1 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,440 Hello, and welcome to another episode of Old Faces. 2 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:17,960 I'm your host, Mr. Mocha, and today in this segment of the 3 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:22,960 cutting board, I have a very, very good friend who you'll be 4 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:27,680 hearing from quite a bit. We actually did a podcast. 5 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,840 He he joined, joined us at Mocha and now he's back. 6 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:36,560 Brian, welcome. Thank you very much, Mr. Mocha. 7 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:40,560 It's a pleasure to be here. It is a pleasure to have you on. 8 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:46,720 I of course I'm excited to have you on just because the last 9 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:52,920 time we had a chance to hang out and and record, I realized that 10 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,240 we're on the same page on a lot of things. 11 00:00:57,240 --> 00:01:00,240 So that was that was actually fun. 12 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:03,520 I think that podcast we did together, I kind of sat back and 13 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:06,520 let you do a lot of the talking, which is weird because I love 14 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:09,920 running my mouth. So I figured this time I want 15 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,840 the people to get to, I don't do a proper introduction. 16 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:15,680 All right, so I'm going to start. 17 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,680 We're going to start from the very, very beginning. 18 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:24,280 OK, in the lifestyle. What are what are you in the 19 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:30,880 lifestyle single. I am Bowl, I am AI am a single 20 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:38,200 sensual, mature sexual, insatiable alpha bull. 21 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:44,520 But at the same time I am I am known as the Sigma male with an 22 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:48,880 alpha presence. All right, so you know, we like 23 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,240 to educate people. You got to explain what do you 24 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:57,400 mean when you say a Sigma male. A Sigma male in the in the 25 00:01:57,800 --> 00:02:03,360 archetype, everyone knows what what an alpha male is, what a 26 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,720 beta male is. You know, we know an alpha is 27 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,639 that that that lion, all right, He likes to be the leader. 28 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:12,640 He likes to be out front. He likes to be seen. 29 00:02:12,640 --> 00:02:15,360 He likes to be heard. He died. 30 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,560 He dominates in his own. You know, I'm not going to say a 31 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,680 forceful way, but he's, like I said, he's seen, he's, you know, 32 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:26,200 he wants to be in front of everybody. 33 00:02:26,640 --> 00:02:29,880 A Sigma male. A Sigma male, although dominant, 34 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:38,880 we are very, very introverted. We, we, we, we don't, we are 35 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:43,160 the, the introverted alpha male without a pack. 36 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:48,200 OK, We don't run in a pack. It's very, very seldom. 37 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:49,840 And here I am, I'm Speaking of myself. 38 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:54,000 It's very, very seldom that I connect with a lot of guys. 39 00:02:55,280 --> 00:03:00,920 You maybe two or three more guys, you know, in our pack I've 40 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,760 I connect with, but a lot of guys I just cannot. 41 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,080 I can't. I might know you, you know, we 42 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:10,120 might get along very, very well, but in the life, I don't even 43 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:12,640 say lifestyle anymore because this is my life that I live 44 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:16,080 24/7. In the life I connect with only 45 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:19,920 maybe two or three guys, you and I, you know, connected just 46 00:03:19,920 --> 00:03:22,480 wonderfully a splash. I mean, from the moment that we 47 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,760 met, from the moment that we did the podcast, from the moment 48 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:29,200 that we had, you know, a certain encounter with a young lady, 49 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,840 everything just clicked. Everything, everything clicked. 50 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:35,920 And that Sigma male is, is often, let me give you some 51 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:39,120 characteristics of myself and maybe other Sigma males. 52 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,080 Usually we are, and here again, not trying to be conceited, but 53 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,400 usually we are good looking, successful. 54 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:52,000 We're dominant in our own way. We're influential loners. 55 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,000 You know what I mean? We set our own rules. 56 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,800 We're not afraid to like, cross the line on certain things. 57 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:01,080 We don't necessarily follow a lead. 58 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,520 But if an alpha male is a lion, then a Sigma male is a tiger. 59 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:09,400 OK, Equally as powerful, equally as successful. 60 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:14,200 Successful. But we run in in not a pack, you 61 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:14,960 know what I mean? We're that. 62 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:18,079 We're that introverted loner. OK, so I guess you know that's 63 00:04:18,079 --> 00:04:21,000 that's that's you. Worry about following the status 64 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,560 quo you're going to. Do what you're going to do. 65 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:27,000 There is no status quo for me. You know, people say, well, you 66 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,440 know, you think outside the box. Hell, Mocha, there is no box for 67 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,880 me, OK? There's no box. 68 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:38,840 OK, so now the next question is this, you know we now that they 69 00:04:38,840 --> 00:04:43,360 get to know who you are, how long have you been in the 70 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:49,440 lifestyle and how did you even how are you introduced to it? 71 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,720 OK, let me give you my background first and foremost. 72 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,280 I served this country for 24 years in the United States Army. 73 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,400 Out of that 24 years I lived in Germany For 14 of those 24, 74 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:08,360 there is where I was. I call it Christian or baptized 75 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:14,200 into this life. I was 20, what, 2627 years old 76 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:18,800 and I had a penchant for older women. 77 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:22,800 I mean, even there, here I am, I'm, I'm 57 now. 78 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:28,040 I still love to see a gorgeous 60 plus or gorgeous like 6566 79 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,560 year old woman. You know, it just does something 80 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,640 to me. And here again, I was christened 81 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,960 by a very, very beautiful Russian woman who was at the 82 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,440 time, I want to say 48 or 49. And I was like I said, 27, I 83 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:46,160 think 27 years old and she pretty much changed my life. 84 00:05:46,840 --> 00:05:49,840 I met her. I won't go into the all of the 85 00:05:49,840 --> 00:05:52,440 details. It was a very long story, but 86 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:57,760 she bought me into this life and it changed me forever. 87 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:01,920 I mean, it really did. I was able to see things 88 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,200 relationship wise in a whole nother manner. 89 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:11,080 You know, although I was young, I was able to come into to to 90 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:15,560 the lives of like couples and I realized man, how much that I 91 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,000 could like enhance their marriage. 92 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,320 You know what I mean? Made their marriage greater than 93 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:24,360 what it was. And like I said, it's the 94 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:25,640 greatest thing that ever happened to me. 95 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,320 So you're looking at somebody that's been in this life for 96 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,120 like 30 years now. Now let me say this. 97 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:35,920 We didn't have all of the, the, you know, acronyms and you know, 98 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:37,600 the names. We didn't know what a hot wife 99 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,400 was then. We didn't know what a coupled 100 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,160 was then. But I was going to what we were 101 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,560 just, we were just called black and white parties. 102 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,880 And it was just like, it was just like going to like a 103 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:51,360 version of splash mocha, only maybe a little smaller, you 104 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,560 know, not a not a hotel takeover, but but maybe like a 105 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,080 floor. And you would invite say like 106 00:06:57,760 --> 00:07:02,960 1520 guys and then you got 30. It's 30 some couples you know, 107 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,680 and the whole floors were in and out and it was it was on. 108 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,680 I mean the ladies are just European women are just so 109 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:14,240 uninhibited, so uninhibited man. I mean they approach you and 110 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,200 the. Husband, we don't get to that. 111 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:19,800 We go into that. Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. 