Hello lesbians. God, it feels like forever since
I spoken to Mike. I can't even remember when it
was. I think I was interviewing Anna.
I'm really not sure. Liv is looking at me, nodding.
Like I was actually going to have Liv on the episode with me
today, but someone's got a very, very poorly throat.
Poorly throat and mouth. I'm looking at her right now and
it looks as if I'm slightly concerned.
Looking at that ulcer on your lip.
It looks like something. Why it?
Looks like not a cold sore. No, not a cold sore, it looks
like. It looks like something that
maybe like a malnourished pirate would have had, like scurvy.
What if you have scurvy? Scurvy goes in the mouth.
You know that right? Is how do you know?
How do you know? I'm quickly having a look at
what scurvy of the mouth looks like.
Scurvy of the mouth. Did you hear that scurvy of the
lip? I don't have scurvy of the.
Leg OK, it's looking quite brutal that show.
I really don't think you've got that.
It would be quite funny to say that you had scurvy, yo.
Yeah. She went to the doctor's.
Although these pictures are quite harrowing so I urge you
not to have a look at scurvy of the mouth.
Actually, guys got so many, so many things have happened within
these few weeks that I have not spoken to you.
Bear in mind this is not just the Freya podcast.
Now, I promise Scarlett will be back, but she has had, if you
guys haven't seen on social, she's had a really bad issue
with her head recently, like the past few weeks and she was
supposed to do an episode. We're not sure what it is, but I
I think that it's best for her to to take some time to dress up
the head. It really seems like an actual
nightmare. However, she is loving the fact
that she's got an oxygen tank. She's really, really into it.
Think that her next step is probably going to be to take a
photo and send it to her mum to put on her Facebook just for
some extra attention. But yeah, everybody send their
well wishes to Scarlett for a nice quick recovery.
We know that she's always suffered with migraines, so this
is slightly different. I could say the typical X thing
and say she's clearly just fucked in the head, but I don't
actually think that that's the case.
But no, I'm fucked in the head and her head is fucked.
That's the difference between the two of us.
But yeah, she will be coming back once she's more on the
mend. I do think that she's a bit
better right now than she was before, bless her.
I wanted to know out a couple of things that's happened.
Gay News who's has somebody been seen as being gay recently?
I mean, well, Rosalia and Lolly walking the streets of Harris
and Rosalia going like she went in on the classiest way possible
on the paparazzi guy. I really, really enjoyed that,
where she basically just kind of laughed at him.
But you know, that angry laughter.
I fucking love that. It was one of the most like,
lesbian things I've ever seen. Just in the way that it was
handled. It was beautiful because they're
such such a beautiful couple. It's insane.
What were you saying in terms of gay?
Oh, yeah, don't. Well, yeah, don't.
She came out as a lesbian, but just in her bio, which I think
is quite iconic. I really wish that I did that
when I was coming out. I wish I just updated my
Facebook status. I'm gay.
However, loads of people did that to me back in the.
Do you remember when it used to be called being fraped?
And it's actually quite problematic, really.
But everything was online back then, and people would always go
onto my Facebook and say I'm gay.
And I think it all is starting to check out to be honest.
There's so many things I told on myself for as well.
I'll never forget when I wrote when I was I think I was like
20. I did a post on Facebook and on
Instagram that was I just found some generic photo of a pride
flag just waving around in the wind and being like happy pride.
I love being an ally. Fuck off Freya you fucking
bullshitting liar. No one is that invested in gay
rights who is straight because you are gay, you are gay.
I am. The fact that I posted that and
it comes up as a reminder every year on my Facebook account, I
need to start sharing it. And one thing that has gotten me
really, really fucking riled up though, is the Manosphere
documentary that Louis Theroux has recently done and put onto
Netflix. And if you guys haven't seen it,
Manosphere is following the lives of the likes of HS Ticky
Talkie, some other guy who look, the only way that I could
describe these men are the type of boys, I think especially if
you're like my age, 32, they were the type of boys that you
would like go to a club and they would think that they were hot
shit because they were jacked. But like no one really wanted to
go near them though, because they're a bit weird.
So basically like that but on steroids.
Quite figuratively and literally.
They are some of the most disturbing creatures I've ever
seen in my life. And they are mixed with both
evil genius and boyhood stupidity all in one.
I don't know how to quite describe it, but it's a really,
really dangerous mix. And it's also a dangerous mix of
a very fragile ego as well. And Louis Theroux's job is to go
into these boys who are doing podcasts.
