1 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,480 Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Love Quest International 2 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,600 Church podcast, where we seek to love all nations, equip the 3 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,560 church, mobilize the equipped, and serve all. 4 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,080 We're super glad you're joining us from whenever and wherever 5 00:00:21,080 --> 00:00:23,760 you're at in the world. Welcome to the family to get 6 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:26,440 your Bibles ready, get some water, get some coffee, maybe 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:28,640 some tea, and get ready to receive. 8 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:40,960 Let's get into it. So today we celebrate family, 9 00:00:41,480 --> 00:00:45,000 last week we celebrated marriage and every first Sunday we will 10 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,400 celebrate marriage and have Marriage Encounter. 11 00:00:47,480 --> 00:00:50,320 How many people was here at last Sunday's Marriage Encounter? 12 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:59,240 Phenomenal every first Sunday, every first Sunday evening. 13 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:07,840 And there's childcare, Yeah, there's worship, there's games. 14 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:09,800 That meant it was phenomenal the other night. 15 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:15,080 And then every Wednesday for the next 7 weeks, we'll be faith and 16 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,160 family. We will watch this. 17 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,600 Invest in your family, don't just complain about it. 18 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:24,840 And I promise you, your family can have all the material things 19 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:30,040 in the world, but this world is in the condition it is because 20 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,880 families are in the conditions they are. 21 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:38,360 We talked about some stats in Canada at marriage, the marriage 22 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:42,440 matters last Sunday night. And man, the divorce rate is 23 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:44,840 very low in Canada. Watch this. 24 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:49,440 But the amount of people that want to get married is very low. 25 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:52,600 So it's not about divorce here in Canada. 26 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,800 It's about I'm just now fooling with marriage. 27 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,320 And then there's 30% of marriages where the couples are 28 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:11,800 in marriage but aren't happy. And the, the, the, the divorce 29 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:20,520 rate is the same in the world as it is in religious organizations 30 00:02:21,280 --> 00:02:25,920 that should not be. Today is a call to families. 31 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:30,200 Today is a call to strengthen families. 32 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:36,240 Today is for those that are looking for family. 33 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:41,560 I believe you should first know what family is in God's terms. 34 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:46,080 We're in a time where the world is changing the definition of 35 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:51,000 family. I'm I'm sorry, but but a a child 36 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:59,320 was supposed to be born from the womb of a woman and the seed 37 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:05,880 from a man. Curriculum is telling kids they 38 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,680 have the choice and curriculums is telling families and there's 39 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:15,160 laws that are and will continue to protect kids to choose what 40 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,960 they want to choose. And church, at the end of the 41 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,240 day, we're not church if we don't teach on family, if we 42 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,720 don't teach on love, if we don't teach on marriage. 43 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,960 We're in a time where not only is the domestic family under 44 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,520 attack, but the church family is under attack, right? 45 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:35,560 Look at how we do church. We do it how we do family. 46 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,520 You get tired of people at your church, you leave and go find 47 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,880 another one and then watch this, put it on God. 48 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,760 But what if we did our domestic families that way? 49 00:03:47,200 --> 00:03:49,560 Well, when I'm tired of my kids, I go get some different ones. 50 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,920 When I'm tired of my wife, I just choose to go get another 51 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,360 one. What about covenant, right. 52 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,880 But here we are. We are membership based more 53 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:02,840 than covenant base. And so our churches look like 54 00:04:02,880 --> 00:04:07,720 our families do it overall, when I say overall, there's a lot of 55 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,000 healthy, amazing churches in this city. 56 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,160 And but when we're talking about what the church should 57 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:20,399 represent, it is a part of the family dynamic. 58 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,200 And so as we said in marriages the other night, as we work on 59 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:28,880 our marriages, this church can only be as strong as our 60 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,000 families, our marriages. And watch this. 61 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:35,560 We have to teach families how to fight for family. 62 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:43,040 We have to teach watch this. The family infrastructure in 63 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:47,120 church is being attacked. We want we watch this, Paul said 64 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:48,840 this. You have many teachers, very few 65 00:04:48,840 --> 00:04:51,840 fathers. So we want to abolish the Oh, 66 00:04:51,840 --> 00:04:54,240 that that language is weird spiritual. 67 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,720 Parents. Well, let's just go to the 68 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:02,320 Bible, right? Because the church was designed 69 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:09,480 to have parental our pastors aren't just accredited religious 70 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:16,440 workers. We, we, we, we the church should 71 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:22,320 be a family, not not a membership. 72 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,160 But when I find my church, I find my family. 73 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:29,160 And if I understand it's my family, then I understand I 74 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,400 don't run. From family, I fight for family, 75 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,920 I fight for unity. I hang in there, I get to know 76 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:40,400 you. Some of the stuff I run from you 77 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:45,680 for is because I don't know you. Some of the stuff I run from you 78 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,120 for is because I have undealt with trauma. 79 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:54,640 I have cultural biases. I have family hurt. 80 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:59,480 I have authority. Issues I got daddy issues in 81 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,520 these next 8 weeks 7 weeks we're going to. 82 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:08,000 Deal with all of that because I have unexpected or shall I say 83 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:15,880 unhealthy expectations for leadership based on family 84 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:22,960 dynamics and I believe the church should do a better job 85 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,320 at. Dealing with these issues head 86 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:31,680 on because right now we're under attack. 87 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,000 Watch this. But the enemy does an amazing 88 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,240 job at scattering us. Watch this. 89 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,240 Taking us to familiar not family. 90 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:46,040 Lot of people are looking for familiar comfortable not family 91 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,240 because family fight with anybody got siblings? 92 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,560 Have you have you I've seen some of y'all roll your eyes as soon 93 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:55,640 as you rose your raise your hand you. 94 00:06:55,640 --> 00:07:00,360 I sure do. God, God, Oh my God, I can't 95 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:09,600 stand my sister. I hear you. 96 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,960 Some of us don't have good relationships with our parents. 97 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:20,040 Some of us have very tumultuous relationships, to be honest with 98 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,960 parents. And you, you, you watch this. 99 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:27,160 You got a lot of people who tolerate family, understand you 100 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:31,560 tolerate your family. But I believe that today and 101 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:36,920 these next several weeks can free us as a Kingdom community. 102 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,720 If we grab a hold, I believe there's some healing that's 103 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:44,680 going to take place, right? Because watch this, a lot of all 104 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:47,160 of our hurt in here has come from family. 105 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,280 And then we go out in the world and we hurt people or have 106 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,480 unhealthy expectations, no boundaries, too many boundaries, 107 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:57,040 walls. And then we bring on more hurt. 108 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:00,520 But if we just trace back to where the hurt started, somebody 109 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,800 that was supposed to love us, hurt us. 110 00:08:07,920 --> 00:08:16,200 Psalm 127 says if God build the house, the builders only build 111 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:21,680 shacks. If God doesn't build the house, 112 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:26,360 the builders only build shacks. If God doesn't guard the city, 113 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:31,520 the night Watchmen might as well take a nap. 114 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,880 If God doesn't build the house, if he's not building your house, 115 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:41,960 if he's not building your marriage, then just consider 116 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,920 you're not building the house that God has planned for you to 117 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:48,720 build. If God doesn't guard the city, 118 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:52,600 then the night watchman might as well take a nap. 119 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,600 In other words, I could also say if the church is not in 120 00:08:55,600 --> 00:09:01,040 authority in a city, then the the the city is doomed. 121 00:09:03,600 --> 00:09:09,240 This word house in the Bible means family lineage, household 122 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:14,880 and legacy, Family lineage, household and legacy. 