1 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:17,040 Good morning, good evening, good afternoon, good mid morning to 2 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:21,400 wherever you are in the world. I hope that you're feeling near 3 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,400 dear and queer to us today because we've got quite a lot to 4 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:28,000 run through. We are back in the Levi studio 5 00:00:28,040 --> 00:00:31,400 after not being here for a good while actually just due to 6 00:00:31,400 --> 00:00:36,520 Christmas and then illness and just general. 7 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:39,040 Way to brighten the mood inability to get our. 8 00:00:39,160 --> 00:00:42,400 Shit together, but I'm really grateful to be back. 9 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,800 I love the vibe in the studio. I hope they keep us here 10 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,320 forever. Please don't get rid of us 11 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,120 Levi's. Please, please. 12 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,240 I love my jeans. Wear your token dikes. 13 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:57,720 They better not find anyone else, yeah? 14 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,880 No one else come for them. No. 15 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,840 Very upset. Very. 16 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,120 Upset they don't want you anyway so it's fine. 17 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,680 I don't want myself. Talking about wanting things 18 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:12,200 though I want to see G flip perform again. 19 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,640 Me too. Because they were amazing. 20 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:19,760 They were incredible, like I was mesmerised stood in that 21 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:20,960 audience. Yeah, we went with a group of 22 00:01:20,960 --> 00:01:23,520 friends and everyone was a little bit worried about Freya 23 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:28,920 because I bought Freya the tickets for our anniversary last 24 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,640 year. And I like we've we've we really 25 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:37,000 like G flip, but like I didn't think that they're not like your 26 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,560 absolute go to artist. In all fairness, Freya like we 27 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,400 love them, but they've not been your go to artist. 28 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,160 So I was like when I bought them, I was like, I know that 29 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:47,280 she'll enjoy it because we enjoy live music anyway. 30 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,640 Didn't know you'd enjoy it to such extent to the point where 31 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:53,920 we were just like stood on one of the balconies. 32 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,080 So the concert place that we go to is called Coco and it's 33 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,960 almost like a theatre. So you have the like main floor 34 00:01:59,960 --> 00:02:03,440 at the bottom and then you have basically like theatre boxes. 35 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:06,800 And sorry, I'm just watching Freya really. 36 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,000 I'm getting really annoyed at the. 37 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,120 Standardly, just like moving her stand around, and it's highly 38 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,280 distracting. Down. 39 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,440 That's why it's winding me. Up and it's got like loads of 40 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,480 kind of like balconies that then swirl around. 41 00:02:16,480 --> 00:02:19,120 So we were on one of the balconies and Freya was just 42 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:22,080 like one of those kids watching Disney for the first time. 43 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:24,640 Like, didn't move, didn't interact. 44 00:02:24,640 --> 00:02:26,400 We have a group we. Were like dancing. 45 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,560 You obviously kind of like chat as well to be like I'm. 46 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,920 Oh mate, no, I was getting so annoyed. 47 00:02:31,920 --> 00:02:34,320 Freya was turning around, being that kid in class going. 48 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,280 Yeah, I was like, no, I turned around, shut the fuck up. 49 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,440 And then I turned around to you and said shut the fuck up, 50 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:46,040 because if I want to talk mid song and acknowledge that 51 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:49,280 they're really good or a drumming riff that they just 52 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,760 done was really good, then I'm going to do that. 53 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:53,840 OK. If you didn't like it, you could 54 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,120 have gone and stood somewhere else. 55 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,120 You could have gone down in the front line with the rest of 56 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:58,240 them. That would have been obsessive 57 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,120 and just gorging. But you didn't. 58 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,480 You decide to stay up there with us. 59 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,280 You have to put up the consequences of all of us acting 60 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:10,560 out of control. I loved it so much, incredible. 61 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,200 But I also, I just get mesmerised by music, you know 62 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,280 what I'm like? Like. 63 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,960 And one thing that was also really nice, we did not expect 64 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:22,160 to have so many of you. Oh my God. 65 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:27,760 Come up to us and say hey, which was really nice and we loved and 66 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,880 in future if you see us and you question whether to come up to 67 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:37,360 us or not, yes, I am a nasty piece of work, but I will put on 68 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,400 a false presence to. Make sure you're up. 69 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,040 Shut the fuck up. No, we really liked it. 70 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,320 I mean, I mainly, I don't even really go up to people that I 71 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,440 know. So I get it. 72 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,440 Sometimes I just don't want to have small talk. 73 00:03:49,720 --> 00:03:53,760 Like if I if I've left the house and I don't have it in my head 74 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:57,600 that I'm seeing or meeting or talking to specific people, I 75 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,640 don't want to see or talk or see anyone. 76 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:03,520 I get really uncomfortable if I bump into people. 77 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:05,880 Have you noticed this about me? Of course I have. 78 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:07,600 I bump into people. Yeah. 79 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:10,360 I find. I don't know why, but I think 80 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,280 because in my brain I haven't planned it out. 81 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,000 I can't cope with it. No, but let me tell you, I'm the 82 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:16,200 same. So I was. 83 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,560 You handle it better than me. I handle it better than you, 84 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:21,320 just mainly because I've just got that face that everyone kind 85 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:22,960 of warms too when I put on this big smile. 86 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:26,760 But really, deep down inside, I want to die like I and it's not 87 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:27,800 because I don't want to see them. 88 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:29,880 I love to see. Them but you haven't planned 89 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:31,760 out. But I'm also cautious that it 90 00:04:31,760 --> 00:04:33,840 might look like I don't want them to be there. 91 00:04:33,840 --> 00:04:36,440 So then I overcompensate because I don't want them to feel 92 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,960 awkward that they bumped into me and I'm like oh. 93 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,200 Yeah, I think that's why we then start both, like going into the 94 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:45,120 weirdest tangent. Your shit mate, the shit that 95 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,120 comes out of our mouth when we jump into something. 96 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:49,040 Honestly I fucking hate SO. Weird. 97 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:50,800 It's actually really weird behaviour I think. 98 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:53,000 I know, but I told better help plug better help. 99 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,000 I told my therapist yesterday that, by the way, I'm loving 100 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,680 having a therapist. It is so good because I just 101 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,960 love to talk as it is and to talk to someone who then will 102 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:04,560 delve into everything that I've said. 103 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:05,680 I'm like, wow, I didn't even think. 