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Hi, this is Dave Olson. 
I'm the senior leader of 

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Heartland Church located in 
Ankeny, IA. 

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I hope the following message 
challenges, encourages and 

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ultimately changes you. 
Thanks for joining us. 

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All right. 
This morning we have a real 

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treat. 
We are going to have Dave and 

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Ashley Van de Zander sculpt, is 
that right? 

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Got it. 
Affectionately known as Dave and

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Ashley V because it's hard to 
pronounce that name, but they 

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are elders here and we just love
them and they are involved in 

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foster care. 
And so I wanted them to talk. 

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We, you know, usually we do a 
missions emphasis around this 

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time of year and we do missions 
work all over the world. 

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We send out teams, we support 
missionaries, support projects 

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around the world. 
But one of the most needy 

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projects in the United States 
and in this generation is Foster

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and adoptive care. 
You know, my wife and I were 

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talking the other day, you know,
we worked for Teen Challenge for

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many years. 
And she was just, she said it 

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this way. 
She said, you know, it's so 

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often these guys that were 
coming into Teen Challenge, 

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they, it was like they were born
without one of their legs. 

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And everybody expected them to 
keep up with everyone else. 

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They they were, they started off
behind the herd because they 

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were born into a family that was
already struggling. 

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And there is such a thing as 
generational sin, iniquity, 

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generational righteousness, that
when kids are born into a home 

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where there's not that Christian
witness, where they're, you 

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know, a mom or a dad is 
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And you see that play out 
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And it just, it's snowballs. 
And the kids that are born into 

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that often they, they, they're 
lagging behind, they're 

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struggling. 
And we need to have tremendous 

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compassion and realize that we 
are the answer. 

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But here's the awesome thing. 
You know, some of you saw the 

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podcast I did with my dad 
recently and my dad, we were, 

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our family was the poster child 
of dysfunction and woundedness, 

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just devastation. 
But my mom and my dad met Jesus.

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My dad as a 15 year old kid got 
saved, radically saved. 

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His wild stepmother got on 
religious kick for a couple of 

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weeks and said, you're going to 
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dropped him off and it changed 
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So it just takes one generation.
And my, well, I was interviewing

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my dad, My dad, he's 83 years 
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And all of a sudden he cracked 
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He, he, he started to cry 
because he remembered when he 

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was about 6 years old, there was
a family that was near him out 

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in the country, up in northern 
Minnesota that would drive out 

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of their way in the winter 
weather to pick up my dad and 

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his siblings and take him to 
church. 

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That family never knew the 
impact it had on the generations

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of my family. 
I'm the recipient of their 

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intervention. 
And the fact is that Psalm, 

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Psalm 68, it says this God sets 
the lonely in families. 

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That's how the NIV says it. 
The ESV says God settles the 

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isolated into households that 
beautiful. 

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When God does that, he needs a 
family to volunteer. 

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And there is such a need in our 
nation right now for these kids,

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these displaced children, even 
if it's just for a few nights, a

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few weeks, a few months to 
experience what a godly 

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functional family is like and to
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You know, as the pastor, I'll 
know different times where 

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there's foster families in the 
congregation that perhaps they, 

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you know, there's 
confidentiality. 

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Other people don't know. 
But I'll know that little child 

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in those arms is a foster child.
And I tell you, every time I see

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a mom up here or a dad up here 
worshiping with one of those 

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little ones, it breaks me. 
I start boohoo. 

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And because I know the impact it
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that they'll never be the same 
because they encountered 

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godliness, they encountered 
love, they encountered healthy 

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emotional environment. 
And that's the opportunity that 

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we have. 
So I'm going to quit talking and

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I'm going to ask Dave and Ashley
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Let's give them a hand. 
I love these guys. 

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They are elders in this house 
and we just love them. 

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Good morning. 
All right, the next 40 minutes 

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we're all going to learn how to 
say Van de Zandt sculpt 

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together. 
We we need more than 40 minutes 

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for that. 
Hey, thanks for having us this 

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morning. 
Ashley and I are really excited 

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to be here and just share what 
God has done in our lives. 

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You know, First Corinthians 
talks about order in the church 

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and there are songs, hymns and 
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There's times of sharing and 
this is one of those mornings 

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where we're going to share. 
It's going to feel a little bit 

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unconventional. 
And so we're excited to share 

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with you what God has done in 
our lives. 

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But before we do that, I joke 
there's the right pre Trib, post

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Trib. 
There's the pre COVID church and

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the post COVID church. 
We've been coming to Heartland 

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for a long time. 
So we started coming here in 

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20/10/2011 and Ashley and I got 
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So we've been married 15 years. 
And so if you, oh, thank you, 

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thank you. 
I showed this picture to start 

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us off because if you're 
thinking that these guys look so

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young up here, this is the 
definition of babies behind us. 

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So Ash has got a few more. 
We didn't get married in high 

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school. 
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We were 21. 
So quick story. 

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The first time we came to 
Heartland was around this time 

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frame. 
And on entering in the door, 

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someone invited me to youth 
group because they thought I 

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look like I should be in the 
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So I said, can Ashley come to 
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And then they never asked me 
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But anyways, we're excited to 
share with you all so you may 

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see us around. 
We helping Kingdom kids and 

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usher and lots of different 
things. 

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If we don't know you, come say 
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We'd love to meet you. 
So come talk to us afterwards. 

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But we've got three things that 
we would love for you to walk 

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away with this morning. 
I've got a clicker, so I'm going

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to be clicking along here. 
As Pastor Dave said, October was

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missions month when you're a 
believer, every month's missions

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month. 
So we're going to carry that 

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forward into November here and 
talk about unconventional 

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missions, living missionally 
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adoption. 
And so the three things that I 

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would love all of you to walk 
away with, there we go. 

