1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:06,520 OK, hello and welcome. I'm already drunk. 2 00:00:06,560 --> 00:00:09,080 Yeah, welcome back to Unbothered. 3 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,240 We have. Kasia West again. 4 00:00:11,600 --> 00:00:15,760 Back again we I have done so many serious episodes and I kind 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:19,520 of miss when I would just get a little tipsy and a little crazy 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,440 and so I thought, who better to do it with? 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:23,120 I know. I'm so excited. 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:25,560 I'm so excited. No, this is like my wave that 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,640 I'm on now too. We're doing a red Flag episode, 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,480 guys. We're talking about really niche 11 00:00:30,520 --> 00:00:34,200 and maybe some obvious red flags that men have. 12 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,640 Yeah, I think everyone should play a drinking game with this 13 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:41,680 of to see how many red flags the guy that you're seeing has. 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,120 We get your wine, get your tequila, whatever it is, and if 15 00:00:45,160 --> 00:00:47,920 any of the guys that you're dating exhibit these behaviors, 16 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,080 take a shot, Take a shot. And if you're drunk by the end 17 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,320 of this episode, consider ending your relationship or 18 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:54,480 situationship or whatever you're. 19 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,880 In And the incredible thing is you'll be so drunk that you can 20 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:58,680 text somebody else and go to home with them. 21 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:03,120 Oh shit, my list is long. I thought I would texted you and 22 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:04,879 I was like oh I'm only going to write down 20. 23 00:01:04,879 --> 00:01:07,280 I think I've written down at least 97. 24 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,040 Are you serious? That's good because I didn't 25 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,000 write that many down because I was out with two red flags last 26 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:16,280 night, but I it gave me some material. 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,640 Perfect, perfect. Before we begin, cheers. 28 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:21,720 Welcome back to LA. Thank you baby. 29 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,000 You're like, see you last. Time I've been here, I know. 30 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:28,240 I was so sad, but you were doing your little thing. 31 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,920 I went, I don't know what I was doing, but I seemed very. 32 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,480 Happy. So that's all I care about. 33 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,680 Thank you. I kept checking your location. 34 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:41,800 I'm like, And then I see Hawaii. I was like, ma'am, where are 35 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:43,920 you? You text me and you're like, 36 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,000 what the fuck is going on? Yeah, I had a good time. 37 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:48,640 OK, I'm going to kick it off, OK? 38 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,240 If he loves Miami. You know my ex-husband is moving 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,880 to Miami there. You go. 40 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,400 I kind of told him to. I was like literally leave and 41 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,720 go to Miami. I know that's what you want. 42 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:02,200 And he's in New York. No. 43 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:09,320 Well, now he's in Thailand, but. We my follow up, my follow up 44 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,960 red flag is going to Thailand specifically alone. 45 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:18,560 OK, I think it's a red flag when a guy doesn't stick up for you 46 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:21,360 to his guy friends. Big red flag. 47 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,240 Are you kidding me? Like what? 48 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,320 You suck. No, you're gay. 49 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:28,640 You're gay? Are you kidding me? 50 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:34,000 Like you're you're going to let your boy be mad at me for some 51 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,560 dumb shit? Are you serious? 52 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:38,360 Also, why are they not? What's going on? 53 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,560 Something occurred. Something occurred. 54 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:41,800 Do you want a story or should we move on? 55 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,560 It's up to you. I mean, OK, OK, I won't. 56 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:45,040 I won't. I won't. 57 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,720 He's probably going to hear it and be like, are you actually 58 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:49,520 serious? I don't like drama with your 59 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,960 friends and like, I shouldn't even be hearing about it. 60 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:54,640 You genuinely should be sticking up for me. 61 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,400 I was going to say, I don't think I've encountered drama 62 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,480 with my like anyone that I'm dating his friends. 63 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,200 Is that the first for me? One time and I can tell the 64 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,240 story and everybody involved is going to hear about it and 65 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:06,240 they're going to hate me for good. 66 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:12,840 We went to one of my ex's best friend's cousin's party. 67 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,040 If you're following, it was her birthday. 68 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:17,760 This is the type of stuff that makes my brain shut down. 69 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,040 OK, so my boyfriend at the time, yeah, one of his best friends 70 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:22,600 who I really love. OK. 71 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,680 It was his cousin's party. Tracking a little, go ahead, 72 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:27,800 okay. Just a birthday party on the 73 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,240 roof, whatever, not a big deal. We were all having a great time 74 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:33,200 and I came from a different party in Malibu and I was 75 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:37,800 wearing designer leather shoes, okay, like sandals that were 76 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,120 brand new. He stepped on them. 77 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:43,200 The friend and I was like OK like please don't step on my 78 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,600 toes. He was a goal your wires all 79 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,600 slides or sandals or whatever. And then I can't really remember 80 00:03:49,600 --> 00:03:50,680 what happened. I was drunk. 81 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,000 I think he has spilt or like something happened following it 82 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:57,800 and I was like, what the fuck? And we got into like beef and 83 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,320 I've never beefed with any of these friends ever. 84 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,320 But I was like, why would you try to intentionally fight my? 85 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:04,080 It's so. Awkward. 86 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,560 I don't even think it. It was so stupid and silly 87 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,680 because we were both drunk and we were just playing with each 88 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,800 other. But then later I met this New 89 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:14,160 Girl and I told her what happened and she said what? 90 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,120 She called him over and she was shit faced. 91 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,040 Everybody was black out. She slapped him across the face 92 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:25,400 and I was like, I've started something really bad. 93 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:29,640 It became like he's actually my ex's favorite friend of mine, so 94 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,840 I was. Like, damn, I really didn't mean 95 00:04:30,840 --> 00:04:33,720 to like start a war over that. So awkward. 96 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:35,640 It's like fighting with someone's family or something. 97 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:37,520 It's just one of those things where it's just, it just ruins 98 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,280 everything and it's just like, what is this drama? 99 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,880 I don't like it. I also think it's a red flag to 100 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,040 on both on both parties. It's not just meant, like in a 101 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,560 relationship, when you're overly venting to your friends about 102 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,360 small arguments because now everybody's going to hate your 103 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,240 significant other. I think about that sometimes and 104 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,880 I, I try not to and I, I tell myself just don't say anything 105 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,400 and I'm like, no, I'm going to tell them everything because I'm 106 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,040 like low key my friends don't like him. 107 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,080 But like I, oh, and he asked me to apologize to him and I did 108 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:07,720 and he still he didn't like he didn't accept the apology. 109 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,440 And I literally said I was like, I, I love you like I love this 110 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:11,680 guy. I love to hang out with him and 111 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,320 everything. And now it's awkward. 