1 00:00:04,500 --> 00:00:07,100 Regime. It's called a camera at home. 2 00:00:07,100 --> 00:00:09,200 Run derby. In another to Lockhart Murphy 3 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:16,200 button, Imahara I'm Fallon. Nevada at her throat, be in 4 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:23,800 Nevada to her wounds were initially made to her Maryam. 5 00:00:24,100 --> 00:00:27,000 Well, anyone who have become was real to her Min ash-shaytaan-i'r 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:29,700 rajeem for the Kabbalah horrible. 7 00:00:29,700 --> 00:00:31,000 Huh? Because bullying, Hassan. 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,300 Well, I'm better hand about and passion and work, a fella has a 9 00:00:34,308 --> 00:00:40,400 career killer medical. Ali has water in the hardest. 10 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:44,900 God God, I am Mariam and lucky Heather called women in the law 11 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:46,800 in the Lord. Jesus woman. 12 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:50,400 Ye shall be ready. His job. well, basically surgery 13 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,100 with a silly Amory was ludicrous families, earning a colleague, 14 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:58,600 Paula who may have witnessed in the multible, Allah, allahumma 15 00:01:03,700 --> 00:01:08,200 ameen, Today's Kaaba is dedicated to a very unique 16 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:11,000 individual mentioned repeatedly in the Quran. 17 00:01:11,700 --> 00:01:15,500 It's Maryam Solomon Allah and the reason I decided to give a 18 00:01:15,500 --> 00:01:18,700 hubba on some aspects of her life that Allah highlights in 19 00:01:18,700 --> 00:01:22,400 the Quran are actually inspired by a question. 20 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:24,800 Somebody asked me this week, somebody came to me this week 21 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:28,500 and said that they've had a very close relationship with Allah 22 00:01:28,500 --> 00:01:31,500 since childhood. And that they make Dua, they've 23 00:01:31,500 --> 00:01:35,200 been Dua to Allah from a very early age praying to her job. 24 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,800 And even even you know, when they were a teenager and they 25 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,100 whatever they asked a lot for something, a lot provided. 26 00:01:41,100 --> 00:01:44,000 This person actually had a pretty tough life, you know, 27 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,900 father, passed away at an early age. 28 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,400 No brothers. And this is, this woman has 29 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,500 lived a pretty lonely life, and basically decided to really 30 00:01:51,500 --> 00:01:56,300 truly depend on Allah. And so, as she grew and 31 00:01:56,300 --> 00:02:00,400 developed in her, her years, she found that Allah miraculously 32 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:02,400 answers our prayers. Every time she asks a love for 33 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:05,100 something allies never left her prayer unanswered. 34 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,100 She developed this Reliance and this closeness with Allah and 35 00:02:08,100 --> 00:02:09,600 would always turn back to a lot anything. 36 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:13,000 I mean she needs something she goes and prays to like ours and 37 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:16,400 she makes daughter to a lot. So really beautiful connection. 38 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,100 She had with a love of where the question. 39 00:02:18,100 --> 00:02:20,300 Come from. The question came from a fact 40 00:02:20,300 --> 00:02:24,000 that more recently, she went through quite a series of very 41 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,400 unexpected difficulties in life and she decided that she is 42 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,500 going to increase her about that to Allah and increase her 43 00:02:31,500 --> 00:02:34,700 drawers because her problems have also increased. 44 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,100 So You figure the more your problems increase the more 45 00:02:37,100 --> 00:02:39,900 you're going to ask a lot of help you solve your problem and 46 00:02:39,900 --> 00:02:42,700 so she does that and she prays like she's never prayed before 47 00:02:42,700 --> 00:02:44,900 fasts like she's never fasted before. 48 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:48,200 Begs the Lark, Rise to Allah sheds tears before Allah like 49 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,300 she's never done before. But the problems keep getting 50 00:02:51,300 --> 00:02:54,600 worse, they don't they don't get any better and she starts 51 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,700 thinking to herself, maybe Allah is not happy with me because 52 00:02:57,700 --> 00:03:00,800 before I used to pray and everything used to get answered, 53 00:03:01,300 --> 00:03:02,900 I've never had this problem before. 54 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,700 Every time I had a need I turned back to Allah and Allah All of 55 00:03:05,700 --> 00:03:10,100 my problem but now I'm making God after thy after do I and I 56 00:03:10,108 --> 00:03:13,000 continue to beg. Align, my problems are not 57 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,700 getting solved. They're only getting worse. 58 00:03:15,100 --> 00:03:18,000 What could possibly be the reason and in her mind the 59 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,900 reason was I must have done something wrong. 60 00:03:21,100 --> 00:03:23,900 Allah must no longer be answering my prayers because 61 00:03:23,900 --> 00:03:27,900 somehow I've been disqualified. I no longer I'm not in Ella's 62 00:03:27,900 --> 00:03:31,400 good books anymore. The reason I decided to give 63 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,100 this quote by is that this is a very common notion that can 64 00:03:35,100 --> 00:03:39,000 creep into somebody's mind. We make Dua every human being 65 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,000 mixed on. We're expecting that Allah is 66 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:42,300 the which it will give us an answer. 