God, there is gins in a tin, Part 2.
Three girls and one gin. Yeah, Guinness and corn cocktail
sausages is the new thing for 2025.
Actually, it's also Guinness from a can.
If that offends you, I'm sorry. But not just Guinness in a can,
Guinness in a can poured into a plastic cup.
Oh, the plastic cup is what does it for you.
But you know what? Beggars can't be choosers.
You heard of? Splitting the G.
I have and I tried to do it the other day and I don't exactly
put the legs. I don't exactly understand.
Is it if you get it under the G? Is it with it if you get it in
the middle of the G is the middle of the G?
OK, so I actually managed to do it.
Really. I thought I failed, didn't do
it. I don't believe you spent the G.
It's actually quite fucking. Hard to do.
OK, well I even did it on 1/2 glass as well which.
OK, but I think that is probably why you did it right?
If you did it in 1/2 pint glass, that doesn't count.
Are you fucking? Used to be a pint of Guinness.
Because like that, give us another.
One that. Sorry, sorry, pretty fucking.
Quick, we're cancelling free. Fucking quickly.
You can't tell me I cancel. You bitch.
OK, don't check my Facebook. Don't.
Don't go there either way. It's equally hard because you've
really got to measure the amount that you've got to drink.
That's the whole point, right? It's not about because I'm not
being funny like what a few sips of Guinness, like I can manage
that all in one. That's not the problem.
It's the measurement of being able to understand when you
would hit the middle of the G so that you need to understand just
how much liquid you need to get into your mouth to to maintain
the line. Apparently it's something like 3
generous gulps. No, but you've got to do it like
you can't. You don't take it.
You've got to do it in one. Right.
Also there's. Send this entire Guinness.
No. Do you know what?
It's going to really bug me because I I bet it will.
I bet it will. I'm just trying to live out
here. OK, 2025.
I'm just. Trying It's the year of the
Guinness. Hello lesbians, I am joined
today with Jess and live and you.
If you listen to the last episode that we had last week,
you would have heard Jess's beautiful voice in there.
And everyone knows who Manager Liv is.
Manager Liv's girlfriend is in fact Jess W Hard.
Watch. Hard.
That is the hard I thought that it would be difficult to do this
episode specifically if no one knew that you were together.
So I've done it for you, if that's OK.
That's. OK.
Manager lives off the market. Sorry, lesbians.
Anyway, tell them what you've done to me today.
Yeah, so today Liv keeps complaining about how tired she
is. And I have empathy more than the
next person. But you know what?
When someone says it one too many times that they're tired,
I'm like. Oh, you give him a dexy?
You give him a dexy I so obviously with my ADHD
medication I don't ever take these because they're boosters
but I'm happy with my advance. So it's a list boost but it's a
slow working one right? So like 2 hours in just I don't
really feel anything. The next thing I know I'm being
greeted and what I can only call as karma because it because you
have just been basically behaving like me.
And me. I don't think I've been behaving
like the power of you. I'm going to say that right now.
Probably okay, no tone down version.
Are you? That's toned down.
What the fuck is wrong with us, Jess?
Oh no. Not just can you say this is a
tone down version of Freya correct one. 100% Oh man, you're
insufferable. I really am.
You know what? I've had a terrible, terrible
day and like intro intro respection intro fuck Joe What?
How do I have a job? Like honestly, how do I have a
job? I'm a scammer.
Like the fuck Intro respect. Fry has basically had a moment
of realization when she's kind of been like, oh, I've been
posting a lot at the minute and Oh no.
Giving herself a bit of the cringe.
OK, I've majorly given myself the ache.
I have been doing it for a reason.
Because so many times you've been saying you need to post
more. OK, I understand that maybe the
content should have been slightly more curated before I
just started. Posting I was going to say just
discuss this tomorrow. I've been.
She's popping in a meeting in the diary the.
Fuck. Secondly, I have just been
because my account has been dormant for so long because I
have not, you know, been in the best mental state for a couple
of months before. And so then I was like, oh, I'm
just going to basically shit post to try and get more story
views to boost the account only because I have some things that
I'm working on within this year that I'm really, really excited
about and I need my account to be engaged.
However, I don't think this is the right way to do.
I can't be honest with you. And, and I was like looking back
at me and like, oh God, I actually can't stand myself.
Like fully cannot stand myself. And then I was like, if I was
looking out from like an outsider who didn't know me very
well and watching this shit. Oh man.
You'd think this girl's insane. Yeah, insane.
I have been a little bit unhinged recently, but like to
my core it's. Supposed to speak an archive I
reckon. You're really not making me feel
better today. You're fine.
OK, I understand that. Yeah, but maybe somebody could
have told me prior instead of agreeing with me.
But. Afterwards.
Where's the fun in that? There, Jess.
We've been having so much fun. OK, we've actually been having a
lot of fun, but what? OK, so do you know what my
problem is? If I feel like something is
inauthentic to me, then I cringe and I hate it because if you
were to meet me in person, I don't think that you would
reflect with the stories and that I've been putting up versus
my personality because it does make me look very immature and
like. A bit of a party animal I'd say.
Bit of a party animal I'm not an actually just a little PSAI
don't drink to get drunk. Apart from accidentally last
night, so that was. Completely.
People are probably thinking I'm an actual one.
An alcoholic 2 annoying 3 immature 4 no life.
And that actually be correct. And maybe correct, you've got
the right. But you know what, You know
what, if I could add some smoking mirrors in there, that'd
be great. They're going to think I'm
bipolar now though, because the content is just going to have a
complete shift because of how I've pushed it too far and
really crunched myself out. Like I have fully given myself
the ick. It's all good.
Maybe you should do like what the celebrities do and just you
know, and they like completely wipe their account maybe and
then just do their profile pictures.
And just follow Lady Gaga. Yeah.
Should I say that I was hacked? Yeah.
What of and posting stuff of yourself?
Yeah, like, like they got my phone and they found shit that I
would never normally show the world and just because you're.
Literally putting this on a podcast so you can't say that
you've got hacked. Everyone's going to expose
yourself. I've exposed myself anyway.
Anyway, that being said, it's been a bit of a rough day for
me. But we move.
It's all good. Obviously mentioning Lady Gaga
to Lady Gaga has come back with a vengeance.
Pretty lobotomy lady with Abracadab.
We listened to that song about what, 25 times yesterday.
Abracadabra. It's fantastic because she, I
mean, like, I've been like an old school Lady Gaga fan.
Like when I was a kid, she like, brought me out of my shell.
Like I remember going to the Monster ball when I was 15 and I
had the time in my life I had to lie about my age.
And I was like, yeah. And it was amazing because it
was her first ever tour as well. I became obsessed.
And, like, all the straight girls at school used to judge
me. I mean, like, ever since you
started listening to Lady Gaga, you've changed.
I'm like, yeah, because she's an artist, right?
She's like, she. She enabled me to feel like, OK,
I'm not so weird because, like, I'm gay or like, whatever it
might be. So all fucking power to Lady
Gaga. And she is taking that hyper pop
back by the horn. Reclaiming that.
It's very, very, very good. So I'm very excited about this
first, first of all, really quickly, we've got our wine
nights coming up as well now, which is like the the pub nights
have been feral and fucking amazing.
Like the last pub night. We haven't.
I I just thought that so January is pub night, guys, insane,
insane, feral as hell. No, I loved it.
I think it was a bit feral as well.
It was giving my Instagram stories.
I was feral. This girl, this girl right here.