112 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:27,800 So your introduction into the lifestyle when you're in the 113 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:35,120 military and I, I do like one thing I do like, you know, 114 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,480 because I've been the lifestyle long enough to where, you know, 115 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,960 it was when I got into lifestyle, it was the labels 116 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:47,360 were not as important. You just did what Phil's right. 117 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:52,800 And of course, as things evolved and it became more socially 118 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,720 acceptable, you start getting names just so you can kind of 119 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:59,240 identify, OK, what type of situation am I going into, blah, 120 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:01,160 blah, blah. But you know, I, I definitely 121 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,760 agree with that. You said something about 122 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:11,880 enhancing the life of couples. But before we get there, as a 123 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:17,240 single male in the lifestyle, how has it affected? 124 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,760 How has a lifestyle affected your life? 125 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:30,240 Oh man, I see relationships now totally different, differently, 126 00:08:32,159 --> 00:08:35,440 you know, I consider myself and then we talk about it all the 127 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,760 time. I consider myself a quality 128 00:08:38,159 --> 00:08:43,280 bull, you know, and, and a quality bull that to me should 129 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:46,880 be able to like to adjust to a specific dynamic requested by 130 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:48,360 couples. You know what I mean? 131 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,160 You meet certain couples and, and, and you got to get in there 132 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:58,120 and you got to, you got to exude a mix of power, a mix of 133 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:02,920 dominance as well as validation. You know, it can be so 134 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:07,480 intoxicating in this dynamic. You know that as well as 135 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:13,120 pleasurable, but you, you, you as a bull, you need a role. 136 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:16,560 You need to require a unique sense of self, you know what I 137 00:09:16,560 --> 00:09:18,320 mean? You, you need to be able to, to 138 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:23,160 tap into one's physical and emotional boundaries along with 139 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,360 the, along with like a commitment to communication, you 140 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,120 know, while seeking fulfillment and connection. 141 00:09:28,560 --> 00:09:30,480 I mean, I, I can't sum up any more than that. 142 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:36,720 And that has totally changed the way I look at the couples who, 143 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:42,800 like attend Splash rather than the couples in the vanilla 144 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,120 lifestyle. I mean, the the vanilla world, 145 00:09:45,560 --> 00:09:48,480 you know, I say all the time, I tell people all the time, I was 146 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:52,560 like, I I've met some of the happiest couples in the 147 00:09:52,560 --> 00:09:56,040 lifestyle in this world. You know what I mean? 148 00:09:56,040 --> 00:10:00,560 Compared to the regular couples in the vanilla world who are 149 00:10:00,560 --> 00:10:06,840 just seen to be a clueless, be unhappy, see unsatisfied. 150 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:12,080 You understand what I'm saying? I mean, you know, yeah. 151 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:15,320 So that's, that's how so that's how that has changed me. 152 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,360 I mean, I just see things totally different now 153 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:21,560 relationship wise. And when I can come in and you 154 00:10:21,560 --> 00:10:27,560 know, not necessarily take over, take over, you know, a couple's 155 00:10:27,560 --> 00:10:30,000 life or anything like that, but just come in and just like I 156 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:34,000 said, blend in because they already they, you know, they've 157 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,160 already discussed exactly what they want. 158 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:39,760 They're always just, they want that they know what they want. 159 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,160 They know what they need and desire. 160 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:45,520 And I just come in and I just try to try myself to listen, 161 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,720 communicate, and then blend in, you know? 162 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:52,800 And that just, that just makes it good, man, That makes it 163 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:53,680 good. I love it. 164 00:10:54,840 --> 00:11:00,360 So I know that, you know, for me, especially when I was 165 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:06,440 single, one of the things that I've like I talk about all the 166 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:11,080 time is just how do I, how do you separate yourself from other 167 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:15,760 guys? And how do what do you do that 168 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:19,200 makes you a quality bull? And I'll say this, you know, 169 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:25,120 just to paint the picture, you know, I always forget how old 170 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:29,920 you are because of the way you keep yourself together. 171 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:35,840 Like you're no one is going to look at you and guess your age. 172 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:38,880 Like that's that, that's not going to happen. 173 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,880 Based upon his physique, you know, you can tell that he's 174 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:44,520 taking care of himself. So no one's going to guess his 175 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:47,720 age. And you know, you know, he's 176 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:49,920 take, I mean, he takes care of himself very much. 177 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:54,560 So that's one of the things that, you know, when I you, when 178 00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:58,400 you listen to him, he's being very honest. 179 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,560 There's, there's nothing braggadocious about him. 180 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:06,600 You know, he still works out like a savage, you know, so 181 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,280 saying, saying that, you know, I know physically, that's one of 182 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,480 the things that you have maintained very well, you know, 183 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:22,200 well above average. Well, to, I mean, listen, I mean 184 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,840 that the beauty, the beauty about that is like it's it 185 00:12:24,840 --> 00:12:27,840 speaks for itself, you know, and I'm always going to give credit, 186 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,720 you know, as a person who's been a gym rat my whole life, when I 187 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:35,800 see a fellow gym rat and you know, knowing that, you know, I 188 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,160 can look like you when I'm that age is. 189 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,320 Makes me feel good, you know, It makes me very happy to know. 190 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,560 That I can I can look like that at your age, but aside from the 191 00:12:45,560 --> 00:12:55,720 physical part, what intellectual and emotional attributes have 192 00:12:55,720 --> 00:13:01,760 you honed to separate yourself from other guys? 193 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:09,560 I think my, a, my communication skills that I think they're 194 00:13:09,560 --> 00:13:13,920 paramount. I think they're, I'm able to 195 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:18,840 understand and respect the couple's dynamic, you know, in 196 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:22,920 their marriage, never, ever disrespecting the bond that they 197 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,640 have created. You know what I mean? 198 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:28,280 Like I said, I'm here to enhance and heighten, you know, the 199 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:33,480 couple's love for one another. And in doing that, I mean, you 200 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,040 can, you can, you know, you can relieve tension by, you know, 201 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,400 providing excitement and pleasure, You know what I'm 202 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:39,760 saying? Because to me, that's, that's my 203 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,560 responsibility. My, my responsibility is to make 204 00:13:42,560 --> 00:13:46,440 that queen and that husband, whether he's a cuckold or a 205 00:13:46,440 --> 00:13:49,480 stag, made the dreams come true, you know, establish a 206 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:53,320 relationship with with them. That's both, you know, like 207 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:56,440 consensual and, and, and challenging for all you know, 208 00:13:56,440 --> 00:13:59,480 for all three of us, the more emotions. 209 00:13:59,680 --> 00:14:04,960 That right there is that's huge. You know, there's so much that 210 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:08,760 you can dig into when you talk about the communication and 211 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:12,600 making people's dreams come true because there there's a fantasy 212 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:14,640 when when someone invites you into their bedroom. 213 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:17,720 Yeah. And Oh yeah, being able to, to 214 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:21,040 fulfill that, that, I mean, that's a hell of a thing. 