1 00:00:03,250 --> 00:00:06,100 Take a look behind the curtain with the real whistleblower in 2 00:00:06,110 --> 00:00:08,480 American Patriot. Prepare to embrace the 3 00:00:08,490 --> 00:00:11,960 uncomfortable truth, because this programme has no time for 4 00:00:11,970 --> 00:00:14,380 comforting lies. Here is civil liberties 5 00:00:14,390 --> 00:00:18,380 enthusiast, Second Amendment defender, and recovering FBI 6 00:00:18,390 --> 00:00:23,330 agent Kyle Serif. Hello my friends and welcome to 7 00:00:23,340 --> 00:00:27,370 the Kyle Serafin Show for Thursday November the 2nd. 8 00:00:28,090 --> 00:00:31,050 Today we're gonna be talking to a young woman who seems to have 9 00:00:31,060 --> 00:00:36,030 it all pretty well squared away. Young lady named Lily Kate, 10 00:00:36,990 --> 00:00:38,770 We're going to be talking about anti feminism. 11 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:40,910 What the world is that? I thought everybody wanted to be 12 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,210 a feminist. 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Here it comes. 31 00:01:29,270 --> 00:01:31,540 Alright, You listen to the Kyle Serafin Show so you know that we 32 00:01:31,550 --> 00:01:34,720 don't think it's an if, but a when things get bad in this 33 00:01:34,730 --> 00:01:38,420 country and when they get bad, you want to be prepared. 34 00:01:38,490 --> 00:01:40,320 One of my good buddies says you got two options. 35 00:01:40,330 --> 00:01:44,130 You can prepare or repair. I recommend you prepare and you 36 00:01:44,140 --> 00:01:47,640 can go to four, the number four patriots.com/kyle. 37 00:01:48,260 --> 00:01:51,970 You can check out all of their survival goods, including their 38 00:01:51,980 --> 00:01:54,860 best selling survival food. There is a thing called the Rule 39 00:01:54,870 --> 00:01:56,950 of Threes in the military. It's a survival concept. 40 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,930 It says that you can go for three weeks without food, 41 00:01:58,940 --> 00:02:01,090 although I don't recommend it. You can go for three days 42 00:02:01,100 --> 00:02:03,100 without water, although that gets really rough. 43 00:02:03,140 --> 00:02:06,070 You can go for three minutes without air, but you can't go 44 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:09,220 for three seconds without hope. Failure to plan is planning to 45 00:02:09,229 --> 00:02:11,610 fail. Don't be that guy that doesn't 46 00:02:11,620 --> 00:02:13,730 know what to do. If the lights go out and you 47 00:02:13,740 --> 00:02:16,150 don't have a grocery store to go to, that's not where the food 48 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,470 comes from. It should come from your pantry. 49 00:02:18,540 --> 00:02:20,290 They sent me the 72 hour food pack. 50 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:21,880 We cook some up. The kids ate it. 51 00:02:21,950 --> 00:02:24,220 No problem. This is a victory. 52 00:02:24,260 --> 00:02:28,140 Get it done by going to fourpatriots.com/kyle. 53 00:02:28,150 --> 00:02:30,720 You could throw something in your truck, in your van, in your 54 00:02:30,730 --> 00:02:33,410 minivan. Keep food where you are in case 55 00:02:33,420 --> 00:02:35,240 you can't get to where your food is. 56 00:02:35,310 --> 00:02:37,200 This is a real simple problem to solve. 57 00:02:37,250 --> 00:02:39,020 It's easy. You throw a couple of dollars at 58 00:02:39,030 --> 00:02:41,980 it and you can forget about it. They're guaranteed for 25 years. 59 00:02:42,070 --> 00:02:44,700 That's an awful lot of time for you to be solving this problem. 60 00:02:44,740 --> 00:02:49,200 Go ahead and check it out. Or patriots.com/kyle. 61 00:02:49,210 --> 00:02:50,590 Or use promo code. Kyle, if you go to 62 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:56,090 fourpatriots.com. Yo, I like that jam. 63 00:02:56,100 --> 00:02:57,540 What do you guys think? Is that good? 64 00:02:57,620 --> 00:02:59,890 It's got me popping. I'm glad I made that for you. 65 00:02:59,960 --> 00:03:02,050 Also like wearing AT shirt instead of a jacket, but that's 66 00:03:02,060 --> 00:03:04,120 OK. We dressed up nice because we 67 00:03:04,130 --> 00:03:05,560 were talking to a very nice person. 68 00:03:05,660 --> 00:03:08,770 And here we go. Let's do an interview with Lily. 69 00:03:08,780 --> 00:03:15,000 Kate, ladies and gentlemen, put your hands together. 70 00:03:15,010 --> 00:03:16,590 No, don't put your hands together because I won't hear 71 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:17,920 you. We are doing this digitally. 72 00:03:17,930 --> 00:03:20,600 We are streaming it. But you are going to hear now 73 00:03:20,610 --> 00:03:23,810 from your favourite antifeminist. 74 00:03:23,820 --> 00:03:25,650 What is an antifeminist? We're gonna have to talk about 75 00:03:25,660 --> 00:03:27,590 that. We are bringing on the one and 76 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:30,270 only Lily Kate. Lily Kate, welcome to the Kyle 77 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:31,450 Serafin Show. Hi. 78 00:03:31,460 --> 00:03:33,650 Hi. Thank you so much for having me. 79 00:03:33,700 --> 00:03:35,840 You're smiling now, but this is going to be the most difficult 80 00:03:35,850 --> 00:03:37,100 thing you do today. What do you think? 81 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,690 I mean, I just worked out, so we'll have to see. 82 00:03:40,420 --> 00:03:41,710 Alright, let's work out your brain. 83 00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,130 OK? Luckily for you, you're going to 84 00:03:43,140 --> 00:03:45,580 be the expert on basically everything I asked you. 85 00:03:45,630 --> 00:03:47,140 So you've got that in your corner. 86 00:03:48,160 --> 00:03:50,230 So I want to know, where is Lily K? 87 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:53,830 Where are you from? Houston, TX And you tell people 88 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,170 everywhere you go that you're a Texan. 89 00:03:56,150 --> 00:03:59,500 I think it should be in the energy that radiates from me, 90 00:03:59,510 --> 00:04:01,750 but if they don't pick up on that, I always make sure to let 91 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,340 them know for sure. Outstanding. 92 00:04:03,350 --> 00:04:07,500 OK, What is it that is unique about Texas that nobody else 93 00:04:07,510 --> 00:04:09,220 understands? If they're not from Texas, what 94 00:04:09,230 --> 00:04:10,780 is the Texas energy that radiates? 95 00:04:11,450 --> 00:04:15,520 Texas Energy is you have a specific independence that 96 00:04:15,530 --> 00:04:19,800 you're, you have a level of self assuredness, you have a level of 97 00:04:19,810 --> 00:04:21,890 creativity. But you know, they call us the 98 00:04:21,899 --> 00:04:24,580 Lone Star State and really that's exactly how it is. 99 00:04:24,590 --> 00:04:28,780 We have a bunch of independently minded people who love their 100 00:04:28,790 --> 00:04:31,880 faith, love their country, but primarily love their state. 101 00:04:32,450 --> 00:04:34,760 We always got to let you know that everything is bigger in 102 00:04:34,770 --> 00:04:38,240 Texas. And while that is very true, we 103 00:04:38,250 --> 00:04:40,810 do have a very deep swamp. So you know, hopefully we'll be 104 00:04:40,820 --> 00:04:42,960 combating more against that as time goes on. 105 00:04:42,970 --> 00:04:45,340 But yeah, Texas is really just an independent spirit. 106 00:04:45,350 --> 00:04:47,390 And a lot of times. People are Texans. 107 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:49,690 They just don't know it yet. And when they move here, they 108 00:04:49,700 --> 00:04:52,450 finally find a place that they're comfortable in that they 109 00:04:52,460 --> 00:04:54,100 understand. It's just like Zach, Brian, you 110 00:04:54,110 --> 00:04:56,650 know, keep heading South because they let you play your music 111 00:04:56,660 --> 00:04:59,840 really darn loud. And essentially that's what 112 00:04:59,850 --> 00:05:01,230 Texas is. We're big, welcoming, 113 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:04,400 independent place. I've never heard someone say 114 00:05:04,410 --> 00:05:05,800 that. A lot of people are Texans, but 115 00:05:05,810 --> 00:05:07,700 they don't know it yet. That's a great line. 116 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:10,250 Thank you. My I think my wife was a Texan 117 00:05:10,260 --> 00:05:11,960 and didn't know it. She went to the University of 118 00:05:11,970 --> 00:05:15,060 Texas from New York and she's a naturalised American because of 119 00:05:15,070 --> 00:05:16,140 it. Do you think that? 120 00:05:16,630 --> 00:05:19,320 I think that since my boyfriend's an Aggie, I can't 121 00:05:19,330 --> 00:05:22,420 support that decision. You're not even involved in that 122 00:05:22,430 --> 00:05:25,910 conflict. They have to be loyal, you know, 123 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:27,530 They've done good. They've done well for him. 124 00:05:27,580 --> 00:05:30,010 Although he does want to go to UT eventually for his law 125 00:05:30,020 --> 00:05:31,430 school, so I don't know how that's gonna work. 126 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:32,850 He's gonna have to get another ring. 127 00:05:34,290 --> 00:05:37,490 You wear the ring. A specific ring first, but yeah, 128 00:05:37,500 --> 00:05:38,660 let's talk about that in a minute. 129 00:05:38,730 --> 00:05:40,130 Let's talk about growing up in Houston. 130 00:05:40,410 --> 00:05:44,030 What year were you born? 2002 My goodness. 131 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:50,050 OK, 2002, which makes you about 20 and change 21. 21 Yes, that's 132 00:05:50,060 --> 00:05:52,150 a big that's a big year. So I don't want to short you on 133 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,750 that one. Tell Tell me about being born in 134 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:58,850 Houston in 2002. What was life like as a kid? 135 00:05:58,940 --> 00:06:01,870 How did you see America? What was your family like? 136 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,070 Yeah, well, I have a very unique upbringing. 137 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:08,870 I was born in Houston, like in the city, and when I was like 138 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,610 maybe three years old, my parents moved out to the 139 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,660 outskirts of Houston. We moved on to some land and 140 00:06:14,670 --> 00:06:16,490 they actually decided to homeschool. 141 00:06:16,590 --> 00:06:19,460 All of the kids and our family. So I have five siblings and grew 142 00:06:19,470 --> 00:06:22,720 up homeschooled, Christian, classically educated. 143 00:06:22,730 --> 00:06:25,820 My dad is a lawyer. My mom is an Irish immigrant and 144 00:06:25,890 --> 00:06:29,100 was the best homeschool mom you could ever ask for. 145 00:06:29,390 --> 00:06:32,820 And my dad was also a pastor at the church that I grew up in for 146 00:06:32,830 --> 00:06:36,160 about 12 years, the 1st 12 years of my life. 147 00:06:36,170 --> 00:06:40,860 And so I had an extremely stable upbringing, an upbringing that 148 00:06:40,950 --> 00:06:43,960 both parents were very much involved in our daily life and 149 00:06:43,970 --> 00:06:47,400 our schedules and our education and taking us to all the classes 150 00:06:47,410 --> 00:06:49,380 and all the places that we needed to go. 151 00:06:49,580 --> 00:06:54,330 And I really attribute a lot of the the intellectual pursuits I 152 00:06:54,340 --> 00:06:57,290 have and the love for pursuing those kinds of things to my dad. 153 00:06:57,300 --> 00:07:00,530 My dad has seven degrees, and he's working on his eighth. 154 00:07:00,540 --> 00:07:03,030 He wants to get to 10 before his time is up on this earth. 155 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,990 And so we've just been really blessed to have a family of 156 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:09,450 lifelong learners and a family that's dedicated not only to 157 00:07:09,460 --> 00:07:12,680 building culture but spreading the gospel as our primary focus. 158 00:07:13,060 --> 00:07:15,970 I think we can appreciate that. And you said eight kids, Where 159 00:07:15,980 --> 00:07:18,710 do you fall in the birth order? There 76 kids. 160 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,240 So 06 kids. Sorry. 161 00:07:20,250 --> 00:07:22,420 Yeah, yeah. Sorry if I may have said 162 00:07:22,430 --> 00:07:24,780 something wrong. Yeah, so I am the second oldest, 163 00:07:24,790 --> 00:07:27,500 but I'm the oldest girl, so I have an older brother and then 164 00:07:27,510 --> 00:07:30,680 four younger siblings. And how young is the youngest? 165 00:07:30,910 --> 00:07:35,590 He's. 10/10 Well, you should know that one. 166 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:39,240 I know I just start losing count cause every year magically they 167 00:07:39,250 --> 00:07:42,130 all get older then I just don't even come up. 168 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:43,890 That sounds like a parents excuse. 169 00:07:43,900 --> 00:07:46,490 I have that I looked over when my daughter just passed her swim 170 00:07:46,500 --> 00:07:49,110 test at the YMCA and the guys like how old is she? 171 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,210 And I was like, yeah, how old are you? 172 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:54,210 I know she's five or six, but she's six. 173 00:07:54,220 --> 00:07:57,670 I should know that 77, right? Yeah. 174 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,590 They get older every year. That's going to be a challenge 175 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,250 for your whole life, it turns out, a lifelong challenge. 176 00:08:03,140 --> 00:08:05,820 Looking forward to it now. What does your brother do? 177 00:08:05,830 --> 00:08:07,230 He's older than you. How much older? 178 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,890 He is actually 17 months older than me and he went to Baylor 179 00:08:10,900 --> 00:08:15,150 University when he was 16 years old and he was a student body 180 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,050 internal or external vice president, one of the other and 181 00:08:18,060 --> 00:08:21,370 he's now Colorado and just got married and doing his working. 182 00:08:21,380 --> 00:08:24,990 And he also just became the national Spike Ball champion of 183 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:26,480 the United States. Couple of weeks ago. 184 00:08:26,490 --> 00:08:28,920 So we're very proud of him. What is Spikeball? 185 00:08:28,990 --> 00:08:32,340 Spikeball is a new sport that's emerging from college campuses. 186 00:08:32,350 --> 00:08:36,360 It's essentially like where you play tennis, but there's a small 187 00:08:36,370 --> 00:08:39,740 round net in the middle that's elevated like 8 inches off the 188 00:08:39,750 --> 00:08:43,280 ground. And you have teams of two and 189 00:08:43,289 --> 00:08:46,900 you, each of you all stand around the the net and like, hit 190 00:08:46,910 --> 00:08:48,530 the ball. I really don't know all the 191 00:08:48,540 --> 00:08:52,020 rules, to be honest, but he's like kind of one of the best in 192 00:08:52,030 --> 00:08:53,620 the world at it. Officially. 193 00:08:53,630 --> 00:08:56,350 Now he's officially one of the best in the world at a sport 194 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,330 that we didn't know existed until you just told us. 195 00:08:58,340 --> 00:09:01,500 But now we're excited. Listen, it's going to be, you're 196 00:09:01,510 --> 00:09:04,590 going to hear about it and it's it's a lot bigger than I guess 197 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:05,850 you would think. But you probably been removed 198 00:09:05,860 --> 00:09:08,710 from the college campus system for a long time. 199 00:09:08,720 --> 00:09:10,730 But I'm saying let's just make an age joke. 200 00:09:10,740 --> 00:09:12,730 If anyone's tracking that, she just said I'm old. 201 00:09:12,780 --> 00:09:17,060 I just heard it. I laced it in a nice compliment, 202 00:09:17,070 --> 00:09:19,760 but I'll say 10 years and it'll be in the Olympics. 203 00:09:20,110 --> 00:09:21,480 Really. What about pickleball? 204 00:09:21,490 --> 00:09:24,340 Is that going to take over to? Could be, I don't know. 205 00:09:24,350 --> 00:09:25,830 I don't know. Mentioned the Spikeball and 206 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:29,700 gymnastics, OK, Did you do sports growing up? 207 00:09:29,850 --> 00:09:33,290 I I consider gymnastics a sport. Yeah, so I mastics. 208 00:09:33,300 --> 00:09:36,620 And then I had the Tommy Johns famous surgery on my elbow, 209 00:09:36,630 --> 00:09:39,660 moved to dancing and then broke my foot dancing. 210 00:09:39,670 --> 00:09:42,000 And so I decided, you know what? Maybe this isn't for me. 211 00:09:42,010 --> 00:09:46,310 So I started pursuing academic speech and debate and then built 212 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:48,340 a YouTube channel and then switched to politics. 213 00:09:48,350 --> 00:09:51,860 And so here I am now. Now, one of the things that 214 00:09:51,870 --> 00:09:54,360 people will detract from homeschoolers. 215 00:09:54,370 --> 00:09:55,600 My kids are home schooled down, too. 216 00:09:55,660 --> 00:09:57,700 But I went to, I went to traditional schools. 217 00:09:58,190 --> 00:10:00,420 People always used to say when I was growing up that 218 00:10:00,430 --> 00:10:02,490 homeschoolers end up weird and antisocial. 219 00:10:02,500 --> 00:10:03,950 You don't seem to be those things. 220 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,730 Tell me about that. That's such a common stereotype, 221 00:10:07,740 --> 00:10:12,340 and to be honest, I've met quite a few of those types who really 222 00:10:12,350 --> 00:10:14,430 only their only social interaction were like the 223 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,380 chickens on the farm. And while we love and appreciate 224 00:10:17,390 --> 00:10:19,870 those people, we want to help them in every way possible. 