1 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,160 Welcome everybody back to another episode of the oh Face 2 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:12,320 Podcast. I'm Chris Minks, your Co host 3 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,200 here today with Mr. Mocha as usual. 4 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:19,440 Hello, We have some guests in the studio with us today. 5 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,360 First off, we'll start with the ladies. 6 00:00:21,360 --> 00:00:26,920 We have the ever present and beautiful Mrs. Splash Mocha, AKA 7 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,920 Tina Lady, who is in charge of it. 8 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,600 All. Followed up by Mr. Craig 9 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,760 McKinney, one of our regular guests is rejoining us today for 10 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:40,680 another episode. And then very, very special 11 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:45,040 guest Mr. J Perez, very popular on Instagram and other social 12 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:48,360 media outlets. He's joining us today live from 13 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:50,640 the Mocha studio as well. Welcome Mr. Perez. 14 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,040 You want to introduce yourself, please? 15 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,120 I'm say president. Say I'm from Atlanta. 16 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,960 It's my very first splash, Mocha. 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,760 All right, So what what do you you you got all kind of stuff. 18 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,240 Tell the people what you do prez and tell them what made you 19 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:07,000 decide to try splash mocha. I do a lot of things. 20 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:14,840 I'm into most of media, so music production, artist management, 21 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,920 just a little bit everything, but my main one is management. 22 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:22,040 Inspirational speaker and motivational speaker. 23 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,280 I think it's another one that needs to be added to this title 24 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:27,760 because if you follow his social media you will find all kinds of 25 00:01:27,960 --> 00:01:30,920 uplifting messages, images and photos. 26 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,240 He's regular about uplifting his community and his people. 27 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,400 So it's it's a he's a really fun one to follow. 28 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:43,080 You know, sometimes I have to put stuff out so I can put some 29 00:01:43,080 --> 00:01:45,480 good energy out, some good energy to come here that same 30 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,680 time. Everybody don't going to have 31 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:51,960 inspiration or you go when they pay. 32 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:57,400 There's nothing but some bulls. So let me know what I'm saying. 33 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:01,680 I might go to my page just to inspire me to do it, you know 34 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,240 what I'm saying? So that's how I am. 35 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,640 You're going to have to go to my page and just see dogs. 36 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,640 That's. Good. 37 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,440 That makes you happy. It might inspire me to buy the 38 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,360 birds, not the birds. Yeah, you'll see dogs and birds, 39 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,240 animals. I'm probably going to die one 40 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:17,840 day by petting something I shouldn't. 41 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,680 Alligator. If it wouldn't bite. 42 00:02:21,920 --> 00:02:23,360 Me better, right? You better believe. 43 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:24,640 It I'd be petting that alligator. 44 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,200 And let me say for the viewers. I know they. 45 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,200 Can't even Not for the viewers because they can't see, but for 46 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,440 for everybody listening. My man press. 47 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:36,160 Got on a pair of fly ass gazelles taking it back. 48 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,480 Old school. Loving it. 49 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:41,600 And when you when you pose with a picture with him, the lens 50 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,440 covers that he has the coatings on that flashes up like these 51 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:48,360 googly cartoon eyes. The Minx and I had a picture, a 52 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,000 picture with him in the photo booth last night and he looks 53 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,160 like these crazy comic guys on his lens. 54 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:54,600 I'm like, how did you do that? He goes. 55 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:59,160 It's the codings man. He got fly with It's the codecs, 56 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,400 man. Very nice, very nice. 57 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,960 So you know how was, how's everybody's flash going? 58 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:06,480 You know, I better start with myself. 59 00:03:06,640 --> 00:03:09,160 Mine hasn't been particularly exciting yet. 60 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:11,200 I've had fun, but it's not been exciting. 61 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:18,000 So I love, I love Splash. I like, I I enjoy the setup, 62 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:20,080 believe it or not. Like I have fun with the setup 63 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,200 process because with the setup, you know, we just kind of get, 64 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:26,880 we we, we come in, you get to work and I'm a sense of 65 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:30,480 accomplishment kind of person. I like, I like, we come in, you 66 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:35,400 know, Tuesday, Wednesday we set up and Thursday we finish 67 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,440 everything up for the most part Thursday morning. 68 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,600 Like I like to be able to sit back and go ah, man, we did all 69 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:44,280 of that, you know. And then you know we're up there 70 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:46,200 and I'm. I'm there. 71 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,240 And you know I usually eat multiple times a day. 72 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:53,520 You know, I, I eat all day long. So usually what we'll do is we 73 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:58,040 will missus, missus, Mocha will go, and you know she'll bring 74 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,040 oatmeal she'll bring. Protein bars. 75 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:05,160 Protein bars, sandwiches, lunch, meat. 76 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:09,160 Because even though we will eat out, I always have like three 77 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:12,120 other meals in between. I forgot to do that. 78 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,960 So yesterday I'm up at the the desk checking people in and I 79 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,959 shook somebody's hand and like, my hand was shaking and I'm 80 00:04:18,959 --> 00:04:23,800 like, oh, that's odd. And then I'm standing there and 81 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,920 I just kind of started trilling. I was like, man, I feel like I 82 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:29,480 felt the way I feel when I go to the gym and work all real hard 83 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:30,600 without eating. I'm like, damn. 84 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,680 I haven't eaten. So I run upstairs and I grab a 85 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,880 protein bar and some little carb bar that misses. 86 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,800 Mocha has, and I'm running down, running back downstairs to the 87 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:44,480 desk, like eating both of them one time and like, it still took 88 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:47,480 me a minute to balance out. So while everybody's downstairs 89 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,560 fucking and partying, I went upstairs and took a nap. 90 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:52,160 That's that's what I did. He was out. 91 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:54,120 Yeah, I was out. I was all the way out. 92 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,280 Nap is 30 minutes. Going out for three hours? 93 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,480 No. No, no, I was. 94 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:01,960 I was only out for about an hour. 95 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,920 I went to sleep for about an hour, but then I got up and I 96 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,920 showered, you know, like you get in the hot shower to kind of 97 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,880 wake yourself. So I was like out of the game 98 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:12,560 for like 2 hours. So I come back downstairs and 99 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,240 it's like everybody's like, looks like everybody's done. 100 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,400 So I walked around for a little bit and then I was like, all 101 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:19,680 right, OK, I'm going back to bed. 102 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,320 He rolls in like 11:00 into the play area. 103 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:27,160 Yeah, like they're like, man, they've been done 1/2, three 104 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:30,560 times. Exactly this three. 