67 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,200 We're hoping that Allah will solve our problem. 68 00:03:45,500 --> 00:03:48,900 There are two kinds of dollars, basically, for most of us, the 69 00:03:48,900 --> 00:03:51,800 one kind of Dora and though I'm talking about the ones we make 70 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,300 for ourselves. One kind of do is we want a 71 00:03:54,308 --> 00:03:57,400 problem that we have right now to be solved, we have an issue, 72 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,900 we have some circumstance and we want Allah azzawajal to protect 73 00:04:00,900 --> 00:04:03,600 us from falling into a worse problem, to secure the good 74 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,400 things that we have excetera and of course, we make Dua for our 75 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:07,800 future. We make dough out for ourselves 76 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,000 our children and to take care of things in the future. 77 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,500 You'll lock things are good right now. 78 00:04:11,500 --> 00:04:14,500 Your luck, keep them this way, preserve what we have here, you 79 00:04:14,500 --> 00:04:17,300 know, these are the kinds of dogs that we make for ourselves. 80 00:04:18,500 --> 00:04:21,300 The thing that I wanted to highlight is and I've talked 81 00:04:21,300 --> 00:04:23,400 about this in another football, but today's foot by slightly 82 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,700 different on a slightly different note, and that's why I 83 00:04:25,707 --> 00:04:29,600 chose Maryam sonali have. But the first thing I wanted to 84 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:33,400 highlight is a quick reminder to all of you is that your dog 85 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,700 getting answered immediately or not getting answered. 86 00:04:36,700 --> 00:04:40,300 Immediately has nothing to do with whether or not Allah is 87 00:04:40,300 --> 00:04:43,400 happy with you. It has nothing to do with that. 88 00:04:44,100 --> 00:04:46,200 There is no connection between those two things. 89 00:04:47,300 --> 00:04:49,400 And even if there was a connection, you will never know. 90 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:53,700 You cannot guess what? The reason is, you know, you 91 00:04:53,700 --> 00:04:57,900 have the case of nooh alehissalaam who was a very 92 00:04:57,900 --> 00:05:00,100 loving father. He made. 93 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,600 He made that. Why he invited his people to 94 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:06,200 Islam for 950 years? Can you imagine you think he 95 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:09,400 made duaa for his son? You think he made the offer his 96 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:12,900 wife all those years or he didn't care about them. 97 00:05:13,100 --> 00:05:16,800 Someone who cares so much about his Nation they spit on him. 98 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:21,100 I insult him and he goes back to them and makes to offer them 950 99 00:05:21,100 --> 00:05:22,400 years. You think he ignored his own 100 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:27,600 son, his own wife, all those years of Doha and they didn't 101 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,600 change. Isn't that the case? 102 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,600 Does he blame himself you up? Maybe I didn't do something 103 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,900 right? Or maybe Allah, stop listening 104 00:05:34,900 --> 00:05:36,900 to me. The reason I'm starting with 105 00:05:36,900 --> 00:05:39,500 that is people that were much better than we are much much 106 00:05:39,500 --> 00:05:41,900 better than we are. We're also, they also have 107 00:05:41,900 --> 00:05:43,800 similar problems. There are parents in the 108 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,400 audience that make Dua for their kids and they see That their 109 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:49,200 children are going away from the religion. 110 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,800 They're going down a dark path, and they can't control it and 111 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:55,400 they're making do offer them and they're not seeing that their do 112 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,600 is being answered, and now they're getting frustrated. 113 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:00,400 There something wrong with me. Why isn't Allah answering? 114 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,800 Well, you're not the first one to be put in that position. 115 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,200 Our messenger. Are they sought was Salam. 116 00:06:05,300 --> 00:06:07,400 Made lots of dough. Are you don't think he made duaa 117 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:12,100 for his uncle's his family? You don't think he considered 118 00:06:12,100 --> 00:06:14,500 Abu lahab when he made the offer guidance. 119 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:18,800 And if he did despite all of that, loving God Allah azzawajal 120 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:21,600 himself, tell him in mechelen that let that demonic but you 121 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,300 don't get to guide who you love, you know. 122 00:06:24,500 --> 00:06:26,800 There are people among us, they are children among us who wish 123 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:30,600 their parents or their Elders were acting in a more guided way 124 00:06:30,700 --> 00:06:32,200 I've met. So many young people whose 125 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:35,300 parents are in a Haram explicitly, Haram business and 126 00:06:35,300 --> 00:06:37,400 the children, the Son and the daughter is trying to tell the 127 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,200 father and the mother. Please get out of this. 128 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,200 We're dependent on you. You're paying my college 129 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,100 tuition. You're providing for us, but 130 00:06:44,100 --> 00:06:47,300 you're providing for us. Us from Haram income and I'm not 131 00:06:47,300 --> 00:06:49,000 in a position to provide for the family, right? 