1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:03,560 What's going on, everyone? We are the All In podcast. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:08,960 We're three guys in our late 20s who are all in to being too 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,440 scared to ask for help. Amen. 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:14,600 I mean, we're all in on asking for help. 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:17,600 All the time. All the time helpless. 6 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,360 We're we're guys that are figuring out how to be adults, 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,000 how to be dads, how to fix things. 8 00:00:23,080 --> 00:00:25,080 And we don't know what the heck we're doing. 9 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:42,680 Yeah. Do you where you guys at in your 10 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:46,800 in your housing journey? Are you? 11 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:48,600 What do you mean? By Do you live in a home? 12 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:53,280 I do live in a home. That's good. 13 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,520 That's good, you know, Yeah, it's it's our, it's our first 14 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:58,040 home ownership experience. That's awesome. 15 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:59,080 Yeah. Which has been great. 16 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,680 It's been about nine months or so. 17 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,720 We we live in a we live in a new build house, which is kind of 18 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:06,440 nice because there's not a whole lot of things. 19 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,000 Nothing's broken. There's nothing, there's nothing 20 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:10,200 broken. I will say. 21 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,960 I mean, there's like some projects that we want to do 22 00:01:11,960 --> 00:01:13,120 because you move into a new build. 23 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:14,920 Yeah. And it's like they just kind of, 24 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,720 you know, they put the white walls up and kind. 25 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,200 Of a blank slate. It's a blank slate. 26 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:21,960 So there's a lot of ideas that we've had and in the nine months 27 00:01:21,960 --> 00:01:23,800 that we've been there, we've done a couple things. 28 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,240 I built some garage shelves. But I will say there's we had a, 29 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:30,240 one of our kitchen chairs that we got off of Amazon. 30 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,800 A family member was sitting in it and a family member a family 31 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:36,760 member. Not to be named. 32 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:41,320 Not not to be, not to be named was sitting in it and it snapped 33 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:47,040 and one of the one of the legs went straight into the wall. 34 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:49,360 So it was like mine was. This like did it Pierce the 35 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,240 drywall? Yeah, yeah. 36 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,560 It was like it was, I mean, it was kind of, we all kind of 37 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:56,520 laughed about it. Oh my, that must have been some 38 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:59,280 force to Pierce the drywall. Well, yeah, the the chair, I 39 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,720 mean, it's like the chair, you look online and it's got like a 40 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,000 200 LB weight limit or something like that, you know? 41 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,240 So even when I sit in it, I get in and really that's it. 42 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:09,680 Yeah, that that feels a little. I mean, it feels it's pretty. 43 00:02:09,759 --> 00:02:11,600 You better. You better leave a review That 44 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,760 said, hey, make sure to weigh yourself before you sit. 45 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:19,560 Yeah, well, very accurate person was they were spot on. 46 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:24,120 They were two O 1. It snapped, they collapsed onto 47 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,280 the ground and then the leg just was like sticking in the wall. 48 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:27,760 And that happened probably six months ago. 49 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,120 That's and I bought all the stuff to try and. 50 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,800 Fix. It but I just haven't it's kind 51 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,480 of hidden behind the curtains, you know so we put some tape on 52 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:38,000 it so that the hole is I mean you can still see it's clear 53 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,080 tape you can still see the hole but. 54 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,760 That's one of my favorite things, but Dave bought it. 55 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,160 I think it's so funny. I don't know if you guys can 56 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:48,960 relate to this, but like growing up, when you break something and 57 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:50,720 you just like, I don't know what to do. 58 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,920 And so you kind of like put it back together just enough so 59 00:02:53,920 --> 00:02:56,360 that maybe the next person that uses it will break it. 60 00:02:56,920 --> 00:02:58,160 Maybe I'll shoot. I broke. 61 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:59,840 Yeah. Be like, oh, you broke that. 62 00:02:59,840 --> 00:03:02,200 How could you do that knowing full well that I broke it, you 63 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,000 know? Oh my gosh, the the best part 64 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:10,720 about being married is no longer living with other same age 65 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,120 males. I kind of miss that. 66 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:14,480 I don't know if that's the best part. 67 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:17,760 Decorations was how many flags do you have? 68 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:19,320 How many nails can you put in in a? 69 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:21,000 Yeah, the the house does look a lot better. 70 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,200 And how many mattresses can we put on the ground with no bed 71 00:03:24,200 --> 00:03:25,400 frames? In the corner. 72 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:27,840 In the corner, always. Never always in the corner a 73 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,720 single. Like someone before they get 74 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,920 married in their 20s that doesn't have the bed in the 75 00:03:32,920 --> 00:03:34,840 corner. It's a get groundbreaking 76 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,200 concept. It's a can of every bed in my 77 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,320 life was in the corner, yes, and it and honestly when I first got 78 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:41,440 it. Opens up so much room. 79 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,200 Scared when I first got married. I'm like, where's the safety of 80 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:45,000 the wall? Yeah. 81 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:46,320 Oh yes. Am I gonna roll off? 82 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,760 That's the thing, yeah. Am I gonna roll onto my wife? 83 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:52,480 Yeah, I don't know your .1 of the things I'm super scared of 84 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:56,520 having a newborn coming up in a couple months is falling asleep 85 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,280 and rolling on top of it. Yeah, you know. 86 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,600 That's it's I mean I'm gonna go. Are you guys gonna Co sleep with 87 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:03,760 the baby? No. 88 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,440 OK, I don't know. Well, then what? 89 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,680 What are you gonna you just. I don't know. 90 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:09,280 I'll just jump in the crib. And he's gonna roll off the bed 91 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,720 into the. Pack and play. 92 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:14,840 Hey check the weight limit on the on the back. 93 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:16,000 Of the way, what is that weight limit? 94 00:04:16,399 --> 00:04:19,040 No, it's just like, I mean, you see people like they like take 95 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,279 naps, you know, and the baby falls asleep on the chest. 96 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:23,040 They're like things like that. And I'm like, what if I like 97 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,840 roll over and just like, kill this baby? 98 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,880 I used to wait. I mean, we did, we we Co slept 99 00:04:26,880 --> 00:04:31,480 for a little bit and I used to wake up when I mean Joseph was 100 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,680 probably four or five, six months old and he used to wake 101 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,440 up drenched in sweat. Yeah, drenched in. 102 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,960 Actually this was even I did, this was even before he was 103 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,560 sleeping in the bassinet. And I would just, I would wake 104 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:46,200 up drenched in sweat and like run up and like go check on him 105 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:49,560 to make sure he was alive, you know, and then but the bed would 106 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,720 be soaked. I don't know what, I was so 107 00:04:51,840 --> 00:04:53,280 anxious and didn't even realize it. 108 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:55,840 And that's what like, I mean, we got, we probably got a lot of 109 00:04:55,840 --> 00:04:58,840 guys, you know, tuned in who young dads. 110 00:04:58,840 --> 00:05:04,400 So many guys about. Thousands, millions who were, 111 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,400 who were either young dads, maybe they just graduated 112 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,560 college, maybe they were in college, maybe late high school. 