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Hello lesbians. 
God, it feels like forever since

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I spoken to Mike. 
I can't even remember when it 

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was. 
I think I was interviewing Anna.

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I'm really not sure. 
Liv is looking at me, nodding. 

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Like I was actually going to 
have Liv on the episode with me 

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today, but someone's got a very,
very poorly throat. 

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Poorly throat and mouth. 
I'm looking at her right now and

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it looks as if I'm slightly 
concerned. 

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Looking at that ulcer on your 
lip. 

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It looks like something. 
Why it? 

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Looks like not a cold sore. 
No, not a cold sore, it looks 

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like. 
It looks like something that 

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maybe like a malnourished pirate
would have had, like scurvy. 

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What if you have scurvy? 
Scurvy goes in the mouth. 

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You know that right? 
Is how do you know? 

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How do you know? 
I'm quickly having a look at 

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what scurvy of the mouth looks 
like. 

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Scurvy of the mouth. 
Did you hear that scurvy of the 

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lip? 
I don't have scurvy of the. 

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Leg OK, it's looking quite 
brutal that show. 

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I really don't think you've got 
that. 

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It would be quite funny to say 
that you had scurvy, yo. 

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Yeah. 
She went to the doctor's. 

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Although these pictures are 
quite harrowing so I urge you 

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not to have a look at scurvy of 
the mouth. 

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Actually, guys got so many, so 
many things have happened within

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these few weeks that I have not 
spoken to you. 

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Bear in mind this is not just 
the Freya podcast. 

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Now, I promise Scarlett will be 
back, but she has had, if you 

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guys haven't seen on social, 
she's had a really bad issue 

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with her head recently, like the
past few weeks and she was 

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supposed to do an episode. 
We're not sure what it is, but I

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I think that it's best for her 
to to take some time to dress up

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the head. 
It really seems like an actual 

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nightmare. 
However, she is loving the fact 

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that she's got an oxygen tank. 
She's really, really into it. 

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Think that her next step is 
probably going to be to take a 

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photo and send it to her mum to 
put on her Facebook just for 

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some extra attention. 
But yeah, everybody send their 

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well wishes to Scarlett for a 
nice quick recovery. 

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We know that she's always 
suffered with migraines, so this

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is slightly different. 
I could say the typical X thing 

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and say she's clearly just 
fucked in the head, but I don't 

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actually think that that's the 
case. 

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But no, I'm fucked in the head 
and her head is fucked. 

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That's the difference between 
the two of us. 

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But yeah, she will be coming 
back once she's more on the 

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mend. 
I do think that she's a bit 

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better right now than she was 
before, bless her. 

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I wanted to know out a couple of
things that's happened. 

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Gay News who's has somebody been
seen as being gay recently? 

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I mean, well, Rosalia and Lolly 
walking the streets of Harris 

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and Rosalia going like she went 
in on the classiest way possible

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on the paparazzi guy. 
I really, really enjoyed that, 

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where she basically just kind of
laughed at him. 

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But you know, that angry 
laughter. 

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I fucking love that. 
It was one of the most like, 

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lesbian things I've ever seen. 
Just in the way that it was 

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handled. 
It was beautiful because they're

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such such a beautiful couple. 
It's insane. 

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What were you saying in terms of
gay? 

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Oh, yeah, don't. 
Well, yeah, don't. 

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She came out as a lesbian, but 
just in her bio, which I think 

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is quite iconic. 
I really wish that I did that 

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when I was coming out. 
I wish I just updated my 

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Facebook status. 
I'm gay. 

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However, loads of people did 
that to me back in the. 

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Do you remember when it used to 
be called being fraped? 

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And it's actually quite 
problematic, really. 

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But everything was online back 
then, and people would always go

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onto my Facebook and say I'm 
gay. 

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And I think it all is starting 
to check out to be honest. 

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There's so many things I told on
myself for as well. 

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I'll never forget when I wrote 
when I was I think I was like 

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20. 
I did a post on Facebook and on 

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Instagram that was I just found 
some generic photo of a pride 

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flag just waving around in the 
wind and being like happy pride.

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I love being an ally. 
Fuck off Freya you fucking 

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bullshitting liar. 
No one is that invested in gay 

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rights who is straight because 
you are gay, you are gay. 

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I am. 
The fact that I posted that and 

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it comes up as a reminder every 
year on my Facebook account, I 

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need to start sharing it. 
And one thing that has gotten me

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really, really fucking riled up 
though, is the Manosphere 

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documentary that Louis Theroux 
has recently done and put onto 

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Netflix. 
And if you guys haven't seen it,

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Manosphere is following the 
lives of the likes of HS Ticky 

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Talkie, some other guy who look,
the only way that I could 

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describe these men are the type 
of boys, I think especially if 

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you're like my age, 32, they 
were the type of boys that you 

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would like go to a club and they
would think that they were hot 

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shit because they were jacked. 
But like no one really wanted to

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go near them though, because 
they're a bit weird. 

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So basically like that but on 
steroids. 

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Quite figuratively and 
literally. 

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They are some of the most 
disturbing creatures I've ever 

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seen in my life. 
And they are mixed with both 

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evil genius and boyhood 
stupidity all in one. 

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I don't know how to quite 
describe it, but it's a really, 

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really dangerous mix. 
And it's also a dangerous mix of

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a very fragile ego as well. 
And Louis Theroux's job is to go

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into these boys who are doing 
podcasts. 

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First of all, ban straight men 
with mics. 

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It should be illegal that men 
have access to microphones. 

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They don't need it. 
They don't need a podcast. 

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They don't need an audience. 
These boys are criminal like, 

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and I mean that in quite the 
literal sense. 

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I do believe that what they are 
doing is quite criminal. 

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They are exploiting women. 
They're also exploiting the 

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minds of young boys and they are
weaponizing women. 

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And they're also the most 
sexualizing and weaponizing 

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women. 
So it's a bit like if you were 

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to put a bra on a fucking army 
tank. 