215 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:23,520 So. Oh yeah, Oh yeah. 216 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,800 You got to be. You have to as as a, as a, as 217 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:31,080 that quality bull mocha. I feel like you got to be, you 218 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:34,480 got to be in alignment with the goals of a couple, you know what 219 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,480 I mean? Because the more, the more, the 220 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,240 more emotions and excitement that you can bring to the table, 221 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,720 the more explosiveness everything is going to be. 222 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:46,120 I mean, not just the sexual chemistry, but I'm talking about 223 00:14:46,120 --> 00:14:48,280 getting inside. You know how we say, hey, I want 224 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,880 to get in between your ears also, you know what I mean? 225 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,520 I, I, I want you to be at work thinking about, you know, damn, 226 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,280 I'm thinking about Brian Morgan right now. 227 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:00,000 You know, you know how he not not only just made me feel 228 00:15:00,200 --> 00:15:04,040 physically, but the way that he made the both of us, you know, I 229 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,240 mean, we left him and came home and we couldn't damn take our 230 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:10,320 hands off each other. I mean that, that to me, that's, 231 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:11,520 that's mission accomplished for me. 232 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,760 It really is. That's mission accomplished and 233 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:16,600 get. Between getting between the 234 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:19,640 years like that's. Yeah, Oh yeah, that. 235 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:21,600 Oh yeah, that. I think I who do I have? 236 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:26,040 I just had, I just had a debate, you know, You know, me and Mike, 237 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:27,880 see, we get into our little, our little debates. 238 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,160 Out. I was about to say it was 239 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:31,800 probably Michael, wasn't it? It was Mike. 240 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:40,040 And it was last night and I was saying that sex is is 241 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:44,360 psychological always. Yes, yes, yes. 242 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,920 Sex to me is put on the back burner when I meet a couple. 243 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,400 You know what I mean? I need two things. 244 00:15:51,640 --> 00:15:56,200 I need trust and comfort and that takes time to develop. 245 00:15:56,320 --> 00:16:00,120 You know what I mean? And as as that quality bull, I 246 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,680 need to be patient, you know, I mean, I need to be patient and 247 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:07,840 give things time, all right, because OK, I'm I'm going to go 248 00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:11,640 back to to to splash Atlanta. All right, our encounter with 249 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:16,400 our couple who, who, who came to the Super Bowl instead of going 250 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,720 through the preliminaries, you know what I mean? 251 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:23,360 You you remember, you remember how you came to the Super Bowl 252 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:25,720 and and and got there and I thought I was going to have to 253 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,520 call an ambulance, you know what I mean? 254 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:33,360 But though, but though you being there and being able to see that 255 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:37,880 also when I walked in with her, the way you just just I mean, it 256 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:41,320 was just like a. You got to, you got to give the 257 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,720 listeners a play by play of the whole of this. 258 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:49,080 Interaction Well, OK, that that's OK, OK. 259 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:56,440 I had this couple who I had spoken to for maybe, maybe two 260 00:16:56,440 --> 00:16:59,800 weeks tops. I, I had like 3 phone calls from 261 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:05,200 them and they were very, very adamant had never ever attended 262 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:12,040 any type of events before ever. She had played with maybe 2 263 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,560 black 2 black men. That was it. 264 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:20,720 I and they decided when I talked to them, I told them I asked the 265 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:24,400 question had they ever attended, you know any events and they 266 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,720 were like no and asked me what did I attend? 267 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:30,320 I said well I'm headed to this event called Splash Mocha and 268 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,040 they were like what is Splash mocha out? 269 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:35,800 Of course I explained what it, what it was and I told him, I 270 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,720 said, now that's, that's kind of like a, a very, very big time 271 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:41,920 event. And that's when I told him. 272 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:43,920 I said, I said, look for her. I said, that's, this is the 273 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,280 Super Bowl that you go into. I said, this isn't something, 274 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,080 you know, for the faint of heart. 275 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:52,520 I said, there's going to be a big nice hotel and it's going to 276 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:56,880 be full of, of, of beautiful hot wife couples and about, you 277 00:17:56,880 --> 00:18:01,400 know, in between 90 to 100, you know, single black, black males. 278 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:07,400 And they wanted to come, and they came here again. 279 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:12,520 I'm upstairs on that Friday. Well, they called and said that, 280 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,080 you know, they couldn't get a room right there at the main 281 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:16,560 hotel. So they stayed across the 282 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,400 street. And they were like, Brian, you 283 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,120 know, we're coming over. So they came over. 284 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,680 I get dressed and go downstairs to meet them at Mocha. 285 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,080 When I walked out the front door, I see this white car 286 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:31,920 speeding off, you know, from the front. 287 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:35,200 And I'm saying to myself, I was like, I know that's not them. 288 00:18:35,360 --> 00:18:38,000 Well, the security looked at me and they were like, hey man, you 289 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,280 know, were you waiting on a couple? 290 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,160 I was like, yes. He said. 291 00:18:41,360 --> 00:18:45,840 He said dog, quote UN quote. She opened the door, took a step 292 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:49,440 out, had a panic attack, jumped back in and said drive off. 293 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,040 They went around the building like twice. 294 00:18:55,520 --> 00:18:57,840 They went around the building twice, you know, came back. 295 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:02,960 So I called, I said look, I said go around to the side and park. 296 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,440 I said sit there ever how long You need to, you know, to sit 297 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,960 and I'm going to stand here when you guys are ready, come back 298 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,560 around, see. I didn't know this part of the 299 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:14,600 saga. Yeah, yeah. 300 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:18,360 About 15 minutes went by. I started to give up. 301 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:23,520 I started to but then they walked around the corner and I 302 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,760 could tell immediately I was like, OK, she uses fine and says 303 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:35,040 that those pictures, you know she's gorgeous now that she she 304 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:39,040 walks up to me, they walk up to me, he greets me, I greet him. 305 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,600 She will not look at me. She is looking down at the 306 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:46,240 ground. OK, and I'm saying to myself, Oh 307 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:47,240 my. And she's shaking. 308 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,280 She is shaking like a freaking Leech. 309 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,520 And I'm, you know, I, I, I look at him and I kind of like wish 310 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,560 to him, you know, it's OK to like, you know, that, you know, 311 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,880 to touch her and everything. And he was like, go ahead and do 312 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:01,560 your thing. And so. 313 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:05,280 You, you drop in, you drop in little gems here. 314 00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:07,360 Tell me why. You just explain to people why 315 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:11,600 you did that. Well, because, yeah, yeah, 316 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:16,640 because you always, I always, I always show the utmost respect 317 00:20:17,120 --> 00:20:19,160 to that husband first and foremost. 318 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:23,600 I, I don't care if it's a beginner's meet and greet or if 319 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:27,000 I have been with you on the regular and you are like a 320 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:31,600 regular couple that I go and see, I don't know, 2-3 times a 321 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:34,800 month or whatever I spend the night with, etcetera, etcetera. 322 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:40,360 I will never, ever not acknowledge that husband before 323 00:20:40,360 --> 00:20:44,280 I, you know, do something, especially in a situation like 324 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:47,160 that, especially in a situation like that, because both of them 325 00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:48,720 were green. You know what I mean? 326 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,320 Both are green. But this, this man is, is, is 327 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:56,600 trusting me. He's entrusting me to take his, 328 00:20:56,640 --> 00:21:00,280 his and I hate to say the word like possession, but his most 329 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,560 prized possession, the woman who he loves, the woman who he's 330 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:06,080 married to, the woman who has his kids. 331 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,200 All right. He is looking for me to take her 332 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:13,680 and bring her into an into an environment that both of them 333 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,360 are clueless about. You know, yes, they play with 334 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:20,840 two black men, but that's just that's just a single effort. 