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And welcome to another episode, 
O Faces. 

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I am your host, Mr. Mocha. 
We are on the cutting board. 

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Keep music going, keep music 
going. 

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And this is unique episode 
because today I'm getting called

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out. 
I'm getting challenged for some 

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things that I've said in the 
previous podcast. 

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And I got double D Vixen and Jay
here, Double D and I, you know, 

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we, we started out with a pretty
much ballroom bar room brawl 

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downstairs. 
We were throwing chairs at each 

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other. 
You know, she tried to body slam

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me. 
So we decided we're going to 

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save the same for the podcast. 
All seriousness, we are at 

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Splash Mocha Houston 2024. 
We're recording this with some 

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guests in hanging out with us. 
This is an exciting podcast to 

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me personally because everybody 
who knows me know that I say 

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what's on my mind and I don't 
filter it. 

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I'm a firm believer that the 
world is too filtered, so I'm 

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not going to filter it. 
I'm going to speak my truth. 

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But I also believe that if you 
go onto a public forum and speak

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your truth, you should be 
challenged. 

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And because I'm so loud and not 
going off the line, people don't

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challenge me. 
They just whisper about it. 

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Now I want to start off on how I
I met Double D Vixen and Jay. 

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So I met Jay first. 
I was at the desk and Jay walked

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in. 
I wasn't aware that I had 

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already spoken to their. 
Their couple hadn't spoken to 

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Double D Vixen. 
I didn't know I had spoke to her

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before. 
Jay walks in to Mocha and I will

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give a guy a hard time who I 
know is confident. 

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Jay's a good looking guy. 
He walks in. 

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So I see him back straight eye 
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So I, you know, like I do with 
all the other guys who I know 

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can take it. 
I just sit right in on them. 

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So we're at the front desk 
bantering back and forth. 

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His wife walks in. 
He says, oh, you're Mr. Mocha. 

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Then you say so. 
So he shook my hand and his wife

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comes in. 
She shakes my hand. 

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Then she hugs Goliath. 
All right, so I'm still kind of 

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going back and forth with like, 
I'm still kind of giving him a 

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hard time. 
So we Fast forward. 

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I see him later on that night. 
I I go out and this this guy, 

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all right, he came in looking 
like a good looking guy. 

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I walk over a guy looks like a 
fucking rock star. 

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I'm like, what the Hell's going 
on here? 

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This. 
Guy here is ready like save. 

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Some pussy for the rest of us. 
So I'm giving him a hard time 

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because he looks good. 
He had the cowboy hat on, you 

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know, got his hair done. 
You know, he had the nappy beard

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when he first came in and I he, 
he done combed his beard out, 

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you know, I see him. 
Yeah. 

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And I saw him, so I knew he was 
going to be somebody my wife 

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would like. 
So she randomly comes up and I'm

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and I know I see her look at 
him. 

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I'm like, OK, so now I'm talking
to them and his wife, Double D 

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Vixen is standing next to him, 
not really saying anything to 

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him, not saying much, but she's 
standing there. 

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Now me being me, I am not sharp 
enough to know when I'm being 

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snubbed. 
And the one thing I liked about 

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her is she realized I didn't 
realize and she let me know 

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you're being snubbed. 
Now the question is, Double D 

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Vixen, why was I snubbed? 
Do. 

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You want me to say what I I told
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Let, let let me have it. 
Mr. Mocha thinks he's going to 

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get it. 
He ain't going to get it. 

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Get what? 
Get get pussy. 

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Mr. Mocha can dream. 
Let's get that straight. 

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Mr. Mocha is hoping the reason. 
I said that is because of how 

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how you were when it was so so I
wasn't intending on being on 

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your podcast. 
I didn't know that it was going 

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to be a podcast episode. 
I just was on. 

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I happened to be on Twitter one 
night and I saw that it was like

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a live, what is that Twitter 
space? 

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And I just tuned in and you had 
I think 2 guys on there. 

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You guys were talking about 
Splash and being a single guy 

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and the lifestyle and Splash and
just all the different dynamics 

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with couples and their. 
It was their perspective, a 

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single man in the lifestyle and 
attending Splash. 

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So once you guys started talking
about Splash, I can't remember 

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the comment that was made, but 
there was something about 

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couples. 
And most of the talk was about, 

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you know, being respectful and 
then approaching the husbands. 

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And, you know, usually it's the 
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single guys and saying, hey, my 
wife's interested in you. 

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So I can't remember what it was 
you said, but it got to the 

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point in the podcast where you 
you were like, hey, if anyone 

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wants to chime in, whatever. 
And I was like, yeah, I do. 

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So I said our experience at the 
2022 Houston Splash, and I said,

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yeah, we went in, had day 
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walk in trying to smile, like, 
you know, we didn't know there 

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was a whole thing, right? 
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And so we knew that a lot of the
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high volume of cut couples here.
And that's just not our dynamic.

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But we still wanted to go in, 
you know, open mind and look 

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approachable. 
And no one was talking to us 

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like nobody. 
And I kind of started to get a 

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little insecure. 
I was like, what the Hell's 

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going on? 
Like, do we look like assholes? 

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Like, are we being antisocial? 
Like, and a couple guys came up 

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to us introduce themselves and I
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know, have been coming to splash
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yeah, they, they told us like 
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typically, you know, this is 
the, the guys aren't trying to 

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snub you. 
They just, they want to be 

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respectful, you know? 
And so we're like, yeah, I 

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appreciate that. 
So we, I'm telling you about 

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this on this podcast and our 
experience. 

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So then you, you go on this 
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it's husband and blah, blah, 
blah, the whole respect thing. 

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And you said, I'm not trying to 
be, I can't remember exactly how

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you phrased it, but it was 
something along the lines of, 

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I'm not trying to be rude, but 
this is on your husband. 

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I blame your husband. 
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the guys and you kind of went on
a little tangent there and I 

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said, Oh no. 
She took this shit personal. 

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I see. 
I took it personal. 

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I was like. 
I laughed at. 

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It she took it so but. 
She's protective of me, man. 

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So yeah. 
And can I pause you? 

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Here yeah, go ahead so she's 
she's she's saying it and I 

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think the I have the Full 
disclosure all right I am very 

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direct and I tend to be brusque 
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Me too. 
Yes, and for so I, I, I say this

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all the time with depend 
depending upon the husband. 

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I always say me and me and Mike 
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Our ongoing debate is Mike's. 
He's always said is more the the

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guy's responsibility. 
And I've always said the husband

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responsibility, especially Jay, 
stand up for me. 

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Please stand up. 
Thank you. 

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All right, Especially when the 
husband looks like this guy, OK 

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and and when I say that for 
listeners to understand, Jay is 

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a good a big guy, he's an 
attractive guy and when you look

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at him, he's intimidating. 
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Don't see? 
That you don't have to see it, 

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but you do see it because when I
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his wife were having this 
conversation and he was standing

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watching. 
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meme where there's this mother 
cat and there's a kitten and you

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can tell they live in the house 
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And the mom is introducing the 
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But the entire time the kitten 
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the mom is staring at the pit 
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her a reason to attack it. 
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having a debate, he was very 
friendly, but the entire time 

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his eyes and his body was 
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I didn't go too far. 
He knew that she probably would,

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but because she's a kitten, 
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Pitbull. 
She doesn't know it can eat her,

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but he knew it could eat her and
he was ready to attack the 

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Pitbull. 
That, my friend, is what a man 

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is supposed to do. 
But that same mentality, 

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behavior, body language, stance 
makes other guys nervous to 

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approach. 
So from my standpoint, being the

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same guy who you remember my 
first year here, Mister East 

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Coast, remember my first year 
here, when everybody's like, 

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dude, fucking smile and I'm 
like, what? 

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Am I supposed to walk around 
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Yeah. 
Like that too? 

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Absolutely. 
Wait, say it again. 

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Say it again. 
We. 

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Don't want to kiss your? 
Wife calls it resting Dick face.

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I got resting Dick face. 
I apparently have resting bitch 

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face. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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He's right because I seen y'all 
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year of Splash and I was like, 
oh, she looks amazing. 

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And I and I literally took two 
steps forward, looked at you, 

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and it went somewhere else. 
OK, so now, so now hold on. 

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He didn't even know with this. 
No, it's not. 

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No, it's not. 
So hold on, you like? 

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People and you can you can 
interject. 

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He's had no problem talking to 
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But no, go ahead. 
Soccer cheese. 

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Soccer cheese. 
Interject please So here's the 

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thing, what you don't know, you 
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You can feel that energy. 
But there has been some guys 

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what we don't know as bulls. 
Are you the couple that's like 

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I'm here, but I really don't 
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I'm really not sure what's going
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So I'm going to take this. 
I'm here because my wife really 

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wants to be here, but I don't 
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to come around My wife stance 
and we can't tell the 

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difference. 
That's where there is. 

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That's where he's, I agree with 
him on the man's responsibility 

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to let you know I'm open. 
Your muscles will show them, OK,

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if you do anything, it's a 
problem that's going to show it.

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You going up to someone and 
letting them know I'm not one of

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those husbands because there 
are, I've approached a couple of

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husbands and I just felt like 
the dude was sticking his chest 

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out a little bit and I'm like, 
OK, brother, I'm not, you know, 

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I'm not trying to put her in a 
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So that's what we're discussing.
We're not talking about the 

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other side. 
These gentlemen know how to 

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approach. 
I know like you say, oh, you're 

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so comfortable. 
Well, because I've been through 

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that and I'm fine with the you 
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here, right? 
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That's what you got to take. 
We didn't know that there. 

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So what the guys that we ended 
up meeting when we were here in 

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2022, they were telling us, they
said, listen, we thought that 

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you were a guy that apparently 
there is a kink that it's kind 

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of like a showing the like wife 
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It's like, hey, they get off on 
like I want to show my wife off,

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but I don't want anyone to touch
her. 

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Yes, that's what they and we 
didn't know that that was a 

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kink. 
We didn't know that was a thing.

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Really. 
Kink is called insecurity. 

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Why? 
Would you come to an event? 

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My question was like bro, why 
would you come to this event? 

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You spend all this fucking 
money. 

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You know what I'm? 
Saying, but you're being 

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logical. 
Yeah, I mean. 

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That's you're being logical, 
which is I was being logical. 

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But here's the thing, I'll say 
this. 

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She was offended he wasn't. 
As soon as I explained it to 

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him, he was like, because the 
way it was explained to me was 

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the same way. 
It was. 

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No, it wasn't gentle. 
It was big ass Dmitry walking 

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up, putting his hand, his meat 
hook on my shoulder. 

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Like hey, stop looking like 
fucking security, you're scaring

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men away from your wife. 
Oh, that makes sense. 

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We went back and forth and I 
enjoyed the conversation because

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it's very difficult to change my
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She was able to change my mind 
in the conversation. 

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Not about me thinking it's his 
responsibility to go out because

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you're a scary looking dude and 
you have a good looking wife and

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people just ain't going to want 
to walk up to you because 

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there's a good looking wife with
a guy who's not scary looking. 

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OK. 
And then also a lot of these 

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guys, and this is something that
I had to learn with Misses Mocha

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where she's told me, hey, my 
wife likes threesomes. 

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But it got to a point where I 
had to stop because a lot of 

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guys are more comfortable 
sexually with the guy who they 

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feel superior to. 
So you don't give off inferior 

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vibes. 
So now that means you got some 

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guy who wants to be in a room 
having sex with a woman where he

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feels like he's got one up on 
the husband. 

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And you're looking like that. 
You're looking like a fucking 

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you, looking like you, looking 
like a predator, like you got a 

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lion sitting in the room staring
at you. 

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Unless you're in the room with 
another lion, it doesn't work. 

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So now these guys are looking 
and unfortunately for us, I go 

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around and when you I was 
standing with you, I'm a clown. 

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I'm a clown for a reason with my
friends because then they feel 

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safe. 
But unfortunately I had to go 

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out there and Dimitri pushed me 
a lot. 

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Hey man, go talk to these guys. 
And now my wife is my wife is 

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dirty like she want Dick. 
She's is that your vagina? 

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No that. 
Was. 

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That was that was badge, wasn't 
it? 

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More badge. 
You're such a perfect so, so so 

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that was so but the the thing 
that I would say, her and I 

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going back and forth, I attacked
her like I would attack Mike C 

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when we had this conversation 
and her thing was basically, I 

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told you I was new. 
Learn how to fucking talk to new

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people. 
I was. 

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Like wow, you steal your ground.
And that's when I tapped out 

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she's. 
Still the ground. 

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Oh, you. 
You. 

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I was. 
There because originally I was 

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talking to them. 
I was talking to them originally

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and then he came over and she, 
yeah, she went and I had. 

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To start throwing punches, so. 
What you're saying? 

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You could have ended that whole 
thing by saying stop clock. 

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Oh, Nah, Nah, she wasn't, she 
wasn't here, shot clock. 

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No, she wasn't here, shot clock.
She she went in that she was 

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like all. 
The attack. 

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So tell me what I should have 
done. 

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I would say this, so you had 
struck me in the conversation 

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when I was on the the Twitter 
Space podcast, a thing you 

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struck me as I, I got off of 
that call whatever, as I was 

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like, this is a cocky 
motherfucker who is used to 

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having women fawn all over him. 
Like Oh my God, he's so sexy 

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like. 
I want more fawning. 

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One and they are just like 
throwing the pussy at him like 

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all day every day. 
And I'm like please, like that's

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how I would. 
I don't like cocky guys. 

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I like you, got a cocky. 
Guy he is. 

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Quiet. 
Confident Like. 

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He's cool because we had chatted
before we came, so I knew he was

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a cool dude. 
We are the most unserious. 

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Like we love all genres of 
comedy. 

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Like we love stupid like Will 
Ferrell, SNL, you know, I think 

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yeah, goofball. 
Like he is the biggest if if you

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can make me laugh, you're in. 
Like if you can banter back and 

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forth, talk a little shit, like 
you're good with me. 

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You're good people. 
So fucking quick quitted. 

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And I'm like in the shower. 
I'm like, yeah, I should have 

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said. 
That that's that's me with. 

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My wife, literally. 
It hits me after the fact like 

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and he can just pop it up. 
But you said that's from being 

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in, you said that's from being 
in high school. 

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Y'all would have to like check 
each other like and I'm not that

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like I come back with something 
but then I'll take it to the 

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next level. 
So when I come back I'm like 

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going for your core. 
And he's like, God damn. 

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Like I was just joking. 
Yeah, like so I go zero to 60 

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like unintentionally. 
Oh yeah, She came. 

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She came in all guns blazing. 
She let me know that she thought

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I was arrogant. 
She thought I was. 

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Cocky are you not used to having
women for a pussy at you? 

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Your wife would know best. 
He is definitely very arrogant. 

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She doesn't. 
Thank you. 

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But he's arrogant on the like on
the outer court. 

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He once he gets that's like him 
on the podcast, that's him. 

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Like if he's in a like 
professional world, he's very he

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comes off as very arrogant. 
That's how I didn't talk to him 

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for three weeks after we met 
because I was like, I liked his 

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Dick, but he was really 
arrogant. 

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And I don't know if I could deal
with that. 

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But the more like you get to 
know him, the better he is about

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he's just not. 
I'm friendly from the get go. 

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I'll be unfriendly if I decide I
don't like you, but I'll I'm 

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friendly from the get go. 
He's not unfriendly, he's just 

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more guarded if that makes 
sense. 

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He's like. 
We're. 