112 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:18,360 Like why is everyone trying to ruin my relationship with my red 113 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:19,800 flag? Can I? 114 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,400 Can I just have a red flag? Like I don't have this. 115 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,480 What? No, mind you, I'm doing this, 116 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,000 but like, I'm not marrying the guy, not. 117 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:30,920 Trying to put him in your bloodline. 118 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:37,400 OK calling women females. I do not like when they do this. 119 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:42,440 Yeah, I didn't know the thing until I said it one time, and 120 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,720 then everyone called me out. They're like, don't call women 121 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,520 females. And I was like, right, Coming 122 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,920 from a misogynist, yeah, it doesn't sound very good. 123 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:55,200 No, it's giving red pill podcasts energy and I don't like 124 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,880 that so. Is red pill even thriving still 125 00:05:57,880 --> 00:05:59,400 or are they only? Just driving, yeah. 126 00:05:59,840 --> 00:06:02,240 They're not Angel yet. No, I actually saw a video of 127 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,640 Andrew Tate, Nick Fuentes and like all the other guys dancing 128 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,280 to some heinous anti-Semitic song of Kanye's in the club in 129 00:06:09,280 --> 00:06:11,480 Miami like a week ago. So they're out. 130 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,320 Also I thought he was in jail tape for like sex trafficking 131 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,600 and assault, you know? He'll go back to jail. 132 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:23,200 Red flag is look at look at their view page, if there's any 133 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,920 kind of red pill shit on it. But you can actually hear it in 134 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,320 the way that they talk at this point. 135 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,000 You can, Yeah. You know, I need to start kind 136 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,320 of not in it anymore. I need to do a little scrolling 137 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,360 on like a fake account so it doesn't get anywhere near my 138 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,160 algorithm so I can hear the things that they say. 139 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,240 Have you seen, I saw a journalist, she started a new, I 140 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,560 can't remember who it was for. I want to say someone like Vice. 141 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:47,720 She started a new account on TikTok and she said she was a 142 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,400 guy. She said she was 18. 143 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,880 Within I think like 12 minutes they're getting fed red pill 144 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,640 content. You know what it is immediately 145 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:57,240 is it's girls dancing. The second you make a new 146 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:59,720 account, it's no matter what it's. 147 00:06:59,840 --> 00:07:02,560 And it's also young girls, 16 year old girls dancing, yes. 148 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,160 And I was like hello you and you have to like scroll so fast to 149 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,120 get away from it if. You put your age as 16, OK, But 150 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:13,080 if you're putting your age as 2530, OK, What's the thing going 151 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,360 on anyway? Red flag. 152 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:16,080 Big red flag for me. Who's up next? 153 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,520 Is it you or it's you? This is amongst other topics 154 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,480 that I have, so let's see. Oh my God, I apparently wrote 155 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,720 down a bunch of topics last night when I was out. 156 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,680 Love that it's a red flag if they go to strip clubs. 157 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:30,160 Yes, agreed. And it's just like you can't. 158 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:32,520 And now, mind you, I go to strip clubs. 159 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:36,320 I can go, I can go to strip clubs because it's aesthetic. 160 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,600 The reason I like strip clubs is very aesthetic. 161 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:40,720 Do you have any idea how aesthetic it is to see a woman's 162 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:45,120 body gliding down the pole with the money flowing in the air? 163 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:49,320 It's highly aesthetic. One of my best friends likes to 164 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,920 go to strip clubs. She's very, very artsy, mind 165 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:56,360 you, like extremely artsy. And she likes to take out a 166 00:07:56,360 --> 00:08:00,280 bunch of money and spell out words with the money on the 167 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:04,800 platform and take. And she'll go by herself. 168 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,280 Sometimes I'm like, are you for real? 169 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,920 She she's. A photographer, and she's like, 170 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,280 well known for it, so it makes sense that she's doing what 171 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,640 she's doing. But at the same time I'm like, 172 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,800 OK, OK, OK, we're doing that. We're at. 173 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:18,960 What's the one on Sunset called? Body Shop. 174 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:20,600 Yeah, we're at The Body Shop. I was. 175 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:21,960 In a Body Shop 3 times this week. 176 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:23,760 Really crazy you tried flag though. 177 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:24,840 Like men don't need to be in there. 178 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,040 Yeah. Listen, I'm going to tell you 179 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:29,080 all the guys that are at Body Shop there all the time, it's 180 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:31,760 always someone. It's either like a wrapper or 181 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:36,440 like a random like birthday party or like random like white 182 00:08:36,440 --> 00:08:43,159 guys or but it's just, to me, it's just paying for it. 183 00:08:43,159 --> 00:08:46,720 To me. I think once a man, once a man, 184 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:52,240 thinks of a woman's body in terms of something he can buy, 185 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,200 he's no longer going to treat you properly. 186 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,760 Or respect you, or when it's not even used. 187 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:02,640 Yeah, it's just because, like it's taking out any need for 188 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,200 effort. It's just like, oh, if you have 189 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:07,560 $100, I'm going to slap your ass with it and put it in your G 190 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:10,560 string. If you feel like that's how easy 191 00:09:10,560 --> 00:09:13,720 you can get it, then why are you ever going to put? 192 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:16,520 I know. Like, are they blowing up an air 193 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,720 mattress? Yeah, we just got up and we had 194 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:24,520 a confrontation with a leaf blower man outside who was not 195 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:26,440 blowing leaves. He was just in an empty parking 196 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,160 lot like this with a leaf blower anyway. 197 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,160 But yeah, if a man thinks that he can pay for it, then like, 198 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:36,480 what incentive does he have to treat you nicely if he thinks he 199 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:38,640 could just go to the strip club and buy some? 200 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:42,400 I also. Think, I mean, yes, I haven't 201 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,760 really thought about that in that way and that's upsetting to 202 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,120 me. I don't I don't know cuz I don't 203 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:49,320 date men that go to strip. Well, they probably do, and I 204 00:09:49,320 --> 00:09:50,760 just don't know it. It's possible. 205 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:52,080 A lot's. Happening to me emotionally 206 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:57,240 right now. If you are somebody who on your 207 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,320 bachelor party wants to go to a strip club. 208 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:04,120 No. Or someone who's like, oh, it's 209 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,000 my last night of freedom. Like, actually your, your 210 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,080 freedom or whatever the fuck you want to call it went away when 211 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,280 you got into a relationship. And you shouldn't feel like it's 212 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:13,600 a ball and chain. Yeah. 213 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,560 Like, marriage should be something you're excited about. 214 00:10:15,560 --> 00:10:17,280 You found your person. You're spending the rest of your 215 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:18,720 life with them. Like, it shouldn't be this like, 216 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,320 oh, I got to go look at a bunch of naked women. 217 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,360 Like, fuck somebody. Like it's awful. 218 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:25,920 It's also pathetic. Yeah. 219 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:27,440 It's just gross. I don't like it. 220 00:10:27,560 --> 00:10:31,400 There's some guys who for some reason it doesn't bother me. 221 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,200 And I swear it's only if you're in the music industry. 