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We like to do acronyms and have 
things organized here. 

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So the three ES, we'd love for 
you to be encouraged, educated 

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and empowered. 
Thank you, Kara. 

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I promise I've done this before.
Oh, too fast. 

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We'll just pretend that it's on 
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So there we go. 
Encourage and educate and 

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empower. 
We want you to be encouraged. 

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So we're going to start with 
sharing a little bit of our 

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testimony. 
We would love for you to be 

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educated. 
So part of today is we are going

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to share some statistics. 
What are the needs within the 

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state of Iowa and across the 
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And most importantly, we want 
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What is your role and how can 
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within that? 
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believe some of the most 
powerful truths in Scripture 

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start with simplicity of the 
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And so this whole setup for 
today, I just want to start with

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two. 
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talk really fast the next 35 
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want to dive in, in two 
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God's mission, Formula 1 + 1. 
Here God speaks. 

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We know here in John 1027 that 
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OK? 
He knowing his voice implies 

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that God speaks. 
Anybody believe that God speaks?

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All right, you guys are in the 
right church this morning, so 

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we're glad that you're here. 
But there's another part to play

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in that. 
When God speaks, it's for a 

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purpose. 
He wants to bring his Kingdom of

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heaven into earth. 
And so we have John 1415, which 

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talks about love and obedience. 
If you love me, you'll obey my 

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commands. 
And the Lord doesn't just speak 

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for things to feel nice, even 
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it's ultimately to call us into 
action, into love and obedience.

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And so we'll revisit this a 
little bit throughout the next 

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several minutes here. 
But hold on to those truths for 

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just a second. 
And Ashley's going to talk about

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what God has done in our lives 
this last six years. 

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Good morning, heartland. 
You weren't expecting this duo, 

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but this is what you get. 
So blessings. 

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So I get to share a little bit 
about our journey of foster care

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and adoption. 
Very strangely, I knew as young 

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as 10-12 years old that I wanted
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We didn't have a lot of foster 
families or stories of adoption 

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around us, but I just had a 
knowing. 

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I kind of had to know when I was
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panned out. 
And so Fast forward, I go to 

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Iowa State, find me a good 
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And I flat out told the 
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adopt. 
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Christian boy, he said that's 
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And this is, this is not dating 
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Don't tell your boyfriend's 
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But you know what, I married him
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mortgage paid for. 
And so we got married, which you

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saw before, I think we met on a 
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Also, don't date on a mission 
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This is not advice. 
So you see us there as babies. 

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And so we graduated college, 
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we had our first son, River. 
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had Raya. 
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Raleigh. 
And our Christmas card was 

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really cute. 
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But I still had in the back of 
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And so a couple years go by and 
Dave comes home from work and he

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walks in the door and he said, 
the Lord told me we were 

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supposed to adopt. 
And my jaw dropped and I looked 

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to Jesus and I'm like, what? 
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nag. 
I didn't have to beg or anything

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like that. 
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And so in 2020, keep that in 
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foster care classes. 
We had had foster families 

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around us. 
We knew that the goal of foster 

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care is not adoption, but we 
were OK with loving little ones 

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for a small season if they were 
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family or somewhere else. 
And so January through March, we

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took classes. 
It's for 8 weeks, 3 hours, one 

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night a week. 
And by March 2020, we had our 

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foster care license in the mail.
Well, what happened in 2020? 

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COVID, COVID happened. 
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furloughed half of their 
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And all of a sudden, we were not
financial financially stable 

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enough to do foster care. 
And so there was some confusion 

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with that. 
Lord, why is this happening? 

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Meanwhile, we have been praying 
and the words North Carolina 

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kept coming up for the last two 
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And so as a Dave is applying all
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Texas, some in North Carolina, 
we kept praying into it and 

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strange things would happen. 
Strange as in the Holy Spirit, 

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I'd be praying about it. 
And then a country song with 

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Carolinas would come on. 
Or I was driving one day and 

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praying, and right in front of 
me in Ankeny, IA is a motorcycle

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with North Carolina plates. 
Like, that's weird. 

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And then I was talking to a 
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And on the phone, she's like, 
Oh, yeah, we moved here from 

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North Carolina. 
And this was happening to Dave 

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in different ways. 
I mean, commercials were coming 

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on that would talk about North 
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So we were sure that God was 
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And the only job offer Dave got 
was from a company in Raleigh, 

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NC. 
And so we have this faith, this 

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surety that we're supposed to 
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And we thought in our heads, 
because we're a little fleshly 

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and want to figure out the why 
that maybe it was for adoption. 

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And so we moved in faith and you
have to live there six months 

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because before you start 
applying to be foster parents or

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adoptive parents. 
We decided to only do adopt 

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because our support system was 
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We didn't have friends or 
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We, we didn't have a single 
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biological kids in North 
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So we applied to these agencies 
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kept shutting. 
Nope, we only need foster 

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parents. 
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So we're like, why are we here? 
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And so couple months later, Dave
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anywhere in the US. 
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missing our family, let's move 
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So it felt like the Lord moving 
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Lord told us to go there, but I 
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And so things would happen. 
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school my kids went to in Des 
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And if you know anything about 
private schools, they're full by

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March. 
And I said, could you get my 

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kids in? 
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And then they called me a week 
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And I said, ha, my teaching 
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But at that time there was a 
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Department of Education and they

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said, sure, if you show us a 
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we'll give you an extension. 
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school. 
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the buyer of our North Carolina 
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I was like, God, what are you 
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Then two weeks later, a week 
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was, the Lord sold the house for
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buyer. 
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that moment. 
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North Carolina, my sister and 
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foster care classes and had 
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So it was not uncommon for us to
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birthday parties. 
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there with them. 
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for as long as they were with 
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So about a year after we moved 
back to Iowa, my sister walks in

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the kitchen with a little little
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And I said, how's her case 
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And she says I don't know. 
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thinking out came my mouth. 
We'll take her. 

