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Hello. 
Hi lesbians. 

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Hello lesbians. 
And other people you've just 

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called other. 
The others. 

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And everyone else. 
It is Pride Weekend in Warsaw 

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and we are with Levi's. 
We are, and we're here doing an 

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ad hoc but special episode 
today. 

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So we told you all last week 
that we were stopping for a bit 

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and then, surprise, here we are.
So aren't you all very, very 

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lucky to be hearing us just one 
week after we said we were 

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pausing for a bit? 
How fantastic for you all. 

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I'm so buzzing to be here. 
No, so am I. 

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We've never been to Warsaw 
before and we, we, I mean, I say

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I'm buzzing to be here. 
We got here and slept so far 

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but. 
That is actually our favourite 

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thing to do, so I don't know. 
Yeah, I I could just go to 

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different countries all over the
world and different cities and 

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just sleep through. 
The nap just nap in different. 

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Different sleeping experiences 
would be incredible, but we are 

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extremely excited to be here. 
We're extremely excited to be 

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here with Levis. 
It's going to be an absolutely 

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incredible weekend. 
You're all obviously, I'm sure 

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going to have seen it on the 
socials by the time we post 

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this. 
And we are also very excited to 

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find out that there is a massive
vegan and vegetarian scene in 

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Warsaw, which obviously as 
lesbians, we don't eat meat 

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because that's like a crossover.
So sorry, Julia, who's actually 

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sat here with us right now. 
You eat meat, but generally 

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lesbians. 
She doesn't. 

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Exactly. 
I just knew you wouldn't because

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it's just such a gay thing. 
Like it's just. 

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Obviously the gay thing, but 
living in Warsaw, the vegan 

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capital of Europe, it's the most
amazing thing that happened to 

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me. 
We didn't know that. 

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How uneducated are we as? 
Individuals. 

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We only found that out about 3 
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Soon, Julia is going to make it 
the gay capital as well. 

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Yes. 
This one person. 

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Lesbian one. 
Yes. 

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Oh yeah, yeah, that's fine. 
Actually not gay, just lesbian. 

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The gay men can go to Krakow. 
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other. 
I'll take it. 

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So we are so excited today 
because we are joined by a very 

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incredible person called Julia 
Macho. 

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Macho. 
I've asked is. 

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It your name? 
Do you go by Yulia? 

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Yulia. 
It doesn't matter, Julia. 

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In classic British ignorant 
style, I've asked three people 

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today Julia's last name. 
Every time I've repeated it to 

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myself five times, plus every 
time I've forgotten it and had 

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to ask it again. 
And I've still fucked it up 

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whilst recording this. 
So unconscious. 

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Wine. 
Start Julia is a chairperson of 

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Warsaw Pride and a board member 
of the Polish Pride Alliance. 

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So we are so honoured and you 
know, amazed to have you sat 

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here today with us to give us a 
bit of insight about yourself, 

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your life, your past, your 
present and where you want to 

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take Lesbians of Warsaw in the 
future. 

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Also, can I just say you're 
putting us to shame already 

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because we've just been chatting
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I'm like, I am not doing enough.
I'm not even doing it a slight 

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bit enough. 
But it's amazing to actually sit

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down with someone who is doing 
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And, and, you know, we were kind
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Warsaw, obviously before we came
and it was kind of common 

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knowledge that Poland isn't, you
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plus friendly, yes. 
We are the most homophobic 

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country in Europe. 
My mummy's response when I said 

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that to her was if anything 
happens to you, don't ring me 

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because I don't like aeroplanes.
I was like, cheers mum, she 

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said. 
If you get kidnapped, I don't 

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wanna know about it because I 
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I was like. 
Ignorance is blessed mum. 

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I don't. 
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kidnapping is that they don't. 
You don't know where I am, like,

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for fuck's sake. 
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experience coming out. 
She. 

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Can listen to this episode maybe
and she can pick yeah, you. 

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Definitely put us to shame. 
So everyone that listened to the

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previous episode where me and 
Freya were crying like little 

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babies about how busy we are 
with our little podcast and then

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we speak to Julia today and 
we're like, oh fuck yeah we are.

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We're pieces of shit, really. 
Super lesbian definitely and but

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we are really honoured to have 
you here, so I'll let you just 

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do a quick little introduction 
of yourself and tell tell all 

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the lesbians who you are. 
Oh my God, all the lesbians. 

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All of them, all of them because
they are international. 

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We've got Australia, we've got 
America, we've got Germany, 

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we've got you guys, we've got 
UK. 

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Like you're you're going 
international. 

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Like landing on the moon. 
You know, the small step for 

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Julia, but the big step for a 
Polish. 

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As lesbians on the moon, they 
will 100% be listening to this 

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podcast. 
Oh, that's me. 

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Obviously. 
Hi, everyone. 

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I'm Julia. 
I'm Julia Matija. 

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I'm from Warsaw. 
I'm the true woman of Warsaw 

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Pride. 
I'm not, not scared of that 

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word. 
I'm a proud feminist, but also 

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proud lesbian. 
And yeah, the most important 

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thing for me right now for my 
activism is to support Pride 

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movement in Poland. 
And I think we will have a 

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little bit time to talk about 
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And as my day job, I'm working 
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animal scientist. 
Oh my God. 

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Yeah, I know. 
Crazy. 

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It's just that. 
That that's the shame. 

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That's the shame. 
On top, isn't it? 

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That is just that is so 
attractive. 

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It really is. 
But it's really low. 

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Paid, you know, so. 
You're, you're a bowler in my 

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eyes though, don't worry. 
Now I think especially when it 

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comes to animal activism as 
well, that's like a huge thing 

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that we're really that we're 
really, really interested in and

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we love our dog two pieces who 
has a rescue we're massive 

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rescue advocates as well. 
And so for us to actually learn 

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that bit of information about 
you, it's just like the icing on

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the cake it. 
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Was. 
It was the cherry on a very 

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large cake, Yeah. 
If you couldn't get any better. 