225 00:10:21,870 --> 00:10:25,820 I think assuming that. You're just going to plop a kid 226 00:10:25,830 --> 00:10:28,000 into public school and they're going to be, they're going to 227 00:10:28,010 --> 00:10:30,420 come out the other end. Well socialised is kind of a 228 00:10:30,430 --> 00:10:32,800 really big assumption and a big risk. 229 00:10:32,850 --> 00:10:36,760 The type of home schooling that we did was we had a super big 230 00:10:36,770 --> 00:10:38,790 community. The place specifically where we 231 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:40,910 live in Montgomery County is known for being the 232 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:44,200 homeschooling heaven of Texas. And so pretty much every other 233 00:10:44,210 --> 00:10:46,200 person is home schooled. There's a lot of home school 234 00:10:46,210 --> 00:10:48,080 churches, co-ops and things like that. 235 00:10:48,090 --> 00:10:52,340 So lots of resources here to be able to have a really, you know, 236 00:10:52,350 --> 00:10:56,860 wholesome and well rounded home school education, but we had to 237 00:10:56,870 --> 00:10:59,790 go out. And make our relationships 238 00:10:59,800 --> 00:11:02,270 intentional. We had to really curate 239 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,300 friendships ourselves. It took a lot of active work. 240 00:11:05,310 --> 00:11:08,750 We our house was like the big party house too, and having so 241 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,190 many siblings, we were always having more people over. 242 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:15,170 So really, while that is a stereotype that we've run into, 243 00:11:15,180 --> 00:11:18,130 I find that a lot of home schoolers are actually better 244 00:11:18,140 --> 00:11:21,150 socialised because they can talk to adults, they can hold real 245 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,150 conversations, they have things to add to conversations, because 246 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,130 generally I think the art of conversation has been completely 247 00:11:27,140 --> 00:11:28,870 lost. We've become a generation of 248 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,800 people who really only know how to react to things. 249 00:11:31,870 --> 00:11:34,990 It's almost like when we talk to people, all we know how to do is 250 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,180 like, like or comment. And that's pretty much all that 251 00:11:38,190 --> 00:11:41,300 we can add to conversations anymore, Especially you see this 252 00:11:41,310 --> 00:11:44,430 in Generation Z. And so I find that homeschoolers 253 00:11:44,970 --> 00:11:47,830 are much more engaging in conversation and better 254 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:51,110 socialised in that way because we've had to be so intentional 255 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:54,220 about our relationships. I think that's a good, 256 00:11:54,230 --> 00:11:56,030 interesting idea. Do you know that Daniel Tosh 257 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,390 supposedly was home schooled as well? 258 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:59,230 The comedian. Oh, I didn't know that. 259 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:01,840 But that's that's good to know. Maybe that's why he's so snarky. 260 00:12:01,850 --> 00:12:04,070 He's got some pretty good, you think. 261 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:06,870 Could be that. Or he's just a great writer. 262 00:12:07,340 --> 00:12:08,690 I think he's a great writer as well. 263 00:12:08,750 --> 00:12:11,380 All right, so did your parents follow a curriculum? 264 00:12:11,390 --> 00:12:13,660 I think that's the other thing. My my wife went out and found 265 00:12:13,670 --> 00:12:15,070 some curriculums. Did they follow a specific 266 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:16,280 curriculum? Were they making it up with 267 00:12:16,290 --> 00:12:17,770 their own? You got a dad with a bunch of 268 00:12:17,780 --> 00:12:19,110 degrees. He probably could figure it out. 269 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,090 But how did that work out? Yeah. 270 00:12:21,100 --> 00:12:23,880 So at the beginning, my parents essentially went to a bunch of 271 00:12:23,890 --> 00:12:27,290 like home school conferences, which they truly do have those. 272 00:12:27,300 --> 00:12:30,390 And they shopped around at all these different places that had 273 00:12:30,460 --> 00:12:32,400 different curriculums for different subjects. 274 00:12:32,410 --> 00:12:35,310 So the people we took math from were different than the people 275 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,480 we learned history from or different than the people we 276 00:12:37,490 --> 00:12:40,560 learned grammar from. And they essentially just picked 277 00:12:40,610 --> 00:12:45,070 a pick and pick and choose whatever they decided what they 278 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,290 wanted to, what they wanted to pursue. 279 00:12:47,300 --> 00:12:50,450 And then later in our education they put us into like a Co op 280 00:12:50,460 --> 00:12:52,470 who that was a classical education. 281 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,600 So we were able to. Really, instead of learning the 282 00:12:55,610 --> 00:12:58,840 basics of math and science and prepping for SAT, they would 283 00:12:58,850 --> 00:13:01,560 bring us in and say here's a Bible, here's a current events 284 00:13:01,570 --> 00:13:04,020 book, or here's a current event that's happening. 285 00:13:04,030 --> 00:13:06,400 You have 5 minutes to make a speech go. 286 00:13:06,450 --> 00:13:09,040 And we were graded on those types of things, How well we 287 00:13:09,110 --> 00:13:12,550 debated, defended our arguments, how well we discussed how well 288 00:13:12,560 --> 00:13:16,110 we gave speeches as opposed to traditional STEM activities. 289 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,030 And so that was really the the part of my high school education 290 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,100 that was taken out of my parents hand. 291 00:13:21,110 --> 00:13:23,300 But they definitely laid the foundation with the curriculums 292 00:13:23,310 --> 00:13:26,730 they chose. Now you've described yourself as 293 00:13:26,740 --> 00:13:30,360 an anti feminist. What are the expectations when 294 00:13:30,370 --> 00:13:32,510 you were growing up? What were the expectations and 295 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,640 were they different for for boys and girls in your family? 296 00:13:35,540 --> 00:13:40,360 No, Well. The expectations for me were and 297 00:13:40,370 --> 00:13:45,480 still are to choose well when I get married and to be a 298 00:13:45,530 --> 00:13:50,530 Christian and. Really to just pursue what makes 299 00:13:50,540 --> 00:13:53,930 me happy and fulfilled and you know outside of having a 300 00:13:53,940 --> 00:13:56,030 beautiful and good marriage and also being a Christian. 301 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:00,090 And so really the expectation for my parents has been do what 302 00:14:00,100 --> 00:14:02,530 you are filled by, but also don't forget about the things 303 00:14:02,540 --> 00:14:05,110 that really matter which are family and faith. 304 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:08,590 And so essentially that's been the expectation for all of my 305 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,190 siblings. We've all been really lucky 306 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,010 because my dad's motto is money into memories. 307 00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:16,490 And so we spent. He spends most of his money on 308 00:14:16,500 --> 00:14:20,310 us, making sure that we're taking care of, but also that we 309 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,760 have. Been able to travel the world 310 00:14:22,770 --> 00:14:24,960 and pursue things that we've wanted to. 311 00:14:25,350 --> 00:14:28,450 We've never had a lack, which has been just so wonderful and 312 00:14:28,460 --> 00:14:31,560 has set us, set all of my siblings up for success and 313 00:14:31,570 --> 00:14:34,040 completely different areas, completely different industries. 314 00:14:34,050 --> 00:14:36,110 So yeah, the expectation really is. 315 00:14:37,150 --> 00:14:41,320 Take your face seriously, marry well, meaning a good Christian 316 00:14:41,330 --> 00:14:45,930 person, and then appreciate family and just then pursue on 317 00:14:45,940 --> 00:14:48,040 top of that whatever makes you happy and fulfilled. 318 00:14:48,690 --> 00:14:51,500 I didn't hear that you had to be very successful in a particular 319 00:14:51,510 --> 00:14:53,140 career. There's none of the lawyer, the 320 00:14:53,150 --> 00:14:56,020 doctor thing that I kind of grew up with in the in the 80s and a 321 00:14:56,030 --> 00:14:58,620 lot of the sort of the Gen Xers remember that was the success. 322 00:14:58,670 --> 00:15:00,780 You know, if your kid was a lawyer or a doctor, they win. 323 00:15:01,930 --> 00:15:03,760 Was there any push for that? Did you guys see that? 324 00:15:03,770 --> 00:15:07,160 Were you seeing your colleagues that had that sort of ideas and, 325 00:15:07,630 --> 00:15:09,080 you know, did you guys push back at all? 326 00:15:10,690 --> 00:15:13,700 I think my parents have an assuredness that all their kids 327 00:15:13,710 --> 00:15:16,360 are going to be sort of successful in their own ways. 328 00:15:16,370 --> 00:15:19,220 And so my parents never specifically pushed that on to 329 00:15:19,230 --> 00:15:20,800 us. I think the only things that my 330 00:15:20,810 --> 00:15:23,520 parents pushed was, hey, if you're a guy, you should 331 00:15:23,530 --> 00:15:26,520 probably go to college because as it's looking, none of the 332 00:15:26,530 --> 00:15:28,740 girls in our family are going to go to college because I started 333 00:15:28,750 --> 00:15:31,730 my own business. My sister Laura is going to be a 334 00:15:31,740 --> 00:15:33,530 Broadway dancer and hopefully a Rockette one day. 335 00:15:33,540 --> 00:15:38,420 And then my other sister Annie is a fashion lifestyle, vlogging 336 00:15:38,430 --> 00:15:40,910 YouTuber who has almost so many million subscribers. 337 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,290 So we're all kind of trying to be successful in our own. 338 00:15:43,370 --> 00:15:46,440 Say the expectation for my peers, I would say there were 339 00:15:46,450 --> 00:15:49,710 definitely, you know, some families who the dad did this 340 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,810 career and the son must do this career and the daughter must all 341 00:15:52,900 --> 00:15:55,950 also follow suit. But my parents were never about 342 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:58,930 forcing us to do anything because maybe it's just like the 343 00:15:58,940 --> 00:16:02,070 British Isles, Ness and the rebellious Scottish Fighting 344 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:05,250 Irish that we have in us. But they knew that they couldn't 345 00:16:05,260 --> 00:16:07,610 exactly make us into who they wanted us to be. 346 00:16:07,620 --> 00:16:11,210 All they could do was guide and allow us to choose what we 347 00:16:11,220 --> 00:16:14,590 wanted to do and they would be our like assistance and our 348 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,460 support system along the way. So the approach though my 349 00:16:18,470 --> 00:16:22,740 parents took was very much they can guide, they can lead, and we 350 00:16:22,750 --> 00:16:25,420 will make sure that they're maintaining good morals. 351 00:16:25,670 --> 00:16:27,950 They're still learning how to read, they're still learning how 352 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,880 to write, and we'll help them accomplish whatever they need 353 00:16:30,890 --> 00:16:32,500 to. And we'll be there every step of 354 00:16:32,510 --> 00:16:34,560 the way. Alright, fair enough. 355 00:16:34,570 --> 00:16:36,260 Let's talk about feminism a little bit, shall we? 356 00:16:36,270 --> 00:16:38,420 That's what you That's kind of where you made your bones. 357 00:16:38,430 --> 00:16:40,620 Is that fair? Yeah, let's do it. 358 00:16:40,910 --> 00:16:46,510 What is feminism today? There are lots of people who 359 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:50,550 would say it's a movement about equality and achieving equality. 360 00:16:50,620 --> 00:16:53,930 That's not true. Feminism today has become a 361 00:16:53,940 --> 00:16:59,480 movement that is focused on. Female domination over men and 362 00:16:59,490 --> 00:17:06,690 eradication of any perceived. Meaning not real male hierarchy. 363 00:17:07,650 --> 00:17:11,599 In any institution or in any place of power. 364 00:17:11,910 --> 00:17:16,420 So it's essentially A Marxist organisation of ideology that 365 00:17:16,430 --> 00:17:21,380 ties a woman's value to money. And is that good for women? 366 00:17:21,930 --> 00:17:24,880 Is not good for women. Tell me some of the downfalls. 367 00:17:24,890 --> 00:17:27,390 What do you see from your end? Cause you're pretty young. 368 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:30,120 There's a lot of people in, probably in my audience, that 369 00:17:30,130 --> 00:17:32,240 were driven to go to work. They were driven to be 370 00:17:32,250 --> 00:17:34,280 successful in careers, whatever that means. 371 00:17:34,390 --> 00:17:38,770 And you know, the definition of what was successful for women 372 00:17:38,780 --> 00:17:41,370 and what we were going to support as a society has morphed 373 00:17:41,380 --> 00:17:43,280 dramatically, even in my 40 years on the planet. 374 00:17:43,430 --> 00:17:48,120 So I'm curious how you see it. How I see defining women's 375 00:17:48,130 --> 00:17:50,120 success or what are the pitfalls of feminism? 376 00:17:50,170 --> 00:17:51,370 Yeah, the pitfalls. What is it? 377 00:17:51,380 --> 00:17:53,000 What is it kind of changed into for them? 378 00:17:53,270 --> 00:17:54,120 Got it. Yeah. 379 00:17:54,130 --> 00:17:55,690 So. Well, I guess we need to start 380 00:17:55,700 --> 00:18:00,450 with where Marxism was basically the birth of feminism, So out of 381 00:18:00,460 --> 00:18:02,870 the French Revolution, like so many other bad ideas. 382 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,240 That's where all the bad ideas in the world came from. 383 00:18:05,630 --> 00:18:08,300 There was this group of women, middle class women, who were 384 00:18:08,310 --> 00:18:10,380 very unsatisfied with the lives that they had. 385 00:18:10,390 --> 00:18:13,710 And they decided, huh, let's start having a thought 386 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:17,660 revolution and start just putting ideas into women's minds 387 00:18:17,670 --> 00:18:20,800 that we are. Being treated badly, we are 388 00:18:20,810 --> 00:18:24,390 oppressed like we are all the things that we want to claim the 389 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,380 victim to. And essentially with that 390 00:18:26,390 --> 00:18:31,120 complaining mindset, they found Marxism and decided, I guess all 391 00:18:31,130 --> 00:18:33,900 men are oppressing all women everywhere. 392 00:18:33,910 --> 00:18:38,160 And they kind of set up feminism within the framework of Marxism, 393 00:18:38,170 --> 00:18:42,220 which was men are oppressors, women are oppressed, men hold 394 00:18:42,230 --> 00:18:45,180 the power and they're actively trying to take away the power 395 00:18:45,190 --> 00:18:48,140 from women. And so essentially what that 396 00:18:48,150 --> 00:18:51,880 turned into was. The pursuit of achieving 397 00:18:51,890 --> 00:18:55,340 equality for. Everyone. 398 00:18:55,750 --> 00:18:59,530 But then shortly after achieving that, it morphed into OK, well, 399 00:18:59,540 --> 00:19:02,080 we need to keep going with this. So let's have women start 400 00:19:02,090 --> 00:19:04,960 dominating men. And so the pitfalls of thinking 401 00:19:04,970 --> 00:19:08,380 that way is you get a bunch of women who are trying to not 402 00:19:08,390 --> 00:19:11,840 empower women or empower themselves, but to be and 403 00:19:11,850 --> 00:19:14,520 compete with men. Because essentially from the 404 00:19:14,530 --> 00:19:18,020 beginning, feminism asked the question, why are women not 405 00:19:18,030 --> 00:19:21,890 making as much money as men? Let's just take the most blatant 406 00:19:21,900 --> 00:19:24,700 example that they they always like to bring up the wage gap, 407 00:19:24,710 --> 00:19:27,960 right? And they say well, instead of 408 00:19:27,970 --> 00:19:31,090 how can we? Allow women to make more money. 409 00:19:31,100 --> 00:19:36,030 It's been OK well, how can women compete with men to just beat 410 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:39,650 men at the games that they play? So recently I posted a video 411 00:19:39,660 --> 00:19:43,290 saying that the question has never been what can we do to 412 00:19:43,300 --> 00:19:46,370 empower women with feminism? It's what can we do to compete 413 00:19:46,380 --> 00:19:48,690 with men or make women more like men? 414 00:19:48,700 --> 00:19:51,410 So the pitfalls of that, I think, are pretty obvious. 415 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:54,390 If you're a woman and you're trying to be masculine, or 416 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:57,590 you're trying to be a man or you're trying to compete with a 417 00:19:57,600 --> 00:20:00,750 man in arena that is traditionally been an arena that 418 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:03,850 only men compete. And one you're not going to do 419 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,750 that. Well, you're not going to 420 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:09,290 compete well, you're not going to be fulfilled and happy. 421 00:20:09,300 --> 00:20:13,890 And in fact, you're going to end up a lot of times alone and 422 00:20:13,900 --> 00:20:17,730 lonely when you're in that arena because you're a woman competing 423 00:20:17,740 --> 00:20:20,650 against a bunch of men in an in a in a way that you think you 424 00:20:20,660 --> 00:20:23,190 need to compete against a bunch of men. 425 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:27,150 So the pitfalls of that are why would a woman try and do 426 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:32,200 something that a man should do? So women came up with this in 427 00:20:32,210 --> 00:20:36,070 the French Revolution, and then how did it morph into the United 428 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,630 States? What was the sort of the the, 429 00:20:38,700 --> 00:20:42,460 the foothold that it took here? That's a great question. 430 00:20:42,670 --> 00:20:44,960 This is like such a fun topic to talk about. 431 00:20:44,970 --> 00:20:49,910 So essentially after the French Revolution and of course you had 432 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:52,420 a mass migration of people coming over and then you have 433 00:20:52,430 --> 00:20:57,870 the rise of real academia and the idea of let's just, you 434 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:01,200 know, have all the crazy radical leftist ideas, let's have them 435 00:21:01,210 --> 00:21:03,890 boiling in academia. And then we'll start talking to 436 00:21:03,900 --> 00:21:07,410 in peoples ears about what society should look like and 437 00:21:07,420 --> 00:21:10,190 what why Marxism is good and why this way of thinking is good. 438 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,830 And so kind of a couple things were happening at the same time 439 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:17,750 after the French Revolution. So you had the birth of real 440 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:22,220 academia in the West generally, but you also had urbanisation 441 00:21:22,230 --> 00:21:25,280 and kind of the industrial revolution that happened, which 442 00:21:25,290 --> 00:21:29,920 for the first time took the economy away from the household. 