123 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:21,720 This scripture is telling us that God is the architect of our 124 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:25,400 household and our families. Not culture, not trauma, not 125 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:30,080 effort. Before we go. 126 00:09:30,960 --> 00:09:36,080 Into the series guys, and we start dealing with wounds and we 127 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:39,680 start dealing with scars and we start dealing with patterns. 128 00:09:39,680 --> 00:09:42,360 We start dealing, we going to deal with one topic one week 129 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,560 where we're dealing with it runs in the family. 130 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,160 Before we start dealing with cycles and trauma and 131 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:53,160 forgiveness and deliverance. We must go back. 132 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,520 Somebody say go back. We must go all the way back. 133 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:59,640 Back before the pain. Back before the dysfunction. 134 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:01,600 Back before the silent treatment. 135 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:05,120 Back before the patterns that chased us for years. 136 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:08,280 Back before the thief ever walked into the garden. 137 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,880 Back before the fights. Back before the fractures. 138 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:15,760 Back before the father wounds, the Mama aches, the missing 139 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:18,040 pieces. Before trauma touched you. 140 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:22,800 Before addiction marked you, before absence shaped you, and 141 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,080 before rejection named you. We got to go back to the 142 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:29,040 beginning. Because your story and my story 143 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,120 did not start where memories started. 144 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:34,840 Your family story did not begin where trauma. 145 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:38,360 Began. Your identity did not originate 146 00:10:38,560 --> 00:10:40,600 where your insecurities showed up. 147 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:45,680 Your lineage did not begin where your lineage got broken. 148 00:10:45,680 --> 00:10:48,960 Your story began in the mind of God. 149 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,160 Your story began in the mind of God. 150 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:57,560 Your family began in the imagination of heaven and your 151 00:10:57,560 --> 00:11:02,240 destiny began in the blueprint of the Creator who never 152 00:11:02,240 --> 00:11:09,680 improvises and He never reacts. Your story began way long before 153 00:11:09,680 --> 00:11:13,080 the 1st scar, before the 1st spanking, before the 1st 154 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,960 rejection. It began in the mind of God. 155 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:21,440 You got to get that before we move on where you are today. 156 00:11:21,680 --> 00:11:25,880 If it's not of God, it wasn't birth in God or through God. 157 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:29,320 You are. You are somewhere in your life 158 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:34,040 that God never planned. There's accesses in your life 159 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:37,600 that God never planned. You're moving places that God 160 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:40,400 never planned. God planned for you to stay in 161 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:43,200 the middle of the ring and fight that thing out and fight for 162 00:11:43,200 --> 00:11:47,040 unity and have confidence and deal with your insecurities, Not 163 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,720 run from those insecurities when they're exposed. 164 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:53,360 Not run from your trust issues when they're exposed. 165 00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:57,120 Family was God's first blueprint for blessing. 166 00:11:58,680 --> 00:12:01,480 Family was God's first blueprint for blessing. 167 00:12:01,680 --> 00:12:05,680 The first blessing that was ever spoken was spoken on family in 168 00:12:05,680 --> 00:12:09,120 family for family. And that's why when you got an 169 00:12:09,120 --> 00:12:12,680 independent spirit in the church and you in control of where you 170 00:12:12,680 --> 00:12:15,760 want to go, what you want to do, you are also running from the 171 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,440 commanded blessing. This is why he says wherever 172 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:20,920 there's unity, I command the blessing. 173 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:28,200 Unity just does not happen. Unity is fought for, so he says. 174 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:32,440 I need unity to restore the blessing I commanded in the 175 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:37,040 garden. Come on somebody, because it in 176 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:38,880 the beginning. Me and Adam was on the same 177 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,760 page. Yeah. 178 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:44,960 Family was God's first blueprint for blessing. 179 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:48,640 Watch this Family was God's first blueprint for identity. 180 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:52,760 Family was God's first blueprint for purpose, and family was 181 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,760 God's first blueprint for generational impact. 182 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,040 Family was God's first institution. 183 00:13:01,480 --> 00:13:05,400 Not school, not church. Oh, Oh yeah, yeah. 184 00:13:05,520 --> 00:13:13,960 Not church, not systems, not children's church. 185 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,120 Family just was all in the village. 186 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,360 Didn't have to close your kids eyes because perversion was in 187 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:26,920 the earth. Family, it was nothing. 188 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,640 We had family. Kids was playing with the lions 189 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:30,840 and the bears. They was playing. 190 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,080 They wasn't running across the street when they saw, you know, 191 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:40,440 that was all blessing. Identity was blessing. 192 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:44,880 It wasn't Instagram if identity was from family, not Instagram. 193 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,720 Identity was not from your favorite author's book. 194 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:52,640 Your career was not based on what your daddy and your Mama 195 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:57,200 did. It was based on what God called 196 00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,800 you to do. And Mama and daddy knew what God 197 00:13:59,800 --> 00:14:02,320 called you to, and they raised you up in the way that God 198 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:07,320 called you to. Family is the reflection of 199 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:11,880 God's nature. God exists in relationship, 200 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:19,080 Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. He's a relational God, so 201 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,080 humanity is created for relationship. 202 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,200 Family carries generational purpose. 203 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:25,360 Watch this. You can't separate family from 204 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:30,000 destiny. Family is the 1st place. 205 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:37,200 Spiritual warfare attacks. If if if the devil is attacking 206 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:40,160 your job, it's because he is trying to bring poverty to your 207 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,400 family. It ain't because he's trying to 208 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:47,960 take money. The family it's the first place. 209 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,200 Spiritual warfare. Your household, your your 210 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:53,080 children. You can't be passive with your 211 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:56,480 kids. You can't just be their buddies. 212 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,520 Your house has a battlefield on it. 213 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,080 If Satan can break family, he can break future. 214 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:10,600 Family was not man's idea. Family was heaven's intention. 215 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,840 Before there was a curse. Watch this. 216 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:17,080 Before there was a curse, Troy, there was a calling. 217 00:15:19,120 --> 00:15:22,880 Calling came before curse. Read it in the word. 218 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:32,640 Grace was not needed. Sin had no power. 219 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,440 Before there was dysfunction, watch this. 220 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:42,160 God created a design, and before there was sin, God spoke 221 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,360 strategy. Before there was brokenness, God 222 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,840 released a blessing. Before there was Sabbath, before 223 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,800 there was sacrifice, before there was church, before God 224 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:55,320 ever formed a nation, before he ever called Abraham, before he 225 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,680 established Israel, he established family. 226 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,120 Before there was a king, there was a son. 227 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:04,440 Before there was a queen, there was a daughter. 228 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:09,840 And the enemy has been trying to bury the beginning ever since. 229 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:16,200 Because if you ever rediscover where you started, you will no 230 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:25,640 longer accept where you settled. If you ever rediscover where you 231 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:32,880 started, you will never accept where you decided to settle. 232 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:39,280 If you ever rediscover what God intended, you will stop living 233 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:45,640 by what the world impose. If you ever rediscover the 234 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:49,520 divine blueprint for your life, you will not tolerate the 235 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:54,120 counterfeit pattern. Today we not starting with a 236 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:58,360 series to just talk about relationship goals and how you 237 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:02,000 can find this and find that. And no, no, no, we are stepping 238 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:08,800 into recovery mission, a generational renovation, a 239 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:13,200 spiritual excavation. We are digging past the rubble 240 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,640 of dysfunction to uncover the design beneath it. 241 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:19,560 The Bible does not start with trauma. 242 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,960 In the beginning there was trauma. 243 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:30,360 No, it wasn't. In the beginning there was the 244 00:17:30,360 --> 00:17:36,800 Word. The Bible does not open with 245 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:39,120 betrayal. Now I'm asking you, in order to 246 00:17:39,120 --> 00:17:41,000 receive healing, let this word go deep. 247 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:50,760 Some of you think you're healed because you're hard, but God 248 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:55,240 wants to unharden your heart today because you can be brave 249 00:17:56,080 --> 00:18:02,320 while being broken, and it's in the tenderness of your heart 250 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:10,760 that God does miraculous things. Bible does not begin with 251 00:18:10,760 --> 00:18:18,680 violence, silence, or shame. There's no shame in the garden. 