1 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:16,600 Hello lesbians, I'm sat here with a very hot live manager. 2 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:19,840 Live not physically temperature that's. 3 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,760 Not very nice. Hello everyone, it's been a 4 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,120 while. It is really fucking hot today. 5 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:30,480 It is 34°. I don't even, I don't even know 6 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:32,880 at this point, but I'm, I'm, I'm melting. 7 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,840 I've had enough. I've had enough, I feel. 8 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,120 Like we're doing a rap battle. I feel like we are doing a rap 9 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:40,400 battle with we're currently like Shadling 1 mic right now because 10 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:42,520 my interface has just stopped working. 11 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,080 So that's great. I've had enough of this weather. 12 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,280 It's not for me. Yeah, but you? 13 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,000 See, I want to tell everyone. I want to tell everyone I 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,240 fucking hate. Yeah, but you say that then you 15 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,560 complain about the winter and you get depressed in the winter, 16 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:55,440 so you can't. Yeah, no. 17 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,400 Picky battles, you know? No, but yeah, but I like summer, 18 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,280 but I don't like a heat wave. Well, yeah, there's like an 19 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:03,160 uncomfortable heat wave that's very fucking hot. 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,599 Satan's crotch. I. 21 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,760 Mean yeah, it's it's 31. Degrees and it's so hot in my 22 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,040 flat like. Yeah, this is the problem. 23 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:12,560 Your flat is like. Yeah. 24 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:16,400 But also there's no, there's just no air con anywhere. 25 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,800 So we're not equipped for this weather. 26 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,200 No, like if we were, if we were in like Brazil right now, this 27 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:24,360 would be fine. It's like everywhere we went, 28 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,000 we'd have air con in it. That's what Jess. 29 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,640 Said we were in Zara the other day and she was like why do your 30 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,360 shops don't have any air con? Because we're not used to it. 31 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:32,920 We have like 5 days of this a year. 32 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,720 They're like, why would we spend money on air con, you know? 33 00:01:35,960 --> 00:01:39,480 So I mean, I kind of get it, but also I get it. 34 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:43,080 But my hands are sweating. Yeah, no, your paws, my paws are 35 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,240 sweating bad. What have we been doing? 36 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,480 We've had or we had the wine night last week. 37 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,160 We had wine night and pub night. Last week and pub night, yeah, 38 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,120 that was a busy week. Busy week? 39 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:58,080 Yeah, that's what even I don't think anything crazy happened. 40 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:00,520 No, they were two quite tame events. 41 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:01,680 Which was? Why? 42 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,760 I think it's because it's hot. It's hot, it's Glastonbury, it's 43 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:07,760 summer, everyone's going away. It was just like everyone just 44 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,000 seemed to just be like lower energy, not in like a bad way, 45 00:02:11,039 --> 00:02:13,520 but just they just can't be asked to cause a fight out. 46 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,920 Of you like, why go out for dinner in a few hours and I'm 47 00:02:16,920 --> 00:02:19,760 going to be sat there like. Yeah, it's too much. 48 00:02:19,920 --> 00:02:22,280 Do you reckon that we should? We didn't get the paddling pool 49 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,360 today. But that's your. 50 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:25,320 Fault. We should have gotten the 51 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,040 paddling pool. I know. 52 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,280 Yeah, but you, you know, you're the driving. 53 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,520 Pool I've been working. When I went upstairs, you were 54 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,720 scrolling on TikTok, lying in front of the fan, Yeah. 55 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:36,880 Because I was having my 5 minutes of break. 56 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,280 You're having your 5 minutes of break when you're sunbathing 57 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:40,440 too. Were you having your 5 minutes 58 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,600 of break when I was lying on that hammock and I could see you 59 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,800 again on the sofa? I've got to do it in little 60 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:48,120 little chunks, you know, otherwise with that. 61 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:49,640 Time you could have been getting a paddling pool it's. 62 00:02:49,920 --> 00:02:52,120 Your heart. It's your paddling pool you were 63 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,040 speaking. Hammock. 64 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,960 Yeah, I love my God, guys. My mum bought me a hammock. 65 00:02:57,200 --> 00:02:59,960 It is like the best thing I've ever had. 66 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,240 The guys about your new place. Have I told anyone about my new 67 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,960 place? Have I? 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,080 I don't know. I mean, if I have, I'm sorry, 69 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:11,280 but yes I do. I do have a new house. 70 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:17,480 I'm living alone, which is really fucking weird and scary. 71 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,440 I have. I don't think I've. 72 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,840 I think the last time I lived alone I was 17 and weirdly 73 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,160 enough handled it better than me being 31. 74 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,520 But yeah, it's. New. 75 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:28,920 It's new change. It's new. 76 00:03:28,920 --> 00:03:30,800 Change. I'm, as you guys know, I'm very 77 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,680 bad with change, terrible with change. 78 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:35,920 I should actually do a whole episode on just like change. 79 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:38,520 Yeah, that's a good idea. I'll bookmark that one. 80 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,800 But I am bad at change. And so living alone is like a 81 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:44,920 very, very, very different experience. 82 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,040 But the place that I'm in is lovely. 83 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:51,280 It is very, very nice. And it is still in the same area 84 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,120 because I couldn't change too much. 85 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,400 So I'm still close to everyone and everything. 86 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:56,600 I. Don't think you'll ever leave, 87 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:00,280 not in here unless you move. Abroad, no. 100 percent, 100%. 88 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,640 I would never live anywhere else in London. 89 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,200 Never. Unless it was like Maidabel. 90 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,240 Yeah, which I may be moving to. Yeah, which is fun. 91 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,160 So that's also having her change that's. 92 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:13,560 Having a change too and lives. What else is going on? 93 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,200 Holiday on Sunday it's your birthday, next week it's. 94 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,480 My birthday, that's very exciting. 95 00:04:18,959 --> 00:04:20,240 You love your birthday, don't you? 96 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,520 But then I've not organized anything with the girls. 97 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,800 No, I know, but. It's because there's pride this 98 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,800 weekend and then I leave so pride we could just see. 99 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,000 Pride is my birthday. I think pride is birthday 100 00:04:30,000 --> 00:04:33,320 because also I'm sick to fucking death of all of these brands 101 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,240 pulling out left, right and centre for pride. 102 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:38,000 There's been like, talk about. We should talk about. 103 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,400 This We should definitely talk about this. 104 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,320 So Calvin Klein usually does a campaign every single year. 105 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:46,400 Nothing these brands that usually I would see brands left, 106 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,640 right and centre. And I actually, I interviewed 107 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:55,880 Max Balegde on the red carpet and he was saying that usually 108 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,880 June and July are like his busiest months because obviously 109 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:02,200 he's, he's a huge creator and he said this year nothing. 