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Worse than someone who doesn't 
like animals. 

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No, this kind of people, they do
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It's weird. 
Someone says that I. 

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Think they're just lying to 
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I think that's a massive red 
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Like you're just basically 
admitting that you're a 

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psychopath. 
Oh yeah. 

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Just tell me that you hate me. 
Punch me on the face. 

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Yeah. 
I mean, it's exactly the same. 

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So I first of all, I'm really 
interested to kind of understand

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more about you, Like what was 
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What was your journey of growing
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conservative country, realising 
that you were gay, sort of 

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dealing with that, and then 
becoming such an incredible sort

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of advocate at the forefront of 
a movement? 

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Because. 
Because that's exactly what it 

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is. 
This is always a kind of hard 

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question for me because I had a 
huge privilege. 

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I have the most wonderful 
sisters and mom who were always 

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supporting me. 
So I was growing up in a small 

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city north of Poland, not 
knowing lesbians exists. 

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Yeah. 
The Internet was not there yet. 

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You know, I'm only 29, but 
believe me, if I could Google 

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that, that would be much easier 
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So. 
So at the beginning, I really 

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didn't like boys. 
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I'm asexual because it was 
existing like as a pathology, of

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course, but it was existing in 
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But lesbians, I have heard about
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And then I thought, that's it. 
Is it? 

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Is it? 
Is it me? 

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Jesus. 
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easiest, but I think that the 
harder thing was me being very, 

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very stubborn. 
Sorry, mom. 

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And and really, really wanted to
make some drama, you know, to 

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reinvent the world to show 
people that, hey, this is 

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inequal, it shouldn't exist. 
So there was a teacher, math 

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teacher, who told me that girls 
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Wow. 
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doing all of the extra math 
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I was in so many math context 
contest. 

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You cannot imagine that. 
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And I was miserable, but I was 
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Like Oh my God, your whole. 
Life has just been born out of 

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opposite oppositional defiance 
disorder. 

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Yes, fantastic. 
I've got Freya. 

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Freya can relate. 
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You tell me not to do it. 
Well, yeah, that's Watch. 

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Me, yeah. 
Watch me, because I'm too. 

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Lazy and I'll be like OK fine. 
Oh no, but you love being petty.

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Tell me you don't love being 
petty. 

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That is like in the core of who 
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Really. 
Yeah, Yeah, I should have been a

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Scorpio. 
So when you said that, you kind 

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of like figured out, OK, this is
what a lesbian is. 

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What did you see? 
What? 

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What did you see? 
Was it just like someone walking

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in the street? 
Was it like a celebrity? 

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Oh. 
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Yes, she will never know about 
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before I knew, I thought, oh I 
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with her. 
And then I said to myself, no 

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girl, sorry. 
We've done a whole episode. 

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I'm falling in love with the 
straight best friend. 

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It's a lesbian experience. 
I'm not true she's straight 

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actually I have no contact with 
her anymore really but I think 

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she was bi, she didn't knew that
too but. 

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Imagine you see her at the 
parade tomorrow. 

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Yeah. 
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Come around towards each other. 
That's so. 

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Good, that was that, Julia. 
'S girlfriend would love that. 

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She would be so happy about. 
It Jay what take her. 

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But really, that was funny 
because I came out when I was 16

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or 17 to everyone, to my family,
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And, you know, people weren't 
happy about it, but everyone was

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kind of OK. 
But they say, OK, you can be 

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lesbian, just stop being an 
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Wow. 
So the bigger issue for many 

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people when I was growing up was
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that you can spend your free 
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on building a better world than 
playing video games. 

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And many, many teachers were 
kind of angry that I was always 

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making something. 
I fucking love that though. 

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But that was fun. 
I had the most amazing group, 

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friend, friend group, and I had 
the most amazing sisters who are

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always supporting me in front of
my family. 

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So I had a great privilege 
growing up. 

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And this is important to say 
that most kids in Poland, they 

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do not have such a privilege. 
Only 25% of mothers and 12% of 

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fathers are accepting their kids
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It's really terrifying how many 
young people are walking around 

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without the support of people 
who should love them 

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unconditionally. 
That is, that is absolutely 

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insane. 
It really is. 

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And it's, it's really, really 
horrible to see because I think 

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that, you know, no matter what 
we go through individually, you 

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know, in the UK when you're 
coming out, you kind of know 

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that there's like a wider 
acceptance. 

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So if you don't have that wider 
acceptance, then also the people

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that are supposed to love you 
just completely abandon you or 

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don't accept you. 
It's it's horrible. 

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Where do you go with? 
That, but I think regardless of 

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like how how supported you were,
which is amazing, I think that 

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also kudos to you to like taking
it that step further to not just

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be like, Oh yeah, I'm gay and 
I'm happy in my little bubble 

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with my family who support me. 
You were like, no, yeah, I'm 

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fucking gay. 
And you went out and you wanted 

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to make a mark about it. 
We speak. 

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We speak about this a lot as 
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because you owned yourself so 
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you know, how do you kind of 
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and I don't think I'm, I'm not 
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but if you kind of speak about 
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you open yourself up for someone
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Whereas it sounds like you came 
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weren't just going to let people
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So people knew not to challenge 
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And I think a lot of what you 
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rooted more and probably 
misogyny rather than you being a

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lesbian. 
This is. 

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The case that was really 
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you're absolutely right. 
I did my first activism when I 

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I was giving an extra classes to

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kids from poor families. 
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the animal shelter. 
That is obvious for me. 

