1 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,400 Hello everybody and welcome to another episode of O Faces. 2 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:16,160 I'm your host Mr. Mocha and this is my beautiful Co Hostess. 3 00:00:17,080 --> 00:00:18,480 I haven't really been much of A host. 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,200 My wife, you going to introduce yourself, wife? 5 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,120 Oh, misses mocha. I'm misses Mocha. 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,960 Whenever I introduce whenever I say misses mocha then I get 7 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:28,960 yelled at but now when I don't say it she just skips right over 8 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:32,880 all right before I get started. Is any is anybody wearing a 9 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,880 belt? Sorry, I may need to borrow to 10 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:37,360 spank my wife during this podcast. 11 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:38,960 Sorry. Bring it. 12 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:46,520 On not the one that threatened with a span joining us today. 13 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,280 So we we usually do 2 podcasts at Mocha. 14 00:00:51,160 --> 00:00:56,240 Either a will do a old faces podcast with the wife and I or 15 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,240 I'll do or she'll do a dirty girl's corner which is her in a 16 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:03,920 female panel, or I will do a man of old faces panel which is 17 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,840 myself in the male panel. But you know the wife likes to 18 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:11,000 be surrounded by penis, so either way she wants to be here. 19 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,080 It feels like a gangbang kind of, but like without having to 20 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,000 do hand motion. They're. 21 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,680 All my hands all have to be like, you know, they're a 22 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:24,520 practice round. So today what we're going to do 23 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,240 before we get going, we've got a bunch of people who we know in 24 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,040 here. Thank you everybody for coming. 25 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,280 You know, we got some of our friends in the back. 26 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:34,880 I don't know if we could use your names. 27 00:01:35,320 --> 00:01:38,840 No C&B, we'll just call them C&B starting from the back. 28 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,480 And then of course, I'm going to say Blushing Vixen, because 29 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:48,440 Blushing Vixen is always present her and Reserved Stag, whether 30 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:52,360 it's when we do a Twitter Spaces, they're always present, 31 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:56,240 they're always there. And then of course, everybody 32 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,280 else, all the other friends, we got a bunch of people we've 33 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:02,400 never met and we've got people who we've met before on the 34 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:03,560 panel. Yes, my love, you're. 35 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,720 Going to fall backwards. I can remember we got a 36 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,639 concussion. I mean, that's not as bad as 37 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,600 what you do to me at home. She's been abusive. 38 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:15,360 No. You. 39 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,400 Choked me the other day. You liked it? 40 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:23,840 So yeah, yeah. She's, she's more like grabbing 41 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,920 my hand, like, yeah, stop. I'm not ready for that. 42 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:32,400 Yeah, but I have a panel of gentlemen next to me within the 43 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:36,400 audience. One of the things that I like to 44 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:41,000 focus on is things that are going to help us be better in 45 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,800 the lifestyle. And one of the bigger challenges 46 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,520 that we often have in the lifestyle is finding our place, 47 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,760 finding our niche and being comfortable with our niche and 48 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:57,120 our place. From a male standpoint, whether 49 00:02:57,120 --> 00:03:02,800 you are a husband and if you are a single guy within the husband 50 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,960 dynamic, if you're a stag, if you're a bull, if you're a cook, 51 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:13,720 single guy, if you are just playing the role of single guy 52 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,320 AKA manicorn, you play. Or if you're a bull, where 53 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:21,240 you're actually interacting with cuckold couples, getting from 54 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:24,920 one place to another, identifying what you like, what 55 00:03:24,920 --> 00:03:27,720 you enjoy, accepting the fact that we deal with a lot of 56 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,640 social constructs that we're all born into, that we deal with, 57 00:03:34,640 --> 00:03:38,680 and getting past those things within the lifestyle. 58 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:43,920 As guys, we're only good if we know who we are and what we want 59 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:49,080 and what we're offering. When we are confused and we are 60 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:56,200 having those internal battles with ourselves, we show up and 61 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:04,520 we present poorly. So from the male standpoint and 62 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:08,320 the female standpoint, those are things that we're going to kind 63 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:15,240 to kind of address. I'm going to start with pick on 64 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,560 1st Brian Morgan, the Sigma male. 65 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:26,120 I will pick on him first. I'm his hype man today. 66 00:04:26,680 --> 00:04:36,760 Brian Morgan AKA the Sigma male stepping into the the space of 67 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:42,960 lifestyle. How do you present and how do 68 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:48,040 you how, how, how, how hard was it for you to identify what you 69 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:52,360 wanted to do so that you offer females or couples in the 70 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:56,000 lifestyle a good experience? First of all, I had to look 71 00:04:56,360 --> 00:05:02,720 within myself like what kind of bull am I going to be? 72 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,760 What characteristics do I exemplify on a daily basis? 73 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,840 All right, ladies, this is for the ladies. 74 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:14,760 You like looks, don't you? When you see good looking guy, 75 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:18,960 you like looks. So I try my damnedest to keep 76 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:23,680 myself looking. I not like I am 58 years old and 77 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:29,400 that's my age. So body game face. 78 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,240 I shave his head every day. When you look at me, I want you 79 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,080 to see like OK, that's that's I like that. 80 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,520 I like that. Then when I approach a couple 81 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,280 and I'm lucky to have my baby girl and her husband out there 82 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:49,840 in the audience when we started talking, the conversations 83 00:05:49,840 --> 00:05:55,720 between he and I because I do not think about talking to her 84 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:01,600 exclusively until I established that rapport, that trust, that 85 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:04,360 level of respect to that husband. 86 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,040 I don't care if it's a female ledge or FLR relationship. 87 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:13,080 I, she's just going to have to know, wait, I have to talk to 88 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,640 him. I'm going to talk to him, OK? 89 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:23,480 Because as we evolve, if this does become physical and that's 90 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:27,960 fine, but I'm looking at more of getting in between here also. 91 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,200 So when I deal with a couple, especially that husband, he 92 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,360 needs to know that he needs to understand I'm going to do three 93 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:34,920 things. I'm going to do three things 94 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,440 when I'm with the couple and when I'm with her. 95 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:40,160 A, I'm going to respect you. B, I'm going to protect you. 96 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:43,040 And then three, the love physically. 97 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:50,480 OK, so that's how I go into meeting someone and then 98 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:54,360 establishing, like I said, that communication and being honest. 99 00:06:54,840 --> 00:06:57,560 Be honest with me because I'm going to be honest with you, you 100 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,880 know? And then we go, we go with it. 101 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:07,400 Now for me, when I first came into the lifestyle, like I was 102 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,960 just trying to stick my Dick in, that was it, you know, like I, 103 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:15,720 I'm not When I first got into lifestyle, it was my friend 104 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:19,200 introduced me. His wife was attractive. 105 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,560 He asked if I want to play with her and I'm like, are you 106 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,480 fucking with me? And I did it. 107 00:07:29,760 --> 00:07:34,920 And then for a long time for me was really just the excitement 108 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:39,160 of the sex. It took years for me to start 109 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:45,560 dealing with emotional connections and identifying that 110 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,520 it was as a couple. It was more than just fucking 111 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:50,920 somebody's wife, I'm not going to lie. 112 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:55,960 And I think there was a point in my life where I probably created 113 00:07:55,960 --> 00:08:02,000 more damage accidentally in relationships then, you know, 114 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,080 looking back on it, because I've always been a very open person. 115 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,280 If you say I can have sex with your wife, I'm going to have sex 116 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:11,120 with her. If you say that I can have a 117 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:12,840 boyfriend type relationship, I'm going to do it. 118 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:17,440 You know, and I did those things and it was always like, man, 119 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,880 this is getting weird. And that's because I didn't 120 00:08:19,880 --> 00:08:22,600 understand that there were I didn't understand that there 121 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:25,760 were two people there. Oftentimes when I talk on a 122 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:32,159 podcast, I only speak from personal experience and for now 123 00:08:32,159 --> 00:08:35,440 at 46 years old. You're 40. 