104 00:05:05,720 --> 00:05:09,400 I know this is so inappropriate but I would love to speak to 105 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:13,640 your therapist fair without you. Maybe what you should do is a 106 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:15,240 couples therapy and then you could. 107 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,640 No, because they have to keep it professional and I want your 108 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,520 therapist to come to me and be like. 109 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,640 She'd probably love to have a good old chat because I saw at 110 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,440 the end of that call she looked like she wanted to fucking. 111 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:30,320 I said, have I given you a headache? 112 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,640 She was like, she laughed and she was like, no, I was like, oh 113 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:38,600 God, I have no, but I said that I get really bad paralysis in 114 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,000 the day if we've got something to do in the evening. 115 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,200 So the fact that we've got an event to do tomorrow. 116 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,920 The fact that you went, you managed to go through this, you 117 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,600 managed to go through your family problems, you managed to. 118 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:51,680 Did you talk about your school fit phobia when you were? 119 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,080 Very briefly, I haven't got your mental abuse yet, OK? 120 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,080 Did you? Speak about your emetophobia. 121 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,640 No, not yet. Did you speak about your 122 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,080 generalised anxieties? Yes. 123 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,520 Did you speak about your illness Fear? 124 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,120 Yes. So you did actually bombard that 125 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,640 poor. Mate, I get the most of my 126 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:11,680 money. Yeah, that was like what 127 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,960 happened to me when I was seeing that psychiatrist when I went a 128 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,040 little bit loopy loo after that last breakup. 129 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,080 I sat there 300 lbs recession. So I ripped off so fucking 130 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,320 quickly. I was like on three times speed, 131 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:23,800 he said. Wow, I really rate you for being 132 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:24,640 so honest with me. I was like. 133 00:06:24,840 --> 00:06:27,040 I can't afford not to. Be cannot afford not to be. 134 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,520 Let's just keep going, shall we? And then I was like, what can 135 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:30,560 you give me? What can you give me? 136 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,120 Because he's a psychiatrist. I was like, what diazepam have 137 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,960 you got? Yeah, Diazepam or the we have 138 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:41,160 started our better help journey and I genuinely I'm so impressed 139 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,960 not even just like the therapy itself, so beyond the therapy 140 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:48,400 session that we both had already really, really positive 141 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,360 experiences with, I mean I did bombard mine a bit as well. 142 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:55,040 I think I, I think I left her a bit speechless because me and 143 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:57,440 you just fucking go balls to the walls, don't we? 144 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,960 We just thank fuck we've got a podcast, nothing's off the 145 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,680 table. Well, can just chat. 146 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,880 This is the thing. This is our problem. 147 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:07,560 Nothing's off the fucking table. Ask me anything. 148 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,560 I can't. I probably won't be offended and 149 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,360 I will give you the truth. Yeah, we are a PR nightmare. 150 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:16,320 Yeah, don't ever put us in an interview because I will have 151 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:22,480 myself either cancelled one way or another, or on the news for 152 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:26,640 exposing the deepest depths of my inside brain, which will 153 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,520 probably end me up in a fucking psych ward. 154 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:29,440 I'll. Probably tell them that I'm 155 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,720 bleeding, that I've got bad endometriosis crap. 156 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,560 You could tell them a lot worse than that, my darling. 157 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:37,440 Let me go back, though, to what I was saying is the paralysis. 158 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,480 I got onto this with the therapist. 159 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:41,800 I said, look, it's a paralysis that I get throughout the day. 160 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:43,640 I know that I've got an event tomorrow, and this could be any 161 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:44,600 event. It doesn't matter. 162 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:47,400 I know that that event starts at 7:00 PM So in my head I'm like, 163 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,120 right, that starts at 7:00 PM Let me not do anything the whole 164 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,800 day or like, if somebody tries to make plans with me in that 165 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,840 day, it's not going to happen. I'm going to have to move it. 166 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,360 Yeah. For me, because you can only 167 00:07:57,360 --> 00:08:00,200 focus on that one thing. I will be waiting all day. 168 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,920 Yeah, I'm yeah, I will still rush to get ready. 169 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:05,040 Yeah. Oh yeah, you're always honestly, 170 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:08,400 this is getting worse though of yours and this is something that 171 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:12,160 maybe we will have to go to couples therapy for is that your 172 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:15,920 lateness is increasing and I'm worried it's because you're 173 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,040 growing older and you're but growing more into your mum. 174 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:19,720 And no offence to your mum, love her. 175 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:23,160 Don't say that to me. Sorry, but it's true. 176 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:24,440 No. It is true. 177 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:25,160 Let me tell. You. 178 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:28,240 What it is is the fact that I'm like way busier now. 179 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,600 Like in my brain, Freya, I am. No, I am. 180 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,520 No, I'm not having it. You're telling me that I'm not 181 00:08:34,520 --> 00:08:35,559 way busier now. You. 182 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:40,520 Are way busier, but you could still but don't tell me on some 183 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,320 days you are do it, don't do it and live shaking her head as 184 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,680 well sat in the studio you. Can fuck off. 185 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:47,640 You can. It's the. 186 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,080 Truth. I'm not. 187 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,200 It is you are. Leave now. 188 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:54,400 No, you leave. You leave if you can leave on 189 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:58,560 time. Oh, don't worry, Don't worry. 190 00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:01,760 The exit plans being drafted, don't you fucking worry. 191 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:03,000 Oh my God. But it is. 192 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:06,600 Increasing I'm not I I don't know what it is. 193 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:11,720 I swear to God I have ADHD if I can get on medication. 194 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,240 Yes. But Freya, what I'm saying is 195 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:15,520 that's fine. That's fine. 196 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:18,400 Things like this that. You've got worse over the last 197 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,600 year. This is what I'm saying. 198 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,440 So your your ADHD symptoms have always been around. 