1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,920 Get the fuck up, I can let me like. 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:05,360 No, I just. Didn't fucking song. 3 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:06,240 Do you know what? I hate it. 4 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:06,880 I. I. 5 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,160 Hate it? When that happens, I just don't 6 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,920 understand the You're having like crack about something and 7 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,160 then someone doesn't get on your level and then you just sat 8 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,320 there looking like a twat, said Jess wouldn't do that to me. 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:34,120 Hi lesbians, it's another week. It's a sunny week, it's a 10 00:00:34,120 --> 00:00:36,640 glorious week, It's a fucking fantastic day. 11 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,600 This is Freya speaking and I'm sat here with manager live. 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:41,000 Hello. Hello. 13 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,280 Suddenly everything has changed because it's sunny. 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,760 Everyone's happier and it's bloody brilliant. 15 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:51,280 Yeah, I definitely did cry in the sun in public for three 16 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:54,720 hours yesterday morning. However, not every day and not. 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,080 Today, you know what a wins a win. 18 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:57,320 A win is a win. At least it was sunny. 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:00:59,040 It could have been raining. Exactly. 20 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,400 Although sometimes you always want it to rain when you're sad 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:03,800 because you're like you kind of you. 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,880 Want to lean into? It lean into it you and it hides 23 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,720 the tears a little bit better It's kind of more obvious when 24 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:09,880 you're crying in public in the sun. 25 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:13,480 You know it's it's not the best look, but you know, we moved we 26 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:16,080 all sat here with a gin and a tin we got. 27 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:20,200 There are so many updates look guys, there's the obvious update 28 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:22,240 which I know all of you want to know about. 29 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:26,160 However, I'm not discussing it on this episode. 30 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:30,640 But there will be 1 coming which will have a bit more of an 31 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,520 emphasis on what's going on. But right now I. 32 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:35,720 Think you just need some breathing? 33 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,800 I need some breathing space and I'm not talking about it today. 34 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:42,960 So that's why I just wanted to talk absolute shit with Olivia. 35 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:45,600 I've got a topic that I want to talk about, but like first I 36 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,840 want to speak about the the updates. 37 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,720 Like I feel like a lot has happened in gay news. 38 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,120 Recently got Lady Gaga's new album. 39 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,680 Yes, which I still feel like I need to watch it, watch it, 40 00:01:56,680 --> 00:02:01,280 listen to it properly, because I did half asked this morning. 41 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,680 I half asked it with you and on. I half asked it with Jess as 42 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,440 well and it's still just, I don't know, I. 43 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,919 Feel like what we should do is when we when we're done with 44 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,960 this recording, we should plug it into the speakers and give a 45 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,640 good old listen to a couple of them. 46 00:02:14,640 --> 00:02:17,000 Because I feel like maybe listening to it from the iPhone 47 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:18,920 is a bit anticlimactic, you know, but. 48 00:02:18,920 --> 00:02:21,440 We were just saying them. We were expecting from 49 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:26,000 Abracadabra and disease, we were expecting some full gay hype pop 50 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:29,280 and it's not really giving that, sadly, but you know. 51 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,640 A saying, Jess just just described it as 80s pop. 52 00:02:32,640 --> 00:02:36,480 So I feel like we need to go in with that in mind, you know? 53 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:41,160 80s pop look, 80s pop can be cunt, but come on. 54 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,360 I just say that I don't know I need to. 55 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:48,760 Fuck you, gay man. That is the worst thing you 56 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,320 could have ever said to me. You are twink you. 57 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,120 Are acting like a twink at the minute you. 58 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,560 Are sure what is really. Bothering me as well as how 59 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:57,320 short everyone keeps saying that I am a. 60 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:58,960 Short twink. Short twink. 61 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,720 No, it's fucking me off now because I genuinely, I'm not 62 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:06,200 short, but it just so happens to be just the reason. 63 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:08,280 I'm short so for God's sake, but. 64 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:11,320 Just a lanky fuck. Like what you need to understand 65 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:16,040 is, is that everyone around me is just freakishly tall. 66 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:16,840 That's the. Difference. 67 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,080 They're not. And can I just say when I meet 68 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:22,160 you guys at the events, you will say how tall I am going into 69 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,880 that the events can people? Stop giving Freya a complex 70 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:26,920 please. No, everyone's giving me a 71 00:03:26,920 --> 00:03:28,800 complex by calling me short when I'm not short. 72 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,520 I've got height dysmorphia average. 73 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,000 I'm actually above up. Hold on. 74 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:36,000 If you try and say you're 5-6 and a half, I'm honestly going 75 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,880 to kill you because you're not. I'm 5-6 and a fucking half 76 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:42,920 bitch. OK, What is the average height 77 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,120 of a 30 year old woman in the UK? 78 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:48,800 31. Shut up. 79 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,600 Five foot 3 inches. So suck on that bitch. 80 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,440 Why is Jess gasping? Jess is shit. 81 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,360 Absolute 53. We'll have a bunch of pushkins 82 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,720 walking around here. That is not actually an 83 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:03,240 accurate. But they're all in like Somerset 84 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,560 and Cornwall in Wales. They're not in London. 85 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:09,800 I feel like that's wrong. Munchkins running around London. 86 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,040 No, I'm sorry. But you just don't see them 87 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:14,520 because you're so fucking tall. Yeah, true. 88 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,079 Just not let them all down. Look, I'm not being funny. 89 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,640 You're not short, but you're not tall. 90 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,240 What I what I lack in height, I make up for in personality, I 91 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,040 think. I think they've got a very tall 92 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:27,120 personality. Telling. 93 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:30,560 Yourself that fucking hell, man. Kick a dog when it's down. 94 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,400 You know what I mean, Joe? What? 95 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:33,800 Is there not a small Dick Energy? 96 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:36,440 Yeah, small men's energy. Well, me or her. 97 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,120 No, me, yeah, I'm giving Chihuahua that will like bite 98 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:40,760 your ankles kind of vibe right now, but. 99 00:04:40,840 --> 00:04:42,560 That that's the only place you can reach because you're that 100 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:43,800 short. Oh, good one. 101 00:04:44,840 --> 00:04:47,440 Yeah. So going into the events, we had 102 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,800 one recently at the Garden Bar that was so much fun. 103 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:52,920 Feral as always. We haven't even discussed wine. 104 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,880 Night wine night. OK, so let's go from wine night 105 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:56,840 first. So wine night we had a few weeks 106 00:04:56,840 --> 00:04:59,360 ago, I think when was it that we I don't know it doesn't matter 107 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,880 just over 2 weeks ago and no it's more than that now like 108 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,280 over three like almost a month. It is a fever dream because it 109 00:05:05,280 --> 00:05:07,800 was actually. A lot has happened, so a lot 110 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,400 starting off with wine. Wine night. 111 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:11,720 Wine night. So we had wine night at least as 112 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:15,840 Italian on Portobello Rd. and it was so nice because it was an 113 00:05:15,840 --> 00:05:17,880 older crowd. I mean, not to say like the 114 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,240 crowd is so eclectic at the bar anyway, like at the pub nights, 115 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,560 but it was more of an older crowd and women that wanted to 116 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,680 have more of like a sophisticated, maybe like bit 117 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,320 more chill night. And by the way, if you don't 118 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,480 drink wine, that's not a problem. 119 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,360 It's just called wine night. But everyone was just having 120 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,440 such a good time on great form. It was the first one that we've 121 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:38,880 done. It was so fun. 122 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,320 It was a lot of fun and definitely think that we should 123 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:46,400 get a DJ like coming up for like the next one there just to have 124 00:05:46,400 --> 00:05:49,880 a bit of like a vibe, you know? It was such I can't wait for the 125 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,760 next one. My highlight of wine night 126 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:56,520 probably was Doctor Emily Wu. Let me give her a shout out 127 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:57,120 here. I love you. 128 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,120 What was Doctor Emily Wu? She was running. 