222 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,560 It doesn't bother me. Like if I know you can easily 223 00:10:37,560 --> 00:10:42,440 get it otherwise and you're just there for like a because that's 224 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,640 what they do, then that's whatever. 225 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:49,280 Anyhow, moving on, OK. She's so ready. 226 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:52,240 To wait for this one, this one No one talks about this one. 227 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:54,320 This should be our national flag. 228 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:58,160 And basically, yeah, it is the American flag. 229 00:10:58,680 --> 00:11:04,440 If a man has two chargers, if he has two chargers, if he has a 230 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:08,880 charger on both sides of his bed, he is a walking red flag. 231 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,960 Really. Because you know what's messed 232 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,400 up is as a Virgo to me, I'm like, Oh my God, you're 233 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,080 literally so prepared and organized. 234 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,720 Prepared for what? Me baby when we spend the night. 235 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,720 That's adorable. I'm the worst right now to talk 236 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,640 about this as a non monogamous person because what it means you 237 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,520 have a girlfriend, you have a girlfriend. 238 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,960 You are seeing so many women that it became inconvenient to 239 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,600 share your charger. So you bought another charger 240 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,040 and you put it on your other night stand and like, too shy. 241 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,200 Good, good job. I guess because now women are 242 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:40,640 like, he's prepared. But it's like, baby, did you 243 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,640 think about how many times a week he's prepared? 244 00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:46,160 Oh yeah, no red flag for anyone looking for like an actual like 245 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,520 relationship. I yeah, I don't even think I 246 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:51,960 could think of a bigger red flag than that because it's yes, you 247 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,960 either have a girlfriend. I'm sorry. 248 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,760 They have a girlfriend. They have a girlfriend. 249 00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:03,840 There's no way that any man has the the forethought to just keep 250 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,560 the charger there. And if they did, professional 251 00:12:06,560 --> 00:12:09,960 man whore professional. Profession. 252 00:12:10,440 --> 00:12:14,240 You will never settle down. That's in no way now I can't, I, 253 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:17,600 I need to like, I almost wish I was like actually sleeping with 254 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,760 a lot of people to, to see. Maybe I'll just go to people's 255 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:22,320 houses and pretend I'm going. The house tour. 256 00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:24,600 I have a friend who likes to get the house tour. 257 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:29,160 I mean, it is interesting. It is interesting to go back to 258 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:31,000 a guy's house and be like, OK, what? 259 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:36,320 My thing is messy. I can't do messy. 260 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:40,320 People or it's situations. Oh, I could do a messy 261 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:44,200 situation, but if your apartment is messy, I'm out. 262 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:45,880 Yeah, I agree. I can't. 263 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:51,040 I can't fucking a mess. I had a friend once. 264 00:12:51,560 --> 00:12:53,560 Well, I'm not going to call her a friend. 265 00:12:53,560 --> 00:12:57,920 I knew someone once who said that she was dating a guy and he 266 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,120 was like, 20-30 years her senior. 267 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,880 And, yeah. And she was like, you know, he 268 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,960 said that he's broken up with his girlfriend. 269 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:07,960 But I went to his place and he has a loft and Tribeca. 270 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,400 It's Immaculate. And he had, like, place settings 271 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:14,520 and he had all the wines and he had or turfs and in the closet, 272 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,800 it was so well organized. And there were still women's 273 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,760 clothes in there. And I was like, so he's married. 274 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:22,000 He has a fucking wife. Yeah, he's a wife because he's 275 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:24,520 60 or however old he is. Yeah. 276 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,760 And she's like, no, no, no, no. He wouldn't lie to me. 277 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,680 And I'm like, baby, I know you like that Tribeca apartment, but 278 00:13:30,680 --> 00:13:35,040 I have news to break to you. They don't have organizers in 279 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:38,600 their closet without a wife. That's not how that works. 280 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:41,240 Yeah, he wouldn't lie to me. Is crazy. 281 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,560 He wouldn't lie to me. Virgo machine. 282 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:44,000 Yeah, unless they're Virgo. They're. 283 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,800 Kind of organized, you said the girls of Virgo. 284 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,080 I was like, OK, OK, you know what I find to be a red flag? 285 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:54,320 Please share. If you if you have sex in front 286 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:58,400 of your animal, like if a guy, if you're, if you hook up with a 287 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:05,840 guy and he doesn't like put his animal in the other room, like 288 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:10,400 I'm sorry, no, it's really. Bad because why is this little 289 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:13,080 creature witnessing this? Put it away and. 290 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:22,520 When I tell you this must be prevalence because there's no 291 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:23,920 way. There's no way. 292 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:25,560 It's happened to me more than once. 293 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:28,480 Why? Why not just like, escort the 294 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:33,360 dog or the cat out of the room? Genuinely because you want it to 295 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,800 watch, especially if it's a boy dog. 296 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,000 I swear to God. I swear to God they're like, you 297 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:42,720 watch me beg this girl like yeah bro like I I. 298 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,160 Swear. No, it's really weird. 299 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,680 I don't have. Encountered that, it's really 300 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,200 traumatizing. Yeah, and it happened to my 301 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:53,800 friend also. And I'm like, the dog licked our 302 00:14:53,800 --> 00:15:00,960 toes. No, I'm like, that's 303 00:15:00,960 --> 00:15:06,840 beastiality. No the the dogs. 304 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:08,360 And the cats? They need to be out of the room. 305 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,920 Absolutely not. Do you, you, I know you know 306 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:15,120 that this animal is aware. Genuinely the weirdest thing 307 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,280 that I think anyone could possibly do. 308 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,560 No, it's really weird. We have a lot to get through. 309 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,360 I think we need a rapid fire. Are you ready? 310 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:22,520 Rapid fire? Go ahead. 311 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:27,400 Can't make decisions. EW red fucking flag if a man. 312 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:30,800 Can't make the decision. Why are you even here? 313 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,240 Do you want me to eat you out too? 314 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,880 Oh my God. Do you want me to pick the 315 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:41,960 restaurant and then lick your? Literally, I wrote doesn't know 316 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:43,480 what I want to eat when I'm hungry. 317 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:46,680 Like when I'm hungry and I don't know, I need you to suggest 318 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:49,480 things and take me there. Yeah, if I'm starving and I'm 319 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:52,440 about, I'm this close to entering like bitchy territory, 320 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:54,480 I need you to be like, we're going here right now. 321 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,560 Yeah, also because a woman, OK, I've talked about this before. 322 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,160 A woman doesn't want to decide what the two of you are eating 323 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:04,560 because a man doesn't know how to not have it all over their 324 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,560 face if they don't like it or if they don't know what you're 325 00:16:07,560 --> 00:16:10,080 trying to spend. Sometimes my favorite part of 326 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,200 being taken out on a date is all I do is get ready, which also 327 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,360 takes me two fucking hours. Yeah. 328 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:17,600 And then you pick the place and then I show up and then we have 329 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:18,960 a good time. I'm not that picky. 