110 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,680 What 1 brand? Yeah, loads of worked with loads 111 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:06,720 of like queer creators. Have been saying this has been 112 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,280 their like most financially damaging month. 113 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:13,280 Yeah, which is so about let's not obviously we're very clear 114 00:05:13,280 --> 00:05:18,280 as to why, because on the global homophobia is on the three to 115 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:21,600 one Trump. That's why. 116 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:25,680 That is literally why and all of you mother fuckers who were like 117 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,920 I'm a lesbian and I support Trump and I said you're like a 118 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:30,760 Turkey voting for Christmas and you were all coming back being 119 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,720 like fuck you. Trump is great with LGBTQ 120 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:34,600 rights. He loves them. 121 00:05:35,080 --> 00:05:38,320 Who's laughing now? None of us actually, because you 122 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,320 ruined it for all of us. And even though we are in the 123 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,560 UK, they're. Still having a knock on effect. 124 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:45,760 Of course it's having a knock on effect. 125 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,400 It's a global effect. We are like the little bitch 126 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:55,680 sister of the US and so anything that the US does trickles into 127 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,920 our economy, our political statements. 128 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:02,960 And I was saying this earlier, I was like, I hate it how they 129 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:09,800 will cast a genocide race or sexuality as a quote UN quote 130 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,840 political statement or a political movement. 131 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,520 Those things are not political. It is human rights. 132 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,960 Have some fucking like human decency about you. 133 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,640 Like the world is going to absolute shit. 134 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,600 Absolute shit. But yeah, so brands are pulling 135 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,040 out left, right and centre. We have had nothing. 136 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:30,600 No, nothing, no matter how much. And we've reached out as well. 137 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,200 There's been a lot of outreach to many, many brands. 138 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,200 And honestly, at this point, I'm going to call them out because I 139 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:36,920 actually don't care. Like, there's been a lot of 140 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:38,160 like. I'll check. 141 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:39,800 In with the team and come back to you. 142 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:42,440 But like when you get a response like that, it's very obvious 143 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,080 what the outcome is going to be. No, and the only people that 144 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,600 have really seen, I've seen The Odd Couple of lesbians, but it 145 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,520 really is like gay men as per usual, that will get the jobs if 146 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:56,280 there are any. Yeah, so I am sick to death of 147 00:06:56,280 --> 00:06:59,480 it. No, I'm not a happy girl because 148 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:03,560 this goes against everything. Like, it was so ironic because 149 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,720 the amount of interviews that I had last year where people were 150 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:08,200 like, it's the lesbian renaissance this summer. 151 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,920 What do you think is in it for, like, 2025? 152 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,120 And I was like, it's only going to get bigger and fucking 153 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,960 better, bitch. And now I'm like, oh, we've all 154 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,920 been shoved back into the fucking closet. 155 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,960 Yeah, because I feel like when I Kissed a Girl came out last 156 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,160 year, everyone was like, Oh my fucking God, lesbians. 157 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:24,720 I kind of almost forgot about them. 158 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,360 And then we had that bit of like resurgence, and now it's just 159 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:28,840 kind of gone. No, it's. 160 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:29,640 Gone. Completely gone. 161 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,360 Yeah. We had like the rise of Chapel, 162 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,280 Rhone. We had I kissed a girl, Renee 163 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:36,240 Rapp, like all of these things. Obviously Renee Rapp. 164 00:07:36,240 --> 00:07:40,040 And Chapel is still going and a bit it's not getting those that 165 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:41,680 attention that it was getting before. 166 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:46,360 And if anything, I feel like more hatred is being headlined 167 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:51,120 than anything positive. And it's just so, so, so obvious 168 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,200 what's going on. And in the schools as well, 169 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,720 they're like banning books, LGBTQ rights and. 170 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:58,720 Oh yeah, I saw that. Yeah, I mean, classic. 171 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:02,800 Yeah, but are we surprised? But no, but it's just fucking 172 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,400 ridiculous. Like, when is it? 173 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:08,680 When is it going to end? We're in 2025 and obviously 174 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,120 trans rights is this is what they always do. 175 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,920 They will go for the minority within the minority. 176 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:18,440 So they're stripping away trans rights, which is inhumane. 177 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:21,560 It's disgusting. It is something that we as a 178 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:25,680 collective need to stand against because yes, OK, might not be 179 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:27,920 transgender. It still effects you. 180 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:29,400 Still effects you Joe. What? 181 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:32,240 Even if you are a straight person, this still effects you. 182 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:36,320 Like the removal of trans rights will have a knock on effect to 183 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,240 everything. But they will always go for 184 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,520 trans 1st and then it'll be the next. 185 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,960 Guess I feel like lesbian lesbians are next. 186 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:47,720 Like after trans, I feel like it goes like transgender lesbians 187 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,040 do, you know what I mean? Like in terms of like scale, in 188 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:55,000 terms of the minority scale within the community. 189 00:08:55,000 --> 00:08:57,120 The community. Yeah, yeah. 190 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,720 But yeah, I've had enough. Sorry. 191 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,120 I just can't. I cannot stop staring at my 192 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,920 bruises. So Liv drunkenly rode into a 193 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:08,280 tree the other night on a line bike and she's literally covered 194 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,560 in bruises. I think I've got like 1234. 195 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,600 Yeah, right. You're absolutely riddled with 196 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,240 bruises, babe. I don't know what to tell you, 197 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,080 but you're an idiot. You're an actual idiot. 198 00:09:18,120 --> 00:09:21,320 No one got in a line bag after about 10 double tequilas. 199 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:23,680 Is that all I'm going to say? How did you even drink that 200 00:09:23,680 --> 00:09:25,640 much? It's me. 201 00:09:27,560 --> 00:09:29,160 It's just, it's just me. It's just me. 202 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:31,080 It's what? Happens when you drink 10 203 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,800 tequilas and only have one prep baguette for the whole day. 204 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:38,480 How did you not feel disgusting like I also in the time that 205 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,400 like the day? Or the day after the day I 206 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:42,640 didn't. Classic me. 207 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,760 I didn't think I was that drunk. And then I got on the bike. 208 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:48,600 Yeah, you annoy me so much when you do that. 209 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,480 Oh my God. I'm like, you're so drunk. 