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I don't know about you, but I 
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It is a good day. 
We've had a great worship so 

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far. 
We've sang some songs of 

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comfort, of encouragement, of of
submission to the Lord, and I 

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hope that we can all seeing that
today with the whole heart and 

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in unison as we worship God. 
It's a great day. 

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It's an honor to be here. 
If you want to follow along with

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us today, we're going to be 
pretty much exclusively in 

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Ephesians Chapter 5. 
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have the verses up here a little
bit large so that we can all see

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the verses. 
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going to chop it up a little 
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So if you want to be able to see
the whole flow next to you, it 

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might be helpful to have that in
your Bible. 

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So we're covering Ephesians 
Chapter 5 this morning and just 

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a quick reminder of the purpose 
of this book, The 1st 3 chapters

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reminded us reminded Christians,
remember he's not writing this 

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letter to the world. 
He's writing this letter to a 

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church, to A to a a church in 
Ephesus. 

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And he's reminding these 
Christians of their spiritual 

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blessings in Christ. 
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that strength that we derive 
from the blessings that are in 

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Christ, where God has placed us,
where He has welcomed us into, 

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should give us a motivation for 
the last three chapters, 

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chapters 4 through 6, where He 
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up and to walk worthy. 
Walk like we are Christians, 

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walk like we say we are. 
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purpose of this book. 
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way up to this point. 
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call to responsibility. 
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unity and He's calling us now to
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from sin. 
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should not be slavery to God in 
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It should be freedom from sin 
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And we're going to cover today 
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We're going to walk as children 
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about walking as wise. 
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lead up from chapter 4. 
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written in chapters, so chapter 
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the rest of what we're going to 
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Paul says let no corrupting talk
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such as is good for building up 
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give grace to those who hear and
do not grieve the Holy Spirit of

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God by whom you were sealed for 
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Let all bitterness and wrath and
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put away from you along with all
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Be kind to one another, tender 
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as God and Christ forgave you. 
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verses, the plan is to get 
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chapter about 16 verses, verse 
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Therefore be imitators of God as
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So after everything he's already
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tenderhearted and about our 
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he's going to say, First of all,
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So that is the standard. 
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reference imitate me only as I 
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But again, it's always back to 
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It's back to God. 
Our standard is not one another.

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Our standard is God, and we are 
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You know, as I think about how a
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it's funny seeing, you know, 
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seeing Charlie Taylor and I 
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We've got a lot of laughter in 
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doing lately is he'll he'll see 
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Children imitate their parents, 
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from is a place of admiration. 
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parents, it's from a place of 
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understanding that the adult is 
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want to grow up to be. 
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awareness of what is good or 
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If a child sees an adult maybe 
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might say the child wants to do 
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And I think that's a wonderful 
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with us, that we should want to 
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standard of what's right and 
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healthy, that we would love him,
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that we would follow him in 
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Now, I acknowledge that there 
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who did not have a great example
to where you learn to naturally 

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follow a parent. 
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or some, that you learn to 
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has a craving for that. 
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it's supposed to look like from 
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craving. 
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that you know what it should 
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we would follow him with love. 
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We can learn obedience. 
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and Jesus learned obedience by 
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That means we as adults can 
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love, out of imitation. 
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learn that as an adult, even if 
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Jesus learned obedience in his 
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Now, I also think that this is a
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frustration or anger or maybe 
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and I, you know it, it helps 
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When I look at my life in light 
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parent, I look at, try to look 
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relationship to God. 
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problems we can think a child's 
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frustrations. 
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just just get up, move on, move 
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Here's a toy, here's a 
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frustrated by. 
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when we talk to a kid, it help. 
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about my relationship with God 
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Whenever I'm frustrated or upset
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getting really petty about. 
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child. 
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you name it, disconcerted about 
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is so simple. 
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it is. 
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as Christ also has has loved us 
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Christ is the ultimate example 
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No greater love has no man than 
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his friends going on in that 
verse and and has given himself 

