1 00:00:07,360 --> 00:00:09,680 Hello, and welcome to another episode of OLD Faces. 2 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:14,160 I'm your host, Mr. Mocha, and I am chilling in the studio with 3 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,920 my boy. You're Ron James. 4 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,440 Don James. Don James. 5 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:22,680 Don James again. All right. 6 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:26,920 So Don James AKASKD. All right. 7 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:35,120 I'm laughing already because I've known Don James for, you 8 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:38,720 know, a long time and I just realized he treat me like shit. 9 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,320 I just realized. Nah, my boy. 10 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,920 Treated me like shit. Not at all. 11 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:49,480 Not at all. You ever be talking to your boy 12 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,480 and then he matter of fact some shit to you, So he just a matter 13 00:00:52,480 --> 00:00:54,280 of fact this this female, that's fine. 14 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,480 He's like, yo, have you? Have you messed with so and So 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,640 what? This fine? 16 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,360 Listen, this chick so fine. Had I fucked her, he didn't know 17 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,400 him 'cause I'd have been trying to send her over to him. 18 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:12,760 You know what it is though, I know her beyond the image, so I 19 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,320 can understand looking at all the videos and the pictures and 20 00:01:15,320 --> 00:01:18,400 shit being like man yo, 'cause I got homeboys that know of her 21 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,280 and their fans and shit like that. 22 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,240 But knowing her personally and knowing how she actually is in 23 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:29,080 real life, it's like man, like not the past judgment, but she's 24 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:33,840 kind of like a crumb. Like she cool, she cool, but 25 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,480 it's like I. Want some of these cookie 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:40,200 crumbs? I see what I could do. 27 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,640 But yeah, knowing, knowing them in in real life, it you don't 28 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,040 realize who they are a lot of the time. 29 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:50,920 So when I when I see her, I look at that and I'll be like, oh, 30 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,760 that's theatrical. Yeah, Yeah, that's true. 31 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:56,240 But I understand how good she looked because knowing that the 32 00:01:56,240 --> 00:02:00,560 shit is low key trash, I still go back. 33 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,040 I still give it another chance because when I see her, I'll be 34 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,720 like, you know what? Maybe she's earning some new 35 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:06,400 shit. Maybe. 36 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,720 You know what she got her ass. You know, I got to give it a try 37 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:12,040 now. I got to see what it's like. 38 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:14,320 But. Yeah, yeah, we talked about, we 39 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,440 talked about another, another female who we bought. 40 00:02:16,640 --> 00:02:19,720 So I, I've been there like, you know, fellas look at my shit, 41 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,160 my, my, my Twitter and be like, oh shit, you fuck this chick, 42 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:25,680 you fuck that chick. I'm like, yeah, yeah. 43 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,960 And and and I know the pussy was garbage and they just looking at 44 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:31,960 the image and and right now what's happening is I'm 45 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:36,000 fanboying on somebody who he he fucks, you know, whenever he 46 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,680 wants to, and I'm just being judge mental that he hasn't, you 47 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:42,200 know, he hasn't thrown me the alley. 48 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:45,160 No, all right, It's also always on some random shit too. 49 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,680 So it's like, it's not like, I mean, this is one of the reasons 50 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,200 why I look at her like kind of crummy because all right, one 51 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:55,560 time or a few times she'll come over and her dude is the one 52 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:56,840 that shoots for most of the time. 53 00:02:57,040 --> 00:03:00,760 So she'll come over and her, her kids and the dude will be in the 54 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:05,000 car parked in the driveway. Yeah, and she'll, she'll come. 55 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,960 Wow, that's strange. Flopping all crazy and shit like 56 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,200 that. And then go kiss your family. 57 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:12,320 Yeah, she'll still go back outside. 58 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,440 She got Dick spit on her shirt and everything. 59 00:03:14,840 --> 00:03:16,800 I'm like, yo, that's. Crazy wild bro. 60 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:20,360 That's crazy wild work. So for me, it's like, Nah, you 61 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:21,440 can't. Keep kissing the. 62 00:03:21,440 --> 00:03:23,840 Kids like, damn. Like, you're not even asking to 63 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,400 go go to the bathroom. Yeah, You know, you don't want 64 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,000 no mouthwash. You're not asking. 65 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:32,040 For no, no, no. Paper towels. 66 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:35,760 It's just like, yo, just straight up just as is like yo, 67 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:36,960 that's wow. Savage. 68 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,920 That's Savage. So, you know, it's not like a 69 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,840 situation where it's like, yo, I be here at this time or be like, 70 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:49,600 she's been here since Wednesday. And several times we supposed to 71 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:52,400 get up, but there's always some different shit that comes up. 72 00:03:52,400 --> 00:03:54,000 Yeah. So it's just like, oh, you know, 73 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:55,840 oh, my mom's supposed to watch the kids. 74 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,200 Oh, she didn't watch the kids. Oh, I'm asking to watch the kids 75 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,680 this weekend instead. So it's a whole bunch of stuff 76 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:04,480 that goes with it that makes it real hard to be like, yo, let me 77 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,600 put you down with her. Yeah, I got you. 78 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,880 I got you. I mean, I'm still say treat me 79 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:12,600 like shit, but I I appreciate, I appreciate. 80 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:16,880 I appreciate it. So like look as, as every, you 81 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:22,760 know, you, you will see cuz I've been looking for somebody who I 82 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,200 can rock with on the podcast on a regular basis. 83 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:30,400 Also, the big thing is somebody who has experienced a lifestyle 84 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:34,400 similar to me. I've got a lot of guys who I 85 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,000 hang out with on the podcast, but there's very few guys who we 86 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,920 have similar experiences. So it's hard for me to to to 87 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:46,640 interact or debate with a guy about our experiences and, and 88 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:51,160 things like that, because if you ain't experienced a lifestyle 89 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:54,480 the way I did it, we like, it's like, what are we talking about? 90 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:59,280 So that's the fun thing about my man Don James, because we'll be 91 00:04:59,280 --> 00:05:02,840 having conversations and when he disagree, it's like, all right, 92 00:05:02,840 --> 00:05:06,080 his disagreements is based on his experiences or when we 93 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,520 sitting there like, Yo, we are really on the same page on this, 94 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,120 jumping right into it. There's a couple different 95 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:16,800 things that that like I want to to hit on. 96 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,720 So First things first, what's your experience with single 97 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:25,240 women in the lifestyle? For the most part my experiences 98 00:05:25,440 --> 00:05:29,440 with true single women are cool. There's one I got currently 99 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,400 where she's a little on the annoying side, but say what? 100 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:35,200 Why is she annoying? It's the one I sent you. 101 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:39,480 I think yesterday or Wednesday. She's annoying because I I feel 102 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:40,200 like. I hold on. 103 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:41,440 I'm gonna pause you. I want y'all. 104 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,640 I want y'all to know the shot he just took at me. 105 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,760 I called him. I I said he treat me like shit 106 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:49,360 because he don't put me on and 30 seconds later he lets me. 107 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:51,240 He was like, yeah, you remember when I tried to put you on to 108 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,920 yesterday that you said no. You too busy for it? 109 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:55,400 You see he. Was not. 110 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,800 Yeah, I was. I was just in conversation. 111 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,840 I was just in conversation, you know, reference point, but not 112 00:06:02,840 --> 00:06:09,080 cause a lot of it. I, I am aware that is my ego. 113 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,880 It's my ego because I feel as though for our, our age gap and 114 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:17,920 just, you know, it's levels, it's levels of everything. 115 00:06:18,280 --> 00:06:20,840 You know, age gap what you mean? All right, she's like 53. 116 00:06:20,840 --> 00:06:25,840 I'm 39 where I live in the real world and I dance in the 117 00:06:25,840 --> 00:06:27,120 lifestyle. You feel me? 118 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:33,040 So for me, it's just like yo, in in real life, if I'm, if I'm 119 00:06:33,040 --> 00:06:36,480 fucking with a 53 year old, she understands that there's an 120 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:41,320 exchange where I I'm giving up pursuing or being with the 121 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:45,080 youth, you know, and everything that comes with that or even 122 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:48,040 close to my age and everything that comes with that for someone 123 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:49,760 her age. So there has to be some type of 124 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:51,480 balance, some give and take with that. 125 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:58,680 Where this one, she's expecting the same level of enthusiasm and 126 00:06:58,680 --> 00:07:03,800 treatment without any real extra effort being given that I would 127 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:09,280 give someone 30 or even the chick that we talking about 128 00:07:09,280 --> 00:07:11,160 right now. And for me it's like, Nah, like 129 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:12,880 why am I? Why am I going to do that? 130 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:16,560 Like, for example, she she tries to paint the picture like she 131 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:20,840 wants to be a sub, she wants to be a sub slut, but it's like 132 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,840 you're being picky. So where is the sub aspect of 133 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:27,480 it? And if you want things the way 134 00:07:27,480 --> 00:07:29,600 you want it, like I tell her it's, it's no problem. 135 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:34,360 Like you're entitled to that, but you need to pitch it the way 136 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,400 that actually is where I feel like she's trying to live almost 137 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,760 like a 50 Shades of Grey fantasy style. 138 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:44,640 Like, Oh yeah, this is a sub slut in this way, you know, seen 139 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:49,200 in this type of media or you know, she used the term subspace 140 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:54,160 before and it's like, yo, we not doing nothing that involves you 141 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,440 going into a subspace Like this is what you asked for. 142 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,800 You wanted to get tag team by two hung black dudes and you're 143 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:02,640 getting tag team by two hung black dudes. 144 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,520 There's no safe word or anything like that. 145 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:08,560 Because in my mind, yes, subspace is like, yo, you, you 146 00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:10,880 checked out. Yeah, we checking you out and 147 00:08:10,880 --> 00:08:12,960 there has to be some way to bring you back. 148 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:15,080 So that's where, like I said, the safe word. 149 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,040 You got some safe word, some type of sign, facial expression, 150 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,320 hand gestures, something. It's none of that in this 151 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,360 situation where it's just like, yo, no. 152 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,600 It's that shit she saw on TV. Exactly where you you want to, 153 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,440 you want to get fucked out. There's nothing wrong with 154 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,560 wanting to be a slut, but there's a difference between 155 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:31,320 wanting to be a slut and a sub slut. 156 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,799 At least for me, sub slut is all right. 