105 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:32,280 This is this Three nuts already gone. 106 00:05:32,280 --> 00:05:33,760 And you showing up, You know what I mean? 107 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:37,400 So that was my night. So tonight I put the day I plan 108 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,920 on rectifying that. How about you, gentlemen? 109 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:44,320 How are your nights? I saw Mr. McKinney working his. 110 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:48,800 His. With style last night in the in 111 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:53,040 the BDSM room, I mean he was he had some some willing 112 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,360 participants and he was in the zone. 113 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,160 I've been told the mix I go, go over and say hi. 114 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,840 She goes, Oh no, no, he said. Don't mess with him when he's in 115 00:06:00,840 --> 00:06:02,680 the zone. I didn't know that about you 116 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:03,400 ever. That's. 117 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,360 Good. Well, that's not a, that's just 118 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:07,320 a. That's the etiquette thing for 119 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,120 for BDSM type of stuff. You know when you're flogging 120 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,640 someone, you don't want to interrupt the scene and and and 121 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:17,120 have them because because your focus is on what you're doing. 122 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:22,240 You know you don't want to break that focus and and then who 123 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,680 knows what could happen what? If you're creating an energy and 124 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:25,880 you don't. Want that energy? 125 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:27,360 You don't want that. Energy to be broken. 126 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:29,680 There's times where someone will come over and they've done 127 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:32,040 something and I kind of get angry because I'm like, yo, 128 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,520 don't, don't do that, you know? Don't. 129 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:38,000 Disturb that, yeah. You in your zone and then that 130 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:38,720 person. Focus. 131 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,560 You kind of focus because I've I've told plenty people, you 132 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,720 know when you flogging somebody, you doing certain things, 133 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,400 certain tools that you have, it can cause a lot of damage. 134 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,760 You hit them in the wrong place. You can scar somebody 135 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,200 emotionally and physically with that, so you know you, you want 136 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,320 to, you want to always keep your focus on that so you don't 137 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,720 disturb seeing when you when you have somebody singing, you know. 138 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,720 I think that's a key, important point that we're going to bring 139 00:07:01,720 --> 00:07:03,840 up in this because I wasn't necessarily aware of that. 140 00:07:03,840 --> 00:07:06,200 That's not my scene and I'm not paid a lot of attention to it. 141 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:09,280 The minx has talked with you and watched that kind of stuff go 142 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:10,960 on. But again, you get the amateur 143 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,320 people like, oh man, I'm going to go beat this girl, right? 144 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,640 And that's bad situations, right? 145 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:18,520 So there's people need to understand if you want to 146 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,320 explore this, make sure you explore with somebody who is 147 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:25,360 trained or has experience and does it the right way so that 148 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,080 you don't create this long term potential scarring damage. 149 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:28,720 That's. Yeah, learn. 150 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:31,400 You gotta learn first word not to hit like you don't want to be 151 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,480 whacking somebody in the fucking kidneys, you know? 152 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:35,800 Like. They're right there and you 153 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,600 know, with somebody hard on the spine and you know it caused 154 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,200 some damage in this. You know, and then, like, even 155 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,000 with the, I think that, you know, a lot of people don't 156 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:46,760 understand, Like, you'll see the people who and they're just, you 157 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:50,200 know, whacking away, OK, Like the people were like, oh, you 158 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,280 know, let me try this. And they're in it. 159 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,520 Like, no, that's not, that's not how this works. 160 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,720 That's not. And you want a crescendo. 161 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,880 You bring it up, you work them up, you know? 162 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:05,560 And like you said, Chris, man, I've, I've talked to people 163 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:07,960 where they've had a bad experience, where someone has 164 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:11,840 walked up to them and hit them or they, you know, without 165 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,880 permission they hit them or they're they're they're there 166 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,600 and there's no warm up or they'll do something. 167 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,080 And they're like, no, they're physically scarred. 168 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,960 Not not physically, but they're emotionally scarred because of, 169 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,440 you know, something that somebody else has done to them. 170 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,960 You know, you already have the perception that being flogged. 171 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,679 A lot of people think that that's all about pain and and 172 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,760 and it's not. I I can do very, very sensual 173 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:39,200 flogging with people. And then I talk to somebody and 174 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:40,640 I'm like, hey, can I flog you later? 175 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,039 They're like, Nah, because it hurts. 176 00:08:42,039 --> 00:08:43,520 And I'm like, no, it doesn't hurt. 177 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:47,040 Well, this person did this to me and I'm like, so now I got to 178 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:50,120 talk them down from that and get them comfortable with 179 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:51,600 everything. And then they try and they're 180 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,400 like, wow, you know, I that's great. 181 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:56,480 I I enjoy that. Yeah, it only takes one bad 182 00:08:56,480 --> 00:09:00,480 experience to be like, no, I'm good, I'm good, I'm flogging. 183 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:05,000 So how long you been doing it? I picked up. 184 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,720 Somebody just asked me this the other day, just earlier today 185 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,480 actually. The the first flogger I picked 186 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,960 up was, it's between 10 and 15 years ago. 187 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:19,920 It was, it was, it was, it was a very interesting it was what it 188 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,800 was, was it was a flogger that had brass knuckles on the end. 189 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,120 It didn't have a handle. It had brass knuckles. 190 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:30,240 And seeing the girl who did it, seeing the attention that she 191 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:35,160 got from it, and seeing how people reacted to it, I picked 192 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:39,320 that up and I started, you know, and it just kind of. 193 00:09:39,320 --> 00:09:41,760 Grew and grew and grew and. Thankfully I tell people, 194 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,320 thankfully I'm kind. I kind of got, I was kind of a 195 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,360 natural at it, the movements and everything. 