Welcome everybody back to another episode of the oh Face
Podcast. I'm Chris Minks, your Co host
here today with Mr. Mocha as usual.
Hello, We have some guests in the studio with us today.
First off, we'll start with the ladies.
We have the ever present and beautiful Mrs. Splash Mocha, AKA
Tina Lady, who is in charge of it.
All. Followed up by Mr. Craig
McKinney, one of our regular guests is rejoining us today for
another episode. And then very, very special
guest Mr. J Perez, very popular on Instagram and other social
media outlets. He's joining us today live from
the Mocha studio as well. Welcome Mr. Perez.
You want to introduce yourself, please?
I'm say president. Say I'm from Atlanta.
It's my very first splash, Mocha.
All right, So what what do you you you got all kind of stuff.
Tell the people what you do prez and tell them what made you
decide to try splash mocha. I do a lot of things.
I'm into most of media, so music production, artist management,
just a little bit everything, but my main one is management.
Inspirational speaker and motivational speaker.
I think it's another one that needs to be added to this title
because if you follow his social media you will find all kinds of
uplifting messages, images and photos.
He's regular about uplifting his community and his people.
So it's it's a he's a really fun one to follow.
You know, sometimes I have to put stuff out so I can put some
good energy out, some good energy to come here that same
time. Everybody don't going to have
inspiration or you go when they pay.
There's nothing but some bulls. So let me know what I'm saying.
I might go to my page just to inspire me to do it, you know
what I'm saying? So that's how I am.
You're going to have to go to my page and just see dogs.
That's. Good.
That makes you happy. It might inspire me to buy the
birds, not the birds. Yeah, you'll see dogs and birds,
animals. I'm probably going to die one
day by petting something I shouldn't.
Alligator. If it wouldn't bite.
Me better, right? You better believe.
It I'd be petting that alligator.
And let me say for the viewers. I know they.
Can't even Not for the viewers because they can't see, but for
for everybody listening. My man press.
Got on a pair of fly ass gazelles taking it back.
Old school. Loving it.
And when you when you pose with a picture with him, the lens
covers that he has the coatings on that flashes up like these
googly cartoon eyes. The Minx and I had a picture, a
picture with him in the photo booth last night and he looks
like these crazy comic guys on his lens.
I'm like, how did you do that? He goes.
It's the codings man. He got fly with It's the codecs,
man. Very nice, very nice.
So you know how was, how's everybody's flash going?
You know, I better start with myself.
Mine hasn't been particularly exciting yet.
I've had fun, but it's not been exciting.
So I love, I love Splash. I like, I I enjoy the setup,
believe it or not. Like I have fun with the setup
process because with the setup, you know, we just kind of get,
we we, we come in, you get to work and I'm a sense of
accomplishment kind of person. I like, I like, we come in, you
know, Tuesday, Wednesday we set up and Thursday we finish
everything up for the most part Thursday morning.
Like I like to be able to sit back and go ah, man, we did all
of that, you know. And then you know we're up there
and I'm. I'm there.
And you know I usually eat multiple times a day.
You know, I, I eat all day long. So usually what we'll do is we
will missus, missus, Mocha will go, and you know she'll bring
oatmeal she'll bring. Protein bars.
Protein bars, sandwiches, lunch, meat.
Because even though we will eat out, I always have like three
other meals in between. I forgot to do that.
So yesterday I'm up at the the desk checking people in and I
shook somebody's hand and like, my hand was shaking and I'm
like, oh, that's odd. And then I'm standing there and
I just kind of started trilling. I was like, man, I feel like I
felt the way I feel when I go to the gym and work all real hard
without eating. I'm like, damn.
I haven't eaten. So I run upstairs and I grab a
protein bar and some little carb bar that misses.
Mocha has, and I'm running down, running back downstairs to the
desk, like eating both of them one time and like, it still took
me a minute to balance out. So while everybody's downstairs
fucking and partying, I went upstairs and took a nap.
That's that's what I did. He was out.
Yeah, I was out. I was all the way out.
Nap is 30 minutes. Going out for three hours?
No. No, no, I was.
I was only out for about an hour.
I went to sleep for about an hour, but then I got up and I
showered, you know, like you get in the hot shower to kind of
wake yourself. So I was like out of the game
for like 2 hours. So I come back downstairs and
it's like everybody's like, looks like everybody's done.
