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Hello everyone, welcome to a 
very ad hoc rogue episode of the

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lesbian supper club podcast. 
We are sat here it is my 

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birthday me being Scarlet and 
scarlet scarlet we decided after

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a cup of glasses of wine 
wouldn't it be funny to do a 

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slightly ad hoc episode of the 
lesbian supper club podcast. 

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So we've literally just got the 
mics out and we've got out the 

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interface and we're recording. 
So to start off the podcast, 

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let's introduce the rogue folk 
that we are here with today. 

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So Olivia, considering you're 
holding the microphone I'm 

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looking at, you go first. 
Introduce yourself. 

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Who are you and why the fuck are
you here? 

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Why the fuck am I here? 
Well, I'm live AKA manager live,

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so I wouldn't be here. 
Well, you wouldn't be here, but 

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I'll live so guys don't be here.
I think everyone, I think 

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everyone knows me by now, so I 
don't need to introduce myself 

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to. 
Don't be nasty. 

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Don't be fucking just because 
it's your birthday. 

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We're literally recording in our
fucking flat with the mics we 

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bought ourselves. 
So yes, we would still be here. 

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We wouldn't have as many as many
brand deals and we wouldn't be 

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able to afford to buy the mics 
for that exactly. 

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OK, we'll have a meeting 
tomorrow to debrief on that one.

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Anyway, I'll pass the mic over 
to the. 

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Let's pass the pass the mic over
to Polly. 

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Hi, I'm Polly. 
I'm I'm basically. 

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I've been hired by Freya just to
really annoy Scarlett. 

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On her birthday. 
Because like, Scarlett was 

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receiving loads of presents and 
basically Freya was like, we 

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just need to like knock her down
a little bit. 

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So I I got the message like 10 
minutes ago just to calm and 

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just wine. 
Yeah, and I do. 

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I do quite literally hate your 
existence. 

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I do feel like you're doing a 
brilliant job. 

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You have an every single penny 
that I'm going to. 

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Give I don't know if anyone else
has this type of friend that 

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like they love. 
Like I honestly do love Polly 

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but every time she opens her 
mouth I want to plummet fucking 

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forklift into. 
Her. 

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You know what, though, Polly? 
You're fit, so it's fine. 

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All right, I'll give you that 
one, Polly. 

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Oh. 
God, in true style, I'll be very

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awkward. 
I'm definitely not the 

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personality hire of the French. 
I'm here to make everyone feel 

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better about their dating life 
because my dating stories are so

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terrible and sometimes feature 
on the podcast. 

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Thank you so much, Leo. 
Joe, that's a that's a brilliant

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little roundup, actually, that 
that is to them so well. 

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So I want to talk quickly about 
it being my birthday. 

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And we were actually meant to 
record an episode earlier just 

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me and Freya Ari, just because 
we're meant to on today. 

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And then we didn't. 
And I've had an amazing birthday

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because you guys are going to be
shocked to fucking hear that. 

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I've known for the past like 2 
1/2, three months that Freya has

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been arranging a surprise. 
But I'm really bad at surprises 

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because I get so much anxiety 
around the unknown. 

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So I know that she's been 
arranging a surprise with all 

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the girls in the room and I 
didn't know what it was going to

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be at all. 
And I thought at one point it 

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was going to be a holiday, so I 
brought it up and I was like, 

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look, if it's a holiday, like 
basically it needs to be fucking

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executed within like maximum 
precision because I'll get 

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severe anxiety about leaving the
dog because I'll basically only 

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leave Ziggy with my mom, 
etcetera, etcetera. 

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And Fred was like, don't worry, 
I wouldn't do that to you. 

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I'm not going to do a fucking 
holiday. 

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So I was like, OK, cool. 
Never. 

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I was like never. 
Very scarlet coded. 

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So I was like, well, what's 
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Scarlet coded is going on a dog 
walk or going to like a petting 

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zoo or something. 
So I've been like, fully 

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expecting a petting zoo. 
Imagine me having to set up a 

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fucking group chat for a petting
zoo. 

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Yeah. 
She can just please. 

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What were you gonna say, Polly? 
Go. 

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Away if is what we're doing for 
Freya's birth. 

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Yeah, like something like that, 
that. 

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You still need to get a go away.
That's honestly what I thought 

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it was gonna be. 
So yesterday Fred gets out my 

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like birthday surprise last 
night, even though it was my 

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birthday today because she was 
like, I literally cannot sleep 

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on this secret one more night, 
so can you please open the 

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secret? 
So she brings out this big 

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package and it's a travel holder
bag. 

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And I was like, OK, cool. 
I thought that we were going on 

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some kind of like excursion. 
I open the zip, I pull out the 

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first piece of paper and it's 
got a fucking rhino on the 

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front. 
And she's like, we've adopted 

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you a rhino for your birthday. 
And I'm like, do you know what? 

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Fair. 
Love it. 

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And then it dawned on me. 
I was like, Buck, this bitch is 

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taking me on fucking safari. 
Yeah, So I'm shitting myself 

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because I'm like, oh, because. 
You need to say what you opened 

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within the bag because there was
the face mask and then the 

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additional. 
Yeah, so she bought me my face 

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masks that I really love. 
Simple, by the way, Shout out to

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Simple. 
Do these like Jelly face masks 

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which are. 
So good. 

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Some like tanning oil shit like 
that, but that wasn't clicking. 

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It was just like, yeah, ear 
defenders. 

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No, the deflator. 
Listened to Polly deflated. 

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Oh yeah. 
And then I picked the deflating 

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out and basically I always get 
really fucking I'll whenever I 

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fly I get really bad stomach 
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So I pulled out the deflating 
and I'm like fuck I'm going on a

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flight. 
But at this point I'm still like

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not really sure. 
Anyway, I then pull out the 

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second folder of paper. 
Turns out Freya has bought me or

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kind of created me. 
Sorry, this like magazine and on

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the front it was a picture of 
second thus I open it up and 

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basically it was like you're 
going to 2nd thus with the girls

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and you're all going to be 
shocked to hear I burst into 

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tears. 
Like a little. 

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Fucking baby. 
I think it's because the first 

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note was we're leaving Ziggy 
with your mom, and that's 

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probably what made you cry. 
I was honestly so like. 

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Distraught that Polly was going.
I was a distraught that Polly 

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was on the invite. 
This I was beat. 

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No, I was honestly so touched 
that I have a group of people in

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my life that would go to the 
extremes that these guys do. 

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No, it was something for me. 
It was like it was really nice. 

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So I literally burst into tears.
Also PSAI have not been taking 

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my citalopram for the last six 
weeks because actually for the 

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last two years I've been sharing
phrase which I shouldn't be 

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doing. 
I have actually been prescribed 

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previously, but then in true 
style I haven't been to the 

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doctors and renewed them. 
So I've just been taking Freya's

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and then Freya's been like 
really slacking on her 

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girlfriend duties and oh and. 
Hasn't. 

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Actually been giving them to me 
so I was like fuck it I'm going 

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to stop taking them. 
However, I will say by not 

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taking them I do think touch 
words my migraines been better. 

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Yeah, but I now actually feel 
things so I started crying like 

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a little fucking bitch. 
To be fair, I think me and Freya

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looked at each other last night 
and we were like, you child 

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crying. 
We were like. 

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I didn't know what to do. 
As soon as you started crying I 

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was like, I've got to take a 
photo to send it to Leo and 

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Polly because this is like some 
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behaviour. 
So I had the best birthday 

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surprise ever. 
The whole reason why we sat up 

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the mics today is because during
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her sheer problematic 
personality insisted that she 

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had to have a room on her own, 
which means that Liv and Polly 

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are having to share. 
So obviously we're like, well, 

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you guys are going to. 
Yeah, most likely coupled to 

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fuck Not Me and Live Not Me and 
Polly. 