157 00:08:33,799 --> 00:08:36,960 That's the place of submission. So if I want you to fuck him, 158 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,960 then you want to fuck him. And in this situation, OK, I 159 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,520 understand the subspace now, because now you're in a 160 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:47,920 situation where you're, it may be not at your, your normal 161 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:50,120 comfort zone, but you're still doing it. 162 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,480 And you know, if you're trying to be a good sub, you're doing 163 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:55,440 it to the best of your ability. So now I understand, you know, 164 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,160 you being in a subspace and having to come out of it and 165 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,920 need to be coddled and cuddled and everything, you know, the 166 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,560 aftercare. But in this situation, Nah, this 167 00:09:03,560 --> 00:09:07,120 is a situation for me where there's, there's regular chicks 168 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,840 that's just like, yo, I want to, I want to get tag team. 169 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:12,400 All right, bet. And after it's all done, 170 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:15,160 everybody is high fiving or everybody's just kicking it. 171 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,000 It's no. She she ain't really trying to 172 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,040 go on so space, she's trying to, she's got this fantasy. 173 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:21,560 Like yo just tell me you got a fantasy. 174 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,520 I told her she got a I I'd like. Yo, you got a kink fetish? 175 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:28,320 I mean, not a kink fetish, a praise fetish where you want 176 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:31,640 someone to praise you, you want to be sitting there told you're 177 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,760 you're sexy and all this stuff. And once again, there's nothing 178 00:09:34,760 --> 00:09:37,200 wrong with that. But for me, like if you are 179 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,520 coming to me saying you want to be my sub, then that's almost a 180 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:44,480 part of the reward where like it's not me praising you up and 181 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,840 then hoping you served me correctly. 182 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,520 It's you serving me correctly and then me praising you for 183 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,240 that. Like she comes over, she's like, 184 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:53,880 Oh yeah, I want to learn how to suck your Dick. 185 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:58,160 But there's no inquiries about what techniques, you know what 186 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,120 you want to do. I'm telling you what to do. 187 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,280 And you looking at me like, you know, Oh my God, you're giving 188 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,920 me direction. Like bitch, if you're really 189 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,960 training to suck my Dick, like you're not going to be touching 190 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:12,480 me with slobber filled hands because your head is going to be 191 00:10:12,560 --> 00:10:15,640 hanging off the bed because we trying to get that shit in 192 00:10:15,640 --> 00:10:17,840 there. Like and that's just what it. 193 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:26,480 Is yeah, so so I'm so now this this so this is remember, you 194 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:28,000 are on the cutting board. You're going to hear the 195 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:32,960 conversations that that guys have unfiltered without you just 196 00:10:32,960 --> 00:10:35,240 a flying wall here. So this kind of conversations 197 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:40,160 that we have on a regular basis, that is a thing that has been 198 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,960 one of my pet peeve forever. So earlier on the lifestyle, as 199 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,360 a pet peeve, a chick would come to me and be like, I want to be 200 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:48,000 your sub. I've never been turned on by a 201 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:51,040 chick who comes up to me. I want to be your sub because 202 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:54,880 that chick is going to sub for anybody that says yes, I want a 203 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:59,840 woman who didn't have any plans of being my sub, but she 204 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:04,480 submitted to who I am taking a woman into subspace. 205 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:08,440 And I know you have because I remember, I, I know, I know this 206 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:14,040 guy, he's taking a woman to a place where she was where you 207 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,360 got to bring her back. Like she's kind of out. 208 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:21,280 She's in the zone subspace Is you telling me, hey, I trust 209 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,240 you. I trust you that you're not 210 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,280 going to put me in harm, in harm's way. 211 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,280 I trust you that you're going, you've learned me well enough to 212 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,400 push my limits, push my boundaries and bring me to a 213 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:35,480 level of pleasure that I've never experienced. 214 00:11:35,560 --> 00:11:38,600 And I am completely giving myself over to you. 215 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:47,600 Now that's a different place. That's if I say you say you want 216 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,440 to learn how to suck Dick. OK, cool. 217 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,640 I'm very particular about everything I am. 218 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,520 I have sensory issues like a motherfucker. 219 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,960 So when I train a chick how to suck my Dick, it's going to be a 220 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:03,840 whole lot of #1 you. Hey, don't touch me with your 221 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:08,280 nasty ass hands, I have sensory issues. 222 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,600 If you want to make my Dick all sloppy, fine. 223 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:15,760 But clean all that shit up. Clean all you know. 224 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:19,160 Touching my chest and shit yo this is nasty. 225 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,600 You got, you got 2 inches, 3 inches of Dick in your mouth, 226 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:27,360 Judy, I know a bunch of dudes who got 5 inch Dicks. 227 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,040 You can train on with that attitude. 228 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:33,200 No, Like what are we doing here? How far are we going to push our 229 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:37,640 limits and how much you relaxing like how many times you had a 230 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,000 chick they go, oh, I want you to train me anally. 231 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:46,120 OK, I will. But when she hits subspace, the 232 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:49,480 level of relaxation that her body experiences is completely 233 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:52,440 different than when you're not in subspace. 234 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,640 That that's what the first time I understood what subspace was, 235 00:12:57,080 --> 00:13:00,560 was actually a chick who wanted me to train her ass. 236 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,200 Like when she went into subspace. 237 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:09,600 The way her body relaxed for me, the way her she, the way she let 238 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:15,600 me in the me watching nothing, paying attention to nothing but 239 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,640 her body. The way it quivered, The way 240 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:22,040 watching her fucking beads a sweat on their back and then 241 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:27,680 watching her asshole let me in. Best thing I can say, and I 242 00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:32,000 remember at the end of that session, the way she looked at 243 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,880 me because I wanted to put I started out on her stomach, went 244 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,840 to her knees, went to her back and looking in her eyes and I 245 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:41,120 she was mine. You know. 246 00:13:41,680 --> 00:13:46,440 So when you say that, it's funny, most of these guys out 247 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,400 here, quote UN quote Dom's have never taken a chick to Dom space 248 00:13:49,560 --> 00:13:52,400 like he it's a subspace, never really taken a subspace, so they 249 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:53,760 don't even understand we're talking about. 250 00:13:54,400 --> 00:13:57,320 But when you've taken actually taken a woman there where you 251 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:02,240 she requires that aftercare and then aftercare is not the same 252 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:06,040 for every woman. If you have a sub long enough, 253 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:09,800 you train her to what aftercare is. 254 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:12,120 I am training you from the beginning to the end. 255 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:16,800 When Missus Mocha aftercare by the end compared to what 256 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:20,080 aftercare was in the beginning was completely different with me 257 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:21,800 because the level of trust we had. 258 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:23,360 You know what I'm saying? Yeah. 259 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,280 So it's interesting when you say that this woman showed up with 260 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:27,800 this fantasy. Oh, I want to do this. 261 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:28,960 I want to do that. I want to do this. 262 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,240 No, you don't. You just want to get get, you 263 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,440 know, gangbang real. Quick, like I told her, she 264 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,600 wants a manager. You want somebody to sit there 265 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:39,160 and supply you with quality dudes. 266 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:43,320 BBC's and, you know, make sure that it's in a safe space, make 267 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:45,200 sure everybody's good and clean and everything. 268 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:47,560 And then you want people to praise you for it. 269 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,360 And for me, it's like, Nah, I'm not going to do that because 270 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,800 there are situations where, you know, there's women, you know, 271 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:58,520 we just went to a party where, you know, the women had that and 272 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:00,720 they're, they're earning the praise. 273 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,680 Trust me, they are, but it's not a requirement. 274 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:05,840 They're they, it's because it's understanding that, yo, it's a 275 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:08,120 mutual thing. They want to fuck us just as 276 00:15:08,120 --> 00:15:11,280 much as we want to fuck them. So even though, even if, you 277 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,640 know, even with us praising them, they're also praising us 278 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:16,160 as well, you know, so everybody's feeling good because 279 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,360 of everybody. And for me, it's a, it's a 280 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,480 situation with her where it's not, it's like, no, man, you're 281 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,240 where, where we're at. It should always be, at least 282 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:30,040 for me from a place of gratitude because I'm doing all this work 283 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:33,520 to put this shit together to make sure everybody's cool, to 284 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:37,120 make sure everybody's straight and making sure it's people that 285 00:15:37,120 --> 00:15:40,520 you're, you're going to like as much as you like myself. 286 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:43,360 And just the whole responsibility. 287 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:45,760 Like a lot of motherfuckers, they look at, you know, they 288 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,280 want a sub and everything. But like I've been telling 289 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,240 everybody a lot lately, you got to be what you want. 290 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,680 So it's not just about what you want the sub to be for you. 291 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,320 It's about what you got to be for that sub. 292 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,960 You know, the level of patience you got to have, the level of, 293 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:05,880 you know, understanding, even with the aftercare, every, every 294 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:09,000 aspect of it, it has to be very, you have to be very thoughtful, 295 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:12,120 mindful, because you're not just in control of somebody's body, 296 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:14,120 more importantly, in control of somebody's mind. 297 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:17,720 So you want them, at least for me, I want them to have a great 298 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:21,320 experience. So even if her and I stop 299 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,960 fooling around or fucking with each other, she's in she's for 300 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:29,400 the streets, you know, like I want, I want her to be to go 301 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,040 back out and dudes come across her and be like, yo, she is. 302 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:36,920 Wow, you're welcome. Because the experience I gave 303 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,680 her made her feel comfortable to the point where she can be like 304 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:42,840 that or feel like she can be like that with whoever she feels 305 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,920 comfortable now. Yeah, and you know, it's 306 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:50,080 interesting, like you, you, you always say this, you say you 307 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,640 have one feet, 1 foot in the street and 1 foot in the 308 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,840 lifestyle. So. 309 00:16:56,160 --> 00:16:59,320 Now I got both feet in the street and all so often I'll sit 310 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,960 there and peep my head or stick a toe in the lifestyle. 