443 00:21:29,980 --> 00:21:33,600 So before this, for all of human history, the economy has been 444 00:21:33,730 --> 00:21:37,060 what can a household produce? And it was based first and 445 00:21:37,070 --> 00:21:39,080 foremost around the house and the family. 446 00:21:39,090 --> 00:21:43,540 That was the basic unit. But as you have cities start 447 00:21:43,550 --> 00:21:46,380 cropping up and people actually going in to work and you have 448 00:21:46,390 --> 00:21:49,840 factories and you have efficiency becoming the main 449 00:21:49,850 --> 00:21:54,620 goal of a capitalist society, you see that since men 450 00:21:54,630 --> 00:21:57,700 traditionally are more fit to go work and don't have the quote 451 00:21:57,710 --> 00:22:00,720 unquote like the feminists like to call it, burden of childcare. 452 00:22:00,770 --> 00:22:04,110 Men would go into the cities and do the work and then either come 453 00:22:04,120 --> 00:22:06,640 back out or the whole family would move into the city. 454 00:22:06,710 --> 00:22:12,470 And this is talked about in depth in this book, Feminism 455 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,850 Against Progress. An excellent book, definitely. 456 00:22:14,860 --> 00:22:17,250 Should I definitely recommend it if you're in for an academic 457 00:22:17,260 --> 00:22:21,100 study. But so women started for the 458 00:22:21,110 --> 00:22:25,180 first time asking the question, well, why am I not allowed to 459 00:22:25,190 --> 00:22:27,440 quote unquote, participate in society? 460 00:22:27,450 --> 00:22:31,130 Because public and private life had been split because of the 461 00:22:31,140 --> 00:22:35,460 industrial revolution and where urbanisation and the use of 462 00:22:35,470 --> 00:22:39,880 factories and the de emphasis of the family was going. 463 00:22:39,970 --> 00:22:44,550 So you have academia pushing these ideas of women's 464 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:48,220 liberation and women domination, and actually let's frame 465 00:22:48,230 --> 00:22:51,760 feminism as a Marxist idea. And then you had the economy 466 00:22:51,770 --> 00:22:57,630 start changing, um, and you had all the the ways that people 467 00:22:57,700 --> 00:23:00,940 were able to make money completely changing and being 468 00:23:00,950 --> 00:23:04,030 more emphasised on individual productivity as opposed to the 469 00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:08,110 families productivity. And then you had this societal 470 00:23:08,120 --> 00:23:13,490 wide split of public and private life and women often in like 471 00:23:13,500 --> 00:23:16,070 after the industrial revolution and as it was continuing into 472 00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:20,160 the 1900s, you had a lot of women who were saying, I don't 473 00:23:20,170 --> 00:23:23,310 know if I necessarily like this new way that the economy is 474 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,150 formed. So you have all three of those 475 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:29,910 things happening at once. And that's really where the idea 476 00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:31,850 of feminism started springing up. 477 00:23:31,860 --> 00:23:37,190 And so feminism used to be an answer to an economic or trying 478 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:41,330 to be that is, an answer to an economic question, to a legal 479 00:23:41,340 --> 00:23:46,010 question, to a social question, to a political question, and 480 00:23:46,020 --> 00:23:51,110 also to a biological question. Unfortunately, now you have the 481 00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:54,770 legal questions answered, which is, yeah, everyone can vote. 482 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,630 Yeah, you can't get paid less because you're a woman. 483 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,460 You know, you can't be discriminated against because of 484 00:24:01,470 --> 00:24:04,640 your sex. But feminism, unfortunately, 485 00:24:04,650 --> 00:24:07,900 hasn't been able to answer the biological question, which is 486 00:24:07,970 --> 00:24:10,400 why are there differences between men and women? 487 00:24:10,930 --> 00:24:15,260 And now feminism's primary goal is to erase the differences 488 00:24:15,270 --> 00:24:18,160 between men and women. So a lot of times it sounds like 489 00:24:18,210 --> 00:24:21,680 I'm trying to just, like, put women back in the home, 490 00:24:21,690 --> 00:24:25,920 permanently repeal the 19th, you know, all of that kind of stuff. 491 00:24:25,970 --> 00:24:28,640 I'm not trying to do that. I'm trying to help women 492 00:24:28,650 --> 00:24:32,670 understand that the way that the world has existed for like all 493 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,930 of human history has not been focused on the individual, it's 494 00:24:35,940 --> 00:24:40,120 been focused on the family. And feminism had some good 495 00:24:40,130 --> 00:24:41,740 things that it helped accomplish. 496 00:24:41,750 --> 00:24:44,280 They're not responsible for all the accomplishments. 497 00:24:44,730 --> 00:24:48,480 We can go into that in a little bit, a little bit later, but and 498 00:24:48,490 --> 00:24:51,120 then feminism just kept going and has really turned into 499 00:24:51,130 --> 00:24:54,700 something sour that is anti woman that is inherently 500 00:24:54,710 --> 00:24:57,460 extremely Marxist and is really just destructive for the 501 00:24:57,470 --> 00:25:00,980 feminine side of women which should never be discounted. 502 00:25:02,410 --> 00:25:05,190 My wife says, who thinks about these kind of things all the 503 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:06,130 time? This is something that's 504 00:25:06,140 --> 00:25:07,930 probably more fascinating to her in a lot of ways. 505 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:12,310 She says that current feminism is essentially internalised 506 00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:17,310 misogyny and and it essentially has taken on masculine roles and 507 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,190 pushed them on women and made women compete as men. 508 00:25:20,340 --> 00:25:22,420 It sounds like you guys would probably be in agreement on 509 00:25:22,430 --> 00:25:23,570 that. Do you have any sort of 510 00:25:23,860 --> 00:25:27,290 disagreements on that idea? I mean, your wife is exactly 511 00:25:27,300 --> 00:25:30,700 right and she sounds amazing, Lena Gordon said. 512 00:25:30,710 --> 00:25:34,170 The nuclear family must be destroyed and people must find a 513 00:25:34,180 --> 00:25:38,140 better way of living together, Robin Morgan actually said, I 514 00:25:38,150 --> 00:25:41,620 feel that man hating is an honourable and viable political 515 00:25:41,630 --> 00:25:45,740 act, that the oppressed have the right to class hatred against 516 00:25:45,750 --> 00:25:47,560 the class that is oppressing them. 517 00:25:47,630 --> 00:25:51,960 And actually this is a fun one. Sally Miller Gearhart had a 518 00:25:51,970 --> 00:25:54,260 couple pages in this essay called The Future. 519 00:25:54,270 --> 00:25:57,920 If there was. If one is female, she said the 520 00:25:57,930 --> 00:26:01,460 proportion of men must be reduced to and maintain 521 00:26:01,470 --> 00:26:04,580 approximately 10% of the human race. 522 00:26:04,690 --> 00:26:09,510 And so while I agree with your wife sentiment that yes, it's 523 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,650 become this internalised completely, this internalised 524 00:26:12,660 --> 00:26:16,470 misogyny against men trying to replace men in any hierarchy and 525 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,950 any structure to tear down the structures that we have, there's 526 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:22,670 actually a something that takes it a little farther, where 527 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:26,450 you're like, Oh no, these women want to hate men and destroy men 528 00:26:26,460 --> 00:26:30,070 and every chance that they get. Do you think any of them are 529 00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,810 happy? Oh, of course not. 530 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,880 My favourite example of this, and maybe you think I'm a little 531 00:26:35,890 --> 00:26:39,570 gruesome for thinking this is ironic, but Shulamith Firestone 532 00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:44,070 was a radical feminist thinker in the 1950s, sixties and 70s, 533 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,590 and she absolutely hated the nuclear family. 534 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:51,770 In fact, she said that the revolutionary or utopian goal of 535 00:26:51,780 --> 00:26:54,290 feminism was to Oh no, that was Kate Millett. 536 00:26:54,300 --> 00:26:58,090 Shulamith Firestone said is it's the nuclear family is the most 537 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:00,710 neurotic lifestyle that we've ever developed and we need to 538 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,220 completely abolish it. And it means possible. 539 00:27:03,370 --> 00:27:05,180 Who's going to raise the kids, right? 540 00:27:05,190 --> 00:27:07,400 Well, here's how her story ended. 541 00:27:07,450 --> 00:27:12,620 She froze and starved to death in her own apartment. 542 00:27:12,690 --> 00:27:16,220 And people found her a month later because they started 543 00:27:16,230 --> 00:27:21,020 smelling that her body was decaying and she had no friends, 544 00:27:21,030 --> 00:27:22,500 really. She had no family. 545 00:27:22,510 --> 00:27:25,360 And she was a super radical feminist that rejected marriage, 546 00:27:25,370 --> 00:27:28,880 that rejected family, that hated children, and that spent all of 547 00:27:28,890 --> 00:27:32,200 her life trying to just raise this ruckus about how women are 548 00:27:32,210 --> 00:27:34,220 oppressed. And so I always like to bring 549 00:27:34,230 --> 00:27:36,200 that up because that is the meanwhile. 550 00:27:36,210 --> 00:27:40,330 That is an extreme example. You don't want to go down a path 551 00:27:40,340 --> 00:27:42,710 where you are man hating. You are family hating. 552 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,160 You are life hating because there is a chance that you could 553 00:27:45,170 --> 00:27:48,900 end up like that, that no one you have, nobody close to you, 554 00:27:48,910 --> 00:27:52,060 nobody cares about you until they're starting to smell your 555 00:27:52,070 --> 00:27:55,300 rotting, dead body through the walls of your apartment. 556 00:27:55,410 --> 00:27:57,350 You want to know? The sad irony is, is that it was 557 00:27:57,360 --> 00:27:59,700 a man that broke in that door to go in and get her body out. 558 00:27:59,710 --> 00:28:02,140 It was probably a man or several men that carried her out of 559 00:28:02,150 --> 00:28:04,070 there. Because that's that's who does 560 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,840 those jobs. I'd say that as someone who's 561 00:28:05,850 --> 00:28:08,120 worked as a paramedic, has worked in law enforcement and 562 00:28:08,130 --> 00:28:11,160 has had to recover dead bodies, it's not a fun game. 563 00:28:11,250 --> 00:28:13,850 But I also would never wish it on my wife or my daughters. 564 00:28:13,860 --> 00:28:17,010 I don't want that for them. It's a burden that I would take 565 00:28:17,020 --> 00:28:18,140 on. There's something I want to kind 566 00:28:18,150 --> 00:28:20,890 of double back to because I want to use with you a little bit on 567 00:28:20,900 --> 00:28:21,770 this. Yeah. 568 00:28:21,830 --> 00:28:24,950 The dismantling of the nuclear family and that. 569 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,690 It happened a lot during the Industrial Revolution when we 570 00:28:27,700 --> 00:28:31,070 changed the nature of work. And and there's something kind 571 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,370 of fascinating there. Do you remember maybe you don't 572 00:28:33,380 --> 00:28:34,730 know this. Elizabeth Warren wrote a book 573 00:28:34,740 --> 00:28:37,070 called The Two Income Trap. Have you ever seen her sort of 574 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:40,240 evolution to be sort of a wild feminist from where she used to 575 00:28:40,250 --> 00:28:44,380 live in her mental state? To be completely honest, I 576 00:28:44,390 --> 00:28:46,680 haven't paid too much attention to her because she just sounds 577 00:28:46,690 --> 00:28:49,100 like a vapid, screaming old woman at this point. 578 00:28:49,390 --> 00:28:54,080 She does, yeah. So I haven't read that, but I 579 00:28:54,090 --> 00:28:55,760 am. I'm aware of of what she talks 580 00:28:55,770 --> 00:28:57,480 about, yeah. So, so let me let me throw this 581 00:28:57,490 --> 00:28:59,660 into your lexicon because you might find this fascinating. 582 00:28:59,670 --> 00:29:02,030 Not so much because she's a great thought leader. 583 00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:03,680 I don't much care for Elizabeth Warren either. 584 00:29:04,390 --> 00:29:06,690 And she's got that, like, I'm gonna get me a beer or whatever. 585 00:29:06,700 --> 00:29:09,060 Those like weird videos of her just trying to be her person. 586 00:29:09,070 --> 00:29:10,740 She's trying so hard to be a person, right? 587 00:29:11,330 --> 00:29:14,380 She's more like, she's more like a lizard person, I'm sure, but 588 00:29:14,810 --> 00:29:17,640 but she she didn't used to be. Looney. 589 00:29:17,650 --> 00:29:20,580 Her party has actually sort of run off and she's followed that 590 00:29:20,590 --> 00:29:23,690 like so many women her her age have decided that that's where 591 00:29:23,700 --> 00:29:25,720 the power structure is. So they're chasing that power. 592 00:29:25,770 --> 00:29:29,720 She used to advocate on behalf of a 2 income trap. 593 00:29:29,790 --> 00:29:33,120 Which is to say that men and women both working in the 594 00:29:33,130 --> 00:29:36,580 workplace would end up in a worse position. 595 00:29:36,650 --> 00:29:39,400 Because rather than relying on one income and what we would 596 00:29:39,410 --> 00:29:42,180 call in the military a single point of failure, if you fail as 597 00:29:42,190 --> 00:29:45,080 a man and you're in the workplace, there's the potential 598 00:29:45,090 --> 00:29:48,060 that your cottage industry, you talked about taking the work out 599 00:29:48,070 --> 00:29:49,900 of the house, the cottage industry. 600 00:29:50,030 --> 00:29:52,080 Would be able to back you up. Maybe your wife has a selling 601 00:29:52,090 --> 00:29:54,580 business. Maybe your wife makes brownies 602 00:29:54,590 --> 00:29:56,850 and sells them at a bake sale. I don't know, like whatever it 603 00:29:56,860 --> 00:29:58,910 is, maybe the woman that works at home, maybe she has. 604 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,490 Maybe she's a counsellor like my wife and she works part time and 605 00:30:01,500 --> 00:30:03,720 she keeps that. So maybe she has that ability. 606 00:30:03,730 --> 00:30:05,760 My wife doesn't work right now other than taking care of kids. 607 00:30:05,770 --> 00:30:08,600 But if she did, she would she would she would work as a 608 00:30:08,610 --> 00:30:10,500 counsellor because that's what her degree was in. 609 00:30:10,570 --> 00:30:13,160 And so if she were to go do that, she could theoretically 610 00:30:13,170 --> 00:30:16,860 supplement that that point of failure that I might have and be 611 00:30:16,870 --> 00:30:20,160 able to keep us floating. But what we've done, according 612 00:30:20,170 --> 00:30:22,180 to Elizabeth Warren, this is the fear she saw going back to, 613 00:30:22,190 --> 00:30:24,440 like, the early 2000s. In 2002, probably about the time 614 00:30:24,450 --> 00:30:27,000 you were born, we'd have to see when that actual book was 615 00:30:27,010 --> 00:30:28,270 written. But what she said was, is that 616 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,390 if men and women both compete and they both put their incomes 617 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,920 into the market. You're going to have two incomes 618 00:30:34,930 --> 00:30:39,520 worth of competition for things like childcare, for things like 619 00:30:39,530 --> 00:30:42,320 homes, for things like schooling, private education, so 620 00:30:42,330 --> 00:30:43,620 on. And you're going to bump those 621 00:30:43,630 --> 00:30:46,320 prices all the way up to the point where now it's not 1 622 00:30:46,330 --> 00:30:47,860 income that you're competing, it's two. 623 00:30:47,930 --> 00:30:50,730 So a guy like me who has only has one income, I'm now 624 00:30:50,740 --> 00:30:53,240 competing against double income if I want to put my kids into 625 00:30:53,250 --> 00:30:55,510 private schools or to buy houses or everything else, and it's 626 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:56,660 going to make it worse for everybody. 627 00:30:56,670 --> 00:31:00,060 And if one of those two fails, the mom or the dad has a 628 00:31:00,070 --> 00:31:02,660 problem. Now you've lost 50%. 629 00:31:02,670 --> 00:31:05,240 Or maybe you've lost 30% of your income and there's no one to 630 00:31:05,250 --> 00:31:07,960 make it up right? So this was the two income tract 631 00:31:07,970 --> 00:31:09,720 that Elizabeth Warren actually used to know about. 632 00:31:09,730 --> 00:31:12,100 A lot of that sounds like it goes back to the industrial 633 00:31:12,110 --> 00:31:13,460 revolution. What you're saying is just 634 00:31:13,470 --> 00:31:15,140 fascinating to me. Yeah, it really does. 635 00:31:15,150 --> 00:31:18,740 Because if you just put, you know, 50% more people in the 636 00:31:18,750 --> 00:31:21,250 workforce, then you're going to have a lot more labour to go 637 00:31:21,260 --> 00:31:23,360 around. Therefore prices are not or 638 00:31:23,490 --> 00:31:26,260 labour and and what people can make, the prices are not going 639 00:31:26,270 --> 00:31:28,370 to go up. Like wages have not gone up and 640 00:31:28,380 --> 00:31:31,330 obviously you have inflation and you have taxes and you have all 641 00:31:31,340 --> 00:31:36,060 the macroeconomics competing. For example, like in a minimum 642 00:31:36,070 --> 00:31:39,830 wage proportional proportional to inflation from like 100 years 643 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:43,680 ago should be $55. But it's obviously not because 644 00:31:43,690 --> 00:31:47,140 just that's how the dollar is and it's based on debt and it's 645 00:31:47,150 --> 00:31:52,260 based on nothing at this point. So yeah, and I think wages 646 00:31:52,270 --> 00:31:55,380 haven't grown for so long because of obviously the 647 00:31:55,390 --> 00:31:59,130 macroeconomics of it, but because there is so much more 648 00:31:59,140 --> 00:32:03,120 labour to go around. And essentially when feminism 649 00:32:03,130 --> 00:32:07,220 adopted Marxism as the framework in which they thought it came 650 00:32:07,230 --> 00:32:11,510 along with the consequences of hyper almost capitalism saying, 651 00:32:11,580 --> 00:32:14,570 you know what a woman's value is not the fact that she brings 652 00:32:14,580 --> 00:32:16,790 life into the world, that she's a culture creator, that she's 653 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:18,860 beautiful, all the things it said. 654 00:32:18,870 --> 00:32:21,340 No woman's value is her productivity as well. 655 00:32:21,350 --> 00:32:27,260 Because Americans, while we love the individualism we have, you 656 00:32:27,270 --> 00:32:30,320 know, hyper individualism is not great either. 