129 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,200 Around running around with her cheeky grin as. 130 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:02,360 Always. Yeah. 131 00:06:02,360 --> 00:06:04,480 Well, I love it. I absolutely love her. 132 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:06,400 She is. There's incredibly on him. 133 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,000 There's nothing more that fills me with joy when I'm on that 134 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,760 door and I just see Doctor Emily Wu's eyes and just her big grin 135 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,920 coming over to me. I thought. 136 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,800 Now the party started. Now the party is going honey. 137 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:20,640 Yeah, no, she is fantastic. To be honest, all of you are 138 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,400 fantastic. Like I have the best time 139 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,440 because I literally pinch myself every time. 140 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,160 I'm literally, I'm stood there speaking to amazing women who 141 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,080 are so inspiring, like have so many great stories. 142 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,360 And to be in the position to be able to hold that space for you 143 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:39,240 guys as the best thing ever. And I'm so glad that we started 144 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:40,640 doing this. So we also have, like, 145 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,000 personalized matches for the wine nights as well, which says 146 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,680 lesbian supper club on one side and then flick me on the other. 147 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:48,320 Then we had our coasters. It was like, get wet. 148 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,360 Was it get me wet? Yeah, get wet. 149 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,920 Were very fun and we had lovely gift bags from injectual. 150 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,800 We did. So Injectual have done us an 151 00:06:55,840 --> 00:06:58,920 absolute solid. They love the lesbians and they 152 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,960 love keeping the lesbians moist and that's what I like. 153 00:07:02,280 --> 00:07:07,720 We had like a bag full of creams, lace, cleaning oil. 154 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:11,920 And also anyone who has the tote bag, remember there's £100 off 155 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,960 voucher of your first treatment. Yeah, which is so worth it. 156 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,160 Which is so worth it because I saw a video of myself last year 157 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:24,080 in like the same situation. I was like stood in my kitchen 158 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:25,760 miming along to some song like an idiot. 159 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,880 And I did the exact same thing a year later, and I didn't realize 160 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,560 how much my face had changed. And it's all thanks to 161 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,120 injectual. And then when someone asked me 162 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,120 what have you had done? And I'm like, oh, not a lot. 163 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,400 And then I go to list it and I'm like, oh, I have actually this. 164 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:41,880 Was so funny you did that. Yes. 165 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:42,280 Was it? Yeah. 166 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,440 Still the day before she was listing everything. 167 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,560 And then she's like, oh fuck, I've actually had a lot of work 168 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:48,200 done, but you know, it's not. Fuck it. 169 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,640 The thing is, I've only had filler in a couple of places. 170 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,400 A lot of it is just Botox, but it's incredible how the Botox 171 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:57,600 actually changes the structure of your face and can really help 172 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,920 push out different details and accentuate different details. 173 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,320 So like my cheekbones are bigger even though I have had a bit of 174 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:07,240 filler in them. You've had your BBL. 175 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:09,440 I've had my Can you imagine? I need a BBL. 176 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,400 Get me a Brazilian butt lift ASAP. 177 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,360 I've literally got the flattest ass I've ever seen. 178 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,280 It's so bad. It is terribly flat and Jess is 179 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:18,360 nodding her head in disapproval and approval. 180 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:23,160 It's a love hate relationship. She loves me, I hate her. 181 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,720 And I hate you both. And you hate us both. 182 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:27,400 Very nice. Yeah. 183 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:28,520 Yeah. So we had that. 184 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:29,640 That was great. And thank you so much for 185 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,640 injectual again, because you are sorting out my life and my 186 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:35,600 sanity. And with all of the absolute 187 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,840 despair that I go through, getting my face frozen in the 188 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:41,120 middle of it is potentially the best gift that I could ever get. 189 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:44,560 So yeah. So we did that and then we went 190 00:08:44,560 --> 00:08:47,200 to Ibiza literally 2 days later, Yes. 191 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,200 Which myself, you and Jess. Yeah. 192 00:08:50,200 --> 00:08:53,680 So it was a friend of mine who has this gorgeous, gorgeous 193 00:08:53,680 --> 00:08:55,760 villa in Ibiza. And she was so beautiful enough 194 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,160 to let us stay there, which, honestly, I can't thank her 195 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:00,240 enough. No, it was like it was soaked. 196 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,080 It was so nice. So very grateful. 197 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,080 Yeah. So that was so nice. 198 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,720 And it was so needed. It was away. 199 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,400 Yeah, Yeah. Like I haven't been away from 200 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:12,000 London since May last year and with all of like the most 201 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,680 chaotic year ever. And then I was like, I need, I 202 00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:16,840 just need to go. I just need to. 203 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,480 Think it was just good to get out of London and just escape 204 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,920 the madness and just have a week of. 205 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:24,160 Downtime. Yeah, I had my dyke dream. 206 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,600 Where the Ford Bronco, which fuck me I need one now. 207 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,560 Well. I think for the listeners, you 208 00:09:29,560 --> 00:09:31,400 probably know the fear that I endured in the. 209 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,800 Bronco, you were fine. Everyone remembers last year 210 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,880 problem in the Jeep in Greece. Yeah, yeah. 211 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:39,960 However, yeah. So I did. 212 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:42,760 A stress. I was under stress this this 213 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:45,160 time. I mean, I booked a Jeep Wrangler 214 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,400 and I thought I was going to get a Jeep Wrangler, which obviously 215 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,240 is like half the size of a Ford Bronco. 216 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:50,600 Then they're like, we don't have it. 217 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,680 We have a Ford Bronco and I have a look at this car and I go 218 00:09:52,680 --> 00:09:56,280 fuck. No, look, you weren't bad. 219 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:01,080 I'm not saying you were bad. However, because you tend to 220 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:05,120 drive a bit fast, sometimes you get a bit excited and the roads 221 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:08,400 are very windy, so sometimes when we were approaching a bend 222 00:10:08,680 --> 00:10:10,360 I didn't think you were going to slow down. 223 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:12,920 Well, maybe I wasn't going to, because you know what? 224 00:10:12,920 --> 00:10:14,960 On quite a few occasions I wanted to drive that car for 225 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,720 fucking Cliff and take you both with me to. 226 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:20,480 That's not fair on Jess and I. No, I mean, yeah, you know what? 227 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,640 I think Jess was asking for it, honestly, but it was, no, it was 228 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,480 amazing. It did have lane assist, thank 229 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:28,800 that. Yeah. 230 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:31,600 And it had like a satellite view when you were rehearsed 231 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,080 reversed. So that was good. 232 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,160 But just being there, and it's actually a very spiritual 233 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,920 island. A friend of mine, a good friend 234 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:41,080 of mine, Florence, if you haven't already checked it out, 235 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:44,000 actually, I was on Florence's radio show when I was out there 236 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,640 because the hustle never stops. And I really wanted to go on it. 237 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:49,200 And it was so fun to do that with her and let somebody else 238 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:51,360 be in the driver's seat of a recording. 239 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:55,400 And she is so fantastic, like the nicest, nicest woman. 240 00:10:55,760 --> 00:10:59,840 And she kind of took us under her wing when we got there, 241 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,840 showed us around the island, took us on a hike up to. 242 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,680 Hike I forgot. And we set our intentions up 243 00:11:06,680 --> 00:11:11,960 there over sunset because it's a very spiritual island and, and 244 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:17,360 is like a limestone rock where a lot of mystical happenings 245 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:20,440 happen there. And so it was really nice to do 246 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,960 that. Like I felt even though I I did 247 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,480 do a lot of crying on that holiday, like towards the end, I 248 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:27,120 felt like I needed to do that, Yeah. 249 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:29,160 I still wish I threw my phone off the Cliff. 