Hello lesbians, it is the first ever episode of 2026 and I think
I can safely say fuck off 2025. Goodbye sayonara.
Adios Chao Chao. Happy days.
See you later. Just just fuck off.
Actually, fuck, just fuck off. You fucking the hunt of a year.
I'm sat here with the manager. Liv.
We haven't had you on here in ages, have we?
No, and I am thrilled. No thrilled.
To be back. This feels right.
It does, and we're in matching outfits.
Oh my God, we are. It's just notice we've got like
the the light jeans, the black tea.
We're both housing a baguette. Just a baguette.
Just some baguette, yeah. With some olive oil, which also
by the way, killer combo, really good.
But it's because we both cycled today on that I got sent this
indoor bike thing that's like a Peloton but not.
Burn. No, but like it's not, it's not
a Peloton, but like it's the only way that I could really
describe it. I did 10K on that and live.
That's not out there. No, but no, no, we.
I think we did really well considering the fact that I
don't work out, like I haven't been to the gym in so long.
You and I got into a really good routine and then we just, I
don't know. I said I looked worse than that
is the worst I've ever looked was when I was going to the gym.
Five, I think I looked worse. I we, I don't really know how.
I was also too stone heavier than I am now.
I think 10 kilos heavier. Than that, I think that was the
exact same well, but you were just saying it's because we went
through a really bad biscuit phase.
I think it might have been the biscuits, but it calms my soul
more to say that I was the worst and largest when I was at the.
Gym, we'll go with that narrative.
We'll go with that narrative. We've also got another friend of
ours joining in a bit, but she's late, which never happens with
Nat. Actually, Nat is always so
early. Yeah, she is.
Always. So.
I wonder if she's riddled with anxiety.
And we've all got a date with the pub, so we were like, well,
we may as well start the episode.
Nat can come on in, put her 2 pence in and then we'll go fuck
off to the pub basically. As we normally do.
We normally do. Our routines have never changed.
We may be in a new year, but the routine still.
I love a routine. Can I just say I love a routine?
Oh yeah, yeah. And I think I've realized where
it comes from. I've read something when I say
I've read something, I probably saw a TikTok.
I've read something and they were saying that it's the people
who have high levels of trauma, stress, anxiety throughout their
lives. Having a routine and that
routine being disrupted is really, really negative for that
person. It's also like an ADHD thing as
well. Yeah, I was going to say it's
very like ADHD, autism. Yeah, yeah, it's neuro divergent
as fuck. That's not going away.
That's not going anywhere. Yeah, I but I think as well it's
the same reason behind watching the same movie over and over
again. Oh, that's an anxiety thing.
I've I've. Because you know what's going to
happen. Yeah, you can just have it on in
the background and not have to really focus on it, which I do
that. Can I say I do that with Emily
in Paris? Emily in Paris is my dead brain
cell TV show and like nothing should make sense in that show.
It's all very fairy tale and like, oh, just miraculously this
kind of happened and whatever. I don't care.
I love it for that because I'm just ever watched it.
I'm just sitting there watching it, like just smiling along and
seeing her kind of just go in different love triangles and
stuff. Just kind of makes me feel a
little bit better about my life to honest, yeah.
Anyway. Let's have a quick debrief on
our Christmases. So we already did that episode,
which is like, Christmas is depressing.
I think it was Scarlet that did that one.
See, my memories fucked. Yeah.
Why did it feel like the Christmas holidays literally
went on forever? I was so ready for it to end.
And I know that that sounds ridiculous.
My, my soul, my lover, my dignity was ready for Christmas
to be done. Yeah, and your lungs with the
vape. With the vape.
Yeah, so I've been back up to Newcastle to see my family and
friends and everyone at home just vapes and I naturally get
sucked into that because my mum is an absolute chronic vapour.
Therefore I have come back to London with a big vape that
looks like a tank and it's also I've realized it's wicked
colour. Oh, it is.
Yeah, so I've got my alphabet and Glinda.
Vape, that is. Freya hates it.
I'm going. I'm going to bin it when it's
done. I just love smoking cigarettes.
Yeah, but I'm still doing both, so that's the problem.
I just think that vapes are so much worse for you.
Oh, and I know that I'm not on some like moral high ground.
It's like, oh, because I do smoke cigarettes.
So I sound like a major hypocrite.
No, I agree they're terrible. But cigarettes have been around
when? When was cigarettes even
invented? They've been around forever.
Oh, long, long time. And how long are vapes around?
Oh. You know.
Scary. Who knows?
You're literally smoking a battery.
Like it does look like a tank. I feel like you could ride that
if it had pedals, you could cycle it like it's so it is so
big. Yeah, what the hell?
So yeah, my Christmas was quite like, it was quite chilled some,
some days chilled, some days not.
It's always catching up with people going out, but it was
like a nice little reset. What stayed at home for New
Year's Eve, which was nice, did nothing.
Which was? Really nice, went to go watch
some fireworks, came home, had some food and I saw the new year
in by completing New York Times crossword.
Nice. And then took myself to sleep.
Wow, I honestly woke up the next day I've in my head I was like,
that was actually the best way for me to end the year.
Calmly. Calmly, yeah.
Just to just to eliminate the chaos.
Yeah, I understand. Yeah, you just wash away the
drama with a crossword. It works.
Yeah, yeah. And that's fine.
Maybe maybe we should start doing that.
If you're like in a, in like a relationship or, or like
something's going on with someone and you're like, well,
you never fucking listen to me anyway and nothing ever goes
through your head. So therefore I'm going to create
my own personal crossword for you to really have to decipher
and figure out, Oh my God, what this means.
That's great. So it's like, so it's like 4
letters, right? What I think you're being when
you ignore my texts. Can't.
Exactly. Yeah.
That's actually a really good idea.
Should we make a crossword That's hilarious.
That's going to use a lot of brainpower to actually make the
crossword with like the letters and up, down, whatever, but I
think. We could do it.
I think we could definitely do it.
Probably just get a chat for two to help me on that one.
That's actually a brilliant idea.
All right, We'll mark that one down.
Yeah. And so I I mean, I missed you.
I mean, you were, you were going away for weeks.
It's gone for three weeks, which is quite rare for me it.
Did it did feel like forever? Really.
Dry.
It felt too long. I kind of forgot what you looked
like, what you sound like. It's the whole thing.
I mean, I, I, I don't think I was in the right emotional space
to not have enough work going on over that period.
And it was funny because I me and Scarlett both said when we
came back from New York, we were like, did I say about the way
that I almost died after New York?
By the way? I haven't said that.
I don't think I've done an episode.
No, you haven't since New York. Very quickly going back, just
really rewinding, rewinding. First of all, New York, fucking
amazing. I know that Scarlett already
spoke about this one on the pod. Can I tell you New York almost
fucking killed me. Can you still hear my voice?