First of all, ban straight men with mics.
It should be illegal that men have access to microphones.
They don't need it. They don't need a podcast.
They don't need an audience. These boys are criminal like,
and I mean that in quite the literal sense.
I do believe that what they are doing is quite criminal.
They are exploiting women. They're also exploiting the
minds of young boys and they are weaponizing women.
And they're also the most sexualizing and weaponizing
women. So it's a bit like if you were
to put a bra on a fucking army tank.
They are so incredibly, no, they're just, they're just
misinforming boys. And I've said this before about
Andrew Tate, the likes of Andrew Tate, where they need to keep
boys being fucking losers because they are their base of
income, right? So by my course, you've got to
be a dumb cunt to buy their course.
So if they start elevating these guys in the way that they're
promising to do, then they're out of their fucking audience.
They need to keep them locked in and they will say that the world
is like a machine and that they're like sheep.
You know, they're all these red pill men.
But it's so ironic because these little boys are following these
other deranged boys. Men just like little sheep.
And it concerns me that this is the way that the world is
heading and that there's. It's so funny because as soon as
female writes just fucking like we go an inch forward in the
right direction, it then turns into, and this isn't just the
lights of these manosphere boys. It's also just kind of more like
quite UN quote regular men as well that do all of these
inspirational quotes about like men and how we should really be
like fighting for men and boys. And this is what boyhood is.
And like, because they feel so fucking threatened because women
are getting a little bit, a little bit more rights than they
ever have, but even then barely not at all, to be honest, like
the the equality gap is so fucking huge, but they cannot
stand it. They cannot stand it.
They are so insanely threatened and I'm just watching this show
and what worries me is their convictions.
Their conviction is so fucking good that they're brainwashing
will work because they're so they're just so convicted and
all these boys need is just a little bit conviction and access
to an Internet and their general self esteem issues and then
mixed up with hatred of women, which you claim to be into
women. All these men by the way, gay.
Every single one of them, they are gay.
There is not one of those men. The HS ticky talkie, that weird
one with the wife that said that he wanted to open it up and she
was like what the fuck do you mean?
The other one with the other wife who they all believe in
like one way monogamy, which is OK, So they all just believe in
cheating. OK, got it, got it, got it.
They're all gay. Every fucking one of them.
I bet you everything in my account they are gay.
In other news, it's fucked fryer off that needs to be a segment
fucked fryer off the FFO instead of OF it's FFO.
Welcome to fryers fucked fryer off.
The BBC has cancelled I kissed a girl and I kissed the boy and
can I just say that it is before even the second season was aired
of I kissed a girl. So it's clearly got nothing to
do with ratings because we've actually know and we looked it
up that it's 62. It performed.
Was it 62% better? It was around 63, whatever the
fuck, it was in the 60s. Percent better than the average
show on the BBC. That's the first fucking thing.
So where this budgetary issue has come into, I will never
understand because, well, I don't need to understand because
it's a fucking lie. It's all just riddled with
political agenda. And this is what's happened so
many times that we've seen this happen.
We've seen this happen with so many shows that have been really
fucking popular and then all of a sudden, oh, they're out.
Whereas how many pointless, fucking boring hetero shows are
still just going on and on and on, even like the Love Island,
Love Island, like, I mean, too far.
A lot of people still watch that bullshit.
But like, you know, think about too hot to handle, I think too
hot to handle I think did well for two seasons.
I'm pretty sure it's still going on because it's just majority
hetero, right? And anything that is basically
designed for straight people will just continue to go on and
will continue to be boring because of course it is because
it's straight and we're so fucking over and who gives a
fuck? But it's, it's just a sign that
it's just a sign that even though we always think that
things are changing and we're hoping that things are changing,
we know that politically things are being challenged more and
more and more. And which is why we've always
said that when they're coming for trans rights.
First of all, we should always be standing up for the different
letters under the LGBTQ plus community and supporting our
people, even if it doesn't impact us, right?
However, if you don't give a shit about that, think about the
fact that it actually will impact you if they manage to go
for the minority within the minority.
So that's what they do. It's dividing and conquering.
That's why they go for the trans within the LGBTQ plus community
because it is the most marginalized part of our
community. So we're now at a position where
the world is fucked and that's why it's really important to
rally. We will definitely be posting
any kind of petitions that we can and and ensuring that you
guys actually stream this on BBC Three as well.