250 00:11:29,560 --> 00:11:31,840 I mean, I wish I did too. I really think I should have 251 00:11:31,840 --> 00:11:34,360 just done that, but hey ho yeah, here we are. 252 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:39,440 Yeah, but but it was really good and I just, I needed that and I 253 00:11:39,440 --> 00:11:41,840 need to get away again. I felt like because then when I 254 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:45,400 got back, everything got really hectic and I was like, oh shit, 255 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,280 get me back on that. Fly itch. 256 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,880 But I mean, I'm going away next Thursday. 257 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:53,440 OK, nice to Berlin, right? Yeah, Berlin, Berlin, Berlin, 258 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,320 baby. But I didn't go back home. 259 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:57,600 No. Have you met me? 260 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:00,040 I have, but I felt like Jess might persuade. 261 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,320 You. No, Jess wants to go somewhere 262 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:03,680 called Kit. Kat lesbians, if any of you have 263 00:12:03,680 --> 00:12:08,040 been to Kit Kat, please DM us with your stories because this 264 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,560 place intrigues me so much. It is. 265 00:12:10,560 --> 00:12:13,800 Is this the place with the pool? Yes, I'm terrified Pool. 266 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,760 I feel like Fred, you need to like look this. 267 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:17,160 Up Fred, people fuck in the pool. 268 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,840 I really want to go, I just want to see inside, have a little. 269 00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:22,040 Let me know if you have any stories please, I'm desperate to 270 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:24,280 know. Look, I'm not one to kink shame, 271 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:29,000 but a pool fuck is no for me. Also a like a. 272 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,120 Communal. No, that's what I mean. 273 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:34,160 I don't mind a singular pool fuck, but a communal fuck? 274 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:37,680 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, exactly. 275 00:12:37,680 --> 00:12:39,520 And then you're going to fuck in the piss pool. 276 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,280 No, I'm sorry babe, that's a bit ranked. 277 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:42,680 You shouldn't be doing that, I'm sorry. 278 00:12:42,680 --> 00:12:46,400 No, that's you're asking for it. You're asking for it, but. 279 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,160 What's just pushed me in the pool? 280 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:51,800 You are asking for thrush without you a bit of chlorine, 281 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,920 you know, not fun. Although I feel like sea sex is 282 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,480 way more fun. You can't be getting seawater up 283 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,320 there. Oh, why not? 284 00:13:00,480 --> 00:13:03,520 Yeah, go on, give it a try. Get why don't you do the Thames 285 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:07,120 River Water put that. Oh my God, Can you imagine a bit 286 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,520 of vials disease? You'll get like. 287 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,520 How did she die? She got she got shagged in 288 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,640 Thames. In Thames. 289 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:19,040 In Thames, yeah. And then after that we then had 290 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,040 the pub night and the pub night was really, really fun it. 291 00:13:22,680 --> 00:13:24,880 Was so much fun. The pub nights are getting 292 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:28,160 better and better. They sell out in they're so 293 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,840 silly instantly. It's so much fun. 500 women. 294 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:33,600 The best. I just remembered one point in 295 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:36,000 the night, our friend Olivia came running over to me. 296 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,600 She was like Olivia. Olivia's like, what? 297 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,840 She's like Freya needs Jess. And I was like, why? 298 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:42,040 She's like, I don't know. So I was like, Jess. 299 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,360 I was like, you're needed inside. 300 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,640 Oh my God. Purely just because you were 301 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,240 dancing on the table. No, it wasn't. 302 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,600 I was like fuck, because I didn't. 303 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,440 So basically Jess's phone was on the arts chord for the music and 304 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:56,040 everyone decided at this point to get up onto the tables and 305 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,480 the least vibeious songs were coming on and I didn't have your 306 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:04,160 passcode to unlock your phone. So I was going Elyria get Jess 307 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:05,720 and I was like still on the table. 308 00:14:05,720 --> 00:14:07,560 I queued up some bangers to be fair. 309 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:11,040 I I just love now how just one person will get up on the table 310 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,880 and it's. Could you say I'm always 311 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,720 outside? I don't know some what is the 312 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,000 deciding point when the tables happen. 313 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,680 Do you know what I think? It's just, it's a vibe. 314 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:22,480 If someone's there, they see the first person getting on the 315 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:23,760 table. Can you let us know how it 316 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:25,680 escalates because I'm very confused. 317 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:27,840 I genuinely think it's like magic, like I feel like 318 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:30,960 something some an ancestor whispers into someone's ear and 319 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:35,520 goes get up. It's time, it's time. 320 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,760 And I love getting on the table too. 321 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,080 I mean, some organizer, I'm fucking up there. 322 00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:42,600 Got to get involved. I get people like tease me to 323 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,400 get up and I'm like, no, because the last time I got up and the 324 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,600 table's really slippery because people take their drinks up and 325 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,960 then obviously dancing, they spill their. 326 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,280 Drinks I know it's the lawsuit waiting to happen. 327 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,160 Honestly, no one come for me. No, they can see the garden bar 328 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:55,680 but not. No, they can't. 329 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,040 It's just you take your own risk. 330 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,680 Okay, yeah, if you're getting up there. 331 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,280 Maybe I should make everyone sign waivers when they come into 332 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,840 the garden bar. I mean, nothings happened yet. 333 00:15:03,840 --> 00:15:06,440 Fingers crossed. Knock on wood, but the girls 334 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,840 know how to dance. Yeah, and we've got Wine Night 335 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,440 coming up on the 20th, which is sold out, and then the Garden 336 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:14,360 Bar event on the 28th which is also sold. 337 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,040 Out God, it's all happening. But April events will be coming 338 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:19,080 out soon. And April's gonna be so good 339 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,880 with the Garden Bar, too, because of how, like, the space 340 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:24,080 will be so much bigger outside. Yeah, because it's kind of 341 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,440 closed off. They'll get rid of the monkey, 342 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,200 Yeah, and it's gonna be. Big It's gonna be a big old 343 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:30,920 lesbian. And they have the second bar 344 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:32,120 outside as well, which is gonna be so. 345 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Far, yeah, lesbian cook up. It's just you. 346 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:37,400 Doing the BBQ. Yeah, I'm just there like apron 347 00:15:37,400 --> 00:15:38,280 on. Nothing else. 348 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:41,960 Just an apron. Wow, why are you saying? 349 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,160 Oh you little fucking bitch. First you call me short. 350 00:15:44,800 --> 00:15:46,800 Oh, Australian tour. First you why she look like 351 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,520 Edward Scissorhands. First you call me short and then 352 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:51,960 you you at me at wearing an apron with nothing else on. 353 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,160 Do you want me to have below 0 confidence? 354 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:56,880 Because I'm already there. What are you? 355 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,080 On about. Me. 356 00:15:59,440 --> 00:15:59,840 God. Joe. 357 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:01,360 What? I'm sensitive. 358 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,520 There's. Absolutely not enough time in 359 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:07,440 the day for me to answer that question honestly. 360 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:09,960 Make time. I sit there. 361 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:11,360 Maybe I've got a humiliation king. 362 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:13,920 I can't tell me you hate me. What does it do? 363 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:16,560 I do not. I have the opposite of that. 364 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:18,920 Like nothing will turn me on less than if someone humiliates 365 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:19,880 me. Same. 366 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:22,240 I get so embarrassed, I get so shy. 367 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:26,080 No, I'm just like, why do you want to fuck me then if they're 368 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,560 like, you're not shocking humiliation, king. 369 00:16:28,560 --> 00:16:31,040 Oh, I thought we'd just take. Us no, you know when someone's 370 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,720 like you're disgusting, you're this, you're that and it like 371 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:37,480 turns them on. Nah, Nah, I'm like, OK, you 372 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,840 think I'm disgusting. I'm going to leave now. 373 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:42,320 I'm out of here. I'm out of here if I don't know 374 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:43,560 what the fuck is coming out of my mouth today. 