This is it was over a month. When you walk through that door,
when you guys got back, I was shocked because you don't get
ill. Oh.
I think arrival. This could be.
Arrived heated, he took oh fucking hell, heated the
rivalry. Hold that thought.
Yeah. So yeah, New York, incredible.
But it almost, it did almost kill me.
I've got to the last day. And I thought, you know, you
when you get that impending doom feeling, you think it's it's all
going to end. It's all going to end.
And I thought, do I just get a flight for today instead of
tomorrow? But my stupid air said no, I'm
staying here. And I had the world's worst
fucking ramen in bed in this hotel.
The hotel was gorgeous. I couldn't even enjoy it.
You hated the food though, didn't you?
Oh my God, no, don't, because they're actually going to come
for me. I'm not going to say anything
about their food. I think I went to maybe all the
wrong places. No, because loads of Americans
say that the food over here sucks.
Yeah, fuck you Americans. Yeah, it just felt really bland.
And they don't even like add any like salt and pepper to the
table. So even like try and redeem
themselves. So it's actually just quite sad,
to be honest with you. Didn't really like the food that
much. Love the people, love the place.
So it was great. Could do with less Trump
paraphernalia everywhere, but never mind.
I did end up wearing one of the caps with the hair on.
Oh, right, right, right. It's like, it's like a merkin
for a cat. It's just one of the worst
things I've ever seen. It is a joke.
I think actually putting that cap on might have cursed me
because it was after that I started to go downhill pretty
quick. Yeah.
I was lying in that hotel room and I thought, it's all over.
And then I woke up in like a fever.
And then Scarlett was like, we've got to get ready.
We've got to go to JFK. And I just, like, sat at the end
of the bed and just cried and then went through.
JFKI knew it was bad because Scarlett was rallying around me
like nothing I've ever seen before.
She is arguing with security guards.
She's arguing with like, literally anyone that she can
get her hands on who's delaying the process.
She's Jenny. She's going, she's sick and
she's shouting, she's yelling, she's grabbing everything.
She's grabbing my bag, she's grabbing her bag.
I'm like about to faint at any minute and then like grabbing me
Dayquil and all this kind of stuff.
And like Scarlet, like bless her lovely girl, really nice.
Lovely girl. In in an instance like this
usually wouldn't be the best, but she really, really stepped
up. And that's when I knew Freya,
you might actually pass away. And this is this is the last
you're going to see of everyone. Nat then turns up who Nat has
actually signed up. Now Nat is here now.
But Nat then turns up to the airport and looks at me and she
goes a whole baby crew. Yeah, it was bad.
So I was just, yeah, that knocked me fucking out.
You were I'll for quite a while when you came back.
That was bad. And then you passed.
It around to everyone which is lovely.
I actually didn't. I kept getting little waves of
it though. No, I didn't.
And also Nat didn't get it. Also I'm not being funny.
Like no, I didn't get, I didn't give it to any.
No, that was in a close proximity.
No, you can actually take that back.
All our friends just started to get a little bit I'll.
Oh, no, actually, no. No, no, no, they were all I'll
before. And they say to Leo.
Anything Leo's. No, Leo did not.
I'm sorry these bitches didn't have what I had, what I had
because like, no, I'm not having it because I was very
responsible. I was like literally sanitizing
down like everything. I took everything under the sun.
I even listened to hypnosis tapes 8 hours overnight.
That's like the virus in my body doesn't exist and all this kind
of shit. I mean, it fucking worked
because I did feel better, but I just it just kind of you've.
Gained a really nice Husky voice.
You've gained weight, Yeah. And you've gained weight, Yeah.
I have actually gained a Husky voice out of it.
So there are pros. I want this to stay.
It's been 5 weeks and it's still kicking, so I think it's pretty
fucking good to be honest. But yeah, New York, amazing
Christmas. Yeah, great.
Have my family over same old. It was nice.
Whatever. I'm not really that asked about
Christmas. I think it's a bit of a boring
conversation from one is with you brought in the new year with
my best friend from Australia. Well, not from home, but also
Australia and whatever the fuck. Tash, who subsequently was a
girl that I also used to date, but she's primarily like bestie,
bestie, bestie girl. So I met her and her girlfriend
who I'm actually obsessed with. You know when you meet someone
and you're like, we were kind of like pen pals for a little while
because I just like seen her. I.
Didn't get to see them. Yeah, really good vibes.
So it was just so nice, like Scarlett was there, friend Sam
came, Jess was there being lanky, Jess just all over the
place. Absolutely loved it.
Jess has been like over the Christmas period as well.
It's so good. Whilst I've just been crashing
out left, right and centre. But we've brought in the new
year and it's all looking a lot more positive.
So that's why we wanted to do and insurance and outs for 2026.
Hell yes, it's going me, Liv, Nat and none of us know what
each other have written down. Just going to say I only did 2
outs. I can't think of any ends.
Insurance are really hard. Here's not everyone.
Yeah, I will let you introduce yourself, but Nat is the
resident bisexual, the resident bisexual correspondent of the
Lesbian Supper Club and also our beautiful photographer who does
all of our shots for us. So she is my little right hand
man. Hello, you look pretty lesbians.
This is me. This is very exciting but I
don't want to go first from the insurance and outs.
So that's a you. Can give yourself.
OK, a little introduction. Yeah, Nat feels like ASL age
sucks. Yeah.
Photographer and resident bisexual.
Honoured to be on the lesbian podcast.
Oh. My God, literally the only I'm
joking, the only bisexual aloud. But no, I mean I meet me pet,
our friend Perry and also Nat. We've discovered that we've
created ourselves like a board meeting chat, which is basically
just whenever there is an issue that is to go around.
It could be to do with us, it could be to do with other
people, people situated with us. It goes straight to the board,
right? And Perry was supposed Perry was
supposed to be here, but Perry chickened out.
Board member. Perry Board.
Members. Board.
So it's like Sister Mary is
board member Perry, board member Nat, board member Freya, and
we've got our things that we know are approved by the board
and some things are just simply not approved by the board.
Are you allowed to give any examples or?
No, I was about to say, we do have an agenda on Lovely.
Is it like a daily agenda or a weekly agenda, but ad hoc?
Ad hoc. In Orange, Gina.
Third Space. Outdoor cryotherapy, Summer 20,
Summer 2016. Playlist outs.
Empathy. Take take that as you will, you
know, it's it's a very we didn't say the board was always right
or. Yeah, why is empathy out?
Toxic empathy is out. Oh, you know what dark empathy
is out. Toxic empathy is out when you
just, you're really not. Yeah, it's not good for anyone.
It's like when people pleasing is so so bad because it doesn't
please anyone. Toxic people pleasing almost.
Yeah, that's interesting. What's the icon?
It's a board meeting, a bunch of white men.
You need to like Photoshop yourselves on it in the in an
actual board meeting, no? Yeah, but that's in the To Do
List on the agenda. You can also ask the board
questions live if you ever want some really great.
