1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,000 Hey there, it's Melissa Brunetti, and welcome to the 2 00:00:03,000 --> 00:00:16,239 Mind Your Own Karma podcast. Hey there, Karma crew, thanks 3 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:19,200 for joining me for this episode of Mind Your Own Karma. 4 00:00:19,240 --> 00:00:23,440 Beyond the bandage, have you ever felt like you were living 5 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,880 someone else's life, maybe following rules, roles, or 6 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,400 expectations that just didn't fit or feel right? 7 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,760 What if you could throw all of that out the window and finally 8 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,840 start showing up as your true and apologetic self? 9 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,240 Today's guest is here to help you do exactly that. 10 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:45,080 I am super excited to welcome Megan Lambert to the show, a 11 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:49,080 human design and gene keys guide who knows first hand what it's 12 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,400 like to lose yourself and to find your way back home. 13 00:00:53,480 --> 00:00:57,120 Through her unique lens, including her experience as both 14 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:01,320 and an adoptee and a birth mother, Megan has embraced the 15 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:04,480 powerful truth that we are not broken, but whole. 16 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,880 We're just on a journey to discover who we truly are. 17 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:13,080 With a blend of intuitive insights and grounded tools, 18 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:17,040 Megan helps people move from autopilot to authentic living, 19 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:21,560 making deep transformation feel more like a homecoming than hard 20 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,000 work. Whether she's decoding energetic 21 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:29,480 blueprints, diving into shadow work, or sparking those soul 22 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:34,760 deep conversations, Megan's work is all about celebrating every 23 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,880 messy, beautiful step of choosing yourself. 24 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:43,200 Today we're talking about how human design can support healing 25 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:48,000 and self acceptance, how deconditioning helps us drop old 26 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:52,520 stories, and why personal growth isn't about fixing yourself. 27 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,920 It's about finally seeing who you pin all along. 28 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,720 Get ready to RIP off the bandage, because today's episode 29 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,200 isn't about becoming someone new. 30 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:07,680 It's about reclaiming who you already are. 31 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:13,080 Let's dive in. We are welcoming Megan Lambert 32 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:14,600 to the show today. Hi, Megan. 33 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:15,960 Hi. OK. 34 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:18,760 Super excited. We're going to be talking about 35 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,000 human design today, and Megan is. 36 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,640 Also an adoptee. And a birth mother. 37 00:02:24,640 --> 00:02:27,600 So we're going to dive into that a little bit just to kind of get 38 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,400 her perspective on her healing journey. 39 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,080 And then we're going to talk a lot about human design, which I 40 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,280 know a little bit about, but not a lot. 41 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,800 So I'm glad that you're here to kind of dig into that. 42 00:02:40,680 --> 00:02:45,280 So you've experienced both sides of adoption as far as a closed 43 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,280 as an adoptee and an open as a birth mother. 44 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,280 How has that experience shaped the person in Healer that you 45 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:56,040 are now? Well, with it being closed it, I 46 00:02:56,040 --> 00:03:00,440 don't think there was even a choice back in, you know, the 47 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,560 80s when I was born and especially in the location I was 48 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,080 born, I was born and adopted in the Philippines. 49 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:12,480 So like I'm 100% Filipino. I was adopted into a white 50 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:18,080 military American family. So like there was all this 51 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:20,760 dynamic of one on. I had no idea. 52 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,440 Like it was even a possibility to have an open adoption back 53 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:30,400 then, especially where I was at. So it wasn't so much, it didn't 54 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:34,560 really bother me that it was like a closed one where I've 55 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,920 heard multiple people say, you know, that the adoption story is 56 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,920 where like, you know, they had the choice. 57 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:45,720 There was no choice for me. It was like this is it like, OK, 58 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,840 it was easy for me to accept that. 59 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:54,360 So then when I became a birth mom and I was offered this 60 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,560 opportunity, hey, do you want to close or do you want to open 61 00:03:57,560 --> 00:03:59,360 one? Immediately I was like, I want 62 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:04,080 to open one because I don't want my child to have all the 63 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:08,440 questions that I had and wonder what in the world. 64 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:15,400 So that was like my perspective on close versus open. 65 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:22,800 So I just like so grateful to have experienced both sides. 66 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,640 Yeah, yeah. So do you still? 67 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:28,240 Are you still in touch with your birth child? 68 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:33,840 Yes, actually, we have the most amazing relationship. 69 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,800 I've kept in touch with him. I want to say like the first 70 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,920 couple of years, because we were living in the same state. 71 00:04:42,280 --> 00:04:46,320 Like I said, I was a military child, so I've moved around 72 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:50,080 practically every nine months. So we kept in touch. 73 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,480 And then in the middle years, you know, I was still 74 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:58,120 questioning, OK, I know I'm a birth mom, but do I even have 75 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:03,840 the right to like check in and see how he's doing and all that, 76 00:05:03,840 --> 00:05:06,240 'cause I didn't know how that played. 77 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:09,760 I was close adoption experienced that I. 78 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,320 But where does that fit in as a birth mom? 79 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:20,080 Thankfully, like I was blessed with the most perfect adopted 80 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:27,160 family that I picked for him. And they they're like my second 81 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:31,720 family. And so I absolutely have this 82 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,840 amazing relationship with that whole family. 83 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:40,400 Recently, he just graduated from high school, like last year. 84 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,400 And so they called me. They said, hey, you want to 85 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,320 come? And I was like, of course 86 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:47,360 they're like, you want to stay in our house? 87 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:54,440 I'm like, yeah, let's go. So, you know, we, we, I try to 88 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:58,080 go there once a year over the summer. 89 00:05:58,280 --> 00:06:01,880 And, you know, we get together and we hang out for a week. 90 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:06,680 And then I want to say just this, this last year when he 91 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:12,320 graduated, I met actually met a good portion of his extended 92 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:15,960 family. And like just realizing like, 93 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,680 like we're talking me and my first born, we're talking, we're 94 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,520 hanging out, we're cracking jokes. 95 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,720 And then like, like I back away a little bit so he can hang out 96 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:30,320 with his cousins. And then so I'm talking to his 97 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,360 aunts and his uncles, and they're like, you know, what's 98 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:38,600 so fascinating to see this relationship that you have with 99 00:06:38,840 --> 00:06:40,960 your birth son. And I'm kind of looking at them 100 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:45,560 like, well, isn't this how most adopted, you know, open 101 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,160 adoptions work? They say no. 102 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:49,120 And I was just like, mind blown by it. 103 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,080 No. I had no idea. 104 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:57,320 Like, that was so new to me. And so they're like crying. 105 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:01,480 And they're like, thank you for, you know, doing what you do and 106 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:07,200 still open to this and not, you know, not making this difficult 107 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:10,160 for us or and we're not making it difficult for you. 108 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,520 And it was just like this beautiful realization. 