210 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:51,720 And then you look at it. No, no. 211 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,000 And I'm like, well, you are you. Do no, I'm not. 212 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,440 And you're like, you're literally swaying, you're 213 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,200 stumbling and you heel boots and you're going, no, I'm not. 214 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,960 And I'm like, babe, look at you. I think where was I? 215 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:03,440 You weren't there. I was out. 216 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:05,880 Oh, it was after about to see. Oh, when I fell over. 217 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:07,160 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was with Jess. 218 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:09,680 Blame Jess. I'll blame Jess. 219 00:10:09,680 --> 00:10:12,960 Fuck it, it's Jess's fault. But a few it was after 220 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:17,200 Rhiannon's baby shower. Me, Scarlett, Leo and Jess went 221 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:18,720 to the cock and bottle but it was close so we went to 222 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,440 electric. But I was so drunk at this 223 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,520 point. Apparently Leo and Scarlett were 224 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:23,920 like crying with laughter because I was wearing 225 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:27,280 Birkenstocks as well, but my feet were just going like. 226 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:28,120 Flip. Flopping flip. 227 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,560 Flopping, yeah. I was like trying to really 228 00:10:30,560 --> 00:10:32,320 prove a point and like trying to walk in a straight line. 229 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:35,520 I just couldn't. Yeah you really have like 0 230 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,040 control over your balance and everything whenever you've had a 231 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,600 drink like super wobbly. That's why I'm not surprised 232 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,200 that you literally drove into a tree. 233 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:44,880 I know. I would do anything to see this. 234 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:46,920 I wish that lime bites had dash cams. 235 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,200 Well, they should. They should. 236 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,440 Shouldn't let people on them when they're drunk. 237 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,280 Or you are responsible for yourself and you say I'm too 238 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,480 drunk to do this. Did it not come up with our 239 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,520 because it was too early for the thing to come up? 240 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,160 It wasn't. Like past 12:00 or anything, it 241 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,200 was still like 10. So I think you know, when it 242 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,360 like does the sober test like past 11 or something, I feel 243 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,680 like it should do that just every time you get on a lime 244 00:11:08,680 --> 00:11:10,360 bite because you could be drunk at any hour. 245 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:12,600 Yeah. Who's this day drinking? 246 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,640 Yeah. To be drunk at like 4:00 PM 247 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:16,680 easy. And you're more likely to get on 248 00:11:16,680 --> 00:11:19,440 a line bike at 4:00 PM than you would like 2:00 AM, you know. 249 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:20,520 Again, I'm just going to blame Josh. 250 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:21,720 You shouldn't have told. Got me on the. 251 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,040 Line. Well, no, yeah, I do agree. 252 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:24,600 Actually. Everything's Jess's fault. 253 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:27,920 What else have we been up to? Anything good? 254 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,200 Before I get on to the questions. 255 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,880 What? Have we been doing? 256 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:35,440 What have we been doing? Oh, you've been painting a lot. 257 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,080 Not a lot. I've you've been painting 258 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,240 canvases and ceramic plates for like a month. 259 00:11:42,560 --> 00:11:45,960 Yeah, well, I just recently did my mackerel drawing, which I 260 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:49,960 actually quite like. I put it in the frame and much 261 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,920 to my surprise, Scarlett said. It was really good, but. 262 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:55,120 A win's a win. Because she said she was like, 263 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,840 you didn't do that, fuck off. And I said I did. 264 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,840 That was my mackerel. So you know, whoever wants to 265 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,480 buy one, they're going for like 10 grand. 266 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:07,040 Is there any more gay news? Oh yeah, Charlize Theron as well 267 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:11,600 who I love to pieces. She put out a statement that 268 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:14,320 says immigration policy is destroying families, women's 269 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:16,640 rights are less and less everyday, queer and trans lives 270 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,080 are being erased, and gender based violence is on the rise. 271 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:20,720 This isn't policy, it's personal. 272 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,400 Fuck them. Wow, couldn't agree more. 273 00:12:23,680 --> 00:12:25,800 What? She's always been a legend 274 00:12:25,880 --> 00:12:27,400 whenever it's come to anything like this. 275 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:31,760 And I think that you need to use your platform for good. 276 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:33,920 Like if you've got a kind of platform like Charlize Theron 277 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,680 does or even a tiny platform, like we try and do anything that 278 00:12:36,680 --> 00:12:38,800 we can to speak out about what's right and what's wrong. 279 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,600 I feel like we could definitely do more and we are going to do 280 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:44,400 more. But yeah, I mean, that's it is 281 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:46,560 it is personal. It's not it's not policy. 282 00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:50,280 And one other thing I'm going to be putting a studio in this 283 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,240 place too. So I've been looking at 284 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:53,880 different things. So I feel like you guys are 285 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:57,720 going to get a very new crisp look with the Lesbian Supper 286 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:02,320 Club coming very, very soon I'd. Say it's a bit of a a rebranding 287 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:04,840 going on. There's definitely a rebranding. 288 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,680 Yeah, big rebrand, very exciting it is. 289 00:13:07,680 --> 00:13:10,480 And everything is going to be very visual and it's going to 290 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:15,120 make life so much easier to have a studio here that me and 291 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:16,960 Scarlett can both use. Don't worry, just because it's 292 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:19,320 in my house doesn't mean that Scarlett isn't going to use it. 293 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:21,440 They'll. They'll be, we know you guys 294 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,640 have been wanting visuals, so they are coming, I promise, 295 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:26,160 because I will. Hold them to that. 296 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,400 So I wrote in. I put on the Lesbian supper Club 297 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,040 story earlier. I was like, give us your 298 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:36,960 questions and so I'm going to ask them to you, Liv and some 299 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,440 you can ask to me. OK, period sex, yay or? 300 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:47,480 Nay, day one and two, nay. Why? 301 00:13:47,680 --> 00:13:50,640 Because, well, it, it also it just depends on the person 302 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:52,480 you're with. Like so Jess and I for example, 303 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:55,800 both in excruciating pain and also like I actually don't care 304 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,640 saying this. Like I get really heavy periods. 305 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,880 Yeah, it helps the pain. Yes I understand but also when 306 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:06,600 like I'm in excruciating pain within my back, legs, tummy 307 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,080 like. I like touch me. 308 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,800 No, I'm also like overheating and stuff. 309 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,400 I'm like, Nah. So I think towards the end I'm 310 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:15,160 like, yeah, like also whenever I'm on period I get more horny 311 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:17,200 so. Yeah, but I feel like when 312 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,400 they're saying periods, it's like we're not really defining 313 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:21,920 what we mean by that, because you can also just like, have a 314 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:23,240 tampon in. Like it doesn't have to be 315 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,880 bloody sex. Yeah, yeah, I get that. 316 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,240 But I'm I'm taking it as like full on. 317 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,000 Oh, you're taking it as full on blood sex? 318 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:34,560 Oh, right. OK yeah, no, I wouldn't want 319 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:36,760 anyone touching me when I'm like full on heavy bleeding. 