Well hello ladies and gents, Robert Sykes, Keto, savage.com.
And today I'm going to do a little bit of a different style
of podcast. So actually for the next few
episodes are going to be a little bit different.
I am traveling right now for the last competition of my
competition prep season and as a result of that travel I have not
been able to book out a podcast guest because I've had my
calendar blocked out for the travel.
So I thought what I would do is have a few shorter episodes,
some of which are just me talking, some of which are like
I'll bring Crystal on, I'll bring Greg on, just a few people
that I have with me here for these competitions and then
we'll resume the normal podcast once my travelling for the
season is done. However, with that said, these
podcasts are going to be a little bit shorter.
They're going to be specific to the competition prep and and
this last competition in general, so I'm super excited
about it. I've done a few of these solo
episodes as it pertains to the prep and I got a lot of positive
feedback on those. So I'm very much so excited
about these next few episodes. This first one in this likely
four part series is going to be all about the pre competition
mindset. So I'm going to record this
podcast a few days before my last competition and we're going
to dive deep into just the psychology of doing something
big and grand and how that affects dopamine and how to
hedge against a fall off after it is over.
So I'm excited to dive into that.
We'll pull the curtain back on dopamine and how to kind of
hedge your bets against that negative fall off after doing
something grand like that. But before we dive into the
podcast, let's roll the intro. Alright, so here we are and it
is a time of this recording. It is Thursday afternoon.
My competition is on Sunday morning.
This will be the last competition of my five
competition series. Basically I've done.
This will be my fifth show. This is the largest show of the
competition. This is my second pro show.
This is the Super Bowl of natural bodybuilding, so to
speak. This is the world's competition
in Seattle, WA. This is the one that people are
coming literally all over the world to compete in.
And it's a pretty big deal in the sport of natural
bodybuilding. And for me, this is most
certainly the largest stage that I've ever stepped on.
It is the most prominent stage I've ever stepped on as a
natural bodybuilder and I'm incredibly honored and grateful
to have the opportunity to do so and represent the ketogenic
community and what is possible with a ketogenic diet.
And there's been a lot that has gone into this prep.
This is 33 weeks of dieting for me now, which is the longest
competition prep I've ever done. I mean typically a prep will be,
you know, some competitors, 12 weeks, 16 weeks, 20 weeks prior
to this prep, the longest I've ever prepped is about 20-3 weeks
I believe. So this is 10 weeks longer than
my previously longest prep, so it has been quite the journey to
say the least. This is the fifth show prior to
this competitive season. I've only competed 5 times, so
I've literally doubled the amount of times I've stepped on
stage just with this competition, just with this
competition prep specifically. So it's been, it's been a
journey to say the least. And with them there is a lot of
lot of mental components, a lot of psychology that goes into a
prep. I always tell people that
bodybuilding is more of a mental sport than a physical sport to
begin with. Yes, you're pushing your body.
Yes, you're tracking your macros.
Yes, you're doing cardio and training and your sleep's
affected, Your hormones are affected.
A lot of physiological factors, for sure, But the psychological
component is the one that typically garners the most
amount of attention from me and is the most significant.
I always come out of a prep just transformed as a result of what
all I have to put into the prep mentally and this prep has
certainly been that. That has certainly been the case
with this prep. And with with that said, this
last week, this last peak week, I've had some interesting
emotions, some interesting psychology, some interesting
thoughts. And I'd kind of like to just
peel the curtain back on those and reveal them to y'all because
a lot of, a lot of y'all are going through a prep yourself or
you're doing something very hard and challenging.
There's going to be a lot of parallels there with regard to
how to approach those challenging things from a
psychological standpoint. I actually just finished
listening to a podcast by Andrew Huberman and he was talking
about how when you do something grand, when you do something
that you've worked incredibly hard on, it is oftentimes the
case that people celebrate that win, that success, that, you
know, pivotal moment, that monumentous moment.
And because they celebrate that oftentimes very extravagantly,
after that thing is over, they have a massive dopamine rush and
then that drops off drastically and they oftentimes get
depressed. And many of y'all listening can
likely attest to that you've experienced it in some form or
fashion in your own life. I've certainly experienced that
in the past after my first bodybuilding competition in
2012. I I've talked about that in
previous episodes, but I literally dieded down.
In 12 weeks, I lost £80 in 12 weeks, totally transformed my
physique, got leaner than I'd ever gotten before and won the
show, and I was literally on top of the world.