109 00:07:13,560 --> 00:07:16,960 I know he's like 18 at this time but I'm like what? 110 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,800 Yeah, yeah, that's so true. I hear stories all the time 111 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,560 about it's mostly how the adoptive parents don't follow 112 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:31,480 through on whatever was set in place and that the that the 113 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:35,880 birth parent really has no legal, yeah, you know, course to 114 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:40,680 take to enforce that. And so a lot of times they lose 115 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,280 track of their child's even though it was supposed to be 116 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:43,800 open. It's. 117 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,800 Crazy. I yeah, I just, I just realized 118 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:53,160 that I was like, I had no idea. I like, I think what made it 119 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:57,320 work so well, it's the fact that I was adopted too. 120 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:02,200 So like I can understand. And like anytime that they had 121 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:07,280 questions like, hey, yes, they did counseling before they even 122 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:12,080 went into adoption just to get all the, you know, angles that 123 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:18,120 they could, which versus when my first born was adopted, when I 124 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:22,000 was adopted, like there was no counseling whatsoever. 125 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,440 And now I'm like, OK, this is great. 126 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:30,040 But anytime that they had like a question and they say, Hey, can 127 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,520 we can we pick your brain about something just coming? 128 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,919 Because I think they were talking to me like have knowing 129 00:08:36,919 --> 00:08:40,120 that I was adopted. Like how do you feel about this? 130 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,159 Just getting that kind of perspective before they even 131 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,000 went about it with their, you know, their kid. 132 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:50,600 And I was just like, wow, you really are amazing like. 133 00:08:50,680 --> 00:08:53,880 So was that something that the adoption agency encouraged or 134 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,520 was that something that they just kind of said we need to do 135 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:01,200 this? I well, here's the thing with 136 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:03,920 that. They had when I had picked them, 137 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,400 they had had already adopted another child. 138 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:13,160 And so it was like they were already had experience with 139 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:18,080 having an adopted child that when I came in the picture and 140 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:24,440 provided, you know, their other child, I think they were like, 141 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:28,200 OK, let's try this route. Let's just see if this works, 142 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,360 you know? And so they were more open and 143 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,000 like, forthcoming with, you know, taking on a different 144 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,000 perspective and, you know, understanding. 145 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:45,920 OK, yes, this is legally my child, but I also know that 146 00:09:45,920 --> 00:09:51,320 there is an attachment that's this bond that birth son or 147 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:57,440 birth child with birth mom that needs to also stay intact in 148 00:09:57,440 --> 00:10:00,320 some way, shape or form, which was beautiful. 149 00:10:00,560 --> 00:10:03,200 And I was like, oh, you guys are amazing. 150 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,360 That's awesome. I'm glad to hear that. 151 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,440 Maybe things are starting to change and people are really 152 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,840 starting to get educated about what needs to happen for the 153 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:16,280 child, you know, instead of just worrying about creating a 154 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,640 family. There's this other little person 155 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,640 over here that's going through some stuff, you know? 156 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,960 Yeah. And it's really important, 157 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:29,080 especially, you know, Doctor and adopted, it's really important 158 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:33,000 to understand that there is a bond that can't be broken. 159 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:37,160 No matter how hard you try to break it, regardless of the 160 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:42,560 experience of how you even receive this child, there is a 161 00:10:42,560 --> 00:10:47,840 bond. And the more you try to like, 162 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,960 I'm a deconditioning coach, the more you try to make these 163 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:57,200 conditions to like form this kind of scenario that works for 164 00:10:57,200 --> 00:11:00,960 you as a parent, as in a, what do you call them, adopter 165 00:11:00,960 --> 00:11:02,600 parent. The adoptive parent. 166 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:05,880 The adoptive parents, yes, no matter how hard you try it, 167 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,960 there's still going to be this aspect that you can't like 168 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:14,920 condition it's there so. Yeah, amazing. 169 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:19,480 We could, we could have an all episode on that, but yeah, all 170 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:20,920 that good stuff. Yes. 171 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:25,240 So you say you embrace the truth about everything and I'm like, 172 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,640 everything is in air quotes right now. 173 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,040 What does that mean to you and how did that shift your healing 174 00:11:32,320 --> 00:11:35,400 journey? OK, so it's, it's funny you 175 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,640 asked us like everybody's like, where'd you get that? 176 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:44,200 I'm like because I am everything that I need to be at every 177 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:48,600 moment. So like we all try to play or 178 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,880 stay in this one lane. We're conditioned to believe 179 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:55,200 that or think that the way to be successful or the way to be 180 00:11:55,200 --> 00:12:00,560 happy, you have to stay in this one lane, have one focus. 181 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:05,480 And like, this epiphany came to me when I was, you know, deep 182 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:09,600 diving, doing some healing on understanding my human design 183 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:14,360 and get my charts and whatnot, that I'm like, no, I'm 184 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,800 everything and everybody is everything. 185 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,840 It's just OK, what is your everything in that moment? 186 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:26,560 It doesn't have to match what you were yesterday or last year 187 00:12:26,560 --> 00:12:31,760 or maybe a decade ago. I am everything that I need to 188 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:36,280 be in every moment. So that's a good mantra. 189 00:12:36,680 --> 00:12:38,960 Yeah, everybody should write that on a sticky note. 190 00:12:39,680 --> 00:12:41,880 Stick it on their mirror. Yes, yes. 191 00:12:43,000 --> 00:12:46,360 And I like to remind people I'm like, no, you're exactly who you 192 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:49,800 need to be at every moment, so embrace that. 193 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:51,920 That's awesome. That's awesome. 194 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,120 So today we're kind of focusing on human design. 195 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:58,000 So for listeners who might not be familiar with that, can you 196 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:04,440 break down what human design is? OK, so human design is a mixture 197 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:09,000 of four different things. It is the chakra system, 198 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,720 astrology, the I Ching and the Kabbalah. 199 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:16,880 I like to to Mickey Mouse Clubhouse it down for people and 200 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:21,760 I say it is the personality test without the personality, like 201 00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:26,360 without the test, like it gives you pretty much your blueprint 202 00:13:26,560 --> 00:13:30,960 on how you effortlessly live your life, how you were meant to 203 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,960 move and flow and interact and be in this life. 204 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:38,680 And that's how I explain it. And I'm like, whatever questions 205 00:13:38,680 --> 00:13:43,400 that you have about yourself, I bet actually, no, I know for a 206 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:47,880 fact that I can look at your chart and say this, This is why 207 00:13:47,880 --> 00:13:51,320 or this is how, or this is what. We already know The Who. 208 00:13:51,560 --> 00:13:55,000 So it just answers the questions. 209 00:13:55,480 --> 00:14:01,000 So that does do you go by birthday and like certain? 210 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,440 It is your birthday place and time. 211 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:09,920 And so when you plug all that information, it gives you a 212 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:13,800 chart that has nine different centers and some of them will be 213 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,200 colored in, some of them will not. 214 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:21,760 Some of them have, like, gates, but it's open, but it's not 215 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:23,560 defined. It's just there. 216 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:28,320 There's so much that goes into it, but it's so fascinating. 217 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:32,080 If you jump into this and you like, plug in, a lot of people 218 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,440 will be like, what am I looking at? 219 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:36,840 It's overwhelming. Yeah. 220 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,640 So I like to, like, take baby steps. 