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for us and offering and a 
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smelling aroma. 
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have that kind of influence on 
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sweet smelling aroma or you 
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the grill, that sweet smelling 
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sense, in the presence of God 
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sacrifice. 
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Old Testament, how in the Old 
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sacrifices and those sacrifices 
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that we're pleasing to him. 
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it says a fragrant offering is a
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pleasing to God. 
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appeal to you therefore, 
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to present your bodies as a 
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So that is the context that we 
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he we would come up before him 
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smelling sacrifice. 
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It's not a it's not a death, a 
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which is our spiritual worship. 
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But fornication and all 
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it not even be named among you, 
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OK, let's break this down. 
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here. 
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caught up in all the words and 
missed the point, or you can say

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I don't know what any of these 
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The word fornication comes from 
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like a general umbrella term for
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He says All in all, sexual sin 
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He says all uncleanness that 
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about, that that dirtiness, all 
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conversation here about sexual 
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going to be kind of lumped 
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or covetousness, that word 
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to have more. 
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in the in the sexual sense, but 
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our life. 
Covetousness, that greedy desire

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to just have more. 
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our hearts intention. 
We're going to talk about more 

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in a minute. 
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greedy desire to have more, is 
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Sin wants to trap us in. 
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with sexual sin, is it has a 
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a cycle of insatiable need. 
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the flesh and the flesh desires 
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He says these things, let it not
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fitting for Saints. 
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that was once you OK, this could
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these things to be associated 
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He says, as is fitting for 
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You can't be a child of God and 
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because it's so unfitting. 
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Proverbs 27 verse 19 through 20 
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reflects face, so the heart of a
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Hell and destruction are never 
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never satisfied. 
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that's kind of ingrained in us, 
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the pleasures of flesh that can 
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desire. 
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God, he says verse four, neither
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that filthiness. 
Again, it it's that dirty 

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behavior. 
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into a minute some of the 
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space in your mind. 
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where there's it's gross, it's 
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easy turn of speech. 
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what I was reading would would 
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immorality transfers over to our
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conversation easily turns from 
something innocent into a sexual

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and pure conversation. 
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about high school, and 
thankfully most people grow out 

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of that, but I think a lot of 
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High school conversations can 
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innocent. 
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comment. 
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it's a sexual connotation now, 
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speech where something can be 
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Another definition I found for 
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honor. 
He goes on to say so. 

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Nor foolish talking, nor crude 
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out of place, it has no place in
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And you know what? 
As I think about high school, as

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I think about this idea of crude
joking, for a long time I didn't

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know this was wrong when I was 
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And I actually, I was trying to 
like, you know, trying to start 

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writing my life and and 
following God more and and 

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developing A seriousness with my
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There came a point where I was 
like I didn't know this verse 

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existed. 
You can't, you can't just joke 

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about whatever you want. 
I mean, it's just joking. 

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You're not really doing it. 
You're not really approving. 

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You're just joking, right? 
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that that's wrong. 
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course Jesting Jest just came 
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That's just somebody who makes 
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This is the first time that I 
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God. 
You might say many things in my 

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life that I was doing wrong. 
I knew what I was doing and I 

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felt guilty for it, but I did it
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But this one, once I read this 
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can practice good things, but if
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joke, right? 
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And if the least, you know, if 
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least thing I can do is I can 
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see that this is all out of 
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It's because our speech has 
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And why is the purpose Ephesians
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started for today? 
It says let no corrupting talk 

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come out of your mouths. 
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building up. 
As fits the occasion that it may

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give grace to those who hear. 
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Because of our speech. 
Not just our speech. 

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Everything we do as Christians 
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I know many of us, myself 
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exemplify that. 
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everything we do. 
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speech. 
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pointless. 
Our words should have meaning, 

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1st Corinthians 10 verse 31 
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So whether you eat or drink or 
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glory of God. 
Why should we not say things 

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like this, even if we don't 
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Because everything we do has 
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should be exciting. 
That should be motivating for us

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Now. 
Maybe if you're someone here who

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has concerns about where this 
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What might happen. 
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was in high school, Ish was you 
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well, I don't have anything to 
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I was going to make a joke and 
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anything to say. 
It is awkward. 