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She looked at me strange and I 
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talk to Dave. 
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husband and my husband very 
coldly says, give me a week to 

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pray about it. 
I don't want you talking to me 

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about it. 
And my spirit sank and I'm like,

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how do you not know there's a 
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She needs a home. 
We have a home. 

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Like how can you not know this 
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In my head, I just lost, lost it
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A week later, my husband comes 
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imagine not loving this little 
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And we move on with becoming 
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And so the Lord put me in my 
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just had to do a home study at 
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So we zoomed through paperwork, 
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interviewed us, and we were 
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Now there are different rules 
and regulations to become a 

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foster parent. 
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told us we would not be able to 
take this little girl due to our

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medical status. 
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this, but I did hang up on 
someone in that fight to get 

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this little girl. 
I'm not proud of it, but 

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probably do it again. 
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no, no, no. 
And I kept saying yes, yes, yes.

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And I got the opportunity to 
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Human services, Kelly Garcia. 
She's doing great things right 

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now and really supporting 
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involved. 
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the struggles that are going on 
for people becoming licensed as 

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foster parents. 
And so anyway, the Lord worked 

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it all out. 
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little girl came and lived with 
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And so my daughter, she's back 
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She was 7 at the time. 
She had been praying for her 

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sister for about 5 years. 
The Lord gave her two brothers, 

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which she was not pleased about.
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praying for her sister. 
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our three biological children 
that we were headed on the route

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for adoption, I watched my 7 
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deep, heartfelt love that God 
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And it was one of the most 
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There was some, you know, trial 
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I remember that season, we were 
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I was sick. 
I had to have a CAT scan during 

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that time and just headaches and
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And I, I look back now and think
Satan doesn't like adoption. 

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He doesn't like foster care and 
he's going to try to throw 

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everything at you. 
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what to name her. 
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going to name her Rosie. 
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And he's like, I don't know. 
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dream that I had five years 
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And in the dream I got this word
that said biracial. 

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And you know, at Heartland here,
we have pretty words when we get

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dreams, you know, like doves and
cherubim and and gold. 

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You know, this was a weird word,
like biracial. 

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So for three days, I couldn't 
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And so finally, because the Holy
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wrote it down, wrote down 
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So I had remembered this. 
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journals to find where I'd 
written this down. 

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And when I found it, I screamed 
Dave thought there was a fire 

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because in this journal entry it
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And Rosie and I hadn't 
remembered. 

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She is one. 
She was one. 

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We decided to name her Rosie 
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And yes, she is biracial. 
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It was a surety in my spirit 
that come what may, I was going 

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to fight because this little 
girl was supposed to be in our 

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family. 
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adopted little Rosie and it has 
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Let's see if we can find her. 
Maybe not Clicker. 

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Clicker's not working today, but
that's our little girl. 

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And Dave's gonna share what the 
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foster care and adoption because
it's so clear. 

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So take it away. 
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Praise the Lord, this picture 
right here when you go go to the

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judge for adoption, they 
basically let you give testimony

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and I had written out 2 pages 
worth of what I wanted to share.

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I got the first word out and I 
bawled for the next 10 minutes 

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and the judge is just listening 
to me. 

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You know, nobody could hear me. 
But then all my kids were in a 

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row crying with me and it was 
like, all right, this is 

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perfect. 
So, but we overcome by the blood

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of the Lamb and the power of the
testimony, right? 

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And so let this be an 
encouragement to you as well. 

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But I do want to shift gears and
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God in this right? 
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world, and it's not that every 
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but when we capture his heart, 
it changes the way we interact 

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and intercede on behalf of those
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And so I want to spend a few 
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of us that have been in church a
long time and you may have 

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subliminally, you know, heard 
different Bible verses or things

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about children that are just 
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But this morning we want to talk
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truths. 
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them to set us up. 
And then I'm we're going to lean

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into one of these here for just 
a few minutes. 

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I heard the buzz, so I think 
it's coming. 

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There it is, all right, catching
God's heart as intercessors. 

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So just read these for a minute.
The Bible is so powerful, we 

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don't have to interpret it right
away. 

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Sometimes we just have to lean 
into what does it actually say. 

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So let's read these. 
Matthew 1914. 

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Let the little children come to 
me, for the Kingdom of heaven 

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belongs to such as these. 
Mark 936, whoever welcomes one 

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of these little children in my 
name welcomes me. 

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Matthew 1042 Whoever gives one 
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of cold water, he is a disciple.
And then we have Psalm 68. 

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Pastor Dave was talking about 
earlier this morning, right? 

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Talks about the concept of being
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So we know these passages, 
right? 

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God loves children. 
But when you read the 

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second-half of these verses, 
there's some power packed into 

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these. 
When you love little children, 

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the Kingdom of heaven belongs to
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When you love them, you are my 
disciples, right? 