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Here we're professional. 
I don't know where your 

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headspace is. 
I don't know where my headspace 

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is but I've had to tell him to 
meet you side to tell him 

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several other people. 
Like dude, stop walking around 

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like a security guard because if
he smiles he looks kind of 

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friendly. 
Yes, yes. 

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You. 
Can't say that to me because you

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do the same thing. 
This fucking guy, he's like, 

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yeah, that's a great smile as I 
walk into him, like. 

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That's how he was. 
Yeah, I know. 

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That's why you turned around. 
He called it, he said resting 

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Dick. 
But that's how I think I come 

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off like I don't know, I'm like 
I'm the biggest impact. 

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Like I get I'm a people pleaser.
Like I'm just naturally like I 

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want to make sure everyone in 
the room is like comfortable 

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everyone. 
I would never want someone to 

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feel like humiliated or 
uncomfortable. 

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And but if I'm just like, he 
jokes all the time, like I'll 

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just be reading because I need 
to put my glasses on. 

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I'm like reading something on 
the phone. 

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I'm looking like this. 
He's like, is everything OK? 

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I'm like, yeah, I'm just reading
some, he said. 

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It looks like you're like 
reading the worst news ever. 

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Is it, is this something that I 
mean, because during the 

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conversation I was like, yeah. 
I mean, he got a point, you know

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what I mean? 
And again, I knew not knew you, 

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but we had we had talked a 
little bit before then to let 

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you check in. 
Hey, how you guys doing? 

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You know, we, we again, we 
talked on Telegram. 

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Before. 
But is it something that 

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possibly could be? 
Just read your shirt, sorry. 

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I. 
Know. 

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I just read your shirt and we 
felt happy the same. 

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I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 
Is it is this something that you

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that could possibly be true, but
you haven't noticed it because 

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you live with him, you all 
you're with him all the time. 

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So you see that other side that 
people here don't see from him. 

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I will say, yes, I get, I can, I
can understand it to a point 

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because when we first met, he 
had been Mr. Bachelor, like 

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having girls throw themselves 
at, buy him stuff, like show up,

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you know, bring him food. 
He'd be like, thank you. 

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So I got punished for his 
behavior. 

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I she projected his bullshit on 
me. 

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We were complete strangers when 
we met like we we had no mutual 

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friends. 
Like he literally walked up to 

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me at a bar. 
So when I found out from a 

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mutual or from my friend, she 
had some coworkers that a few of

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the girls knew him and they were
like, Hey, tell your friend, you

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know, be careful. 
He's he, he gets her, you know, 

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like he gets around. 
He's used to having women, you 

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know, fart all over him. 
As soon as I found that out I 

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was like. 
But you told like never denied. 

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It but you also said you were 
like if you had been a yes 

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woman, I wouldn't have. 
I saw him as a rebound. 

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I was like, look, I just broke 
up with a guy a few weeks before

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he walked up to me. 
I was like, fine as fuck. 

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I just want to fuck him like, 
and he was the one that was 

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like, hey, I really like you. 
I want to like take it slow. 

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And I was like. 
Definitely it was. 

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A. 
It was a. 

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Like you had. 
We had great conversations. 

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Smart fucking conversations. 
Yeah, you're a deep thinker. 

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So I knew that he was used to 
having girls throw themselves at

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him. 
And I was like, I'm, I like what

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you said yesterday. 
You said that you're stubborn. 

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I was like, Yep, I felt that, 
like, got it. 

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But that's how he. 
Was the challenge. 

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Also, yeah, I liked. 
And again, rebound. 

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I was still fucking married when
I met him. 

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I mean like they. 
Were separated. 

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They were. 
But I was not like legally. 

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Not wait hold on, I said that 
wrong, not that I wouldn't have 

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still fucked her if she was. 
I don't want you guys to think 

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that I was trying to claim 
decent because I still would 

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have. 
However, in that she was 

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separated at. 
The time but same I like 

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literally just wanted some Dick 
and he he would give me. 

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I called him my vacation because
there's one day a week I was his

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Monday chick. 
He was my Monday Dick. 

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It was the only day of the week 
we didn't have our kids. 

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So I would go to his house and 
it felt like vacation. 

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He listened to me. 
He responded like, well, to me, 

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and I was in my mind, it 
couldn't be real. 

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You got good Dick. 
You're really nice. 

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But when I met, you didn't seem 
really nice. 

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You were kind of scary, but you 
had a good Dick. 

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We all went, We all circled back
around to the Dick a few times 

402
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before I was like, OK, maybe 
he's like, we're really good 

403
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,520
Dick, right? 
Yeah, I I like that. 

404
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:03,320
That's The thing is like if you 
come off as cocky, I feel like 

405
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you're overcompensating for 
something and then you find out.

406
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Not bad. 
Let's see it but. 

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I feel like the end of the day, 
I'm like my goal because I have 

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all brothers, I'm the youngest 
and I'm the only girl, so I'm 

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used to like ready to fight, 
like let's go. 

410
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She was, she was, she was ready.
So I, if I see that you're 

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coming off as you think you're 
the shit and your shit doesn't 

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stink, I'm like, no, you're a 
bully and I fucking hate 

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bullies. 
So I'm going to break you down 

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like I'm going to cut to your 
core because I'll give it right 

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back to you. 
But I find out that guys that 

416
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are like that, they're the most 
sensitive motherfuckers. 

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I think they're. 
At their core. 

418
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Oh yeah. 
Very sensitive, Very sensitive. 

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Question to you, Mr. Mocha. 
I just thought what you just 

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said. 
So being like somebody new into 

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the splash, how would like 
single guys in this splash 

422
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really approach a couple if they
feel intimidated? 

423
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,040
It's just something you just got
to get over. 

424
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Or is it? 
How does that even work? 

425
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You know what I'm saying? 
Because honestly, I I seen y'all

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last night and I girl, you're 
like amazing. 

427
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,960
I was like. 
Yeah, I mean, I, I told her 

428
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that, but she didn't believe me.
But I told her that today. 

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I didn't tell her yesterday. 
When we get to we had my 

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experience last night. 
So so this is what I will say to

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you, and this is because I know 
that I intimidate people. 

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Reserve stag Mister East Coast 
there, Jay. 

433
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I look at a guy, I look him in 
his eyes. 

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I feel that he's strong and then
I engage him because I have 

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created a circle of guys around 
me. 

436
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Because if you ever met my 
sisters, my sisters are fucking 

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savages like my sisters. 
Like we talk to each other. 

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Like my wife, the first time she
heard me and my sister talk, 

439
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she's like, what is wrong with 
y'all? 

440
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,840
There's no filters, you know, 
instead of having. 

441
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,920
What's wrong with? 
Y'all. 

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00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,240
Yeah, yeah, the first. 
Time I heard it be a little. 

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Bit what happened to? 
My professional that went out 

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the window. 
We. 

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We. 
And my friends we instead of 

446
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:23,480
speaking 100 words, we speak 
directly. 

447
00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:28,480
I can speak direct to my friend 
if you know that there's no bad 

448
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:33,000
intentions behind it. 
So when I see a guy that I 

449
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,560
didn't know, none of the 
situation when I first met him 

450
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,600
and automatically I was, I was 
talking to him like I knew him. 

451
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:42,920
But then they're guys who come 
in and I look in their face, I 

452
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:46,360
look in your eyes and I feel 
like they're more gentle. 

453
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,240
So I tone myself way down. 
I told myself down. 

454
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:53,600
I told my personality down. 
Because the one thing I never 

455
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,320
want someone to be afraid of me.
I don't get off on someone being

456
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:58,880
afraid of me. 
You know that that that does 

457
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,920
nothing for me, my wife. 
I like being afraid. 

458
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:09,480
Of you, you should. 
But so, so, so all of my guys 

459
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:12,040
like Mister East Colmes will 
tell you if there's and you guys

460
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,200
saw when I was standing there 
talking to you guys coming up 

461
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,120
fucking with me, Big J come up 
poking me in the head, right 

462
00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:21,040
that I give it. 
But I take it you know what I'm 

463
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:23,280
saying? 
And that to me is the mark of 

464
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,320
that says a lot. 
I deal with people based upon 

465
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,840
how they deal with others. 
If I see you and you're mean to 

466
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,440
people who are weaker than you, 
I lose respect for you 100% 

467
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,360
saying if you see me. 
Like even during our 

468
00:26:37,360 --> 00:26:40,080
conversation, I was still very 
careful with you, not just 

469
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:44,960
because of the pit bull, but 
because listen, I mean, let me 

470
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,720
help you understand this and 
you'll get it this time. 

471
00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:53,560
If you ever seen my daughter's 
play with mine, disagree with 

472
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,960
you on that. 
If you I keep doing it too. 

473
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:59,360
If you ever saw my daughter when
she played with my 120 LB 

474
00:26:59,360 --> 00:27:03,560
Pitbull, she had No Fear of it. 
She would ride his back, pull 

475
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:07,080
his tail, do his nails. 
Now we have a. 

476
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:12,240
Video. 
Yeah, but here's the thing. 

477
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,320
She was afraid of bugs, and when
he was around she wasn't. 

478
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,120
She was afraid of nothing when 
he was around, but she and her 

479
00:27:21,120 --> 00:27:24,680
mind could not perceive him 
being violent, yet she felt 

480
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:29,600
completely safe with him. 
You don't worry about him being 

481
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,680
violent to you. 
But you know, if I push you out 

482
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:35,320
of the chair right now, you can 
say all the tough guy, I'll 

483
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,640
fight you, but you know who's 
going to be climbing on top of 

484
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,320
me. 
So you do understand what he 

485
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,280
represents, but you don't want 
to accept that when these other 

486
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:50,640
men walk in and look at him, men
automatically see a threat in 

487
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,280
other men. 
That's the first thing we see. 

488
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,840
That's the first thing we. 
Describe it though, it makes it 

489
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:59,880
sound like to me it's like 
someone that's over masculine, 

490
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:02,360
over like doing that cocky, 
whatever. 

491
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,320
Like. 
He's that's that's. 

492
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,400
How it? 
So that is what men, that's 

493
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,520
being in the world of men. 
That's what we deal with every 

494
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:13,680
single day. 
As a man, what keeps me from 

495
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:17,400
disrespecting another man's 
home, what keeps all these guys,

496
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:22,360
guys in here at Bay is the 
constant threat of violence. 

497
00:28:22,360 --> 00:28:27,200
That's how men live our lives. 
As a lady, you don't have to 

498
00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:28,040
live that way. 
Wait. 

499
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,920
Let me just let. 
Me just OK, wait, hold on. 

500
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,360
If you got up and slapped me 
right now, let's be honest. 

501
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,040
What's the what's the chances? 
Do you think I'd slap you back? 

502
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,920
Give me 10%. 
Twenty percent, 30%. 

503
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,000
Not what you think is fair, but 
what are the chances? 

504
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:47,280
Zero. 
OK. 

505
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,000
If he got up and slapped me 
right now, what's the chances 

506
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:50,720
I'm slap him back? 
Oh yeah. 

507
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:57,760
A. 100 So So here's the thing 
real quick, we just answered the

508
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:02,120
truth of it is, and we know 
this, we feel this constantly. 

509
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:05,000
You don't have to. 
We do. 

510
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,480
Virtual state of violin 100%. 
Yes, absolutely. 

511
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:11,960
But a different type. 
Yeah, a different type. 

512
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,040
So it's not the same. 
We're talking apples and orange.

513
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:15,320
Let. 
Me tell you a scenario. 

514
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:19,240
So we before it was the day 
before we left to come here, we 

515
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,520
had stopped at a store and it 
was we were leaving the stores 

516
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,760
at night time, right. 
So there's a difference between 

517
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,000
when I go to the store by myself
versus going with him. 

518
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,520
So we walk out of the store and 
I'm looking at my phone and like

519
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,320
there was some sketchy where 
where we're from, like it's not 

520
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:42,120
a great city at all, but he like
I was looking at my phone and he

521
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,280
was like, damn, he was I didn't 
realize he was taught I was in 

522
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:46,880
the middle of texting you. 
Hey, look up. 

523
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:51,680
Like got some guys over here. 
Yeah. 

524
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,640
And so, but that's The thing is 
because when I'm with him, I'm 

525
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,040
not, it's not that I'm not, I'm 
always going to be just from 

526
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,800
living where we live. 
Like you have to keep your head 

527
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,120
on the fucking swivel. 
Like don't matter if he's with 

528
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,920
me or not. 
Like that's just the city we 

529
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:10,080
live in. 
Like, but when I when he's with,

530
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,080
I told him I was like, it's a 
whole different story. 

531
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:16,920
If I came to this store at 8:00 
at night and those guys like I 

532
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,000
probably would have been on the 
phone with him the whole time, 

533
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:22,240
like go into my car like I would
I'm fit. 

534
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:26,280
Women are constantly as she 
said, and it like it's. 

535
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,360
Different. 
Not by. 

536
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,560
Myself and you're you, you just 
made my point. 

537
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,680
So you only took a piece of 
both. 

538
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:35,280
You took a piece of what I said.
So now, based upon what you just

539
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:39,920
said, when two of us are in the 
room, the constant threat of 

540
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,800
what could happen is what keeps 
it peaceful. 

541
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,480
It's, it's the whole nuclear 
arms thing. 

542
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,960
The only reason I'm not going to
start fucking with you is 

543
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,720
because I know you got nukes. 
I got nukes. 

544
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,080
That's a constant state of male 
life. 

545
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,640
So for you guys, you are in a 
different state of danger 

546
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:58,360
because you have people who 
perceive you as weaker. 

547
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,800
So therefore they're going to 
attack you or may attack you 

548
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,320
because you're weaker. 
You and I, two men are assessing

549
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,480
each other to determine is it 
worth it? 

550
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,120
How much damage am I going to 
take for that? 

551
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,280
So that's the assessment that we
live with. 

552
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,080
So when you're talking about the
male mentality in an environment

553
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,880
like this, for a guy to walk up 
and approach a beautiful woman, 

554
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:26,160
I'm assessing my threat and I 
see a lesser threat with an 

555
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:30,120
equally beautiful woman or 
acceptable beautiful and I'm a 

556
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:32,120
move in that direction. 
So my point I. 

557
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,560
Just got to say something. 
Oh please. 

558
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,360
Yeah, jump in. 
Get in there. 

559
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,720
Come on. 
I'm really confused. 

560
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:41,520
This is our first time here, 
right. 

561
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:46,920
So the whole afternoon kind of 
some topics have come up about 

562
00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:52,080
how do you approach the wife? 
How how does how, how to how to 

563
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:55,400
or vice versa, how, how do you 
connect with somebody right. 

564
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:00,320
So part of the reason we come 
here, right, is because I can't 

565
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:05,120
take her to a regular bar 
someplace and it and and hope 

566
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:09,560
quote that a guy's going to come
up and float or flirt with her. 

567
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:15,680
Excuse me, right, I bring her 
here because we we enjoy that. 

568
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,800
Hopefully somebody's going to 
come up and flirt with her. 

569
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:21,480
That flirt doesn't mean that 
anything's going to happen. 

570
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:26,840
It's a conversation, right? 
But now I'm kind of hearing, OK,

571
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:32,320
I'm the one that needs to to 
coordinate that right, which is 

572
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:35,920
OK. 
But from the same sense, I think

573
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:41,280
it's just as easy for a single 
guy to come up to to us and 

574
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:45,240
approach me and go, hey, right 
there, this in the wrong way. 

575
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,960
But man, you got a beautiful leg
right there and I can go, well, 

576
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,000
thank you. 
Let me introduce you to Ron. 

577
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,040
Exactly. 
And then that opens it up and 

578
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:56,120
if. 
They want to flirt. 