657 00:32:30,390 --> 00:32:34,900 And so if we continue pushing the idea that productivity is on 658 00:32:34,910 --> 00:32:38,960 an individual level based on how much, I'm sorry, value is on an 659 00:32:38,970 --> 00:32:42,110 individual level based on how much productivity you have, and 660 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,320 then you have a bunch of women into the workforce, then you 661 00:32:45,330 --> 00:32:47,100 were in the situation that we're in. 662 00:32:47,110 --> 00:32:50,030 And I'm really worried for Generation Z because not 663 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:54,040 everyone generational wealth isn't really a thing in America. 664 00:32:54,050 --> 00:32:57,020 It's not really a thing all around the world and in the West 665 00:32:57,030 --> 00:33:00,280 generally anymore, But how like we're screwed. 666 00:33:00,350 --> 00:33:02,590 All the land has pretty much been bought up. 667 00:33:02,660 --> 00:33:05,480 Rent is extremely expensive, food is expensive. 668 00:33:05,490 --> 00:33:09,070 How is anyone in my generation going to be able to get ahead 669 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:13,470 outside of having super big entrepreneurial dreams or you 670 00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,770 know, really fancy white collar jobs like being a lawyer or 671 00:33:16,780 --> 00:33:21,250 being a doctor which take almost, you know, $500,000 to be 672 00:33:21,260 --> 00:33:24,870 able just to practise law or to be a doctor. 673 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,830 So it's just like the cost of entry so high now that I just 674 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:31,290 don't know how my generation's going to get ahead. 675 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:36,150 And again, I don't think the the fix for this necessarily is 676 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,350 taking all women out of the workforce. 677 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:41,290 That's not practical. I wouldn't want to put a bunch 678 00:33:41,300 --> 00:33:44,370 of women out of work just to accomplish my anti feminist 679 00:33:44,380 --> 00:33:46,960 goals. But our generation Gen Z, we 680 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,320 have a very serious conversation about like how in the world are 681 00:33:50,330 --> 00:33:53,870 we going to be able to do this if two incomes is completely the 682 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:57,290 norm, but nobody's making the same amount of money and prices 683 00:33:57,300 --> 00:34:00,440 keep going up. And and women don't seem to be 684 00:34:00,450 --> 00:34:02,840 any happier because of it, at least when we look down the line 685 00:34:02,850 --> 00:34:06,250 of the 5067 year old feminist who may or may not die in their 686 00:34:06,260 --> 00:34:08,400 apartment alone and have their cats eat their face kind of 687 00:34:08,409 --> 00:34:10,340 thing, right? I mean, that was always the fear 688 00:34:10,350 --> 00:34:12,060 when I was a kid that people would talk about, oh, you don't 689 00:34:12,070 --> 00:34:15,400 want to end up alone and have your cats eating you like the 690 00:34:15,409 --> 00:34:18,800 crazy cat lady sort of stigma. It's still there. 691 00:34:18,870 --> 00:34:21,440 It's still. There and and it's real because 692 00:34:21,449 --> 00:34:23,480 there are some really angry. Do you think some women that are 693 00:34:23,489 --> 00:34:26,159 in that age bracket, the 50s through the 70s, maybe even the 694 00:34:26,250 --> 00:34:28,900 the early 80s, are pushing this because they're vindictive and 695 00:34:28,909 --> 00:34:31,199 they feel like they got conned and they want your generation to 696 00:34:31,210 --> 00:34:33,159 eat it too, Have some of that? Yeah. 697 00:34:33,170 --> 00:34:35,400 No, that's such a good point. And I think there's a lot of 698 00:34:35,409 --> 00:34:38,120 truth to that because misery loves company more than anything 699 00:34:38,130 --> 00:34:40,550 else. And so if you're miserable and 700 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,320 have been tricked and you bought into a scam for your whole 701 00:34:43,330 --> 00:34:46,300 entire life and you have no one around you, you have no 702 00:34:46,310 --> 00:34:49,760 children, you have no husband, you have nothing to pour your 703 00:34:49,770 --> 00:34:53,440 energy in, that natural want to give, that women have, what are 704 00:34:53,449 --> 00:34:54,860 you going to do? You're going to turn into a 705 00:34:54,870 --> 00:34:59,900 sour, bitter, old person who is miserable and has been eaten and 706 00:34:59,950 --> 00:35:02,450 eaten up and chewed up and spit out by the world. 707 00:35:02,460 --> 00:35:04,890 And so of course you're going to want to have people buy into it. 708 00:35:04,960 --> 00:35:08,800 Now, there obviously are many stories that I've seen, many 709 00:35:08,810 --> 00:35:12,140 women who are like, yeah, man, I bought into that feminist lie 710 00:35:12,150 --> 00:35:13,900 and that is, it is not good women. 711 00:35:13,910 --> 00:35:17,060 I've known personally stories published as op eds and 712 00:35:17,070 --> 00:35:20,430 editorial opinion pieces around the news. 713 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,400 Like, you'll occasionally see a story pop up of, yeah, I really 714 00:35:23,410 --> 00:35:26,460 regret the decisions that I made because of feminism. 715 00:35:26,470 --> 00:35:31,500 But until women decide to really wake up and see that this is 716 00:35:31,510 --> 00:35:35,540 such a rotten deal for them and it's such a scam, then you know 717 00:35:35,550 --> 00:35:38,270 they're just going to continue to do it because all our older 718 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,310 women are telling us no, no, it's the best thing that you 719 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,790 could do. I love the fact that I'm an 720 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,470 executive assistant to the CEO. I'm submitting to another man 721 00:35:46,540 --> 00:35:48,010 outside of submitting to my husband. 722 00:35:48,020 --> 00:35:50,970 In fact, I divorced my husband and got half of his land anyway. 723 00:35:50,980 --> 00:35:53,800 It's great. Gross, right. 724 00:35:53,860 --> 00:35:56,270 So gross. It's really gross. 725 00:35:56,580 --> 00:35:58,970 It I I do feel like there's an awakening though, that's 726 00:35:58,980 --> 00:36:00,910 happening that women are starting to look at it and think 727 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,870 they got a raw deal. I heard people like Brett Cooper 728 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,670 the other day say that sort of thing. 729 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:06,970 She's just like, you know, we're sort of programmed to do 730 00:36:06,980 --> 00:36:09,070 something very different and we're fighting against our 731 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:10,780 nature. She's very young. 732 00:36:10,790 --> 00:36:12,540 You're pretty young. You've got some pretty advanced 733 00:36:12,550 --> 00:36:15,760 ideas compared to what, you know, it took my wife years. 734 00:36:15,770 --> 00:36:17,560 We didn't figure this out and thing out until we were in our 735 00:36:17,570 --> 00:36:19,630 30s and you seem really ahead of the curve. 736 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,550 Are there people in your age bracket that are starting to 737 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,800 look and go like maybe you guys don't have to figure out? 738 00:36:23,810 --> 00:36:26,890 You don't seem that happy. Ah, yeah, no, that's it's 739 00:36:26,900 --> 00:36:29,030 actually so incredibly true. I go to a lot of college 740 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,750 campuses and I talk about why feminism is terrible. 741 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,820 And of course, like, I have, like, people with septum 742 00:36:33,830 --> 00:36:36,600 piercings and purple hair, like, in the audience, like scowling 743 00:36:36,610 --> 00:36:39,560 at me, like making such angry comments muttering to 744 00:36:39,570 --> 00:36:41,180 themselves. And I'm like, OK. 745 00:36:41,250 --> 00:36:44,800 But the vast majority of these girls are girls who put in 746 00:36:44,810 --> 00:36:46,440 effort. They dress nice, they're 747 00:36:46,450 --> 00:36:49,260 beautiful, they're feminine. And they're like, yeah, like, I 748 00:36:49,270 --> 00:36:50,890 love the college experience I'm getting. 749 00:36:50,900 --> 00:36:53,720 I'm really thankful. But I don't want to have to just 750 00:36:53,730 --> 00:36:56,200 work for the rest of my life. That doesn't sound great, but I 751 00:36:56,210 --> 00:36:58,680 have to work because I got a pair of these student loans, 752 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,800 because it's not fair to lump that onto a husband. 753 00:37:00,810 --> 00:37:02,600 You know, right? As soon as you get married. 754 00:37:02,610 --> 00:37:04,780 Yeah, somebody should have told my wife that I help. 755 00:37:04,790 --> 00:37:06,400 We paid for her masters together. 756 00:37:06,470 --> 00:37:08,000 See, that's the thing. I know I. 757 00:37:08,010 --> 00:37:09,360 Didn't supposed to be done. That's what you do. 758 00:37:09,370 --> 00:37:10,860 You buy into the whole thing. Who cares? 759 00:37:10,910 --> 00:37:13,240 Yeah, you buy into all of it. And yeah, I didn't go to 760 00:37:13,250 --> 00:37:14,750 college, so I'm. I'm hoping that. 761 00:37:14,810 --> 00:37:16,890 Way ahead of the curve. I don't think my kids are going 762 00:37:16,900 --> 00:37:19,120 to go either. I mean that's that's that's the 763 00:37:19,130 --> 00:37:20,930 natural. So here's the fun thing, right? 764 00:37:20,940 --> 00:37:22,520 Because we're seeing this happening right now. 765 00:37:22,590 --> 00:37:26,220 You're actually sort of in the maelstrom and your and your age 766 00:37:26,230 --> 00:37:29,380 bracket is in the maelstrom of people making that turn. 767 00:37:29,460 --> 00:37:31,880 When I was a kid, if you didn't go to college. 768 00:37:31,950 --> 00:37:34,630 You were going to be a failure. That was assured, right. 769 00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:36,910 And there's a big amount of money that you were going to be, 770 00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:38,490 you're going to be missing out on. 771 00:37:38,620 --> 00:37:42,070 My wife, I think we paid 25 or $30,000 for her masters. 772 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,770 At the end of it. I know I ended up paying, I 773 00:37:43,780 --> 00:37:45,970 don't know, something like that, 10 or $15,000 for my 774 00:37:45,980 --> 00:37:48,530 undergraduate degree that wouldn't get you a year right 775 00:37:48,540 --> 00:37:51,930 now in most state schools, people your age bracket. 776 00:37:52,020 --> 00:37:54,880 So you're seeing something very different and it's kind of 777 00:37:54,890 --> 00:37:56,210 interesting how you guys are pushing back. 778 00:37:56,220 --> 00:37:58,810 I say you guys, but it's you and and and people that have that 779 00:37:58,820 --> 00:38:02,130 awareness like you do. And you're saying, hey, maybe 780 00:38:02,180 --> 00:38:04,430 maybe college isn't required for everybody. 781 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:07,340 By the way, that's the also. The position of all of human 782 00:38:07,350 --> 00:38:08,990 history. It used to be just for the 783 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,840 elites, right? I don't know why we thought 784 00:38:10,850 --> 00:38:13,080 everyone had to have it. Why did Why did everyone have to 785 00:38:13,090 --> 00:38:17,200 go to college, you think? And yeah, and I think just 786 00:38:17,210 --> 00:38:21,320 because Americans could. And college used to be a sign of 787 00:38:21,390 --> 00:38:24,230 wealth and being in a higher class than other people. 788 00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:27,460 But I think what boomers hate to realise is like, class doesn't 789 00:38:27,470 --> 00:38:31,590 really exist in America anymore. You have different social groups 790 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,330 and you have different levels of income. 791 00:38:33,340 --> 00:38:36,920 But we don't have that same rigid class system that a lot of 792 00:38:36,930 --> 00:38:39,680 people like to harken back to and feel like they're superior 793 00:38:39,690 --> 00:38:41,640 because they went to a specific college. 794 00:38:41,650 --> 00:38:44,860 I mean, if you say you went to Harvard, I'm like, OK, whatever 795 00:38:45,450 --> 00:38:47,680 doesn't affect me. Like you're probably just 796 00:38:47,690 --> 00:38:51,300 severely in debt and have a bunch of quirky and kooky ideas 797 00:38:51,310 --> 00:38:54,410 and so yeah, you're you. We are really seeing this turn 798 00:38:54,420 --> 00:38:57,000 of people saying, yeah I don't really need that. 799 00:38:57,010 --> 00:39:00,930 Mostly because I mean it's kind of a supply and demand thing 800 00:39:00,940 --> 00:39:04,090 because college I don't think will ever go away. 801 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:09,000 But at college is accessible to almost everyone because there's 802 00:39:09,010 --> 00:39:12,150 so many scholarships and loans and all these different ways 803 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:15,130 that you can get into college that now it's really a thing 804 00:39:15,140 --> 00:39:18,870 that is not actually special. So what's special is you're 21 805 00:39:18,940 --> 00:39:20,610 and have built a six figure business. 806 00:39:20,620 --> 00:39:24,610 Like in the case that I have and so I'm I'm becoming kind of the 807 00:39:24,620 --> 00:39:26,990 anomaly outside of like oh people parents look at me and 808 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,340 they're like whoa, I don't know really what what to do with you 809 00:39:29,350 --> 00:39:32,290 because I can't ask you what your degree is and what your 810 00:39:32,300 --> 00:39:34,190 internships are. They don't exactly know how to 811 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,490 deal with me sometimes. But here's another thing. 812 00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:41,910 Conservatives often have this idea that well I don't support 813 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,890 college but like if you're going to be a lawyer or doctor or an 814 00:39:45,900 --> 00:39:48,250 engineer, then you should like really go to college. 815 00:39:48,580 --> 00:39:50,650 I think that is the stupidest thing. 816 00:39:50,720 --> 00:39:53,290 I mean I even used to say it's it's so stupid. 817 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,960 You should go to college and you should like Michael Knowles 818 00:39:55,970 --> 00:40:00,190 says, Once you study dusty old books and old people, you know 819 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:04,310 page pages of of philosophy and you should want to like. 820 00:40:04,380 --> 00:40:07,350 Look at old art pieces. That's what higher education 821 00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,520 should be. It shouldn't be a training 822 00:40:09,530 --> 00:40:13,420 ground for you to be able to practise a job just like my 823 00:40:13,430 --> 00:40:17,160 entry level of practising, like being a social media manager. 824 00:40:17,170 --> 00:40:19,640 That's what I do like. I just have to have like a 825 00:40:19,650 --> 00:40:23,050 subscription and Final Cut Pro and a subscription to Canva and 826 00:40:23,060 --> 00:40:26,360 then I'm good like the entry levels, like 400 bucks. 827 00:40:26,410 --> 00:40:29,100 But for someone like my boyfriend, who's going to be a 828 00:40:29,110 --> 00:40:32,920 lawyer, he's going to have to pay a lot more than 400 bucks to 829 00:40:32,930 --> 00:40:35,170 be able to practise the thing that he wants to. 830 00:40:35,270 --> 00:40:39,780 I think that law firms, that engineering firms, that 831 00:40:40,590 --> 00:40:44,100 hospitals and places like that should be the ones providing the 832 00:40:44,110 --> 00:40:46,660 training and the standardised training that you get, almost 833 00:40:46,670 --> 00:40:49,200 like a trade school. So I think it's so silly when 834 00:40:49,210 --> 00:40:51,240 people like, well, if you're going to be a lawyer, doctor, 835 00:40:51,250 --> 00:40:54,780 engineer, it's like, no, you should go to college to expand 836 00:40:54,790 --> 00:40:59,420 your mind and study old books and classical things and music 837 00:40:59,430 --> 00:41:03,200 and things that you can't get anywhere else, AKA work 838 00:41:03,210 --> 00:41:06,310 experience. I would say in this 20 years 839 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,120 ago, this is very interesting to hear from your mouth because I 840 00:41:09,130 --> 00:41:11,840 used to think it was so funny. It's it's actually used to be 841 00:41:11,850 --> 00:41:15,180 considered an elitist position to say that only a few people 842 00:41:15,190 --> 00:41:17,140 should go to college. They're the people that can 843 00:41:17,150 --> 00:41:19,870 afford leisure, that have money, that have parents with money or 844 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:23,200 whatever, and they go study things that actually have no 845 00:41:23,310 --> 00:41:25,280 tangible value. But it's nice that people know 846 00:41:25,290 --> 00:41:28,820 them, like philosophy and Latin and can tell you in the original 847 00:41:28,830 --> 00:41:32,140 Greek what Aristotle said about the nature of the universe. 848 00:41:32,630 --> 00:41:34,860 Talk about Noel. Well, I I compared Plato and I 849 00:41:34,870 --> 00:41:36,920 saw this was the thing and this is the idyllic version. 850 00:41:36,930 --> 00:41:39,420 This is what the historical arguments were for and against 851 00:41:39,430 --> 00:41:41,700 democracy and oligarchy. Oh, very good. 852 00:41:41,750 --> 00:41:42,740 I love that. Very nice. 853 00:41:43,010 --> 00:41:44,760 What do you do with that? Thing I can't even turn a 854 00:41:44,770 --> 00:41:46,210 wrench. I don't even have a like, Plumb 855 00:41:46,220 --> 00:41:48,260 my house, right? And you're correct, there's 856 00:41:48,270 --> 00:41:51,110 something about do you need your accountant? 857 00:41:51,150 --> 00:41:53,180 Do you have an account, by the way, that handles your business? 