221 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:45,800 And I always tell people like, hey, try not to go in too deep 222 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,440 too fast because you're supposed to embody a little bit at a 223 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:53,320 time. Once you actually do come to 224 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:58,320 acknowledge, oh, this is who I am because things don't change, 225 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:02,160 doesn't happen overnight, y'all. So you gotta do it piece by 226 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:06,280 piece. Do some people like flat out 227 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,680 like that's not me like or do they really 'cause they're so 228 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:13,680 like conditioned to be a certain way when they get their design, 229 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:15,520 it's like, well, wait a minute, that doesn't, that doesn't 230 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:18,600 resonate with me is do you ever people have people do that? 231 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:24,360 Like I, I, I did a workshop one one day back when I first 232 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,840 started this just just to see and how things would go. 233 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:33,120 And one person there's the solar plexus, which all in human 234 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,480 design and even as well as the chakra system, you know, solar 235 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:41,520 plexus emotions and whatnot. The I, they were like someone 236 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:49,520 had a defined solar plexus and I had said a defined solar plexus 237 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,760 means you feel a lot. And then one person was like, 238 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:56,240 no, I don't. And then I was like looking at 239 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:59,720 their chart a little deeper. I said, oh, This is why you were 240 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:04,040 conditioned to believe and like, hold in those emotions. 241 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,640 Like. It's still also it's there's 242 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,360 something when people are like, no, that's not me. 243 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:13,720 And then I go in and I'm like, well, here it is. 244 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:16,000 This person made you turn this off. 245 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:19,840 This is why it had helped me through my, you know, 246 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:23,720 deconditioning when, like, finding who I was when, you 247 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:26,560 know, I stepped into my family or not stepped. 248 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:28,880 I was kind of just given, yeah, like here. 249 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,520 Yeah. Like, understanding who I was 250 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:36,320 versus who they wanted me to be and why it didn't work out. 251 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:41,880 I've spent decades trying to, like, prove myself to them and, 252 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,000 like, heal all this stuff and be like, why is it not working? 253 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:49,600 This is not comfortable. But once I like, looked at it, I 254 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:54,920 was like, oh, because I was never meant to fit into their 255 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:58,960 mold. That is why, yeah, I had people 256 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:03,720 be like, well, I don't do that. And so when I give them homework 257 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:09,560 after I tell them, they're like. Oh, it's all. 258 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:14,920 Coming together now, yeah. That's cool, that's cool. 259 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:18,319 Well, how did you come across Human Design and what was it 260 00:17:18,319 --> 00:17:27,319 that resonated to you about it? I was actually, I just got done 261 00:17:27,319 --> 00:17:33,160 with hypnotherapy and my hypnotherapist gave me homework 262 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:39,120 and she was like, hey, I need you to listen to this episode on 263 00:17:39,120 --> 00:17:41,640 a podcast, the podcast that she does. 264 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:44,520 And I was like, OK, but, and then I got addicted to her 265 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:49,200 podcast that I like started scrolling and finding and I was 266 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:53,000 like human design. Last time I tried to step into 267 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:56,000 human design, it just wasn't for me at the time. 268 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,680 But this time, like the way she was speaking and the what she 269 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:01,840 was saying, I was like, that's me. 270 00:18:03,360 --> 00:18:08,680 And so I was like, OK, so that's how I came into human design. 271 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,800 Because when I was doing the hypnotherapy, the only reason 272 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:18,320 why I was doing hypnotherapy was there was a voice in my head 273 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:23,840 that was living there for like my whole life that I wanted to 274 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:26,800 get rid of. And I didn't know how to. 275 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:28,920 So I was like, let's try hypnotherapy. 276 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:34,200 So I did that. And then like going into human 277 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,120 design, it made me understand, oh, this why? 278 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:42,480 This is why this person has been living in my head for like my 279 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:46,320 whole life. I'm like, OK, now I even know 280 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:51,360 how to, like, decipher that it's hers and not mine. 281 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:54,200 And also tell her to shut up and move out. 282 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,040 Like here's your eviction notice. 283 00:18:56,160 --> 00:18:59,240 Yeah, go be gone. So. 284 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:03,240 Yeah, so. The combination of hypnotherapy 285 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,080 and human design helped you kind of tackle that. 286 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:13,120 Yeah, it was. My, it was my stepping stone 287 00:19:13,120 --> 00:19:19,000 into giving myself permission to invite other people into my 288 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,920 healing journey because for a while I was doing it by myself. 289 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:28,200 I have no problem like facing things that I know I need to 290 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:31,600 face and like working through them and whatnot. 291 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:36,760 But there was a point in time in my life where I've done all that 292 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:40,040 I could and I'm like, I can't. I can't. 293 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:44,600 And that's when spirit was like, hey, it's time to invite 294 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:47,720 somebody in. You can't do this anymore by 295 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,240 yourself. You've got to let somebody in. 296 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:54,840 And I was, luckily this person came along and I was just like 297 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,400 you, you, you're good, which is tough to. 298 00:19:57,400 --> 00:20:01,320 Do as an adoptee, I mean, you know, there's so many of us that 299 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:06,360 are like very closed off to asking for help or, you know, 300 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:07,400 yeah. Oh. 301 00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:09,680 Yeah, it's tough. Yeah, it is very. 302 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:17,760 Tough like being a how I was adopted, you know, I I I went 303 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:22,120 from, you know, being in my mother's boon and then entering 304 00:20:22,120 --> 00:20:27,320 into this world and I believe I was with six different families 305 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:30,640 before I ended up with the family that I ended up with. 306 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:37,920 And so like I did all this and it was just like they had 307 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:42,000 already had this dynamic within their family because I'm the 308 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:46,040 only one that's adopted out of the five kids that my parents 309 00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:50,520 have. And so it was just like, This is 310 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,720 why they were like, OK, why aren't you like them? 311 00:20:54,640 --> 00:21:01,320 And I'm like because because I and I, I did it in the nicest 312 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,160 way possible and I wasn't trying to be mean to my mom, but I was 313 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,880 like, because you did not birth me. 314 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:16,360 I am not I logically yours. You may have raised me, but you 315 00:21:16,360 --> 00:21:19,480 did not birth me. So. 316 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,720 Yeah, so I was told they they would be like, oh, you need to 317 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,560 be more like, you know, your siblings or you need to shut 318 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:32,800 that off like, and I'm not. And I'd be like, no, like what? 319 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,440 What's wrong with you? And I, I always thought I was 320 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,720 the problem. For the longest time. 321 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,400 I was like, OK, it's me. It's me. 322 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:43,040 It's because, you know, I'm different. 323 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:49,240 And so many times I've tried to like condition myself to be like 324 00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:55,000 them, but I couldn't like it would just seriously, our bodies 325 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:58,880 are are like secret. It holds our secrets. 326 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:03,160 So when things aren't working, you start getting all these body 327 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,840 aches and things. And so the more I tried, the 328 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:12,040 more my body would shut down and I'd just be like, this isn't 329 00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:15,840 working. So when I finally was like, OK, 330 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,440 I'm done. I can't do this anymore. 331 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:24,160 The the shock that my body went through was like, oh, it's about 332 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,480 time. It is. 333 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,800 About thank. You finally. 