So I walked around for a little bit and then I was like, all
right, OK, I'm going back to bed.
He rolls in like 11:00 into the play area.
Yeah, like they're like, man, they've been done 1/2, three
times. Exactly this three.
This is this Three nuts already gone.
And you showing up, You know what I mean?
So that was my night. So tonight I put the day I plan
on rectifying that. How about you, gentlemen?
How are your nights? I saw Mr. McKinney working his.
His. With style last night in the in
the BDSM room, I mean he was he had some some willing
participants and he was in the zone.
I've been told the mix I go, go over and say hi.
She goes, Oh no, no, he said. Don't mess with him when he's in
the zone. I didn't know that about you
ever. That's.
Good. Well, that's not a, that's just
a. That's the etiquette thing for
for BDSM type of stuff. You know when you're flogging
someone, you don't want to interrupt the scene and and and
have them because because your focus is on what you're doing.
You know you don't want to break that focus and and then who
knows what could happen what? If you're creating an energy and
you don't. Want that energy?
You don't want that. Energy to be broken.
There's times where someone will come over and they've done
something and I kind of get angry because I'm like, yo,
don't, don't do that, you know? Don't.
Disturb that, yeah. You in your zone and then that
person. Focus.
You kind of focus because I've I've told plenty people, you
know when you flogging somebody, you doing certain things,
certain tools that you have, it can cause a lot of damage.
You hit them in the wrong place. You can scar somebody
emotionally and physically with that, so you know you, you want
to, you want to always keep your focus on that so you don't
disturb seeing when you when you have somebody singing, you know.
I think that's a key, important point that we're going to bring
up in this because I wasn't necessarily aware of that.
That's not my scene and I'm not paid a lot of attention to it.
The minx has talked with you and watched that kind of stuff go
on. But again, you get the amateur
people like, oh man, I'm going to go beat this girl, right?
And that's bad situations, right?
So there's people need to understand if you want to
explore this, make sure you explore with somebody who is
trained or has experience and does it the right way so that
you don't create this long term potential scarring damage.
That's. Yeah, learn.
You gotta learn first word not to hit like you don't want to be
whacking somebody in the fucking kidneys, you know?
Like. They're right there and you
know, with somebody hard on the spine and you know it caused
some damage in this. You know, and then, like, even
with the, I think that, you know, a lot of people don't
understand, Like, you'll see the people who and they're just, you
know, whacking away, OK, Like the people were like, oh, you
know, let me try this. And they're in it.
Like, no, that's not, that's not how this works.
That's not. And you want a crescendo.
You bring it up, you work them up, you know?
And like you said, Chris, man, I've, I've talked to people
where they've had a bad experience, where someone has
walked up to them and hit them or they, you know, without
permission they hit them or they're they're they're there
and there's no warm up or they'll do something.
And they're like, no, they're physically scarred.
Not not physically, but they're emotionally scarred because of,
you know, something that somebody else has done to them.
You know, you already have the perception that being flogged.
A lot of people think that that's all about pain and and
and it's not. I I can do very, very sensual
flogging with people. And then I talk to somebody and
I'm like, hey, can I flog you later?
They're like, Nah, because it hurts.
And I'm like, no, it doesn't hurt.
Well, this person did this to me and I'm like, so now I got to
talk them down from that and get them comfortable with
everything. And then they try and they're
like, wow, you know, I that's great.
I I enjoy that. Yeah, it only takes one bad
experience to be like, no, I'm good, I'm good, I'm flogging.
So how long you been doing it? I picked up.
Somebody just asked me this the other day, just earlier today
actually. The the first flogger I picked
up was, it's between 10 and 15 years ago.
It was, it was, it was, it was a very interesting it was what it
was, was it was a flogger that had brass knuckles on the end.
It didn't have a handle. It had brass knuckles.
And seeing the girl who did it, seeing the attention that she
got from it, and seeing how people reacted to it, I picked
that up and I started, you know, and it just kind of.
Grew and grew and grew and. Thankfully I tell people,
thankfully I'm kind. I kind of got, I was kind of a
natural at it, the movements and everything.