113 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,400 But you know, when you when you get in that first home, like 114 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:15,360 there's that feeling of like, it's, it's mine. 115 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:18,000 Like you're telling me I can just destroy something and 116 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:19,880 there's not a landlord to call to come fix it. 117 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,880 Like when we moved into our first house, the refrigerator 118 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:24,200 didn't work. Yeah. 119 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,560 And I just sat there and I was like. 120 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:29,240 What do I do? What do I do? 121 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:33,160 So I bought another one and we had two fridges in the case. 122 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,160 That's where you go to YouTube. Well, The thing is, you watch 123 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:37,240 those YouTube videos. Yeah. 124 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,680 And they make it look so easy. It's like, all right, do this, 125 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,040 pull this out, take a wire, cut it. 126 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:43,840 You're done. Yep. 127 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:46,840 And it's always like, it's always an electrician who's 128 00:05:46,840 --> 00:05:47,840 filming the video. Yeah. 129 00:05:47,840 --> 00:05:49,400 It's like, well, no wonder it took you 2 minutes. 130 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,800 You went to tech school for this, you know. 131 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,160 An electrician by. Train an electrician by train I. 132 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,200 I just had that experience. I built garage shelves. 133 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,880 We needed we needed storage in the very complicated. 134 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:02,720 Well, OK, well. It's so much more than you'd 135 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:04,240 think. Actually, yeah. 136 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,640 So I looked online and it was like the way that these shelves 137 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:09,720 were built was like you, instead of it kind of being 138 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:11,520 freestanding. What are you laughing about? 139 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:13,680 I'm laughing. About when we built my bunk bed. 140 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,720 I'm sorry. Well, you finished the shelves. 141 00:06:16,840 --> 00:06:19,280 Bunk bed is a loose. You were able to put a bed on 142 00:06:19,280 --> 00:06:21,400 it, but that was. Couldn't put two beds on. 143 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,480 It Yeah. So, so we were, I was building 144 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,960 these garage shelves and I looked online, I found it was 145 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:28,800 like an 8 step thing. And instead of it being kind of 146 00:06:28,800 --> 00:06:31,760 free standing, what you did was you put like the backside of the 147 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:35,560 shelves, you screwed them into the the studs, the studs in the 148 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:37,840 wall. And then you kind of build the 149 00:06:37,840 --> 00:06:40,080 shelves out and it was like 8 steps. 150 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:42,600 It was like find the studs, put the things in there. 151 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,560 Was it was it in a box or did was it like 2 by fours in 152 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,440 plywood? Like was it a a set? 153 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,800 No, no, wasn't. I just found plans online. 154 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,760 OK. And then I bought, you know, the 155 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:54,600 materials that I needed and I just started, you know, trying 156 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,120 to trying to build it. But the first time I cut the 157 00:06:57,120 --> 00:07:00,280 wood because it was like, you got to have these, you know the 158 00:07:00,280 --> 00:07:01,440 what? I don't even know what you call 159 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:04,480 it, but it's like the, the slats that come out or, you know, 160 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,080 you're putting the plywood on top. 161 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,720 And I was like cutting all this wood and I didn't have a, what's 162 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:12,360 it called a miter saw, the one where you just go straight down 163 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,400 and it cuts a straight line. So I was like, I'll just use my 164 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,560 circular saw, which is, you know, you just, you know, use 165 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,680 your hands and but it the, and I thought I was doing everything 166 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:24,360 correctly, but I cut all the pieces of wood like between 1/4 167 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:27,600 of an inch and 1/2 an inch difference like with with each 168 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:28,400 one. So I didn't fit. 169 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,360 So it didn't fit. So all of them were different 170 00:07:30,360 --> 00:07:31,840 sizes. So I needed to redo it. 171 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,920 So then I borrowed a friend's miter saw and then I was kind of 172 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,480 wood and, and I built all the pieces and then Reagan and I, my 173 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:41,560 wife and I were trying to put up on the wall, but the entire 174 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,160 thing just, it kind of bent funny. 175 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:44,920 So the entire thing just collapsed and I had to redo it 176 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,960 and it took me like 6 days. But you read the plans like you 177 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,640 look at people doing it and you're like. 7 This is 7 easy 178 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:51,760 steps. Two hours. 179 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:53,800 Yeah. Couple screws and we're there. 180 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:57,360 Yeah. I mean I, I, I have a funny 181 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,480 story. Recently my dad shout out dad 182 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,000 gifted us a grill which is great. 183 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:04,880 Father's Day, Little Grill. Was it Father's Day gift? 184 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,120 It was a wedding present. Yeah, it's great. 185 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,720 And would you get George Foreman? 186 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:13,240 Couldn't even tell you. Just a grill and a. 187 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,080 Grill. You know, it's always, it's one 188 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:18,320 of those things that I'm like, I want to, I want to grill things, 189 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,440 you know, I want to be the dad that wings, you know, my kids 190 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,800 bring their their friends and I just like grill food for all of 191 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:25,800 them, right? Oh yeah. 192 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,680 Or I want to host like cookouts, things like that. 193 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:29,560 It's like, yeah, it's just like a thing that I want to learn how 194 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:30,320 to do. Yes. 195 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:34,600 And so I get this grill and I don't know what I expected, but 196 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,440 I open it and it's just like all the parts. 197 00:08:37,799 --> 00:08:39,440 Why are these things not come put together? 198 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,880 You have to pay extra fee, apparently, which I totally 199 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,440 would have if it wasn't like a gift that was given to me. 200 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,600 So I, I was like, I can't be that hard. 201 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:51,520 I saw the instruction manual and it was a little tough to read. 202 00:08:51,560 --> 00:08:53,720 You know, it has like pictures and you can tell someone took 203 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,600 the pictures with their phones and they're all kind of grainy 204 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:57,320 and black and white on the instruction man. 205 00:08:57,440 --> 00:08:59,040 So it was like kind of difficult, but I was like, yeah, 206 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:01,560 it shouldn't be that hard to put a grill together. 207 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:05,680 Well, it took me about 10 hours to put this grill together. 208 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,800 And consecutively Or did you break it up? 209 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:09,960 Consecutive no. I was like, I just need to lock 210 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,000 in yes. And tell me me I need you to go 211 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,560 as far away as possible. Well, I need, yes. 212 00:09:14,560 --> 00:09:16,600 Because we started, she's like, hey, why don't you build the 213 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,080 grill today? I want like, and we can like 214 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,640 grill something tonight. And then I was like, sure. 215 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:21,520 How about in two? Weeks. 