334 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,080 Thank you. Oh. 335 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:36,680 Yeah, it's pretty crazy. So personally, what, how, how 336 00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:40,440 did human design support you in finding your authenticity and 337 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,600 like in what ways? And I bet you finding that was 338 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:47,600 so freeing. It was, yeah. 339 00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:51,720 OK, so like I had said, I thought I always was the problem 340 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:55,640 and the more and the deeper I went in and was understanding 341 00:22:55,640 --> 00:23:00,520 the different parts of myself, human design showed me that I 342 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:03,280 wasn't wrong. Like all the things that I 343 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:08,120 thought I was wrong about myself showed me, no, that's who you 344 00:23:08,120 --> 00:23:10,840 were meant to be. This is a part of you. 345 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:15,480 You can't change it now. Like human design, it's a fixed 346 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,160 thing. You can't change it. 347 00:23:17,240 --> 00:23:22,720 And so knowing that it's like, OK, this is me. 348 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:28,480 I, I finally get to take these pieces, understand them 349 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:33,200 implement into my life because like I've been conditioned to 350 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:37,240 either turn it off, shut it off or hold it in one or the other. 351 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:44,720 And now I get to like activate it, reawaken it and start 352 00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:49,000 feeling the the ease that I've always meant. 353 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,080 I mean, we're all supposed to feel eased the ease that we're 354 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:58,920 meant to feel in life. The acceptance because I finally 355 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:02,640 have been sitting in a place where I can fully accept myself, 356 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:07,120 all parts of it. I know I'm, I did things that I 357 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,680 probably wouldn't know. I know for a fact I wasn't 358 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:12,320 supposed to do. I mean, we're human. 359 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,200 We're supposed to. So like I can actually accept 360 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,160 those parts of me and sit with it. 361 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:23,200 But I don't feel shame anymore. I don't feel guilty anymore. 362 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:28,360 I feel so proud of all parts of me. 363 00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,280 Like, regardless of what happened to me, like I probably 364 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:38,600 would do it every single thing that I went through and done 365 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:44,400 over again because I don't think I would be here today if I never 366 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,560 did. And I just had this conversation 367 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,080 with my husband. He's like, are you OK? 368 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:56,440 I was like, you know what? I think I would do. 369 00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,320 It all over again. OK. 370 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:02,920 I was just thinking as you were talking. 371 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:07,160 How 'cause we you use birthday and time of birth and, and 372 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,040 things like that. After talking to so many 373 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,600 adoptees over the last couple years, there's a lot of adoptees 374 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,120 that have a wrong birthday on their birth certificates. 375 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,240 Yeah. So like they'll find out later 376 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,600 that that was not their birthday or they don't know really when 377 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,640 their birthday was. They'll they'll get in contact 378 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:25,680 with their birth mother finally and like, Oh yeah, I just wrote 379 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:28,120 that day down 'cause I couldn't really remember what day you 380 00:25:28,120 --> 00:25:29,920 were born or whatever. Yeah. 381 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,840 So that would really, Yeah. That's another thing people 382 00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:39,520 don't don't think about, Yeah. I didn't know my birth time and 383 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:45,360 because I'm so intuitive and I I have this connection to spirit, 384 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:51,840 I actually had to do a deep meditation to figure out what 385 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:55,560 time I was born. And I think that's why I haven't 386 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,200 really messed with human design, because I was like, I don't even 387 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,880 know that. Yeah, so. 388 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:04,880 Like I, I thought I was born at this time and when I looked at 389 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,200 the chart, I was like, no, that doesn't seem right. 390 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,320 But then like when I did this, went into this deep meditation 391 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:16,160 and was like, the numbers showed up for me and I was like plugged 392 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:19,960 it in and did some like deep dive into it. 393 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:26,080 I was like, that's me. Wow, that is so me. 394 00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:27,200 That's. Crazy. 395 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,920 So your website mentioned shadow work and you were talking about 396 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:35,080 deconditioning. How do those practices implement 397 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,880 or complement human design? OK. 398 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:43,960 So shadow work and deconditioning. 399 00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:50,120 They're often paired together as twins and when really they're 400 00:26:50,120 --> 00:26:55,320 like distance cousins because, you know, shadow work is all 401 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,640 about, you know, going through your attic or basement, 402 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:00,760 depending where you're living. I live in Texas. 403 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:04,400 We can't have basements. You go through your attic 404 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,640 because there's so much stuff piling on that you have no 405 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,640 choice but to like face it and whatnot. 406 00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:15,920 Whereas like deconditioning is when you get, when you actually 407 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,320 look at the whole house as a whole. 408 00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:25,120 And so when you have like human design, you know, you can look 409 00:27:25,120 --> 00:27:30,320 at the human design chart and say, OK, these are where my 410 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:34,320 shadows are hiding. Like this is where all I will 411 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:40,360 say majority of the open undefined centers are where your 412 00:27:40,360 --> 00:27:45,120 shadows are hiding, where you have to face it because open 413 00:27:45,120 --> 00:27:49,480 centers define or undefined centers, that's where you're 414 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:56,560 more apt to take in other people's things and also hold in 415 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,160 like trauma and whatnot. If it's defined, I will say 416 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:05,600 this, you have more control on what goes in and what comes out. 417 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:14,200 So whereas deconditioning, you actually can see exactly where 418 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,240 you're conditioned the most. It can be either in a gate or a 419 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,320 channel, whichever or an undefined open center. 420 00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:27,640 And with conditioning, the thing that I love about conditioning 421 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:31,720 is that you get to choose whether to keep the condition or 422 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,480 not. And you can also like, let's say 423 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,600 this condition that somebody offered or provided you or you 424 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,360 just decided to take in. It doesn't have to stay like 425 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,720 it's just there for that moment. And then you can say, you know 426 00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:51,160 what, I want to change it. Like I said earlier, you think 427 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:53,400 of deconditioning as looking at the whole house. 428 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:58,600 It's like somebody gave you this house or gave you their 429 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:02,360 blueprint, and they started creating the rooms and building 430 00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,800 the house how they think you should live it. 431 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:10,920 Like, let's say the living room was built by your family and the 432 00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:16,960 kitchen was built by some maybe your friend or or like school or 433 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,480 whatever. And then your study room was 434 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,120 built by your like mentors and teachers and whatever. 435 00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,800 So you get to go into the house and say, you know what? 436 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:32,040 I don't like this room. I want to turn this room into 437 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,600 something else. Or you know what? 438 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:39,760 I like the color of the wall, but I hate the window, so I'm 439 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:44,440 going to change the window. That's what it all is. 440 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,480 That's how it plays. And that's like what human 441 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:50,960 design goes in. And it's like saying, oh, 442 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:55,040 there's an open space. Do I want to fill this open 443 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,280 space or do I want to like take it out? 444 00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,800 So that's how. Works. 