Like I watched certain people in this a struggle for them to get
the falls to go and everything is not rhythmic and you know, so
thankfully it came easily to me. But it's been 10 to 15 years
I've been. It's when I first picked up my
flogger. So it's like King Arthur and
Excalibur. I have the.
Flogger. I got before, you know, Mrs.
Moke. And I like, I still, I mean I
still have my tools. But you know we had a a big
period of time where once the kids got to a certain age,
there's certain things we had to kind of, you know, certain shit,
we just had to stop doing it. The house, you know, like
especially when you hear like, like you know, you hear certain
stuff. So but like, I think like when I
first got into like floggers, crops, canes, for me it was a
natural progression of the way I would do things, you know,
essentially like during sex. You know, I I was a massage
therapist. So to me touch was a big thing.
So you know I would always people would always laugh at my
nails being long but my nails were it was it was a tool you
know running down my you know your back you know squeezing
whether I'm putting my nails into her breast.
Put my nails in her ass cheeks put my nails in her thighs.
Not to interrupt but I bet it was the women that were jealous
of your long nails because because they have to go get
theirs done and yours just grows naturally.
You know I do you know I do have the the long nail beds and you
know the the girls at the the salon are always whenever I when
I would come in and I would go get my nails done.
When I would take my, my, my daughters in and you know, the
ladies would always use speaking in a different language, talking
about my nail beds. So all all of the ladies would
come down and look at my nail beds talking a different
language, you know, doing like this, and then they leave the
one. The one who's showing up, you
got to come see it. This is the kind of one you've
never seen. It I was.
So here's here's a fun fact about Mr. Mocha.
Growing up, I was super self-conscious about my nails
and my nails, my eyebrows, because I got sisters.
So they would always fuck with me and say, oh, you got girl
nails or you got girl eyebrows. So like, no shit until Missus
mocha, I shit you not. I would fuck up my eyebrows like
I would always like, ruffle my eyebrows and then they look.
Fucked up because I. Wanted them to look manly, you
know, because my sisters would always fuck with me about my
eyebrows and my fingernails like I was always just just because
the girls like, oh, your nail beds are so pretty.
And I'm I'm like that's not the goal it's not what I'm doing
like I don't want. So you know that was fun fact
about you know my personal self consciousness but as the reason
I got into like using floggers and crops and things like that
because it was kind of natural for me.
As you're you're learning sexual pleasure when you're playing
with a woman to see that there is that those different
thresholds when do you introduce pain and when when do you
introduce pleasure. And especially, like when you're
watching somebody the first time you know you accidentally stick
your nails in them, they go OK. That's the thing, I don't do
that more so that's. Really, how I got into the The
next Level, My first My first tool for spanking.
It was a wooden spoon. Remember the first thing?
Parking back to your channel. Well, no, not, not the first
thing I got. No, no, no two.
When I was 10. I.
Mean when she was in the. Kitchen and I had it in my
pleasure and and I kept that. I I used that wooden spoon for
for a while, like I that was like one of my, in fact, at home
in my tool kit where I have the flogger and the crop, I have
fucking laundry pins. Yeah, those are those are
lethal, man. Those of those, but see if you
if you use them right you use well, I mean, you know, I got
laundry pins. I got a wooden spoon I got.
I would use a fork. I would like because.
All of these different things create weird ass sensation like
a brush fucking feathers. Mr. Mocha's Kitchen Experience.
Oh yeah, Dungeon. It's the kitchen in the house.
You're making a scrambled eggs or something?
I'll make it something, Dad, but you're.
Right though man. I know the girl who had the the
the the flogger that I spoke of is she had that same type of
thing. She had all sorts of stuff from
the kitchen up in there because I she, you know what she used.
One time I seen her use, she had in her thing a meat tenderizer.
Because, I mean, she would, you know, you get those girls that
like pain and everything, but she had a fucking meat
tenderizer that she hit and she hit people with it.
Hey, listen, don't yuck somebody else's yuck.
There's. People that sat there and took
it, man. And you know, one of my most
popular tools that I have are my gloves.
People, I can't tell you how many times.
People ask me, they say I have to get a pair of those because
after I have AI don't evaporate. On these gloves, I've not seen
them. All right, so I have a pair of
gloves. They're made, they're made out
of rabbit fur. It's real rabbit fur, but in the
end of each one there's a little steel claw.