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They are so incredibly, no, 
they're just, they're just 

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misinforming boys. 
And I've said this before about 

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Andrew Tate, the likes of Andrew
Tate, where they need to keep 

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boys being fucking losers 
because they are their base of 

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income, right? 
So by my course, you've got to 

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be a dumb cunt to buy their 
course. 

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So if they start elevating these
guys in the way that they're 

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promising to do, then they're 
out of their fucking audience. 

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They need to keep them locked in
and they will say that the world

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is like a machine and that 
they're like sheep. 

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You know, they're all these red 
pill men. 

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But it's so ironic because these
little boys are following these 

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other deranged boys. 
Men just like little sheep. 

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And it concerns me that this is 
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heading and that there's. 
It's so funny because as soon as

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female writes just fucking like 
we go an inch forward in the 

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right direction, it then turns 
into, and this isn't just the 

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lights of these manosphere boys.
It's also just kind of more like

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quite UN quote regular men as 
well that do all of these 

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inspirational quotes about like 
men and how we should really be 

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like fighting for men and boys. 
And this is what boyhood is. 

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And like, because they feel so 
fucking threatened because women

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are getting a little bit, a 
little bit more rights than they

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ever have, but even then barely 
not at all, to be honest, like 

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the the equality gap is so 
fucking huge, but they cannot 

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stand it. 
They cannot stand it. 

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They are so insanely threatened 
and I'm just watching this show 

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and what worries me is their 
convictions. 

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Their conviction is so fucking 
good that they're brainwashing 

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will work because they're so 
they're just so convicted and 

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all these boys need is just a 
little bit conviction and access

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to an Internet and their general
self esteem issues and then 

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mixed up with hatred of women, 
which you claim to be into 

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women. 
All these men by the way, gay. 

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Every single one of them, they 
are gay. 

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There is not one of those men. 
The HS ticky talkie, that weird 

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one with the wife that said that
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was like what the fuck do you 
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The other one with the other 
wife who they all believe in 

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like one way monogamy, which is 
OK, So they all just believe in 

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cheating. 
OK, got it, got it, got it. 

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They're all gay. 
Every fucking one of them. 

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I bet you everything in my 
account they are gay. 

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In other news, it's fucked fryer
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fucked fryer off the FFO instead
of OF it's FFO. 

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Welcome to fryers fucked fryer 
off. 

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The BBC has cancelled I kissed a
girl and I kissed the boy and 

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can I just say that it is before
even the second season was aired

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of I kissed a girl. 
So it's clearly got nothing to 

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do with ratings because we've 
actually know and we looked it 

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up that it's 62. 
It performed. 

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Was it 62% better? 
It was around 63, whatever the 

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fuck, it was in the 60s. 
Percent better than the average 

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show on the BBC. 
That's the first fucking thing. 

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So where this budgetary issue 
has come into, I will never 

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understand because, well, I 
don't need to understand because

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it's a fucking lie. 
It's all just riddled with 

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political agenda. 
And this is what's happened so 

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many times that we've seen this 
happen. 

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We've seen this happen with so 
many shows that have been really

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fucking popular and then all of 
a sudden, oh, they're out. 

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Whereas how many pointless, 
fucking boring hetero shows are 

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still just going on and on and 
on, even like the Love Island, 

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Love Island, like, I mean, too 
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A lot of people still watch that
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But like, you know, think about 
too hot to handle, I think too 

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hot to handle I think did well 
for two seasons. 

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I'm pretty sure it's still going
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hetero, right? 
And anything that is basically 

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designed for straight people 
will just continue to go on and 

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will continue to be boring 
because of course it is because 

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it's straight and we're so 
fucking over and who gives a 

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fuck? 
But it's, it's just a sign that 

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it's just a sign that even 
though we always think that 

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things are changing and we're 
hoping that things are changing,

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we know that politically things 
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more and more. 
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said that when they're coming 
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First of all, we should always 
be standing up for the different

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letters under the LGBTQ plus 
community and supporting our 

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people, even if it doesn't 
impact us, right? 

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However, if you don't give a 
shit about that, think about the

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fact that it actually will 
impact you if they manage to go 

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for the minority within the 
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So that's what they do. 
It's dividing and conquering. 

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That's why they go for the trans
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because it is the most 
marginalized part of our 

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community. 
So we're now at a position where

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the world is fucked and that's 
why it's really important to 

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rally. 
We will definitely be posting 

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any kind of petitions that we 
can and and ensuring that you 

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guys actually stream this on BBC
Three as well. 

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I don't want to give them any 
money, I don't want to give them

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the attention. 
But the main thing is, is 

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proving a fucking point. 
So they need to see how many 

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viewers are actually watching 
this show for season 2. 

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So boycotting it is not the 
answer. 

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We really want another network 
to pick this up. 

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I don't want the network to turn
around and be like, oh, 

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actually, seeing as we've got 
these viewers will keep it. 

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That's not gonna happen anyway. 
But I don't want them to because

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they shouldn't profit off of it.
I wish I had my own fucking 

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network. 
So some so something that Cara 

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Kinney from I Kiss the Girls 
Season 1 came out and said, if 

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you're struggling with budgets 
for the show, you don't have to 

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have Danni Minogue on the show. 
No shade to Danny at all because

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I absolutely love her. 
I've met her in person as well 

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and she's really, really 
wonderful woman. 

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But I suppose that this is where
people are like pointing fingers

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because they're like, OK, well, 
maybe you don't need a celebrity

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to host it. 
Maybe you could get like an 

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influencer or something. 
I mean, I know that Charlie 

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Marlow does the voice overs 
etcetera, but the issue then 

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being is and and actually she 
says this, but should we be 

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looking at budget cutting it 
anyway regardless? 

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Because we shouldn't, We 
shouldn't yeah, but we shouldn't

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be doing like a sub par version 
where they they don't stay in a 

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villa in Italy. 
They now go to a Travelodge in 

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Slough. 
Yeah. 

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But I think that what happens 
is, is that once then it becomes

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even more political because then
fingers get pointed over to 

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Danni Minogue. 
If they end up getting somebody 

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else in, that's going to be 
cheaper. 

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They'll be like, why didn't you 
do it cheaper? 