Oh, yes, live or anyone that's listening, if you ever want to
submit a question to the board to see if the board will approve
it, you send it our way and we will either go board approve or
board reject. Yeah.
So I'd send the question to you guys and then you discussed
amongst yourselves or would we sit in like a board?
The board would discuss. It's very like Benedaziri, like
it's quite right. Yes, the board will take it
away. We'll discuss it in brought in.
Very good detail. And then we go back with either
a yes or no board approved, board rejects.
But quite great. The board takes no
responsibility for any results. And This is why that did a law
degree. Just to be on the board.
Making sense? Why don't you start with your
insurance and outs? OK, I will.
I will go first with my insurance and outs for for 2026.
I'm going to start with the outs because the outs is actually so
much easier. I've got to be honest with you
guys. OK, outs for 2026 shagging men
and saying you're a lesbian out discuss what not, but you don't
call yourself a lesbian, so it's fine.
Not just look at me like. Wait, so shagging men and
calling yourself a lesbian? Yeah, yeah, ow, it's.
Fucking out. No, but do you know how often
this happens? I'll be like, I'm a lesbian, I'm
a lesbian. It's like, Oh yeah, she just
fucked that guy from the bar the other night though.
And they're like, Oh yeah, well, I did it for validation.
First of all, if you're doing it for validation, sort your actual
life out because that's terrifying to.
Me, I feel like there's a couple people we know that do that and
it's just a bit. And.
Interesting. Secondly, if you're doing it a
validation, but you're like actually enjoying it, you're
probably not a lesbian. You can still be a queer woman
that. Was such a long force which will
be gone every answer thinking about she could say something
wrong. No I bring back labels.
Maybe that's my end yeah but like I'm sorry to be the bearer
of bad news but like words have meaning.
Mic drop. And if it doesn't apply to you
that's OK like you don't have to use it you can even get ready
for it Use a different label. Yeah, I'm pretty sure one will
exist in today's world. So true.
It was like this video that I saw today where these two gay
trans man going. I'm a gay trans man, but I
identify as a lesbian and the other one's like, I'm a gay
trans man and I identify as a lesbian.
Should we let's off together? And it's like, actually, no, you
shouldn't. Also, they just invalidated
themselves. You just invalidated your
gender. This is why.
People, like, get bullied. How can you be a lesbian and get
into. I'm honestly, like, so baffled
and confused. They were like, they're looking
at each other and, you know, it's like, my name is just
really nice. Is it my name?
What's the song? Is this illegal?
Yeah.
Princess. My name is that's the one.
My name is Bacon. It's really nice to meet you.
Yeah. And says like, I'm a trans gay
guy but feel like a lesbian. And the other one was like, I'm
a trans gay guy and I also feel like a lesbian.
Shall we let's off together? And they're like, oh, why the
fuck are you doing that? Like I just don't understand
because like you are invalidating yourself and I, I
validate trans people as the gender of which they have which
they believe is their gender. So therefore I'll be like, okay,
fantastic, you're now a man. You're a man to me, therefore
you can't be a fucking. No, you just, you can't.
You can't be saying that. You can't just pick a low.
Or that comment that was like, do men have to insert themselves
everywhere? You're doing a fantastic job.
So yes, stop saying that you're a lesbian if you sleep with men,
especially if you sleep with them frequently.
Like I know that I used to sleep with men and I was trying to
discover my sexuality before I discovered my sexuality
throughout the journey of discovering my sexuality.
I'm not discrediting any of that, but if you are openly
going around me like I'm a lesbian, I'm a lesbian, I'm a
lesbian, and like frequently sleep with men, show yourself
the door. Why do you think they're doing
that? Because they want the title of
lesbian they. Want the clown?
They want the clown. Lesbian clown.
Lesbian clown, that babe. I know it's great on this side,
but if you're gonna be sucking Dick.
So yeah, unless it's you now. But the difference is, is that
you say that you're bisexual. Yeah, so fair.
Thanks. Yeah.
Yeah, OK. That was my out.
I'm going to go to. You're out.
Oh. Are we doing out, out, out?
Yeah, we can do it out. And then I've got no end.
So I'll be skipping my ends. OK.
One of my outs. Oh, was pretending that they're
red flags are just their communication styles.
Have you heard? That say it again, sorry.
So when people be like when someone's describing a girl to
you or like, say, like, say if you start dating someone and you
were saying something to me and I was like, oh, that's a bit of
a red flag. And you're like, no, no, that's
just her communication style because she's like an avoidant
or like blah, blah, blah. Do I?
Do I have one? She's not.
Oh yeah. She's not an avoidant.
She just doesn't like you. Yeah.
Oh my God, it's so true. Completely agree with this.
But remember that. Discuss.
Definitely, he agrees. This is bad.
This is really bad that this is. No, but that is right.
Well done. That was a good observation.
Thank you. We need to unpack this more
actually. Yeah, I think we should discuss
this more because it's quite an important one.
Do we think we people just use it to justify that this person
is like like a? 100%.
What's like the incentive? Oh.
Yeah. What is the incentive?
What if they just say like, it's just that communication style,
right, right, right. I think also we live in the time
where everything is so pathologized, like every
character trait is actually a diagnosis, which is a real.
Oh my God, be like she slapped me around the face but she has
PTSD. OK, but what is a character
trait and what is a symptom of a mental illness?
Oh, how do we differentiate that?
And should we start naming things as a mental illness and
not our character traits? And should we use that as
justification? Is it giving ableism if we say
actually, you know, you can't treat me that way all because
you have ADHD or something? Yeah, that's so true.
I, I would always say because, especially before I was like
diagnosed officially or like on medication, or because when I
say diagnosed officially, it's because it helped me really
understand myself a lot more. So regulating my emotions came a
lot easier, but my emotional regulation was pretty shocking.
I would never say, oh, but that's because of my ADHD.
I would like own it and be like, I didn't mean to like snap like
that or like go on in that moment.
It's because I was panicking blah, blah.
But then I, I probably would say, I don't know, it's really,
really difficult because it's like you have to take
accountability. You have to take full
accountability because, you know, we are still in control
even though it's a lot harder. There is like an element of
control in there. But being like, OK, this is
something that I really need to work on with my ADHD or like
something that I need to see someone about, you know?
So it's kind of like, yeah, it's kind of an excuse and
accountability. It's like a.
Gray, Gray area. I mean, if you are in like a
full swing of like a mental episode, you're probably like
quite biochemically not able to be normal.
So yeah, it's tricky. But then kind of you can't
styles as well. It's interesting.
That's what I was gonna say because I feel like, you know,
see, if you like start dating someone and like you don't hear
from them for like a day and then that person like, Oh no,
like I'm just an avoidant attachment.
Like maybe you just don't actually want to talk to me.
