Hello, and welcome to another episode of OLD Faces.
I'm your host, Mr. Mocha, and I am chilling in the studio with
my boy. You're Ron James.
Don James. Don James.
Don James again. All right.
So Don James AKASKD. All right.
I'm laughing already because I've known Don James for, you
know, a long time and I just realized he treat me like shit.
I just realized. Nah, my boy.
Treated me like shit. Not at all.
You ever be talking to your boy
and then he matter of fact some shit to you, So he just a matter
of fact this this female, that's fine.
He's like, yo, have you? Have you messed with so and So
what? This fine?
Listen, this chick so fine. Had I fucked her, he didn't know
him 'cause I'd have been trying to send her over to him.
You know what it is though, I know her beyond the image, so I
can understand looking at all the videos and the pictures and
shit being like man yo, 'cause I got homeboys that know of her
and their fans and shit like that.
But knowing her personally and knowing how she actually is in
real life, it's like man, like not the past judgment, but she's
kind of like a crumb. Like she cool, she cool, but
it's like I. Want some of these cookie
crumbs? I see what I could do.
But yeah, knowing, knowing them in in real life, it you don't
realize who they are a lot of the time.
So when I when I see her, I look at that and I'll be like, oh,
that's theatrical. Yeah, Yeah, that's true.
But I understand how good she looked because knowing that the
shit is low key trash, I still go back.
I still give it another chance because when I see her, I'll be
like, you know what? Maybe she's earning some new
shit. Maybe.
You know what she got her ass. You know, I got to give it a try
now. I got to see what it's like.
But. Yeah, yeah, we talked about, we
talked about another, another female who we bought.
So I, I've been there like, you know, fellas look at my shit,
my, my, my Twitter and be like, oh shit, you fuck this chick,
you fuck that chick. I'm like, yeah, yeah.
And and and I know the pussy was garbage and they just looking at
the image and and right now what's happening is I'm
fanboying on somebody who he he fucks, you know, whenever he
wants to, and I'm just being judge mental that he hasn't, you
know, he hasn't thrown me the alley.
No, all right, It's also always on some random shit too.
So it's like, it's not like, I mean, this is one of the reasons
why I look at her like kind of crummy because all right, one
time or a few times she'll come over and her dude is the one
that shoots for most of the time.
So she'll come over and her, her kids and the dude will be in the
car parked in the driveway. Yeah, and she'll, she'll come.
Wow, that's strange. Flopping all crazy and shit like
that. And then go kiss your family.
Yeah, she'll still go back outside.
She got Dick spit on her shirt and everything.
I'm like, yo, that's. Crazy wild bro.
That's crazy wild work. So for me, it's like, Nah, you
can't. Keep kissing the.
Kids like, damn. Like, you're not even asking to
go go to the bathroom. Yeah, You know, you don't want
no mouthwash. You're not asking.
For no, no, no. Paper towels.
It's just like, yo, just straight up just as is like yo,
that's wow. Savage.
That's Savage. So, you know, it's not like a
situation where it's like, yo, I be here at this time or be like,
she's been here since Wednesday. And several times we supposed to
get up, but there's always some different shit that comes up.
Yeah. So it's just like, oh, you know,
oh, my mom's supposed to watch the kids.
Oh, she didn't watch the kids. Oh, I'm asking to watch the kids
this weekend instead. So it's a whole bunch of stuff
that goes with it that makes it real hard to be like, yo, let me
put you down with her. Yeah, I got you.
I got you. I mean, I'm still say treat me
like shit, but I I appreciate, I appreciate.
I appreciate it. So like look as, as every, you
know, you, you will see cuz I've been looking for somebody who I
can rock with on the podcast on a regular basis.
Also, the big thing is somebody who has experienced a lifestyle
similar to me. I've got a lot of guys who I
hang out with on the podcast, but there's very few guys who we
have similar experiences. So it's hard for me to to to
interact or debate with a guy about our experiences and, and
things like that, because if you ain't experienced a lifestyle
the way I did it, we like, it's like, what are we talking about?
So that's the fun thing about my man Don James, because we'll be
having conversations and when he disagree, it's like, all right,
his disagreements is based on his experiences or when we
sitting there like, Yo, we are really on the same page on this,
jumping right into it. There's a couple different
things that that like I want to to hit on.
So First things first, what's your experience with single
women in the lifestyle? For the most part my experiences
with true single women are cool. There's one I got currently
where she's a little on the annoying side, but say what?
Why is she annoying? It's the one I sent you.
I think yesterday or Wednesday. She's annoying because I I feel
like. I hold on.
I'm gonna pause you. I want y'all.
I want y'all to know the shot he just took at me.
I called him. I I said he treat me like shit
because he don't put me on and 30 seconds later he lets me.
He was like, yeah, you remember when I tried to put you on to
yesterday that you said no. You too busy for it?
You see he. Was not.
Yeah, I was. I was just in conversation.
I was just in conversation, you know, reference point, but not
cause a lot of it. I, I am aware that is my ego.
It's my ego because I feel as though for our, our age gap and
just, you know, it's levels, it's levels of everything.
You know, age gap what you mean? All right, she's like 53.
I'm 39 where I live in the real world and I dance in the
lifestyle. You feel me?
So for me, it's just like yo, in in real life, if I'm, if I'm
fucking with a 53 year old, she understands that there's an
exchange where I I'm giving up pursuing or being with the
youth, you know, and everything that comes with that or even
close to my age and everything that comes with that for someone
her age. So there has to be some type of
balance, some give and take with that.
Where this one, she's expecting the same level of enthusiasm and
treatment without any real extra effort being given that I would
give someone 30 or even the chick that we talking about
right now. And for me it's like, Nah, like
why am I? Why am I going to do that?
Like, for example, she she tries to paint the picture like she
wants to be a sub, she wants to be a sub slut, but it's like
you're being picky. So where is the sub aspect of
it? And if you want things the way
you want it, like I tell her it's, it's no problem.
Like you're entitled to that, but you need to pitch it the way
that actually is where I feel like she's trying to live almost
like a 50 Shades of Grey fantasy style.
Like, Oh yeah, this is a sub slut in this way, you know, seen
in this type of media or you know, she used the term subspace
before and it's like, yo, we not doing nothing that involves you
going into a subspace Like this is what you asked for.
You wanted to get tag team by two hung black dudes and you're
getting tag team by two hung black dudes.
There's no safe word or anything like that.
Because in my mind, yes, subspace is like, yo, you, you
checked out. Yeah, we checking you out and
there has to be some way to bring you back.
So that's where, like I said, the safe word.
You got some safe word, some type of sign, facial expression,
hand gestures, something. It's none of that in this
situation where it's just like, yo, no.