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It may be awkward now for a 
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with good things. 
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void, Matthew 7 says. 
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something good, you got to fill 
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And the reality is you won't get
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you went, you know, as a high 
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jokes that are appropriate. 
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You're not going to get the same
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things. 
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As Christians, we have to be OK 
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If something is not what's best,
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That's literally the definition 
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That's OK. 
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I don't have to live for the 
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sacrifice what I have proved to 
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own humor, my own personality. 
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funny person. 
I can sacrifice if it means I'm 

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pleasing God. 
It is OK to replace it with good

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things in our speech. 
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foolish talking, crude joking, 
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instead let there be 
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There's that replacement, 
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conversation of and why this is 
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honor versus dishonour. 
When we take these topics of 

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sexuality and make them 
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dishonouring a very special 
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If something is pure, sexually 
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marriage, it needs to stay in 
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pure. 
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thankful. 
Not throwing it around 

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flippantly, we should be 
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In the place where sexual 
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should be thankful for that. 
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God, but in the place and the 
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impure sexually, such as 
inappropriate sexual acts, it 

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shouldn't be talked about 
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because that only normalizes the
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behavior. 
I don't know if you've noticed 

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this. 
Many of the older folks probably

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have. 
When entertainment starts to 

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normalize something that is 
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A lot of times it makes jokes 
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softening of the heart. 
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a public sphere comes up and 
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with a joke to try to get you 
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And just there's a there's a 
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The barrier's broken between two
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When people and entertainment 
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leave that to try to break the 
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You may have seen that with 
recent trends, maybe trends that

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started 50 years ago. 
It softens the heart toward a 

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sin and we need to be very 
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perpetuating something just 
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Hebrews 13 verse four says let 
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all and let the marriage bed be 
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There it is again that concept 
of honoring something God 

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designed and created instead of 
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OK, verse 5 for this. 
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unclean person, nor covetous man
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inheritance in the Kingdom of 
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So this type of person we're 
describing doesn't have a place 

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in God's Kingdom. 
That is a scary reality, but 

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it's serious and that's it's 
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That's why we have to watch out 
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Because that person is an 
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If I am serving my own desires, 
if I am serving the whims of the

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flesh, I'm not serving God. 
I'm serving an idol. 

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The idol is myself. 
The idol is the pleasure. 

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The idol could be any number of 
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And the Bible says you can only 
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Now, this sounds a little harsh,
and maybe someone's thinking, 

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you know what? 
Maybe that's me and I just. 

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I just can't. 
I I'm just. 

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I'm just not made for God, I 
guess. 

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I guess I can't do anything 
about it. 

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That's just that's just not me. 
No excuses here. 

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Here's the here's the beautiful 
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Do you realize that you are 
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temptation or you are preparing 
for what's to come next? 

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It's only one of two things. 
You're either right now in the 

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middle of a temptation in which 
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you are opposing that and and 
trying to and and trying to 

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follow God's word in the moment.
There's really only one of those

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two options. 
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of the temptation, you are in a 
time of preparation for the next

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temptation or trial. 
So the good news is, if you're 

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in the moment, it's simple. 
Don't do what you're trying. 

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You're feeling like you should 
do, and if you're outside of 

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that, you are setting your mind 
right now. 

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I'm confident most people in 
this room aren't sitting right 

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now. 
And so you have a chance right 

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now to decide. 
Here is my direction. 

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I'm going to go this way. 
I'm not going to go this way. 

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I'm going to follow God's truth.
And so right now, you don't have

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to be defined by this because 
you can set your new direction 

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right now. 
That's the whole context of 

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scriptural repentance is it's 
not about you're the sum of your

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past mistakes. 
Good, bad, OK, you're kind of in

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the net negative right now. 
That's bad. 

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That's not how it is. 
As a Christian, if I decide 

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today I'm going to be different,
That's what God cares about. 

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That's called repentance, and 
you don't have to be this 

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anymore if you feel like you're 
stuck in this position with 

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these habits, these lifestyles, 
these mindsets. 

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Verse six, let no one deceive 
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For because of these things, the
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of disobedience. 
You know the only thing that's 

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going to take us from a place of
caring about what we just talked

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about is going to be some kind 
of message, whether it's someone

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or something that tricks us into
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doesn't matter, into thinking 
God's judgment's far off. 