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That's a powerful statement. 
When you welcome them, you 

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welcome me, King Jesus. 
And so I don't want to rush past

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that. 
Well, we just take a universal 

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truth that God loves children. 
Let's park on this a little bit 

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more. 
And I want to take us to James 

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one verse 27 here, James 127 
religion that God our Father 

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accepts as pure and undefiled as
this to look after orphans and 

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widows in their distress. 
I've read this verse so many 

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times over the years. 
And if I'm being honest, that 

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first word threw me off for so 
many years, right. 

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Especially in in a spirit filled
church. 

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We understand this concept of a 
religious spirit and when we 

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hear that word religion, 
sometimes it means something to 

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us or maybe it means a negative 
thing. 

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Religious spirit being 
traditions and actions and 

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things that you're doing just 
for the sake of doing them. 

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But there's no real connection 
to a living, breathing God, 

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right? 
Just tradition. 

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That's not what this this word 
is saying. 

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This word religion carries 
special meaning. 

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And so in in my pursuit of God, 
what is this? 

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I had to look this up, pretend 
with me that I have a Greek 

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accent. 
I think this is going to sound 

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Russian, but the word religion 
here, it's pronounced Threscia 

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and it's literal meaning is to 
worship, to give glory to God. 

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And so when we replace that 
language with what's written up 

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here, to worship our God and 
Father is to accept as pure and 

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undefiled as to look after 
orphans and widows. 

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One of the highest forms of 
stewardship, worship, glorifying

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him is taking care of his little
ones. 

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But even in that I'm asking God,
why children, why doesn't this 

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say, you know, to to look after 
my church, to look after, you 

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know, to look after my 
disciples? 

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He could have said anything 
here, but he said children and 

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orphans and so as I'm seeking 
the Lord on this. 

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He brought me to Hebrews chapter
4. 

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So I want to read this one for 
you as well. 

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For we do not have a high priest
we we worshiped on that this 

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morning who is unable to 
sympathize with our weaknesses, 

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but one in who every respect has
been tempted as we are yet 

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without sin. 
How are these related? 

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As I was asking God and asking 
the Holy Spirit God, what is 

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this? 
What is this about? 

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Why orphans, why widows? 
He reminded me it was King Herod

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that sent out a decree to kill 
all of the male babies in the 

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Bethlehem area and the 
surrounding regions. 

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Jesus experienced what we're 
talking about here. 

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We need to love the least of 
these because Jesus literally 

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was the least of these. 
He was in a vulnerable time in 

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human history is when he entered
in and the government was 

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seeking his life. 
The truth here is there is no 

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one that understands what these 
little babies and children's and

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teenagers are going through. 
There's no one that understands 

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it better than Jesus. 
And so he sympathizes with our 

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weaknesses because he's gone 
through it and church, he 

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overcame. 
And so as we look ahead and 

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continue to dive into Scripture,
right, it's not just that Jesus 

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has the sympathy, but he also 
has a victory. 

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And so we want to talk a little 
bit more about what are some 

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practical ways, What does this 
look like in the state of Iowa? 

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And so Ashley's going to share 
some information for what this 

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looks like on our front 
doorsteps. 

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So I share some stats up here 
about what's happening in our 

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00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,720
society. 
You have alcoholism, drug abuse.

453
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:21,960
You have 11% of Iowa below the 
poverty line, about 8000 people 

454
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:25,240
in our prison systems. 
You have a high divorce rate, 

455
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:28,200
single parents rate. 
And this causes some brokenness 

456
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,320
in our society that makes makes 
it so kids have to be removed 

457
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:35,080
from the home at times. 
So when you think about foster 

458
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,120
care, most of you assume the 
number one reason that kids come

459
00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:40,200
into foster care is because of 
abuse. 

460
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:44,200
And that would be untrue. 
The number one reason kids come 

461
00:25:44,200 --> 00:25:47,680
out of foster care or come into 
foster care is because of 

462
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,800
neglect. 
You do have some smaller reasons

463
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,600
there. 
You have drug abuse, physical 

464
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,600
abuse, maybe the parent is in 
jail or they've lost a parent 

465
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,520
and don't have family or friends
to go to. 

466
00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,040
But the number one reason is 
neglect. 

467
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:05,240
And so in many of these cases, I
have my notes up here, I'm not 

468
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:10,120
texting well, well-being up 
here, but so let's go, let's go 

469
00:26:10,120 --> 00:26:13,160
to Iowa next. 
So in Iowa, there's 4000 kids in

470
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,800
foster care and 1000 of those 
kids are here in Polk County. 

471
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:21,360
Now, if you're really good at 
math, there is only 200 licensed

472
00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:25,720
foster families in Polk County 
to these 1000 and thousand kids 

473
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,760
in need. 
So you realize that the gap is 

474
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,240
much bigger than what is being 
fulfilled right now. 

475
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:36,520
The largest need for kids are 
teens needing placement, large 

476
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,360
family, so 3 kids or more. 
You can imagine that the day 

477
00:26:40,360 --> 00:26:43,080
that you're taken from your 
family is the most traumatic day

478
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,520
of your life. 
And then to be separated from 

479
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,040
your siblings is a secondary 
trauma. 

480
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,760
And then kids with special 
needs, it's hard to find 

481
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,480
placement for them. 
And I've also shared the largest

482
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:56,800
demographic of foster kids or 
foster parents up there who are 

483
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:01,640
stepping up to this call. 
And then after the journey with 

484
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,600
foster care, about 70% of these 
kids go back to their biological

485
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,800
families. 
This is really hard for 

486
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,440
Christians who are wanting to 
support this because it's 

487
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,640
heartbreaking, it's hard, it's 
filled with grief. 

488
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,560
But I would argue that God's 
design for this family was that 

489
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:18,360
kids are with their biological 
parents. 