199 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:28,200 Your inability to leave the house on time now has gotten out 200 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,560 of control. So even if you had half an hour 201 00:09:30,560 --> 00:09:33,040 versus 2 1/2 hours, you'd still be late. 202 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,240 I don't this is not weird, This is why it's. 203 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,600 Got nothing to do with your. Brain, I couldn't even answer 204 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:39,920 you. I couldn't answer you. 205 00:09:40,040 --> 00:09:41,240 I. Don't want you to answer me. 206 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:42,920 It's really actually stressing me. 207 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,480 I know that there's nothing you can offer me that will make me 208 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:49,240 feel better about the fact that I know I'm always going to be 209 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:52,280 stood at that me and the dog literally stand in the fucking 210 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:54,400 doorway of the flat looking at each other. 211 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:57,680 Like Ziggy's looking at me like I'm probably going to shit and 212 00:09:57,680 --> 00:10:01,280 piss myself any second now. And I'm looking at him being 213 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,840 like, mate, I'm probably going to shit and piss myself as well. 214 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,480 And you're still Fanny. Do you know what it is, Stefani 215 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,880 arsing around? And this is again what your mum 216 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:13,480 does because it's I look at you and I'm like, right, she's not 217 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,720 ready, but what is she doing right now? 218 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:20,680 Like you'll never physically doing anything. 219 00:10:20,680 --> 00:10:23,480 So whilst I'm still laid in bed, yes, you get up earlier than me 220 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:26,160 and yes, it's really good that you will start to go round and 221 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:28,480 tidy up and things. Although I always tidy up, 222 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:31,160 finish the tidy up, do most of the hoovering and stuff when we 223 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,880 get back after coffee before you start saying I do XY and Z, yes. 224 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:41,840 So that's great. But then I'll start to get up 225 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:45,080 and you'll be getting ready the same time as me, and yet you're 226 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,280 still late. I just can't. 227 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,160 Not late. You're just still not ready. 228 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:53,600 I can't work it out. And then you still manage to 229 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,440 leave the house looking like a fucking crackhead in the 230 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,880 morning. So it's not even like you're 231 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:03,320 doing your makeup, your hair. Fucking hell man, is this 232 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:05,840 therapy shit? I leave the house looking like a 233 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:06,880 crackhead as well. Leave. 234 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,160 It for better help, better for help better for you. 235 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:11,920 I need I leave the base looking like a crackhead as well, but 236 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:15,240 the difference between me and you is I get up 7 minutes before 237 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,120 I'm leaving the door, you get up 45 minutes before you leaving 238 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:20,640 the door and we're still somehow on the same path. 239 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,160 Look, it is really fucking annoying. 240 00:11:22,200 --> 00:11:25,440 But yeah, but better help, clearly there's multiple avenues 241 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,160 that we need to be exploring. Today's episode is brought to 242 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,960 you by Better Help. 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Therapy's all about letting 271 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,800 things go. It's all about moving on. 272 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:05,160 It's all about accepting the past, accepting yourself in all 273 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,680 of your forms. And talking of letting go, we 274 00:13:08,680 --> 00:13:12,320 were having a really funny conversation the other day and I 275 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:15,520 know every fucker listening to this podcast will be able to 276 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:21,920 relate is we all know that lesbians go on if the date has 277 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,160 gone well, four day dates, right? 278 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,720 And we also all know that when you first enter into a 279 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:32,640 relationship or you're in the honeymoon phase, you bring over 280 00:13:32,640 --> 00:13:38,200 the best version of yourself. So that version will be the 281 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,280 happiest version of yourself, the most caring version of 282 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,920 yourself. It'll also just be the least IBS 283 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:50,640 gassy farty version of yourself. So during your four day 284 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,120 saxathon. Yeah, you're getting pumped. 285 00:13:54,320 --> 00:14:00,320 It's good you know when sometimes that you're getting 286 00:14:00,320 --> 00:14:06,800 penetrated quite hard, it can literally pump up you stand up 287 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:11,040 like especially if you've been pumped from behind. 288 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,440 Can you not use the word hump? You know why I was saying pump? 289 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,040 Because I mean like they're pumping you, yes. 290 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,240 I know, but it's still an awful word. 291 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,760 So that's either happening. I'm surprised I haven't gone 292 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,240 floating some nights because you sometimes. 293 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:28,000 Happening during sex is that it's going to creep up on you. 294 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:36,120 Or when the date finally ends and you get in your car, you and 295 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:41,320 you start to relax. You then suffer the worst 296 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:47,120 fucking stomach pain known to man because it's trapped. 297 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:48,640 So I know this is a universal thing. 298 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:49,480 I know. It's oh, I know it's. 299 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:52,840 Straight girls, everyone. And it's, it's that moment. 300 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:54,120 What? Do gay men do I mean? 301 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,560 I'm. Going to have to get one on to 302 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,040 ask. If they're a bottom, I feel like 303 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:03,440 it probably just. Goes. 304 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,120 I can't. Look at you whilst you're. 305 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:10,880 Doing these faces, I am actually so grateful that right now this 306 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,680 podcast is not being afforded. Yeah, I do. 307 00:15:14,680 --> 00:15:16,560 Look. I look quite corporate today, 308 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:18,520 which wasn't really intentional, but I've got you. 309 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:19,920 Do you look? Like you've just come from a 310 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,040 business meeting. Fucking twat. 311 00:15:22,040 --> 00:15:24,480 I've actually got a change of clothes in the bag I've. 312 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,400 Got no, it looks. You look good, Tom. 313 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:29,240 You're on very different vibes I've got on fucking desert bags. 314 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:36,040 Really, really baggy 2000 jeans and a white dyke vest top with a 315 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,960 tight cardigan over the top. And you're wearing heeled boots, 316 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,080 black trousers and a blue shirt. It's very you, though. 317 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:44,760 I mean that outfit is just very on brand. 318 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,600 Yeah, but I do feel a little bit like corporate wanky wanky wank 319 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:49,280 anyway. Yeah, but me and you just have 320 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:50,520 quite different styles. That's. 321 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:52,000 Not true though. So actually really like. 322 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,400 Me and you, Our first date initially lasted just the one 323 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,360 evening, didn't it? Because I had to go back to 324 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,680 London. I think we were lucky because 325 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:03,080 our first dates actually didn't go on for that long because we 326 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:04,840 were both. I was 24 hours. 327 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,720 Yeah, 24 hours, but that's all right, especially when you're 328 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,200 not eating. You don't eat out much. 2 329 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:11,800 minutes. Yeah, but when you're on a first 330 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:13,320 date, you're not eating that much and stuff. 