858 00:41:53,250 --> 00:41:55,740 Yes. Do you need your accountant to 859 00:41:55,750 --> 00:42:01,170 have a discussion with you about Western Civilization levels 123 860 00:42:01,180 --> 00:42:03,720 and four that he probably had to take or she had to take going 861 00:42:03,730 --> 00:42:05,580 through college? You need that Western SIV 862 00:42:05,590 --> 00:42:07,040 conversation. No, I don't. 863 00:42:07,050 --> 00:42:09,600 Although my accountant is pretty epic and we do have those 864 00:42:09,610 --> 00:42:12,880 conversations just right. Because they had to go. 865 00:42:12,890 --> 00:42:14,760 Maybe that's something that they were interested in, but my 866 00:42:14,770 --> 00:42:16,890 account really, if they wanted to get that degree in. 867 00:42:16,970 --> 00:42:19,590 In 18 months, I'd be comfortable with that, yeah. 868 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:21,880 It's like competency. Know what the law is. 869 00:42:21,890 --> 00:42:23,190 Make sure that you can count the money, right? 870 00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:25,610 Your math skills are on point. You don't even need to know how 871 00:42:25,620 --> 00:42:27,950 to do complex math. Turns out financial math is not 872 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,430 that complicated. So there is an argument for 873 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,950 trade school and then actually restoring that sort of elite 874 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,330 level of education only for the people that really can afford 875 00:42:36,340 --> 00:42:37,930 leisure. That'd be fun. 876 00:42:38,900 --> 00:42:41,150 Or for people who just really want to pursue that. 877 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,650 I mean, I don't know that college should go back to being 878 00:42:43,700 --> 00:42:47,490 a completely only thing for the quote unquote upper classes. 879 00:42:47,500 --> 00:42:50,560 Because I think that a rigid class system, while it has its 880 00:42:50,570 --> 00:42:53,300 benefits, I don't think that's what America has been built on 881 00:42:53,310 --> 00:42:56,100 and won't be something that does very well for us. 882 00:42:56,110 --> 00:43:00,140 Because rigid class systems, we've only seen it really be 883 00:43:00,150 --> 00:43:02,620 successful in Britain, but that was because of Christianity. 884 00:43:02,630 --> 00:43:07,620 So maybe we shouldn't focus on it being just something for the 885 00:43:07,630 --> 00:43:09,100 quote unquote elites or the wealthy. 886 00:43:09,110 --> 00:43:12,420 But we should have it only be focused on expanding the mind, 887 00:43:12,430 --> 00:43:16,000 going into deeper truths, talking about we we say useless 888 00:43:16,010 --> 00:43:18,020 things like philosophy, but I love philosophy. 889 00:43:18,030 --> 00:43:19,590 It's very. Other two, you can't understand 890 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,630 the world without it. We need philosophers just 891 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:23,100 doesn't. It just doesn't pay well. 892 00:43:23,110 --> 00:43:26,330 It turns out you you may have to be successful, it may have to be 893 00:43:26,340 --> 00:43:28,520 a hobby, or you may have to be able to do that as sort of a 894 00:43:28,530 --> 00:43:30,960 leisure pursuit because you already have some financial 895 00:43:30,970 --> 00:43:32,650 abilities. The upside is, is that you're 896 00:43:32,660 --> 00:43:35,390 growing up in Internet age when everybody can find the entire 897 00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,600 collected history of the world. On their phone, they can walk 898 00:43:38,610 --> 00:43:41,480 around with it in their pocket. Yeah, yeah, that's absolutely 899 00:43:41,490 --> 00:43:43,300 true. They can also find pornography 900 00:43:43,310 --> 00:43:46,760 and things that sort of destroy women's value in a lot of ways. 901 00:43:46,830 --> 00:43:49,050 Does it, Do you see that in some of the things that you've been 902 00:43:49,060 --> 00:43:50,360 discussing? And do you guys, do you talk 903 00:43:50,370 --> 00:43:51,760 about that at all in college campuses? 904 00:43:52,780 --> 00:43:57,090 I have definitely seen it. There are tonnes and tonnes of 905 00:43:57,100 --> 00:44:00,730 women who attack me from every angle every single day. 906 00:44:00,780 --> 00:44:03,940 When I say, yeah, only fans is not a good job or a woman 907 00:44:03,950 --> 00:44:07,230 shouldn't sleep around or you should not embrace feminism. 908 00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:09,890 Because feminism has the tendency, the awkward tendency, 909 00:44:09,900 --> 00:44:13,690 to re objectify women when it comes, when it comes down to it, 910 00:44:14,100 --> 00:44:18,030 because we're taught now that Cardi B is the most empowered, 911 00:44:18,540 --> 00:44:20,980 should be lauded as the most glorious person ever. 912 00:44:20,990 --> 00:44:23,010 And I'm like, well, she's actually just jiggling on the 913 00:44:23,020 --> 00:44:25,530 stage, like objectifying herself for everyone. 914 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,080 Houses, prying eyes and only fans and pornography. 915 00:44:29,090 --> 00:44:31,420 Those industries, I believe, are exactly the same. 916 00:44:31,430 --> 00:44:36,730 And they go, they do go hand in hand in terms of what they tell 917 00:44:36,740 --> 00:44:38,610 women. So we have so many societal 918 00:44:38,620 --> 00:44:41,950 forces telling women that it's interesting actually, let me go 919 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,370 back to 2nd wave feminism, because second wave feminism was 920 00:44:44,380 --> 00:44:49,510 focused on the idea that women are more than their bodies and 921 00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:54,090 their bodies are something that should be, only, you know, used 922 00:44:54,100 --> 00:44:56,730 for men, but also women should be able to love whoever they 923 00:44:56,740 --> 00:44:58,130 want. So you had this like weird 924 00:44:58,140 --> 00:45:01,530 tension going on of half the 2nd wave feminists saying no, we 925 00:45:01,540 --> 00:45:04,350 should erase the female body because it has too much power, 926 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:08,460 and then the other half saying that no, we should just a rates 927 00:45:08,470 --> 00:45:11,780 all sexual mores and sexual norms and just have free love 928 00:45:11,790 --> 00:45:13,510 for everyone. So you have these two movements 929 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,180 happening in the kind of the 1960s and 70s. 930 00:45:16,370 --> 00:45:19,460 Then then it got to about something in the 1990s and the 931 00:45:19,470 --> 00:45:23,470 academics types that were wanted androgyny wanted women's bodies 932 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,220 to like not be marketed everywhere. 933 00:45:26,230 --> 00:45:29,940 They kind of, they kind of got a little bit quieter then and the 934 00:45:29,990 --> 00:45:35,440 pop culture, Spice Girls kind of MTV girly started really taking 935 00:45:35,450 --> 00:45:39,370 hold and saying, you know what, my body gets views. 936 00:45:39,380 --> 00:45:44,410 So I'm going to use my body in whatever means possible, because 937 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:49,450 if my value is a woman's based off of my success, and I find a 938 00:45:49,460 --> 00:45:54,510 lot of success by doing it naked music videos and filming 939 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,470 pornography or just, you know, making a spectacle of myself, 940 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,250 and I'm going to pursue that because that is empowerment and 941 00:46:00,260 --> 00:46:03,050 that is where my values coming from. 942 00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:06,570 So really going into the 2000s with the rise of social media 943 00:46:06,580 --> 00:46:10,110 and also the rise of just like not, I guess arise technically, 944 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:13,270 but you have a lot of broken families where girls aren't 945 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,720 growing up in a stable environment. 946 00:46:14,730 --> 00:46:17,060 They've never been loved and cherished by their dad because 947 00:46:17,070 --> 00:46:19,270 the only way that a girl has confidence is because of her 948 00:46:19,340 --> 00:46:21,400 that 100%. The only way she'll know how to 949 00:46:21,410 --> 00:46:24,740 be loved is because of her dad. And so a lot of fatherless homes 950 00:46:24,810 --> 00:46:29,450 have these girls who turn out totally crappy and seeking 951 00:46:29,460 --> 00:46:31,560 attention and love and admiration in all the wrong 952 00:46:31,570 --> 00:46:33,880 places. So they naturally go to TikTok. 953 00:46:33,890 --> 00:46:37,920 They naturally go to places like only fans because not only is it 954 00:46:37,930 --> 00:46:40,020 giving them instant gratification of getting tonnes 955 00:46:40,030 --> 00:46:43,090 of views or a paycheck every two weeks or something like that, 956 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,480 it's also filling the tank that they believe is getting filled 957 00:46:46,490 --> 00:46:48,740 with love. But of course, we know that only 958 00:46:48,750 --> 00:46:51,720 fans is not a way to fill the the love tank in your life. 959 00:46:51,730 --> 00:46:57,960 So yeah, I mean it's interesting how you had to competing ideas 960 00:46:57,970 --> 00:47:01,370 of where a woman's body and value comes from in the second 961 00:47:01,380 --> 00:47:04,560 wave of feminism, but the one that appeals to men's and 962 00:47:04,570 --> 00:47:07,600 women's most bases desires ended up winning out. 963 00:47:07,710 --> 00:47:11,740 And now we have 15 year olds who are wearing nothing but eye 964 00:47:11,750 --> 00:47:15,330 patches over their boobs on, you know, TikTok flaunting 965 00:47:15,340 --> 00:47:18,370 themselves around thinking that their empowerment and their 966 00:47:18,380 --> 00:47:22,220 value comes from views. It's I hadn't thought about it 967 00:47:22,230 --> 00:47:23,990 that way. So I appreciate the idea that we 968 00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:27,810 are tying now the financial value because if women have to 969 00:47:27,820 --> 00:47:30,180 be financially successful and if that requires them to do 970 00:47:30,190 --> 00:47:32,980 something that is promiscuous or non valuable for their self, 971 00:47:32,990 --> 00:47:34,500 they're basically sacrificing themselves. 972 00:47:34,510 --> 00:47:36,970 But you know one of the downstream consequences also 973 00:47:36,980 --> 00:47:40,550 only a very small number of women can be successful in that 974 00:47:40,620 --> 00:47:42,370 right. So if you go look at the the 975 00:47:42,380 --> 00:47:44,710 number of women that are making a tonne of money on only fans, 976 00:47:44,920 --> 00:47:48,910 you know the the the 1st, 20 or 30 are making shocking amounts 977 00:47:48,920 --> 00:47:51,510 of money, 1115 million. We covered this on my podcast at 978 00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:53,370 one point. Like millions of dollars. 979 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,320 Per month after the take that the the company gets, which is 980 00:47:56,330 --> 00:47:58,520 also making a tonne of money, they're the ones who really win, 981 00:47:59,070 --> 00:48:01,820 but there's got to be a lot of people that are also making very 982 00:48:01,830 --> 00:48:03,600 little money. Right. 983 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,110 And they have all the same risk and exposure and all the same 984 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,550 downsides that might happen without the millions of dollars 985 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:10,350 to compensate them. Yeah, absolutely. 986 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,030 But of course it's kind of like any multi level marketing scheme 987 00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,950 like oh, if you just really work at it, you will and can be 988 00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:18,930 successful. And it's like well, again, we we 989 00:48:18,940 --> 00:48:23,080 have yet to see a lot in all of these spiritual, emotional, just 990 00:48:23,090 --> 00:48:26,530 scars that women are going to have to endure because of this. 991 00:48:26,540 --> 00:48:29,540 The ones who are participating in it and also the ones who are 992 00:48:29,550 --> 00:48:32,370 not participating it because you have the people who are acting 993 00:48:32,380 --> 00:48:36,100 and then you have the people who are hearing, Oh, well, if if 994 00:48:36,110 --> 00:48:39,110 she's making a bunch of money on this and she thinks it's OK, 995 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:41,140 well then how does that affect me? 996 00:48:41,150 --> 00:48:45,460 And how does that affect my my decisions and what I'm thinking 997 00:48:45,470 --> 00:48:48,400 about and what I'm validating? So, you know, you have this very 998 00:48:48,410 --> 00:48:52,020 loud minority who said I make $1,000,000 every single month on 999 00:48:52,030 --> 00:48:52,980 this. It's crazy. 1000 00:48:52,990 --> 00:48:54,490 It's insane. It's super easy. 1001 00:48:54,500 --> 00:48:57,620 You can do it too. And girls are like, well, she 1002 00:48:57,630 --> 00:49:01,400 seems happy and she's making money because since my value is 1003 00:49:01,410 --> 00:49:04,500 is I have to be successful, I have to make money, Femininity 1004 00:49:04,510 --> 00:49:06,820 has no consequence and it doesn't even matter anymore. 1005 00:49:06,830 --> 00:49:09,290 Then, Nan, I'm going to, I'm going to pursue that too. 1006 00:49:09,300 --> 00:49:12,390 And yeah, sex work is real work. And that's the inevitable 1007 00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,720 conclusion of what we have here. Which is really scary stuff I 1008 00:49:15,730 --> 00:49:19,530 think what what does that the downstream effects for 1009 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:22,250 interpersonal relationships have to be pretty extreme too and and 1010 00:49:22,260 --> 00:49:24,890 your generation is going to sort of deal with it in a bigger way. 1011 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,120 I'm happy that you're in a productive relationship that 1012 00:49:27,130 --> 00:49:29,560 looks like it's going somewhere. That's not necessarily the case 1013 00:49:29,570 --> 00:49:32,370 where a lot of your your peers or at least your age bracket 1014 00:49:32,380 --> 00:49:35,310 peers are looking at most of them are probably in the same 1015 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:37,900 the same both that like my wife and I thought like, oh, you got 1016 00:49:37,910 --> 00:49:39,690 to use your 20s and figure out how to get married. 1017 00:49:39,700 --> 00:49:42,150 Maybe when you're 30s and but that time you're actually old. 1018 00:49:42,220 --> 00:49:43,920 I can tell you this. I'm like, I have a new baby. 1019 00:49:43,970 --> 00:49:46,110 I'm 41. I'm old to have a new baby 1020 00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,020 because I'm really tired. Like like I'm I'm a lot more 1021 00:49:49,030 --> 00:49:50,940 mature than I was when I was a kid, no doubt about it. 1022 00:49:50,950 --> 00:49:53,430 But I watched one of my friends, one of my buddies actually has 1023 00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:58,340 kids that are in college right now and and and my oldest is 6. 1024 00:49:58,750 --> 00:50:01,220 So that's the that's the sort of the the flip right. 1025 00:50:01,230 --> 00:50:03,620 The cost is, is that some of these, these your peers are 1026 00:50:03,630 --> 00:50:05,260 going to be dealing with something very difficult, I 1027 00:50:05,270 --> 00:50:07,800 think. And what are those downstream 1028 00:50:07,810 --> 00:50:12,030 effects look like of, you know, sexualization and and and 1029 00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:14,520 devaluing sort of femininity and all this kind of stuff. 1030 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,220 Yeah. First of all, congratulations on 1031 00:50:17,230 --> 00:50:18,680 your new baby. That's so exciting. 1032 00:50:18,690 --> 00:50:21,040 I cannot wait for my time. It'll be amazing when it 1033 00:50:21,050 --> 00:50:23,760 happens. But Oh my goodness, where do we 1034 00:50:23,770 --> 00:50:26,580 start with the downstream, the, the downstream effects? 1035 00:50:26,590 --> 00:50:29,920 I mean, let's, I guess we'll start with just the plain 1036 00:50:29,930 --> 00:50:34,320 romantic relationship. You have men who are addicted to 1037 00:50:34,370 --> 00:50:40,790 very intense and violent images of pornography or worse. 1038 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:45,670 And then, you know, you have men who are experiencing real 1039 00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,630 difficulty in having a connection with someone. 1040 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,090 I mean, I don't know. I'm not married yet. 1041 00:50:51,100 --> 00:50:54,410 So, you know, this is just what I've been hearing from guys who 1042 00:50:54,420 --> 00:50:55,950 are, who are addicted to this kind of stuff. 1043 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,360 They have a very difficult time connecting with a real woman in 1044 00:50:59,370 --> 00:51:02,230 real life because she's not an only fans model who has 1045 00:51:02,240 --> 00:51:06,510 $1,000,000 every single month to do a bunch of cosmetic work and 1046 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:09,490 a bunch of editing to every image or video that she puts 1047 00:51:09,500 --> 00:51:10,930 out. So you have the devaluing of 1048 00:51:10,940 --> 00:51:13,900 women. You have men not being able to 1049 00:51:13,910 --> 00:51:17,860 fully connect with and engage with a real woman who you know 1050 00:51:17,910 --> 00:51:19,830 is in real life and she's not only fans. 1051 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:23,360 Model. And then you have, yeah, you 1052 00:51:23,370 --> 00:51:28,610 have the desensitisation of the, the power that sexual 1053 00:51:28,620 --> 00:51:32,620 relationship probably has on a person's spirit and on their 1054 00:51:32,630 --> 00:51:36,250 mind and on their body. And so, you know, as a 1055 00:51:36,260 --> 00:51:43,160 Christian, protecting your heart is one of the most important 1056 00:51:43,170 --> 00:51:45,820 things that you can do. It says this, I think in 1057 00:51:45,830 --> 00:51:49,320 Proverbs 320 or 420, I think it's 320, it's guard your heart 1058 00:51:49,330 --> 00:51:52,880 above all else. And so I assume you've probably 1059 00:51:52,890 --> 00:51:54,940 seen Harry Potter, Is that correct? 1060 00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,040 OK. So I think about it in this way 1061 00:51:58,050 --> 00:52:00,820 in terms of how the there are going to be repercussions for 1062 00:52:00,830 --> 00:52:02,700 women. So through the whole Harry 1063 00:52:02,710 --> 00:52:05,500 Potter, you know, and I'm also not one of those who wouldn't 1064 00:52:05,510 --> 00:52:08,400 watch Harry Potter. I get it with the hyper, really 1065 00:52:08,410 --> 00:52:10,180 hyper strict people. I'm just not one of those. 