So after, so after I flog somebody, I get them all warmed
up and get them good and we have a really good session.
I use these for cooldown and I rub them with the with the
rabbit fur get them all warmed up and you know rub them down a
little bit. And then I take that claw down
the back and put the claw in there and you can see women just
and and I'm telling you, I've had, I can't tell you how many
people have asked me be like, hey, I need the website for this
because those are absolutely incredible.
But it goes back to like you saying you know the nails I
don't have, but even when flogging I don't have.
I have very very very very brittle nails.
My nails can't grow. So.
But. But mine won't fucking break.
But I flog people and I'll have my flogger in my one hand and
I'll crab, you know, slightly dig my nails, what are left of
them into their back and you can see them just kind of tense up
and. But you know, it's all about
that sensation, man. And when you said that about the
nails, I wish I had longer nails that could dig a little bit
harder into them, but that's why I got them blood.
Craig, have you. Done this to the minks.
I have not. She's.
I don't think I've ever even flogged her.
I. Don't think you've flogged her
either, but I have. I didn't know what they were.
They're sitting on the night stand in our bedroom.
I'm like where this It looks like somebody killed a rabbit.
Somebody killed a. Rabbit.
And they have a short they have those claws on, like, what are
these? She goes.
I don't know where those came from.
What Now I know what those are. They are, they are.
They are the the the one, I mean out people ask me to hear.
They're like, I need you to flog me.
Did you bring the gloves? Yeah, I got the gloves.
It happens. I can't flog anybody and not use
the gloves afterwards now. You know, my problem is, is
whenever I do things like that, the amount of mental energy that
I put into it. It's your pain.
So close attention to the person you're touching.
Like the at least me like the level because I'm looking for
every sound, every move, because you're learning, especially
someone who's new and you're trying to figure out where your
thresholds are. You know, you have those people.
And I'm always opposite. Like I've I've played with women
who were really into pain and so then I deny them.
I tell you, you can't have it. If like you're really into pain,
I'll reward you with it. But I like to like to me it's
exciting to to change their their thresholds.
Like the people who are used to the pain make them crave
something different, but the amount of attention you have to
put in there, So what tool am I going to use?
And then like when you start playing with the different
sensory things, like I like to put like you start with like
headphones on. Like I used to make a playlist
of music and I would put that in their ear and it's loud enough
to where you can't hear anything but that.
So every time you hear those songs, I want you to think of me
like I like I would get the text message, like, Oh my God, I was
at work and I heard the song and I got wet.
And I'm like, ah, got her right. Yeah, but I'm a perfect, so
yeah. What's one of the songs that
you? Did one of them was the hold on
do I have it on here Wait I'll I'll play it for you because it
was the the original intro for oh face oh Faces as the original
intro and that song. I remember that song.
I can't think of what the name of it is.
Can you hear playing you? Don't hear.
Him playing now? Yeah.
I don't hear him. Yeah.
OK, OK. Moments of.
Love. Moments of love.
Yeah, yeah, my. God, who's, who's and like that
whole CD with weird as shit all these different sounds art of.
Noise. Art of noise Art of noise.
That one there's a song from What's This?
Wait a minute. Now I can no, what's the
fucking? It's it's like one of those
because I was a massage therapist, so they were
different massage songs. Is it Enya?
Yeah, they had a song. I can't think of what it was,
but yes, they did have a very so so.
I'll have to like, I know the songs.
I'll have to put the playlist together.
But and then another one was Usher Let it burn.
Like that was one of my favorite ones.
Like I had just random songs that it would depend and then
the female it would also depend on the playlist.
That's why I would have to put so much mental energy into it.
And then I like to do restraints with I would like to do
restraints with no restraints, where it's like, OK, I make her
put her hands in the position and I pleasure her until she
moved her. If you move, if you move your
hands, not a pleasure stops, all right.
And with Missus Mocha, like I I tortured my wife.
I just feel like I. Tortured Miss Ismoka like I
would make her like stand in like a certain position until,
like she shook. And then, as soon as her muscles
are ready to give out, then I'd hit her with the fucking wand.
Like. She likes me shaking, you know.