You were feral. You had your tits out.
Yeah, multiple times. Some rest of the night.
You're welcome. I loved it on the table
constantly. There was some slipping and
sliding on the. Table also Alex Moon got some
amazing photos. Alex moon does an absolute solid
Yep there and she she just goes around and just takes I don't
even ask her like that's what's so amazing about it.
She goes around, she takes these photos and then like some weed
talent, very talented. No, she she does it on the sly,
which I quite like because if I see a camera in my face I do
shit myself. Yeah, I mean, it was really,
really fun. Like I genuinely that I would
have to say is the funnest night.
Like we've had every night. It's fun that we do, but that
one. I feel like.
I think because it was like post Christmas and people were doing
Dry Jan and everyone was a bit of a blowout and it was payday.
It was a blowout for sure, for sure.
So we love doing that. We're continuing doing that
every single month now, but we're also releasing wine
nights. We got our first wine night this
Thursday on the 13th, which is super fun.
That sold out instantly, which is amazing, but it's a bit more
of like an intimate vibe, a bit more low key.
Smaller numbers. Is also for over 20 fives as
well. So we feel like getting into the
older calibre and don't hear older and think badly.
I'm 31 like I'm Christ, I'm in the older, I'm in the older
category. Bit more of a sophisticated
vibe. Obviously we want you to still
be unhinged, have fun, be in your safe because I think the
reason why people get so unhinged is because they feel so
safe. So that is the best thing for me
to see. I'm really sorry if you come up
to me and I look entirely overwhelmed.
Sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not, depends on which mood you
catch me in. But I love meeting all of you
and so many of you have the most beautiful things to say to me.
And I've shared so many gorgeous little hugs and photos and
videos and stuff. And some of you asked me to like
call your friends hot on a video and I really enjoy doing that.
So more of that please. It's really fun.
They are fun. I love the event.
Super fun, super gorgeous, gorgeous girls.
So going forward to today's topic, which I really I know
that we have spoken about this a little bit and it is so and it
is so lesbian, but I want to talk about EU haul of lesbian
relationships. I'm obviously going to bring you
2 into it. Perfect being my you gonna ask?
US questions. That's fun.
Yes, I am. She's just a slight of this now.
Yes, yes, I will. Yep.
You know what, I will. No, but I think I think it's
really interesting because I think my stance on this has
changed slightly. I do think that every obviously
take this with a pinch of salt, whatever I say, guys, because my
word is not gospel. I'm not just talking to you, I'm
talking to like everyone. My word is not gospel.
It's more so in the sense of like how I feel now that I've
experienced more relationships and I'm older.
It's not gospel. It's.
Opinion not the expert. Oh, you're giving your opinion
on our? Relationship.
So no, absolutely not sick yeah I I'm not in the position to
give an opinion like on people's relationships.
No one ever is right. I agree.
And so for me it's like more so now I want to give an opinion on
U hauling like in general. I I think obviously every
situation is so different and people's personality types are
so different. The the one thing that worries
me about you hauling, and I'm not saying that this is to you
guys, OK, first of all, before I start, you hauling or like you
hauling a relationship is basically EU Haul van.
So it's like that is the van where you move in all of your
shit two weeks into the relationship or, you know,
obviously that's pretty exaggerated.
But within a very short amount of time, you become very
situated and integrated within each other's lives and you move
in together within like a couple of months and everything is
really, really fast. Everything is like go go go go
go go go go like from the first meet.
It's go time right? And obviously this can form
itself in so many different ways.
Also different situations can force people into U hauling too,
which I will say is like a thing.
But OK. So before I give my opinions
with U-Haul, it usually categorically within a situation
like this involves an element of love bombing and that well, I'm
not saying that this has happened to you, no.
I can see you both looking at each other, no?
You're going to let us say that? You're going to let us say that,
but it but you love bombing usually happens when there is a
very severely anxious attached person and a very severely
avoidant person. So that is when love bombing
happens, right? I think that happened in my my
last relationship. Now I'm thinking back what
makes. Sense it would make a lot of
sense and, and basically for the avoidant, they have probably
gotten themselves out of a situation that they didn't want
to be in. By the way, let's just say
there's no right or wrong. Everyone likes to villainize
either the avoidant or the anxious or whatever, but it's
like all we should all be aiming to be is very secure and have a
balanced attachment style. You don't, you don't have to be
1 or the other. You can actually go to therapy
and you can actually get better and not even therapy, but do a
lot of work on just on yourself and, and understanding those
things about yourself, right? So yeah, the love bombing will
happen when there's like an anxious attachment avoidance.
So the avoidant is probably getting themselves out of a
situation or not even they could have just been single for a
while, but they found someone who piques their interest,
right? But the avoidant does obviously
have an anxious attachment within them, right?
But it's just the way that they display their their attachment
style, it's very different. So they'll find someone, they'll
find someone who's an anxious attached person who's going to
give them everything that they want, right?
So they will feed into that massively because they're like,
let me show you how much I can love.
Let me show you how much I can give you.
I want you to stay because I'm insecure.
Like I said, all of these are just insecure attachment styles.
Let me give, give, give, give, give.
Let me message you all the time. Let me call all the time, let me
make dates constantly line them up before you've even had a.
The thing is right, you don't know anyone like until quite a
while really, I'd say, but especially not within a couple
of days, right? And I think that it's very
normal and. Foot, foot.
Oh, I'm thinking this is 100% the mistake I made in my last
relationship. Without a doubt you're.
Also a lot younger. Well that's what I mean.
I think a lot of people don't realise when you're younger the
love bombing U hauling can happen quite quickly and it's
almost also a bit dangerous I think if you're not aware that
that can happen. Yes, yeah.
And if you are an anxious attached person, you are then
going to see this like flood of like happiness, love everything
you want, yay, this is great. And you're going to be skipping
and you're like, what's bad about this?
What can go wrong, you know? Or even if you're just in like a
vulnerable frame of mind and then someone comes along.
OK, so you can be in a vulnerable frame of mind, but it
doesn't necessarily mean that you're an anxious attached
person. No, no, that's what I'm saying.
Yeah, but you have to be an anxious attachment style to fall
into it. To a U-Haul.
Yeah, no to the love bombing. No, you do.
You can't be anxiously attached just to Love Bomb.
No to to fall into the love bomb.
You're the the love bomber really isn't the anxious
attached person. The love bombing usually comes
from the avoidant, but you'll love bomb in return because
you're like, I love this. So it becomes like a ping pong.
You have to be like you cannot be securely attached.
You could be going through a rough period of your life.
I'm. Unsure on that fact.
You're an anxious, attached person.
I'm not. Scott actually didn't think I
am. Not in a really, really bad way,
by the way. I'm not like jabbing at you, do
you think? I'm anxiously attached, Jess,
No. OK, that's so like mousy.
No, no, no, but you, you need to understand as well.
Like before everyone like comes to me with attachment styles,
they are not usually present throughout the whole
relationship. You'll only see them when it's
triggered. You'll only see their attachment
style when that attachment style has been triggered rather than
all the time. Because I would say like now I'm
moving into a much more secure attached style, right?
When I was younger and more anxiously attached, I wasn't
always worried about my partner. I wasn't always like, oh, what
is she up to and where is she? And she's not messaging me back.
That wasn't like that, but it wasn't until the avoidant
character starts to rear its head from the other person and
then I would go, Oh no, like, try.