132 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,300 No, but this is wrong and then they're told you're being 133 00:06:51,300 --> 00:06:54,200 disrespectful, you shouldn't talk back to your parents etc, 134 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:55,800 etc. Now it's the flip side. 135 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,800 It's the children. Making Dua for the guidance of 136 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,500 their parents but things aren't changing. 137 00:07:00,700 --> 00:07:04,000 Things are where they were these frustrating situations happen 138 00:07:04,900 --> 00:07:07,800 and then on top of that or situations like Health Calamity, 139 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:12,000 not just family problems, but Health Calamity, or you can't 140 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:14,400 find a job. You have money problems and 141 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,400 you're making dog. To Allah, you ask yourself. 142 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,400 I see even did are take off last year and I kept making daughter 143 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:24,300 and I didn't pick my head up from such the all night long and 144 00:07:24,300 --> 00:07:27,000 still, I have this problem. Still, it didn't go anywhere. 145 00:07:27,100 --> 00:07:29,800 So the first thing I want to remind myself in all of you is 146 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,700 that profits, profits. I didn't want to. 147 00:07:32,707 --> 00:07:36,100 Listen, I'm all over that much before us, Allah mentions, their 148 00:07:36,100 --> 00:07:39,500 do has consistently in the Quran and Allah also mentions their 149 00:07:39,500 --> 00:07:41,300 problems consistently in the Quran. 150 00:07:41,900 --> 00:07:45,000 You don't think, for example, the yaakov alehissalaam. 151 00:07:45,100 --> 00:07:48,900 Aam the father of twelve Sons made real for all of his sons. 152 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,800 And especially for his son. Yusuf when he lost his son, 153 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,800 Yusuf, you don't think he made duaa for a use of safety that 154 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:58,800 use of should come back home. That he could spend, he could 155 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,600 look at his beautiful son once again. 156 00:08:00,900 --> 00:08:03,400 We know that he cried so much, he lost his eyesight and yet, 157 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:08,700 but I know who he lost his eyes over crying over his son, and 158 00:08:08,700 --> 00:08:11,400 all of those do ask for so many years, going answered. 159 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,300 And then they eventually they get answered. 160 00:08:13,800 --> 00:08:17,500 You don't think that the mother the mother of Musa alaihi Salam 161 00:08:17,700 --> 00:08:19,500 when she put her baby in the water? 162 00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:22,900 And it do the river. Just takes the basket away. 163 00:08:22,900 --> 00:08:24,900 The basket could flip over anytime. 164 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:27,100 And how do you know the basket is waterproof? 165 00:08:27,700 --> 00:08:28,900 How do you know, it's not going to leak? 166 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,400 How do you know, if I kind of hit a rock and it's done, you 167 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:35,500 know, it's you're throwing something in a river, it's not a 168 00:08:35,500 --> 00:08:37,299 job. It's a baby in a river. 169 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:41,299 You don't think that mother is making duaa to Allah and notice 170 00:08:41,299 --> 00:08:43,400 the difference. In that case, in the case of 171 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,700 Moses mother she makes to Allah to Allah in a few hours later. 172 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,000 She is reunited with her son, just a few hours later. 173 00:08:50,100 --> 00:08:53,200 Later by the time the baby is hungry for the next meal. 174 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:57,000 He's back with his mother and in the other case, with the case of 175 00:08:57,000 --> 00:09:00,500 Yusuf alayhi Salam, he was separated from his father, but 176 00:09:00,500 --> 00:09:02,200 he wasn't reunited with his father. 177 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:07,100 For many years for many, many years we are going to go through 178 00:09:07,100 --> 00:09:11,300 difficulty in life and are all of our problems are not going to 179 00:09:11,300 --> 00:09:15,200 be solved because we made a Dua to Allah, understand the reality 180 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,000 of Dora. What is the purpose of dawn? 181 00:09:17,800 --> 00:09:20,900 We often consult, we often confuse. 182 00:09:20,900 --> 00:09:25,300 The ha with Talib Taliban Arabic means to ask for something. 183 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:31,100 To demand something. Dora means literally to call. 184 00:09:31,900 --> 00:09:34,500 That's what it means. The out to come. 185 00:09:34,500 --> 00:09:36,400 I called you. I invited you. 186 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:41,300 I cried out to you. This is Dora when we make duaa 187 00:09:41,300 --> 00:09:44,300 to Allah, sometimes in that do how we are making demands, it's 188 00:09:44,300 --> 00:09:47,200 true. We're making requests but we 189 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,300 should never forget that all of those requests. 190 00:09:49,300 --> 00:09:51,900 You know, what they are at the end of the day, it's a humble 191 00:09:51,900 --> 00:09:57,000 slave of Allah, turning back to Allah and begging Allah to help 192 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,000 him with whatever problems. Mmm, but it's more than Allah 193 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:02,800 solving your problem. It's just the act that you 194 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,200 communicated with a lot. That's the most valuable thing. 