252 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:23,800 Where'd you get that from? There's no trauma in the garden. 253 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,640 Where'd you get that from? But you settled. 254 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:36,680 That's just my life. There's no religious spirit in 255 00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,560 the garden. There's no control, there's No 256 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:39,680 Fear in the garden. Where? 257 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:44,280 Where do we get that from? It starts with a family. 258 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,400 A man and woman was blessed by God, walking in purpose, 259 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,960 reflecting his image, stewarding his creation, living from his 260 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:57,480 presence, breathing his breath, carrying his likeness. 261 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,960 A family that was not fractured but fruitful. 262 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,320 A family that was not chaotic but called. 263 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,360 A family that was not reactive but ruling. 264 00:19:06,360 --> 00:19:09,160 And a family that was not surviving but flourishing. 265 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,560 Sons and daughters. This is where God starts the 266 00:19:13,560 --> 00:19:16,000 human story. Not what occurs, but with 267 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:20,320 covenant, not with dysfunction, but destiny, and not with cycles 268 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:26,480 but design. Watch this, he says. 269 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:34,720 Today before I heal what happened in their family, I must 270 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,920 reveal what I intended for your family. 271 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,360 Because if you watch this, if you think your family started 272 00:19:43,360 --> 00:19:47,680 with pain, you will think pain is your portion. 273 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,560 And if you think your story began with brokenness, you will 274 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:53,520 believe brokenness is your identity. 275 00:19:54,360 --> 00:19:57,200 If you think your lineage originated in chaos, you will 276 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:00,920 expect chaos to be normal. And there are people in this 277 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,400 room right now. You have settled with chaos in 278 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:08,120 your family. You think that's normal. 279 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:10,400 You think anxiety and mental illness. 280 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,080 You have settled up. I may, I may get it. 281 00:20:12,080 --> 00:20:16,120 So let me live my life trying to prevent mental illness in fear 282 00:20:16,120 --> 00:20:16,440 of it. No. 283 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:19,080 Let me help you today. You have a blood bought right? 284 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:22,480 To kick mental illness out of your family. 285 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:29,840 Because that was never God's plan, right? 286 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,520 Divorce was never God's plan. I'm sorry that you was braised 287 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:36,360 by a single parent. I'm sorry that your father 288 00:20:36,360 --> 00:20:39,040 abandoned you. I'm sorry that uncle raped you. 289 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,440 I'm sorry that these two things took place. 290 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:45,040 But I'm here to tell you that if you do not heal, if you do not 291 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:49,440 understand what God's true intent was for you and accept 292 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,560 it, you cannot make the change for future generations in your 293 00:20:52,560 --> 00:20:54,960 bloodline. But you are hearing this message 294 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,200 today because God says I am anointing you to make the 295 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:02,560 difference in your bloodline. I am anointing you to fight 296 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:04,960 demons that people didn't fight for you. 297 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,320 Yeah, Heaven is resetting the narrative for you today. 298 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:19,520 Laura, Heaven is resetting the narrative for you today. 299 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:27,280 Mark Heaven, watch this. He is refreshing memory. 300 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,000 He's refreshing memory all the way back. 301 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,680 He's about to speak to your spirit in such a way that you 302 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:40,000 remember being in the garden. There's going to be there's 303 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,960 going to be a witness inside of you during this series that say, 304 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:47,840 wait a minute, I, I remember, I kind of remember a place. 305 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,080 I, I don't, I can't describe it, but it's watch this. 306 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,560 Heaven is within us. If if Jesus is within you, 307 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,720 heaven is within you. So God is able to do a deep work 308 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,520 within us to call us back to the garden. 309 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,200 And that's called what it shows up in the form of Shalom. 310 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,880 Heaven is pulling you back to Eden today. 311 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:10,240 Back to design, back to intention, back to blueprint 312 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:13,720 that Hell has spent generations trying to bury. 313 00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:19,800 Hell has spent generations to take you so far away from your 314 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:22,320 garden realities and you've accepted it. 315 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:32,840 Watch this and some of us will marry to have a partner to ride 316 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:38,040 the storm out with and then you marry somebody else who ain't 317 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:41,720 dealt with a trauma and y'all just re traumatizing one 318 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:45,600 another. How you going to marry somebody 319 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,480 that don't know they garden reality? 320 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,720 That's a red flag. A red flag and he didn't pay for 321 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,680 dinner. A red flag is he don't know 322 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,800 where he came from. A red flag is he don't know that 323 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,600 he was fearfully and wonderfully made. 324 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:02,920 A red flag is he don't know that God is a restorer and he don't 325 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,560 know that what the enemy That's the red flag. 326 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,360 A red flag is he don't know the word. 327 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,120 He don't know Jesus wept, that's a red flag. 328 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,440 He don't know on the third day he got up, that's a red flag. 329 00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:21,360 Buy your own food. Treat him if he don't know 330 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,440 Jesus. Red flag. 331 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,840 Because from this day forward you will raise your children to 332 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:38,960 know that God is the Redeemer. God, He has the last say and if 333 00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:41,880 we ain't in agreement that God is the way, the truth and the 334 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,920 life, if we ain't in agreement that he will open up a window 335 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:50,120 and pour us out a blessing. If he, if we ain't in agreement 336 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,680 that our children is going to be filled with the Holy Ghost, they 337 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,920 going to be baptized, they going to be believers, they going to 338 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,160 follow Jesus all the days of their life. 339 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,320 If we ain't in agreement then buy. 340 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:16,640 I buy my own lunchable. I don't care who my daughter 341 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,880 bring home. It's my job to resist the enemy. 342 00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:22,920 I'm not. Oh, baby, it's OK. 343 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,200 No, no, no, no, no. Hell no. 344 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:31,080 No, no, no. What's this? 345 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:33,760 What's this? Because kids going to do what 346 00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,640 they do. So I'm not going to agree with 347 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,160 it. No, he ain't coming in my house. 348 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,360 Now I'm not talking about a innocent, I'm talking about I'm 349 00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:48,080 talking about like if somebody come home and and they willing 350 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:52,400 to listen. But if, if, but if if if, if you 351 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,400 were the man, that's. Contradicting how we raising 352 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,360 you? No, I'm not in agreement. 353 00:24:59,360 --> 00:25:01,800 I'm cutting off the PayPal. I'm cutting off all that you, 354 00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:03,920 you ain't getting no Uber Eats, none of that. 355 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:10,760 I don't know. We we, we need a sold one first. 356 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:20,560 I don't know his grand, I don't know I got to hang out with. 357 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,240 No, no, no, y'all don't think about that part. 358 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,200 Y'all have your child, have babies with them and now you got 359 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,040 to do Thanksgiving with that family, that family crazy. 360 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,600 I don't want my grandchild being babysat by that that family. 361 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:42,240 No, no, no. This is a family affair. 362 00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:44,800 That's what we got to start fighting for. 363 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:49,320 This is why I understand the idea of arranged marriages. 364 00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,040 It can be too much, but I understand. 365 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,440 I, I kind of understand. I'm like, I'm, I'm like, I, I'm 366 00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:59,080 not going to do that, but I'm arrange a little bit. 367 00:25:59,120 --> 00:26:05,240 I'm going to make a few arrangements in the shoot. 368 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,320 I'd rather arrange a wedding than a funeral. 369 00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:08,480 Amen. Hallelujah. 370 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,960 All right, that that name wasn't even in this, in the, it wasn't 371 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:17,400 in the message. It's in my spirit though. 372 00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:22,200 Amen. Yeah, this is not nostalgic, 373 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,760 guys. This is this is this is 374 00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:26,760 revelation. Today God is saying to his 375 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,440 children, let me show you family, the family you were 376 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,880 always meant to carry, always meant to lead, always meant to 377 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:39,120 build and always meant to birth the family God intended is 378 00:26:39,120 --> 00:26:43,960 today's Part 1 of family manners. 