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The the devil in the garden 
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These are empty words. 
If anyone tries to devalue the 

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serious commands of God, they're
empty words. 

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the wrath of God comes upon the 
sons of disobedience. 

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I believe no sane person would 
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I'm ready for that. 
Bring it. 

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Even the people who flippantly 
say that have no idea what 

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they're talking about, So the 
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May we open our eyes as 
Christians to help ourselves, 

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our families and other people 
see the seriousness, because 

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this is going to bring people to
hell, and that's terrible and 

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that's heartbreaking, he says. 
Therefore, do not be partakers 

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with them in that sexual 
immorality. 

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Don't don't take part. 
Yeah, I'm going to, I'm going to

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buddy, buddy up with you guys 
who do this. 

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I'm going to be part of this 
sexual immorality. 

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He's like, you're partaking with
that, but you're partaking in 

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the wrath of God. 
If we stay there, he says please

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do not partake with those two 
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They go together. 
Verse 8. 

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For you are once darkness. 
There it is. 

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There's that message for the 
Ephesians. 

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You are once darkness. 
That was your past. 

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Not anymore. 
You were once darkness, but now 

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you are light in the Lord walk 
as children of light. 

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There's what defines us. 
There is your defining 

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assurance. 
He wants to remind you who you 

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are. 
And remember, we've talked about

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all these things. 
He's talking to Christians. 

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It sounds like he's talking to a
group of people out in the 

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world. 
He's talking to Christians, 

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reminding them, reminding us of 
our identity. 

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Remember, you are light in the 
Lord. 

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Don't let the devil define you 
and say this is all you are. 

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You're just a cycle of mess and 
a cycle of sin. 

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You're not. 
Now. 

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We are to walk as children of 
light. 

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It's not just a belief, it's not
just a mindset, it's a walk. 

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It's action. 
Verse 9 for the fruit of the 

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Spirit is in all goodness, 
righteousness and truth. 

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Just a quick reminder, we've 
talked about fruit of the Spirit

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recently in Galatians. 
The fruit of the Spirit. 

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It's the fruit or the effects of
God working in US and us 

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allowing that and submitting to 
that. 

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The fruit of that, the fruit of 
the Spirit is in goodness and 

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righteousness and truth. 
That's what it comes through. 

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That's where the good stuff is 
at. 

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That's where the worthwhile time
is at verse 10, finding out what

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is acceptable to the Lord. 
When someone said it like this 

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for me, I don't know. 
I just clicked one day. 

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I was someone said treat God 
like you would treat someone who

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you have a one-on-one 
relationship with. 

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And if you talk to him and try 
to learn what makes him happy 

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and learn what upsets him, it's 
kind of simple when you look at 

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it like that. 
May we find out what is 

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acceptable to the Lord. 
You know when, when, when we're 

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dating and you're trying to 
figure out just the right gift 

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for the girl or for the guy. 
You go, right? 

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You ask their you make, you ask 
their parents. 

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Maybe you ask their best friend,
hey, what kind of candy they 

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like? 
What kind of gifts do they like?

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Will this? 
Will this ring or this piece of 

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jewelry? 
Will they like that? 

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Will they not like that? 
There's all that inquisition, 

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There's all that asking and 
questioning. 

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What can I do? 
Are we all in a place in our 

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faith where we're still 
inquiring as to how can I make 

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God happy? 
How can I find ways to please 

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the Lord verse 11 and have no 
fellowship with the unfruitful 

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works of darkness? 
Why does God not want us 

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involved in any of this? 
Because He, He doesn't like us 

450
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and wants us to have no fun. 
No, it's because they're waste. 

451
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They're unfruitful. 
He just talked about the fruits 

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of the Spirit. 
He says this has no fruit. 

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Now another passage says there 
are fruits of the deeds of the 

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flesh, so there are bad results 
from sin. 

455
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He's not saying there's no 
there's no consequence. 

456
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He's just saying nothing's 
really going to come of this. 

457
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It's just a waste of your time. 
The unfruitful works in darkness

458
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don't have any place in there, 
but rather expose them, expose 

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darkness. 
And as we consider what he's 

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already said, if we're just 
constantly making jokes about 

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something and making it 
meaningless, we're not exposing 

462
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it. 
We're letting it hide, we're 

463
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letting it hide. 
Talking filthy crude Joking 

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00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:14,280
allows that sin to hide in the 
darkness for what it really is. 