Just like you know. Yeah, I don't know how much I
buy into them. No, I don't.
Yeah. And I feel like they're really
overly used now. You said one to me a few months
ago and it was like. There's a new one it.
Was like, obviously it's anxious to avoid, but it is.
It was always like a combo of the both.
Fearful Avoidant. Ah, that was it.
And I was like, what the hell is that?
OK, right. So we put it down as an
attachment style. I suppose maybe we're just
talking about like the terminology.
I do believe that people can be like this within relationships,
but it's up to them to, to fix it and to become secure.
It's not just an excuse. It's not like, oh, and I'm a
fearful avoidant. So sorry.
It's like I, I recognize I'm being quite fearfully avoidant
because this has made me quite anxious and it's making me
withdraw and kind of naming it. However, this is something that
I need to work on because it's it always stems from an
insecurity, same as anxious attached.
However, some people can. I said this to Leandro on the
podcast. Some people can make you fucking
anxious in a relationship. Am I anxiously attached or have
you just given me panic attacks like every day because of the
way that you're behaving? You're just in a very anxious
dynamic, yes. And I think maybe that's how we
discuss it is a dynamic rather than an attachment.
What's our dynamic like? And absolutely like trying to
get to the point of being securely attached as well.
Yeah, not using it as an excuse. Then if it's a dynamic, you
could work together to both become secure.
How about that? One for the ball.
You ready? For this.
I'm so ready. See, this is what happens when
people don't share outs beforehand.
It's still a little related to gayness.
Oh no, it doesn't have to be. It can just be a general out OK.
Might even angry I'm going to say it out 2026 lime bikes.
Whoa. No, I'm letting the silence
sweep for itself. No, I'm.
OK, give me a rationale behind this, board member.
Not because I'm actually getting quite upset about this already.
Not kidding. Maybe.
Stomach hurts now. Thanks, I'm.
Going to preface it. Line bikes driven by people who
can't ride. That's also very.
Excellent cycling proficient. See you.
I mean when I tell you I'm I'm actually really fucking good
though. Like I'm really fast and really
dodgy. How do you say dodgy?
Like have you not seen my new stabbing skills with the fruit?
How do you combine the? Fruit Ninja I've been doing
because Fruit Ninja hold on really quickly that that is the
equivalent of my reflex skills and skill on the bike.
So am I careful? No.
But am I scrappy and resilient, fast and have a really high
standard of reflex to the point where even the guy the other day
went whoa, GTA? Do you wear a helmet?
You've. I've seen you crash.
I can't I'm I can't say anything but my line bike skills because
I. Didn't have that bruise the size
of like that small child. Sober me on a line bike, I'm
good as gold. Drunk me?
Terrible idea. Do not encourage anyone to get a
line bike drunk because I've made many a mistake.
However, I've definitely seen you crash into a car before.
Jesus. You haven't seen me crash into a
car. I told you I crashed into a car,
OK? Exactly.
They're dangerous. They're they're very dangerous.
They're very loud. They're very people just drop.
Them. But how are they loud?
I hear the. Yeah, that's when people are
stealing. They will.
They're gonna be good.
They're just gonna steal. Yes.
OK, I'm not. OK, what else do we not like
about it? Because I think that it's become
the most efficient way to get through London.
At what cost? What cost my life?
I don't actually care. I hate the Tube.
I hate it. You like to?
Walk. You're a Walker.
Yeah, I've been darling, that strong.
I'm always so late. There is no way I'm walking
anywhere. Like I have to get on the bike
with immediate effect. You know, the other day I had to
go to Oxford, I had 7 minutes to get from my place in Notting
Hill to Paddington and get the train.
OK. And you did that.
Yeah, had to go over unlock the bike, which also took me ages
because my phone wasn't working and not the bike.
Cycled like an absolute lunatic with all these presents for this
baby shower. Cycled into the train station,
quite physically into the train station.
Train was right there. Kicked the bike stand.
On I went. I feel like you're just adding
to my rationale. This sounds horrible.
Do you mean you cycled into Paddington station?
I would say cycle. In.
What? Just leave them in the station.
No, I think you can go like down the slope, you can like fully go
inside a little bit. I see.
I love a line bike, I think they're so convenient.
They're dangerous. I'm gonna be the mum of the
group. I know they're scary.
They are dangerous people got you can get from A to B so.
Quick at the cost of your life. People get hurt in taxis, people
get hurt in tubes, people get hurt in buses just because you
love the bus? Wow wow Joe, I'm cancelling
buses outside. Fuck you nuts.
Just. For the bus, can you ride a
bike? Oh God, the truth comes out.
Jealousy just complete. You just see me staring at
everyone riding a bike. You know what, Liv?
I can actually ride a bike. I'm just have.
I'm a hypochondriac. OK, I get that you're
hypochondriac. So my sweetheart, that's why I
don't want to go on the tube because I don't want to get the
illnesses that just kind of linger around with 0
ventilation. We have just a pussy, OK?
I think maybe I'm without you being a pussy out you being a
pussy. I'm upset by this maybe.
My in is just helmets. Have you?
Helmets and knee pass safety fuzz.
Yeah, well, how about? I'm never getting invited back.
Sorry, but I had to. I had to argue this point.
Yeah, if you'd if you'd have taken this to the board, you
would have been. Kicked out.
I can literally feel. You're actually lucky.
Amy and Kathy just. Yeah, I just decided to Amy and
Kathy. I mean, I think they are
profession cyclists. OK.
Have you ever cycled a line bike?
Yes. So you've no, you have.
OK, you haven't. A bike in the park.
No, I'm sorry. OK.
Santander bikes suck. They're like, they're like
cycling a brick. OK, they're.
Control the speed. No.
So with the line bike, it's fast and furious.
It's giving in your hair, breeze on the face, a little bit of
spit of rain. Like really, I think it is a
beautiful way to get around because of the speed of it.
I think, I think I've unlocked the issue because, you know, I
can't drive. You can't drive, I can't drive.
Oh wow, she's a bisexual who can't drive y'all?
Join the queue. Join the queue.
What about a Lime scooter? Absolutely not.
Oh no, that's why. OK, OK, if you'd have said Lime
scooter I would have been like but also OK, fair.
But Lime bike? Don't you dare.
I hear you the. Board you know what insurance
for 2026? Not on a Lime bike.
I'll take you through Hyde Parks.
It's nice and safe and we'll put a helmet on you and see what
happens. Again, this.
Is a really great imagery. Maybe.
Except it's still out.
Yeah, hard no, but. Yeah, OK, there's another out
for me. Oh, God.
OK, out, out being audacious and ugly.
Pick a struggle and pick a lane. We discussed this the other day,
didn't we? You just can't have both.
You cannot be audacious, egotistical, think that you rule
the world and be ugly. All of those things that I just
stated First off was already atrocious.