196 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,160 Like I watched certain people in this a struggle for them to get 197 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:54,400 the falls to go and everything is not rhythmic and you know, so 198 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:59,400 thankfully it came easily to me. But it's been 10 to 15 years 199 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,160 I've been. It's when I first picked up my 200 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,640 flogger. So it's like King Arthur and 201 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:08,400 Excalibur. I have the. 202 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:19,840 Flogger. I got before, you know, Mrs. 203 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,200 Moke. And I like, I still, I mean I 204 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:25,920 still have my tools. But you know we had a a big 205 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:28,480 period of time where once the kids got to a certain age, 206 00:10:29,680 --> 00:10:32,800 there's certain things we had to kind of, you know, certain shit, 207 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,800 we just had to stop doing it. The house, you know, like 208 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:41,120 especially when you hear like, like you know, you hear certain 209 00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:44,920 stuff. So but like, I think like when I 210 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:50,760 first got into like floggers, crops, canes, for me it was a 211 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:54,880 natural progression of the way I would do things, you know, 212 00:10:57,000 --> 00:11:00,480 essentially like during sex. You know, I I was a massage 213 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,520 therapist. So to me touch was a big thing. 214 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:06,080 So you know I would always people would always laugh at my 215 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:10,560 nails being long but my nails were it was it was a tool you 216 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:14,760 know running down my you know your back you know squeezing 217 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:17,120 whether I'm putting my nails into her breast. 218 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,800 Put my nails in her ass cheeks put my nails in her thighs. 219 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,920 Not to interrupt but I bet it was the women that were jealous 220 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,320 of your long nails because because they have to go get 221 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,400 theirs done and yours just grows naturally. 222 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:33,240 You know I do you know I do have the the long nail beds and you 223 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:37,680 know the the girls at the the salon are always whenever I when 224 00:11:37,680 --> 00:11:39,760 I would come in and I would go get my nails done. 225 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:43,000 When I would take my, my, my daughters in and you know, the 226 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:45,040 ladies would always use speaking in a different language, talking 227 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:47,600 about my nail beds. So all all of the ladies would 228 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,160 come down and look at my nail beds talking a different 229 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,560 language, you know, doing like this, and then they leave the 230 00:11:52,560 --> 00:11:53,880 one. The one who's showing up, you 231 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,520 got to come see it. This is the kind of one you've 232 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,080 never seen. It I was. 233 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,360 So here's here's a fun fact about Mr. Mocha. 234 00:12:02,760 --> 00:12:07,680 Growing up, I was super self-conscious about my nails 235 00:12:09,040 --> 00:12:13,880 and my nails, my eyebrows, because I got sisters. 236 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:16,480 So they would always fuck with me and say, oh, you got girl 237 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:21,400 nails or you got girl eyebrows. So like, no shit until Missus 238 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:26,160 mocha, I shit you not. I would fuck up my eyebrows like 239 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,440 I would always like, ruffle my eyebrows and then they look. 240 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:30,960 Fucked up because I. Wanted them to look manly, you 241 00:12:30,960 --> 00:12:33,640 know, because my sisters would always fuck with me about my 242 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:38,400 eyebrows and my fingernails like I was always just just because 243 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,720 the girls like, oh, your nail beds are so pretty. 244 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:44,040 And I'm I'm like that's not the goal it's not what I'm doing 245 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:47,040 like I don't want. So you know that was fun fact 246 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:51,120 about you know my personal self consciousness but as the reason 247 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:54,360 I got into like using floggers and crops and things like that 248 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:57,680 because it was kind of natural for me. 249 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:03,000 As you're you're learning sexual pleasure when you're playing 250 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:07,040 with a woman to see that there is that those different 251 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:11,280 thresholds when do you introduce pain and when when do you 252 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,480 introduce pleasure. And especially, like when you're 253 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,720 watching somebody the first time you know you accidentally stick 254 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:22,000 your nails in them, they go OK. That's the thing, I don't do 255 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:26,960 that more so that's. Really, how I got into the The 256 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:32,400 next Level, My first My first tool for spanking. 257 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:37,800 It was a wooden spoon. Remember the first thing? 258 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:41,120 Parking back to your channel. Well, no, not, not the first 259 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:44,280 thing I got. No, no, no two. 260 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:45,440 When I was 10. I. 261 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:49,160 Mean when she was in the. Kitchen and I had it in my 262 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:55,440 pleasure and and I kept that. I I used that wooden spoon for 263 00:13:55,560 --> 00:14:00,080 for a while, like I that was like one of my, in fact, at home 264 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:04,840 in my tool kit where I have the flogger and the crop, I have 265 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:10,880 fucking laundry pins. Yeah, those are those are 266 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,640 lethal, man. Those of those, but see if you 267 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,400 if you use them right you use well, I mean, you know, I got 268 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:20,280 laundry pins. I got a wooden spoon I got. 269 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:25,000 I would use a fork. I would like because. 270 00:14:25,080 --> 00:14:27,960 All of these different things create weird ass sensation like 271 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:34,280 a brush fucking feathers. Mr. Mocha's Kitchen Experience. 272 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:38,120 Oh yeah, Dungeon. It's the kitchen in the house. 273 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,400 You're making a scrambled eggs or something? 274 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,280 I'll make it something, Dad, but you're. 275 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:46,960 Right though man. I know the girl who had the the 276 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:50,680 the the flogger that I spoke of is she had that same type of 277 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,440 thing. She had all sorts of stuff from 278 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,600 the kitchen up in there because I she, you know what she used. 279 00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,800 One time I seen her use, she had in her thing a meat tenderizer. 280 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:03,760 Because, I mean, she would, you know, you get those girls that 281 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:06,640 like pain and everything, but she had a fucking meat 282 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,280 tenderizer that she hit and she hit people with it. 283 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,480 Hey, listen, don't yuck somebody else's yuck. 284 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:22,120 There's. People that sat there and took 285 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:24,240 it, man. And you know, one of my most 286 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,840 popular tools that I have are my gloves. 287 00:15:29,280 --> 00:15:31,600 People, I can't tell you how many times. 288 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:36,080 People ask me, they say I have to get a pair of those because 289 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:39,720 after I have AI don't evaporate. On these gloves, I've not seen 290 00:15:40,120 --> 00:15:41,440 them. All right, so I have a pair of 291 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:44,240 gloves. They're made, they're made out 292 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,520 of rabbit fur. It's real rabbit fur, but in the 293 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,160 end of each one there's a little steel claw. 294 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:55,360 So after, so after I flog somebody, I get them all warmed 295 00:15:55,360 --> 00:15:58,280 up and get them good and we have a really good session. 