490
00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:21,080
If they are healthy, you know, 
some of these parents go through

491
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,240
treatment, they go through some 
parenting classes, get some 

492
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,280
help, and children can be 
reunited. 

493
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:29,240
And it's, it's part of God's 
restoration of that family. 

494
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:33,720
And then 30% of foster kids are 
adopted by another family 

495
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,320
member, by family friend, or by 
a foster family. 

496
00:27:37,720 --> 00:27:40,040
So the church is kind of 
answering that call in some 

497
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:41,880
ways. 
They're three times more likely 

498
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,600
to be foster parents and they're
two times more likely to adopt. 

499
00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:47,800
So there is some positive 
trending here for how the church

500
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,960
is showing up. 
But like I said, 200 families 

501
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,640
for 1000 kids, There's still a 
great need here in Iowa 

502
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:59,560
specifically. 
Thank you, Ashley. 

503
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,800
So Ashley shared some of those 
needs, right? 

504
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,120
Right here in the state of Iowa.
We're talking about God's heart.

505
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,360
We're talking about the need, 
putting those things together, 

506
00:28:09,360 --> 00:28:11,600
right? 
All of a sudden we have a call 

507
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,560
of action. 
How can we be involved? 

508
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,040
God, what is my role? 
What do you want me to do in 

509
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,600
these situations? 
And so we're going to have some 

510
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:23,080
word or pictures up here for 
you, right? 

511
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,600
We've got a gap. 
What does it mean to stand in 

512
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,520
the gap on behalf of foster care
children and parents or children

513
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:32,520
in need of adoption? 
I want to make sure I'm in the 

514
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,600
right church again. 
Has anyone read Reese Howell's 

515
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,520
book Intercessor? 
All right, I thought I was in 

516
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:43,000
the right place. 
So he has 2 verses that he hangs

517
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,520
his banner on related to 
intercession. 

518
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:48,240
And I just, again, I want us to 
just let the word speak for 

519
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,560
itself. 
We're going to meditate on these

520
00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:56,160
for just a second here, standing
in the gap, we have Isaiah 5916.

521
00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:00,920
The Lord saw it, and it 
displeased him that there was no

522
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:05,120
justice in the land. 
He saw that there was no man and

523
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,440
wondered that there would be 
someone to intercede. 

524
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,240
You have the exact same concept 
in Ezekiel 2230. 

525
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,720
And I sought for a man among 
them who should build up the 

526
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,240
wall and stand in the breach 
before me before the land, that 

527
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,360
I shouldn't destroy it. 
But I found none. 

528
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:26,360
This is sobering verses, but I 
think we can gather from this 

529
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:31,200
God is sovereign in heaven. 
Romans 828, He's going to find a

530
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:33,200
way to accomplish his purposes, 
right? 

531
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:40,440
But his design here is for man. 
He's seeking men, He's seeking 

532
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:43,800
women. 
He wants us to fill that gap, us

533
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:47,600
to intercede and to intervene. 
That's his original design is to

534
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,000
hand it to us. 
And we as followers of him are 

535
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,760
ultimately the ones who are 
standing in this gap. 

536
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,960
I also want to argue this 
morning we'll go back to this 

537
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,280
first image. 
There are different size gaps in

538
00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:07,960
society and culture. 
Now, if this gap was real, 

539
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:11,040
right, maybe a Van de Zandt 
sculpt skinny child could fit 

540
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,680
into that and stand in the gap, 
right? 

541
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:17,640
But as the gap gets bigger, 
sometimes it takes more than one

542
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,960
person. 
And so I want to present this 

543
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:26,360
second image that I believe to 
be pretty historically accurate.

544
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,120
And so you can kind of see the 
concept of this castle wall in 

545
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:34,560
the background and when enemies 
would fight each other, there 

546
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,560
was only one entry point in and 
out. 

547
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,200
You can kind of see to scale 
here these little humans in that

548
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:43,160
bottom rut there. 
It would take more than one 

549
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:49,400
person to defend this castle. 
And I would argue that in this 

550
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,880
age in human history, God is 
looking for a man. 

551
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:57,560
But this particular battle, it's
not just one man standing in the

552
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,400
gap. 
There are church sized gaps 

553
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,560
waiting for churches to step 
into. 

554
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,520
You're not meant to do it alone.
OK. 

555
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,560
And that principle, we could sit
on that all day. 

556
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,240
That's true for foster care and 
adoption. 

557
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,120
It's true of so many things in 
the Christian realm. 

558
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,080
You're not meant to do it alone.
We're meant to be unified and 

559
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:23,920
support each other. 
Every one out of two families 

560
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,600
that enters foster care leaves 
within their first year because 

561
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:31,880
they don't feel supported. 
It's so sobering, but Church, 

562
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:36,360
God is awakening us. 
He is awakening us to answer the

563
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:42,640
call and to stand in the gap. 
And so I want us to to get this 

564
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,600
verse right. 
Sometimes this verse is preached

565
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:47,800
related to to marriage, but it's
Ecclesiastes 412. 

566
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,720
And though a man might prevail 
against one who is alone, 2 will

567
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:54,240
withstand him. 
But a three fold cord is not 

568
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,680
quickly broken. 
We are stronger when we are 

569
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,720
together, right? 
Amen, Church. 

