It is very, very cold where I live, the 2nd Baridi Nima
Taseka. I've been constantly reminded
that I am single and I live alone and that I have not been
having sex as much sex as I would like to have.
And the weather is not making it as easy.
It's not making it easier. It's so crazy.
But today I want to talk about love and orgasms.
I've done an an explanation episode before.
Like any aleon ataku incorporate G sports nappy sports nakaku
explain orgasms so that we're able to understand what exactly
our bodies go through or how we feel or what's happening
internally and what exactly an orgasm means before that.
Are there any new changes in my life?
My life is pretty peaceful and quiet so there's not much drama
or anything new to report except that I just want to have this
honest conversation about how the older I get, the more sex I
want. My libido is increasing but then
my awareness is high. I am much more.
I am smarter than I have ever been, like I'm more responsible.
So it means I feel like the more successful I become at
everything I'm doing and the more successful I come even in
my body as a person, as a human being, not just
materialistically, but just the more I grow and elevate myself,
it's like the less people that are eligible to date.
It's like you're able to keep relationships, especially
heterosexual relationships. You're able to keep
relationships only when you're maybe I don't, I don't know.
I don't know how to put it. Nikama okikwam janja Shiv sama,
if you ask too many questions and you have you're able to
communicate your needs openly. So many people are shying away
from that. So those that are stuck in
relationships, it's like they're forced to settle so that these
relationships can walk, which is so crazy because it has me
thinking, OK, maybe relationships are not supposed
to last forever. Maybe tunafishana pakapale
tunafika ekif kapat into modjajiski cuando la quivol
amaku grow then it's OK to part ways.
Other than that, I don't have any other updates on my life.
I think I'll just give snippets of personal experience stories
the more I continue to talk about orgasms and the G sport
and all that. So let's get started.
So Love and Orgasms, when I picked the name Love and
Orgasms, I think it was in 2019 or 2020, I used to have another
blog which was called Bobby Bomb.
It was on one press and that's where I started out.
I started out on one press before I was able to get my own
website. So I was dating a software
engineer at the time and he he really, really was an an I can
say he I don't know, he was a nice guy.
I think that's when I started dating really, really, I was at
a Sudoku. Explain Ajay.
But anyway, as I said, so far engineer, meaning he was rich as
hell and I really enjoyed my relationship with him because
for the first time I was not the breadwinner in my relationship.
OK, that's a lie. I had been dating breadwinners
before that. Let me just say he was.
At that point he was better than everyone else I had ever dated
because he was just a nice guy who always wanted nice, well,
things for me. He always wanted me to succeed
and to win. The relationship was mostly
geared towards making sure I was comfortable and everything was
taking care of. So Bobby bom ikafungwa kosababu
of my sexual content. You see, the thing with talking
and talking about sex, posting about sex is I get shadow band a
lot. My views in a katanga Kosabu now
gangajiya sex it doesn't matter kamani sexual education I'm a
kamani porn on social media you get censored a lot.
All this has been very difficult to put my name out there, even
for opportunities, because even when I approach companies, come
and see sex affiliated, they're usually like, OK, I don't
understand how we can work together.
And it's so crazy to me how sex is such a taboo topic, when to
me sex is just like money. It's like talking about money,
food. This is something people do
every day, everywhere. All sorts of people, religious
people, atheists, homeless people, rich people, everyone is
having sex. But still, the conversation is
so censored. Sidri Sidri Nafanini Nowishna, I
hope I'm trying to change this narrative in the little way that
I can. But honestly, I wish I could
cause this awakening everywhere where people are able to say,
OK, let's talk about these things because these things are
happening. So this guy, I told him about
the issue I had. I used to have to mention an
issue once and he used to take care of it immediately.
Man, I really normally miss him sometimes because he was very
reliable. He was always present when I
needed. It was just really, really
amazing friendship. I always enjoyed being friends
with him. Cosmo, clearly.
I think money isn't things in relationships.
So you didn't text me bro. Even if he hadn't texted me, he
had already paid for everything or everything was seeking help.