296 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:02,160 I use these for cooldown and I rub them with the with the 297 00:16:02,160 --> 00:16:05,080 rabbit fur get them all warmed up and you know rub them down a 298 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:07,560 little bit. And then I take that claw down 299 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:11,240 the back and put the claw in there and you can see women just 300 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,080 and and I'm telling you, I've had, I can't tell you how many 301 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,800 people have asked me be like, hey, I need the website for this 302 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,160 because those are absolutely incredible. 303 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:24,200 But it goes back to like you saying you know the nails I 304 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:26,600 don't have, but even when flogging I don't have. 305 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:29,200 I have very very very very brittle nails. 306 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,160 My nails can't grow. So. 307 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:33,240 But. But mine won't fucking break. 308 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,400 But I flog people and I'll have my flogger in my one hand and 309 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:41,960 I'll crab, you know, slightly dig my nails, what are left of 310 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:45,440 them into their back and you can see them just kind of tense up 311 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,360 and. But you know, it's all about 312 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:51,080 that sensation, man. And when you said that about the 313 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,120 nails, I wish I had longer nails that could dig a little bit 314 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,080 harder into them, but that's why I got them blood. 315 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,640 Craig, have you. Done this to the minks. 316 00:16:58,720 --> 00:16:59,880 I have not. She's. 317 00:16:59,960 --> 00:17:01,640 I don't think I've ever even flogged her. 318 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:02,560 I. Don't think you've flogged her 319 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:04,839 either, but I have. I didn't know what they were. 320 00:17:04,839 --> 00:17:07,560 They're sitting on the night stand in our bedroom. 321 00:17:07,920 --> 00:17:09,680 I'm like where this It looks like somebody killed a rabbit. 322 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:11,880 Somebody killed a. Rabbit. 323 00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:14,160 And they have a short they have those claws on, like, what are 324 00:17:14,160 --> 00:17:14,560 these? She goes. 325 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:15,599 I don't know where those came from. 326 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:19,319 What Now I know what those are. They are, they are. 327 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:24,359 They are the the the one, I mean out people ask me to hear. 328 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:25,760 They're like, I need you to flog me. 329 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:29,160 Did you bring the gloves? Yeah, I got the gloves. 330 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:31,800 It happens. I can't flog anybody and not use 331 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,000 the gloves afterwards now. You know, my problem is, is 332 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:41,520 whenever I do things like that, the amount of mental energy that 333 00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:45,800 I put into it. It's your pain. 334 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,680 So close attention to the person you're touching. 335 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:53,520 Like the at least me like the level because I'm looking for 336 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:56,200 every sound, every move, because you're learning, especially 337 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,320 someone who's new and you're trying to figure out where your 338 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,400 thresholds are. You know, you have those people. 339 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,120 And I'm always opposite. Like I've I've played with women 340 00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:09,760 who were really into pain and so then I deny them. 341 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,800 I tell you, you can't have it. If like you're really into pain, 342 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:18,080 I'll reward you with it. But I like to like to me it's 343 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,760 exciting to to change their their thresholds. 344 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:25,200 Like the people who are used to the pain make them crave 345 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,040 something different, but the amount of attention you have to 346 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,000 put in there, So what tool am I going to use? 347 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,440 And then like when you start playing with the different 348 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:37,960 sensory things, like I like to put like you start with like 349 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:39,840 headphones on. Like I used to make a playlist 350 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:44,000 of music and I would put that in their ear and it's loud enough 351 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,800 to where you can't hear anything but that. 352 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:52,440 So every time you hear those songs, I want you to think of me 353 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:55,760 like I like I would get the text message, like, Oh my God, I was 354 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:58,440 at work and I heard the song and I got wet. 355 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:03,480 And I'm like, ah, got her right. Yeah, but I'm a perfect, so 356 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:05,240 yeah. What's one of the songs that 357 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:11,320 you? Did one of them was the hold on 358 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:14,120 do I have it on here Wait I'll I'll play it for you because it 359 00:19:14,120 --> 00:19:21,480 was the the original intro for oh face oh Faces as the original 360 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:26,320 intro and that song. I remember that song. 361 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:27,680 I can't think of what the name of it is. 362 00:19:32,900 --> 00:19:34,020 Can you hear playing you? Don't hear. 363 00:19:34,060 --> 00:19:35,500 Him playing now? Yeah. 364 00:19:35,500 --> 00:19:37,360 I don't hear him. Yeah. 365 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:38,960 OK, OK. Moments of. 366 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:39,760 Love. Moments of love. 367 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:43,240 Yeah, yeah, my. God, who's, who's and like that 368 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:47,000 whole CD with weird as shit all these different sounds art of. 369 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,000 Noise. Art of noise Art of noise. 370 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:57,960 That one there's a song from What's This? 371 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,800 Wait a minute. Now I can no, what's the 372 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:02,760 fucking? It's it's like one of those 373 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,760 because I was a massage therapist, so they were 374 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:08,160 different massage songs. Is it Enya? 375 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,880 Yeah, they had a song. I can't think of what it was, 376 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,280 but yes, they did have a very so so. 377 00:20:15,280 --> 00:20:17,040 I'll have to like, I know the songs. 378 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:18,640 I'll have to put the playlist together. 379 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:26,840 But and then another one was Usher Let it burn. 380 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:29,480 Like that was one of my favorite ones. 381 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:32,560 Like I had just random songs that it would depend and then 382 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,480 the female it would also depend on the playlist. 383 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:38,520 That's why I would have to put so much mental energy into it. 384 00:20:39,120 --> 00:20:42,320 And then I like to do restraints with I would like to do 385 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,920 restraints with no restraints, where it's like, OK, I make her 386 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:51,200 put her hands in the position and I pleasure her until she 387 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:52,760 moved her. If you move, if you move your 388 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:56,040 hands, not a pleasure stops, all right. 389 00:20:56,680 --> 00:21:01,280 And with Missus Mocha, like I I tortured my wife. 390 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,560 I just feel like I. Tortured Miss Ismoka like I 391 00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:07,720 would make her like stand in like a certain position until, 392 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,600 like she shook. And then, as soon as her muscles 393 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,280 are ready to give out, then I'd hit her with the fucking wand. 394 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,760 Like. She likes me shaking, you know. 395 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,320 I've got pictures of her, like in the basement, which would 396 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,760 always be good because I'll wait till the kids would go to bed 397 00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:26,960 and I'll make sure, like, you can't make noise because the 398 00:21:26,960 --> 00:21:28,400 kids are. You can't make noise because the 399 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,640 kids are upstairs and so like the level of torture that she 400 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,400 because she would she you fuck my wife. 401 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:40,320 She's noisy. When my wife is in her zone, she 402 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:43,760 can't help herself and there would be times where she would 403 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:48,800 be like in tears because the she would hit that place where she 404 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,440 wants to make noise. But she's a good mom, so she 405 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:53,720 don't want her to the kids. The kids know that she's in the 406 00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:57,200 basement being a slut. I don't want the kids to know 407 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:01,080 more. And me being a terrible parent, 408 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:02,520 I'm like. I want to do it. 409 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:08,640 Harder now. So yeah, so I misses Mocha. 