195 00:10:06,100 --> 00:10:09,100 The fact that you actually Engage The Lion conversation 196 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:13,600 that is the goal in the end, whether or not Allah will solve 197 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:16,400 your problem. Media, immediately is a separate 198 00:10:16,400 --> 00:10:18,500 problem, and I want to share just a quick thing about that 199 00:10:18,500 --> 00:10:22,300 than I come to Muhammad Ali. Sometimes you go through 200 00:10:22,300 --> 00:10:24,700 problems and you ask yourself, what is my fault in all of this? 201 00:10:24,700 --> 00:10:26,300 Why do I have to go through this problems? 202 00:10:26,700 --> 00:10:28,300 What did I do to deserve this? Yes. 203 00:10:29,700 --> 00:10:33,200 Let me ask you this Yusuf Ali Salim was a child right? 204 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:38,100 A Child by definition is innocent What did the child do 205 00:10:38,100 --> 00:10:42,300 to deserve being kidnapped? What is the child ever done to 206 00:10:42,300 --> 00:10:45,600 deserve being thrown inside of a well in the middle of the woods? 207 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:50,300 What is it child ever done to deserve being sold as a child 208 00:10:50,300 --> 00:10:54,500 slave in a different land? What is that yet? 209 00:10:54,500 --> 00:10:57,900 When he grows up as a young man, what did he ever do to deserve 210 00:10:57,900 --> 00:11:01,500 being thrown in jail? Over a false accusation. 211 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,300 And he spent many years in jail, not because of something he did, 212 00:11:04,300 --> 00:11:08,200 he was innocent and he spent all those years in June, he went 213 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,000 through situations in life. That if anybody else went 214 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,100 through those situations, you'll say life is unfair man. 215 00:11:13,100 --> 00:11:15,400 Where you going to do? Life is unfair. 216 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:19,200 You know but you know what happens to a Believer. 217 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,700 They don't just say life is unfair. 218 00:11:20,700 --> 00:11:24,300 They say Allah is unfair Allah Allah I did that to him yet. 219 00:11:24,300 --> 00:11:27,600 Allah says, in Surah yousuf, Allahu Hollywood Allah Allah was 220 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,600 overlooking everything he did in his decision. 221 00:11:29,700 --> 00:11:32,400 Every decision that was made for use of Allah was dominating that 222 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:36,100 decision overlooking? That decision how sometimes you 223 00:11:36,100 --> 00:11:39,000 and I go through difficulty because Allah knows something 224 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,800 better is coming. Sometimes that better thing that 225 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:45,600 is coming is for you. Sometimes it's for somebody 226 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,100 else. Sometimes, it's not for you, 227 00:11:48,300 --> 00:11:51,500 sometimes it's for somebody else, sometimes the benefit of 228 00:11:51,500 --> 00:11:53,300 your difficulty will come back to you. 229 00:11:53,500 --> 00:11:56,600 The return will come back to you, while you are still alive. 230 00:11:57,500 --> 00:12:00,000 Sometimes the return is meant to come back to you. 231 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:03,800 After you go, go back to Allah. What happened with you so far. 232 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,100 Lisa, my father was separated from a child. 233 00:12:06,100 --> 00:12:10,800 It's a tragedy, isn't it? But imagine if he was never 234 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,400 kidnapped, he would never be in the will, if he was never in the 235 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,600 well, he would never end up in Egypt. 236 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:19,500 If he was never in Egypt, he would have never grown up there 237 00:12:19,500 --> 00:12:22,900 and been thrown into prison. If he was never in prison, he 238 00:12:22,900 --> 00:12:24,300 would have never met those two guys. 239 00:12:24,300 --> 00:12:27,500 He met in prison whose dream, he interpreted, if he never met 240 00:12:27,500 --> 00:12:30,400 those two people, one of them who got to live and go back to 241 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:34,400 the king and when the king saw a dream a strange dream he would 242 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,400 have never said wait I know someone who can help interpret 243 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,200 your dream and If that never happened and you know what? 244 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:44,200 That dream was seven, good years in the country and seven years, 245 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:47,500 there's not going to be any crop and he produce any Harvest. 246 00:12:47,500 --> 00:12:51,800 People are going to starve to death if Yusuf was not in prison 247 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,600 and he Salam. And then was taken out to 248 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,300 interpret that dream. At that time, there would have 249 00:12:57,300 --> 00:13:03,100 been an economic Financial social crisis in the country and 250 00:13:03,100 --> 00:13:05,600 hundreds of thousands of children would have starved to 251 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:09,300 death. One child suffered for a few 252 00:13:09,300 --> 00:13:13,000 years but because of that child suffering Allah, as plan was to 253 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,200 save a lot of families. A lot of fathers and mothers 254 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:19,300 from losing their children to starvation because of the plan 255 00:13:19,300 --> 00:13:21,700 that Yusuf alayhi Salam. Came back when he interpreted 256 00:13:21,700 --> 00:13:23,500 the dream and interpreted the dream and gave. 257 00:13:23,700 --> 00:13:26,900 When he became the treasurer, I have a friend, some of you might 258 00:13:26,900 --> 00:13:28,800 have heard of him. His name is Robert Davila. 259 00:13:29,500 --> 00:13:31,700 I asked the sister about him. If she knows it, when she said, 260 00:13:31,700 --> 00:13:35,200 yes she's heard of him, the man can't move any part of his body 261 00:13:35,700 --> 00:13:37,900 other than his face. He can't move any part of his 262 00:13:37,900 --> 00:13:39,900 body. What did he ever do to deserve 263 00:13:39,900 --> 00:13:43,400 that nothing? But how many people have 264 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:46,700 accepted Islam? Because of his disability? 