570
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:10,080
We are in the middle of a 
cultural war and God is putting 

571
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,480
his fingerprints all over this 
topic of taking care of 

572
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:15,600
children, right? 
We saw the overturn of Roe 

573
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:19,520
versus Wade. 
The White House just this week 

574
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:25,080
decreed a new initiative to take
care of foster care children in 

575
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,760
the teenage years. 
There's no funding going towards

576
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,840
this. 
His heart is putting it into 

577
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:31,520
into law. 
He's putting it into the White 

578
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,200
House. 
And so for us to answer this 

579
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,000
call and to stand in the gap as 
a church, there's some real lies

580
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,680
and challenges that we need to 
overcome. 

581
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,000
And so I want to park on that 
for just a few minutes here. 

582
00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,160
We just talked about the first 
one, fighting alone, right? 

583
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,440
You don't have to do it and we 
shouldn't do it. 

584
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,240
As we stand in together, we're 
going to overcome these things. 

585
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:58,120
Ashley talked about some of the,
you know, some of the neglect 

586
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,880
and the, the prison system and 
things that these these parents 

587
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:05,600
are struggling with. 
The concept of reconciliation, 

588
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:11,160
reunification, restoration, 
those don't come from the 

589
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,760
Department of Human Services or 
Health and Human Services. 

590
00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:20,840
Those are heaven concepts. 
And us as his children, his sons

591
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:24,280
and daughters, we are the most 
equipped to carry those things. 

592
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,000
And so if we want to see change 
in this system, he is calling us

593
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:32,360
as sons and daughters, the 
church as a whole, not to fight 

594
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,080
alone and to be Jesus in this 
situation. 

595
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,480
We're not meant to do it alone. 
The second challenge I want to 

596
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,800
call out here, fear of 
attachment and disappointment. 

597
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:50,000
There's a very realness to 
people that enter into this 

598
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:53,480
battle. 
I know stories you guys have 

599
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,440
maybe experienced or know 
someone. 

600
00:33:55,640 --> 00:34:01,080
There's real hurt involved. 
There can be, but when we lean 

601
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:06,120
that, that is the expectation. 
It's counter intuitive to the 

602
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:11,159
the Kingdom, right? 
God's design is that we carry 

603
00:34:11,159 --> 00:34:13,520
that restoration, the 
reconciliation with us. 

604
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,080
We're going into these 
situations expecting the Kingdom

605
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,760
to come, but he's a God. 
Even if, even if it doesn't, 

606
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:25,120
even if there's hurt, I'm 
telling you, God is able to walk

607
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:28,520
through the grief with you. 
And one way or another, his 

608
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:34,159
Kingdom will come and we will 
overcome challenge #3 government

609
00:34:34,159 --> 00:34:37,840
regulations conflicting with 
personal belief systems. 

610
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:42,040
Is there anybody who has ever 
had beef with the law that was 

611
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,239
established here in the United 
States or anyone else? 

612
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,239
Raise your hand real quick. 
All right, nobody riot this 

613
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:48,679
morning. 
Just want to make sure I'm in 

614
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:51,080
the right place. 
No, there's lots of truths like 

615
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,360
this that we like. 
We don't perfectly agree. 

616
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,159
The Kingdom of the US is not 
perfectly in line with the 

617
00:34:56,159 --> 00:35:00,760
Kingdom of heaven yet. 
But it doesn't stop missionaries

618
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,200
from going to the Middle East, 
right? 

619
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,360
You show up in the Middle East, 
they don't stop the call to 

620
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:09,160
prayer because you go, if you go
to communist countries, they're 

621
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,440
not all of a sudden going to 
change their laws because you're

622
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,880
there. 
So we can't use this as an 

623
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:17,680
excuse to not engage. 
In fact, it's the opposite, 

624
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,480
right? 
We carry the Kingdom, and this 

625
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:24,920
should be the exact reason that 
we engage even more because you 

626
00:35:25,720 --> 00:35:30,440
are God's chosen people to carry
that Kingdom into this problem, 

627
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:35,960
this gap in human history. 
This 4th 1 is our last one here.

628
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:40,800
Comfort. 
I got a call, a phone call in 

629
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:45,120
March of 2025, this year and it 
rocked Ashley and I's world a 

630
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,680
little bit. 
We had adopted Rosie two years 

631
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:52,320
ago and for all intents and 
purposes, we kind of felt like 

632
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,880
that chapter of our journey was 
closed. 

633
00:35:54,880 --> 00:36:00,960
And we got a phone call that 
morning that there was someone 

634
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:06,760
that we knew who now had a 
newborn that was in need of 

635
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,840
foster care, wasn't thinking 
about it, wasn't ready for it. 

636
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,120
Let me just let a few fleshly 
thoughts out for a second. 

637
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:18,600
Older, mid 30s, right? 
I was thinking, I thought I was 

638
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,560
going to be an empty nester in, 
I don't know, eight years, 10 

639
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,200
years, whatever that number is. 
This is going to cost me. 

640
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,520
I'm going to have to count the 
cost. 

641
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:32,160
What's going to go into this? 
And I had these perspectives of 

642
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,280
what comfort looked like. 
And over the next couple of 

643
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,720
months, the Holy Spirit just 
continued to pull back those 

644
00:36:39,720 --> 00:36:42,560
things. 
And I remember Ashley sent me a 

645
00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,120
YouTube video one night. 
I was home alone, sitting in 

646
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,440
bed. 
I pushed play, and it was about 

647
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,920
foster care and adoption. 
I was one second in and I'm 

648
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,360
bawling my eyes out. 
I'm crying. 

649
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,200
And I know that instant. 
I'm like, Lord, you're asking me

650
00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,120
to do this. 
I need to stand in the gap. 

651
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,600
I need to lay down my life. 
I know this call is for me. 