335 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:23,440 You know what I mean? Like I said, you're coming into 336 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,840 a whole nother world, a whole nother life. 337 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,160 Like I said, I don't see a lifestyle for you and I. 338 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:34,760 We live in this world, correct indeed, and we love it 24 and we 339 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:39,080 love it 24/7. So when I was able to finally to 340 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:44,080 finally and I went from touching her hand lightly, gently, OK, so 341 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:49,160 like rubbing her her hand. And then she took my hand, man, 342 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,000 she took my hand like I like I thought she was grabbing a 343 00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:57,040 thing, a pair of pliers, OK. And I literally I was like, Lord 344 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,840 have mercy. I'm like, you know, I said, 345 00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,960 Brian, you can't be in bull mode right now. 346 00:22:00,960 --> 00:22:05,840 You just got to be in in like very, very nice, Brian, You know 347 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,040 what I mean? You know, I'm here for you. 348 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:14,000 And I was finally able Mocha to to take my index finger and put 349 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:18,840 it up on her chin and lift her head up and all I said, I said I 350 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:21,600 got you. I got you. 351 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,440 And she looked at me and I said we're going to take some baby 352 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,640 steps and go inside, like, you know, like a question. 353 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,800 And she took my hand and she came. 354 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,600 She. It took us a few minutes to walk 355 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:34,080 inside. Yeah. 356 00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,640 Well, when I saw you, when I saw you, she seemed fine to me. 357 00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:42,480 Well, she when we when we got in, I said, you going, I said, 358 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,480 you going to see some beautiful black men in here? 359 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,480 I said, everybody in here is family, OK? 360 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:49,960 And they're going to greet you and they're going to want you 361 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,280 guys to have the greatest, you know, experience possible. 362 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,720 I said it doesn't matter if you have sex or not. 363 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,160 I like you can watch. You can be a voyeur for the 364 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,040 whole weekend, etcetera, etcetera. 365 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:05,400 All right, But I just want you to come in and just eventually 366 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,560 get, you know, comfortable and meet some people. 367 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:13,440 Well, who's standing there? The planets lined up and Mr. 368 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:18,280 Mocha yourself, you standing right there and you just you 369 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,960 just kind of knew. We we kind of made eye contact 370 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,880 and you knew you knew that. OK. 371 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,920 I saw the look. I saw the looking eyes. 372 00:23:25,360 --> 00:23:28,080 Like I saw the. Look exactly as that I was 373 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,880 saying help. I was saying without coming out 374 00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:33,600 saying it, I was saying help me right now, brother. 375 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,200 You know what I mean. I need, I need some help. 376 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,080 I need some reassurance from another quality, you know, 377 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,880 quality gentleman. And you were able to come right 378 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,840 in there and introduce yourself and, and I knew when she looked, 379 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,360 if she looked at you, she was going to like what she saw. 380 00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,920 I knew, I knew she was going to like what she saw. 381 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,680 And we were able to, after you had a conversation with her and 382 00:23:56,680 --> 00:24:00,560 we got registered and everything and we were able to go upstairs. 383 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,680 And yes, she did drink down a half a bottle of whatever it was 384 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:08,000 she bought from down Kentucky. I want to sell some Wild Turkey 385 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,480 or whiskey or some shit. But she was able to calm down 386 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,960 and, and, and we were able to have, you know, some time alone. 387 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,880 I told, I asked him, I said, can you just like step out for a 388 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,480 little while and we can talk, you know, just the two of us. 389 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:26,520 And he, he did so and we were able to, you know, have a little 390 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:29,800 fun. And then I, I actually bought 391 00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,320 up. I was like, hey, did you see 392 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:32,800 anybody downstairs that you like? 393 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:37,400 And she says your name because I had said, I had said, you know, 394 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:42,240 yeah, his name is, you know, and I said to myself right now. 395 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:47,000 And I said, OK, I'm going to, I'm going to, he's going to be 396 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,160 the first one to get the taste there. 397 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:54,160 And you did and you did. And she had, and from there she 398 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:59,680 had a, she loosened up. She met about four to five other 399 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,600 first time couples. And that made the experience so 400 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:07,280 much more worthwhile for her because they were able to talk, 401 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,080 you know, talk about their, their experiences, you know, 402 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,120 before they came, you know what I'm saying, to something like 403 00:25:13,120 --> 00:25:14,800 this. So it ended up being a good 404 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:17,000 weekend for them, a very, very good weekend. 405 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,800 And now she is. They went to Splash in June and 406 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,640 had a great time. And I think they've already 407 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,040 signed up for the New Year's Eve. 408 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,760 So they'll be back. They'll be back in Atlanta. 409 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,720 They'll be back in Atlanta in March. 410 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:33,960 I mean, it was, it was definitely I, I was impressed 411 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:37,920 because everybody knows like I'm very weird about like when 412 00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:40,920 people be like, hey, I look when, when, when the fellows be 413 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,640 like, hey, you know, Mr. Moku going to come up. 414 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:46,240 Like I tell guys all the time, Hey, hey, don't, don't speak for 415 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:47,320 my Dick. Don't do that. 416 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,640 Yeah, there's there's. Two or three guys who I trust 417 00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:55,080 you know, to, to, to do that and you and I had had that 418 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,720 conversation. And I think for me. 419 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:02,920 What got me was the way we seamlessly interacted off of 420 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:05,200 each other because we saw where she was. 421 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,200 And. Then, you know, when I came up, 422 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,880 even coming into the room, because that's another thing. 423 00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:16,400 There's there's there's levels to the interaction because every 424 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,840 time you add a new person to something, that's adding another 425 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,480 chemical into, you know, the the beaker. 426 00:26:24,360 --> 00:26:31,120 Yeah. So I walked in and the comfort 427 00:26:31,120 --> 00:26:32,840 because there's a thing that a lot of people don't know. 428 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:36,040 A lot of people don't realize that there are a lot of bulls, 429 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,600 single males out there who are super possessive right away 430 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760 because it's like they're afraid someone's going to steal their 431 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,520 favorite toy. Yeah, you know, I walked to the 432 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,000 room. It was a smooth handoff. 433 00:26:48,360 --> 00:26:52,680 It was a conversation, and the interaction kept her comfortable 434 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,800 the entire time. It was a really, really fun 435 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,200 experience and for her being able to experience that on that 436 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,600 level, you know, was awesome. You know, it was good. 437 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,960 It, it was a great time for me. So, you know, I, I always, you 438 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:12,680 know, I have to give you a hats off, you know, for the way you 439 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,680 got her comfortable, you got her relaxed. 