320 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,840 No way it would like it would feel way too uncomfortable for 321 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,360 me. I feel like I wouldn't feel sexy 322 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,320 enough for me. In too much pain. 323 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,360 Like no, I just need to be lying in bed. 324 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,800 But if I have a tamp on it and you want to touch me, click, go 325 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:49,640 for it. I don't give a fuck. 326 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,600 Yeah, well, you know what? I have. 327 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,600 What other way is there to fucking put it? 328 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,760 I can't put it politely. I've just got to say it, haven't 329 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,480 I? Just someone's got to say it and 330 00:14:58,480 --> 00:14:59,760 it's me, Right. OK. 331 00:14:59,960 --> 00:15:02,880 OK, here's your one Are you and Scarlett still friends as you 332 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:04,880 still hang in the same friendship circle? 333 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:08,680 Yeah, we are love the girl can't get rid of me. 334 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:10,120 I. Think it's good for you to say 335 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,000 this. Obviously I know because I I'm 336 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,520 at the friendship group, but maybe for the audience who see 337 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:20,120 you guys in videos together may be getting a bit confused what's 338 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,560 going on, like, you know, so maybe we can address some shit. 339 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:25,440 Yeah, so last week we got married. 340 00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,480 I'm joking. No, we. 341 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,200 The thing is, me and Scarlett, we were together for so long and 342 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:33,520 we have so much care and love for one another. 343 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,840 She's like family to me. And so to get rid of her out of 344 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:42,040 my life, I don't know. I mean, I can't speak on 345 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,040 Scarlett's side. She's probably just thinking, 346 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,200 get this fucking bitch away from me. 347 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:50,840 But never mind. I I'd find that very difficult 348 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,120 to have her out of my life. We also do the business 349 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,240 together. We've got a dog together and 350 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:59,320 shared friends. So, you know, there's a lot of 351 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:03,200 crossover, but yeah, it is what it is. 352 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,520 And we're both just like, still on our healing journey. 353 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:12,920 So yeah, I think that probably is quite confusing if people see 354 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:15,640 it, but it's all good. It's all fine. 355 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:17,240 It's all. Friends having nice drinks 356 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:18,840 together. Yeah, exactly. 357 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:23,480 Exactly. Oh yeah, Someone that she said. 358 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,160 Have you successfully been friends with an ex? 359 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:29,240 Not current, like long lasting. Yeah, I'm friends with my first 360 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,400 ex, actually. Natalia, what about you? 361 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,440 No absolutely not. I couldn't think of any. 362 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:39,000 To be fair, my first girlfriend I'd say her and I are on like 363 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,960 civil terms now. Like if I saw her like at a pub 364 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:44,480 I'd go and say hi but that took a while. 365 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,240 But most recent ex. Hell no. 366 00:16:47,840 --> 00:16:50,160 Yeah, fair enough. You don't have to be friends 367 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,960 with them. I think it like depends. 368 00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:54,960 I think it honestly I think it depends on the person like. 369 00:16:54,960 --> 00:16:57,400 Yeah, it is person to person. I said, like there are some 370 00:16:57,400 --> 00:16:59,880 people that I would just yeah, I thought that why did you break 371 00:16:59,880 --> 00:17:03,480 up and go away? Someone said sorry maybe boring 372 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,359 but do you have any recommendations for lesbian 373 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:09,200 tourists in London? 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First of all, smell really good. 410 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:06,320 I feel like honestly, like if you smell good, it is so 411 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:08,600 enticing. It's so enticing. 412 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,960 I would always say there is always a right. 413 00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:14,400 If you're meeting up on a date, you have to shower before you 414 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,200 get ready. If you're not doing that, they 415 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:21,080 could be like dating in like OK, it might be different if you're 416 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,240 going straight from work, but like a lot of the time like 417 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,360 they'll shower in the morning when they would normally shower 418 00:19:25,360 --> 00:19:27,080 and then just kind of not shower again. 419 00:19:27,360 --> 00:19:29,640 I feel like the shower again is necessary before I date. 420 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:31,840 I'm sorry, I hate to break it to you guys, but fucking shower. 421 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:32,880 Destroy the earth. I don't care. 422 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,400 And then moisturize. Always moisturize. 423 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,880 That's like a big thing. It will hold your scent and then 424 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:43,840 use a fragrance. Nothing that is really sweet, 425 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:46,320 nothing that is really floral and nothing that is really 426 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,600 powdery. And always, yeah. 427 00:19:49,600 --> 00:19:52,040 Because it's like if you're wearing more of like an I feel 428 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:55,320 like for me, like a more UDI fragrance allows me more. 429 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:59,160 I wear UDI fragrances. Sexy fragrance. 430 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,760 It's got to be something sexy. Deep woody but not too 431 00:20:02,760 --> 00:20:06,240 overpowering with like a hint of citrus to it so it like cuts in 432 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:10,160 a little bit and still smells fresh whilst also smelling sexy 433 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:12,440 also. I think as well to like if 434 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:13,920 you're trying, I think eye contact. 435 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:15,400 Well, that was going to be my next thing. 436 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:16,960 So the triangle method, have you ever heard of it? 437 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,480 Yeah, we. Look at eyes and. 438 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,840 Lips, Yeah. So it's like left eye, right 439 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,640 eye, lips. But it's the eyes again, right. 440 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:27,640 So it's stop. I'm still answering the question 441 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:31,800 and you're flicking through SO the triangle method. 442 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,040 If you haven't heard of it, it does tend to. 443 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,840 It's quite funny because it works. 444 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:38,320 I've not done it in a long time. I'll do it to Jess on Saturday. 445 00:20:38,360 --> 00:20:41,560 Just just see if it works on it. But basically the triangle 446 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,200 method is where you will like look from the left eye to the 447 00:20:44,200 --> 00:20:47,600 right eye to the lips and then back up to the eyes again. 448 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:50,640 Obviously don't make it really fucking obvious. 449 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:52,960 Be cool when you do. Be cool with. 450 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,200 It but it's like when they're talking just kind of do that and 451 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:57,200 then like look at their eyes and then look at their lips again 452 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,840 like when they're talking and that makes a big difference. 453 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,040 It's like that will make her feral because it makes me feral 454 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:03,720 so. I also think as well, like if 455 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:05,800 you're on a date as well, like there's if say if you're like 456 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:09,320 facing each other, like maybe like just like touch the top of 457 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:10,480 the leg or like do you know what I mean? 458 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:13,520 Just like little like don't go full in like physical contact. 