265 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:51,000 How many people have just heard about that and have come back to 266 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,800 Allah? How many people that were 267 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,700 ungrateful in life even though they were Muslim, they were only 268 00:13:55,700 --> 00:13:58,800 Muslim by name and decided to submit their heart back to 269 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:00,700 Allah. Because that man is sitting in a 270 00:14:00,708 --> 00:14:06,000 bed His suffering, his pain becomes guidance from millions 271 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:10,200 of people, you understand sometimes the difficulty you and 272 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:14,400 I go through is actually a small price to pay for a lot of, hey, 273 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,800 a lot of good that will either come to me now or it will come 274 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,600 to me in the ahead. I will come to me after I go 275 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,000 back to Allah. So, our drawers are not the same 276 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,000 as placing an order. Now, I get to Maryam Salam 277 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,400 alaihi, and I really, when she spoke to me, I remembered her 278 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,600 because the thing with Maryam salami, how was work even when 279 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:36,300 she was young, her birth was strange. 280 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,800 It was mentioned in the Quran. Not many people's birth is 281 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,700 mentioned in the Quran. And, you know, the mother was 282 00:14:41,700 --> 00:14:44,600 expecting a son but she had a daughter instead. 283 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,400 And Allah says, they said the karuk alonza, you know, which 284 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:50,500 has a multiple multiple layers of meaning but I'll just 285 00:14:50,500 --> 00:14:53,600 highlight Not one of them. This boy this girl is like no 286 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,500 other boy. This girl is special and by the 287 00:14:56,500 --> 00:14:58,200 way please remember those words next time? 288 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,400 Any of you if you're expecting a child and that you were hoping 289 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,300 and your mother was hoping and your father was hoping and your 290 00:15:04,300 --> 00:15:07,300 extended cousins were hoping, it's going to be a son and you 291 00:15:07,300 --> 00:15:10,200 have a daughter. You remember that Allah didn't 292 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,700 highlight the birth of a child like he did the worth of Maryam 293 00:15:12,700 --> 00:15:15,300 salaam alaikum. It's an honor to have a 294 00:15:15,300 --> 00:15:17,300 daughter. It's a gift of Allah to have a 295 00:15:17,300 --> 00:15:22,100 daughter, and it's actually the behavior of the Eddie Coon to be 296 00:15:22,100 --> 00:15:26,300 upset that you had a daughter. What language who most want than 297 00:15:26,300 --> 00:15:29,400 one who work at him. His face turns dark and he's 298 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,500 depressed. This swallowing his upset 299 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,500 attitude because he had a he had a girl girls are a blessing from 300 00:15:35,500 --> 00:15:38,500 Allah azzawajal an honor and said disrespect not only of the 301 00:15:38,500 --> 00:15:41,700 gift of Allah but of the ayat of the Quran, when you're upset 302 00:15:41,700 --> 00:15:44,300 that you had a daughter you should we should be mindful of 303 00:15:44,300 --> 00:15:46,400 that. But that's on a side note, this 304 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,700 child is born. She's actually given a special 305 00:15:48,700 --> 00:15:52,300 place in what was then the central House of Allah. 306 00:15:53,100 --> 00:15:55,900 And zakariya alehissallaam used to take care of her and every 307 00:15:55,900 --> 00:15:59,200 time he used to come to visit her, to make sure she's doing 308 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:02,100 okay, because she was dedicated living in the house of Allah. 309 00:16:03,300 --> 00:16:08,400 Good Lama Dalai has a career in the hottest and every time he'd 310 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:12,800 walk in he'd see, fruits food in front of her and he said where 311 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:14,800 did you get these fruits? These fruits, a don't even grow 312 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,300 here. And these fruits aren't even 313 00:16:17,300 --> 00:16:20,700 from this season. These fruits grow in the winter. 314 00:16:20,700 --> 00:16:22,500 This was going to some, are you have them in offseason? 315 00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:25,700 Where did you get them from? She would respond collet who 316 00:16:25,700 --> 00:16:28,500 have been in the LA. These come especially from 317 00:16:28,500 --> 00:16:31,600 Allah, these fruits come to me from Allah. 318 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:35,400 Imagine somebody who's doing. Pause are answered in a way that 319 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,400 special delivery from the sky of food for this woman. 320 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:42,400 And so when the sister was telling me her daughter's get 321 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,000 answered in life. I remembered mudiyum said I'm an 322 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:48,400 ally and how miraculously Allah would intervene and provide for 323 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:50,500 even matters? Like food things that we can get 324 00:16:50,500 --> 00:16:52,700 up and get ourselves. She didn't even have to get up 325 00:16:52,700 --> 00:16:55,700 for that. Very special child, very special 326 00:16:55,700 --> 00:16:59,400 woman. And so about this woman, what I 327 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:01,800 wanted to share with you is later on in life, what happens 328 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:04,400 to her. When she's a young woman Angels, 329 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,599 visit her, tell her that she's going to have a child. 