And like. Yeah, because there's been a
shift. There's been a shift in their
actions, which honestly would probably send anyone a bit
anxious, right? But if you're already anxiously
attached, then it's like whoa, no.
OK, so going back to EU hauling. So because I'm only saying the
whole love bombing and attachment style thing because
EU Haul is a part of that, I don't think that you can.
And unless, like I said, situationally, don't think that
you can have that without the other.
Unless you situationally need to be around each other a lot, I'm
going to disagree. Yeah, I'm with Jess on this.
OK, tell me why. Well.
From my perspective, I feel that like lesbian relationships, I
think it's just a lot easier to get to that place quicker
because you're a lot more open with your feelings.
Like I feel that. I don't know, when I've been
with men in the past, they've not really been open with their
feelings. There's been a lot of games
involved. Doesn't mean that there isn't
with women as well, but I do think in the couple of
relationships I have had with women that you can just be a lot
more vulnerable. You get closer a lot.
Quicker, I do agree. I do agree with this.
So I think that's why in my opinion, it does move quicker
because you can get to those stages a lot quicker. 100
percent, 100%. If that makes sense.
Yeah, I think that you definitely can be more open and
honest with a woman. And I think a lot of women don't
understand that. You did quite well to get into
that quite quickly because I think women are so used to
straight men. Yeah, absolutely.
And they just behave very differently.
And they do like to play games. And, you know, yeah, some
lesbians do, but like, they like to play games.
They might not be reciprocal to you being emotional, you know,
so you're kind of like you're taught like when you're growing
up to be very withdrawn from your emotions and not having to
display that. So I do understand the the
emotional U-Haul, I get for that, right?
Because you just especially when you find that connection and
then you like, you hang on to that because you're like, this
is really fucking good and this feels lovely.
And if you're able to communicate effectively and
like, that's really, really nice.
It's like, Oh, this is fun. And then it can move quite
quickly. But as, I don't know, maybe just
like an older thing for me now, like as I'm getting older than
more. And again, not to even sound
patronizing, but it's like because when I was dating
before, I was so young, like I was like 24, right, 23.
And so the world was like completely different, completely
different. The dating scene was different.
The dating scene. Was.
Different now. I got a bad back, a bad neck.
Sitting around getting fat and fathy.
Sitting around getting all fat and sassy so that's the topic so
basically, yeah, a lot of love bombing happens to summarize
emotional and toxic and toxic. So we've got two categories.
We OK, so that I think this is what's going to make it easier.
We've got the toxic U-Haul and we've got the emotional,
emotional connection U-Haul which.
Feel free to submit your votes for a better name for that one.
I do feel like you are banging on the drum of emotional
connection U-Haul because you're terrified of being put into the
toxic category. But I want to very, very, I feel
I don't think that there is any toxicity within how you girls
have moved forward. But I also wouldn't classify us
as a U-Haul. But I do definitely think that I
have had the other side of it, so I can identify with what
you've just said. Can you just have like Is there
like a, a nice U-Haul like? Well, that's the.
Emotional U-Haul is a nice sorry, it's where you like
connect with Someone Like You just move through stages a lot
quicker blah blah blah. But.
I think as well, like, there can be girls on like, the other end
of the spectrum of people on the other end of the spectrum where
they might feel that emotional connection but be very scared.
And then you can also have people that lean into it, Right?
Yeah, for sure. So like, that might be the only
thing that stops EU Haul. So necessarily does that make it
any more healthier? Who knows?
Like, we don't really know. There isn't Joe what there's
like any way that people can get themselves like into
relationships. It doesn't really matter how it
doesn't matter how long it takes or like whatever that is.
But at the same time, it's more about just like mutual respect.
Like if you just have mutual respect for your person and one
person wants to move really fast and the other person doesn't, if
you don't have respect for that person, that is not the
relationship for either of you. Exactly.
You know, you should never subject anyone to that.
Like it's literally the worst thing.
It's giving my stories ick like. I heard from Freya socials.
It's giving Freya socials ick like you just don't ever want to
do that because like also why do you want to do that to yourself
too? I'm.
Just thinking exactly that, it's like.
It's just a bit. It's just horrible.
Not nice. Yeah.
But again, it comes from the insecure attachment style
because you're insecure in yourself.
You're insecure with your attachment.
You most likely didn't receive love in correct ways growing up.
And sadly that impacts all of us, like our upbringing and the
more that I've been doing therapy and like EMDR and
everything, it made me realize just how much my upbringing has
altered the brain chemistry and now I have to spend over £1000 a
month to reverse that brain chemistry.
Lucky all of us. Thank you.
Better help, the cheap, the cheaper.
Better help part is great. But then the EMDR is very
expensive. But you know, honestly, like
would pay 10 times the amount because it's like you can't put
a price on that. You cannot.
And that's why we always say mental health is a privilege and
the UK needs to fucking put a thought.
About. Amen.
Yeah. Absolutely.
So now going over to like your relationship.
So when did you two start dating again?
When was that? God, well, I know the.
I'm really in the hot seat also. Plug for the event.
Oh yeah, actually what is quite fun, Jess and I actually met at
one of the lesbian pub nights, so.
The first one I attended. Yeah, so you can find, yeah, you
can find can find love pub events.
We are the proven case study. Oh my God.
Yeah. What?
This is great promo. Exactly welcome.
And I remember being there for the first conversation that you
both had, but what date was it? OK, so it was.
The last cock and bottle one. I know the.
Date of office, first date because I'm organized, events
are organized and we love a simp.
Absolutely. Also there's nothing wrong with
being a simp like if. You're into it.
I'm I feel like straight. Couples being a simp is such a.
Negative thing. Also everyone likes to be
chased. Don't fucking give me that shit.
Everyone likes to be chased. I also just love.
Being in love, so it's great. Yeah, you're such a softy.
It hurts me. Why?
In a good way, Like it hurts my heart.
OK so we've been dating since 16th of October.
OK, so 20. 13. Approaching.
Four months approaching 4 months.
She's displeased with this. Wait, hold on.
It just approaching four months, OK, OK.
That's officially, Oh, wait, no, that's not that's everything, is
it? Our anniversary classes as the
first date. Was it October 16th our first
date? OK, we met the week prior at the
event, but our first date was October 16th.
I got you I. Got you.
OK, gorgeous. It's all just moving so quickly.
So obviously, I think yes, that's a very, it is a short
amount of time. I I.
Agree, but I will also caveat this by saying that we had
Halloween even in the middle of it.
Christmas, New Year's, these are all big things.
And my birthday by the way, Halloween, the Halloween really
celebrated that one. There was there was a lot of
holidays within that which I do feel like amp up a relationship
quite quickly. And also we've only been like
officially girlfriend and girlfriend since when does?
I actually don't know who asked. Jess asked me.
I said to Jess, I I've made. I said I'm not asking.
OK, So what did you? Why?
Why exactly? Because I said love you first.
Mate, she didn't tell me that. Anyway, Cute, right?
So Liv said I love you at Winter Wonderland.
That's very romantic, very sweet.
Skipping high school. How did you respond?
I said it back, obviously. Much she was like.
EW, we'd like, obviously. So that was in December.
We first started seeing each other in October.
I think when you know, you know, though, I think like, if you
don't have that instant connection with somebody, you're
never going to get it. Absolutely, I will die on that
hill. Because it's like, if you don't
have that, you don't have the ability.
I don't think to always like, because love is actually a
chemical thing in your brain. There's no rhyme or reason to
it. If you don't have that thing
that makes you go oof. Yeah, I very much.