OK, You add ugly on top of that. What, what world do you think
you exist in? And can I just say this is all
these ugly fucking men that come up or they're in my comments or
they're in my DMS being like you need a man or they shout from
their cars or they do whatever do I?
The amount of men that I've had to berate on the streets and not
one of them was good looking. It's been interesting, isn't it?
Like I'm really wondering what's like happening in there.
What's happening in the psyche? Yeah, It's just, I don't know, I
think they just have this. Maybe it's just pure dilution.
Is it? Dilutions or something?
Do you think that like what? What could it be?
Is it a developmental issue? Is it because are they being
audacious because they're ugly? They're overcompensating?
I don't know. I mean that that probably does
have a part to play with it, but they also like fuck around girls
as well. Like I was talking to someone
the other day and she's being fucked around by a guy who's
ugly, has a small penis, and is audacious.
The only trifecta I'm impressed at this.
Point literally the delusion is like off the rig.
Because this is real life. I thought you just meant online
because I think some of them just pretend they don't almost
exist. No.
And this girl is beautiful. And he was having sex with her
and he was just like, yeah, this is over.
And she went, what's over? Like, it's been like nothing.
What? What relationship do you think
that we're in? Oh, yeah.
Absolutely fucked up. To be honest.
I think that this needs to end. It really, really needs to end.
And I think we send them to camp.
But how do we do it? I think maybe propaganda.
I hate you. I love it.
I'm wondering if we're allowing them to get away with it.
Yes, there's no repercussions. So what do we do?
Because it's like the men who think they're amazing in bed
because all these women. Fake orgasms, yeah.
And they don't. They don't.
And because they know they're never going to sleep with them
again, like they tried the milk. They're not buying this cow.
And the girls are only. Fake.
They are not going to do the work for the next girl.
They're like, Oh no honey, like this is.
They're only faking the orgasm so it ends.
Yeah, so then he thinks every time he thinks I'm amazing
because the feedback is, you know.
The feedback is yeah, So what? Maybe we just.
I mean, the girls have to stop. This is.
For the bisexuals, you know what the bisexuals and the straight
girls listening we've. Kind of we've got to end this.
Come together, quite literally. Stop.
Stop pleading, stop. I'm pleading on my knees, please
stop faking orgasms. Please, please, I beg you.
You are only creative. Just honestly, what's like the
alternative? Just go.
Just silence. Stare at them.
Just just lie there and just look at them like confused look
on your face, Yeah. Oh, I like the confused look.
Look at your phone. Go on your phone.
Start listening to this podcast. Start Put.
This podcast on, I'll give you the time stamp in the
description so that you can just click straight to it when you
need it maybe. That's how they start I'm.
Gonna go click this time stamp. I'll put it in the description.
Hey, Yeah, the sex is actually really shit mate.
You. I think that you should stop and
I think you should pack your bags.
I think you should go home and if you're not, if you're at
home, buy her an Uber home. Okay, thank you.
That's beautiful. I think that's the way.
That and propaganda, yeah. Absolutely.
Exactly. Yeah, but I'm also thinking
posters. Okay, expand.
Yeah, posters where it's like ugly man be like ego.
No, this is on the tube. This is this is for you on the
bus. It's going like.
Oh, no, no, no, no, no. This is.
Going to be crazy project. There's there's a sign of an
ugly man on the poster goes ego question mark.
Letting down women all the time Question mark.
Think that you're better than ever on question mark.
Have you ever thought of shutting the fuck up?
But but because these men think they're better than everyone,
they probably don't think that those posters relate to them.
True, they'll be. Like.
They'll be like God what's funny, and it's them.
What's funnier is we just put a mirror there on the mag, so it's
just like a that's good. And then they just have to look
at that ugly fucking face. Yes, just go look at yourself.
Not even a mother could love that face.
The end. That really.
I don't care. They suck.
It's just nasty, man. I don't like them.
OK, you got another hour and then you got your outs.
Well, yeah, I had an out and I've just thought of another
one, which because my other out was a bit like, I feel like it
was quite personal to myself. And I just thought, you know
what? Maybe not.
Oh. I quite like a personal one.
Well, can I do them both? Yeah.
OK, so one out is over analysing every text message because I
fear I do that a lot and it's to my own detriment and for no good
reason. And I feel like I can't be, I
can't be the only one. I just think it's silly because
you wind yourself up so much and then the person might reply and
you're like, oh, right, OK. And this goes between like
friendships, like relationships, like parents, whatever.
Joe it's really funny. Imagine if WhatsApp had like a
playlist like how you have with Spotify and it tells you how
many times you read this message.
That'd be brutal. So this is my problem, but
you're. Wrapped.
Oh yeah, because I reread messages a lot.
A lot like. Before you send them out
afterwards. No, after like I can read, I can
go back on entire conversation. I I simply need, I need to.
Stop rule #1. But even when the.
Delete messages? Wait, no, But not even.
When, like the conversation's bad, yeah, I'm just like, what
am I? Then I get to the end.
I'm like what's wrong with me? You.
You can't. Great advice.
I stopped doing that. Yeah.
Yeah, but I think as I think so many people do it and we're if
you're an overthinker. Or that's the problem.
I'm a massive overthinker. So like, and I think texts could
be obviously misconstrued all the time and it's just so yeah,
send voice notes going forward. But then you do the re listen.
I will out myself as a voice note re listener.
I re listen to yourself. Yeah, yeah, yeah, me too.
Do you not? And then you hear it back and
you're like. No, I actually don't.
And this is ironic coming from somebody with a podcast.
I don't. I don't really listen no because
I I kind of cringe myself out but I definitely do reread
stuff. I wouldn't say too much, but if
there's an argument that has happened, best believe I'm
reading back through that shit and I'm also discussing it with
like 20 other people. Like multiple times, not just
the one time. With them, yeah, that is, that
is, I think it's good to discuss with people, but I think maybe
should we set timers of like how like you can only reread it for
like once or something for like 10 seconds?
That's a good idea. Again, and that's it.
Because you can, you can convince yourself of anything.
Like you can send normal texts and be like wow I'm a
psychopath. You just can't do it.
I think it was also good as well.
I, I know that so many people are like, I hate AI and it's
always going to tell you what you wanted to hear and I
understand that. I get it.
However, there have been some instances where I've like
screenshot things or like downloaded it, sent it into chat
2 BT. I say completely unbiased, don't
even name do that subject A, subject B and describe the
dynamic that's going on here. I don't want chat 2 BT to like
validate me. It's more like understanding the
dynamic so that I kind of stop overthinking it.
It's like, OK, that's like a very non biased view and
obviously take everything with a pinch of salt, but it does just
help to kind of like calm the brain a little bit.
I just don't know if that would make me feel worse.
I don't know if I'd go into like a bigger one.
Help do you reckon maybe? On set by sponsored.