652
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:08,720
And so in June of 2025 here, we 
invited another little girl into

653
00:37:08,720 --> 00:37:13,760
our home and she's been with us 
the last five or six months and 

654
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:18,160
it has been absolute joy. 
Remember those opening verses, 

655
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,680
right? 
Holy Spirit speaks, God speaks, 

656
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,520
that's his mission formula. 
All I needed to do was obey. 

657
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:28,080
And in return that provides 
worship and love to Him. 

658
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:33,320
Sometimes it's hard to come to 
the realization of what is it 

659
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,120
going to cost me to obey. 
I'm telling you so far that 

660
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:37,640
every minute of it has been 
worth it. 

661
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,200
And we are so grateful that we 
said yes to God again. 

662
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:44,680
And so we want to talk a little 
bit more about what is it 

663
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,480
practically look like to get 
involved here. 

664
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,200
You understand God's heart. 
You understand the need. 

665
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:55,440
True intercession starts in 
prayer and ends in action. 

666
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,600
And So what are those tangible 
things we can be doing as a 

667
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:04,640
church to fill the gap? 
All right, so there's a lot of 

668
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:08,000
great things happening, new 
organizations coming to the Des 

669
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:10,600
Moines metro that are answering 
this call. 

670
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,080
And one of them is the Isaiah 
117 House. 

671
00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:17,400
If you go to YouTube and search 
micro and Isaiah 117, there's a 

672
00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:20,400
video of him visiting the 
starting place, which was in 

673
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,960
Tennessee. 
And this is a transitional home.

674
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:26,320
When kids are taken out of 
foster care, it might take a lot

675
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,680
of phone calls to find a 
placement for them, a safe place

676
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,400
for them to go. 
And so in the past, kids have 

677
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:34,440
come and waited at the Health 
and Human service office, but 

678
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:36,840
they don't have all the needs 
for those kids depending on how 

679
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,280
long they wait. 
And so this is a house they're 

680
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,440
currently fundraising for Polk 
County where kids come and stay 

681
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:44,480
while they're waiting for their 
foster placement. 

682
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,880
So they have showers and beds 
and clothes, and maybe you need 

683
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,600
to distract them with a slime 
kit or whatever it takes, but a 

684
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,600
safe, kid friendly place on that
worst day of their life. 

685
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,160
And so they're currently 
fundraising to come to Polk 

686
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:58,600
County. 
And it's just a great 

687
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:02,040
organization that is working 
with Health and Human Services 

688
00:39:02,040 --> 00:39:05,000
to provide this care for kids as
they move out of their home and 

689
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,280
into foster placement. 
A couple other organization, you

690
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,720
have Foster Squad, they provide 
support groups. 

691
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,440
You can imagine inviting trauma 
in your house is going to rattle

692
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,360
a marriage at point or your 
biological children. 

693
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,480
And you might need a support 
group to talk through how to 

694
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:21,880
handle the different things that
you're facing at home. 

695
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:26,680
They also do a lot of legal 
advocacy down at the court 

696
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:30,880
downtown to make sure the laws 
are good for foster families and

697
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,160
good for foster kids. 
We have Beauty Amidst the Ashes 

698
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:38,880
that shares about adoption. 
They also have adoption grants. 

699
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:40,640
And then we have Wildwood 
Collective. 

700
00:39:40,640 --> 00:39:43,800
They are a newer agency that 
will come in and do training for

701
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:47,840
churches so that they create 
these things called care care 

702
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,120
groups for foster families. 
So you have a team of church 

703
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,400
people around you as you journey
through foster care. 

704
00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:56,000
If you're a foster parent that 
help you with meals and 

705
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,240
babysitting and just teach, 
teach them how to love on foster

706
00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:04,240
parents and foster kids. 
Practically here for Heartland, 

707
00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:08,440
there are many ways you can give
a meal is I'm grateful for a 

708
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,160
meal any day, you know, And so 
whether it's their first 

709
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:13,480
placement, meaning they picked 
up the kid an hour ago and they 

710
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,320
need dinner that night or two 
months later, you know, there's 

711
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,000
a lot of appointments for foster
kids. 

712
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,760
They might have counseling, some
therapies, visits with their 

713
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,720
biological parents or court 
dates. 

714
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:27,800
And it can be a hectic schedule.
And so providing a meal even 

715
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,120
throughout their foster care 
journey is really helpful. 

716
00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,400
You can give diapers in formula.
There are stipends that are 

717
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,320
given to foster parents, but 
sometimes it doesn't cover the 

718
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,640
whole month. 
In our experience, formula was 

719
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:43,080
covered for about 3 weeks and 
then we would pay for for the 

720
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,280
last, which is totally fine. 
God, God provides. 

721
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,760
But it is a way you could give 
to families specifically with 

722
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,440
little ones because those are 
who need it for that. 

723
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:53,920
But clothes talk about teens, 
you know, who are removed from 

724
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:55,280
their home. 
They might not have a lot. 

725
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:58,240
And it's doubly embarrassing to 
go to school the next day with 

726
00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:01,160
Walmart sweatpants and oversized
T-shirt from a free box. 

727
00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,040
You know what I mean? 
So providing a, a decent 

728
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:07,400
wardrobe for these kids is a way
that you can love, love on these

729
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,520
foster families and love on 
these foster kids. 

730
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:12,600
And then gas cards, like I said,
there's tons of appointments and

731
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,000
it becomes a hectic schedule. 
And so that's just a practical 

732
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,840
way that you can give to foster 
families. 

733
00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:20,880
You can babysit for foster 
families. 