Yeah, I know, but I know and also not like a serial data
anyway. No, I mean, I was very surprised
when you said that you wanted to call a friend.
Yeah. OK.
So you've been together for four months.
Obviously you guys do pretty much now live together.
So surprise, surprise, surprise, surprise.
But also some things have been out of your control, Jess, which
has made you need to be like staying here.
And also, it's not like you 2 have been living alone because
you've been with. Exactly.
It's not been like fully just moving in and like being
secluded and justice. It's not like you moved into
like a studio apartment, you know, There's been a lot of
people around you guys a lot, to be fair.
Some would say it's quite a good tester.
I actually said this to you yesterday.
I agree. Well, yeah, exactly, because she
hasn't really got on my nerves. We haven't at all.
She's very easy. She hasn't gotten on my nerves
so. It's quite good to know to know
no agree, and it's been very The thing is like what I always say
to everyone about my and justice relationship, it's just been
really easy. Like, it's just really chills.
Just fallen into place quite nicely.
You both are like on a very similar wavelength, which is
really nice. I think, yeah, it's the first
time I've been in a relationship like this, I think because I
obviously I was single for like, what, a year and a half before I
met Jess. Well, you don't.
I think The thing is that you never want to feel an imbalance.
Yeah, and I think I took that time to really well.
I had to focus on myself because of the absolute shit show I went
through. Yeah, so it was a break.
Up. I think it gave me time to like
work on myself, really know myself as well, and I think
that's what made me feel good going into.
When you meet someone, you were supposed to meet them at that
time. I agree.
You know, when people are like, oh, right person, wrong time.
I'm like, no, that's not the case.
Like you like, no matter what your situation is, if you meet
that person and that is there, it's there.
Yeah, just so happens to be whatever, blah, blah.
And then and then you grow on that, which is beautiful.
And how you grow with that is like so up to the people, like
the individual people. But I think it's a waste not to
like, you need to just like. And The thing is that neither of
you let that slip, which is really great.
I don't think you could have let it slip either, though.
I do genuinely feel like when people are supposed to be like
in your life, they find a way, some way, even if it's I think
see each other for like a year, like you would have, you would
have seen each other again, like because you were supposed to be
that, you know. Yeah.
I think when you think about it, it's pretty mad because
especially at the the event, considering how many people come
up to you and I specifically in like a chat away and not I'm not
saying this in a country where on my behalf, but like I'm
always on the move at that event, like working quite.
Chaotic for. You, yes.
I don't really talk to a lot of people, but this?
Is what I mean. Like, yeah, but that's what I'm
saying. Like, so it's weird that that
happened because I don't really talk to many people.
And thank God I was drunk and had the balls to come to.
Both of you, yeah. So with the, I mean, you've kind
of answered some of the questions that I wanted to ask,
which is a bit awkward because you were saying that like she
hasn't gotten on your nerves. I was going to ask.
That was going to be one of my questions.
Has she has she gotten on yet? Is there anything that you're
like between between two of you? Like you're like, oh, I didn't
think they'd do that, but they've done it now.
But it doesn't have to be a deal breaker.
But everyone's got shit that we do that We're like, oh, that's a
bit. Oh, she leaves her.
Stuff. I knew that's what it was going
to be, honestly. Yeah, I I mean, but The thing is
like, it's kind of stuff like that really doesn't bother me.
Like I pick, I pick like she leaves the top on the floor.
I pick up folder and put away it.
Really. But also I'm living out of a
suitcase. I do think you're not I.
Actually unpacked everything and put it in the wardrobes so.
But no, but I understand what you mean.
It's not your space. Yeah.
So I'm like that. Like if I'm staying somewhere
else isn't like my home. I'm like, it's nowhere near as
neat and tidy and and as organised as I want it to be
because I know that it's not permanent.
You can't say that because you get your bedroom so messy.
I think you are quite messy, Jesse.
I'm literally not like when I was living in Australia.
Like I love interiors. I love like.
No, I know you. Do but like you've seen the
videos of my home in Australia. No, but like like that, like I
say, it doesn't bother me. I really don't care.
OK it. Bothers me that it bothers you.
Yeah. You know why?
It's because you've got ADHD. Exactly.
Yeah. And you are medicated.
So it's like you are annoyed that that mess is there because
it's really winding you up. Have you created the mess
because you've got ADHD and now you feel paralyzed?
So you feel you're in your Free State?
Baby, we need to like release this.
I know. Do you have anything that you're
like, Oh. I can't actually think I.
Thought she was going to say something, then I.
Feel like it's not anything to do with like being around the
home, but it's just like, I don't know here especially I've
noticed like you're cleaning like not in a bad way, but like
I just want you to relax sometimes, you know, like you've
like sometimes you get in those like moods and you're just like,
I've got to clean this until it's clean you know I.
Actually have noticed this week especially I've not relaxed.
That's what I mean. Like I have actually have been
on the go. I don't know why, but hey ho.
Because like even today I was like, come sit down.
Like come, just take. Them I think you've been a
little bit stress mentally though.
So I feel like I'm very much like that.
Like when I'm stress mentally, which thanks to my aura ring, I
get to track just how stressed I am as if I didn't already
fucking know. But.
That's a good thing. It's so good.
I love it so much, but Jesus Christ, am I stressed, Like the
white, like the stress of, like, babes.
And it's like full white, like, on my day.
And I'm like, OK, but I'm the same.
Like, I'm like, I cannot sit still.
Like, I cannot. It needs to be done.
OK, That's not really a deal breaker.
So basically, she's always cleaning.
And you're already fucking messy.
So, I mean, maybe that's why she's cleaning all the fucking
time. Yeah.
Shit is everywhere, Jack. So, so true.
So true. Checks out right.
It's this bully dress day. I've said it once already today.
But he just weak, exactly like shark week.
I look forward to it. I look forward to it every time.
So I think what you said about like it being like a test run,
right? I think that's also a really
important thing to note because I do also think like on the flip
side, the opposite of EU Haul. That isn't like a healthy thing,
by the way, like I mean like opposite U-Haul, which means
that you really don't progress things after months and months,
all years, still no one really knows where this they stand.
Again, it is that level of anxiety.
Fuck that. But it happens a lot.
And then being like, oh, we'll move in together after like five
years or something like that. And for me, I'm like, I need to
know if I could live with this person, why would I?
Agree I actually saw TikTok the other day and it was like what
did it say? It was like guys, how many times
do you see a part your partner a week?
And I was going through the comments and some people like 2
times a week and I was like. What they're?
Like yeah, like, you know, we have like 2 sleepovers a week
and I'm like. Sleepovers.
What are we 12 like? But I don't get that because I'm
like, if I'm with someone, I want to see you all the time.
Not in like, not in like I. Know you're kind of like my life
is better when you're around and I enjoy that, you know which is
really lovely. But I think that having also
independence and spending more time apart is also a really,
really important thing. And yes, it can feel fucking
amazing in the beginning, but just be careful of that in the
future because it's one of those things that it's like you need
to have that separation because otherwise.
And like a separate life. You will end up not.
You'll end up in resentment city, sure, like no one wants
what's. Great about Jess and I Jess
loves raves and I hate raves. Exactly.
So there's always going to be a separate.
Off you fuck me there's. Always going to be a separate.
Exactly, Joe, I've never been to a Raven.
Maybe you could be the first person to ever take.