216 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,560 Well, yeah. And she would come out and check 217 00:09:23,560 --> 00:09:24,880 on me and was like, I don't want to talk to you. 218 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:26,200 Yeah. Like, I was so frustrated by 219 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:27,600 this girl, Like, I don't talk to anyone. 220 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:28,680 Yes. Of course. 221 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:30,440 And worst mood ever. Yeah. 222 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,200 And then by the time I finish, I was like, I'm not grilling 223 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,520 tonight. I I still haven't used the 224 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:38,240 grill. It's been two months and I'm 225 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,720 scared because I have to like, you know, mess with the spark 226 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:43,040 plug and like connect. I'm like, what if I did that 227 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,960 wrong? And the gas is just leaking. 228 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,640 You know, with the gas and it just blows up and I die, right, 229 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,960 You know, and I orphaned my child like that is my I'm so 230 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:53,240 scared. Use this grill. 231 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,840 I don't even know what it is. I am so scared to use my grill 232 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:01,680 because since I put it together, Yeah, I you know, but I didn't 233 00:10:01,680 --> 00:10:02,920 want to ask for help, so I didn't want. 234 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:04,600 You what do you think the next step is? 235 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,240 I think the next step is to grill. 236 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,520 Are you gonna commit to that right now? 237 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:10,800 Yeah. Let's make a commitment. 238 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:11,840 Let's make a commitment right now. 239 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,200 I wanna grill. I wanna grill. 240 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,800 Last week we hosted two of our friends over. 241 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:20,480 They're getting married this weekend, actually. 242 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:25,640 Shut up them they came over and the guy is super into grilling. 243 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,640 Yep. And so I kind of teed it up was 244 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:28,880 like, hey, you should check out the new grill. 245 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:30,400 Can you you know, I I was having trouble. 246 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:32,440 You wanna make sure it works? Like, yeah, sure. 247 00:10:32,680 --> 00:10:35,160 You're really good at grilling. So he went out and was like 248 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,160 looking at the grill and I was like kind of hiding behind the 249 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,320 wall in case it like blew up. He was kind of like my. 250 00:10:41,560 --> 00:10:43,640 Might that be manslaughter? Like what would happen? 251 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:48,200 You know, I don't know, Would I be liable for? 252 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,600 It depends on I think if it. Came out that you were like 253 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:52,440 that. You were hiding like you 254 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:55,600 anticipated it blowing up well. Right, but nothing happened, so 255 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,440 we're. Good, I'm saying in the case 256 00:10:57,440 --> 00:10:58,680 that it did, but anyways, continue. 257 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,280 No, that's it. So now I know that it works and 258 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:03,120 it won't blow up. OK, so now I couldn't use it. 259 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:04,200 Yeah. But you haven't grilled yet. 260 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,600 When did they? That was last week. 261 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:08,240 That was last week, yeah. The the thing I want to know is 262 00:11:08,240 --> 00:11:11,080 like, I have men in my life who when I need help, I call. 263 00:11:11,560 --> 00:11:13,560 So I got a buddy Dave. I got a buddy, Dominic I. 264 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,400 Got a car, guy. Yeah, I got a. 265 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,200 But it's like, how did they get to where they are? 266 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:21,920 And how did I get to where I am, which is to be about as handy as 267 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:26,120 this table. Yeah, and and what you what 4? 268 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:26,560 Feet. No. 269 00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:28,560 Hands, Yeah. What you tell what, what you 270 00:11:28,560 --> 00:11:31,680 always hear from these guys. Like one of these guys came over 271 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,920 and he taught me how to take off the popcorn from my ceiling. 272 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:36,840 It's like the, you know, that texture. 273 00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,160 Yeah, took a long time, but he's really good at it. 274 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,240 And I'm like, oh, where? How'd you How'd you learn how to 275 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:42,640 hear? It you're so good at removing 276 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,520 popcorn. Where did you learn? 277 00:11:45,560 --> 00:11:47,840 Possibly. And guess what He said. 278 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,160 YouTube no no his trade school. Yeah, always right. 279 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:53,200 His dad. Oh, but we did. 280 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:54,440 We did stuff like this growing up. 281 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,720 He was the oldest at 9, which is, you know, crazy in and of 282 00:11:57,720 --> 00:11:59,120 itself. And they're like, you know, 283 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,960 tight financially because they didn't have, you know, they had 284 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,600 nine kids, a lot of mouths to feed. 285 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,680 So it's just like, hey, when the toilet's broken, don't call the 286 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:08,600 plumber. You know, we'll figure it out. 287 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:13,520 So I'm like my dad. I mean, I, I, we just didn't do 288 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,720 a ton of that stuff growing up. Like we, we had someone who 289 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,560 came, we can't had someone who mowed the lawn. 290 00:12:17,840 --> 00:12:20,360 First lawn I ever mowed was when I bought my house. 291 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:21,720 Really. Are you serious? 292 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:25,040 You've never felt more out of place than not knowing how to 293 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:27,080 turn? I'd never mowed a lawn. 294 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,040 Ever. Did your your dad mowed it or 295 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,320 where'd you say no it? Paid. 296 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,040 You just had a service. They had a, they had a service 297 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:35,440 that came. But like leaves, raking leaves. 298 00:12:35,680 --> 00:12:37,600 Yeah, very basic human functioning. 299 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:38,840 Did you have to call someone for that? 300 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:39,840 No. I, I I. 301 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:42,680 Figured it out after staring at. It what do we like? 302 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,840 I've got all these. Blisters on my thumbs now. 303 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:48,480 But it's just like if you're if you didn't know, if you didn't 304 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:50,840 learn these things, now you become a dad, you become a young 305 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,320 man, you're put in a world where you don't really know what 306 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:56,040 you're doing. And, you know, that's the that 307 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,640 you rely on friendships, You rely on ChatGPT. 308 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:02,880 We were. I mean, I've tried to do house 309 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,920 projects because I want to try to learn this kind of stuff. 310 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:08,440 Yeah. And we've accomplished a variety 311 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:13,360 of them, some well, some not so well, but it is fun. 312 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:16,720 I think that's the crazy thing is like whether it's the grill, 313 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,040 but you finish something. You feel good. 314 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:23,120 Even if it's twenty hours and you dropped, you know so many F 315 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,880 words in the process. I am the worst person when I'm 316 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:27,720 building something Emily's like I cannot. 317 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,080 All the worst parts of me come out. 318 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,520 But you finish and it's a great, it's an amazing feeling. 319 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,440 Yeah. Absolutely, like I built an IKEA 320 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:38,960 dresser with particle board. Built this with my bare hands 321 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:41,920 and wood dowels that are holding this thing together. 322 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:46,000 Hey, what's going on guys? This is John Michael Lucido and 323 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:50,240 I am the main host of the All In podcast brought to you by Focus 324 00:13:50,560 --> 00:13:54,520 and I just want to take a second to personally invite you to join 325 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:59,000 us at Seek 26. Seek 26 January the 1st through 326 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,440 January 5th. We are going to be in three 327 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,520 locations. That's how big Seek has gotten. 