330 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:20,600 You pick the place. I trust you. 331 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:23,040 If I'm dating you. Yeah, and let's go eat. 332 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:28,680 Men, men genuinely have no idea how much effort it takes to get 333 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:30,920 ready. No, I literally the last episode 334 00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,800 I dropped was about like beauty standards and, and how much of 335 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:37,320 my brain power and time out of my day it takes and how much 336 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,560 more I could put toward things that matter if I didn't have to 337 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:43,440 blow out my hair for two hours or get my nails done or do my 338 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,200 makeup or get a spray tan or whatever. 339 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:47,000 And then there's people who are like, oh, you don't have to do 340 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,000 any of those things. Yes, I do. 341 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:49,720 Are you insane? Yes, I do. 342 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,480 I feel like I have to. Everyone else, no, you have to. 343 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,640 And honestly, it's not about even having to. 344 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:58,640 I want to. That's what I'm I want, and the 345 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:00,920 man wants you to also. Everybody. 346 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,119 Everyone wants me to. No one wants me to step out of 347 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:08,440 the house with no with my hair and my makeup not done and no 348 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:09,760 outfit. We're not getting in anywhere. 349 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,920 And I do and don't get me wrong, but the difference like I've 350 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:16,000 literally seen side by side Instagram videos where it's like 351 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,760 a girl and she's just spare faced in a bun with sweats. 352 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:20,960 She's carrying really heavy luggage at like the Grove and 353 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:23,480 nobody else her. And then she's in a cute sun 354 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:24,760 dress with a blow in her hair and makeup. 355 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,319 And 90 people ask. Society does treat you 356 00:17:27,319 --> 00:17:29,320 differently when you get ready versus when you don't. 357 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,360 It doesn't mean that you're chopped. 358 00:17:31,360 --> 00:17:34,080 It just means that that's how we are all conditioned. 359 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:39,560 Even babies look at people that are attractive longer. 360 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:41,760 It's human nature. It's human nature. 361 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,400 And also men need to understand that you're getting ready 362 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,920 because you're if you're out with a man and you look good, 363 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,920 you're raising their status. So you better appreciate that 364 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:54,240 she took the time to get ready to make you look good. 365 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:57,280 And if you don't and you rush her and you don't understand 366 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,320 that red flag, red flag. OK, A. 367 00:17:59,480 --> 00:18:00,840 Man, that rushes Getting Ready. OK. 368 00:18:00,840 --> 00:18:03,600 Oh my God, The Wiffle of Ostry. Just its favorite movie. 369 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:08,920 Yeah, you can't even comment on it. 370 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:12,080 It's not bad. I can I can comment on it 371 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:17,800 because one of my exes of five years, who as it turned out, was 372 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:23,120 wearing my and his ex wife's lingerie, hooking up with guys 373 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:25,960 and dressing like woman on low, which nothing wrong with it, but 374 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,800 she literally said let's work on it, let's do whatever, and he 375 00:18:29,800 --> 00:18:33,240 still was cheating on her. Not only was it his favorite 376 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,560 movie, but when we broke up, I literally took the DVD and I 377 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:41,400 scratched it all up. Just that's how much of his 378 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,680 favorite movie it was. Like he watched it every day or? 379 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,160 Probably jerked off to it. You're not gonna agree with this 380 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:49,360 and it's totally fine, but I think if he has a chain 381 00:18:49,360 --> 00:18:51,920 necklace, it's a red flag. A chain necklace. 382 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:54,520 It like a little gold chain like it is swinging around. 383 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:57,640 Yeah, he faces no genuine. I agree with that. 384 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:00,040 I think it's a red. Flag a little gold chain, mind 385 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:01,080 you, a little gold. Chain. 386 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,240 I like guys like a diamond chain. 387 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:05,240 I know that's. Why? 388 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:06,640 I was like, I don't think she's gonna agree with this. 389 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:10,400 Yeah, but a little chain. I don't like if. 390 00:19:10,400 --> 00:19:14,200 It's like if if I know it's just specifically my first boyfriend 391 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,360 but he's dead so it's fun. Are you being serious? 392 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,200 Yes, yeah, it's fine. I'm so. 393 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:22,680 Sorry, I'm Mike. No, I thought you were just 394 00:19:22,680 --> 00:19:24,480 saying like you. Said you always think I'm just 395 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,600 saying stuff. And I'm, I know and you. 396 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,760 Said you were like that's so funny that you were joking with 397 00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,600 your ex-husband about that. I was like wait what are you 398 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:31,080 talking? No, you're. 399 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:34,400 Like, no, that's a real thing. You know? 400 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:41,040 This is crazy shit. OK, He's never been in a 401 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:43,960 relationship. I think that's an awe never red 402 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:45,960 flag. There are men who have not. 403 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:48,680 Oh my God, I didn't even think to ask them. 404 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:52,640 Yeah, a man that's never been in a relationship or a man that is 405 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,360 in a relationship and he's still trying to talk to you. 406 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:59,240 Also bad. Fully screams of the TV while 407 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:03,800 he's watching sports. Honestly I have a hard time with 408 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,160 men that watch sports. I don't care if you watch it, 409 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:09,920 but if you are scaring me, like you are screaming, like, like 410 00:20:09,920 --> 00:20:12,480 you're really getting into it, like at the top of your lungs to 411 00:20:12,520 --> 00:20:14,680 the point where it's rattling my insides because I feel like I'm 412 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:16,440 going to get attacked. You've experienced this. 413 00:20:17,360 --> 00:20:20,600 Not by people I dated, absolutely not OK, but I've been 414 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,440 in like houses during sporting events where people's boyfriends 415 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:27,040 will scream to the point where like it's genuinely I have a 416 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,160 jerk reaction to it and I'm like that I could not live with. 417 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:34,280 Unless they're losing money on it at that moment. 418 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:35,840 Sports betting isn't a green flag. 419 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:40,280 Right, right, right, right. That's probably, Oh, well, you 420 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,560 know what? I just have a lot of red flags 421 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:45,320 that I'm dealing with. I think you can bet on sports if 422 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,880 you're well off, but if you're if you're addicted to gambling, 423 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:51,600 I think OK, slippery slope. Yeah, gambling is probably not 424 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,120 good. I like. 425 00:20:52,120 --> 00:20:54,520 Roulette as much as an X, but I don't I don't think gambling's. 426 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:54,920 Good. OK. 427 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:56,680 No, definitely not OK. Do you have any? 428 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,520 Cuz I'm gonna just keep going down my list if you don't. 429 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,920 Keep going cuz minor now minor jumbled up the rest of the stuff 430 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:05,040 that I was dealing with. The post Gym selfies in the 431 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,720 mirror. EW, why are we doing? 432 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,320 I want to throw this into the ceiling and then catch it. 433 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,120 That's how much that disgusts me. 434 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:16,520 Yeah, I'm gonna do a whole. I'm gonna run around the room 435 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,760 with that. Do a routine. 436 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:21,680 Literally EW EW if he knows his big three. 