124 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:40,720 Six, watch your mouth. You know the the, the good that 125 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,800 I can speak of. There is there are very few 126 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:51,600 experienced guys in the lifestyle who can't say that 127 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,240 they had a lot of fuck ups early. 128 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:58,280 Like moments where I've been embarrassed, moments where I'm 129 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:02,400 like, oh, like, oh, so sorry. We had a lot of those early on. 130 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,920 Like I'll have younger guys like, oh man, you really got it 131 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,440 figured out, bro. There's a whole lot of dumpster 132 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,960 fires before, before I had it figured out in every way, shape 133 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:15,880 or form emotionally, man, there's just so many things. 134 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:23,200 So now understanding that you're dealing with two people and I 135 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:26,680 have to to learn to read those two people and I have to 136 00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:29,400 determine if what those two people have to offer. 137 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,760 It was what I'm willing to give. And even if I find the wife 138 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:39,520 extremely attractive, I'm OK with turning down things if I 139 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,520 know that I'm going and create damage. 140 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:48,560 I also have a cheat. Now that I'm older and I'm 141 00:09:48,560 --> 00:09:53,400 married, my wife is it's fun when I'm talking about couples 142 00:09:53,400 --> 00:09:56,680 I'm interacting with now for the first time, I also have a female 143 00:09:56,680 --> 00:09:58,960 perspective. You know, there's times that 144 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:04,760 she'll GoDaddy this chick is thinking this and and here I am 145 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,600 a guy with all this experience of having sex with women. 146 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,240 I'm like woman, I know what I'm talking about. 147 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:16,200 Then I'm like, honey, I'll be damned, you were right after 148 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,120 about 13 or 1400 times of damn, you were right. 149 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:24,000 Now I'm kind of like, OK, I'll and, and so that's also taking 150 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:27,760 my experience to a different level within the lifestyle. 151 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,520 And now when I interact with a couple now it's kind of the what 152 00:10:31,560 --> 00:10:37,040 are we, what am I looking for? Is this a short term just 153 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,360 nothing but fun? Is this a couple who I enjoy 154 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:43,880 their I, I enjoy their, their, their conversation. 155 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,920 I enjoy them as people. We're going to become friends. 156 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:51,160 And now this is not only friends, but it's friends with a 157 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,040 potential long term sexual relationship. 158 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:58,280 And now that I have that, how close am I to the husband? 159 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:03,000 How much time do I spend? And when I say how close I am, 160 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:07,040 this is where people get confused at that husband being 161 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,520 close to him might mean that him and I talk once every month. 162 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:14,760 That wouldn't mean that that that for him could be us being 163 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:17,440 super close. It may be. 164 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:22,440 It may mean that when we're in the bedroom, this husband is a 165 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:26,520 cook to the 9th degree, but outside the bedroom, we're 166 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:32,000 talking sports, we're talking, you know, hunting fit, we're 167 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:35,240 talking work, we're talking nothing that has to do with 168 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,160 that. It's all of those things that, 169 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:40,440 you know, for me, I've learned that if I want to have a great 170 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:45,520 experience, I have to learn. But I had the first be 171 00:11:45,520 --> 00:11:50,720 comfortable with me, you know, because you go back, we grew up, 172 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:53,960 Yeah. We grew up like the first time 173 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:55,760 you told somebody like, yeah, I'm in a lifestyle. 174 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,000 They're like, hey, you fuck up, you watch. 175 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:01,520 And now. And now when people find out 176 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,600 that my wife, look, I let other guys talk. 177 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:05,240 My wife, you know, they were like, what? 178 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:08,240 You let dudes? Fuck your wife, what the fuck is 179 00:12:08,240 --> 00:12:10,520 wrong with you? You know now I really don't give 180 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,320 any fuck so it's easy for me to laugh it off and not care. 181 00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:18,400 But many years ago, I remember the first time hearing someone 182 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:22,240 close to me talking about someone else we found that was 183 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:25,080 in lifestyle. I was like, Oh my God, what if 184 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,680 somebody finds out that I'm into that? 185 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,520 I mean, I don't care anymore. I mean, obviously I got a plat, 186 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:32,760 yeah, a public platform, so everybody knows. 187 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:36,960 But before I had to accept that part of myself. 188 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:43,040 So that's how I that's just me. So now I'm going to move on to a 189 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:46,960 another gentleman. Now I'm going to move on. 190 00:12:46,960 --> 00:12:51,080 I'm going to pick on my boy Rob, AKA Gym rat. 191 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:52,960 You know I was going to pick on, you know I was. 192 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:58,320 Going to pick on you. So no, no, I'm playing look, you 193 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,040 got you got 5 minutes. But what I'm picking on him 194 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:06,760 because of the way he chooses what he wants and identifies 195 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:10,280 what he wants in the couple. How do you determine what you 196 00:13:10,280 --> 00:13:15,600 like in the couple and how do you go from picking the couple 197 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:20,200 and maintaining it? Because I've seen couples who he 198 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:24,160 interacts with and how much they love him. 199 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,160 How do you choose who you want to play with? 200 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:33,200 Well, I'm going to be honest with you due to the fact that 201 00:13:33,560 --> 00:13:36,960 the uncle couples small community within the lifestyle, 202 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:43,240 the word of mouth is pretty much how long you know, you know, you 203 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,960 introduce people and you know, they share they still works 204 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:50,240 with, you know, each other. So it really takes a lot of, you 205 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:54,360 know what I mean, because of the experience, the experience of, 206 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,440 you know, they always say, oh, it's about the woman, it's about 207 00:13:58,480 --> 00:14:03,360 the woman, but is it really about a woman when sometimes a 208 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:08,160 husband has so many demands, he got so many things that he wants 209 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,920 you to do and how he wants you to do it. 210 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:14,280 Then I switch it up man, and focus on my attention on the 211 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:17,200 one. I focus on everything that I 212 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:21,600 know she probably is not getting from a marriage relationship. 213 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:26,000 Let's be honest, after someone is married for like 10 to 15 214 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:30,120 years, the husband, he's not like taking the shoes off, 215 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:35,120 massaging the feet, kissing the toes, baby, baby, stuff like 216 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:37,200 that, that they, they've been through that shit out of the 217 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:38,920 window. That's when I come along. 218 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,240 Now I start that we finalize the relationship. 219 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,880 Now I'm starting to stimulate them without having to 220 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:54,200 physically be involved, like sexually engaged to do things 221 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:57,680 that everybody like, you know, you have kids, a lot of shit 222 00:14:57,680 --> 00:15:01,480 goes to the wayside, but the fact that I'm being attentive to 223 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:04,680 with things like favorite color, you smell good. 224 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:07,320 What type of perfume is that? Have you ever tried this 225 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,000 perfume? You think that go along with 226 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,000 your you know, just now they're starting them like, damn, you're 227 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:13,960 having a do you ever thought about getting cut that way? 228 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,720 I look good with a little bit of then you dress them up. 229 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:21,000 She then she realized, God damn this he's paying attention and a 230 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:24,080 lot of men, like I say, they've been married 12 for so long. 231 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:27,320 They they're in the routine. I mean, it's just, it's just 232 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:29,640 like so. I'm gonna pause you. 233 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,480 I'm gonna pause you here for one second because you just What he 234 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:36,560 just said is church. What have I told you about why I 235 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:39,720 always say I can't be the best? I'm not going to be the number 236 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,200 one Dick, you fuck. What do I say I. 237 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:46,880 Don't. Know damn my mood. 238 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,960 We don't. Have this conversation 1000 239 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:53,200 times, I told her before. You know all of my moods. 240 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,720 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I, I can't surprise you anymore. 