I don't want to give them any money, I don't want to give them
the attention. But the main thing is, is
proving a fucking point. So they need to see how many
viewers are actually watching this show for season 2.
So boycotting it is not the answer.
We really want another network to pick this up.
I don't want the network to turn around and be like, oh,
actually, seeing as we've got these viewers will keep it.
That's not gonna happen anyway. But I don't want them to because
they shouldn't profit off of it. I wish I had my own fucking
network. So some so something that Cara
Kinney from I Kiss the Girls Season 1 came out and said, if
you're struggling with budgets for the show, you don't have to
have Danni Minogue on the show. No shade to Danny at all because
I absolutely love her. I've met her in person as well
and she's really, really wonderful woman.
But I suppose that this is where people are like pointing fingers
because they're like, OK, well, maybe you don't need a celebrity
to host it. Maybe you could get like an
influencer or something. I mean, I know that Charlie
Marlow does the voice overs etcetera, but the issue then
being is and and actually she says this, but should we be
looking at budget cutting it anyway regardless?
Because we shouldn't, We shouldn't yeah, but we shouldn't
be doing like a sub par version where they they don't stay in a
villa in Italy. They now go to a Travelodge in
Slough. Yeah.
But I think that what happens is, is that once then it becomes
even more political because then fingers get pointed over to
Danni Minogue. If they end up getting somebody
else in, that's going to be cheaper.
They'll be like, why didn't you do it cheaper?
But then why should she also reduce her rate for the things,
you know? So it's like, it's a really,
really complicated thing. I think All in all, the budget
just shouldn't have been even mentioned because it clearly
isn't a budgetary issue. Like, shut the fuck up.
It ain't a budgetary issue. I would love to speak to
somebody for the BBC, just get them to sit down and just talk
to them about this. But it's never going to happen.
However it might happen. Maybe I should bamboozle them
and get them on the Lesbian Selfie Club podcast to say that
we're so grateful that they ever showed it.
And that's the guys I'm going under.
And I say that I want to get them on because I think that
everyone's actually been really mean and that we should all give
them a Gold Star for letting us watch the shows initially.
And then they get on my podcast. I spit in their face.
What do you think of that love? She said, Yeah, sure.
So I think that's a good idea. Yeah.
I I think The thing is, is that outrage doesn't really happen
anymore. And the same goes for ICE, The
same goes for Lebanon. Fuck what Israel is doing,
basically. The same goes for Iran.
The same goes for Congo. The same goes literally
everything. I do just think that the world
has become so dire that we're like literally heading over to a
World War three that everyone's just a bit like, OK but I do
still feel like outrage should happen.
But also maybe our attention should be put towards
independent channels instead. So fuck them that money can go
elsewhere. Fucking do you know what it is?
And also I literally BBC fucking probably ordered this over to my
house. I got I opened up my door the
other day and I saw this letter that was read.
I was like, Oh my God, I am in deep shit.
And by the way, guys, if you have ADHD, do you know that you
always feel like you're in fucking trouble?
I always feel like I'm in trouble.
So when I actually am in trouble, it's like my world is
ending. I saw a letter on my doorstep
and I'm like, well, it could be any of the things that I forgot
to pay for because that is the story of my fucking life.
And it's a red letter. I open it up and it's a fucking
TV license. Like, we're going to come to
your home. Come to my home.
They said that they've arrived. They've already been to the
property. Apparently they'd already been
to my property. First of all, not answering the
door anymore. Secondly, I don't watch fucking
TV. Have have it off mate.
They said it was ABBC iPlayer so they can go fuck themselves.
So do you know what? I'm taking my stand and I
haven't paid my TV license. Fucking BBC pricks.
I've got ATV but I just use my my PlayStation for it and I
watch Netflix and shit on it and never.
I don't even think I plugged it into the satellite.
I don't. I just.
Yeah, I've had enough. The world is really expensive
and it's really shit. That being said, you know, it
isn't expensive. Spain.
Oh, did I talk about Paris?
No, I haven't even spoken about Paris.
Oh, my God, There's so many things that have happened.
We went to Paris last month to host a lesbian wine night.
Oh, it was so much fucking fun. When I tell you I've never,
never enjoyed the trip more in my life.
Like especially to put it down as a quote UN quote work trip,
which is basically just lesbians running around London, talking
to different brands, walking the streets, having the lesbians.
Why not? I felt like it was my birthday
on crack. I had the best time.
