1 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,400 Welcome everyone, to another episode of the Lesbian Soccer 2 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:18,120 Club podcast. Sorry that we've been a little 3 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,080 bit Mia. It wasn't even. 4 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:25,200 That was another expected, sorry another unexpected hiatus due to 5 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:28,480 poor decision making. Well, not poor decision making, 6 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,000 poor planning on our behalf as per. 7 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,120 Decisions to make a plan were poor. 8 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,160 Lack of decisions at all, actually. 9 00:00:35,160 --> 00:00:37,360 Yeah, exactly. But it's it's because we 10 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,440 actually had to. We've sold our place in 11 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,680 Cornwall, happy to be away from the bigots. 12 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:44,400 That's not to say that we don't want to get another place there 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,120 though, because it is nice. But just in a slightly different 14 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:48,840 location. Different location when we're 15 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:52,400 not known primarily as the Lesbians of Carbus Bay. 16 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,960 I'd rather just be known as. The lesbian legend. 17 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,520 Oh yeah, and talking of bigots. Our. 18 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:03,720 Instagram has been wild, to say the least, over the last two 19 00:01:03,720 --> 00:01:04,800 weeks. That's it and. 20 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:10,200 Can I just say that like, if you follow us on Instagram, you will 21 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,280 obviously be very aware of what we're referencing. 22 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:14,640 If you don't follow us on Instagram, go and follow us on 23 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,720 Instagram so you can be aware of what we're referencing at the 24 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,280 Lesbian Supper Club pod. We. 25 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:23,320 Put up a post a couple of weeks ago now or one week. 26 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,640 Yeah, a week ago it was a. Week ago, yeah. 27 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:30,520 A very like out of the blue post, we were sat down having a 28 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,800 drink and thought, do you know what? 29 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,760 We've not put anything of us together on the supper club page 30 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,880 recently. So why not just take the 31 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:41,760 opportunity to do it now? And we always, I think you 32 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,480 probably could tell that a lot of our videos sometimes are 33 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,000 quite awkward of when we're doing tik Toks and stuff because 34 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,960 we always end up like watching it and then being like, I hate 35 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,040 how I look. And then we get annoyed and it's 36 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:55,920 just, it's just classic, I think, how most of us feel when 37 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,040 we're trying to put ourselves out there online, knowing that 38 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,120 in one way or another we will be critiqued. 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,320 And whilst trying to think of a caption for said video. 40 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:08,520 We had been talking, I think previously just about some of 41 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,800 our experiences. And whilst we have said 42 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:15,280 previously that we are extremely lucky to be living in, you know, 43 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:20,480 a pretty liberal city, we have still and do still get 44 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:26,320 homophobic hate predominantly from sis straight man on a 45 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:30,600 relatively regular basis. So you know, one of the most 46 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:36,240 recent ones was the Dick wad in. Before that it was the dickhead 47 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:40,080 in the Coyote Ugly bar and there would have been multiple more. 48 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,480 There's a lot of this year aggression. 49 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,080 Yeah, yeah. We could sit here and talk 50 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,960 about. So we come up with said caption, 51 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:51,640 which was something like when you have sis straight men 52 00:02:51,640 --> 00:02:55,160 running from the bar crying. And obviously that was meant 53 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:59,120 obviously to any queer person listening to this and any 54 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:04,240 genuine ally listening to this was meant as a a bit of a kind 55 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,600 of satire joke type post about how now. 56 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:12,360 And this is actually very true, taking the example of the Coyote 57 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:17,120 Ugly bar incident where the guy came up to us and physically 58 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,320 pulled us apart in an attempt to join in. 59 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,720 Watch, I don't know what the fuck this guy was doing. 60 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:26,080 Instead of being intimidated or threatened by this person, we 61 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,480 stood up for ourselves and ended up getting him kicked out. 62 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,000 So it was all referencing basically how now we don't allow 63 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,840 this behaviour to just keep happening. 64 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,720 Wow, there's some real. Butt hurt little. 65 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:42,320 Boys in the comments. I think, I think that like the 66 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:45,960 comments are hysterical because it's like ultimately you are 67 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,680 just proving us right. So thank you very much and also 68 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,640 cheers for the engagement. But. 69 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:52,600 Big cheers for the engagement. It's. 70 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,600 Fucking pathetic, like I actually can't. 71 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,640 I don't I don't get offended because it is potentially it 72 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,120 doesn't upset me pathetic shit I've I've seen I can. 73 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:02,920 Understand why it would upset some people. 74 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,720 So trigger warning if you're going to go look for these 75 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,760 comments. Like I can understand why to 76 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,240 some people it would be. But just know, if you're reading 77 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,000 them thinking, Oh no, Scarlett and Freya don't because we were 78 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:16,360 pissing ourselves. We haven't been howling. 79 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,680 We had a really. Long car journey back from 80 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:21,680 Cornwall yesterday. It took us what, 7-8 hours to 81 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:25,000 get back and the comments were just keeping us going. 82 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,160 And if. You know it was one specific. 83 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:34,840 Guy which was fast Drivers LLP, he was and this is the thing and 84 00:04:34,840 --> 00:04:38,480 most of these people that say such hateful disgraceful things 85 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,920 are just deranged and. Stupid as well. 86 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:47,800 Thick as shites because this guy was trying to turn the argument 87 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:51,600 from being initially homophobic to not being able to get the 88 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:54,360 better of us because we were obviously like, slapping him 89 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:56,320 with facts. I wish I could have quite 90 00:04:56,320 --> 00:05:00,880 literally slapped him. So then he goes on to tell us 91 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:05,600 that he's a billionaire. Meanwhile, we look up this 92 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,640 dude's account and he's not even got 10. 93 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:13,600 Star reviews, but no. Yeah, for all we know. 94 00:05:13,600 --> 00:05:15,960 House he hasn't. He told me he was living in his 95 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:17,120 car. He gave me a dealer who's living 96 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:18,880 in his car. Some fucking billionaire you 97 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,720 are, then, I said. All right then, Elon. 98 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,640 Come on, it was. Just that's just yeah, out of 99 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,880 control. The comments are still going now 100 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:31,560 the the sad, the sad ones for me are the ones where, you know, 101 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,800 it's clearly children. Yeah, like young boys. 102 00:05:34,840 --> 00:05:37,320 Oh yeah, I that I find really sad. 103 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,680 I have had that. Before where I've like, I 104 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,560 started going back to someone and then I looked on their 105 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,120 profile page and they were literally 15. 106 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,040 And I went back. Oh my God. 107 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,120 I was like, you're a kid. But no I've I've seen like ones 108 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,040 from like 12 year old 13 year olds and it does make me sad 109 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,920 because it's like. We thought this generation was 110 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,640 getting better. Well, not even that. 111 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,800 It's like, what are your peers and what are your parents? 