Me. Oh my God, I would actually love
that. No, I feel like, I feel like if
you were in the right. Field like if I was in there,
yeah. You would absolutely love.
It I do too, because I've always said that I'd hate it, but I
don't know. I get in there and it's like
just taking yourself, like out of your body.
It just feels like that's what I want.
I want just like exactly. You don't want to care as much.
You would hate all the sweaty stinky people that that would
spiral you I. Kind of like getting sweaty on
like a night out. Exactly.
But it's like when you do it like once in a while, you're not
doing it like every Saturday. Like, yeah, it's like you go and
like and you know, that's the purpose of your like going to.
Do I'm trying to push myself out of my compass zone and I feel
like that's a potentially good way of doing it because I don't
want to go to a festival so I feel like adjacent to that is a
rave yeah because. This is the next best thing.
The next if. You're going to a rave.
I'm coming with you because I have to see this.
Perfect. I thought that you didn't want.
To go I'm going if you're going because I want to see you there
I'm. Trying to get Liv to come to Dom
dollar with me. Dom dollar, I mean, I'll come to
that. When is it?
He's already been. He's playing in New York and
that just saying that he's doing a residency in Las Vegas.
So that's. Well, off to Vegas.
We go to Vegas, OK. That would be really fun.
And also to see Pitbull perfect. Mr. Worldwide, OK.
Anyway. Sorry, I'll come.
Again. So the separation going back to
that still really, really important.
Yeah. And sometimes it's hard to break
out of that if you do it for too long, being so intertwined.
Oh, absolutely. Because you run the risk of
upsetting that other person by accident.
Yeah. But yeah, these, these girls
take or like, couples that take so long to, like, get together
within a relationship, Like. OK, fair.
If you're like dating, right, that you don't have to talk all
the time, you don't have to whatever, but if you're like,
you do your thing, right, because you're you're still
single within that moment. But when you have like dedicated
yourself to somebody and then I'll see you like once a week,
it's. Like oh fuck that.
No, that would actually give me more anxiety.
But no, I'd feel anxious. Yeah, this.
Is like, people who don't, OK, sorry if this is you.
I know there's religious things around it, whatever.
But people who save sex for marriage, it's in the same
category for me. Yeah.
Like, you've got to like, try before you buy Griz.
Same for living with that imagine.
You actually have. Someone who I met someone who is
that that? Really, who is?
Who is that? Yeah.
A girl or a boy? A girl?
How did you know that she was like celibate for before
marriage? Because she said she was very
she had a boyfriend as well at time.
Do they do like ears sex? They do some weird shit though,
don't they? Oh, sorry, soaking, soaking.
It was a soaking like so basically where they put the
Dick like they put their like the people put the Willy, the
Willy. In the vagine.
And then they get somebody else to bounce on the bed, no.
Yeah, how like they do it in Utah.
The Mormons do that and like damn you.
Have you not seen this on? Tick honestly king.
No, honestly, what a slave like someone.
That's willing to jump on the bed.
Pop off me like you know what? Be that friend.
Be like, spray a jam. I'll be like, yeah.
So yeah, that's the opposite. We don't want to be that.
We basically all of us want to fucking be in a healthy state
where we're very secure in ourselves and not having to rely
on somebody else for validation, for love, for anything, right?
Like loving someone is the most beautiful thing that you can
ever do. And being loved by somebody is
like fucking amazing. But if you don't already have
that thing in your core, that is like I am secure in who I am and
I won't die fantastic. Like that's great.
That's good, right? That is pretty good.
Yeah, but a lot of a lot of you fuckers don't have it.
True. Yeah, they don't.
Have it, you don't have it. No, but it is.
It is really fucking hard. And I think that you're
completely right, Jess, with like EU hauling usually
happening with women because women get so fucking excited
with one another. Like, of course we do.
Are you joking? Absolutely, but it's like having
a best friend that you sleep with.
Yeah, that's actually what we said last.
Night I was like so much. The best friend who you?
Fuck, because you like go here from a night out and you're just
like, this is fun like. Why do they get heartbreak so
fucking bad? No, I know.
So it's what makes it so good, and it's what makes it so
fucking bad. Because you don't only lose your
girlfriend, you lose your best. Friend, I think that's what
scares me about what what scared me about getting into a
relationship. I think after my last breakup I
was like I'm actually scared to get into a relationship for this
to happen again. Yeah, but you can't live your
life. No, I know.
I mean you. Obviously haven't, but I haven't
got girlfriend now, yeah. Exactly.
But yeah, you can't. And this is like APSA to like
you guys are saying like you can't live your life in fear if
that is your fear, because it's like, oh.
No, get out there. Get amongst it.
Get amongst it, lean into it. Like bring back Yolo.
Yeah, bring back Yolo and lean into it and like, do the things
that make you feel good without having to worry.
And I think that there is such an element of shame that comes
with lesbian relationships. And I think that that's why
there is a lot of sometimes like that, like reserved behaviour
too, and almost maybe falling into it really quickly too,
because they've been so ashamed their whole life and they've
found someone who they've formed this connection with and then.
Feel so seen with. And you feel so seen.
So then you can't help but fall into it because you're like,
this is like a partner in crime, you know?
And so it can go either way. It can either scare them off
because they're like, oh, my fucking God, cannot deal with
like the shame that I feel in myself because I'm being fronted
with it because the reality is hit.
Yeah. Or you're like, fuck, yeah,
let's fucking go. Let's go.
Let's fucking. Do the damn.
Thing this shit OK? I don't know.
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Thank you better help. So I in the past have definitely
fallen guilty to EU haul fully fledged.
The van is outside. My shit is packed.
I'm in. The thing is, it's so easy to
fall into it. Yeah, and again, going back to
like past like younger Freya extremely anxiously attached and
I was like the perfect. Candidate.
Candidate, I was going to say victim, but I think candidate is
right because it's a double. It's a double.
Thing it's. A perfect storm.
And so I was yeah and, and I was like, well, of course they're
obsessed with me that's completely natural.
We've been on one date they're messaging me constantly.
Why wouldn't they Yeah, why wouldn't That's not to love.
What's not to love? The serotonin is going off the
fucking charts. And I think as well, like you
guys with ADHD as well will also understand that because that
dopamine here is like so much stronger.
Nothing else. It's like nothing.
It's like no other drug, you know and and so it's like super
intense so you can't you also you're like craving that feeling
because you're like, oh, that's such a fucking good feeling so I
want that again, right. Which is why we need to find
feelings elsewhere, you know, things that make us happy.
But yeah. So it's just easy to do it
though. It's like.
Yeah, but easier to do it again, like I said, because I was also
a lot younger, like I was, you know, I had again, like guys,
the MDR, I'm learning a lot of things about my childhood, which
very wise, very wise. But I'm learning a lot of things
about my childhood, which which now I'm unpacking and working
through and have dealt with really, really like, like thank
for free MDR that it made sense to me to to fall into it because
I wanted love. Like, you know, I just wanted
love. So if I'm given love and
especially by the right person, I also don't think that you can
U-Haul with like someone that you don't find like a connection
with. Oh.
Absolutely. Because but then there are some
serial U Haulers. There are some girls that are
like fat boys. And I don't understand fat boys
by the way. Like I can't get on board.
I can't. Fuck boys.
Yeah, why? Because I just don't understand
how you can go around like that. You're very emotional and you
need that connection, yeah, to sleep with someone, right?
Yeah, but if I don't have that, it's gay.
No, it's not happening. Wait, so would you say, would
you say you're demisexual then? Yes.