Today's episode, OK, next time I go to reread a message, I'll
screenshot it, I'll put it into ChatGPT and then I'll put it
forward to the board on how I'm feeling and I'll let you guys.
Here's Here's the catch though I go.
On OK. Because I agree, I think that's
such a great use of AI because it's like impartial to some
extent. It's data-driven and it just
gives you like a third party Peace of Mind if you don't want
to like bug your friends. Even though I don't think it's
bugging, but I feel like it could be a slippery slope where
you're like, OK, well, I like that.
Analyse this. Analyse this exactly.
That's what I would be worried about.
Like I don't think there's like a cap on it.
So I think it's a little like occasionally.
If it's not. Great.
Especially if you're hard on yourself and I think you've got
a narrative. It's like.
Well, caveat to that, tell chapter BT that you're a really
bad overthinker and you want to get better.
And the the feedback that it gives you and the advice that it
will give you to move forward will be quite good as well,
because I've also done that. I know what I'm doing this
evening. After the pub, that is the
answer, but in moderation, yeah. Yeah, so it's, it's out, babe.
Just try and stop, try and refrain and maybe.
Over analysing, overthinking out.
And also the next time just maybe just say it just be like
I'm, I'm wanting to look at this message now.
Like say it to me, say it to whoever, be like I'm wanting to
look at this message again. Yeah.
Also saying things out loud as well is actually like a brain
hack because it gets like your prefrontal cortex working, which
is like your reasoning. So when you say it, you're like
oh this is absolutely normal. Or like think if a friend sent
you that text you would be like that's fine.
It's just sometimes we're so in our head and have this like bias
that we're like. It's Hard Out Here, but you
know. So no overthinking, no line
bikes. No thinking, no line bikes.
I am out. OK.
So I actually thought of this out just now.
So it's a little it's a little it's a little fresh.
So this out has just come to me now.
I think lime bike took the took the main passion project of my
mind, but I'm going to say out the bare minimum.
Oh. My God, I could not agree more.
I was just discussing this the other day.
Bare minimum or luxury maximum, right?
And what we need to do, we need to do a whole other episode on
this as well, which is we list out things and we, we say
whether we think that is the bare minimum or whether we think
it's luxury maximum. Please can you define an example
as to like what your bare minimum would be like 10?
Yeah, my my favorite bare minimum is when people tell me,
oh, their partner or someone they're seeing is nice to them.
I'm nice to everyone. I'm nice to the postman.
I am nice to a neighbor that makes too much.
Noise. They're really nice.
They're really nice to me. They're so, they're so nice.
Yeah, they're minimum. That's they the bare minimum.
They shouldn't hate you. Yeah, we'd hope not.
Yeah. And also the alternative is like
then the me too question mark, like I'm not really, I'm not
getting it. Nice is just as a very generic
term. Yeah, that's nice to me.
Yeah. And also one thing I think as as
a bisexual, sometimes a fun little game I like to play is if
a man were to do this, would you be saying the same?
Oh, my God, I think the same thing.
It's like if a man were to have done this, is that actually
abuse? Probably, yeah.
Do you know what I mean? It's like, OK, that's not all
right. And I get it, you know, I get
it. We're very empathetic and we
want to give people the benefit of the Dow.
But if you put some scenarios and just change the little flip,
you know, maybe Fred to go to. Go was like Freddie, Freddie,
Freddie. Was Freddie, you know, like is
how would that come across like? Probably pretty fucking bad.
It's a. Third party this I think.
It's different, like they're so fucking nice to me.
Like I think that's different. It's like, God, they're like
above and beyond, like so nice. But like they're, they're nice
to me. They treat me well, like yeah,
okay. They treat me with basic human
kindness, decency, and that's like, that's just.
I'm nice to the cashier at Tesco's.
Are we fucking? Maybe.
But like, you know, do you think that she goes home and she's
like customers nice. Yeah.
Actually, to be fair, I probably could have done that when I
worked. I know.
And this is. Actually not to like, you know,
talk badly on niceness, bring bring back niceness.
Maybe that's the end. But maybe because niceness is so
rare, can't. Be enough?
Maybe that's it. It just can't be enough.
Have you seen the tik toks people doing that bare minimum
or Princess treatment? It's wild.
So it's like it's insane. I'll show you later.
Some of them do you deem is. Well, some of the like the
things where it's like Princess treatment, I'm like, that's a
bare minimum. I mean, I can't give you an
example off top of my head. Right now they gave me head
Princess treatment. They kissed me on the lips.
Princess treatment. Yeah, no, it's kind of fucking
crazy. I feel like we need to raise the
bar a little bit. And I think it depends on what
someone's able to offer as well, right?
I think that we can put it within the dependency.
Like if someone is like super wealthy, like, yeah, I'm
expecting a jet. Like, are you kidding?
Like I'm not expecting that from like someone who doesn't.
It's like, pick me up on a line bike.
Nat Yeah, I'm actually still butt hurt about this.
I'm really upset. This is what I thought before
tarot readers on TikTok wait. Are we saying out for this?
Out. So out.
I've been such a level of distraught that I've listened to
those of them like, well, that's all about me.
It's like, does this player say my star sign?
I'm like, oh, I'm listening. They're like, here's your weekly
reading. And it's like, dude, I'm like,
Oh my God, that's so dude, that's definitely going to
happen. That makes sense.
And I'm like, what again, what am I doing?
I'm overthinking. Yeah, I've been in the pits of
heartbreak and depression, and they're like, if you've seen
this video, no hashtags, no catchers, this was not for you.
They love you and they're coming back.
And I'm like, of course they are.
But do you know what it is? I always find that Tara Reid, a
TikTok, always finds me in my deepest darkest moments and I
don't know how. I think it's linked to costar.
Because I'll go through a phase of my TikTok algorithm, I'm
having a laugh, I'm having a giggle, and then I'm feeling a
little bit sad in myself. And then the deck of cards is
there. I just think they need to be
stopped. Do you know this is like this is
so ick worthy, but I'm going to have to say anyway.
And I feel like that you're going to judge me for this when
I was in my worst moments. Oh no, no, no, they kept feeding
them to me because they knew I was sad.
So they have like the TikTok live tarot readers and they're
like gift to the dancing hands. And I'm like fucking doing it.
You gifted the. Take it.
Yeah, You gifted the dancing. It's quite a few occasions
actually. It got a bit unwell.
I wasn't well. I was not well.
You know you're not mentally. Ill Yeah, well, they do.
I think that's why it needs to be out because they're praying
on vulnerable people and it's not cool.
Maybe I should start one. Maybe in Catch Me Next Time I've
got a deck of tarot cards and I'm like, give me the dancing
hands if you want to hear this. Cheryl, your husband's going to
leave you, babe. I don't know what you want me to
say next. Yeah I'd be like ohh she's
gifted the Galaxy. I'll give you 3 cards for this.
Ohh God remember it is scam artist.