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Yeah, exactly. 
And not me and prayer. 

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Either they had, they have a 
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And they do we have a private. 
Yeah. 

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So the whole reason I picked out
the mics today is because we've 

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got this candle which we will 
plug in the flat, which 

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basically you light and it burns
like wax, but you can pour on 

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your skin. 
Yeah. 

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But also shout out to the axe. 
Shout out to the axe, you've 

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done this. 
Yeah, cheers Libs Axe. 

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Thanks. 
Some on your skin. 

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Amazing. 
Put on Polly. 

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Actually pouring it on Polly. 
Now it turns into like an oil. 

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Oh yeah, rub it in charm. 
Is. 

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Really. 
Oh, lips rubbing it in full 

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Polly. 
We're just doing a little taste 

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of and. 
I'm gonna use. 

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It for great just turns. 
Into like kind of like a Lube 

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based oil. 
Yeah, yeah. 

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Now picture me. 
I wouldn't want, I could be 

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honest. 
So I wouldn't want this anywhere

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near my vagina because I would 
get B like that, no? 

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It's you're not. 
It's external. 

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You're internal. 
I'm rubbing it into Leo. 

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It smells like Lady Million or 
1,000,000. 

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Oh yeah, Paka Roban. 
Yeah, it. 

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Smells like a. 
It smells better than. 

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That it smells really sexy, like
I feel like. 

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It smells. 
Like it's nothing you'd want to 

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go inside you, but it's more of 
an external massaging. 

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Oh nice, it's fucking stunning. 
Cheers to my ex and it means. 

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Thank you so much for your ex. 
So sex oil. 

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We'll plug it on the podcast. 
This stuff is fucking amazing. 

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I've just figured out what the 
topic of this conversation is 

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going to be, and I want to talk 
about Leo and Polly's really 

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successful dating life. 
No, no, no. 

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Guys, I've actually managed to 
somehow ingest that that. 

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What is it in your mouth? 
Yeah. 

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Mate, you're not meant to lick 
it after it's gone on your skin.

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I don't. 
Want to be a little bit sticky? 

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Polly, can you please give us a 
brief overview of your dating 

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history and current dating 
situation without traumatising 

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the listeners too much? 
No, please. 

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Traumatise. 
No, I so my current dating 

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situation is actually, I think 
it's quite positive. 

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I'm, I'm having a break. 
I'm, I'm having a extended break

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because I basically keep Yeah, I
just keep getting. 

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Why are you having a break, 
Polly? 

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Because I keep, I keep getting 
punches. 

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Really. 
No. 

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No, no, no. 
No, no, no. 

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But you get the ick though, 
right? 

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So tell me about. 
I want to hear about the. 

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Ick, I first of all just want to
say why have you been forced 

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into this situation? 
Polly's been forced into this 

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celibacy situation because Polly
decided it would be a really, 

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really good idea to get with her
housemates younger sister. 

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I'm. 
Convinced that that would work 

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out well for all parties 
involved. 

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Shock, horror, it hasn't worked 
out for all parties involved. 

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So is anything swiftly on from 
that? 

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I'm interested because you've 
said on multiple occasions, and 

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I'm very similar to you, right? 
So like I get the ick quite 

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badly with girls. 
That's been like a thing of 

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mine. 
What do you think it is that 

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really like turns you off, like 
you can be with someone and then

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all of it? 
Or is it the fact that there 

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isn't anything specific, but you
just suddenly go oh. 

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Yeah, I mean, I think it's 
definitely a me issue because it

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can be the most random thing. 
So like, I don't know, this one 

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time that was this girl that I 
actually had been seeing for 

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quite a while and like, really 
did like, like her. 

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And she was just eating a packet
of crisps in my bed and like a 

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really loud way. 
And then after that I just I 

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actually. 
Really. 

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Was that all it took? 
Was it cheese and onion? 

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No, it was just ready. 
It was. 

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It was. 
It was literally. 

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To be fair, it was. 
It doesn't salt do it. 

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It was ready salt. 
I think. 

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I think it was just like the 
concept of like. 

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Eating. 
No, but I'm not really precious 

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about like no, I'm not like the 
type person to be like oh, like 

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no outdoor clothes in the bed or
whatever. 

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Like I'm I always like pass out 
on top of my bed, like it 

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happens all the time with my 
shoes on and stuff. 

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But I just I. 
One of many. 

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No. 
But was it because, OK, so I 

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think it's really interesting 
because I was also speaking to 

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our friend Bree about this the 
other day, and she believes that

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saying that you got the ick from
someone is actually really nasty

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in a way because it's no, but 
hear me out. 

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Because I actually agreed with 
her in the end because I was 

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like, well, no, because like you
get the ick and it is what it 

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is, right? 
She said no, people don't give 

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you the ick, It's your problem. 
Yeah, it's your problem. 

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They have triggered you into 
thinking oh God I'm not 

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attracted to you anymore. 
It's still. 

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It's not their problem. 
No, it's not their problem. 

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It's still partially because of 
the person. 

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Yeah, but you could do quite 
literally anything to me. 

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What I'm about to say right So. 
So it's not on you, it's on me. 

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And like, because I love you and
I don't get the IT from you. 

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That's that's on me though. 
It's. 

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Just on the person by 
association, right? 

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Because I agree with that. 
Like the one thing I know about 

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you and the one thing that keeps
me secure in this relationship 

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is you don't actually give me 
the ick. 

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Oh, fantastic. 
Never. 

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You've never given me the ick. 
No, you've never given me the 

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ick. 
I've been embarrassed. 

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No, but you don't get the ick 
from a partner. 

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It happens early on. 
I don't think you can get the 

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ick. 
I don't. 

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Think you can get the ick after 
years? 

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Yeah, I don't think that that 
can. 

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Happen, I think, I think the as 
you know, I think the ick is a 

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sign that you are not like 
emotionally available. 

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To you, it's God's will to be 
like this is not your person. 

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We always all remember it as 
well because I remember getting 

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the ick from a girl that I was 
seeing because when I met her 

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started like it was really 
casual. 

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It was literally just basically 
a fuck. 

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But I was really young so like I
was really into it and like she 

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was older than me and I knew 
that she was into Disney. 

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And at the start didn't really 
bother me. 

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I was like, oh, she's into 
Disney, whatever. 

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Nah, that's a neck Disney 
adults. 

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Like the end game was when she 
got up and started dancing to 

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one of the Disney theme tunes. 
What was it? 

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I can't remember, I think it was
The Little Mermaid. 

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Look at this. 
Under the sea. 

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Fucking love under this whole. 
New I think it was. 

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No, she's. 
Aladdin She got up and started 

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like performing it in the living
room and I, I left. 

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Cosplay. 
I seen that, yeah, but the. 

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Thing is, Ryan instantly orders 
Aladdin cosplay tomorrow on 

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Amazon. 
No, but the funniest thing is, 

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is that if I was really into a 
girl and she did something like 

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that, I'd be like, that's quite 
funny. 

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I also think like, do you know 
what I mean? 

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No, Leo wouldn't. 
No, mate. 

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You hate Harry Potter. 
I'm the first. 

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Person I don't hate Harry 
Potter, I like Harry Potter. 

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Dates. 
I'm going to be like, can we 

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watch Harry? 
Potter I've never seen. 

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Yeah, but if a girl said to you,
can we do like Harry Potter, 

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Hermione Granger cosplay, would 
you do it? 

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No. 
Wand in air being like let's. 

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I would say, I would say, what 
are we doing with the wand? 

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She starts looking at you in the
eye and she's like sexual 

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megiciosa. 
Fuck your Melissiosa, what are 

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you doing? 
Hiding under the deep right. 

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Where is what she's doing? 
OK, fine. 