331 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,760 I do feel like it's more, it's easily, more easily achieved. 332 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:18,680 Our first date also wasn't 24 hours. 333 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,760 It was. No, it wasn't. 334 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:25,600 I got to you about 7:00 PM on the Friday or Saturday night and 335 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,960 I left the afternoon after. Like quite late afternoon, like 336 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,320 evening time, yeah. No, I didn't. 337 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:33,240 Yeah, you did. It was dark because it was 338 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,120 winter. I left about four all right for 339 00:16:35,120 --> 00:16:38,040 the sake it was about. 21 it was about 29 being facetious. 340 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,240 You are being facetious. So I yeah, but we did have that 341 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,360 brunch and that and I did think, God, I'm not going to have 342 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:45,000 anything like. Did we go to go go's? 343 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:47,880 Yeah, I was like, I'm not going to have anything too spicy. 344 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:49,840 Nothing that's going to fuck me up right here. 345 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:56,200 I'm on a high right now. The D is fire, the V is fire. 346 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:00,200 That's a Gypsy Rose. So Gypsy Rose reference for all 347 00:17:00,200 --> 00:17:03,520 of you that. Aren't following the Yeah, I was 348 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:05,960 very worried about it. Yeah, but you've got you. 349 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:09,480 The difference is you've got IBS and I don't, I don't remember 350 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:13,040 being that worried about it because there's as this is what 351 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:15,040 I'm saying. So our first date, 21 hours, I 352 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,480 think that's quite a bearable time to hold it in. 353 00:17:17,599 --> 00:17:20,359 To be fair, I don't really remember really struggling. 354 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,400 No. And then the second day I met 355 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:25,160 you in the evening as well, didn't I? 356 00:17:25,839 --> 00:17:29,720 We went to Sebastian, plugging Sebastian's in Windsor. 357 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,320 We love it. By the way, if you live local or 358 00:17:32,320 --> 00:17:34,120 around London, Windsor, really good. 359 00:17:34,840 --> 00:17:37,840 So we went there and then the next morning I had work. 360 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,480 Didn't you drive me to work? That sounds like something. 361 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,760 In London, yeah, you did. So again, very short turn 362 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:44,600 around. Yeah. 363 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:51,160 So I think by the time we had quite long term exposure to each 364 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:55,960 other, I was more comfortable not to fight in front of you, 365 00:17:56,120 --> 00:17:59,080 but to be relaxed. So I wasn't tensing my stomach 366 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:02,040 to get yet. Anyway, I didn't want this 367 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,800 podcast to be talking about things like that because Full 368 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:08,760 disclosure, it's very and they're very much not my fucking 369 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:11,520 vibe after them trying to call me a non lesbian because I 370 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:13,520 apparently looked too fem for them when they met me. 371 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:18,240 So I don't want to be the farty lesbians, but I do just want to 372 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,560 know if it is a universal experience of the sheer pain of 373 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:25,200 holding in your gas on the first few dates with your girl. 374 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,440 Do you know what my worry was More of anxiety attacks. 375 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:31,560 Well, it's again very. Very me. 376 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,880 So I get really bad. Controversially, it was me. 377 00:18:33,880 --> 00:18:36,200 That had it was you that had anxiety attack, which is great 378 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,720 actually, because it's something for me to not have to deal with 379 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,640 on my own. I because I get bad anxiety 380 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,680 attacks. I never want that with someone 381 00:18:43,680 --> 00:18:46,400 that I've just met and I don't want to put that on them either. 382 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,400 Like I never want to be the one that's like never like what's 383 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:50,840 wrong with you and be like nothing. 384 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,400 You know, it's just like, that was a really, really cautious 385 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,000 thing for me to think about. That's just not every day of our 386 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,760 life, though. It's not every day it's 80. 387 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,440 Percent of the days. Well, that's why I'm in therapy. 388 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:06,440 Look, I actually don't mind it like it. 389 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,200 It really doesn't bother me that much. 390 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:10,840 It's like it's part of sadly and it's not. 391 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:12,080 I'm not saying that in a horrible way. 392 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:16,920 It's part of who you are. Hopefully I hope for you it gets 393 00:19:16,920 --> 00:19:18,640 better over I feel. Like it doesn't suit my 394 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,920 personality. It doesn't. 395 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:22,600 It's not very on brand. Actually IBS is very on. 396 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:26,120 Brand IBS is so on brand but like anxiety isn't very on 397 00:19:26,120 --> 00:19:28,440 brand. But it doesn't bother me. 398 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:31,640 It bothers me when I can't help you. 399 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:34,160 So if you've got anxiety of a thing that I know that could be 400 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:37,560 fixed, I I don't mind it as much. 401 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,720 I just find it weird because I've never met anyone in my 402 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:42,600 life. With the type with anxiety like 403 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:47,480 how you I haven't either. No no and it feels very lonely 404 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,440 because I feel like I'm just like going through the shit 405 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:54,160 constantly and no one else around me does either and it 406 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:58,240 just sucks. Yeah, it's a very specific type 407 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,120 of anxiety that you have. I think it's very physical, my 408 00:20:01,120 --> 00:20:02,160 anxiety. Yeah. 409 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:04,240 Yeah. So like there's sometimes no 410 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,080 rationale, which I know a lot of people listening to this. 411 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,000 This podcast will say, well, that's how mine is. 412 00:20:08,360 --> 00:20:11,040 But again, genuinely from from being with you for five years 413 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:14,280 and witnessing it, it is very, it's a very nuanced. 414 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:15,800 Yeah, I just want to tell the people, though that are 415 00:20:15,800 --> 00:20:17,640 listening. If you do suffer from any kind 416 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:19,960 of anxiety, it doesn't matter whether it's like mine or 417 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:24,760 whatever, we're all unique. You can still do and achieve and 418 00:20:25,120 --> 00:20:27,520 push yourself to do the things that you really, really want to 419 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:31,000 do, regardless of how debilitating sometimes it may 420 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,680 feel. And a lot of the time you'll 421 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,600 feel that it makes you feel better for doing so. 422 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:38,760 So take that as a little bit of advice from Freya. 423 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,480 We've gone real hectic today already. 