It's that shit she saw on TV. Exactly where you you want to,
you want to get fucked out. There's nothing wrong with
wanting to be a slut, but there's a difference between
wanting to be a slut and a sub slut.
At least for me, sub slut is all right.
That's the place of submission. So if I want you to fuck him,
then you want to fuck him. And in this situation, OK, I
understand the subspace now, because now you're in a
situation where you're, it may be not at your, your normal
comfort zone, but you're still doing it.
And you know, if you're trying to be a good sub, you're doing
it to the best of your ability. So now I understand, you know,
you being in a subspace and having to come out of it and
need to be coddled and cuddled and everything, you know, the
aftercare. But in this situation, Nah, this
is a situation for me where there's, there's regular chicks
that's just like, yo, I want to, I want to get tag team.
All right, bet. And after it's all done,
everybody is high fiving or everybody's just kicking it.
It's no. She she ain't really trying to
go on so space, she's trying to, she's got this fantasy.
Like yo just tell me you got a fantasy.
I told her she got a I I'd like. Yo, you got a kink fetish?
I mean, not a kink fetish, a praise fetish where you want
someone to praise you, you want to be sitting there told you're
you're sexy and all this stuff. And once again, there's nothing
wrong with that. But for me, like if you are
coming to me saying you want to be my sub, then that's almost a
part of the reward where like it's not me praising you up and
then hoping you served me correctly.
It's you serving me correctly and then me praising you for
that. Like she comes over, she's like,
Oh yeah, I want to learn how to suck your Dick.
But there's no inquiries about what techniques, you know what
you want to do. I'm telling you what to do.
And you looking at me like, you know, Oh my God, you're giving
me direction. Like bitch, if you're really
training to suck my Dick, like you're not going to be touching
me with slobber filled hands because your head is going to be
hanging off the bed because we trying to get that shit in
there. Like and that's just what it.
Is yeah, so so I'm so now this this so this is remember, you
are on the cutting board. You're going to hear the
conversations that that guys have unfiltered without you just
a flying wall here. So this kind of conversations
that we have on a regular basis, that is a thing that has been
one of my pet peeve forever. So earlier on the lifestyle, as
a pet peeve, a chick would come to me and be like, I want to be
your sub. I've never been turned on by a
chick who comes up to me. I want to be your sub because
that chick is going to sub for anybody that says yes, I want a
woman who didn't have any plans of being my sub, but she
submitted to who I am taking a woman into subspace.
And I know you have because I remember, I, I know, I know this
guy, he's taking a woman to a place where she was where you
got to bring her back. Like she's kind of out.
She's in the zone subspace Is you telling me, hey, I trust
you. I trust you that you're not
going to put me in harm, in harm's way.
I trust you that you're going, you've learned me well enough to
push my limits, push my boundaries and bring me to a
level of pleasure that I've never experienced.
And I am completely giving myself over to you.
Now that's a different place. That's if I say you say you want
to learn how to suck Dick. OK, cool.
I'm very particular about everything I am.
I have sensory issues like a motherfucker.
So when I train a chick how to suck my Dick, it's going to be a
whole lot of #1 you. Hey, don't touch me with your
nasty ass hands, I have sensory issues.
If you want to make my Dick all sloppy, fine.
But clean all that shit up. Clean all you know.
Touching my chest and shit yo this is nasty.
You got, you got 2 inches, 3 inches of Dick in your mouth,
Judy, I know a bunch of dudes who got 5 inch Dicks.
You can train on with that attitude.
No, Like what are we doing here? How far are we going to push our
limits and how much you relaxing like how many times you had a
chick they go, oh, I want you to train me anally.
OK, I will. But when she hits subspace, the
level of relaxation that her body experiences is completely
different than when you're not in subspace.
That that's what the first time I understood what subspace was,
was actually a chick who wanted me to train her ass.
Like when she went into subspace.
The way her body relaxed for me, the way her she, the way she let
me in the me watching nothing, paying attention to nothing but
her body. The way it quivered, The way
watching her fucking beads a sweat on their back and then
watching her asshole let me in. Best thing I can say, and I
remember at the end of that session, the way she looked at
me because I wanted to put I started out on her stomach, went
to her knees, went to her back and looking in her eyes and I
she was mine. You know.
So when you say that, it's funny, most of these guys out
here, quote UN quote Dom's have never taken a chick to Dom space
like he it's a subspace, never really taken a subspace, so they
don't even understand we're talking about.
But when you've taken actually taken a woman there where you
she requires that aftercare and then aftercare is not the same
for every woman. If you have a sub long enough,
you train her to what aftercare is.
I am training you from the beginning to the end.
When Missus Mocha aftercare by the end compared to what
aftercare was in the beginning was completely different with me
because the level of trust we had.
You know what I'm saying? Yeah.
So it's interesting when you say that this woman showed up with
this fantasy. Oh, I want to do this.
I want to do that. I want to do this.
No, you don't. You just want to get get, you
know, gangbang real. Quick, like I told her, she
wants a manager. You want somebody to sit there
and supply you with quality dudes.
BBC's and, you know, make sure that it's in a safe space, make
sure everybody's good and clean and everything.
And then you want people to praise you for it.
And for me, it's like, Nah, I'm not going to do that because
there are situations where, you know, there's women, you know,
we just went to a party where, you know, the women had that and
they're, they're earning the praise.
Trust me, they are, but it's not a requirement.
They're they, it's because it's understanding that, yo, it's a
mutual thing. They want to fuck us just as
much as we want to fuck them. So even though, even if, you
know, even with us praising them, they're also praising us
as well, you know, so everybody's feeling good because
of everybody. And for me, it's a, it's a
situation with her where it's not, it's like, no, man, you're
where, where we're at. It should always be, at least
for me from a place of gratitude because I'm doing all this work
to put this shit together to make sure everybody's cool, to
make sure everybody's straight and making sure it's people that
you're, you're going to like as much as you like myself.
And just the whole responsibility.
Like a lot of motherfuckers, they look at, you know, they
want a sub and everything. But like I've been telling
everybody a lot lately, you got to be what you want.
So it's not just about what you want the sub to be for you.
It's about what you got to be for that sub.
You know, the level of patience you got to have, the level of,
you know, understanding, even with the aftercare, every, every
aspect of it, it has to be very, you have to be very thoughtful,
mindful, because you're not just in control of somebody's body,
more importantly, in control of somebody's mind.
So you want them, at least for me, I want them to have a great
experience. So even if her and I stop
fooling around or fucking with each other, she's in she's for
the streets, you know, like I want, I want her to be to go
back out and dudes come across her and be like, yo, she is.
Wow, you're welcome. Because the experience I gave
her made her feel comfortable to the point where she can be like
that or feel like she can be like that with whoever she feels
comfortable now. Yeah, and you know, it's
interesting, like you, you, you always say this, you say you
have one feet, 1 foot in the street and 1 foot in the
lifestyle. So.