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00:26:19,570 --> 00:26:24,490
All light does is exposes 
something for what it really is.

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00:26:24,650 --> 00:26:27,530
That's all God wants. 
He wants to expose sin and he 

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00:26:27,530 --> 00:26:30,530
wants to shine the light on what
is good so we can see it for 

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what it really is. 
Verse 12. 

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For it is shameful even to speak
of those things which are done 

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by them in secret. 
And again, if something is pure 

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00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,640
sexually and needs to stay in 
the relationship where it's 

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pure, if something is impure 
sexually, it shouldn't be talked

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at all except to as is 
specifically needed to expose 

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00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,360
sin and to call it out for what 
it is. 

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00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,520
That's really the only reason we
should be talking about 

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00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:02,480
inappropriate things, is to 
expose them if it's needed. 

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00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:08,880
Especially necessary verse 13. 
But all things that are exposed 

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are made manifest. 
Have a light, for whatever makes

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manifest is light. 
The Bible says the light shine 

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out of darkness and the darkness
could not comprehend it. 

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00:27:24,090 --> 00:27:28,250
Darkness wants to hide. 
Sin wants to hide in your life. 

482
00:27:28,450 --> 00:27:31,050
Sin wants you to feel shame, 
especially sexual sin. 

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00:27:31,050 --> 00:27:35,170
What makes you want to feel 
shame So that you hide it and it

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00:27:35,170 --> 00:27:40,930
stays unexposed. 
But God's light will make 

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manifest. 
Verse 14. 

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Therefore he says awake you who 
sleep, arise from the dead and 

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00:27:49,120 --> 00:27:52,600
Christ will give you light. 
Remember, he's talking to 

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00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,400
Christians, awake you who are 
asleep. 

489
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:59,800
You know the scary thing about 
sleep in light of this context 

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00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,200
is you can think when you're 
asleep. 

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00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:09,600
You can hear when you're asleep.
You can talk when you're asleep.

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00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:13,320
As my wife will tell me, tell 
you, you can run when you're 

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00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,440
asleep, and you can sing when 
you're asleep. 

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00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:17,960
There's a lot of things that I 
do in my sleep that I didn't 

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00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:23,800
realize I can do as Christians. 
We may be able to hear and sit 

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00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:30,840
and sing and talk and still be 
asleep. 

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00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,840
Are you awake? 
Are you asleep? 

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00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:39,600
Spiritually. 
Christ wants to give us light. 

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00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,600
One man said this. 
Some of you Christians do not 

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00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,800
care whether souls are saved or 
damned. 

501
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,480
It is enough for them if they're
comfortable, if they can attend 

502
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,760
a respectable place of worship 
and go with others to heaven, 

503
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,920
they are indifferent about 
everything else. 

504
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:03,600
That leaves a pit in my stomach.
That makes me afraid to think 

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00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:08,200
about how many Christians is it 
me? 

506
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,120
Do I care about whether souls 
are saved or named? 

507
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,560
It's real. 
Sometimes we don't talk and act 

508
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:21,040
like it's real, but it is. 
Verse 15, he says. 

509
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:25,680
See then that you walk 
circumspectly, not as fools, but

510
00:29:25,680 --> 00:29:27,880
as wise. 
The word circumspect comes from 

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00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,080
2 words, basically circum 
meaning all the way around 

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00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,080
inspect, which is to see, he 
says. 

513
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:35,120
See everything that's going on 
around you. 

514
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,680
That's especially true 
spiritually. 

515
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,520
Spiritually speaking, we cannot 
see the whole picture. 

516
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,160
And you know what? 
Some people see just a little 

517
00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,160
bit and they see either maybe 
good. 

518
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:49,720
Like I'm seeing the pleasure in 
my life, I'm seeing good things,

519
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,800
and that's all I care about. 
And they need to look around at 

520
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,560
the spiritual danger they might 
be in. 

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00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:59,840
Then on the other hand, maybe 
there's people who are maybe in 

522
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:04,480
the church who only see the bad 
in things. 