311 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:09,280 And so what's interesting is I remember like that that concept, 312 00:17:10,920 --> 00:17:14,079 you know, we go back to oftentimes talking to couples 313 00:17:14,079 --> 00:17:18,359 who are looking for quality single males, the type of guy 314 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:22,400 that you're looking for. In my opinion, when you're 315 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,640 looking for those high quality single guys, they have those 316 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,120 options. They very, very much have the 317 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:34,760 option because they know this the same guy that you want to 318 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:38,240 come in and woo your wife is constantly getting practice in 319 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:43,680 the real world. So when they step into it, that 320 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,280 practice in the real world makes that guy brings his a game. 321 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:51,840 But I think a lot of couples don't have that expectation. 322 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,480 They they have this mindset that they don't have to bring their A 323 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:58,760 to a game to a guy. Thank you, baby. 324 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:04,120 And if, when you, when, when couples are looking for a 325 00:18:04,120 --> 00:18:07,720 quality guy, I think that's the thing, like, Hey, you have to 326 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:14,440 understand that, that I'm not here because I have to be, you 327 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:16,400 know, and this right here is a great example. 328 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,200 Like you got to read this, this profile. 329 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,760 This is like one of my favorite profiles to laugh at. 330 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:26,800 Like I, I laugh at this profile all the time because of the 331 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,960 expectation that some people have where it's like the kind of 332 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:36,960 guy that you're looking for is not the, the guy that you want. 333 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:40,400 You have to give him that same respect that he gives you. 334 00:18:41,120 --> 00:18:43,760 You have to give him a certain level of energy, understanding 335 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:49,520 that before I come and spend time with you and you know, your 336 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,920 person. I'm here because I want to be, 337 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,320 not because it's the only place I can be, you know? 338 00:18:57,320 --> 00:19:00,880 So that is when you said, you know, hey, there's this lady. 339 00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:03,040 Because I remember looking at her profile, the one that she 340 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:07,080 tried to put me on to, It's like I was like, I was kind of 5050 341 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,360 on it until you told me. Like, oh, no, she's cool. 342 00:19:09,360 --> 00:19:13,560 But you know it ain't nothing to jump off the window for. 343 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,360 Yeah, she's she's coolish. Like she's cool. 344 00:19:17,360 --> 00:19:21,000 I think for me is that like when you try to sell me on something 345 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:25,200 and then you, it ends up being what it's not that kind of turns 346 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,040 me off from the situation in general. 347 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,840 So, you know, she's talking about and I'm good. 348 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:31,480 Thank you. She's talking about, you know, 349 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,640 what she wants and everything, but how her actions and what she 350 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,120 talks about are completely different where it's just like, 351 00:19:37,120 --> 00:19:40,640 yo, maybe you need to take the time and figure it out exactly 352 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:45,080 what it is you want. Or in our, or in my case, you 353 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:48,760 know, it's letting it be known you're, you owe me no 354 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:52,240 exclusiveness. So you can go out and find what 355 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,120 it is you're looking for. And this is what I'm, I'm 356 00:19:55,120 --> 00:19:57,000 willing to sell you. This is what I'm willing to give 357 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,480 you. So if you're, if you want what 358 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,560 I'm willing to give you, then you can come and we can, you 359 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,560 know, try to have a good time. But as far as coming in the 360 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,920 situation and like, hey, I know like it's like playing 361 00:20:07,920 --> 00:20:10,720 basketball and someone saying, Hey, you know, I know we're 362 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,360 playing basketball, but you know, it'd be dope if I have to 363 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:14,880 dribble the ball and I can still move. 364 00:20:15,120 --> 00:20:20,520 Then go play football, go play a different sport, because that's 365 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:21,880 not the rules here in basketball. 366 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,840 Yeah, let me just travel. Yeah. 367 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:25,800 Oh yeah. You know, I would really love to 368 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,000 be able to travel, you know, in basketball. 369 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:33,120 OK, I'm, I'm sorry then fine, like minded people find people 370 00:20:33,120 --> 00:20:35,480 that don't mind a little travelling, you know. 371 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,480 But where I'm at now, I'm I'm good. 372 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,440 So what's the ideal situation for you within the lifestyle? 373 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:48,080 Within the lifestyle, an ideal situation is a situation where 374 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:52,240 where everyone's cool, you know, we meet and we're cool, but 375 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,800 we're leading with sex. So we're leading with sex and 376 00:20:55,800 --> 00:20:59,520 then the friendship, if there is one that builds. 377 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:02,080 You need to explain that. OK, I'm glad you said that. 378 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:05,120 Please explain that. For me, the lifestyle is a place 379 00:21:05,120 --> 00:21:09,160 to have casual sex without feeling being involved, hurt, 380 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,480 whatever the case may be. It's supposed to be where 381 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:16,760 everything is, as my therapist put it, hot, honest, open and 382 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,160 transparent. So all right, we're, we're all 383 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:24,000 consenting adults in a situation where we have specific sexual 384 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,960 preferences or canks and we're helping each other fulfill 385 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,920 those. So if we're going in with the 386 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,960 understanding of that, then to me that's the perfect situation 387 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,560 where we're treating everybody humanely. 388 00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,920 There is no tier hierarchies. We understand that. 389 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,360 We go, we're both animals. We're both animals that want to 390 00:21:40,360 --> 00:21:44,000 indulge in our animal instincts of wanting to fuck and we come 391 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,920 together and hey, we enjoy having sex. 392 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,400 That's going to be the inspiration for us getting along 393 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,480 because we enjoy having sex. Because if I meet somebody in 394 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,760 the lifestyle and the sex is terrible, neither one of us are 395 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:57,920 going to want to talk to each other. 396 00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,400 So why are we going to leave with friendship in the arena 397 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:06,720 that's built for sex? That's good shit. 398 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,160 Now continue. You said that that's what you 399 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,040 wanted. So what do you want? 400 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:12,680 A lifestyle. You said you want a relationship 401 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:16,440 that leads with sex. You know, or yeah, situation 402 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,840 that leads with sex and if it grows, however it grows from 403 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:22,800 that point is how it grows. But I want an organic situation, 404 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:26,480 a perfect example of a situation on that's they're trying to 405 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,400 start. Now there's a lifestyle couple 406 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,360 that lives literally right around the corner from me. 407 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:33,720 Like I can I walk past their house every time I walk my dog 408 00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:38,720 Trina, shout off the Trina. But they want like this whole 409 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,880 hey, come out, hang out with us, Like, hey, maybe you and the 410 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,880 husband can be friends and stuff like that. 411 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:47,720 And it's like, I don't know if I enjoy having sex with you yet. 412 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:53,360 So why would I want to do that? Like we that's the only thing 413 00:22:53,360 --> 00:22:56,880 that's bringing us together. It's not like we met at AI don't 414 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,200 know a cooking class. Oh, OK. 415 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,360 We both know we, we like to cook or even if you meet somebody at 416 00:23:01,360 --> 00:23:04,320 a bar, OK, we both know we like to drink. 417 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,320 We like being in these type of settings. 418 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,280 So that's something we can do together. 419 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,760 We're meeting for for sexual purposes. 420 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,840 What we have in common is that we're both sexually attracted to 421 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,200 each other and we like the idea of having sex with each other. 422 00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:21,200 So why are we moving past that? Why is that not being completed 423 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:27,320 for you're trying to go on and add other issue or add other 424 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,720 aspects of it. Now, if you want to do that, 425 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,800 because I understand that for a lot of people like the lifestyle 426 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:38,120 is their social life, you know, and I get that and there's 427 00:23:38,120 --> 00:23:40,280 nothing wrong with that. I'm just speaking for myself 428 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:46,200 personally is that I don't I'm not looking for friends and the 429 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:50,200 lifestyle Now, you know, I'm sitting here with Mr. Mocha and 430 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,480 we've been friends for about 10 years. 431 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,680 But that's because it started the way that I'm talking about 432 00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,520 where OK, hey, we do the little meet and greet, not even a meet 433 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,640 and greet. I met them at their house and we 434 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,920 talked in their garage for a good 10-15 minutes just to fill 435 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,960 each other out. And then after that, from that 436 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,280 moment, it's like, OK, I enjoy being with Misses Mocha. 437 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,200 She enjoy having sex with me. The friendship grows from there. 438 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,600 OK, now we see each other again. Oh, we might talk for 5 minutes 439 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,600 now. OK, we see each other again. 440 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,600 Hey, you know whatever's going on, we're sitting now having a 441 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,920 conversation. Oh, we actually have other stuff 442 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:27,040 in common other than just sex now. 443 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,880 That's when the friendship starts growing because now we 444 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:33,840 see that as people we connect, not just as sexual beings. 445 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,120 Now there's cases where you might sit there and talk to 446 00:24:36,120 --> 00:24:41,200 somebody for 5-10 minutes and it's not a bad conversation, but 447 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,560 you understand that oh, the only thing we really have in common 448 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:46,800 is sex where that's the friendship. 449 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,480 I've had couples that I've known just as long as them where we 450 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:55,840 look at each other as lifestyle friends, where we probably had a 451 00:24:55,840 --> 00:25:00,760 conversation out of let's say 10 years, maybe we talked for maybe 452 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:06,640 34 minutes out of 10 years of actual non sexual conversation. 453 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,520 And most of it is just, hey, so how you been? 454 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:13,000 How's life, you know, But the sex is, is to the point where 455 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,720 that's not necessary. So my thing is the perfect 456 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,760 situation, in short, is an organic situation. 457 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,440 But it's it starts off with why we're all here with sex. 458 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,640 Yeah, I've always felt like the lifestyle is like a game of 459 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:31,960 pickup basketball. We all came to the court, You're 460 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,720 trying to pick a team and then somebody's like, hey, listen, 461 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:39,200 before we play pick up basketball, we need to become 462 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,000 best friends. What? 463 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,200 I came here to play basketball. Now if we keep playing 464 00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:49,280 basketball and we realize that, yo, I like this person's energy 465 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:54,520 we have, that's different. But it's interesting the 466 00:25:54,520 --> 00:26:00,160 expectations that people have in the lifestyle, like I love, I 467 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,840 love reading people's profiles. Reading profiles is the most, 468 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:08,240 let me tell you something, the most entertaining thing in the 469 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:15,520 lifestyle next to sex is reading people's profiles tracks me the 470 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:20,920 fuck up now and then. It's always the ones where the 471 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:26,480 people like people don't have a realistic I think like people 472 00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:31,920 have on weird lenses like I I pulled up one of my favorite 473 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,680 profiles of all time like I love this profile. 