579
00:32:56,560 --> 00:33:00,360
They can flirt right? 
If it gets too handsy or too 

580
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:04,480
whatever and he's not polite, 
then I can step in or she can 

581
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:09,760
take care of herself. 
That's the that's exactly the 

582
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:13,760
like, that's how that's how we 
were expecting guys to come to 

583
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:18,160
us and it not like aggressive, 
like, you know, way, but just 

584
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,520
like approach us and I'm like, 
why is it always on the husband?

585
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:24,840
Think about it this way. 
There's two people. 

586
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,320
One knows something and one 
doesn't. 

587
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,360
Your husband knows everything. 
He knows how he should approach.

588
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,960
He he might even know what the 
guys you're attracted to. 

589
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,520
I don't know shit about you. 
What I know is tall, good 

590
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:42,040
looking muscles. 
That right there for me is why? 

591
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,880
Because I was me and Michael see
your good friends, me and Damien

592
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:49,360
will get on a three-way call and
talk for hours, right? 

593
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:54,600
I was not, I was undecided until
I was like, oh wait a minute, I 

594
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,760
know as a husband because I'm 
stabbed. 

595
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:03,080
I know my wife is like if you 
ain't playing with her, you 

596
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:06,840
doing some really fucked up shit
because she'll grab your ass. 

597
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,760
But a lot of guys still don't 
know. 

598
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,800
So I know they don't. 
That's why it is. 

599
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,560
Now, as far as addressing you, 
you don't have to be obvious. 

600
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:17,800
You don't have to be running 
around. 

601
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,199
Hey man, this is my wife. 
Fucker please please fucker 

602
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:21,880
please. 
That's how it felt. 

603
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,440
That's how it felt. 
You. 

604
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:25,840
Can have a little bit more open 
stance. 

605
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:28,040
You can put a smile on your 
face. 

606
00:34:28,440 --> 00:34:30,400
You can say, hey, how's it 
going, Sir? 

607
00:34:30,679 --> 00:34:35,520
When he walks by, there's thing 
the husband can do because I 

608
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:38,080
don't know, I go to you. 
You're very beautiful. 

609
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:41,000
This guy, I don't know if 
they're stag and vixen couple. 

610
00:34:41,199 --> 00:34:44,440
And plus, when I found out 
interracial, a lot of other the 

611
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,199
interracial couples that I've 
seen at Fort Lauderdale, for 

612
00:34:47,199 --> 00:34:50,400
example, the dude was like 
almost had his wife in a 

613
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:54,040
headlock and I was like, I'm not
approaching that couple. 

614
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,239
Why? 
Can I interject? 

615
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:58,120
All right, I want to say what 
happened last night? 

616
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,240
So you talk about looking 
approachable, saying like, hey, 

617
00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:08,840
yeah, she's down, like whatever.
So last night I we were, you 

618
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:14,120
know, mingling in the play area.
One of the guys introduced us to

619
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:17,840
another guy. 
And I am. 

620
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,120
So I think also I must be giving
mixed signals or something 

621
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:26,240
because I don't know, I asked 
the guy. 

622
00:35:26,240 --> 00:35:30,120
I was like, oh, OK, so for me to
even go, it's not necessarily my

623
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,800
thing to just be out there 
fucking in the play areas. 

624
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,400
But if I've built up because I'm
an extrovert introvert, and if 

625
00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:41,800
I've built up like had a few 
drinks, like I want to try this 

626
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,200
out. 
And so I was going to do the 

627
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,120
wife watching room. 
So the guy, I asked him 

628
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,160
beforehand, I said, hey, do you,
because a lot of the guys, you 

629
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,480
know, well, it's kind of I guess
mixed. 

630
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,640
Some people play in the 
playroom, some don't, don't 

631
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,720
bother me either way. 
And so I asked him on the front 

632
00:35:58,720 --> 00:36:02,000
and I said, hey, do you play in 
the in the wife watching? 

633
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,680
He's like, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. 
I said, OK, cool. 

634
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,640
So I'm about to go around the 
corner and I'm going to get on a

635
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:09,960
mattress. 
And he was like, OK, cool. 

636
00:36:10,240 --> 00:36:15,280
So we go over there. 
I'm literally like legs open, 

637
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:19,560
like rubbing on my pussy. 
He's sitting right there and we 

638
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:22,760
have these, all these guys like 
come like once. 

639
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,800
It's on either side of you. 
I'm being very accommodating. 

640
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,600
Accommodating So he is doing 
exactly like hey, she's hey, no 

641
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,360
threat here, right? 
I'm opening myself up, I'm 

642
00:36:31,360 --> 00:36:34,040
looking open. 
I'm telling guys like you can 

643
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,280
fuck her like she's here to get 
fucked on this mattress. 

644
00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:40,160
Nobody is fucking coming on the 
mattress. 

645
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,840
Hold on. 
So I literally stripped down 

646
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,120
butt ass naked. 
I was like, maybe if I get on 

647
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:48,320
all fours and so I'm all fours, 
I'm like what the fuck? 

648
00:36:48,720 --> 00:36:52,080
And so no one literally and 
like. 

649
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,560
No, see, I was there. 
I know I walked. 

650
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:56,200
By SO can I tell you what I'm 
thinking? 

651
00:36:56,280 --> 00:37:00,560
Hold on, fuss. 
So then I I knew there was a guy

652
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,960
that was leaving today and he 
we've been messaging. 

653
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:06,760
So I was like, what the fuck? 
And I'm like looking at him, he 

654
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:11,040
was like, we're both. 
So I immediately got in my head,

655
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,880
yeah, like I was on like I was 
about to be done for splash like

656
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,240
done. 
Fuck this. 

657
00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:19,360
Like I've done the opposite. 
He did the opposite of what 

658
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,280
y'all are talking about, which 
is being open literally telling 

659
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:25,080
guys, hey, you can fuck her. 
Like she's on this mattress. 

660
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:30,040
Like come on, like here it is 
putting it on a platter for you 

661
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:34,040
and still no fucking attention. 
And so I was like, something's 

662
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,000
wrong with me, like something is
wrong. 

663
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:39,120
And so we went up to the room, 
guy came by the room. 

664
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,320
He was like, wait, what the 
fuck? 

665
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:46,160
And everyone, everyone we've 
told is like no one came up. 

666
00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,760
Before we left, though, the guy 
that I had, he had told me he 

667
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,560
had played in the playroom or 
the wife watching room. 

668
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,800
And I said, yeah, dude, you told
me you put I literally. 

669
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,400
And he was like, oh shit. 
I thought it was like a 

670
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,480
performative art thing. 
Like he's like just watching. 

671
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,920
I'm like, I'm just sitting here 
running on my clit like. 

672
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,960
This is what I thought. 
So body language he'll talk to 

673
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:11,640
you about. 
So here's what you did, brother.

674
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,760
I'm telling you, he's like this.
Because he's just, he likes 

675
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,560
looking at my pussy. 
So I thought I walked by. 

676
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:19,680
I was like. 
God. 

677
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:24,360
Damn it, but I thought she was. 
Performative and she's just 

678
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:27,000
doing this stuff for him until I
walked by. 

679
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,800
I'm going to tell you another 
situation where I did play. 

680
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,680
So I was in a club in Colette, 
same situation, but the husband 

681
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,400
was like this. 
He sat next to the thing and he 

682
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:42,320
said right, right. 
She laid down, did exactly what 

683
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:43,480
you did. 
I laid down. 

684
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,680
We had a great time. 
It was beautiful. 

685
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,040
The difference is if you like 
this brother. 

686
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,120
You know it sucks. 
You know how many couples come 

687
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:54,480
in? 
But he never play. 

688
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,160
But he, like you said, is the 
insecurity of the. 

689
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,920
I just want to show y'all what I
got. 

690
00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:02,720
And it sucks. 
He likes looking at my pussy so 

691
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,440
he's just his intrigued so. 
Can I Can I? 

692
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,280
Can I explain something? 
To you guys, so I'm explaining 

693
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,600
this. 
The stuff that I'm saying is 

694
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,720
100% based upon experience. 
You know how bad it feels for 

695
00:39:15,720 --> 00:39:18,520
your wife to come home and cry 
because she feels unattractive 

696
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:24,000
like that Breaks my heart. 
I've I've I've been through 

697
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:29,520
watching her cry and feel 
unattractive and what's wrong 

698
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:32,840
with me? 
And we went through so much for 

699
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,160
so many different years. 
And unfortunately when I say 

700
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,560
it's your responsibility, you as
one man to another. 

701
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,680
Nobody's job is to please my 
wife but my own. 

702
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,240
And I will do whatever it takes 
to make sure she leaves her 

703
00:39:45,240 --> 00:39:47,360
happy. 
My ego is not bigger than my 

704
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:51,800
wife's pleasure period. 
Like we like it got to the point

705
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:56,080
where when we play with other 
couples, I I would never pull my

706
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:58,200
Dick out first. 
I would never start fucking till

707
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:02,000
she was already fucking. 
This is this is multiple times 

708
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,440
of her being upset multiple 
times with some guy wanting to 

709
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,600
play with her. 
And then we start and I start 

710
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,240
playing with his wife. 
Then I just said, fuck it, I'm 

711
00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:10,800
going to let you play by 
yourself. 

712
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,320
She like threesomes. 
We invite a guy over. 

713
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,400
I come down the room, he's rock 
hard. 

714
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,080
I'll pull my Dick out start 
playing with her. 

715
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,920
Now he's soft and limp. 
Now he goes home. 

716
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:22,360
She comes upstairs. 
Daddy was wrong with me. 

717
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,200
That's that's the. 
That's terrible to me. 

718
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,160
So when I say it's your 
responsibility, you don't have 

719
00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:31,000
to understand it, but he 
understands. 

720
00:40:31,240 --> 00:40:34,920
He understands. 
At the end of this week, I want 

721
00:40:34,920 --> 00:40:37,840
my wife to go home satiated and 
happy. 

722
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,520
So I will do whatever it takes. 
I will go through whatever I 

723
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,200
will. 
Yeah, she won't be satiated, but

724
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:53,680
that that's kind of where where 
I say like, I remember, like you

725
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:55,120
listen to the podcast we've 
talked about. 

726
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:59,320
I can remember her going on a 
date and the guy coming in like 

727
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:03,040
30 seconds and she getting in 
the car and calling me breaking 

728
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:08,880
into tears. 
So now it's what am I doing 

729
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,320
wrong? 
And I, and I'm a man, I 

730
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,240
understand this. 
So my mentality is this. 

731
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,120
Right now my wife can float all 
around Mocha because over the 

732
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,640
last couple years I have made 
sure I've shaken as many hands 

733
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,640
as I can. 
I've talked to many people as I 

734
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,280
can. 
I laughed and joked with as many

735
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,400
people as I can. 
I have like, I have a thing 

736
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:30,800
where I will go up to a guy and 
just say hey, just to let you 

737
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,400
know, the wife finds you 
attractive. 

738
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:36,240
So when you see us together 
later, feel free to come over 

739
00:41:37,160 --> 00:41:40,080
all of a sudden, yeah, all of a 
sudden doing. 

740
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:41,320
That last? 
Night. 

741
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,080
Well, no, no, I get it. 
And still no one would fuck me 

742
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:45,480
now how many you know how many 
years? 

743
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:46,960
Because I was. 
Still in the dungeon? 

744
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,680
Yeah, but so for me, there was 
many years and lots of tears and

745
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:56,280
lots of trial and error to where
now I have learned where we go 

746
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,040
to a new place. 
You have some guys like we'll 

747
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:03,200
get lucky, but we'll get guys 
like him or you or who walk up 

748
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,360
and just start talking to me and
talking to my wife. 

749
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:08,160
But the one thing you will 
notice, even if a guy comes and 

750
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,960
talk to your wife, he keeps 
doing this to you. 

751
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,120
You. 
Know what that is? 

752
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:15,960
That's the constant threat right
there. 

753
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:18,720
OK, I'm going to speak to her 
and look, is it OK? 

754
00:42:18,720 --> 00:42:21,680
Speak to her and look, is it OK?
Speak to her and look, is it OK?

755
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:28,280
That's what we do. 
So my advice over the time, like

756
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,240
there's no question that you're 
an attractive woman. 

757
00:42:30,240 --> 00:42:32,320
There's no question. 
And you've actually got a good 

758
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:35,880
personality, you know, once you 
get past all the prickly knife 

759
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,600
poking, you know, you know, I 
got a couple scabs. 

760
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:42,840
But I'm good, you know? 
Yeah, you. 

761
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,680
See mine, I'm in the same 
situation, but that's what I was

762
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,960
saying. 
I know that the delivery, Oh my 

763
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,680
God, listen, my my boys keep me 
humble. 

764
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,080
They don't let me get away with 
shit. 

765
00:42:53,880 --> 00:43:00,320
I mean, but so, so I think over 
time and once people get to know

766
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:05,480
you and you start to really get 
into the circle, that'll all go 

767
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,840
away. 
You know, once they know, like, 

768
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,280
oh, yeah, he's cool. 
And like he said, because him 

769
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:15,960
and I've had this conversation, 
you don't realize that I'm just 

770
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:18,120
as nervous about rejection as 
you are. 

771
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:25,680
Like I look at these attractive 
women here and I am not 

772
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:29,280
guaranteed to be successful. 
She has a whole plethora of 

773
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:32,920
guys. 
So for me, I'm nervous, I'm 

774
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,720
concerned. 
I want to make sure that I am 

775
00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:41,200
pressed and I'm not guaranteed. 
So there's a lot of stress in me

776
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,200
coming up to you. 
And you're saying to yourself, 

777
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,960
why the fuck? 
Why won't they come up to me? 

778
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,680
And I'm saying to myself, man, 
man, I hope the guy like the 

779
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:51,160
husband gives me like a sign. 
Just just. 

780
00:43:51,720 --> 00:43:54,000
But what happens when they are 
giving? 

781
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:56,120
You. 
What happens when they are 

782
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,480
directly saying hey you can go 
fuck her, still don't? 

783
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,640
Listen, we're going to bring, I 
told you, we're going to bring 

784
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:15,400
you some better guys. 
I knew I will say this. 

785
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:24,960
It raised itself. 
I'm out, so I will say. 

786
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:29,640
This. 
I apologize, I am selected on 

787
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:34,240
who I'm like, I'm not just 
saying like, hey, it's a fucking

788
00:44:34,240 --> 00:44:38,200
buffet, like come on, I'm open. 
You know, I am selective. 

789
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:40,560
I will say that. 
And so it has. 

790
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,480
I think that's where he's 
because he's like, I don't know 

791
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:45,200
who you're feeling or who you're
not. 

792
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:50,120
So I've had to learn that and 
myself and take that lesson and 

793
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:54,200
say, OK, because he if it were 
up to him and I let him have 

794
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,440
full reign of like, Hey, you 
make the calls. 

795
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,720
He would have a fucking guys 
like coming out our door, like 

796
00:45:01,720 --> 00:45:05,440
our room, just a revolving door.
It would be he'd be like, yes, 

797
00:45:05,520 --> 00:45:09,400
go take it. 
But the thing for me, so like I 

798
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:13,360
I've done a few content things 
where I've gone by myself and 

799
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:18,320
like just shot content and he 
stayed at the house and you 

800
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,600
know, he's like just come back 
to me, blah, blah, blah. 

801
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,680
Like that's a huge turn on for 
for me. 

802
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:26,160
I don't like it that much. 
I don't like playing without him

803
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:31,560
watching because for me the turn
on like is when I'm fucking 

804
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,920
someone and I'm seeing how 
turned on he is. 