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But then why should she also 
reduce her rate for the things, 

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you know? 
So it's like, it's a really, 

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really complicated thing. 
I think All in all, the budget 

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just shouldn't have been even 
mentioned because it clearly 

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isn't a budgetary issue. 
Like, shut the fuck up. 

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It ain't a budgetary issue. 
I would love to speak to 

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somebody for the BBC, just get 
them to sit down and just talk 

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to them about this. 
But it's never going to happen. 

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However it might happen. 
Maybe I should bamboozle them 

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and get them on the Lesbian 
Selfie Club podcast to say that 

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we're so grateful that they ever
showed it. 

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And that's the guys I'm going 
under. 

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And I say that I want to get 
them on because I think that 

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everyone's actually been really 
mean and that we should all give

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them a Gold Star for letting us 
watch the shows initially. 

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And then they get on my podcast.
I spit in their face. 

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What do you think of that love? 
She said, Yeah, sure. 

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So I think that's a good idea. 
Yeah. 

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I I think The thing is, is that 
outrage doesn't really happen 

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anymore. 
And the same goes for ICE, The 

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same goes for Lebanon. 
Fuck what Israel is doing, 

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basically. 
The same goes for Iran. 

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The same goes for Congo. 
The same goes literally 

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everything. 
I do just think that the world 

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has become so dire that we're 
like literally heading over to a

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World War three that everyone's 
just a bit like, OK but I do 

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still feel like outrage should 
happen. 

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But also maybe our attention 
should be put towards 

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independent channels instead. 
So fuck them that money can go 

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elsewhere. 
Fucking do you know what it is? 

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And also I literally BBC fucking
probably ordered this over to my

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house. 
I got I opened up my door the 

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other day and I saw this letter 
that was read. 

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I was like, Oh my God, I am in 
deep shit. 

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And by the way, guys, if you 
have ADHD, do you know that you 

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always feel like you're in 
fucking trouble? 

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I always feel like I'm in 
trouble. 

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So when I actually am in 
trouble, it's like my world is 

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ending. 
I saw a letter on my doorstep 

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and I'm like, well, it could be 
any of the things that I forgot 

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to pay for because that is the 
story of my fucking life. 

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And it's a red letter. 
I open it up and it's a fucking 

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TV license. 
Like, we're going to come to 

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your home. 
Come to my home. 

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They said that they've arrived. 
They've already been to the 

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property. 
Apparently they'd already been 

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to my property. 
First of all, not answering the 

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door anymore. 
Secondly, I don't watch fucking 

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TV. 
Have have it off mate. 

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They said it was ABBC iPlayer so
they can go fuck themselves. 

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So do you know what? 
I'm taking my stand and I 

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haven't paid my TV license. 
Fucking BBC pricks. 

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I've got ATV but I just use my 
my PlayStation for it and I 

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watch Netflix and shit on it and
never. 

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I don't even think I plugged it 
into the satellite. 

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I don't. 
I just. 

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Yeah, I've had enough. 
The world is really expensive 

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and it's really shit. 
That being said, you know, it 

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isn't expensive. 
Spain. 

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Spain. 
Oh, did I talk about Paris? 

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No, I haven't even spoken about 
Paris. 

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Oh, my God, There's so many 
things that have happened. 

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We went to Paris last month to 
host a lesbian wine night. 

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Oh, it was so much fucking fun. 
When I tell you I've never, 

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never enjoyed the trip more in 
my life. 

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Like especially to put it down 
as a quote UN quote work trip, 

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which is basically just lesbians
running around London, talking 

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to different brands, walking the
streets, having the lesbians. 

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Why not? 
I felt like it was my birthday 

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on crack. 
I had the best time. 

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We hosted it at this bar called 
Measures and it was so 

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beautiful, such a good vibe and 
all of the women that I met 

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there. 
I love you all. 

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I spoke to this one woman for a 
little bit and she said that 

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she's been listening for a long 
time. 

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And if you're listening now, I 
fucking love you. 

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You are so sweet. 
And I say this about everyone, 

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all of you that come to me and 
you tell me that you listen to 

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the podcast. 
So you can't just kindly tell us

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that you listen to the podcast. 
Just know that so many of you 

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say, God, I'm so sorry if I'm 
annoying you. 

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I'm like, when in the world 
would this ever annoy me? 

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It is the cutest and sweetest 
and best thing to for us to hear

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and it's so nice to actually 
meet you and to talk to you 

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properly instead of just over a 
mic and seeing a number. 

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So thank you so much for all of 
you who do actually do that and 

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it is encouraged and I will give
you a hug whether you like it or

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not. 
Sorry, but Paris is right. 

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I ate so much, just so much 
baguette. 

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So much fucking baguette. 
And I also stayed at the Miro 

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Hotel, the Le Grande Kaye Kaye 
CAYRE in Salt St. 

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Jamal. 
And it is so as you volition 

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Tasha. 
It is so fucking nice. 

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And the room was insane. 
I walked into the room and 

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straight away I see the balcony 
overlooking the Eiffel Tower and

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I went out. 
I looked at Liv and I was like 

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I'll live live. 
I looked at Nah and I was like 

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Nah this is fucking sick. 
This is so good. 

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And I just like, I had to have a
moment because I kind of wanted 

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to show baby closeted Freya what
her life could look like in a 

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few years after fully accepting 
herself. 

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And it felt like an amazing 
moment and a real success moment

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with Lesbian Supper Club taking 
it over to Paris, which is 

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notoriously Parisians are the 
hardest people to please in the 

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world. 
And the fact that we all had an 

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amazing time was just 
incredible. 

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And we're going to be out there 
again in April the 16th. 

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So this is going to be really 
fucking fun and I cannot wait to

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see you guys again and more of 
you. 

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And I've also been trolling the 
streets of Barcelona too and 

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found a really nice venue to do 
a lesbian Why night there. 

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So if you are listening in 
Spain, Barcelona. 

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So if you fancy going to 
Barcelona, that is coming to you

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very, very, very soon. 
And we cannot wait to grace the 

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streets of Barcelona with the 
Lesbian Supper Club. 