459 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:15,880 I think just little droplets every now and then, just little 460 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,680 like little teasers. A breadcrumb. 461 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,920 A breadcrumb of sorts. Breadcrumb, of course. 462 00:21:21,120 --> 00:21:24,720 Fryer's just given her tips on how to seduce Fryer, so you're 463 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,080 welcome everyone. Give it a go, see if it works on 464 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,640 me. I feel like to like make them 465 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,280 feral though as well as not. That's not just like normal 466 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,560 basic tips. Like I feel like to make them 467 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,720 feral. I feel like when like if we're 468 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,320 talking in the bedroom, then like taking things very slowly, 469 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:44,720 like extremely like excruciatingly slowly at first. 470 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,600 Yeah, yeah, yeah, 100. Percent. 471 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,840 Make them want to die. Like make them actually be like, 472 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:50,160 I can't believe that you haven't touched me yet. 473 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:52,560 Yeah, you've got to tease. You've got to tease. 474 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:54,760 Like really tease. Room for them to be like, oh, 475 00:21:55,080 --> 00:21:56,920 what else is that like to do? You know what I mean? 476 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,840 No, I I still think that you can fuck them. 477 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:02,840 No, I'm not. I'm saying to not have sex, but 478 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:06,000 I'm like, if you go full in with like all your moves. 479 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:07,360 Oh yeah, no, you don't want to do. 480 00:22:07,360 --> 00:22:08,440 That what else are you going to do? 481 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,040 Yeah. Go really slow, don't let them 482 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,680 touch you like hands behind your fucking back bitch. 483 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,040 You're not touching me. You're not touching this. 484 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,800 Had two dream dates with maybe the love of my life but we're 485 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,640 not free for another month. Any advice by the way? 486 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:23,680 She said two, potentially the love of her life. 487 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:28,120 Interesting, had two dream dates with maybe the love of my life 488 00:22:28,120 --> 00:22:30,240 but we're not free until another month. 489 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,640 Any advice? OK First off, I can somewhat 490 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,320 relate to this because I find distance at the start quite hard 491 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,440 because I remember when Jess and I went on our first date and 492 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,280 then I saw her on the weekend and then I think after that I 493 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,760 didn't see her for like 2 weeks. But I think I think it's I think 494 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,560 it depends Like if you're an anxious attachment, it is going 495 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:52,160 to be hard because you are like left in the lurch of like do 496 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:53,520 they like me? And you're like constantly 497 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,280 wondering? But I feel like if you just have 498 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,800 like open communication and like you guys are still talking in 499 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,880 that month period, then like it'll be fine. 500 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:04,280 Like I know I get it's hard but like if you still have plans to 501 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,600 meet up in a month and also a month goes by so quickly. 502 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,600 It does also make sure that you are busy and that you're not 503 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,760 looking too clingy because I you've already said with maybe 504 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,960 the love of my life and it's been 2 days. 505 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,520 So I also have a fear that maybe you have the potential to fall 506 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,600 in love with the idea of someone because you can't possibly know 507 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,560 someone within two days. So within this space of like a 508 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,600 month, my advice would also be to like not build her up in your 509 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,600 head too much. And then also whatever is meant 510 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,960 for you, no matter what happens, we'll never pass you by. 511 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,040 I would also like updates on this. 512 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,600 So please, after your date, after a month's time, please can 513 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,640 you write in and tell us how it's going? 514 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,920 Because I'm quite invested in this now, if there's a spark. 515 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:48,080 There and there's like a mutual connection she's not just going 516 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,320 to have that like busy month and you having that busy month and 517 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:52,400 it's just going to go away like ever yeah if the. 518 00:23:52,720 --> 00:23:54,320 Connection is there, the connection is there. 519 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,920 It doesn't go away like no matter what time happens like 520 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,320 you could literally be apart for a whole fucking year is what it? 521 00:24:00,360 --> 00:24:01,920 Is like we've said, just keep yourself busy. 522 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,640 Go see your friends, go on nice walks. 523 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,520 The month will be over before you know it. 524 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,200 You get stuck in a lift for five days. 525 00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:11,520 You can choose five people to be stuck with, plus one food and 526 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,280 one drink. So I would like to be stuck in 527 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:19,320 the lift with Renee Rapp, Charlize Theron, Aubrey Plaza. 528 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:24,640 Yes 100% fuck who would be an orgy. 529 00:24:25,360 --> 00:24:27,280 Yeah, but yeah, you're just picking people that you want to. 530 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:29,400 Have sex. No, no, it's not like people 531 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,080 that are genuinely find like quite fun and funny. 532 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:33,560 They're like Billie Eilish. I find like should be hilarious 533 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,080 in the left. No, I think she'd get over it 534 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:38,960 and get freaked out. I felt like she'd write a really 535 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:44,240 good song on the left. Maybe who would be really funny 536 00:24:44,360 --> 00:24:46,440 to have in the left? Drew Afualo. 537 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,560 I'd have her in there as well because she's so fucking funny. 538 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:54,160 I just want like good humoured women in the left. 539 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:55,720 And did you say 1 food and one drink? 540 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,800 Yeah, fuck water. Water. 541 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,360 That's boring. Yeah. 542 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:01,840 But then you can't not get dehydrated. 543 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,680 How long are you there for? That's my question. 544 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,160 That's the thing. Because if we're there for like 545 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,200 the night, my drink of choice would be beer because it'd be so 546 00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:14,280 funny for us all to have beers. No, let's say 3 days, three 547 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,760 days, three days. Oh my God, would. 548 00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,120 Have to be water. Let's get water in and ready. 549 00:25:20,120 --> 00:25:22,720 Soy crisps. It's going to have to be like a 550 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,640 hula hoop of sorts just to really keep my my, like my salt 551 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:28,640 levels up and stuff. I feel like it can't be anything 552 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:30,120 too sweet. Avocado I'd love. 553 00:25:30,120 --> 00:25:33,040 That's a very logistically difficult thing. 554 00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,240 Like what is 1 item of food? Like, it's not even like a meal. 555 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:41,120 It's one item of food, you know? What would yours be if it was a 556 00:25:41,120 --> 00:25:42,360 meal? It'd be different, but it's one. 557 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,800 But my food? Yeah, a baguette. 