805
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:40,000
It's my people pleasing nature. 
It just like it makes me even 

806
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,200
more excited and like I really 
want to get into cuz I see how 

807
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:47,520
turned on he is and that makes 
me like I guess a slight 

808
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:50,680
performative thing. 
I don't know it, but it's to me 

809
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:54,160
doesn't feel performative 
because it's like a safety thing

810
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,560
where it's like, oh, I feel like
I'm going to lose myself in this

811
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,240
fuck session right now because I
see how turned on he is and that

812
00:46:00,240 --> 00:46:04,720
makes me even more turned on. 
I don't necessarily like I've 

813
00:46:04,720 --> 00:46:08,120
done it a few times like going. 
He would somebody that we're 

814
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,200
very close. 
With yeah, like he's like, hey, 

815
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:13,280
if I know the dude, like I'm 
totally cool with you going, 

816
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,000
meeting him at a hotel, fucking 
coming back. 

817
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,800
And that's just not it for me. 
Like I'm not really. 

818
00:46:18,800 --> 00:46:21,880
In at home with that tingly 
feeling in your stomach he 

819
00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:22,600
loves. 
It. 

820
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:25,640
We were talking about yesterday 
about, you know, it feels like a

821
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,040
roller coaster. 
Yeah, bro. 

822
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,840
I mean it's. 
Yeah, that's what I like about. 

823
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,280
It you get to, you get to swim 
in a different level of emotions

824
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:36,600
when your wife is off playing or
going there and once you embrace

825
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,200
them and misses Mocha, you guys 
are your, your story is very 

826
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:44,160
similar. 
And there's this we, we went 

827
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:45,720
through, we we've gone through a
lot. 

828
00:46:45,720 --> 00:46:48,320
We've been through a lot. 
And with my wife, like I'm a 

829
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,680
very logical person, which 
sometimes maker wants to punch 

830
00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,440
me in the face. 
So like with her, I'll say, OK, 

831
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:57,480
honey, if we go to a place and 
there are 125 men there, there's

832
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,160
only about 30 that you want to 
fuck, OK? 

833
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,840
And not a 30 that you want to 
fuck, OK? 

834
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,320
When you're in the mood for me 
to watch, only about half of 

835
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:07,760
those guys going to be 
comfortable when you're 

836
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,360
watching, when you in the mood 
for me to join, OK, Only 1/4 of 

837
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,440
those guys. 
Now those guys that you tend to 

838
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:19,680
want are going to be the the top
tier guys that everybody wants. 

839
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:26,240
So now you're in a situation 
where like for you, if you're 

840
00:47:26,240 --> 00:47:30,200
saying, man, the guys that I 
want aren't available, No, the 

841
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,040
guys that you want aren't 
available because you're 

842
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:35,840
attracted to a guy like that. 
OK, You're attracted to a guy 

843
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:39,640
who's used to getting what he 
wants for the most part. 

844
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,120
So that means all the guys that 
you're attracted to are going to

845
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,640
be more like him. 
So that means that you have to 

846
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:48,760
understand what you're trying to
get and what you're attracted to

847
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:52,440
and then realize that in this 
environment, because the 

848
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:55,440
environment makes a big 
difference and the timing was. 

849
00:47:55,720 --> 00:47:57,640
A good thing this morning. 
That was a good point. 

850
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,840
Timing and environment. 
In this environment, as 

851
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:08,920
attractive as you are, No, I'm 
stop calling you attractive. 

852
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,760
Well, not you. 
Her, Her, her, her, her. 

853
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:20,480
Attractive as she is. 
You know and attractive as the 

854
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,880
ladies are here, you have to 
understand this there's. 

855
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:28,040
A lot of beautiful females. 
Here I, I, if I come to you 

856
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,760
being the kind of person I am, 
I'm going to come to you humbly 

857
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,360
when I want to play with you 
because I feel like what I'm 

858
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:39,200
asking for and what I'm offering
are of equal value. 

859
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:44,840
I am not going to downplay your 
value because I know that I'm 

860
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,720
only attracted to a small 
percentage of ladies here. 

861
00:48:47,720 --> 00:48:49,760
And that means everybody's going
to be attracted to them. 

862
00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:55,280
And when it comes to that, if I 
come to you and say, hey, I 

863
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,720
would really like to play with 
you, I am nervous. 

864
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:01,800
And if you give me a bunch of 
Flack now outside the people 

865
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,560
like the like, if I know you 
like all everybody who I know 

866
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:06,880
they're smart asses, they're 
going to like, it's always 

867
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:09,560
bantering. 
But if I just met you and you 

868
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,600
make me feel like I need to 
worship you to play with you, go

869
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:15,920
fuck yourself. 
Not you, not. 

870
00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:16,520
You. 
But. 

871
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:21,160
I thought. 
You were bow down to the. 

872
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,880
Superior penis I shall lay like 
penis on upon the table. 

873
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,800
She kicked me in the nuts. 
If I tried that, I'm not going 

874
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:33,600
to do that. 
I noticed a movie this 

875
00:49:33,720 --> 00:49:38,280
conversation first started. 
It was a it was it was opposite 

876
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,160
on the on the base side. 
But as y'all got to talking I 

877
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:44,000
realized that y'all both said 
the same thing. 

878
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:48,240
You know what I'm saying? 
You said your own daughter feels

879
00:49:48,240 --> 00:49:50,560
protective because of her 
because y'all pit bull because 

880
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,840
it's so fucking big. 
I'm scared of animals like all 

881
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:56,880
of them so but. 
When the. 

882
00:49:57,040 --> 00:50:02,640
Daughter is scared of bulls too.
Score everything when your 

883
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:08,400
daughter's with the dog, there's
No Fear factor and that's OK. 

884
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,880
But you said the exact same 
thing because when you was in 

885
00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,960
the hood and you went to the 
store and if you wasn't with 

886
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,240
him, you're going to be on the 
phone with him because you 

887
00:50:19,240 --> 00:50:21,640
understand that hey, my 
protector is not here. 

888
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,840
But when he was there, you 
walking around, bumping into 

889
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,320
walls, you. 
Know. 

890
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,640
What? 
I'm saying because. 

891
00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,040
You know, so it goes back to my 
SO, then it goes back to this, 

892
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:35,800
but y'all both agreeing and 
y'all always disagree and y'all 

893
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:37,880
still agree but it goes back to 
this. 

894
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:42,640
When I see you, could you keep a
smile on your face and you're 

895
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,320
fucking beautiful. 
I would have sex with you. 

896
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,000
Every last compliment she gets. 
No more. 

897
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:48,680
You had enough. 
Look at her head. 

898
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:51,360
I can't even move. 
Get your head off me. 

899
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,160
I would do something bad to you 
everyday in front of him. 

900
00:50:54,720 --> 00:50:57,440
The problem is this is. 
Your. 

901
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:00,720
This is your protector like he's
his wife protector. 

902
00:51:01,040 --> 00:51:04,080
So at the end of the day, no 
matter what guy, I don't care if

903
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:08,080
they they could be Brock Lester,
they're still going to take the 

904
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:16,240
time to say is it OK with you? 
Now his problem is he has a it 

905
00:51:16,240 --> 00:51:18,760
doesn't matter face. 
He's just like. 

906
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:21,280
Yeah, who? 
Who wants that face? 

907
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:23,120
Staring at him when you're 
trying to get hurt, you're 

908
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:25,520
trying to get an erection and 
this guy's over he. 

909
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,320
Looks like he's going to beat 
you with a. 

910
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:29,840
Guitar not going to work if you 
do the whole thing. 

911
00:51:31,720 --> 00:51:33,520
You might get hit with. 
A. 

912
00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:35,880
Flute upside the head. 
You know how you want to I've. 

913
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:42,920
Been looking at this. 
But that's but that's us that 

914
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,080
you, you're going to have a 
small percentage of guys here 

915
00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:47,040
who are going to be comfortable 
walking up to him, having a 

916
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,040
conversation, talking to her. 
And then even her personality, 

917
00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,080
her personality is similar to my
wife's personality. 

918
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,960
No, I like strong personalities.
I'll talk to you for a few 

919
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:58,160
seconds. 
I've talked to you. 

920
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:01,640
I mean, even the blushing shy 
when there, I've heard her when 

921
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,000
she engages, she knows what's on
her mind. 

922
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:08,320
I'm attracted to that. 
So the problem is not the 

923
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:09,600
problem. 
The beauty is. 

924
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:14,120
I understand that you reduce the
playing field for yourself 

925
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,000
because you don't want a weak 
guy. 

926
00:52:16,240 --> 00:52:18,280
You're not going to be turned on
by a weak guy. 

927
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,400
You would have been turned off 
by me. 

928
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,160
No, I can't do wet blanket. 
Yeah. 

929
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,840
If you don't have a backbone, if
you can't talk shit and banter 

930
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:29,640
with me like. 
She came and attacked me and she

931
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:32,280
was trying to see if I would 
back that shit up when she saw 

932
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:35,120
me in person. 
She was waiting for, oh, she was

933
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:35,480
red. 
She was. 

934
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,920
She hit me. 
You, the military, this is. 

935
00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:44,080
A question to you, all right, so
you've been doing this right. 

936
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,360
This is you missed the mocha for
a reason. 

937
00:52:46,480 --> 00:52:49,120
You did, so you've been doing. 
It's been. 

938
00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:53,080
Nice to me. 
My father like this is this is 

939
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,000
what I've been going through 
since I've been here. 

940
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:59,760
A couple will say, hey, are you 
available at 2:00? 

941
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:03,720
I'll say yes. 
Then another couple will say, 

942
00:53:03,760 --> 00:53:07,000
hey, are you available at 2:00? 
And I'll say yes. 

943
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,880
And then the third couple will 
say, hey, are you available at 

944
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,720
2:00? 
And I'll be like, yes. 

945
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:14,800
And you make you give us all the
bad God damn name. 

946
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,920
Lock that shit off. 
You had a guy. 

947
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,440
You guys. 
You guys your Dick doing the 

948
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:26,800
scheduling, but that's my Dick 
wrote you in here and it wrote 

949
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:29,400
you in there. 
I've had that with a guy that 

950
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:35,400
has like he wanted to meet me in
2022 and this whole like he was 

951
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,040
like, I'm never going to meet 
you, blah, blah. 

952
00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,880
And I'm like, dude, I literally 
am in your face right here right

953
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,600
now and you're with another 
couple. 

954
00:53:45,720 --> 00:53:48,680
I'm not going to like just be an
asshole and come up to you and 

955
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:52,000
be like, when I sit here with a 
couple and you're going to go do

956
00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:54,560
your thing. 
I would never try to step on 

957
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:58,320
somebody's, you know, that has 
something lined up, but he's 

958
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,960
like what He's like, I guess 
we're just over going to and I'm

959
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:04,120
like, dude, that's on you. 
I've told you, I'm here, I am 

960
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:08,600
available and then your your 
ghost for you know, and then 

961
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:11,640
it's like 30 minutes, an hour 
later and then I've already got 

962
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:15,200
something lined up. 
Now I will say we have ourselves

963
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:18,800
more so him thinking with your 
Dick, he'll double book. 

964
00:54:18,800 --> 00:54:21,600
He'll be like, Yep, she's down. 
Yep, Yep, come on. 

965
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:24,040
And then he's like, oh fuck, 
double book. 

966
00:54:27,640 --> 00:54:30,360
Like. 
But that's the other thing is a 

967
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,960
lot of guys we've met so far 
this this, this time around are 

968
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:37,800
not like with having other guys 
join like they want just a 

969
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,720
single like just them, just. 
The first time, just the first 

970
00:54:40,720 --> 00:54:45,480
time. 
Some guys you know. 

971
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:52,720
No some. 
No, so, so to answer your 

972
00:54:52,720 --> 00:54:56,600
question, I would say this, 
there are, there are a lot of 

973
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,280
people here and you're going to 
want to play with a lot of 

974
00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:02,480
people. 
I I am very careful to not 

975
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,200
schedule a time. 
I know there are people who I 

976
00:55:05,200 --> 00:55:08,320
would like to play with, but 
timing is always off. 

977
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,600
Like if if you just finish, if 
she just finished playing, she 

978
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,960
may want time to to rest, 
rehydrate, you know, definitely 

979
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:19,720
take a shower for playing with 
me because I don't want, you 

980
00:55:19,720 --> 00:55:23,160
know, but but often times while 
you're playing, she's not. 

981
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,400
And then like I said, you know, 
we only got so many bullets in 

982
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:26,360
the gun. 
OK. 

983
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,120
You know, they have renewable 
resources. 

984
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:32,160
You know, we don't, you know, 
they cannot fuck us any day of 

985
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,080
the week. 
Like that's not a competition we

986
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:38,160
should try to engage in, you 
know, and then you you have to 

987
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,200
choose. 
Do I want to be the guy who 

988
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,440
shows up to a woman who I really
want to play with? 

989
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,040
And I'm trying to push limp Dick
in her. 

990
00:55:44,240 --> 00:55:48,920
And now the worst thing is this.
It's not even about your ego. 

991
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:51,680
Now you have this poor woman 
walking around questioning 

992
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,280
herself. 
Now she's thinking, is it me? 

993
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,480
It's the young. 
Ones that I have had. 

994
00:55:56,480 --> 00:55:58,840
Horrible. 
Luck with because I'm like 

995
00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:00,760
putting in some fucking. 
Work like. 

996
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,880
They that you're attractive, 
they want to have sex with you, 

997
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:06,400
their Dick is dead, but in their
mind they're like. 

998
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,760
Maybe you need to give the old. 
College try and then they go in 

999
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:11,440
there and it don't work so 
they're. 

1000
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,440
Getting a forever, I mean. 
I don't, but I'll. 

1001
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,000
Look over at him and I'm like. 
Don't do that shit to my. 

1002
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:17,160
Wife, I see that face. 
I'm like. 

1003
00:56:17,520 --> 00:56:19,360
Yeah, I've been putting some 
work in here. 

1004
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:23,640
It's always the older the older 
guys are like it seems like they

1005
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,840
seem more self aware of their 
limits like what you just 

1006
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:28,080
described. 
Because I'm an older guy. 

1007
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:32,280
Like you know the old saying you
got 2 bulls, the young bull and 

1008
00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:36,640
the big bull the and then the 
young bull run down the hill to 

1009
00:56:36,720 --> 00:56:39,760
try to try to get get some but 
then the big boys. 

1010
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:41,600
Walk down and fuck them off. 
Walk down. 

1011
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,520
Because. 
You're going to wet yourself out

1012
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,600
trying to run. 
And then also the question is 

1013
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,200
like, we all have a different 
motivation here. 

1014
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:53,400
Like we one of the fellows and I
talked, there's a lady who we 

1015
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,920
both seen we both want to play 
with and she's only a group sex 

1016
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,840
person. 
That's not me. 

1017
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:06,120
I I have AI can't fuck with ATV 
on like I'll be fucking and I'll

1018
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:07,360
hear something on the nature 
channel. 

1019
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:09,000
Like what that bird dive did you
go to? 

1020
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:13,200
Mouth Dick's gone. 
Dick is gone. 

1021
00:57:13,240 --> 00:57:18,240
I was enjoying the flogging but 
like I having ADHD like that's 

1022
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,160
why I was like I want to be 
blindfolded so I could like 

1023
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:24,080
really like get into the sensory
play and I was enjoying flogging

1024
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:28,440
was awesome but I couldn't fully
like engrossed myself in the 

1025
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,360
experience because I hear his 
loud ass laughing like just 

1026
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:32,880
hanging. 
I'm just like. 