You are is sure. Yeah, that's demisexual.
Is it? Yeah.
What is it? Is it?
Yeah, really. Can't sleep with someone unless
you have an emotional connection with them.
Yeah, but like define emotional connection because.
Like say she's. Probably not, You can just feel.
No, I don't think so. The.
Difference between yeah, but I think.
No, no, no, but you can have like a really like strong
intimate connection that could grow into like an emotional
connection, but like, I don't don't know it's.
Not going to be like a relationship type thing like a.
Yeah, like, no, it's not like I have to be in a relationship to
sleep with somebody. I feel like that's more like a
demisexual. Demisexuals, you have to be like
emotionally connected. I feel like it doesn't mean
relationship. I don't have to be emotionally.
I'm just sat here like I I, I mean, look, I don't need another
fucking label, girls. Honestly, I'm just a fucking
lesbian. I definitely have to feel that
connection now. I have to feel insanely
attracted to somebody, basically.
Yeah, I don't know. You just know when you know,
right? You're like, yeah, I want to
have sex with this person. But like, that's why it's like
the fuck boy thing for me. I'm like, oh, that's very rare
for me. Like I don't get turned on
easily. I don't jazz.
Don't fucking me like that, bitch.
I actually think. It again, but.
Christ. She don't know, I don't.
Don't get what? Turned on easily.
I don't. Oh oh.
By a fucking big. Beam.
No, I couldn't. No, unless I'm like attracted to
that person. Yeah, you can turn me on really
fucking. If I'm attracted to that person,
they can turn me on really fucking quickly.
But I mean in general you are working.
Around possibly one of the horniest people I've met.
No. Yeah, yes, you.
Absolutely. Are, yeah.
It's not a bad thing. I am No, no, I I love, I love
being like a very like sexual person, but that doesn't mean
that I can go around and sleep with different people.
That's what I'm saying with the whole fat boy thing.
It's like I don't, I just, I just can't get on board with it.
Like all power to you, by the way, if you.
Not a judge? Good.
For them good. She just can't physically get
herself to do it. No, no, I can't get it up.
But I yeah, but Fairfax, I mean, honestly, you just do whatever
the fuck you want to do. So now though if I were to be
like, love bombed heavy I think. You have bummed in what way?
What would like scare you? Would love bumming.
So say within like a couple of weeks, being like, I love you,
yeah, that would scare me. Whereas younger Freya would have
been like, of course you love me, You've known me for two more
weeks, you know? That's completely normal to do.
That yeah, yeah. What's?
What we were actually discussing this last night.
What are your love languages like?
What do you what do you do and what do you like in a partner?
So I'm. Going to sound like such a cunt
here and I was saying this is someone the other day.
I have all of the love languages to give.
It was in like horizon. I sound like sake.
What do you mean you've got? All of them.
OK, I'm going to rephrase that. No, no, no.
So I'm going to sound like a cunt, but basically I give I I
enjoy giving all of the love languages.
So I enjoy giving words of affirmation.
I enjoy acts of service. Like I love doing things to
people. I love physical touch, like
giving physical touch. What's the other ones to be?
Fair. Now that I'm reading them, I'm
into all of them as well. Yeah.
But it doesn't like I would say most people into all of them,
but it's like, what is your main way that you gravitate towards
showing? By the way, no, but I show them
all. I feel equally.
That's what I. But there'll be ones you do more
it'll. Probably be like true that you
do. What are they?
I reckon it's words of affirmation, quality time,
physical touch, acts of service and receiving gifts.
I would say yours a physical touch and acts of service.
But I love giving gifts too, babe, You do.
And I love physical touch. I love acts of service.
I love words of affirmation. I actually would say
affirmation. From observing you, yeah I would
say yours are definitely acts of service. 100 clicks because
service can fall into the gift giving category as well.
True. I feel like it does.
I'd say acts of service and words of affirmation.
Are yours physical? Touch.
Come on, physical. Touch has to be in there.
My biggest of language would be physical touch.
I'm so touchy feeling. But to receive, I don't need to
receive gifts. I don't I think acts of service.
I think for me and and physical touch because acts of service it
doesn't mean I want, by the way someone to do loads of stuff for
me. But I always feel like actions
are obviously speaking louder than words.
And that's what it is. It's like the meaningful things.
It's like the meaningful things, a little thing.
It doesn't need to be like a huge gesture.
It doesn't need to be like you're fucking doing everything
for me, but just so every now and then that you make a little
bit of effort. I'm like, OK, that's great that
I really like that physical touch.
What would you say mine and Jesses are then?
Physical touch I will. Hold so you can see.
Physical touch, definitely, and I'd actually say quality time.
For no, but as in like, what are mine and what what do you think
hers? Are right OK what are yours to
give physical touch and quality time and and giving gifts yeah.
Access service? You mean?
Because it's receiving gifts, not giving gifts.
Yeah. But if there's receiving gifts,
there's giving gifts like there's.
Yeah. So I think that those are yours.
Like I know that you would really love to like give her
stuff and that whenever you think about something you get
it. And the physical touch,
obviously. I think like both of you
definitely have that. I think you, Jess.
Physical touch, obviously. Absolutely.
I do also think words of affirmation you give very
nicely, like that is a really, really beautiful trait that
you've got because you're not shy to like, compliment and say
things. No, I'm just interested in what
she's picked up on. That no, she's been, I've, I've
noticed you being very, extremely complimentary to live.
Like even last night you were like, can everyone just take a
moment for a second to like, look at how beautiful live looks
and made everyone give a little round of applause, which I think
is so fucking cute. So like that.
Definitely. Yeah, I would probably agree.
My problem is that I do equally. And by the way, it's not because
I feel like I have to do those things.
I genuinely just actually enjoy doing all those things.
But I don't. But I think the problem is that
like, I don't want anyone to ever think that like, because I
like giving all those things that I like that I feel like I
need to receive it all. Like I don't give to receive,
you know. Oh.
Absolutely. I love, I like, yeah, like I
like, I love buying dress stuff. Like I love it, even if it's
like fucking chocolate bar that I know she likes.
But like in saying that, like I'd love doing it, but I would
never. I don't expect that from yeah,
you at all. I don't.
But actually very well. Jess is doing some research.
You can talk about how we are bringing back the word minge.
We started chatting about that on the last episode, didn't we?
I think the minge movement, the minge movement, yeah.
So I think it's it's coming. It's it's coming back with the
storm like 20. 25 is the year of the minge.
It really is. Get into it, yeah.
Get involved in many ways. A.
Little Minge temporary tattoo. Yeah, need.
It's a need, not A1. All right, Yeah, all right.
I love the word minge and. It's so fun to say, it says.
So much it's quite punchy. It is.
It's powerful. Minge, Minge.
And I think in the past it's probably been used as quite
maybe a negative word. Stinky minge, Stinky minge, Oh I
hate people. Stinky minge.
Oh, by the way, can I just say so many people came to me for
the whole fucking shower before sex thing and I yeah, and I
really want to clear it up. I really want to clear this up
okay? Oh, oh, you got.
There is off. I did get didn't.
You I did get told off. Okay look totally cool.
I hate being told off, but don't worry about it.
I do not think that there is anything wrong with the natural
scent, anything of a vagina. I do not need you to be fresh
out of the shower every single time that I sleep with you.
That is ridiculous. Yeah, and not something that I
stand by. I do not have a problem.
I think I was just thinking of a very specific scenario.