Now I got both feet in the street and all so often I'll sit
there and peep my head or stick a toe in the lifestyle.
And so what's interesting is I remember like that that concept,
you know, we go back to oftentimes talking to couples
who are looking for quality single males, the type of guy
that you're looking for. In my opinion, when you're
looking for those high quality single guys, they have those
options. They very, very much have the
option because they know this the same guy that you want to
come in and woo your wife is constantly getting practice in
the real world. So when they step into it, that
practice in the real world makes that guy brings his a game.
But I think a lot of couples don't have that expectation.
They they have this mindset that they don't have to bring their A
to a game to a guy. Thank you, baby.
And if, when you, when, when couples are looking for a
quality guy, I think that's the thing, like, Hey, you have to
understand that, that I'm not here because I have to be, you
know, and this right here is a great example.
Like you got to read this, this profile.
This is like one of my favorite profiles to laugh at.
Like I, I laugh at this profile all the time because of the
expectation that some people have where it's like the kind of
guy that you're looking for is not the, the guy that you want.
You have to give him that same respect that he gives you.
You have to give him a certain level of energy, understanding
that before I come and spend time with you and you know, your
person. I'm here because I want to be,
not because it's the only place I can be, you know?
So that is when you said, you know, hey, there's this lady.
Because I remember looking at her profile, the one that she
tried to put me on to, It's like I was like, I was kind of 5050
on it until you told me. Like, oh, no, she's cool.
But you know it ain't nothing to jump off the window for.
Yeah, she's she's coolish. Like she's cool.
I think for me is that like when you try to sell me on something
and then you, it ends up being what it's not that kind of turns
me off from the situation in general.
So, you know, she's talking about and I'm good.
Thank you. She's talking about, you know,
what she wants and everything, but how her actions and what she
talks about are completely different where it's just like,
yo, maybe you need to take the time and figure it out exactly
what it is you want. Or in our, or in my case, you
know, it's letting it be known you're, you owe me no
exclusiveness. So you can go out and find what
it is you're looking for. And this is what I'm, I'm
willing to sell you. This is what I'm willing to give
you. So if you're, if you want what
I'm willing to give you, then you can come and we can, you
know, try to have a good time. But as far as coming in the
situation and like, hey, I know like it's like playing
basketball and someone saying, Hey, you know, I know we're
playing basketball, but you know, it'd be dope if I have to
dribble the ball and I can still move.
Then go play football, go play a different sport, because that's
not the rules here in basketball.
Yeah, let me just travel. Yeah.
Oh yeah. You know, I would really love to
be able to travel, you know, in basketball.
OK, I'm, I'm sorry then fine, like minded people find people
that don't mind a little travelling, you know.
But where I'm at now, I'm I'm good.
So what's the ideal situation for you within the lifestyle?
Within the lifestyle, an ideal situation is a situation where
where everyone's cool, you know, we meet and we're cool, but
we're leading with sex. So we're leading with sex and
then the friendship, if there is one that builds.
You need to explain that. OK, I'm glad you said that.
Please explain that. For me, the lifestyle is a place
to have casual sex without feeling being involved, hurt,
whatever the case may be. It's supposed to be where
everything is, as my therapist put it, hot, honest, open and
transparent. So all right, we're, we're all
consenting adults in a situation where we have specific sexual
preferences or canks and we're helping each other fulfill
those. So if we're going in with the
understanding of that, then to me that's the perfect situation
where we're treating everybody humanely.
There is no tier hierarchies. We understand that.
We go, we're both animals. We're both animals that want to
indulge in our animal instincts of wanting to fuck and we come
together and hey, we enjoy having sex.
That's going to be the inspiration for us getting along
because we enjoy having sex. Because if I meet somebody in
the lifestyle and the sex is terrible, neither one of us are
going to want to talk to each other.
So why are we going to leave with friendship in the arena
that's built for sex? That's good shit.
Now continue. You said that that's what you
wanted. So what do you want?
A lifestyle. You said you want a relationship
that leads with sex. You know, or yeah, situation
that leads with sex and if it grows, however it grows from
that point is how it grows. But I want an organic situation,
a perfect example of a situation on that's they're trying to
start. Now there's a lifestyle couple
that lives literally right around the corner from me.
Like I can I walk past their house every time I walk my dog
Trina, shout off the Trina. But they want like this whole
hey, come out, hang out with us, Like, hey, maybe you and the
husband can be friends and stuff like that.
And it's like, I don't know if I enjoy having sex with you yet.
So why would I want to do that? Like we that's the only thing
that's bringing us together. It's not like we met at AI don't
know a cooking class. Oh, OK.
We both know we, we like to cook or even if you meet somebody at
a bar, OK, we both know we like to drink.
We like being in these type of settings.
So that's something we can do together.
We're meeting for for sexual purposes.
What we have in common is that we're both sexually attracted to
each other and we like the idea of having sex with each other.
So why are we moving past that? Why is that not being completed
for you're trying to go on and add other issue or add other
aspects of it. Now, if you want to do that,
because I understand that for a lot of people like the lifestyle
is their social life, you know, and I get that and there's
nothing wrong with that. I'm just speaking for myself
personally is that I don't I'm not looking for friends and the
lifestyle Now, you know, I'm sitting here with Mr. Mocha and
we've been friends for about 10 years.
But that's because it started the way that I'm talking about
where OK, hey, we do the little meet and greet, not even a meet
and greet. I met them at their house and we
talked in their garage for a good 10-15 minutes just to fill
each other out. And then after that, from that
moment, it's like, OK, I enjoy being with Misses Mocha.
She enjoy having sex with me. The friendship grows from there.
OK, now we see each other again. Oh, we might talk for 5 minutes
now. OK, we see each other again.
Hey, you know whatever's going on, we're sitting now having a
conversation. Oh, we actually have other stuff
in common other than just sex now.
That's when the friendship starts growing because now we
see that as people we connect, not just as sexual beings.
Now there's cases where you might sit there and talk to
somebody for 5-10 minutes and it's not a bad conversation, but
you understand that oh, the only thing we really have in common
is sex where that's the friendship.
I've had couples that I've known just as long as them where we
look at each other as lifestyle friends, where we probably had a
conversation out of let's say 10 years, maybe we talked for maybe
34 minutes out of 10 years of actual non sexual conversation.
And most of it is just, hey, so how you been?
How's life, you know, But the sex is, is to the point where
that's not necessary. So my thing is the perfect
situation, in short, is an organic situation.
But it's it starts off with why we're all here with sex.
Yeah, I've always felt like the lifestyle is like a game of
pickup basketball. We all came to the court, You're
trying to pick a team and then somebody's like, hey, listen,
before we play pick up basketball, we need to become
best friends. What?