424 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,520 We were struggling today to think of an idea of what topic 425 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:47,200 to discuss, depict. As we've said in the past, we 426 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,560 usually just decide on the way here. 427 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,600 We're usually quite good at being creative and being like, 428 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,200 right, we're going to talk about this, We're going to talk about 429 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,080 that. So I've done the classic thing 430 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:57,000 that people do when they struggle about stuff is I 431 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:01,640 literally typed into Google lesbian topics and whilst it 432 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:07,480 didn't give me a single lesbian topic to depict, what it did do 433 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,120 was basically brought up. You know when it's like top 434 00:21:10,120 --> 00:21:13,880 things people asked into Google, it's done that all lesbian 435 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:17,120 related. So we thought what we would do 436 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:21,520 is run through the top questions that lesbians or questioning 437 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:28,720 lesbians, or by girlies, queer girlies and gays, ask Google and 438 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:33,400 give our hot take on the answers to these hot topics that get 439 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:37,920 asked. So the first question is what to 440 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,160 talk about with a lesbian. Women's football is the first 441 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:42,960 thing that comes into my brain strap. 442 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,880 No fryer, because you can't, right? 443 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,640 What we're saying is you've just met a lesbian in the coffee shop 444 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:51,760 on the street, bumped into each other. 445 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,720 You somehow ended up in conversation and you're just 446 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,680 casually falling into casual conversation fright and not the 447 00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:02,000 fucking strap or you're or you're on a first date. 448 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:04,440 Picture that. OK, what do I talk about? 449 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,000 There's got to be lesbian specific the L word. 450 00:22:07,120 --> 00:22:09,160 I was going to say a lesbian show of some kind. 451 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:13,040 So the L Word, all of the lesbian films shows Cate 452 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:17,840 Blanchett women's football. I think I'm the worst person to 453 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:20,760 answer this Travel. I'm not a quote on travel. 454 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:22,480 Lesbian lesbian. Yes, you. 455 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:24,040 Well, actually you're not actually. 456 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,720 I'm not. I'd plug the pot actually. 457 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:27,960 That is. What you could talk about, that 458 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:32,480 is all we do when we meet lesbians Now we just, Fred, do 459 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,440 you know who Freya plugged the fucking podcast to the other 460 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,080 day? Which I just sat there and 461 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,600 thought, what is actually wrong with you? 462 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:43,800 Which I think, yeah, the guy that came up, yeah, we were 463 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:46,880 having a drink and some guy came up to the table and was like, 464 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,760 can I have a cigarette? By the way, everyone that 465 00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,840 replies to us whenever we have like a cigarette in a photo or 466 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,960 video was like smoking sick face. 467 00:22:55,120 --> 00:22:57,040 I don't care. I'm not. 468 00:22:57,040 --> 00:22:59,280 Smoking for you to find me attractive? 469 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:00,320 Yeah, I'm smoking. I don't. 470 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:03,640 Care if you want to fuck me or not, I enjoy it. 471 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,600 We don't. We actually don't smoke very 472 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,000 often. We smoke socially. 473 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:09,800 It's what I want to do. Get off my back. 474 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,280 My mum don't even fucking give me shit in my DMS about this. 475 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,560 Why, certainly you don't want any of you dykes doing so. 476 00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:18,880 OK, moving on quickly. So this crackhead comes up to 477 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,960 the table, asks for a cigarette. Freya had originally said no 478 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:23,880 without realising. We had like basically a whole 479 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,480 pack of cigarettes open on the table. 480 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,800 So I was just like, I can't be fucking bothered mate, have a 481 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,080 cigarette, take care. So he takes it and she offers 482 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,680 him the lesbian supper club lighter, which by the way, is 483 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,080 coming very very, very, very soon. 484 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:39,320 Along with some other really fucking exciting lesbian supper 485 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:43,400 club shit. Big up Catherine pick up you 486 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:45,480 fucking legend who's been helping us get our shit 487 00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,640 together. So Freya hands in the lesbian 488 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:50,560 supper club lighter and he starts using it and she just 489 00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,000 goes. It's my podcast. 490 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,200 No, I went lesbian supper club. Oh yeah, it's obviously the 491 00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,280 engraving is like, not minimal, but to a crackhead who's just 492 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,360 trying to light a cigarette, he ain't looking at it right. 493 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,160 Well. The least he could do after 494 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,320 taking one of our cigarettes in this cost of living crisis is to 495 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,560 go on to Spotify and listen to the Lesbian Supper Club podcast 496 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,120 and rate it five stars. Is that that's not asking too 497 00:24:11,120 --> 00:24:12,560 much. Also, can I just say that I 498 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,080 heard these two girls? So I don't want to make 499 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:18,640 assumptions, but I don't want a middle-aged straight man who's a 500 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,280 crackhead. I completely agree, I am taking 501 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,560 the piss. Secondly to that, apparently 502 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:26,240 cigarettes are going up to like 18 lbs a packet by April. 503 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:27,240 Fuck. Fuck off. 504 00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:28,280 Yeah. Fuck. 505 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,840 SO topics like sidetracking again is the theme of today. 506 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:38,600 Talk about the podcast, Talk about podcasts, talk about I. 507 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,040 Think talk about like you're coming out trauma dump. 508 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:45,360 What I think is really important is to know what stage they are 509 00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:47,320 in their coming out. Have they come out yet to 510 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:49,440 people? Are they comfortable with coming 511 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:51,480 out? I know that might be a bit too 512 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,640 intense for a first meet. Really. 513 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,800 Yeah. Freya I feel like I feel out of. 514 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:57,720 Control. Today I'm not being funny. 515 00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,520 I feel like I'd want to know that on the first date because I 516 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,480 wouldn't go to the second date if they weren't out. 517 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,840 You'd want to know if they were out. 518 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,880 I don't think we can. You. 519 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:06,360 You'd want to go into the depths of it. 520 00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:07,680 Don't. Go into the depths, but you can 521 00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:09,320 be like, oh God, yeah, my mum was fucking awful. 522 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,080 Yeah, so. This is a good one. 523 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,200 Who who pays on a lesbian first date? 524 00:25:13,360 --> 00:25:15,800 Whoever invited you? So I think whoever initiates the 525 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,640 date or split. If the other person insists on 526 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,240 splitting, you should split. But if you were the one that 527 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,920 initiated and invited, yes, it's whoever initiates. 