440 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,360 And honestly, I was surprised after hearing the first part of 441 00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:20,320 story. I'm surprised that you're able 442 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,880 to, you know, even bring someone else to the room, let alone get 443 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,920 her to the point where she was willing to interact with other 444 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:31,440 people. But I mean, goodness, I was a 445 00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:35,280 beautiful woman. But yeah, but here, here again. 446 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,160 But here again, though, this is this, this is what I mean 447 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,040 though. Well, when I say you have that, 448 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:45,000 you have that aura about you, you have that charisma about 449 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:48,440 you, you know what I mean? Like I said, you and this is 450 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:52,840 what other guys should strive to, to, to, you know, to be 451 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,240 like, you know what I mean? You, you, you immediately knew 452 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,040 how to come into the room. You immediately knew how to, 453 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:04,240 like you said, not be aggressive in any type of way, but you saw 454 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,880 how you know. You saw downstairs how she was. 455 00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,360 You didn't know what she was going to be like when you walked 456 00:28:09,360 --> 00:28:11,800 into the room. You had no clue. 457 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,800 You had no clue, but you were able to. 458 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:19,200 And Zach and Zach, you were able to pick up on my vibe because I 459 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:21,360 had stepped back in the chair and I was saying myself, 460 00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:23,960 brother, Merry Christmas, you know what I mean? 461 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:25,520 This is your, this is your world. 462 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,560 This is your world right now. And I knew, like I said exactly. 463 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:33,520 But I, and I knew that she, I knew that she liked the 464 00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:36,000 physical, you know what I mean? I knew she liked the physical. 465 00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,360 And I told her, I said, I, I said, you're going to last. 466 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:39,880 You're going to like the whole package. 467 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:41,320 You're going to like the whole package. 468 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,080 And she enjoyed. So I'm, I'm giving you full 469 00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,880 credit for opening up Pandora's box. 470 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:54,080 And, and, and she is, she is, he said that she is taking charge 471 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,960 now. You know, she, she's arranged, 472 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,560 she is arranging things. OK. 473 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,200 So I'm, I'm like, great. I mean, that's, that's, that's 474 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:07,920 what I mean by by enhancing your marriage, you know, that's what 475 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,680 I mean. And he said it has benefited him 476 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,520 because not only, you know, can he be in the cuckold role, but 477 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:18,800 he can also go back and be in the husband role. 478 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,440 And their, their sex life is, is hot. 479 00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,480 It's hot. So I mean, that's, that's that's 480 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,920 what I mean by by batting 1000 in my book, that's batting 1000. 481 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,560 And I mean. That's that's like that's that 482 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:35,640 psychological as stamp aspect. Yeah. 483 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:39,200 That that is always has always been so intriguing to me. 484 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:48,360 Where you, you meet this new person and now you, you, you, 485 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,360 you're trying to make them comfortable, make them feel safe 486 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,040 and open them up to the things that they want to be open to. 487 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:59,120 You know that I mean, that that takes work, especially when you 488 00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,880 run into a couple like that, who's new and they're afraid, 489 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:05,760 you know, And that to me was awesome. 490 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,440 And even, you know, the, when I stepped out of the room that the 491 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:13,080 brief conversation I had with him, the husband after I left, 492 00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,800 he was out in the hallway and the brief conversation I had 493 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:21,560 with him, he enjoyed. He was nervous because he was 494 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:29,600 pushing his boundaries, but he also felt like you handled it in 495 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:35,200 a way that he felt comfortable with that, you know, And I mean, 496 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:40,600 that's pretty impressive because I know me personally, it took a 497 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:44,800 long time before I was comfortable, you know, with the, 498 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,960 I was comfortable when I met a couple who was that shy on that 499 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,160 level. It took only time for me to be 500 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:56,480 comfortable dealing with couples who were that shy, you know, and 501 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:00,720 that awkward, you know, so. Well, like I said, like I said, 502 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:06,000 I knew outside that I had to come out of bull mode, you know 503 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,240 what I mean? I couldn't be. 504 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:10,960 I couldn't be, I couldn't be dominant in any type of way. 505 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:16,960 I couldn't, you know, I had to be as as polite and patient and, 506 00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:20,440 and, and caring as possible. You know what I mean? 507 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,240 I think that. Is. 508 00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,320 I think that is part of the bull role though. 509 00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,480 Yeah, or it is definitely, it is part of the bull role. 510 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,440 It is, it definitely is part of the bull role. 511 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:36,800 But like I said, you know, I, he trusted, he trusted me from the 512 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,400 get go, you know what I'm saying? 513 00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:42,600 He trusted me from the get go. So for me, it goes back to like, 514 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:46,760 like when I'm at work. And I think I told you that when 515 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,000 I'm at work, I jot things down on paper. 516 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,120 You know what I'm thinking about like, like what makes, what 517 00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,760 makes you know a quality, a quality Boo? 518 00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,480 What makes quality Boo? And I even write down things 519 00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,920 like, you know, the art of seduction. 520 00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:03,360 You know how to woo a hot watch. You know what I'm saying? 521 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:07,040 And, and, and I mean like here again, one of the first things 522 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,960 that I write down is, and I was telling you a few minutes ago, 523 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,600 always show the utmost respect to the husband. 524 00:32:13,440 --> 00:32:17,040 Always show the utmost respect to the husband and then respect 525 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:18,960 the sanctity of the couple's relationship. 526 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,280 You know what I mean? Respect the sanctity of their 527 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:26,520 relationship. Find out, find out just how, 528 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,240 just how, you know, happy they are. 529 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,480 Find out how you know how long you know you've been not only in 530 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:34,200 the life, but how long you've been married. 531 00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,880 You know what I'm saying? I mean, I, I, I, I did, you 532 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:40,920 know, I asked all their kids. I asked what you know, if you 533 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:42,360 don't mind, you know what you do. 534 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:43,880 You know what I'm saying? Because I let them know what I 535 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:45,720 do. I tell them my background. 536 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,040 I have no problem with that. They have no problem. 537 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,200 And to me, that opens up that level of trust for me. 538 00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:53,920 That's how it works. You know, it works for me. 539 00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:58,680 And here again, like I said, I'm I'm able to add to that already, 540 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,880 like loving relationship, you know what I'm saying? 541 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,640 It's both. It's both mentally and 542 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,360 physically rewarded. And yeah, Oh yeah. 543 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,320 Oh yeah. Find out what the couples design 544 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:11,360 and then like, fit into it. You know what I'm saying? 545 00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:16,400 You got couples there that that, that here again, their whole 546 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:21,400 marriage has been like the hot wife couple cuckle dynamic, you 547 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,680 know what I'm saying? I mean just the guy's like a 548 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:28,720 true cuckle and sometimes, you know, you well, you know, you 549 00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,520 can get splash mocha and stuff and and she can you know, she's 550 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,520 thirsty and she's having a great time. 551 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,200 But you look at the husband and stuff and he's like, well, you 552 00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:40,760 know, he can't exactly be, you know, you know, the couple that 553 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,360 he wants to be. You know what I'm saying? 