I've got pictures of her, like in the basement, which would
always be good because I'll wait till the kids would go to bed
and I'll make sure, like, you can't make noise because the
kids are. You can't make noise because the
kids are upstairs and so like the level of torture that she
because she would she you fuck my wife.
She's noisy. When my wife is in her zone, she
can't help herself and there would be times where she would
be like in tears because the she would hit that place where she
wants to make noise. But she's a good mom, so she
don't want her to the kids. The kids know that she's in the
basement being a slut. I don't want the kids to know
more. And me being a terrible parent,
I'm like. I want to do it.
Harder now. So yeah, so I misses Mocha.
Like, she's definitely had every aspect of my ridiculousness.
So, like, there's things that I can still do to her.
Like if I pull the flogger out, I can just walk out with the
flogger and she'll get this look in her eyes.
Like, is it time? I was just going to put it back.
So yeah, that's just mean. I know, I know.
I. Know so, so we were going
around, we started the show talking about how everybody's
night was first night, right. And we kind of got hooked up
with Craig and we took it out the BDS.
There's a lot more that goes on at Moco events other than just
the BDS Dunger Room and Mr. Craig with his Blogger.
Well, so. So let me expound on what
happened to me last night, Tina. You don't say nothing, Tina.
Earmuffs. So last night I was standing
outside of outside of the ballroom, finished dancing and
everything like that. And my man Marty was standing
there and some girl, not going to say, but she walked up.
She knew him. She walked up, just started
giving him a blowjob right there in the hallway.
And every day and I was standing next to her and somebody started
giving me a blowjob. And then another girl came over
and was giving me a blowjob. So the two of them were staying.
I've been. Standing in the wrong spot?
Yes. You is.
So wait, what? About you, was that I didn't?
Hold on, Mr. Walker. So while the two of them was
giving me a blowjob, this third girl walked up and said you're
not doing it right. Let me show you you're.
Supposed to do this? You just got to do this.
And they were like, well, why don't you show us?
So I had three girls in the hallway giving me a blowjob.
And you could be in the demo. Yes, with the demo.
Dummy, it would be more like a blow up doll, yeah.
It was shit. So I I'm about to.
Start dressing like Craig in. My head.
You just got to wake up a little earlier.
OK. OK.
So Splash was was a good kickoff last last night for me?
Mr. Perez. I'm going to say my first day
was was, was good. It was slow.
It's a slow start, but it was good.
I'm waiting until today. This day too.
I'm will. I'm will be outside.
As a first timer, did you find the first day to be
overwhelming? Did you control your pace at a
good pace? You can see where you can just
run right into this thing and be like.
Deep into the pool. It's a Sprint.
I don't know what they tell my what they my first.
Like I said, it's my first time. I don't know about no no Sprint,
but it's. Training for a marathon.
You training because it's really overwhelming.
You turn around, you see this, you see, you see 333 women.
You want to do the blowjob. Be like, oh shit, wait a minute.
Yeah. So let.
Me ask you something as a first timer because maybe this could
help us. For people who our first timers,
you know, we talked about this previously before we came last
week, talking about people who were new and how do we get
couples to feel more comfortable?
What was it about coming to splash your first time that made
it overwhelming? Because if you can give us some
insight as to what you thought was overwhelming, we could take
that and maybe put it out to the next.
Because I meet a lot of couples and a lot of people that are
interested in coming, and I'm just like, listen, the only
thing I can say is, listen, once you come, I'm telling you, you
won't feel overwhelmed. You won't feel out of place.
So is there something that you can say that that actually made
you feel overwhelmed? Well, I would.
I would never feel out of place. Everywhere I go I feel
comfortable, but it just a whole lot, a whole lot going on.
Like a lot of visuals. Yeah, a lot of.
Visuals going on, but yeah, the costumes.
The the women, the different outfits, just the whole dynamic.
Of everything. Just the the women in general,
like, OK, the different type, the different, the how to say
the different types of women I'm not good at.
I think. I think I get it because I get.
I get overwhelmed still, but I'm comfortable.
I'm not splash. Mocha is the most comfortable
lifestyle that I've ever been to.
But I get overwhelmed personally because I I will walk in and I
know there are I'm. I'm standing in one spot and I'm
looking at seven women that I want to play with.