375 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:47,040 So that all happened. Brianna chicken fry. 376 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,960 I want to talk about this. So Brianna chicken fry was in. 377 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:52,960 If you don't already know, she was in the plan Bri podcast with 378 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,160 Grace Armani. Grace Armani, who I stand. 379 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,360 I love her so much too. Fucking love. 380 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,280 Her So Brianna was in Notting Hill the other day and I want to 381 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,720 just take a moment. What? 382 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,839 I was most annoyed. I'm annoyed, everything. 383 00:17:05,839 --> 00:17:09,520 No, my most particular grievance with this is that she made a 384 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:13,920 TikTok in the cut that I usually stand in with Ziggy. 385 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:16,640 Yeah, whilst you're in Tesco. I know it's and she was. 386 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:19,119 There, do you know what? And if Ziggy was here, I reckon 387 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,000 we would have seen her. Yeah, she loves dogs too, so 388 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:23,960 that and watch. This space, because I, Brianna, 389 00:17:23,960 --> 00:17:25,720 if you're listening to this, I really want her on. 390 00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:29,080 I want her on so badly because now we've got a few headlines 391 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,200 rolling around which I'm intrigued by calling her a 392 00:17:31,200 --> 00:17:33,680 lesbian. So she, I think she made a 393 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:36,800 statement saying like, maybe I'm a lesbian, that's why I can't 394 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,400 keep a relationship down with the guy. 395 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,080 Was that? And. 396 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:40,800 Now they're like. So it was along the line. 397 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:44,160 Farrell for Brianna, I don't know what her stance is on 398 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:46,520 sexuality. I have no idea. 399 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:50,160 I mean, I hope she is. I mean, the more the merrier. 400 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:51,880 I just want to go on a night out with her. 401 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:53,920 I definitely do. I don't think I'd survive though 402 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,160 in all honesty. You wouldn't. 403 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:57,680 I don't think you would. No, because I'd do anything that 404 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,840 she wanted me to do as well. Like I would just go to town. 405 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:01,560 Like, I don't know. You wouldn't sleep. 406 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,760 No sleep club, Another club. Yeah, I think she's. 407 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:10,320 Yeah, I'm I'm intrigued to see what will come from this. 408 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:14,040 Apparently loads of the lesbian lesbians in New York have been 409 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,600 sliding into her DM so. Hilarious. 410 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:18,360 I love that and talk about New York. 411 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,320 Gabby Windy and Robbie Hoffman just got married. 412 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:23,680 Yes, I saw that. I haven't seen too much. 413 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,720 Of Cosmo have been like all over it. 414 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,960 This marriage looks so cool because I love how low key it 415 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:30,560 is. The photos are insane. 416 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:33,040 Obviously Max Goswell, who we know was there. 417 00:18:33,360 --> 00:18:35,680 Oh yeah. And I think he was covering the 418 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,000 wedding. I fucking love that. 419 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,280 So there's like a photo of them just like smoking outside the 420 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,440 Chapel. Like how are you? 421 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,200 But she is Gabby. If you girls don't know about 422 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,400 Gabby yet, you need to check her out. 423 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,160 She is so funny and she was actually on, I think she was on 424 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,680 The Bachelorette, wasn't she? Oh, I. 425 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,640 But like date man and then has like come out as gay. 426 00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:56,360 Like how you looking at Jess? Like do you know? 427 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,320 No, she's cool. She's cool. 428 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,440 She's so funny. She's so funny. 429 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:04,440 She's like, if you were to take a young Jennifer Coolidge, mix 430 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:07,160 it with Moira from Ships Creek, that's her. 431 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,600 She is really, really funny, loves her wife so much. 432 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,720 She has so she says the most beautiful things about her and I 433 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,520 absolutely love that. So I'm super glad that they just 434 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:18,920 got married. I think they just kind of got 435 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:20,920 hitched kind of vibe. I love that. 436 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:22,840 I love that vibe of just getting hit. 437 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,520 Just getting hitched, Yeah, fuck it up. 438 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:26,800 Doesn't need to be a whole Hoo ha. 439 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,120 It doesn't. And The thing is like marriage 440 00:19:29,120 --> 00:19:30,960 can look different on so many different people. 441 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,360 Some people might want the legal part and no party. 442 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,120 Some people might want the party and no legal part. 443 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,720 Some people want both. Like I think that it's we're in, 444 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,520 we're in a very good century now guys. 445 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,160 So we can just decide whatever the fuck we want to. 446 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,920 Do and what you do. What you want, That is the 447 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,080 motto. Do what you want. 448 00:19:47,280 --> 00:19:50,080 Do what makes you happy. Talking about that, Trump. 449 00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:51,840 Literally what I was about to say. 450 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,440 Let's talk about that orange prick. 451 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,160 I don't have a word for him anymore. 452 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,520 Jess and I were watching some tik toks last night and he was 453 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:02,560 coming up but I was literally like I am horrified. 454 00:20:02,600 --> 00:20:06,320 And what makes it worse is when he's saying all these comments. 455 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,720 It's all the people in Congress around him standing up and 456 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:11,600 clapping. I'm like, what is wrong with all 457 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,800 of you? Because he's building a 458 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,040 dictatorship. Because he has fired anyone with 459 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,320 opposing views to him in his cabinet, which should be 460 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:19,920 illegal. I'm surprised it's not. 461 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:24,280 It's terrifying. So it shows he's going so far. 462 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:29,160 North Korea vibe that I genuinely think he's quite 463 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,000 literally like Putin's number one fan. 464 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,920 I believe. I think like I saw this meeting 465 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,200 the other day where it was like a photo of Trump and it was like 466 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,000 employee of the month to Putin. Like it is so awful what he did 467 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,120 to Zelensky. He did it on purpose. 468 00:20:41,120 --> 00:20:42,480 He did a. That was off riot. 469 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,280 He. Humiliated him, he bullied him. 470 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,080 He's a fucking prick. And is that stupid vice 471 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,200 president as well, this stupid round penny looking? 472 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:53,680 Oh my God. Looks like he, they, they all 473 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:55,640 are the ugliest men I've ever seen in my life. 474 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:57,880 I've seen Twitter rinsing the vice president though. 475 00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:00,520 Like making memes with him. Like, really, really fat. 476 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,400 Mum said that three had to play. Yeah, literally. 477 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,960 And you look at him and you're like, wow, someone dropped you 478 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,920 on your fucking head and then it's just ran you over and then 479 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:10,720 picked you up and you're like 2D like. 480 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,480 I feel like as much as everyone's laughing about it, I 481 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:14,600 mean like, this is fucking ridiculous. 482 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,800 Ridiculous. It's actually so sad that this 483 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:19,680 is reality. Well, this is a tactic, right? 484 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,280 So this is a political tactic. And what they do is that they 485 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:27,120 make it so ridiculous. So a bit like the Trump Gaza AI 486 00:21:27,120 --> 00:21:30,280 video, right? They make it so far out there, 487 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:34,360 so ridiculous that people don't take it seriously. 488 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,720 Yeah, which is exactly what's happening. 489 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:40,320 Yeah, it's all real. He has ethnically cleansed, but 490 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,560 not him alone. But the US have ethnically 491 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,320 cleansed Palestine. Yeah. 492 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:49,040 And now he's saying they won't want to come back here where we, 493 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:52,000 you know, why would they want to come back to a place where they 494 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,160 had suffering and they had nothing? 495 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:55,640 We're going to create this fucking. 