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00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,440
I mean to look around and see 
all the wonderful blessings. 

524
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,440
Or maybe there's people who in 
the world who only see the bad. 

525
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:13,520
You know, I was talking to 
someone the other day who they 

526
00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,960
were just going on and on about 
the dangers and and and the 

527
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,240
world and and you don't realize 
what's all going on right now, 

528
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:20,920
right? 
Like everything is mind control,

529
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,960
everything is scary. 
Everything is like, watch out, 

530
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:29,440
Big Brother's come. 
There are truths to the scary 

531
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,840
realities that we live in and 
the spiritual realities and 

532
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,920
physical realities. 
There are a lot of truths there,

533
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,520
but that person needs to have 
the comfort and to know what to 

534
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,720
do with that fear, to take it to
God and follow him because he's 

535
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:46,160
the only thing that's going to 
free us from this body of sin 

536
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,480
and death in this world wherein 
where there are scary things 

537
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:53,160
spiritually, and in the world, 
the governments, the powers that

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00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,720
be, there are scary things right
now. 

539
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,440
And so the message for everyone,
especially Christians, is to 

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00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,000
look around, see what's really 
going all the way around. 

541
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,640
You don't just see part of it, 
Look at the whole picture. 

542
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:11,040
But it's not just looking at it 
because people can see that and 

543
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,040
not live it, he says. 
Walk circumspectly. 

544
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,800
Walk like you see everything 
that's going on around you. 

545
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,600
When I'm pulling into my to my 
high school parking lot, there's

546
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,480
kids walking down the street who
aren't paying any attention. 

547
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:24,960
They're on their phones and 
they're about to get hit by 

548
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,400
cars. 
Don't walk like that. 

549
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,960
One of my students got hit by a 
car the other day. 

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00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:31,760
Don't walk like that. 
Spiritually Walk like you. 

551
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,480
Realize what's going on around 
you. 

552
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:39,800
Pay attention, redeeming the 
time, because the days are evil.

553
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:44,360
OK, the big point of this verse,
and we're going to close here, 

554
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,760
the big point of this verse is 
to make the most valuable use of

555
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,480
your time. 
That's been kind of the message 

556
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,680
I want to drive home. 
Today is everything has meaning 

557
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,240
as a Christian. 
Your words, your actions, your 

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00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,440
physical life. 
And here he's saying your time 

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00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,760
has value. 
Redeem it. 

560
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,400
Use the value in your time 
because the days are evil. 

561
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:05,560
There's what we just talked 
about. 

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00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,520
There's evil days. 
Jesus said evil times are 

563
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:09,840
coming, and they were and they 
are. 

564
00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,160
They always have been turning 
evil. 

565
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,720
So we've got to redeem the time.
I think we get the idea what 

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00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:18,520
that means. 
But actually this phrase, to go 

567
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,720
a little bit deeper, literally 
meant to buy up opportunities. 

568
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:26,600
So redeeming the time had a 
connotation of buying up 

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00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:31,560
something, buying. 
So he's saying buy time, buy up 

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00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,640
the time. 
And it's in the context 

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00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,360
basically of an investor. 
If an investor sees a good 

572
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,880
business opportunity, they they 
go and they buy as many of them 

573
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,360
as they can. 
If you see a stock prognosis 

574
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,960
that looks good, you go, OK, I'm
going to buy as many of those 

575
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,200
stocks as I can afford right 
now. 

576
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,000
I've got maybe investors say 
like 100 grand right now I'm 

577
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,400
dropping it all on this stock. 
That's the context. 

578
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,760
He's saying with time. 
He's saying we as Christians 

579
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:02,840
should buy up the time realizing
its future value. 

580
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,600
If I would have told you 20-30, 
I don't know how many years ago 

581
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,200
to go and buy Amazon stock. 
Go spend $1000 on Amazon stock. 

582
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:15,280
You know how much it'd be worth 
today? 

583
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:20,240
$1.1 million. 
If I told you to buy Apple stock

584
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:22,960
when they had their IPO, their 
initial public offering, you 

585
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:24,000
know how much money you would 
have? 