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No, I'm just, I'm thinking that 
she's just saying that to be 

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nice. 
I think, though, I've never had 

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it with anyone that I think is 
like innately really, really 

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kind, though it's always been 
with like personalities where 

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I've been a bit itched by like 
personality traits rather than 

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like just full on, yeah. 
Hold on, someone's look. 

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So for me so. 
But I mean, as in like they're, 

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they have like some like 
personality traits around like, 

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oh, I don't know, like how, how 
nice that was or how kind that 

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was. 
So and then I'll. 

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Just put it to a side because 
like they're really fit or 

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whatever and then they'll do 
something really minor, like I 

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know like vape in my bed or 
something and then I'll just be 

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like, oh. 
But you probably vape in your 

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bed. 
But no, I know. 

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But I'm allowed to do it because
it's my bed and that's. 

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Fine, no, but I totally get it. 
So what I think it is is that 

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it's like your brain's way of 
making an excuse to find them 

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unattractive because you've, 
because you've already found 

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things about them inattractive, 
like unattractive, sorry. 

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And then you're like, OK, I'm 
going to push that aside because

321
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I do like their company and I 
think they're attractive. 

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And then they do something minor
and that triggers you. 

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It's like, you know, that's what
I think it is. 

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It's a bit like whenever me and 
Scarlett have had an argument 

325
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about something big and like 
something's really fucked me off

326
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that she's done and maybe I 
didn't react massively at the 

327
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time, and then she will do 
something minor the next day and

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I will flip because I'm still 
thinking. 

329
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Back held on to it to. 
Something else, right? 

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So I think that that's really 
what it's. 

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Gotten. 
By that point I'm already 

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annoyed about something else. 
You're you're, you're just. 

333
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I'm not annoyed, I'm not holding
onto the grudge from the day 

334
00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:40,960
before because I've got a new 
grudge. 

335
00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,360
But yeah, I don't think I've 
ever got the ick of someone that

336
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I'm like innately like, oh, I 
think they're a really good 

337
00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,400
person, you know? 
I get that. 

338
00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:53,680
Isn't the ick such a weird? 
What, Leo, What's given you the 

339
00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:56,400
ick before? 
Good question. 

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00:15:57,400 --> 00:16:01,160
Everything. 
I could no, my first ex that you

341
00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,480
knew. 
Yeah, around the same time with 

342
00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:05,800
your ick. 
I couldn't put it down to 

343
00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:08,160
anything. 
I genuinely woke up one day and 

344
00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,680
I was like I don't fancy her. 
Yeah. 

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And I think that's. 
Just everything she's done, 

346
00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,040
yeah. 
See, my thing is, it's like 

347
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people. 
The thing is that all of a 

348
00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,200
sudden you can't wake up the 
next day and be like, do you 

349
00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,520
know what? 
I actually don't really like you

350
00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,080
anymore. 
Yeah, but because. 

351
00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:25,320
But because of like social 
media, they do those things 

352
00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:27,600
like, what's your biggest ex? 
And everyone thinks they're the 

353
00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:29,760
most minimal flaws within a 
person. 

354
00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:31,960
Yeah, it's. 
Very like, Oh yeah, people will 

355
00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,920
be like, Oh yeah, I hate when 
like this is just subjective 

356
00:16:34,920 --> 00:16:36,000
because I see an on TikTok 
black. 

357
00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,240
Oh, I hate when a guy bends 
over, like to get in the car and

358
00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:42,240
I'm like, you've made. 
It I did see a funny tick tock 

359
00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,800
yesterday of a straight. 
It's always the straight girls 

360
00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,200
that actually get towards their 
boyfriends which really made me 

361
00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:49,560
laugh. 
I saw one yesterday of a girl 

362
00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:53,760
videoing her boyfriend driving a
speedboat and videoed his 

363
00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:57,240
earlobe flapping and was like 
new ick unlocked. 

364
00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:00,760
Really made me I. 
Feel like, The thing is that I 

365
00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:03,000
feel like they've just made it 
too specific. 

366
00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:04,400
Then you can't be like, Oh my 
ick. 

367
00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:06,800
Is this because everyone has an 
ick for everything? 

368
00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,240
But what I want to know is like,
why it's so hot? 

369
00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,079
It's it's I've it's impossible 
to get over. 

370
00:17:12,079 --> 00:17:13,000
It. 
Yeah, that's the thing. 

371
00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:15,319
It's so minor, yeah. 
And I've tried. 

372
00:17:15,319 --> 00:17:18,960
But The thing is, is after you 
get it, then everything that's 

373
00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:22,280
like they like anything that 
they go to open a door and 

374
00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:24,240
you're like. 
Yeah, shout out to anyone 

375
00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,359
listening who's dating someone 
right now. 

376
00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:29,560
If you've got the ick once and 
it shocks you, you've gone fuck.

377
00:17:29,560 --> 00:17:31,560
I've got the ick and you're 
trying to hold on. 

378
00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,160
Don't bother. 
Don't bother it. 

379
00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,960
Happens once you're fucked like 
it's done. 

380
00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,400
I feel like when, like for 
example, my most recent 

381
00:17:39,520 --> 00:17:42,480
situation, there was probably a 
lot of X slash red flags, but 

382
00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,040
you don't see it at the time 
till you're out of it. 

383
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:45,360
Yeah, but and that happens a 
lot. 

384
00:17:45,360 --> 00:17:46,480
But then that wasn't in it, 
yeah. 

385
00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:47,440
It's not. 
Oh no. 

386
00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:50,200
Yeah, it is very difficult. 
However, when you look back at 

387
00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,760
the the relationship it makes 
you it makes. 

388
00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:55,320
You. 
I do the same with my past 

389
00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,320
relationship, right? 
Think about certain things, I 

390
00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:58,600
go. 
Oh yeah, like. 

391
00:17:58,960 --> 00:18:01,560
That same feeling of the ick 
where you're like, Oh no, you 

392
00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,520
can't. 
Have a retrospective no and and 

393
00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:06,720
it is present and you can't come
back. 

394
00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:10,920
You can get a retrospective ick,
but it's not the, it's an ick in

395
00:18:10,920 --> 00:18:12,120
the moment, right? 
Yeah. 

396
00:18:12,120 --> 00:18:14,320
So I look back on my exes and 
go. 

397
00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:17,400
Yeah, everyone doesn't. 
Cringe, right? 

398
00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,000
Because I think we actually 
that's actually partially 

399
00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,280
evolving as a person post the 
relationship. 

400
00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:25,400
That's very different to being 
in a situation with the person 

401
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:29,280
looking at them and literally 
being like, I need to hold the 

402
00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,680
vomit in my throat because 
you've just. 

403
00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:34,200
Yeah, you've. 
Just made me feel so violently 

404
00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,360
unwell. 
I don't know whether to leave, 

405
00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:38,800
combust, or punch you in the 
face. 

406
00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:42,320
I wanted to ask everyone like 
what is the most extreme 

407
00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:44,720
reaction that you've ever like 
done in an ick? 

408
00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,840
Like once like halfway through 
having sex with someone, I got 

409
00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:50,440
the ick. 
I was so far away from my house.

410
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,880
I was genuinely like an hour and
40 minutes away from my house. 

411
00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:56,000
Classic. 
I left in my pyjamas and just 

412
00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:57,880
put all of my. 
How old were you? 

413
00:18:58,080 --> 00:18:59,600
This happened like not even that
long ago. 

414
00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,840
Like it was during COVID. 
It was during COVID. 

415
00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,600
So it was like 2020-2021 or 
something like that. 

416
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:10,800
And I had to just try and shove 
all my stuff into a Sainsbury's 

417
00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,760
bag and leave. 
But I left into a Sainsbury. 

418
00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:17,000
I left half of it there like and
it was like clothes I wanted 

419
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:20,000
back and I just literally had to
say goodbye and never. 