241 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,560 You can anticipate everything I do. 242 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:06,280 A new guy coming in with that type of energy and attitude, she 243 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:07,760 don't know what she's going to get. 244 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:12,280 Literally. I can, I was saying earlier, we 245 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:15,800 can be having sex and I can touch her with my pinky and 246 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,320 she'll move into the position that I wanted her in. 247 00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:23,840 She may enjoy the sex with me, but it's no longer a surprise. 248 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:28,280 And if you've been married in here for more than five years 249 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,240 and you say that what he just said is a lie, you fucking liar, 250 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,760 because that is true. All the little things that you 251 00:16:34,760 --> 00:16:38,120 do in the beginning, once you start, you have all these things 252 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,600 happen together. The bills, the kids, the stress, 253 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,000 blah, blah, blah. A lot of those things falls off 254 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:48,560 to the wayside. And so when the guy comes in and 255 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,880 all of a sudden he's providing those things, he. 256 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,960 Finalized it he let us know how to be dated again a lot of women 257 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,240 forgot how to be dated because they've been married for so long 258 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:01,720 married and dated you. So a lot of times when if I do 259 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,280 find a situation where the husband is allowed you know that 260 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:09,240 they dating it wakes up she sniffs brought attention to 261 00:17:09,280 --> 00:17:11,640 smokers on hugs she'll not work on anything else. 262 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:14,040 I mean, when we go out, everything is focused on her, 263 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,880 the ticket. I mean, we, she gets in the car. 264 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:21,680 I mean it, it's more, it's more, I mean, she take a shower with 265 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,480 the same guy. She, I mean, she, she has seen 266 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:27,720 the good, she's seen the bad. We just, we, we just have pains. 267 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,880 I want to make sure during that time that we're together, that 268 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:34,040 we fulfill every more every minute we are talking about, we 269 00:17:34,120 --> 00:17:37,240 lose, we lose each other, each other in that time. 270 00:17:37,360 --> 00:17:41,280 So that time I focus on, I don't let, I don't do procrastination. 271 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:43,480 I stay away from those people. I'm not going to let you waste 272 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,520 my time because I know how valuable it is. 273 00:17:45,760 --> 00:17:47,040 Explain that. Explain that. 274 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:51,800 Well, you got a lot of guys that the reason they're losing is so 275 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,040 much because a lot of they got to say that happens. 276 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:57,440 The reason I say that because they and so they want everybody 277 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:01,360 else to kind of lead and they do it subconsciously because they 278 00:18:01,360 --> 00:18:04,600 want to please the bumps. They they so it's so government 279 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,840 on making sure that she's pleased and making sure that 280 00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:12,080 that that you know, you're doing the right thing that some guys 281 00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:17,040 lose focus on like the command, the leadership to say, OK, it's 282 00:18:17,080 --> 00:18:18,760 what we're doing. That's it. 283 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,560 I, we, I'm not asking you like this is what I got to tell that 284 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:23,680 we're going here, going to do this. 285 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:29,680 And she, like a lot of women like to but but instinct land 286 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,640 like women can smell me. They they can stink if they know 287 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:34,160 they they did. You know what I mean? 288 00:18:34,160 --> 00:18:36,640 I don't have to put on the show, the song and the dance. 289 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:41,760 So you reopen, you reopen, and they have been put in the vault 290 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:54,720 for a while. But the only way you can really 291 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,800 start commanding the. Attention got to talk to them. 292 00:18:58,120 --> 00:19:01,280 I talk to him because and I also tell a woman to listen. 293 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,240 I know how hard it is because he's so used to telling kids 294 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:08,480 what to do, husband what to do. You might have a job when you're 295 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,920 telling employees what to do, but when it comes to me, you got 296 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,560 to get the opportunity to you, You got to be. 297 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,560 If you can't leave, I mean you can't follow, then we got to 298 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:22,280 wear a good match because I don't want to get in a situation 299 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:25,560 where we we bump the hands. You're not in guys situations 300 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,960 like that where I have to come down in the bedroom. 301 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,720 I don't need you don't tell when the Jordan not to talk about I 302 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:38,800 know what I'm doing. OK, I understand that you 303 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,920 probably have a just give me a chance. 304 00:19:42,120 --> 00:19:46,160 You'll be like give me a chance to fulfill you, but mentally 305 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:51,120 then we'll get to the the the sex part because I don't need 306 00:19:51,120 --> 00:19:53,000 the rooms. Once you lay down, she's 307 00:19:53,120 --> 00:19:55,720 dragging it like, hey, let's, let's. 308 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:58,840 Let's leave. We had a conversation. 309 00:20:00,360 --> 00:20:03,720 Let's do all the things, OK, let's let's let's go over your 310 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,040 body. Let's see what your body like. 311 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,480 OK, This is all figuring out what you like that you don't 312 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,600 like, what stimulates you mentioned, but a lot of guys you 313 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:16,800 can't do that in 15 minutes. You have to invest time because 314 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,720 you got even going for numbers should never get that experience 315 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:22,000 because the only thing she do, she just want the next one. 316 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:25,240 Sure, but then if you got there, you got that ring man that's 317 00:20:25,240 --> 00:20:28,640 fueling that energy. OK, baby, he he went his way, 318 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,520 OK, he he didn't come here, you know, lost focus and everything 319 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,640 since then. You didn't caught up and those 320 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,680 people, they walked right by me. So that's why I have to deal 321 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,000 with those because they so caught up in their own world. 322 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,120 It's so caught up in OK, it's flash. 323 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:44,680 How many guys I'm going to do to stand before. 324 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:50,440 So what I do is I I fly into the radar and I get those quality 325 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,400 companies to where when they go in the bedroom, they want to be 326 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,320 in there to have an experience. They just don't want to say 327 00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,520 anything black. They want to make sure they say, 328 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:02,680 hey, I went down there. It was a guy named this 329 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,840 motherfucker. That's what I want. 330 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,240 I don't want, I don't want all that others. 331 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:11,840 So now, so I'm, I'm going to, I'm going to move on to the next 332 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,880 job. But he said a couple things that 333 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,640 we've talked about before. So we, we had this conversation 334 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:20,760 before that him and I had a conversation like you're not 335 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,480 knocking anybody who's into it, but I've gone into a room, you 336 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,560 start to play with somebody and she reaches for a vibrator right 337 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,440 away. And I'm like, wait, wait, wait, 338 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,720 wait. Give me a chance. 339 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,960 Let me, let me first. Like I don't mind you using your 340 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:39,200 vibrator. So just from listening on the 341 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,880 outside end, I don't care about vibrators, you know that I 342 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:45,560 didn't even use one until I met him 15 years ago. 343 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:52,680 But I I think too like, but it's also the the type of guy that 344 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,320 you're looking at because there are people that come to this 345 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:56,800 event that are just sport fuckers. 346 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:01,480 Like I'm not, I don't knock it. If we're at my house, we got 347 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,240 time. But if I'm here, I'm not 348 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:05,920 necessarily trying to knock out numbers. 349 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,640 But I only see Rob once a year. I only see Brian once a year. 350 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,400 I only see you once a year. Like, so I want to make time to 351 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,480 play with everybody. I'm also like a fuck, fuck first 352 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,920 talk later type of person. But you know, everybody has 353 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,440 their thing, like whatever you need. 354 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,000 But also like what you were saying too is that, you know, 355 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,520 like you kind of lose that spark. 356 00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:28,840 We took like I took a little break and I realized that like 357 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:34,200 this, he gives me all the attention and more and he makes 358 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,480 sure that I always feel like 100 about myself or I won't come to 359 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:39,280 an event. He knows that like I'll stay 360 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:41,280 home. I if I don't feel like myself. 361 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:43,400 No, no, no. But wait, what I'm saying. 362 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:45,480 That long? Time ago, because that's true. 363 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:46,680 Yeah, yeah. But what I'm saying? 