112 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,960 Parents difference like what? What type of life are you living 113 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:06,560 that even at that young age you are going onto the Internet and 114 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,880 being hateful? Like so filled with hate must. 115 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:12,040 Be pretty fucking sad and going through something that actually 116 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:13,800 makes me feel more sorry than any of it. 117 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,680 Yeah, but it's been a wild ride, baby. 118 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:20,320 I'm going to do more, yeah. Because out of it. 119 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,720 I want to be the Pied Piper for homophobes. 120 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:26,440 We've grown, what, like 3K followers in over a week on 121 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:31,680 Instagram, which just means 3K more queer people building a 122 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,720 fucking army and listening to this podcast. 123 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:36,480 So yeah, keep coming, baby. I love it. 124 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:39,760 I want to talk about one thing. Do you know what did actually 125 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,760 annoy me? And this did fucking wind me up. 126 00:06:43,120 --> 00:06:48,440 Was the queer people. Commenting shit like not all men 127 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:53,440 or shut up and I just say and it annoys me. 128 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:58,440 But it also saddens me that the misogyny in this world and like 129 00:06:58,440 --> 00:07:03,560 the patriarchal dominance is still so high that even as a 130 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:08,280 marginalised person, and this person you know, has been very 131 00:07:08,280 --> 00:07:11,320 lucky and said that they have had generally extremely positive 132 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,040 interactions, which is great. We. 133 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,280 Argue in some case the same thing. 134 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:20,560 You know, as much as in one breath we say we get this often, 135 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,920 I still count myself as extremely lucky of how much 136 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:27,320 support I do have. So that's great. 137 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:33,320 That's that person's experience. But to then try and debunk or 138 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:39,000 tell your own community that their own experiences and their 139 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,800 anger towards their experiences is wrong, valid, it's really 140 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,000 fucking sad. It's really sad, it's really 141 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,560 damaging. I also think that it's like we 142 00:07:47,560 --> 00:07:51,520 didn't say all men. No, I also fuck off. 143 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:53,480 We didn't say all men. And it's not most. 144 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,440 It's not not most men. It's not all men. 145 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:58,400 You know I've said this on the. But it is most. 146 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,880 I have. We have a lot of really good. 147 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:06,160 Male relationships in our life, like my male line manager, my 148 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:13,240 dad, your dad, our friends. But sadly I don't recall any 149 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:19,400 attack verbally, physically microaggression that I remember 150 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,160 happened to me that has not been a CIS mail. 151 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,840 Agreed. I genuinely don't. 152 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:29,600 So whilst yeah, not all men, we fucking know not all men. 153 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,760 Yes, all of them have been men. Yeah. 154 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:34,200 And I think that that's the really important thing to say. 155 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:38,000 And it isn't just due to our own personal experiences as well. 156 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,159 I actually, even if I think if I swan through this live 157 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:45,960 completely safe and never having any attack or any aggression 158 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:49,760 from a man, I still would sympathise with those that have 159 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:52,520 and would understand what those statistics look like. 160 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,080 So for that person who said that she hasn't gone through it, I 161 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,080 think that is a pitiful excuse as to why not to stand up for 162 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:00,640 Women Against. That's. 163 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:04,960 Anger for men? As a white person, I don't think 164 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,600 racism is that bad. Because I could say, you could 165 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:08,880 say, oh, racism doesn't It's yeah. 166 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,880 But they're the same people that say all lives matter, you know, 167 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,320 fucking idiots. So I'll just leave them to it. 168 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:20,160 On slightly more positive news, talking of queer fucking 169 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:24,640 domination, Sophia Bush for girlies. 170 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:32,600 This, this is iconic. In celebration of Soviet Sophia 171 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,640 Bush dating a woman, can you please sing for me the first 172 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:41,800 line of the One Tree Hill? I don't want to be anything 173 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:45,080 other than what I've been trying to be lately. 174 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:49,520 All I have to do is sink me in my Peace of Mind. 175 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:56,480 Oh, that was lovely, thank you. You are welcome, her voice. 176 00:09:56,560 --> 00:10:01,120 She maybe you could say she was. One of my I Looking back, I 177 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:02,880 don't think I've mentioned this before and I don't know. 178 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:07,280 How I haven't like? She was definitely, definitely 179 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:11,200 my biggest queer awakening. Yeah, Who's the girl that she's 180 00:10:11,200 --> 00:10:12,200 seeing? Who's the woman? 181 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,440 Isn't she like a football player or something? 182 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,720 I'm not that interested to be honest, I just care about her. 183 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:20,440 No, but this is the news. I know, but I this. 184 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,160 Is the queer? News I don't want to think about 185 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,920 her girlfriend because I want to be her girlfriend, OK? 186 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,160 Ashlyn Harris, Ashlyn Harris and Sophia Bush. 187 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,400 She's 37. She's 37. 188 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,080 And so, well, she's an American former soccer player. 189 00:10:36,080 --> 00:10:40,240 So she was a soccer player. Well, I can't say that I'm sat 190 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:45,080 here happy for her because see, Dan, I am seething a little bit. 191 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:47,640 But no, I do actually think, do you know what I find? 192 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,400 Like, I knew it. I just knew it. 193 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,400 All of us knew it. This is what I was going to say. 194 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:54,640 This is what I find amazing. Like of all of the all of us 195 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,920 that were obsessed with One Tree Hill, Brooke was generally our 196 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:00,320 favourite character. It was never painting. 197 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:03,160 That was the straight girls. We all were obsessed with 198 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:04,160 Brooke. Brooke because. 199 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:06,800 She was giving. The gay that we knew better she 200 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,240 was. Giving the gay energy that she 201 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:16,200 had with that girl in One Tree Hill is genuinely ingrained in 202 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,080 my brain. Well, as it were her and 203 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,760 Brittany Snow and does Sophia. Bush have a podcast because. 204 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,080 If she doesn't, she really needs one because her voice is like 205 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,840 sheer ASMR. She needs to go on Quinn. 206 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:29,880 Yes, she does need to go on. Quinn. 207 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,720 What were you saying, love? There's already drama in the 208 00:11:33,560 --> 00:11:38,880 Sophia Bush saga. So basically Ashlyn, the new 209 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:42,360 girlfriend, her X who's another football player? 210 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,680 Classic. Is apparently saying that Ashlyn 211 00:11:44,680 --> 00:11:48,120 cheated on old girlfriend with Sophia. 212 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:53,040 Sorry, no more, I don't care. Sorry, it's Sophia Bush. 213 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,560 Yeah. Literally. 214 00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:57,240 Advocating for cheating, but there is exceptional 215 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:59,520 circumstances, and this is one of them, yeah. 216 00:11:59,920 --> 00:12:05,080 Sorry. Yeah, I would be heartbroken if 217 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,280 you cheated on me with Sophia Bush, because I was. 218 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:08,440 I wasn't cheating on you. Yeah. 219 00:12:08,680 --> 00:12:12,040 Exactly. I'd be heartbroken and I'd also 220 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:15,120 want to kill you. Not for the cheating, but for 221 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,520 the fact that you are now sleeping with Sophia Bush. 222 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:19,600 Yeah, it would be. It would be messy. 223 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,320 She does have a podcast. I think I'm just, I don't think 224 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:25,360 it's active anymore. I'm just going to see if this is 225 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:27,160 actually her. It's called Work in Progress 226 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:29,920 with Sophia Bush. Work in progress is her 227 00:12:29,920 --> 00:12:33,800 sexuality, you know. It's tricky because I would say 228 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:38,640 there are the husk. Oh my God. 229 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:40,720 The husk is so hot. Can we get her ask? 230 00:12:40,880 --> 00:12:42,880 I'm looking at live right now. Can we get her on the podcast? 