330 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,500 The first thought in her mind. I'm not married. 331 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,500 How what do you mean? I'm going to have a child. 332 00:17:14,500 --> 00:17:17,599 Let me, I'm Sesame. Bashar, no man has ever touched 333 00:17:17,599 --> 00:17:19,800 me. What in the world do you mean? 334 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,200 I'm going to have a child together, a leaky color who are 335 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,099 Ibuki? That is how your master declared 336 00:17:26,099 --> 00:17:28,500 it. It's, I'm sorry, we're just here 337 00:17:28,500 --> 00:17:31,200 to deliver the news. We're not here to negotiate. 338 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:32,900 Whether this is going to happen or not. 339 00:17:32,900 --> 00:17:37,500 That decision has been made. You're having a baby Now she's 340 00:17:37,500 --> 00:17:38,900 in shock. What am I going to do? 341 00:17:39,900 --> 00:17:42,400 She's going to turn back to Allah and hope that this will 342 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:44,500 not happen to her, which it's going to happen. 343 00:17:45,300 --> 00:17:47,300 And I'll fast forward a little bit for you. 344 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:49,700 Just so you appreciate what happened to this woman. 345 00:17:50,100 --> 00:17:54,800 After she had the baby after, she had the baby and she came 346 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:59,000 back to her town. The entire community that looked 347 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:03,300 up to her as a as a Haida as a spiritual Woman as a woman of 348 00:18:03,300 --> 00:18:06,300 worship and I bother someone who even the prophet of their 349 00:18:06,300 --> 00:18:09,000 community. Academia had endorsed, she will. 350 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,500 She grew up under the tutelage of zakariya alehsalaam, all the 351 00:18:12,500 --> 00:18:14,700 Masjid Community is standing there. 352 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:19,900 She's walking back with a baby and they all start collectively 353 00:18:19,900 --> 00:18:23,300 together. Start humiliating How could you 354 00:18:23,300 --> 00:18:25,600 do this? What have you done? 355 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:29,800 Can you there are there women in the gym are today? 356 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:35,200 No Muslim woman. No Muslim woman can ever imagine 357 00:18:35,300 --> 00:18:39,300 being in a situation where she's holding a baby and somebody's 358 00:18:39,300 --> 00:18:41,100 telling her that child is not legitimate. 359 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,700 She cannot imagine that kind of humiliation. 360 00:18:45,200 --> 00:18:48,200 No muslim and none of us can imagine that kind of accusation 361 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:51,200 for our sister, for our mother, for our daughter. 362 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,400 We cannot imagine that pain is beyond us. 363 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:59,800 For the human for the Muslim, our dignity is greater to us 364 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:03,400 than our life. Are the sense of dignity. 365 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:06,300 Allah give it has given us is more valuable to us than even 366 00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:09,700 our life. And she knows that when she goes 367 00:19:09,700 --> 00:19:11,900 back with this baby, that's what they're going to say. 368 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,500 It's one thing that they might be saying it behind her back 369 00:19:15,500 --> 00:19:18,300 there, saying it in public in front of her in front of her. 370 00:19:19,300 --> 00:19:22,200 Now I want to take you back to how she dealt with this problem 371 00:19:22,500 --> 00:19:25,400 because no amount of Doha she made is going to change. 372 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,700 What Allah has decided. Allah has decided that she has 373 00:19:27,700 --> 00:19:30,100 to face this. She has to stand in front of 374 00:19:30,100 --> 00:19:32,600 this. And what does she do? 375 00:19:33,300 --> 00:19:36,300 When the child comes as she's about to deliver the child? 376 00:19:36,500 --> 00:19:38,500 She says? Yeah, you can admit to cobbler 377 00:19:38,500 --> 00:19:46,100 hase. she says, if only if only I could die before this happens, 378 00:19:47,300 --> 00:19:52,800 Hopefully, I die giving birth. That's she's it's all on her 379 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:56,300 mind because that will be an easy escape from what is coming. 380 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,400 There is no other place in the Quran. 381 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:04,100 Anybody ever wish for death? This is the only one think about 382 00:20:04,100 --> 00:20:06,000 that. Why is it there? 383 00:20:06,500 --> 00:20:08,100 Allah azza. Wajal is acknowledging that 384 00:20:08,100 --> 00:20:11,800 sometimes people go through such traumatic, humiliating 385 00:20:11,900 --> 00:20:14,300 situations, where they wish they were dead. 386 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,500 Even that happens, that's how extreme her situation became, 387 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,300 and a like knowledge that and recorded that in the Quran. 388 00:20:21,300 --> 00:20:24,600 Yah late enemy to come the Hada. I read this and I was just in 389 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,900 shock. Like, how did she just say that? 390 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,500 You know, our messenger, I didn't salatu was-salam told us, 391 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:33,800 Nia Tom, and Ariana had a who I had to come out. 392 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,600 None of you should ever wish for that. 393 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,800 You should not wish for death. That's not something you should 394 00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,800 say casually. And she's actually now wishing 395 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:44,900 for death. Why? 396 00:20:44,900 --> 00:20:49,300 Because this is an extreme case. This is a crazy situation. 