Are you brave enough to date a trans girl?
Being trans isn't always easy. Before anyone sees my smile, my
confidence or my heart, there's often that pause, that question,
that judgement. So let me start by telling you
who I am, how I look, how I feel, and why I'm still standing
tall. I'm Sophie.
I'm 19 and when I step into a room I don't hide.
I'm wearing a gold one shoulder dress that catches the light
with every tiny movement. The fabric hugs my waist and
hips perfectly smooth and shiny, making me feel bold and feminine
at the same time. One shoulder is bare, soft and
elegant, while the other side frames my collarbone just right.
My long blonde hair falls naturally around my shoulders,
slightly WAVY, framing my face. I keep my makeup fresh and soft.
Glowy skin, gentle blush, glossy lips, nothing too much, just me.
I stand confidently in my heels, legs straight, shoulders
relaxed, a small smile playing on my lips, not forced, not
nervous. A smile that says I know who I
am. That's how I got the job.
Someone saw my confidence and asked me to model the dress.
No labels, no explanations, just can you wear this?
And I did. When I walk, I feel eyes on me,
some curious, some admiring, a few flirty.
I blush a little, giggle softly, pretending I don't notice, but I
do. Guys smile, some try to impress
me, some compliment the dress, some compliment me.
Then comes the moment. I always choose honesty.
I'm trans. Sometimes the chat stops,
sometimes the smile fades, sometimes I get left on red.
And yeah, that still hurts. But standing there in that gold
dress, shoulders back, chin lifted, I remind myself I didn't
lose value because someone got scared.
I'm still the girl in gold, still confident, still warm,
still looking for love. So I ask you honestly, are you
brave enough to date a trans girl?
Brave enough to see the woman before the label?
Brave enough to hold my hand in public, to smile back when I
blush, To choose me because of who I am not despite it?
One day someone will say yes, and until then I'll keep
shining. Stay with me, follow like,
subscribe. My journey is just beginning.