437 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:24,040 What the hell is? That you don't even know your 438 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:29,320 big and not you Angelito, you're allowed to die. 439 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:33,160 You walking red. Flags all out. 440 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,240 Wait, what's your sun, your moon, and your? 441 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,520 Eyes. Yeah man, I don't think I 442 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,880 managed to know that. Unless they're just like, super 443 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:42,840 artsy or like their ex-girlfriend at all. 444 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,200 But that's what I'm saying. Why do you know that? 445 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,800 Are you on costar? Why are you on costar? 446 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:47,840 Who put you there? Who did that? 447 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,840 But I do feel like it's not a red flag if you've been in a 448 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,160 relationship and you learned and then you, you know what I mean? 449 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,200 Like now you have a skin care routine. 450 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,640 It's like, OK, well, I don't wanna have to cook myself. 451 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,880 Yeah, an entire man, so I'm OK with that. 452 00:22:03,120 --> 00:22:04,800 But at a certain point, it's a little like. 453 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:09,560 You know what's the worst thing revelation I've ever had that 454 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,080 we're all doing? Someone's ex I. 455 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:17,880 Don't like that at all. Because imagine how you feel 456 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:20,960 about the next person that's gonna date your ex I. 457 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:23,400 Think about that every time I date someone new I'm like I'm so 458 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,760 sorry to that girl I feel like what she feels empathetically 459 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,240 cuz it. Sucks, right? 460 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,160 And now you're dating someone's ex. 461 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,240 Yeah, I don't love that. I like men who are like, I've 462 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,440 never dated anyone before. You are. 463 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,160 You sure like this? That was a red. 464 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,240 That was your last red flag? No, it's a joke. 465 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:43,000 Like they're being, they're a joke. 466 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:44,400 Yeah. So like I, they're. 467 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:45,120 All a joke. Yeah, it was. 468 00:22:45,120 --> 00:22:47,960 With a guy I'm seeing and like his group of friends and we were 469 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,920 talking about exes and someone asked me a question. 470 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,000 He was like, no, I've like actually never dated anyone 471 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,480 before her. That's. 472 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:54,480 Cute. Yeah, I like that. 473 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,120 And low key, I kind of like when a man just like lies to me. 474 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,600 I'm noticing that. But obviously like it can't be a 475 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,880 legitimate lie. It has to be like a We both know 476 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,720 I'm lying. Are you crazy? 477 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,000 You know, I'm doing a podcast right now. 478 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,760 Her ex-husband, if he's bad at math, I just feel like that 479 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,680 can't be good. Oh my ex is this one's horribly 480 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:16,560 bad at math. Yeah, and he's a red flag. 481 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,280 He's calling you while he knows you're filming. 482 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,480 Insane to talk to you about Uber insane. 483 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:25,000 I have a habit of just picking the biggest red flag, so I think 484 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,920 I really should have just made a list of all the characteristics. 485 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,720 Actually, I think it's a red flag if he wants to have 486 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,960 threesomes all the time. Yeah, throw up. 487 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:37,040 I just. Literally lost 5. 488 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:45,080 Do you think so? Do you think maybe that's I 489 00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:46,640 think it's bright green? I don't know. 490 00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,760 It says marry him to me. Yeah, maybe a yellow. 491 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,760 I did marry him. Are you insane? 492 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,280 Am I insane? Were you a willing participant? 493 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,680 Yeah. Did you suggest it? 494 00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,840 Or did he? No, he Did I not talk to you 495 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:01,560 about all this? Just for the sake of the pun. 496 00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:03,520 Oh, OK. For people who don't know what's 497 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:08,320 going on. Is my extension on my arm time? 498 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:15,200 Are you crazy? Where'd it go? 499 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:19,440 We we grab it, there's no way. Tip on the phone. 500 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:25,240 Am I ready to get up pick? It up we don't have any we have 501 00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:28,920 no reason to be talking about red flags when we your arm for 502 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:35,200 the hours. Hey, these years are this is 503 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:36,880 $2000. You know what? 504 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,760 That's $100. Very. 505 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,240 Expensive. Oh my God. 506 00:24:40,360 --> 00:24:43,920 See, I just throw them around. This is why I get wefs now 507 00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:46,040 instead of K tips. No, I would happen a meal. 508 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,080 I switched from what? Oh please. 509 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,120 I'm gonna throw up. I'm throwing up. 510 00:24:53,120 --> 00:24:55,800 Oh my God. Oh, it's fine. 511 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,720 I actually fell down the stairs last week. 512 00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,480 I have like a really I'm I'm a red flag. 513 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,520 OK, you're going. Through I fell. 514 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,040 Oh my God. See you OK. 515 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:09,440 Can you see this? I don't know. 516 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:13,360 I fell down the stairs of The Afters and no one saw there's. 517 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,920 A gay dip there dude. There's like 3K tips and a. 518 00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:22,200 Bruise my girl I was like bumping down the stairs. 519 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,600 I literally looked when is this going to stop? 520 00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:32,720 Let me lean. She had like a clump of my hair 521 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,000 in her hand. It's. 522 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:36,440 Time for a. Reinstall the hair. 523 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,000 No, you're ripping out your hair. 524 00:25:38,000 --> 00:25:41,240 Oh my God. OK Oh my God. 525 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,280 I can't even what was going through my mind whenever. 526 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,000 If he hunts innocent woodland creatures, EW. 527 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:50,840 If he's hunting deer and birds, I personally, I am Snow White. 528 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:53,040 And if you're out there doing that, you've got to get the fuck 529 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,600 away from me. I've been having to go back to 530 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,360 men that eat meat. I'm not referring to the all my 531 00:25:58,360 --> 00:26:02,120 exes that have told me that they're gay. 532 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,360 Tons of girls in his comments, specifically ones being like 533 00:26:05,360 --> 00:26:08,120 photocrat. Comments is very interesting 534 00:26:08,120 --> 00:26:11,960 because I have looked at that and I genuinely think you have 535 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:18,440 to be such a slut as a man for the girls as a man. 536 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:23,200 Referee fowl. As a man, for girls to feel 537 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,520 comfortable being in your comments because they know that 538 00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:30,520 you have no one special to you. Multiple girls, specifically 539 00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,280 multiple girls. And I do think it's like women 540 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:35,520 trying to claim. You think so? 541 00:26:36,360 --> 00:26:37,560 I think they're shooting their shot. 542 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,320 I don't know. I don't know that women would 543 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:41,760 publicly embarrass themselves like that. 544 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,880 I feel like they've been led on to some extent to the point 545 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,520 where they're like, I'm gonna now like publicly try to like, 546 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,000 stake my, like I like I'm missing on my. 547 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,880 Territory over here, everything that I post. 548 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,480 He comments on it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 549 00:26:55,120 --> 00:26:57,920 If he vapes. EW eww green. 550 00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:00,920 Absolutely a man that vapes. Put something else in here I'd 551 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,280 rather you like. Deciding. 