231 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:47,640 I would love it please please. Oh fuck. 232 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,120 We're always well behaved. We're always well behaved. 233 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:53,200 So yeah, this is just gay icon news. 234 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,520 Living for it. Hope she never goes back to men. 235 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:58,440 Why would she? No, etcetera, etcetera. 236 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,560 Gayer for knowing. Yeah. 237 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,880 Thank you very much, Sophia. Bush, I mean. 238 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,000 It was in the name. She couldn't not be gay with the 239 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,080 name like Sophia Bush. Bush. 240 00:13:10,080 --> 00:13:12,720 Yeah, but then also like George Bush is George Bush, do you know 241 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,440 what I mean? George Bush has got a back Bush. 242 00:13:17,080 --> 00:13:19,400 George Bush is sticking it in a back Bush. 243 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:25,560 This episode we have decided to basically let you loose in the 244 00:13:25,560 --> 00:13:29,280 DMS and ask us a load of questions which we are going to 245 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:34,760 counter through like a lesbian insight marathon and hopefully 246 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:38,440 it just gives you some entertainment for however long 247 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:42,200 it takes us to get through a substantial amount of questions. 248 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:42,880 I'm going. To try and get. 249 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:44,720 Through them as quickly as possible because I want to kind 250 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,920 of like answer as many as. I yeah, exactly. 251 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:49,720 We had a shit load of you respond, so thank you. 252 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,920 And so many of the questions were generally so good. 253 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,600 I just read the first one. We've narrowed it down to like, 254 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:58,400 I think like 45. Fucking hell yeah with how much 255 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,280 mean you talk. If we're able to get through 256 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,560 that, then that. Would be a miracle. 257 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:04,920 It would be a miracle. I'm going to start off at #1 OK, 258 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:07,840 who is the more dominant one in bed and in general? 259 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,600 In bed, you in general, me. Yeah, love the pod giving laughs 260 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,440 in a crappy time. Any space wrecks for finding 261 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,560 queer pals in London? Honestly. 262 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:20,000 The Lesbian Supper Club events that will be rolling out 263 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,320 hopefully on the monthly Exactly TuneIn. 264 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,360 Every month you're going to have somewhere gay to go. 265 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:27,360 Yeah, OK. Other than that, I as we've 266 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:31,320 said, there is a couple of queer nights, there's clear East 267 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:36,000 London, there is girl, there is. Lick there's loads of different 268 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,640 ones, but I think as well like your community is more 269 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:42,240 important. So like you can find people on 270 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,560 Instagram. You can even find, I know it 271 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:48,720 sounds like a bit like weird, but I think you can also kind of 272 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,960 like find some people via like Tinder, like you may not. 273 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:56,440 Tinder for friends field. Field you go on field you can do 274 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,840 field for friends. I also just think putting 275 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,320 yourself out there just as a person in we've spoken about 276 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,480 this before, doing things that you wouldn't usually do. 277 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,560 Take a fucking pottery class, go to an exhibition, go and 278 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,160 challenge yourself out of your norm. 279 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,120 Do things and find things that you enjoy and you will meet your 280 00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:14,520 people. They may not all be queer. 281 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:16,120 They don't necessarily all need to be queer. 282 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:18,320 A lot of our friends actually aren't queer. 283 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:21,760 Yeah, we have an amazing time with them because of the people 284 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:23,400 that they are. Yeah, and we just love them for 285 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:26,120 who they are. Challenging heteronormativity. 286 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,360 Being with men feels normal. Being with women feels natural. 287 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:32,760 So. She's saying society, yeah. 288 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:37,040 Society makes it feel like more normal, yeah, but it doesn't 289 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,240 feel natural to her. Yeah, so if it doesn't feel 290 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:40,920 natural. You don't go there. 291 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,600 Because like The thing is, is when you say normal, well, what 292 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,560 what is normal? You feel like you're perceived 293 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:48,960 by everyone else is normal, but it's not normal for you because. 294 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,560 And also, yeah, it may make people feel a bit more 295 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,080 disgruntled for you to be living in your natural state. 296 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,640 And we've spoken before about the complexities of coming out 297 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:58,520 and the impact that that can have on your life. 298 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:03,360 But do you honestly think that you, by living in this normal 299 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,240 world, wasting years of your life to try and please everyone 300 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,680 else, they really give that much a fuck about how much work 301 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,960 you're putting in to be heteronormative for them? 302 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,400 No. Yeah, they'll care if you come 303 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,240 out and live your truth, but they'll eventually get over it. 304 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,920 And if they don't, you're living your truth. 305 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:20,440 So. Surely that is the best way to 306 00:16:20,840 --> 00:16:22,200 honour yourself. It's a really good way of 307 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:23,640 wedding out the bad ones as well. 308 00:16:24,480 --> 00:16:27,880 Stories about your exes and dating love the pod oh we've. 309 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,360 Got like I feel like my ex would fucking kill me now. 310 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,480 I already got cornered off in the pub the other day for saying 311 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:33,480 something that I shouldn't have done. 312 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:41,720 Yeah, Freya's banned, mine's mine's just not that juicy like 313 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:44,040 my first ex is now with me best mate. 314 00:16:44,280 --> 00:16:46,200 Or ex best friend. I could definitely talk more 315 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:47,520 about the dates that I've been on. 316 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,320 I've not even done that. I've not really even got any 317 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:53,640 like dating stories. I think you should save your 318 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:54,640 dating. Stories though for. 319 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,640 An I will definitely, I will definitely talk about my dating 320 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:00,320 stories on here. We don't really have X drama. 321 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:07,960 I did have, I wouldn't call it drama X issues until literally 322 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:12,599 very, very recently, which is kind of an open thing as we talk 323 00:17:12,599 --> 00:17:16,760 now and something that I hope in the future or very near future 324 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:24,160 is going to be resolved and give a lot of closure to which I 325 00:17:24,160 --> 00:17:26,200 would love to be able to then do. 326 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:29,960 I think an episode on closure because I think your experiences 327 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,280 with your exes. I don't have closure with one of 328 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:34,840 my exes. I'm never going to get it. 329 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,440 I don't really feel like I need it and I genuinely don't. 330 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:41,480 This other ex I did need it and I do need it. 331 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:45,000 And I think if I am able to get that, hopefully soon I will be 332 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:48,000 able to talk about the transition of going from holding 333 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:53,040 a lot of horrible negative feelings, hate, questioning 334 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:58,800 myself, questioning my reality. Just having bad blood is just 335 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:02,080 not a nice feeling. And as much as I'm a fiery bitch 336 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:06,200 and I will speak it out and I will not just forgive things or 337 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:09,960 people that have done me wrong, if someone in nearly all cases 338 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:13,280 comes to me with a genuine approach, a genuine apology and 339 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:16,000 a genuine acknowledgement, yeah, I'm pretty much. 340 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,240 Awful. You're not unfair, that's the 341 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:19,760 difference, no. Do you see yourself leaving the 342 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,120 UK and moving to another country? 