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scared of seeing a proud woman 
than a proud lesbian because 

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they couldn't challenge my 
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Like what could they say? 
Something homophobic and I would

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just shrug off and I would just 
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me in my place, explaining to me
that I can or cannot do 

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something. 
Yes, I think you're absolutely 

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right. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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I think that's why you being a 
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for, you know, gay people, gay 
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hand in hand massively. 
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one without the other. 
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just like fit, like it fuels 
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you're like, did he just fucking
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part of of what you're doing so 
that. 

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Was the most important thing for
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of Warsaw Pride. 
It was We have to connect. 

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It's impossible that feminists 
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How is it? 
How is it happening? 

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Right. 
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working for with women who have 
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working on the helpline. 
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other families, NGOs. 
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having the big representation. 
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thing that we have so little of 
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feminists or so-called because 
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years through the movement that 
if one of the the feminists, 

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the, you know, well known 
feminists are saying something 

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transphobic, we can call her and
say what the hell, like girl. 

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Yes, we we we had that actually 
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some someone that had been 
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become you can come from like 
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then hate someone else. 
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can. 
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Like unified together. 
And I think in so many ways our 

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community is, I mean, we are so 
strong because our community and

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because of the people in it and 
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spoke about this just before we 
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that there's a lot of inner kind
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find so sad because, like, we 
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other or like, not getting along
because there's a bigger thing 

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to be working towards, you know?
Yeah. 

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For the last six years, I had 
absolutely no personal attacks 

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from right wing, any kind. 
I was attacked once on the 

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street and that's it. 
And every year I'm getting the 

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threats, I'm getting hate 
messages. 

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Last year my mom got them from 
people who I called my friends 

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or who are on our side or who 
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Inside the house it wasn't. 
It wasn't external like right 

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wing. 
It was literally within the 

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community that you were getting 
those death threats. 

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Wow, that's mad. 
That absolutely just baffles me.

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I can't. 
But it's the same for us. 

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I mean, the the homophobia that 
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from gay men in bars. 
So we'll try and go into a bar, 

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particularly in London, it's 
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lesbian bars are there's 1-2 
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And because we don't look like 
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like, which is just absolutely 
pathetic anyway, they will be 

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like just just basically tell us
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that we're just like these girls
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and you know, we will literally 
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no, no, we're together and 
they're just laughing. 

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Why should his mother? 
Exactly. 

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Why should I even have to 
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I mean, we've literally been 
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We don't go out in queer in the 
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worse. 
We get more hate from inside the

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community than we do going to 
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with surrounded by straight 
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There were mostly queer women in
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shouldn't be chosen for this 
position because I don't look 

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gay enough. 
Wow. 

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And I'm like and what the fuck 
should I do? 

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Well, we've gotta shave my shave
my head by coming in in a 

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minute. 
And he's just gonna shave it all

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two artist. 
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Isn't that the point of all of 
this is that we shouldn't all 

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have to look a certain way? 
Like that's the whole, that's 

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one of the many layers as to why
we're fighting for equality, 

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because equality is you can look
however the fuck you want, you 

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can be whoever the fuck you 
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to someone else. 
So. 

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But also, we all in the 
movement, I believe that we have

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different purposes. 
Yeah. 

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Like, I'm not an anarchist at 
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I'm cooperating with the City of
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So I'm cooperating with 
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levels. 
And my work is important in this

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part of the job that we all need
to to have to be done. 

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And then we have anarchist 
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who are coming to pride and they
have a different job at this 

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situation. 
And then you have a podcast and 

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it's, it's also a different kind
of a job that we need. 

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So why the fuck We have time and
strength and like to to put 

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other people down if it's 
something that moves us forward,

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if it's something that actually 
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equality. 
Because I can understand that in

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London there are a lot of people
who have time because everything

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was achieved, so now we have 
time to hate. 

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But here in Poland we have so 
much to do. 

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Like, really? 
Yeah. 

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Why? 
It's, it's mental. 

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I mean, have you seen any 
changes like since you've 

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started working like in this? 
Position, like what kind of 

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inspired you to get to the 
position as chairperson or like 

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what drove that? 
And I'm really interested to 

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understand because I don't 
understand like has there been 

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significant shift over the last 
few years and, and how has that 

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happened and what, what has that
looked like? 

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Because I'm, I mean, we did do 
some research, but it was 

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actually quite thin on the 
ground as to understand the real

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history and the kind of progress
and the journey of equality in 

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Poland. 
So I'd really love to be able to

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hear that from you. 
And I know that's a really long 

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that's. 
A big question, sorry. 

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I didn't want to become 
president of Warsaw Pride, OK, I

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said no for three months. 
Really. 

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I was 22 at the time. 
Yeah, my God, I really wanted to

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stay at the university. 
I really wanted to have a 

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scientific career. 
And I was afraid that being an 

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activist is going to stop me 
from this. 

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That was the biggest issue for 
me. 

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But the other thing was that I 
was super young, right? 

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I, I didn't want to have this 
kind of burden. 

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Yes, I will. 
I will call it that way on my, 

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on my shoulders. 
So at, at the beginning, I 

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really didn't want to take that.
And at that time equality Parade

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was small event. 
I would say we had 15 to 20,000 

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people coming. 
It was really not inclusive. 

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It was being made by gay men. 
So what I was lacking of was the

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bigger representation of course 
from the community, but also the

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just everything. 
I wanted everything to be 

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bigger. 
Come on. 

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So, so I had this vision. 
So I said no, even though I had 

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this vision. 
And then my friends from the the

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volunteering team, because we 
were together in the 

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volunteering team, said Julia. 
This is the time, this is an 

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opportunity for us to make the 
pride as we want it to be and we

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are going to do it with you if 
you are going to take it. 

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Yeah, so I did so I did. 
The first year was absolutely 

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amazing. 
We didn't knew what we are doing

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at all, like everything was kind
of coincidence I would say, I 

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suppose. 
There'd been no one there to 

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pave the way like you were 
literally start. 