I came here to play basketball. Now if we keep playing
basketball and we realize that, yo, I like this person's energy
we have, that's different. But it's interesting the
expectations that people have in the lifestyle, like I love, I
love reading people's profiles. Reading profiles is the most,
let me tell you something, the most entertaining thing in the
lifestyle next to sex is reading people's profiles tracks me the
fuck up now and then. It's always the ones where the
people like people don't have a realistic I think like people
have on weird lenses like I I pulled up one of my favorite
profiles of all time like I love this profile.
This couple has hit me up multiple times and it cracks me
up. I'm going to read this profile
OK and if you ever listen to this profile I didn't say your
name but please think what you want.
Sexy hot wife for hung Bulls OK first we don't break this down
like we going to do that report. What is a bull to you?
When you think of a person that's looking for a bull, what
do you What kind of person do you think they're looking for?
When I think of somebody looking for a bull, I think of someone
looking for, I guess, an assertive person.
An assertive, assertive person. I guess a leader in the bedroom,
someone that's hung wound out and I guess one of the top tier
guys. OK so this couple says Sexy hot
wife for hung bull Update We've decided to block profiles with
no validation unless we FaceTime you and see you live.
We love private parties to link up with people with similar
interests, but we would rarely plan them.
Not a fan of swing clubs? If you are, If you are
contacting us just to ask for Album pro passwords, let us tell
you that in all caps. It won't happen.
We're tired of it. Act like a dolphin.
Also, if you don't fit our credentials, we won't respond to
you. Now that's just the beginning.
And to me, it's like why you got to start off so aggressively.
Like that's, that's like, I understand everybody goes
through their things, but it's like, I don't know, I just look
at it. I try to look at myself in
situations. I always try to sit, sit there
and evaluate myself to where if I'm in a scenario and I'm
getting the same things all the time from multiple different
directions, then I got to evaluate myself and think, maybe
it's me. What it what is it about me
that's attracting what I'm attracting?
And coming off this aggressively isn't really going to stop you
from attracting. What you're attracting is just
going to sometimes throw off what you may really want.
OK, that was my first impression.
If you want to bull a person who's assertive and somewhat
dominant, you talking to me like I'm a bitch or you throwing out
there that this is the type of person you are.
To me that says arrogance. You are very, very arrogant to
say this in your profile because First things first, if you met
me, if we were in a club, you wouldn't grab a microphone and
yell that out loud. All right, now let's continue.
We are stag, stag and vixen couple.
We're husby. I can't read.
Hubby loves to watch her having fun primarily and join in at
times. We might be new to this website
as a couple, but we're not new to the lifestyle.
Wife is crazy about hung athletic BBC in Latin in ( 9
inches plus only. She is a we'll say fitness
competitor. We're professionals
sophisticated. It tells what race the the male
is and the wife is a Caucasian woman.
And we also welcome couples with enlarge and all caps similar
preferences parentheses. We love to make a small group
with similar couples. We can all get together and host
some wild parties with clean cut types dot dot dot.
Now this is the qualifications for the males they're looking
for. Males should be flirtatious,
articulate, well dressed in parentheses.
Good hygiene is a must. Respectful in order to have an
opportunity with her. Excuse me, we're very laid back.
We're very laid back couple. We travel often between blah
blah, blah and where we are now. We also like to videotape our
encounters in parentheses. We won't show your face if you
don't like that then and all cats we aren't interested in
all. Keep it 100% continue it.
She actually is very very bi curious and we would like FMF as
our fantasy who's up for the task lol.
By the way we won't accept your friend request if we haven't met
before. Let's stop the BS.
No one under 30. Did you get it?
We are not into soft swap. What she wants tall muscular
guy, 6 foot plus #2 very good hygiene #3 dress well and smell
good when you come to meet her. No shorts, no flip flops.
Do not look like a boy. Be a man in all large caps,
shaved as well trim face in private parts.
Single males. If you're selected in all large
letters, you must entertain. Period.
Sound like a city girl right there.
All right, well, first thing I see that I would question or the
main thing I see that I would question because this has always
been a big issue with me. Almost the whole video thing.
So it's like they like to record video and like what I say to
couples, it's like they're like, Oh yeah, we'll leave your your
face out of it where it's like my face ain't what would make
you money is my Dick. You know, I mean, not not to
mention I got a whole bunch of recognizable tattoos, but even
mine is that like there've been plenty of pornos where you don't
see the dude's face or you don't care to see the dude's face.
You just want to make sure that he's he's hung.
So with that being said, it's like, well, I get it.
Well, I get a copy of the videos because a lot of couples,
they'll sit there and say, oh, well, you know, it's just for
our personal use and everything like that where we have, you
know, family or whatever the case may be.
As if I'm some type of lonely orphan in this world where I
don't have anybody that could recognize me as well.
Like for me, that's the level of trust.
I'm trusting you to sit there and keep your word about some
private footage that involves me.
So you got to be what you want. If you want that.
You got to give me that same trust that I'm giving you.
Because for me, I'm thinking like, if you don't trust me, why
should I trust you? Because that's how you're
leading. So that's the first thing.
The second thing, this whole profile is oxymoron.
The moment they said they're laid back because there's
nothing about this profile that says they're laid back.
So many all capital sentences and and words where it's just
what's what's laid back about that, you know, just, I don't
know, There's so many demands. It's so many demands where it's
just like, what, what are you offering?
Like it? Because right now this is a
situation where it seems like they're doing the guys a favor
by allowing them to have sex with his wife.
And these pictures are old because I remember their
profile. And I think, I think all
lifestyle websites and I'm, I'm throwing this out there for
anybody that may be running any of these sites.
I think all lifestyle websites should have an expiration date
for their pictures. I think that you should have to
update your pictures at least every year, if not every six
months, because you can look so much different in that amount of
time. Three months.
Yeah. Well, I've seen, I've seen
profiles that I've, this is probably like my third profile
that I have on the site that we're on.
And since my first profile over 10 years ago, I see profiles
with the same pictures from that point.
And I've seen these people in person.
And it's like you do not look even remotely close to that
anymore. That looks like it's like a
biopic and based off a true story.
You look like you're based off a true story you like.
You're based off of what you look like you used to look like.
But you do. Not look like that anymore.
But he's a biopic based off of. It's like, no, it's like, Oh
yeah. It's like, no, it's not even a
biopic, bro. That's based off a true story.
Like, Oh yeah, you know, like extreme exaggeration at this
point in time with how old some of these people pictures are.
And I know this profile, I've seen it before because they've
reached out to me before. And it's like, yo.
After reading this, I've, I've messaged them, they reached out
to me, they've reached out to me 3 different times.