328 00:14:03,680 --> 00:14:06,920 I'm going to be the mainstage MC hosting our conference in 329 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,680 Columbus, OH. Our other main host of the 330 00:14:09,680 --> 00:14:13,520 podcast, Jose Clayton will be down in Fort Worth, TX and then 331 00:14:13,560 --> 00:14:17,520 we'll have our third location in Denver, Co January the 1st 332 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,760 through January 5th. You are not going to want to 333 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:22,360 miss this. The link to register is in the 334 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,480 description. Can't wait to see you guys. 335 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:28,040 Let's go all in on SEQ 26 have. You ever built, have you guys 336 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:31,560 ever built a bench or just anything to a bench? 337 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:33,320 No. From scratch, no. 338 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:39,400 I had in college 1 summer. I had a maintenance job and I 339 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:43,280 was asked to it was at some summer camp and I was asked just 340 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:47,240 like hey before all the campers get here, this bench broke. 341 00:14:48,160 --> 00:14:51,480 Can you build a new bench? How'd you get put on maintenance 342 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:52,600 duty? And so was like. 343 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:57,400 How do I build a bench? 4 legs in a slack. 344 00:14:57,400 --> 00:15:00,880 You would think no, no. And so I'm an engineer. 345 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,080 Well, I'm not an engineer. I studied engineering. 346 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,720 Biomedical that has nothing to do with building benches. 347 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:08,360 Engineering. You still have to go through the 348 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:11,880 basics of engineering. Prosthetics benches, yeah. 349 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:14,440 I don't load bearing. I don't think the normals. 350 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:17,800 Math design, there's so much that goes into it. 351 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,440 Yeah, absolutely. But I just, no, I'm not saying I 352 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,800 use like, okay, you know, the fluid dynamics of the blood 353 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:26,240 flowing through the body is good. 354 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:27,760 Really gonna help me with this bench. 355 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,040 But it was just like learning like, OK, how do I design 356 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:34,640 something right? What is load bearing on a bench 357 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:37,640 so that I don't make a chair that breaks when someone that's 358 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:41,400 over 200 lbs sits on it? You know, you please remove your 359 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,080 phone wallet before you sit down. 360 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:47,200 There's just someone standing next to the bench at all times. 361 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,480 You have to be this short to sit on this bench. 362 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,040 I mean, you're making fun of yourself for. 363 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,440 Being an engineer when you were the ultimate fake engineer. 364 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,920 Prot engineering, yeah, I mean. Industrial. 365 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:02,080 District I would never, I would never claim that that was actual 366 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,480 engineering. But you made the claim. 367 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:06,320 This is a real engineering. I'm just saying this. 368 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,360 Is not a hot take. I, I, I would agree with you 369 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,680 that you were an engineer. I, I, I was in the engineering. 370 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,880 I wasn't an engineer. I I studied engineering. 371 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:15,760 You studied engineering and graduated with an engineering. 372 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:17,520 I had a major that was in the engineering college. 373 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:19,440 That was the farthest thing possible from engineering. 374 00:16:19,680 --> 00:16:22,040 Yeah. All I'm saying is that you said 375 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:24,960 you you, you were talking about the benchmaking and thinking 376 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,640 that your biomedical engineering degree was going to help you 377 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:29,320 with. That No well, I didn't have a 378 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:30,640 degree back then. This is my sophomore year in 379 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,920 college, but I just finished all the Gen. engineering classes you 380 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:36,280 had taken, you know, and so. High level calculus. 381 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,640 They had this computer that could draw on it, and then I 382 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:40,960 could, like, measure things on it and like, kind of make like a 383 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:42,280 3D model. Yeah. 384 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:45,240 And I could test like, OK, if you sit on now, why did I do 385 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,000 this for a bench? I don't know. 386 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,280 Yep. But it took me about two weeks 387 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:52,480 to build this bench, and you better believe that this is the 388 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:54,400 nicest bench I've ever. Seen it was. 389 00:16:54,400 --> 00:16:58,520 Look at that bench. But I I spent so much money of 390 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:02,080 this poor camp's budget for that summer, just like going to the 391 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,319 store to get wood, to get the right material. 392 00:17:04,319 --> 00:17:07,079 I was like filing things down. I rented all this equipment like 393 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:07,839 all this. Money. 394 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:10,680 We have money in the budget for music, for adoration. 395 00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:11,680 Nope. Jose spent. 396 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,119 It on the bench, it's a bench. Not enough. 397 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:15,760 Food to feed the. Kids to this day. 398 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:18,640 That was 10 years ago. It's still there and it's still 399 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:20,839 there. And it's a wonderful bench it 400 00:17:21,079 --> 00:17:26,200 it, you know, it's thanks to this bench, a lot of campers 401 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:27,880 have been able to have great experiences. 402 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,680 They they have great memories on this bench for sure because of 403 00:17:30,680 --> 00:17:32,320 how. Comfortable people come to 404 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,320 crash. And I think, I think you just 405 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:37,160 shared the really relatable experience when you're trying to 406 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,480 build something for the first time, which is the amount of 407 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,200 Home Depot runs that you have to have before you actually have 408 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:44,360 the materials that you need to build. 409 00:17:44,360 --> 00:17:49,280 Some less than or equal to 6. I mean, I would say her building 410 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:50,760 the garage shelves. I mean, I probably. 411 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:55,400 Went several times, yeah, I mean, but minimum, yeah, at 412 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,240 least five times. You ever seen your dad? 413 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,480 You ever seen your dad at Home Depot or, or, or yourself? 414 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:02,440 They're like, Oh yeah, what part do you need? 415 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:06,000 He's like, yeah, it's, you know, the one that screws in. 416 00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,840 They're like, Oh yeah, you're talking about the, the hex 417 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:09,040 wrench. Oh, yeah, absolutely. 418 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:09,920 That's the one. Yeah. 419 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:11,280 It was right on the tip of my tongue. 420 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,520 Or like, you go to the car shop and it's like, hey, what's wrong 421 00:18:14,520 --> 00:18:16,640 with your vehicle? And it's like, yeah, I don't 422 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,880 know, something's crunchy. And they're like, yeah, we, we 423 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,960 did some research. Your, your belts are a little. 424 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:22,040 Oh, that's what I thought it was. 425 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:23,120 Yep, that was. Right. 426 00:18:23,120 --> 00:18:26,240 Yeah, I I knew that was it. I knew it was the struts, you 427 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:28,480 know, don't know where they are, but I thought that was it. 428 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:30,840 Yeah, you know. I think you know the Home Depot 429 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,440 guys. They're always ready to ask you. 430 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,600 So cool. But I think that because they 431 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:37,880 know, I think they know. They're like, yeah, they're like 432 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,240 this guy. The average guy will not ask for 433 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,040 help. And he has a polo down. 434 00:18:42,360 --> 00:18:46,400 He has no idea where the wrench is or what screws. 