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I absolutely love it there, such
a good vibe, and I think 

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spending a bit more time there 
versus spending time in London 

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has made me realize just how 
much better things are done in 

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other places than London, which 
is namely everything. 

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Whether transport costs, food, 
freshness of food, overall 

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vibes, clothes. 
It is a bit shocking that London

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is actually starting to kind of 
lose the mark a little bit. 

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Love it, but I also kind of hate
it. 

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But I think the thing that makes
me love it so much is that I've 

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got so many amazing friends 
here. 

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But All in all, it's a little 
bit shit. 

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I've got to be real with you. 
And that's coming from Sony who 

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lives in Notting Hill, which is 
like, I love it here, but fuck 

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me, I leave the door and it is 
just like, bam, you got to, you 

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got to spend this, Bam, you got 
to spend this and it's cold. 

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Fuck that shit, fuck that shit 
and fuck you too. 

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And Liz just said that I'm being
a right barrel of laughs and I 

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have to agree. 
No, I know, but this is no, but 

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this is part of my fucks fire 
off segment, right? 

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It makes sense that I had to 
just be me complaining about 

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everything. 
However, maybe they don't want 

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me in Barcelona because I'm a 
miserable fucking cunt. 

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Yeah, exactly. 
Oh yeah, it gets sunny every 

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time I leave London. 
And this has been happening. 

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I went to Ibiza, Paris, 
Barcelona twice, was sunny every

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day I left and not sunny the 
rest of the days. 

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I was like, oh, mate. 
And then Lib was just like, can 

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you just stay out there? 
I was like, I think so. 

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Yeah, I think so. 
I think I need to leave. 

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I think maybe I'm the misery in 
London. 

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All of a sudden I leave and all 
of the taxes stop being 40% and 

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everything's really cheap again 
and the sun is shining and 

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people are singing and skipping 
down the streets. 

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Rosalia's Bergkind performance 
at the Brits as well has been 

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something that has been my 
literal crack. 

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Oh my fucking God. 
Absolutely insane. 

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I have become quite obsessed 
with her actually. 

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I think that she is so, so 
talented. 

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We don't deserve her. 
I do think that when she 

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performed at the Brits, I think 
everybody should have packed 

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their bags and fucking left. 
Personally, if that was me, if I

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was in the audience and I was 
expecting a Brit and I watched 

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her perform, I would literally 
pack up my shit and be like, on 

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that note, I'm going to show 
myself out. 

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That was amazing and I think 
they should have all done that. 

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She should have closed the show.
Harry Styles, on the other hand,

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opening up the show, I don't 
know what it is, but I've got 

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the ick from that man. 
I got it real bad. 

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And when I see him perform, I 
get the ick. 

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Even what I don't know what it 
is, but there's something about 

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him that annoys the living 
daylights out of me. 

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What do you reckon it is, Left 
Dragon? 

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It's the high waisted pants. 
Yeah. 

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I'm not bitter and miserable. 
No. 

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Why do you think I hate Harry 
Styles? 

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I've gone from gives me the act 
to hate. 

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Why do you think I fucking 
despise? 

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OK, I it's not hatred. 
It's not hatred. 

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I think he gives me the egg and 
I think it is the high waisted 

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trousers. 
It is the queer baiting. 

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Oh yeah. 
And then when he like made out 

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that guy on SNL and he was like 
this. 

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Is this is queer? 
Baiting and I'm like, it's just 

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not even funny though, is it 
mate? 

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Like you just, it's just, it's 
just bad taste. 

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I, I think Zoe Kravitz will be 
better off dating me, to be 

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honest. 
I think what it is, is his 

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performative nature. 
And then he's done the classic 

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thing that all little femme boys
with their little nail Polish 

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and their little fucking shiny 
trousers and their long hair do.

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They cut their hair and they 
become mid as fuck. 

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He's got short hair, receding 
hairline, he's aging like actual

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milk and he's just annoying. 
I just don't like, I just do not

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like him. 
And I do think it does stem from

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all of like the queer baiting 
stuff. 

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I'm just so sick of yet another 
white male beat prancing around 

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a fucking stage. 
And yeah, just fuck off with it 

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really. 
Right? 

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I just put on a bit of a feel 
good tune to boost me up a 

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little bit if you can hear it in
the background. 

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So I'm a little bit more hyped 
up. 

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Lesbians. 
Alexa, stop guys, I'm really 

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sorry if you were listening to 
that on loud and I just 

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triggered all your Alexas. 
That is something that I tend to

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do quite often. 
We got you guys to write in some

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questions for us to answer. 
I'm going to answer some of them

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and then on the next episode I'm
going to get Scarlett to answer 

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them. 
So I'm going to answer the ones 

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that I want to answer. 
OK OK, Somebody said what signs 

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of being love bombed should gay 
girls look out for So I think if

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it's. 
Really. 

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Really intense after like a 
couple of times of meeting, I 

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think that that's something to 
look out for. 

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How intense live school, how 
intense. 

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I think showing up with a with 
an elaborate gift. 

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So showing up with something 
that costs quite a lot of money.

449
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:25,960
I think flowers are sweet. 
I think that that's not a 

450
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,720
problem. 
I think like buying a dinner 

451
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:32,760
sweet, that's not a problem, but
like a gift maybe, maybe a red 

452
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:34,800
flag. 
I don't know, I think. 

453
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960
It really does depend. 
I think that if somebody is 

454
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,440
saying that they love you 
really, really early on, and I'm

455
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:45,080
saying within a couple of weeks,
within a few weeks, I think it's

456
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,120
a bit soon. 
Liv is looking at me a little 

457
00:23:47,120 --> 00:23:48,800
bit funny. 
I know that I did do that with 

458
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,960
Scarlett. 
That being said, that did happen

459
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:55,040
with Scarlett. 
However, I would say that maybe 

460
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,280
age had something to do with 
that and it was a very, it was 

461
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,920
very intense from the get go. 
And I don't really view it as 

462
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,160
love bombing because we did end 
up spending like 6 years 

463
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:04,880
together. 
So I think that that one worked.

464
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:08,520
I do think that you have the 
potential to see the love within

465
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:12,720
someone within, you know, I do 
believe in a, in a sort of love 

466
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,600
at first sight, but it's more 
like a lust at first sight. 