And it's so bad if you have OCD, shout out to OCD.
Oh my God, shout out to OCD I. Feel like a radio for all those
OCD girlies driving home tonight?
It's. Just you're one of them, and so
am I. Really am like stuff like that
not good, not good for the brain, not not fun to hear, not
really not really great. Like we'll, we'll be hearing it
also on that kind of theme, those tick tocks that are like
in your 30s. You will have a sign to do this.
Like no, please, I don't want any more signs.
I don't want. Any.
Any like, you know, I think a positive little do follow your
dreams or something is great, but anything that's like when
you get that feeling, you know, it's like, no, I don't I.
Don't actually I don't know because I've crippling OCD and
every feeling is really intense I need.
My thoughts not to have power because.
Then you can. Think really bad things.
Bad things can come true, but that's not how it works.
Yes, exactly. That's so true.
That is so true I think. TikTok trends that are not good
for the for the girls struggling.
For the psyche I do, I do think one nice thing to always think
is like everything kind of happening in the way that it's
supposed to. I think that that's a very good
thing to think when something like negative happens.
I would also say that's always worked out in that way for me in
my life. True.
You know, there's been things that been so fucking hurtful or
painful or whatever, and then I'm like, thank fuck that
happened. Because if it didn't, then XYZ
wouldn't have happened. So I do think that that's a nice
way to think, Yeah. But not that if you get that
urge. Yeah, if you want to see that
urge just to jump in front of a train.
This is the dangers of the Internet.
Yeah, I'm just coming on here being very like.
God, you're very safety hazard on here.
Like you know what? Maybe you need it.
Maybe you are lesbian supper club HR photographer stroke HR
Maybe. I think we need it to be fair
happened this happened. That's a good one more out from
you. Wait, is it your out or is it my
out I. Don't have another out doing it,
are you? Doing it, yeah.
I mean, we don't. I love how we have like no ends.
Yeah, what's your You go first? Saying your free will and
remembering that you have it. Or can you?
Expand on that. So I think expanding on on free
will, I think Fruit Stab was my first free will adventure of
this year. But that is that not just a
hobby. No, I think it's like, you know,
when you feel like you want to do something, just fucking go
and do it. You actually remember It's,
well, it's basically it's just spontaneity.
It's like knowing that you can do something, just do it.
So I know it sounds ridiculous, but it's like, well, I want to
learn how to stab fruit in the air, so I'm going to fucking do
it. Or did.
You see the little kid with the blankets online?
This. Is right.
Sorry, do we all. Have the same algorithm.
I'd like to clarify a few things about that before we continue.
There was, I know there was a small child.
She was very Speaking of us, she was very authoritative and she
was opening the fridge and she had put her blankets in the
fridge and the caption was like I'm not using my free will
enough. Like the mum had said it and
she's. So true and.
Then just like takes them into the bed.
I imagine they live in a really hot place.
I was trying. To Well, yeah, you just suddenly
realize, actually, I can do this.
It's like another example of this.
My cousin was like, it only just dawned on me that I can put my
Nespresso machine next to my bed instead of me having to get up,
but I'm getting ready to go to the the kitchen and make my
coffee. I can just lie in bed.
And excellent use of free will. It's like things like that.
Like making your life maybe more fun or more easy, or like it's
may not be conventional, but just fucking do it anyway.
Yeah, that's really like Tom Hanks big energy.
And I really like. Yeah.
Like when you remember, you're like, Oh my God, yes, I'm an
adult. I can have this for dinner or I
can have my coffee machine by my bed.
Yeah, No, this is. I support this.
Thank you very much. Yeah, free will.
Yeah, it's, it's, yeah, the free will.
And I also think, obviously, as long as it's not really like
hurtful to somebody else, I don't know, just fucking go for
it. It's probably hurtful for me
with the fruit stabbing, but I'm going to keep going.
Nothing's going to stop me. It's also me as well.
I was like, I really love that Rosalia.
Rosalia has a hold on you. Chokehold real bad.
So I was like, I need to now learn this song.
So now I'm learning the song because it's free will.
I may as well. I went ice skating the other
day. Free will I can.
Do you like the poster child of free will?
This is. Brilliant.
I'm sold. Yeah, you're sold.
Yeah, You buy what I'm selling then that's.
Yeah, I'm picking it up. Picking up what I'm putting
down. That's a great.
I just can't wait, no. No free will.
No, I'm just, I can't wait for the next time when you're
contemplating doing something, you're stressed.
I'm going to, I'm going to look at you and say got your free
will and then see if you actually do it and then see if
you actually do it or not. Yeah, Jambay free will.
Yeah. Yeah, I would say you're
actually probably the person I know most that utilizes.
It's called ADHD. It's called mental disability.
Harmonica. Free will.
Jembe. Free will.
Gita Leili. Free will.
The Gita Leili. It's a it's a cross between a
guitar and a ukulele. Free will.
Shouting at men, free will. Pushing men on the floor.
Free will. What are you going to do?
Live with your free will today, tomorrow, 2026.
I'm going to put conversations I read into ChatGPT.
Free will. Free will and I'm going to do
that. I think that's good.
I don't know if I if anything comes up and I'm thinking I'm
going to use my free will, I will let you know.
Not I think that you should exercise your free will and just
throw shit at people online bikes.
Just Heckle that line, bikers. Maybe.
Maybe that is what I'm going to do.
Yeah, I support that. Yeah, I literally have no ends.
No ends. I don't know.
I just don't really. Mean like it can be.
It can be a wishful in like. You don't think you'll actually
become popular in 2026, but you wish it will become popular.
I like that. Yeah, No, I just think, I just
think going back to what we said before, I feel like what?
Do you think is coming back? Well, I'd like niceness to come
back, to be honest. I feel like people aren't nice
anymore. Yeah, not all the time, but
we're all very harsh on ourselves and other people.
I think that's why 2016 is like becoming.
Back Yeah, I'm here for the 2016 resurgence.
Recession indicator Gays drinking milk that needs to go
out. Oh my God, the way that I
literally had milk. You had milk.
I actually chose to not say it because I've got a better one,
but one of my in is the cow. Bring back the cow with with a
little Asterix. Unless you're lactose intolerant
because this is no dairy ableism in this household, but very.
Much. That coined phrase by my friend
Alice. Bring back the cow because the
girls are drinking milk. All right, big cow.
You know what? No, no, no.
Do you drink cow's milk? Yeah, I do.
And do you know what? I'm really smug about it as
well. When I go into the coffee shop,
I'm like, oh, just a just a normal coffee for me.
Like regular melt? Yeah, and I feel like this is a
normal coffee because I'm so fucking normal.
Not like these are losers like having.
Not like other guys, guys, but I've been there.
I've lived the Kelly bananas,
the things that I've been through.
I've drank the almond milk, the coconut, the soy, the oat.
Half of those aren't good for you.