That was the first time in my entire life where I was able to
recognize the fruits of my labor and just feel totally
unstoppable. Like, that was a a
transformative moment. It shaped me in so many
different ways. But after that show was over and
that finish line was crossed, I didn't have any direction, I
didn't have any outlet. And as a result, I spiraled out
of control. From an eating disorder
standpoint, that's what was the catalyst for my disordered
eating tendencies that lasted for several years.
I had pretty severe depression after that.
I knew what I wanted to do, but I didn't know how to do it.
There wasn't a tangible goal in front of me that I could work at
every single day. And I really was on cloud nine
and then crashed and burned for several months, if not several
years after that first competition.
And that is often times very much the case for first time
competitors. They had nothing to compare it
to. They go into a prep, they don't
have the perspective and they come out of that prep and what
they have worked so very hard for day in and day out with
utmost consistency is no longer there.
And without that they fill that void with negative emotions,
negative energy, overindulging in foods, overindulging in
negative thoughts, and it just becomes a downward spiral that
often times cripples them. And you certainly want to avoid
that. With every prep that I've done
since then, I've gained perspective and I've been able
to get better and better at how I go into the prep, how I come
out of the prep and just make the process much more
sustainable. And I'm really proud of how I've
been able to do that with this prep specifically.
So this is the 1234 fifth season I guess I've competed in, and
with that I've gotten much more experience under my belt and I
now conduct myself as a professional athlete, a
professional bodybuilder. This is not some monumentous
thing that I'm doing that is totally, you know, out of my
norm. This is part of my life, This is
my lifestyle, this is my day-to-day.
And I've just ingrained everything that I've put into
this prep as part of my day today.
And that's offered me a ton of stability in going into this
prep. And it will offer me a ton of
stability in coming out of this prep.
Because when you don't put these big things on a massive pedestal
in your mind, you are not as likely to fall off from it.
And you have to kind of be careful on how you do it because
you don't want to distract from the significance of it.
You don't want to avoid recognizing the fruits of your
labor. You don't want to avoid
congratulating yourself and being proud of your
accomplishments and celebrating those wins.
But at the same time, you don't want to put them on such a
pedestal that when the show is over, when the the obstacle has
been met and overcome, you just totally get depressed
afterwards. And I've really tried to hone in
on that with this prep specifically.
So much so that with the third competition of this season, the
one that I actually went pro at and had it in my sciences, like
the main show, I didn't even really celebrate.
Like I didn't have a celebratory meal afterwards because I had
two more shows to do. I just got right back to work
and didn't really skip a beat. And honestly, I think that was a
really healthy move for me. Yes, I'm going to be able to
reflect back on that third competition and the significance
of it after this last show is over.
And I'll kind of roll that celebration into this final
celebration, but I think not, You know, setting it aside and
and really going all out with the celebration after that show
was key for me to go into these next two shows with the right
frame of mind and just give it all I've got and not fall into a
depression. So here I am recording this
podcast literally on Thursday, just a few days before I step on
stage for the final time of this season on Sunday.
And I'm trying to walk through with y'all and just verbalize
where my mind is AT and what I plan to do going forward.
And one of the things that a lot of competitors do after a
competition prep and a lot of people do after accomplishing
something significant is they cross that finish line and then
there's just nothing afterwards. There is a massive void that
they fill, like I said, with that negativity.
That's the case with people that run marathons, people that do
bodybuilding competitions, people that graduate from
college, you know, submit a paper that gets accepted into a
prestigious journal, whatever the case may be, academic,
physical, personal, whatever. And they they have this massive
climb up to the top of the mountain, so to speak, as an
analogy, and they just jump off the Cliff afterwards.
You can't do that. You have to put in the same
practice and work and habits that led to that success in the
1st place so that you can return back to base camp and scale down
that mountain in a safe, sustainable manner.
So like if the competition prep for example is me climbing this
mountain, this massive Mount Everest of an obstacle, The last
thing I would want to do is finish this competition.
Throw my diet to the wayside, throw my training to the wayside
and just like get depressed and not have any sense of direction.
Which is why I'm going to implement a very structured
reverse diet post show and continue my training, gradually
taper my cardio and honestly stick to pretty much the same
schedule and routine that has led to this success.
In the 1st place, I am going to allow myself, you know, a
celebratory meal. Afterwards, I'm going to take my
family and my crew that's with me to a Brazilian steakhouse
after the competition. I'm going to eat without
tracking those macros and I'm going to eat until I'm satiated
and full and happy and it's going to be great and it's all
going to be ketogenic foods. The last thing that I would
recommend anybody that's doing a ketogenic competition prep do is
to consume a bunch of carbohydrates post show, because
that's going to make you feel sick and you're going to hold a
bunch of fluid. You're going to wake up the next
day. The scale is going to be 20
pounds heavier, and that's going to really mess with your
psychology. By me going to Brazilian
steakhouse, I can experience and explore all those amazing
flavors. I can eat a ton of quality meat
with people that I care about, have a great sense of
camaraderie, and then not really have a negative rebound the next
morning, which would spiral me out of control.