1066 00:52:10,190 --> 00:52:14,460 So the bad guy, Voldemort, essentially the first movie 1067 00:52:14,470 --> 00:52:17,640 starts out with him, him like not being him being like 1068 00:52:17,650 --> 00:52:19,380 attached to that guy's head or whatever. 1069 00:52:19,450 --> 00:52:23,240 So it turns out that his soul, Voldemort soul has been split 1070 00:52:23,290 --> 00:52:26,620 into a bunch of different places and cast all around the Harry 1071 00:52:26,630 --> 00:52:29,270 Potter world. And he has to spend 8 movies or 1072 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,900 eight books collecting all of the parts of his soul and 1073 00:52:32,910 --> 00:52:35,270 putting them back together so that he can like take over the 1074 00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,740 world. I see a woman who sleeps around 1075 00:52:38,950 --> 00:52:43,730 a lot like Voldemort. She has doled out parts of her 1076 00:52:43,740 --> 00:52:46,300 soul all around the all around the world. 1077 00:52:46,310 --> 00:52:50,190 So all these random guys, whether it's viewers on only 1078 00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:53,370 fans or whether it's just casual relationship hookup 1079 00:52:53,380 --> 00:52:56,310 relationships that she's having, she's doling out pieces of her 1080 00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,290 soul to all these people. But unlike Voldemort, she ain't 1081 00:52:59,300 --> 00:53:01,470 going to be able to go and collect those again. 1082 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,850 Because once your soul's gone, like you don't have like little 1083 00:53:04,860 --> 00:53:07,730 totems or little time pieces that you can just go recollect 1084 00:53:07,740 --> 00:53:10,230 it and magic spells to put it all back together. 1085 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:15,560 So I I'm watching women voluntarily shatter the beauty 1086 00:53:15,570 --> 00:53:20,720 and the femininity and the purity that they have by seeking 1087 00:53:20,730 --> 00:53:24,340 love in all the wrong places. And that really is the biggest 1088 00:53:24,350 --> 00:53:28,420 downstream effect from women or for women in regards to this 1089 00:53:28,430 --> 00:53:32,990 hyper sexualized industry. And then the final thing I'll 1090 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,190 mention as how it's going to affect women is, you know, a lot 1091 00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:39,210 of very valiant feminists who maybe hadn't bought into the 1092 00:53:39,220 --> 00:53:43,110 whole picture of radical feminism and man hating and not 1093 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:46,530 shaving your armpits and things like that and to at least 1094 00:53:46,540 --> 00:53:51,180 appreciated a woman's value said, you know what, I don't 1095 00:53:51,190 --> 00:53:53,850 want to be objectified. I just want to have, you know, 1096 00:53:53,860 --> 00:53:57,290 my life and keep to myself. But unfortunately, now you have 1097 00:53:57,300 --> 00:54:02,130 girls who are willingly object re objectifying themselves for 1098 00:54:02,140 --> 00:54:04,890 money. And so apparently it's not OK if 1099 00:54:04,900 --> 00:54:08,160 a man is objectifying you on his own accord, but it is OK if 1100 00:54:08,170 --> 00:54:11,710 you're doing it and objectifying yourself for money. 1101 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,090 So I'm always like, where's the consistency there? 1102 00:54:15,100 --> 00:54:18,310 But those are just a couple of the consequences for 1103 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,580 relationships and what my generation's going to face in 1104 00:54:21,590 --> 00:54:23,710 the future. Yeah, really uncharted 1105 00:54:23,720 --> 00:54:25,090 territory. It seems like too. 1106 00:54:25,140 --> 00:54:27,830 So let's talk about fixes, because nobody likes to just to 1107 00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,830 dwell on the negativity. I think we all see that the 1108 00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:32,790 world is falling. We know that we are living in an 1109 00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:34,930 area that is outside the Garden of Eden, and so be it. 1110 00:54:35,020 --> 00:54:36,490 So how do we exist in this world? 1111 00:54:36,500 --> 00:54:39,000 What are some of the things? That the advocacy that you're 1112 00:54:39,010 --> 00:54:41,830 doing specifically towards women, but also how you interact 1113 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,690 with young men, kind of explaining to them maybe 1114 00:54:44,810 --> 00:54:46,770 pitfalls and pathways out of this. 1115 00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,910 The first thing I always focus on is just helping women 1116 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:53,190 understand their own brains. There is so much of a culture of 1117 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:57,520 self help and understanding yourself in psychology and you 1118 00:54:57,530 --> 00:55:00,890 know any ground tests in Myers Briggs and personality tests. 1119 00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,150 And it comes to a point where it's like we may know a lot of 1120 00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:07,400 things but we really don't truly understand ourselves. 1121 00:55:07,410 --> 00:55:09,630 What our prime motivators are, what motivates us, what drives 1122 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:11,520 us as women who are different than men. 1123 00:55:11,530 --> 00:55:13,840 So the first thing I always focus on is I'm like girls, 1124 00:55:13,850 --> 00:55:15,900 you're different than a guy. You have different wants, you 1125 00:55:15,910 --> 00:55:19,140 have different needs, you have different things that you are 1126 00:55:19,150 --> 00:55:22,380 attracted to or deterred by you, You are just different. 1127 00:55:22,450 --> 00:55:26,840 And isn't it ironic that I'm spending most of my time talking 1128 00:55:26,850 --> 00:55:28,880 about the difference between men and women now? 1129 00:55:28,890 --> 00:55:31,860 It should be so obvious. But as we know with Matt Walsh's 1130 00:55:31,870 --> 00:55:35,360 documentary What is a Woman? You know we're we're back at the 1131 00:55:35,370 --> 00:55:37,620 basics. So I spend a whole lot of my 1132 00:55:37,630 --> 00:55:42,400 time explaining the differences of the once and needs, just kind 1133 00:55:42,410 --> 00:55:45,490 of unravelling what the feminists have told women for so 1134 00:55:45,500 --> 00:55:47,170 long. You know, feminism tells women 1135 00:55:47,180 --> 00:55:50,400 you want a career, you don't want to be married, you don't 1136 00:55:50,410 --> 00:55:53,220 want a family. All you want to be is completely 1137 00:55:53,230 --> 00:55:56,120 liberated and Unchained to a society and you want no 1138 00:55:56,130 --> 00:55:59,360 responsibility and you want to have no accountability to 1139 00:55:59,370 --> 00:56:02,550 anybody else. But all of those things are 1140 00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:04,220 completely false. So I spent a lot of my time 1141 00:56:04,230 --> 00:56:07,990 rewiring how women should perceive themselves, perceive 1142 00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:11,540 their value and perceive their place in opposed, you know, as 1143 00:56:11,550 --> 00:56:14,460 as different from men. So that's the first thing that I 1144 00:56:14,470 --> 00:56:17,880 focus on. The second thing is, you know, 1145 00:56:17,930 --> 00:56:22,220 feminism preaches that it's accomplished 2 things for women, 1146 00:56:22,230 --> 00:56:24,480 freedom and happiness. So those are the 2 main, you 1147 00:56:24,490 --> 00:56:27,350 know, banners that feminism is like, we've done this for you 1148 00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:29,580 and you owe your loyalty to us because you're a woman. 1149 00:56:29,590 --> 00:56:32,760 It's like, well let's examine and see if feminism has really 1150 00:56:32,770 --> 00:56:36,060 accomplished those things. Women are not happier today. 1151 00:56:36,070 --> 00:56:37,910 I mean, literally you can see this in the numbers. 1152 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:42,500 There's a study called the Decline the paradox of Women's 1153 00:56:42,510 --> 00:56:46,240 Declining unhappiness and it basically examines the self 1154 00:56:46,250 --> 00:56:50,080 reported levels of happiness of women from the 1970s until now. 1155 00:56:50,170 --> 00:56:53,590 And obviously, spoiler alert, women are not happier today for 1156 00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:57,550 a multitude of reasons. And, you know, you can see that 1157 00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,850 women are not happy pretty much at all. 1158 00:56:59,960 --> 00:57:03,210 And then women are technically, I argue, not more free. 1159 00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:05,590 Yes, we're allowed to vote. Great. 1160 00:57:05,600 --> 00:57:09,010 OK, we do that once every four years, and then once every two 1161 00:57:09,020 --> 00:57:11,550 years if we're actually dedicated and vote in primaries. 1162 00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,710 But like, yeah, we have the right to vote, but at the 1163 00:57:14,720 --> 00:57:16,850 expense of what? Everything else. 1164 00:57:16,860 --> 00:57:22,310 The life of a beautiful woman, a feminine biblical woman who can 1165 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,950 be free to enjoy her family, to enjoy her husband, to enjoy the 1166 00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:28,640 life that they can create together. 1167 00:57:28,650 --> 00:57:33,050 Because now she's a slave to the 9:00 to 5:00, you know, work 1168 00:57:33,060 --> 00:57:36,120 week, 40 hour work week. She's a slave to probably half 1169 00:57:36,130 --> 00:57:38,940 the prescripted drugs that she's been prescribed. 1170 00:57:38,950 --> 00:57:41,640 She's probably a slave to birth control and goes completely 1171 00:57:41,650 --> 00:57:44,450 crazy because that you should never mess with your hormones, 1172 00:57:44,630 --> 00:57:47,240 especially by injecting A synthetic hormone into a 1173 00:57:47,250 --> 00:57:49,180 bioidentical hormone. So ridiculous. 1174 00:57:49,410 --> 00:57:52,770 But their slaves to their base desires, their slaves to their 1175 00:57:53,980 --> 00:57:57,190 they're just worst emotions, no accountability, no nothing. 1176 00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,830 And so I always try and tell women I'm like, if you really 1177 00:57:59,840 --> 00:58:01,910 want freedom and happiness and there's different way of 1178 00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:04,730 receiving it and then, you know, kind of going and talking about 1179 00:58:04,740 --> 00:58:07,560 how traditional roles and biblical structure can be able 1180 00:58:07,570 --> 00:58:11,570 to replenish and replace that. So I guess all of this is 1181 00:58:11,580 --> 00:58:16,550 summarised in a in a message of women, you aren't happy, 1182 00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:19,300 obviously, and you know that to be true. 1183 00:58:19,310 --> 00:58:21,640 Stop lying to yourself and saying that you are happy and 1184 00:58:21,650 --> 00:58:23,390 fulfilled by the things that you're doing. 1185 00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,310 And guess what? We have an alternative. 1186 00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:29,110 And it's better and it's much more fun and you will long term 1187 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,510 be so much more joyful that you've done that. 1188 00:58:31,580 --> 00:58:35,890 And so I really enjoy this trade wife movement, women showing off 1189 00:58:35,900 --> 00:58:38,390 their beautiful family lives, what they do at home. 1190 00:58:38,500 --> 00:58:41,410 She's baking banana bread or if she's going out with a pretty 1191 00:58:41,420 --> 00:58:44,310 dress on with her children. I think that is going to really 1192 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:47,230 inspire a lot of women who think, yeah, this is a scam and 1193 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:48,690 I I really do want something better. 1194 00:58:48,700 --> 00:58:51,990 So anyone who is a trad wife and posting content like that, I 1195 00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,950 really encourage you to continue and just keep painting a 1196 00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:57,300 positive moral vision about how beautiful your life is. 1197 00:58:57,310 --> 00:59:00,010 Because that's the thing that essentially is going to win the 1198 00:59:00,020 --> 00:59:03,890 girls over pretty easily coming up against feminism. 1199 00:59:03,900 --> 00:59:07,330 They just have to be able to really tangibly see the the 1200 00:59:07,340 --> 00:59:09,870 different life that they could have outside of what feminism 1201 00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:13,190 has painted for them. I want to see a movement of trad 1202 00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:16,450 wives that are like the real trad wives of America, where 1203 00:59:16,460 --> 00:59:19,090 they're like, I don't have time for makeup, my hair hasn't been 1204 00:59:19,100 --> 00:59:22,670 washed in two days, my kids are pooping on my clothing. 1205 00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:24,770 You know, I had a baby spit up on me. 1206 00:59:24,820 --> 00:59:28,510 But there's nothing more fulfilling because because 1207 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:32,010 that's what for me, it's one way to curate your your, your life 1208 00:59:32,020 --> 00:59:33,590 and show everybody. My wife always tells me she's 1209 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,290 like, look at these people. They got all these kids, they 1210 00:59:35,300 --> 00:59:37,580 got these, like, you know, the animals, they got this thing. 1211 00:59:37,590 --> 00:59:39,490 They're making butter this lady doesn't like. 1212 00:59:39,570 --> 00:59:41,220 Podcast. And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1213 00:59:41,230 --> 00:59:42,350 She has someone else cleaned her house. 1214 00:59:42,360 --> 00:59:43,510 She has to pay other people to do stuff. 1215 00:59:43,520 --> 00:59:46,040 There's no way she's doing all the things that we're doing 1216 00:59:46,050 --> 00:59:47,500 because we're just treading water. 1217 00:59:47,650 --> 00:59:49,720 And you know, good for her for making that kind of money. 1218 00:59:49,730 --> 00:59:52,860 But if that's what the real world of it is, like busting 1219 00:59:52,870 --> 00:59:56,040 your ass with one other person and it's just you and them 1220 00:59:56,050 --> 00:59:58,440 against the rest of the world. Like it's always been. 1221 00:59:59,060 --> 01:00:02,100 You brought up faith, You brought up the the, the pill. 1222 01:00:02,110 --> 01:00:03,280 I want to touch on that a second. 1223 01:00:03,370 --> 01:00:05,720 There was a funny little moment and I did this on my podcast. 1224 01:00:05,730 --> 01:00:06,960 I shared it. I actually got copyright 1225 01:00:06,970 --> 01:00:08,420 infringement from YouTube about it. 1226 01:00:09,090 --> 01:00:13,120 I I showed Joe Rogan. And he does this amazing moment 1227 01:00:13,130 --> 01:00:15,960 where he was like, we don't really fully understand how to 1228 01:00:15,970 --> 01:00:18,460 make human beings happy. If only there was like a 1229 01:00:18,470 --> 01:00:22,820 guidebook or a manual that would show us, like, how to optimise 1230 01:00:22,830 --> 01:00:25,900 human existence. And he walked right up to it, 1231 01:00:25,950 --> 01:00:29,340 yeah, but he couldn't get there. He's so close. 1232 01:00:29,610 --> 01:00:31,760 He was raised Catholic the way that I was. 1233 01:00:31,770 --> 01:00:34,340 He was raised with the Bible. He was raised knowing that there 1234 01:00:34,350 --> 01:00:37,980 was a Christian faith that made people even the most miserable. 1235 01:00:37,990 --> 01:00:40,740 Existences, like human beings, have not had it really good for 1236 01:00:40,750 --> 01:00:43,480 most of their existence, but they figured out how to find 1237 01:00:43,490 --> 01:00:45,090 happiness. Joe Rogan almost got there. 1238 01:00:45,100 --> 01:00:46,560 He was almost there. He's got too much money to 1239 01:00:46,570 --> 01:00:48,450 figure out that the Bible is right there in front of him. 1240 01:00:48,460 --> 01:00:51,060 He could just buy one. Let's talk about, let's talk 1241 01:00:51,070 --> 01:00:55,130 about abortion and the pill as sort of like the answer for 1242 01:00:55,140 --> 01:00:57,990 feminism and sort of what that that cost looks like, you think? 1243 01:00:58,220 --> 01:01:00,670 Oh my gosh, yes. Such a I can't believe we 1244 01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:03,270 haven't touched on this already. It's just such an important 1245 01:01:03,480 --> 01:01:06,040 facet of feminism. So you know. 1246 01:01:06,720 --> 01:01:11,010 You have feminists asking the question, how can we erase any 1247 01:01:11,020 --> 01:01:13,290 inequality to make women just like men? 1248 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:17,380 And eventually you get them the right to vote, You get the Civil 1249 01:01:17,390 --> 01:01:19,890 Rights Act, you do all those things, you're eventually going 1250 01:01:19,900 --> 01:01:23,010 to run into the question of biology and. 1251 01:01:23,870 --> 01:01:27,610 There is a remarkable and very distinct difference between men 1252 01:01:27,620 --> 01:01:31,220 and women in terms of biology, as we should know by now. 1253 01:01:31,290 --> 01:01:34,610 Apparently we don't. That you know, the feminists, 1254 01:01:34,620 --> 01:01:39,340 they they they believe, they truly believe that the right to 1255 01:01:39,410 --> 01:01:43,120 abortion, the right to end another person's life, is a 1256 01:01:43,130 --> 01:01:47,070 fundamental human right. Because it accomplishes equality 1257 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:51,360 and it simply makes women the exact same as men. 1258 01:01:51,530 --> 01:01:55,190 Because any inequality is perceived as the worst evil in 1259 01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,120 the world and any difference. Is perceived as equality, which 1260 01:01:58,130 --> 01:02:00,390 is perceived as the worst, the worst thing in the world. 1261 01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:04,120 So you know, you, you had them run up to biology and say OK 1262 01:02:04,130 --> 01:02:06,980 well fine, we need to be able in the name of equality to 1263 01:02:06,990 --> 01:02:11,210 eradicate. Women's ability or yeah, 1264 01:02:11,220 --> 01:02:13,690 women's, women's privilege of having children. 1265 01:02:13,700 --> 01:02:18,350 And so that's where birth control, the motivation for 1266 01:02:18,420 --> 01:02:21,150 creating birth control, while also birth control, was 1267 01:02:21,160 --> 01:02:25,740 completely a eugenicist. Idea and Margaret Sanger, who 1268 01:02:25,750 --> 01:02:28,340 Major League championed it, was also, like best, used Hitler. 