1027
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:35,240
Yeah, come back tonight. 
He'll get you some. 

1028
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,240
He'll get you some ear for ear. 
Plugs or headphones, not the. 

1029
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,160
Same way I can't like and so 
I'm. 

1030
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:43,520
Fucking I don't. 
Care what it is, if something 

1031
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,920
off the topic be heard, I'm 
like. 

1032
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:48,600
Wait, what? 
Was that. 

1033
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,320
And then with me, with my This 
is where my arrogance comes in. 

1034
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:55,320
But my arrogance is this. 
If I'm not the best person she's

1035
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,640
ever had sex with, that's fine, 
but I'm damn sure you're not 

1036
00:57:57,640 --> 00:57:59,680
going to be the worst. 
OK, who? 

1037
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:01,640
Are. 
You talking? 

1038
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:06,080
About. 
We still have negotiation. 

1039
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:08,360
To go into you and I, you've 
hurt my feelings. 

1040
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:09,480
I want to wrestle. 
Oh, this is going. 

1041
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:11,280
To be. 
Fun. 

1042
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,040
I've got back problems on this. 
I'm not wrestling you. 

1043
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:18,680
So, so if your motivation is to,
to, to take care of her and do a

1044
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,880
good job, because like I said, 
we're going to go back to how I 

1045
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,280
feel about my wife. 
He will tell you the first time 

1046
00:58:24,280 --> 00:58:26,920
he played with my wife, I came, 
gave him a hug, slapped him up, 

1047
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,480
was like, hey, man, I'm a little
worried at first, a little 

1048
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:32,560
worried, but you came through. 
She came out happy because my 

1049
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:35,040
wife is, she cannot lie with her
face. 

1050
00:58:35,440 --> 00:58:41,200
She's a bad liar. 
She came out she's like now we 

1051
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,560
friends. 
That's what that's that's what I

1052
00:58:43,560 --> 00:58:45,720
want everybody to experience 
when I touch them and I know 

1053
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,760
that I'm not going to be able to
do that if I fuck too many 

1054
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,880
times. 
There's women who I want to play

1055
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:53,960
with this mocha, but it's not 
going to happen because if the 

1056
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,840
bullet if the guns out of 
bullets, I'm not going to go in 

1057
00:58:56,840 --> 00:59:00,080
there and push, push rope. 
You know, I'm very particular 

1058
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:02,360
about myself. 
I tell people if I give you my 

1059
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,240
number and we decide to play, 
you need to give me 20 minutes. 

1060
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:06,760
I'm going to go shower. 
I'm not bringing. 

1061
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,160
I'm not bringing, you know, used
balls to your room or you know, 

1062
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:12,760
extra salty. 
I have a whole procedure. 

1063
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,360
My wife is the same way. 
My wife is not going to. 

1064
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,760
My wife is going to clean 
herself up when she goes in. 

1065
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,680
She knows me personally. 
Don't make me look bad because 

1066
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,120
I'm not going to make you look 
bad if you not up for fucking. 

1067
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:25,440
Don't go in there and fuck that 
man. 

1068
00:59:25,440 --> 00:59:28,000
Go in and blow his mind. 
If you have that mentality, 

1069
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,840
you're not going to double book,
you're not going to double 

1070
00:59:29,840 --> 00:59:31,120
schedule. 
You're not going to over fuck 

1071
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:34,880
yourself because otherwise 
what's the point. 

1072
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:37,520
And believe you me, if you get 
my wife some lame Dick she going

1073
00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:38,640
to tell her friends. 
It's game. 

1074
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:47,280
Yeah, I'm bad. 
She going to tell no see but now

1075
00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:49,600
but see after years that's her 
version of. 

1076
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,560
Telling because if he give out 
some good, some supreme pain, 

1077
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:55,160
she's like Oh my. 
God the Dick was so good he hit 

1078
00:59:55,160 --> 01:00:01,200
me the head with twice. 
What if they had like a bad day 

1079
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:04,000
that day or you know, whatever. 
Like you always get like one 

1080
01:00:04,000 --> 01:00:05,680
time. 
If you give me one time a bad 

1081
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,400
day, that's cool. 
We can still try again. 

1082
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:09,680
You couldn't say that about me. 
I always give people a show 

1083
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,800
because there may be a day that 
Mister Mochas went in and had 

1084
01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,760
some fine ass chick and he comes
out and he's like, I'm having a 

1085
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,120
malfunction. 
I'm mad at him. 

1086
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,720
I'm like, what the fuck you're 
representing? 

1087
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:22,640
Us. 
And I'll tell her, I'll tell her

1088
01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:25,360
I'm not going to sit there with 
a limp Dick for 20 minutes. 

1089
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:28,360
I'm going to say, hey, I'm 
sorry, you know, I'm not 

1090
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:32,960
functioning at the moment. 
You know, if if I feel better 

1091
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,160
later and you're willing to give
me another chance, please do. 

1092
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,760
If not, I understand. 
I'm not about to sit there 

1093
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,360
because we've been there where 
some guy sitting there trying to

1094
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:44,000
push rope for 20 minutes like 
and now she was she giving me 

1095
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,880
the side. 
I like, get him off me and I'm 

1096
01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:48,920
like, all right. 
Buddy, that's some awkward shit.

1097
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,560
Oh yeah. 
But maybe that's something when 

1098
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:55,040
you guys have these, I mean, 
I'm, I'm, I don't know what 

1099
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,520
y'all talk about when you guys 
have the, the single guy like 

1100
01:00:57,520 --> 01:01:00,520
meeting that needs to like, I 
get the communication because 

1101
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:04,080
we've also talked about this, 
which is the thing about I told 

1102
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:08,320
him this. 
I said the thing I find like and

1103
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:12,440
funny about the lifestyles you 
get on any podcast and what is 

1104
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,880
the number one topic lifestyle 
people talk about all day long 

1105
01:01:16,240 --> 01:01:19,160
and they preach this shit. 
Communication, communication, 

1106
01:01:19,240 --> 01:01:23,880
but communication, talking about
it and practicing it is two 

1107
01:01:23,880 --> 01:01:27,440
different things. 
And single guys, couples, 

1108
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:32,080
whatever your dynamic is, it's 
very interesting because this 

1109
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,760
couple or this single guy might 
be like you and be very self 

1110
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:40,920
aware, know his limits, feel 
comfortable expressing, hey, I 

1111
01:01:40,920 --> 01:01:43,920
can't give you what I want to. 
I am interested in you. 

1112
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,640
This is nothing against you. 
Like hit me up tomorrow, 

1113
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,360
whatever. 
Or this couple might be, you 

1114
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:52,280
know, great communicators and 
then they get with someone 

1115
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:56,160
that's like trying to push that.
You know, I just find it 

1116
01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:59,280
interesting that all these 
lifestyle podcasts and people 

1117
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,320
have been in the lifestyle for 
years and years and years. 

1118
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:07,360
They talk about it, but what 
we've witnessed is in practice, 

1119
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:12,000
they'll be preaching about it, 
but actually practicing it. 

1120
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:15,000
You see the like 
miscommunications. 

1121
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:18,720
You see the little things if 
you're an observant person, but 

1122
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:24,520
with the single guys to that 
point is them being more like 

1123
01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:27,960
telling them hey, especially the
younger ones, if it's not 

1124
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,560
happening, you need to like you 
need to be the one to say hey 

1125
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,680
right now is not the time, blah 
blah blah. 

1126
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:37,200
Like because I feel like they 
don't they can't read the room. 

1127
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,400
Someone in the chat said that 
they were like, I just think in 

1128
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:43,080
general in society people have a
hard time reading the fucking 

1129
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:44,680
room. 
That's true. 

1130
01:02:44,760 --> 01:02:49,000
That being said, though, you, 
you're putting a broad spectrum 

1131
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,760
into one situation. 
You know what I'm saying to? 

1132
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:56,520
I'm not saying the single guys 
or the young guys, but your, 

1133
01:02:56,520 --> 01:03:00,480
your, your comment is based off 
of a situation. 

1134
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:06,320
Because I promise you, Mr. Mocha
or myself, if we can't, I'm just

1135
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:08,720
going to be like, hey, you know 
I can't do it, right? 

1136
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:09,960
Now, but we. 
Would appreciate. 

1137
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:11,520
That we would appreciate. 
That we are. 

1138
01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:12,960
A small. 
Percentage We are a. 

1139
01:03:12,960 --> 01:03:15,480
Small percentage. 
But she's speaking on a small 

1140
01:03:15,480 --> 01:03:17,360
percentage. 
No, no, she no, she believe it 

1141
01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:19,520
or not, in my opinion, she's 
speaking on a large percentage 

1142
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:23,000
and to the communication point. 
No one wants to take 

1143
01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,880
responsibility for 
communication, OK. 

1144
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:30,720
That's why in my opinion, it's 
the husband's job, because it's 

1145
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:32,280
my job to make sure my wife is 
happy. 

1146
01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:34,960
My wife come here and get Dick. 
It ain't none of your job to 

1147
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,800
please my wife. 
You are going to give her some 

1148
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:43,640
pleasure but it's my job to make
sure she's good and my 

1149
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:45,960
household. 
Everything is my responsibility 

1150
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:50,120
from the dishes to the God damn 
feeding and education of the 

1151
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:53,840
kids. 
How I was delegated is one thing

1152
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:59,360
but her pleasure is my job and I
will do whatever it takes. 

1153
01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:05,360
So that being said, that's why I
say I put it on the husband. 

1154
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:09,600
Me and Michael see the basis all
the time because if my wife come

1155
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,560
in here and she leaves unhappy, 
you know who she mad at? 

1156
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:16,720
You know who suffer? 
She say I ain't mad at you 

1157
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,960
daddy, but I got to look at her 
face. 

1158
01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,240
He laughing because he know 
right Dick. 

1159
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,440
You know when she come home and 
she upset because somebody gave 

1160
01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:27,600
her some lame Dick, you know who
suffered this guy. 

1161
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:32,320
So now what I do is I make sure 
when we go to the clubs, you 

1162
01:04:32,320 --> 01:04:35,280
know, I have my my little things
that I do. 

1163
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,280
There's certain guys when I read
the guy, there's certain guys. 

1164
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:41,040
I got to step back, you know, 
just like with you. 

1165
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:43,240
Like when you came in, I was 
joking with you, messing with 

1166
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,000
you about that. 
I know I can joke with you. 

1167
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,440
We've been poking each other 
randomly the whole time. 

1168
01:04:47,440 --> 01:04:50,600
I know I can do that. 
My job is to learn to read the 

1169
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:52,160
guys. 
That's what I do. 

1170
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:56,080
I learn to read the couples 
because I would much rather have

1171
01:04:56,080 --> 01:05:00,320
no sex here and let her fuck 
everybody she wants to then her 

1172
01:05:00,320 --> 01:05:03,960
go home with that disappointed 
look in her face so nobody wants

1173
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:05,440
to take. 
And you're right, communication 

1174
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:08,200
is the worst thing within a 
lifestyle because everybody 

1175
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,640
wants someone else to be 
responsible for communicating. 

1176
01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,000
I don't need nobody to 
communicate with my Dick. 

1177
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,240
Where'd he go? 
Because it goes back to what you

1178
01:05:15,280 --> 01:05:17,000
just said, goes back to what he 
just said. 

1179
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:22,080
Because there's some people that
you can talk to and you don't. 

1180
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:24,200
You don't know because I know 
me. 

1181
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:28,040
You know her, she knows you, but
I'm that third. 

1182
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:30,440
But I don't know y'all. 
Yeah, and it's two against one. 

1183
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:31,640
It's two of y'all. 
It's. 

1184
01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,720
One of me. 
I don't know what to say. 

1185
01:05:33,720 --> 01:05:36,240
I don't know what to say and or 
how to say it. 

1186
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:39,160
So if you beat me down in the 
lobby and you say hey, let's go 

1187
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:42,440
to our room and fuck now my 
eagle going to say hell yeah, 

1188
01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:45,560
we're going to go upstairs. 
Then my Dick don't get up. 

1189
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:47,080
I don't know how to leave the 
room. 

1190
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:53,320
I'm like, well damn. 
So something motherfucker, 

1191
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:56,080
eventually it's going to do 
something. 

1192
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:57,160
I mean. 
Maybe. 

1193
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:58,720
It might not get all the way to 
Harvard. 

1194
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:00,160
We're going to get you 
something, you know what I'm 

1195
01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,840
saying? 
So with that, it's like going 

1196
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:06,080
back to what he says, it's hard 
for the guy who goes, who's the 

1197
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:10,320
outcast to interact and 
entertain and even say anything 

1198
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,600
because what you going to say? 
You know, it's like, my bad Sir,

1199
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:17,520
my bad, ma'am. 
I don't want to say that. 

1200
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,120
But it's just as uncomfortable 
for the female to speak up if 

1201
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:23,080
she can't or she's not feeling 
it. 

1202
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,680
Like there's been times I've 
been playing with guys and I'm 

1203
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:28,560
like, I don't know if he took 
something because he's going 

1204
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:30,280
really hard. 
He's going really long and I 

1205
01:06:30,280 --> 01:06:32,080
can't take it. 
I don't know how to speak up in 

1206
01:06:32,080 --> 01:06:35,800
that situation. 
Well, that's easy for you to say

1207
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:37,720
in perspective. 
God's like that, though. 

1208
01:06:37,720 --> 01:06:40,000
God's like one female step out. 
They be like, oh, she's got that

1209
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,400
well. 
But females don't necessarily 

1210
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:44,440
know that, and not everybody's 
the same way. 

1211
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:48,680
So it's kind of like we all have
to get to the point where we can

1212
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:52,040
be in that uncomfortable space 
and speak up because at the end 

1213
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,320
of the day, we all are 
uncomfortable. 

1214
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:56,840
You know what I do? 
I actually say that I'm going to

1215
01:06:56,840 --> 01:06:59,360
pee and then take a few deep 
breaths. 

1216
01:06:59,360 --> 01:07:01,480
I usually do pee. 
I could pee anytime of the day. 

1217
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:04,920
And then like I just go back in 
the room. 

1218
01:07:04,920 --> 01:07:07,280
Like OK Ari, like can we take a 
break? 

1219
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:08,880
Like maybe we can come back to 
it later. 

1220
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,240
Especially if I've sucked the 
Dick or something till my face 

1221
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:14,760
freaking hurts because that's 
happened a few times because I 

1222
01:07:14,760 --> 01:07:16,600
like a challenge. 
So that's cool. 

1223
01:07:16,600 --> 01:07:18,400
I'll sit here and suck it for 30
minutes. 

1224
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:21,320
Hopefully it gets hard, but 
that's your time limit when you 

1225
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:25,800
hit 29 minute, one more minute 
and then we're going to be done.

1226
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:28,040
But I try not to make it awkward
for anybody. 

1227
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:31,880
I just say like maybe we can do 
this later, like or don't say 

1228
01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:34,320
anything at all and start 
putting my clothes back on like 

1229
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:36,200
no big deal. 
I mean it's going to be I feel 

1230
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,520
like it's going to be awkward 
either way when that happens 

1231
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,680
because the guys, most guys get 
embarrassed. 

1232
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:44,160
I'm not embarrassed for you 
because I've been married to Mr.

1233
01:07:44,160 --> 01:07:46,760
Mocha for a long time and that 
motherfucker has a finicky 

1234
01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:49,080
penis. 
If there's too many things going

1235
01:07:49,080 --> 01:07:51,400
on in his peripherals, it goes 
down. 