496 00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,520 Sorry, that voice. Yeah, that's his fucking voice, 497 00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,560 that he's saying that they now want to develop it, which was, 498 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:05,280 by the way, there were plans which everyone called me a 499 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:09,280 fucking conspiracy theorist for years ago when this all started, 500 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,040 there were plans of a development on the Gaza Strip. 501 00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:13,960 And this is exactly what they're going to do. 502 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,560 They want to get rid of all of the Palestinians out of. 503 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:19,760 I had a debate with a man in a pub the other day about 504 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:21,960 Palestine. I'm just sick to death of it. 505 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:26,160 And it's about time that people started to have a bit of 506 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,880 humility, have compassion, have empathy and a bit of 507 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,400 intelligence. And I'm so done with it. 508 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,640 Like, Joe, what made me laugh though, Like on the in the video 509 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:39,920 of the Trump Gaza thing, the Trump supporters were going in 510 00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,560 being like, hey, hey, I love Trump, but I didn't vote for 511 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:43,840 this. You voted for it of. 512 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,600 Course you did. You voted for this. 513 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,800 You. Absolute imbecile, but do you 514 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,040 know what? I'm almost, I don't want him to 515 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:52,520 do anything bad, but I'm always glad that he is To all those 516 00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,680 Trump supporters that were in my DMS on my comments and I was 517 00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,600 like, just wait and see. So kind of told you so you know. 518 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:00,960 Very scary. Time. 519 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:03,080 I feel sorry for the Americans right now. 520 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:06,080 It is going from bad to worse. And what I was going to say 521 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,720 earlier, I think he's gone so bad it makes me think that the 522 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,960 world is genuinely going to end soon and he knows it and they've 523 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,600 got somewhere to go. Really. 524 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,320 Like honestly almost like a last hurrah, fuck it all up. 525 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,160 Not going to have a fucking care in the world. 526 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:25,040 No consequences because him and Musk crew are going in SpaceX. 527 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,280 It's like, don't look up. Like I genuinely at this point, 528 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,840 it's that bad. I'm like, you're so brazen with 529 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,080 how ridiculous you're being with everything. 530 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,160 Then it makes me think that you. Oh. 531 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,320 God, I'm not ready for it to all end. 532 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,240 I've got things to do. But you know what? 533 00:23:39,240 --> 00:23:41,520 It's the best way to go if everything ends in Mongo. 534 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,760 No I, no I. There's no missing anyone, it's 535 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,600 just. No, I agree. 536 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,840 I'm not saying. That's what I think. 537 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:48,600 So I think it's. Easy. 538 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,080 It's all going. Bam, gone. 539 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:51,200 Just. Don't and I'm like 9 I'm. 540 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,760 Just saying I'm not ready yet because I need I need a bit more 541 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,760 time. Like you're not ready yet, but 542 00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:57,880 like there's nothing left like. There's not. 543 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,240 Yeah, we're talking about there's nothing left then. 544 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:01,200 Yeah, fine. Dead. 545 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,400 You won't know. But life's pretty good, you 546 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,520 know? Yeah, I I appreciate that. 547 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,720 But there is going to be something else, a parallel 548 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,320 universe that we'll all go into and. 549 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:11,320 Fair. I mean, we'll all be in hell, so 550 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:12,240 we'll just. I just see you there. 551 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:13,760 What? I was saying the other day, if 552 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,960 heaven in hell is real, I don't want to go to heaven like no one 553 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,320 I like is going to we've. Discussed this so many times. 554 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,760 We are all going to hell, and that's fine because all of my 555 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,440 best friends are going to be. There, Charlie, that's going to 556 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,440 be there. Yeah. 557 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,000 All my best friends, Michael Jackson, OH. 558 00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:30,040 God, no comment. No, no. 559 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,360 Who is going to be there? Like all the greats? 560 00:24:33,120 --> 00:24:35,880 Like Betty White. Betty White? 561 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:37,720 I'll find her there. Dolly Parton. 562 00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,160 Kardashians will be there. The Kardashians will have a 563 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:41,560 great time. Yeah, honestly. 564 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,560 And I'll be in heaven, what with fucking Anne Frank and Greta 565 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,640 Thunberg. Hayley Bieber. 566 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:50,400 I like Hayley Bieber. But she's very religious, so 567 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:51,600 she's definitely. Going and I'll just. 568 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,120 Be sat there like, So what? We're gonna Frank. 569 00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:58,000 Frank. Rosa Parks will be up there. 570 00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:02,840 To be fair, not saying that they wouldn't be good conversation 571 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:04,320 list, but I don't think it'd be very fun. 572 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,360 Do you know what I mean? Like where's the fun in? 573 00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:09,080 That. Frank, I don't know where that 574 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,840 came from. I'm sorry guys. 575 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:13,720 I do not have Frank. I read a book. 576 00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,200 Who else would be in heaven that'd be a bit rogue to talk to 577 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:21,360 Mother Teresa? Yeah, she'd be kind of cool. 578 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,360 Morgan. Freeman. 579 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,400 Morgan, you can't have heaven without Morgan Freeman because I 580 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:34,520 feel like he's going God, if I get to heaven, Morgan Freeman 581 00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:35,840 isn't there to go. Hello. 582 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:41,000 He's standing at the gates. I'm like, I made it, OK, Yeah, 583 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:43,520 no, let's be real, none of us have actually done anything to 584 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,760 go to hell if that's the case, you know? 585 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,000 No, but if I go enough, what the bloody Bible says, off we go. 586 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,440 No, because the Bible, remember the interpretation of it is what 587 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,080 people use to suit their own narrative. 588 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,080 It's not real. God loves the gays. 589 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:59,560 Anyway, moving on from this, my topic of today that I wanted to 590 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,160 talk about. I've had a few discussions and 591 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,480 this has been throughout the course of my life really, But 592 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,400 actually more recently at the Y night, I was discussing this 593 00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,000 with a really, really lovely girl. 594 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,440 And it brought me back to these conversations that I would have 595 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,960 when I was younger and like younger gay people when I was in 596 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,000 that crowd before people were out. 597 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:23,880 And it's the sentiment of this. I want to come out to my 598 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:27,800 parents, but I want to wait until I'm in a relationship 599 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,320 first to do so. OK, let's discuss. 600 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,920 I Yeah, OK, So I find this really interesting because when 601 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:41,040 I came out, I was 17 and it was when I was in a relationship. 602 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,560 And I understand why people do it, right? 603 00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:47,120 Because you've got your person there, you probably feel a bit 604 00:26:47,120 --> 00:26:49,880 more comfortable. However, you don't know how your 605 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,840 parents are going to react. And I'm just taking this off. 606 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:56,320 My experience, the way that my mom was when I came out was 607 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:58,800 really, really bad. And I think that had a huge 608 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,160 impact. Well, you don't know how your 609 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,680 parents are going to be right when you come out. 610 00:27:02,120 --> 00:27:05,040 And if you're in a relationship, I think, yeah, that can cause 611 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:07,720 some strain, like what happened with mine, because my mom was 612 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,280 really bad. And then obviously my girlfriend 613 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:14,520 at the time knew that my mom was being bad that had she couldn't 614 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,000 come over to the house anymore, I had to lie to my mum when I 615 00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,920 was going to see her. She also knew that I was lying 616 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,560 to my mum because I was in her company. 