420
00:19:20,120 --> 00:19:23,280
What did what did she do that 
made you literally leave in your

421
00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:26,960
pyjamas? 
I can't so bet. 

422
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:31,360
Do you know what it was her The 
bed at home had four posts and 

423
00:19:31,360 --> 00:19:34,680
like a big like net thing. 
Oh, the Princess net. 

424
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Crazy. 
Great. 

425
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,800
And do you know what? 
Do you know how I know that? 

426
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:43,080
Because I had one, all right? 
I was 9. 

427
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,080
Of course you had one. 
I was 9. 

428
00:19:45,120 --> 00:19:46,960
I'm still crazy. 
I'm not as crazy. 

429
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,160
But if you've got one as an 
adult, you're double fucking 

430
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,360
crazy. 
Yeah, so true. 

431
00:19:50,360 --> 00:19:54,760
And then basically in her bed, 
sheets were so intensely 

432
00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,560
tightly, like tucked into her 
bed. 

433
00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,360
So I was like trying to, I was 
like trying to get into bed. 

434
00:20:00,360 --> 00:20:02,080
I was like, bloody hell. 
Like you need to like. 

435
00:20:02,120 --> 00:20:04,560
Oh, when they tap the duvet in 
the side as well and you can't 

436
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,640
pull it out. 
So then I lied down and then at 

437
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,840
this point I felt like I'd been 
like sellotaped to the bed 

438
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:11,920
because I because I couldn't 
move because the sheets were, 

439
00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:16,160
the sheets were so like rigid on
top of me and I was like, oh, 

440
00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:17,160
like, how do you sleep like 
this? 

441
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:20,120
She was like, no, like I need to
be confined and then at that 

442
00:20:20,120 --> 00:20:20,920
point. 
I was like I need to be. 

443
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:22,600
Strapped down. 
Oh yeah, I was like at that 

444
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,320
point. 
Polly climbed on top of her and 

445
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,400
sat on her face. 
I know I was like, challenge 

446
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:31,000
accepted, I can't move but I'll 
still be able to finger you. 

447
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,800
It was so I don't know, it was 
just the whole scene around it 

448
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:36,960
and then. 
That that feels very 

449
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:38,960
uncomfortable, like the way that
you're talking about it sounds. 

450
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,400
Fun. 
The egg here is literally A4 

451
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:44,240
poster bed and a net and a 
fitted sheet. 

452
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:44,920
Yeah. 
Yeah, yeah. 

453
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,480
I thought it'd be so much worse 
I. 

454
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,320
Get it though it? 
Makes. 

455
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,680
Sense I get it, I can see the 
room. 

456
00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:57,800
Loads and loads of like really 
really old. 

457
00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,160
China dolls. 
No. 

458
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,600
No. 
Old old like paintings. 

459
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,440
All the eyes follow you around 
the room. 

460
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,960
In like portrait of like 
Victorian children. 

461
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:08,600
Oh no in. 
Her bedroom. 

462
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,880
Oh no, you found. 
The ones where wherever you 

463
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,480
look, they're looking at, yeah. 
Polly, you found Tory Elite 

464
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:16,960
mode. 
You found the ultimate Tory. 

465
00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:20,920
I vote green. 
Polly can't just shag Gen Z 

466
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:27,960
slash millennial Hackney playing
cosplaying poor type Tory. 

467
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,080
Polly has to go. 
Polly doing her version of 

468
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:33,920
Saltburn. 
Yeah, Royalty Polly has to go 

469
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:37,200
Royalty Tory or it's not done. 
So you can't royalty Tory? 

470
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:39,720
I get the earcut. 
Royalty. 

471
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,880
Tory, right? 
You keep going back so I can't 

472
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:42,960
do that bad as you get the 
earcut. 

473
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,920
That this has happened to my 
last two relationships. 

474
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,120
What about when you break up 
with someone and then you know 

475
00:21:48,120 --> 00:21:50,200
you have their clothes at their 
house and vice versa? 

476
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:52,320
Yeah blah blah. 
You do the like little exchange 

477
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:54,640
and not everything has been 
swapped over. 

478
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:59,440
So my past two relationships 
I've seen both of my exes 

479
00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,840
wearing my clothes, but that's 
your. 

480
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,920
Behaviour. 
Is that is that's not I'm 

481
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:07,240
saying, is that happened to 
everyone else? 

482
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,600
Yeah, all the everyone does. 
I think it's weird 'cause I've 

483
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,560
had some of my exes, I've had my
exes clothes and jewellery. 

484
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,400
I don't know, fucking wear it's 
weird nor post it on social 

485
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,160
media. 
YouTube got my exes jewellery. 

486
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:24,040
So you actually. 
Wearing your exes ring I never 

487
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,080
met. 
Oh, it's not my pop. 

488
00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,680
Live just regifts it. 
Live just buys a box and puts it

489
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:30,040
in there. 
Yes, happy birthday. 

490
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,200
Oh do you know what? 
I've had some bad karma since 

491
00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,120
I've been wearing this ring. 
That's so true. 

492
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,880
So I think that is twofold. 
A, they do it because they want 

493
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:41,120
a reaction, yeah. 
And B, they do it because 

494
00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:43,600
they're a level of if you're 
doing that, you're a level of 

495
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:48,360
crazy where you either want a 
reaction or you in a weird way 

496
00:22:48,360 --> 00:22:51,720
think it empowers you, which is.
Just as bad because I feel like 

497
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:55,920
I've got one of my axes hoodies 
in like the wardrobe and I would

498
00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:58,240
wear it, but I'm not going to 
fucking Instagram in it, you 

499
00:22:58,240 --> 00:22:59,760
know? 
What do you think, Leo? 

500
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,640
No, I have a funny story but. 
I'm Oh, OK, Go on, Leo, tell the

501
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,640
funny story. 
Am I allowed to say names? 

502
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,280
You can. 
You can just say, did you 

503
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:13,560
remember? 
Obviously, yeah, She, I think, I

504
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,960
don't know if you saw me in it. 
It was a great oversized hoodie,

505
00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,920
very basic, not that expensive, 
but I loved it because it was 

506
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:23,720
oversized and we split up and 
she, she always wore it. 

507
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:25,760
She was a bit, bit of a bigger 
girl, I'm sure. 

508
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,240
So it was massively oversized on
me. 

509
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,840
But then it fit her great. 
She was a big girl. 

510
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,320
Fucking it's. 
How shit to? 

511
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,120
Say it. 
I don't think you need to say 

512
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:37,480
big girl. 
This. 

513
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,120
Was the only item of clothing 
that she could take from me that

514
00:23:41,120 --> 00:23:42,840
would fit her OK? 
Yeah. 

515
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,680
It was a tent it. 
Was a tent. 

516
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,360
Also she wasn't fat, she was 
tall and I'm really short. 

517
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,000
Yeah, no, this joke isn't 
because we think she's fat. 

518
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,560
It's because she's really, 
really tall. 

519
00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:56,800
Really small. 
Yeah, we're a small part silica.

520
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:59,840
Anyway, I asked for this hoodie 
back. 

521
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,760
I probably was being a bit petty
because I was being immature and

522
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:04,560
whatever, but I did want it 
back. 

523
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:06,840
And she was like, Oh no, sorry. 
Like I took all your clothes to 

524
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,880
the charity shop. 
Oh, and I was like. 

525
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:11,920
What? 
But why are you selling my 

526
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,040
clothes? 
Machine turn. 

527
00:24:13,120 --> 00:24:15,200
You don't OK, Leo, you don't 
sell clothes. 

528
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,040
The charity. 
Sorry, but anyway, she just, she

529
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,000
did them. 
She. 

530
00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,400
Didn't get commissioned. 
Why did she donate your clothes?