1236
01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,560
If he's in like, great, he won't
do like group play, He won't do 

1237
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:56,720
whatever. 
Something could smell weirder in

1238
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:58,760
the room and he'll be like, oh, 
I couldn't do it because there, 

1239
01:07:59,120 --> 01:08:02,440
because there somebody had wings
in their room and I couldn't 

1240
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:04,360
stand the smell of the wings 
while I was getting my Dick 

1241
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:06,080
sucked. 
I'm like, you're focused on the 

1242
01:08:06,080 --> 01:08:08,800
wrong thing, but that's OK. 
I could fuck in a room full of 

1243
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:10,800
people. 
As long as you know, nobody's 

1244
01:08:10,800 --> 01:08:14,520
touching my asshole, I'm good. 
But I mean, there are ways 

1245
01:08:14,520 --> 01:08:17,720
around it, and it's not for that
in particular for me. 

1246
01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:19,240
It's never comfortable. 
It's not. 

1247
01:08:19,240 --> 01:08:21,920
There's not a comfortable way to
just say like, sorry dude, your 

1248
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:24,040
Dick's not working. 
We don't have to get our Dicks 

1249
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,960
to work. 
So I try to, I don't have a 

1250
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,640
Dick, so I don't have to get 
that to work. 

1251
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:30,880
So I just take it with, well, I 
don't have to do that function. 

1252
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,319
So I mean, the guy may be in his
head. 

1253
01:08:33,319 --> 01:08:36,040
There's been plenty of times I'm
just having sex and I get in my 

1254
01:08:36,040 --> 01:08:38,640
head, you know? 
Yeah, my pussy dries out. 

1255
01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:41,200
Maybe I don't know, but I can 
just put Lube on it doesn't 

1256
01:08:41,200 --> 01:08:42,960
matter. 
I I don't have to have a 

1257
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,000
functioning part, you know, So 
you. 

1258
01:08:45,200 --> 01:08:47,040
Suck my Dick for 30 minutes, I'm
going to sleep. 

1259
01:08:48,240 --> 01:08:50,080
That's what Mr. Mocha does. 
It's OK. 

1260
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:55,000
So say I need you to either fuck
me or suck my Dick till I fall 

1261
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:55,439
asleep. 
OK? 

1262
01:08:56,160 --> 01:08:57,399
No problem. 
No problem. 

1263
01:08:57,399 --> 01:08:59,200
Look, man. 
Look at me. 

1264
01:08:59,200 --> 01:09:01,680
But no. 
Going back to the way beginning 

1265
01:09:01,680 --> 01:09:05,560
when it first started, you are 
you look amazing. 

1266
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:08,920
Thank you. 
I seen you last night once 

1267
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:13,680
again, you like you. 
Are. 

1268
01:09:13,840 --> 01:09:18,479
So you are intimidating and then
it's like my thing is being new 

1269
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,200
to Splash. 
I don't know who knows who. 

1270
01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:25,359
So some people come just for 
their people, you know what I'm 

1271
01:09:25,359 --> 01:09:26,720
saying? 
And that's in my mind like, 

1272
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,040
well, they might be here for the
people they're talking to. 

1273
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:33,439
So when I seen y'all last night,
you all, you were smiling, but 

1274
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:36,040
you were standing. 
There like security guard. 

1275
01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:37,800
I really don't want to be here, 
right So. 

1276
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:40,160
Security guard. 
OK, I'm going to let. 

1277
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:44,319
Them enjoy their people who 
they're talking to already have.

1278
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:46,680
People. 
We're going to fix that, right? 

1279
01:09:47,040 --> 01:09:49,680
No. 
But that with that too, though, 

1280
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:53,040
when they talk in the single 
guide meeting, like one of the 

1281
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:56,000
guys that one of the meetings I 
was actually in, they say don't 

1282
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:58,920
approach the couple, like let 
the girl kind of look at you and

1283
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,840
then you know then so you would 
have to. 

1284
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:04,680
I mean, I just look at a guy 
like steak. 

1285
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:09,120
If I want to have sex with them.
I'm not and I apologize about it

1286
01:10:09,120 --> 01:10:13,360
later because I probably like 
super pervy, But I mean, no, I 

1287
01:10:13,400 --> 01:10:16,160
can't help it. 
That's the. 

1288
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:21,280
Thing is like I can come off as 
very extrovert but like truly in

1289
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:23,600
my like inner core I'm an 
introvert. 

1290
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:29,240
So like, I think that I can give
off mixed signals, like where 

1291
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:33,920
I'm like, Oh yeah, I'm down. 
But like, I'm waiting for the 

1292
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:39,080
guy to be like, you know, hey. 
You just ask because here they 

1293
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:42,160
want, they want like that's what
they told the guys to let the 

1294
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:46,040
couples ask you. 
So there may be some guys here 

1295
01:10:46,040 --> 01:10:49,280
that have been to several, 
several mochas and they will say

1296
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:52,320
like, are you playing, Would you
like to play, blah, blah, blah. 

1297
01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:56,880
But for the most part, I I have 
to advocate for myself, you 

1298
01:10:56,880 --> 01:11:00,480
know, I have to say, can I play 
with your Dick leader after the 

1299
01:11:00,480 --> 01:11:01,480
podcast? 
Maybe. 

1300
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:05,600
And usually like, you know, but 
not even in that way. 

1301
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:06,880
But you know what I mean? 
Like I mean. 

1302
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:09,120
You you can. 
I want to. 

1303
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:11,160
That was the plan. 
I told you after the podcast. 

1304
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:16,120
Sorry, we're all subject. 
But you know, that being said, 

1305
01:11:16,120 --> 01:11:18,720
like I understand your 
perspective, you guys's 

1306
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:22,040
perspective too, Yeah. 
I think that for me, it's like 

1307
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,960
in my single days, I am old 
fashioned in the sense of like, 

1308
01:11:26,960 --> 01:11:31,000
I never pursue men. 
Like I was used to having guys 

1309
01:11:31,000 --> 01:11:34,680
pursue me. 
Like, so coming into life into 

1310
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:37,280
this situation where it's 
typically like you just said, 

1311
01:11:37,480 --> 01:11:41,320
the women are like, hey, if I do
attractive, I want to fuck you, 

1312
01:11:41,400 --> 01:11:44,400
blah, blah, blah. 
Like that's awkward for me 

1313
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:48,240
because I'm a natural introvert 
where I'm like, yeah, I might 

1314
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,880
see someone I want to fuck. 
I'm like, oh, I want to, you 

1315
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:55,920
know, see if that vibe is there,
but like it almost I'm like to 

1316
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:59,080
me last night, how I felt it 
was, I felt like I was like 

1317
01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:03,040
having to beg for Dick, like 
literally opening myself up, 

1318
01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,720
like come fuck me like and 
nobody would. 

1319
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:08,680
Back to what her husband just 
said though. 

1320
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:10,480
That's when you communicate with
him. 

1321
01:12:11,840 --> 01:12:14,680
You communicate with him. 
Because they do also tell them 

1322
01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:18,400
in the meetings that the guys 
you need to talk to the husband 

1323
01:12:18,400 --> 01:12:20,400
first. 
And that was the problem was he 

1324
01:12:20,400 --> 01:12:22,560
was telling guys, hey, you can 
go fuck her. 

1325
01:12:23,480 --> 01:12:27,960
And they still weren't coming. 
Like that's what they thought it

1326
01:12:27,960 --> 01:12:31,000
was some performative piece. 
And that's why I was like, OK, I

1327
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:32,320
get that. 
It's now OK. 

1328
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,960
It's on him to like tell the 
guys like, yes, you can go fuck 

1329
01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:36,280
her. 
She's she's open. 

1330
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:37,600
She's here on this mattress, 
right? 

1331
01:12:37,600 --> 01:12:38,520
But. 
You shouldn't have to. 

1332
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:40,000
You shouldn't have to approach 
the guys. 

1333
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,240
He did that. 
Yeah, yeah, he did that. 

1334
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:45,760
He did that and still nobody can
just. 

1335
01:12:45,760 --> 01:12:49,840
Do a helicopter, do a 
helicopter, put your Dick in her

1336
01:12:49,840 --> 01:12:52,000
mouth. 
And then people will start 

1337
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:53,800
coming over. 
They'll be like, OK, that's just

1338
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,640
another dude that's not even her
husband. 

1339
01:12:55,640 --> 01:12:57,320
And then you can just stop 
calling them. 

1340
01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:59,040
Here you go. 
She's good to go. 

1341
01:12:59,040 --> 01:13:01,240
You just need. 
A few minutes with this mania 

1342
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:04,320
and. 
I got you, you just got to tell 

1343
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,280
me you want to fuck. 
Good at giving references then. 

1344
01:13:07,720 --> 01:13:09,800
You'll get annoyed because 
everybody will think that you're

1345
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:12,160
their best friend because she's 
everybody's best friend. 

1346
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,120
So her friends generally are 
like, oh, you want to smoke? 

1347
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,120
Like hey. 
Put y'all a royalty in this 

1348
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:18,440
motherfucker. 
There's no such thing. 

1349
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:21,400
There's no such thing. 
Yeah. 

1350
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,240
The reason I say there's no such
thing is because we started 

1351
01:13:24,240 --> 01:13:26,800
coming here because we wanted to
go to a place where we didn't 

1352
01:13:26,800 --> 01:13:30,640
know people and we're both 
outgoing. 

1353
01:13:33,720 --> 01:13:37,960
Being outgoing. 
I realized that for me to say hi

1354
01:13:37,960 --> 01:13:40,880
to every guy and talk to every 
guy and make him comfortable 

1355
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:44,520
with me opens him up to just not
seeing me as a threat. 

1356
01:13:45,040 --> 01:13:51,040
My first 15-16 years in the 
lifestyle, I had to tone myself 

1357
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:55,760
down because I got into a 
lifestyle where being a black 

1358
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:59,720
guy in a lot of the circles I 
was in, I had to realize that I 

1359
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:01,520
was intimidating husbands and 
things like that. 

1360
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:04,600
So for a lot of years, I made 
sure I tone myself down, tone 

1361
01:14:04,600 --> 01:14:07,560
myself down, tone myself down. 
I'm aware of who I am. 

1362
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:10,480
I'm aware of my presence. 
I'm not confused about it. 

1363
01:14:10,480 --> 01:14:14,920
Sometimes I forget and I need a 
reminder, but I'm weird. 

1364
01:14:15,280 --> 01:14:16,360
I'm usually there to help you 
out. 

1365
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:18,840
I'm. 
Like Daddy? 

1366
01:14:19,720 --> 01:14:23,040
You're talking to people. 
That's why I pinned it on you, 

1367
01:14:23,040 --> 01:14:24,880
because you have the personality
and energy. 

1368
01:14:25,360 --> 01:14:28,400
You should be the fucking mayor.
And and when I say you should be

1369
01:14:28,400 --> 01:14:31,600
the mayor, it's why not. 
You're in this lifestyle. 

1370
01:14:33,440 --> 01:14:36,800
But for that only, like he said,
that does actually help her 

1371
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:39,520
because then they're like, Oh 
no, somebody says, oh, this 

1372
01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:41,480
guy's intimidating. 
They're like, Oh no, he's not 

1373
01:14:41,480 --> 01:14:42,640
temptating. 
He's cool as shit. 

1374
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,440
You know, just being nice to 
this girl because I have people 

1375
01:14:46,440 --> 01:14:48,760
that don't want to fuck me. 
When they found out that I'm 

1376
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:51,120
married to him, that's why we 
walk around separately, but 

1377
01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:54,920
don't tell him that I'm OK. 
No, no, no. 

1378
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:57,840
But once people started talking 
to him because they I had a few 

1379
01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:59,600
guys like, Oh no, I'm not 
fucking you. 

1380
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,520
Like I got to go talk to your 
dude and I'm like, no, you 

1381
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:02,640
don't. 
I was so confused. 

1382
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:04,480
I'm like, I don't. 
It's not wack. 

1383
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:10,800
We we survive. 
We survive life by identifying 

1384
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,520
patterns. 
That's how we survive. 

1385
01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:19,880
If you walk into a situation 
where 80% of the guys who look 

1386
01:15:19,880 --> 01:15:26,040
like you with a wife, like her 
behave this way, I mean, if 80% 

1387
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,600
of the time your parachute 
wasn't going to open up, you 

1388
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:29,920
wouldn't jump out the fucking 
plane. 

1389
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:33,760
For these guys, it's the same 
sensation of walking up and 

1390
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:36,360
getting denied. 
We know what denial feels like. 

1391
01:15:37,320 --> 01:15:41,480
It's it don't feel good. 
So that being said, that's why I

1392
01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:45,840
it's experience. 
It's experience saying dude, for

1393
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:49,480
for you, it's a compliment. 
It's a compliment that you're 

1394
01:15:49,480 --> 01:15:51,920
intimidating. 
And then on top of that, once 

1395
01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:55,880
you make guys comfortable for 
them, they feel good knowing 

1396
01:15:55,880 --> 01:16:01,600
that, knowing that you know 
you're a cool guy and she's 

1397
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,200
going to have a better 
experience. 

1398
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:06,560
When the guys like you and 
they're comfortable with you, 

1399
01:16:07,480 --> 01:16:10,080
that's that's huge. 
When they like you and they're 

1400
01:16:10,080 --> 01:16:12,080
comfortable, you like these guys
who know me. 

1401
01:16:13,440 --> 01:16:16,680
You have certain husbands who 
get weird if you fuck his wife 

1402
01:16:16,680 --> 01:16:19,120
too good. 
I shit you not, that's a huge 

1403
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,640
percentage. 
Huge percentage of guys get 

1404
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:23,960
upset if you fuck his wife too 
good. 

1405
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:26,880
I. 
Even if they encourage their 

1406
01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:29,440
wife. 
Even because I I've seen 

1407
01:16:29,440 --> 01:16:32,320
husbands cry. 
I had a husband threaten me 

1408
01:16:32,320 --> 01:16:34,520
recently OK it. 
Was good times. 

1409
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,760
But he wouldn't. 
He initially said that though. 

1410
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:42,960
There's a huge percentage of 
guys in their mind, they've been

1411
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:45,360
with this woman X amount of time
and they brought her here 

1412
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:49,040
sexually. 
You come in and they're like, 

1413
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:51,560
yeah, I want you to. 
I want you to do get her there. 

1414
01:16:51,560 --> 01:16:53,240
I want you to do this. 
In their mind, you can only 

1415
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:56,080
bring her here. 
In their mind, they know her 

1416
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:57,840
limit. 
They push this car as. 

1417
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:01,280
Fast as it can go. 
You bring it here and now 

1418
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:02,680
they're like, who the. 
Fuck is she and. 

1419
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:07,040
What you do and now they're 
upset with you. 

1420
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:08,960
So now. 
That's happened to a friend of 

1421
01:17:09,080 --> 01:17:11,680
ours. 
Yeah. 

1422
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:14,320
The husband was like, yeah, 
that's true. 

1423
01:17:14,440 --> 01:17:17,000
I didn't think about that. 
Yeah, they're not. 

1424
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:21,160
Of course, because you guys, I 
always see the couple, you're 

1425
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:23,600
actually the hunters. 
There's two of you, one of me. 

1426
01:17:24,560 --> 01:17:26,800
Once you start understanding the
prey that you're stalking, 

1427
01:17:26,800 --> 01:17:28,520
you're going to be more 
successful at it. 

1428
01:17:29,600 --> 01:17:32,200
You know what I'm saying? 
So that that's where with me, I 

1429
01:17:32,200 --> 01:17:34,680
know I've come across rough. 
And to her point from the very 

1430
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:37,760
beginning, I should explain 
myself better instead of just 

1431
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:39,480
whacking her over the head 
because I wasn't. 