379 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:49,680 Generation to generation. We will talk about generational 380 00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,120 healing. We're going to talk about we're 381 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,960 going to look in the Bible some areas where the father avoided 382 00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:03,360 some battles. Watch this any any battle 383 00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:09,360 avoided in a bloodline can lead to someone's life in the 384 00:27:09,360 --> 00:27:14,960 bloodline, meaning death. We we will look at the 385 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:22,000 perversion in the Bible in families, right? 386 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,000 Yeah. How you get Ishmael and Isaac 387 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,360 impatient. So you going to create your own 388 00:27:29,360 --> 00:27:31,440 family, not the one that God designed? 389 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:45,480 Hope you all ready man. The family that God intended. 390 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:53,040 There are three types of family. Somebody say 3. 391 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,600 Number one, the family you came from. 392 00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:06,040 The family you came from, come on, even if you don't feel like 393 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,560 it, say Lord, thank you for the family you gave me yes, 394 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,040 Hallelujah. Some of y'all had trouble saying 395 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,480 that, but Amen. There's that. 396 00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:18,920 We won't restore that today. Watch this because God, God, God 397 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:23,400 is using the family you was raised in for your story. 398 00:28:26,120 --> 00:28:29,520 The family you came from watch this. 399 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:34,160 You came from something. Hallelujah. 400 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:42,120 You came from something, but you are not confined to it. 401 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,520 So you may have came from that family, but you're not confined 402 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,600 to that family. That This is why I wanted to 403 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,680 take the limits. Off of what you think your 404 00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:57,600 future looks like based on the limitations your family had. 405 00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,560 No, no, no, no. God's going to do greater, 406 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:05,240 better, take it further, wiser. You are the interruption of 407 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,320 stagnation in your bloodline. Hear me out. 408 00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:13,680 You came from something, but you are not confined by it. 409 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,520 The family you came from. Watch this. 410 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:21,920 Imperfect. Yep, pattern formative. 411 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,640 Marked by both blessing and broken. 412 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:25,880 This is what people don't understand. 413 00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,440 Although your family is broken, they are also marked by 414 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,840 blessing. OK, it's like the wells we 415 00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:35,960 talked about Sunday. There is blessing in your 416 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:39,680 raggedy family. Guess what you got to do though? 417 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,800 Dig. You might just be called to be 418 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:49,000 the digger in your bloodline, but there is inheritance in your 419 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,160 family. There is goodness in your 420 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,560 family. Circumstances didn't allow Mama 421 00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,480 and daddy, grandma or grandpa to do certain things, but now 422 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:59,520 you're aware. You got more knowledge, you got 423 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:01,760 more tools, you got more resources. 424 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:06,560 Now you got to dig to restore what God had planned for your 425 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,200 bloodline. I know no matter what my dad 426 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,240 life turned out to be, that was not God's design for my father. 427 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,080 So whatever the enemy stole from my father, I am going to make 428 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,560 sure it comes back to me and move forward to my children. 429 00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:25,120 And that's what you got to see. For whatever reason, addiction, 430 00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:29,360 whatever it may be, what God planned for your family is still 431 00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:34,080 belongs to your family. Will you be the one to dig to 432 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:42,480 restore? Every family was blessed from 433 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:47,240 the beginning. So you're like man, mental 434 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,760 illness then wrecked my family. Watch this Kick It Out. 435 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,800 Because that wasn't God's design for your family. 436 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,240 You are the believer, you are the anointed 1. 437 00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,240 You are the filled with the spirit 1. 438 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,800 And you can make a difference from this point forward. 439 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:05,560 This is the year that God rewrites the family story for 440 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,720 you. This is the year that God 441 00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,680 rewrites the family story for you. 442 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,760 Come on, tell your neighbor. This is the year that God 443 00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,560 rewrites the family story for you. 444 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:22,470 I'm gonna say it again. This is the year that God 445 00:31:22,470 --> 00:31:24,470 rewrites the family story for you. 446 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:26,960 It's supposed to it's supposed to come up there. 447 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,800 It's supposed to come up. Is it the year that God rewrites 448 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,800 the family story for you? Come on, lift your hands and 449 00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,840 until until the screen change is it. 450 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,920 This is the year that God rewrites the family story for 451 00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:39,400 you. You see what you making these 452 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,360 people do? Why y'all raising your hand? 453 00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:45,040 That pro presenter, there we go. Amen. 454 00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,240 Hallelujah. They over there, right? 455 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:48,720 Now push the button. You're going there. 456 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:56,480 No, no. Amen. 457 00:31:58,720 --> 00:31:59,680 Watch this. Here it is. 458 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:01,520 I got proof. I got proof. 459 00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:07,680 I will restore or replace for you the years that the locust 460 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:14,600 has eaten, the hopping locusts, the stripping locusts, and the 461 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,080 crawling locusts. My great army, which I sent 462 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,360 among you, watch these. These locusts represent fruit 463 00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:25,520 eaters. They have ate up your fruit that 464 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,160 belongs to you. And God says what I will 465 00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:35,040 restore, Say he will restore. Number two. 466 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,320 Number two. You ready for this? 467 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,760 The second family is the family you create. 468 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,920 Watch this. Say I love the family I'm 469 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,160 creating. Amen. 470 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,640 The family you create. Watch this. 471 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,320 You got to get it. Every decision you make today 472 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,160 becomes the culture your children inherit tomorrow. 473 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:06,640 They don't. Watch this. 474 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:12,480 Your kids do not inherit decisions, they inherit culture. 475 00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:18,600 You made the decision that started culture in your 476 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:25,120 household. Sheesh. 477 00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,880 The family you create, your marriage, your children, your 478 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,160 decisions. Watch this and your household 479 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,040 habits. Watch this. 480 00:33:37,240 --> 00:33:41,080 It is me and my wife fault that our kids stay up really late at 481 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,720 night time. So kudos to all the families 482 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,480 that go to bed at 7:00 and everybody laying in bed till 10 483 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:54,880 with their eyes open because it's just what time we go to 484 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,640 bed. Amen. 485 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,400 I listen. Our family, we we stay up late. 486 00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,880 Bad habit. Good habit. 487 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:01,720 I don't know. I don't know. 488 00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:04,240 There's people with amazing discipline turn out to be serial 489 00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:05,400 killers. I don't, I can't. 490 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:07,000 I don't. I don't know. 491 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,679 You choose. Ain't no ain't no pattern. 492 00:34:08,679 --> 00:34:10,120 It's your household. It's your household. 493 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,000 So stop. Don't, don't look, watch this. 494 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,719 Don't demonize families that don't do it. 495 00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,480 How you do it right. I get it. 496 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:16,840 I get it. I'm going to say this in the 497 00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,360 next 30. Why your kids? 498 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,360 I just awesome. Your kids eat nothing but 499 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,480 vegetables and drink water. Our kids eat chips. 500 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,560 Sometime don't demonize my kids because they eat chips and 501 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:32,040 sometime they eat healthy candy. OK, every household is 502 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,440 different, but I'll, I'll be at fault. 