558 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:49,680 That's what I'm saying, this is very much giving like bread and 559 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:53,640 water famine style but I'd be in an elevator with the hottest 560 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,480 funniest women so wouldn't really bother me. 561 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,800 To be fair, someone said opinions on being friends of the 562 00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:00,960 next Amy Spaldings TikTok has sparked controversy but it's 563 00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,600 like the same thing. I don't think that there's 564 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,680 anything. With Katie and Izzy, why did 565 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:06,400 that spec? Why? 566 00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,120 Why is? It because people are like, Oh 567 00:26:08,120 --> 00:26:09,200 my God, you shouldn't what the fuck? 568 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,120 You're friends with your ex and then also your ex is meeting 569 00:26:11,120 --> 00:26:13,000 your now new girlfriend. That happened when I was a 570 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:14,960 Scarlet. She met my ex. 571 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,720 She met two of my exes. Scarlet. 572 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,920 It's not a problem. Like I honestly think that like 573 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:22,640 some people deep it too much. Yeah, agreed. 574 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,920 You know, and obviously I think like between them, they've been 575 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,880 years and years and they've been friends for ages. 576 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:32,480 They're like best friends. Yeah, exactly. 577 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:36,800 So whatever. Have you ever had drunk sex with 578 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,040 a friend? What happened after? 579 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,000 No comment. No comment. 580 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,880 Yeah, I have slept with a friend before I was drunk. 581 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,440 It was fine afterwards. I still have good friends to 582 00:26:47,440 --> 00:26:48,360 this day. Oh. 583 00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:52,200 Are you coming to Australia? We really, really, really are 584 00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:55,120 trying very hard to plan something for later on this 585 00:26:55,120 --> 00:26:57,640 year. I think it will be the best move 586 00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,040 that we can do. I really want to go to Australia 587 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:01,920 so badly. I don't think I'll come home, 588 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,480 but that's fine. I really want to go and I think 589 00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,200 you lesbians need it. I think you do. 590 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,400 I think Melbourne, Sydney, let's fucking make this happen. 591 00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:10,800 I think both Melbourne and Sydney. 592 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,200 But if any of you know of any good, like event spaces like 593 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,960 bars, etcetera, where we could take over for the night, like 594 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,400 how we do the lesbian pub nights and the lesbian wine nights, let 595 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,760 us know. Because obviously I don't live 596 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,080 there and I've never even been there. 597 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:27,480 So I've got a couple of people on the ground out there who, you 598 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,440 know, I've been talking to and I think it would just be great to 599 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:34,160 get this lined up. There's also a potential 600 00:27:34,360 --> 00:27:37,400 incredible lesbian wine night that will be happening in 601 00:27:37,400 --> 00:27:40,040 September in Ibiza. But that's another thing that we 602 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,000 need to put on the story and say, OK, when are you guys out 603 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,640 here? How many of you are there? 604 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,680 How many of you are in Spain? How many of you want to go 605 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,560 there? And then we can get a bit of a 606 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,880 better idea for that. Basically the plan is we are 607 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,400 going international this year. So just keep your eyes peeled. 608 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,360 There's a lot of planning going on in the background. 609 00:27:58,360 --> 00:28:01,320 And yeah, more, more to hear soon. 610 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,360 What's your current red flag that you've rebranded as a 611 00:28:06,360 --> 00:28:13,360 quirky personality trait? OK, actually maybe this. 612 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,960 Maybe this could be 1. I could be wrong. 613 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:18,280 I'm quite clingy. I'd say I'm quite clingy. 614 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,080 So but then like I'm like, no, I'm just like, so cute, you 615 00:28:22,360 --> 00:28:24,960 know? But it's also just because I 616 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,560 love being with my person. So I'm just like, I want to hang 617 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,080 out with you. But then I'm like, that could be 618 00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,440 as a red flag. So I'm like, you know, But then 619 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,840 I'm like, no, I'm just, I'm just sweet and cute and dainty and 620 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:39,680 just a girl. Well, yeah, and I think my 621 00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:42,120 current red flag, I've got many, I think. 622 00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:47,760 I think mine would be my, like, total inability to do something 623 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,160 sometimes and getting really like, overwhelmed and me just 624 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,720 being like, well, it's just me being fucking me, you know? 625 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:57,360 I feel like that's more of a kind of recent thing though. 626 00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,280 Oh yeah, because you you'd say it's your ADHD. 627 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,080 I know, but it's also like, it's like your new Housewives 628 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,920 tagline. Yeah, no, literally that would 629 00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,920 be me. Yeah, I think that that's me re 630 00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,640 rebranding. It is like quirky being like oh, 631 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,640 I'm so quirky. I just can't do anything. 632 00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,320 No, I can that's a lie. I get a lot done, but put your. 633 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,800 Mind to it, don't you? Yeah, it I think more so in just 634 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:24,440 the kind of like day-to-day life stuff. 635 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,880 Like the other day I wanted to buy some dinner plates. 636 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,520 I ordered side plates by accident. 637 00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,680 And so I'm just like, it's just me. 638 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,640 Yeah, I think a day-to-day task you find very hard. 639 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,720 Very hard, Very hard. If anyone wants to be my carer, 640 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:40,800 be my fucking guest. OK it's the hairstyle question. 641 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,680 Hairstyle journey? Can't seem to find the 1-2 masks 642 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,400 slash 2 firm and I feel uncomfortable. 643 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,320 Any advice? You've been through many a hair 644 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,080 journey, so take it away. I've been through so many, so 645 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,080 many. I also don't really feel like 646 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,440 hair always has to come into play when it comes to like, mask 647 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,760 and firm. I feel like you can be like so 648 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,960 firm and have short hair. I see it all the time. 649 00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,760 It's more so about like how you style the rest of yourself and 650 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,040 like what your attitude is like. But I would say probably, I 651 00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:11,720 mean, if you just search up what like a wolf cut is, I feel like 652 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,440 a wolf cut is the in between a feminist hairstyle. 653 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,960 That's what I would say to that. Getting your partner to agree on 654 00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,080 a threesome. I hate that. 655 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,000 Yeah. Because if they don't want to do 656 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,520 it, then that's that's it. Like you can't force them to do 657 00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:31,240 it if they don't want to do it. But like, I think if maybe 658 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,360 that's something that you are looking to explore and your 659 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:37,240 partner isn't, then perhaps there are some other questions 660 00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,800 that need to be discussed. Yeah, I think getting your 661 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:44,160 partner to agree on a threesome is like a pretty, I think. 