Yeah, I'm kind of like picturing a rave where you've been using
fucking dirty toilets all night in a portaloo.
Yeah, that kind of vibe. Like if I've been out with you
and we go home, I'm not ordering you to take a shower and we just
put that out there very, very quickly.
That is not yeah, because I don't need to do that.
Also a mood killer. Mood killer and also I, you.
Say that, but me and you both have a shower.
But we love a shower. Yeah, but I love I just.
That's not necessarily for that situation.
No, no, I know, but it doesn't. Get but you're kind of washing
the night away, right. And also you're together like
it's different. True.
So like, if you're like sleeping with someone the first time,
first few times, whatever, I totally chill.
Not a problem. I'm not like I'm, I'm not
disgusted. Like I fucking love it.
Also, a lot of women, a lot of lesbians out there might love
that natural aroma. It's a bit of a joke though, and
at the end of the day, it's a podcast.
Not that it's not that deep, it's just really not.
That and also none of us are experts.
No, we're just. Fighting shit in a mint.
But yeah, mint but binge movement anyway, it is a great
word bringing it back. We're only yeah.
I was going to say other words that are coming back OK 2025.
Sucker, sucker, sucker. Oh, says Perry 100%.
Sucker's coming back, so you know you're a sucker and also
you sucker. You suck.
Where's this? Where's this come into play?
Perry says. You.
Suck quite a lot, but she does. But yes, but she's bringing
suckers back like you're a sucker.
I love that. Yeah, agree.
Yeah, you're gonna. I need to ask.
Her if this is to do the Charlie X Yes because one of her albums
is called Sucker. No, she's been Perry sucks for a
while on Instagram, I'll have you know.
Yeah, but I'm a. Personal plug, yeah, Perry sucks
with like 2X's or something. Perry's fucking great.
What other words? Yolo, obviously.
Yolo is coming back in a big way.
Very big way. In a really big fucking way.
And I think that ties in quite nicely with like the Brat
aesthetic, like Yolo, that's just like a little bit, I don't
know. No, like not in that way.
I feel like Brat is bringing back maybe like an older
aesthetic and like grungy and messy and that we haven't seen
that for a little while. And I feel like Yolo, we haven't
seen it for a little while. So it's coming back once.
Again. Yeah, What?
Goes around, comes around. We're trying to get the
boomerang start it back up again on.
But you did it true perfectly. You tried to do like a shitty
one and. I tried to do a shit one, I
think because I tried to do a shit.
It didn't work. You know I.
Think we should bring back Boomerangs I?
Think so. I've had people like so many
people DM me their boomerangs after I put one up and been like
Oh my God, been thinking this for ages.
So I'm like, look, the feature is still there for a reason,
guys. I forgot about them.
And also, do you know, I'm fucking sick of those Gen.
Z's being like, oh, sorry, you're both Gen.
Z, but like, you're not those I. Like right on the cusp.
I'm technically I think. Being like oh millennials are so
lame with their fucking boomers and shit like that.
So therefore I want to reclaim it.
It's like being called a dyke. Like I need to.
Exactly. Exactly.
But yeah, we've got a lot, I think, I think 2020.
Five. I can't think of the word
boomerang without hearing JoJo Siwa's song.
I'm a comeback like a boomerang with obviously some of the
really, because I feel like I should have mentioned this at
the beginning of the episode, like with some of the really
horrendous shit that Trump is coming out with now that he is
in power, which I told you would happen.
And I had so many lesbians in the comments being like lesbians
for Trump. And I was like, chickens for
Christmas. Like, fuck off, I know, sorry.
I was like, Turkey for Christmas.
Yeah. Turkeys for Thanksgiving,
turkeys for Christmas. Why are you voting for Trump
when he's looking to remove all your rights?
He's not looking to remove my rights.
I'm like, he is looking to remove your rights.
And he's like, quite eloquently put it into a big old document
that is open for the world to fucking see it.
But if you don't want to believe me, you fucking don't.
So now they've removed the DEI. So DERDEI stands for Diversity,
Equity and Inclusion, and basically that that rule has now
been revoked within the workplace.
And even when a plane crashed, he Trump liked to blame the DEI
hires for the crash itself, which is absolutely ridiculous.
Insane and let's can't stand him.
I can't stand him. I can't stand Musk with his
fucking Nazi salute just to really tip it up.
My God, it's. Obviously revoked yeah that
safety and that protection of DI hires within the workplace this
is a big fucking issue and anyone who thinks that it isn't
needs to read a book because like this is history repeating
itself it is horrendous it's. Actually really fucking scary.
And a massive company that obviously has been impacted is
Amazon. And you know, they they now are
under massive risk. If you are a person within the
LGBTQ plus community, Let's not forget as well, disabled ethnic
minority that a woman that that's where it's fucking
leading to, right, Because at this point, women are also that
ethical hire for them, you know, and it makes me sick.
Like, and we all knew that this was going to happen.
He's come in in the strongest, most dictatorship way.
But do you know what is scarier Is that it's it's him and Musk
as a duo is absolutely terrifying.
I find Elon Musk so terrifying now he's.
Fucking weird. He's a loser.
Say something how much grief you're getting for having a
Tesla right now because it's annoying.
Yeah, it is really annoying. OK, let's not fucking pretend
that everything we own and every Amazon order that you've fucking
done is owned by literal villains, OK, I understand Elon
Musk is a twat. I got this Tesla.
We got this Tesla years ago, but before there was any of that.
And the reason why we got the Tesla was to be environmentally
friendly. And this is backfired in a
pretty fucking bad way. What do you want me to do with
my finance fucking? Also, is it realistic?
Just be like, give it back. So I can't take this fucking car
back. I cannot take this car back, OK.
And I've got you lot in my DM saying take your fucking car.
Yeah, you're a disgrace for owning this car.
Also, what do you want me to fuck you?
Do Scarlet have said so many times how much you categorically
hate the car? Oh yeah, it's annoying you can't
get. Rid of it because you've curbed
the alloys. No more than that.
It's fucked. That car is fucked, but
basically I can't get rid of it. It's not only was it they.
Want to get rid of it? They want a new car.
They're trying. But also you cannot reflect my
values based on the card and I bought years ago I was.
Going to say it, but the majority of the people that say
that probably have Amazon Prime. Almost likely going back to all
of this, it's absolutely terrifying to our American
listeners, we love you, we support you.
We are still here. We want you to know that there
is there is a lot of power, I hope within community and people
being there for one another. If you feel like there is
somebody within your community be a trans person who is more at
risk right now, you be there for that trans person you know and
you do your best. It is majority of trans people
being attacked right now and that's why we need to do our job
to stand up because fucking how they are less than 1% of the
population they are being targeted is if they are the
issues behind their their health care Yeah are.
You looking, did you see that ticked up today?
I was Laverne Cox saying that. She literally said that on I
watch. Oh, I haven't seen like, well,
actually 1% of the population. No, but they are the problem.
If that if 1% right and you're behaving like they're the
problem, like come on, you are insanity, pure insanity.
And so I am sick and tired of it.
And now we're going into like our government too.
There was recently this guy called Josh Howey who is a GB
News reporter. Which, First off, any reporter
GB News is just disgusting. Yeah, but regardless, I'm going
to put this down to the reporter and also the the producer who
let this air, right? Both of them should be held
responsible for this because it is absolutely disgusting.