445 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,320 I. It's funny you bring up the 446 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:06,000 house, 'cause I always kind of use that analogy for 447 00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:11,400 generational traumas and, and things like that is, you know, 448 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:15,440 you move into the family home and it's like, OK, that window's 449 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,520 been broken for, you know, 5 generations now. 450 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,080 You can choose to leave it that way, or you can choose to fix 451 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,840 it. You know exactly. 452 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:25,560 Yeah. So that's kind of cool. 453 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:27,680 It's a. Great analogy. 454 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,120 It's a great analogy. I love to use that analogy. 455 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:35,160 So when you work with clients, what does the process look like 456 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:38,760 when they come to you? When they come to me, I first 457 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:43,720 like to have them acknowledge their reality and when I say 458 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:48,920 their reality, how they perceive their reality not. 459 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,160 And I tried. I'm like, hey, listen, I don't 460 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,400 want you to think what other people think. 461 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:57,520 I want you to completely be open, honest with yourself, 462 00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:02,280 because the key to deconditioning and even healing, 463 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,880 no matter what you're doing is acknowledging what you see and 464 00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:12,120 what you feel like. Underline that you nobody else's 465 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:17,840 perception but Jerome. And so once like they finally 466 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:23,200 have this aha moment of, oh crap, this is how I built and 467 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:27,400 created my life, that that's when everything starts to be 468 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:31,360 like, OK, yeah, you're right. I, I don't want to do this 469 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,960 anymore. And so once they step into that, 470 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:40,880 they're like, stuff happens really fast, really fast for 471 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,200 them once they start acknowledging it. 472 00:31:43,200 --> 00:31:46,760 And we can like go in and be like, OK, well, this is the 473 00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,640 thing that I want to change. I want to keep this, but I, I 474 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:53,360 want to change this. And so we start playing around 475 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,480 with how they want to play with it, especially looking at their 476 00:31:56,480 --> 00:32:00,200 chart, because the first thing that I like to do other than, 477 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:06,000 you know, have them acknowledge their reality is like we go over 478 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:12,600 their, their energy type and their strategy and also their 479 00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,640 authority. Because those are the top three 480 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,640 things that I'm like, hey, we, we really need to hone down on 481 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:24,800 this because this is going to support you on transitioning or 482 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,800 deconstructing whatever it is that you want to deconstruct. 483 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:34,360 Then we go into looking at where they've been the most popular 484 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,280 place where they're able to be conditioned. 485 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:42,120 And so once they can acknowledge where they're easily to be 486 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:47,240 conditioned, they have that awareness that they're like, Oh, 487 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,440 I don't have to take that in. And it becomes a lot easier for 488 00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:54,720 them. So they love it. 489 00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,600 Cause the moment that they're like, Oh, this is the, this is 490 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:02,160 where I can be conditioned, but they're open to the condition, 491 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:04,360 but they know that they don't have to take it. 492 00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:08,160 Like they can leave it there and be like it's like taking. 493 00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:11,200 Your power back like realize, you know, you don't know what 494 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:12,880 you don't know or what you're, you know. 495 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,960 So once you're like, oh, that makes sense, you know? 496 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,840 You're like getting. Your power back, you're able to 497 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,120 make that boundary or do whatever you have to do to kind 498 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,560 of manage it or choose, you know, like now I can choose 499 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,520 whether I want that or not. So yeah. 500 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:33,400 That's exactly what it is. It's, it's, it's, it's 501 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:39,680 fascinating to watch people you know from the start like this is 502 00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:42,360 their reality. And then then they start 503 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:47,000 discovering pieces of themselves and then they're like, wait. 504 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,560 I believe that. I see you can leave that, like 505 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,560 right there. Yes, right there. 506 00:33:55,000 --> 00:34:02,480 One client of mine, we were working on the mindset of 507 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:07,680 prosperity and I was using human Design and Gene Keys at this 508 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:11,239 point in time. But I was like, hey, when we 509 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,360 think of prosperity, y'all think of money when really it's your 510 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:17,400 relationship with the tangible things. 511 00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:21,639 If you can touch it, if you can see it, that's prosperity. 512 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:28,400 And so she was, I was getting, we were going deep into her 513 00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:33,920 unconscious Mars. And her unconscious Mars had to 514 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:39,440 do with, you know, the now. And I was just like, hey, what's 515 00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,159 your issue right now? She's like, I have a hard time 516 00:34:42,159 --> 00:34:46,080 saying no. And I'm like, OK, here's your 517 00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,880 homework. And so she did it. 518 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,880 And she has, she calls me a lot. She says, guess what I use? 519 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,320 I said you use the word no. She's like. 520 00:34:54,760 --> 00:35:01,840 Yes, and it feels so good. I'm like, yay, It's funny how 521 00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:04,200 just as simple as things like I can do that. 522 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,320 I'm allowed to like, say no to people like well. 523 00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:11,160 But here's the thing, and I know there's a lot of people pleasers 524 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,040 out there. I remember covering peaceful 525 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,680 pleaser. So guilty as charged. 526 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:22,440 No, these are no is really hard, but the only reason why it's 527 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:28,080 hard for us to say no is because we don't, we never have given. 528 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:32,120 I don't want to say never. We have yet given ourselves the 529 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:37,160 permission or the opportunity to flow through all the emotions, 530 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:42,800 the action of the word no and get to the other side 'cause you 531 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:44,720 haven't experienced the other side. 532 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,240 Allow yourself to experience the other side of no. 533 00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:51,960 And it gets easier. Yeah. 534 00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:56,480 And so it's just like, no, no. Feels so good. 535 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,360 I'm like, I know, right? Yeah, I think. 536 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:01,560 We don't check in with ourselves. 537 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,720 I mean, I was that way, especially when I first started 538 00:36:04,720 --> 00:36:07,240 this podcast and I was getting spread so thin 'cause I wasn't 539 00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:11,800 saying no to anything. And you know, when I started, 540 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,760 'cause I just didn't, I didn't feel good at first, you know, 541 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,200 'cause I just felt like I can't let these people down. 542 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,680 They, they, you know, they're asking me to do this thing, but 543 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,080 I wouldn't even check in. I, the yes was coming out of my 544 00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:25,960 mouth before I even like, how do I even feel about that? 545 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:29,200 You know, And it was already the yes was already out there. 