554 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:46,240 And and and and, you know, you look and and that's a part of 555 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,720 that, a part of that, you know, initial meet and greet in 556 00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:52,400 talking, you know, talking to him. 557 00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,680 Like I said, sex, sex is going to come. 558 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,720 I know sexy is going to come, all right? 559 00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,080 If you talk to me for more than about 5 or 10 minutes, I already 560 00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:04,680 know, OK, we go, we go fuck. We're going to fuck, OK? 561 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:09,280 But I want the whole experience for the both of you, for the 562 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,880 both of you. I want both of you all to be 563 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,159 like, OK, this dude right here, we going to take him again later 564 00:34:14,159 --> 00:34:17,719 on or take him tomorrow or have breakfast with him or something, 565 00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,800 you know, because he bought something special to the table. 566 00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,600 So I mean, that's how I am. That's what I am. 567 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,400 So what do you like? You brought up one thing, you 568 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:32,280 know, and this is something I think that a lot of guys, this 569 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:33,760 is a place where a lot of guys stumble. 570 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:40,159 And I've watched it happen where they have the mentality they've 571 00:34:40,159 --> 00:34:42,120 come up to a woman, oh, this guy's a cook. 572 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,880 So I'm going to automatically jump into this role and I'm 573 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:50,400 going to be demanding or rude to the cook like. 574 00:34:52,199 --> 00:34:59,120 Total, total disrespect, total disrespect, OK, total disrespect 575 00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,520 on my to me, you know, there's no way in the world that I'm 576 00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,560 just going to jump right into, you know, so even calling him 577 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,600 cook, you know what I mean? That that comes, that comes a 578 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,040 little bit later, All right, When you said, when you start 579 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,160 saying certain things and there you, you come out, you know, you 580 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,240 know, with, with the Sir and everything. 581 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:26,320 Then then I know, OK, you, you I'll start saying cook, you 582 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,200 know, a cuckold or whatever, you know, whatever your little, you 583 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:33,120 know, word is that like they'll get you there 'cause there are. 584 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:39,040 A lot of stags who A lot of stags hate getting confused for 585 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:40,840 a cook. Like, absolutely. 586 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,640 Stags will be pissed. Absolutely, absolutely, 587 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,120 absolutely. You know, oh, find out, I mean 588 00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,480 find out from here again, find out their dynamic, you know, 589 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,560 first and foremost, you know, before you, even before you even 590 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,800 start an intense conversation, you know, I know you do that, 591 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,760 you know what I'm saying? And here again that go that goes 592 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:06,640 along with with you committing, you know, be be committed to 593 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,240 your growth as a bull. You know what I'm saying? 594 00:36:09,240 --> 00:36:13,840 Know who you are as a bull. All right, to me, there's three 595 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,400 types of bulls, even though there there are more, but to me 596 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,200 there's three types. You got you got your dominant 597 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:26,120 bull, you got your alpha bull, then you got your BBC bull, OK. 598 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,040 And to me that dominant, that dominant bull, that's that bull 599 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:33,040 who who he typically takes the lead in the relationship and the 600 00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:35,200 hot wife becomes submissive to his needs. 601 00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,120 OK. Your alpha bull is more he forms 602 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,560 that that like powerful sexual connection with the hot wife. 603 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,360 And you know, often, like times, you know, the husband or the 604 00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:53,040 cook is, is he's he can be or he cannot be involved. 605 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,400 You know what I'm saying, depending on the dynamic, on the 606 00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,040 dynamics. And then you got your BBC boot. 607 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,280 This is the the, the the guy who is just, you know, you got the 608 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:03,960 big Dick. You know what I'm saying? 609 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:06,920 He seeked out because he's got the big Dick and and the 610 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:11,440 pleasure and and you know, the the husband might, might assume 611 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,560 the role of a cook. You know me and and and he 612 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:19,520 enjoys that, you know, giving himself to, you know, to this 613 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,680 dude for that form of damn humiliation. 614 00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:23,440 Why you, you know, why you with the watch? 615 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,720 You know what I'm saying? The verbal humiliation. 616 00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:28,840 So for me there's those are three types. 617 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:33,000 For me, those are three types. That's pretty good. 618 00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,120 I mean, that's I love seeing it, seeing different things, 619 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,160 different ways. So that is that is good, that is 620 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:45,040 very good. So we've talked about this 621 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:52,040 before, you know, being a successful bull or single male 622 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:59,040 in the lifestyle from your standpoint, when couples say 623 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:06,000 they are trying to find a good bull, can you give me an idea of 624 00:38:06,720 --> 00:38:11,040 if you're talking to somebody who's new, like how many things 625 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,840 are they trying to, how many things are they, they trying to 626 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:16,640 check off the list? I mean, how many things they 627 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:20,880 have to how many things they how many things should they do to 628 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:24,720 show that they are a quality bull? 629 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,720 OK, damn, that's funny. That's that's funny that you 630 00:38:30,720 --> 00:38:36,080 said that because I also have something like a bull checklist 631 00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:42,280 that I go by. And here again, I need to 632 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,800 understand cocolding. I need to understand cocolding 633 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:51,000 because here again, like you said, not everybody, not every 634 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,840 stag likes the Coco dynamic, you know what I mean? 635 00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,680 But here again, though, I need to understand exactly what 636 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:03,800 cocolding is. I need to ask questions, OK, I 637 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,320 need to ask questions, all types of questions. 638 00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,880 I need to be able to get along with that husband. 639 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,480 I mean, we need to have a rapport. 640 00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,160 I need to establish a rapport with him. 641 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:22,720 I need to establish trust with him before anything else, you 642 00:39:22,720 --> 00:39:24,400 know, that goes on with his wife. 643 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,720 I'm not seeking romance from them. 644 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:35,440 I'm not seeking romance. Now, if we become closer and 645 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:40,040 they approach me and ask about what, you know, what you think 646 00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:43,840 about being a boyfriend type, then we will go from there. 647 00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:47,040 All right. And I am a boyfriend to one 648 00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:51,960 couple in Jacksonville, NC. And they actually, yeah, they 649 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,440 actually were Splash Atlanta also. 650 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,240 But I had told him that I was like, I got the other new 651 00:39:57,240 --> 00:39:59,320 couples, so I'll probably spend more time with them. 652 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,920 But they had a great time. But she, she kept me constantly 653 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,280 informed, you know, because I'm considered her, her daddy. 654 00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,200 And I consider her my baby girl. All right. 