552 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:07,080 Else like in your mouth? I'd literally rather you put it 553 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:11,160 in your mouth than a vape. It's so immature to me. 554 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:12,600 What are you, 16? What? 555 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:13,720 Are you 12? What are you? 556 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:17,000 12:00 You got the top corn. On I don't want that shit. 557 00:27:17,360 --> 00:27:24,440 Weird if he sells courses. Yeah, if he blows up your. 558 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:28,360 Phone while you're filming and he knows you're. 559 00:27:28,360 --> 00:27:30,280 Filming I I literally I'm shutting my phone. 560 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:36,040 Off if he drives a cyber truck. I guess why wait? 561 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,520 You date so many. What flags? 562 00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:42,640 I don't know, it just feels particularly douchebag to me. 563 00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:46,400 OK, hasn't been to therapy. Hasn't been to therapy never. 564 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,280 I think it's a red flag if a guy has been to therapy because I 565 00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,240 think it means that a woman was like I literally this is the 566 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,600 last straw go to therapy. This. 567 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:59,200 Is the last straw and I do think that nowadays like men maybe 568 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,680 want to figure it out for themselves or even if it was a 569 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,040 woman being like this is the last straw, at least he's trying 570 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,400 to better himself and figure it out. 571 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:06,840 No, they're just doing it just to. 572 00:28:07,120 --> 00:28:08,240 I think it's good. I did something. 573 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:11,360 I do, but OK, this is our first time where we're like agreeing 574 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,840 to agree. OK, we should. 575 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,120 I'm like, we should take a shot and have that take a swig. 576 00:28:16,200 --> 00:28:17,920 He has highlights in his Instagram profile. 577 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,400 You shouldn't have highlight bubbles I thought. 578 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,160 You were going to say in his hair. 579 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,760 And I'm like my cousin has both. Also, red flag yeah if he dyes 580 00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:29,120 his hair, If he highlights it. OK, if a man paints his nails 581 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:32,760 and it's not extremely, he's not extremely artistic as it is. 582 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,320 Red flag. First of all, it's not 2017. 583 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:38,880 Second of all, I don't care if you're in a band. 584 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,360 Like it's true it's true. My ex-husband, you already get 585 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:42,200 laid. Like we all know this. 586 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,040 Yes exactly, we all know it. Exactly. 587 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:47,520 He literally showed it to me and it said help on one of his 588 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:48,280 nails. Yeah. 589 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,200 It's a cry and they were too long. 590 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:54,720 I was like, are you destroying the insides of your new 591 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:56,600 girlfriend? What do you clip your nails too? 592 00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:57,960 Long like you had. Acrylic. 593 00:28:58,160 --> 00:28:58,560 No. Yeah. 594 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,280 Gel X. They look like they might as 595 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,120 well. I was like, is your girl OK? 596 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,200 Doesn't like cats? I don't think doesn't like dogs. 597 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:06,880 Doesn't like any animals, really. 598 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:07,240 Yeah. Yeah. 599 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:09,640 But cats, I feel like, are feminine in the way that you 600 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,000 have to earn their attention and their love. 601 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:14,440 You can't just pick them up like a dog. 602 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,520 Any dog's gonna love. You. 603 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,880 That makes sense. My dad hates cats and he tried 604 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,400 to raise me like a man so I get it. 605 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,560 OK, there you go, watches your story. 606 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,360 If it doesn't text you back obviously, why? 607 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,520 A man that watches your story and doesn't text you back is you 608 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:29,800 know what? You know what's weird? 609 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,560 A man that watches your story all the time but doesn't follow 610 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,360 you I. Think that's not only weird, but 611 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,400 like, really fucking weird? Really. 612 00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,280 Weird, really weird. And it's one thing now I have 613 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,680 someone that does this to me that's just like keeping tabs on 614 00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,720 me, which I just think is funny. But if a guy, a guy you're not 615 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,120 hooking up with at all and he's just too much of a bitch to 616 00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:53,600 follow you back, but he's going to watch your stories all the 617 00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:55,320 time because are you searching my name? 618 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,800 Yes, and not only that, but I think you remain in his recently 619 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,240 search. This happens a lot to one of my 620 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:03,200 best friends and I'm like, he doesn't like what's happening. 621 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,560 I don't understand what's going on in the mite. 622 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,440 Like use a fence stuff, figure it out, do something. 623 00:30:07,560 --> 00:30:09,800 It's bizarre. It's very girly to do that. 624 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,880 OK, If he has a public Instagram, I don't want to be a 625 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,640 part of that. I'm going to be private. 626 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,720 I want you to have like 13 followers. 627 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:19,240 I want you to have photos from 7 years ago. 628 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,280 I don't think and then you should have Instagram. 629 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,120 I think that too, but then I'm like, if you met a guy and he 630 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,720 didn't have it, how could you vet him to make sure he's not 631 00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:28,760 weird? I mean, it's not like Instagram 632 00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:30,120 is going to prove that they're not. 633 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,200 Yeah, but you can really get in there. 634 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:35,480 You know what I do think though, is you can tell a lot about a 635 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,480 guy by the type of pictures that they post. 636 00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:40,960 And like, if it's not aesthetic, then I'm like, oh, you have no 637 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,200 taste. And then if it's aesthetic, I'm 638 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:45,040 like, oh, you have to taste. Yeah, it has to be an in between 639 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,240 of like, I'm kind of trying, but not a lot. 640 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,800 Yeah. Oh my God. 641 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,880 When they're telling a story, I'm like, Oh yeah, the other 642 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:54,280 night I was at the bar or whatever, and all of the sudden 643 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,840 everybody's, everybody's pronouns become vague. 644 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,240 Everybody's mysterious. We don't use names. 645 00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:01,440 Yeah, you are with a fucking girl that you don't mean to know 646 00:31:01,440 --> 00:31:03,240 about. This is why I can't be in a 647 00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:04,640 relationship. I don't think I'm ever going to 648 00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,400 be in a relationship again. Not a real one. 649 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,760 At least not a real 1. When he asks your body count, I 650 00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,960 witnessed this. I witnessed this recently. 651 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,600 Young children ask a woman's body count. 652 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:18,400 Because when I was growing up, body count meant how many people 653 00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:22,640 did you kill? Yeah, No. 654 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,880 Body count was like, how many people did you kill and then all 655 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,400 of a sudden lose your ass? 20 somethings were like, oh, 656 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,640 that means how many guys have you slept with? 657 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:33,840 And the only reason that they care is because they're jealous 658 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,440 either of how many men you've slept with, because they wish 659 00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,480 they could have slept with that many men or oh. 660 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,760 My God, goodness, Oh my God, it's spitting the. 661 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,720 Or they just can't get girls. If you're asking a woman your 662 00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,960 body count, that means you have no bitches. 