
Again, except for sexual 
immorality. 

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00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,000
Remember this as I draw my 
remarks to a close. 

522
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,200
There's only two things that 
separate marriage in God's eyes.

523
00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:14,680
Only two things. 
I don't care about 

524
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:16,720
irreconcilable differences. 
I don't care about the courts. 

525
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:21,680
When it comes to two Christians 
like Jesus was talking about, 

526
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,600
there's only two things that 
separate marriage in God's eyes.

527
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,240
One is death. 
If your spouse dies, you are no 

528
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,880
longer married. 
And by the way, Jesus even dealt

529
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:34,680
with that when the Sadducees 
questioned him. 

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00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,000
There's no marriage in heaven. 
There's no marriage in heaven. 

531
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:39,760
We're going to be like the 
angels of God in heaven. 

532
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,280
No marriage, not going to be 
marriage or given marriage in 

533
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:44,320
heaven. 
There's no marriage. 

534
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,160
We're spiritual beings in 
heaven. 

535
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:48,960
We're going to know each other, 
I think, as we were known. 

536
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,240
But there's no marriage. 
OK. 

537
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:56,120
So death separates marriage. 
That's number one. 

538
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,840
So if your spouse has died, 
you're no longer bound to that 

539
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,120
marriage law because your spouse
is gone and it severs the tie, 

540
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,480
right? 
You're not married anymore. 

541
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:07,840
What's the other thing? 
Sexual immorality. 

542
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,560
Fornication. 
King James calls it adultery. 

543
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,880
That's the only other thing that
separates that in God's eyes. 

544
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,560
Maybe you were thinking when I 
was talking about this. 

545
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,400
Wait a minute. 
I've been married to a creep. 

546
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:29,600
Do I have to stay with him? 
I'm a Christian for, for 

547
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,760
example, I'm I was married to an
abusive man. 

548
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:38,160
He was horribly abusive to me. 
Do I have to stay with him? 

549
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:44,640
No, you don't. 
But there's only one scriptural 

550
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,040
ground for scriptural divorce 
and that is sexual immorality. 

551
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,400
You don't have to stay there, 
separate and get out of there, 

552
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,360
but it doesn't give you the 
right to divorce that horrible 

553
00:33:55,360 --> 00:34:02,240
person and marry somebody else. 
Only one exception in Roman in 

554
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,320
in first Corinthians Chapter 7. 
I told you when Paul dealt with 

555
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,440
the relationship 2 non 
Christians 1 obeys the gospel. 

556
00:34:09,679 --> 00:34:11,159
So now what? 
You have a Christian married to 

557
00:34:11,159 --> 00:34:15,159
a non Christian and as I said, 
it is sanctified in the eyes of 

558
00:34:15,159 --> 00:34:17,639
God by the believer. 
So God recognizes that marriage 

559
00:34:17,639 --> 00:34:21,280
in his eyes, right? 
OK, what happens when the 

560
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,840
unbeliever wants to depart? 
Paul says let him depart. 

561
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,080
You're not under bondage in such
cases. 

562
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:30,080
What does that mean? 
Some people believe that means, 

563
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:32,120
oh, you're not under bondage 
means you can just go get 

564
00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:34,800
married to anybody else. 
Under bondage means you're not 

565
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,520
under bondage of fulfilling your
marital responsibility to that 

566
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,360
spouse and making it work. 
Let him go. 

567
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:45,000
But then what did Paul say? 
Here's your choice. 

568
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:50,040
Remain unmarried Christian, 
Christian spouse or be 

569
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,760
reconciled back to your spouse 
again, because there's only one 

570
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:57,400
exception, folks, and that's 
sexual immorality. 

571
00:34:58,240 --> 00:35:01,040
If they do that, you can divorce
them for that cause and you can 

572
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:02,800
be married to another 
scripturally. 

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00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:12,240
In conclusion, let me just say 
this, if you're contemplating 

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00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:15,200
marriage, it's a serious matter.
So don't enter into it lightly. 