I may or may not have a ketogenic dessert afterwards.
I'm on the fence about it. I haven't decided yet.
If I do, it's going to be a simple ketogenic brownie that
I'll have crystal make and track the macros on.
And it's going to be made with half a keto brick, some almond
flour and some eggs. So maybe a tablespoon or to a
peanut butter. So pretty simple, pretty clean,
nothing too crazy. I'm certainly not going to be
getting anything dessert wise at the restaurant, and by allowing
myself that one meal that is not tracked, I can kind of give
myself a break from the strenuous tracking.
But it's all gonna be in line with my ketogenic lifestyle and
macronutrient targets. It's all gonna be in line with
my ketogenic food types, so my body's going to respond well to
it. I'm not gonna have any issues
with excessive fluid retention. Yes, I'll have probably more
sodium that day, and I'll probably wake up a few pounds
heavier the next day, but not enough so that it's going to
really screw things up. So yeah, I'm going to allow
myself that one celebratory meal, but I'm going to be very
present in that moment and I'm not going to fixate on the food
to the extent of it becoming obsessive.
I'm not going to go off the rails and eat a bunch of non
ketogenic foods, and I'm not going to repeat that habit day
in, day out. I did promise my crew that could
not come with me that I would take them out to a Brazilian
steakhouse once I returned home from these travels, so I will
likely do that. And that Brazilian steakhouse
will also be untracked. But it again will all be meat
and foods that I know my body responds well to, and I won't
have a ketogenic dessert with that meal.
So pretty much just one. One celebratory meal after this
show on Sunday where it's ad libitum consumption of quality
meats and a ketogenic dessert possibly.
And then an additional celebratory meal with the crew 2
weeks later when I get back in town again, I'll meet no crazy
deviate deviations there, no ketogenic dessert that that
meal. And then that's pretty much
going to be the only two meals that I consume post prep that
are untracked. Everything else will be
accounted for. This following week is
Thanksgiving. I'm going to be tracking my
macros. Then I will probably eat the
exact same foods every day that week except for Thanksgiving
Day. But on Thanksgiving Day, I'm
going to be tracking my macros. And then what?
My plan is going forward. And something I'm actually quite
excited about is every single week of this reverse diet which
will likely last, you know, three months or four months will
be attract meal prepped meals the same as they were going into
the prep itself. One day a week I'm going to
allow myself to eat different foods.
Foods that I've been wanting to explore, foods that I've been
wanting to experience again. But all foods that I prepare
myself or that crystal prepares that we prepare as a family,
which is going to bode well for some bonding time there and all
quality sources of ketogenic, you know, foods that we know and
love and those are all going to be tracked.
It's just going to be one day a week that is a different type of
food, but again, all tracked. That's my plan with the reverse
diet as far as food goes. That way I can give myself some
variety in the flavors that I'm experiencing again.
But six out of the seven days are all going to be consistently
meal prepped and tracked as it was going into the prep itself.
And that is really going to do wonders for my body from a
strictly physiological standpoint.
So many people fail to reverse diet and that results in them
gaining a lot of unnecessary body fat immediately.
Posts show when their metabolism is down regulated.
I'm going to be able to avoid that by strategically increasing
my target macro intake, increasing my fat and protein in
a strategic, scalable, sustainable manner, tracking
that intake and then letting my bodies homeostatic set point
reset at a leaner composition while consuming more calories
overall. So I'm very excited about that.
From a psychological standpoint, it's going to keep me
accountable. It's going to keep me having
specific goals and things to work towards.
I'm going to be able to see the benefits of those extra calories
coming in with my training, with my hormone levels.
My testosterone will increase as I put on more body fat in a
healthy manner and consume quality foods and more of a
surplus. So my testosterone will increase
from the low point that it's been at now after 33 weeks of
dieting. That's going to certainly help
with overall energy and how I'm feeling throughout the day and
sleep. So I'm excited about that, but
I'm going to have a very specific plan with this reverse
diet post show from a macronutrient standpoint, from a
training standpoint, from a cardio standpoint, I'm going to
gradually taper my cardio. I'm going to gradually scale up
my training intensity. But all of that, again, this is
this particular episode is more focused on the psychology.
All of that is going to provide the structure that I need to not
have that massive rebound depression that oftentimes comes
following. Doing something big and
significant, like finishing out A5 competition series of a
contest prep that I went pro AT and I've been dieting for for
the past 30-3 weeks like that is a pretty big deal.