655 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,360 So she kept me informed that like, when she was going to 656 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:16,400 play, she knows that that definition of what a quality 657 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,040 bull is. So she pretty much would like, 658 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:23,680 come to me or, or like, take me a picture of somebody And was 659 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:27,280 like, you know, Daddy, I know you agree with this, you know, 660 00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:28,840 or Daddy, do you agree with this? 661 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,760 And I'll be like, yeah, yeah. Or nay, you know, but getting 662 00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:34,680 back though, I got off, I got off track there. 663 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,160 But getting back though to that, we're getting back though to 664 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:41,720 that, but getting back to that ideal to that I'd what I what I 665 00:40:41,720 --> 00:40:43,680 consider the qualities of an ideal bull. 666 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:51,400 Of course, you're you're the body game, the charisma, you 667 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:57,640 know, the cleanliness of you be STD free be able to be able. 668 00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:03,840 I I take, I take HIV and STD tests every month, every 30 days 669 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:06,920 like clockwork. My regular doctor, he has hooked 670 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,240 me up for the last since I've been home. 671 00:41:09,240 --> 00:41:13,840 And that's 2018. OK, So I have when I come to 672 00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:19,880 splash Mocha Mocha, I actually have all of my tests from the 673 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,280 last at least six months lined up on the table. 674 00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:27,600 When you see when you see. And I just think that that is 675 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,000 just showing the utmost respect to that couple because here 676 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:36,760 again, that guy is for either a few minutes or for two hours or 677 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,000 if we, you know, become really, really friendly. 678 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:43,400 He is trusting me with his with his queen. 679 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:47,160 And I want him to be able to if it becomes like one of those 680 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,080 situations. Like I have a couple of couples 681 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,400 where the the the hot wife actually works down here in 682 00:41:54,400 --> 00:42:00,160 North Carolina close to me. And when she comes down from 683 00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,600 they live in Virginia, when she comes down, he immediately calls 684 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,400 me. And it's like, you know, Sir, 685 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,920 can you either stay with her or can she stay with you for those 686 00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:12,640 3-4 days that she's here? You know, and when a husband 687 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,720 does that, that's you can just check off all your check. 688 00:42:15,720 --> 00:42:18,560 Here's right there to me, because he is complete. 689 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:22,040 He has completely trusted, he trusts you completely. 690 00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:25,840 We know with his wife. And that's, that's to me, that's 691 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,280 what I strive for. I strive for. 692 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,560 It starts off like I said, with that respect and that building 693 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,240 that before and then that trust. And then like I said, sex. 694 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,760 I ain't worried about sex, you know, I mean, I know that's 695 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,440 going to be not only the physical, but I'm going to give 696 00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,520 her the emotional and everything. 697 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:46,440 And then it develops more. If it develops more than we go 698 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:50,880 from there. Well, you know, some, I mean 699 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,000 that that's awesome. I mean, I like, you know, 700 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:58,000 hearing what the equality bullet is from the standpoint of 701 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:01,240 multiple guys to me is important because everything is about 702 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,560 everything to me is about perspective. 703 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:08,120 Everything is about perspective. I've seen you in action. 704 00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,960 I've seen the way you move. I see the way you roll. 705 00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:15,840 So I, I, I feel like you're giving out good information 706 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,040 based upon experience. And one of the things I do like 707 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:22,280 about, you know, Brian is he gives out information based upon 708 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:25,720 his experiences like I do. I can't speak on anyone else's 709 00:43:25,720 --> 00:43:28,280 experience, but we have, I've got quite a few. 710 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,480 One of the things that you know, I want to do in the future with, 711 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:40,800 you know, the Sigma male Brian M is kind of break things down. 712 00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:44,160 You know, he's, you know, you had a long journey. 713 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,400 And as we get every single step we take, we learn something new. 714 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,640 We make slight adjustments here, slight adjustments there. 715 00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:57,120 And one of the things that I'm always dealing with are couples 716 00:43:57,120 --> 00:43:59,800 who are looking for a quality bull. 717 00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:04,200 I can't, we can't find one or bulls who say, you know, I can 718 00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:08,160 never find, you know, couples who I enjoy or who I'm on the 719 00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,560 same page with. And that's just because I feel 720 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:14,480 like there is the lack of experience for understanding is 721 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:18,280 a huge gap. So, yeah, yeah, what I would 722 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:23,120 like to do, because you and I have talked a lot off camera or 723 00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:26,920 off of mic and you have different lists and different 724 00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,560 things that you know what there's questions I've asked 725 00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:33,000 where you've, you know, got your list and, and things broken 726 00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:38,360 down, you know, so that they can offer basic understanding, you 727 00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,080 know, besides what. Do you expect? 728 00:44:40,080 --> 00:44:44,640 From a career military man, he he's got a strategy that he's 729 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:50,520 ready to implement right now. I live to do I live by the two 730 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,280 words discipline instructor I have all my life. 731 00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:57,280 Then that came from my from my beautiful parents who know who 732 00:44:57,280 --> 00:45:02,960 actually know and let me say this also I, I don't when I tell 733 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:08,160 people I live this 24/7. My family has known that I have 734 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:11,200 been in this life since I got in all right. 735 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:16,120 That means my beautiful parents who are still alive, who are 89 736 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:22,640 and 82 years old, my sister, my aunts, my daughter, my two 737 00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,120 daughters. They know, you know, So I don't. 738 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,920 I don't shoot code anything. Yeah. 739 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,640 I mean, you can you, you can be wide open about what it is and 740 00:45:30,640 --> 00:45:32,840 what you do. And that's some that's 741 00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:36,760 information because we the, the, the lifestyle itself, I always 742 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,400 say the lifestyle, you know, or like, I like how you say in our 743 00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:45,040 case, the life, it's an ecosystem, OK, Within that 744 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:50,920 ecosystem, there's so many different branches of there's so 745 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:58,040 many different genres and types of ethical non monogamy that 746 00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,600 fits into the lifestyle. And I think that there's an 747 00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:07,600 overall mentality which is going to be, you know, accepting and 748 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:14,760 learning and trying to create equal pleasures, you know, but 749 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,000 there's still the lack of understanding. 750 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:22,560 So we constantly hear the same thing where. 751 00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:26,400 Oh, I, me and this guy didn't work or me and this couple 752 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,600 didn't work. And when you start listening to 753 00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:31,360 the story, it's like one of them did something that was cringy. 754 00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,040 Like you're like, Oh, you said that. 755 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,440 Oh, you did that. Oh, I can see why it didn't work 756 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:39,760 out. So I would love to invite you, 757 00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:48,480 the Sigma male, to kind of break things down piece by piece and 758 00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:55,920 share your perspective of the lifestyle, things that make 759 00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:02,640 things that make single males stronger and things that make 760 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:07,400 couples more desirable and things that will help couple 761 00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:12,720 couples and single guys maintain relationships longer. 762 00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:19,160 I think I, I think I don't mean a good job, but I think now, I 763 00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:23,520 think now in today's world having going to several splashes 764 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:27,120 and just sitting back like I do and just observing. 