474 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:42,440 This couple has hit me up multiple times and it cracks me 475 00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,600 up. I'm going to read this profile 476 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:48,280 OK and if you ever listen to this profile I didn't say your 477 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,400 name but please think what you want. 478 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,720 Sexy hot wife for hung Bulls OK first we don't break this down 479 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,920 like we going to do that report. What is a bull to you? 480 00:27:05,360 --> 00:27:07,480 When you think of a person that's looking for a bull, what 481 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,960 do you What kind of person do you think they're looking for? 482 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:14,040 When I think of somebody looking for a bull, I think of someone 483 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:18,400 looking for, I guess, an assertive person. 484 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:23,360 An assertive, assertive person. I guess a leader in the bedroom, 485 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:29,960 someone that's hung wound out and I guess one of the top tier 486 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:36,040 guys. OK so this couple says Sexy hot 487 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:40,680 wife for hung bull Update We've decided to block profiles with 488 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:44,240 no validation unless we FaceTime you and see you live. 489 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,480 We love private parties to link up with people with similar 490 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:49,680 interests, but we would rarely plan them. 491 00:27:50,360 --> 00:27:54,440 Not a fan of swing clubs? If you are, If you are 492 00:27:54,440 --> 00:28:00,320 contacting us just to ask for Album pro passwords, let us tell 493 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,640 you that in all caps. It won't happen. 494 00:28:04,360 --> 00:28:06,800 We're tired of it. Act like a dolphin. 495 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,400 Also, if you don't fit our credentials, we won't respond to 496 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,640 you. Now that's just the beginning. 497 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:17,200 And to me, it's like why you got to start off so aggressively. 498 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,320 Like that's, that's like, I understand everybody goes 499 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,840 through their things, but it's like, I don't know, I just look 500 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,920 at it. I try to look at myself in 501 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,920 situations. I always try to sit, sit there 502 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,600 and evaluate myself to where if I'm in a scenario and I'm 503 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:37,360 getting the same things all the time from multiple different 504 00:28:37,360 --> 00:28:40,640 directions, then I got to evaluate myself and think, maybe 505 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,760 it's me. What it what is it about me 506 00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,120 that's attracting what I'm attracting? 507 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:52,240 And coming off this aggressively isn't really going to stop you 508 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,040 from attracting. What you're attracting is just 509 00:28:56,040 --> 00:29:00,560 going to sometimes throw off what you may really want. 510 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:05,520 OK, that was my first impression. 511 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,960 If you want to bull a person who's assertive and somewhat 512 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:18,720 dominant, you talking to me like I'm a bitch or you throwing out 513 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,880 there that this is the type of person you are. 514 00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:27,120 To me that says arrogance. You are very, very arrogant to 515 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:33,640 say this in your profile because First things first, if you met 516 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,960 me, if we were in a club, you wouldn't grab a microphone and 517 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:40,400 yell that out loud. All right, now let's continue. 518 00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,200 We are stag, stag and vixen couple. 519 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,560 We're husby. I can't read. 520 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:50,240 Hubby loves to watch her having fun primarily and join in at 521 00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:53,040 times. We might be new to this website 522 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,480 as a couple, but we're not new to the lifestyle. 523 00:29:56,120 --> 00:30:01,320 Wife is crazy about hung athletic BBC in Latin in ( 9 524 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:06,200 inches plus only. She is a we'll say fitness 525 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,320 competitor. We're professionals 526 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,120 sophisticated. It tells what race the the male 527 00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,560 is and the wife is a Caucasian woman. 528 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:19,840 And we also welcome couples with enlarge and all caps similar 529 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:23,480 preferences parentheses. We love to make a small group 530 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,600 with similar couples. We can all get together and host 531 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:31,800 some wild parties with clean cut types dot dot dot. 532 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,560 Now this is the qualifications for the males they're looking 533 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,960 for. Males should be flirtatious, 534 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,280 articulate, well dressed in parentheses. 535 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,000 Good hygiene is a must. Respectful in order to have an 536 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:50,680 opportunity with her. Excuse me, we're very laid back. 537 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:54,280 We're very laid back couple. We travel often between blah 538 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:58,680 blah, blah and where we are now. We also like to videotape our 539 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:02,640 encounters in parentheses. We won't show your face if you 540 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,680 don't like that then and all cats we aren't interested in 541 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:11,000 all. Keep it 100% continue it. 542 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:16,760 She actually is very very bi curious and we would like FMF as 543 00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:21,440 our fantasy who's up for the task lol. 544 00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:24,600 By the way we won't accept your friend request if we haven't met 545 00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,840 before. Let's stop the BS. 546 00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,440 No one under 30. Did you get it? 547 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,480 We are not into soft swap. What she wants tall muscular 548 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:40,160 guy, 6 foot plus #2 very good hygiene #3 dress well and smell 549 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:44,240 good when you come to meet her. No shorts, no flip flops. 550 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,560 Do not look like a boy. Be a man in all large caps, 551 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,480 shaved as well trim face in private parts. 552 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:55,000 Single males. If you're selected in all large 553 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,400 letters, you must entertain. Period. 554 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:02,040 Sound like a city girl right there. 555 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:08,160 All right, well, first thing I see that I would question or the 556 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,760 main thing I see that I would question because this has always 557 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,960 been a big issue with me. Almost the whole video thing. 558 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,320 So it's like they like to record video and like what I say to 559 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,320 couples, it's like they're like, Oh yeah, we'll leave your your 560 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,400 face out of it where it's like my face ain't what would make 561 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:27,840 you money is my Dick. You know, I mean, not not to 562 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,800 mention I got a whole bunch of recognizable tattoos, but even 563 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,880 mine is that like there've been plenty of pornos where you don't 564 00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:38,120 see the dude's face or you don't care to see the dude's face. 565 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,120 You just want to make sure that he's he's hung. 566 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,640 So with that being said, it's like, well, I get it. 567 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,400 Well, I get a copy of the videos because a lot of couples, 568 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,080 they'll sit there and say, oh, well, you know, it's just for 569 00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:53,920 our personal use and everything like that where we have, you 570 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,520 know, family or whatever the case may be. 571 00:32:56,520 --> 00:33:00,800 As if I'm some type of lonely orphan in this world where I 572 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:03,680 don't have anybody that could recognize me as well. 573 00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:05,520 Like for me, that's the level of trust. 574 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:10,160 I'm trusting you to sit there and keep your word about some 575 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:11,960 private footage that involves me. 576 00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,240 So you got to be what you want. If you want that. 577 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,440 You got to give me that same trust that I'm giving you. 578 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,200 Because for me, I'm thinking like, if you don't trust me, why 579 00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:23,520 should I trust you? Because that's how you're 580 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,440 leading. So that's the first thing. 581 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,240 The second thing, this whole profile is oxymoron. 582 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,640 The moment they said they're laid back because there's 583 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:34,760 nothing about this profile that says they're laid back. 584 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:41,560 So many all capital sentences and and words where it's just 585 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:48,040 what's what's laid back about that, you know, just, I don't 586 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,520 know, There's so many demands. It's so many demands where it's 587 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:54,640 just like, what, what are you offering? 588 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,800 Like it? Because right now this is a 589 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:03,520 situation where it seems like they're doing the guys a favor 590 00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:08,520 by allowing them to have sex with his wife. 591 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:11,199 And these pictures are old because I remember their 592 00:34:11,199 --> 00:34:13,040 profile. And I think, I think all 593 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,239 lifestyle websites and I'm, I'm throwing this out there for 594 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,480 anybody that may be running any of these sites. 595 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,239 I think all lifestyle websites should have an expiration date 596 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,120 for their pictures. I think that you should have to 597 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:29,360 update your pictures at least every year, if not every six 598 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,480 months, because you can look so much different in that amount of 599 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:33,960 time. Three months. 600 00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:35,760 Yeah. Well, I've seen, I've seen 601 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,920 profiles that I've, this is probably like my third profile 602 00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:40,400 that I have on the site that we're on. 603 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:46,360 And since my first profile over 10 years ago, I see profiles 604 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,880 with the same pictures from that point. 605 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,159 And I've seen these people in person. 606 00:34:51,159 --> 00:34:56,280 And it's like you do not look even remotely close to that 607 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:59,200 anymore. That looks like it's like a 608 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,320 biopic and based off a true story. 609 00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:04,120 You look like you're based off a true story you like. 610 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,240 You're based off of what you look like you used to look like. 611 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,920 But you do. Not look like that anymore. 612 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:14,920 But he's a biopic based off of. It's like, no, it's like, Oh 613 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,000 yeah. It's like, no, it's not even a 614 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:18,320 biopic, bro. That's based off a true story. 615 00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,920 Like, Oh yeah, you know, like extreme exaggeration at this 616 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:24,560 point in time with how old some of these people pictures are. 617 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,040 And I know this profile, I've seen it before because they've 618 00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:29,200 reached out to me before. And it's like, yo. 619 00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:33,000 After reading this, I've, I've messaged them, they reached out 620 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,800 to me, they've reached out to me 3 different times. 621 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,960 And each time I said respectfully, we're not 622 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,120 compatible because I'm reading this profile. 