617 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:24,080 And it just, I don't know, I don't blame people for doing it 618 00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,480 when they're in a relationship because I did it, but. 619 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,520 OK, combating. Sorry. 620 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,320 So I think it's potentially one of the worst things that you can 621 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:33,320 do. Yeah. 622 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,800 To wait until you're in a relationship with someone to 623 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,160 come out to your parents, because first of all, you're 624 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,360 putting that person in a very uncomfortable position. 625 00:27:40,360 --> 00:27:42,600 And I'm talking by the way, like the people that I'm talking to 626 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,320 are in their 30s that still haven't come out. 627 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,560 Like, it's not like you and you were 17 in school. 628 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:52,360 We we owe it to ourselves. It's the fact that if we have a 629 00:27:52,360 --> 00:27:54,960 girlfriend or if we don't doesn't change the fact that 630 00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,920 you're gay. It's not like they're going to 631 00:27:56,920 --> 00:27:59,240 miraculously accept you more because they see you with 632 00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:01,400 someone. And if anything as well, they'll 633 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,000 probably put more judgement onto that person and be like, oh, 634 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,080 it's not that I just don't like them, you know, make your life. 635 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,480 And I think. It can put unnecessary pressure 636 00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:12,280 because coming out is a huge thing in life. 637 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,360 You can lean on your friends for support, maybe your siblings, 638 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,400 other people. I don't think that you need a 639 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:18,520 partner. To support you through. 640 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,840 It so I have say could twofold on this. 641 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:25,560 I remember when me and my first girlfriend broke up, it kind of 642 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,520 wasn't a discussion with my mum anymore about like if I was gay 643 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:30,320 or not. Obviously I knew I was, but it 644 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:33,960 just didn't really come up fine. And then I got into my second 645 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:38,120 relationship and that was a bit of, I was worried to tell her. 646 00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,240 And then I did. And she did get her knickers in 647 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,360 A twist for a bit. And then the girlfriend that I 648 00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,880 was with at the time, I remember like two days later, she was 649 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,680 like, yeah, I was going to break up with you over the way that 650 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,440 your mum was reacting. And I was like, oh. 651 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,600 But this is what I mean. Right, I kind of The thing is 652 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,640 like. No, no, just really quickly so 653 00:28:56,640 --> 00:28:59,520 you can get yourself into a relationship finally with 654 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,000 someone that you find after coming out to yourself really 655 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,320 struggling with the whole thing. It might also put them off when 656 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,240 you meet this person that could be your person that you haven't 657 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:12,040 come out to your parents. Because to be honest with you, 658 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,400 that would put me off. So if I met a girl and I was 659 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,160 really into her and she is like fully gay and has known for 660 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,000 quite a while and hasn't come out to her parents, it would 661 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:25,600 make me feel like that person wasn't, I don't want to say the 662 00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:29,000 word ballsy but like wasn't headstrong enough but I think I 663 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,120 think. Because I experienced that now 664 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:34,960 going into like a new relationship and say that person 665 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,120 hadn't really fully come out to their parents and just has and 666 00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,800 their parents have been a bit like not OK. 667 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:42,760 It's different. I think because I know what it 668 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:44,760 feels like. I'm very empathetic towards it 669 00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:46,880 and I'm very understanding. I would never want to be that 670 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,640 person to be like, well, this is a fucking because I honestly 671 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,080 like, I don't see it. It's really different. 672 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,320 I don't think see it as a problem. 673 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,280 For me, if I'd see it as a problem if they hadn't already 674 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,200 come out, You're saying if they'd just come out and it was 675 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,960 a bit tragic, like I don't mind about. 676 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,360 I'm not saying. I don't mind about dealing with 677 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,360 the shit of the parents acting badly because that's not that 678 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:09,000 person's fault. OK, I don't care about that, but 679 00:30:09,480 --> 00:30:11,640 OK, obviously different circumstances. 680 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,160 So say for instance, if they come from an extremely religious 681 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,280 background or things like this, which has stopped them from 682 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:17,640 coming out, that's very different. 683 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:21,680 I'm talking about plain old average family, like, you know, 684 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,880 and they just haven't come out and they're like, especially at 685 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,080 my age. Yeah. 686 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,280 You know, I would see it as a bit of a red flag. 687 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,280 I just would. I think that. 688 00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,200 But but more than that, I don't want that to discourage someone. 689 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:36,080 I'm I'm not insult. I'm not saying that to be nasty, 690 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:39,920 but I mean it in the sense of like, you need to have that 691 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:43,360 self-confidence within you and the fact that you know that 692 00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:45,120 you're gay and that is not changing whether you have a 693 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,000 partner or not. Yeah, I think as long as you're 694 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,920 like confident in yourself and you feel comfortable and if your 695 00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:53,760 parents are a bit whatever and you're and you're fine with 696 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,560 like. You know, and especially when 697 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,000 like, you're no longer living with them, things like that, you 698 00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,880 know, it's like, come on. And I get it. 699 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,120 It's really fucking scary. But we've all done it. 700 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,880 We've all done it, We've all been there. 701 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,080 And it is really hard and it's not a nice thing to do. 702 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,400 I think maybe even later on in life it might be a bit harder, 703 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,080 but because they've had longer, you're like, oh, fuck me, I'm 704 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,720 like 3132 and I'm coming out. And that's not a problem at all. 705 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,200 As long as, as long as I think for me, as long as you are 706 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:20,960 comfortable within your sexuality. 707 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,000 And by the way, I'm not talking about like friends or anything. 708 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:24,800 I mean in like a love interest way. 709 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,960 As long as that person is secure in their sexuality and they're 710 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,800 happy about it, then that's fine by me, you know? 711 00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,400 But what it screams to me is internalized homophobia. 712 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:41,080 If they aren't, if they're not able to come out after so many 713 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:42,160 years of knowing that they were gay. 714 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:44,360 I don't agree with that. Really. 715 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,600 What do you think? Because some people are just 716 00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:49,200 fucking scared. Like, yeah, it's it's. 717 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:51,680 Like they're always scared because of the judgement that 718 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,400 your parents are going to put on to you that you have. 719 00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:55,200 No, you have. You don't know what they're 720 00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:56,640 going to say. You're almost judging yourself. 721 00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:00,360 But if you've been in the closet for so long and then you were 722 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,760 starting to like have these feelings, it's very scary 723 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:05,280 thought and like it's very daunting. 724 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:07,560 You're going into a completely, you know, it's scary. 725 00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:09,680 That's what I'm saying. But if you've been in the closet 726 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:12,440 that like yes, I came out at 17, probably a bursting in disguise. 727 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:16,800 It's been out for 10 years now. I can't imagine now coming out. 728 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,040 I'd find that way more scary. It was funny. 