435 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,520 In the light bulb section. Yeah, he's wearing Chacos in 436 00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:53,200 Home Depot, and there's no way he knows. 437 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,280 Well, I mean that that's kind of what I think went into this 438 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,360 bench. Like I said, it took me, I don't 439 00:18:59,360 --> 00:19:01,840 know how long it actually take me, but it took me at least at 440 00:19:01,840 --> 00:19:06,040 least a week, like 7 full days of just like trying to figure 441 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:09,160 out this bench because I was so scared of doing it wrong yes and 442 00:19:09,160 --> 00:19:12,240 I was so scared of I don't know how to build a bench and I don't 443 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:13,720 want to admit that to anyone maybe. 444 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,080 That's the point. Yeah. 445 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,920 And I think, I think that's the big fear is the fear of not 446 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,280 knowing what to do. Yeah, absolutely. 447 00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:23,480 And feeling like you should know what to do, even though no one's 448 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,560 ever, you know, taught you before, like the experience of 449 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:30,000 like the, the anger that I've felt trying to hang a picture 450 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:32,760 frame on the wall. Let me tell you get like 451 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:33,840 picture. Like if you're doing like a 452 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,880 gallery of photos, you got to you got to measure everything 453 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,920 out and you just, you just think like I'll just, you know, I'll, 454 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,200 I'll, you know, put a nail on the wall and I'll hang it up. 455 00:19:42,360 --> 00:19:44,720 There's so much measuring and pre work that has to go into it. 456 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:49,640 I think one of I had a really humbling experience with my 457 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,320 father-in-law. So the dining room table that we 458 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,120 have right now, it's. Really nice by the way. 459 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:55,800 Yeah. I mean, it's, it's for those of 460 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,800 our listeners that. Haven't eaten up the Caldwell 461 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,680 house. Yeah, it is sturdy. 462 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,720 It's sturdy. Over £200 load bearing. 463 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:04,640 Yeah, it's very load bearing. It's very load bearing. 464 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:06,680 But it was so we, it was kind of fun building it. 465 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:11,240 We took, I'm trying to remember, it was like some wood from my 466 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:16,280 wife's dad's parents house that they that they built and then 467 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,120 from the other side of the family some extra. 468 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,840 So it was like, you know, kind of, I mean the whole the point 469 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,760 was not to make it sentimental, but it was kind of cool. 470 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,960 It's like, you know, it comes from the grandparents houses or 471 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:27,560 whatnot. But we were building it together 472 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:29,960 and I'd never really. I'd never built a table before, 473 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:34,480 but my father-in-law owns a construction remodeling business 474 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,840 that. Great father-in-law to have. 475 00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:38,440 Oh absolutely. That's so handy. 476 00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:40,640 And his father was the one that started the company. 477 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,760 So it's, it's been around for 55 years or whatever in San 478 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:45,600 Antonio. But we were going to here's a 479 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,400 garage, obviously with every tool imaginable. 480 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,160 And we were going in there to to cut some wood for the table and 481 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,760 the legs, you know, had to be cut at a certain angle. 482 00:20:54,360 --> 00:20:57,000 And so we're cutting this wood and we cut it at the wrong 483 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,960 angle. And if that were me in that 484 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,040 moment, having never done this before, cutting the wood at the 485 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:08,440 wrong angle, I would have been so upset and frustrated. 486 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,120 Myself. Because now I'm like, I got to 487 00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:12,280 get any wood, you know, what am I going to do now? 488 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,320 I mess this up like blah, blah. But his reaction was like, you 489 00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:17,440 know, would you look at that? You know, we cut, we cut this 490 00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:20,000 thing at the at the wrong angle. He always, he has a line. 491 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,040 He always says, let's get some light on the subject here. 492 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:27,320 And he was just like, let's fix this problem that we created. 493 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,840 And it, it actually, it really struck me in the moment. 494 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:35,360 So I was like, here's this guy who's been doing this his entire 495 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:38,640 life and we're building a table. And he, you know, he built his 496 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,360 own dining room table. He's built other dining room 497 00:21:40,360 --> 00:21:42,160 tables before for other family members. 498 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,520 And he messed up, right? And his reaction was like, let's 499 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,880 figure out how to fix it. There's no anger. 500 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:51,680 And I was like, wow, I, why am I putting so much pressure on 501 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,480 myself to get it right? Perfectly the first time that 502 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,320 I've ever told you. You know, I mean, yeah, it's 503 00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:00,800 impossible. Not just that but I am always 504 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:05,800 like why am I so scared of not knowing how to do something that 505 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:09,360 I've never done before Or why am I so scared to ask for help like 506 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:11,600 my cars AC just went out last weekend. 507 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,360 Welcome to the club baby. For for those of our listeners, 508 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:21,400 Clayton's been driving in a totaled 2008 Toyota Camry in 509 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:23,680 since 2010. It's been total since 2010. 510 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,600 This. Thing still moves is insane. 511 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,840 You've been without AC for 10 years now. 512 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,240 The entire time I've owned it, when I got it when I was 16, it 513 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,240 was my dad's car. My favorite, my favorite story. 514 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,560 They have a lot of great stories of Clayton's Camry. 515 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:41,080 Yeah. The best 1 though is is when he 516 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:44,360 started working, he was going around and meeting with people 517 00:22:44,360 --> 00:22:45,880 to tell him about the work he was doing. 518 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,120 And it was, it was the Texas summer. 519 00:22:48,120 --> 00:22:53,200 So it's like, you know, as hot as hell down there 120° yeah, no 520 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,680 AC. He would bring 3 to 4 pairs of 521 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:59,840 clothes per day, and he would park far away before the meeting 522 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:01,720 just to try to. Cool, off to. 523 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,480 Try to cool off and change polos. 524 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,080 I thought you would show up early and like go to the 525 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,880 bathroom at like a. Coffee shop? 526 00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:08,720 No that just spray the boy. I would have like multiple 527 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,720 towels in my car and I'd put it down and take my shirt off and 528 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:13,360 put it like a extra for sure that I had on. 529 00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:15,000 That's ridiculous. Wipe everything down. 530 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,880 But yeah, actually this car is special to me. 531 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,160 Well, at this point it's special shared sweat together. 532 00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:27,840 When I was living in Stillwater, OK at Oklahoma State, I was 533 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,800 working as a missionary there. My, I brought my car in because 534 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:32,640 it was really, you know, bumpy on the road. 535 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:34,960 I was going, I was like, this does not feel safe, you know, 536 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:39,720 and I needed new struts on the car or shocks if you will, 537 00:23:40,120 --> 00:23:41,480 struts or shocks, you know, the same thing. 