467
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,880
I don't think that you can 
really ever truly know if you 

468
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,320
love someone until like a few 
months, you know, I think as 

469
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:25,520
well, like if they, I think it 
depends on how they're treating 

470
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:29,280
you and talking about people 
that they used to be with. 

471
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,920
So I think that if they're being
like, God, you're so amazing and

472
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,960
you're just, you're perfect and 
you are this and you are that 

473
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,200
and I love you and blah, blah, 
blah, blah. 

474
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,120
And then they go on about like 
how crazy all of their axes 

475
00:24:41,120 --> 00:24:43,120
were. 
Red flag. 

476
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,920
I think that it's really nice to
be adored and I think that all 

477
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,800
anyone really wants is to be 
adored. 

478
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:53,280
But I think for me personally, 
I'd run a fucking mile because I

479
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,360
would just know that like, you 
don't know me yet. 

480
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,160
You don't, you don't truly know 
me yet. 

481
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,000
And that's going to mean a lot 
to me once you've seen more of 

482
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,200
me, once you understand more of 
me as a person and you've seen 

483
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,840
not just the quote UN quote, 
more, more better version of 

484
00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,640
myself. 
Although to be fair, I just 

485
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,800
fucking spill everything. 
I'm just like, this is who I am 

486
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,800
because The thing is that I 
don't also believe in wasting my

487
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,680
time. 
Like I'm not going to fake 

488
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:22,080
personality, you know, that is 
completely flawless because I 

489
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:26,720
want to know if that person is 
really going to like me for me. 

490
00:25:27,360 --> 00:25:30,880
And that is something that I've 
had to do over time. 

491
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,960
I think actually as well because
it is really hard to be 

492
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,480
vulnerable. 
But don't ever think of it as 

493
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,320
being a huge rejection if you're
putting yourself out there and 

494
00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:40,840
they don't want to be with you 
because just think of it as 

495
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,240
saving yourself some fucking 
time. 

496
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,760
Honestly. 
Somebody said input on someone 

497
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,720
having a strap on and using it 
as a community strap. 

498
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,160
No. 
OK Livers. 

499
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,360
Livers just walked into the 
room, put her hands up and went.

500
00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:55,160
No. 
Using it as a community strap, 

501
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,760
using it with multiple people. 
I know that me and Liv have 

502
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:00,720
different. 
Views on this? 

503
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:05,040
Sorry about my voice, but no, 
it's disgusting. 

504
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:06,920
I'm sorry. 
Also, if you've say if you've 

505
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,320
been with someone for like a 
year and you've been using like 

506
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,760
a dildo with your partner, then 
you break up with them and then 

507
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,000
you just give a little wash and 
use it with your new girlfriend.

508
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,640
No, I think it's weird. 
I think it's fun buying sex toys

509
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,280
with your partner, buying a new 
one. 

510
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,760
It's a fun experience. 
No, no, no, no. 

511
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:24,760
OK, she's put her hands up again
and walked away. 

512
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,880
I think yes, I, I think that it 
depends on the type of person 

513
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,720
that you are. 
I think that if you can kind of 

514
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:34,480
put like emotion to an object, 
then potentially don't do that. 

515
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,240
And I do believe as well that 
yes, if it's like a long term 

516
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,800
relationship and you are using 
it on your partner of that time 

517
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,560
and then somebody new, not 
great. 

518
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,240
However, I go back to the 
age-old argument of, well, what 

519
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,240
do you think a fucking man does?
You think he. 

520
00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,240
Just removes his penis and puts 
a new one on. 

521
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:55,320
But I think that the fact that 
we have the choice to do that is

522
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,520
fine. 
You know, I think, I honestly 

523
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:58,680
think that it's each of their 
own. 

524
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,440
I don't think that it's a vulgar
to do it, but me personally, I 

525
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,320
probably would use a different 
strap. 

526
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:07,600
It also depends as well. 
If the person before you only 

527
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,960
use the strap on you and then 
you use it on the other person, 

528
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,480
I think that's fine. 
I do genuinely think that's 

529
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,360
fine. 
Personal opinion, I think the 

530
00:27:15,360 --> 00:27:18,080
harness is fine. 
Keep the harness, keep the 

531
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:20,280
harness. 
Somebody said should we support 

532
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,080
any lesbian media strike films 
even if it's trash? 

533
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,760
Yeah. 
The amount of shite I've 

534
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,240
watched, just because there's a 
lesbian storyline in it, I'm 

535
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:31,480
like, fuck yeah. 
I think because we're so 

536
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:33,360
limited. 
The reason why I say this is 

537
00:27:33,360 --> 00:27:37,360
because I think if we're showing
it traction, that it hopefully 

538
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:42,840
will show other producers, 
directors, finances, that 

539
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,640
there's money to be made within 
this area. 

540
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,920
Therefore we can get something 
with a little bit of like better

541
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:49,520
budget. 
That's one thing that I would 

542
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,680
say how to deal with the 
isolating feeling of not having 

543
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,320
lesbian friends. 
Stroke community deal with it by

544
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,800
coming to one of our events, 
baby. 

545
00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:58,560
I would say that with the 
lesbian wine nights 

546
00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,440
particularly, and also the 
lesbian pub nights, the amount 

547
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,080
of times we've said it before, 
but the amount of times that 

548
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,400
people come alone. 
Also you guys that message me 

549
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,160
like, is it OK to come alone? 
I'm like, yes. 

550
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,360
It is the sole reason why we do 
this Come alone because that is 

551
00:28:11,360 --> 00:28:12,440
the way that you're going to 
meet people. 

552
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:14,160
We don't do it for people that 
already have. 

553
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:17,240
I mean, we do, but like the 
people that already have like a 

554
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,840
group of queer friends. 
The whole point is, and we love 

555
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:23,320
it when people do come with 
their quick friends. 

556
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:26,160
The whole point is that you do 
meet people who are within your 

557
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,880
community because we understand 
that it is so isolating. 