Half of those aren't great for the planet.
We're spiking our glucose. Oh, no, I'm sorry.
You can't use planet. All good for you against this,
OK? No, no.
They've died of cow pasta. Look why?
You know that, right? They dyed the count first.
Yeah, you. Know what though, when I was
home over Christmas and I was having my morning coffees, I
will admit because my mum has fucking soy milk and if you put
soy milk sometimes in the coffee it curdles and it looks rang and
then I saw some milk in the fridge that my niece was having.
I thought, I'm going to put that in my coffee and I will admit it
was fucking delicious because it was really good.
Delicious dairy is I'm vanilla ice cream, salted butter like
just anything creamy. Yeah, you eat, you can't.
Can you really say that about the milk when you eat certain
cheese? Practice you so you hurt it.
Hurt as an understatement. It's really.
Yeah. It takes me and my soul.
Yeah. I mean, I can't even get on
board with this conversation, honestly.
I blacked out. It's not the cow, it's the hell.
OK, well that wasn't my. End.
OK. All right.
So I hope you know I changed, OK.
But I do also think it's a recession indicator. 2016
Actually, no, we weren't drinking milk in 2016 Oh yeah, I
think I was still. No, I was listening to Major
Lazer and I think God, I found myself.
No, that one's 2013. I also will say I don't think
2016 was actually that good. I quite remember it being like a
really dark time. Or was it not very good for?
You. No, not for me.
It was fine, but it was like Trump era.
Like it wasn't. It was just before Trump era and
that's why everyone remembers it as a happy year.
No, but I think no because I turned 20.
I'm just closing my age here My. Dad turned 22.
And I was in America and I was like, I'm living the life.
I'm in California. I'm 21, and people were not
happy. And it was like, very much like
Trump was. Running Do you know what?
I don't think anyone's ever happy.
I think that what what is really dangerous is nostalgia.
We have this like view on things because the anxiety is no longer
there because it's already happened.
So you look back on memories or years with the great fondness
because you remember the happy things and you don't have the
anxiety attached to it. So every year could sit, but
apart from the past couple for me, I'm not going to and 2004
terrible year for me, all of these years just bad.
No, just bad years, right. And but in general, you wouldn't
really be able to like, pinpoint a year, you know?
But you'd be like, Oh yeah, like you listen to those songs and
you're like, that was good. Nostalgia.
And it's like very profound actually, because there's this
quote that I'm going to say is Tolstoy, but it's probably
Pinterest and I'm just regurgitating it and it's
probably wrong, but work with me here.
Hold on, So it's like, don't worry if you're having a shit
time because in the future you'll look back and think it
was great. Like in nostalgia.
I mean, I don't think that was quite Leo.
That's true. Nostalgia will cloud it and it
will make it seem like it wasn't that tough.
Like I promise you the 2036 kids will be like, Oh my God, like
let's make this like 2026 and they will romanticize it.
Because I was like, hold on, How?
How are we? How are we loving 2016 that
much? I'm all here for like the
bangers. Don't get me wrong.
I am playing them but also I'm like don't want to be the bearer
of bad news, but was it really? Yeah, I just looked on my camera
to see where I was in my life at 2016, and it was the year I
turned 18 and I was in sixth form.
I remember being like quite happy and just like bit more
carefree, but that's because I was younger and like didn't have
any responsibilities. And maybe the world was a little
bit a little. Bit chill yeah, but don't doubt
I probably had hard times. My God, you look like you have
jaundice. What is that?
It's a good. Lord, no.
You know what that is? That's Rio de Janeiro.
That is the filter. Maybe we was another one.
Yeah, well, I was, yeah. I was working in shop, so I
clearly was quite happy about it. 2016, maybe we went more.
I can relate to a year based on the songs that were in that
year. I'll know whether it was a good
year or not. There's certain years where
Rihanna was really big, bad years. 2009 it was a pinnacle
moment in music. I will say it was when Rihanna,
Katy Perry, Lady Gaga and Beyoncé were all at their peak.
I will say no, no, no. I will die on this hill because
I've said it for ages. I'll play the songs at the.
Park was that rude boy and like. Yeah, yeah.
California girls telephone was all kicking off I think.
Oh yeah. Who's the producer that we love?
You know, like if he's on it. Timberland, Tim.
Timberland and Dart child. Who's dark child?
Well, if you if you know his like signature stuff, you'll
then hear all of the singers going dart child at the
beginning. So like Simon name Simon that's
not child. Oh the tags at the start yeah.
But Timberland is always the OG. So good.
Bring him back in Timberland. Absolutely.
Do you say what's that? Was your in right niceness?
Just being nice. One more in, one more in.
Well, it's not the cow, girl. It's not the cow wholesome in
actually I'll say community. It's lovely.
Yeah. Do you know what?
Just the casual hang. Bring back the casual hang.
Just like actually talking to people in your neighborhood.
Like knowing person that works in the shops around you, talking
to people, hanging out with friends, casually doing errands
together. Oh, my God, Which is what you've
been so good at doing with me recently.
Lives been my, like, always been my errand goer.
Nat has been another recruit for my errands, which I have to say,
I thoroughly enjoyed. Yeah, it was you just coming
along for the ride. Yeah.
Did anyone else in that please enjoy us?
Probably not. Probably not, no.
Yeah, just the casual hanging friends.
I think you are actually very good at that.
I've noticed that like you're on the day you'll just be like,
hey, want to hang out? And it feels like a knock on the
door of my childhood. Home, Oh my God, bring back
knocking on the door of people. I mean shorter you do a little
knock knock. No, not not.
And also just like, how can we identify who's at each other's
houses, you know, and used to leave your bikes outside?
Exactly. I guess it's find my friends.
Find my friends. Literally.
I love looking at my Sims and find my friends.
Yeah. Friendship.
Yeah, but also community. It's like being around people
who genuinely get you and understand you and don't
hideaway. And this goes to the girls that
will always message me, like is it OK to come alone to the
events, blah blah blah. Absolutely.
Because that's the main thing, right?
It's like if you've already got your community, I mean, I still
want you to come, but the point is, is actually building that
and building those friendships and relationships and whatever.
Might come your way as well. Like I literally just hang out
with my friend. I'm like wow I feel so good I
can't believe not staring at my screen and working multi
solitude. Yeah, I think that we're we're
mistaken. Closeness with texts and
Instagram shares and Tik Toks that we can watch with our
friends, like that's not closeness.
Like speaking to somebody like that isn't hug someone today.
If you don't have a friend just hug a stranger.
Fuck it up, free will. It all comes back, baby it all.
Comes back on that note, my free will is saying pub.
And my sense of community is saying yes.
And my sense of lactose intolerance is saying no milk.
Not line biking though. My sense of niceness is saying
yes to the pub. She goes, alright guys,
lesbians, I love you so much and I'll speak to you next week.
Bye.