546 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,160 And I was like, now I gotta do that. 547 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:35,840 I bet. You have, when it comes to human 548 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,480 design, the way you're speaking, I bet you have a defined solar 549 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,600 plexus. And when it comes to the defined 550 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,720 solar plexus, you have to ride that wave of emotions before you 551 00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:50,120 can even answer. I have a defined solar plexus, 552 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:55,280 and I've had to learn how to honor time. 553 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:58,720 Like, hey, if somebody's going to ask me to do something, 554 00:36:59,240 --> 00:37:02,440 they're going to have to wait and if they want it done, they 555 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,480 better go ask somebody else because I'm not going to tell 556 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,880 you right then and there. And I will say this like 557 00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:13,400 deconditioning from giving people an answer right then and 558 00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,640 there. I mean, it's hard. 559 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:18,800 Y'all 'cause you like, part of you wants to say yes there, but 560 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:22,240 then there's another part of you who says I really don't want to, 561 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:25,520 but I know that they're going to be. 562 00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:30,520 Or here's the thing, you put in your mind that there's going to 563 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,440 be all these things that's going to backfire. 564 00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:37,640 And. No, if you actually do listen to 565 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:42,320 what your guess and your no is, depending what your authority 566 00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:48,720 is, especially in human design, it actually works out for the 567 00:37:48,720 --> 00:37:52,960 best. Like yes, I may take well, I 568 00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:57,360 don't say I take my time. I recognize the fact that I need 569 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:03,080 to hold off before I answer because even if I do say yes, 570 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:07,280 which I know for a lot of people who do have a define sacral, 571 00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,840 they immediately, if they, if it's something that they're 572 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:14,720 excited about on impulse, you're going to say yes. 573 00:38:14,960 --> 00:38:18,360 But by the time you get there, you're going to be like, why did 574 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:22,320 I say yes? I don't even want to do it, but 575 00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:26,280 that's where the whole waiting and it feeling all the feels 576 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:32,560 like I have to feel the high and the low before I level out and 577 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:36,160 say, OK, what is it that I want to do? 578 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,400 So I have to feel both of them. That's great. 579 00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:44,200 Homework though, for somebody to just, you know, don't don't say 580 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,240 yes or no in the moment, just you know, so I'll get back to 581 00:38:47,240 --> 00:38:51,600 you in a few days or whatever, but that's great homework for 582 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,120 people that are people pleasers to kind of give that space to 583 00:38:55,840 --> 00:39:00,400 really feel it out before before you commit my. 584 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,560 Husband has an undefined solar plexus. 585 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:08,120 He's a he's pure in what what he is. 586 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,440 He's a pure manifesting generator. 587 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,960 So when it comes to his authority, I'm like your yes and 588 00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,520 no is in that moment. So don't get in your head 589 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,520 because you know there's the people who will get in their 590 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,240 head and be like, do I want it? I'm like, no, it's going to tell 591 00:39:21,240 --> 00:39:24,920 you right then and there. Is it a guess or no? 592 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,840 And so he's like, he takes that into account now. 593 00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,440 And he's like, I don't want to do it. 594 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:32,800 I said, OK, you don't have to do it. 595 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:36,840 He's like, OK, that's it. I said, yeah, that's it. 596 00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,560 That's it. That's all you got to do. 597 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:40,720 It's that simple. It's that. 598 00:39:40,720 --> 00:39:44,440 Simple. So what are some misconceptions 599 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:47,360 or challenges that you see commonly that people face when 600 00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,400 they start exploring their human design? 601 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:55,960 The thing that I see most commonly is that people tend to 602 00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:01,800 go way too deep into it. Like they'll try, they can take 603 00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:05,520 on, you know, they'll take on their energy type, the strategy, 604 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:09,040 their authority, but they also try to take on the other parts 605 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:13,600 of it that it becomes overwhelming that they haven't. 606 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:18,920 Pivot like they're trying to do a 360 instead of like a slight 607 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,360 pivot like that's all you need to do for now. 608 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,000 So I've seen people crash and burn be like, no, I gave up 609 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:32,120 because it was too much. I'm like, well, did you like 610 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,000 what? I asked them what, what, what is 611 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:36,600 it that you did? And they're like, well, I did 612 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:37,680 this, this and this. And I'm like. 613 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:42,480 No. That is a lot I said for now, 614 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:46,440 just get to know. I always tell them identify your 615 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,720 yes and no first. That's like the first thing you 616 00:40:49,720 --> 00:40:52,400 need to do is your yes and your no. 617 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:58,880 And then and of course live out your energy type and and 618 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:03,560 authority, but like your yes and your no, that's important. 619 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,480 Do that first, because people, most people, actually all 620 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,960 people, have a difficulty with their yes and no. 621 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:17,800 Yeah, that's so true. Can you share a moment when 622 00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:22,440 understanding your own human design chart that led to like a 623 00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:23,960 major shift or a breakthrough for you? 624 00:41:24,840 --> 00:41:27,440 Yes. So when I was looking at my 625 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:33,000 chart and I was in a workshop with another human design reader 626 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,960 who was just like, hey, you want to try this out? 627 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,840 I'm like, yeah, let's do it. She was speaking into the 628 00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:44,120 definitions of human design and what a definition is, how your 629 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:48,520 close centers connect when you have like all your clothes 630 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:52,520 centers connect you, that means you like learn really, really 631 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,720 fast. Like you don't need anybody to 632 00:41:54,720 --> 00:41:58,680 fill in the blanks for you. And so me, I have a triple 633 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,040 split, so I have three. Oh boy, that. 634 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:03,640 Sounds complicated. Yeah, I was. 635 00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:08,000 Like I got three islands of define centers that are spread 636 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:12,480 out that aren't connected. And she she was saying she goes, 637 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:19,720 here's the thing with triple splits is that they don't need 638 00:42:20,240 --> 00:42:23,200 people like everybody else needs people. 639 00:42:23,720 --> 00:42:29,720 And I was like, wait, so you're telling me that I don't have to 640 00:42:29,720 --> 00:42:33,840 be connected all the time? She's like, what do you mean? 641 00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:40,280 I, I would get, I'm the type of person who gets overwhelmed or 642 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:43,360 drained really easily being connected to people all the 643 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,520 time. And I, I would lose friends 644 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:49,160 because they'd be like, it's like you just shut off. 645 00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:54,560 And I would shut off for months, OK, if I was connected when I 646 00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:58,240 did the yoga teacher training, I was probably plugged into this 647 00:42:58,240 --> 00:43:01,760 group of women doing the teacher training for nine months. 648 00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:06,000 So when I came out of it, I was like done. 649 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,520 I was like, I can't like, I'm I'm glad, I'm grateful, but I 650 00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,280 need to unplug. I need to detach from y'all. 651 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:17,920 So when she said you are the type of person who just needs to 652 00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:23,720 be around people for a short amount of time and not plug in 653 00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:26,640 all the time, you need to be able to detach yourself from 654 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,040 them. You don't have to interact with 655 00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:32,320 anybody. Just go put yourself in a room 656 00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:35,120 that's full of people and you'll be good. 657 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,560 That way you can walk away and you don't have to like worry or 658 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:44,320 overthink. And I'm like, so it wasn't me. 659 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:48,360 I thought I was a horrible friend because I would detach. 