538 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:43,440 I I shocked, I'm nodding my head. 539 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,440 I don't know what the point. Well I think this is my limited 540 00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:50,080 understanding is that shocks would be more for like a larger 541 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:51,960 car. And not a hybrid. 542 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,880 Camry Yeah, and and the and the strut is basically what connects 543 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,320 the the wheel to the the frame of the car. 544 00:23:58,720 --> 00:23:59,960 You know, lousy. It's like your suspension 545 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,080 system, you know as well. So it's like you need new I. 546 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:05,760 Was going to say that you need the struts. 547 00:24:06,120 --> 00:24:10,280 You need new struts and you know, it was like a $5000 bill, 548 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:13,800 which this thing, I would have to pay someone $5000 to take 549 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,640 this car away from me. I mean, it is worth, it's worth 550 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,720 nothing. And but I, you know, I was at a 551 00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,400 point where I was like, I don't want to buy a new car. 552 00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:22,840 You know, we were having kids, we didn't have a whole lot of 553 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,880 money. And so I was like, I just need 554 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,080 to figure out how to fix this myself. 555 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,360 So I started looking up all the parts and all the tools that I 556 00:24:29,360 --> 00:24:33,080 needed and I think I spent a total of like $900.00 for. 557 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,720 A 5K fix? Yes. 558 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,000 That's kind of, so I got the different parts and it was like 559 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:38,920 there was other things that I need to do too, like different 560 00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:40,080 fluids and things need to be flashed. 561 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:42,360 And so I was like, I'm just going to try and figure this 562 00:24:42,360 --> 00:24:43,200 out. It can't be that hard. 563 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:46,920 And I found some YouTube videos and it took me it took me like 2 564 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:49,880 weeks or so because and my car was just jacked up on my 565 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,800 driveway the the entire time. You were that neighbor. 566 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,560 Yeah, but I had friends come over to like kind of, you know, 567 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,560 trying to help me. There was an engineer that came 568 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,280 over and kind of knew what he was doing, but I finally got the 569 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:03,600 struts replaced and the first time driving the car to the 570 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,920 driveway was kind of scary, terrifying. 571 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,000 It was, it was terrifying. But the funniest thing was that 572 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:12,560 probably like a year and a half, well, this is like 2 1/2 years 573 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:15,200 later. I was moved out here, was living 574 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:20,160 in Denver, Co and my tires were really bad. 575 00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:22,480 I was coming down the mountain and I was like slipping and 576 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,200 sliding everywhere and I was like, I just got these, you 577 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,520 know, all weathered tires, you know, like this, what's going 578 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,360 like what's going on here? And so I, I looked at my tire 579 00:25:30,360 --> 00:25:33,160 and I was like, oh wow, two of these tires are completely bald, 580 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,240 like no tread whatsoever. I decided to even looked at. 581 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,040 It, you know. Yeah. 582 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:37,360 Yeah. Yeah. 583 00:25:37,360 --> 00:25:39,040 And so I was like, oh, I need to get get a new tire. 584 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:41,320 So I went in and got new tires. And the guy was like, hey, I 585 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,880 think, you know, you need to get your alignment checked. 586 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,240 Have you done that? And I was like, no, I'm. 587 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,200 Perfectly aligned so. Then I brought it into another 588 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:54,440 store and the guy was like, hey, have you have you replaced any 589 00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:57,680 parts on your car? And I was like Nope. 590 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,160 And definitely not the stress he. 591 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:06,360 Was like your, your car, like your, your alignment was so bad 592 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,440 that your, your tires were, you know, completely stripped. 593 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,160 But because of it, essentially he's like, at any given moment, 594 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,600 all four of your tires could have fallen off your car. 595 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,240 And he was like, Are you sure you didn't replace any parts? 596 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,400 And I was like, I do not that I can remember. 597 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,000 I was too embarrassed to admit I replaced the Shruts, but I 598 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:24,040 didn't know what I was doing. Yeah. 599 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,600 So I didn't even think like, hey, I should get this. 600 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,800 Well, that that was exactly my. Story my biggest That's the 601 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:31,920 biggest fear. Yeah. 602 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,160 Is that why? Why are we so scared of being 603 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,000 found of that? Right, right. 604 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,200 Like what do you think? Why is that I? 605 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:42,680 I mean, at the end of the day, part of it, I think for US 606 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:48,120 married men is our wives probably don't have the space or 607 00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:49,960 time to be able to go fix the struts. 608 00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,480 Like they're, they have, you know, they're taking care of 609 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,960 children, they may be working. And so we know like it's on, 610 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,680 it's on us. My wife wants us to, to build a 611 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,920 chicken coop this summer so that we can be HOA homesteaders. 612 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,480 But the HOA says you can only have 6 chickens though, which is 613 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:10,760 just funny because why 6? So no Roosters under 6 or under 614 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,000 chickens. And I'm just like, she's like, I 615 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,600 need you to build a chicken coop because I want chickens. 616 00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,160 And I'm like, I want to give that to her. 617 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:18,280 I want to give her that experience of, of, you know, 618 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:20,480 being able to have free, free range. 619 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:28,440 And by free range, I mean 1/4 of 1/4 of an acre quarter lot. 620 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,560 But I'm like, I want to, I want to do that for her. 621 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,320 And I think it'd be, she'd be so she would feel so loved if I was 622 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,840 able to do it. And so the reality is the fear 623 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,960 is like, if I fail, I'm not failing to build a coop, I'm 624 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:46,400 failing my wife, I'm failing my kids having to eat, you know, 625 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,600 the Kirkland browned free range eggs instead of the lucido free 626 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,320 range eggs. So anyways, I think that I think 627 00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,680 that's most of it. And I think for guys, you know, 628 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:59,880 who are, who are afraid to jump in there, it's like at the end 629 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,800 of the day, if you're not willing to to lose a little bit, 630 00:28:04,120 --> 00:28:07,000 both money miles on your car driving to Home Depot. 631 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,840 I've actually switched Ace Hardware because they have free 632 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:14,440 popcorn. That fits with the HOA chicken. 633 00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:18,880 Just eating my Ace Hardware pop. It's amazing. 634 00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:22,560 So my part of my HOA also has 10% off at the Ace Hardware. 