So I really didn't. I never felt like he was
neglecting me or he was ignoring me.
He offered to do the web website for me.
I told him my website is getting locked, I need your help, how
can you? I didn't even tell him I need
your help because I didn't even know what he really did for a
living at that time. And then he told me you know
what, I'm going to build your website.
This man just went and built me my website, did everything.
Alipanga kitu AKA transfer kilakituk tokakoyi website
builds zotte zayo website for like a year.
He paid everything, security, domain name, hosting fees, all
the fees that were ever needed, he paid and he just gave me the
password and and told me, yeah, you can go ahead and and use
this website. He was and he would invite me to
his home so that we'd chill out and create together and I could
tell him what I was thinking. Well, I didn't know he really,
really had a huge crush on me at that time because that's the
first time we started hanging out.
By the way, when I was telling him about Ishida website at a
two quarter to Mens of Katyana, he was just my friend and he did
that for me. Imagine.
Imagine at a surgery commanding Lipa and I didn't have money.
This is when I was still living at home.
I was very, very broke. God bless him wherever he is.
So this guy Akan Tangan is there.
And I remember that day he gave me a call.
He was like, I've finished everything you want.
I've he really went all out for me.
And he asked what do you want to name this website?
And I didn't have a name because the young boy and I told Bobby
Boom. Bobby Boom was such a random
name because my name is Bobby. My friend said just call it
Bobby Boom. And that's exactly what I did.
But then asked myself, what? What do I want to talk about?
What am I, what am I doing? What's this awareness I'm
creating about? And I realized my niche was
relationships and sex. So I said instead of calling it
relationships and sex, names that are words that are closer
to those that zeno nisha non gaggia relationships and a sex
sonica ficaria too randomly. Love and orgasms, I don't even
know where it came from. I just said love and orgasms and
he said Are you sure? I had a few other names that I
thought about for a couple more days, but Love and Orgasms felt
like it fits, like it was perfect for this.
And when I think about it deeper, it might seem like it's
just about relationships and sex.
But then love is a doing what love is a is a noun.
It's a thing that happens. It's a feeling you have.
It's a decision you make. It's a life you live.
It's a it's an existence. Love is freedom.
It's being, it's, there's so many ways I could explain what
love is. And orgasms is usually the
reward you get from sex, the reward you get from the
relationship that leads you to sex.
So love can create orgasms, right?
So I just started thinking how in this state of existence, how
when we exist in love and we treat ourselves well and we just
exist in freedom and we feel good and love is everywhere, The
orgasms are the consequences of this proper love.
So he existence here. Freedom, not happiness, not
living a good life, being conscious, being aware, being
present, being amazing. It comes with the rewards.
It comes with you achieving the goals you want, you being able
to exist as the person you want to become.
You becoming a better person, making more money, becoming
hotter, becoming sexier, anything that you might call a
reward. It starts coming about when you
start to truly exist as yourself and love yourself completely.
So love and orgasms is a state of existence that brings
rewards. Like how you can't even make
sense, Apple, like me, in my head, it makes sense.
And so I thought today I'd start by explaining what orgasms is.
And I captured a lot of my research from Rena Malik.
She's a urologist and pelvic surgeon.
She talks a lot about the body, the pelvic area and how it's
linked to the brain and the spinal cord because she does a
lot of spinal cord injury surgeries.
And it's just fascinating to listen to her because I'm
learning so many things about my body and how it all translates
into becoming this pleasurable sex life.
So for me, for as long as I can remember, sex has always been a
very spiritual experience. It's a state where I lose my
mind and I I go away. I go go into another universe, I
go to another planet in my mind. I mean, sex is as much physical
as it is emotional and psychological for me.
But Sasa, it just feels like I get into this deep state of
consciousness and two away. That's one way I'm normally able
to tell if I'm having pleasurable, satisfying sex or
if I'm just having sex that feels like nothing.
The gullies understand what I mean.
You can have sex with someone and you feel nothing.
Nothing. It can be the biggest Dick, the
best everything, but sometimes you just don't feel anything.