531
00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:24,600
She didn't, that's the point 
anyway I was like oh never mind 

532
00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:26,840
like it's just a hoodie. 
Anyway, a couple months down 

533
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,240
then I ended up having a one 
night stand with her and I got 

534
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,360
a. 
One night stand if you slept 

535
00:24:32,360 --> 00:24:34,000
with her multiple times before 
and. 

536
00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:35,320
You. 
No, we've been split up. 

537
00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,440
That is a one night stand. 
No, because a one night stand is

538
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,680
when you've never. 
There's no intention of it going

539
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,400
any further. 
One night stand because when 

540
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,360
you've never met. 
Them all right, Sorry, sorry. 

541
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:45,160
You've never met them. 
You're never going to see them 

542
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,320
again. 
You don't know their name. 

543
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,880
Sorry, sorry, expert of one 
night stands. 

544
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:52,120
Sorry, I didn't get that down 
for the tea anyway. 

545
00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,200
Shove that up your ass anyway. 
Yeah, so I went. 

546
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,480
Sorry. 
Not for a one night stand. 

547
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,880
I went to have sex with her. 
Really good at one night stands 

548
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,080
because they never messaged her 
back. 

549
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:09,400
After literally anyway it was 
there, obviously. 

550
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:10,600
Those shows. 
Come in. 

551
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:11,160
They do. 
They do. 

552
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:12,840
They do. 
Yeah, it was there. 

553
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,480
To be honest, it's it's not a 
lot much more to it. 

554
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,080
But she told me she sold it. 
Obviously she didn't foresee 

555
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:22,440
having sex with me a couple 
months later and I tried to take

556
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:23,600
it when I left and she was 
acting there. 

557
00:25:24,120 --> 00:25:25,600
Oh, so she didn't get rid of 
them? 

558
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,240
She still kept them lied. 
And told you she took your 

559
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,320
attire to the charity shop and 
actually she'd just been 

560
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,760
hoarding. 
It but else did she have? 

561
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,640
That's fucking wow. 
So she was she sniffing it? 

562
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,120
What's she doing? 
Probably have any. 

563
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,120
Let's not. 
Refer it to a year back when my 

564
00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:40,840
mum went to collect my 
belongings from my ex and 

565
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,400
awkward I'd only returned a 
laptop. 

566
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:46,080
Lo and behold, I had fucking 
hoodies. 

567
00:25:46,360 --> 00:25:49,120
Boots had everything. 
Expensive fucking jacket. 

568
00:25:49,120 --> 00:25:50,960
But let's also talk about the 
laptop. 

569
00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:53,040
So talking about. 
Ohh yeah, why did you have the 

570
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,520
laptop we'll get? 
Into the laptop Leo. 

571
00:25:55,640 --> 00:26:00,360
So basically I in my current job
at the time, I had my own work 

572
00:26:00,360 --> 00:26:02,400
laptop, which is MacBook. 
So I could, you know, do 

573
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,760
whatever I wanted on that. 
And I had my own personal 

574
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,920
laptop. 
So I had this spare laptop on 

575
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:08,240
the side. 
So I was like, look, do you know

576
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,080
what? 
If you need to use that, that's 

577
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:10,840
fine. 
No problem. 

578
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,920
I wiped it, made it as you know 
what, it's her own laptop, blah,

579
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,520
blah, blah. 
She could have it, whatever. 

580
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:20,120
Didn't go no, it wasn't her own 
is. 

581
00:26:20,120 --> 00:26:20,960
It yours or her? 
No. 

582
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,560
But it was mine, but I wiped it 
so you could use it as your set 

583
00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:26,280
it up as her own. 
Anyway, she had it for the 

584
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,840
foreseeable whatever, but 
obviously didn't envision what 

585
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,520
would happen in the I'm. 
Surprised you didn't envisage 

586
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,640
that breakup but carry. 
On as I said, you don't realise 

587
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:39,440
until you're out how bad it was.
Anyway, we broke up and then I 

588
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,080
need the laptop back. 
Got it back off my mum. 

589
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,200
My mum sent it down to London 
and I thought, do you know what?

590
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,880
The girls might need this for 
the podcast, whatever. 

591
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,480
Yeah, we did. 
We actually didn't have a 

592
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:50,520
laptop. 
Have our own laptop. 

593
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:51,000
Yeah. 
And then? 

594
00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:52,760
We're paying perfect time 
because like actually don't look

595
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,000
great. 
I've got a well functioning 

596
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,360
laptop. 
Let's just use. 

597
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:56,920
It yeah, you were like girls, so
I was like. 

598
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:59,360
You know what, I'll wipe it and 
then you can use it. 

599
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,680
I can't get into the fucker. 
And I'm like, shit, I'm 

600
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:04,200
messaging, putting in my own 
password. 

601
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,680
I'm putting in her password. 
Nothing. 

602
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:07,120
I knew what the password would 
be. 

603
00:27:07,120 --> 00:27:08,720
Yeah, nothing. 
Can't get into it. 

604
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,320
I'm sitting in work 
flabbergasted. 

605
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,320
And I was like, what the hell? 
Messaging girls being like, I 

606
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,280
don't know what's going on. 
I can't get into the laptop. 

607
00:27:14,360 --> 00:27:17,600
Then we I was like knobs told to
the Apple store. 

608
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,120
Let's let's go get this fixed. 
No, no, no. 

609
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,640
The the Genius man as they call 
them. 

610
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,280
What's it called? 
The Genius Bar Genius. 

611
00:27:26,360 --> 00:27:29,200
Apple Genius. 
The guy actually said to us that

612
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,120
he'd only seen this on three 
accounts. 

613
00:27:31,120 --> 00:27:36,680
That my ex had military 
encrypted my laptop that. 

614
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,280
No. 
Military, yeah. 

615
00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:42,040
Literally military grade 
encryption on the laptop. 

616
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,520
That no one else could get into 
it. 

617
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,160
But then when he said that I got
a realisation that actually her 

618
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,520
friend works in coding. 
So I thought actually he's 

619
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,480
probably coded my laptop that I 
can't get into it. 

620
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,600
So that was crypted. 
They took it away for ages. 

621
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,360
He probably could see the 
distress and realised that I'm 

622
00:27:57,360 --> 00:27:59,920
not not going to pay for this. 
It probably would have cost me 

623
00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:02,800
like Nellie a grand, but he was 
actually really sound, so I 

624
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,160
didn't have to pay for it. 
I didn't deny. 

625
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,560
No, you didn't pay for it. 
So they almost like sorted it. 

626
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:10,600
Yeah. 
But yeah, so we got it back and 

627
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,640
like, yeah, yeah, this is fine. 
Works on laptop. 

628
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:14,320
The girls could use it to 
record. 

629
00:28:15,120 --> 00:28:17,200
No, no. 
Because she, because she wanted 

630
00:28:17,320 --> 00:28:19,520
to fucking yeah, she's a. 
Child, because The thing is 

631
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,400
right is that like it's one 
thing to get a hammer and smash 

632
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,560
the screen, right? 
Which would have been whatever, 

633
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,920
but the fact that she managed to
get a military grade encryption 

634
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,960
on the laptop. 
It was because she. 

635
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,840
Would have wanted me to measure 
be like what's? 

636
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,280
Past the laptop, she wanted you 
to have to ask. 

637
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,280
She wanted you to gravel what 
was weirder. 

638
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,640
We then got the laptop back and 
used it for a couple of weeks 

639
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,560
and then one day it literally 
just combusted on it. 

640
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,920
It literally looked as if like 
someone had took a fucking 

641
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,440
camera to it. 
Yeah, no. 

642
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,760
On the inside. 
On the inside, like the internal

643
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,320
screen looked like someone had 
smashed it. 