We hosted it at this bar called Measures and it was so
beautiful, such a good vibe and all of the women that I met
there. I love you all.
I spoke to this one woman for a little bit and she said that
she's been listening for a long time.
And if you're listening now, I fucking love you.
You are so sweet. And I say this about everyone,
all of you that come to me and you tell me that you listen to
the podcast. So you can't just kindly tell us
that you listen to the podcast. Just know that so many of you
say, God, I'm so sorry if I'm annoying you.
I'm like, when in the world would this ever annoy me?
It is the cutest and sweetest and best thing to for us to hear
and it's so nice to actually meet you and to talk to you
properly instead of just over a mic and seeing a number.
So thank you so much for all of you who do actually do that and
it is encouraged and I will give you a hug whether you like it or
not. Sorry, but Paris is right.
I ate so much, just so much baguette.
So much fucking baguette. And I also stayed at the Miro
Hotel, the Le Grande Kaye Kaye CAYRE in Salt St.
Jamal. And it is so as you volition
Tasha. It is so fucking nice.
And the room was insane. I walked into the room and
straight away I see the balcony overlooking the Eiffel Tower and
I went out. I looked at Liv and I was like
I'll live live. I looked at Nah and I was like
Nah this is fucking sick. This is so good.
And I just like, I had to have a moment because I kind of wanted
to show baby closeted Freya what her life could look like in a
few years after fully accepting herself.
And it felt like an amazing moment and a real success moment
with Lesbian Supper Club taking it over to Paris, which is
notoriously Parisians are the hardest people to please in the
world. And the fact that we all had an
amazing time was just incredible.
And we're going to be out there again in April the 16th.
So this is going to be really fucking fun and I cannot wait to
see you guys again and more of you.
And I've also been trolling the streets of Barcelona too and
found a really nice venue to do a lesbian Why night there.
So if you are listening in Spain, Barcelona.
So if you fancy going to Barcelona, that is coming to you
very, very, very soon. And we cannot wait to grace the
streets of Barcelona with the Lesbian Supper Club.
I absolutely love it there, such a good vibe, and I think
spending a bit more time there versus spending time in London
has made me realize just how much better things are done in
other places than London, which is namely everything.
Whether transport costs, food, freshness of food, overall
vibes, clothes. It is a bit shocking that London
is actually starting to kind of lose the mark a little bit.
Love it, but I also kind of hate it.
But I think the thing that makes me love it so much is that I've
got so many amazing friends here.
But All in all, it's a little bit shit.
I've got to be real with you. And that's coming from Sony who
lives in Notting Hill, which is like, I love it here, but fuck
me, I leave the door and it is just like, bam, you got to, you
got to spend this, Bam, you got to spend this and it's cold.
Fuck that shit, fuck that shit and fuck you too.
And Liz just said that I'm being a right barrel of laughs and I
have to agree. No, I know, but this is no, but
this is part of my fucks fire off segment, right?
It makes sense that I had to just be me complaining about
everything. However, maybe they don't want
me in Barcelona because I'm a miserable fucking cunt.
Yeah, exactly. Oh yeah, it gets sunny every
time I leave London. And this has been happening.
I went to Ibiza, Paris, Barcelona twice, was sunny every
day I left and not sunny the rest of the days.
I was like, oh, mate. And then Lib was just like, can
you just stay out there? I was like, I think so.
Yeah, I think so. I think I need to leave.
I think maybe I'm the misery in London.
All of a sudden I leave and all of the taxes stop being 40% and
everything's really cheap again and the sun is shining and
people are singing and skipping down the streets.
Rosalia's Bergkind performance at the Brits as well has been
something that has been my literal crack.
Oh my fucking God. Absolutely insane.
I have become quite obsessed with her actually.
I think that she is so, so talented.
We don't deserve her. I do think that when she
performed at the Brits, I think everybody should have packed
their bags and fucking left. Personally, if that was me, if I
was in the audience and I was expecting a Brit and I watched
her perform, I would literally pack up my shit and be like, on
that note, I'm going to show myself out.
That was amazing and I think they should have all done that.
She should have closed the show. Harry Styles, on the other hand,
opening up the show, I don't know what it is, but I've got
the ick from that man. I got it real bad.
And when I see him perform, I get the ick.
Even what I don't know what it is, but there's something about
him that annoys the living daylights out of me.
What do you reckon it is, Left Dragon?