1432
01:17:39,480 --> 01:17:41,040
Talking. 
But wait, did you know her? 

1433
01:17:41,440 --> 01:17:43,840
No. 
So that was why he doesn't 

1434
01:17:43,840 --> 01:17:47,560
explain things to people that he
doesn't care about or no, when 

1435
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,280
he meets you, that's a true 
statement. 

1436
01:17:49,440 --> 01:17:53,600
He's first of all, you do that 
to her children. 

1437
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,680
OK, You RIP the Band-Aid real 
quick. 

1438
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:58,640
He's the he's the he's the 
boss's house. 

1439
01:17:58,760 --> 01:18:03,200
OK, but he and it's not it's I 
don't think, because I know him 

1440
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:07,080
and the intent is never mean. 
He's just super fucking direct. 

1441
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:10,160
I told guys here, if you want to
have sex with me, you have to 

1442
01:18:10,160 --> 01:18:14,520
say I want to have sex with you 
at five O 1 and 30 seconds PM 

1443
01:18:14,760 --> 01:18:16,160
because I live with this 
motherfucker. 

1444
01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:17,320
And that's the only way I'm 
going to know. 

1445
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:20,200
If you're just like, hey, you 
know, whatever. 

1446
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:21,600
I'm going to be like, oh, hey, 
how are you? 

1447
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:23,400
Because I'm a little bitchy 
sometimes. 

1448
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:25,240
I'm not always the brightest 
crown in the box. 

1449
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:27,920
I'm like, OK. 
And then he's like, baby, that 

1450
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,200
guy wanted to play with you. 
I'm like, oh, did he? 

1451
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:31,520
He didn't say anything. 
Yeah. 

1452
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:36,800
So is it That's what when I had 
to become more direct. 

1453
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:39,640
He'll be like he just needs to 
smile. 

1454
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:42,960
That's it. 
But you're still controls an 

1455
01:18:42,960 --> 01:18:44,200
illusion. 
As he always says. 

1456
01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:46,280
You're the person in control. 
You're the pussy. 

1457
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:51,240
Pussy has power. 
He's just here as a let me 

1458
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:54,240
explain the Pitbull, OK? 
I call it at home. 

1459
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,960
Releasing the Pitbull. 
That is because I can take care 

1460
01:18:57,960 --> 01:19:01,120
of myself. 
He knows that I completely do. 

1461
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:03,400
Just like you said, I go places 
by myself. 

1462
01:19:03,440 --> 01:19:06,320
I was home with all of our 
children for years by myself 

1463
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:10,040
without him. 
If I what we call release the 

1464
01:19:10,040 --> 01:19:12,600
pit bull, that means it's really
bad and somebody's done 

1465
01:19:12,600 --> 01:19:14,840
something really, really mean. 
Really, really bad. 

1466
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:17,080
So that's what he meant by like 
the pit bull. 

1467
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:20,480
He is, like you said, gentle 
Giant. 

1468
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:23,560
You know that cowboy doesn't 
know that. 

1469
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:27,720
You know Dick doesn't know that 
he doesn't know that you know 

1470
01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,400
that I know that he's not a 
Dick. 

1471
01:19:29,600 --> 01:19:31,600
If everyone else in the world 
thinks he's a Dick, I'm OK. 

1472
01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:35,200
With that, she's not afraid. 
Right, exactly. 

1473
01:19:35,480 --> 01:19:38,520
But that's what I was saying, 
like gentler what releasing the 

1474
01:19:38,520 --> 01:19:41,440
pit bull for us is. 
I've had enough of the doctor's 

1475
01:19:41,440 --> 01:19:43,880
office. 
OK, you can come with me next 

1476
01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:46,760
time and talk to them because 
clearly I don't speak English. 

1477
01:19:48,280 --> 01:19:51,040
So I I say this. 
I I say she. 

1478
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:53,240
Went to. 
A doctor's appointment. 

1479
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:57,000
So I say this like, look, I'm 
crazy, right? 

1480
01:19:57,000 --> 01:20:03,960
Like I, I, I, I'm crazy, but if,
but if, but I can still talk to 

1481
01:20:03,960 --> 01:20:08,840
you logically and like, you 
know, I can receive what you're 

1482
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:12,960
trying to tell me if you're not 
hearing me and you're still like

1483
01:20:13,320 --> 01:20:16,680
trying to argue or whatever the 
situation is. 

1484
01:20:17,320 --> 01:20:20,520
If it gets to a point where I'm 
fed and I'm done, I'm like, hey,

1485
01:20:20,720 --> 01:20:22,960
handle this. 
That's because I'm, I always 

1486
01:20:22,960 --> 01:20:25,600
tell people I'm like, I'm crazy 
if you think I'm crazy. 

1487
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:30,440
Like if it gets to that point 
where someone is like crossing a

1488
01:20:30,440 --> 01:20:34,560
line, if he has to step in, 
like, I'm sorry dude. 

1489
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:38,880
But. 
But he's very like, he's sharp 

1490
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:42,360
with it, yeah. 
But he just said wait, wait, 

1491
01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:43,960
wait, wait. 
He just said he was going to be 

1492
01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:49,200
real cool with it. 
So Mr. Mocha is definitely super

1493
01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:51,480
cool with it, but he looks like 
he's about to kill. 

1494
01:20:51,480 --> 01:20:53,960
Like that face that you're 
making right now, He looks like 

1495
01:20:54,000 --> 01:20:57,120
about to kill someone. 
So you don't have to say shit 

1496
01:20:57,120 --> 01:20:58,640
with your words. 
You're saying shit with your 

1497
01:20:58,640 --> 01:21:00,520
face. 
That nurse is going to put the 

1498
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:03,280
IV in the correct vein with you 
sitting there. 

1499
01:21:03,800 --> 01:21:05,960
A guy came in and gave me an IV 
one time. 

1500
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:08,840
I was fucking sweating. 
Mr. Moko is just sitting there 

1501
01:21:08,840 --> 01:21:11,520
chilling, doing nothing. 
His whole hand was shaking. 

1502
01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:14,760
He didn't say or do anything. 
He was just chilling you. 

1503
01:21:15,080 --> 01:21:16,400
Talked. 
About actually, what I said was,

1504
01:21:18,320 --> 01:21:25,400
listen, her veins are fragile. 
Are you experienced in this? 

1505
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:31,640
If you're not, please get 
somebody else because she's 

1506
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:34,560
already terrified of needles and
I don't like seeing. 

1507
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:39,320
Her no, I was no we were past 
the terrified of Needles Park 

1508
01:21:39,320 --> 01:21:41,640
and. 
Then right there right there was

1509
01:21:41,680 --> 01:21:48,000
enough to put fear into any MD 
who's trying to find your van. 

1510
01:21:48,120 --> 01:21:51,000
They've. 
Been building for 10 years, not 

1511
01:21:51,000 --> 01:21:55,400
my but but you know that pain 
you experience when somebody 

1512
01:21:55,400 --> 01:22:01,520
like to see her, that nervous 
look in her face, it it hurts 

1513
01:22:01,680 --> 01:22:03,960
like it makes. 
I'm not an anxious person, but 

1514
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:09,040
when I see her in any sort of 
discomfort, it makes me anxious 

1515
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:11,560
on the inside. 
I can't take any of this pain. 

1516
01:22:12,040 --> 01:22:13,160
It's like your kids and your 
wife. 

1517
01:22:13,520 --> 01:22:16,560
I wish I could take it the last 
two years if I could have taken 

1518
01:22:16,560 --> 01:22:21,960
that pain. 
So for me, I'm OK humbling 

1519
01:22:21,960 --> 01:22:25,120
myself, communicating whatever 
it may be, doing the research, 

1520
01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:27,400
figuring out the science. 
And that's the only 

1521
01:22:27,400 --> 01:22:31,320
responsibility that I challenge 
husbands with, like make sure 

1522
01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:35,880
she's happy, make sure and 
whatever it may be, because I 

1523
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:38,600
don't need her to humble 
herself. 

1524
01:22:39,800 --> 01:22:41,880
I will do that. 
Now there's times when I like 

1525
01:22:41,960 --> 01:22:44,960
her first mocha. 
She's in there walking through 

1526
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,680
there's you know, this is Dick 
heavy, right? 

1527
01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:51,120
I just don't know which Dick to 
choose. 

1528
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:53,920
And usually we go to parties. 
There's two dudes that she can 

1529
01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:55,800
fuck. 
There's 100 here. 

1530
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:58,280
She's like daddy that's just in 
the hey, come to the room to 

1531
01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:00,400
room to room. 
I don't know what to take. 

1532
01:23:00,400 --> 01:23:01,680
They're dudes. 
No, no, no. 

1533
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:04,600
Let's start from the beginning. 
What'd you actually do When we 

1534
01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:08,560
got in the room, baby, what the 
fuck? 

1535
01:23:08,800 --> 01:23:09,920
And I was like, what the fuck? 
What? 

1536
01:23:10,560 --> 01:23:14,440
There's a whole bunch of Dicks. 
Just pick one and just do it. 

1537
01:23:14,440 --> 01:23:17,240
And I'm like, but I don't know 
who to pick. 

1538
01:23:17,520 --> 01:23:19,120
Like I've never done this 
before. 

1539
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:21,520
But here was the problem. 
We'd only been to couples 

1540
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:24,440
parties before that. 
Couples you have to talk to for 

1541
01:23:24,440 --> 01:23:27,240
five hours sometimes. 
Sometimes you get lucky and 

1542
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:29,560
they're down to fuck just like 
you, and they just want to go to

1543
01:23:29,560 --> 01:23:30,920
the room. 
But it's usually like the 

1544
01:23:30,920 --> 01:23:32,600
smooshing. 
The people want to socialize, 

1545
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:35,400
they want to dance a little bit.
And then, you know, maybe at 

1546
01:23:35,400 --> 01:23:38,600
3:00 AM play. 
So the concept of coming to a 

1547
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:40,760
party and me walking up the 
cowboy and saying like, hey, I 

1548
01:23:40,760 --> 01:23:42,520
want to play with you. 
And him playing with me was 

1549
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:45,200
alien, right? 
Fucking alien. 

1550
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,240
So when he comes, we get to the 
room, he yells at me. 

1551
01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:50,400
He never raises his voice. 
His tone changes. 

1552
01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:52,600
If it goes low, we're good. 
If it goes high, we're in 

1553
01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:54,840
trouble. 
The red light if we're, if 

1554
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:56,080
we're, if there's a higher 
option. 

1555
01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:57,840
But I'm not. 
Yelling. 

1556
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,800
Yeah, So we call it yelling. 
So he yells at me in the room. 

1557
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:02,600
I cry a little bit. 
I was being a sense of a bitch. 

1558
01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:04,800
It was overwhelming. 
I get overwhelmed quickly. 

1559
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:07,040
I do too. 
So I get in the room, I cry a 

1560
01:24:07,040 --> 01:24:09,800
little bit, dry up my tears. 
He's like, who do you want to 

1561
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:10,840
fuck? 
And I was like the tall guy. 

1562
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:13,160
I want to fuck the tall guy. 
I said stay right here. 

1563
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:14,920
I walk over. 
I was. 

1564
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:15,640
Excuse me. 
Thank you. 

1565
01:24:16,440 --> 01:24:17,640
All right. 
You see the lady staying up 

1566
01:24:17,640 --> 01:24:18,360
there? 
Right here? 

1567
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:21,240
That's my wife. 
No pressure. 

1568
01:24:21,440 --> 01:24:24,800
She finds you very attractive. 
Would you like to play with her?

1569
01:24:25,200 --> 01:24:33,240
Yeah. 
And then she comes down like. 

1570
01:24:35,920 --> 01:24:39,680
And after that it was just like,
OK, this is like, but the first 

1571
01:24:39,720 --> 01:24:42,040
party, he was like my emotional 
sport human. 

1572
01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:46,280
I normally now we don't have to 
be together because I we know 

1573
01:24:46,280 --> 01:24:49,240
enough people that it's not, I'm
not scared to be alone. 

1574
01:24:49,920 --> 01:24:52,640
But that party too, he was 
definitely like my advocate, 

1575
01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:55,280
just hey, like my wife finds you
attractive. 

1576
01:24:55,280 --> 01:24:59,400
And like they did say, I don't 
normally agree with like the 

1577
01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:04,480
whole machismo like alpha, like 
like women worship their men 

1578
01:25:04,480 --> 01:25:11,120
type thing. 
I'm waking being a little 

1579
01:25:11,120 --> 01:25:13,440
bratty, a little bratty maybe 
for later. 

1580
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:19,760
But I mean he really does what I
the way I look perspective for 

1581
01:25:19,760 --> 01:25:21,800
me is that what I can't do he 
can. 

1582
01:25:22,240 --> 01:25:25,600
I can put that on him. 
So even when he's a Dick head 

1583
01:25:26,000 --> 01:25:28,320
and I just say, well, I'm sorry,
he's being a Dick head. 

1584
01:25:28,480 --> 01:25:31,880
Had I known he was mean to you, 
I wouldn't have apologized in 

1585
01:25:31,880 --> 01:25:33,560
the beginning because we didn't 
know each other. 

1586
01:25:33,560 --> 01:25:36,800
And I've been like, she just, 
she just might be some troller 

1587
01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:38,120
from Twitter. 
We don't know. 

1588
01:25:39,040 --> 01:25:41,720
But now we meet each other in 
person and I'm like, Oh my God, 

1589
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:43,440
you were so mean to her and now 
I'm mad at you. 

1590
01:25:43,440 --> 01:25:45,040
She's. 
Automatically. 

1591
01:25:45,120 --> 01:25:46,360
On your. 
Side, there's no question. 

1592
01:25:46,440 --> 01:25:47,600
Yeah, but you? 
Do to her. 

1593
01:25:48,440 --> 01:25:52,160
Overall, you can as your as your
person if you feel, especially 

1594
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:55,480
if you're as cute as you are and
you feel like a bunch of people 

1595
01:25:55,480 --> 01:25:58,840
are not talking to you, girl 
walk around with me. 

1596
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:02,560
But I also feel like the vibe 
was different last night because

1597
01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:06,320
there were a few people that 
said like it, that I think maybe

1598
01:26:06,320 --> 01:26:10,680
people got here earlier in the 
week too, and people were kind 

1599
01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:14,080
of tired yesterday. 
We heard that people go balls 

1600
01:26:14,080 --> 01:26:17,840
the wall like Thursday night or 
like maybe Wednesday, like we 

1601
01:26:17,840 --> 01:26:20,120
got in Thursday morning. 
But I wanted to bring up what 

1602
01:26:20,120 --> 01:26:21,960
you said about the medical part 
of it. 

1603
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:25,160
Like I had to have a 
hysterectomy and like the guy 

1604
01:26:25,160 --> 01:26:30,960
that was Wheeling me from the OR
to the room, like I was like he 

1605
01:26:30,960 --> 01:26:33,720
was bumping into everything. 
Like I was coming up out of 

1606
01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:36,360
anesthesia. 
So by the time we got up to the 

1607
01:26:36,360 --> 01:26:40,400
room, he was there and he as 
soon as he made eye contact, I 

1608
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:43,520
looked at him and I just had 
like, like starting to cry. 

1609
01:26:43,960 --> 01:26:47,520
And this nerd, if I wouldn't 
have been fucked, I would have 

1610
01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:51,160
fucked her up because she goes, 
she went crying until she saw 

1611
01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:54,600
you because he saw the look in 
my face because he immediately 

1612
01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:56,960
his reaction is what's wrong? 
What happened? 