343 00:18:21,120 --> 00:18:23,280 I fucking hope so. We hope. 344 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:26,480 I mean, I do think a lot of this comes down to like financial 345 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:28,160 freedom. We've obviously got the dog, 346 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,240 which again comes down to financial freedom because, you 347 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:35,920 know, making a Romanian rescue travel to any international 348 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:37,680 country. Will be really difficult. 349 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:40,240 Yeah, but there are a few. Places we want to live, isn't 350 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,800 that so? We want to do Barcelona, where 351 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:46,360 else? We'd want to do Barcelona, I 352 00:18:46,360 --> 00:18:49,480 think to like start off with maybe somewhere a bit more like 353 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:50,960 a bit closer. Still Europe. 354 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:54,040 But yeah, I mean, God, I just want to live somewhere that's 355 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,920 warm all year round. I feel, though, that we need 356 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:58,760 connections. So it would have to be somewhere 357 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:01,000 like New York or LA. Like you couldn't, we couldn't 358 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,880 just I've. Got an extreme in Barcelona? 359 00:19:03,160 --> 00:19:05,680 Lovely. Is there a jealous one? 360 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,040 No. No, if there was, it would be 361 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:11,280 me. Yeah, definitely previously for 362 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,240 and we've spoken about this before the start of our 363 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:20,000 relationship, you more so I and I've said this before, jealousy 364 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,200 is just not a thing that I've ever really felt in 365 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:28,520 relationships, just in my life. It's I think as. 366 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,280 Well though darling, it's because we do. 367 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,600 We do also have quite a lot of like respect for each other. 368 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,240 Like I've never gone through your phone and seen a load of 369 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:38,960 messages with another girl. So if I had then my jealousy 370 00:19:38,960 --> 00:19:42,160 would kick in. But right now I can't say I'm 371 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,960 not jealous person because I haven't really been given a 372 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:45,200 reason. Yeah, but This is why I think 373 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:46,560 that I'm quite a strange individual. 374 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:48,040 Because if you. Don't think that'd make you 375 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:49,560 jealous. I think it would make me fucking 376 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,960 angry. Yeah, but within that anger is 377 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,600 jealousy. That is, That is what jealousy 378 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:56,000 is. It makes you angry. 379 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,000 If you'd feel angry, that's because you'd be jealous. 380 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,840 OK, maybe I don't know. Like if if you look through my 381 00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:04,320 phone right now and you saw that I was messaging someone, you 382 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,760 wouldn't feel jealous. I think I would feel jealous 383 00:20:07,360 --> 00:20:09,800 depending on who it was so I'm not being funny. 384 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:13,240 But if I went through your phone and you were messaging A2, no, 385 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:14,880 I'd be laughing at you and be. Furious. 386 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:16,440 No, I'd still be. Jealous. 387 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,080 I'd be. You were messaging 10. 388 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,680 I would feel shit about myself. No. 389 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,280 Oh, see, now you've really looked at it internally, don't 390 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:24,320 you? What do you mean? 391 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,400 So your emotions are completely internal. 392 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,440 I don't know what that. Means so you feel like if it 393 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,880 embarrasses you or if you feel like isn't. 394 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:36,560 That what jealousy is. What is jealousy then? 395 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,080 Jealousy is not wanting to like lose this person to have you 396 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:42,320 messaging somebody else when that should be a message towards 397 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,480 me. That is jealousy, not me 398 00:20:45,480 --> 00:20:47,640 thinking, oh that girl's better looking than me. 399 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:53,720 Anytime ex #2 I saw her like speaking to someone on 400 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:56,120 Instagram, I'd get instantly jealous because it was straight 401 00:20:56,120 --> 00:20:58,160 away that fear that like I'm going to lose her to someone 402 00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:59,920 else. Yeah, it's a fear that you're. 403 00:20:59,920 --> 00:21:01,680 Going to I don't fear that I'm going to lose you to someone 404 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,880 else. But but if you saw me messaging 405 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:07,160 someone, you would in a really flirty way. 406 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:08,840 And I was like, yeah, babe, like what you up to? 407 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:10,640 Good morning, beautiful, all this kind of stuff. 408 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:12,280 You don't think that you would feel jealous? 409 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,320 Yeah, I must do then. Maybe I'm just confusing. 410 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,560 Maybe, maybe, maybe I would message them and be like, do you 411 00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:19,000 want a breakfast burrito? Yeah, that would anything. 412 00:21:19,120 --> 00:21:21,880 Yeah, as soon as you bring food into it, of course. 413 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:26,080 Hormones, hormones. Literally right now I feel like 414 00:21:26,080 --> 00:21:27,840 I'm going to fucking die. I'm. 415 00:21:28,360 --> 00:21:33,320 So angry hormones, citalopram, citalopram, but also OK, so 416 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:35,640 citalopram, yes. So like if we're not taking it 417 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:37,840 properly, all hell will break loose. 418 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,840 But also I suffer with the endometriosis, so my hormones 419 00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:42,360 can sometimes be all over the charts. 420 00:21:42,360 --> 00:21:45,120 And I'm not using this as an excuse, but like the past, I 421 00:21:45,120 --> 00:21:47,520 would say that two or three days I have felt like I could 422 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,640 actually physically strangle someone on the street. 423 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:52,720 And it is really annoying because it's a feeling that 424 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,320 like, like I'm actually just generally not an angry person. 425 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,840 Like I don't necessarily feel anger too much. 426 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:02,160 I have felt the fury and the wrath of fucking God within me 427 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:06,440 these past few days. I am Satan and I am so cross, 428 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,560 right? Now I don't think my one in 429 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:13,840 every three for me, I am cross one in every three period. 430 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,800 I feel my hormones so it's not every period. 431 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,320 Yeah, no. It's like 1 in every three. 432 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,880 I will be evil. Yeah. 433 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,040 Like genuinely be like, I hate my life. 434 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:25,720 What's wrong with everything? This is bad. 435 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,800 This is wrong. And then I bleed and I'm like, 436 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:29,040 oh. Yeah. 437 00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,600 But I think because I don't get it monthly. 438 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,400 You don't know if it's that. Three months have passed. 439 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,200 I don't realise it's that and then I'm not of. 440 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,320 That that was what it was. It is horrible actually though 441 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,520 because it's if it wasn't bad enough that you got a fucking 442 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,760 bleed for a whole, you also have to feel. 443 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:47,880 Like, well, the whole menstrual cycle was literally the whole 28 444 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,400 to 35 days. Do you know that? 445 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:52,280 There's not a single day where we're just like, not hormonal. 446 00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,080 No, throughout the whole menstrual cycle. 447 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:59,120 I think there's one week where we feel good like a normal 448 00:22:59,120 --> 00:23:01,400 person. Yeah, I could probably actually 449 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,520 identify with that. I don't think my hormones are 450 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,040 extreme but I think even I could like identify. 451 00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:08,840 I think mine are, but yeah, hormones as a can. 452 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,040 And obviously when there's two of you, it's even worse. 453 00:23:11,120 --> 00:23:13,560 I like this question. Favourite memory? 454 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,600 Together you say 1 and I'll say 1. 455 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,720 I've got so many. OK, say 2 and I'll say two. 456 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,440 OK, I'll say my 2. Can you do it at the same time 457 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:25,120 and see if it's? The same one. 458 00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:35,000 Hold. On there there is a lot. 459 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:40,200 There's so many. Mine are very close together. 