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Yeah. 
What you. 

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Scratch. 
And then it's almost like, where

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do you start? 
You just have to start 

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somewhere. 
We had two amazing men. 

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I'm I'm not usually saying that,
so I would say don't. 

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How painful was that? 
Jesus Christ, I I could see the 

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gritted teeth there. 
Yeah. 

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We had Lukesh Pawetzky and Pavel
Kypushevsky who taught me the 

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technical issues, like how to 
build a float because I didn't 

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know how to do that. 
So, so they, they gave me a lot 

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of know how and a lot of 
knowledge. 

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But the rest of this was, I 
mean, that was a circus, you 

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know, Like, everything was 
burning. 

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There was some monkey jumping 
over the roof, and there we are 

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dancing in the middle of this 
absolutely amazing time. 

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But then we kind of did it twice
as much. 

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People came. 
Love. 

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That a lot of representation, a 
lot of different movements. 

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We were the first country in the
world where Greenpeace took part

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in pride. 
Yes, we we kind of started 

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talking to different companies 
and different brands. 

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Yes, Levi's was one of them. 
Levi's big up. 

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Levi's on this? 
Yeah. 

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And so, so we got some money 
that we could actually use to 

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build something bigger. 
Incredible. 

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And it it kind of grew. 
So in 2019, we had a parade of 

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approximately 70,000 people and 
we had huge Equality Town where 

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all of the NGOs were giving 
speeches and workshops so 

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everyone could educate 
themselves about different 

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minorities, not only LGBTQ 
people. 

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And I said to myself, that's 
wonderful, that's it, I did my 

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job, thank you. 
And then COVID came and you are 

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not leaving your organisation 
during crisis. 

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So I stayed and here I am still 
because last year we had a war, 

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so it was also kind of a crisis,
and this year it is still kind 

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of a crisis situation for us. 
We are going to have a huge 

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representation from Ukraine. 
This is really important to us, 

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you know, the, this is something
that actually keeps me going, 

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you know, to be able to use my 
power to give the streets of 

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Warsaw, to give them away to 
Ukrainian community, to have the

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power to do that. 
That was the most amazing thing 

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last year. 
So we had a Warsaw key of pride 

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last year together. 
And yeah, what had what, what, 

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what changed? 
The political situation is 

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worse. 
I mean, you're not alone there. 

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In all fairness, yes. 
Sorry. 

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Everyone so far these. 
Were in shit together in that 

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sense. 
I mean the Brexit kind of paved 

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the way. 
Yes it is so the political 

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situation is worse but the the 
society is much further So right

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now more than 50% of Polish 
society is pro equal rights for 

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LGBTQ people in general. 
I'm not talking about specifics.

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Of course, adoption is still 
kind of a issue, but at least 

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equal partnerships and 
marriages. 

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And when I took over the Warsaw 
Pride, it was 12% as I believe. 

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Wow. 
So it's a, it's a huge. 

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Difference. 
It's a huge shift in our 

455
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,320
society. 
So that's why I'm angry where 

456
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,640
the politicians of opposition 
are saying, oh, the society is 

457
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:21,160
not ready, they are. 
We have better percentage than 

458
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,680
Ireland had, than Argentina had 
when they were introducing their

459
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:28,480
equal laws. 
So we are much further do you? 

460
00:25:28,480 --> 00:25:29,920
Know what I think that is, 
though? 

461
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,040
They're shitting themselves. 
That's what it is. 

462
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:36,600
Because for so long they've been
able to spill a narrative that 

463
00:25:37,120 --> 00:25:40,320
queer people and gay people are 
just disgusting and we don't 

464
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:42,680
deserve a place in this world. 
And you know, all of these 

465
00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,240
things. 
And I think it's easy to to 

466
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:48,520
build a following whoever, you 
know, if you shout the loudest, 

467
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,240
people will come, right? 
And you've managed to create 

468
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:55,440
something that has built a 
following of support and that 

469
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:59,240
probably was already always 
there, but people didn't feel 

470
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,680
you've. 
You've created an openness that 

471
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,880
people now feel they can and 
it's. 

472
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,720
A big safe space as well even 
as. 

473
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,880
An ally and yeah the opposition 
is shitting themselves and I 

474
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,400
think that's probably why 
they're now screaming louder 

475
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:16,480
about kind of debunking these 
things because eventually and I 

476
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,720
do truly believe this not even 
just for Poland like every 

477
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:23,720
country that is suffering with 
inequality we will come out on 

478
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:28,120
top like historically you know 
whether you're talking about war

479
00:26:28,120 --> 00:26:32,800
you're talking about you know 
gay rights trans rights we will 

480
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:36,040
always prevail and I think they 
need to know that like it's not 

481
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,520
going to ever go it's. 
Not going to go away. 

482
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,400
I think that's the main thing is
that they think that if they 

483
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,880
brush it under the rug, it just 
so raises the gay people. 

484
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:44,760
Like we just all go back into 
the closet and then just. 

485
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:46,560
Yeah. 
And if they get angry enough and

486
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,240
if they get aggressive enough, 
then they will scare us into 

487
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,880
submission. 
And I don't think that will ever

488
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:53,320
work. 
I mean, it never has. 

489
00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,480
Like historically, we've always 
come back. 

490
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,280
And I think it's actually 
created change. 

491
00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:00,440
You know, it's creates movement 
sometimes when you get to a 

492
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:04,760
point of an uprise of positivity
and then you kind of get knocked

493
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,720
back a bit, but then it creates 
a further uprise of positivity 

494
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,880
because you've already built 
that foundation. 

495
00:27:10,240 --> 00:27:13,120
And I think you will probably 
see that this year and probably 

496
00:27:13,120 --> 00:27:16,120
years to come that will just 
grow and grow and grow, which is

497
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,920
in incredible and something to 
be, you know, insanely, insanely

498
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:21,200
powered. 
Definitely. 