410 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:13,520 Like, she's definitely had every aspect of my ridiculousness. 411 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,040 So, like, there's things that I can still do to her. 412 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,560 Like if I pull the flogger out, I can just walk out with the 413 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:22,000 flogger and she'll get this look in her eyes. 414 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,840 Like, is it time? I was just going to put it back. 415 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:30,120 So yeah, that's just mean. I know, I know. 416 00:22:30,120 --> 00:22:31,680 I. Know so, so we were going 417 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,160 around, we started the show talking about how everybody's 418 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:36,520 night was first night, right. And we kind of got hooked up 419 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,440 with Craig and we took it out the BDS. 420 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,960 There's a lot more that goes on at Moco events other than just 421 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,440 the BDS Dunger Room and Mr. Craig with his Blogger. 422 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,760 Well, so. So let me expound on what 423 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:50,440 happened to me last night, Tina. You don't say nothing, Tina. 424 00:22:51,360 --> 00:22:55,560 Earmuffs. So last night I was standing 425 00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:59,280 outside of outside of the ballroom, finished dancing and 426 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,200 everything like that. And my man Marty was standing 427 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:06,240 there and some girl, not going to say, but she walked up. 428 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,200 She knew him. She walked up, just started 429 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,120 giving him a blowjob right there in the hallway. 430 00:23:10,120 --> 00:23:16,240 And every day and I was standing next to her and somebody started 431 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,000 giving me a blowjob. And then another girl came over 432 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,200 and was giving me a blowjob. So the two of them were staying. 433 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:23,320 I've been. Standing in the wrong spot? 434 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:24,040 Yes. You is. 435 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:26,400 So wait, what? About you, was that I didn't? 436 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,560 Hold on, Mr. Walker. So while the two of them was 437 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,840 giving me a blowjob, this third girl walked up and said you're 438 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,880 not doing it right. Let me show you you're. 439 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:36,720 Supposed to do this? You just got to do this. 440 00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:38,480 And they were like, well, why don't you show us? 441 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:42,480 So I had three girls in the hallway giving me a blowjob. 442 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,840 And you could be in the demo. Yes, with the demo. 443 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:49,840 Dummy, it would be more like a blow up doll, yeah. 444 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:52,840 It was shit. So I I'm about to. 445 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:56,120 Start dressing like Craig in. My head. 446 00:23:57,120 --> 00:23:58,440 You just got to wake up a little earlier. 447 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:02,800 OK. OK. 448 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:06,440 So Splash was was a good kickoff last last night for me? 449 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:14,160 Mr. Perez. I'm going to say my first day 450 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,240 was was, was good. It was slow. 451 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,160 It's a slow start, but it was good. 452 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,400 I'm waiting until today. This day too. 453 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,080 I'm will. I'm will be outside. 454 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,440 As a first timer, did you find the first day to be 455 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,080 overwhelming? Did you control your pace at a 456 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,480 good pace? You can see where you can just 457 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,120 run right into this thing and be like. 458 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,400 Deep into the pool. It's a Sprint. 459 00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:36,600 I don't know what they tell my what they my first. 460 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:40,520 Like I said, it's my first time. I don't know about no no Sprint, 461 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,440 but it's. Training for a marathon. 462 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,880 You training because it's really overwhelming. 463 00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:50,960 You turn around, you see this, you see, you see 333 women. 464 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,560 You want to do the blowjob. Be like, oh shit, wait a minute. 465 00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:59,160 Yeah. So let. 466 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,680 Me ask you something as a first timer because maybe this could 467 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,160 help us. For people who our first timers, 468 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,320 you know, we talked about this previously before we came last 469 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:18,160 week, talking about people who were new and how do we get 470 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,680 couples to feel more comfortable? 471 00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:23,560 What was it about coming to splash your first time that made 472 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,680 it overwhelming? Because if you can give us some 473 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:30,040 insight as to what you thought was overwhelming, we could take 474 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,480 that and maybe put it out to the next. 475 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,240 Because I meet a lot of couples and a lot of people that are 476 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,400 interested in coming, and I'm just like, listen, the only 477 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,000 thing I can say is, listen, once you come, I'm telling you, you 478 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,280 won't feel overwhelmed. You won't feel out of place. 479 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,840 So is there something that you can say that that actually made 480 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,040 you feel overwhelmed? Well, I would. 481 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,640 I would never feel out of place. Everywhere I go I feel 482 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:55,560 comfortable, but it just a whole lot, a whole lot going on. 483 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,720 Like a lot of visuals. Yeah, a lot of. 484 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,520 Visuals going on, but yeah, the costumes. 485 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,600 The the women, the different outfits, just the whole dynamic. 486 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,880 Of everything. Just the the women in general, 487 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:14,680 like, OK, the different type, the different, the how to say 488 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:17,520 the different types of women I'm not good at. 489 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,560 I think. I think I get it because I get. 490 00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,560 I get overwhelmed still, but I'm comfortable. 491 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,760 I'm not splash. Mocha is the most comfortable 492 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:29,600 lifestyle that I've ever been to. 493 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:34,680 But I get overwhelmed personally because I I will walk in and I 494 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:39,000 know there are I'm. I'm standing in one spot and I'm 495 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,960 looking at seven women that I want to play with. 496 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:48,600 And like I'm the guy who I'll be at home and I will want to play 497 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:52,440 with somebody. And I have, like, I'm trying to 498 00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:53,360 figure out who I want to play with. 499 00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:58,960 And then I'll fall asleep on the sofa And like, my wife will 500 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:03,920 probably be like, OK, why don't you play with this person? 