729 00:32:19,040 --> 00:32:20,960 I'd find it easier to come out now, but then that's all 730 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:22,640 different situations. That's what I mean. 731 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,640 That's what I'm saying. It's all relative like it's 732 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,760 very. Different persuasion because I 733 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:30,440 think the reason why I'd find it easier now is because I have my 734 00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,080 own place and my own life. I'm not financially dependent on 735 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,040 my parents, things like that. Whereas before I was I was in 736 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:37,680 their space. I was financially dependent on 737 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,160 them. Yeah, I completely, you know, so 738 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,480 like, that's why I felt like they held more of the cards, so 739 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,920 I let them walk all over me when it came to that. 740 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,840 Yeah. I just think it's very dependent 741 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,280 and I think it just depends on the time. 742 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,000 I think if you want. To look at it in a really, 743 00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,280 really, really black and white way, because we're aware of the 744 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,000 fact that there are different nuances which change the 745 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:58,880 situation. And I'm not, I'm not disagreeing 746 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,520 with that. But if we were to look at it in 747 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,720 a really black and white situation and you are genuinely 748 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,000 saying, OK, I'm going to wait until I get a girlfriend until I 749 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:09,760 come out. My concern is, is the fact that 750 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,760 that's just another hurdle that they're going to push back 751 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,360 against again. So they will then get a 752 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,720 girlfriend and be like, oh actually I'm not going to come 753 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,400 out because of XYZ, you know? It's really interesting. 754 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,800 I mean, I'd like people to write in and give their. 755 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,040 Experience. I'd be really interested to hear 756 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:27,440 about it because I mean, I had a girlfriend when I came out, but 757 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,240 I didn't come out. I was asked because I had a 758 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:29,960 girlfriend. Do you? 759 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,200 Know what I mean? Yeah, your mum just guessed. 760 00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:34,720 My mum just guessed. I mean, it was a pretty easy 761 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:38,320 guess, but yeah, she guessed. And I was with a very 762 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,640 understanding partner throughout all of that. 763 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,640 And that was really, really nice, you know. 764 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:46,560 But equally, that girl wasn't with me in the country like she 765 00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:48,280 was all the way in Brazil. So it's. 766 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,280 Probably very easy to separate that though. 767 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:57,280 Yes, but I felt very alone in it all, you know, and I I just I 768 00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,560 just really worry and this is it more comes from like motherly 769 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:06,840 place of concern that you could potentially, you know, not ruin, 770 00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:11,440 but but more a relationship because you decided that you 771 00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,120 were going to come out whilst there with you and it adds a 772 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,760 whole other dimension of problems. 773 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,800 I just think the best way forward if that is your, if that 774 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,320 is what you're doing, if you're coming out when you're in a 775 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,280 relationship, I just think be as open and communicate with your 776 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:25,159 partner. And then if your partner has any 777 00:34:25,159 --> 00:34:28,120 issues with that, then, you know, just be commutative, 778 00:34:28,320 --> 00:34:30,679 commutative with one another. Would you? 779 00:34:31,639 --> 00:34:36,800 Say you OK, Jess aside, say you met like a 30 year old woman. 780 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,159 As in as in 26 year old live meeting a 30 year old? 781 00:34:40,159 --> 00:34:42,320 Woman, yes, right. And there's an interest there, 782 00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:43,679 right? There's a really good 783 00:34:43,679 --> 00:34:44,960 connection. You're getting it on. 784 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:46,920 You start a relationship with them. 785 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,760 And she then says I've actually been like dating girls for 786 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,679 years, like on and off, but I've been waiting until I've got a 787 00:34:53,679 --> 00:34:55,880 girlfriend until I come out to my parents. 788 00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,840 I probably. Well also, I think it depends 789 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,000 where we are in the world, right? 790 00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,640 Where her parents live, they live around the corner. 791 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:03,720 You don't know how they're going to react. 792 00:35:03,720 --> 00:35:05,600 Probably a bit or. Get your face smashed in. 793 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:09,920 Yeah, honestly, I honestly think though it's because I've been on 794 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:13,200 the receiving end of it. I'm very just like understanding 795 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,520 of the situation. I just don't I don't think their 796 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:22,120 parents having a problem would put me off If I'm if if me this 797 00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:25,800 said 30 year old woman or in a very loving relationship, I 798 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:28,320 don't think I'd let it. OK, hinder. 799 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:29,520 I get it. So. 800 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,600 The way that I would view this differently, obviously 801 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,640 connection above everything and you're falling for someone. 802 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,720 It's so different because it's like you make so many 803 00:35:37,720 --> 00:35:40,040 allowances, right? It's very easy to say, oh, I do 804 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,240 this, I do that if they've only just discovered. 805 00:35:42,240 --> 00:35:46,000 That they're gay. Later on in life and then they 806 00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,000 want to come out with a girlfriend that's different to 807 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:52,680 me than if they have known for like 15 years and still haven't 808 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,200 come out to their parents. Just to try them in here. 809 00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:58,200 I feel like. It also depends on the 810 00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,920 relationship that you've got with your parents, right? 811 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:04,480 Like when I was like classifying myself as probably like by like. 812 00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,360 Even when I was like with a guy, I would not talk about that with 813 00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:10,080 my parents. Like even when I started dating 814 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:11,840 a man didn't tell them for multiple months. 815 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,040 Very valid point because I was the exact same. 816 00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:15,960 You know, like it's not something I would organically 817 00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,240 speak about. So like, I don't feel the need, 818 00:36:19,240 --> 00:36:21,600 like, you know what I mean? I totally get that. 819 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:26,480 I think like it's difficult. My main concern is is that I 820 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:30,880 would hate for if this was me and I was waiting to have a 821 00:36:30,880 --> 00:36:33,720 girlfriend until I came out. I would really hate for my 822 00:36:33,720 --> 00:36:36,480 parents to blame this person that I've fallen in love. 823 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,760 With Oh yeah, yeah. That's what I, I'd be concerned 824 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:41,640 about because they might be like, well, you weren't gay this 825 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,080 whole fucking time and now you never hurt. 826 00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,080 Yeah. And then it's like, boom, we 827 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:49,680 fucking hate her. Whereas if you have, that is if 828 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,160 they're bad, right? Whereas if you had already come 829 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,080 out and then they're thinking the worst and then you bring 830 00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,560 home this gorgeous girl that you've met who's so lovely, that 831 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,600 then can be like, oh, I've changed my mind. 832 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:03,080 I mean, isn't about you in this situation. 833 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,360 I think if your parents are doing that, you've got bigger 834 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,320 fish to fry then like, yeah, you know, like if they're saying 835 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,480 like you're gay because there's one person, like there's bigger 836 00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,160 issues here. But baby, you'd be surprised, 837 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,720 like it happens a lot, that that's the problem. 838 00:37:15,720 --> 00:37:19,320 This is why it's an area of concern for me, because parents 839 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:23,280 would rather blame anything else rather than IE themselves. 840 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,800 Because they believe it's their fault that you are gay and they 841 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,680 see it as a bad thing. I mean, I thank my parents if 842 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:32,280 they made me gay. Yeah, cheers. 843 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,760 Lisa genetically, I've won the genetic lottery. 844 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:39,120 I'm so glad to be gay. I just think that it's, it's 845 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,200 obviously it is every, everything that I say needs to 846 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:44,760 be taken with a big pinch of salt in this area because there 847 00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,240 are so many different situations in which you can be in. 848 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,280 I'm just saying you are scared to come out just because you 849 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,480 don't want to like potentially disappoint them or something and 850 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,960 you're waiting until you have a girlfriend to do so. 851 00:37:56,480 --> 00:38:01,360 Then maybe don't put that new person in the firing line and 852 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:03,840 take it because nothing is going to change whether you have a 853 00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:06,920 girlfriend. A wife is not going to change 854 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:08,440 the. Fact that you are gay. 855 00:38:08,720 --> 00:38:10,920 True. So just very interesting. 