499
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:23,200
That's great. 
Yeah, it is. 

500
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:24,760
It's very. 
True. 

501
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,960
Because I think we've always 
lived in a society that it's not

502
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,920
perfect. 
I mean, I've had hate crime on 

503
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:31,680
the streets of London. 
I'm not going to sit here and 

504
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,480
say that I haven't, but I know 
and I think it is that kind of 

505
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:42,360
whisper of safety that we do 
have incredible organisations. 

506
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,800
We have so many big corporations
such as Levi's and other brands 

507
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,360
and you know, massive 
sponsorships over in the UK that

508
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,800
do advocate for us massively. 
I. 

509
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,720
Mean what you say as well, like 
even when you were growing up, 

510
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,440
like not being able to have 
access to lesbians online. 

511
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:02,560
I mean, I don't know what I 
would have done because like my 

512
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:08,280
my, my feed was like Ellen were.
You not allowed to stream the L 

513
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,640
word, is that not? 
No, no, no. 

514
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,240
At one point we were streaming 
the L Word, but I think I was 14

515
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,000
at that point. 
Yeah, I was. 

516
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:20,240
We're streaming. 
It for the 6th time at the. 

517
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:25,080
Moment we are yeah, back on 
season 1, but no, Oh my God. 

518
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,440
That's a. 
Amazing, Julie. 

519
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,720
That's a psychological. 
Issue I believe. 

520
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,320
You go out, maybe change the 
world, right? 

521
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:35,400
Yeah, we do that. 
We get on this little podcast 

522
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,320
once a week and say little. 
My things. 

523
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,360
And then we go home and we watch
the L word with our day. 

524
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,080
Cod. 
We are, can you switch? 

525
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:46,640
Like, I really want that life. 
I know because I feel like you 

526
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:50,720
berate us so hard. 
Like I know that when you were 

527
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:54,720
doing extracurricular maths I 
was spending 18 hours a day on 

528
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:58,520
Sims 3, but me and you, we're 
just not the same. 

529
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:00,600
When you were doing 
extracurricular maths, I was 

530
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,240
smoking weed in a park on my 
own. 

531
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:05,800
I was Downing Lamborini by the 
bottle. 

532
00:29:06,040 --> 00:29:08,160
Yes, straight. 
Throwing up in my mum's car. 

533
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:10,920
Yeah, yeah. 
I mean, there's two different 

534
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:12,520
types of people in this world, 
Scarlett, right? 

535
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,200
It feels so. 
Shit during there are not. 

536
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,480
The different types of people, 
there is just some things they 

537
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,680
cannot speak publicly about, you
know? 

538
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:21,640
Yeah, no. 
I'm working on a public 

539
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,160
university. 
This is the point. 

540
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:24,480
This is your time. 
But. 

541
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,840
Yeah, we're here for you to 
speak as publicly as you want. 

542
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,920
You know, is there anything 
because like we, we've asked you

543
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,640
all the questions, but like 
anything that you'd want people 

544
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,240
of either like Poland or people,
you know, university to, to 

545
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,840
understand about the movements 
here or like what's. 

546
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:39,480
Yeah. 
And how do we support Like what 

547
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,960
we be doing you? 
Know the thing that I love about

548
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,360
Polish community and I'm talking
about Polish, not Warsaw. 

549
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:49,720
Sometimes people are putting 
equal between the two of them, 

550
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:55,400
but it's not is that Warsaw is 
wonderful and we have wonderful 

551
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,520
pride and you are more than 
welcome to come. 

552
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,320
But this is not the real change 
that is being created in our 

553
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,440
country and the real change is 
being made by small cities. 

554
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:11,120
In 2017 we had seven prides in 
Poland, now we have 34. 

555
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:14,280
Wow, 35 this year. 
That's amazing. 

556
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,680
There's. 
Going to be some of the new and 

557
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,760
we created Polish Prides 
Alliance. 

558
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:24,920
You can find us online, we have 
a website to to kind of give the

559
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:30,840
voice back from this big, big 
NGOs from Warsaw who are usually

560
00:30:30,840 --> 00:30:35,280
talking about how LGBTQ people 
live in Poland or how, how their

561
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:40,240
situation is to give it back to 
the regions to be for them to be

562
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:44,920
able to tell their own stories. 
So right now, what I really 

563
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,080
believe in is that we have a 
wonderful time in Warsaw. 

564
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:50,400
It's important to have Warsaw 
Pride. 

565
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,560
We have a lot of of this 
regional activists coming to 

566
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:59,520
have a great time, you know, and
brief a little bit during our 

567
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:02,040
pride. 
But the big difference, the big 

568
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,760
change that the society is 
making is happening in these 

569
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,600
regions. 
Last year we had the smallest 

570
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,640
March in mileage. 
It's 12,000 inhabitants, 200 

571
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:16,000
people came. 
This year we are going to have a

572
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:20,800
March in Shtum, which is 7000 
inhabitants. 

573
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,440
I know it sounds big for some of
the countries, but in Poland 

574
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:29,240
it's practically a village. 
So we will have a first village 

575
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:35,640
pride. 
So I actually believe that the 

576
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,200
change is not going to be 
created from Warsaw. 

577
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:43,160
So if you're looking to support 
us, you can always sponsor the 

578
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,280
pride itself. 
We need €1000 for a pride to 

579
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,560
happen in a smaller city, OK. 
Amazing. 

580
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:52,680
And do you have? 
Like links and things that we 

581
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:56,920
can kind of put out there. 
Obviously fantastic I was being 

582
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,680
born with links. 
Lesbians, we're flooding you 

583
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,640
like this is your opportunity 
because you're not paying us. 