460 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,240 OK, my first two, so my first when I read this question 461 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,600 already, my first one that popped into my head was Thailand 462 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,560 because I was kind of. Yeah, Thailand was the first 463 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:52,360 pushing back my head. But then actually holiday in 464 00:23:52,360 --> 00:23:56,360 Greece was one of my favourite. And also getting Ziggy. 465 00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,120 Yeah, one of my favourite. Yeah. 466 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:03,080 COVID times in your mum's garden, You making me mojitos 467 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,280 next to the paddling pool, 30° heat every day. 468 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,520 Lovely. Sorry day job but it was dead 469 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,480 and we were making the. Most of that. 470 00:24:11,080 --> 00:24:14,840 Yeah. Naps during COVID in your Eaton 471 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,840 Wick house where the sun would always come in between like 2 472 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,040 1/2 three. Yeah. 473 00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,120 That was stunning. I think as well like. 474 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,760 Cornwall Times, I. Was going to say Cornwall when 475 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,400 when we've been on the beach as well, just you and me, like when 476 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,520 we went over to that little bit that like felt a little bit like 477 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:33,440 Greece. That was nice when there's been 478 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,880 so many nice occasions. But the amount of times when 479 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:38,000 we've gone out for like, lovely dinners together. 480 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,640 Dinners with like, yeah, but again, dinner, the the lesbian 481 00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:42,520 supper clubs with all of our friends. 482 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,360 There, there have been countless months. 483 00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:48,400 Countless like buying the house in Cornwall and renovating it. 484 00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,120 Stressful, but like one of the but it's. 485 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,280 An amazing memory I. Was trying to think. 486 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:55,280 Even like our first date is like an amazing memory to me. 487 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,360 Like I love that. I love thinking about our first 488 00:24:57,360 --> 00:25:00,160 date and like I don't know, I feel like I feel like we always 489 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,520 have so many like nice times together as well I feel. 490 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,360 We're always making nice memories together, I think, 491 00:25:05,360 --> 00:25:07,920 which is great. Yeah, exactly. 492 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,400 Someone said can you do an extra app a week that is just pure 493 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,200 horror stories? Yeah, when about 2000 of you 494 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:16,840 have signed up to the Patreon and we can quit our jobs. 234 495 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:17,760 EPS. You want it, girlies? 496 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:21,080 You want it every single day. I will personally call you pay. 497 00:25:21,120 --> 00:25:23,960 Me. Otherwise, I'm on the street. 498 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,080 Yeah, literally if we could quit our day jobs and do this all the 499 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:32,000 time, we would. You would have a multiple amount 500 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,720 of episodes. All about manifestation like we 501 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,280 fairly believe we'll get there like the support I don't want to 502 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,200 undermine the incredible support and like the growth of this 503 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:45,480 podcast has been incredible we're just sadly not sadly we 504 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:50,560 are just in a moment at at the moment where we are having to 505 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:54,320 balance doing 2 and so at 1.1 has to give and the other has to 506 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,040 give and that's just where we're at but. 507 00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,160 That's what you got to do in life, baby, especially to. 508 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:01,240 Do the grant, especially if you. Want to live in London? 509 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:03,960 You can't. Unfortunately, we can't just 510 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,760 quit. So we've had to come back again 511 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:10,120 and change my. We've had a little break. 512 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,080 Which? You won't know because it would 513 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,400 just switch straight over, but. But I feel like. 514 00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,600 If we sound different, it's because we're on different 515 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,440 likes. Yeah. 516 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,200 So if you're complaining that it's quiet before, it's probably 517 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,480 going to be even quieter now, which, by the way, it's kind of 518 00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:25,160 looking. Large on the. 519 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:26,800 We're still trying to. Work. 520 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:30,200 We're still trying to work out why it sounds quiet because when 521 00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:37,120 I edit it, it is loud and then when I export it, it's loud and 522 00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:40,640 then it goes on to Spotify and it's quiet. 523 00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:42,800 I really. Yeah, it's so weird. 524 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,480 So we've taken a little break, but we're back on it again to go 525 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,560 through the rest of the questions. 526 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,040 So this person asked, is it OK to get back with your ex? 527 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:57,840 And I think initially everyone always would say no. 528 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,720 But I think it's very dependent on the situation of like why you 529 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:06,840 broke up, how long you've been apart, what the circumstances or 530 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,280 and why are you getting back together. 531 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,360 Like for example, if you met when you were both really young 532 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:17,120 and you know, wanted to explore other things and or moved away 533 00:27:17,120 --> 00:27:20,080 and ended up back local to each other, etcetera. 534 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:23,240 And it was kind of extenuating circumstances, sure. 535 00:27:23,360 --> 00:27:29,920 And therefore give it another go if it was because you and I 536 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,000 think it's a like twofold of like arguments because of where 537 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:38,520 you were in your life and people grow and change and you can be 538 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:42,440 in a negative relationship and then you can grow up, change who 539 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,320 you are. That person can change and you 540 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:45,960 can be Better Together for better. 541 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,720 But if it's like. If it's like fundamental issues 542 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:51,280 though, like you really didn't get along. 543 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,240 Constant cheating or? The. 544 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,240 Arguments were like really severe all the time. 545 00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:59,920 There was really bad jealousy problems, that kind of stuff. 546 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,680 I don't personally think that no. 547 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:05,600 You should or could. No, also like grass is always 548 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,680 greener in a situation like that. 549 00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:10,400 Like you could. You could have been together. 550 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,080 And literally had a shit time the whole time. 551 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,680 And then as soon as they walk away from you, you're like, Oh 552 00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:16,120 my God, I love you so much. But it is just purely because 553 00:28:16,120 --> 00:28:20,480 you're, you're just having that like withdrawals, I think. 554 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:24,200 Yeah, yeah, definitely. This one's interesting. 555 00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,560 What are your types on paper? Love Island reference. 556 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:31,000 And paper, I think just really like. 557 00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:33,440 You've got a thing for tall girls with long hair. 558 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,880 I do, but I think that's just, I don't think I do have. 559 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,800 I do like tall girls, but I don't mind a shorter girl 560 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,160 either. I don't think that bothers me 561 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,080 because I've been with shorter girls as well and I quite liked 562 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,600 it. I think I really do love a 563 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,000 brunette most of the time for some reason. 564 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:55,480 Big eyes and then it's more of like. 565 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,240 I don't have big eyes there, you do. 566 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,000 No, not really. They're not big. 567 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,000 They are. They're just, they're not small. 568 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,200 Not that I care. Puny. 569 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,840 Little eyes. No, they're not like pins, but I 570 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:09,600 wouldn't say they're big. Strong features. 571 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:13,120 I really like strong features. I find it like really striking 572 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:16,520 for me. But yeah, I it's more like 573 00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:19,120 energy wise, I really like someone. 574 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:22,400 Who's very powerful if you think about Brie, for example. 