But in this news report, Josh Howey mentions the LGBTQ plus
community being protected. And he said, and you know what
that means pedos. So he basically put pedophiles
in with the LGBTQ plus community.
Why? Because he likens them the same.
Just like how a lot of homophobic people, they will
lump predators in with the same category as people within the
LGBTQ plus community, right? And they will say that makes so
much sense, makes so much sense, right?
Because they will state that that plus could stand for
anything that they fucking hate, right?
Let's not forget how many pedophiles are straight white
men. You want to put pedophiles and
in the same box as the LGBTQ plus community?
Bitch look in the fucking mirror you bald headed cunt.
Right. So I am disgraced by this
because the LGBTQ plus community, all we have ever
been, has been loving fighting for the bare minimum same rights
as heterosexual people whilst being adverse with hatred.
Every day there was, every single day there is a fight
against somebody within the RGBTQ plus community, abuse,
whatever that might be, right? Killings, stonings,
imprisonment. And now you're sitting there
saying that pedophiles are within.
That is a crime, a heinous crime and a severe mental illness too.
Like God knows what, you've got to be something really fucking
bad and there's a lot of them. I'm disgraced by this.
So like I said, not only did the news reporter say it, but then
also the producer enabled it to be Ed.
What is going on? GB News they're the most that
that have you. Are they like this?
No, I don't watch them because I'm not thick, but are they
don't watch. Them either, but.
No. Are they like the sun for
television? It's like worse.
They're absolute disgrace. So this is like a completely
disgusting rhetoric because because there's already people
that are really fucking thick watching it, right?
Because you got really stupid to watch it.
So they're obviously is easily influenced and only scare only
thick people. People get scared of what they
can't understand because they can't understand it, therefore
they're scared. Quotation marks, homophobia,
phobia of homosexuality because they can't understand something
that isn't their reality because they're thick.
That is all it comes down to. You cannot be intelligent and
homophobic like the two. Don't.
The two cannot coexist. I'm sorry.
Unless you are gay so you could be intelligent.
And very gay in the closet and hating the fact that you're gay,
therefore you're a homophobe. Either one.
What would you rather be quite common as well?
So this is just really, really recently add I think that action
is going to be taken on this and if it isn't best have to leave.
I am there. I'm there tomorrow.
She's. Going to pay, Where are you
going? TV news she's making.
Signs she's outside the window. I will egg that bald headed
cunt. He is so hideous they would not
be able to. They always are hideous though.
But he needs to be fired. But.
He won't be. He won't have to be.
I'm sorry, there's no way they'd keep him on after this.
Lesbians. Mark my words if this man does
not get fired. Old phrase going to kick up a
stink. Oh, I'm kicking up a stink.
I'm already kicking up a stink. And then people ask me why I do
this podcast and people ask me why I do events.
People ask me why I post lesbian content.
This is why. Exactly.
So on that note on that saying that.
I'm saying that I do want a few more Aussie slangs from you that
I need to learn and okay, let's cry.
You're really putting on the spot.
Do you want words or? Little things that you say,
yeah. Something that I've like taught
live, which like I didn't know wasn't like a well known thing,
was a Suki lala. Yeah, I hate this calling
someone a. Suck you're being a suck sucky
lala. Is that when you say, oh, you're
so cooked, you're. So you've got nothing to do with
Why do you sound like a road man when you say cooked like that
going cooked. No, you, not you and your top
boy era. You're being a Sookie, Lala.
You're being a Sook. Give the definition for free.
Give the definition of Sookie Lala.
I feel like being a Sook, like you're being really Sookie is
like maybe being like feeling a bit sorry for yourself for a bit
like, all right, like, you know, like Iggy's being like a bit
like. But you being little, suck.
Yeah, being like a little suck. Like maybe he's like looking sad
on like the couch. Or something.
Why? Why does the lala come into it?
Maybe that's just a personal thing.
I think that's like. Anyone else from Australia?
Let me know if you say Suki Lala as well.
Me like, oh you little Suk. Oh, Suki is definitely something
that's said quite often. Jess also calls broccoli
broccoli. OK, that's definitely a Jess
thing. No, that's don't put me on
blast. I will put you on blast because
it's so rogue. No, it's fine.
Be nice to me maybe? You're saying that it's
definitely very Australian is I didn't come here to fuck
spiders. I didn't come here to fuck
spiders. Like, I didn't come here that's
around. Like, oh.
I like him one as well that. You saying to me like sculling
something? No.
I suppose you said it to me the other day in the car when I when
I'd say to Freya, like if it's sunny, I'd be like.
Bad day to be a beer. That's it.
Bad day to be a beer. Yeah, that's a good one, I
think. Bad day to be a beer.
I kind of like using like bad
day to be a something anyway, like that's why you like.
Like, bad day to be like, literally insert whatever you're
doing, you know? Yeah, bad day to be a ski
jacket. Yeah, I love that.
A bad day to be a beer. Yeah, yeah.
I feel like this summer that saying.
Oh, that saying it's going to go hard, babe.
Exactly. I can't wait until.
Hate us in summer? I know I can't wait.
I mean if sometimes was insufferable then no.
Back the cringe. I'm never bringing back the
cringe I hit. A climb cringe mountain dude I.
Fucking hate myself but the weather has been so bad
recently. I mean it's been for months now
but now it's getting to the really really really dull grey
thing and I'm like this is just death.
However. The three of us are actually
going a little getaway next Saturday.
We're going to be, I can't wait. We're going clubbing in the
February. Not that no ones gonna be there.
Just ask that. It's giving Inbetweeners and the
club. Oh no, it really is.
That is, that is literally us. What it?
Will be as. Well, yeah, well, we're gonna
have to probably recreate that scene too.
So I think so. I actually can't I I think
that's where my cringe level radar really.
No, absolutely not doing that. I've I've vetoed.
So all of that, No, yeah, I think I bet it'll be really fun.
I'm really looking forward to that.
I'm really looking forward to decompressing.
I have been non-stop for so long that I really need that because
I think maybe that's what led me into me thinking, oh, I've got
to post those and do all this kind of stuff because like I was
so over overstimulated like to another degree that I was like
going, you know, you know, like when you when you spin a wheel
really quickly and then it spins out of fucking control.
You're like a hamster on a wheel.
Yes you are. That is what you've.
Been, you know, when the hamster just like kind of becomes part
of the wheel, like 100% just being flung.
Yeah, I'm going to. I'm honestly going to tie you to
the fucking hamster wheels. No, the the lounge chair,
whatever. It's common, but it's called the
chair. Chase Lounge?
No in Ibiza. Oh, the lounger.
The lounge, I'm literally going to tie you to that lounge
because you're so annoying as well.
On holiday, you can't sit still, you have to sit still.
All right, me on the me on the sun lounger.
Someone sedate me. Yeah, you.
Just I just want you, just because I'm doing it for you.
I just want you to relax. Yeah.
Don't. Don't I too I.
Know don't wheel. And you know what?
If my brain wasn't going 1,000,000 miles an hour on 1000
different topics I probably would.
Maybe I'll smuggle some Xanax to Ibiza.
That's a good shout. You know what?
I can't wait to go to Ibiza prison, right lesbians, We love
you so much. Sorry I didn't even think about
a Horror Story because my brain is at 0% right now.
Sorry everyone. What a chaos.
I love you, but you know what? I'm so.
Being chaotic enough, yeah, for a horror.
Story I love you, I love you, I love you.
The lesbian Horror Story is me, end of story, and we will speak
to you next week. Love you.
Bye.