But if I make that a big deal in my mind and then don't have a
plan to come out of that, it would be devastating to me.
So at the end of the day, with this episode specifically, I
really want to drive home the point that when we create things
in our minds that are seemingly insurmountable that we just lack
the perspective and of the significance on and then we
don't have a plan to come out of that with the same strategy and
and preparation that went into it.
You are most likely setting yourself up for a certain
disaster. And I want y'all to avoid that
because I have certainly not avoided that in the past and
that has not served me well. So have a plan, have a
structured routine post significant event and then be
mindful going into that event. Here we are a few days going
into this, this, this competition, and I've been
really mindful of my training, my eating.
I train hard. I do my posing practice, but
then after that is over, before I allow myself to eat, I allow
my parasympathetic state to return to normal, allow my
breathing to return to normal. I spend some time meditating.
I spend some time praying. I spend some time just simply
focusing on the moment and being present so that I am not
obsessive about the food afterwards, so that I'm not
obsessive about whatever the next thing is.
I could just simply be in the moment and appreciate the
moment. For what it is, because moments
like this are so incredibly beautiful and they don't come
very often. When you have worked so hard for
something for so long and you put your blood, sweat, and tears
into it, and you see the fruits of your labor unfold before your
eyes, the last thing you want to do is rush through that moment
and take it for granted and not give it the time that it's due
by just simply being present and reflecting and being grateful.
I'm incredibly grateful for all those that have supported me on
this journey. I'm incredibly grateful for my
friends and my family. I've made it a point to call my
parents more regularly throughout this prep, to talk to
my brother, to call my family members, and to appreciate all
of those around me and just the beauties that this world has to
offer. You know, there's so much
greatness out there, and when you spend your life in the
hustle and bustle of the day-to-day, constantly checking
your e-mail notifications, your text messages and your Instagram
DMS, you often times miss out on what all this world has to
offer. That's the last thing you want
to do anyways, but most certainly the last thing you
want to do when you're going through something that's very
trying, very challenging, very difficult, and you don't want to
distract from that because there's no telling when I'm
going to do another prep. It may be five years before I do
another prep. So the benefits that I glean
from this prep need to last me well into the future.
And that arc is going to be much longer if I take the time now to
soak in these moments and appreciate every little waking
detail that it has to offer. So I would just encourage you
all to do that very same thing regardless of what it is that
you're doing in life. That is impressive.
Whether it is a prep or you're going through college or you're,
you know, diving deeper into your relationship or whatever
that case might be. Spirituality, whatever it is,
just focus on it. Give it the time that it's it's
due, Give it the time that it's worth.
And don't let the the things in life that don't matter distract
you from those that do. So that's, that's my two cents
on this going into this competition.
I'm very excited about this show.
We just got a few more days left to rock'n'roll.
I'm going to give it my all, but I'm not going to let my tendency
for obsessive Compulsive disorder to come in and create a
negative. There's no benefit that's going
to come from trying to make myself miserable.
All the hard work has been done, the training has been done, the
nutrition's been dialed in, The cardio has been accounted for.
I have a tendency to let my OCD create this sense of negativity
in my life, in which case I want to do my best, and I equate
being miserable to doing my best at this point in the game.
No benefit would come from that. I need to just simply relax,
take a breath, enjoy the moment, be at peace with the moment, and
have fun. You know that at the end of the
day, this whole thing is supposed to be fun.
Like, you want to do a prep because it's fun.
So if I'm making myself miserable, what am I
accomplishing in doing that? So yeah, I'm going to take these
next few days, give it my all, but not allow myself to be
miserable and truly just soak it all in and have fun and be
present in the moment with those that have been with me from the
very beginning and supported me all the way through.
So thank you all so very much for tuning in.
I certainly appreciate you all more than you know.
Hopefully this episode provided some clarity for where my
mindset is at going into this last show and hopefully it was
presented in such a way that you can apply it to your own life in
some form or fashion. So again, we're going to have
probably three more episodes similar to this.
We'll do one post show that kind of recounts what I did with that
celebratory meal, what I did, you know, going into the start
of the reverse diet and just thoughts of the show itself,
what the, the judging criteria were, what the placements were,
all of that good stuff. And they'll probably do another
two episodes or so with some of the people that are with me like
Crystal, possibly Greg Chip, I don't know what, we'll come up
with some some episodes for these next few weeks to get
through this season of travelling for me and then we'll
resume the normal podcast afterwards.
So thanks again. I really appreciate y'all tuning
in and listening and thank you all so much for the support and
we will talk to you next time.