364 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,760 Is so. True, I but what I'm saying is 365 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:53,200 here too, like although he gives me all that attention, it does 366 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,160 feel good to come here and get more attention because it's new 367 00:22:56,160 --> 00:23:00,920 and it's exciting. Like and I I can't say I have 368 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:05,520 low self esteem at all, but it's just almost like we're re dating 369 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,800 because every time we come to one of these events and if I get 370 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,360 a certain type of attention, he gets like you said, a certain 371 00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:13,440 type of attention that I don't always give him. 372 00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,120 Because if I can live together, you know, like I see you all the 373 00:23:17,120 --> 00:23:19,640 time. We work for together, like we're 374 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,400 always together. So like you said, it's a 375 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:24,040 routine. So when I come here, it is the 376 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,320 excitement of a different type of attention. 377 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,080 No matter what your attention what what type of attention I'm 378 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:31,840 getting, you know I'm wanting negative attention. 379 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:33,400 Yeah. And I think one of the things 380 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,440 that that has excited me about my wife throughout the years is 381 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:41,320 when I first met her, any sheet when I first met her, she'd 382 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:51,680 submit to any guy. Now, now over the years, going 383 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:55,760 back to what he said, and that's really a thing, there's 384 00:23:55,760 --> 00:24:04,160 oftentimes where a strong female is not going to be submissive to 385 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,840 someone who's weaker than she is. 386 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:09,400 Like she don't want a guy who she like. 387 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,560 If she's looking for a dominant sexual partner at that moment, 388 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,760 we're not talking about husband, life partner, whatever. 389 00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:17,000 We're talking about, she's walking to a place and she wants 390 00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:21,440 a guy who is dominant. Dominant means that she can feel 391 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:28,000 safe to give him control. Dominant don't mean that he's, 392 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,480 you know, all of that loud, aggressive shit. 393 00:24:40,120 --> 00:24:41,680 And dominant doesn't mean aggressive. 394 00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:45,160 Yeah. Submission is trust. 395 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,440 I see this person. They're strong enough. 396 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,000 Just like I've always said, you don't want a man who you can 397 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:56,640 physically overpower, you also don't want a, if you're walking 398 00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,760 into a situation where you want a guy who's sexually dominant, 399 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,920 that's his job to make you feel like or make you desire to give 400 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:09,480 him that submission. And it's, it's exciting when I 401 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:14,120 see my wife when we're talking because my, as you can see, she 402 00:25:14,120 --> 00:25:17,280 says fucks aren't mine. You know, we'll talk about guys 403 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:21,680 that she's men and she's like, so this guy, this guy thought he 404 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,720 was a DOB and she'll laugh. We'll laugh about it all the 405 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,560 time or. It's usually a text message that 406 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,080 says Daddy I'm about to tell you the T when I get. 407 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:34,760 Home or on the other side of that, like I don't believe, like 408 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,960 I feel like if I said hey, be my wife wants to play with you, I'm 409 00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:40,720 not going to tell him how to play with her. 410 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,440 Me. If she wanted me, she'd stay in 411 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:47,840 the bedroom with me. The whole point is her going 412 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:49,680 into the bedroom with him and getting that different 413 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,280 experience. Just like I was saying earlier, 414 00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,000 I've had husbands try to tell me how to play with his wife. 415 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,680 It's like bro, you're fucking up for her. 416 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,640 I've said this 1000 times. If I go into a room with a 417 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,200 woman, it's not my job to get my Dick hard. 418 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,880 But at the same time, if I go into a room with a woman, it's 419 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,880 not her job to get aroused. It's my job to arouse her. 420 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,320 I've got to figure it out. I've got to do the research. 421 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,360 I got to explore. I've got to ask the questions. 422 00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:18,720 I got to touch the spots. I've got to be paying attention. 423 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:21,400 You know, that's just how it's supposed to work. 424 00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:26,520 Now before we we Ravel along, we are we going to go ahead and 425 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:28,960 gentleman Jack what? Are you doing? 426 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,720 Gentleman Jack, I am. Gentleman Jack, I didn't. 427 00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,600 Have AT. Shirt and all that. 428 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,640 Just wow. So 50 year. 429 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:43,280 Old. Partner Bull live in Houston, do 430 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:51,800 a little BDSM and when I came to splash I was new to hot Wife Cup 431 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:57,640 play over about 6 splashes. Now it's kind of ventured into 432 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:02,280 race play, which is harder to stay out of race play than it is 433 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,680 to get into race play. And race play doesn't mean 434 00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,680 shouting out the N word and epitaph. 435 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:13,280 It just means whatever you feel like exploring on a cultural 436 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,600 racial dynamic. So that's pretty much what I 437 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,240 like to do. So every splash I may play a 438 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:24,480 little bit less. But like he said, once you get 439 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:28,800 into the idea of the experience, you play less, but the 440 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,960 experiences are deeper. And we agree with that. 441 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:38,720 Yeah, Because if now sport fucking does have its place, we 442 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:43,240 would not be here if everybody was coming in to play with like 443 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,360 2-3 people. The playrooms are open, the 444 00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:48,720 playrooms open. I don't let it get empty because 445 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,280 they do. But is you have to the 446 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:57,520 experienced people have to lead the non experienced people into 447 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,680 like this role. Don't let them stay in the 448 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,680 comfort zone because a lot of people will get clique is 449 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,440 they'll talk to who they know, they'll stick to who they know. 450 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,080 They won't take referrals or they only will take referrals 451 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,400 and they won't get out there and adventure. 452 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:13,360 But you got to. But yeah, it's don't be ashamed 453 00:28:13,360 --> 00:28:15,120 of who you are. Every splash you're going to 454 00:28:15,120 --> 00:28:16,960 grow. Every party you should grow 455 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,080 because you're not. Then you know you're wasting 456 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:20,520 your time. OK. 457 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,320 So. Question I'll. 458 00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:29,960 I'll be Q&A, Q&A here. We. 459 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,800 Go. So from now until like from 460 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,120 'cause you went from single male to a couple, you're a couple, 461 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,560 yeah. Start up single male. 462 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,160 Can count, but talk about the differences between just being a 463 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:49,680 single male pursuing people and now where you where you are as a 464 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:55,480 couple or with a couple like what what were like the the like 465 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,720 goods and bads. I know we've had some bads. 466 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,920 You can say start with the good. OK, this should be on the safe 467 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:02,200 side. I'll leave. 468 00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:04,160 I'll leave when? You start with the bad, but I'll 469 00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:05,280 leave. Like yeah, but I start. 470 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:09,680 Talking about no, but I mean from when you were single and 471 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:14,520 now that you're in a couple. So for me personally, so when I 472 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:21,920 when I single as a single guy, I learned that's where I learned a 473 00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:28,480 lot single playing with couples first as a sports fucker, which 474 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:32,240 let's get this straight, I still am happy to sport fuck. 475 00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:33,520 Absolutely. OK. 476 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,280 We are at the top of the food chain, which means that we can 477 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,120 eat meat and vegetables. OK, Like we can do it all. 478 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,480 I've stressed to my wife over the years that her power as a 479 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,040 woman stepping out of the social construct is that she has the 480 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,400 power to do that. You can sport, fuck, you can. 481 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:55,280 You can play with someone who you're engaged with mentally, 482 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:58,320 intellectually, and you can play with someone who you're engaged 483 00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,440 with emotionally. You have the ability to do them 484 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:01,760 all. I don't want to ever be in a 485 00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:04,720 box. So that being said, when I was 486 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,480 single, everything for me was organic. 