660 00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:53,640 I would wouldn't go, I wouldn't call, I wouldn't do text. 661 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:59,360 I'm not a big texter. And so like now, after I had 662 00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:03,760 lost a really good friend due to it, I would warn people and be 663 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:08,600 like, hey, just so you know, I'm a person who detaches really 664 00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:13,760 easy and I sometimes detach for a very long time. 665 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:16,800 This is just a heads up. And I was like, it's not that I 666 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:21,440 don't care about you, it's just that for my mental state and for 667 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:25,560 my health, I have to do that. And like this is before I even 668 00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,600 knew about the whole triple split because I was like, please 669 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:33,800 don't pressure me with making me check in on you when I need to 670 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,000 check in on myself. Yes. 671 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:40,960 And so like when she said that I was like, that makes sense. 672 00:44:41,240 --> 00:44:44,200 That's a very. Common thing with adoptees as 673 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,680 well. And I'm wondering if there's a, 674 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,360 there's like a common thread in human design and like some of 675 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,560 these major channels or whatever, I don't even know what 676 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,360 you would call them that most adoptees have. 677 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,000 Because as you know, a lot of the things you're touching, I'm 678 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:01,200 like, oh gosh, that's like an adoptee thing. 679 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:03,360 That's an adoptee thing. So that's kind of interesting 680 00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,280 and you know. What I would love to actually do 681 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:08,880 some kind of research I know wouldn't. 682 00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:11,680 That be cool experiment I'm. Like let me have your chart in 683 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:16,680 your chart just to see if it's. Familiar some common you know 684 00:45:17,640 --> 00:45:19,560 hits there. It's interesting I'm. 685 00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:21,840 Speaking into something audience, I know. 686 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:29,080 Shameless plug there. So what do you think your life 687 00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,720 would look like if you'd hadn't discovered human design? 688 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,720 I probably still would be fighting the voices in my head 689 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:43,040 and not and I probably would not be able to acknowledge like the 690 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:47,320 parts of me that I've been holding in for so long. 691 00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,960 Because it really, I will say each time I look at my chart and 692 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:57,360 discover something different, it allows me to bring that part of 693 00:45:57,360 --> 00:46:03,480 me up and actually look at it comfortably and accept it and be 694 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,400 like, OK, that is a part of me. I'm OK with that. 695 00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,200 Like I have no shame anymore. I probably still would be silent 696 00:46:12,720 --> 00:46:18,280 because a lot of what where I was conditioned was in my 697 00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,240 throat. My, my, my throat center. 698 00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,080 I have a very I it's an undefined 1. 699 00:46:26,720 --> 00:46:30,800 So like being silent, like I'm, I'm going to be a little 700 00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:36,920 personal here. My, when I decided to be a 701 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,000 little more open, I was testing the waters of my voice. 702 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:46,160 I decided to open up about my, my past trauma because all the 703 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,880 clients that I've had, they're like, why don't you ever tell 704 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:54,520 your story? And I was like, because I don't 705 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:58,440 know how to like. It only naturally comes out when 706 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:04,040 I'm working with somebody because for them to trust me, 707 00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:08,040 they also have to know and understand, Hey, I do understand 708 00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:13,600 where you're coming from. So like I decided to do a video, 709 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:19,400 a podcast video, first attempt, y'all doing a YouTube video of 710 00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:22,600 sharing my story. And my mom ended up getting a 711 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:28,040 hold of it and I wasn't hiding anything whatsoever. 712 00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:34,440 She took it as me attacking her and she and we were, we worked 713 00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,120 hard on our relationship. OK. 714 00:47:38,720 --> 00:47:42,080 I thought we were in a good, really good place for me to be 715 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,240 able to like speak and say because she had acknowledged 716 00:47:46,240 --> 00:47:49,440 what she had done to me and she had said sorry. 717 00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,320 And I, you know, vice versa. I know I didn't help the 718 00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:58,720 situation when I was growing up. So I thought, OK, cool, I, I can 719 00:47:58,720 --> 00:48:02,200 talk about it. No, she, I think she only heard 720 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,600 half and she didn't hear the other half. 721 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:11,400 And so she ended up stepping away from me and kind of like 722 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,080 saying, you know what, I can't talk to you right now. 723 00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,480 I kind of have to press pause on this relationship that we have. 724 00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:24,080 And so it I took it as so you don't want me to speak kind of 725 00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,480 thing. And like, and that's the whole 726 00:48:26,480 --> 00:48:29,640 reason why I didn't share is because they didn't want to hurt 727 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,760 my mom. We were finally in a good place 728 00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,960 and I was like, OK, now I got to protect this relationship. 729 00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:40,480 And so knowing that my throat center is undefined and looking 730 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:46,080 at my human design chart that I'm like, oh, that's, that's, 731 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:50,000 that's where it's held. That is where my biggest 732 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:55,480 conditioning is to like I I've been told by multiple healers, 733 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:57,080 they're like, why aren't you using your voice? 734 00:48:57,080 --> 00:49:02,680 So I'm like, because nobody, nobody taught me how to use the 735 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:03,480 voice. OK? 736 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:08,920 I've been, I they just told me, hey, speak when, when spoken to. 737 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,480 If you're spoken to, you're going to answer this way and 738 00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,560 you're only going to give this much information. 739 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,240 That is how I was taught to use my voice. 740 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:21,920 So I did that. So yeah, that's where. 741 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:26,440 And, and so now that we're not, we haven't spoken since like 742 00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:31,800 it's been a year now. And I, I, I think I told you 743 00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:36,920 earlier before this even recording, is that I am now 744 00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:42,960 deconditioning and, and currently embodying the openness 745 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,600 of my voice. So I'm now being more open, 746 00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:52,160 regardless of how somebody might feel, 'cause their feelings, 747 00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:54,640 they're not. Your responsibility? 748 00:49:54,720 --> 00:49:56,640 Yeah, they're not my. Responsibility. 749 00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,920 I can no longer protect other people's peace. 750 00:49:59,920 --> 00:50:02,000 I can only protect my own. Yeah. 751 00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:06,160 So Yep. Again, a very common adoptee 752 00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:08,760 thing. You'll have to I'll. 753 00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:10,560 Have to give you my chart and we'll have to see if there's 754 00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,360 some common ground things because again, like there it's 755 00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:17,840 just it's yeah, I'm just curious, you know I. 756 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:18,840 Would love. I will. 757 00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:20,760 I'm you know what? I'm gonna totally get your 758 00:50:20,760 --> 00:50:23,960 information after this. So yeah, get a few. 759 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:28,080 Get a few other ones and just see cause yeah, I think there's 760 00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,320 a lot in common. It would be interesting to see 761 00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,160 how that comes out. So you also do gene keys. 762 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:36,240 Can you just kind of lightly touch on what that is OK. 763 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,160 Yes, I do. Also Gene Keys. 764 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:43,120 So human design is your divine masculine, while Gene Keys is 765 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:46,120 your divine feminine. You need them both. 766 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:51,920 But I like to say that you got into embody the divine masculine 767 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:55,920 before you can like even touch on your. 768 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,720 I want to say there's just a little part of your divine 769 00:50:58,720 --> 00:51:01,720 masculine that you need to embody before you touch on gene 770 00:51:01,720 --> 00:51:06,400 keys because it's going to help support you on flowing the wave 771 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:11,080 of your divine feminine because masculine's so fixed divine 772 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:12,640 feminine. It's the water. 