501 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:09,200 Because otherwise I'm like, like, I'm looking like like I'm 502 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,080 staring here and by the time I decide who I want to play with, 503 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:16,000 she's already walked away. So that's what overwhelms me is 504 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,240 just me trying to. Prioritize. 505 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:20,480 Yeah. Prioritize. 506 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:25,360 And make a decision. That is Mrs. Minx Angel last 507 00:27:25,360 --> 00:27:26,840 night. She's like that's a new guy. 508 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,760 That's a new guy that's. I mean, she got just like this 509 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,160 checklist and I'm like. Gives a whole new meaning to the 510 00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:36,160 word To Do List. But I'm like it's 10:00 and you 511 00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:37,920 haven't touched. One thing on your to do. 512 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,560 List here, right? So and then all of a sudden that 513 00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,640 was. All of A to do To Do List to get 514 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:45,840 in trouble for for not going through with the. 515 00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:48,760 I tell her I didn't pay you. I didn't pay for this. 516 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,160 For you to come and talk. Oh yeah. 517 00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:54,880 That's but that's that's one bit of advice I always tell anybody 518 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,960 that's coming, if you see somebody you better act because 519 00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:03,720 you think about it they're gone and and at this event is not as 520 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,320 prominent as as like Fort Lauderdale where is if you see 521 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,040 somebody you may not see them again at all. 522 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,720 So if you see somebody you interested in it or whatever you 523 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:18,560 you need to act on it because you sitting there and and just 524 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,280 waiting for something to happen, somebody else is going to talk 525 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,000 to. Them. 526 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,760 So if you like her, twelve other guys like her, You. 527 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:27,000 Talk to them. Act on it. 528 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,440 Because if you don't, you may not have that. 529 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,560 Chance again. That's how this is the vanilla 530 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,480 life, too. If you see a girl, you want to 531 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:37,520 talk to her, You better do it now or she's going to be gone. 532 00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:41,280 So that's how I bring that to the to the lifestyle, too. 533 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:44,040 When I see the women, I'm like, I got to say, hey, and then 534 00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:46,160 they're going to introduce myself. 535 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,240 So, so we have, we have an audience. 536 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,120 Is there anybody who wants to? Oh hey, I didn't let. 537 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,360 Anybody. Tell us how how you're feeling 538 00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,640 about your experience. Anyone feeling brave back there? 539 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:08,240 So we got a this is a new couple and they actually, they actually 540 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:14,840 came, they listened to a different podcast that I and 541 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:18,960 Mike were on and they listened to it and heard us talking about 542 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,880 Splash and everything and they were like, OK, so let's jump in 543 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,280 and try. This. 544 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,480 And so this is their first splash, mocha. 545 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,080 And it was. Actually a year ago we did the 546 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:32,880 podcast here so and then they jumped in so they've only been. 547 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,440 So your first splash? Okay, okay. 548 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:48,920 OK, 30 years of. So you've been talking about it 549 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:52,840 for 30 years. Wow. 550 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:57,200 And and was it the podcast that was the the final link in the in 551 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,680 the in the sequence that put the ignition together? 552 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:02,840 It was listening to those two on that podcast was like, oh, 553 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,280 they're actually normal guys. That. 554 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,480 Do this. Yeah, everybody hears no. 555 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:09,320 Great. It's a. 556 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,640 Great experience. This is just way to correct. 557 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,800 Like, I don't think, Craig, you are correct. 558 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,280 You are correct. Superman. 559 00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:25,640 So we were we were talking. So then, when she met me, Well, 560 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,080 apparently she. Did some research and was like 561 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,960 oh. God, he scares me. 562 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,920 So then she met me a lie. And I'm telling I'm yelling at 563 00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:33,960 Goliath. Come on, Goliath. 564 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:35,400 Come on, come on, let's sit him down. 565 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,800 A lie. And she's like, no, you scare me 566 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,920 from this nice relatable guide. To this, this, David, that she's 567 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,000 afraid. So, so first, first, I think I 568 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:49,920 checked. Didn't I give you guys your bags 569 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,800 when you came in? Do you have a skirt on when we 570 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,200 came? In today, yes, yes. 571 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,360 Yeah, OK. I remember that. 572 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:00,120 That was ours. It was good. 573 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,240 It was a good skirt. It was a good skirt. 574 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:11,000 But but yeah, so your first time, and as far as the energy, 575 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,600 how do you feel about the energy, I think? 576 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:16,800 It's great. I think it's the women. 577 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,120 The way they treat each other is like, yes, yeah, and just 578 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:25,760 everybody is kind. Yeah, and. 579 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:29,120 And the one thing that you're going to find about Splash Mocha 580 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,480 is then everyone is genuinely happy to see you, yeah? 581 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,760 Absolutely. And it's it's more like a 582 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,200 family. If you'll notice, everybody 583 00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:42,040 knows everybody and I'm going to apologize to you now because 584 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,360 this will not be your last one. Yeah. 585 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,040 Yeah, this is this is the Minxes, the Angels and Eyes 9th 586 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:54,680 in 2 1/2 years. Our first one was Atlanta in 587 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:58,240 2022 and she wasn't through the first night of it and she looked 588 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,160 at me and she goes I want to go to the next one and said yes, 589 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,280 the next one's sold out, we'll go next year she goes no no I 590 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,640 want to go to the next one. And we did day passes and drove 591 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,760 to Florida and stayed 15 miles away and came with our bags 592 00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:13,840 every day so that she could attend the second one. 593 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,880 Now it is like homecoming week. Every time we show up one of the 594 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,280 parties, you just come in and open arms. 595 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:24,440 New friends, old friends, everybody. 