765 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:31,840 I think a lot of couples, matter of fact, I know I won't say, I 766 00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:38,480 think I know a lot of couples are seeking that one here again, 767 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:45,480 quality distinguished bull to be that kind of boyfriend type. 768 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,760 You know what I mean? Got to be that boyfriend type, 769 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:54,440 but at the same time they want him when she's with him. 770 00:47:55,480 --> 00:48:00,720 He needs like I said, he needs to know who he is and be able to 771 00:48:00,720 --> 00:48:04,960 take her. And although he knows that. 772 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:09,240 OK, yeah, you we boy, you know you my baby girl, but I want. 773 00:48:09,240 --> 00:48:11,120 To know who he is, would you explain that? 774 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:16,240 Here again, it goes back to that type of bull that you are. 775 00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,520 You know what I mean? It goes back to that type of 776 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,760 bull that you are. Know that you are you, you are 777 00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,120 controlling the, the situation with your baby girl. 778 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,640 You know you are dead. You know you're dead. 779 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:33,360 But at the same time though, I want my baby girl to experience 780 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,760 everything there is to experience in this life. 781 00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:43,280 I, I want her to be able to go and seek other quality bulls. 782 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:47,040 Come back and tell me, daddy, what do you think you know of, 783 00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:50,120 of this gentleman right here? And I'd be like, OK, baby girl, 784 00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,840 do your thing. You know what I mean? 785 00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:56,560 I didn't tell you, but my baby girl is also, she's extremely 786 00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,880 submissive to a, to a bull, to a black bull. 787 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:05,280 But when she she turns on, she when she sees a beautiful a 788 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,760 beautiful woman, Oh my God, mocha, she turns into the most 789 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:12,000 dominant bisexual. Oh my goodness. 790 00:49:12,200 --> 00:49:16,480 And it nothing turns me on than to see her put on a strap on and 791 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,360 do her thing with another woman. And she did. 792 00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,560 Yes, Sir. She dude, if she didn't have me 793 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:28,040 completely turned on in Atlanta, I with a couple of ladies and I 794 00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:31,080 and, and they, they are requesting her to bring the 795 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,960 strap on back. I went to Atlanta in March. 796 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:41,360 OK, so I'm, I'm really, I'm, I'm kind of living a dream, you 797 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,240 know, with this particular couple. 798 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,560 And he is just as cool. He's, he's not a cook or 799 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,720 anything like that, but he is just, I call it the ultimate 800 00:49:49,720 --> 00:49:51,120 stag. I mean, he won't. 801 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:57,280 He loves to watch his lady be pleased and you know, doesn't 802 00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,560 like he's not one of those husbands that's like a damn 803 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,800 director of a porn movie that wants to see this, wants to see 804 00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:05,840 that, et cetera, et cetera. Egypt. 805 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,760 I can't perform like that. I'm going to tell you right now, 806 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:12,960 I can't perform. I had one encounter like that in 807 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:18,000 Wake Forest, NC and literally I got up and put my clothes on and 808 00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:22,160 left and I could tell, you know how you can tell when the wife 809 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:25,120 was like, she's not saying it, but the wife was looking at you 810 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:29,920 like, I'm so sorry that she literally, she called me a 811 00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:34,640 couple days later and was like, I'm so sorry that he was that 812 00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:37,000 way and it turned you off like that. 813 00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,600 You know, so I, I mean, he is not like this. 814 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:45,080 And he just sits back, kicks his feet up and me and I can sit 815 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:48,320 there and have popcorn and Coke together and watch her do one 816 00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,400 thing. You know, it's a beautiful 817 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,640 thing. But I think, like I said, I know 818 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:57,280 a lot of couples are seeking what we have. 819 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,320 You know, they really are. They're seeking that. 820 00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:04,040 They want that one guy that they can say, OK, yeah, he's ours, 821 00:51:04,360 --> 00:51:08,280 you know, although, although knowing that that I might have 822 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,520 another couple or two, you know what I mean? 823 00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,280 But they accept that it's cool. It's cool. 824 00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:17,440 They know when I am with them. I'm with them, you know, and 825 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,720 it's to the point where I can go on vacation with them. 826 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,720 I can come down to the house when he's not there. 827 00:51:23,720 --> 00:51:26,960 And, you know, if I ain't doing nothing during the day, hey, she 828 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:30,240 takes the day off, go down there and get a quickie, spend some 829 00:51:30,240 --> 00:51:32,440 hours with her, you know, before the kids come home from school. 830 00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:34,760 I mean, it's, it's a beautiful thing. 831 00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,920 It's a beautiful thing. And and she even said that she 832 00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:42,840 has friends that wish that they had this, wish they had that 833 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:46,040 that dynamic. Yeah. 834 00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:50,680 No, I mean, that's a well, you know, that listen, that's what 835 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:54,200 they dream of. So listen, Brian, we're going to 836 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:58,840 wrap up and we're going to start definitely scheduling some time 837 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,720 for you to get on and, you know, start putting together and 838 00:52:02,720 --> 00:52:07,760 sharing some of that knowledge, you know, because yeah, that is 839 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:10,720 what they, what they're, what a lot of people are missing. 840 00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:17,280 I would love to hear again being being my age now and my father 841 00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:22,080 told me that, you know, these younger, younger guys need to 842 00:52:22,080 --> 00:52:24,480 know what you know, you know what I mean? 843 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,520 Not that you don't still like to play. 844 00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,320 And I do believe me, I love to play. 845 00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:33,720 But I really do enjoy now talking to not only couples, but 846 00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,560 like I said, the younger brothers who are striving to be 847 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:42,960 what we are now, you know, So, you know, I mean, you know, it's 848 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:47,000 kind of like a certain rapper said, you know, the game is to 849 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,640 be the game is to be told not to be sold, you know what I mean? 850 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:53,160 So I'm trying, I'm trying. I'm loving that now. 851 00:52:53,240 --> 00:52:57,640 I've never talked as much in my life as I am, you know, as I 852 00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:59,120 have been in the last couple years. 853 00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:03,080 Well, I mean, they need it. I mean, there's nothing that you 854 00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:08,760 have that is needed. Thank you so much. 855 00:53:08,760 --> 00:53:12,600 I want thank you. I I appreciate you coming on and 856 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:17,840 joining us and I think that you'd be a great resource just 857 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,680 because you've been in a lifestyle for so many years and 858 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:27,440 you're living proof of what you can bring to the lifestyle and 859 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:29,040 what the lifestyle can bring to you. 860 00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,280 Thank you. Thank you. 861 00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:35,120 Same to you, my brother. Same to you same to you all 862 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:39,000 right, I'm so glad that the planets lined up and we we click 863 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:43,960 the way we click and I I, I I thoroughly enjoy calling you my 864 00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:47,520 brother. Really, if you you, you 865 00:53:47,520 --> 00:53:51,800 exemplify what that quality bull is all right in every in every 866 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:55,080 in every way that. Is much appreciated. 867 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,280 So. Until next time, I am. 868 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:02,160 Yes, Sir. You're on with the Sigma male 869 00:54:02,240 --> 00:54:06,800 Brian and you will see. You will hear from Brian a lot 870 00:54:06,800 --> 00:54:10,360 more. And until next time, goodbye 871 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,800 from Old faces. And please, if you enjoy Old 872 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:16,400 Faces podcast, take the time to to listen to us. 873 00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,560 Take the time to share what you hear. 874 00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:23,920 Take the time to tell those who you think would benefit from it 875 00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,920 that we exist. So until next time.