584
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:07,040
So pay someone really believe 
because we're we're doing some 

585
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,680
free labour for you lot over 
here. 

586
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,720
So do not give money to Warsaw 
Pride, give it to regions. 

587
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:17,080
They are doing marvellous thing.
Yeah, I mean, with the money, 

588
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,080
the amount of money that they 
have, they shouldn't be able to 

589
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,560
do the things that they are 
doing. 

590
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,360
This is amazing, truly. 
Blown away to hear that because 

591
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:27,040
I grew up in a small town in the
countryside. 

592
00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,880
We don't have that. 
No. 

593
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,440
What we I've never had, there's 
no pride there. 

594
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,800
So the fact that that's 
happening in, you know, a less 

595
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:39,800
aggressive country that there 
are that is actually just again,

596
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:43,040
like, I'm blown away. 
There is clearly a lot of unity 

597
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,560
here. 
It's just it's just a lot 

598
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,040
looking it. 
It's literally just the 

599
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,640
beginning, which is incredible. 
It's a lot of perseverance. 

600
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:55,280
You know, people here, not only 
LGBTQ people, but also allies, 

601
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:59,040
they are fed up with the amount 
of hate from our government. 

602
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:04,080
So they are like, I didn't care 
about, you know, LGBTQ rights, 

603
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:08,920
but I cannot stand, you know, 
the hate speech against the 

604
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,360
group of people. 
Yes. 

605
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,680
So I'm becoming an ally. 
I'm becoming an active ally to 

606
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,920
actually support you. 
I. 

607
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,280
Mean that's pretty great. 
And I find it hard to believe 

608
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:20,840
that no one in this world just 
doesn't want peace, right? 

609
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,120
So like, whether you actively 
support it or not, you surely 

610
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,400
just want like an easy life. 
I think that's what we're all 

611
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,920
asking for. 
We're just asking for a bit of 

612
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,520
peace. 
Yeah, and like, have you ever 

613
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,800
been to London before? 
Oh. 

614
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,280
Yeah, honey, I love London. 
You love Sister. 

615
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:38,120
Lived there for a few years and 
the first time I travelled there

616
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,680
I was flying alone. 
I was 11. 

617
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:45,600
So that was that's when you 
found the lesbians, Yes, Yeah. 

618
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:48,200
And. 
I was actually gay club in 

619
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,520
London. 
Really. 

620
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,920
Yeah. 
They paid the the security guard

621
00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,240
to let me in with my. 
Head, that's amazing. 

622
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,160
I mean, it didn't look like 
heaven if I have to be. 

623
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,160
I mean it looks like hell, but 
called called. 

624
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:00,760
Heaven. 
Oh no, I don't. 

625
00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,720
Know that I I absolutely don't. 
Look like hell. 

626
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,680
That's amazing. 
The floor was super. 

627
00:34:06,680 --> 00:34:08,360
Sticky. 
Yeah, yeah. 

628
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,120
They're underground and they are
sticky, greasy dungeons. 

629
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:14,520
Yeah, I've had some fantastic 
times there. 

630
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,199
But but it's great. 
It's breeding Covic, isn't it? 

631
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:19,000
Yeah. 
It's actually sounds like 

632
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:20,960
Poland. 
I had a fantastic time there, 

633
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,920
but. 
On that note, I've got two other

634
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,040
questions before we probably 
have bored you to death. 

635
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:32,440
One being on the note of gay 
clubs, is there anywhere, if so 

636
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:36,800
where, if people are visiting 
Warsaw to go out as a queer 

637
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,120
person and have a really great 
time? 

638
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,920
One is Madame Q, it's a 
burlesque show. 

639
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,679
It's absolutely LGBTQ friendly. 
They have also a lot of drug 

640
00:34:46,679 --> 00:34:52,000
shows every every week. 
The safest place I have ever 

641
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,239
been to completely completely go
there, do it. 

642
00:34:56,239 --> 00:35:01,440
It's amazing and beside that La 
Pose, it's a new club also in 

643
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:07,960
the city centre and the most 
amazing voguing team is being in

644
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,560
charge of it. 
So strike a pose. 

645
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:16,640
That kind of vogue, yes. 
Love that you will see a lot. 

646
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,200
Of tomorrow the. 
Parade tomorrow, you know where 

647
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:20,440
she is. 
I'm in love the drag. 

648
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,560
Show she's on the floor in the 
drag show. 

649
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,520
Oh no. 
No, no, tomorrow I'm actually 

650
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:28,000
sweeping floors and cleaning 
after your party. 

651
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,920
So you're, you have to, you 
know, your family with our 

652
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:32,760
lesbians. 
Will not leave you sweeping the 

653
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,280
streets alone. 
Believe you love to know how 

654
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,960
much of a strong dyke I like to 
be, so if you give me a task I 

655
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,560
will do, I will. 
Told you, OK. 

656
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,760
Why? 
Yes, that's so we always have a 

657
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,920
session like we always come up 
with these things like gay 

658
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,160
inanimate. 
Why is a broom a gay inanimate 

659
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:52,840
object is like a like a street 
brush is very it's giving queer,

660
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:53,400
isn't it? 
It's. 

661
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,280
Giving lesbian it is giving. 
But so as we were saying this 

662
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,320
the other day, WD40, you know 
the oil that you use on your car

663
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:01,240
that's, that's gay. 
It's just so gay. 

664
00:36:01,240 --> 00:36:04,120
Yeah, it's so gay. 
Like so gay banners and nuts and

665
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,280
bolts and things like that. 
Anyway, I'm going to leave it on

666
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:08,640
one note. 
That's going to put you on the 

667
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:10,880
spot a bit. 
And you don't have to, you don't

668
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,240
have to answer this. 
So usually at this time in the 

669
00:36:13,240 --> 00:36:18,280
podcast we have our disgusting 
followers submit their lesbian 

670
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,920
horror stories and they are like
horrific. 