503 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:36,040 We, we, we, yeah. We, we stay up late. 504 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,800 We stay up late. We stay up late. 505 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,719 And we working on it. We've been working on it for 506 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:47,560 some years now, but we working on it. 507 00:34:49,159 --> 00:34:53,080 Watch this. Your habits, your language, your 508 00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:58,520 prayer life, your forgiveness, your forgiveness patterns create 509 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:02,680 a spiritual ecosystem. Am I talking to anybody today? 510 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,240 yo-yo kids watch. The other day my our kids was 511 00:35:06,240 --> 00:35:09,040 teasing me and my wife and it was like y'all always laughing. 512 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:12,320 Yo. That's the part of the 513 00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,320 ecosystem. We be playing with each other. 514 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,440 We flirt with each other and and and and and it just come an age. 515 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,880 But before my wife would be like stop it now we just old enough 516 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:25,720 to where it's like whatever, right? 517 00:35:25,720 --> 00:35:30,640 It's a family. What is the sounds your kids 518 00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,560 hear? What is the body language they 519 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,440 see? Do they see? 520 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,880 We notice when they we notice when daddy show Mama affection. 521 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:42,360 We notice when Mama show daddy affection. 522 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,520 Oh, we heard Mama and Daddy arguing. 523 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:50,840 Oh, but we saw daddy, we heard dad apologize, we heard mom 524 00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,920 apologize. We didn't just hear mom and dad 525 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,160 yelling at each other. We actually heard them repent. 526 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,800 Oh, man, mom and dad used to go at each other throat. 527 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:02,160 Whoa, five years later. Wow, you guys. 528 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,240 Oh, they saw that they're they have hope that no matter what it 529 00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:10,040 started like it ain't got to end up that way, right. 530 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,440 It's the family you create and you think they don't know 531 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,600 because they babies. No impartation. 532 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,920 Impartation. What kind of family are you 533 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:27,920 creating? The family you create this 534 00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:28,880 family. Watch this. 535 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,000 This family reflects your stewardship. 536 00:36:35,720 --> 00:36:37,120 Watch this. Be careful you can raise 537 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,280 insecure children. Watch this. 538 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,720 Some of the stuff you spank your kids about and point your finger 539 00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:45,000 in their face and put them on time out about is because they 540 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:50,240 doing you. Some of the arguments you're 541 00:36:50,240 --> 00:36:53,160 going to get with in with your kids is going to because you see 542 00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:58,920 you and I just I asked you to do this just one time, one time 543 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:04,760 when you are disciplining your child for something you showed 544 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,800 them. I want you to repent for passing 545 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:16,160 that on to them. It is spank yourself and don't 546 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,320 ever do it again. Watch this. 547 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,280 Declare this with me, my house. Will. 548 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:29,120 Carry the aroma of heaven. Look at your neighbors. 549 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,480 Say no more stanky days. No more stanky days. 550 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:40,040 Hallelujah, like how hero passed that on like all nations. 551 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,080 When you say tell your neighbor, you more than likely are saying 552 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,560 something to somebody that really don't understand certain 553 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,560 things. I saw hero look over there and 554 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:51,400 she just she just looked her. She said no more stanky days, 555 00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,320 right. If that was Grace or somebody to 556 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:58,000 see me like no more stanky days girl. 557 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:06,200 She like no more stanky days. Art pastor, our pastor. 558 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:10,600 Amen. Let my prayer be as the evening 559 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:17,240 sacrifice that burns like fragrant incense, rising as my 560 00:38:17,240 --> 00:38:22,960 offering to you as I lift up my hands in surrendered worship. 561 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:31,040 May our family, may our house be a sweet Savior to your nostrils, 562 00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:38,400 Lord, and #3 the family that God intended. 563 00:38:39,720 --> 00:38:41,920 All you good note takers, what's the first family? 564 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:48,840 The family you was born into, The family you came from #2 was 565 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:58,120 the family you create. And then #3 very important. 566 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,880 Stop asking God to bless dysfunction. 567 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:10,920 Ask him to rebuild design. No, no no, some of us probably 568 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:13,760 could have some turn around in our families if we just went 569 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:17,480 with how it was meant to be versus asking God to put Cologne 570 00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:23,520 or deodorant on stamp, right? We're asking God to bless areas 571 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,400 we're not. Willing to do the work to change 572 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,360 right understand any get any change God makes you got a house 573 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,000 it. So if you're not willing to 574 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,680 house the change, don't ask for the change. 575 00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:42,440 Hallelujah the family that God intended. 576 00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:48,320 Families thrive not because they are perfect, but because they 577 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,600 are aligned. Am I helping somebody? 578 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,840 Your families don't try to have a perfect family. 579 00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:56,920 Watch this and stop hating on other families. 580 00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,840 Promise you the IG families you see. 581 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,920 The family they not on, we might be the family that's not on 582 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:12,040 Instagram, It's the marriage that's not on Instagram. 583 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,520 The family that God intended is covenant centered. 584 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:21,080 It is identity aware, it is spirit LED. 585 00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:24,080 It is generationally aligned built. 586 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,040 For greatness and built for purpose. 587 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:31,960 This is the family heaven designed by the Spirit, not by 588 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:35,280 trauma. The family that God intended was 589 00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:40,160 not built by trauma. Watch this. 590 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:45,120 This is your declaration. We return to the blueprint of 591 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,200 God. Come on, say today, we return to 592 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:52,440 the blueprint of God. Now here we go. 593 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,680 Genesis 1. God created human beings. 594 00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:00,480 He created them, God like reflecting God's nature. 595 00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:05,440 He created them mail and what one more time He created them. 596 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,760 God blessed them. God did what blessed them. 597 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:15,680 He didn't say God blessed him. The blessing was on them, not 598 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:18,960 him. God blessed them. 599 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:25,240 Prosper, reproduce, feel the earth, take charge, be 600 00:41:25,240 --> 00:41:30,400 responsible for fish in the sea and birds in the air, for every 601 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,320 living thing that moves on the face of the earth. 602 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:38,080 Watch this you guys. Made in His image and in His 603 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,840 likeness. The family is the foundational 604 00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:45,920 unit of society. The family. 605 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:49,760 There is no better world without better families. 606 00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:54,600 The plan of the enemy is to create a bunch of independent 607 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:58,960 spirited people and we were never made to be that way. 608 00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:07,560 We need each other in his image next slide. 609 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:12,400 This thing is lagging. In his image identity was 610 00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,400 transmitted when he says let us make man in our image. 611 00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:21,240 Identity was transmitted through lineage, Legacy was secured 612 00:42:21,240 --> 00:42:24,880 through offspring, and blessing was preserved through covenant 613 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:27,240 continuity. Understand. 614 00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:30,440 Identity was transmitted through lineage. 615 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,360 Here it is. Take a daddy out the house, I 616 00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,360 don't know who I am, part of me. Take a Mama out of the house. 617 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:39,760 I don't know who I am, part of me. 618 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:43,840 So I spent a lot of my years trying to find who I am as a 619 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,840 woman, as a man. And here humanity is because we 620 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,880 have not stewarded identity in the bloodline. 621 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,600 Watch this. This is one of the greatest 622 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,120 things I've learned since I moved here. 623 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,600 Now, some of you may not see this because this is your 624 00:42:56,600 --> 00:43:01,960 homeland, but I grew up in a place in North America where you 625 00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,760 raise your kids to be whatever they want to be. 626 00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:08,920 And when they're 18, you put them out or that's when you're 627 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,160 selling them. It's time to get out, go in the 628 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,760 world, spend 4 years at least in college and pick up a bunch of 629 00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,720 bad habits. Come home, go to church, 630 00:43:16,720 --> 00:43:20,360 worship, have a good time, go back out there, figure it out, 631 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,600 date, do what you want to do, figure it out. 632 00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:26,680 We got you home is safe and as good as you got that place. 