663 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,160 It's just bizarre. And I don't want to know that 664 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,320 never do do I want to ask a guy I'm dating, what's your body 665 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:55,000 count? I just think that's a crazy 666 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:56,680 question. And I don't want to think about 667 00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,440 the person that I'm into fucking other people and let alone like 668 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:03,280 20-7 other people. Like I'm OK on the number. 669 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,080 Thank you. If he's a picky eater, he's 670 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,920 like, EW fucking Nuggets. It's bad. 671 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,720 Asks you to hang out last minute. 672 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:12,920 Pissing me off off pissing me off. 673 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:16,800 I was this close to cutting somebody off that I really like 674 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,200 because of this specific situation. 675 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,200 Yeah, cuz it shouldn't be a thing. 676 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:22,080 Yeah, do not treat me like I'm some bitch. 677 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,280 Like do not disrespect my time. Yeah, that pisses me. 678 00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,920 What do you think I'm doing sitting home waiting for you to 679 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,000 text me and to, like, run to you like a puppy? 680 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,960 Literally. And I don't even think it's only 681 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,760 relevant to like when you're dating around or you're just 682 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,240 starting to see men. I think that a lot of men when 683 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,240 you're in long term relationships start to behave 684 00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:42,720 that way as well. I don't give a fuck if you're 685 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,200 living with me. We both have busy schedules and 686 00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,960 busy agendas come to be like, I want to take you out on 687 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,200 Saturday. I want to do this like, block 688 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,520 out your day, block out your calendar, make me a priority and 689 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,800 let me know. Otherwise, like it starts to 690 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:58,880 feel really, I don't know, we're losing the fun, we're losing the 691 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,600 honeymoon vibe of it all. And I don't want that. 692 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:06,160 That was one of my things too. It's just a man being unreliable 693 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,320 in any way is a red flag. What do they not understand 694 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:11,520 about it? I don't know. 695 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,640 And it's so easy. It's like the easiest thing they 696 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,120 could do. Because it's also like dinner. 697 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,560 Reservation and let me know. Or just shut up. 698 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,880 Just don't make a plan. Then don't text me and be like, 699 00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:22,200 oh, I'm probably going to see you later. 700 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,680 Now I have to text other people and be like, hey, I might be 701 00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:27,240 hanging out with you, but I want to see this person. 702 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,440 And then you have to decide to cut off the entire person and 703 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,960 just because of unreliability and you could have just shut up 704 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,360 and not texted me until you had a solid plan. 705 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,360 I also think a man who tries to make plans last minute is a man 706 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,200 who has many plans and the many options. 707 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,360 I know exactly then when I think about it, of me being one of the 708 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:49,080 people that like I'm texting to be like, oh, what are you doing 709 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,280 tonight? Yeah. 710 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,360 Am I the second one? My problem is I have a very hard 711 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,360 time spending time with anyone I'm not obsessed with. 712 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,840 So like, I'll end up not entertaining like anyone just to 713 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,160 only hang out with the person that I do. 714 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:05,040 You wanna see? Yeah, I love being obsessed with 715 00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,360 somebody. I love being obsessed with so 716 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:07,600 much fun. I just can't. 717 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,760 I can't. Like it's either I'm so obsessed 718 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,920 with you or I'm I feel like I'm just wasting my time. 719 00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:16,080 I can have fun like I know how to have a fun date or like a fun 720 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,480 night out with a guy that I don't take seriously and then go 721 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:21,440 back home like I know how to do and I can't do that about. 722 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:25,440 That a man asking me on a date that I'm not obsessed with makes 723 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,480 me so stressed out. Really so stressed out. 724 00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:30,440 And my friends can do it and I can't do it. 725 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:33,040 Like I can go to like a party with them, but like sitting 726 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:37,960 one-on-one with a man that I'm not obsessed with is like a 727 00:34:37,960 --> 00:34:40,920 torture chamber to me. Cuz I'm like, what do I need 728 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,080 dinner from you? Like I'd rather sit on the couch 729 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,920 and like have. I don't do dinner, I'd never do 730 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,600 dinner rather than I don't like drinks, only it's drinks and 731 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:48,960 then like some. Activities drunk. 732 00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:51,360 Like we're doing something like out of the house. 733 00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:54,560 OK yeah. Is a real estate agent. 734 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:57,880 There's too much charisma. You're always trying to sell me 735 00:34:57,880 --> 00:35:00,200 something. You definitely were a promoter 6 736 00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:01,800 years ago. Yeah, it's 100% so much the 737 00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,640 promoted real estate agent pipeline. 738 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,440 It's genuinely, it's like the charisma that gets me every time 739 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,800 of a real estate They behave no like. 740 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:13,360 It gets me annoyed. Got you was I was gonna say it's 741 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,240 never gotten me you. Know it doesn't. 742 00:35:15,240 --> 00:35:16,640 Get me, I never got gotten it gets me. 743 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:20,760 Scared if he uses Signal. Exactly. 744 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,600 I'm glad you don't know. It's an encrypted messaging app 745 00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:26,480 where anything that they like text each other. 746 00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,640 It can sound traceable. What were they doing on it? 747 00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,720 Is rude to the wait staff. EW. 748 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,040 Get the fuck out of here. Biggest I will completely. 749 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,120 I can go from obsessed to someone to literally hating them 750 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,360 if they're rude to the wait staff because I find it 751 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,960 disgusting. You have no manners, no, no 752 00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,120 Coos. Who raised you? 753 00:35:46,720 --> 00:35:49,440 Not your mom. Maybe your mom is terrible, I 754 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,760 don't know. If his phone is always I don't 755 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:58,040 just mean during dinner, but like always face down DND if his 756 00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,080 phone's on, DND whenever you're. Really, my phone's working. 757 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,960 And he keeps it like this. I'm not talking about you, I'm 758 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,640 talking about mint, right? It's always in his pocket. 759 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:08,240 It's always a way. Whenever it's like he's showing 760 00:36:08,240 --> 00:36:10,480 you something, you see the little moon in the corner. 761 00:36:10,720 --> 00:36:12,240 It's always down. Because I was. 762 00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:14,120 Going to say how'd you even know it's on DND? 763 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,240 The moon in the corner. You know what I find to be a red 764 00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:18,600 flag is the privacy screen. Really. 765 00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:22,160 Yeah. Once I started getting flamed on 766 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:24,760 socials, I was like, I feel like I need that cuz I feel like I'm 767 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,160 gonna be out in public and like somebody's gonna catch me doing 768 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:30,760 something crazy on a plane behind me, like texting someone 769 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:32,840 or something. So I got one, but it lasted. 