671
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,800
I'm not going to ask you to 
probably go to the length that 

672
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:28,000
some of these people would go to
because it is actually quite 

673
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:34,720
traumatising, but is there any 
Horror Story or experience that?

674
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:35,800
Just a bit of. 
Shocker. 

675
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,840
Give us a bit of insight on as 
to any experience you've had 

676
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,960
over the last however many years
you've been out. 

677
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,840
That would give us a bit of 
laugh slash. 

678
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,840
Maybe make us judge you a little
bit, not in a positive way, 

679
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:51,520
because you've had a lot of 
positive. 

680
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,800
I actually think you need to be 
knocked down a peg you because 

681
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,960
we've been complimenting you 
quite a lot, so I don't. 

682
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:58,520
Think so? 
I'm an Angel. 

683
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,720
I've had no crazy exes. 
You've never been the crazy ex. 

684
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,280
You've never if you. 
Haven't had the crazy ex you 

685
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,080
are, no. 
I'm in touch with all of my exes

686
00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:08,440
as a proper lesbian. 
Should. 

687
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,440
Wow, yes, yeah, I mean, fair. 
There's your one, yeah. 

688
00:37:12,720 --> 00:37:15,880
I have absolutely nothing bad to
say about my exes. 

689
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,360
That's surprising. 
Come on, I'm I'm actually. 

690
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,360
Sorry. 
That's saying that you're the 

691
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,720
red flag, though. 
If you don't have anything to 

692
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,480
say, they've got a lot to say 
about you. 

693
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,760
I I. 
I'm sure they do. 

694
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:30,280
You have to contact them. 
I can give you now that we'll. 

695
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,720
Get them on the phone, we'll be 
recording the whole. 

696
00:37:32,720 --> 00:37:33,960
Leave. 
We will do that. 

697
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:34,720
Don't. 
Worry. 

698
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,480
No, I I cannot think about any 
Horror Story busy. 

699
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,920
Changing in the world, darling. 
No traumatising first day. 

700
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,600
Oh. 
I have a traumatising first 

701
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,720
date. 
Oh my God. 

702
00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:50,040
Something. 
Oh my God, that was the the 

703
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:54,440
worst thing I have ever done. 
That's why I'm not online dating

704
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:59,080
dating anymore. 
So I met a girl online that was 

705
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,400
super, you know, everything was 
super fun. 

706
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,440
I mean, we had to really blast. 
So I said, OK, let's meet, let's

707
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,640
go for a beer. 
So we sit there for three hours,

708
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,960
the most amazing date you can 
imagine. 

709
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,560
You know, everything is great, 
everything is wonderful. 

710
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,720
And then she goes that she's 
voting for this far right 

711
00:38:17,720 --> 00:38:22,800
candidate in the presidential 
election and not the right wing 

712
00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:26,080
government that we have right 
now, the far right neo Nazi one.

713
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:30,080
Oh my God, and. 
There I am, and I'm like, how 

714
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,440
the fuck should I escape from 
this situation? 

715
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,400
So I said, Oh yeah, I mean, I'm 
super busy and I'm tired. 

716
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:40,560
I have to go home. 
I I didn't know if I should tell

717
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,000
her, tell her that I think she's
crazy or what. 

718
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,240
I'm very surprised she didn't 
challenge her I. 

719
00:38:45,240 --> 00:38:47,000
Mean that was really good date, 
yeah. 

720
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,840
Yeah. 
So I, I, I felt you were glad 

721
00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:51,520
you were. 
You were blindsided. 

722
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:56,680
I was blind completely. 
So you know, she was, she was 

723
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,960
walking me down to the metro 
station and she wanted to kiss 

724
00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:01,600
me. 
And there were, there were, 

725
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:06,000
there was I saying I will 
absolutely never kiss Someone 

726
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,040
Like You? 
That would. 

727
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,600
Be like kissing a man, wouldn't 
it? 

728
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:13,000
It's like that level of bad. 
Yes, Yeah, yeah, yeah. 

729
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:15,040
Oh, that is really I. 
Never thought I'd say that, but 

730
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,800
I think I'd rather kiss a man 
than someone who would vote for,

731
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:19,080
like, a fart. 
No, I would. 

732
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,720
Like, I don't hate men. 
I mean, fucking hell, Scarlet, 

733
00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:23,160
that is. 
Yeah, I mean. 

734
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:26,520
Everything would be better the 
this sticky floor in a gay club 

735
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,040
would. 
Licking the sticky floor in a 

736
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:31,600
gay club, obviously. 
So I just ran away. 

737
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,440
Yeah, that. 
Was, I mean, fair? 

738
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,600
Enough and it ties in really 
well to last week. 

739
00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:38,400
And I feel bad because I should 
stood up for myself, but that 

740
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:42,000
was a good date. 
I was so shocked that I wrote, 

741
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,120
you know, to my best friend. 
And I was like, how the what is 

742
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,000
going on? 
How is it even possible? 

743
00:39:47,000 --> 00:39:49,600
You know, do. 
You know, there's got to be 

744
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,040
something in the air at the 
moment because actually the last

745
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:56,000
week's Horror Story this girl 
had written in and she got on a 

746
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,840
date with this other woman. 
They go home, they start having 

747
00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:02,040
sex and the girls like, I'll 
talk dirty to me. 

748
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:04,160
So she starts talking dirty to 
her and she's like, no, get 

749
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,320
worse, get worse, get worse. 
And this girls like, fuck, I 

750
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,600
don't know what to say. 
And this girl looks up and was 

751
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,000
like, I want you to call me 
Hitler. 

752
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:15,880
So there's got to be. 
And she's screaming Hitler's 

753
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:19,760
name as she comes with the girls
fisting it has. 