662 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:46,720 The wording of that? The wording is not great, babe. 663 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:52,480 I don't know. I think that, yeah, I, I don't 664 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:56,000 ever really, it should never. That's not even, I think it 665 00:30:56,000 --> 00:31:00,080 should never be an action of I'm going to make. 666 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,280 I'm going to convince them that this is going to be good for 667 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:03,160 them. It has to be. 668 00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:05,720 You have to both be on the same level at the same time. 669 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:07,520 Do it. Together like you decide 670 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,520 together that you want to do it. You can't ever be like, oh, but 671 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,960 then here are my points as to why we should do it. 672 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:14,600 And then and then. It's going to be fun, no? 673 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,840 And also. If your partner says no, there 674 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:18,600 should be no more like further questions asked. 675 00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:21,200 Like don't be like, but why? You're like, No, please. 676 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,960 Like or don't be like you're boring or like, Oh my God, 677 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,840 literally get a grip. Get a grip. 678 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,680 And if that is, if you feel like you're really missing out and 679 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,760 you would rather like do something like that, then maybe 680 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,280 don't be in that relationship. I don't know. 681 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,040 Somebody said, would you rather relive your first heartbreak or 682 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,640 wake up straight tomorrow morning? 683 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:44,800 Wake up straight. No, because I wouldn't. 684 00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,240 Because then I'm straight forever, yeah. 685 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:47,720 I know. Do you know what? 686 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,800 I could do it again? Do the heartbreak again for the 687 00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,600 bit. So we all say that in the cold 688 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,680 light of day when we're over the heartbreak. 689 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,400 No, I get it. I get what you're saying, but I 690 00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,360 don't want to wake up straight. I'd wake up dead. 691 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:03,120 No, I wouldn't want to wake up straight. 692 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,800 God, yeah, no, no, I couldn't do that. 693 00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:10,600 But fuck, I don't know. I mean, I'm going through my 694 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,680 heartbreak anyway, so what's the fucking difference? 695 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,520 Bring it on. How the hell does femme and 696 00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:19,960 femmes flirt stroke dates work? Like how do you flirt with one? 697 00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:21,120 How do you get on a date with one? 698 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:24,080 Well, I feel like what would you say you were at night, you and 699 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:28,040 Scarlett first met and like will you say you were quite firm? 700 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:30,600 So Scarlett? But then it's like the same with 701 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,000 Jess and I were both firm. Even if you tried to say I was 702 00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:37,000 mask the other day, which is just like that's no offence to 703 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,800 any mask, but I'm just like if you see me, I'm just not a mask. 704 00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,160 What do they mean though like that? 705 00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:45,400 I found the date super flirty though. 706 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,720 I think that's what it is like it's just I don't, I don't think 707 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:50,880 it's any different from like any other date just because you're 708 00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,120 both fam Like I don't understand. 709 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,120 I think what they're trying to say is like how do they even get 710 00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,000 to that stage? Like how do they even flirt with 711 00:32:58,000 --> 00:32:59,640 them in the first place? How do they even get them on the 712 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,480 date when it's another femme? Like femme on femme but. 713 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:05,680 People are attracted to femme. Yeah, but that's what I'm that's 714 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:07,000 what that was going to be my next point. 715 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,240 There are femme for femmes, I think. 716 00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,120 Are you more so like worried that there's going to be a 717 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,120 confusion that maybe they're straight or something and also 718 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,840 the date is not going to be any different? 719 00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,320 Like I always feel like people feel like they have to take on 720 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:19,640 roles whenever they're on a date. 721 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:21,040 This. Was this was going to be my 722 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:22,440 point? I don't know if it's like maybe 723 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,360 because it's like you're both femme and it's like going back 724 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,040 to that thing like, well, who pays? 725 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,440 And it's like when Jess and I went on our first date, we just 726 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,400 went for drinks and we literally just took turns paying for each 727 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:33,480 round. Like there's no, it's like if we 728 00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,560 go out for dinner now, it's like I'll pay for one dinner next 729 00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:39,840 time she pays the next dinner. It's no like one person has to 730 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:41,760 pay for like every fucking thing, you know? 731 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,520 No. And also, I think I've said this 732 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:49,080 before, but like if you have invited your day out to like a 733 00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:52,160 bougie restaurant for the first day and that was your choice, 734 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,800 you pay 100%. Like, I don't think that you 735 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,760 should ever be like, oh, I've just found this, like, petite 736 00:33:59,000 --> 00:34:04,880 French restaurant in Malibon, and it is minimum 500 pounds. 737 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,080 Pounds. Yeah. 738 00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,800 And then she's like, oh, do you want to split? 739 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,080 And then, like, they're like, brilliant. 740 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,400 I can't pay my bills this month. I think this actually happened 741 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,800 with Leo last year. She went on a date with a girl 742 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:19,800 and this girl picked a bar in Central and obviously this girl 743 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,960 picked the place like Leo obviously naturally would want 744 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,639 to come somewhere around here. And I remember she joined us for 745 00:34:25,639 --> 00:34:29,120 a drink afterwards and this girl made Leo foot the bill and it 746 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:32,040 was like over £150. And I hate that because like she 747 00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,000 didn't decide on that rest that bar. 748 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,120 Sorry, you know. No, no fucking chance. 749 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,480 Like if you're going to be like as I also think that that kind 750 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:42,280 of proves to me the type of person that you are. 751 00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,719 If you choose a really bougie fucking place to go to and then 752 00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,600 you're expecting your date to pay for you after you've chosen 753 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,960 that spot, it gives me major red flag energy. 754 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:54,600 It looks like you're you're actually just wanting to go out 755 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:56,400 to a nice place and get somebody to pay for you. 756 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,680 It's giving. That's a red. 757 00:34:58,760 --> 00:34:59,600 Flag. That's a red flag. 758 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,560 A red flag. Actually, sometimes it's the 759 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,680 richest girls that do that. No, it is because they just 760 00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,800 assume that everyone just has loads of money. 761 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:09,080 Yeah. And like, rich, when I say rich 762 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:10,960 girls, I mean like born into money kind of rich. 763 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,520 Like probably doesn't really have a high paying job, but just 764 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,880 has loads of money because of their parents. 765 00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,560 Yeah. So they just assume that 766 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,400 everyone just naturally has this influx of cash that just sits 767 00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,680 within their bank account. Fuckers. 