633 00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,840 But why is that the plan? And then I came to this country 634 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:38,520 and I see these big old houses, we'd like 3-4 generations living 635 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:41,360 in one house, not stacked up on top of each other. 636 00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,440 But there's a, there's a, there's a, there's a quarter for 637 00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,040 everybody. You got the, you got like 4 638 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:51,800 generations in one property and they taking care of each other 639 00:43:51,800 --> 00:43:53,960 and they're taking care of grandma and they're taking care 640 00:43:53,960 --> 00:43:57,080 of parents and the kids is helping with the family business 641 00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,080 and they're investing in the property. 642 00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,480 And then they're handing on tools as they're doing family 643 00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:06,040 together. And for us, we push each other 644 00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,320 out. And before we know it, Troy, 645 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:11,680 everybody in our family got a different plan. 646 00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:16,840 They're raising a different house. 647 00:44:17,240 --> 00:44:20,840 And then you go visit your grandkids with and your and your 648 00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:23,960 daughter or your or your son, and you go over there for 649 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,800 Thanksgiving and you like what's going on here? 650 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:35,040 And that's what's happening. Then we teach our kids, you go 651 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:36,560 to this church and you go to that church. 652 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:39,800 You go here and you go there. Instead of teaching our kids to 653 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:45,000 learn how to be rooted, to be rooted in relationship, to 654 00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:48,400 contend for love, contend for unity, to have the hard 655 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,200 conversations. Before we know it, our 656 00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,400 grandkids. Is and watch this. 657 00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,480 We respect each other. But what God intended for the 658 00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,360 family has been lost in translation. 659 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,800 No, you go get that education and you you get out there and be 660 00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,520 all you can not look at these other families. 661 00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:15,000 I'm like, whoa, they're actually planning generationally, not 662 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:20,360 hoping generationally. And so for me, how I raised my 663 00:45:20,360 --> 00:45:21,960 children now, man, it changed my mind. 664 00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,240 Said that's why my wife is out there with Malachi. 665 00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,320 That's why when he go away to college, we going to be right 666 00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,320 there too. Some would say, oh, he going to 667 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:31,680 be soft for that. No, he ain't. 668 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:35,360 So tell me how it's worked out for those who didn't have the 669 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:39,920 support who didn't have went men in the beautiful right after a 670 00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:41,000 game. If his heart meant the 671 00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:43,600 conversations I'm able to have with my kids because he see I'm 672 00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,080 a safe place and his Mama safe place. 673 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,360 We having some for real conversations. 674 00:45:48,240 --> 00:45:53,200 Whoa, like for real watch this. I was somebody who who didn't 675 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:57,400 have a dad to talk to after the game when I had panic attack, I 676 00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,480 didn't have a dad to tell me to lead me to show me the worship, 677 00:46:00,480 --> 00:46:02,400 to show me how the family bloodline doing. 678 00:46:02,720 --> 00:46:09,080 I didn't I didn't have that. But then we just like are afraid 679 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:15,120 because somehow culture has made us feel like if we if we do this 680 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:19,320 with our kids, it's harmful. No watch this. 681 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,120 The world is going to teach them enough. 682 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,200 They have school 6 hours a day. What you think they learning? 683 00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:26,840 You think they learning what you want them to learn? 684 00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:29,640 They they watching watch take their phones. 685 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:33,080 Guess what they looking at their friends phones watch this. 686 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:36,840 If your kids are under 13, they probably had access and seen 687 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:40,120 porn already and we don't want to do this. 688 00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,520 No, spanking ain't the answer. They're exposed to it. 689 00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:48,240 It's a different time. Your kid will see it if they got 690 00:46:48,240 --> 00:46:51,520 a phone and if they got friends with phones and you can watch 691 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:52,880 this. You cannot get them a phone 692 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:54,920 today, 35 years old. Guess what? 693 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,720 They got friends. They got phones at 12. 694 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,040 But we're not contending. We're loose with family. 695 00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,440 We're not guarding God's plan for bloodline. 696 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:07,160 Watch this. He's the God of Abraham. 697 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,560 He's the God of Isaac. He's the God of watch this. 698 00:47:09,720 --> 00:47:16,280 Why would God repeat the covenant blessing to multiple 699 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:17,600 generations? The same 1. 700 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:21,480 He spoke to Abraham, he speaks to Isaac, the same one. 701 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,920 Why is God not switching the plan? 702 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,360 Why is God not switching? The lineage plan. 703 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,680 No, David, I asked you to build the temple. 704 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,880 Your son's going to build it, though. 705 00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:35,320 I gave you the vision. Your son's going to build it. 706 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:42,280 But the way we do family in North America, this is Watch 707 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,720 this. The strength of the church is 708 00:47:44,720 --> 00:47:49,480 being impacted with who we plant, who we pass the church 709 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:55,320 off to. You cannot build a family beyond 710 00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:59,720 the image you carry. Hallelujah. 711 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,560 I need a sprinkler system up here, A water slide or 712 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,280 something. You give me a water slide or 713 00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,360 something, Y'all tripping. Amen. 714 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:17,480 Hallelujah, No, we good, we good, we good. 715 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,520 I like sweating. I'm losing calories at the same 716 00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:25,560 time, it's good. Don't be skinty after this he 717 00:48:25,560 --> 00:48:29,480 says, and God bless them. Is that not what he say? 718 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,760 And God bless them. What does this mean? 719 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:38,760 And God bless them to empower, to speak into existence, to 720 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,480 authorize the he authorized you to prosper. 721 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,200 What are you doing in your family, Lily? 722 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:44,800 What are you doing? Like watch this. 723 00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:49,600 Stop waiting for them lead the way. 724 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,400 You have been authorized to prosper. 725 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,400 The blessing is not emotional affirmation. 726 00:48:56,400 --> 00:49:02,600 It is spiritual empowerment. Somebody say I'm blessed and God 727 00:49:02,600 --> 00:49:06,720 said be fruitful. Is that not what he said? 728 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:11,120 What does that mean? To produce, grow and become 729 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,600 fertile? Watch this. 730 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:19,880 This is very important. This is not about reproduction. 731 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,920 When he says to multiply, it's not mere, oh, half a bunch of 732 00:49:25,920 --> 00:49:29,800 babies. No, he's saying spread 733 00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:33,960 influence. Influence must multiply from 734 00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:43,880 your family. I just declare over you, over 735 00:49:43,880 --> 00:49:48,280 you, you're blessed in the city, you're blessed in the field, 736 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,240 you're blessed coming in, you're blessed going out. 737 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,600 You're the head and not the tail. 738 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:57,480 You're, you're above and not beneath your lender, not the 739 00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,520 borrower. In the name of Jesus, shout out, 740 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:10,800 My family is blessed. We'll end here at #6 We good. 741 00:50:16,840 --> 00:50:20,320 The Lord bless you and watch, guard and keep you. 742 00:50:21,240 --> 00:50:25,760 The Lord make His face to shine upon you and enlighten you, and 743 00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:29,480 be gracious, kind, merciful, and giving favor to you. 744 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:37,160 The Lord lift up His approving countenance upon you and give 745 00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:41,680 you peace, tranquility of heart and life continually and they 746 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:44,880 shall put my name upon the Israelites. 747 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:46,600 Watch this and I will bless them. 748 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:51,520 The scripture, the song says the Lord bless you Barack. 749 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:57,320 This is blessing is not comfort is blessing is capacity for the 750 00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,600 Lord to bless you. He is bringing increase to your 751 00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,920 family, to your bloodline to bless the Lord. 752 00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:04,760 Bless. You. 753 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:11,840 To empower for success, fruitfulness and life. 754 00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:14,480 Watch this. To empower for success. 755 00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,720 Fruitfulness. And life as I was getting ready 756 00:51:17,720 --> 00:51:23,560 this I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah. What God has called my family to 757 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:27,640 do we going to do it Yeah, like now we going to prosper. 