635 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:24,800 Yeah. So you feel like you're, you 636 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,360 feel like you're. Hey baby, you want have a moving 637 00:28:26,360 --> 00:28:27,480 that? Yeah, I'll run over to Ace 638 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:32,960 Hardware Grouse and Popcorn. But it's also, there's something 639 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:34,240 about Ace, It's a little bit more. 640 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,240 It's, it's less scary. You walk into Home Depot, it's 641 00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,680 very overwhelming. I don't what do you mean by 642 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,840 that? The Ace Hardwares are smaller 643 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,360 and they're more more often in strip malls. 644 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,200 It's like right now it's Papa Murphy's Ace Hardware always 645 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,040 right now. And then you got like Papa 646 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,600 Murphy's Ace Hardware. There's like Cricket Wireless 647 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,040 and and it's right in between them. 648 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,480 Boost Mobile. And anyways, I've switched, I've 649 00:28:57,480 --> 00:29:00,080 switched ACE because it's just it's not as intimidating. 650 00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:02,240 It's not as intimidating. In popcorn. 651 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,920 Yep, can't forget the popcorn. That's it. 652 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,360 Yeah. I just, I feel like there's an 653 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:11,440 element of do I have what it takes? 654 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:15,560 You wanna be a provider. And then there's these 655 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,960 situations that you get into where you're kind of out of your 656 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,480 element. No one's ever taught you to do 657 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,920 this. I mean, this, this that might 658 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,320 even go beyond just like fixing things, you know, just in 659 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,360 general. I mean, just being married, 660 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:30,680 having children, you know, work, you know, being in your, in your 661 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:31,880 job and trying to figure things out. 662 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:36,120 Just an element of like, you know, I've been tasked with some 663 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:42,240 responsibility and I don't know, I don't know what to do, you 664 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:43,760 know. And I think, I mean, that's 665 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,320 something that I feel like, you know, I've had to grow. 666 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,400 I still have to grow. And it's like this ability to 667 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:53,360 allow myself to be, to be weak and to ask and to ask for help, 668 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,280 you know, I mean, growing up well. 669 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,600 Even then, I'm like, I wouldn't necessarily say that's a weak 670 00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,200 thing. Well. 671 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:00,240 Well, that, well, that's what I mean. 672 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,720 It's just like showing some sign of. 673 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:05,880 Like part of the problem. For saying you're, you're weak 674 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,840 for having to well, no, well, that's not, that's not what I 675 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,520 mean. It's like, you know, to, to say 676 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,640 that I don't, I don't know everything. 677 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:14,120 No, I know, I know. You know what I'm saying. 678 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,320 It's not just you know that I would, you'd probably say that's 679 00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:17,920 a strength, you know, being willing to ask for help. 680 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,040 My biggest weakness is my biggest strength. 681 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,160 I care too much about it. I care too much. 682 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:25,240 I work too hard. I work too hard. 683 00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,000 I'm on integrity PTO but I don't take any days off. 684 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,240 Are you have you guys gone to birth classes? 685 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,160 Yes, we just finished them a couple of weeks ago. 686 00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,120 How were they? They were long. 687 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,760 It was. We went to this course. 688 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,320 It was. Over the course, This isn't the 689 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:46,720 absent Father episode. It was it was 4 weeks long and 690 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:52,320 it was 3 1/2 hours per sitting. So four classes over 4 weeks, 3 691 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,040 1/2 hours each. So it was just a lot. 692 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:57,680 And the style of teaching, like wasn't too engaging. 693 00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:58,880 It was very helpful. Yeah. 694 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:03,000 Because before going to this birth class, I thought when my 695 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,920 wife goes into labor, I'll go to the hospital. 696 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,600 We'll just kind of hang out for a little bit and then we'll 697 00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,040 leave with a baby. Yeah. 698 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:10,360 Like that's all I thought there was to it. 699 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,240 So it was helpful, I think for well for both of us, but for me 700 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,120 special like there's so much more that I can be doing to make 701 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,040 sure my. It's the same feeling trying to 702 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,640 build a bookshelf. Yeah. 703 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,080 As it is when the nurse leaves the room after the baby comes. 704 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:29,040 It's like I went to 42 hours of birth classes and they never 705 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,960 covered holding it. Oh yeah. 706 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,680 Or swaddling it. Yes or what? 707 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:35,640 No, just. Don't shake, don't shake, don't 708 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,040 shake the baby well. When, Yeah, when it's when you 709 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:42,360 haven't slept. And I'll never forget we had 710 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,080 Eden. And the nurse is there and, you 711 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:46,880 know, they're with you and they're like, showing you, you 712 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,520 know, changing the diaper, things like that. 713 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:51,280 And then they leave and I was like, wait, wait. 714 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:52,800 Where you going? Where you going? 715 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:56,840 There's no DVDs. There's no manuals, DVDs. 716 00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,760 All there is is you, your wife and a baby. 717 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,920 And all of a sudden you're faced with the reality. 718 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:03,720 I don't know what to do. Yeah. 719 00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:05,440 I don't know how to support her. Yeah. 720 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:07,520 I don't know how to take care of her. 721 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,880 Yeah. When she just went through a 722 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,240 crazy situation. Now she's going to be trying to 723 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,640 nurse the baby in the middle of the night. 724 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:16,800 I'm. I'm supposed to step up and I, 725 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:18,960 you know, can't even wake up at my alarm. 726 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,920 Yeah. Yeah, I'm supposed to be this 727 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:22,360 man. And it's the exact same 728 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,120 experience, right, that you were talking about of do I have what 729 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:26,480 it takes in this situation? Yeah. 730 00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:30,040 So I mean, what do you think the solution is there? 731 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,800 Because we don't, we don't obviously know everything. 732 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:36,440 Is it just like, is it being willing to try new things and 733 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:38,920 not get mad at yourself, or is it being willing to ask for help 734 00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:40,920 when you need help? Is it a combination of both, 735 00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:45,080 like for, you know, if you're talking to me or someone like me 736 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,040 who gets angry when he tries to hang up a famous photo on the 737 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,400 wall? You know, like, what do I need? 738 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,880 Do I need to call my neighbor and ask him to help me hang out 739 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,320 my picture? Do I just need to chill out a 740 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:56,240 little bit? Hey, Jimmy. 741 00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:01,400 Can you help me? Hey 911, I can't hang this 742 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,400 picture. I can't find the stud. 743 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,040 I, I've been thinking about this a little bit. 744 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,120 I don't know, to answer your question, I think it is a little 745 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,800 bit of both, but I also think there's something else to it. 746 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:15,120 Like I'm thinking I'm about to have my first kit, right? 