It's the high waisted pants. Yeah.
I'm not bitter and miserable. No.
Why do you think I hate Harry Styles?
I've gone from gives me the act to hate.
Why do you think I fucking despise?
OK, I it's not hatred. It's not hatred.
I think he gives me the egg and I think it is the high waisted
trousers. It is the queer baiting.
Oh yeah. And then when he like made out
that guy on SNL and he was like this.
Is this is queer? Baiting and I'm like, it's just
not even funny though, is it mate?
Like you just, it's just, it's just bad taste.
I, I think Zoe Kravitz will be better off dating me, to be
honest. I think what it is, is his
performative nature. And then he's done the classic
thing that all little femme boys with their little nail Polish
and their little fucking shiny trousers and their long hair do.
They cut their hair and they become mid as fuck.
He's got short hair, receding hairline, he's aging like actual
milk and he's just annoying. I just don't like, I just do not
like him. And I do think it does stem from
all of like the queer baiting stuff.
I'm just so sick of yet another white male beat prancing around
a fucking stage. And yeah, just fuck off with it
really. Right?
I just put on a bit of a feel good tune to boost me up a
little bit if you can hear it in the background.
So I'm a little bit more hyped up.
Lesbians. Alexa, stop guys, I'm really
sorry if you were listening to that on loud and I just
triggered all your Alexas. That is something that I tend to
do quite often. We got you guys to write in some
questions for us to answer. I'm going to answer some of them
and then on the next episode I'm going to get Scarlett to answer
them. So I'm going to answer the ones
that I want to answer. OK OK, Somebody said what signs
of being love bombed should gay girls look out for So I think if
it's. Really.
Really intense after like a couple of times of meeting, I
think that that's something to look out for.
How intense live school, how intense.
I think showing up with a with an elaborate gift.
So showing up with something that costs quite a lot of money.
I think flowers are sweet. I think that that's not a
problem. I think like buying a dinner
sweet, that's not a problem, but like a gift maybe, maybe a red
flag. I don't know, I think.
It really does depend. I think that if somebody is
saying that they love you really, really early on, and I'm
saying within a couple of weeks, within a few weeks, I think it's
a bit soon. Liv is looking at me a little
bit funny. I know that I did do that with
Scarlett. That being said, that did happen
with Scarlett. However, I would say that maybe
age had something to do with that and it was a very, it was
very intense from the get go. And I don't really view it as
love bombing because we did end up spending like 6 years
together. So I think that that one worked.
I do think that you have the potential to see the love within
someone within, you know, I do believe in a, in a sort of love
at first sight, but it's more like a lust at first sight.
I don't think that you can really ever truly know if you
love someone until like a few months, you know, I think as
well, like if they, I think it depends on how they're treating
you and talking about people that they used to be with.
So I think that if they're being like, God, you're so amazing and
you're just, you're perfect and you are this and you are that
and I love you and blah, blah, blah, blah.
And then they go on about like how crazy all of their axes
were. Red flag.
I think that it's really nice to be adored and I think that all
anyone really wants is to be adored.
But I think for me personally, I'd run a fucking mile because I
would just know that like, you don't know me yet.
You don't, you don't truly know me yet.
And that's going to mean a lot to me once you've seen more of
me, once you understand more of me as a person and you've seen
not just the quote UN quote, more, more better version of
myself. Although to be fair, I just
fucking spill everything. I'm just like, this is who I am
because The thing is that I don't also believe in wasting my
time. Like I'm not going to fake
personality, you know, that is completely flawless because I
want to know if that person is really going to like me for me.
And that is something that I've had to do over time.
I think actually as well because it is really hard to be
vulnerable. But don't ever think of it as
being a huge rejection if you're putting yourself out there and
they don't want to be with you because just think of it as
saving yourself some fucking time.
Honestly. Somebody said input on someone
having a strap on and using it as a community strap.
No. OK Livers.
Livers just walked into the room, put her hands up and went.
No. Using it as a community strap,
using it with multiple people. I know that me and Liv have
different. Views on this?
Sorry about my voice, but no, it's disgusting.
I'm sorry. Also, if you've say if you've
been with someone for like a year and you've been using like
a dildo with your partner, then you break up with them and then
you just give a little wash and use it with your new girlfriend.
No, I think it's weird. I think it's fun buying sex toys
with your partner, buying a new one.
It's a fun experience. No, no, no, no.
OK, she's put her hands up again and walked away.