644
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,840
That's fucked. 
But that's never again level of 

645
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,400
people can get to and that was 
like next level. 

646
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,120
It's insane. 
It's insane. 

647
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:02,640
But that's why, I mean, we see 
the amount of emails that come 

648
00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,040
in. 
When you think, do you think 

649
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:07,280
it's fake in a way? 
Because you're like, this is so 

650
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:08,920
bad. 
You're like, no, it's real. 

651
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,240
It's almost like you. 
Think you know someone so well 

652
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,880
and I would. 
So you never know anything. 

653
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,080
You never trust anybody. 
No, but I never thought that 

654
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,920
that person would have gone to 
the extremity of that. 

655
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,400
Like I never. 
Would have after meeting you. 

656
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,120
After one night. 
I would have fucking know she'd 

657
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:25,200
have gone to those lengths. 
So sorry you would have. 

658
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,920
Dumb and fucking blind. 
I also want to know though, like

659
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,640
this military coder, surely he's
got better things to do like in 

660
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,560
IT. 
So we're back after our fag 

661
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,160
break because it needed to be 
done. 

662
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:39,880
We get a little bit overwhelmed.
We get really excited. 

663
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:42,920
A bit over simulated. 
We think, OK, we need, we need 

664
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,960
to relax a little bit. 
OK, so we had another story that

665
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:51,360
we wanted to share with you guys
because it actually involves 

666
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,840
Leo, who has sat here with us. 
Well, yeah, And this whole 

667
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,640
podcast has just been, again, 
about lesbians being weird, 

668
00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,040
right? 
Outrageous. 

669
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:01,880
And we had an outrageous story 
with Leo. 

670
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:04,360
Was it last summer or the summer
before? 

671
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,840
It was the summer before. 
It was the summer before. 

672
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:09,080
Was it? 
No, it was last. 

673
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,600
It was. 
No, it was summer. 

674
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:15,080
Before it was summer of 22, very
close summer of 22, so. 

675
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:21,560
The summer of 22, we had these 
close friends that we would do, 

676
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,240
you know, we'd see a lot and 
hang out with within these close

677
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,440
friends. 
They were best friends with a 

678
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,920
couple as well. 
Not best friends they had. 

679
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,600
They were very close to a 
lesbian. 

680
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,280
They had quickly become close 
friends with another couple. 

681
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,760
Yeah, they had. 
So this has been like a what, 4 

682
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,320
month friendship? 
Friendship, Relationship and 

683
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:47,720
these friends met well, at one 
time, Leo, one of the girls from

684
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:53,120
this relationship, took it upon 
herself to start messaging Leo 

685
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,760
quite because I'm very 
desirable, because you're so 

686
00:30:55,760 --> 00:31:00,320
desired my awkward tendencies 
there must be something about. 

687
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,000
You don't know what it. 
Is but something something. 

688
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,160
You. 
Matched me once. 

689
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,120
Yeah, when I was 17 and new, 
new, better. 

690
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,080
You were desperate. 
No better so. 

691
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:09,800
New. 
No better. 

692
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,000
She so she started messaging 
Leo. 

693
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,480
Now, I'm not saying that she was
messaging anything inherently 

694
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:18,960
inappropriate, but she was 
giving you the good morning 

695
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,960
texts, right? 
Which I would view as 

696
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:23,920
inappropriate. 
How did it come about you 

697
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:27,000
messaging this girl? 
Do you know so I met her at 

698
00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:32,600
pride and like completely like 
unforeseen with the couple and 

699
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:34,960
her girlfriend. 
Anyway, I got on with her. 

700
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,960
We went to JY late and anyway I 
think I spent a lot of time with

701
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,640
her and her girlfriend, so like,
it wasn't I didn't think 

702
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,320
anything weird of it. 
Anyway, she followed me. 

703
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:46,360
Interestingly, only she followed
me, not her girlfriend, but I 

704
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,480
spent equal time with both of 
them. 

705
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:53,080
Interesting. 
Can I just say though cutting in

706
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,480
there, it's because you and the 
girlfriend vibe wise are quite. 

707
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:57,280
Similar. 
Yeah, true. 

708
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,400
Right. 
And the girl is quite different 

709
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,400
vibe wise, Yeah, and it's very 
much your type on paper, right? 

710
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:08,480
Whereas the girlfriend in you, 
she probably didn't follow you 

711
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:12,080
because you are. 
Similar you don't get yourself. 

712
00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,000
A very similar version of her, 
yeah. 

713
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:15,640
Do you know what I mean? 
Yeah. 

714
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,640
Also, we both grew up around. 
I think we bonded because we 

715
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,360
both grew up in the same area. 
She was so long ago I can't 

716
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,520
remember exactly the first 
message or whatever. 

717
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:26,720
We were just talking. 
And then talking turned into 

718
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,760
talking every day. 
Talking turned into morning 

719
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,200
text, talking turned into I 
wouldn't reply for a couple 

720
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,440
hours. 
And she would be like, are you 

721
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,680
OK? 
Are you OK? 

722
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,320
I thought you. 
I thought something had happened

723
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,360
because I didn't reply for a 
while, which is weird. 

724
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,400
Yeah, but I'm pretty sure I told
you guys that. 

725
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,440
No, no, no. 
So we weren't aware. 

726
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,560
We weren't aware at this point 
that you guys had been speaking.

727
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,280
Maybe I knew it was a bit shady.
We were. 

728
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,360
No, no, no. 
We were at Pride with you. 

729
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:55,560
We, me and Freya left her home 
and eat food Classic and left 

730
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,840
you with the friendship group 
that at the time, in all 

731
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:00,440
fairness, you didn't know very 
well. 

732
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,320
Yeah. 
And we didn't know about this 

733
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,680
until we were all driving down 
to Cornwall. 

734
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,200
And you said to us, oh, oh, 
yeah, I did keep it quiet 

735
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,280
because I suddenly came clean 
and was like, this is a bit 

736
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,600
weird. 
And you had been honest and been

737
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,680
like, didn't just recite. 
I showed you the message. 

738
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,760
You showed us the messages, and 
you were like, look, I'm not 

739
00:33:17,760 --> 00:33:21,640
going to deny it and say that I 
don't fancy her, because I do. 

740
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,720
Yeah. 
But like, do you think this is 

741
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,440
bizarre? 
Yeah, and we checked out the 

742
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:29,600
messages, me, Freya and Polly, 
and we were like, yeah, this is 

743
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,040
weird. 
Like putting ourselves in this 

744
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:35,000
girl's shoes. 
Like, like if I saw that you 

745
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,440
were giving good morning texts 
to a girl and being like, you, 

746
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,200
OK, I'll just, she didn't speak 
to you for a bit. 

747
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:40,360
A girl that you'd literally just
met. 

748
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:41,840
I'd be like what? 
Yeah, What's going on? 

749
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:43,680
What is? 
Happening, and this is coming 

750
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:46,720
from us two who were like, we're
super chill, like, but there are

751
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:49,800
just boundaries, right? 
So the whole time we were in 

752
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,960
Cornwall, this thing kept 
playing, right? 

753
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,960
Kept playing out. 
We were there for about a week 

754
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,920
and she kept messaging you, you 
and you kept saying like she's 

755
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:57,360
messaged. 
This. 

756
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,760
I think that's when the double 
text happened, actually. 

757
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:01,040
I'm here in Cornwall. 
Yeah, when? 

758
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:04,000
When I said she's just messaged 
me again so I'd be on the reply 

759
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,040
then. 
All of a sudden we were like, 

760
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:06,680
oh. 
There's another message. 

761
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,560
Yeah, it was like, it was like, 
don't reply. 

762
00:34:09,679 --> 00:34:11,320
I didn't reply. 
Hello. 

763
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:12,159
You're alive. 
Are you OK? 