528 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,320 Page and it's whoever no not only initiates, but it's whoever 529 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:31,520 chose the bar or pub or. How to ask a lesbian on a date? 530 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:35,720 See, this is where I just ask. Yeah, I think just be straight 531 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:36,880 up. I just can't be bothered with 532 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:41,200 the fucking pussyfooting around. Just ask I also. 533 00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,520 For a drink next. Week again, we've spoken about 534 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,600 this briefly before, but like the way that society is now and 535 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,040 the way that lesbians act now when it's trying to be this like 536 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:54,880 fuck boy energy of like asking and not asking and I find it so 537 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,880 fucking cringe. I think it's just really nice to 538 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,920 be upfront. I think it's really nice to just 539 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,400 be like, respectful. Honest, mature, direct. 540 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,680 I don't, yeah. And then if they say no, they 541 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,920 say no, I mean. That's just the most attractive 542 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,320 thing to me is that if me and you ever broke up and I found 543 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,480 myself single and someone tried to like give it the cheek 544 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,440 initially chatting or like play games we're. 545 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:19,400 Going to go for a drink then I'd be like oh fuck off, no we're 546 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,000 not now well. When am I seeing you then? 547 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:24,360 Yeah, that. No, just like me and you are not 548 00:26:24,360 --> 00:26:26,000 compatible. Get away from me. 549 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:29,680 Just message me and be like, hey, I'd really love to take you 550 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,240 out for a drink, get you to know you better or hey, what's your 551 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,240 favourite bar in London, Can we grab a drink? 552 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,240 Like, yes, things like that. I would really, even if, do you 553 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:41,960 know what, even if I wasn't massively into the person, if 554 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,320 they asked me in the right way, it would interest me to go 555 00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:49,880 because I'd be like, oh, you've really like attracted me in the 556 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,280 way that you've asked this. Because I've noticed that a lot 557 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,280 of them now have tried to get really cocky, to try and seem 558 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,080 like attractive and it is so unattractive and people are 559 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,280 really cocky because there is a difference, people. 560 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,320 They act like men. Yeah, there is a difference 561 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,440 between being cocky and being confident. 562 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,280 You don't want to be cocky, but you do want to be confident 563 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:09,760 enough to be like, hey, I'd love to take you out. 564 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,200 Yeah, agreed. So one of the questions on here 565 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:18,720 is how can I tell a girl I want to have sex with her as a 566 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,920 lesbian? And this is. 567 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:24,480 So I was going to jump then and say well take the same. 568 00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:28,320 No, don't take the same approach as you would have asking them on 569 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:30,680 a date, which is basically just looking them square in the eye 570 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,520 and saying I want to have sex with you. 571 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:38,760 However, there are circumstances where that would work, but I 572 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:42,000 would say it more like not I want to have sex with you. 573 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,840 It would be more like I want to fuck you. 574 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:49,480 But it would, I would have to be very, very confident that the 575 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,040 signs were to fuck me. Yeah. 576 00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:56,080 So with this one, you have to be very assured that they're 577 00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:59,880 definitely on the same wavelength, the dates going to 578 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,640 probably well what what's the best way for you? 579 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,400 Yeah. So what I would do in a 580 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,760 situation like that. Now, you do have to be confident 581 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,200 for this to happen. I'm actually really scared about 582 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,560 what you're going to say. The date is going really well 583 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,680 and you're both starting to make out by this point because like, 584 00:28:15,840 --> 00:28:18,520 you're hot, she's hot. It's great you're there making. 585 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:20,400 Out can I just disclaim her really quickly? 586 00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:24,280 If anyone's listened to episode 3 of this podcast where I go 587 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,880 into detail how Freya approached me within seconds on our first 588 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:32,080 date, do not take this advice as verbatim. 589 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:36,080 Please carry on my love the. Listener, which is you is the 590 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,080 one on the date with me, So we're making out me and you. 591 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,320 Scarlett's looking at me like she wants to kill me, but it's 592 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:42,880 fine. I was looking at you trying to 593 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,760 make sense of what the fuck you were saying then. 594 00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:49,920 Put yourself in the dates shoes so the listener is now the day T 595 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,960 OK, OK, we're on an amazing date. 596 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,160 We're making out. Why have you put on your sex 597 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,920 voice? No, because I'm doing the I'm 598 00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:05,000 laughing, I'm laughing, we're making out, we're making out and 599 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:11,240 I whisper in your ear, but it has to be like mid make out and 600 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:16,080 then you go for the ear. See now and then you go I want 601 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:20,000 to fuck you. I can see in principle that 602 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:24,200 would work, but sat here now picturing it and watching you 603 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,440 reenact this. I'm doing this. 604 00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:27,320 I'm holding the stand for my dear life. 605 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:32,200 It's making me crawl and I go. I and I want to fuck you. 606 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,920 Please fuck me. I'm gonna hang right now. 607 00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,880 Can't nobody put me down. Finger me. 608 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,240 I literally. No, just be taking. 609 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,000 Advice from us No, I would ask the first date was I would just 610 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,840 be like horrifically, I want to fabulous. 611 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,280 I would just say I want to fuck you. 612 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:50,440 But as you've got to know, the vibe is right. 613 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,520 Yeah, but if you're making out hot and heavy. 614 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,680 If not wait until the end of the day, see wait for the kiss to 615 00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,360 happen, see how passionate the kiss is then be like do you want 616 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,960 to come back to mine or see if they offer you or. 617 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,520 Or do what you did where you went. 10 out of 10 would fuck in 618 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,480 my DM. Yeah, but that, no, that was 619 00:30:10,000 --> 00:30:12,920 not, that was good form, but I didn't actually mean at that 620 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,760 time I would just jump straight into bed with you. 621 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,760 It's just, it was just kind of like a euthanism. 622 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:21,160 That's a shame. Yeah, because we went on to talk 623 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:27,680 for a long time after that. Or you keep your vagina 624 00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:33,160 relatively dry, wait until date 2, and don't go in on the first 625 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,240 date for a shag, which I know no one's going to listen to. 626 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:37,520 Everyone's going. This is the thing with lesbians 627 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,240 that I really find hilarious versus straight people is that 628 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:46,000 straight people, 9 times out of 10, they'll either go home 629 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,520 together or they'll wait for a second or third date, right? 