734
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:24,200
It used to be that you had to be
a foster parent to babysit, but 

735
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:28,120
now you can babysit for them and
their biological kids to give 

736
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:30,200
those parents a break. 
You know, there's a lot of 

737
00:41:30,200 --> 00:41:33,560
things coming into a marriage if
you're a foster parents and to 

738
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:36,400
give them a 2 hour dinner break 
might be really healing for 

739
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,360
them. 
Friday, Friday we were in court 

740
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:44,400
with our little one and we 
expected it to be a very clean 

741
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:49,400
cut court hearing and someone 
came in with no knowledge of the

742
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:51,960
case and kind of disrupted 
everything we thought was going 

743
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,080
to happen. 
And if it wasn't for a good 

744
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:57,200
judge on Friday, it could have 
ended very differently. 

745
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,920
We need good judges to take care
of these little ones and there 

746
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:03,440
are really good judges and we 
need to keep voting good ones 

747
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,080
in. 
And so this is the most 

748
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,760
practical way that you can 
support foster families is 

749
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:09,480
because we need good judges and 
good laws. 

750
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:14,440
So getting to kind of the big 
kicker, if I was a missionary 

751
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,760
peer inviting you all to the 
Middle East, that would be 

752
00:42:16,760 --> 00:42:18,520
unreasonable. 
We know the Holy Spirit's not 

753
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:20,920
asking all of you to go, but 
some of you. 

754
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,120
He is asking you to invite this 
mission field into your home. 

755
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:27,280
And so to be a foster parent, 
you have to take 8 weeks 

756
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:31,280
classes, CPR, first aid, have a 
home study where they come in 

757
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,880
and interview you on different 
safety checks. 

758
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:37,280
And one of the things you can do
if you know someone going 

759
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:39,400
through foster care classes, 
babysit them while they have 

760
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,120
those classes, babysit for their
biological kids or their other 

761
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:45,280
kids in their home. 
And then if you, if you don't 

762
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,640
want to be a full time foster 
parent, you can also take the 

763
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:50,640
classes to do respite. 
Respite is when you might have a

764
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:52,600
kid overnight. 
You know, a family needs a break

765
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,400
and they say, can you take him 
Friday into Saturday and and you

766
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,600
take him to a movie or do some 
fun things and then they go back

767
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,480
to their foster family. 
You can also do respite when 

768
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,280
they go on vacation. 
A lot of times these foster kids

769
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,520
can't leave the state. 
And so when families go on 

770
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,880
vacation, they need safe people 
to watch them. 

771
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,760
And so these are the practical 
ways that you can help. 

772
00:43:12,040 --> 00:43:15,800
Because if we don't step into 
trauma knowing the healer, who 

773
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,360
else is going to do it? 
We have to be the answer. 

774
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,800
We can't be afraid. 
If we're going to be pro-life, 

775
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,080
we're going to be pro kids and 
pro reunification for these 

776
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:27,960
families. 
You know one more that relates 

777
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:30,200
to judges. 
We talk about the Seven Mountain

778
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:34,520
Mandate. 
It's not just judges, but your 

779
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:36,920
occupation can impact the 
Kingdom here. 

780
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:39,840
Maybe you work for one of these 
organizations. 

781
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:43,000
Maybe you're a social worker and
you work for the government, but

782
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:47,280
that same concept of you 
carrying the Kingdom, the only 

783
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:50,080
way that this is going to be 
transformed and his Kingdom will

784
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:53,640
come is through the church 
standing in the gap. 

785
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:58,960
So as we close today, you know, 
Ashley said, we don't expect 

786
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,120
everybody to jump up and, and 
be, you know, foster parents. 

787
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,280
But I want to revisit what we 
talked about at the beginning, 

788
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,120
God's plan for missions, His 
plan of action. 

789
00:44:11,240 --> 00:44:14,680
We trust the Holy Spirit this 
morning to guide you. 

790
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:18,480
That's really the only thing 
that we want coming away from 

791
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,360
this is we should do this every 
Sunday, right? 

792
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,040
You go home and it's Lord, What 
is my role in this? 

793
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,040
What do you want me to do? 
And you're, you're visiting him 

794
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:29,320
and allowing him to speak. 
We know that it's going to look 

795
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,080
different for all of us. 
So let me just say, you can't do

796
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:34,960
everything, OK? 
We don't have to because we've 

797
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:39,200
got God. 
But he does offer us a role and 

798
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:42,760
a way to participate. 
I also think, right, we had Mike

799
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:48,280
Hutchins in last week. 
God speaks in waves and the 

800
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:51,200
current wave that we're talking 
about this morning, right? 

801
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,200
Dealing with trauma, but 
overcoming it through King 

802
00:44:54,240 --> 00:44:57,000
Jesus. 
It's through you and it's 

803
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,360
through us as a church where 
these children are truly going 

804
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,800
to feel the love of God. 
And so I ask that you would 

805
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:03,280
listen to his spirit this 
morning. 

806
00:45:04,440 --> 00:45:08,480
And the only thing that you're 
required to do it is to love him

807
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:10,920
to return by obeying whatever he
asks you to do. 

808
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,560
And so I think we can, we can go
home on that. 

809
00:45:14,920 --> 00:45:18,280
But we just want to say thank 
you guys for allowing us to give

810
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,920
this unconventional missions 
talk this morning. 

811
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:27,280
And if you are interested in 
helping in any way, come talk to

812
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,160
Ashley and I and we'll help 
connect you with the church and 

813
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:34,160
how we together as one unit can 
stand in the gap on behalf of 

814
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:35,240
these children. 
Amen. 

815
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:37,880
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816
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,400
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817
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:43,000
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818
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819
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