And each time I said respectfully, we're not
compatible because I'm reading this profile.
Like let's look at this part. Like there's certain things,
like there's things, there's so many red flags that stand out to
me like right here. Wait, where's the one, the part
that said don't be a boy, be a man, don't be a boy.
Like what are we doing? I feel like he's challenging,
like you're challenging me now, like, you know.
And then this right? This is my listen y'all can call
me petty all you want but this number 5 is my favorite.
This is crazy to me. Single males, if you're
selected, if you're selected, you must entertain.
Period. My thing is, you're a hot wife.
You need single males. Why would I entertain like I?
So you want me to pay to fuck your wife?
Like you're at my listen, if my wife wants to play, find a dude
she want to play with. I have a space for her to play.
And if not, I'm going to get the fucking hotel room.
Unless she's a friend of yours like you, she can come to your
house, you're safe, she's comfortable, boom.
But what the like? It blows me away.
Like what? When I see shit like that, I I I
think in my head, OK, so I can do that for a 52 year old or I
can do that for a 32 year old. I could do that.
I had the ability where I could do that for a 22 year old.
I don't I don't normally go that low.
Yeah, single a single woman to where I can do that and it's
impressing her to where OK, this is going to lead to me
continuously fucking her to where Hey, what?
We were talking about Subs earlier where OK, I can make her
a sub. I can make her a girlfriend, I
can make her a fuck buddy. There's so many more, so many
options available where in this situation, OK.
And I don't got nobody talking to me like bro, like the the
language in this, the language in this profile to me is so
crazy. It's nuts.
It's crazy, It's nuts. Like look at the the ex male
should be flirtatious, articulate, well dressed, good
hygiene is a must, respectful in order to have an opportunity
with her, you must be. That's the part right there.
That's the killer. Cause all that what you want is
what you want. You're entitled to want what you
want. I mean, they're entitled to have
this whole profile, but as soon as it's like to have an
opportunity because it's like, what, you motherfucker?
Like. Like what an opportunity.
With you like. What?
What does that even mean? Like what?
What is the opportunity I. Don't understand?
Like for me it's like, alright, in that case, like yo, you
gotta, I need to see something. I need to either see like
pictures where she's sitting there.
One picture is she, she's down to her nose and the
motherfucking balls is on her chin.
And the next video, the next picture, the motherfucking shit
is fucking 10 inches long or some shit.
I need to see videos of her going crazy, like videos where
it's just like, damn, I want a piece of that.
Because if we're going by just looks and it's like, all right,
even if we're sticking to let's leave the real world out of it,
OK, I can look at that or I can go for somebody that's a lot
cooler. You asked me about single girls.
I know single women. Even the 53 year old, OK, she
makes this profile makes the 53 year old I'm talking about not
seeing bad because hey, at least she's, you know, throwing it out
there like, you know, she wants to submit and everything.
It's easy. She just wants to come over and
get Dick down by some hung black guys as opposed to this woman
that wants to do that wants a man to come and do what her
husband should be doing. Your husband is supposed to be
making you feel like that, Like we're we're supposed to be the
cherry on top of the sundae they already have are supposed to
have prepared for you. Yeah, now, now this is.
So what's funny is this. So this is this is our profile.
If you message our profile without pictures we will not
respond. When we find a couple that we
both compatible with, we would love to play.
She isn't into girls so if you require that to play with us,
we're not the couple for you. We both play separate single
guys or husbands with legit hall passes.
Feel free to say hi if we don't respond, it's a polite way of
saying we aren't interested. We are both workaholics so
sometimes the response may be slow.
He enjoys Single Ladies and hot wives.
Feel free to reach out if you're interested in him.
We are looking for secure, attractive height, weight,
proportion to playmates, couples and singles.
If you have hang ups or insecurities, we are not for
you. We have a drama free.
We are a drama free couple so we are looking to meet drama free
couples and singles again. If you contact us and you do not
have pictures of both of you, please send clear pictures in
your first e-mail. We're a full swap couple.
Same room or separate room. We're very secure.
Our fantasies surpasses way more than this page, so that being
said, just ask. Like that's a very respectful
profile. It's a very respectful, very
cordial, very cool profile. And where you look at that with
open mind where it's just like, all right, because the other
profile, I'm looking at that profile with judgment after
reading it all day, you know, I'm looking at this.
Are you worth? What you saying?
Because if they had a cool profile, it's like cup half
full, cup half empty. So y'all profile I'm looking at
the cup half full where it's like all right let's look at the
pictures OK, they seem cool. My mind is going towards the
positive in any scenario, any scenario that's the toss up
anything I don't know for sure I'm assuming the best because of
the way the profile is laid out. This profile I'm looking at it
with judgement because it's so judge mental because it's so
harsh, because it's so aggressive.
So now instead of saying, oh, she got big titties, I'm, I'm
looking at this area right here where, oh, look at that.
I wonder what that's going to look like when she takes her,
her underwear off. You know, I'm looking at
everything from a subjective standpoint because they're so
subjective and they're once again, you got to be what you
want. So.
Standards that you're putting out there like like, and here's
a crazy thing, like they've adjusted this process because
before they said they're looking for a dominant male.
You're not looking for a dominant male.
No, no fit, attractive, high level bull is going to fuck with
this couple. Like I can't, I can't say no.
But if you fuck with this couple after reading this profile that
tells me what your options are like, I just can't like, and
here's the problem. Like even like she is before you
read this, if you if, if it was more of a reasonable profile,
I'd look at that and go, hmm, I might do that now.
I'm like, based upon what you're asking for, bro, you can't ask
me for Bentley prices for a Hyundai.
You can't, you can't, like you can't do that.
You just can't do that. So like, I'm like, yo, I don't
understand what makes people write the stuff they write.
And to me, like I could be wrong, but in my mind, I feel
like this must this, this is a husband's way of making sure
that the guys that they deal with is not something that's
going to threaten his ego. This is a way of calling in all
actors, so all all dudes that aren't naturally like this in
their their normal day-to-day life, they can come into the
situation and act like this. And since they're only acting to
the level that they expect, maybe it works out nice.
You know, because that's what I see like a lot of a lot of
lifestyles once like people I know people aren't how they are
in a lifestyle in real life. A lot of people aren't just how
arrogant some people are. And it's like yo if you are like
that in real life then golly I see why you run to the lifestyle
so much because people in real life probably don't fuck with
you like that. Because your options, your bro,
like when I tell you, it blows me away.
And that was why, you know, I like I had a conversation with
my man before when me actually me and Dmitry were talking for
couples. It's not very difficult to find
a guy that it's not difficult to find a high level guy if you are
of moderate, if you have a great attitude, great personality,
you're sexual, you understand the assignment, which is we're
here to have fun. I'm here to make sure you have
fun. You're here to make sure I have
fun. And you, you look halfway decent
and and halfway decent is in the eye of the beholder, so.