773 00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:16,000 It's the current of the water, and you kind of need some of 774 00:51:16,000 --> 00:51:22,920 that to ride the waves. And so Gene Keys, once again is 775 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,640 made-up of your birthday place and time. 776 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,720 And there's three sequences held within them. 777 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,280 There's the first sequence is your activation sequence. 778 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:37,120 And it is why and why you came here on this earth and what you 779 00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:41,120 came here on this earth to do. OK, If you look at human design, 780 00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:46,640 it's gonna be your incarnation cross, your conscious son and 781 00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:50,720 conscious Earth, and then your unconscious son and conscious 782 00:51:50,720 --> 00:51:52,960 Earth. That is what makes up why you 783 00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:57,080 came here on this Earth. Then you step into the Venus 784 00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,400 sequence, which is has to do with your love, your 785 00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:03,200 relationships, who you attract, what you attract. 786 00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,000 It's just getting to know your emotions. 787 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,640 Then when you move through that, there's multiple different 788 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:12,200 spheres. By the way, when you move 789 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:20,160 through that sequence, you then step into prosperity the, your 790 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:24,560 relationship with the materialistic plane here in this 791 00:52:24,560 --> 00:52:28,720 3D World. So there's those 3 sequences and 792 00:52:28,720 --> 00:52:31,920 they, there's when it comes to a gene key, there's three 793 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,200 different frequencies. So there's the shadow frequency, 794 00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,760 there's the gift frequency, and then there's the CD frequency. 795 00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,760 And this is where the shadow work comes in. 796 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:48,840 But a lot of actually all the gene keys also correlate with 797 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:50,880 the gates within the human design. 798 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:53,480 I like to look at my human design. 799 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,560 And then if I notice that they're like a gate that I 800 00:52:56,560 --> 00:53:00,240 haven't explored yet, I'll go to gene keys because it gives a 801 00:53:00,240 --> 00:53:05,160 deeper definition. And so I'll be like, oh, so I'm 802 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,960 living in the shadow right now. How in the world do I get out of 803 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,320 the shadow? And that's where I like, go and 804 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:15,480 look at the gift. So, yeah, yeah. 805 00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:19,200 So I am hoping to have you back on cuz I'm now I'm really 806 00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:23,560 interested because it's funny cuz I always feel like I'm 807 00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:29,080 mostly in the masculine energy and I always say I feel like my 808 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,400 past lives I was I was a man and now I'm a woman. 809 00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,400 Why did I choose to come back as a woman? 810 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:35,920 I'm like, oh I hate those female stuff. 811 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,160 So maybe I need to look at gene keys a little bit more. 812 00:53:41,840 --> 00:53:44,760 I actually. Was in my divine masculine 813 00:53:44,760 --> 00:53:49,400 majority of the time and when I discovered human design in Gene 814 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:54,200 Keys, Gene Keys is actually the first one that I decided to dive 815 00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,960 into because I was like, I really need to hone down on 816 00:53:56,960 --> 00:54:02,440 these divine feminine things. But then I realized after, you 817 00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:08,280 know, doing my thing that I do with, like, learning things, I 818 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:11,320 was like, wait, I need you come here. 819 00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,040 So I'd be like human design, come here. 820 00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:19,360 And so yeah, it, it's a good balance, the yin and the Yang. 821 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:24,480 So interesting. So just for anyone listening 822 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:30,040 right now who feels lost or unsure or just afraid of what 823 00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:33,600 they might uncover, what would you want to say to them? 824 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:42,160 You are not broken at all. You a lot of people go and try 825 00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:46,960 and search for who they are through other people, but here's 826 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:52,440 the thing, their perception has nothing to do with who you are 827 00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:56,120 truly are. You're beautiful and like I said 828 00:54:56,120 --> 00:55:03,200 earlier, you are everything you need to be at every moment, no 829 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,560 matter what it is. Yeah, that's good. 830 00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,240 So why don't you tell us where we can find you? 831 00:55:10,240 --> 00:55:12,960 And of course, I'll have all the links in the show notes, but 832 00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:14,880 where are you at? How can people get in touch with 833 00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:15,920 you? They. 834 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:21,000 Can get in touch with me. I have a website, it is Megan 835 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:27,560 Meghan Dash Lambert LA MB ert.com. 836 00:55:27,800 --> 00:55:32,560 That is the website. You can also find my podcast on 837 00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:37,320 there if you don't have Spotify, the podcast for speaking into 838 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:40,480 shit. And then I also have Facebook, 839 00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:46,800 which is Megan Lambert and then also Instagram Megan Lambert. 840 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:52,840 Again, just so you all know, I am, I don't want to stay 841 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,840 freshly. I kind of freshly step back into 842 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:02,080 the world of social media. I took a social media detox and 843 00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:07,600 I recently, maybe a month and a half ago, got pushed into 844 00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:12,120 stepping back into that world. And I was like, OK, one foot at 845 00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:16,040 a time, Megan, you can do this. But I've learned. 846 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,600 And I'm like, OK, this, this is, this is my flow. 847 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,160 I like it. So yeah, awesome. 848 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:24,320 Great. Well, those links will be in the 849 00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,560 show notes. Thanks for coming on today and 850 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:33,560 talking about human design. And I just feel like finding 851 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,960 these things about yourselves and unlocking some of these 852 00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:42,680 realizations and becoming authentic is such a huge thing 853 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:46,080 when it comes to healing. I mean, it's like the a huge key 854 00:56:46,080 --> 00:56:49,480 to it. So if you are curious about your 855 00:56:49,480 --> 00:56:52,440 human design listeners, get in touch with Megan. 856 00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:55,200 She can help you kind of weed through it and not get so 857 00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:59,200 overwhelmed with the process. Oh yes, yeah, if today's. 858 00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:02,560 Conversation sparked something inside of you, a sense that 859 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:04,840 there's a deeper, truer way to live. 860 00:57:05,240 --> 00:57:09,000 Then trust that feeling. It's your invitation to come 861 00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,640 home to yourself. I hope Megan's wisdom around 862 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:16,600 human design and deconditioning gave you a fresh perspective on 863 00:57:16,600 --> 00:57:18,320 your own journey back to wholeness. 864 00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,520 If you wish to connect with Megan, her links are in the show 865 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,440 notes. And if you are a healer, 866 00:57:25,440 --> 00:57:28,720 practitioner, or expert working with an out-of-the-box healing 867 00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,520 modality, something that challenges the mainstream and 868 00:57:32,520 --> 00:57:36,280 empowers deep transformation, I would love to hear from you. 869 00:57:37,160 --> 00:57:41,600 I am always looking for unique voices and approaches to share 870 00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:45,200 with the Karma crew. You can get in touch with me at 871 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:51,120 mindyourownkarma@gmail.com. And if you're feeling called to 872 00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:55,040 go deeper with your healing journey and just feel like you 873 00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,720 aren't quite getting there with traditional modalities, I invite 874 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,320 you to explore Somatic Mindful Guided Imagery, the 875 00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:07,120 transformational practice that Ioffer that connects you to your 876 00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:12,000 body's inner guidance, can heal old wounds, and helps you embody 877 00:58:12,000 --> 00:58:15,600 your true self. You'll find more details at my 878 00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:18,920 website, somatichealingjourneys.com. 879 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:23,880 As with every episode, take what you need and leave what you 880 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:27,040 don't. And always remember to mind your 881 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:28,960 own karma. Thanks for. 882 00:58:28,960 --> 00:58:32,880 Listening today, Karma crew. And remember, you might be only 883 00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,280 one. Listen away from a totally 884 00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,560 different life. I'll see you next time.