558
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,000
So that's one thing that I would
say like go to things like the 

559
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:35,360
Lesbian Why notes where you can 
meet people who are just like 

560
00:28:35,360 --> 00:28:38,760
you and be in a space where you 
feel really supported and safe 

561
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:41,640
and have fun. 
What's the most unhinged thing 

562
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,280
that you've done to impress a 
girl that didn't work? 

563
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,200
I've probably done quite a lot 
of unhinged things. 

564
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,840
Would I say it never worked 
though? 

565
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:53,320
No, I feel like mine have all 
worked, no matter how unhinged 

566
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,040
it was. 
I quite literally crashed a car 

567
00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:56,560
on a first day and it still 
worked. 

568
00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,640
No, I don't think to be fair, 
like I also don't like pull out 

569
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:04,360
all the stops on a date because 
I don't feel the need. 

570
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,240
I don't think that anyone should
feel the need to do that. 

571
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,720
When you're meeting somebody, 
just calm yourselves down, OK? 

572
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,320
But I do actually really want to
know if somebody has done this. 

573
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:15,680
Somebody just said, are you 
coming back to NYC? 

574
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,880
Yes, we are, baby. 
Funnily enough, actually the 

575
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,760
reason why I just stopped the 
forecast there was to have a 

576
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:24,960
call with a bar in New York City
because we really want to take 

577
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,240
it back there. 
We're trying to find as many 

578
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,160
places as humanly possible. 
If you guys have ideas or you're

579
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,080
from different countries and 
you're like, we want to see you 

580
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,640
there, please send it in, send 
it over to us, send the 

581
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,960
locations, whatever it is, we're
going to be there. 

582
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:40,200
We have got our bootstraps on, 
we've got strapped. 

583
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,600
We are strapped and ready. 
Honey, I've got my suitcase, it 

584
00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:44,520
is packed. 
I am coming. 

585
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,480
My passport is going to be 
fucking matted by the end of 

586
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,680
this year. 
I cannot wait. 

587
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,520
It's going to be stamped to 
absolute shit. 

588
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,440
I love it. 
Why are men so obsessed with 

589
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,480
breasts? 
And I soon feel the same about 

590
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:55,400
them. 
I mean, I love. 

591
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,240
I love tits I love. 
Boobs. 

592
00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:59,720
My men's obsessed with them, 
though. 

593
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,880
I think just because they are, 
they're they're fun, aren't 

594
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:04,320
they? 
Tits are just great. 

595
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,840
Boobs. 
Boobies. 

596
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:10,080
Yeah, breasts are great. 
I don't know why they're so 

597
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,480
good. 
They just are. 

598
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,040
There's fundamentally really 
fun, fun bags. 

599
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,840
Tits are both. 
I can't decide. 

600
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:20,360
That's like picking a favorite 
child. 

601
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:22,400
Couldn't do that. 
Would never do that to my girl 

602
00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:28,520
if I had to. 
Boobs, boobies, Met a girl 

603
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,560
travelling. 
We live 3 hours apart in the UK.

604
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,560
Is it crazy to go long distance 
immediately? 

605
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,040
I don't think that's crazy at 
all. 

606
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,520
I think that if you find a 
connection with somebody, I mean

607
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,080
what what really are the odds 
that you're going to find 

608
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:42,200
somebody who's in a very close 
proximity to you that you are 

609
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,880
going to fall in love with that?
It's actually quite SIM if you 

610
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,760
think about it that way. 
You know, I think that people 

611
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,320
shouldn't limit themselves based
on distance. 

612
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,800
I think that you you limit 
yourself based on maybe how much

613
00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,640
of it that you can do those. 
So kind of be a bit more 

614
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,440
realistic about like, will this 
work logistically? 

615
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,320
And if it does, then fuck yeah, 
do it. 

616
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,600
And at least if you try and it 
doesn't work out, then you know 

617
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,880
that you've tried and you're not
going to have that what if 

618
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,160
feeling fuck it, do it. 
Somebody said lesbians, I need 

619
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,520
them. 
Same, same. 

620
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,640
I fucking love lesbians. 
Outfit inspo for summer Jorts. 

621
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:23,360
The two of us jorts. 
No outfit inspo for summer. 

622
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,120
I think we're going to be seeing
a lot of lace. 

623
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:29,720
We're going to be seeing yeah, 
we're going to be seeing a lot 

624
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:30,920
of lace. 
I think we're going to be seeing

625
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:32,640
like lace cover ups on top of 
jeans. 

626
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:34,320
We're going to be seeing a lot 
of like, we're going to be 

627
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,840
seeing a lot of knee high. 
Boots with shorts. 

628
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:40,160
We're going to be seeing, I 
think that we're going to see a 

629
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,640
lot more. 
I do think we're going to see 

630
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,840
more jeans this summer than we 
have in the past. 

631
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,680
I'm thinking like dad jeans. 
I think we're going to see quite

632
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,480
a few of those. 
I don't think. 

633
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,880
I don't think crop tops are in. 
Crop tops are not in. 

634
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,080
OK, we're going to ban the crop 
tops for now. 

635
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:57,040
I don't think the crop tops are 
going to be in this summer. 

636
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,240
I know I don't think they're 
going to be in this summer 

637
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:03,040
though, says me. 
Yeah, I really don't think the 

638
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,160
crop tops are going to be in. 
Yeah, I think yeah, I definitely

639
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,160
think more smart jobs are going 
to be making appearance. 

640
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,280
Think about Bella Hadid visiting
a farm that's basically going to

641
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:12,800
be the lesbian attire of this 
year. 

642
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,920
We're talking like white 
tailored shorts, shorts with 

643
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:20,040
knee high boots, black tank. 
Oh, we're also going to be 

644
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,560
seeing a lot of minimalism. 
Like I think that we're going to

645
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,920
be like out with the big brands,
anything like really, really 

646
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,320
branded. 
I think it's all going to be 

647
00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:31,680
very like clean cut and very 
simple, but done well. 

648
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:33,840
Yeah, no, I think I genuinely 
think that that's what's, that's

649
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,720
what's going to happen. 
So he said, what are we? 