And personality can change that, like a personality, yo, it's
been plenty of times where it's just like you, you there might
be a woman of a couple where you look at her and be like, yo, you
can probably do better, but it's like, yo, she dope.
Yeah, she dope. Her personality is dope.
Yeah, exactly. It's fun.
The sex is fun where it's just like, all right, yeah, I'll,
I'll take a 5 / 8 if the five has everything else and the
eight only is pretty. Yeah, and and and that's another
thing that I think a lot of people don't realize there's a
certain level of guy who we have a number system because like we
both know a dime who is trash in bed like garbage.
Garbage. Like you like yo, she looks so
good and five minutes into fucking or like I'm not sure if
you ever done it, but I've definitely faked it enough
before you. Stop.
Yeah, I've been like done a couple times.
Have you run to the bathroom? I gotta go to the bathroom.
I gotta take a piss. Yeah.
Or no. I'll be like, I'm so sorry.
It's just so tight. I gotta stop.
Nah, your pussy's trash. Trash can.
Now, don't get me wrong, there are something that I'm not
saying I ain't never been because I have been between some
legs where the pussy good and I'm trying to hold keep from
losing my shit, but I've definitely faked some nuts to
get up out of there and never come back.
And she's you know, you know, I've never had a guy who never
I've never I've never played with a guy who didn't keep
pursuing me afterwards. Well, that's because you're
playing with dudes. It's only fucking your image
because your pussy is garbage. Pussy garbage personality must
be trash because even if the pussy is trash like yo like like
I said, if the personality is dope and I want everybody to
understand that yeah I talk about the regular life for real
life and lifestyle, but the same rules I apply to lifestyle I
apply to my real life too. The only, the only difference is
that the lifestyle, it doesn't have any priority.
So it's just like, all right, it's not like, all right, I get
a regular text message and I'm checking that because it's going
through my phone. I'm not checking the website.
So I got time or I'm doing
scrolling anyway. I might as well, you know, get
this out. But once I connect with
somebody, then I show them the same respect that I would show
anybody else. And that's why everything is so
important to me. What I say is because once we do
connect, my my goal is to make it a great experience for you.
I'm not treating the wife, whether she's single, coming
alone or whatever. I'm not treating anybody like,
oh, well, you're just lifestyle. So, you know, no, I'm treating
you with the same respect I would treat anybody else because
it's the understanding that, yeah, the lifestyle is just the
arena for us to know where to look for where, what we want.
And that is unconventional. Agreed upon sex without an
emotional attachment. NSA.
Yeah, and and I also firmly, I, I will never understand, like
I'm so respectful to the guys who are going to play with my
wife because like you wouldn't talk like, I mean, I guess some
guys would. But like, if, if I know that
you're going to drive my Ferrari, I wouldn't talk to you
crazy before I gave you keys to it.
That's fair. Like there's nothing more
valuable than my wife. So if if I see you as someone
who's worthy to play with my wife, like that's reflection on
me. And the reflection on me is I
take pride in knowing the level of guys that my wife played
with. I take pride in going, OK, this
dude is a reflection on my choices.
And what standard did I set for my wife to like my wife's
standards from the time I met her till now are completely
different. So that being said, if you hit
that standard, I'm treating you with the ultimate respect.
I'm, I'm, I'm welcoming me here with, with open arms.
I'm hoping that I inspire you to have good energy because I'm
going to tell you a husband, a husband can can, can cause his
wife to get some bad Dick. Facts.
A husband can definitely like your attitude.
I'm already here. I'm a fucker anyways, but my
mind is kind of over there. Like, who the fuck is this guy
talking to? Like I ain't coming back to this
mother again. And now I'm in here giving out,
you know, lackluster Dick because facts.
This goofball says something stupid like don't, don't.
So yeah, yeah, it's. I don't understand it as a
husband, you know, and, and you being somebody who, when you
bring me into one of your situations, the level of respect
that's that that you bring me into the, the way you, the
alley, the way everything works, It's, it's a certain level like,
because now I'm a representation of you and you're a
representation of me. Like these husbands.
I think a lot of husbands out there do this thing where it
makes them feel powerful or makes them feel like they have a
bargaining chip in their wife. So, well, I can talk to you
crazy or I can feel superior because I have the wife that you
want to fuck. Like no.
Those are the dudes that need therapy.
You need to go to therapy and figure that shit out because
this is supposed to be fun and it's like for me, it's like yo,
it's supposed to be fun for everyone.
So why wouldn't I want to make? Why wouldn't I want to make sure
the guy's having fun? Because if he's having fun, he's
going to make sure that whatever girl I got involved, if is
having fun too. And then that's going to allow
me to have fun. Because I can feel comfortable
knowing that I can be in the moment and not have to sit there
and worry about somebody going left or going side or shit going
sideways. Yep.
So yeah, that that is definitely that.
That's something that, like I said, me and Dee had this whole
conversation and we this is it's an ongoing conversation because,
you know, couples are always looking for solid dudes and
solid dudes are always looking for couples.
But then you always have those guys in the middle who, in my
opinion, they will kind of settle for anything.
And you know, they will go in and I think you said be actors.
You know, you can say, Oh, well, we're looking for this kind of
guy and that person going to show up and be who they think
you want them to be like, Nah, I'm going to show up and be me
and hope that I'm the I'm what you're looking for, you know?
And if not, that's OK. If not, that's OK.
Not everybody is supposed to match with everyone.
It's just about making sure everyone is hot, honest, open
and transparent without ego. As crazy like you look at this,
so we're looking at a different profile.
Look at her, look at her shape, look at her bow, look at her
body. Yeah, yeah.
In comparison to the other one and this is a couple looking for
fun and friendship. We speak another language and
basic English. We are a couple a good and they
they speak a second language so we're not going to judge them in
good active shape. We like parties, dancing, have
fun with other like minded couples.
We like to make friends in addition to sharing good sex,
the nudism, the lake, the swinger parties and gatherings.
We really like to play as a couple with other couples and
have the best time. Like that's an example of an
attractive woman, a husband who's got an attractive wife,
great body and they are that is a couple who would attract my
attention. Absolutely.
That would attract my attention and any like you just made a
good point that I didn't notice before because I'm not as
critical of the way she looks based upon that profile because
they seem like fun people. So now it's like I'm looking at.
Everything you like about her. Yeah.
Looking at everything you like about her, because I mean,
anybody can pass judgement on anybody because nobody's
perfect. But it's either one side of the
coin or the other because their profile is so friendly,
inviting. And The thing is, it doesn't
even have to be necessarily inviting, just cordial, just
just sane, just humane. You know, it's like, all right,
they're, they're cool people. You just assume they're cool
people. They just come over here, they
have fun, and they just want what they want to do.