768 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,320 Absolutely. If you're like that, get a grip. 769 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:31,480 But yeah, I think definitely don't assume. 770 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,040 Yeah, definitely pay if you are, if you're making the 771 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,160 reservation. But if it is like a drinks on 772 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,040 drinks situation, don't also foot the bill every single time 773 00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,760 that you got to the bar. Yeah, just say tons. 774 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,520 Yeah. And then the flirting. 775 00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,320 Fuck, yeah. I mean, flirt like how you would 776 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:48,080 just flirt with anyone. Like if you fancy them, just 777 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,960 flirt with them. I don't really, yeah, I think 778 00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:53,680 there's all the good questions. I mean, those are some good 779 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,400 questions. They made me think I, I mean, 780 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:01,040 before I know that I mentioned it a couple of episodes ago, but 781 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:04,600 the L chat is still popping off on some pretty gnarly shit. 782 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:09,280 And I want to say it coming from me too. 783 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,200 There's like a couple of like nasty comments about Scarlet, 784 00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,080 like being cold and stuff like this. 785 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:18,880 And fucking hell, there is just like assumption central on this 786 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,040 place. But I can also say first hand 787 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:24,840 that Scarlett isn't cold. She has a very brash sense of 788 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:27,880 humour, which is. And also guys, I'm her fucking 789 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,680 ex. You think if I wanted to rinse 790 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:32,560 on here right now, I could, you know, like I'm not trying to 791 00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:35,960 defend something. And that's a big thing that 792 00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,240 people think I'm in there trying to but like defend you guys 793 00:36:39,240 --> 00:36:42,320 also, I only we only see this because people send it to us. 794 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:46,160 We're not actively sat having a look at it, but one, sorry, I 795 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:49,640 don't really have the time to be making comments like that about 796 00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,120 my clients and like trying to stick up for them in that sense. 797 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,920 But I just think the assumptions are getting a bit silly. 798 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,360 It just doesn't need to happen. I feel like it's just a bit 799 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,520 unnecessary. Like also like this isn't like 800 00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:04,120 me, like doing like a poker face thing. 801 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,160 Like this literally is not me. Like I'm sorry. 802 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,760 Yeah, if it is, I'll sign off manager live. 803 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,360 But it's not me. Actually, no, I shouldn't have 804 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:12,880 said that because then if someone does that, they will 805 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:20,160 think it's me. Yeah, I think I get the, I get 806 00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:23,000 the purpose of the forum in general if it's like lesbian 807 00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:25,000 discussions. But I think when it comes into 808 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,880 the nitty gritty of like some, like if someone's like starting 809 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,360 a rumour or like having an assumption about something, I 810 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,080 think I can get out of hand and taken too far. 811 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,920 And you know, I think you have to remember when, you know, 812 00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:39,760 you're saying someone's like cold or mean, like these people 813 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,480 still have feelings and it's like it's not nice to read. 814 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:48,000 And we're all very sensitive girlies over here, so if one of 815 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,200 these listeners are people making comments, please please 816 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,520 please kindly stop and just use the forum to talk about all 817 00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,640 things podcasts and events and whatnot. 818 00:37:57,520 --> 00:38:00,240 Bitch about someone else? No Bitch about someone, Bitch. 819 00:38:00,240 --> 00:38:03,560 Bitch about someone else. No, that's just, there's no, 820 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,320 there's no need for bitching. Let's just, let's just. 821 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,440 Chat, I'm completely joking. No, don't bitch about people. 822 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,960 It's it's not becoming. It's not becoming of you. 823 00:38:13,240 --> 00:38:14,760 Yeah, it's just not. It's just not nice. 824 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,600 It can't make you feel good. Does it make people feel good? 825 00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,440 I think it does. I think it gives people like. 826 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,120 A Is that like an adrenaline high maybe like I like? 827 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,520 People troll on the Internet because it gives them like a 828 00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:26,760 thrill. Like fuck yeah. 829 00:38:27,240 --> 00:38:31,400 Yeah, well, I don't know, maybe try and like do rock climbing or 830 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:36,200 something, boxes, maybe put on a Zumba YouTube and do some Zumba 831 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,680 in your room or just air all your grievances to chat to BT 832 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:41,960 Just message chat to BT and be like, I think that Scarlett and 833 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:43,880 Frey are fucking bitches. I'll be like fair. 834 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:46,040 Go for it. Absolutely, go for it. 835 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,000 We've got on, we've got, we've got pride this weekend. 836 00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,880 Oh, we have a pre pride wine night this Thursday. 837 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:53,800 We do. Yeah. 838 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,160 Sorry, I'm not very talkative at this end of the podcast, but I'm 839 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,760 so hot that I've lost all of my energy. 840 00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:02,280 I don't know how the fuck we're going to do this dinner later. 841 00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,920 I am shattered. I'm so tired. 842 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,280 I need to have a nap. And no, a nap needs to happen. 843 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,200 It's you don't. Oh for God's sake, whenever Jess 844 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,520 has 1000 naps in the day, I. Can't stand the napping, it's 845 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,480 annoying. Yeah, naps are really fucking 846 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,440 they they can be annoying, but I do love an app, but like it can 847 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,640 be annoying, but I'm sorry, I'm too hot, like I need to just 848 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,640 close my eyes and just have a bit of a moment. 849 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:27,480 But yes, we've got our yeah, we have our pre pride why night 850 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,280 this Thursday, so I really hope that you can come and celebrate 851 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,120 with us. I think because like a lot of 852 00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,920 people just I don't think that a lot of people can be bothered 853 00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:35,960 for pride this year. Comfortable. 854 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,120 No. I I can actively say I feel a 855 00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,720 lot less safe in Soho than I do anywhere else in London. 856 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,880 I will opt to not even go to Soho because of how dangerous it 857 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,440 is. The amount of times that I've 858 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,240 had men grope or say things. I literally the other night had 859 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:54,560 two cars full of men on separate occasions shouting out of the 860 00:39:54,720 --> 00:39:57,120 window Me. Is there anything else? 861 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,760 All right, lesbians, I love you so much. 862 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,120 And I will. I've actually got a very 863 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:05,400 exciting guest on this week. I absolutely love her. 864 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:09,280 I think it's going to be a hysterical episode, but yeah, I 865 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:11,520 will be speaking to you lesbians soon. 866 00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,080 And I love you. Happy pride. 867 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:14,680 Bye.