I think yes, I, I think that it depends on the type of person
that you are. I think that if you can kind of
put like emotion to an object, then potentially don't do that.
And I do believe as well that yes, if it's like a long term
relationship and you are using it on your partner of that time
and then somebody new, not great.
However, I go back to the age-old argument of, well, what
do you think a fucking man does? You think he.
Just removes his penis and puts a new one on.
But I think that the fact that we have the choice to do that is
fine. You know, I think, I honestly
think that it's each of their own.
I don't think that it's a vulgar to do it, but me personally, I
probably would use a different strap.
It also depends as well. If the person before you only
use the strap on you and then you use it on the other person,
I think that's fine. I do genuinely think that's
fine. Personal opinion, I think the
harness is fine. Keep the harness, keep the
harness. Somebody said should we support
any lesbian media strike films even if it's trash?
Yeah. The amount of shite I've
watched, just because there's a lesbian storyline in it, I'm
like, fuck yeah. I think because we're so
limited. The reason why I say this is
because I think if we're showing it traction, that it hopefully
will show other producers, directors, finances, that
there's money to be made within this area.
Therefore we can get something with a little bit of like better
budget. That's one thing that I would
say how to deal with the isolating feeling of not having
lesbian friends. Stroke community deal with it by
coming to one of our events, baby.
I would say that with the lesbian wine nights
particularly, and also the lesbian pub nights, the amount
of times we've said it before, but the amount of times that
people come alone. Also you guys that message me
like, is it OK to come alone? I'm like, yes.
It is the sole reason why we do this Come alone because that is
the way that you're going to meet people.
We don't do it for people that already have.
I mean, we do, but like the people that already have like a
group of queer friends. The whole point is, and we love
it when people do come with their quick friends.
The whole point is that you do meet people who are within your
community because we understand that it is so isolating.
So that's one thing that I would say like go to things like the
Lesbian Why notes where you can meet people who are just like
you and be in a space where you feel really supported and safe
and have fun. What's the most unhinged thing
that you've done to impress a girl that didn't work?
I've probably done quite a lot of unhinged things.
Would I say it never worked though?
No, I feel like mine have all worked, no matter how unhinged
it was. I quite literally crashed a car
on a first day and it still worked.
No, I don't think to be fair, like I also don't like pull out
all the stops on a date because I don't feel the need.
I don't think that anyone should feel the need to do that.
When you're meeting somebody, just calm yourselves down, OK?
But I do actually really want to know if somebody has done this.
Somebody just said, are you coming back to NYC?
Yes, we are, baby. Funnily enough, actually the
reason why I just stopped the forecast there was to have a
call with a bar in New York City because we really want to take
it back there. We're trying to find as many
places as humanly possible. If you guys have ideas or you're
from different countries and you're like, we want to see you
there, please send it in, send it over to us, send the
locations, whatever it is, we're going to be there.
We have got our bootstraps on, we've got strapped.
We are strapped and ready. Honey, I've got my suitcase, it
is packed. I am coming.
My passport is going to be fucking matted by the end of
this year. I cannot wait.
It's going to be stamped to absolute shit.
I love it. Why are men so obsessed with
breasts? And I soon feel the same about
them. I mean, I love.
I love tits I love. Boobs.
My men's obsessed with them, though.
I think just because they are, they're they're fun, aren't
they? Tits are just great.
Boobs. Boobies.
Yeah, breasts are great. I don't know why they're so
good. They just are.
There's fundamentally really fun, fun bags.
Tits are both. I can't decide.
That's like picking a favorite child.
Couldn't do that. Would never do that to my girl
if I had to. Boobs, boobies, Met a girl
travelling. We live 3 hours apart in the UK.
Is it crazy to go long distance immediately?
I don't think that's crazy at all.
I think that if you find a connection with somebody, I mean
what what really are the odds that you're going to find
somebody who's in a very close proximity to you that you are
going to fall in love with that? It's actually quite SIM if you
think about it that way. You know, I think that people
shouldn't limit themselves based on distance.
I think that you you limit yourself based on maybe how much
of it that you can do those. So kind of be a bit more
realistic about like, will this work logistically?
And if it does, then fuck yeah, do it.
And at least if you try and it doesn't work out, then you know
that you've tried and you're not going to have that what if
feeling fuck it, do it. Somebody said lesbians, I need
them. Same, same.
I fucking love lesbians. Outfit inspo for summer Jorts.