1269 01:02:28,350 --> 01:02:31,690 So we can't overlook that fact. And let's talk about the fact 1270 01:02:31,700 --> 01:02:34,670 that like 85% of Planned Parenthood's were put in 1271 01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:37,800 minority neighbourhoods with lots of people of colour to 1272 01:02:37,810 --> 01:02:41,160 basically sterilise the black population in America. 1273 01:02:41,430 --> 01:02:43,620 Because there's a whole documentary called. 1274 01:02:44,530 --> 01:02:46,460 Oh, I don't remember what it's called, but it's by Live Action 1275 01:02:46,470 --> 01:02:48,120 and you should definitely go watch it if you want to see the 1276 01:02:48,130 --> 01:02:51,300 completely racist roots of birth control and abortion. 1277 01:02:51,410 --> 01:02:53,640 They're great, by the way. What live action? 1278 01:02:53,650 --> 01:02:55,840 They're great. So good, so good. 1279 01:02:55,850 --> 01:02:58,170 Always on top of it. But I would also like to mention 1280 01:02:58,180 --> 01:03:00,550 one more thing that isn't it interesting that. 1281 01:03:01,500 --> 01:03:04,400 The legalisation of over the counter and easy, easily 1282 01:03:04,410 --> 01:03:07,540 accessible birth control happened eight years in eight. 1283 01:03:07,550 --> 01:03:10,720 It happened in eight years. And then eight years later 1284 01:03:10,730 --> 01:03:14,370 abortion was legalised because there was this whole idea that 1285 01:03:14,430 --> 01:03:16,860 women were just like getting pregnant and having like a bunch 1286 01:03:16,870 --> 01:03:20,000 of kids and then they had to do like back alley abortions. 1287 01:03:20,010 --> 01:03:23,260 What's like abortion didn't become legalised until after 1288 01:03:23,330 --> 01:03:26,410 birth control was widely used and so you always have to think 1289 01:03:26,420 --> 01:03:30,360 about like, why is that? But essentially, abortion is the 1290 01:03:30,370 --> 01:03:33,200 answer to the feminist question of How do we? 1291 01:03:34,330 --> 01:03:38,640 Erase any distinction between men and women biologically, and 1292 01:03:38,990 --> 01:03:43,240 the gruesome end answer to that question is just the death of. 1293 01:03:43,980 --> 01:03:46,510 A million children a year. Yeah. 1294 01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,440 They just have to sacrifice all the babies, right? 1295 01:03:48,450 --> 01:03:50,300 How do you answer women when they say, well, you're just 1296 01:03:50,310 --> 01:03:51,470 trying to control women's bodies? 1297 01:03:51,480 --> 01:03:53,580 Because that's the answer. They say if you're a pro life, 1298 01:03:53,590 --> 01:03:54,640 man. Yeah. 1299 01:03:54,740 --> 01:03:56,380 They say, well, you're just trying to control women's 1300 01:03:56,390 --> 01:03:58,120 bodies. I'm like, no, I only wanna kind 1301 01:03:58,130 --> 01:04:00,470 of guide one woman's body. I don't really care about the 1302 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:01,820 rest of you except actually like babies. 1303 01:04:01,830 --> 01:04:04,190 I think they're awesome, You know, Would you if you weren't 1304 01:04:04,200 --> 01:04:06,950 killing them? And if you admit that you're 1305 01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,800 killing babies, which most of them have a hard time, they they 1306 01:04:09,810 --> 01:04:11,670 want to change the words like foetus, and they want to use 1307 01:04:11,680 --> 01:04:13,480 this. But how do you get over there? 1308 01:04:13,530 --> 01:04:16,160 You just want to control women's bodies and tell them how to act. 1309 01:04:16,250 --> 01:04:18,450 Yeah, well I on the language of it. 1310 01:04:18,700 --> 01:04:20,290 First of all, say do you know what foetus means? 1311 01:04:21,460 --> 01:04:24,630 In Latin, me as a classically educated person who had to take 1312 01:04:24,640 --> 01:04:26,910 Latin is the only language credit I ever had. 1313 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,210 Foetus literally means offspring or baby. 1314 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,630 And so if you just, like, translate it, you know, put it 1315 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,400 into Google Translate and then just press convert like, you'll 1316 01:04:34,410 --> 01:04:35,810 be fine. You'll understand the actual 1317 01:04:35,820 --> 01:04:38,550 truth of what is being said. So I mean, first of all, on the 1318 01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:40,970 semantic point, we have all the evidence we need because of 1319 01:04:40,980 --> 01:04:44,300 Latin, but. This is a super fun conversation 1320 01:04:44,310 --> 01:04:46,790 because of course I'm going to go with the traditional, well, 1321 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,990 it's actually not a woman's body. 1322 01:04:49,040 --> 01:04:51,430 I am not trying to control a woman's body. 1323 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,610 I'm trying to control the ability of a woman to kill 1324 01:04:53,620 --> 01:04:55,570 another person. And so this is where they 1325 01:04:55,580 --> 01:04:57,400 always, you know, roll their eyes because of course, that's 1326 01:04:57,410 --> 01:04:59,770 the basic talking point. But I was taking a step further. 1327 01:04:59,920 --> 01:05:02,990 I always say, OK, let's talk about the science. 1328 01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,770 So did you know at the moment of conception, there is a 100% new 1329 01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:11,190 blueprint of DNA? There is a like distinct piece 1330 01:05:11,200 --> 01:05:14,620 of DNA that has been created with everything coded into it. 1331 01:05:14,850 --> 01:05:17,320 Eye colour. Hair colour, personality traits, 1332 01:05:17,370 --> 01:05:21,220 all the things that you need it at the moment of conception. 1333 01:05:21,230 --> 01:05:26,940 And so I say, OK, so assuming that this DNA is going to 1334 01:05:26,950 --> 01:05:30,440 continue to grow and get coded, you know, and turn into the 1335 01:05:30,450 --> 01:05:34,480 person that it's supposed to be, what is the difference between 1336 01:05:34,530 --> 01:05:37,970 me right now and me in the moment of conception when all of 1337 01:05:37,980 --> 01:05:43,960 my DNA was set out basically just to to unfold and I say 1338 01:05:43,970 --> 01:05:45,480 what? Well, what is the difference? 1339 01:05:45,790 --> 01:05:48,580 And the only right answer is time. 1340 01:05:49,260 --> 01:05:54,440 The difference is 21 or a little bit over that years from moment 1341 01:05:54,450 --> 01:05:57,710 of conception until me now. So then I I lean in and I say, 1342 01:05:58,210 --> 01:06:00,880 are you discriminating based on age? 1343 01:06:01,030 --> 01:06:05,420 Are you being ageist? I cannot believe how intolerant 1344 01:06:05,430 --> 01:06:09,560 you are being against people who are only three months coded into 1345 01:06:09,570 --> 01:06:12,720 the DNA process. I cannot believe how intolerant 1346 01:06:12,730 --> 01:06:14,820 you're being. And then you get them to stutter 1347 01:06:14,830 --> 01:06:17,320 and then use their sputter and then they just run away. 1348 01:06:17,370 --> 01:06:20,910 So you always have to take that little argument a oh, it's not 1349 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,080 your body a step further, and then turn it back on them. 1350 01:06:23,150 --> 01:06:26,050 And accuse them of being discriminatory in some way. 1351 01:06:26,060 --> 01:06:29,790 Because as we know, to the left, discrimination is the worst evil 1352 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:31,830 of mankind. Worse than the Holocaust. 1353 01:06:32,430 --> 01:06:33,600 Everything's worse than the Holocaust. 1354 01:06:33,610 --> 01:06:35,800 Everything Worse than Hitler. Except Hitler. 1355 01:06:35,810 --> 01:06:37,080 Hitler's the worst. Right. 1356 01:06:37,090 --> 01:06:39,180 Except Hitler. That's that's the paradox of 1357 01:06:39,190 --> 01:06:41,120 being a leftist is that you have to deal with that. 1358 01:06:41,190 --> 01:06:43,320 It's, it's kind of interesting. I'll have these discussions with 1359 01:06:43,330 --> 01:06:45,520 my mother in law. She'll actually admit, yes, it's 1360 01:06:45,530 --> 01:06:47,580 a human being. It's an inconvenient human 1361 01:06:47,590 --> 01:06:49,690 being. And that's why we have to kill. 1362 01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,580 That's kind of hard to to run up against because now we've moved 1363 01:06:53,590 --> 01:06:55,690 into a place of morality where it's like, Oh well, you're 1364 01:06:55,700 --> 01:06:59,290 you're OK with with child death. Wow. 1365 01:06:59,340 --> 01:07:02,060 It's just a matter of and and there are people that feel that 1366 01:07:02,070 --> 01:07:03,370 way. And I feel like that once you 1367 01:07:03,380 --> 01:07:06,070 expose that, it's like, well, we probably not going to connect on 1368 01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:08,810 values in this in this world. Right. 1369 01:07:08,820 --> 01:07:11,110 And well, when you're talking to them, there's always a third 1370 01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:12,730 person. If you're you're having a a 1371 01:07:12,740 --> 01:07:15,870 conversation with someone who you get them to admit, yeah, I 1372 01:07:15,960 --> 01:07:17,730 don't care about children, I want to kill babies. 1373 01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:21,960 You say at that point you're not trying to win over that person, 1374 01:07:21,970 --> 01:07:24,190 you're trying to win over the third person, the audience. 1375 01:07:24,200 --> 01:07:27,730 You are trying to win over the person who is watching and 1376 01:07:27,740 --> 01:07:29,910 basically make yourself the rational person. 1377 01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:33,290 Because if you can't win the person you're arguing over, then 1378 01:07:33,300 --> 01:07:35,730 you win the audience over and they're going to decide that you 1379 01:07:35,740 --> 01:07:37,610 win the conversation or win the debate anyway. 1380 01:07:37,620 --> 01:07:39,870 And so you always need to remember the third person in the 1381 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,370 room whenever you're engaging in these conversations and 1382 01:07:42,380 --> 01:07:44,400 highlighting the difference. And here's another just tactical 1383 01:07:44,410 --> 01:07:46,570 thing that I think conservatives really need to get better at. 1384 01:07:48,190 --> 01:07:54,410 We for so long have. Stayed in the realm of of just. 1385 01:07:55,470 --> 01:07:58,050 Not using our emotions. And I know like facts don't care 1386 01:07:58,060 --> 01:08:00,380 about your feelings and that's great, but we need the pathos, 1387 01:08:00,390 --> 01:08:03,200 OK? When they say I'm fine with 1388 01:08:03,210 --> 01:08:08,020 killing children, you need to make sure that you are reacting 1389 01:08:08,190 --> 01:08:11,710 honestly to the crazy thing that they just said. 1390 01:08:12,980 --> 01:08:17,890 Because when we say men can't become women, it's like as bad 1391 01:08:17,899 --> 01:08:21,450 as the first time I drove a car with my mom in the passenger 1392 01:08:21,460 --> 01:08:24,790 seat, it was, Oh my gosh, you're going to kill us all. 1393 01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:27,590 That's the worst thing. That's, you know, they react 1394 01:08:27,640 --> 01:08:31,130 like we're the crazy ones, we're not the crazy ones. 1395 01:08:31,220 --> 01:08:33,990 And So what we have to do is when they say, yeah, I'm fine 1396 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:36,270 with killing children, we need to react. 1397 01:08:36,279 --> 01:08:39,529 We need to shame them, we need to mock them, We need to 1398 01:08:39,540 --> 01:08:44,240 marginalised terrible, dangerous ideas and we need to basically 1399 01:08:44,250 --> 01:08:47,260 win over the other people with. Our reaction saying, did you 1400 01:08:47,270 --> 01:08:49,779 really just say that? That is crazy. 1401 01:08:49,830 --> 01:08:53,319 So I think if we can start almost weaponizing our reactions 1402 01:08:53,330 --> 01:08:55,240 because we've we've been so desensitised. 1403 01:08:55,250 --> 01:08:58,040 But it's like think about what they're saying and then react 1404 01:08:58,050 --> 01:08:59,779 accordingly. And they're going to start 1405 01:08:59,790 --> 01:09:02,500 feeling that social pressure and being like, yeah, maybe my 1406 01:09:02,510 --> 01:09:05,100 position isn't great based on the way that the audience just 1407 01:09:05,109 --> 01:09:08,100 reacted to what I just said. Because we know that social 1408 01:09:08,109 --> 01:09:10,170 pressure is really powerful. And so if we can turn that 1409 01:09:10,180 --> 01:09:13,160 against them, then we'll have a lot better chances of actually 1410 01:09:13,270 --> 01:09:16,520 advancing the narrative along with the facts and logic. 1411 01:09:16,569 --> 01:09:19,960 But that's just a housekeeping. Point that I would really like 1412 01:09:19,970 --> 01:09:22,950 to promote a little bit more. Adding a little bit of the pesos 1413 01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:24,990 to the argument. Adding a little bit more of that 1414 01:09:25,080 --> 01:09:27,130 reaction which people should be able to see. 1415 01:09:27,180 --> 01:09:29,330 I had one of those moments on social media, by the way, I 1416 01:09:29,340 --> 01:09:33,330 think yesterday and and somebody, a trans person who I 1417 01:09:33,340 --> 01:09:37,270 believe is a female, who calls herself a male, which is very 1418 01:09:37,279 --> 01:09:41,250 weird as a male because you can't become like me, it's not 1419 01:09:41,260 --> 01:09:42,850 going to happen. You and I could not be the same 1420 01:09:42,859 --> 01:09:44,470 thing. I promise you I will always be 1421 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:46,050 able to beat you in an armoured competition. 1422 01:09:46,060 --> 01:09:48,870 I don't even want to, but I can. If I could just tell you by 1423 01:09:48,880 --> 01:09:50,350 looking at you, I can. I guarantee it. 1424 01:09:50,420 --> 01:09:53,500 I will Absolutely. I bet every penny I have it's 1425 01:09:53,510 --> 01:09:57,540 it's just the way it works out and and she reacted to me like a 1426 01:09:57,550 --> 01:09:59,510 female did. She felt very offended and she 1427 01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:01,650 went off in this emotional and it was like I was like you know 1428 01:10:01,660 --> 01:10:05,100 who doesn't react like you men. Men don't. 1429 01:10:05,110 --> 01:10:07,800 It's just like you can't escape your biology sister. 1430 01:10:07,810 --> 01:10:09,320 I know you're trying you're trying so hard. 1431 01:10:10,130 --> 01:10:12,940 One of the things that you do, you advise young women sort of 1432 01:10:12,950 --> 01:10:15,350 the the ways to look for what a successful relationship is going 1433 01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:19,320 to look like in this post crappy feminist world where we actually 1434 01:10:19,330 --> 01:10:20,960 kind of go back to the values that make sense. 1435 01:10:21,030 --> 01:10:24,400 What values are you looking for and and do you value in your 1436 01:10:24,410 --> 01:10:26,110 personal relationship that you're saying? 1437 01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:27,860 This is what I'm modelling. This is why it works out and 1438 01:10:27,870 --> 01:10:30,640 this is how we find it. Yeah, the 1st and biggest. 1439 01:10:30,650 --> 01:10:32,450 Of course, it's the obvious one. It's faith. 1440 01:10:32,460 --> 01:10:35,420 I mean, is the person that you're dating equally yoked? 1441 01:10:35,430 --> 01:10:39,010 Are they actively pursuing a relationship, a very intimate 1442 01:10:39,020 --> 01:10:43,030 relationship, with the Lord? Are they in a state of 1443 01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:45,910 constantly wanting to grow and improve or are they in a state 1444 01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:48,430 of oh, I'm fine, I'm just coasting, everything's great and 1445 01:10:48,440 --> 01:10:50,650 fine. So that's the first thing you 1446 01:10:50,660 --> 01:10:53,080 need to look out for and, you know, be very serious about 1447 01:10:53,090 --> 01:10:54,610 them. My, my boyfriend and I, the only 1448 01:10:54,620 --> 01:10:57,570 disagreement we have is essentially when you should 1449 01:10:57,580 --> 01:11:00,490 baptise children. He's a Pedo Baptist, which means 1450 01:11:00,500 --> 01:11:03,170 baptised when they're babies and I'm a Credo Baptist, which is 1451 01:11:03,180 --> 01:11:05,900 when they reach salvation, That's when you need to get 1452 01:11:05,910 --> 01:11:08,370 baptised. And obviously all of that is not 1453 01:11:08,380 --> 01:11:12,170 exactly salvation issues, but you know, we don't disagree on 1454 01:11:12,180 --> 01:11:14,590 anything else to do with faith and that really is the 1455 01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:16,390 foundation of our relationship, so. 1456 01:11:16,460 --> 01:11:18,350 You need to find someone who takes their faith extremely 1457 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:23,120 seriously and uses their faith as a vehicle to examine and 1458 01:11:23,130 --> 01:11:25,910 improve themselves. Because really, marriage, from 1459 01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:28,400 what I've heard from all the marriage experts, is marriage is 1460 01:11:28,410 --> 01:11:32,460 just forgiving someone over and over and over and over again. 1461 01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:36,280 And if you find someone who sits in unforgiveness or you sit and 1462 01:11:36,290 --> 01:11:39,500 unforgiveness, then you're going to have a rocky marriage and 1463 01:11:39,510 --> 01:11:41,510 you're not going to be able to improve anything. 1464 01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:44,780 Because unforgiveness is the biggest foothold that Satan has 1465 01:11:44,790 --> 01:11:47,320 in relationships and just in our personal lives for sure. 1466 01:11:47,390 --> 01:11:50,160 So that's the first thing. Something to that for you, so 1467 01:11:50,170 --> 01:11:51,780 you can add it to your lexicon. You ready? 1468 01:11:52,190 --> 01:11:56,640 I think if you're doing it right, it's you realising that 1469 01:11:56,650 --> 01:11:58,910 you need forgiveness, not forgiving somebody else. 1470 01:11:59,650 --> 01:12:02,980 Ah, it's whoever asks for forgiveness first wins. 1471 01:12:03,530 --> 01:12:06,620 Always. In the case of my boyfriend, 1472 01:12:06,630 --> 01:12:09,830 it's definitely him. It's it's it's hard because it 1473 01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:12,000 involves humility. Imagine that. 1474 01:12:12,210 --> 01:12:16,510 Yeah, you'll figure but. But if you think about, but if 1475 01:12:16,520 --> 01:12:18,670 you want to look at a Christian principle, it's simply it it 1476 01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:21,510 always comes down to look for the the plank in your own eye 1477 01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,810 versus the speck in your in your neighbours or in your case, your 1478 01:12:23,820 --> 01:12:26,330 spouse. If you can do that, you win. 1479 01:12:26,340 --> 01:12:27,340 It's really hard. That's why. 1480 01:12:27,350 --> 01:12:29,220 It's one of the things that we all struggle with for our whole 1481 01:12:29,230 --> 01:12:31,210 lives. I'll just tell you that that's 1482 01:12:31,220 --> 01:12:33,510 my, that's my thing. Whenever I know that I did the 1483 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:35,120 wrong thing first. And it's very hard for me 1484 01:12:35,130 --> 01:12:36,230 because I always think I'm right. 