487 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,120 I explored those things organically. 488 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,720 I am very much of it feels right right now. 489 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:15,760 I want to do it. So as a single guy, I learned a 490 00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,480 lot once I started speaking to couples, speaking to husbands. 491 00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,480 That's kind of how I learned how I wanted to make my 492 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:26,120 relationship. I wanted to do you. 493 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,240 Feel like your interactions with the the way you interact with 494 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,200 like single females and couples change because you're a single, 495 00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:36,200 because you're a couple now. Oh, God, yes, yes, yes. 496 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,280 Now we're in the beginning. Because now we're in the 497 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,160 beginning. We're different. 498 00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:44,360 Don't talk about the. Beginning OK, I'm a little crazy 499 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,160 and lazy. Wife is not in the mood to be 500 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,520 thrown into the bus on this episode. 501 00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:53,520 I don't care, No. So when we first got into the 502 00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,760 lifestyle together, I definitely made a lot of changes. 503 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,440 But I made those changes because I told her in the very 504 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,640 beginning, we can't be partnered. 505 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,880 If you don't know, if you never experienced what I've 506 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:10,600 experienced as a single guy, I had access to access as a single 507 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:12,760 woman. A woman can always outnumber a 508 00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,400 guy with sex, but there's a very big difference. 509 00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:21,360 Oftentimes vanilla females have a whole lot of sex, but they're 510 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,560 having sex for confirmation. That's no power. 511 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,720 The power is when you're having sex because you want sex. 512 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:34,080 The power comes when, as a woman, you are playing because I 513 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:38,280 see it, therefore I want it, so therefore I conquer it and I 514 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,800 enjoy it. So she hadn't experienced that. 515 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:44,640 She had a lot of numbers, but she hadn't experienced it 516 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:48,800 through my eyes and through my lens where you can have sex and 517 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:52,320 you start to see how people interact with you. 518 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:57,440 And after a few years of us being together, she played with 519 00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,160 a couple guys who she played with before we together and they 520 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,160 play with her. They're like, you are a 521 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,800 different person and she was a different person. 522 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,960 That to me was power. Like I sit back and I watch her 523 00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,320 interact with guys now. And you know, we talked like 2 524 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:14,880 dudes. Like we really talk like 2 525 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,840 dudes. If you ever hear us talk off 526 00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:22,160 about like her play dates or my play dates, you laugh your ass 527 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:25,200 off because we talk like 2 guys. But that was the whole point. 528 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:29,120 You can't be my spouse if you don't understand me. 529 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:36,960 So I took probably the first 70 years of our relationship to 530 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,720 kind of help her understand to get it. 531 00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,680 And it was it was fun. It was exciting to me for to 532 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:47,840 build her and to let her slowly transition through different 533 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,520 phases. My first, my beginning of 534 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,320 actually knowing that, oh, I can fuck some nice wife for her, it 535 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,240 was wait, I can fuck a dude and you're not going to be jealous. 536 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,200 You know that was right. Quick, for me, I just want to 537 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:06,960 get out there and open there. A lot of guys like don't get me 538 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,800 wrong, like $2.00 support fucking, I get it. 539 00:33:10,160 --> 00:33:13,280 And when I first came in the game, I played the game like 12 540 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,760 years like, but I get it. I was doing the same thing. 541 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:21,160 But what a part of it is eventually, man, you can't keep 542 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,360 that shit up. You got to be sport fucking for 543 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:26,280 10 years. Like it's not it's mentally you 544 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,840 because you when you first come to the last guy support 545 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:35,400 eventually, man, you don't have to figure out like I don't do 546 00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,640 stand business and it gets I don't mind telling people I 547 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,360 don't do that. And then some people ask why you 548 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:48,160 don't do that because I'm the type that when I engage with the 549 00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:53,480 wife sexually, women having a good time, I don't want someone 550 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:57,280 to be Asian to just come and interrupt that because what it 551 00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,160 does, it becomes distraction to me. 552 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,920 So if I'm giving you 100% of my time and my attention. 553 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:05,680 To you. Right. 554 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:10,159 I didn't set up here, packed my bags, bought my ticket, came 555 00:34:10,159 --> 00:34:14,080 back here, invested my time and to get to know people. 556 00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:17,000 So when I get in this room, I don't want to be able to well, 557 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,000 she's into me and then she keeps doing this. 558 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:23,760 She keeps doing this now. Now all of a sudden, now you 559 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:29,320 become a toy in this room now. So I don't like to engage like 560 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:30,520 that. I want to be able to. 561 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,400 If I'm focused on her, I want my husband to be comfortable enough 562 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,760 so I have to focus on me. If he had any issues where he's 563 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:41,760 sitting in the corner, he's over there and no one is paying 564 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,280 attention to him. And this is what I learned in 565 00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:46,120 the lifestyle. People that have been married 566 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:51,159 20/20/10 and 15 years, they can do something in that room that 567 00:34:51,159 --> 00:34:53,840 you don't know and it's going to catch her attention. 568 00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:56,679 Now all of a sudden she's worried about OK, why is Greg 569 00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,440 pacing? Why has he even been in the 570 00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,720 bathroom? For you still. 571 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,960 Like yeah, you still it's hard to revitalize it. 572 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,880 So that's why I stay away from them because a lot of my 573 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:13,640 experience with staying vixens, they they are and not all. 574 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:19,000 It's just that the trust level is kind of shaky sometimes 575 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:24,880 because she wants him to be involved and then she get any 576 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,600 inclination that he's not enjoying himself. 577 00:35:28,240 --> 00:35:30,000 If you go wrong at home, I can see you. 578 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,880 Just you just at that point in time. 579 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,200 Yeah. You support fucking in this? 580 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:37,600 I had literally, I have literally stopped and asked the 581 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,520 husband, hey, do you want to do this? 582 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,480 No, I'm not joking. Like hey, hey, hey, fucking like 583 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:45,680 turn on the side, do this, do this. 584 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:52,040 So now like my SO now my Dick going limp because. 585 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:03,280 I've had this happen to me before and it was like the worst 586 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:09,080 experience I've ever had in all my years of of hot wifey. 587 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,400 Where I beautiful couple, beautiful couple. 588 00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:14,920 She's absolutely drop dead gorgeous. 589 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:18,520 I'm thinking to myself, OK, this is going to be a hot encounter, 590 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,680 a very hot encounter. Like you said, you know, I knew 591 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,680 exactly how to bring them together. 592 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,840 But we we get started and it's good. 593 00:36:27,720 --> 00:36:31,320 It's good people, it's good. But he all of a sudden turns 594 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:34,320 into vivid video director of the year. 595 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,800 OK, stop right there. Can I get a shot? 596 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,960 Can I get a shot right there And literally? 597 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,560 At first I was like, OK, well. OK, well, you know, get the 598 00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:45,120 shot. Go. 599 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:49,360 I go back, go back. I'm noticing that things down 600 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,560 shifted a little bit down here, but I'm like, all right, I get 601 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:52,840 it back. I get it back. 602 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,800 I get it back. All right, This is what I want 603 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,080 to see right here. Stop turn her doggy style. 604 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,280 Now you, you, you get there. Get the right angle. 605 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:05,880 I'm going to get up under as a dog. 606 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,080 Hold up man. When he said that everything 607 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,560 just everything dropped. Everything dropped. 