575 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:23,960 Yeah, Brie's. Fit. 576 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,440 She's the complete opposite end of the spectrum. 577 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,360 And you think? Well, not not that you think I 578 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:33,240 mean she she is, but you are like Freya this. 579 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,080 I hope Bree. Listens to this. 580 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,680 No, Bree will literally thrive off of this. 581 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:41,040 This like, straight woman? Yeah, straight. 582 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,960 You know, maybe I don't think she'd mind me saying that. 583 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:47,680 Woman who lives relatively local to us. 584 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:49,960 Oh, she's probably going to be at the supper club event. 585 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:53,760 Actually, girlies. She is fucking beautiful. 586 00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:56,760 Like Shalise Theron Cross with Jodie Coma. 587 00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:01,600 Tall, blonde. My thing is like, I think I have 588 00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:03,640 a type. So if I think about all of the 589 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:08,040 like crushes that I've had, I love like a like. 590 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:13,600 A Almost like a black. Hair like a dark dark hair with 591 00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:17,800 like light eyes. Quite like venomous looking, 592 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,600 that my thing. Is actually in reality I don't 593 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,480 feel like I have a type at all. It's that person for me just has 594 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,880 to have something because when I think about like all of the 595 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:32,400 people that I've dated or been with, none of them look alike 596 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:37,120 literally at all. And I think that is the reality 597 00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:44,680 of my type, quote unquote type. But on paper, it would be your 598 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,920 Megan Fox. Yeah, Sophia Bush, Angelina 599 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:51,440 Jolie type girlies. Yeah. 600 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:54,360 So I think that my I, I agree with you on that. 601 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:55,920 Like you've either got it or you don't. 602 00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,560 Like you've got like a thing. I've just got to have a, You've 603 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,040 got to have a. Thing I think I love how? 604 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,360 Neither of us have spoken about personality. 605 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,160 No, I was just about to say about personality because like I 606 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,920 think that like my personality. I have one where I'm concerned. 607 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,040 No, I'm. Joking My personality type is 608 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,440 the same, but my looks type can change. 609 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:15,560 Like the type of personality that I'm attracted to. 610 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:20,320 It's really like funny, very like easygoing but also 611 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,520 powerful. Like can be a bitch. 612 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,760 Like I really like that. Like I don't that is my type. 613 00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:30,200 I don't know what like I definitely do love a bit of a 614 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,080 caregiver. I mean, let's not lie A. 615 00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,080 Mummy. But it's not. 616 00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:36,120 But this isn't a conscious thing for me. 617 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:40,800 It's just something that I realise I enjoy but more on like 618 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,880 I don't even know what it is because I also don't accept a 619 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,640 lot of acts of service, right? I think you do. 620 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,840 You don't. I don't like anytime you ask me 621 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,520 for like a massage or do you want me to get you this? 622 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,160 I don't. I always say no juice or like 623 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,760 cooking, like those kinds of things. 624 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:58,880 Yeah. I think it's like, but then also 625 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,720 I take control a lot of a lot of acts of service when it would 626 00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,920 come to like sorting things, the car. 627 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,360 But I think that's why you like having that person. 628 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,200 The comfort side. The comfort side. 629 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,280 Yeah. Yeah, exactly. 630 00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:11,480 So that's definitely a thing. Yeah. 631 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,560 I need someone outgoing. I couldn't date someone shy. 632 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:17,600 No, because. I've done that and I just felt 633 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,360 like I had to carry and overcompensate that person, 634 00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,680 which then. Feeling like I've got to look 635 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:23,360 after someone. Yeah, that is the worst. 636 00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:24,880 I can't. I can't do shy. 637 00:32:24,960 --> 00:32:29,280 I think shy people generally are really sweet and endearing. 638 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,120 I don't. I don't mind them in social 639 00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:34,120 groups but as a partner I'd really struggle because I'd 640 00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,920 constantly felt like I'd have to hold their hand. 641 00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,360 Yes. Like, quite literally. 642 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,360 Yeah, I like a mentally ill girl. 643 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,920 I do love it mentally unwell. I like a bit of strong 644 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,040 intelligence as well. Like for me. 645 00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:50,920 I said mentally, yeah, strong intelligence. 646 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,680 I'm like please have crippling anxiety. 647 00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:58,160 I'm not gonna say that I like a bit of mentally ill to be 648 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,120 honest. Absolutely no, I am joking, but 649 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,560 I do actually think that a little bit of mental and 650 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,200 Wellness is quite good because it means that they're a bit more 651 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:07,600 understanding if they've never had anxiety a day in. 652 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:08,440 Their life, yeah. If you've. 653 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:11,080 Yeah, if you've had the privilege of never, like, 654 00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,560 experiencing anything, it makes you really difficult to Yeah, I 655 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,000 don't want active mental illness though, to be fair. 656 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,040 Like I just can't. No, but I I do, yeah, I do 657 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,520 really like a strong personality. 658 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,480 I like someone who's not afraid to say what they want to fucking 659 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,360 say. But yeah, I need someone who can 660 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:29,520 like hold their own as well, like if I want to debate on 661 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:30,600 something. Yeah. 662 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:33,720 I mean, this is funny because every time me and Freya debate, 663 00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:38,880 Freya ends up rage storming out because she sometimes like 664 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,280 Freya's got this thing that if I just prove a point on something 665 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,040 that bless her, she's gone and like looked into. 666 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:47,760 So she's trying to have like a conscious debate and I'll just 667 00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,680 be like, I'm sorry, but you're wrong. 668 00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,000 That doesn't go down there. But other than that, we do often 669 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,360 have very have a heated discussion without yeah, we 670 00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:02,480 often have very like in depth conversations about, you know, 671 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,080 world topics, etcetera that usually go very well. 672 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,560 So yeah, that's a long winded way of saying what I'll type it. 673 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:13,199 Opinions on lesbian London Hinge Don't really have one because 674 00:34:13,199 --> 00:34:16,920 I've never used it. My ex actually said that to me 675 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,800 the other day. She was like, have you been 676 00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,520 blessed of never having to be on Hinge? 677 00:34:22,199 --> 00:34:24,480 And I was like, yeah, I've literally never used Hinge. 678 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,440 I never used Bumble and never used. 679 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:28,719 I used Tinder when I was really young. 680 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,080 I used Tinder was my only. And that was. 681 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:32,760 Thing I've ever. Used, although I'm slightly 682 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:35,600 gutted that I got to miss out on the Hinge voice message thing 683 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,360 'cause I feel like that be fucking hilarious. 684 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,080 But yeah, I feel sorry for you guys because we've lived 685 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:45,000 vicariously through our friends. Yeah, and seen I go on my 686 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,000 friend's hinge. Oh yeah, you. 687 00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:49,800 Always go on Leo. Freya goes on Leo's hinge and 688 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,440 sends people the dodgiest voice notes. 