856 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,000 I'm go. I said I was like, honestly when 857 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:15,920 you do it, I said put me on the phone. 858 00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,040 I. Texted my mum and told her yeah 859 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:19,920 I'll text them. I sent her an iMessage. 860 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:21,920 I don't actually see anything wrong with that. 861 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:24,480 Because if you're terrified. I mean, it went down like a sack 862 00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:26,120 of shit, but we are where we are. 863 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:27,960 I mean, didn't she storm over to the house? 864 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,040 Yeah, she was at my grandma's house and she just came bombing 865 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:32,680 over and she had the side door open and I thought, oh, here we 866 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:34,880 fucking go. Here it goes, Here it. 867 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,000 Comes It's all good now. We love mum. 868 00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,600 My mum loves Jess, so happy days I love. 869 00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,560 Lisa, I think that when you come out as well, you can come out 870 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:43,880 like that. I think you can. 871 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,080 I think you can do an iMessage, send them an Instagram DM, send 872 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:50,880 them an e-mail, request money via PayPal and put it in the 873 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:52,000 caption. I'm gay A. 874 00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:53,720 Fax. Yeah, fax them. 875 00:38:54,240 --> 00:38:55,840 Send them a postcard. Yeah. 876 00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,400 If you didn't get my fax, that's that's on you. 877 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,240 That's on you. I don't know what to say. 878 00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,000 Air drop them. Air drop them a photo of Ellen 879 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,440 DeGeneres and go. Guess what, Mum? 880 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:12,440 What other ways could you do? Just hit him with a guess what 881 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:13,800 me and Ellen DeGeneres have in common. 882 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,800 Because me and me and Perry always pretend we send each 883 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,200 other messages from different things. 884 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,800 I'm just I now can't think. I'd send them a personalized 885 00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:23,000 T-shirt that says my daughter's a rug muncher. 886 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:24,640 Oh. God. 887 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:28,960 My daughter Hartsmenge go proud Mom of the Year award with a 888 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,440 rainbow underneath. Send them tickets to Pride. 889 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:34,960 Send them tickets to Pride. Send them tickets to Chapel 890 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:37,600 Rome. Yeah, I think bring facts back. 891 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,640 You could typewrite them. You could do a hostage style 892 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,600 letter with cutouts from magazines. 893 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,440 There's many, there's many ways girls, you could write a song. 894 00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:51,840 You could 100% write a song. You'd do that. 895 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,680 I think I'd get Becky Jones to do a cameo video. 896 00:39:54,720 --> 00:39:56,040 Oh my God, yeah. I get someone to do it. 897 00:39:56,720 --> 00:40:02,240 I should do cameo of like, by the way, you pay you not to 898 00:40:02,240 --> 00:40:03,480 speak to me. You pay me not to speak to you. 899 00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,280 Honestly, how much? I'd happily not fucking speak to 900 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,920 you. The less I have to look at your 901 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,360 face, the better. The. 902 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,240 Limit does not exist. The limit does not exist. 903 00:40:11,240 --> 00:40:13,880 Pay me to not speak to you. Oh my God, I would so get Becky 904 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:17,280 Jones to do that. I'd get Grace O'Malley to it so. 905 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,560 Yeah, but Becky Jones actually does cameos, so that's why I'm 906 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,560 like, it would work. I feel like Grace would do it 907 00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:23,760 for a good. Price 70 lbs. 908 00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:25,400 She probably has. 70 lbs I think. 909 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,120 She probably would have upped the price as of now, but. 70 lbs 910 00:40:29,120 --> 00:40:30,800 Look. She's becoming a national 911 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,680 treasure. I not becoming she is one but 70 912 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,560 lbs a bit sleep babe, come on. You should see how much some 913 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,440 people charge on cameos. Should I start going on Cameo? 914 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:44,720 I get nothing. I usually do it for free like 915 00:40:44,720 --> 00:40:45,960 people will be like can you send me a video? 916 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,000 It says have birthday to my friend. 917 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:49,480 I'm like, yeah, OK, go. On go on then I have to do. 918 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,000 It at the event sometimes quite funny. 919 00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:54,080 Oh, and one last thing, going back to the event, there was a 920 00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:55,920 girl that everyone kept thinking with Scarlett. 921 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,240 Oh yeah, that. But I didn't think that she 922 00:40:58,240 --> 00:40:59,760 looked like her. She's a pretty girl. 923 00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:02,120 She's tall, she's brunette. But like, I didn't think that 924 00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,560 she looked like Scarlett. And when I was stood there with 925 00:41:04,560 --> 00:41:07,080 her, people were coming up and they were like, when's the next 926 00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,160 episode coming out to her? Yeah, I didn't. 927 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,200 I I didn't see the resemblance. But no. 928 00:41:12,240 --> 00:41:14,840 But yeah, kept happening. I thought, you know what, if it 929 00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,960 stopped people from asking me where Scarlett was, It made it a 930 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:21,040 lot easier to be honest. I don't mean that to be harsh. 931 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,840 No, I didn't know what to say. I didn't know how to bond to 932 00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,040 that. No, I mean, because it's a bit 933 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,760 awkward, isn't it? Then I wear Scarlett and I'm 934 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,960 like. No, obviously a lot of you have 935 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:31,280 been asking where Scarlett is, and I think we've just been in a 936 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:34,920 bit of a teething of like figuring out how dynamics are 937 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,280 going to go. But you know, you'll see her at 938 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,640 the next events, You'll see everyone's faces. 939 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,120 Yeah, exactly. Threat There's a lot going on 940 00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:43,240 for Scarlett as well, and she's obviously still going to be 941 00:41:43,240 --> 00:41:45,080 doing episodes. She's also got all of her 942 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:46,880 amazing bike content that she's doing. 943 00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:50,280 The girl is going to smash it, she's really going to smash it, 944 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,400 and I'm really proud that she's going forward with the things 945 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:54,760 that she really, really likes to do. 946 00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,880 We'll discuss that more on the next episode. 947 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,680 We will, we will, but there's only a lot of love and care 948 00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,040 there and I don't want you guys to go anywhere. 949 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,880 I know that there's change, but change can sometimes be good, 950 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,000 and there's a lot this year coming up already. 951 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,440 Can I just say something as well? 952 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,440 Can everyone please start submitting horror stories again 953 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,800 because you guys have stopped and I need more because I think 954 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,680 they were feeding me. Yeah, I think because we stopped 955 00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:22,520 asking for them though, in all fairness, so. 956 00:42:22,720 --> 00:42:24,560 That needs to be started. Again, Yeah, drop in your 957 00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,000 lesbian horror stories and what I'm thinking of doing as well. 958 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:30,480 People used to e-mail as well. E-mail us the emails there. 959 00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,760 I do still get some emails but I have been so hectic that I 960 00:42:33,760 --> 00:42:35,480 haven't read them so that's on me. 961 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:39,440 But I want to do a full episode that is just lesbian horror 962 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,560 stories. Yeah, they were so funny. 963 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,400 And by the way, like I met some of You Beautiful girls at the 964 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,440 event, and you were saying, like a lot of you were saying that 965 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,320 you fall asleep to the podcast. They say that they listen to it 966 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,960 to fall asleep and then listen to it properly the next day, 967 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:56,080 which is really sweet. So what I'm going to start doing 968 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,560 is hypnosis. What? 969 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:02,320 Yeah, just randomly dropping in things so that when they're 970 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,120 asleep their subconscious is getting it. 971 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,280 So you just want everyone to dream of you? 972 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:09,120 Yeah. Are you dreaming of Maybe I? 973 00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:11,800 Think we need to wrap this up. I need to get in that sunshine. 974 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,160 I think it's gone in. I know I do too. 975 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,480 Anyway, lesbians, what a time to be alive. 976 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:21,200 Love you all so much and we will speak to you next week. 977 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,360 Goodbye, goodbye.