Good feeling. Exactly.
So yeah, you're looking at everything you like about her
because of that. As opposed to the other profile
where it's just like everything you see is just nitpicking.
At least for me, I'm nitpicking. Oh, yeah, That that wondering
how old the pictures are. The other couple didn't even
think about it. They're like just.
She looks good. You're absolutely right.
Like that's you, you see, it is crazy when you get different
perspectives and you know, I know, you know, people will will
give me a hard time for beating a beating a dead horse, but I'm
constantly get talking to couples who are like, oh, I can
never find the guy that I'm looking for.
I can never find the right kind of guy.
Well, what are you doing? What does your profile say?
How do you approach guys? What?
What is your expectation? Are you being what the right
kind of guy wants? Are you?
Are you what the guy you want wants and and are you given an
attempt to be that in any sort of balance, even if you
understand, OK, I want a super in shape guy and I might not be
super in shape. What else am I bringing to the
table? Because I mean, as a guy, I do
that shit too, especially when I'm sitting there courting
somebody real. I mean like our real life.
So for example, I'm not going to go in with the same my state.
I would if I'm courting someone my age as I would someone that's
25 because I understand like yo, like not only were are we in
different places in life, so I can't expect certain things from
that person. And I know because of where I'm
at in life, they should be expecting certain things for me.
So it's like, all right, I'm not messing with, they're not
messing with the young guy that understands their plight.
Or, you know, might still be in shape for a 25 year old.
Because no matter how good in shape you are at whatever age
you are, you're never going to be as in good a shape unless
you're a professional athlete or something.
But you take two people the same, the same physical type and
different ages, the older ones always going to be in less
shape. So it's just like it's
understanding that OK, they may be able to get a better physical
specimen, but I have a better mind off for them.
I'm still a good looking guy and I'm I'm more financial
financially set than someone that age.
Just like it's understanding of like, OK, yeah, they can't go in
on shit the way someone my age should be able to do.
Or they may not have the understanding of certain aspects
or certain concepts of life, but they're going to look better
than someone my age is going to look.
They're still going to have the, you know, nice skin,
everything's, you know, up, no surgeries necessary or anything.
And that's the understanding of OK, this is this is how we
approach this situation. Just like in this scenario,
like, all right, you want this in shape guy hung all this
stuff, top notch, top tier. Be cool.
Yeah. You because if if you want, if
you want a top tier guy, that means a lot of other people want
that guy too. So now you, you put yourself in
the competition of, OK, why is this guy going to pick me over
all the other suitors that want the same type of guy?
Because they're not looking for you.
We're not looking for you. We just we just coasting because
we know the world is our oyster. So if I'm looking for something
like I want something at at the time, like yo, I'm feeling it's
almost like food, like you know what, I can go for pasta today.
You know what I want? I want somebody mid 20s.
I want to mess with Latinas. You know what?
I want a Bunny, you know, I want some chocolate, you know, I want
an older woman now, you know, today they bring this whole
they're they're more sexually advanced.
They know what they they doing, you know, so that's where I
personally fall in as far as what I desire.
But even still, it's just like, it's a broad, it's a broad
thing. So it's just like, all right,
yeah, there's top tier, there's low tier.
But when you're talking about, Oh yeah, I want the the best
Latina, I want the best Bunny, then I got to make sure that I'm
coming, correct? I got to be the best version of
myself. So that way they feel as though
they're they're getting the best too.
Yep, because and it's interesting, like when you look
at the difference in what they're looking for.
So if they're looking for, OK, you're looking for a with them,
you're looking for a fit black guy over 30 who's well hung and
who's a quote UN quote man. All right, that's a lot.
But the person you're looking for is going to be looking at
you. And I understand that for me, a
big part of that was going to separate me from another guy.
My age, height, weight, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah is going
to be who I am as a person. My attitude, my energy, my
confidence. A lot of these guys out there,
you know, have bodies but no confidence.
All right, You have guys who got money, but no confidence.
You guys got guys got got experience, but but, but but a
small Dick. So you're as you, you're looking
for like them. They're literally looking for 1%
of the population. You want a man over 6 feet, You
want a black man over 6 feet. You want a black man over 6 feet
with a Dick that's that's 9 inches plus.
You want a black man over 6 feet with a Dick that's 9 inches
plus. Who is articulate?
Who is fit? Who is like dress, dress, dress?
Like why do you you don't think they I'm so is?
Everybody not looking for that. Person exactly we're.
Not you going to talk crazy. Yeah, exactly.
So it's just, you know, it's just like, what do you expect in
honest, in all honesty, like I don't think they've like do they
read their own profile and say, you know what, if I was who I'm
looking for, I would come run into this profile like, yeah,
this is exactly what I want to hear as a, you know, top tier
hung over 6 foot over over 9 inches.
Like yo stop looking at porn because even when you look at
porn you see in the same guys and everything.
You see 100, 100 and 150 eleven different women and you see the
same guys, the same 5 to 6 black guys, the same 4 to 5 white
guys, the same two to three Latin guys and maybe the same
one or two Asian guys. If you if you catching them in
porn, you seeing the same dudes. It's the same thing in the
lifestyle. You go to parties.
It's like the the old Snoop Dogg song.
Every other party we go I see the same bro.
The *** is everywhere. The same dudes is at every
single party. You've seen last weekend, last
weekend. You see, if I don't know you, if
I don't know them, somebody I know knows them.
And now we know each other and now, OK, that's somebody I'm
going to see at the same parties.
And it's been like that for a decade.
It's been like I've been in a lifestyle since the Atlanta
lifestyle since I was what, like 12 years now?
1213 years for 1213 years I've seen the same top tier high
quality guys the whole at every party.
Like literally we went to a party last weekend.
We so we, and this was funny about it.
The the party like the the party hosts, like, oh, we got, we're
going to have the, the the best guys in the land are going to be
there. Walk in the party and all of us
know each other. We all know each other and it
was funny is like at one point I'm standing there because
everybody like I'm the shortest dude there every this dude 63
The the we got dudes who's 64. You know you 6463. 64636. 46366
like everybody got over 9 years Dick, everybody's in shape.
That's a small group of dudes. And so I read a profile and
you're talking like that. So now all of a sudden I
understand that the percentage of you finding me, OK, I can
find you find the woman who's 50 plus, you know, in in halfway
decent shape who is is kind of cute with a husband who's out of
shape. For her age, and we got to add
that disclaimer because it's like, yo, like I want to give
credit for her age. She looks like she probably, if
those pictures are five years old that she may take care of
herself for her age because there's a difference because
it's like, oh, they look good and they look good for her age,
You know, like, so I'm just being real.