It's not about the person you're having sex with.
It's just the state of mind you're art in.
And that's how I'm able to tell sex feels really, really right.
And it feels good for me when I zoom out into another world.
And so many people have been able to corroborate what I'm
saying. And that's why so many people
have this deep sleep after sex. You just go into another world.
It takes you elsewhere. It's like a whole trip.
That's why sex for me has to be a certain way.
It has to make me feel a certain way.
It has to feed my soul, my heart, not just my body.
You could give me the the biggest, best Dick, but if I
feel no connection to that person or that situation, it's
just going to be a Dick. It's not going to do anything
for me. And I try to teach people how to
have such amazing sex that blows your mind and takes you out of
this world. There's this guy I was seeing a
couple years back. We had a sex relationship and
when I was into him, I really, really was obsessed with the
sex. The sex was amazing and I loved
it. But when aliens are too Cora, I
can say oh I'm busy. I don't reply messages all the
time. I just started detaching
emotionally and after that sex just started feeling like
sandpaper. It felt like nothing.
It's like you even start to get disgusted that this person is
touching your body and is there because there's no connection.
It's just a Dick. It's like AI don't know how how
to explain it but I'm sure so many girls can understand what I
mean. I can't speak for the girls and
I would try to explain to him that sex for me was a state of
mind more than it was anything. I would try to show him that
this is the emotional state that I needed to be in for me to
enjoy sex. But he constantly kept
destroying the connection in a in a shanga too unnatural death
una shanga too kufil nikama. You're attracted to them
anymore. I realized anytime I have this
conversation with men, they really don't get it.
They don't understand. They're like, like there's
another guy I was talking to Josie, and he was saying music
conversation you casual sex Nini Nini not to me a toys.
It's like he he he was getting annoyed by the fact that I'm
trying to advocate for sex that makes sense and satisfies women
especially. So he was saying he was trying
to sell to me at the old casual sex.
And I was trying to explain to him casual sex really does
nothing for me. OK, yeah, I might not.
But then why? I don't want to have sex.
The tiny Level 3, level 15. So what's the point?
What's the point? My toy alone near level 10.
Emotional connection. Because I know there's no
anxiety that's going to follow this sexual encounter.
There's no feelings of guilt. There's no feelings of
overthinking. I can just use my toy and sleep.
I won't care about if my toy might have an STD if my toy
cares that those pills really fuck you up emotionally.
If my toy is going to check up on me, I really have no time for
that. It's safer emotionally and
psychologically. There's no anxiety that follows
the sex. When you get to experience sex
that blows your mind and, and kind of, I'll tell you
chemically, you'll understand what I mean and you'll never
really settle for anything less. It's kind of like salaries.
You go to a job that pays you 20 K and then you go to a job that
pays you 150. You will never go back to a job
that pays you 20 K. You will never.
What's the point? Because at this point, you've
already learned how to make the money on your own, in your own
way, because you must sustain your lifestyle whether you have
a salary or not. And that's something I'm also
learning as an unemployed person who's running her own things and
doing her own things. Especially as someone who
consistently speaks on sex and companies are afraid to partner
with me because of the sexual intonation behind everything.
Trust me, Akunam tukuna stress kamini wiki rentiki pika nabardo
lazima Tunisia my technical change lifestyle young, but I
never really I'm never in a state where I say, you know
what, I'm going to go back to a job that pays me 10K Why?
Why I can make I have to be. I have your brain kind of adapts
to a higher standard and then you have to maintain it
automatically. And that's how life is.
I think so many people I don't want to give to say this is
right, but I've seen so many people have kids when they have
nothing and then they have a kid and all of a sudden their life
starts bossing up. Now they've realized or even
people when they buy a car, they weren't really financially
stable before that, but after that they know they have to have
fuel, they have to service the car, they have to detail the
car. It just comes your your mind
adapts to improvements and it keeps you on the frequency where
you want better and you have to maintain better, especially when
you're committed to a journey of just having amazing experiences
that make you a better person in general.
Sesamini I already know how to have mind blowing sex.