623 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,280 Like let's look at this part. Like there's certain things, 624 00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:47,520 like there's things, there's so many red flags that stand out to 625 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:52,360 me like right here. Wait, where's the one, the part 626 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,880 that said don't be a boy, be a man, don't be a boy. 627 00:35:56,000 --> 00:36:00,240 Like what are we doing? I feel like he's challenging, 628 00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,720 like you're challenging me now, like, you know. 629 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,240 And then this right? This is my listen y'all can call 630 00:36:06,240 --> 00:36:09,920 me petty all you want but this number 5 is my favorite. 631 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:14,240 This is crazy to me. Single males, if you're 632 00:36:14,240 --> 00:36:18,520 selected, if you're selected, you must entertain. 633 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:22,040 Period. My thing is, you're a hot wife. 634 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:27,520 You need single males. Why would I entertain like I? 635 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:33,000 So you want me to pay to fuck your wife? 636 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:41,680 Like you're at my listen, if my wife wants to play, find a dude 637 00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,640 she want to play with. I have a space for her to play. 638 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,760 And if not, I'm going to get the fucking hotel room. 639 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,560 Unless she's a friend of yours like you, she can come to your 640 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,960 house, you're safe, she's comfortable, boom. 641 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:57,800 But what the like? It blows me away. 642 00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,400 Like what? When I see shit like that, I I I 643 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:07,360 think in my head, OK, so I can do that for a 52 year old or I 644 00:37:07,360 --> 00:37:10,680 can do that for a 32 year old. I could do that. 645 00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,320 I had the ability where I could do that for a 22 year old. 646 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,440 I don't I don't normally go that low. 647 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:19,400 Yeah, single a single woman to where I can do that and it's 648 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,200 impressing her to where OK, this is going to lead to me 649 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:24,520 continuously fucking her to where Hey, what? 650 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,280 We were talking about Subs earlier where OK, I can make her 651 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,360 a sub. I can make her a girlfriend, I 652 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,360 can make her a fuck buddy. There's so many more, so many 653 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:36,160 options available where in this situation, OK. 654 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:40,080 And I don't got nobody talking to me like bro, like the the 655 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:45,520 language in this, the language in this profile to me is so 656 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,280 crazy. It's nuts. 657 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,720 It's crazy, It's nuts. Like look at the the ex male 658 00:37:50,720 --> 00:37:53,400 should be flirtatious, articulate, well dressed, good 659 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,520 hygiene is a must, respectful in order to have an opportunity 660 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,720 with her, you must be. That's the part right there. 661 00:37:59,720 --> 00:38:02,640 That's the killer. Cause all that what you want is 662 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,680 what you want. You're entitled to want what you 663 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,800 want. I mean, they're entitled to have 664 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,640 this whole profile, but as soon as it's like to have an 665 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,560 opportunity because it's like, what, you motherfucker? 666 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,560 Like. Like what an opportunity. 667 00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:16,480 With you like. What? 668 00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,000 What does that even mean? Like what? 669 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,400 What is the opportunity I. Don't understand? 670 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,480 Like for me it's like, alright, in that case, like yo, you 671 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,760 gotta, I need to see something. I need to either see like 672 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:29,440 pictures where she's sitting there. 673 00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,320 One picture is she, she's down to her nose and the 674 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:35,040 motherfucking balls is on her chin. 675 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,560 And the next video, the next picture, the motherfucking shit 676 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,960 is fucking 10 inches long or some shit. 677 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,640 I need to see videos of her going crazy, like videos where 678 00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:46,760 it's just like, damn, I want a piece of that. 679 00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,480 Because if we're going by just looks and it's like, all right, 680 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:53,840 even if we're sticking to let's leave the real world out of it, 681 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:59,080 OK, I can look at that or I can go for somebody that's a lot 682 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:00,840 cooler. You asked me about single girls. 683 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,520 I know single women. Even the 53 year old, OK, she 684 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,360 makes this profile makes the 53 year old I'm talking about not 685 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,760 seeing bad because hey, at least she's, you know, throwing it out 686 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,040 there like, you know, she wants to submit and everything. 687 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:13,800 It's easy. She just wants to come over and 688 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:18,600 get Dick down by some hung black guys as opposed to this woman 689 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:22,560 that wants to do that wants a man to come and do what her 690 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:24,920 husband should be doing. Your husband is supposed to be 691 00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,880 making you feel like that, Like we're we're supposed to be the 692 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:31,320 cherry on top of the sundae they already have are supposed to 693 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:35,160 have prepared for you. Yeah, now, now this is. 694 00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,280 So what's funny is this. So this is this is our profile. 695 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,400 If you message our profile without pictures we will not 696 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:47,200 respond. When we find a couple that we 697 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:49,480 both compatible with, we would love to play. 698 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:53,320 She isn't into girls so if you require that to play with us, 699 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,000 we're not the couple for you. We both play separate single 700 00:39:57,000 --> 00:40:00,040 guys or husbands with legit hall passes. 701 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,680 Feel free to say hi if we don't respond, it's a polite way of 702 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:07,880 saying we aren't interested. We are both workaholics so 703 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,720 sometimes the response may be slow. 704 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,560 He enjoys Single Ladies and hot wives. 705 00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,360 Feel free to reach out if you're interested in him. 706 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,520 We are looking for secure, attractive height, weight, 707 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,240 proportion to playmates, couples and singles. 708 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:25,840 If you have hang ups or insecurities, we are not for 709 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,640 you. We have a drama free. 710 00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:32,520 We are a drama free couple so we are looking to meet drama free 711 00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:35,920 couples and singles again. If you contact us and you do not 712 00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:41,120 have pictures of both of you, please send clear pictures in 713 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,680 your first e-mail. We're a full swap couple. 714 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,400 Same room or separate room. We're very secure. 715 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:52,680 Our fantasies surpasses way more than this page, so that being 716 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,720 said, just ask. Like that's a very respectful 717 00:40:56,720 --> 00:40:58,680 profile. It's a very respectful, very 718 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:02,440 cordial, very cool profile. And where you look at that with 719 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,800 open mind where it's just like, all right, because the other 720 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:07,560 profile, I'm looking at that profile with judgment after 721 00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,880 reading it all day, you know, I'm looking at this. 722 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:11,680 Are you worth? What you saying? 723 00:41:11,720 --> 00:41:16,000 Because if they had a cool profile, it's like cup half 724 00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:20,000 full, cup half empty. So y'all profile I'm looking at 725 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,840 the cup half full where it's like all right let's look at the 726 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:28,000 pictures OK, they seem cool. My mind is going towards the 727 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,960 positive in any scenario, any scenario that's the toss up 728 00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:35,360 anything I don't know for sure I'm assuming the best because of 729 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:40,040 the way the profile is laid out. This profile I'm looking at it 730 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,560 with judgement because it's so judge mental because it's so 731 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,840 harsh, because it's so aggressive. 732 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:49,720 So now instead of saying, oh, she got big titties, I'm, I'm 733 00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:52,040 looking at this area right here where, oh, look at that. 734 00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:53,920 I wonder what that's going to look like when she takes her, 735 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,920 her underwear off. You know, I'm looking at 736 00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:58,560 everything from a subjective standpoint because they're so 737 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:02,040 subjective and they're once again, you got to be what you 738 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:03,000 want. So. 739 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:07,200 Standards that you're putting out there like like, and here's 740 00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:12,720 a crazy thing, like they've adjusted this process because 741 00:42:12,720 --> 00:42:14,600 before they said they're looking for a dominant male. 742 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,200 You're not looking for a dominant male. 743 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:23,240 No, no fit, attractive, high level bull is going to fuck with 744 00:42:23,240 --> 00:42:27,240 this couple. Like I can't, I can't say no. 745 00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:34,800 But if you fuck with this couple after reading this profile that 746 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,880 tells me what your options are like, I just can't like, and 747 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:44,360 here's the problem. Like even like she is before you 748 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:49,600 read this, if you if, if it was more of a reasonable profile, 749 00:42:50,240 --> 00:42:54,400 I'd look at that and go, hmm, I might do that now. 750 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:59,160 I'm like, based upon what you're asking for, bro, you can't ask 751 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:01,440 me for Bentley prices for a Hyundai. 752 00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:05,000 You can't, you can't, like you can't do that. 753 00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:09,560 You just can't do that. So like, I'm like, yo, I don't 754 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:13,400 understand what makes people write the stuff they write. 755 00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,480 And to me, like I could be wrong, but in my mind, I feel 756 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:22,080 like this must this, this is a husband's way of making sure 757 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:26,160 that the guys that they deal with is not something that's 758 00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:30,320 going to threaten his ego. This is a way of calling in all 759 00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:35,000 actors, so all all dudes that aren't naturally like this in 760 00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:38,120 their their normal day-to-day life, they can come into the 761 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,840 situation and act like this. And since they're only acting to 762 00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,040 the level that they expect, maybe it works out nice. 763 00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:50,520 You know, because that's what I see like a lot of a lot of 764 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,400 lifestyles once like people I know people aren't how they are 765 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,800 in a lifestyle in real life. A lot of people aren't just how 766 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,320 arrogant some people are. And it's like yo if you are like 767 00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:06,720 that in real life then golly I see why you run to the lifestyle 768 00:44:06,720 --> 00:44:09,640 so much because people in real life probably don't fuck with 769 00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:14,200 you like that. Because your options, your bro, 770 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,000 like when I tell you, it blows me away. 771 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,400 And that was why, you know, I like I had a conversation with 772 00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:25,120 my man before when me actually me and Dmitry were talking for 773 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,040 couples. It's not very difficult to find 774 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:33,600 a guy that it's not difficult to find a high level guy if you are 775 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:38,320 of moderate, if you have a great attitude, great personality, 776 00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,560 you're sexual, you understand the assignment, which is we're 777 00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,080 here to have fun. I'm here to make sure you have 778 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,720 fun. You're here to make sure I have 779 00:44:46,720 --> 00:44:50,920 fun. And you, you look halfway decent 780 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:55,280 and and halfway decent is in the eye of the beholder, so. 781 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,840 And personality can change that, like a personality, yo, it's 782 00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:03,280 been plenty of times where it's just like you, you there might 783 00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,160 be a woman of a couple where you look at her and be like, yo, you 784 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,560 can probably do better, but it's like, yo, she dope. 785 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:11,920 Yeah, she dope. Her personality is dope. 786 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,520 Yeah, exactly. It's fun. 787 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,840 The sex is fun where it's just like, all right, yeah, I'll, 788 00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:21,480 I'll take a 5 / 8 if the five has everything else and the 789 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,840 eight only is pretty. Yeah, and and and that's another 790 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,920 thing that I think a lot of people don't realize there's a 791 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:34,320 certain level of guy who we have a number system because like we 792 00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:41,360 both know a dime who is trash in bed like garbage. 