586
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:31,120
You spent $1000 on Apple stock. 
You'd have $2.2 million today if

587
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,640
you could go back, if you could 
do Back to the Future kind of 

588
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:36,240
stuff, you would go back and 
say, hey family, buy this, buy 

589
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,000
this, buy this, buy all these 
stocks. 

590
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:41,280
Because in the future it's going
to be worth so much money you 

591
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,560
can't even fathom it. 
I don't care if you have to sell

592
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,520
your couch, buy this stock, 
because trust me, it's going to 

593
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:51,200
be a lot worth, a lot of money. 
That's the idea here with time. 

594
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:55,280
Your time on Earth is so 
incredibly valuable. 

595
00:33:56,480 --> 00:34:14,060
Our Time Warner is so short as 
value by time, he says, being 

596
00:34:14,060 --> 00:34:18,300
aware of its future value. 
There's going to come a day when

597
00:34:18,300 --> 00:34:24,620
we don't have any more time with
our families, with the people 

598
00:34:24,620 --> 00:34:29,739
who are lost with our own heart 
to change it. 

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00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:38,560
We need to buy it up right now, 
use it in awareness of its 

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00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:43,560
future value. 
Because one day we'll realize 

601
00:34:44,679 --> 00:34:48,239
just how valuable that time is. 
Imagine being God. 

602
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,400
He designs the world, sets up a 
master plan. 

603
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,120
He sends his son to die at a 
cross, and he's just got this 

604
00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:00,320
great orchestration of events to
where it's all set up for us. 

605
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,040
We know what to do. 
We might have confusion 

606
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,880
sometimes that we know today we 
know what we should be doing 

607
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,960
today. 
He gives us all what we need to 

608
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:13,160
do and God goes, all right, here
we go. 

609
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:18,040
He gives us this whole plan, 
gives us the whole time. 

610
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,120
We each get 24 hours a day for a
short time in our lives. 

611
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:27,080
And he looks down and he sees 
this scrolling away, mindless 

612
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,360
hours. 
How much you I'm guilty of 

613
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,840
wasting time God has given us. 
That is precious. 

614
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,000
The days are evil. 
There is evil around us. 

615
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,680
There is evil sometimes in US. 
And we need to walk 

616
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:47,000
circumspectly, just like you 
said in the last couple verses. 

617
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:54,400
He said wake up, wake up to the 
realities you live in. 

618
00:35:55,480 --> 00:36:01,720
Wake up and by the time that you
have aware of its future value. 

619
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,480
Because for us and everyone in 
our lives, it will be worth it 

620
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:11,120
if we invest and use our time 
wisely for God and spiritual 

621
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,960
matters, for His Kingdom. 
And we will not regret it. 

622
00:36:15,720 --> 00:36:18,120
The lesson is yours. 
Today we're going to offer an 

623
00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:20,120
invitation. 
If you have not started this 

624
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:22,880
walk, like we said earlier, it's
not about all these other things

625
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:26,120
that you might mess up on later.
If you messed up in the past, 

626
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,280
it's about right now. 
What are you going to do? 

627
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,360
You can only live in the moment,
and you could worry about 

628
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,840
tomorrow later. 
If you decide today that you 

629
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,640
want to be a Christian, you've 
heard part of the word. 

630
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,760
Maybe you've heard the Word in 
the past, but you need belief. 

631
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,440
Belief that Jesus Christ is the 
Son of God. 

632
00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:46,240
You need to repent of your past 
life and confess that Jesus 

633
00:36:46,240 --> 00:36:48,320
Christ is the Son of God. 
That's that new direction. 

634
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,560
Repentance doesn't mean 
perfection, It means direction. 

635
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:55,320
And I confess that Jesus Christ 
is the Son of God. 

636
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,160
I confess there is only one who 
can say. 

637
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,000
There's only one who died for 
the sins of the world and be 

638
00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,800
baptized for remission of sin. 
Not because we're doing some 

639
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:05,920
great work, but because we are 
submitting to the death of our 

640
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:09,640
desires and the death of our old
life, and rising to walk in a 

641
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:11,680
new life because of the work of 
Christ in US. 

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00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,720
Praise God for that. 
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