The two of us jorts. No outfit inspo for summer.
I think we're going to be seeing a lot of lace.
We're going to be seeing yeah, we're going to be seeing a lot
of lace. I think we're going to be seeing
like lace cover ups on top of jeans.
We're going to be seeing a lot of like, we're going to be
seeing a lot of knee high. Boots with shorts.
We're going to be seeing, I think that we're going to see a
lot more. I do think we're going to see
more jeans this summer than we have in the past.
I'm thinking like dad jeans. I think we're going to see quite
a few of those. I don't think.
I don't think crop tops are in. Crop tops are not in.
OK, we're going to ban the crop tops for now.
I don't think the crop tops are going to be in this summer.
I know I don't think they're going to be in this summer
though, says me. Yeah, I really don't think the
crop tops are going to be in. Yeah, I think yeah, I definitely
think more smart jobs are going to be making appearance.
Think about Bella Hadid visiting a farm that's basically going to
be the lesbian attire of this year.
We're talking like white tailored shorts, shorts with
knee high boots, black tank. Oh, we're also going to be
seeing a lot of minimalism. Like I think that we're going to
be like out with the big brands, anything like really, really
branded. I think it's all going to be
very like clean cut and very simple, but done well.
Yeah, no, I think I genuinely think that that's what's, that's
what's going to happen. So he said, what are we?
Ridiculous to fly to Florida to drive a girl moving to
Pennsylvania 18 hours. But hot Honey, you answered the
question for you. She's hot.
Get in that car and drive her to Pennsylvania.
I don't know what you're waiting for.
Room, room, bitch. Put her in.
Put her in that car. That's going a really, really
fun journey. Wow.
OK, 18 hours, 18 hours. OK, that could be really fun.
I actually urge you to film some of this.
You're a bit of like a Thelma and Louise style set, like a
really like set either be like a really like cool motel that like
you could potentially like fear for your life in or a really
nice hotel or yeah, that that is screaming car sex.
It's screaming fun adventure. You ever do so bad?
Less Zoom meetups. Yeah, we definitely want to go
more into the Wellness space too.
So we want to have everything for everyone.
I've also been in touch with this other company as well as
reached out. That I think can be something
that's really, really fun for you guys.
It's a bit more like activity LED, but I'm not talking
organized fun. If there is anything organized
fun, count me the shit out of that.
Not doing it, but I do think that there is a space for those
who maybe don't want to go out in the evening and drink and
whatever or they do love doing that.
But you also want the duality of doing something that's like a
little bit more healthy or like you can have like more of a
sober chat with someone or just come to the events and don't
drink. I don't know.
What do you think about the way that Renee Rapp talks about
cheating? We actually saw Renee Rapp the
other night and she was fucking incredible.
Really, really enjoyed her show. We got sent an invitation by
Universal Music Group and I was like, you don't even ask me
twice. I'm going to that concert.
It was so good. What does she say about
cheating? Well, she's got a song when she
was going and I swore that I would never, ever, ever, ever
cheat again. Condone.
Condone means that you don't agree with it.
Hold on, She said. Do it.
That's hilarious. She has openly admitted to
cheating on her past partner. I don't think that there's
anything wrong about her admitting that she cheated.
If I wanted to do. I think that it's real, and I
think that more people should do that.
It doesn't necessarily mean that she's like advocating for
cheating, but it's the fact that she was like, yeah, that's what
I did because it does happen so often that why not mention it if
it's something that you did? I feel like Renee Rapp is so me
like wouldn't be not in the cheating sense, but in the sense
of like would just fucking say it.
Like probably got nervous on this podcast and was like, yeah,
I cheated like, you know what I mean?
Like that's the type of shit that I would say.
I would say all of my past demons and express my sins.
Yeah, I I really don't see an issue with that.
If I wanted to do I think it's fucking real?
Should I ruin my ex situation ships life?
Kidding. Is that my situation ship that
just wrote that in? Yeah, probably best not to do
that. Maybe put your energy into
something a little bit more positive.
There's no point. People don't owe you anything.
The moment that you put expectations on someone, you're
bound to get disappointed. I'm sorry.
I know no one wants to hear that, but it's just the fucking
truth. Fave character on The L Word.
So many of them. Bet.
Shane, Alice, Dana. Rest in peace.
Who you smashing, marrying and killing from The L Word?
OK, so I'm smashing bet I'm going to marry Carmen and I'll
kill Tina. I don't care.