397 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:54,400 And so, you know, the humiliation she will face is far 398 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:56,700 worse than death. So she says, she'll eat any meat 399 00:20:56,700 --> 00:20:59,800 table. There are going to be this is in 400 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,300 the Quran for a reason. There are going to be people 401 00:21:02,300 --> 00:21:04,700 that are going to be in humiliating situations and 402 00:21:04,700 --> 00:21:07,500 there's no getting out of it. There are going to be people 403 00:21:07,500 --> 00:21:10,100 that are going to have to face their family that are going to 404 00:21:10,100 --> 00:21:13,700 have to face false accusations that are going to have to face 405 00:21:13,700 --> 00:21:15,900 up to a mistake, they made in the past who knows? 406 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,900 And they're going to have to face that kind of trauma. 407 00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,500 And they'll have to find comfort in the example of Maryam, 408 00:21:21,500 --> 00:21:24,100 selamun Alia, but she didn't stop there. 409 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:28,000 She said, well couldn't do not. See am Lancia two words Nessie. 410 00:21:28,100 --> 00:21:33,400 Ian Mencia, it was incredible words Nessie in Arabic, they say 411 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:36,400 file and fill these two thousand, they say Niecy. 412 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,300 Also in one car ignition. Another carelessness. 413 00:21:39,300 --> 00:21:44,500 Ian, this is similar to dip. The in the Arabic language, you 414 00:21:44,500 --> 00:21:46,900 have two kinds of words and Diplo and must War. 415 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:52,000 Nessie and Muncie. The first of these words is 416 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,000 actually used, I wrote this down for you. 417 00:21:54,700 --> 00:21:59,900 Well are you alluding capture live in LA orientalism For an 418 00:21:59,900 --> 00:22:03,700 animal for a goat or a ram. You don't call it dip back until 419 00:22:03,700 --> 00:22:06,600 it's ready to be slaughtered. It hasn't been slaughtered yet 420 00:22:07,100 --> 00:22:10,300 once it is slaughtered. It's called the be it's called 421 00:22:10,300 --> 00:22:13,000 mu not before before it's called them. 422 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,100 She uses two words, common translation say I wish I was 423 00:22:17,100 --> 00:22:18,600 dead. I wish I was forgotten. 424 00:22:19,100 --> 00:22:20,300 That's what the translation says. 425 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,200 But there are two words of being forgotten. 426 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:26,100 One of those words, nescient actually means I wish even 427 00:22:26,100 --> 00:22:27,800 though because she's away from the mustard, right? 428 00:22:28,300 --> 00:22:29,400 She's not back home. Home. 429 00:22:30,100 --> 00:22:33,400 I hope nobody ever misses me. They don't even ask the 430 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:34,700 question. Where did Maryam go? 431 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,700 I wish I could be invisible. Forgotten from people's memories 432 00:22:38,700 --> 00:22:42,600 right now and nobody even has the thought of me, this is 433 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:46,100 Nessie. Nobody even thinks I existed 434 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,600 there are people that go through the kind of depression and 435 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:52,000 anxiety where they don't come out of home, they don't leave 436 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,800 home, they don't pick up phone calls, they don't answer or text 437 00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,000 messages, they get anxious being around people, they're going 438 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,500 through so much trouble. AMA that they wish they were 439 00:23:00,500 --> 00:23:03,000 forgotten as a matter of fact, even if somebody knocks on the 440 00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,100 door, they say, I wish they didn't remember me. 441 00:23:05,700 --> 00:23:07,300 I wish I didn't have to face anybody. 442 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,100 They want to just crawl away away away away. 443 00:23:10,100 --> 00:23:12,700 But just be by themselves. This is nescient. 444 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,200 And I'm and she's hoping already that she dies and nobody even 445 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,300 comes looking. And then later on, even if years 446 00:23:20,300 --> 00:23:24,400 go by and nobody found out what happened to her, when seein, 447 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,300 she's completely forgotten, there's no memory of her in the 448 00:23:27,300 --> 00:23:30,500 future either. I hope nobody thinks of me right 449 00:23:30,500 --> 00:23:32,700 now and I become invisible in the future. 450 00:23:32,700 --> 00:23:37,000 Also, I wanted to highlight This Woman's trial because this is a 451 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,200 woman of drama whose daughter has used to get answered 452 00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,000 immediately. She used to didn't even have to 453 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,600 ask for food and in years to come and this is the situation a 454 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:48,400 lot puttering. This is the trial that Allah put 455 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,500 her think about that. This is not because Allah hates 456 00:23:51,500 --> 00:23:53,400 her. This is not because a lot forgot 457 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,200 about her. This is not because Allah wants 458 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,400 to humiliate her, this is actually all of this. 459 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,900 Ended up becoming a la honoring her. 460 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,700 All of this became a la honoring her. 461 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,900 What was her humiliation? Her humiliation was people are 462 00:24:06,900 --> 00:24:09,600 going to say you had this child without being married. 