And like I'm the guy who I'll be at home and I will want to play
with somebody. And I have, like, I'm trying to
figure out who I want to play with.
And then I'll fall asleep on the sofa And like, my wife will
probably be like, OK, why don't you play with this person?
Because otherwise I'm like, like, I'm looking like like I'm
staring here and by the time I decide who I want to play with,
she's already walked away. So that's what overwhelms me is
just me trying to. Prioritize.
Yeah. Prioritize.
And make a decision. That is Mrs. Minx Angel last
night. She's like that's a new guy.
That's a new guy that's. I mean, she got just like this
checklist and I'm like. Gives a whole new meaning to the
word To Do List. But I'm like it's 10:00 and you
haven't touched. One thing on your to do.
List here, right? So and then all of a sudden that
was. All of A to do To Do List to get
in trouble for for not going through with the.
I tell her I didn't pay you. I didn't pay for this.
For you to come and talk. Oh yeah.
That's but that's that's one bit of advice I always tell anybody
that's coming, if you see somebody you better act because
you think about it they're gone and and at this event is not as
prominent as as like Fort Lauderdale where is if you see
somebody you may not see them again at all.
So if you see somebody you interested in it or whatever you
you need to act on it because you sitting there and and just
waiting for something to happen, somebody else is going to talk
to. Them.
So if you like her, twelve other guys like her, You.
Talk to them. Act on it.
Because if you don't, you may not have that.
Chance again. That's how this is the vanilla
life, too. If you see a girl, you want to
talk to her, You better do it now or she's going to be gone.
So that's how I bring that to the to the lifestyle, too.
When I see the women, I'm like, I got to say, hey, and then
they're going to introduce myself.
So, so we have, we have an audience.
Is there anybody who wants to? Oh hey, I didn't let.
Anybody. Tell us how how you're feeling
about your experience. Anyone feeling brave back there?
So we got a this is a new couple and they actually, they actually
came, they listened to a different podcast that I and
Mike were on and they listened to it and heard us talking about
Splash and everything and they were like, OK, so let's jump in
and try. This.
And so this is their first splash, mocha.
And it was. Actually a year ago we did the
podcast here so and then they jumped in so they've only been.
So your first splash? Okay, okay.
OK, 30 years of. So you've been talking about it
for 30 years. Wow.
And and was it the podcast that was the the final link in the in
the in the sequence that put the ignition together?
It was listening to those two on that podcast was like, oh,
they're actually normal guys. That.
Do this. Yeah, everybody hears no.
Great. It's a.
Great experience. This is just way to correct.
Like, I don't think, Craig, you are correct.
You are correct. Superman.
So we were we were talking. So then, when she met me, Well,
apparently she. Did some research and was like
oh. God, he scares me.
So then she met me a lie. And I'm telling I'm yelling at
Goliath. Come on, Goliath.
Come on, come on, let's sit him down.
A lie. And she's like, no, you scare me
from this nice relatable guide. To this, this, David, that she's
afraid. So, so first, first, I think I
checked. Didn't I give you guys your bags
when you came in? Do you have a skirt on when we
came? In today, yes, yes.
Yeah, OK. I remember that.
That was ours. It was good.
It was a good skirt. It was a good skirt.
But but yeah, so your first time, and as far as the energy,
how do you feel about the energy, I think?
It's great. I think it's the women.
The way they treat each other is like, yes, yeah, and just
everybody is kind. Yeah, and.
And the one thing that you're going to find about Splash Mocha
is then everyone is genuinely happy to see you, yeah?
Absolutely. And it's it's more like a
family. If you'll notice, everybody
knows everybody and I'm going to apologize to you now because
this will not be your last one. Yeah.
Yeah, this is this is the Minxes, the Angels and Eyes 9th
in 2 1/2 years. Our first one was Atlanta in
2022 and she wasn't through the first night of it and she looked
at me and she goes I want to go to the next one and said yes,
the next one's sold out, we'll go next year she goes no no I
want to go to the next one. And we did day passes and drove
to Florida and stayed 15 miles away and came with our bags
every day so that she could attend the second one.
Now it is like homecoming week. Every time we show up one of the
parties, you just come in and open arms.
New friends, old friends, everybody.