793 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:45,520 Garbage. Like you like yo, she looks so 794 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:50,440 good and five minutes into fucking or like I'm not sure if 795 00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,240 you ever done it, but I've definitely faked it enough 796 00:45:52,240 --> 00:45:52,960 before you. Stop. 797 00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:54,520 Yeah, I've been like done a couple times. 798 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,720 Have you run to the bathroom? I gotta go to the bathroom. 799 00:45:56,720 --> 00:45:57,960 I gotta take a piss. Yeah. 800 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:00,280 Or no. I'll be like, I'm so sorry. 801 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,160 It's just so tight. I gotta stop. 802 00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:07,200 Nah, your pussy's trash. Trash can. 803 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,240 Now, don't get me wrong, there are something that I'm not 804 00:46:09,240 --> 00:46:12,000 saying I ain't never been because I have been between some 805 00:46:12,000 --> 00:46:14,360 legs where the pussy good and I'm trying to hold keep from 806 00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:16,800 losing my shit, but I've definitely faked some nuts to 807 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,520 get up out of there and never come back. 808 00:46:19,600 --> 00:46:24,000 And she's you know, you know, I've never had a guy who never 809 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,320 I've never I've never played with a guy who didn't keep 810 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,200 pursuing me afterwards. Well, that's because you're 811 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,000 playing with dudes. It's only fucking your image 812 00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:34,280 because your pussy is garbage. Pussy garbage personality must 813 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,000 be trash because even if the pussy is trash like yo like like 814 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,520 I said, if the personality is dope and I want everybody to 815 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,440 understand that yeah I talk about the regular life for real 816 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:47,040 life and lifestyle, but the same rules I apply to lifestyle I 817 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,360 apply to my real life too. The only, the only difference is 818 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,040 that the lifestyle, it doesn't have any priority. 819 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,360 So it's just like, all right, it's not like, all right, I get 820 00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:59,520 a regular text message and I'm checking that because it's going 821 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,520 through my phone. I'm not checking the website. 822 00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:05,640 I'm not checking the website. So I got time or I'm doing 823 00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,480 scrolling anyway. I might as well, you know, get 824 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:09,920 this out. But once I connect with 825 00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,880 somebody, then I show them the same respect that I would show 826 00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,320 anybody else. And that's why everything is so 827 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:18,160 important to me. What I say is because once we do 828 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:22,840 connect, my my goal is to make it a great experience for you. 829 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,240 I'm not treating the wife, whether she's single, coming 830 00:47:26,240 --> 00:47:28,240 alone or whatever. I'm not treating anybody like, 831 00:47:28,240 --> 00:47:31,360 oh, well, you're just lifestyle. So, you know, no, I'm treating 832 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,080 you with the same respect I would treat anybody else because 833 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:36,960 it's the understanding that, yeah, the lifestyle is just the 834 00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:41,360 arena for us to know where to look for where, what we want. 835 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:48,080 And that is unconventional. Agreed upon sex without an 836 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,880 emotional attachment. NSA. 837 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:54,840 Yeah, and and I also firmly, I, I will never understand, like 838 00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,400 I'm so respectful to the guys who are going to play with my 839 00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:04,880 wife because like you wouldn't talk like, I mean, I guess some 840 00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:06,760 guys would. But like, if, if I know that 841 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,680 you're going to drive my Ferrari, I wouldn't talk to you 842 00:48:09,680 --> 00:48:11,600 crazy before I gave you keys to it. 843 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:15,520 That's fair. Like there's nothing more 844 00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,600 valuable than my wife. So if if I see you as someone 845 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,320 who's worthy to play with my wife, like that's reflection on 846 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:25,960 me. And the reflection on me is I 847 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:29,840 take pride in knowing the level of guys that my wife played 848 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:34,200 with. I take pride in going, OK, this 849 00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:36,400 dude is a reflection on my choices. 850 00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:41,800 And what standard did I set for my wife to like my wife's 851 00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:45,480 standards from the time I met her till now are completely 852 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:50,080 different. So that being said, if you hit 853 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,920 that standard, I'm treating you with the ultimate respect. 854 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,760 I'm, I'm, I'm welcoming me here with, with open arms. 855 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,960 I'm hoping that I inspire you to have good energy because I'm 856 00:48:59,960 --> 00:49:04,680 going to tell you a husband, a husband can can, can cause his 857 00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,680 wife to get some bad Dick. Facts. 858 00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,560 A husband can definitely like your attitude. 859 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,840 I'm already here. I'm a fucker anyways, but my 860 00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,200 mind is kind of over there. Like, who the fuck is this guy 861 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,080 talking to? Like I ain't coming back to this 862 00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,480 mother again. And now I'm in here giving out, 863 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:22,280 you know, lackluster Dick because facts. 864 00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:26,280 This goofball says something stupid like don't, don't. 865 00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:32,720 So yeah, yeah, it's. I don't understand it as a 866 00:49:32,720 --> 00:49:37,560 husband, you know, and, and you being somebody who, when you 867 00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:41,520 bring me into one of your situations, the level of respect 868 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:45,160 that's that that you bring me into the, the way you, the 869 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:50,640 alley, the way everything works, It's, it's a certain level like, 870 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:54,360 because now I'm a representation of you and you're a 871 00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,760 representation of me. Like these husbands. 872 00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,880 I think a lot of husbands out there do this thing where it 873 00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:05,240 makes them feel powerful or makes them feel like they have a 874 00:50:05,240 --> 00:50:08,440 bargaining chip in their wife. So, well, I can talk to you 875 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:12,520 crazy or I can feel superior because I have the wife that you 876 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:14,160 want to fuck. Like no. 877 00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:15,720 Those are the dudes that need therapy. 878 00:50:15,720 --> 00:50:18,880 You need to go to therapy and figure that shit out because 879 00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,520 this is supposed to be fun and it's like for me, it's like yo, 880 00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:22,880 it's supposed to be fun for everyone. 881 00:50:23,240 --> 00:50:27,480 So why wouldn't I want to make? Why wouldn't I want to make sure 882 00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,840 the guy's having fun? Because if he's having fun, he's 883 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:33,400 going to make sure that whatever girl I got involved, if is 884 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,440 having fun too. And then that's going to allow 885 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,320 me to have fun. Because I can feel comfortable 886 00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:42,080 knowing that I can be in the moment and not have to sit there 887 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:47,360 and worry about somebody going left or going side or shit going 888 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:51,000 sideways. Yep. 889 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,240 So yeah, that that is definitely that. 890 00:50:54,240 --> 00:50:56,360 That's something that, like I said, me and Dee had this whole 891 00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:00,400 conversation and we this is it's an ongoing conversation because, 892 00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,120 you know, couples are always looking for solid dudes and 893 00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:04,600 solid dudes are always looking for couples. 894 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,960 But then you always have those guys in the middle who, in my 895 00:51:07,960 --> 00:51:10,960 opinion, they will kind of settle for anything. 896 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:16,520 And you know, they will go in and I think you said be actors. 897 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,720 You know, you can say, Oh, well, we're looking for this kind of 898 00:51:19,720 --> 00:51:23,120 guy and that person going to show up and be who they think 899 00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:27,080 you want them to be like, Nah, I'm going to show up and be me 900 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:32,400 and hope that I'm the I'm what you're looking for, you know? 901 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,760 And if not, that's OK. If not, that's OK. 902 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:39,200 Not everybody is supposed to match with everyone. 903 00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:45,480 It's just about making sure everyone is hot, honest, open 904 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:50,080 and transparent without ego. As crazy like you look at this, 905 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,320 so we're looking at a different profile. 906 00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:55,680 Look at her, look at her shape, look at her bow, look at her 907 00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:59,120 body. Yeah, yeah. 908 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,000 In comparison to the other one and this is a couple looking for 909 00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:04,360 fun and friendship. We speak another language and 910 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:11,840 basic English. We are a couple a good and they 911 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,040 they speak a second language so we're not going to judge them in 912 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,680 good active shape. We like parties, dancing, have 913 00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:19,240 fun with other like minded couples. 914 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,320 We like to make friends in addition to sharing good sex, 915 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:25,800 the nudism, the lake, the swinger parties and gatherings. 916 00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:29,040 We really like to play as a couple with other couples and 917 00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:35,320 have the best time. Like that's an example of an 918 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,440 attractive woman, a husband who's got an attractive wife, 919 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:44,840 great body and they are that is a couple who would attract my 920 00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:47,000 attention. Absolutely. 921 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:51,520 That would attract my attention and any like you just made a 922 00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:57,320 good point that I didn't notice before because I'm not as 923 00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:03,040 critical of the way she looks based upon that profile because 924 00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:07,680 they seem like fun people. So now it's like I'm looking at. 925 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:09,920 Everything you like about her. Yeah. 926 00:53:10,720 --> 00:53:13,360 Looking at everything you like about her, because I mean, 927 00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:16,400 anybody can pass judgement on anybody because nobody's 928 00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,040 perfect. But it's either one side of the 929 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,320 coin or the other because their profile is so friendly, 930 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,160 inviting. And The thing is, it doesn't 931 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,640 even have to be necessarily inviting, just cordial, just 932 00:53:27,720 --> 00:53:30,400 just sane, just humane. You know, it's like, all right, 933 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,760 they're, they're cool people. You just assume they're cool 934 00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:34,440 people. They just come over here, they 935 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,480 have fun, and they just want what they want to do. 936 00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:39,040 Good feeling. Exactly. 