There's no way I'm settling for sex that's mediocre or boring.
Or inaboto. Some of the ways to achieve
orgasms is by figuring out aerogenous zones.
So aerogenous zones, New Zealand zones una una una question
related, the areas in your body where if touched or if
stimulated, they cause some some kind of excitement or some kind
of response. And this is because these areas
are very sensitive for stimulation and arousal.
Examples of these areas are like the mouth, the neck, the
nipples, the anus. I'll talk about the anus because
today I want to, I want to focus mostly on men because men do not
know about the G sport. I think it's important that I
tell you guys more about that in time, but before that.
So these erogenous zones, everyone has them.
It's just areas where can be aroused through stimulation by
either being touched or leaked or tickled because they're very,
very sensitive. And these areas are very
sensitive because of the nerve endings.
Some areas on the body other than Zealous and Amisha
mentioning chemical inner thighs or I realized that men really
really like when their nipples are sucked.
They won't always let you know, but it's true.
And also some people are also very sensitive behind the knees
a la Fuqua perineum in it a perineum.
I hope you need a perineum that space between the Dick and the
anus very very sensitive when you lick it.
I saw a tweet some guy saying I see his girl used to want to
scissor him like that, like her vagina on his perennial.
Anyway, people are very creative when it comes to sex and as long
as you're able to find what you like and that's why I keep
advocating for people to try new stuff out.
This guy I used to date a couple of years ago.
If you go to my blogs, you can read about it.
His name is Randy. I've written a couple articles
about him. This guy, he never he used to
only want traditional sex like I'll SX normal too.
He would be adventurous, but most things I used to have to
beg or to like try and coerce him.
So it just became pointless sex And you see free in a natural
linear Lasmo trek who convinced him to let's do this like it's
it's not safe. It doesn't feel safe anymore and
you're overtime just my attraction to him and me wanting
sex from him. Aliens Atuka because most times
we were never on the same page about stuff.
I'm very willing to try new things out and to put myself out
there. But he, he wasn't really the
same. He was the opposite.
He liked to have traditional safe sex.
Now, I mean, I think I'm a bit too wild for that at this point.
I mean, missionary in a Bamba. But you know, the more
comfortable you get, the more you want to try new things out
with your partner. He wasn't having it.
And actually sex with him is what made me realize I was done
with casual sex. Like I couldn't do it anymore
because I wanted to be with someone who I was able to tell
things like this. Also, you can't do such things
in one one night stands. I mean you can, but I mean you
can't have the conversation that leads to consent before you do
it. And that's also something that
has become very important to me. Consent as having sexual
conversations before we even jump into the sex.
It's very important to me. This is why before I sleep with
someone, I always become the friend fast.
Most of the people I've had sex with, I was friends with them
for two 3-4 years. Even before I had sex with them.
Sex is such a big deal for me and it's not a tea.
Everything has to be perfect. It's just if I can help it, if I
can be a bit more responsible so that I can be able to enjoy the
kind of sex that I want, then I have to do these things.
I have to be intentional with sex.
It's also because, oops, kind of sex emacia.
I can't really do that anymore because now I'm a grown up and I
have to be responsible. Brains can have been done when
people are doing this, these types of research and in the
brain, the place where the places that activate when you're
feeling pain are linked usually the same with the places that
are activated when you feel pleasure.
And that's why sometimes people link pain and pleasure to each
other. So a lot of things happen when
you're orgasming, the way your body feels, it can activate like
unintentional sounds it, it can make your body shake, it can
make you release fluids. It can make orgasms are just a
whole thing. That's why you really have to be
comfortable with the person that you're think.
This is my opinion. Maybe Nicole Shai, like you
mean, I feel if you need, if you want me to get nastier with you,
the nastier you need me to be, the more comfortable and safe I
have to feel. So the G spot, for me to explain
the G spot, I kind of have to talk about the anatomy of the
female body a little bit. Let's start with the clit.
I hope you guys know what the clit is or where it is.
If you don't know, please, you'll have to Google clitoris.