Just like Hey, hi. Welcome back.
And everybody's engaging. If you'll notice when you walk
around the lobby, normally you go to a restaurant, what do you
see? You see people, husbands and
wives, sitting there at the table, looking at their phones
and not talking to each other. This restaurant, you walk around
there, what do you see? Husbands and wives sitting at
the table and their phones are not out.
They are engaged with each other and around with everybody
around. So we, I call it the splash
mocha bubble. So everybody comes in to splash
mocha. They get trapped in the splash
mocha bubble. So you walk through those doors.
I bet you you have thought very little about what happened
yesterday, what's going to happen tomorrow or what's
happening next week. You are living in the moment and
exactly not many of us in nowadays they our lives go at
100 miles an hour. Not many people live in the
moment. Even I, you know this is my job.
I get. I forget about outside of here
and what I'm going to do next week.
I'm solely focused on this event and the people that's in it.
So I mean, I get trapped in that splash milk, a bubble, and it
gives your brain a break. And.
So we've got another couple. Is this your first time?
I'm not trying to warm up these good people that.
Means he's about to warm up. You guys, we we've been married,
coming up on 39 years. Not even.
In the lifestyle, never been to anything, so this decided to
jump into the middle of it. That's going in like the 20 foot
deep end of the pool. No kidding, but it's like it's.
Like we we want him to be excited.
We don't have to do anything. We don't have to be anybody,
right? Be us.
And we want to see what the energy is.
We want. To feel the energy and very good
energy there was. Fucking eye opening.
Not the bad way, don't get me wrong.
It's just like I didn't know that somebody could do that.
How? How did you guys hear about
Splash Mocha? Podcast and everything else go,
yeah, I can see both faces and then Venus, the dot, chocolate,
all those different things. I mean, they just all kind of.
Roll into one. Was talking about the other and
you can't go this way, that way, this way, that way.
And she was scared to death. Not going to lie, I was
concerned. Listen, it's my job and I'm
scared to death before every single one of them, so it's OK.
But. It was just like.
You know this way outside of our box, right?
And relish a member of the podcast and hearing how everyone
had spoke about how safe it was. And Tina, you you talking about
a lot. You've been on a lot of
different ones and you come at it from a different angle.
Most of the same time you can give the same answers.
It was very helpful. Mr. and Miss Boca, they they
helped a lot too. Thank you.
So it's a pleasure meeting you
and thank you for being here and I would tell you guys.
Welcome to the family. Thanks for having us.
Yeah, I'm going to tell you guys something like you hear the this
is the thing that you're going to hear.
Like you hear the whole It's like family.
It's like family. There's a lot of bullshit places
that you go to. You hear that that thing, it's,
it's a thing that people use. But when I say it's like family,
I can. I can cite examples.
Yesterday, me and Mr. Minks had a conversation about my summer
plans with my daughter, who's coming in to coming in from
overseas, which is going to be him taking us us out.
We're. Going to put him on some fish.
His daughter loves to fish, and so we're now hatched a plan to
put her on some special big fish this summer.
Yeah, and and you know, they've all been to my home.
Everyone here has been to my home.
You know, these the people who are sitting here can literally
be at my home when I'm not there.
I met these people in the lifestyle.
These are people who I, I trust on a different level.
So you can go to work and go, oh, we're like family.
But now how many of your coworkers would you give the
alarm code to your home and say I'll be out of town?
Go ahead as that. That's not, that's not family,
you know. But here, the level of trust
that we have, because we're on a different level, literally, we
can talk about things that you can't talk to people you've
known for the last 40 years. Facts.
Facts about that. So, so now, and that's why even
in that seminar where I came into, the concept of trust is
huge. Trust is, is a major thing.
And so when we say it's family, we really, these are our
friends, like everybody that we're, we're really friends.
So that that's the thing that you're going to find.
So as you take your journey, if you go into it, the same
attitude, the same smile. Walk in there like you're the
fucking mayor. Say hi to people.
Smile at people. No one here is going to bite
you, especially if you got a partnership with one of your one
of you guys. Have an outgoing personality.
Walk up to people and talk to them, say hi.
One of the things that new people where they fail at is
they kind of going to the corner.