937 00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,520 So yeah, you're looking at everything you like about her 938 00:53:42,240 --> 00:53:44,680 because of that. As opposed to the other profile 939 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,560 where it's just like everything you see is just nitpicking. 940 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:51,560 At least for me, I'm nitpicking. Oh, yeah, That that wondering 941 00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:54,520 how old the pictures are. The other couple didn't even 942 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:56,240 think about it. They're like just. 943 00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:57,960 She looks good. You're absolutely right. 944 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:03,480 Like that's you, you see, it is crazy when you get different 945 00:54:03,480 --> 00:54:07,880 perspectives and you know, I know, you know, people will will 946 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:11,880 give me a hard time for beating a beating a dead horse, but I'm 947 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,600 constantly get talking to couples who are like, oh, I can 948 00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:16,240 never find the guy that I'm looking for. 949 00:54:16,240 --> 00:54:17,840 I can never find the right kind of guy. 950 00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:21,040 Well, what are you doing? What does your profile say? 951 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,640 How do you approach guys? What? 952 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:24,960 What is your expectation? Are you being what the right 953 00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,120 kind of guy wants? Are you? 954 00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:30,960 Are you what the guy you want wants and and are you given an 955 00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,560 attempt to be that in any sort of balance, even if you 956 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:38,080 understand, OK, I want a super in shape guy and I might not be 957 00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,520 super in shape. What else am I bringing to the 958 00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,400 table? Because I mean, as a guy, I do 959 00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:44,840 that shit too, especially when I'm sitting there courting 960 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:47,200 somebody real. I mean like our real life. 961 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:51,160 So for example, I'm not going to go in with the same my state. 962 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,840 I would if I'm courting someone my age as I would someone that's 963 00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:59,640 25 because I understand like yo, like not only were are we in 964 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,800 different places in life, so I can't expect certain things from 965 00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,040 that person. And I know because of where I'm 966 00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:08,040 at in life, they should be expecting certain things for me. 967 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,360 So it's like, all right, I'm not messing with, they're not 968 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,040 messing with the young guy that understands their plight. 969 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,520 Or, you know, might still be in shape for a 25 year old. 970 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:20,600 Because no matter how good in shape you are at whatever age 971 00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,880 you are, you're never going to be as in good a shape unless 972 00:55:22,880 --> 00:55:24,320 you're a professional athlete or something. 973 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:29,080 But you take two people the same, the same physical type and 974 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,200 different ages, the older ones always going to be in less 975 00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:32,360 shape. So it's just like it's 976 00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:35,720 understanding that OK, they may be able to get a better physical 977 00:55:35,720 --> 00:55:38,520 specimen, but I have a better mind off for them. 978 00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,880 I'm still a good looking guy and I'm I'm more financial 979 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:45,360 financially set than someone that age. 980 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:49,360 Just like it's understanding of like, OK, yeah, they can't go in 981 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,840 on shit the way someone my age should be able to do. 982 00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:56,320 Or they may not have the understanding of certain aspects 983 00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:59,880 or certain concepts of life, but they're going to look better 984 00:56:00,240 --> 00:56:02,160 than someone my age is going to look. 985 00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:05,560 They're still going to have the, you know, nice skin, 986 00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:09,760 everything's, you know, up, no surgeries necessary or anything. 987 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,240 And that's the understanding of OK, this is this is how we 988 00:56:13,240 --> 00:56:15,680 approach this situation. Just like in this scenario, 989 00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:20,840 like, all right, you want this in shape guy hung all this 990 00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:23,680 stuff, top notch, top tier. Be cool. 991 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:27,640 Yeah. You because if if you want, if 992 00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,000 you want a top tier guy, that means a lot of other people want 993 00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:34,000 that guy too. So now you, you put yourself in 994 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:40,320 the competition of, OK, why is this guy going to pick me over 995 00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:43,600 all the other suitors that want the same type of guy? 996 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,760 Because they're not looking for you. 997 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:47,800 We're not looking for you. We just we just coasting because 998 00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:52,760 we know the world is our oyster. So if I'm looking for something 999 00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:56,800 like I want something at at the time, like yo, I'm feeling it's 1000 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,800 almost like food, like you know what, I can go for pasta today. 1001 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:04,480 You know what I want? I want somebody mid 20s. 1002 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,200 I want to mess with Latinas. You know what? 1003 00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,560 I want a Bunny, you know, I want some chocolate, you know, I want 1004 00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:13,240 an older woman now, you know, today they bring this whole 1005 00:57:13,360 --> 00:57:14,800 they're they're more sexually advanced. 1006 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,480 They know what they they doing, you know, so that's where I 1007 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,240 personally fall in as far as what I desire. 1008 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,080 But even still, it's just like, it's a broad, it's a broad 1009 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:26,760 thing. So it's just like, all right, 1010 00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,960 yeah, there's top tier, there's low tier. 1011 00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,560 But when you're talking about, Oh yeah, I want the the best 1012 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:35,240 Latina, I want the best Bunny, then I got to make sure that I'm 1013 00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,720 coming, correct? I got to be the best version of 1014 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:39,760 myself. So that way they feel as though 1015 00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:42,040 they're they're getting the best too. 1016 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,400 Yep, because and it's interesting, like when you look 1017 00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:47,120 at the difference in what they're looking for. 1018 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:52,160 So if they're looking for, OK, you're looking for a with them, 1019 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:57,760 you're looking for a fit black guy over 30 who's well hung and 1020 00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:02,720 who's a quote UN quote man. All right, that's a lot. 1021 00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:05,960 But the person you're looking for is going to be looking at 1022 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:12,240 you. And I understand that for me, a 1023 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:16,240 big part of that was going to separate me from another guy. 1024 00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:19,520 My age, height, weight, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah is going 1025 00:58:19,520 --> 00:58:23,200 to be who I am as a person. My attitude, my energy, my 1026 00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,960 confidence. A lot of these guys out there, 1027 00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:28,800 you know, have bodies but no confidence. 1028 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,360 All right, You have guys who got money, but no confidence. 1029 00:58:32,400 --> 00:58:37,680 You guys got guys got got experience, but but, but but a 1030 00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:40,880 small Dick. So you're as you, you're looking 1031 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:44,520 for like them. They're literally looking for 1% 1032 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,880 of the population. You want a man over 6 feet, You 1033 00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,280 want a black man over 6 feet. You want a black man over 6 feet 1034 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:53,680 with a Dick that's that's 9 inches plus. 1035 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,520 You want a black man over 6 feet with a Dick that's 9 inches 1036 00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:59,160 plus. Who is articulate? 1037 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:03,840 Who is fit? Who is like dress, dress, dress? 1038 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:10,440 Like why do you you don't think they I'm so is? 1039 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:12,720 Everybody not looking for that. Person exactly we're. 1040 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,040 Not you going to talk crazy. Yeah, exactly. 1041 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:19,440 So it's just, you know, it's just like, what do you expect in 1042 00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:23,240 honest, in all honesty, like I don't think they've like do they 1043 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:26,920 read their own profile and say, you know what, if I was who I'm 1044 00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:30,840 looking for, I would come run into this profile like, yeah, 1045 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:34,520 this is exactly what I want to hear as a, you know, top tier 1046 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:38,080 hung over 6 foot over over 9 inches. 1047 00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,120 Like yo stop looking at porn because even when you look at 1048 00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,320 porn you see in the same guys and everything. 1049 00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:47,320 You see 100, 100 and 150 eleven different women and you see the 1050 00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:52,400 same guys, the same 5 to 6 black guys, the same 4 to 5 white 1051 00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:56,040 guys, the same two to three Latin guys and maybe the same 1052 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:58,640 one or two Asian guys. If you if you catching them in 1053 00:59:58,640 --> 01:00:01,600 porn, you seeing the same dudes. It's the same thing in the 1054 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,320 lifestyle. You go to parties. 1055 01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:05,760 It's like the the old Snoop Dogg song. 1056 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:10,040 Every other party we go I see the same bro. 1057 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:13,160 The *** is everywhere. The same dudes is at every 1058 01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:15,720 single party. You've seen last weekend, last 1059 01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:18,040 weekend. You see, if I don't know you, if 1060 01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,120 I don't know them, somebody I know knows them. 1061 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,520 And now we know each other and now, OK, that's somebody I'm 1062 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:23,960 going to see at the same parties. 1063 01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:26,400 And it's been like that for a decade. 1064 01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:29,480 It's been like I've been in a lifestyle since the Atlanta 1065 01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,960 lifestyle since I was what, like 12 years now? 1066 01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:38,920 1213 years for 1213 years I've seen the same top tier high 1067 01:00:38,920 --> 01:00:42,880 quality guys the whole at every party. 1068 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,560 Like literally we went to a party last weekend. 1069 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,440 We so we, and this was funny about it. 1070 01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,760 The the party like the the party hosts, like, oh, we got, we're 1071 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,560 going to have the, the the best guys in the land are going to be 1072 01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:58,600 there. Walk in the party and all of us 1073 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:01,640 know each other. We all know each other and it 1074 01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,760 was funny is like at one point I'm standing there because 1075 01:01:04,760 --> 01:01:08,880 everybody like I'm the shortest dude there every this dude 63 1076 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:17,040 The the we got dudes who's 64. You know you 6463. 64636. 46366 1077 01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:21,720 like everybody got over 9 years Dick, everybody's in shape. 