758 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,240 We're breaking the spirit of poverty. 759 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:31,680 We're breaking these limitations. 760 00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:35,280 We're breaking divorce. No, no, not just marriage that 761 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:39,400 tolerate but man my sons in the name of Jesus going to have fun 762 00:51:39,400 --> 00:51:41,080 with their wives. They going to love their wives. 763 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,520 They going to get married once they going to be affectionate 764 00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,960 with their children. They they going to communicate 765 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:47,160 clearly? No. 766 00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:52,760 Yeah, we're a blessed to be fruitful, to be a family of 767 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:58,840 influence. To guard, he says to keep watch 768 00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:04,320 this Lord bless you and Lord what keep you, The Lord bless 769 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:05,520 you. So he's taking. 770 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:06,720 He's saying I'm going to bless you. 771 00:52:06,720 --> 00:52:09,880 This is my blessing. And then he says the Lord keep 772 00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:10,920 you. This is my keeping. 773 00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:13,640 What does that mean? To guard, watch over, preserve, 774 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,480 hedge and protect. Ain't no way your family's 775 00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:19,280 supposed to walk around not knowing that the Lord is with 776 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,960 y'all. No, you talk to a a a a son, 777 00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,480 daughter. Guess what, man, it's the legion 778 00:52:23,480 --> 00:52:24,880 of angels. I told my son the other day, I 779 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,920 say, hey, when you go out on that court, I know you playing 780 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,400 against the top player in the country, but guess what? 781 00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,080 You know how many angels with you, buddy? 782 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,160 You do you know what upper hand you got? 783 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,640 There's some guys out there that's just out there by 784 00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,240 themselves and they talent. But boy, you, you, you want the 785 00:52:40,240 --> 00:52:43,080 top players in the country and you got angels with you. 786 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:45,920 You better go out there like you got angels with you. 787 00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,720 Not you ain't just put in the work. 788 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,280 You also know somebody that knows somebody that knows 789 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:56,880 somebody. Yeah, the the angels, when we 790 00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:58,600 when we fly, you're going to be aware. 791 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,240 There's angels that are following your family, that is 792 00:53:01,240 --> 00:53:03,440 covering your family, that's protecting your family. 793 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,880 Your family is favored by God. That's an awareness that needs 794 00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,000 so your daughters, so your, your sons and so your family is not 795 00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,400 out there looking for affirmation in these other 796 00:53:12,400 --> 00:53:14,160 places. And if they do, they do. 797 00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:15,880 But guess what? It's not going to be because you 798 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:20,240 didn't teach them. Some attack is because of 799 00:53:20,240 --> 00:53:23,360 ignorance. Some attack is because you know. 800 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,040 So now because you know, Troy, I need to get you to not believe 801 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:33,400 what you know because I messed up and let you know. 802 00:53:36,840 --> 00:53:39,480 This means that my family is meant to be kept by God. 803 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:45,320 Watch this, not by resources. My family is meant to be kept by 804 00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:49,440 God. Not about trauma, not about 805 00:53:49,440 --> 00:53:54,320 walls, He says. May His face shine upon you. 806 00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,600 What does that mean? That means nothing is distant 807 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:00,840 from God. That means access, favor, 808 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:05,520 relational nearness, nothing hidden. 809 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:17,120 He's always with you. And then lastly and give you 810 00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:26,120 peace. I mean, you could live in a 811 00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:31,680 chaotic house, but the question is, can you be that beacon of 812 00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,640 peace in your house? Can you be a peacemaker? 813 00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:40,880 Or are you carrier of anxiety and worry and worried about 814 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:42,040 money? You're worried about this and 815 00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:45,560 you're worried about that. Just know that in the beginning, 816 00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:50,040 His plan for your family was peace, wholeness, integration, 817 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,840 stability. Nothing missing, nothing broken 818 00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:57,520 was the Father's plan for you. Nothing missing, nothing broken 819 00:54:57,720 --> 00:55:14,510 was the Father's plan for you. In the name of Jesus, I just 820 00:55:14,510 --> 00:55:20,710 declare every area of your family that God's design is 821 00:55:20,710 --> 00:55:29,420 restored. Every area of blessing that you 822 00:55:29,420 --> 00:55:36,960 forgot, God is restoring memory. Every structure built by fear, 823 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:42,400 by trauma, every survival mechanism, every leaning on 824 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,920 human wisdom be dismantled in the name of Jesus. 825 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:51,200 And May God original design of heaven be restored within your 826 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,320 household. Today we plead the blood of 827 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,640 Jesus. We re establish the bloodline 828 00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:59,840 around your address, around your household, around your family, 829 00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,000 around your mind. And we declare that death has no 830 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:07,560 power over your household. Disease has no access to your 831 00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:10,840 household. No identity formed out of 832 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,080 rejection will stand, no pattern birthed out of brokenness will 833 00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,440 remain. And no false version of you will 834 00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,760 survive this moment. And God is restoring you back to 835 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,920 the image that He breathed in the name of Jesus. 836 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,320 I speak alignment over your family. 837 00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,120 I speak alignment over your children. 838 00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,280 I speak alignment over your marriage. 839 00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,200 I speak alignment over your employment. 840 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,040 I speak alignment over your dreams. 841 00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:36,440 I speak alignment over your thought life. 842 00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:38,760 I speak alignment over your habits. 843 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:43,280 I speak alignment in the name of Jesus and everything that is not 844 00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:46,600 of him. Be broken and loose now in the 845 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:50,600 name of Jesus. I speak restoration over your 846 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,160 bloodline now in the name of Jesus. 847 00:56:56,600 --> 00:57:05,280 In the name of Jesus, every area you have been disappointed by 848 00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,080 family, you've been. Hurt. 849 00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,960 You've been bruised, you've been abused, you've been you've been 850 00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:15,600 cheated on, you've been lied to, you've been manipulated. 851 00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:18,440 You've been emotionally taken advantage of. 852 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:22,520 Every area where you have been your your your father, instead 853 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:25,800 of being kind and loving and tender with you, used 854 00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,160 intimidation on you. Forgive him. 855 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,600 Forgive her in the name of Jesus. 856 00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,440 You are not a timid little boy. I come against the rage that was 857 00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,840 birthed through your father's abuse and anger and emotional 858 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,040 manipulation. I come against it. 859 00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:44,040 Now, in the name of Jesus, I come against the trauma of rape 860 00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:47,280 and molestation. In the name of Jesus and I 861 00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,720 declare that you were fearfully and wonderfully made. 862 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:53,160 You were created and thought of whole. 863 00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:56,880 In the name of Jesus, you were thought of and created with 864 00:57:56,880 --> 00:58:00,720 nothing missing, nothing broken but wholeness in every area of 865 00:58:00,720 --> 00:58:04,400 your life. I declare forgiveness becomes 866 00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:07,520 your reality towards your mother, towards your father, 867 00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,520 towards your uncle, towards your coworker, towards towards 868 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,280 government officials. I just I declare that trust in 869 00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:19,160 authority figures that God have ordained will be restored in the 870 00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:22,560 name of Jesus. I declare patience be restored. 871 00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,800 I declare fear loses momentum in the name of Jesus. 872 00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:31,280 I declare intimidation loses its grip in the name of Jesus. 873 00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:35,440 I declare poor self identification loses its grip. 874 00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,800 I declare confidence rises up now in the name of Jesus. 875 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:42,480 I declare Jesus becomes your portion. 876 00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:45,680 I declare the blessing of the Lord that makes rich becomes 877 00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,800 your portion. I declare every generational 878 00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:52,000 curse be broken now in the name of Jesus. 879 00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:56,320 From abuse, from addiction, from pharmakeia, be broken in the 880 00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:59,840 name of Jesus. Sexual immorality be broken in 881 00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:03,160 the name of Jesus. Fear be broken in the name of 882 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:06,400 Jesus. In the name of Jesus, take your 883 00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,680 hands off of that son. Take your hand off of that 884 00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,720 daughter. In the name of Jesus, delayed 885 00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:15,600 purpose. In the name of Jesus, be broken. 