And just look around. And they look around and so if
if I, if I see you and your wife, OK, I'm not can I come say
hi to him. So the guys here want to be
respectful. So even if they want to come and
approach your wife, they're going to like, look at you and
if you're sitting here with the. The rigid look like All right,
let me go talk to somebody who. Looks like they're not about a
shit, a brick, you know? Because that guy is just.
As nervous as you are, you know so, So make sure just what.
Get to know it. Say hi to everybody.
Learn names and you're going to the the doors that are going to
open up for you. It's it's it's forever.
It's not you're going to you're going to you're going to make
meet friends. You're going to meet people
here. It's going to be main.
You're going to maintain those friendships outside of here.
Oh yeah. And you know it's it's, I don't
know, it's just a great, it's a great mix of people and with you
being with you guys, being new introduce when you introduce
yourselves, let them know this is your first Splash Mocha One,
our Splash Mocha veterans love meeting new people.
And two, it's a great conversation starter.
That's your segue into the outgoing one.
Well, you can tell people you're new and introduce you.
And now you've got your segue into a fantastic conversation of
meeting new people, conversations with a couple.
Of people with that. We bought the whole 7. 3rd.
Pole package for Tuesday to Tuesday, just so we can kind of
come in low and flow, get a grip grasp of the whole thing.
Give an idea of what the layouts going to be and.
So. Yeah, last night was I opening.
Tonight will be probably the same I opening, just on a
greater scale. You have a little more comfort.
Level and you're like, OK, let's.
Let's step it up. So let me let me let me just
kind of address as as the white husband on the panel here.
Right. And the the mocha guy that
comes. I I literally I've been trying
to convince my wife to come to one of these for a while and we
met on a swinger cruise a couple and said you are you guys are
mocha people you need to come to this party.
So we've been a lifestyle a long time, but my big joke was like,
yeah, we're going to do this party.
I'm going to be invisible. I I will be around as the
support husband, all that. But nobody's going to care about
me and I'm just going to be, you know?
That that back I can be invisible.
That was the that was the furthest thing from the truth
when we got here. What I found and you especially
brand new starting out and you just five months in what you
guys was, the husbands can get from this is that kinsmanship
and that opportunity to share and be with brothers, right.
Literally guys who think and and act and and and are turned on by
the same things that we all are, but we're further down that path
And so you're angst, right? Relish those feelings because
that dulls over time. You know?
And it's like, honey, I'm just going to go over here and get
something to eat. You go, you go play.
Let me know when you're done, right?
Wears off. Enjoy that feeling now, and when
you have concerns, talk to all of the husbands because that's
the best part about this. I feel the most normal in my
life when I am at events like this and when I'm hanging around
my other hot wife husbands, you know, or whatever, or stag
husbands or cuckold husbands, whatever the husbands of these
incredible women who have. And we've talked about this in
past podcasts, Transcended Societies, Rules of Females, and
said I want to be my sexual being and I want to experience
all that I can And I have a partner who is supportive,
lovely and trust enough to let that experience happen, right.
So here we can be nervous and quiet on that but you are
amongst friends and you are amongst trusted people who will.
I will talk to you to your blue in the I'm blue in the face and
your ears are melting off your head about the journey, right
and the experiences and how we do.
We've done podcasts about the male emotion and how that is not
really accepted or talked about in general.
We're trying to pull all that back and and acknowledge that
the guy's role in this is critical in that partnership.
So yeah, that's the benefit of you being here too, as they're
being all hot and sexy and all that kind of stuff.
When you have those feelings, don't hold them in.
Talk to somebody about them, because we've all been there
that. Was that was his.
Biggest thing is I don't know what I'm I don't.
Know what? I'm supposed.
To do Yeah. What's?
My role What's my? Role.
But listen, no one here will be freaked out because anything
that you think or wonder, like it's so open here, like for us
now. Like we'll talk to people and
the guy's like, hey, you know, they'll, I want to ask this
question, but I don't want to be weird.
And they'll ask you a question and we'll like look at each
other like that was it. That was nothing.
Like, bro, I'm, I'm cracking jokes earlier because my wife
takes a guy to the room and gets fucked and she's we're going
through this whole thing and she's like, yeah, and I gave him
some of your good bourbon. I'm like you gave him the good
one. With the Dick.