596 00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:27,040 Just like Hey, hi. Welcome back. 597 00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,640 And everybody's engaging. If you'll notice when you walk 598 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,320 around the lobby, normally you go to a restaurant, what do you 599 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,520 see? You see people, husbands and 600 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,200 wives, sitting there at the table, looking at their phones 601 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,080 and not talking to each other. This restaurant, you walk around 602 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,600 there, what do you see? Husbands and wives sitting at 603 00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,160 the table and their phones are not out. 604 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:49,400 They are engaged with each other and around with everybody 605 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,440 around. So we, I call it the splash 606 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,360 mocha bubble. So everybody comes in to splash 607 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:56,920 mocha. They get trapped in the splash 608 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,400 mocha bubble. So you walk through those doors. 609 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,760 I bet you you have thought very little about what happened 610 00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,400 yesterday, what's going to happen tomorrow or what's 611 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:09,120 happening next week. You are living in the moment and 612 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,520 exactly not many of us in nowadays they our lives go at 613 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,680 100 miles an hour. Not many people live in the 614 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,240 moment. Even I, you know this is my job. 615 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,920 I get. I forget about outside of here 616 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:25,120 and what I'm going to do next week. 617 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,920 I'm solely focused on this event and the people that's in it. 618 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,400 So I mean, I get trapped in that splash milk, a bubble, and it 619 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,680 gives your brain a break. And. 620 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,600 So we've got another couple. Is this your first time? 621 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:40,920 I'm not trying to warm up these good people that. 622 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:46,400 Means he's about to warm up. You guys, we we've been married, 623 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,600 coming up on 39 years. Not even. 624 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,840 In the lifestyle, never been to anything, so this decided to 625 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:56,400 jump into the middle of it. That's going in like the 20 foot 626 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,640 deep end of the pool. No kidding, but it's like it's. 627 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:01,800 Like we we want him to be excited. 628 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,240 We don't have to do anything. We don't have to be anybody, 629 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:06,040 right? Be us. 630 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:07,800 And we want to see what the energy is. 631 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:09,920 We want. To feel the energy and very good 632 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:14,080 energy there was. Fucking eye opening. 633 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:17,760 Not the bad way, don't get me wrong. 634 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,320 It's just like I didn't know that somebody could do that. 635 00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:23,120 How? How did you guys hear about 636 00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:26,040 Splash Mocha? Podcast and everything else go, 637 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:34,360 yeah, I can see both faces and then Venus, the dot, chocolate, 638 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,280 all those different things. I mean, they just all kind of. 639 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,520 Roll into one. Was talking about the other and 640 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,280 you can't go this way, that way, this way, that way. 641 00:34:40,360 --> 00:34:43,639 And she was scared to death. Not going to lie, I was 642 00:34:43,639 --> 00:34:47,840 concerned. Listen, it's my job and I'm 643 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:50,639 scared to death before every single one of them, so it's OK. 644 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:51,880 But. It was just like. 645 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,800 You know this way outside of our box, right? 646 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,880 And relish a member of the podcast and hearing how everyone 647 00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:03,080 had spoke about how safe it was. And Tina, you you talking about 648 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:04,440 a lot. You've been on a lot of 649 00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,240 different ones and you come at it from a different angle. 650 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,680 Most of the same time you can give the same answers. 651 00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,400 It was very helpful. Mr. and Miss Boca, they they 652 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:13,800 helped a lot too. Thank you. 653 00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:16,240 Thank you. So it's a pleasure meeting you 654 00:35:16,240 --> 00:35:18,840 and thank you for being here and I would tell you guys. 655 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:23,640 Welcome to the family. Thanks for having us. 656 00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,960 Yeah, I'm going to tell you guys something like you hear the this 657 00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:28,960 is the thing that you're going to hear. 658 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:31,080 Like you hear the whole It's like family. 659 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:33,400 It's like family. There's a lot of bullshit places 660 00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,640 that you go to. You hear that that thing, it's, 661 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,480 it's a thing that people use. But when I say it's like family, 662 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:42,720 I can. I can cite examples. 663 00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:47,640 Yesterday, me and Mr. Minks had a conversation about my summer 664 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:52,240 plans with my daughter, who's coming in to coming in from 665 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:58,720 overseas, which is going to be him taking us us out. 666 00:35:58,720 --> 00:36:00,280 We're. Going to put him on some fish. 667 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,320 His daughter loves to fish, and so we're now hatched a plan to 668 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,480 put her on some special big fish this summer. 669 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:09,280 Yeah, and and you know, they've all been to my home. 670 00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,320 Everyone here has been to my home. 671 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,080 You know, these the people who are sitting here can literally 672 00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:16,840 be at my home when I'm not there. 673 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:18,720 I met these people in the lifestyle. 674 00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,400 These are people who I, I trust on a different level. 675 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,440 So you can go to work and go, oh, we're like family. 676 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:28,240 But now how many of your coworkers would you give the 677 00:36:28,240 --> 00:36:31,120 alarm code to your home and say I'll be out of town? 678 00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,680 Go ahead as that. That's not, that's not family, 679 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:38,600 you know. But here, the level of trust 680 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:41,800 that we have, because we're on a different level, literally, we 681 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:43,880 can talk about things that you can't talk to people you've 682 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:45,280 known for the last 40 years. Facts. 683 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:49,880 Facts about that. So, so now, and that's why even 684 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:54,080 in that seminar where I came into, the concept of trust is 685 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,040 huge. Trust is, is a major thing. 686 00:36:57,040 --> 00:37:01,720 And so when we say it's family, we really, these are our 687 00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:05,520 friends, like everybody that we're, we're really friends. 688 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,280 So that that's the thing that you're going to find. 689 00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:12,920 So as you take your journey, if you go into it, the same 690 00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:16,040 attitude, the same smile. Walk in there like you're the 691 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:17,800 fucking mayor. Say hi to people. 692 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,960 Smile at people. No one here is going to bite 693 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:25,040 you, especially if you got a partnership with one of your one 694 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,120 of you guys. Have an outgoing personality. 695 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,320 Walk up to people and talk to them, say hi. 696 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,760 One of the things that new people where they fail at is 697 00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:36,880 they kind of going to the corner. 