689 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,120 In an Australian accent. In Australian accents and these 690 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:56,880 poor people believe it and reply. 691 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,160 They love it. There was this one girl that 692 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,720 said something about like, oh, do you have a dog? 693 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,440 And then I go back on Leo's voice message and go, do I have 694 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,120 a dog? Do you have a dog? 695 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:11,560 I am actually on Hinge to get other people's dogs. 696 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,040 Do you want to bring your dog with me to a doggy daycare 697 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:15,680 centre? All this kind of stuff, like I 698 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,920 go on for ages. This girl comes back and is 699 00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:19,680 like, ha, ha, ha, yeah, same. Love it. 700 00:35:19,720 --> 00:35:22,040 Oh God. I was like, oh, oh, the bar is 701 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,520 low. Yeah, I I've seen it and I know 702 00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:29,040 that it's a bit of a pet. So I do actually feel sorry for 703 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:33,160 you all because, but I just think like the whole thing, I 704 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:34,360 feel sorry. For them all because there must 705 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,840 be some good ones that. Is all why I say you're all feel 706 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,720 sorry for you all and then talking about all of you. 707 00:35:38,720 --> 00:35:40,840 But this is what I was about to say. 708 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:46,640 I think people have got quite strange when it when it comes to 709 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:51,280 online dating because there's been so much like stigma, 710 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:54,880 expectation, negativity surrounding it. 711 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,360 I think everyone is now trying so hard to not be the person 712 00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:02,520 they're worried about. They then all inevitably become 713 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:03,520 the person they're. Worried about? 714 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:06,640 I think that you should be able to pin like a red flag next to 715 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,200 someone's profile and have to prove the fact that you went on 716 00:36:09,240 --> 00:36:11,360 a date with them and then it's like no. 717 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,440 No, because I also. Fucking weird. 718 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,520 No, I also think a lot of it's like personal opinion, like 719 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,280 Freya. Think about what you've done on 720 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:23,000 our first date, Graham, like Freya, brought out her alter 721 00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:27,360 egos to a lot of person. To a lot of people, that would 722 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,360 have been like. What they they? 723 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,960 Just ain't the right person. Well exactly, but that's why you 724 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,880 can't put a red flag against them. 725 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,760 Queers getting engaged laugh my ass off. 726 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,040 I proposed when I was 18 and my then partner was 1920. 727 00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,640 I'm sorry. That's just pathetic. 728 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,600 It happens all the time though. I I don't think it's necessary. 729 00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:48,720 I also don't think it's necessary to propose to patch up 730 00:36:48,720 --> 00:36:50,320 a relationship. No, neither. 731 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:53,840 But if you're struggling in your relationship, maybe don't 732 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,840 propose, yeah, because that's not going to make it better. 733 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,880 Maybe don't drop some cash on a ring when you should be dropping 734 00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:01,200 cash on couples. Therapy. 735 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:04,680 I think what's really funny and it but it does happen a lot. 736 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:06,200 It also happens a lot in straight couples. 737 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,240 I think it's very much like following the straight. 738 00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,080 The narrative of like, oh, it's been a certain amount of time, 739 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:14,800 so now I should be doing this and then we should be buying the 740 00:37:14,800 --> 00:37:16,720 house. Almost five years. 741 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,120 Literally like next week. We've been together for five 742 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,400 years and I've never felt like, oh, it's coming up to the five 743 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,080 year mug. I must propose now because 744 00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,120 otherwise she's going to slip away like a do you know when 745 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,120 they say, yeah, like, oh, if you haven't put a ring on it, don't 746 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,320 be surprised that she goes off and cheats or whatever. 747 00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,680 And it's like you have no idea of like circumstances, what that 748 00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,880 couple might like, what they might want to do with their 749 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,080 finances, things like that. I think it's hysterical when 750 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,000 people get engaged really young and really quick. 751 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,280 All I can say is with lesbians think fuck we can't get each 752 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,280 other pregnant. Can you imagine? 753 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,320 Oh no. The people the girls will be 754 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,120 pregnant on like the second date. 755 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,280 Yeah, they'd be like, I want to have your babies. 756 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,040 And they'll be. Like yeah, it would be. 757 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:56,880 And that would be. Horrendous. 758 00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:01,280 I hope science never gets to a point where we can shoot sperm 759 00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,520 out of our fingers because easily accessible would be 760 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:07,160 horrendous it. Would be bad. 761 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:09,280 I actually still think I'd be really sensible. 762 00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,960 But there's some lesbians that would be like baby daddy to like 763 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,600 50 kids. They'd all be paying child 764 00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,000 support. They're broke. 765 00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:21,720 Liana Liana Liana would be broke as hell if she could. 766 00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,360 If she could shoot. Leo would end up getting 767 00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:29,760 everyone pregnant by accident. Oh my God, Polly. 768 00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:35,120 Polly would have literally worldwide. 769 00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:39,920 Baby Mamas Polly's children would be so old now that she'd 770 00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,720 be sleeping with them by accident. 771 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:46,400 That'd be her fucking problem. She'd she'd be going around at 772 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:50,080 the age of 40. Hollywood quite literally had 773 00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,480 children in like New York, Singapore, all of Europe, 774 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,680 Switzerland. I know that's Europe, but she 775 00:38:57,680 --> 00:38:59,000 goes there a lot. Yeah. 776 00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:02,120 America. Geneva every other week. 777 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,120 There'd be another one. It would be. 778 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:07,040 A render. And a lot of them would be 779 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:10,920 married women as well, yeah. So they in that it would be like 780 00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:12,600 married. Women, do you know what it 781 00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,560 would? Be married women in their 40s 782 00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,080 who think that they're infertile and then Polly would end up them 783 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:19,920 getting pregnant. The husband would think that 784 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,040 they'd finally done it, and actually, it was Polly's kid. 785 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:23,480 But that would be kind of iconic. 786 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:25,480 And Polly would just sit back and say nothing. 787 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,840 Yeah, But guys like, I've actually, you know, I've 788 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,000 actually done them a favour. No, guys, it's fine. 789 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:32,880 It's fine. It's fine. 790 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,480 I don't need to be involved yet. Quite so. 791 00:39:37,240 --> 00:39:39,560 Yeah. That's our thing on lesbians 792 00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:41,720 getting engaged. This is a funny follow up. 793 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,000 Hi. I don't know if you've both 794 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,040 mentioned it already, but do you want kids? 795 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:49,200 It's a no for now. Yeah, it's AI hope one day that 796 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,920 I have that thing because I think it would be really nice. 797 00:39:51,920 --> 00:39:55,800 And I absolutely love babies. Like if you put a baby in 798 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,200 Grouch's arm, I turn into a different person. 799 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:03,160 Like I love babies and small children. 800 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:09,080 Like they give me so much. Like, no, not purpose. 801 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,960 That's not the thing. I have such a busy, anxious 802 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,080 brain that for some reason when you put me in a room full of 803 00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:18,920 dogs or a room full of babies or put a baby in my arms. 804 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:22,240 Nothing else goes on in my head. It's really weird. 