650
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:39,240
Ridiculous to fly to Florida to 
drive a girl moving to 

651
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,440
Pennsylvania 18 hours. 
But hot Honey, you answered the 

652
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:43,680
question for you. 
She's hot. 

653
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,560
Get in that car and drive her to
Pennsylvania. 

654
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:48,400
I don't know what you're waiting
for. 

655
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,200
Room, room, bitch. 
Put her in. 

656
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,000
Put her in that car. 
That's going a really, really 

657
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,200
fun journey. 
Wow. 

658
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,760
OK, 18 hours, 18 hours. 
OK, that could be really fun. 

659
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,080
I actually urge you to film some
of this. 

660
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,960
You're a bit of like a Thelma 
and Louise style set, like a 

661
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:07,000
really like set either be like a
really like cool motel that like

662
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:11,000
you could potentially like fear 
for your life in or a really 

663
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,920
nice hotel or yeah, that that is
screaming car sex. 

664
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,760
It's screaming fun adventure. 
You ever do so bad? 

665
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,680
Less Zoom meetups. 
Yeah, we definitely want to go 

666
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,080
more into the Wellness space 
too. 

667
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:24,000
So we want to have everything 
for everyone. 

668
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,600
I've also been in touch with 
this other company as well as 

669
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,160
reached out. 
That I think can be something 

670
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,720
that's really, really fun for 
you guys. 

671
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,240
It's a bit more like activity 
LED, but I'm not talking 

672
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,520
organized fun. 
If there is anything organized 

673
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,520
fun, count me the shit out of 
that. 

674
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:42,760
Not doing it, but I do think 
that there is a space for those 

675
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,360
who maybe don't want to go out 
in the evening and drink and 

676
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,160
whatever or they do love doing 
that. 

677
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,600
But you also want the duality of
doing something that's like a 

678
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,720
little bit more healthy or like 
you can have like more of a 

679
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,080
sober chat with someone or just 
come to the events and don't 

680
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:54,840
drink. 
I don't know. 

681
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,160
What do you think about the way 
that Renee Rapp talks about 

682
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,960
cheating? 
We actually saw Renee Rapp the 

683
00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:02,200
other night and she was fucking 
incredible. 

684
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:06,720
Really, really enjoyed her show.
We got sent an invitation by 

685
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,320
Universal Music Group and I was 
like, you don't even ask me 

686
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,280
twice. 
I'm going to that concert. 

687
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,360
It was so good. 
What does she say about 

688
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,600
cheating? 
Well, she's got a song when she 

689
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,280
was going and I swore that I 
would never, ever, ever, ever 

690
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,639
cheat again. 
Condone. 

691
00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:23,120
Condone means that you don't 
agree with it. 

692
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,719
Hold on, She said. 
Do it. 

693
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,880
That's hilarious. 
She has openly admitted to 

694
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,639
cheating on her past partner. 
I don't think that there's 

695
00:34:31,639 --> 00:34:34,320
anything wrong about her 
admitting that she cheated. 

696
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,760
If I wanted to do. 
I think that it's real, and I 

697
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,520
think that more people should do
that. 

698
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,600
It doesn't necessarily mean that
she's like advocating for 

699
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:43,760
cheating, but it's the fact that
she was like, yeah, that's what 

700
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:49,080
I did because it does happen so 
often that why not mention it if

701
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,199
it's something that you did? 
I feel like Renee Rapp is so me 

702
00:34:51,199 --> 00:34:53,560
like wouldn't be not in the 
cheating sense, but in the sense

703
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,159
of like would just fucking say 
it. 

704
00:34:55,159 --> 00:34:57,280
Like probably got nervous on 
this podcast and was like, yeah,

705
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:58,520
I cheated like, you know what I 
mean? 

706
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:59,720
Like that's the type of shit 
that I would say. 

707
00:34:59,720 --> 00:35:03,880
I would say all of my past 
demons and express my sins. 

708
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,800
Yeah, I I really don't see an 
issue with that. 

709
00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:08,600
If I wanted to do I think it's 
fucking real? 

710
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,520
Should I ruin my ex situation 
ships life? 

711
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,920
Kidding. 
Is that my situation ship that 

712
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,000
just wrote that in? 
Yeah, probably best not to do 

713
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,120
that. 
Maybe put your energy into 

714
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,720
something a little bit more 
positive. 

715
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,880
There's no point. 
People don't owe you anything. 

716
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,040
The moment that you put 
expectations on someone, you're 

717
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,240
bound to get disappointed. 
I'm sorry. 

718
00:35:28,240 --> 00:35:30,360
I know no one wants to hear 
that, but it's just the fucking 

719
00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,840
truth. 
Fave character on The L Word. 

720
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,080
So many of them. 
Bet. 

721
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:40,120
Shane, Alice, Dana. 
Rest in peace. 

722
00:35:40,720 --> 00:35:43,120
Who you smashing, marrying and 
killing from The L Word? 

723
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:48,160
OK, so I'm smashing bet I'm 
going to marry Carmen and I'll 

724
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:50,040
kill Tina. 
I don't care. 

725
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,000
Actually. 
Yeah, no, I'm killing Tina. 

726
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:53,840
Sorry. 
It was going to be Jenny, but 

727
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,240
I've decided against. 
I'm killing Tina. 

728
00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:56,120
Sorry. 
Tina. 

729
00:35:56,720 --> 00:35:59,080
How do you deal with competitive
lesbianism? 

730
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:04,400
What competition? 
I think that there are some 

731
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:09,840
lesbians out there, and they do 
try to copy what me and Scarlett

732
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:11,840
have done. 
I'm going to say that here. 

733
00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,520
I'm going to say I'm not overly 
pleased about it. 

734
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:18,000
However, imitation is the 
highest form of flattery. 

735
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,320
Secondly, why, why are you doing
that? 

736
00:36:21,320 --> 00:36:25,240
I would love to say that it's 
like with the lesbian community,

737
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,840
with people who are in the space
where they're creating things 

738
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,200
that I think that it's great. 
It's like more the merrier. 

739
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,440
I love that, like more spaces, 
whatever that might be. 

740
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,440
Just please, why are you taking 
our name? 