608 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,560 I was like do do. You. 609 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,080 I'm not getting paid for this. What are you doing? 610 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,440 So what's funny is that we got we got that conversation in the. 611 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:24,320 Group where? The the lady was telling us that 612 00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,280 one of her friends lost the bull. 613 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:31,520 He decided he couldn't be with them anymore because after about 614 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,600 I think it was like 3 years there together somewhere. 615 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:38,840 What period of time it was basically they became so 616 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,840 demanding and so directive that the fantasy was no longer 617 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,600 mutual. And he got so burnt out that he 618 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,120 even considered leaving a lifestyle. 619 00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:52,880 And it was like, no, lead them. And to me, you got to have a lot 620 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,000 of conversations and not a lot of conversations like numerous 621 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,000 conversations. We have enough conversation to 622 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,280 where the husband and the wife, like you say you're treating two 623 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:05,480 different people. I treat them as left brain talk 624 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,400 to the wife with respect for the husband, respect for the 625 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:09,320 husband. Like you said, could be one week 626 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:11,520 conversation, two week conversation could be just touch 627 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:12,880 base in and just see if it's a lot. 628 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:18,280 But what happens is, and this is really what I've told single 629 00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:24,240 guys is you have to mature enough to know when to say no, 630 00:38:24,720 --> 00:38:29,640 no in conversation when that situation is not for you or is 631 00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,200 going to go into something that's not for you. 632 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:33,880 And either it's going to be a one off because you want to do 633 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,360 it, or it's just you just got to let it decline at the 634 00:38:37,360 --> 00:38:41,280 conversation because you've got to know yourself enough to know 635 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,320 that that's not your thing. And sometimes you get 636 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,160 inexperienced people, inexperienced males, they come 637 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,520 in that think I got to do whatever they want me to do or 638 00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,680 else. You're here for. 3. 639 00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:56,000 Days, it's about 1000 people here. 640 00:38:56,360 --> 00:39:00,200 Somebody wants what you want. Have enough conversation and you 641 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,400 have to be efficient in that conversation sometimes and know 642 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,840 in 5 minutes within two conversations. 643 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,720 If you're going back and forth on Telegram within a few 644 00:39:06,720 --> 00:39:09,320 conversations, this is going to work or it's not. 645 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,680 Because like you said, if the experience is not mutual or the 646 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:15,280 experience is not for you, don't even get on the plane. 647 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,760 And I'll tell you this for me, believe it or not, like when it 648 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:26,720 comes to events, I don't talk to people on Telegram or SDC or 649 00:39:26,720 --> 00:39:32,000 anything prior to because. He he barely responds to my text 650 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,040 messages when he's gone for 18 hours in a day. 651 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:39,120 So if you're expecting a, no If you're expecting any type of 652 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:44,400 typing response. Back he's calling you and my 653 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:47,520 friends know I'm a little dyslexic too so you know but but 654 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,640 truth be told, I feel like this maybe it's because of my age. 655 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,720 There's something that's a lot more intimate like I'm going to 656 00:39:56,720 --> 00:40:01,520 stick my penis inside of your wife so me text messing you and 657 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:05,160 her without listening to those inflections and listen to the 658 00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:09,960 emotions and talking to you. I miss so much. 659 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:15,280 So I won't even engage with a couple if I start, if I text you 660 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,960 and we've established a mutual connection, physical, physical 661 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,320 attraction. And you don't want to talk on 662 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:24,640 the phone, especially seeing as how I'm not talking to 25 year 663 00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,040 old couples, I'm talking to people my age. 664 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,960 So you're 4550 years old and you don't want to have a phone 665 00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,480 conversation. You're not for me and about Mr. 666 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,960 Mocha though, too, is he likes to. 667 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,600 He likes to hear things he's not good at, like I like. 668 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:46,760 I'll sex the right person all day or I don't do it at all. 669 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,840 It's a, I'm very like five to seven business days. 670 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:55,200 I might respond, but for him, he likes to hear, hey, we're in a 671 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,240 public room. No one can see under the gasket. 672 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,520 There's a table blocking right here. 673 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,000 No one can see you. But. 674 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,000 Yeah, ask questions. Absolutely. 675 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:14,760 Do somebody have a question? But yeah, I think for him, he 676 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:17,560 likes to actually like, hear because he listens to like audio 677 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,000 books and stuff like that all day. 678 00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,440 So he likes to like, hear your voice, what you like, want to 679 00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:23,000 say dah, dah, dah, body language. 680 00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,920 Yeah, like that, that type of when? 681 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,200 I talk to the husband. I'm looking at body language. 682 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,840 I'm going to say something 100. Percent. 683 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:34,240 Like maybe you have never heard before and if you kind of like, 684 00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:37,600 OK, well, can you elaborate a little bit more or you give me 685 00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:43,200 that look like you might need to do a little bit more research or 686 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:47,920 you and the wife go and talk a little bit more and then I'll be 687 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:52,840 more than happy to talk to you guys as a couple, as a couple. 688 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,080 OK. Then when the three of us get on 689 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:59,840 the same page, we can turn that page and go from there. 690 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,560 If I don't get that Brian is not it's nothing against you. 691 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,880 It's nothing against you, both of You Beautiful nothing, just 692 00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:10,600 that love you. I but I can't come into this 693 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:13,000 situation. When I come into the situation, 694 00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,480 all I am doing is is I'm blending in. 695 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,840 If you if you guys have done what you supposed to do and that 696 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:22,720 that's those my baby girl right there and her husband, her 697 00:42:22,720 --> 00:42:25,440 husband, Phillip. And when I got with them, I just 698 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,040 blended right in. I've blended right in and it's 699 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:33,240 little beautiful. I, I did them. 700 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:38,840 I don't know, my mouth got dry right here, but yeah, I just I, 701 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,760 I blended right in and it's been a wonderful almost two years, 702 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,640 right, Almost two years. Been the one for two years. 703 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:47,920 But if you yeah, I have to see you, the texting thing, it's 704 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,080 fine to say hello. You know, my name is such and 705 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,840 such dot dot dot. Just you know, I'm reaching out 706 00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:54,640 because you reached out to me, etcetera, etcetera. 707 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:59,240 But after we do that, I'm like, I would like to, I would like 708 00:42:59,240 --> 00:43:02,120 to, yes, we need to meet. We need to meet I. 709 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:04,920 Think though, if you're like new coming to one of these events as 710 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,160 a couple and you've never done anything like this before, like. 711 00:43:08,440 --> 00:43:09,920 My like my couple that's here now. 712 00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,520 Right, but. But they have they. 713 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:16,000 Have you like, you know, they have you that can kind of tell 714 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:20,200 them what to do, But if I, I can say I'm pretty oblivious to 715 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,320 things most of the time because he and he can attest to those 716 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,960 things. There's been times I've missed 717 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:30,680 major cues because I don't, I absolutely pay 0 fucking 718 00:43:30,680 --> 00:43:35,160 attention down to going through the airport. 719 00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,600 Anything that doesn't involve involve work or the kids. 720 00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:42,200 So I mean, at least you know, like Rob and you can say like 721 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,720 you, you guys know exactly what you want and what you're looking 722 00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:49,200 for and you could pick that out. I'll be honest, most of the time 723 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:54,840 I, I know what I like, but I, I don't know, I can't necessarily 724 00:43:54,840 --> 00:43:58,200 say like you guys, you, you know, your experience. 