And then you see the clit. Its makeup is similar to that of
the penis in men decade. They can be likened to each
other because they're very analogous and actually they do
develop from the same tissues and they have a lot of nerve
endings. The same way the penis reacts
during stimulation is the same way the clitoris reacts during
stimulation. Sexual stimulation, especially
it gets enlarged during erection, it gets engorged with
blood. It just they have so many
similarities. It's like that the same thing.
It's just different in The xx chromosomes and in the XY
chromosome. So every woman has three holes,
the urethra. This is where the susu comes out
of the vagina. This is where the baby comes out
of, which is the bath canal. And then the anus inside the
vagina. There's a lot of nerves.
There's a there's a you should listen to the episode where I
talk about squatting. I kind of explain what the
skin's glands is because this is is where the fluid for female
squat comes out from. So quite your skin's glands.
The monarch was sexually aroused.
The more fluid in a build up. And how to make a woman orgasm
is by applying pressure on the skin's glands.
We can apply pressure harpo. We can apply pressure harpo ETA
relief. Not one of the squat in a
tokanga. I felt good, but I didn't really
is it nothing I I can say I came, but I didn't really
orgasm. And he knew because I'm a
squatter and he was so disappointed.
He was like I failed. And that made me realize this
guy. He's, you know, men are really
interesting. I realized long a long time ago,
being in the sex industry, I realized that some people have
sex with you because they like the way you look.
It's nothing deeper than that. Or for whatever reason, they
want to have sex with you. And sometimes they want to have
sex with you to conquer you, like to make you, not to make
you orgasm. And if they don't do that, then
they feel like they've failed or like they've not achieved what
they wanted. And this, it kind of annoys me
because it makes me feel like I'm an experiment because
Kitambo, because of my blog, most men would want to associate
with me or to sleep with me just to say they slept with me, just
to say they made me squat. And it's really, it's like, bro,
sex is so much more than squatting than you being able to
say you made me squat. Sex is how comfortable did I
feel? Was I safe with you?
Did it feel good? Did I enjoy the whole process?
It's not just. And I realized for men, it's
mostly about the coming, the nothing, when for women, it's
about the whole experience. It's about from the beginning,
like how you speak to me, how you made me feel throughout the
day, the foreplay, the way you treat me, the way you make it's,
it's a lot of things. It's not just meeting and
parking. And then I, not at ECG, could
explain. I keep talking about it and
nobody really understands, but as long as the girls understand
what I'm saying, then it's OK. I feel hard.
It's literally a whole process. When I noticed he was like that
and I noticed even when we got to having sex, he was very
present. He was not like gone.
You know how when you have sex and it takes you to another
dimension? He was having sex with me like I
was Mika, my Annie and Annie observe an Anglia reaction.
Young one attacker. Who the other person is or what
they're feeling or what's going on.
Sex is supposed to be a mutual thing.
I'm not supposed to leave that place feeling like you fucked
me, like you used my body to nut or you're just trying to get a
satisfaction out of making me nut.
It's supposed to be a wholesome experience where we're both
deeply enjoying the process together.
And this is where the G spot comes.
Because once I see someone is trying to experiment with me, I
also pull out G sport discussions in the in the in the
man, it's called the P sport because it's the prostate.
But I'll get to that in a bit. When you apply pressure hypoqua,
skin's glands, that's how you squat higher.
So let's move to the men. The men also have something
similar to the G spot and it's called the P spot.
This is the prostate, the prostate gland, the male G spot.
And it can be reached using a finger to people who do butt
play or as play, they know what I'm talking about.
I have an episode on anal sex. I link it in the description so
that you can get to understand more about that.
It's just below the bladder, the same as the G sport in women,
very close to the bladder. The skin's glands is very close
to the bladder. In men, it's just below the
bladder. And when you stimulate the
prostate gland, it causes intense orgasms and it's very
sensitive to the touch. When you just apply pressure
like this to the prostate gland, it causes the craziest orgasms.
Like I said, I'm a very open minded people and pass on and I
like to have sex with people who are also open minded because
then you get to try so many new things and you get to enjoy so
much together without any fear. You guys can bring things up if
someone is not comfortable, cool.