741
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,400
Why are you taking off on? 
Why are you taking our colours? 

742
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,560
Why are you taking literally 
everything that we try and do? 

743
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,800
That's a little bit weird to me 
personally, think it's a bit 

744
00:36:46,800 --> 00:36:49,440
odd. 
I don't really like that. 

745
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,920
I think in terms of lesing, I 
think in terms of what you're 

746
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,840
saying with competitive 
lesbianism is maybe like 

747
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,720
competing to be like, maybe more
like the alpha lesbian or the 

748
00:36:57,720 --> 00:37:00,520
one that can get all the girls. 
I just think the moment that you

749
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,560
start thinking that you're 
playing a game, you fucking 

750
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:07,400
lost. 
So yeah, be individual, be 

751
00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:10,440
yourselves, and you're never 
going to lose that way. 

752
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:14,240
You know, I think that 
unfortunately, women have always

753
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,440
historically been pinned against
each other. 

754
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,160
And so I think that that's why 
that this tends to happen now 

755
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,840
with lesbians even more because 
it's like, not only are we 

756
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,640
women, but we're also after the 
same thing too, right? 

757
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,160
But I've certainly never been 
like that. 

758
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:31,760
And I think that it genuinely is
a huge waste of your time, like 

759
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,080
actual huge waste of your time. 
So if you feel like anyone's 

760
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:35,760
trying to compete with you on 
that level, just give them a 

761
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,400
little laugh. 
I moved in with my girlfriend 

762
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:41,400
after three months. 
What are your opinions on 

763
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,720
lesbian you hauling? 
I don't know about it. 

764
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:46,280
I don't know. 
I think the three months is too 

765
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:47,680
soon. 
I've got to be real with you. 

766
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:50,960
It's far too soon. 
You just do not know someone 

767
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,720
enough by three months. 
You do not know them enough to 

768
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:56,560
move in with them. 
I'm so sorry to break it to you.

769
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,680
And I know that you wrote this 
in hoping that maybe I was going

770
00:37:58,680 --> 00:37:59,640
to say. 
Yeah, it's great. 

771
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,680
Do it. 
I don't know, honey. 

772
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,520
I don't know, babe. 
I mean, I really hope that it 

773
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:07,200
works out for you, but I just 
fucking hope that that person or

774
00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,280
you don't turn into an absolute 
psychopath. 

775
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,280
That's that's the only thing 
that I can say. 

776
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,800
I don't think that it's it's 
enough time to know someone to 

777
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:18,600
to move. 
It's so much commitment. 

778
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:22,560
Come on, somebody said retired 
lesbian, 27 years old, feeling 

779
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,280
like a grandma Tips to get back 
on the scene. 

780
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:27,320
Bitch, I'm 32. 
Why are you sending that to me 

781
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,480
knowing that I'm 32 and 
Scarlett's 31? 

782
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,360
This is absolute traumatizing 
language, feeling like a 

783
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:37,040
grandma. 
She said, yeah, yeah, yeah, 

784
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,720
yeah. 
Honey, get back on the horse. 27

785
00:38:40,720 --> 00:38:42,560
years old, you're still so 
young. 

786
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:44,400
You still have so much life 
ahead of you. 

787
00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:47,800
Put those roots back on, honey. 
Get back out there. 

788
00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:50,280
Do not be acting like a grandma 
in your 20s. 

789
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,840
You know how crucial, like, your
20s, your 30s, even your 40s. 

790
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:56,000
Like, get out there, go out, 
have fun. 

791
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,680
Enough people being like, I just
want to watch Netflix every 

792
00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:01,400
evening. 
Oh my God, Get out of the house,

793
00:39:01,720 --> 00:39:05,480
have fun, meet new people. 
Like, I don't know what's 

794
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,400
happened to society. 
People think that it's a bit of 

795
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,960
like a flex or something to just
like always be hanging out at 

796
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,600
home. 
I get it, it's comfy, it's cozy,

797
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,480
whatever. 
But like you're never going to 

798
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:17,760
get your years back again when 
you're that age or whatever age,

799
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:22,640
just have fun and let loose. 
And even if you go out and then 

800
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,760
you leave after like an hour and
a half because you just weren't 

801
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:26,560
feeling it, it's honestly better
than nothing. 

802
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,560
Trust me. 
On that note, there's quite a 

803
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,480
few more questions, but I'm 
going to leave the rest of them 

804
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:37,120
to Scarlet to answer. 
Lesbians, I love you. 

805
00:39:37,720 --> 00:39:40,320
We are going to be doing weekly 
episodes going forward, I 

806
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:41,960
promise. 
We've been really, really 

807
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,680
slacking on the episodes, but 
please believe that it's because

808
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:48,920
we have been so busy with making
lesbian Suffolk up global. 

809
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,480
And we've also got some really, 
really fun items that you guys 

810
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,840
are going to see that I cannot 
say any more than that, but it's

811
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,920
going to be really fucking cool.
And now that we can see the way 

812
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:02,800
in which the world is turning 
and getting less progressive, we

813
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:05,200
are getting louder and bigger 
and better than ever. 

814
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,080
And best believe you can count 
on your girls to make that 

815
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,080
happen. 
We are coming at it from all 

816
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:16,520
angles necessary. 
And I do think that this time 

817
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:19,440
next year, we're going to look 
back and be like, yeah, all of 

818
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,920
that worked out. 
I want to just give you faith 

819
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,840
though, that the podcast. 
We've got a lot running on in 

820
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,040
the background that I think you 
guys are going to be really 

821
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:31,360
happy with and we are going to 
be a lot more frequent than we 

822
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:34,360
have been. 
So I want to apologise for 

823
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:37,360
potentially letting you down by 
not bringing more episodes your 

824
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:40,720
way. 
But I love you, we love you and 

825
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,720
we will speak to you in the next
week. 

826
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:46,280
Bye lesbians, and have a great 
day. 

827
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,080
Or a great night. 
Or if you're sleeping right now 

828
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:50,640
because those of you tell me 
that you put me on to sleep too.

829
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,680
Night bitch, I love you so much.
I will speak to you soon. 

830
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:55,480
Bye.