Actually. Yeah, no, I'm killing Tina.
Sorry. It was going to be Jenny, but
I've decided against. I'm killing Tina.
Sorry. Tina.
How do you deal with competitive lesbianism?
What competition? I think that there are some
lesbians out there, and they do try to copy what me and Scarlett
have done. I'm going to say that here.
I'm going to say I'm not overly pleased about it.
However, imitation is the highest form of flattery.
Secondly, why, why are you doing that?
I would love to say that it's like with the lesbian community,
with people who are in the space where they're creating things
that I think that it's great. It's like more the merrier.
I love that, like more spaces, whatever that might be.
Just please, why are you taking our name?
Why are you taking off on? Why are you taking our colours?
Why are you taking literally everything that we try and do?
That's a little bit weird to me personally, think it's a bit
odd. I don't really like that.
I think in terms of lesing, I think in terms of what you're
saying with competitive lesbianism is maybe like
competing to be like, maybe more like the alpha lesbian or the
one that can get all the girls. I just think the moment that you
start thinking that you're playing a game, you fucking
lost. So yeah, be individual, be
yourselves, and you're never going to lose that way.
You know, I think that unfortunately, women have always
historically been pinned against each other.
And so I think that that's why that this tends to happen now
with lesbians even more because it's like, not only are we
women, but we're also after the same thing too, right?
But I've certainly never been like that.
And I think that it genuinely is a huge waste of your time, like
actual huge waste of your time. So if you feel like anyone's
trying to compete with you on that level, just give them a
little laugh. I moved in with my girlfriend
after three months. What are your opinions on
lesbian you hauling? I don't know about it.
I don't know. I think the three months is too
soon. I've got to be real with you.
It's far too soon. You just do not know someone
enough by three months. You do not know them enough to
move in with them. I'm so sorry to break it to you.
And I know that you wrote this in hoping that maybe I was going
to say. Yeah, it's great.
Do it. I don't know, honey.
I don't know, babe. I mean, I really hope that it
works out for you, but I just fucking hope that that person or
you don't turn into an absolute psychopath.
That's that's the only thing that I can say.
I don't think that it's it's enough time to know someone to
to move. It's so much commitment.
Come on, somebody said retired lesbian, 27 years old, feeling
like a grandma Tips to get back on the scene.
Bitch, I'm 32. Why are you sending that to me
knowing that I'm 32 and Scarlett's 31?
This is absolute traumatizing language, feeling like a
grandma. She said, yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah. Honey, get back on the horse. 27
years old, you're still so young.
You still have so much life ahead of you.
Put those roots back on, honey. Get back out there.
Do not be acting like a grandma in your 20s.
You know how crucial, like, your 20s, your 30s, even your 40s.
Like, get out there, go out, have fun.
Enough people being like, I just want to watch Netflix every
evening. Oh my God, Get out of the house,
have fun, meet new people. Like, I don't know what's
happened to society. People think that it's a bit of
like a flex or something to just like always be hanging out at
home. I get it, it's comfy, it's cozy,
whatever. But like you're never going to
get your years back again when you're that age or whatever age,
just have fun and let loose. And even if you go out and then
you leave after like an hour and a half because you just weren't
feeling it, it's honestly better than nothing.
Trust me. On that note, there's quite a
few more questions, but I'm going to leave the rest of them
to Scarlet to answer. Lesbians, I love you.
We are going to be doing weekly episodes going forward, I
promise. We've been really, really
slacking on the episodes, but please believe that it's because
we have been so busy with making lesbian Suffolk up global.
And we've also got some really, really fun items that you guys
are going to see that I cannot say any more than that, but it's
going to be really fucking cool. And now that we can see the way
in which the world is turning and getting less progressive, we
are getting louder and bigger and better than ever.
And best believe you can count on your girls to make that
happen. We are coming at it from all
angles necessary. And I do think that this time
next year, we're going to look back and be like, yeah, all of
that worked out. I want to just give you faith
though, that the podcast. We've got a lot running on in
the background that I think you guys are going to be really
happy with and we are going to be a lot more frequent than we
have been. So I want to apologise for
potentially letting you down by not bringing more episodes your
way. But I love you, we love you and
we will speak to you in the next week.
Bye lesbians, and have a great day.
Or a great night. Or if you're sleeping right now
because those of you tell me that you put me on to sleep too.
Night bitch, I love you so much. I will speak to you soon.
Bye.