630 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,000 There's like a thing in like the straight world where it's like, 631 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,760 don't fuck on the first date, blah blah blah blah. 632 00:30:54,520 --> 00:31:00,200 Lesbians are either walking out on the date, never speaking 633 00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,640 them, getting through the first date and never speaking to them 634 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,640 again, or fucking on the first date. 635 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,200 There's no waiting. There's no chivalry. 636 00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:09,280 Also though. We're all out of control. 637 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,400 I men are dangerous, so I think that's why. 638 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,000 Well, statistically, yeah. Yeah, men are straight, women 639 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,120 are a. Lot more careful. 640 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,960 Men are women's natural predators, so if they're going 641 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,640 on a date, they're sharing their find friends with all their 642 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:25,920 friends. They've stalked them to the high 643 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:27,080 heavens. They're wondering whether 644 00:31:27,080 --> 00:31:29,360 they're a serial killer or a rapist. 645 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,600 So they probably won't want to shag on the first date for fear 646 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,360 of the men talking of men. I can't talk about this. 647 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,400 Yeah, you can. We're talking. 648 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,280 No, don't. Petition vile for anyone in 649 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:42,680 London with the resources money. And you know what? 650 00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:47,240 I don't care if you have never fucking set foot in a gym in 651 00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:50,640 your whole life, if you've got the cash, set up a women only a 652 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,760 non binary gym I. Please. 653 00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:55,760 I can't do this. I can't do it any longer. 654 00:31:55,920 --> 00:32:01,680 I've decided I hate and I know that rule. 655 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,720 Actually, I know that we're all about like equal rights and all 656 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:06,800 that stuff. I'm all about that. 657 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,320 Do you know what? Sometimes they want my equal 658 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,280 rights. Sometimes I want to be in my own 659 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,600 gym. The girlies are saying this on 660 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,880 TikTok now, thinking about Rishi drafting the women for war. 661 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:17,600 Because we've all fought. For put me back in the kitchen, 662 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,640 I don't care. Yeah, like everyone saying it, 663 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,480 there's some things. Do you know what? 664 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,320 I do want the best of both worlds and I don't want to share 665 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,880 a fucking gym with a man I'm. Sick periods so. 666 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:33,800 I'm sick to death of paying so my gyms been our gyms been 667 00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,000 pissing me off recently anyway because we we it's fucking 668 00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,080 expensive because where we live and there's literally no other 669 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,320 choice. Yeah, we pay £100 a month. 670 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,520 An extortionate amount of fucking money on a gym, which I 671 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,840 hate anyway. Walk into the gym yesterday, it 672 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:51,160 fucking stinks of Bo. And I'm sorry but women's Bo and 673 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:54,480 men's Bo is very fucking different and it was men's Bo. 674 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:59,520 The whole gym fucking stinks of Bo because men go in there, have 675 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:04,120 no fucking basic hygiene rules and therefore stink the place 676 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,920 out. They take over the whole 677 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,440 weightlifting section, which pisses me off because 678 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,720 controversially, although it shouldn't be controversial, I 679 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,320 don't want to go and fucking do some AB routine on a Pilates 680 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,760 mat. I want to sit on a bench with 681 00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,760 the weights, with my weights and they fucking take over the whole 682 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,200 weight section of the gym. There's never any women over 683 00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,840 there because they just fucking dominate, which pisses me off. 684 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,480 They love to stare as well, and they love to stare and also 685 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,880 they're just disgusting. They are lechy. 686 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:35,080 It's not all men in the gym. I shouldn't even have to say 687 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,280 this. Yes of course we know it's not 688 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:38,040 all fucking men but it is most of you. 689 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,120 It pisses me off and can anyone else relate? 690 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:42,760 Oh my God it's actually making me angry. 691 00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,680 You could be. So my gym routine I always go in 692 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,800 do like 20 minutes on a bike and then I I will go and do like 2 693 00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,240 muscle groups right? That's that's my gym routine. 694 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:56,760 That's what I like to do. Yesterday for example, there is 695 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:01,920 about 8 bikes in our gym and they were all free. 696 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,080 Literally every single fucking one. 697 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:09,760 And I go on to the very end bike because I was trying to get away 698 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,840 from the fucking Bo smell that that was elevating the whole of 699 00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,159 the gym. I couldn't escape it. 700 00:34:14,159 --> 00:34:15,800 So in the end, I just had to accept my fate. 701 00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,679 After three minutes maximum of sitting down, I look to my left. 702 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,719 There's a fucking old man next to me. 703 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,199 Why go next to me? And there's so many other bikes 704 00:34:25,199 --> 00:34:28,280 like. Why like I if if your sweaty 705 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,440 butt crack away from me just get the fuck. 706 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,639 Away from me. Also, why do you want to be next 707 00:34:32,639 --> 00:34:34,239 to another person if you don't have to be? 708 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,280 Like even if I walked into the gym and I saw a really fucking 709 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,639 hot girl on a bike, I still wouldn't sit still, wouldn't go 710 00:34:40,639 --> 00:34:42,280 next to her, no. No, because we're not. 711 00:34:42,679 --> 00:34:45,639 I'd still leave at least one bike in between if there was a 712 00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:49,320 whole row of three bikes because no matter how hot she is, I want 713 00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,400 to be on my in my own fucking space as much as possible. 714 00:34:52,679 --> 00:34:57,400 Not only that, The Dirty bastard after fucking insisting on 715 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,280 sitting next to me whilst I'm trying to work out. 716 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,440 I shit you not, girls, for the whole fucking 20 minutes I was 717 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,640 on this bike, was picking his nose to a point where I would 718 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,120 literally look at him and then he'd pretend that he was 719 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,960 scratching his face and then I'd look away and I could see him 720 00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,600 picking his nose out the corner of my eye. 721 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,800 And it's actually made me want to cancel my gym membership 722 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:19,800 because there is always someone. We go to it like a really nice 723 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,040 gym, a gym that like advertises themselves, like is like a good 724 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,840 gym. Fuck off. 725 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,400 There are always people. Literally. 726 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,440 Didn't a man like fucking snot gobble? 