698 00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:39,720 And just look around. And they look around and so if 699 00:37:39,720 --> 00:37:45,600 if I, if I see you and your wife, OK, I'm not can I come say 700 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:49,680 hi to him. So the guys here want to be 701 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,000 respectful. So even if they want to come and 702 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,840 approach your wife, they're going to like, look at you and 703 00:37:55,840 --> 00:38:00,920 if you're sitting here with the. The rigid look like All right, 704 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,520 let me go talk to somebody who. Looks like they're not about a 705 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,600 shit, a brick, you know? Because that guy is just. 706 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,960 As nervous as you are, you know so, So make sure just what. 707 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,880 Get to know it. Say hi to everybody. 708 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:16,240 Learn names and you're going to the the doors that are going to 709 00:38:16,240 --> 00:38:21,080 open up for you. It's it's it's forever. 710 00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:25,720 It's not you're going to you're going to you're going to make 711 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:27,560 meet friends. You're going to meet people 712 00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,360 here. It's going to be main. 713 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,640 You're going to maintain those friendships outside of here. 714 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:36,560 Oh yeah. And you know it's it's, I don't 715 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:40,360 know, it's just a great, it's a great mix of people and with you 716 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:44,160 being with you guys, being new introduce when you introduce 717 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:49,240 yourselves, let them know this is your first Splash Mocha One, 718 00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,440 our Splash Mocha veterans love meeting new people. 719 00:38:52,720 --> 00:38:55,120 And two, it's a great conversation starter. 720 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,640 That's your segue into the outgoing one. 721 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,760 Well, you can tell people you're new and introduce you. 722 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:06,800 And now you've got your segue into a fantastic conversation of 723 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,240 meeting new people, conversations with a couple. 724 00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:12,040 Of people with that. We bought the whole 7. 3rd. 725 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,680 Pole package for Tuesday to Tuesday, just so we can kind of 726 00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,400 come in low and flow, get a grip grasp of the whole thing. 727 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,800 Give an idea of what the layouts going to be and. 728 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,160 So. Yeah, last night was I opening. 729 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:30,360 Tonight will be probably the same I opening, just on a 730 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,480 greater scale. You have a little more comfort. 731 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,800 Level and you're like, OK, let's. 732 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,160 Let's step it up. So let me let me let me just 733 00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:38,600 kind of address as as the white husband on the panel here. 734 00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,080 Right. And the the mocha guy that 735 00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:42,760 comes. I I literally I've been trying 736 00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:45,920 to convince my wife to come to one of these for a while and we 737 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,640 met on a swinger cruise a couple and said you are you guys are 738 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,240 mocha people you need to come to this party. 739 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:53,400 So we've been a lifestyle a long time, but my big joke was like, 740 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:54,400 yeah, we're going to do this party. 741 00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,120 I'm going to be invisible. I I will be around as the 742 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,400 support husband, all that. But nobody's going to care about 743 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,320 me and I'm just going to be, you know? 744 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,120 That that back I can be invisible. 745 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:08,160 That was the that was the furthest thing from the truth 746 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,720 when we got here. What I found and you especially 747 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,320 brand new starting out and you just five months in what you 748 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:19,760 guys was, the husbands can get from this is that kinsmanship 749 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:24,480 and that opportunity to share and be with brothers, right. 750 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:29,280 Literally guys who think and and act and and and are turned on by 751 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,200 the same things that we all are, but we're further down that path 752 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,520 And so you're angst, right? Relish those feelings because 753 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,080 that dulls over time. You know? 754 00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,400 And it's like, honey, I'm just going to go over here and get 755 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:42,840 something to eat. You go, you go play. 756 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,960 Let me know when you're done, right? 757 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,680 Wears off. Enjoy that feeling now, and when 758 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,640 you have concerns, talk to all of the husbands because that's 759 00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:55,080 the best part about this. I feel the most normal in my 760 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,520 life when I am at events like this and when I'm hanging around 761 00:40:58,720 --> 00:41:02,040 my other hot wife husbands, you know, or whatever, or stag 762 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,320 husbands or cuckold husbands, whatever the husbands of these 763 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,240 incredible women who have. And we've talked about this in 764 00:41:08,240 --> 00:41:12,840 past podcasts, Transcended Societies, Rules of Females, and 765 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,440 said I want to be my sexual being and I want to experience 766 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:21,160 all that I can And I have a partner who is supportive, 767 00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:25,280 lovely and trust enough to let that experience happen, right. 768 00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:30,240 So here we can be nervous and quiet on that but you are 769 00:41:30,240 --> 00:41:33,320 amongst friends and you are amongst trusted people who will. 770 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,680 I will talk to you to your blue in the I'm blue in the face and 771 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,840 your ears are melting off your head about the journey, right 772 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,560 and the experiences and how we do. 773 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,240 We've done podcasts about the male emotion and how that is not 774 00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:48,040 really accepted or talked about in general. 775 00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:51,200 We're trying to pull all that back and and acknowledge that 776 00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,400 the guy's role in this is critical in that partnership. 777 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,400 So yeah, that's the benefit of you being here too, as they're 778 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,360 being all hot and sexy and all that kind of stuff. 779 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,600 When you have those feelings, don't hold them in. 780 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,200 Talk to somebody about them, because we've all been there 781 00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:04,800 that. Was that was his. 782 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,840 Biggest thing is I don't know what I'm I don't. 783 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:11,200 Know what? I'm supposed. 784 00:42:11,560 --> 00:42:12,040 To do Yeah. What's? 785 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:13,840 My role What's my? Role. 786 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,640 But listen, no one here will be freaked out because anything 787 00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:24,120 that you think or wonder, like it's so open here, like for us 788 00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,120 now. Like we'll talk to people and 789 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,000 the guy's like, hey, you know, they'll, I want to ask this 790 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:30,520 question, but I don't want to be weird. 791 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:33,000 And they'll ask you a question and we'll like look at each 792 00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:38,600 other like that was it. That was nothing. 793 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:43,840 Like, bro, I'm, I'm cracking jokes earlier because my wife 794 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,240 takes a guy to the room and gets fucked and she's we're going 795 00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:48,880 through this whole thing and she's like, yeah, and I gave him 796 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:50,720 some of your good bourbon. I'm like you gave him the good 797 00:42:50,720 --> 00:42:52,720 one. With the Dick.