886 00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:18,560 Now you are called. You are called by God. 887 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,600 You are anointed by God in the name of Jesus. 888 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,440 They might have forgot about you, they might have talked down 889 00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:26,760 to you, they might have walked out of your life. 890 00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:30,960 But in the name of Jesus, fear not, for the Lord did not give 891 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:35,800 you the spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. 892 00:59:35,800 --> 00:59:39,200 In the mighty name of Jesus. You are anointed to prosper. 893 00:59:39,200 --> 00:59:42,240 You are anointed to go. You are anointed to speak. 894 00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,960 I declare where you have lost your voice, your voice be 895 00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:49,840 restored in the name of Jesus. You have a voice, you are 896 00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,840 confident, you are bold. Every religious spirit be broken 897 00:59:53,840 --> 00:59:58,040 off of you, every political spirit be broken off of you in 898 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:07,040 the name of Jesus. You may have been sexually 899 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:08,960 abused, but you will not reoffend. 900 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,560 You will not hurt someone how you've been a hurt. 901 01:00:20,690 --> 01:00:27,970 This is that year for you. You may have experienced 902 01:00:27,970 --> 01:00:31,130 fatherlessness, but you will be a father for your children. 903 01:00:31,130 --> 01:00:34,090 Fear not, you will be a husband to your wife. 904 01:00:34,090 --> 01:00:40,440 Fear not, may not have a good relationship with your dad but 905 01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:44,280 with your mom, but you can't trust those that God has put in 906 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:54,440 your life, Paul says. We have many teachers, very few 907 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,320 fathers, very few. And I will say that's one thing 908 01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:00,480 the church is missing and that's one thing the enemy is fighting. 909 01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:03,480 He just wants the church to be full of teachers and pastors. 910 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,400 But where's the fathers in the body of Christ? 911 01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,640 Where's the spiritual parents in the body of Christ? 912 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,400 Because biological parents, you can only do so much, so long. 913 01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:21,320 But my, my children besides me need spiritual covering. 914 01:01:22,960 --> 01:01:25,080 They, they need spiritual aunties and uncles. 915 01:01:25,080 --> 01:01:30,920 They need a spiritual family. Your spiritual family is not 916 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:32,480 there to fill. Holes. 917 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,480 That your parents left. No, no, no, no, no. 918 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:35,840 They're there to call you higher. 919 01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:37,640 They're there to call you the purpose. 920 01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:39,920 They're there to bring healing in your life. 921 01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:42,880 Where, where, where, Where Your wholeness was broken. 922 01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:52,320 So, Lord, I thank you that people that are wandering will 923 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:55,120 not just find churches, they will not just find programs, 924 01:01:55,120 --> 01:01:58,960 they will not, but they will find their spiritual family. 925 01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:08,880 Lord, strengthen the Church of British Columbia. 926 01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:14,360 Strengthen the Church of Canada with spiritual authority, 927 01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:18,760 spiritual covering, spiritual parents, strong spiritual 928 01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:25,080 families, stronger than than programs, Lord, stronger than 929 01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:28,440 systems. We need families in the church. 930 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:34,880 We thank you. We need families that show the 931 01:02:34,880 --> 01:02:40,040 world how to hang in there and fight and love unconditionally. 932 01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:52,270 Families that communicate well. I declare the enemy. 933 01:02:53,470 --> 01:03:01,040 Your enemies are defeated, your enemies are defeated, your 934 01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:06,240 family is restored. And if it just has to start with 935 01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:14,120 you, I declare you are anointed to be the pioneer. 936 01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:17,800 Look to some people yesterday around the table and I said, 937 01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:20,360 man, we're the first generation of what we're doing right now. 938 01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,840 So I know you can't find the strategy, you can't find the 939 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,520 blueprint. You're mad that somebody didn't 940 01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,440 show you, but you're the first generation. 941 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:31,400 You are a pioneer, son, daughter, you are a pioneer. 942 01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,320 You are anointed to start it. You are anointed to figure it 943 01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:37,320 out. You are anointed to push through 944 01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:45,400 disappointment. For God is doing a new thing in 945 01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:49,720 the earth as He prepares His bride to come home. 946 01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,400 Father, forgive us where we did not steward family. 947 01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:58,240 Forgive us where we were not disciplined as a family where 948 01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,480 you needed us disciplined. Forgive us where we gave our 949 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,560 children passes, where you called us to draw the line. 950 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:08,840 Forgive us for just being friends when they needed 951 01:04:08,840 --> 01:04:11,920 parents. Forgive us. 952 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,800 Father, You've created boundaries in our lives. 953 01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:19,240 You've disciplined us because you said you discipline knows 954 01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:25,760 that you love. So Lord, may your church be a 955 01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:30,640 beacon of light and community to restore family. 956 01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:35,040 The reason why there's so much liberty to re identify family. 957 01:04:35,280 --> 01:04:39,160 Is because the church may not be doing the greatest job to show 958 01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:40,960 the world what family looks like. 959 01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:44,400 We're just as divorced. We're just as running from 960 01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:49,360 confrontation. Who are we? 961 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:54,640 You can't be anointed to break people free from something that 962 01:04:54,640 --> 01:05:00,440 is holding you. How are we going to show the 963 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:06,800 world how to have the hard conversation if we don't want to 964 01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:18,700 have it when there's healing in this room? 965 01:05:21,300 --> 01:05:23,460 For some of you, it has to start with forgiveness. 966 01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,480 Some of you you forgave, but you just don't know how to let go. 967 01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:37,720 I will tell you that memories are not a sign that you're not 968 01:05:37,720 --> 01:05:40,520 healed. You can remember and still be 969 01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:43,280 healed. You can remember and still be 970 01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,880 strong. You can remember and still be 971 01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:51,040 whole. Watch this. 972 01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:59,280 Jesus told us the love, guard proximity, family, friends, it 973 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:01,240 don't matter who it is. Guard proximity. 974 01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:08,120 The reason why you got to create boundaries so that cycles can 975 01:06:08,120 --> 01:06:15,040 die, calluses can fall off and moving forward with you. 976 01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:16,480 Watch this. You're not just creating 977 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,080 boundaries for you, but you're creating boundaries so things 978 01:06:19,080 --> 01:06:20,720 don't bleed into the next generation. 979 01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:25,080 So lift your hands all over the room. 980 01:06:31,210 --> 01:06:34,650 And as we sing this song together, let's have one thing 981 01:06:34,650 --> 01:06:36,410 in mind. Let's be unified. 982 01:06:37,010 --> 01:06:41,410 Let's be in faith that every family in here, and I know I'm 983 01:06:41,410 --> 01:06:44,370 in Canada, there are people that are living in this country and 984 01:06:44,370 --> 01:06:47,490 your family living across the world and you're believing for 985 01:06:47,490 --> 01:06:53,000 your family. But I don't want you to be so in 986 01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:57,280 pain for your family that you're not aware that God's doing a new 987 01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:02,840 thing through you so that those that come after you will not 988 01:07:02,840 --> 01:07:05,560 have to experience the same trauma you experienced. 989 01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,360 You're not identified by your trauma. 990 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:16,400 Your parents experienced abuse. Your parents, some of us men, 991 01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:18,880 our parents, all of us, our parents didn't know better. 992 01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,120 Today we're just going to believe the best because that's 993 01:07:24,120 --> 01:07:26,040 what love does. And we're just going to say, 994 01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:30,200 God, my parents did their best. They did what they knew how. 995 01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:34,320 And today I released them to you, Lord. 996 01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,920 Lord, those are my dad is your son. 997 01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,160 My mom is your mom. I mean your daughter. 998 01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:42,840 Lord, I released them to you today. 999 01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:48,840 I long I no longer carry that burden. 1000 01:07:54,640 --> 01:07:56,880 Lift your hands, sons and daughters, all over the room and 1001 01:07:59,160 --> 01:08:00,800 allow the Lord to minister to you. 1002 01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,120 Thank you so much for tuning into this week's sermon. 1003 01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:18,439 We pray you were challenged, equipped and encouraged. 1004 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:20,640 Make sure to follow us on all platforms. 1005 01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:24,720 That's love quest Intl church. We out here for real. 1006 01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:27,080 We're really doing it. That's Facebook, Instagram, 1007 01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:30,319 YouTube and TikTok. You can find us anywhere you 1008 01:08:30,319 --> 01:08:32,600 need to find us. But until next time, you know 1009 01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:34,800 the drill. You know the motto, get your 1010 01:08:34,800 --> 01:08:37,080 love fixed man and we'll see y'all real soon.