But then I always say don't. I always say don't knock it till
you try it. Like for the men, the prostate
gland is inside the anus eco quahoga, but most men, they feel
like bad play emasculates them like it's gay or like it's
disgusting. But they're just refusing to
acknowledge that when you stimulate the prostate gland,
which is in the anus, it causes orgasms.
Once you get to experience that kind of orgasm, I promise you
will never settle for less. I used to date some guy I've
dated a lot. I used to date this guy who the
first guy I ever had bad play with and I really really used to
enjoy having sex with him because he was so open minded.
We used to try so many things. He actually taught me so much
about sex and he let me do stuff on him, try things on him and I
realized I actually enjoy that kind of stuff.
I enjoy seeing my partner enjoy sex, not just do sex to me.
Like I love to see them enjoy the sex.
And then when I saw his body reaction to me fondling with
like the rimming stuff and the milk stuff and massaging his
prostate, when I when I saw that, I was like where this is
something I really, really like. This is a pleasure I would love
for my partner to enjoy. I haven't really ever done it
again since then. This is like four years ago.
Five years ago because I've not been having consistent sex.
But then again, I've not met a partner who I've been
comfortable enough with to even bring such things up.
So I hope I'll start dating soon and I'll date an open minded
past someone who I will have lots of sex with and who will
let me do all these things. So let me let's talk about ways
in which to improve sex and maybe help you achieve orgasms.
So people have talked about a lot of things that make them
reach this space where they're able to enjoy sex, and I just
want to touch a bit on it. Sex largely for me, it's an
issue of security and comfortability.
As long as I feel really, really good being around you, then
anything goes. But Kama hakuna connection
gumusana kosabusiezi ongaya CSI communicate One of the best ways
to improve your orgasms is through relationship
satisfaction. Relationship satisfaction.
It builds a really, really safe connection for you, which
enhances communication between you and your partner.
It makes sex easier because if you're happy in the
relationship, especially like for the both of you, if you got,
let me say both, assuming you're just having sex, two people, if
you two people in the relationship are satisfied with
the relationship, happy, you're enjoying the relationship,
there's not much stress going on, then automatically the
orgasms are better. If you guys are friends, you
care about each other, there's just a better connection between
each other, improves your sex life automatically.
That's why I keep telling people you need to work on yourself so
that you can be the kind of person who's able to exist in
safe relationships so that you can attract safe relationships
so that you can be able to enjoy sex better.
Whatever you want to call it, whether your situation shipping
a tender masojini nini, a masojini, whatever, as long as
you feel safe and you're satisfied and you enjoy it, you
don't feel used, you don't feel manipulated, you're not anxious,
you're not worried about many things, then automatically it
increases your chances of better orgasms.
Something else that people have incorporated in order to enjoy
orgasms is toys and fantasy. This is things like DDSM or
fetishes and kinks exist. Just throwing yourself out
there, learning more things about yourself sexually, getting
to know what is it I enjoy what do I like does this guy another
guy I also dated, he used to also like butt play.
I didn't do butt play things with him because I wasn't
comfortable yet with him to get there.
But when I noticed this is the kind of stuff he liked I I would
give him sex stuff like I would get I got him a butt plug.
He told me it even after to a channel and he told me that but
like significantly improved his sex life.
It just made things better for him.
He uses it even when he's wanking because you know your
pressure poker Pro Street It excites him and makes him
happier. And that generally makes me
happier because through him communicating his needs, showing
me what he liked, I was able to even gift him in a good way, you
know. So that's something he uses even
after me and I love it. I love it for him and also
mutual stimulation. This is something I like like to
do with my partner, like wanking together.
Wanking together over the phone. It can be audio, it can be
video. It can be in person.
He's wanking. Yeah, You, you're wanking there
watching each other, turning each other on.
You see, you can't do such things.
Come out on a confidence. Let's move on a confidence crazy
and say the best way to build this confidence is if you guys
have a connection and you're able to have proper
communication about the sex you want, then you can do all these
crazy stuff with each other. Safety and consent.