1078 01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:28,680 That's a small group of dudes. And so I read a profile and 1079 01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:32,040 you're talking like that. So now all of a sudden I 1080 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:37,320 understand that the percentage of you finding me, OK, I can 1081 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:45,240 find you find the woman who's 50 plus, you know, in in halfway 1082 01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:51,080 decent shape who is is kind of cute with a husband who's out of 1083 01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:53,280 shape. For her age, and we got to add 1084 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:56,040 that disclaimer because it's like, yo, like I want to give 1085 01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:59,560 credit for her age. She looks like she probably, if 1086 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,920 those pictures are five years old that she may take care of 1087 01:02:02,920 --> 01:02:05,880 herself for her age because there's a difference because 1088 01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,440 it's like, oh, they look good and they look good for her age, 1089 01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:13,560 You know, like, so I'm just being real. 1090 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:16,840 There's some 50 I've seen some 50 year olds, some 56 year old. 1091 01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:22,120 I've seen one one that was pushing 60 before that, yo, she 1092 01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,720 looked good. Her body was crazy in general 1093 01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,520 dot period, that's it. And then there's ones that's 1094 01:02:28,520 --> 01:02:31,200 like, yo, there's something that's 30 and it's like, oh, she 1095 01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:35,240 looks good for her age to be a 30 year old, like it's just what 1096 01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:37,400 it is. But to go with what he was 1097 01:02:37,400 --> 01:02:40,120 saying as far as a small selection of guys, look at it 1098 01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:42,720 like this, when you create your profile and you're looking for 1099 01:02:42,720 --> 01:02:45,160 this specific dude, think of it, you're talking to less than 10 1100 01:02:45,160 --> 01:02:49,040 guys. So out all these profiles on, 1101 01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,400 you know, whatever lifestyle sites you on. 1102 01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,080 When you're talking about the hung guys and that big, that 1103 01:02:54,080 --> 01:03:00,760 long ass, you know, newspaper job inquiry, you are talking, 1104 01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,920 whoa, let's be realistic. We're talking to six guys. 1105 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:08,680 Six guys are looking at your profile and we're thinking to 1106 01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,360 ourselves, do we want to do we want to do this? 1107 01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:14,960 Do we want to do we want to put up with this? 1108 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:17,640 That's what we're that's what at least what I'm thinking is this 1109 01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:20,360 something I want to put up with? Because the way is, is is put 1110 01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:24,840 out for me. I don't see it going the way I 1111 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,480 want to go or it's going to be more work than necessary. 1112 01:03:28,240 --> 01:03:32,880 Handling this is going to be more work than messing with a 27 1113 01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,160 year old or let's say a 39 year old. 1114 01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:36,960 I'm 39. I'm messing with a 39 year old 1115 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,120 that has an understanding of, hey, I'm 39. 1116 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:45,840 Yeah. And a single a 30 year, 39 year 1117 01:03:45,840 --> 01:03:50,520 old single woman. No and then how do you increase 1118 01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:53,160 your value like as a a person in lifestyle? 1119 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:59,640 First things first, if like, if you have the right attitude, if 1120 01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:03,440 you're approachable, if you are fair, like don't ask any like 1121 01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:07,200 my, my pet peeve is always I have all of these pictures and 1122 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,520 videos of myself on my profile. Don't send me a fucking message 1123 01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:14,240 if I can't see your face, if I can't see your whole body, don't 1124 01:04:14,240 --> 01:04:17,120 send me pictures of your wife like it's a fucking puzzle. 1125 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,560 All right? You got 37 pictures of her bent 1126 01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:22,000 over with her butt cheeks spread over? 1127 01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,400 Like, OK, we get it. That's the one angle she likes. 1128 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:29,160 But you do realize when I see her in person, I'm going to see 1129 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,960 all of her. OK, Show me. 1130 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:36,400 I want to see her from her fucking throat to her kneecaps. 1131 01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:40,120 Like, show me her whole torso. Because here's the thing. 1132 01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,080 If I show up and you have a little bit of a belly, I've 1133 01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,200 accepted that already. I'm a dude. 1134 01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,960 Men are visual creatures. I see you. 1135 01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:50,800 I like you. I'm going to reach out to you. 1136 01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:52,760 And that's what I expect. All right? 1137 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:55,760 Filters. Stop with the fucking filters. 1138 01:04:55,800 --> 01:05:01,240 You do understand that if I show up and you're 15 years younger 1139 01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:03,400 because of filters, that's a problem. 1140 01:05:04,240 --> 01:05:07,640 If I show up and I got 4 inches less Dick, you're going to be 1141 01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:11,240 offended, all right? It's a big deal. 1142 01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:14,840 So here's the thing. I hear couples all the time. 1143 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:17,440 Well, the guy showed up and he wasn't as good as I expected. 1144 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:20,640 Well, that's because he showed up and he's been fantasizing 1145 01:05:20,640 --> 01:05:24,880 about fucking this 47 year old for the last three days and he 1146 01:05:24,880 --> 01:05:28,200 show up and he's fucking a 55 year old because you use fucking 1147 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:30,440 filters. If I fantasize about fucking a 1148 01:05:30,440 --> 01:05:32,880 55 year old when I show up, I'm going to fuck the shit out of 1149 01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:33,880 you. I'm going to give you everything 1150 01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:36,400 I got. You want a person that's going 1151 01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,200 to be honest with you, but then you start off by lying. 1152 01:05:41,160 --> 01:05:43,480 It's not going to work it. It just does. 1153 01:05:43,480 --> 01:05:47,320 It doesn't work like that. Me as a person who's in the gym 1154 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,400 generally depend upon the time of year. 1155 01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:54,440 My body's going to fluctuate about 8 to 9 lbs if I'm putting 1156 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,960 mass on. If I'm taking mass off, if you 1157 01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:00,680 see my profile, you see pictures with me with more weight and 1158 01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:03,200 picture with me less weight. And before I come to see you, 1159 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,120 I'm going to send you a picture of me at the state I'm at 1160 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:10,520 because I've had women who've seen me who saw me online when I 1161 01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:12,560 was heavier. And then I show up and I'm 1162 01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:15,120 Wiener and they're like, oh, I thought you were a little 1163 01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:18,520 heavier. And at my lightest? 1164 01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:26,480 At my lightest. I'm 220 lbs at my smallest, so I 1165 01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:28,680 understand. Now imagine what I feel like as 1166 01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:34,920 a dude if I show up and you put a filter on there to make you 1167 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,560 look like you were 10 years younger. 1168 01:06:37,440 --> 01:06:39,520 Or worse just sending old ass pictures. 1169 01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:42,760 Like yo your pictures 8 years old, send an updated picture. 1170 01:06:45,760 --> 01:06:48,880 Oh, well, Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, just send an updated 1171 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:54,440 picture because like, like Mr. Mocha said, I'm going to send 1172 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:58,040 you a, a more likely I'm going to send you a video of what I 1173 01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:00,560 look like because I'm, I'm very hung. 1174 01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,560 I'm a very hung bell. And a lot of times I'll get 1175 01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:08,360 accusations for like, you know, Photoshop or angles because I 1176 01:07:08,360 --> 01:07:11,880 hear a lot of horror stories about dudes saying, Oh yeah, I 1177 01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:14,480 got 8 inches and it's just the angle. 1178 01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:18,960 And then when they get to meet the couple, it's actually 5 1/2. 1179 01:07:18,960 --> 01:07:21,720 So I'll shoot you a video. I'll let that motherfucker 1180 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:23,360 swing. I'll let you know. 1181 01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,800 Like, hey, I remember one time I was, I was done with an injury 1182 01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:30,000 and there's a couple that I would see every so often. 1183 01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,800 They were in town and I let them know, hey yo, I haven't been 1184 01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,680 able to work out. So I got an extra £5 on me and 1185 01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:37,080 everything. Just letting them know in 1186 01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:39,880 advance. So because I know they're 1187 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,600 expecting one thing and if I look slightly different, even 1188 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,280 slightly different than what I normally do, you deserve to know 1189 01:07:45,280 --> 01:07:48,240 that. And as a single guy or as a 1190 01:07:48,240 --> 01:07:50,120 human being, I want to know the same thing. 1191 01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:53,520 I guess it all falls down to just treat people the way you 1192 01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:58,800 want to be treated. When it comes down to it, if you 1193 01:07:58,800 --> 01:08:01,760 want to be treated with respect, give respect. 1194 01:08:02,040 --> 01:08:05,920 If you want to be treated with honesty, give honesty. 1195 01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:09,040 Be honest, it's as simple as that. 1196 01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:13,680 Not much to it. I think a lot of people make 1197 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:17,640 things more complicated than they need to be because 1198 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:23,399 honestly, how social media has been constructed for us now, 1199 01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:27,920 it's all about the image. So there's people that go to the 1200 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:31,120 lifestyle and they genuinely just want fun to blow off some 1201 01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,720 steam, to have some kanky, you know, some kanky sex. 1202 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:38,880 And there's people that use this almost for popularity. 1203 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:45,080 You know, the, the, the lifestyle and you know, real 1204 01:08:45,080 --> 01:08:48,200 life or vanilla life are all in one. 1205 01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:51,960 You know, I'm a comic book nerd, so it's almost on an example of 1206 01:08:54,520 --> 01:08:58,160 Bruce Wayne is the mask and Batman is the actual person. 1207 01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:00,880 You know, a lot of people, I feel like the lifestyle is 1208 01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:06,359 actually who they are. So instead of treating it, you 1209 01:09:06,359 --> 01:09:08,439 know, the way I feel like it should be treated, where it's 1210 01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:11,760 just for fun, they're treating it almost like ATV high school 1211 01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:13,880 where they're trying to make up for lost time. 1212 01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:17,000 I don't know, some midlife crisis type shit. 1213 01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:21,880 But yeah man, just treat people with respect. 1214 01:09:21,880 --> 01:09:24,439 Treat people the way you want to be treated, Be what you want to 1215 01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:28,200 be or be what you want and everything will go right for 1216 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:29,800 you. I agree. 1217 01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:33,319 I mean, and I think that, you know, on the other side of that 1218 01:09:33,319 --> 01:09:38,800 is you wind up getting a whole lot when you do that, you get a 1219 01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:42,000 whole lot of a person. And you know, like I, I feel 1220 01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:45,319 like I, I can say it from experience, you know, especially 1221 01:09:45,319 --> 01:09:50,920 from Mrs. Mocha standpoint, we have a group of really 1222 01:09:52,279 --> 01:09:58,360 intelligent, articulate, fit, you know, guys who, who we've 1223 01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:01,200 known for years because they've always treated us the way they 1224 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:03,280 want to be treated. And it's been reciprocal all way 1225 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:08,040 around the board. No, as always, man, I appreciate 1226 01:10:08,040 --> 01:10:11,400 you coming to hang out with me. And you know, this is something 1227 01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:13,400 that we going to be doing a regular basis. 1228 01:10:14,480 --> 01:10:15,800 Absolutely. Yeah, I'm down. 1229 01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:18,920 You know, I love being able to, you know, chop it up with you 1230 01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:21,720 sitting there, talk about things that I guess oppressing to us in 1231 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:25,360 the lifestyle and hopefully be able to say some stuff that 1232 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:26,720 relate to people out there listening. 1233 01:10:27,240 --> 01:10:30,360 And you know, we going to, we got another, we got more coming 1234 01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:33,480 up. It's definitely we like to spend 1235 01:10:33,480 --> 01:10:35,960 a little bit of time helping everybody, the couples, the 1236 01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:39,080 guys. And you know, next time we're 1237 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:43,880 going to have to have Don tell us about one of his favorite 1238 01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:46,440 lifestyle experiences. And I only laugh because I 1239 01:10:46,440 --> 01:10:47,520 thought I was going to mess that up again. 1240 01:10:49,640 --> 01:10:52,160 So until next time, thank you for joining the cutting board on 1241 01:10:52,160 --> 01:10:53,640 OLD FACES. I'm Mr. Mocha. 1242 01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:57,480 This is my boy Don James. And until next time, goodbye 1243 01:10:57,480 --> 01:10:59,040 from OLD FACES. Peace out. 1244 01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:08,280 Easily that shit just like a porn me swimming air and when 1245 01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:10,400 rugged on a sea.