747 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:19,240 We're having a son and I'm thinking like, how can I make 748 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,800 sure he's nothing like me when it comes to like fixing things, 749 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,360 right? And it's like, yeah, it's not 750 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:27,640 like I can just take my kid through an 18 year course of how 751 00:33:27,640 --> 00:33:30,320 to fix absolutely everything. Yeah, but I definitely want to 752 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,400 at least make him a little bit familiar with fixing things. 753 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:37,080 Yeah, with taking a little bit of ownership. 754 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:38,400 You don't know what you're doing. 755 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:39,760 Well, yeah, that's why I don't know. 756 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,320 And that's where like maybe I was going to ask y'all of how 757 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:44,120 you guys are approaching this with your kids. 758 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,320 I think, I think kind of all what, what all of us are saying. 759 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:49,960 It's just, it's like, it's the fear of messing up. 760 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:51,680 It's, it's the fear of messing up. 761 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:53,440 And so I'm like, if there's something that I could teach my 762 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:57,880 kids, I might not be able to, you know, teach him how to, you 763 00:33:57,880 --> 00:33:59,400 know, change the struts on his scar. 764 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:00,680 Maybe I could, you know, I wouldn't. 765 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,480 I still wouldn't be very good at it because I've only done it one 766 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,560 time. But maybe what I could teach him 767 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,440 is like a mentality of like, it's OK to try new things. 768 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:08,560 Yeah. It's OK to not know what you're 769 00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:11,239 doing and like, you get to be with Dad and maybe doing it 770 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,280 because he doesn't really know what he's doing either. 771 00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:14,719 And I'm OK with that. Yeah. 772 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:16,600 And let's figure this out kind of, let's say, with your 773 00:34:16,639 --> 00:34:18,040 father-in-law. Yes, exactly. 774 00:34:18,199 --> 00:34:20,400 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, let's say what is it? 775 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,360 Let's shed some light on that. Let's let's get some light on 776 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:22,639 that. Let's. 777 00:34:22,639 --> 00:34:25,480 Get some light on this subject. Yeah, I, I think that might be 778 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:28,080 the first place to start of like, yeah, you might not know 779 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:31,400 what you're doing, but you're just getting them familiar 780 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:34,880 around these things by doing it together and just discovering 781 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:35,600 together. Yeah. 782 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:39,400 And in that way, you're also teaching them ideally, 783 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,440 theoretically, what it looks like for someone to be OK with 784 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,400 failing, with not knowing what they're doing right with. 785 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,719 Hey, actually I'm a little out of my depth here, but let's take 786 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,280 the car to the shop. You know, I think it's time to 787 00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:51,639 take the car to. The shop, you say it out of my 788 00:34:51,679 --> 00:34:53,840 depth. Yeah, I like that You've heard 789 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:54,560 that. Come up with that. 790 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:55,480 It's a. Common saying. 791 00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:57,360 Pretty common saying I'd say I've. 792 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,560 Never heard that. Have you heard that? 793 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,520 Yeah, I definitely have. Out of my depth, out of my 794 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:03,760 element. Yeah, out of my element. 795 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,640 Let's shed some light on that that you haven't heard. 796 00:35:05,720 --> 00:35:07,480 That I mean, at the end of the day that I still want my kid to 797 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,680 know how to do stuff. Yeah, but it's not like I have a 798 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:15,000 ranking system of they need to a first thing they're gonna learn 799 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,640 is how to make a bench, you know, Second thing is let. 800 00:35:18,240 --> 00:35:20,440 Me tell you about this bench we're gonna we're gonna go visit 801 00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,800 this summer camp that I worked at my sophomore year college so 802 00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:23,320 I can show. You. 803 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:24,400 So do you see that bench over there? 804 00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,720 Oh yeah, I know you're thinking I built it load bearing. 805 00:35:27,720 --> 00:35:31,120 That's that's our family heirloom that's gonna be passed 806 00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,640 down to you and you're gonna pass down to your son one day, 807 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:38,240 Tom. Yeah, I think maybe that's you 808 00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:39,920 hit it right. The nail right on the head. 809 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:43,920 That's exactly. How you do it with your kid, you 810 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,560 failed together. You do it together, you're OK 811 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:47,480 with it. Yeah. 812 00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,200 And they'll slowly become familiar with those things too. 813 00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,360 And hopefully you have a father-in-law on construction 814 00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,000 remodeling who can actually. Teach him stuff too. 815 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,120 Yeah, that's a little safety. Net, that's a first date. 816 00:35:58,120 --> 00:35:59,880 That's a first date question right there. 817 00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:01,920 What is your what is your dad? I'm. 818 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,800 Curious. My dad's actually on the PGA 819 00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,920 Tour. Yeah, not gonna work. 820 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,640 He doesn't fix things, does he? Only my you. 821 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,600 Know you can come with us to Augusta National, watch the 822 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:15,840 Masters. I'm sorry, cut it. 823 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,400 Can't do that. Doesn't have a pair of pliers. 824 00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,280 That's great. You know, my my father-in-law, 825 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,360 every single time he comes over to my house, he buys me new 2 826 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,160 like so nice, which is kind of it's. 827 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:27,960 Amazing. Yeah. 828 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,960 Because that's my that's probably one of my biggest 829 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:31,320 problems. I don't own anything. 830 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:33,600 Yeah, to help me fix. Something and I don't even know. 831 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,280 I got 2 hammers and an automatic drill. 832 00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:37,880 Yeah, that's it. Yeah. 833 00:36:38,240 --> 00:36:42,640 You can do a lot. And then actually I'm kind of 834 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,040 embarrassed. I have all electric lawn mowing 835 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:48,600 equipment, which is just when you have to plug in your lawn 836 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,240 mower to an outlet. You just plug it in, or like a 837 00:36:51,240 --> 00:36:53,640 battery, you charge it. There's two different ways, so 838 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,800 you can either plug it in or you have the Ryobi. 839 00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,040 Like you plug it in as you. Push it. 840 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,560 Can you plug in the Ryobi directly? 841 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,160 Where? Wow, I got I have the one. 842 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,920 I mean I charge the battery and then I put the battery in there. 843 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,640 So you can you, I have that, but then there's also a cord based 844 00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,360 system that you can run to a power outlet. 845 00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,920 Interesting. That's very interesting. 846 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:16,680 Free Range Free range 10 feet from your house. 847 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,400 That's great. Well, I think we'll close out 848 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:19,960 there. Yep. 849 00:37:21,720 --> 00:37:24,920 Thank you guys for tuning in. Thank you guys for discovering 850 00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:26,840 how to fix things, how to build benches with us. 851 00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:30,200 Make sure to like this to subscribe and to share with some 852 00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:31,920 friends. This is the All In podcast.