727 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,120 On the floor, Talk about. That I can't be talking about 728 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:37,080 that it's out of control. So petition for women only for a 729 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,120 women only non binary gym because I can't do this any 730 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,720 longer. I actually can't. 731 00:35:42,720 --> 00:35:43,880 First world problems. I can't. 732 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,720 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. And I don't blame you, you know, 733 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,920 I've realised that I'm so gay that I'm practically allergic to 734 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,560 men. The smell of men's Bo, it makes 735 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,880 my stomach turn. But you know how straight girls 736 00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:59,360 are like, oh, I love the smell. How also straight like or like 737 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:05,040 girls love the scent of like man smell, not even Bo but like man 738 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:06,800 smell when it's mixed with their Cologne. 739 00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:11,760 I hate, I hate. It does nothing for me. 740 00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:14,800 I did test it, I hate it so much. 741 00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:20,600 Like I wear a pretty masculine perfume, but I know I'd hate it 742 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,800 on a man. I'm also like allergic to semen 743 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,360 so that's another thing. That's so funny, the fact that 744 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,120 your vagina literally rejects semen. 745 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:30,000 My vagina was like, and I was like, I know, same. 746 00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,480 And she was looking at me, like up at me and like, you know what 747 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:38,000 I mean, Freya. The voices that you've like the 748 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:42,200 the sound effects you come out with on this podcast today, like 749 00:36:42,240 --> 00:36:44,320 I don't know what the fuck is going on. 750 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,160 Do you want to go into voice effects or something? 751 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,440 Yeah, you sound like. That I've started doing 752 00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:49,800 impressions of literally everyone. 753 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,080 So help me. I hate this. 754 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,680 Oh, me. But yeah, if any of you guys 755 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,800 want to know any of my voice effects that I've been up to 756 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,320 recently, just give me a call and I'll call you and I'll do a 757 00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:01,440 few down the phone for you and then I'll just hang up 758 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,600 awkwardly. What were you saying, Scarlett? 759 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,320 Is there any more on that list? We'll do one more. 760 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,200 But I think we've been so hectic today. 761 00:37:08,240 --> 00:37:11,360 What's wrong with us? I think obviously apologies in 762 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,360 advance. Don't you regress. 763 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,240 Yeah, don't give us a bad fucking review for today's 764 00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:18,400 podcast, please. Please. 765 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,280 I actually still feel like we've been fucking. 766 00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,160 Legendary. No, we're just ping ponging this 767 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,600 episode, OK? It's less structure than. 768 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:27,400 Usual. We're just unmedicated Queens, 769 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:31,840 OK? Well, I've been not taking my 770 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,600 citalopram out of nowhere for weeks now, I think. 771 00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,200 And you've started giving it to me again. 772 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:39,040 And I was thinking, I've think I've got through the hump of not 773 00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:40,480 being on it, so I wasn't going to take it. 774 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,160 But then I couldn't be bothered to have the discussion slash 775 00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,800 argument with you last. That's why my head's gone a 776 00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:46,920 little bit funny over there, because I'm back to taking it 777 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:48,440 again and I have gone a little bit. 778 00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,280 I'm pretty sure to our listeners, every single fucking 779 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,960 time we do this podcast, we say we've not been taking it, which 780 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,560 is what I mean about us. Like just giving up the fact of 781 00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:59,120 just not. Fucking just whatever. 782 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,600 Just we need our money. I'm just extending the parking 783 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,760 just to add to the chaos. Just to add to the chaos, 784 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,360 girlies. I've got to extend the parking 785 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:11,040 before we get another ticket. And every time I've got so much 786 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,440 trauma from us not paying our fucking parking fines because 787 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:14,960 we're so fucking hectic. We lose them. 788 00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,240 Forget that they even exist. I have literal PTSD now that 789 00:38:18,240 --> 00:38:21,280 every time our fucking doorbell goes early in the morning I 790 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,880 think it's the bailiff. I think it's the bailiff coming 791 00:38:26,720 --> 00:38:30,440 who have fucking towed our car because we are so irresponsible 792 00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:34,280 that a 35 LB fucking parking sign turns into 1000 lbs. 793 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,560 Which is why we can't afford to progress this podcast. 794 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:38,760 I. Fucking hate us. 795 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,920 Yeah, it's bad that we're both like it as well. 796 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,800 We needed one person in the relationship we've got like 797 00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:45,680 this. We've got to live now. 798 00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,000 Lives in the relationship. Thank you, Lev. 799 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:53,280 Love you, I love you, baby. And we've ran out of time today 800 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:56,080 for a Horror Story. So sorry. 801 00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,000 Joe what? This is a. 802 00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:58,680 Horrible story. We got to the Studio Lakes. 803 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:00,960 We're fucking our souls. We couldn't find the mikes 804 00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,080 because we're fucking ourselves. We didn't set out a structure 805 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,920 properly today because we're fucking ourselves. 806 00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:10,120 Yes, Freya's had chronic anxiety all day, which has thrown her 807 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,240 off. I've now tried to overcompensate 808 00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:14,120 because you've had chronic anxiety, which is throwing me. 809 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,000 Fine, darling, don't say you've been fine because you haven't 810 00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:18,800 been. Yes, silence is deafening. 811 00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,800 We love you and we'll see you next week and we'll come back 812 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:27,240 with more refined shit, but some of you love the really fucking. 813 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:31,000 Let this just kind of almost calm you down with how chaotic 814 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,040 is, yeah. And a lot of you are nurses that 815 00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:37,680 have to drive home after your long shifts, and I hope this 816 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:40,160 keeps you awake because we sound like we've do. 817 00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,600 You know, I've crapped it. What? 818 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,920 We had a fucking coffee on the way here, which we don't usually 819 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,120 do. Oh, that will do it. 820 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,200 That will do it. You should only have one coffee. 821 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:51,440 A. Day fucking spiked up blood 822 00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,680 sugar. Is that really shy girl and buns 823 00:39:53,720 --> 00:39:55,360 at home? She's just fucking spiking us 824 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,040 now. Probably with a bit better. 825 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,760 I think she hates. Me, and I don't blame her. 826 00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,200 Fair enough, right? We love you guys, love you, and 827 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,840 we'll speak to you next week. See you next week. 828 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,760 Bye bye right now, the V is fire.