575
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:23,840
Don't you better make sure and 
make sure that the person that 

576
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:27,000
you are going to marry or you 
want to marry is on the same 

577
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:32,400
page that you are spiritually, 
where God is first and foremost 

578
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,000
in your life. 
I'm going to tell you something,

579
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:35,520
a marriage that is based on 
that. 

580
00:35:35,720 --> 00:35:37,920
You can take anything that comes
your way, man. 

581
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:42,760
You can do it. 
You can handle it and even when 

582
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:47,360
the hardest things in life come 
your way, it won't pull you 

583
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:53,840
apart because you got God is 
number one and God is the focus 

584
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,640
and the center of your life and 
your marriage is what it should 

585
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,800
be because of it, man, you 
handle anything. 

586
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:05,280
Choose the right one, get the 
right one. 

587
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:12,040
Number two, don't enter into it 
lightly and understand this 

588
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:16,160
marriage is for life. 
I'm finished. 

589
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,320
Thank you for your kind 
listening. 

590
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,120
These were the words of Jesus. 
I hope that something was said 

591
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,760
that was edifying to you and 
explaining these passages that 

592
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,880
Jesus spoke so long ago. 
If you have any questions about 

593
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:31,560
what I have said in any way, 
please talk to me after 

594
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,240
services. 
I'll do my very best to answer 

595
00:36:33,240 --> 00:36:36,000
any questions or clarifications 
that you might have. 

596
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,600
But now we've come to the time 
when we extend an invitation. 

597
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,760
We never preached from God's 
Word without extending an 

598
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,200
invitation. 
Do you remember when I said that

599
00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:47,720
the rules that Jesus was 
referring to refer to 

600
00:36:47,720 --> 00:36:50,400
Christians? 
This is what you have to do to 

601
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:54,120
become a Christian here. 
It's very simple, and I know a 

602
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,000
lot of people have different 
ideas, but this is what you have

603
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,400
to do to become a Christian. 
You got to hear the Word of God.

604
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,400
Romans 10/17 So then faith comes
by hearing, and hearing by the 

605
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,200
word of God. 
That's what generates faith is 

606
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,920
the word of God #2 what do you 
got to do? 

607
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,280
You got to make a choice. 
You got to believe with all your

608
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,080
heart. 
Hebrews 11:00 and 6:00 But 

609
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,240
without faith it's impossible to
please Him, for he who comes to 

610
00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:20,160
God must believe that He is, and
that He is a rewarder of those 

611
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:24,000
who diligently seek Him. 
What else Jesus says? 

612
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:27,400
I got to change my life. 
I got to repent of my sins. 

613
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,120
Acts 17 and 30. 
Truly these times of ignorance 

614
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,920
God overlooked, but now commands
all men everywhere to repent. 

615
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,920
What else I need to be able to 
make the greatest confession, 

616
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:41,200
say the greatest words ever 
stated, and confess that Jesus 

617
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,000
Christ is the Son of God. 
Acts 837 And Philip said, if you

618
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,520
believe with all your heart, you
may. 

619
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,880
And he answered and said, I 
believe that Jesus Christ is the

620
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,480
Son of God. 
Upon taking these steps, you are

621
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,880
now a fit candidate to contact 
the blood of Jesus. 

622
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,360
And this is what washes your 
sins away. 

623
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,560
It's the only thing that'll take
your sins away. 

624
00:38:03,720 --> 00:38:06,320
You can't hear it away, believe 
it away, repent it away, or 

625
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,160
confess it away. 
If you want your sins to be 

626
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:15,280
washed away, you got to do this.
Be baptized for the remission of

627
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:17,080
your sins. 
Mark 1616. 

628
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,560
He who believes and is baptized 
will be saved, but he who does 

629
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:24,080
not believe will be condemned. 
If you've never taken those 

630
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:27,360
steps of obedience and you would
like to, we, we are standing 

631
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,280
ready to assist you. 
We would love to help you in 

632
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:31,360
that. 
Maybe you have taken those steps

633
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,000
of obedience. 
Maybe there's something in your 

634
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:34,480
life that's not what it should 
be. 

635
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,280
Maybe you're a child of God and 
you've drifted away and it's 

636
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,520
time to come back. 
If you want to be the class, 

637
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,520
come forward while we stand and 
while we sing.