Nothing is as sexy as consent. Someone having discussions with
me before sex, asking me questions, finding out if it's
what I want, not just surprising me.
There's so many times people have done things to me that
shocked me like we're making out and then he starts choking me
and it's the first time we're making out.
We've never even had a discussion about choking and
stuff like that and you've not even asked me for consent.
That's weird. Or someone trying to put his
penis in your in your butt without asking you or without
finding out if it's something you're comfortable with.
Bro, why would you do that? It's a it's a whole conversation
we have to have and it's just really, really weird when people
assume everything goes without having these discussions with
their sexual partners. Remember Kama hakuna consent
rape. I'm a coercion, not be a
coercion rape Atacama mukapo together no comfortable and then
you go ahead and do it. That's rape.
Anytime someone's you ignore someone wanting something or you
do not out if they're comfortable, if you do not make
them comfortable enough to want it, that's coercion.
That's rape. That's why discussions,
communication has to be very, very open before any sexual
interactions. That's my opinion.
That's what I feel. I feel like before we fuck,
we've got to talk about it. I'm, I never put myself in
situations where it's like we've never brought sex up.
The last time I did that, I really, really regretted it.
It really hurt my feelings because it was just you're
touching someone wanting to experiment with you to see what
you're like when they really have no feelings for you or no
care for you. It leaves you feeling very used
when you're not. You leave the environment
feeling. Did I even consent?
Like, OK, yeah, we were in that environment and things got
steamy. But we've never really talked
about this. Is this what I really, really
wanted? And then you start to feel
guilty because you didn't say no, so meaning you accepted.
So is it really rape? It's just a whole Gray area that
that I don't like. So for that I always say have
the discussion before you have sex with each other.
And for women, like I said, remember the clit is just like
the penis. They have the same genetic
makeup. Clitoral stimulation is a big
yes, meaning these X why people, they have to know where the clit
is. They have to find it.
You have to demand that they find the clit because that's
where the sensitive NAV endings are.
That's what will stimulate you the most.
That's where utam eco some people not from penetration, but
largely most females, most women, they orgasm through
clitoral stimulation and this can be using the tongue, using
manually and also during sex. That's why I see the ring in a
Bam Banga Evo. I see tweets about lesbians
talking about how they Cesar for like 8 hours.
It totally makes sense to me. It's possible.
I feel like it's possible because that kind of
stimulation, especially when you've used the Rose toy, you
know exactly what I mean. It's very over stimulating but
it's very very enjoyable and you orgasm faster than normal.
So I'd say try new things. Focus on the foreplay now.
Foreplay 4 play In the Sema 4 play, see Tuna patana, Chafu.
Foreplay is it starts from the way our relationship is, how we
relate to each other, how we speak to each other, what we
talk about, how you treat me, how you make me feel, how
everything. It's about our conversation from
that morning when you woke up. Good morning, beautiful.
I miss you. I want to see you today.
Can I take you out to dinner? It's not come to my house at
7:30 and this text is being sent at 6:30 PM and he come to my
house in one hour and then when Endo, Nadina and Columbia, you
know, I'm really, really busy. Your Uber is outside.
I've called for you on Uber, bro.
I'm gonna stimulation, I'm gonna foreplay Unica.
It's about it's the whole process.
It's about how we laugh with each other, how we enjoy each
other's company, how we relate, how we do things together.
All of that is foreplay. And I would like for people to
understand that the more you are kinda and the more
dissatisfaction in this sexual relationship, the safer, the
more comfortable, the better I feel then the better the sex
automatically. It's a direct correlation.
If you don't talk to me, then we're not fucking.
If you don't care about me, we're not fucking.
It's not going to do anything for me.
So I hope I've explained in my own little way what the G spot,
the P sport orgasms, foreplay and things that improve orgasms
in both women and men. Well, I hope you've been able to
understand. Please feel free to ask me any
questions that you might have. I'm interested to listen and to
learn as well. Thank you for listening.
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intrapersonal relationships. So please learn from this and
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