1613
01:26:57,040 --> 01:26:59,840
Like I was like, they're fucking
bumping me. 

1614
01:26:59,840 --> 01:27:01,600
And I'm like feeling all of 
that. 

1615
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:06,480
And it was like that look of 
like, that's my safe space. 

1616
01:27:06,480 --> 01:27:09,880
So when I made eye contact, like
getting wheeled into that room 

1617
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:13,040
and he saw my face and he was 
like, what happened? 

1618
01:27:13,160 --> 01:27:17,360
Like that was just like, he was 
immediately like on high alert. 

1619
01:27:17,880 --> 01:27:20,920
So I wholeheartedly like can 
relate to that. 

1620
01:27:21,120 --> 01:27:25,360
And then that part of being who 
I am, it relates to every single

1621
01:27:25,400 --> 01:27:26,760
thing. 
My kids the. 

1622
01:27:26,760 --> 01:27:28,080
Same. 
I come home. 

1623
01:27:29,120 --> 01:27:31,680
And the kids had her pissed off 
the first thing I asked. 

1624
01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:35,800
Did I do something wrong? 
Did I do something to offend? 

1625
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:36,880
You did I do something to offend
you? 

1626
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:39,400
That's always my question. 
And then she told me it's the 

1627
01:27:39,400 --> 01:27:42,080
kids. 
I'm like, thank God these people

1628
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:46,400
because it's not me, you know 
what I'm saying? 

1629
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:48,280
And then and and so that's how 
we are the kids. 

1630
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:52,320
Everybody knows because she's 
going to get she won't take it 

1631
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:54,120
out on those people. 
She'll take it out on me. 

1632
01:27:54,560 --> 01:27:56,680
I'm the one not going to get in 
the pussy And like you know what

1633
01:27:56,680 --> 01:27:58,760
I'm saying? 
You piss her off, I come home. 

1634
01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:00,760
Now I'm sitting. 
There with a dry Dick. 

1635
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:03,920
So I go out there and attack 
these people, let the kids have 

1636
01:28:03,920 --> 01:28:06,240
it, and I'm like. 
FY he's never spanked our kids 

1637
01:28:06,240 --> 01:28:08,080
in the entirety of our our 
relationship. 

1638
01:28:08,360 --> 01:28:10,600
OK, He has not had to. 
His tone changes. 

1639
01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:14,720
The tone change. 
But but it, it goes everywhere. 

1640
01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:19,640
It goes everywhere from and, and
it's, it's, it's equal. 

1641
01:28:19,640 --> 01:28:24,400
It's I protect her from myself. 
You know, my wife is very, very 

1642
01:28:24,400 --> 01:28:28,280
sharp, but she doesn't carry the
awareness that I carry. 

1643
01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:31,800
That's not that's not her. 
Again, not the brightest crown 

1644
01:28:31,800 --> 01:28:33,200
in the box. 
I am all over the place. 

1645
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:35,920
It's. 
The mocha bit smoker. 

1646
01:28:36,320 --> 01:28:41,360
I apologize, I got the pee pee. 
Not having to ask. 

1647
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:42,520
We just don't want you pissed in
the. 

1648
01:28:42,520 --> 01:28:45,000
Cup in front, it's not that kind
of part. 

1649
01:28:45,360 --> 01:28:47,200
Bro it was nice. 
You ain't you ain't doing 

1650
01:28:47,200 --> 01:28:48,760
nothing, man. 
Why do you fuck? 

1651
01:28:48,760 --> 01:28:49,640
Did you just? 
Stand up. 

1652
01:28:49,640 --> 01:28:54,000
See, I'm trying to tell you. 
If y'all ain't doing nothing, If

1653
01:28:54,000 --> 01:28:55,840
y'all ain't doing nothing, when 
y'all ain't doing nothing. 

1654
01:28:56,160 --> 01:28:57,440
Holla at your boy. 
Are you going to? 

1655
01:28:57,840 --> 01:28:59,720
Be. 
Honest, I'm going to be whatever

1656
01:28:59,720 --> 01:29:03,120
you need me to be and I promise 
you I tried. 

1657
01:29:03,160 --> 01:29:06,760
I tried to get you last night 
and it's intimidating her. 

1658
01:29:06,840 --> 01:29:09,400
Mr. Morgan said it personally 
and said it out loud. 

1659
01:29:11,600 --> 01:29:14,320
I feel like that was a lie. 
You're lying to her right now 

1660
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:16,280
because I saw you fucking 
somebody in the wife watching 

1661
01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:18,240
her room because I came in to 
check out. 

1662
01:29:18,280 --> 01:29:19,680
Your penis. 
How about when I tried to? 

1663
01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:22,640
When I tried to talk to? 
I was like wait, how big is his 

1664
01:29:22,640 --> 01:29:24,960
Dick is That is like a medium 
size. 

1665
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:27,280
I could probably do that. 
When I tried to talk to him as a

1666
01:29:27,320 --> 01:29:28,720
couple, it was just like, I 
walked up. 

1667
01:29:28,720 --> 01:29:33,240
I was just like, OK, they're not
into this shit and I'm. 

1668
01:29:33,240 --> 01:29:34,880
Wearing. 
Here, if we weren't into this 

1669
01:29:35,000 --> 01:29:36,760
right, we are into a lot of 
people. 

1670
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:39,160
There's a lot of couples here 
that's here right now. 

1671
01:29:39,160 --> 01:29:42,560
There's are like I was. 
Paying the money to come to. 

1672
01:29:42,560 --> 01:29:45,080
This that makes zero sense to me
because you're looking for 

1673
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:47,640
another couple and y'all just 
want to have fun with the female

1674
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:49,840
and I'll be like OK I understand
that. 

1675
01:29:49,840 --> 01:29:51,320
You know, I'm saying because 
some couples just want other 

1676
01:29:51,320 --> 01:29:53,800
couples. 
But this then go to another 

1677
01:29:53,800 --> 01:29:56,520
naughty Nolan's or some other 
like a lifestyle where like 

1678
01:29:56,520 --> 01:29:59,040
couples are the focus. 
To me it's like this is a hot 

1679
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:03,480
wife event, right? 
So the focus is the wife getting

1680
01:30:03,480 --> 01:30:04,760
fucked. 
Like that's the fact. 

1681
01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:07,600
Like I get that there's couples 
and there's all different type 

1682
01:30:07,600 --> 01:30:10,320
of dynamics, but like to me it's
splash mocha. 

1683
01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:14,920
It is catered to wipes. 
When people hear splash Mocha, 

1684
01:30:14,920 --> 01:30:16,240
they're like, Oh yeah, I want to
go. 

1685
01:30:16,680 --> 01:30:18,880
Or it's just like, if you want 
to go to Belize, you know what 

1686
01:30:18,880 --> 01:30:20,640
I'm saying? 
The name, the name is Self Hose.

1687
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,840
Wait, so when people, so when 
couples come to Splash Mocha, 

1688
01:30:23,840 --> 01:30:26,600
there's couples that just come 
to splash Mocha just because 

1689
01:30:27,440 --> 01:30:29,560
they got the money and they 
don't care, they want to come as

1690
01:30:29,560 --> 01:30:31,560
bad smoker. 
And they can say they've been 

1691
01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:33,720
here. 
They can say, you know it was. 

1692
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:35,200
A flat smoker. 
We did that. 

1693
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:36,480
We met a couple couple of 
couples. 

1694
01:30:37,000 --> 01:30:40,120
And they and they maybe it's 
maybe their first step as well 

1695
01:30:40,120 --> 01:30:43,440
into especially with the 
interracial part of it that this

1696
01:30:43,440 --> 01:30:45,680
is some areas it's hard to find 
that. 

1697
01:30:46,280 --> 01:30:47,520
They're in room. 
I never thought of it. 

1698
01:30:47,520 --> 01:30:49,800
So they. 
Come and then kind of test the 

1699
01:30:49,800 --> 01:30:51,600
waters. 
How do I feel when a black man 

1700
01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:55,400
is talking to my wife? 
You know, and so, and you got to

1701
01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:57,560
understand from a black male 
perspective, not that I, I am 

1702
01:30:57,560 --> 01:30:59,600
one, but I'm married to one as 
well. 

1703
01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:02,920
And that can be into. 
I don't know exactly who really 

1704
01:31:02,920 --> 01:31:06,080
is here that is going to be 
approachable or that I can 

1705
01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:10,280
approach, or if they're here to 
kind of use my energy for their 

1706
01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:13,400
own sexual stuff. 
Not actually my body and who I 

1707
01:31:13,400 --> 01:31:17,760
am, but just the threat of 
possibly fucking as well. 

1708
01:31:18,720 --> 01:31:20,600
Wives. 
That are just coming to abuse 

1709
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:23,280
the husbands because the 
husbands really want them to go 

1710
01:31:23,280 --> 01:31:27,040
to splash. 
And we met a couple and they say

1711
01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:30,280
they both want to be here. 
But she's also like, how much 

1712
01:31:30,280 --> 01:31:31,760
more do I have to walk around 
tonight? 

1713
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:36,080
So you never know. 
That's how I feel when I'm the 

1714
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:37,920
end cowboy. 
Like how much longer do I have 

1715
01:31:37,920 --> 01:31:41,120
to walk around, wait for her? 
Bed for us because I don't even 

1716
01:31:41,120 --> 01:31:43,560
know what's going on, but do 
what y'all do. 

1717
01:31:44,560 --> 01:31:48,080
Y'all a couple and y'all met a 
couple. 

1718
01:31:48,240 --> 01:31:51,040
You see what I'm saying? 
So it's easy for a couple to 

1719
01:31:51,040 --> 01:31:55,520
talk to a couple in real life. 
Oh, when we first met, my wife 

1720
01:31:55,560 --> 01:31:57,840
was near. 
My wife only stopped because she

1721
01:31:57,840 --> 01:31:59,440
saw him. 
She didn't know what was going. 

1722
01:31:59,480 --> 01:32:01,960
On. 
She saw him stop and it was 

1723
01:32:01,960 --> 01:32:04,760
like. 
I did not mean to be like. 

1724
01:32:05,520 --> 01:32:17,520
We. 
Just shook hands for a long. 

1725
01:32:17,520 --> 01:32:18,040
Time. 
Yeah, we. 

1726
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:21,520
Did it was a really long like it
was like the Will Ferrell like 

1727
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:25,720
step brothers at the end like. 
Yeah, you started. 

1728
01:32:25,760 --> 01:32:28,360
To apologize, I was like, I 
didn't even see what's because I

1729
01:32:28,400 --> 01:32:29,360
was. 
Too busy going on. 

1730
01:32:29,440 --> 01:32:30,280
My. 
Own girl. 

1731
01:32:30,400 --> 01:32:31,880
I got you. 
I got you. 

1732
01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:33,720
Y'all got it. 
Hey, the rest of y'all, the rest

1733
01:32:33,720 --> 01:32:36,720
of y'all vacation. 
Don't be all outstanding, I'm 

1734
01:32:36,760 --> 01:32:37,520
telling you. 
Yeah. 

1735
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:39,160
OK. 
I can't hear Mr. Mogram. 

1736
01:32:39,240 --> 01:32:41,480
I appreciate you coming in. 
Yes, Sir. 

1737
01:32:41,480 --> 01:32:43,320
Yes, Sir. 
All right, Mr. Mocha, you got to

1738
01:32:43,320 --> 01:32:44,440
end. 
It we're going to wrap it up. 

1739
01:32:44,960 --> 01:32:48,680
I appreciate you guys coming in 
and listening and hanging out 

1740
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:52,680
with us. 
Wife, can you hump his leg in 

1741
01:32:52,680 --> 01:32:54,680
the back of the room? 
I'm like a regular. 

1742
01:32:54,680 --> 01:32:57,440
Person, I apologize my. 
We thought this was the wife 

1743
01:32:57,440 --> 01:33:02,600
watching room. 
So we'll wrap the episode up. 

1744
01:33:02,600 --> 01:33:04,000
Thank you guys for. 
Coming in. 

1745
01:33:04,040 --> 01:33:04,920
Thank you for having. 
Thank. 

1746
01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:08,440
You and this right here, I'll 
tell you one two things. 

1747
01:33:08,480 --> 01:33:11,560
When you go downstairs to hang 
out, do not hang out on the 

1748
01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:13,840
perimeter. 
The perimeter was the worst 

1749
01:33:13,840 --> 01:33:16,000
place to be. 
Be in the middle, in the mix. 

1750
01:33:16,040 --> 01:33:17,640
Yeah, the perimeter. 
The perimeter. 

1751
01:33:17,800 --> 01:33:19,280
People hang out on the 
perimeter. 

1752
01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:24,960
Who are watching, who aren't 
approachable or who are nervous?

1753
01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:30,360
And so for you, if you're in the
middle also, what happens is you

1754
01:33:30,360 --> 01:33:34,200
tend to be in earshot of 
conversations and people who 

1755
01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:38,680
want to talk to you can have an 
excuse to speak to you or an 

1756
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:41,040
excuse to interact. 
A lot of times, you know, you'll

1757
01:33:41,040 --> 01:33:44,760
hear a joke and then you can 
kind of kind of gently move in 

1758
01:33:44,760 --> 01:33:46,640
there. 
But if you're on the outskirts, 

1759
01:33:46,640 --> 01:33:48,640
you're far away from everything 
and people. 

1760
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:51,240
So it's it's the small things, 
you know, body language, 

1761
01:33:51,240 --> 01:33:53,840
obviously this right here, which
is something that I'm a 

1762
01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:58,480
terrible, terrible that no, I've
had I've had fighters tell me 

1763
01:33:58,480 --> 01:34:00,720
like, dude, you look like you're
about to attack somebody. 

1764
01:34:00,720 --> 01:34:04,440
Like just got my hands. 
Arms are comfortable like that. 

1765
01:34:04,440 --> 01:34:06,160
Yeah, they are. 
Sometimes I like to put them on 

1766
01:34:06,160 --> 01:34:14,240
my dudes like I'm cold. 
So I just hold. 

1767
01:34:14,760 --> 01:34:17,720
Your titties. 
But besides that, if you, if you

1768
01:34:17,720 --> 01:34:21,280
do those small things and then 
like this right here, you're 

1769
01:34:21,280 --> 01:34:23,920
open right now. 
You're not usually this old. 

1770
01:34:24,520 --> 01:34:28,400
If you take this energy out 
there, you're going to make 

1771
01:34:28,400 --> 01:34:29,840
friends. 
You're going to have people in 

1772
01:34:29,840 --> 01:34:31,280
your face. 
They're going to want to talk, 

1773
01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:33,440
they want to play with you. 
You will get to that point where

1774
01:34:33,440 --> 01:34:35,480
you're just like, OK, there's 
too much Dick coming back. 

1775
01:34:35,920 --> 01:34:38,400
And you better not complain, 
yeah? 

1776
01:34:39,520 --> 01:34:41,200
We just say maybe you're 
swimming to see a Dick. 

1777
01:34:44,120 --> 01:34:47,560
So until next time, thank you 
for joining us and thank you for

1778
01:34:47,560 --> 01:34:52,760
coming on to correct me and my 
poor behavior and we will see 

1779
01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:57,240
you back soon. 
Give it to you get pulling your 

1780
01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:03,960
head, bring it over to this mid 
so I can see your legs trip. 

1781
01:35:05,600 --> 01:35:12,160
I got it somewhere easily that 
you just like a porn me swimming

1782
01:35:13,800 --> 01:35:16,440
air and when rod on the sea.