764
00:34:12,159 --> 00:34:14,120
So. 
That kept going on, right? 

765
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:17,719
And then how did that situation 
come to a head? 

766
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,120
Because I actually can't 
remember. 

767
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:24,080
No, I remember very clearly we 
whilst we were in Cornwall, I 

768
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:27,320
think it was one of our last 
days, our mutual friends who 

769
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:32,239
introduced us to them, they were
at lunch with the girlfriends 

770
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:36,239
remember? 
And that's when our mutual 

771
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,679
friend decided to say this is 
weird. 

772
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:43,080
Leo's apparently been messaging 
when it was vice versa. 

773
00:34:43,199 --> 00:34:45,600
It was the other way around. 
Mutual friends brought it up to 

774
00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:47,520
the girl and the girlfriend. 
Yeah. 

775
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,840
They turned it around and they 
said you had. 

776
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,040
They said it was me 
inappropriate, but you guys have

777
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,480
seen the evidence. 
Yeah, we saw it as clear as 

778
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,520
that. 
The mutual friends actually 

779
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:59,400
didn't do that. 
Our mutual friends at the time 

780
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,360
defended you. 
But but no. 

781
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:03,320
But no. 
But the girl they did, they did 

782
00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:05,080
defend me the but they brought 
it. 

783
00:35:05,080 --> 00:35:07,640
Up and that was that was 
speaking to our friends. 

784
00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,440
Made out as if. 
It was a weird one. 

785
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:11,840
Yeah, yeah, yeah. 
And they came to us and was 

786
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,640
like, we've called it out and 
they've said. 

787
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,000
That yeah, they they have my 
back. 

788
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,600
They did have all day. 
Did all that, in all fairness 

789
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,080
they did and we looked up and we
were like, well that's funny 

790
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:21,680
because we've seen all the 
fucking messages. 

791
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:23,920
So we know it's not one sided 
because we've literally seen the

792
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,080
proof. 
And they did, and and they saw 

793
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,520
it all. 
They did have my back, yeah. 

794
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:30,200
And they did have your back, in 
all fairness, which is really 

795
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:31,240
good. 
Which was really good, but at 

796
00:35:31,240 --> 00:35:35,120
the same time, I think it's 
really, really funny and really 

797
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:38,800
telling because like I do also 
feel like, and I and I feel like

798
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,200
some of our listeners that might
be able to like resonate with 

799
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,360
this is that when something like
something like this happens and 

800
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,120
you've got these like friends 
that are really close that will 

801
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:49,920
like have your back in the 
moment. 

802
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:53,560
As soon as they suddenly don't 
have your back or they turn 

803
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:59,360
against you, they will always go
back to the people that they 

804
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,680
decide is to cut out because 
they believed that they were 

805
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:04,200
doing something. 
Wrong. 

806
00:36:04,240 --> 00:36:06,720
Yeah, this is what is so weird 
about this situation creation 

807
00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:09,240
like this whole thing blew up 
and actually the mutual friends 

808
00:36:09,240 --> 00:36:10,640
really had your back even 
though. 

809
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,640
They were good. 
They were good. 

810
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,920
They they were like, we've seen 
the proof. 

811
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,880
We've seen what happened there. 
And they knew it wasn't in my 

812
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:19,200
nature. 
Yeah, they knew it wasn't in 

813
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:20,240
your nature. 
And they're like, we don't. 

814
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,440
You guys keep saying like, oh, 
it was really good, they had 

815
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,480
your back. 
But like, there's very like 

816
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,960
objective truth in this whole 
thing, so. 

817
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,640
It's that is true. 
And then that situation blew up,

818
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:31,680
right? 
Because these girls called them 

819
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:33,800
out. 
This girl tried to deny that 

820
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,600
she'd been having these weird 
messages from you and it like 

821
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:38,320
all blown. 
Do you remember? 

822
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,440
She tried to, she tried to guest
like me. 

823
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:43,240
She was like, she messaged me 
and was like, I'm really sorry. 

824
00:36:43,240 --> 00:36:44,920
Like if I was being 
inappropriate with you, it 

825
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:48,000
wasn't intentional. 
And it was like, but you were 

826
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,480
inappropriate. 
And I was like, I didn't. 

827
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,640
I didn't entertain it. 
I was like, I'm not giving her 

828
00:36:51,720 --> 00:36:54,120
satisfaction thinking that I 
cared enough because I didn't. 

829
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,800
But she. 
Was almost making out as if you 

830
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,600
were, like, really obsessed. 
Yeah. 

831
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,640
Trying to turn something into 
something that it wasn't. 

832
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:01,720
And actually the whole time it 
was her. 

833
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,400
This situation's a bit bizarre. 
I'm not replying. 

834
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:06,600
Do you guys think it's bizarre 
because it's giving me weird 

835
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:07,120
nights? 
Worse. 

836
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,080
Than this. 
Didn't she say one night when 

837
00:37:10,080 --> 00:37:13,680
you were like, wasn't it? 
Yeah, but wasn't it one night 

838
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,040
she was messaging you really 
late at night and you were like,

839
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,120
it's really late, late. 
Why are you not in bed with your

840
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,800
girlfriend? 
And she was like, I'm sleeping 

841
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,280
on the sofa. 
Yeah, sofa downstairs. 

842
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:22,920
No way. 
I was. 

843
00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,320
I also remember this because 
there it was when we were away 

844
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:30,000
as a four, so there was a lot of
like messaging on social media 

845
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:32,040
because people obviously thought
that me and Leo were together. 

846
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,440
Yeah. 
She kept making comments you. 

847
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,280
Were she? 
Was like, oh, have you? 

848
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:37,920
Have you and Polly slept 
together? 

849
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,800
Yeah, yeah. 
Yeah, almost like jealous but 

850
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,480
not wanting to be jealous, but. 
Wanting to know. 

851
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:43,960
Wanting to know. 
Yeah, like wanting to know. 

852
00:37:44,240 --> 00:37:47,320
Like and almost like semi kind 
of wanting. 

853
00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:50,480
To but that whole situation blew
up like fucking wildfire. 

854
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,120
But then they lost contact for a
bit. 

855
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,000
Well, no, this was is it. 
So the the mutual friends lost 

856
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:56,320
contacts. 
They were like, we don't want to

857
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,160
be around someone who's lying, 
blah, blah, blah. 

858
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:01,840
And then the mutual friend had 
an engagement party which we all

859
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,760
turned up to, and Leo came and 
it was really awkward because 

860
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,800
the other girls were there and 
basically no one spoke and like,

861
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:08,800
whatever. 
Like, do you? 

862
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:12,440
Remember when I walked in and 
they were all sat basically next

863
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,760
to where I was sat? 
Yeah, and like they wouldn't 

864
00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:16,760
even acknowledge you. 
Look at you, which just is like 

865
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:18,160
a fucking guilty conscious, 
right? 

866
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,720
Because like, if someone had 
bullshitted about me being dodgy

867
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,840
with Freya and they turned up 
best belief, I'm going out of my

868
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,400
fucking way to make that person 
feel uncomfortable if I've got 

869
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,320
nothing to hide. 
Because I'd be like you little. 

870
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,200
Would people not then say why 
didn't I go up to them and be 

871
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,800
like hi? 
No, because it was. 

872
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,360
Not in my character as well, 
like. 

873
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:36,200
You were. 
You were. 

874
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,320
The you were caught in the 
middle of this because you 

875
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,160
actually weren't being 
inappropriate. 

876
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:41,480
Yeah. 
And you also weren't in the 

877
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,160
relationship. 
You know, a lot of people blame.

878
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,400
I'm not saying. 
That the single person she. 

879
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,760
Didn't cheat but yeah people 
will always blame like the 

880
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:50,560
cheating. 
It's like no, blame your 

881
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,800
cheating partner. 
Yes, don't blame the other 

882
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,000
person. 
Don't blame the other person 

883
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:55,280
because because we said this to 
Leo. 