1485 01:12:36,800 --> 01:12:39,450 It's it is my nature. I'm very dominant in that way. 1486 01:12:39,760 --> 01:12:41,850 But by doing that you actually win. 1487 01:12:42,200 --> 01:12:45,090 And and my wife is really good at it too, because she, she 1488 01:12:45,100 --> 01:12:46,310 trained it. She has a marriage and family 1489 01:12:46,320 --> 01:12:47,450 therapist. She's a masters in it. 1490 01:12:47,460 --> 01:12:49,150 So she spent a lot of time studying people's. 1491 01:12:49,430 --> 01:12:52,100 She sounds absolutely perfect, to be honest. 1492 01:12:52,190 --> 01:12:55,290 She's she's saying it. It takes a special kind of woman 1493 01:12:55,300 --> 01:12:56,450 to deal with certain types of men. 1494 01:12:56,460 --> 01:12:58,400 It turns out. And it turns out that that's 1495 01:12:58,410 --> 01:13:00,160 kind of the way that we're we're meant to pair up. 1496 01:13:00,170 --> 01:13:01,000 Right. OK. 1497 01:13:01,010 --> 01:13:02,960 So faith, what I heard from because I want to broaden this 1498 01:13:02,970 --> 01:13:04,580 out for people that are not necessarily in a faith 1499 01:13:04,590 --> 01:13:07,870 tradition, but that's similar values and a similar hope for 1500 01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:10,650 the future, is kind of the short way of saying what you just said 1501 01:13:10,660 --> 01:13:13,040 That makes sense. Yeah, similar goals and a 1502 01:13:13,050 --> 01:13:16,980 similar a similar way of dealing with conflict that will come 1503 01:13:16,990 --> 01:13:19,860 into your marriage. Because, you know, like you said 1504 01:13:19,870 --> 01:13:21,960 earlier, it's it's you against the world. 1505 01:13:22,710 --> 01:13:25,890 When you're with your spouse, it's team US against everything 1506 01:13:25,900 --> 01:13:29,330 else that's happening. And if you can't, if you don't 1507 01:13:29,340 --> 01:13:34,870 have accurate processes to deal with life as it comes at you and 1508 01:13:34,880 --> 01:13:37,980 as it's all hitting the fan, then everything is just going to 1509 01:13:37,990 --> 01:13:40,060 erupt. And people especially who are 1510 01:13:40,070 --> 01:13:42,730 more on the passionate side and the yelling side of things, who 1511 01:13:42,740 --> 01:13:45,410 like, you know, maybe are a little a little bit fighting 1512 01:13:45,420 --> 01:13:48,240 Irish like me, maybe maybe inclined towards a little more 1513 01:13:48,250 --> 01:13:50,630 drama. A little bit more drama. 1514 01:13:51,060 --> 01:13:52,620 You know that's not going to be something healthy. 1515 01:13:52,630 --> 01:13:55,960 You need to learn when to disarm and when to put the weapons down 1516 01:13:55,970 --> 01:13:58,050 and say, OK, who's the enemy here? 1517 01:13:58,160 --> 01:13:59,750 It's not my spouse. It's not. 1518 01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:01,200 It's not us. Since each other, it's it's 1519 01:14:01,210 --> 01:14:03,840 really, you know, I would say Satan, but for people who are 1520 01:14:03,850 --> 01:14:06,460 less rights, the mailman who didn't deliver the package on 1521 01:14:06,470 --> 01:14:08,670 time even though I ordered it too late, right, that's. 1522 01:14:08,680 --> 01:14:10,330 Exactly. That's exactly next. 1523 01:14:10,770 --> 01:14:13,320 Did you see your parents have conflict and and resolve it in 1524 01:14:13,330 --> 01:14:17,300 ways that you try to emulate? Yeah, definitely. 1525 01:14:17,310 --> 01:14:20,320 And I, since I have so many siblings, I've seen them all 1526 01:14:20,390 --> 01:14:24,500 kind of take that route as well. And yeah, resolve conflict in a 1527 01:14:24,510 --> 01:14:26,360 way that is patient and God honouring. 1528 01:14:26,370 --> 01:14:29,570 And I'm still working on it, being such a passionate, 1529 01:14:29,580 --> 01:14:32,940 debating kind of person who is a verbal sniper whenever I need to 1530 01:14:32,950 --> 01:14:35,720 be. So learning self control over 1531 01:14:35,730 --> 01:14:38,040 the tongue is really, really an important thing in in 1532 01:14:38,090 --> 01:14:40,640 relationships. But yeah, yeah, it's been great. 1533 01:14:40,830 --> 01:14:43,390 Also, you're in a major danger if you plan on marrying a 1534 01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:44,500 boyfriend who's going to be a lawyer. 1535 01:14:44,510 --> 01:14:48,180 He's getting formalised, training in arguments and and 1536 01:14:48,190 --> 01:14:49,920 catching you in your own words. So this is going to be 1537 01:14:49,930 --> 01:14:50,560 interesting for. You. 1538 01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:52,130 Yeah. I don't think you necessarily 1539 01:14:52,140 --> 01:14:54,880 wants to be a litigator. So I think I'm in the clear a 1540 01:14:54,890 --> 01:14:58,360 little bit there. But yeah, it's how they learn 1541 01:14:58,370 --> 01:15:00,960 how to how to think. I have a brother who's who 1542 01:15:00,970 --> 01:15:03,000 thinks that way. He always thinks he's the best 1543 01:15:03,010 --> 01:15:05,050 debater at this point because it's a different way of looking 1544 01:15:05,060 --> 01:15:06,400 at the problem. But I'll tell you. 1545 01:15:06,470 --> 01:15:09,570 The the my boyfriend. He is one of the only people who 1546 01:15:09,580 --> 01:15:12,070 could actually genuinely beat me in a debate. 1547 01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:14,630 He's the only person who could ever convince me that gravity is 1548 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:16,870 not real, even though I know he's wrong. 1549 01:15:16,940 --> 01:15:19,430 He's he is that smart. But. 1550 01:15:20,190 --> 01:15:22,560 Yeah. So he has to use that 1551 01:15:22,570 --> 01:15:24,780 responsibly then? Right, right. 1552 01:15:24,850 --> 01:15:28,270 Right. So yeah, I mean, generally 1553 01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:31,180 though, in relationships it's the similar values. 1554 01:15:31,190 --> 01:15:32,560 It's how do you deal with conflict? 1555 01:15:32,570 --> 01:15:35,240 And remembering who the enemy is is just a really, really 1556 01:15:35,250 --> 01:15:39,190 important facet of what to look for if you're a young woman or a 1557 01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:42,600 young guy who's looking to find the one. 1558 01:15:42,830 --> 01:15:47,070 Another thing I would say is stop falling for you know. 1559 01:15:47,750 --> 01:15:53,180 Ed Sheeran's perfect song or stop falling for these love 1560 01:15:53,190 --> 01:15:55,440 songs. I have died every day. 1561 01:15:55,450 --> 01:15:59,260 You know, like the 1000 years or these beautiful, perfect like 1562 01:15:59,330 --> 01:16:04,000 you know, in every movie there is a whole life after the I do 1563 01:16:04,370 --> 01:16:07,180 at the wedding scene, after the guy finally got the girl. 1564 01:16:07,310 --> 01:16:12,550 Stop making the expectation of your every moment, the three 1565 01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:14,200 minutes of someone else's love song. 1566 01:16:14,270 --> 01:16:16,380 Just stop doing it. You're going to have unrealistic 1567 01:16:16,390 --> 01:16:19,920 expectations and that is going to set you up for major failure 1568 01:16:19,930 --> 01:16:22,110 because. Having expectations is a 1569 01:16:22,120 --> 01:16:25,500 dangerous business. Yeah, I'll tell you this, I wake 1570 01:16:25,510 --> 01:16:27,110 up every day. I remember listening. 1571 01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:29,200 I was a love song. I was a sappy love song guy. 1572 01:16:29,260 --> 01:16:31,560 Love, sappy love songs. I don't have a lot of patience 1573 01:16:31,570 --> 01:16:34,260 for them anymore because I'm a grown up and I just think, like, 1574 01:16:34,330 --> 01:16:36,360 I just go like, I don't have any. 1575 01:16:36,370 --> 01:16:37,660 Like, that's not how things work. 1576 01:16:38,050 --> 01:16:40,100 You want to know what love is? It's waking up every single 1577 01:16:40,110 --> 01:16:42,810 morning and making a conscious decision to to work with 1578 01:16:42,820 --> 01:16:45,400 somebody that you know that you choose to be with. 1579 01:16:45,410 --> 01:16:47,300 And that's that's actually way harder. 1580 01:16:47,310 --> 01:16:51,280 And it's way more admirable than like some sort of silly night in 1581 01:16:51,290 --> 01:16:52,760 shining armour. Although I do really like The 1582 01:16:52,770 --> 01:16:54,220 Moody Blues, which is well before your time. 1583 01:16:54,230 --> 01:16:56,480 It's before my time. I really like some of their 1584 01:16:56,490 --> 01:17:00,890 like, you know, you know just iconic sort of love songs but 1585 01:17:00,900 --> 01:17:02,540 they're still silly. They don't make any sense what 1586 01:17:02,550 --> 01:17:04,620 you've been right. Once you realise what real love 1587 01:17:04,630 --> 01:17:07,820 is, it's real love is like holding your your wife's hair 1588 01:17:07,830 --> 01:17:10,160 back because she's sick and she's been she had food 1589 01:17:10,170 --> 01:17:13,080 poisoning and and then taking the kids and and letting her 1590 01:17:13,090 --> 01:17:14,670 just lay in bed for three days when you. 1591 01:17:15,100 --> 01:17:17,990 Yeah, it's it's so much uglier. I gave my wife a bracelet when 1592 01:17:18,000 --> 01:17:20,780 we got married and it just said from here on out, no matter what 1593 01:17:20,790 --> 01:17:22,930 happens and on the inside of it says it's you and me against the 1594 01:17:22,940 --> 01:17:24,270 world. Nobody else needs to see that 1595 01:17:24,280 --> 01:17:26,260 part of it, right. That's the part that you agree 1596 01:17:26,270 --> 01:17:28,300 on. You create that unified front. 1597 01:17:28,650 --> 01:17:30,900 One of the worst things you'll see is when you see spouses out 1598 01:17:30,910 --> 01:17:33,950 in public and they're fighting with each other, or you'll see 1599 01:17:33,960 --> 01:17:37,550 somebody go and devalue their spouse to a stranger, right? 1600 01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:40,390 Nothing worse. There's nothing worse you doing. 1601 01:17:40,820 --> 01:17:42,210 Right. Yeah, you're you're you're 1602 01:17:42,220 --> 01:17:45,360 you're short circuiting your own sort of like, unified front. 1603 01:17:45,370 --> 01:17:47,010 I always think that's funny. All right, Look into your 1604 01:17:47,020 --> 01:17:49,380 crystal ball for me. You're young, you got a lot of 1605 01:17:49,390 --> 01:17:52,350 life in front of you, I hope, and this country seems pretty 1606 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,540 screwed up from my end of it. Are you hopeful? 1607 01:17:55,550 --> 01:17:57,800 Are you optimistic? If so, why? 1608 01:18:02,570 --> 01:18:06,980 I wish I could be a little bit more hopeful than I am. 1609 01:18:08,460 --> 01:18:13,540 About the world generally. But being a Christian and being 1610 01:18:13,550 --> 01:18:18,440 a conservative, our idea and our worldview is built off of the 1611 01:18:18,450 --> 01:18:23,500 idea and the fact that the world is a tragic, fallen, broken, 1612 01:18:23,570 --> 01:18:27,730 awful place. So in terms of do you have hope 1613 01:18:27,740 --> 01:18:30,510 for the future of the world? Well. 1614 01:18:31,870 --> 01:18:35,440 I know it's going to get worse, and I know there's going to be a 1615 01:18:35,450 --> 01:18:38,750 World War Three at some point. And I know that the Antichrist 1616 01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:41,860 is going to reveal himself. And I know that there's going to 1617 01:18:41,870 --> 01:18:45,500 be the great Tribulation. And only then after that will 1618 01:18:45,510 --> 01:18:48,060 Jesus really come back. And I'm not trying to, you know, 1619 01:18:48,070 --> 01:18:50,320 chalk it all up to escapism because I think that's quite 1620 01:18:50,330 --> 01:18:52,800 frankly, very annoying when people are just, Oh well, Jesus 1621 01:18:52,810 --> 01:18:55,860 will just come back. But I have assurance that in the 1622 01:18:55,870 --> 01:19:00,520 end he will win. And until that, my calling on a 1623 01:19:00,530 --> 01:19:04,770 personal level is to release women from the full on demonic. 1624 01:19:04,850 --> 01:19:09,530 Attack of feminism and to help them unravel the lies that 1625 01:19:09,540 --> 01:19:12,930 they've been steeped in and the lies that are so easy and pretty 1626 01:19:12,940 --> 01:19:16,090 to believe. And so do I have hope for the 1627 01:19:16,100 --> 01:19:18,580 country. Hi. 1628 01:19:20,480 --> 01:19:27,030 I I really think America if if we we don't really start 1629 01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:30,570 sounding the alarms even more and taking our of our personal 1630 01:19:30,580 --> 01:19:34,400 lives and and using those as examples to. 1631 01:19:35,440 --> 01:19:39,050 You know, really fight for the truth and fight for good values, 1632 01:19:39,060 --> 01:19:42,370 then we're not, we're not going anywhere, anywhere good. 1633 01:19:42,380 --> 01:19:46,430 So and again with the economy and living conditions for 1634 01:19:46,440 --> 01:19:48,200 Americans, those are rapidly declining. 1635 01:19:48,210 --> 01:19:51,770 And I truly hope that we can get a president in here that can 1636 01:19:51,780 --> 01:19:54,930 maybe have an economy half as good as Trump's and quality of 1637 01:19:54,940 --> 01:19:56,470 life can go up again. But. 1638 01:19:57,280 --> 01:20:00,410 Yeah, for my personal life, I don't have an 11 kids. 1639 01:20:00,420 --> 01:20:02,700 I'm going to be married, you know, hopefully within the next 1640 01:20:02,710 --> 01:20:05,510 2-3 years. So I'm good, I'm happy, I'm 1641 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:08,960 excited and you know, I have a beautiful community of people 1642 01:20:08,970 --> 01:20:10,750 who love me. I have a huge family and 1643 01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:14,420 couldn't couldn't be happier personally so. 1644 01:20:15,220 --> 01:20:17,260 I I like that. I like 11 kids you got. 1645 01:20:17,270 --> 01:20:19,710 We got to outbreed these clowns. That's really the keys. 1646 01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:21,780 They're always like killing their own children. 1647 01:20:21,790 --> 01:20:24,110 I'm like, well, you're making the job real easy over here. 1648 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,930 Because have you noticed that the LGBTQ movement doesn't 1649 01:20:26,940 --> 01:20:30,590 really grow by repopulation? They only grow by recruitment. 1650 01:20:30,830 --> 01:20:33,400 Hmm. Better marketing efforts. 1651 01:20:33,710 --> 01:20:36,440 It's a religion of converts, the leftism. 1652 01:20:36,950 --> 01:20:39,260 It's the only way they get him because they hate babies. 1653 01:20:39,570 --> 01:20:41,260 Right. They're not replenishing 1654 01:20:41,270 --> 01:20:42,820 anything. No. 1655 01:20:42,830 --> 01:20:44,780 And I also say this, and I think you can appreciate it. 1656 01:20:44,870 --> 01:20:46,940 You know, just because we know God wins doesn't mean that 1657 01:20:46,950 --> 01:20:48,970 America wins. If you think that America is 1658 01:20:48,980 --> 01:20:51,110 God, then you're a leftist. Because that's what that's what 1659 01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:52,690 they're about. That's that's good. 1660 01:20:52,700 --> 01:20:54,170 Yeah, that's really good. Love that. 1661 01:20:54,310 --> 01:20:56,360 Sad too. Sad that it's like all right. 1662 01:20:57,130 --> 01:20:59,980 Let people know where they can follow you, where they can see 1663 01:20:59,990 --> 01:21:01,100 more. I know you have a podcast as 1664 01:21:01,110 --> 01:21:03,260 well, that people wanting to tune in to catch some of this 1665 01:21:03,270 --> 01:21:05,380 uplifting and positive messaging. 1666 01:21:05,390 --> 01:21:08,640 Where they gonna find it? Me saying no, America has no 1667 01:21:08,650 --> 01:21:10,120 hope. Yeah, just find the positive 1668 01:21:10,130 --> 01:21:11,080 message. It's great. 1669 01:21:11,090 --> 01:21:12,360 I mean, you said it was such a smile. 1670 01:21:12,370 --> 01:21:13,700 It felt like it was very positive to me. 1671 01:21:13,710 --> 01:21:16,930 I felt fine about it. Maybe that's just because I like 1672 01:21:16,940 --> 01:21:19,380 showing off my nice teeth and my parents paid for the braces for 1673 01:21:19,390 --> 01:21:21,130 it, but who knows? That's it. 1674 01:21:21,140 --> 01:21:24,280 People driving on Instagram at it's like you can find me on 1675 01:21:24,350 --> 01:21:27,180 TikTok. As of right now, Lily Kate show. 1676 01:21:27,230 --> 01:21:29,780 I'm on my 4th account so I can't promise I'll be around for that 1677 01:21:29,790 --> 01:21:31,900 much longer, but hopefully you'll be able to find me either 1678 01:21:31,910 --> 01:21:34,650 way. I'm taking a break from the 1679 01:21:34,660 --> 01:21:37,070 podcast right now, but hopefully have some exciting things coming 1680 01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:39,650 in the future. So just go to my Instagram and 1681 01:21:39,660 --> 01:21:42,710 you can find everything there and you'll definitely find 1682 01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:45,420 updates on any long form content that I would be blessed to do in 1683 01:21:45,430 --> 01:21:47,830 the future. So thank you for having me on. 1684 01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:50,330 This was so fun. And thank you for all your 1685 01:21:50,340 --> 01:21:53,970 questions and. I'm not going to say it was the 1686 01:21:53,980 --> 01:21:56,590 hardest thing I've done today because again, I did work out 1687 01:21:56,600 --> 01:22:00,940 and it was pretty intense, but it was that's that's always good 1688 01:22:00,950 --> 01:22:02,220 though. If you set the expectation that 1689 01:22:02,230 --> 01:22:04,160 high, then everything becomes easy afterwards. 1690 01:22:04,170 --> 01:22:06,350 Right. So it was just another FBI trick 1691 01:22:06,360 --> 01:22:08,010 on me. That's probably what it was. 1692 01:22:08,020 --> 01:22:10,670 Got you Good, as they say. Lily, Kate, thanks so much for 1693 01:22:10,680 --> 01:22:11,750 joining us. I really enjoyed it. 1694 01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:14,120 I hope you come back and talk again when you when you're 1695 01:22:14,130 --> 01:22:15,330 engaged. You have 11 babies. 1696 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:17,540 Oh my gosh. Thanks. 1697 01:22:21,620 --> 01:22:24,450 Today's podcast is sponsored in part by Patriot Coolers. 1698 01:22:24,460 --> 01:22:25,830 You can find them at their website 1699 01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:29,870 patriotcoolerswithans.com. You can also find them on social 1700 01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:33,970 media at Patriot Coolers. 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