725 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,200 This is what I want. And I can't, there's never been 726 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:04,360 a time in lifestyle where I can just be like, Oh yeah, this is 727 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:05,680 what I want. And I'm going to do that. 728 00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:11,680 Like, I wish, I wish that I could say that, say that, but I 729 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:15,240 don't because like ask him, he can, he used to be able to like 730 00:44:15,240 --> 00:44:17,280 pick guys and be like, Oh yeah, you're going to do this, You're 731 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,960 going to do that. But I'm day-to-day. 732 00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:24,320 So I'm saying that to say, what if you have those couples, you 733 00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,560 just don't deal with them, You don't deal with them that. 734 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:27,560 That's. Cool. 735 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:31,480 But what if you had a couple and you could just say to like guide 736 00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,920 them through? OK, I don't necessarily, I'm not 737 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:36,240 going to play with you personally, but can you give 738 00:44:36,240 --> 00:44:38,160 that? Would you give them advice like 739 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:42,000 for you or you or whoever like? That I'm not I'm. 740 00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:45,440 Not saying that I won't I'm. Trying to do everything in my 741 00:44:45,720 --> 00:44:50,880 power to to, to to make this and positive type thing. 742 00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,640 I hate to meet you in there. And I'm going to be like, damn, 743 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,360 I'm not, this is not going anywhere. 744 00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:58,880 You know what I mean? I hate that I hate it, You know, 745 00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:03,280 did I do everything in my power as that good quality pool to 746 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:06,360 make this, you know, a successful journey? 747 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,560 Because right now the experience is not successful, but the 748 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:14,640 journey can be revitalized. And that's revitalized with two 749 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,680 things, patience and time. And that's all I have in this 750 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:22,000 lifestyle, right? Based in time for I have evolved 751 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,480 tremendously. I go out tremendously. 752 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,960 I was first introduced while living in Germany. 753 00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:31,800 I was 26 years old, beautiful lady, 48 years old Russian Lord 754 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:37,160 anniversary. Reminiscing, reminiscing. 755 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,840 Let me see your penis real quick. 756 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,320 Lady Long story short ended up going back to to a place. 757 00:45:46,240 --> 00:45:50,240 Things get heated up in the car, we take it to the house, I'm in 758 00:45:50,240 --> 00:45:53,600 the house, things are going great because I love older women 759 00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,240 and all of a sudden somebody comes from around the corner. 760 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:03,640 I almost shit on myself. The husband came from around the 761 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:06,200 corner. I'm trying to put my drawers on 762 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:08,520 and can't find them. You know what I mean? 763 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,680 And, and, and I'm like, what's what, you know, what is this? 764 00:46:11,720 --> 00:46:14,880 You know what, what's going baby, baby, it's OK, it's OK, 765 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:27,800 It's OK. But anyway, though, I mean, I 766 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:29,240 really couldn't run, you know what I'm saying? 767 00:46:29,240 --> 00:46:31,360 The way the way I really couldn't run. 768 00:46:31,720 --> 00:46:33,760 I couldn't run. So I had to stay there. 769 00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:37,760 And they both calmed me down at the time. 770 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:40,280 Hey, this is I'm 26, OK, it's 30. 771 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:41,960 Two years ago. So we didn't have the 772 00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:45,080 terminology. Hot wife, you know, BBC cook 773 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:46,520 Stag. I didn't, I didn't know. 774 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:50,880 But they were in the life and that was their dynamic, you 775 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,320 know, didn't let nobody know. But he watched. 776 00:46:54,240 --> 00:46:59,040 But he liked what he saw and thought that maybe something 777 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:03,280 could evolve from this. And it ended up evolving and it 778 00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:08,000 was a hell of a damn run. I She's actually been an escort 779 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:09,520 for two years. She was my handler. 780 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:20,080 That's. What they got, if anybody knows 781 00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:24,240 about Europe, the European people are absolutely. 782 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:29,120 And there's a beautiful lady right there and, and, and, and 783 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:35,200 who looks like she might be from someplace else, France, France, 784 00:47:35,240 --> 00:47:38,520 that's so uninhibited, so uninhibited, so sexual. 785 00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:44,120 So, so sex and so freaking sexual, Right. 786 00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,520 Am I right or wrong? Yeah, you do. 787 00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:50,680 I'm right. So they do things a whole lot 788 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,560 differently. A whole lot differently. 789 00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,760 And so that's how I was like introduced to this. 790 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:57,880 So it's like I'm doing apology because. 791 00:47:58,400 --> 00:48:01,040 I want I know that he had a question. 792 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:03,680 Go ahead, Rachel. Oh, Philip from the. 793 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:10,800 Beginning. I'm not trying to throw her into 794 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:14,040 the bus, however she will interpret that text completely 795 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:17,000 different than someone else. I'll read the same text that 796 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:23,240 should be left, pick up the phone and make the phone talk 797 00:48:23,720 --> 00:48:27,360 and you have a better understanding true of what 798 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,920 you're trying to communicate when. 799 00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,640 You're talking with the phone. Also, emojis are essential, Yes. 800 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:41,840 Yeah, a devil faced. Yeah, you can say asshole on the 801 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:42,360 podcast. Yeah. 802 00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,040 The green wristband Give your permission to say asshole out 803 00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,000 loud you. Could say it on the podcast. 804 00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:54,760 We don't believe anything. I've iPhone and I've said this 805 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:58,960 to guys and and this will offend some guys. 806 00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:00,840 Don't say it. Say it as. 807 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,080 It as it as it as you. See it? 808 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:11,920 If you are an experienced guy in the lifestyle, single guy or guy 809 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:18,440 who plays with couples and you don't turn down way more 810 00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:23,000 opportunities, not outside this environment, yeah, If you don't 811 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:27,400 turn down way more opportunities than you take, you're like a 812 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,760 throw shit at the wall and see what stick kind of person. 813 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,960 Yeah, Yeah, exactly. I am very much. 814 00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:40,240 I want what I want and I don't accept anything else. 815 00:49:41,000 --> 00:49:43,720 And he will not let you tell him what the fuck to do either. 816 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:45,200 Yeah, that's just, that's not who I am. 817 00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:48,600 I mean, it's just not me. But here's the thing, I know 818 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:50,360 what experience I'm going to provide. 819 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:54,040 You know there's. Something to say it's not real 820 00:49:54,240 --> 00:49:59,960 well-being. A couple trying to find a guy 821 00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:09,000 that is going to show her the respect, the care, the what what 822 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:17,160 What can a husband look into and what type of it's. 823 00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:18,880 It is like. Shooting. 824 00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:20,240 Throwing. Arrows. 825 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:25,160 At dart board trying to find a guy that will. 826 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:31,040 Step up. And beat that guy because I 827 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:36,040 don't want her to experience because the in the lifestyle is 828 00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,240 single. We got together, yeah. 829 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:43,960 She just whispered he's a hoax, yeah. 830 00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:52,520 I want her to and to feel and have the experience of yeah, we 831 00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:56,400 we, like you said, I can, I can do one thing and she knows 832 00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:58,200 exactly what position I want her to be. 833 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,720 But yeah. And I until you said it like 834 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,520 that's what I've been not able to explain to her. 835 00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:09,440 I'm like, I want somebody to be able to do and make you feel 836 00:51:10,040 --> 00:51:10,920 like that. I don't. 837 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:16,000 It's not bad just to give you that experience that some of 838 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:19,760 these wives, they know the husband and some of them being 839 00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:25,200 honest, they know someone. That's boy. 840 00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:36,680 Oh, but they know 1000% if they. Really put their tooth on the 841 00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:39,000 God which you said. She wants to. 842 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:43,280 Have fun. With it's two weeks of hell at 843 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:55,640 home. And a lot of guys, because of 844 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:59,600 that, get reluctant. A lot of guys because of what he 845 00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:02,680 just said. We go into it real careful. 846 00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:05,760 Real careful. Yeah. 847 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,680 So. Here you go. 848 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:10,040 So you've been married. What? 849 00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:11,840 How long? We've been together 15 years. 850 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:18,000 OK, so I'm in the microwave because my partner, we actually 851 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,840 became friends in 2021. She brought me the splash for 852 00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,680 the first time November 22. So picture this for a second. 