884
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:57,600
I I wasn't friends with this. 
I had no. 

885
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,280
Loyalty at the time you had like
a cross conscience and I would 

886
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:02,960
own this on this podcast and be 
like, I looked up to Leo and was

887
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,840
like, mate, it's not your 
problem. 

888
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:06,760
Like you don't know the 
girlfriend, you don't know the 

889
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,200
girl very well. 
Like if she's messaging you, 

890
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,400
it's not your problem to bear. 
Like, you're single, it's not 

891
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,720
your issue. 
They all fell out. 

892
00:39:14,720 --> 00:39:17,640
So our mutual friends at the 
time and these girls fell out. 

893
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,240
It blew up, didn't it? 
So after the engagement party, 

894
00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:23,000
like no conversation, everything
blew up because they were like, 

895
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:24,760
we don't like these people. 
We don't trust. 

896
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,280
But it wasn't just down to that,
like I wasn't completely 

897
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,280
responsible. 
I think there was multiple other

898
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:30,800
things. 
Yeah, they just. 

899
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,360
Didn't like, I think one of them
just didn't like these girls 

900
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,600
very much. 
Yeah. 

901
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,400
And then what is so funny? 
And this is what I want to know 

902
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,000
if anyone else has had this and 
like lesbian friendship groups 

903
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:43,960
or like situation ships and 
things like me and Freya are no 

904
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,520
longer friends with the girls in
question. 

905
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:49,000
Just for the most bizarre. 
Like party. 

906
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,920
Literally bizarre reasons like 
it's not actually even reasons 

907
00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:55,640
actually no reason. 
But the girls are now friends 

908
00:39:55,640 --> 00:40:00,360
with the girl that cheated 
emotionally contact with and 

909
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:01,720
cheated emotionally with our 
friend. 

910
00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:05,440
They're all now mates again and 
I find it really weird and I 

911
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,320
feel like does anyone else have 
this on this? 

912
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:11,040
Like who's listening where? 
There's not even been like there

913
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,640
was. 
No, not being friends with him 

914
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:14,680
out of loyalty to us because we 
didn't care. 

915
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:16,760
It's not our fucking problem. 
That was interesting. 

916
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,440
I also would never ever put that
obligation on someone. 

917
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,440
I would say you can't be friends
with those people. 

918
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:23,960
I didn't give a fuck because. 
It's not. 

919
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,920
It's not fair to do that to 
people, but people just love to 

920
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:28,520
throw around like a false 
narrative. 

921
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,440
Yeah, I guess then that's like a
bit of a red flag in itself. 

922
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,720
If someone, it is so quick to 
dismiss a friendship, even if 

923
00:40:36,720 --> 00:40:38,920
you don't back that friendship, 
if they're quick, if they're 

924
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:41,960
quick, if they're quick to 
dismiss it, then it's like, OK, 

925
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,520
well, how quick could you be to 
dismiss? 

926
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:44,680
Do you know? 
What I mean, do you know what 

927
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:45,920
they did? 
Yeah, right. 

928
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,320
So I don't like if anyone just 
drops friendships. 

929
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:50,440
You never know when it's gonna 
be your turn. 

930
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,920
Because The thing is with me is 
that like I really don't like 

931
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:55,360
dropping friendships because I 
always like to communicate and I

932
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,720
like to be as I. 
Sort it out. 

933
00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:59,640
Sort. 
Out I do, but at the same time, 

934
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:03,600
if that person doesn't give you 
any space to remediate that 

935
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,080
friendship, then I'm like what? 
Goodbye. 

936
00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:08,560
What's what's the what's the new
saying for her you've? 

937
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,200
Opened the door so you can walk 
out of it. 

938
00:41:12,560 --> 00:41:16,360
Do you know what though? 
No one has ever cut me out in 

939
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,480
their life just for being a 
fucking asshole. 

940
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:20,560
If someone was like, do you know
what? 

941
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:23,520
I'm cutting you out because you 
actually just do my fucking head

942
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,600
in. 
Nobody. 

943
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,120
She's. 
Been made. 

944
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,120
Isn't you on the chat? 
I do just have to say, wait, 

945
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:30,560
Scarlet, you actually just not 
like. 

946
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,880
Mate, you'd be so fucking lucky.
Also when you distance yourself 

947
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:36,480
and they don't reach out to you.
Then that's so talent. 

948
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,200
The thing is so talent, this is 
thing like I now have realised 

949
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:44,960
actually anyone that I've quote 
unquote lost in my life has been

950
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,320
through me realising they've 
been lying about something and 

951
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:51,440
then I asked too many questions 
about the lie and then they get 

952
00:41:51,440 --> 00:41:54,960
vicious about it and then they 
pointed on something else and 

953
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:57,560
then just cut the friendship. 
Well, what about when I've gone 

954
00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,360
through that? 
Weirdly though, but my brother 

955
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:02,160
did pass away a couple years ago
and I thought quite a lot of the

956
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,320
girls from school, for example, 
who I'd grown up with, who'd 

957
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:08,960
known him for like a big chunk 
of my time, would have like 

958
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,040
reached out. 
They sent a bunch of flowers to 

959
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,840
my house that addressed me and 
my mum and that was it. 

960
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,640
And then I'd never really spoken
to them since then. 

961
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,160
That was it. 
And then I bumped into them at a

962
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,000
party. 
I think it's when I not long 

963
00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:20,080
became friends to you guys. 
I. 

964
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:21,240
Remember. 
Yeah, Tom. 

965
00:42:21,240 --> 00:42:23,240
And I yeah, and I bumped into 
them. 

966
00:42:23,240 --> 00:42:25,320
They're like live like when so 
is already here right now, 

967
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,240
rather than I was like you're 
not though, because you. 

968
00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:28,840
Would have reached within 18 
months. 

969
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:30,920
I've not. 
Heard it, I've not heard it from

970
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:31,880
you and have fucking reached 
out. 

971
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,480
People are just fake as fuck and
I can't. 

972
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,960
But you have faces but. 
The fake. 

973
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:41,280
Bitches. 
On that note, on that note, 

974
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,560
thank you guys so much for 
listening. 

975
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,720
And Leo, I'm going to get you to
say goodbye, darling. 

976
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,720
And we need you to reply nicely,
Leo. 

977
00:42:49,720 --> 00:42:53,440
Say goodbye nicely. 
Goodbye love introducing myself.

978
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,280
Sources. 
Goodbye silly sausages. 

979
00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:04,520
And we want you to reply to the 
Spotify and any of your question

980
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,520
Q&A's that you get. 
Do you want us to do Grease 

981
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:10,560
episodes with the girls? 
And also by the time this is up,

982
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,160
there's going to be agony Out 
sessions that you guys can all 

983
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:16,440
subscribe to if you want 
episodes of The Girls where 

984
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,200
they're going to talk more in 
depth and they can also call you

985
00:43:19,240 --> 00:43:20,880
as well. 
So make sure you subscribe. 

986
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:23,880
This is our money. 
And lesbian 7 client episode 

987
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,720
mind you Lib. 
Thanks, Chris. 

988
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,040
Bye everyone. 
Thank you for listening. 

989
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:30,800
We're going to, we're going to 
do the Q&A in Greece. 

990
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:36,360
She put her coat on, and she is.
Are we not going to go enough? 

991
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:37,960
Wait, Leo, we thought we were 
going home together. 

992
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:41,960
Fuck out. 
Oh, I'm staying. 

993
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,440
That says I'm staying. 
Go on. 

994
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:45,920
We've got the candle burning as 
well. 

995
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,680
Again. 
Love you guys. 

996
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,520
Bye everyone, love you. 
Bye.