463 00:24:09,900 --> 00:24:12,100 You had a harem child. That's what people are going to 464 00:24:12,108 --> 00:24:13,900 say and what was the child's name? 465 00:24:13,900 --> 00:24:18,300 You know, his name was Elisa. There is no other prophet and 466 00:24:18,300 --> 00:24:22,000 the Quran who when Allah mentions their name, he honors 467 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:28,100 their parents also. Except Lisa, he's of no Maryam 468 00:24:28,100 --> 00:24:30,300 is happening. Maryam, he's helping them over 469 00:24:30,300 --> 00:24:32,900 and over again. He saw the son of Maryam. 470 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:36,200 He saw the son of Maryam. Do you find Muhammad, the son of 471 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:41,100 Abdullah? Do you find Yahoo the son of his 472 00:24:41,100 --> 00:24:44,200 hack is hack? The son of Abraham use of the 473 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,700 son of your community. You find these? 474 00:24:45,700 --> 00:24:50,400 No, no, every time a lot Honors that messenger and they start or 475 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,400 not every time a multiple times, when a lot Honors that 476 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,500 messenger, he honors his Other. And by the way, this is 477 00:24:56,500 --> 00:24:58,200 important. Because for the Arabs, when you 478 00:24:58,208 --> 00:25:02,100 say even and for the eve of the somatic people, when you say, 479 00:25:02,100 --> 00:25:04,900 even right after Eben, you mentioned the father's name. 480 00:25:06,300 --> 00:25:09,600 You mentioned the father's name, your last name comes from your 481 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,700 father. Allah goes out of his way to 482 00:25:12,700 --> 00:25:17,100 remind people that know he has no father and we are going to go 483 00:25:17,100 --> 00:25:19,700 out of our way to honor that mother at a sub. 484 00:25:19,700 --> 00:25:23,500 No, Maryam every time Allah mentioned that humiliation for 485 00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:24,900 another reason and I close with that. 486 00:25:24,900 --> 00:25:28,600 I told you last time and earlier on in this club are sometimes, 487 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,800 your pain is going to be a relief for other people. 488 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:36,800 You're going through difficulty because it's meant to Serve a 489 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,500 greater cause than yourself and you will be the sabotage area 490 00:25:39,500 --> 00:25:41,300 for them. You'll be aware of goodness for 491 00:25:41,300 --> 00:25:44,800 them. This is the pain of medium Sarah 492 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,500 Maria every time a woman has humiliated every time a woman 493 00:25:48,500 --> 00:25:53,100 has falsely accused every time a woman wishes she was dead then 494 00:25:53,100 --> 00:25:54,900 to face what she's supposed to face. 495 00:25:55,300 --> 00:25:58,300 Then she's going to find comfort in erisa in medium salaam 496 00:25:58,300 --> 00:26:02,100 alaikum and every time she finds that Comfort the rank of Maryam 497 00:26:02,100 --> 00:26:06,300 rises again and again and again and again Hannah Le Our 498 00:26:06,300 --> 00:26:09,700 daughters are a means by which we connect to Allah are, those 499 00:26:09,700 --> 00:26:13,000 are not a means by which this world becomes Heaven, this world 500 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,800 is going to be full of Trials, people. 501 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:17,200 That were much better than we are had difficulty in life. 502 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:20,100 That's okay. The colloquial in sanofi Chabad, 503 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,400 we created all human beings and toil and labor and struggle. 504 00:26:23,500 --> 00:26:26,900 Struggle is a part of life, the purpose of the law is to help 505 00:26:26,900 --> 00:26:29,800 you and me deal with those struggles and to never forget 506 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,200 that Allah is with us. Whether it's hard times or easy 507 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,300 times may Allah would have not because people that lose faith 508 00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:37,400 in Allah. As always, you'll honor us and 509 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:40,500 and make help us remember that no matter how much people try to 510 00:26:40,500 --> 00:26:43,500 humiliate you, people try to put you down, people insult. 511 00:26:43,500 --> 00:26:45,200 You like it in medium said, I'm gonna be huh? 512 00:26:45,300 --> 00:26:47,500 Allah still honors. You there's a big difference 513 00:26:47,500 --> 00:26:50,200 between what people say about you and what Allah thinks about 514 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:51,700 you. Because if you go up by what 515 00:26:51,700 --> 00:26:55,100 people said, then Maryam was the most humiliated insulted person 516 00:26:55,100 --> 00:26:57,500 in society. And if you go by what Allah says 517 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,100 she's one of the most honored women in all of human history. 518 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,900 So we go by what Allah says, Allah is the one who honored us. 519 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,500 We'll look at coronavirus Adam. We honored the children of Adam 520 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,100 You may Allah azzawajal make us dignified before Allah azzawajal 521 00:27:09,100 --> 00:27:10,600 before he makes his dignified before. 522 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,700 People markkula who developed until Colonel Hakim, whatever 523 00:27:13,700 --> 00:27:15,500 anyway accountability, what's it called? 524 00:27:15,500 --> 00:27:26,200 Hakeem Ahima Cafe was salatu. Was-salam ala nabina, Muhammad 525 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:27,200 Ali. He was in a lot. 526 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:39,100 A lot, a lot.