853 00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,640 You husband, love, love your wife. 854 00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,400 Provide for your wife, Protect your wife right? 855 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:37,880 Sexually, when she goes to be herself, she's protecting you 856 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:42,080 because she doesn't want to do something that makes you feel 857 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,280 insecure, that takes away your sexual power, your masculinity. 858 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:49,880 So she'll shrink herself sexually until you show her that 859 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:54,040 you can handle the expansion of who she is. 860 00:52:54,440 --> 00:53:01,480 Every woman, every woman, just like she protected them and she 861 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,320 loved them. So, So you grow up so, so here. 862 00:53:04,320 --> 00:53:06,080 So you grow up. So you grow up in an environment 863 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:10,760 black that boys will be boys, women are women have brothers, 864 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,400 uncles, fathers. They grew up in an environment 865 00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,640 that when a man shows his whole side and sex life, oh guys will 866 00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:18,680 be guys. Guys got the same time, those 867 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,680 same elders, family members telling her to shrink herself 868 00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:26,120 because she has to be elite. You have to show her that you 869 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,680 can handle when she expands herself. 870 00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,640 She will not expand herself until you show her that you can 871 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,800 handle it, and she's only going to expand herself unless she 872 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:39,440 wants to piss you off to the version of that you can handle. 873 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:44,040 So that guy that is trying to entertain her, he's he's only 874 00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:46,400 getting a little bit from her. So he's not going to stick 875 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,120 around. So that's why we I keep, I keep, 876 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,520 we keep looking, we go keep looking because that guy, that 877 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,360 quality guy that you're looking for, he's no, he's only going to 878 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,760 be a certain time for her. He's going to certain my 879 00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:00,720 attention from her. Now imagine him getting a little 880 00:54:00,720 --> 00:54:02,640 bit he's sitting over here and get a life. 881 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:05,160 He's not going to waste that time into it. 882 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:11,960 Now, you know, because he's that before he made she is not 883 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,000 comfortable enough to say, hey, you know what? 884 00:54:14,240 --> 00:54:17,040 Because if she starts really giving this guy time, then he 885 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,520 can step around because now he got something to look. 886 00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:21,640 Forward to it. But if you don't have nothing 887 00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:26,160 but just the fact that because I'm not this man, but she got to 888 00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:28,000 have more just she got to be ready. 889 00:54:29,240 --> 00:54:36,600 I need her to be a date. But if she's here, you know, 890 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,080 but. Like you said, it's patients on 891 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:40,520 both sides. You're the claim. 892 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:48,960 You're the claim that my well. If I'm getting like he's not, 893 00:54:50,720 --> 00:54:55,240 I'm not. I'm not saying 70% of the time a 894 00:54:55,240 --> 00:54:59,080 text message. I'm talking about the effort 895 00:54:59,240 --> 00:55:00,680 into. That's what. 896 00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,920 I'm saying because we we all adults. 897 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:14,600 I'm not asking you to. The only time we talk is I'm 898 00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,200 texting you. No, that is nothing. 899 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:18,240 You know what? I'm the. 900 00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:21,480 First thing I want to ask him. The first question I'm going to 901 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:26,080 ask you is tell me how you going to see your wife with me? 902 00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:30,760 With you? I want her to be focused on you 903 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,560 and not so. OK then. 904 00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:35,320 So technically, you're looking for kind of like the boyfriend 905 00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:36,200 experience. Yeah. 906 00:55:36,240 --> 00:55:38,120 All right, So I need to get inside of here. 907 00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:39,400 I need to get between those ears. 908 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,880 All right. And like I said, I was singing. 909 00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:44,960 One thing you want to do, you want to claim her. 910 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:49,360 And to get inside of here, I have to claim the mind, OK? 911 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,760 We're not talking about anything down below the belt yet. 912 00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:55,880 I got to claim the mind. OK, When it gets to below the 913 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:57,560 belt, then I want to train the body. 914 00:55:57,560 --> 00:56:02,200 I want to train the body. All right. 915 00:56:03,640 --> 00:56:08,520 And then and then and then if we become if we if we become very, 916 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:12,360 very close, like we are very, very close, I want the owner, I 917 00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:15,400 want the owner. So so claim train at home. 918 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:22,240 OK, I and also to add to all of that like they're all correct. 919 00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:27,200 It took me years, years and he's super secure. 920 00:56:27,800 --> 00:56:32,360 I would not let all the way go. One day I got just drunk enough 921 00:56:33,720 --> 00:56:36,720 during my drinking days and told some dude that I missed his 922 00:56:36,720 --> 00:56:39,040 Dick. I don't say stuff like that. 923 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:44,760 I don't miss your fucking Dick and your I do I just I was, I 924 00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,120 was my own stopping point though, Like because it wasn't 925 00:56:48,120 --> 00:56:51,440 him. He wasn't telling me hey, don't 926 00:56:51,440 --> 00:56:53,760 do this. Don't say that I had free reign 927 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:59,000 to do whatever, but but I still could not like say those words 928 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,120 because do I want to say that to that dude? 929 00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:03,520 Don't want this dude to tell me he loves my pussy. 930 00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,680 Absolutely I do, but I'm not going to. 931 00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,200 I don't, I don't know if I want to go that far because what type 932 00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:11,200 of emotion is he going to give me if he says that to me? 933 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,160 Are we just role-playing? Because again, I'm oblivious to 934 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,160 the world. And the few times that that that 935 00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:20,160 I got just enough connection, the guy got too attached to me, 936 00:57:21,280 --> 00:57:24,960 got a little crazy, said a few crazy things and I was like, I'm 937 00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,880 good. I already got one crazy bad all 938 00:57:26,920 --> 00:57:30,200 the time. No, Sir, we're not doing that 939 00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:34,240 again. But yeah, so, yeah, I think the 940 00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:38,240 control for her though, too, is that you don't know what his 941 00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,560 intention is or his intent. You know, I'm just making 942 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,000 examples what the other person's intention is. 943 00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:47,040 They may really like her and they may really love fucking her 944 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:47,640 back. What? 945 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:51,760 What's the point where you the guy knows that this is just role 946 00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,880 play. I don't care what you say to me 947 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:56,960 when your Dick is in me and what I say to you when it comes out 948 00:57:56,960 --> 00:57:59,880 of me. Like we're back to what's up. 949 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:01,800 Like, how did I hope you had a good day? 950 00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,200 Da, da, da. So yeah, I think you it, it's 951 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:08,760 hard just to jump in like he said and just just jump in and 952 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:10,440 let go. I, I can. 953 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:13,320 I am too OCD for that in my mind. 954 00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:26,120 And I cannot ever do that. Yeah, he's, he's been telling me 955 00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,040 for years. I want you to fuck somebody. 956 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:32,000 Just not tell me like when I get home, I'll, I'll like do it. 957 00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:34,480 But I'll, you know, you just tell me when you get home or you 958 00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,280 tell me when you're fucking me. Like I don't care. 959 00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:37,640 So. I'm going to tell you one of my. 960 00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:39,800 I'm going to tell. You I haven't done it yet 961 00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,920 because I can't get past doing it myself. 962 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:45,800 We got one minute, so we're going to get ready to wrap it up 963 00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:48,760 because we got mikes and keys and ankles. 964 00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,160 Who's got you know? We'll be back here. 965 00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:53,720 Tomorrow we will be back. Tomorrow we will continue it. 966 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:57,680 I greatly appreciate the people who came in. 967 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,280 Come back tomorrow because I would love to just continue this 968 00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:03,480 conversation. This is the old faces podcast. 969 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:10,720 Our podcast is old faces OFACEZ. If you go back to some episodes 970 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:14,280 you you'll get to see Missus Moco even when she was on the 971 00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:18,480 podcast drunk as shit, misbehaving with the girls. 972 00:59:18,920 --> 00:59:24,720 And you know, me being her non drunk, OK, I was drunk couple 973 00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:26,240 times. Yeah, there were several. 974 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:27,560 Times. Yeah, we went through a. 975 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:34,480 There was a couple times, yeah. But until next, we got a sex 976 00:59:34,520 --> 00:59:36,320 book playing back here too. That's good job. 977 00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:38,800 All right, Thank you guys very much. 978 00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:40,560 We'll be back. Tomorrow at 3:00 PM.