770 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,400 Me. Look at my phone, women. 771 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:36,880 Call crack dishes. That's a red flag to me if a 772 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:40,720 man's phone, to me, if a man's phone is all cracked up, red 773 00:36:40,720 --> 00:36:43,640 flag, red flag. I don't like it. 774 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,640 I don't like it. I'm like what are you a mess? 775 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,840 Be a woman's? Did you get drunk and pull down 776 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,760 the stairs like? Me, me and you. 777 00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,280 Look at your arm. This was not me being drunk. 778 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,520 I was wearing sandals because I was out from brunch and it was a 779 00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,920 whole long day and the floor was slippery so I should have been 780 00:36:59,920 --> 00:37:01,440 wearing heels. He said I would do brunch. 781 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,120 I know exactly what happened up front. 782 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:05,360 No. Anyway, literally I had one last 783 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,080 one. I wasn't even drunk. 784 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,360 I wish I had been drunk, it might have hurt. 785 00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,440 I'm going to say these like very rapid fire. 786 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:11,960 Are you ready? I won't even respond. 787 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,320 I'll just. Go I know we have to end soon 788 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:18,040 goes to Burning Man they pay for the little blue check mark on 789 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:26,800 Instagram has entrepreneur in his bio Are you ready for this 790 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:35,120 one yes has a podcast that's. For girls, that's for girls. 791 00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,440 Girls talk on camera. Yapping is for girls. 792 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:42,040 Yapping is for girls, talking to a mic for girls, clipping videos 793 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:47,520 for socials for girls. Calls himself a high value man. 794 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,920 EW, OK, so that's some of the red blood red. 795 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:55,400 Pill red pill red pill shit opens with hey you I'm actually 796 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,440 throwing up right now I'm. Actually throwing up. 797 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,560 Thanks, I'm nauseous. Flexes his Amex and other cards 798 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:05,360 but splits the check. EW, with who? 799 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,400 With you? With me, Not me. 800 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,040 And lets you split the check on the first date. 801 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,800 Who are you dating? I'm not saying this happening. 802 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,360 OK, good. Well, actually I think no, 803 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:15,880 really no, that hasn't happened. I can't. 804 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:16,920 It's happened to be on a second date. 805 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:18,960 Begin to imagine how awkward that would be. 806 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,280 I just I got to a point in my life where I was like, this is 807 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:23,200 crazy. You're asking me to go out with 808 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:24,800 you. Why would ioffer a person 809 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,040 you're? Asking yeah, like you wanted me 810 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,200 here. Also. 811 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,600 Like my makeup cost way more than this dinner. 812 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,120 I'm spending three hours to get ready. 813 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:35,320 Yeah, my outfit's expensive. I'm making you look good, yeah. 814 00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,760 Beyond that too, it's just like you asked me out on a date. 815 00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:41,400 I can't even how? Would I pay for that? 816 00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,680 You ordered a steak and I got a salad. 817 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,600 Like what's going on? That did happening with the 818 00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,320 boyfriend and I think that did it to me. 819 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,880 That really did it for me. He was an EPO baby and had more 820 00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:55,400 than enough to pay for whatever he wanted, and it didn't affect 821 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,440 him in any means. Yeah, and we'd go out to 822 00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,840 wonderful dinners and he would order like a fucking tomahawk. 823 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,400 And I would get a chicken Caesar and I would put my car down and 824 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:04,840 he would let me. And we'd split it. 825 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,840 And then after that I was like no more. 826 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,400 It's just like, why even go to dinner at that point? 827 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,720 Because now dinner is a turn off. 828 00:39:10,720 --> 00:39:13,680 I could have just post painted myself food and yeah, it doesn't 829 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:15,160 offer you water when you come over. 830 00:39:15,240 --> 00:39:16,800 Only offers you water when you come over. 831 00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,000 Only sends voice notes. Only sends voice notes. 832 00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:26,120 Like he's only communicating through text via voice note. 833 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,520 See, I think I would like if a man. 834 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,800 I like when a man sends me voice notes when they have a good 835 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,080 voice. I do too, but like exclusively. 836 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:35,440 Why can't you think as it disappears? 837 00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,000 Oh. My God, I didn't even think 838 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:37,680 about that. It just. 839 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:38,960 Like that was my immediate thought. 840 00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:40,840 Yeah, it's disappearing. So now you're just talking to. 841 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:41,440 You. Yeah. 842 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,680 They just want to see like, yeah, So they could show it to 843 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,960 their boys. Like, look at this girl's 844 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:46,000 obsessed with me. Yeah. 845 00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:49,600 OK, and ironically says the word alpha. 846 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:51,800 No. Red pill talk. 847 00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:53,200 If a man has Snapchat by the way. 848 00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,000 Has a pull up bar in his doorway and it's there when you get to 849 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,400 his house. OK, I think my dad is also a red 850 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:04,000 flag. Yeah, so is mad drinks raw milk. 851 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,920 EW, I don't know anyone who does that but drinks milk drinks milk 852 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,240 drinks milk is bad. OK, final one drives off before 853 00:40:12,240 --> 00:40:14,200 making sure that you get safe inside your home. 854 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:17,000 EW, way to be an asshole. OK wait I have one. 855 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,400 Also opens the door for you but then doesn't help you out of the 856 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,880 car and just stands there looking at their phone while 857 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,000 you're getting your ass out of the car looking at them like OK. 858 00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:30,720 OK, I think it's really sweet and a lot of girls don't get it. 859 00:40:30,720 --> 00:40:32,000 They're like you're so old fashioned. 860 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:34,040 But I think it's really sweet when men open the door. 861 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:39,800 I open the door for my girls and I stand there and I hold my hand 862 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:42,960 out and I treat them like a damn Princess as they get out of the 863 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:44,840 car. I think it's because I, I'm from 864 00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,880 the South, but something about it, like if you don't like or 865 00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:50,280 also have dated men that go around the car and open the door 866 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:51,920 quickly and I'm like, it's very sweet. 867 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,720 Like I like being treated that way. 868 00:40:53,720 --> 00:40:56,040 Very gentle and sweet. If you don't do it, it's not the 869 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,200 end of the world. But like I do notice I. 870 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,840 Fucking notice. You know what's a red flag? 871 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,240 When you're out with a guy and his friends, and the guy's 872 00:41:05,240 --> 00:41:06,880 friends are the ones that help you out of the car. 873 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,000 I've had that happen a lot. I have. 874 00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:12,960 It happens so many times. Yeah, you're like, OK. 875 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:14,280 And I'm like, are you not embarrassed? 876 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,040 As a man, you should be embarrassed. 877 00:41:20,240 --> 00:41:24,840 Thanks for attending our very drunk session of Red Flags and 878 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,040 to that I wish you a wonderful lead up to Valentine's. 879 00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,760 Day and the color of Valentine's Day. 880 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:32,960 Good luck, Good luck.