There's some 50 I've seen some 50 year olds, some 56 year old.
I've seen one one that was pushing 60 before that, yo, she
looked good. Her body was crazy in general
dot period, that's it. And then there's ones that's
like, yo, there's something that's 30 and it's like, oh, she
looks good for her age to be a 30 year old, like it's just what
it is. But to go with what he was
saying as far as a small selection of guys, look at it
like this, when you create your profile and you're looking for
this specific dude, think of it, you're talking to less than 10
guys. So out all these profiles on,
you know, whatever lifestyle sites you on.
When you're talking about the hung guys and that big, that
long ass, you know, newspaper job inquiry, you are talking,
whoa, let's be realistic. We're talking to six guys.
Six guys are looking at your profile and we're thinking to
ourselves, do we want to do we want to do this?
Do we want to do we want to put up with this?
That's what we're that's what at least what I'm thinking is this
something I want to put up with? Because the way is, is is put
out for me. I don't see it going the way I
want to go or it's going to be more work than necessary.
Handling this is going to be more work than messing with a 27
year old or let's say a 39 year old.
I'm 39. I'm messing with a 39 year old
that has an understanding of, hey, I'm 39.
Yeah. And a single a 30 year, 39 year
old single woman. No and then how do you increase
your value like as a a person in lifestyle?
First things first, if like, if you have the right attitude, if
you're approachable, if you are fair, like don't ask any like
my, my pet peeve is always I have all of these pictures and
videos of myself on my profile. Don't send me a fucking message
if I can't see your face, if I can't see your whole body, don't
send me pictures of your wife like it's a fucking puzzle.
All right? You got 37 pictures of her bent
over with her butt cheeks spread over?
Like, OK, we get it. That's the one angle she likes.
But you do realize when I see her in person, I'm going to see
all of her. OK, Show me.
I want to see her from her fucking throat to her kneecaps.
Like, show me her whole torso. Because here's the thing.
If I show up and you have a little bit of a belly, I've
accepted that already. I'm a dude.
Men are visual creatures. I see you.
I like you. I'm going to reach out to you.
And that's what I expect. All right?
Filters. Stop with the fucking filters.
You do understand that if I show up and you're 15 years younger
because of filters, that's a problem.
If I show up and I got 4 inches less Dick, you're going to be
offended, all right? It's a big deal.
So here's the thing. I hear couples all the time.
Well, the guy showed up and he wasn't as good as I expected.
Well, that's because he showed up and he's been fantasizing
about fucking this 47 year old for the last three days and he
show up and he's fucking a 55 year old because you use fucking
filters. If I fantasize about fucking a
55 year old when I show up, I'm going to fuck the shit out of
you. I'm going to give you everything
I got. You want a person that's going
to be honest with you, but then you start off by lying.
It's not going to work it. It just does.
It doesn't work like that. Me as a person who's in the gym
generally depend upon the time of year.
My body's going to fluctuate about 8 to 9 lbs if I'm putting
mass on. If I'm taking mass off, if you
see my profile, you see pictures with me with more weight and
picture with me less weight. And before I come to see you,
I'm going to send you a picture of me at the state I'm at
because I've had women who've seen me who saw me online when I
was heavier. And then I show up and I'm
Wiener and they're like, oh, I thought you were a little
heavier. And at my lightest?
At my lightest. I'm 220 lbs at my smallest, so I
understand. Now imagine what I feel like as
a dude if I show up and you put a filter on there to make you
look like you were 10 years younger.
Or worse just sending old ass pictures.
Like yo your pictures 8 years old, send an updated picture.
Oh, well, Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, just send an updated
picture because like, like Mr. Mocha said, I'm going to send
you a, a more likely I'm going to send you a video of what I
look like because I'm, I'm very hung.
I'm a very hung bell. And a lot of times I'll get
accusations for like, you know, Photoshop or angles because I
hear a lot of horror stories about dudes saying, Oh yeah, I
got 8 inches and it's just the angle.
And then when they get to meet the couple, it's actually 5 1/2.
So I'll shoot you a video. I'll let that motherfucker
swing. I'll let you know.
Like, hey, I remember one time I was, I was done with an injury
and there's a couple that I would see every so often.
They were in town and I let them know, hey yo, I haven't been
able to work out. So I got an extra £5 on me and
everything. Just letting them know in
advance. So because I know they're
expecting one thing and if I look slightly different, even
slightly different than what I normally do, you deserve to know
that. And as a single guy or as a
human being, I want to know the same thing.
I guess it all falls down to just treat people the way you
want to be treated. When it comes down to it, if you
want to be treated with respect, give respect.
If you want to be treated with honesty, give honesty.
Be honest, it's as simple as that.
Not much to it. I think a lot of people make
things more complicated than they need to be because
honestly, how social media has been constructed for us now,
it's all about the image. So there's people that go to the
lifestyle and they genuinely just want fun to blow off some
steam, to have some kanky, you know, some kanky sex.
And there's people that use this almost for popularity.
You know, the, the, the lifestyle and you know, real
life or vanilla life are all in one.
You know, I'm a comic book nerd, so it's almost on an example of
Bruce Wayne is the mask and Batman is the actual person.
You know, a lot of people, I feel like the lifestyle is
actually who they are. So instead of treating it, you
know, the way I feel like it should be treated, where it's
just for fun, they're treating it almost like ATV high school
where they're trying to make up for lost time.
I don't know, some midlife crisis type shit.
But yeah man, just treat people with respect.
Treat people the way you want to be treated, Be what you want to
be or be what you want and everything will go right for
you. I agree.
I mean, and I think that, you know, on the other side of that
is you wind up getting a whole lot when you do that, you get a
whole lot of a person. And you know, like I, I feel
like I, I can say it from experience, you know, especially
from Mrs. Mocha standpoint, we have a group of really
intelligent, articulate, fit, you know, guys who, who we've
known for years because they've always treated us the way they
want to be treated. And it's been reciprocal all way
around the board. No, as always, man, I appreciate
you coming to hang out with me. And you know, this is something
that we going to be doing a regular basis.
Absolutely. Yeah, I'm down.
You know, I love being able to, you know, chop it up with you
sitting there, talk about things that I guess oppressing to us in
the lifestyle and hopefully be able to say some stuff that
relate to people out there listening.
And you know, we going to, we got another, we got more coming
up. It's definitely we like to spend
a little bit of time helping everybody, the couples, the
guys. And you know, next time we're
going to have to have Don tell us about one of his favorite
lifestyle experiences. And I only laugh because I
thought I was going to mess that up again.
So until next time, thank you for joining the cutting board on
OLD FACES. I'm Mr. Mocha.
This is my boy Don James. And until next time, goodbye
from OLD FACES. Peace out.
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rugged on a sea.