754
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,880
To be yeah, with the neo Nazis 
at the moment, it's just that 

755
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,080
coming. 
I don't know why. 

756
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,360
It's quite frightening. 
Maybe it was the same girl. 

757
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,200
It could have been. 
Could have been the same girl. 

758
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,360
Fuck yes it could have been. 
All connected it. 

759
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,320
All Yeah, we are. 
Mentally, yeah, for sure, But. 

760
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,200
Imagine if it is the same girl 
we. 

761
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,440
Need to do some digging. 
Yeah, some investigation. 

762
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,760
OK, so this kind of Horror 
Story, I absolutely don't have 

763
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:47,880
one, but I have some horror 
stories from equal marches in 

764
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:51,920
Poland, you know, So if you want
to really hear a Horror Story 

765
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,360
from a March that was attacked 
by neo Nazis, I have plenty of 

766
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:58,280
that. 
No, yeah. 

767
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,840
So when you said Horror Story, 
that was the first thing that my

768
00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:03,320
mind flew. 
To so. 

769
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,000
It was hard to come back to the 
dating side, you know? 

770
00:41:06,000 --> 00:41:07,040
Absolutely. 
See. 

771
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:10,040
Again, you've shamed us because 
we're sat here talking about 

772
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,480
pathetic lesbian Horror Story 
where we're all just sad, but 

773
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,320
nothing that was not. 
My intention and. 

774
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:19,440
You're out here talking about 
real horror stories that people 

775
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,480
need to sort their shit out and 
stand up against. 

776
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,920
But you know, but then that's 
why it's been so good to have 

777
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,480
this conversation with you to, 
to really like spread that 

778
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:32,640
awareness as well as much as we 
hopefully can on here and then 

779
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:36,000
share all those links as well. 
Because even just like being 

780
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:38,560
here makes you more aware. 
And, and that she sat down 

781
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,680
speaking to you just makes us 
more painfully aware of, of how 

782
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:43,600
much further, you know, things 
can go. 

783
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,400
But the work that you're doing 
is incredible. 

784
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:47,400
And. 
This is like a show. 

785
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,080
Well done as well. 
To our listeners and some people

786
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,880
who have commented to us 
recently once we announced that 

787
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:56,000
we were coming here, basically 
asking us why we'd go to a 

788
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,800
homophobic country. 
First of all, use your fucking 

789
00:41:58,800 --> 00:42:02,800
brain. 
Second of all, how do you think 

790
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:07,040
if you're living in your Pretty 
Little areas in LA or Canada or,

791
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,120
you know, London, what the fuck 
do you think happened 

792
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:12,120
historically for you to get to 
that point? 

793
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:16,160
Like if you're a queer person 
and you're not advocating and 

794
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,200
supporting and actively, you 
know, standing up for other 

795
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,280
countries and nations that do 
not have the privilege that you 

796
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:27,600
do, look at yourself in the 
mirror because Pride is not just

797
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:30,920
a glitter party. 
Pride is there as a political 

798
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,280
movement and. 
Poland Pride is still a riot. 

799
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,560
Exactly. 
And yeah, you know, we all need 

800
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:39,240
to wake up to that. 
Is that yes, we, we all, you 

801
00:42:39,240 --> 00:42:42,000
know, I think a lot of our 
listeners will come from such 

802
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,320
privilege, but be very aware of 
that privilege. 

803
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,360
It doesn't then absolve you for 
not supporting, you know, to not

804
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,800
support other countries and 
other, you know, your queer 

805
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:56,520
family who have to exist in 
other spaces without the kind of

806
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,800
way that you're able to walk. 
Through the world. 

807
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,600
And don't be scared to come to 
Poland. 

808
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:07,280
I know it might, you know, 
sounds scary, but beside the 

809
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:11,120
politicians, we have an amazing 
society that is going forward, 

810
00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:14,320
that is going for equal rights, 
not only for LGBTQ people. 

811
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,200
So yeah, yeah. 
Drop by, say hi. 

812
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,200
Yeah. 
Come over because I have not. 

813
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:22,320
I mean, first of all, there's 
many hotels I want a nap in, 

814
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,320
second of all. 
Food the. 

815
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,840
Food I'm not going to be able to
get through all the rest, not 

816
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:28,960
going to be able to be. 
Scanning away to a lot of them. 

817
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,440
And I do love to go to each 
country I go to. 

818
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,720
I love to try the McDonald's 
hair but I can't do it this time

819
00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:38,640
because it would be away. 
So I need to come back to be 

820
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:40,480
able to justify just to have 
McDonald's. 

821
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:43,320
Do you know what I mean? 
Yeah, exactly. 

822
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,160
Uncultured swines. 
Thank you. 

823
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,680
Cultured. 
Yeah, the Lesbian Supper Club 

824
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:52,040
are leaving you today with a 
sour taste in our mouth that we 

825
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:56,600
are uncultured, lazy assholes. 
Amazing. 

826
00:43:56,720 --> 00:43:58,160
Have you to thank for that, 
Julie? 

827
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,120
No, but seriously. 
Thank you so much because we. 

828
00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:03,400
Appreciate how absolutely busy 
you are, yeah. 

829
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:05,760
You are rammed. 
So, so appreciate taking the 

830
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,440
time and we really hope you guys
enjoyed this episode as much as 

831
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,000
we enjoyed creating it here 
today. 

832
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:16,080
And again, just a massive thank 
you to Levi's because without 

833
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:20,600
brands such as this out here 
advocating for us, you know, 

834
00:44:20,720 --> 00:44:22,200
these things don't happen. 
Exactly. 

835
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,520
So on that note, we love you 
lesbians and everyone else, and 

836
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,520
we will see you very, very, very
soon. 

837
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,520
Happy. 
Pride. 

838
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:29,680
Happy pride, Happy. 
Pride. 

839
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:30,360
Bye, guys.