805 00:40:22,240 --> 00:40:25,040 It's a level of peace that I don't usually feel. 806 00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:28,160 And babies just tend to really love me as well. 807 00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,880 Yeah. So you are like the baby reason. 808 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:35,440 And I know if I had a child, I, I know the states sound like an 809 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,240 asshole, but I know that I would take to it like a duck to water 810 00:40:38,240 --> 00:40:41,520 because I've looked after young babies for long periods of time 811 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,400 before on my own when I was really young. 812 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,560 And I know that it would absolutely. 813 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:52,160 Like, I know I would thrive, but my conscious day-to-day brain 814 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:54,960 can't grapple with the point of even thinking about it, right? 815 00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:58,960 Now no, no, I re ask me that question when I'm 38. 816 00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,800 We'll see where we are. Can we get Halloween costume my 817 00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,080 dear? Can we make it gay and sexy? 818 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,200 Always love the devil. We get called the devil all the 819 00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:07,960 time. Jessa Fazer make her fucking 820 00:41:07,960 --> 00:41:09,720 heart. I said to Scarlett. 821 00:41:09,720 --> 00:41:11,520 You wanted to do X-Files, didn't you? 822 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,040 Yeah, X-Files. Freya wanted to go as Lisa 823 00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,000 fucking Rinna I. Still wanna go as Lisa? 824 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,000 You're doing that on your own because a, we don't have 825 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:20,000 Halloween plans. Well, we do know on Saturday, 826 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,600 but I'm not letting you go. As you wanna go as Lisa Rinna. 827 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,680 Do you know what that? But I wanna do Lisa Rinna. 828 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,400 I just wanna go as Lisa. But where are you going as Lisa 829 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:29,400 Rinna to? Ellie's got a. 830 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,680 Birthday party. I'll just turn up. 831 00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,080 As you're not turning it up as Lisa Rinna wig. 832 00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,200 No. Yeah, Nellie's birthday. 833 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,040 That's like Freya tried to do that. 834 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,920 You know the Has anyone seen the Troy Sivan music video? 835 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,240 Which, by the way, Troy Sivan looks so hot as a woman. 836 00:41:49,240 --> 00:41:52,120 Yeah, like that is. Where he, he turns into a, a 837 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,200 woman because it's like, well, A, it's his, he's just 838 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,040 expressing himself and B, the lyrics are basically all about 839 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,160 that. And it started to become a trend 840 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:04,800 on TikTok where guys were turning themselves, like, into 841 00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:07,560 women. And it was like, iconic, like 842 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:08,960 beautiful. Really cool. 843 00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:13,920 So me, Freya and Liv were sat together one night and Freya's 844 00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,240 like, oh, I'm Freya thinks she's had this like epiphany idea 845 00:42:18,240 --> 00:42:21,240 where she's like, oh, I'm going to do it in reverse. 846 00:42:22,240 --> 00:42:26,320 And I was like, I don't know if that's going to hit the spot. 847 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,080 And she was like, yeah, well, and I was like, OK, but it's 848 00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:31,560 9:00 at night, so maybe do it tomorrow when, you know, you 849 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:33,640 could do it properly. Like, you could buy yourself a 850 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:37,160 little moustache or a wig or put on, like a proper suit, you 851 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:41,280 know, something to make it like, really legit, like drag man. 852 00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:44,320 No, no, no, no. Freya's got an idea in her head 853 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:45,240 she has to do it. So oops. 854 00:42:45,240 --> 00:42:48,600 She gets tucks her hair under her cap, puts like stubble on 855 00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,280 her face, tries to contour her face really badly. 856 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,840 Does this video. It is fucking terrible. 857 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,520 I tell her not to upload it because I'm like, it's terrible. 858 00:42:57,520 --> 00:42:59,960 It's not even funny. Bad because it's obvious you're 859 00:42:59,960 --> 00:43:04,000 trying and it's not good enough for it to be good, but it's bad 860 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,320 enough for it to be funny. Don't worry, I deleted it guys. 861 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,080 I deleted anyway. She puts up. 862 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:12,640 Sure enough, it goes absolutely nowhere and she wasted like a 863 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,280 good 40 minutes of her life. Oh, it wasn't 40 minutes. 864 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:16,400 It's about 10 minutes. It was. 865 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:19,280 It was much longer, but if you want to see the videos, Liv 866 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,760 secretly recorded her so I might just expose her on the 867 00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,200 Instagram. Also, I've I've said to Scarlett 868 00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:26,400 many times I just want to go as a straight couple for Halloween 869 00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,440 and she says no. How do you deal with looks 870 00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:31,600 comparison in your relationship in WLW? 871 00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,560 So I think a lot of lesbians do experience this where because 872 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,760 you're both women, you have that like direct comparison of each 873 00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:40,400 other. Whereas like in heterosexual 874 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,960 relationships, it's like, Oh well, you're a man and I'm a 875 00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,520 woman. So the comparison is so kind of 876 00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:48,760 different in a sense. Not saying that they can't 877 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,320 struggle with insecurities, but there is like a stark 878 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,520 difference. Whereas when it's 2 girls, and I 879 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,880 do think society as well judge us a lot more on our kind of 880 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,160 looks, equality. Does that make sense? 881 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,680 Because we had it even on that recent video where like a couple 882 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:09,080 of people made comments about, Oh well, one must be really 883 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,240 fucking jealous of the other because one's way hotter than 884 00:44:11,240 --> 00:44:12,360 the other. Did they? 885 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,600 Yes, someone did do it. Oh, I never saw that. 886 00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,280 I think it was on some Dick who took it and put it on his little 887 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,000 profile and posted it. How? 888 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:24,520 Pathetic look this. But it's not something that 889 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,080 occurs to me. No, I don't. 890 00:44:26,240 --> 00:44:26,640 But you. You. 891 00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:31,400 You do you. Get it more so with. 892 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:37,960 Let me finish with when we go out outfits. 893 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:41,240 Yeah, that's really annoying. Do you know why it is annoying? 894 00:44:41,240 --> 00:44:45,800 Because I buy trousers and suits and whatever that I really like. 895 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:48,840 Then I put them on and I look like a fucking idiot. 896 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:51,520 I look like something from Kevin and Perry because I'm so short. 897 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:56,160 I'm not even sure. But I'm not sure, guys. 5 foot 898 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,400 75, foot six and a. Half you're not 5. 899 00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:02,440 Foot 6 1/2, but Scarlett's 5 foot 11:00-ish. 900 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,040 So Scarlett will then put it on and it will look so good. 901 00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,440 And I'm just so pissed off by this point because I'm like, for 902 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:11,160 fuck's sake, I wanted to wear that. 903 00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,840 Yeah, but then she also is when, like, we're both wearing 904 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,080 completely different outfits and she's just decided mine's 905 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:17,360 better. We deal with that. 906 00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:20,680 Basically. Freya's always a lot better when 907 00:45:20,720 --> 00:45:23,440 I dress her, so she'll be like, can you just put an outfit 908 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,680 together for me? But we're always in a rush 909 00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,200 whenever we're getting ready. I'm trying to find something for 910 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:29,880 myself. So 9 times out of 10 I'm like, I 911 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:33,440 don't have the time. But like the times that I. 912 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,360 So when we went to the G spot of them, I had said to Freya in the 913 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,800 week leading up, wear the stripe to pinstripe suit. 914 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:41,080 I know it'll look really good on you. 915 00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:43,680 We already have it. She was like, no, no, no, no, I 916 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,720 refuse. She goes out, buys all these 917 00:45:45,720 --> 00:45:48,360 different outfits. We're trying them on. 918 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:51,520 None of like none of them are fitting her properly because I 919 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:52,680 have this thing as well, which is. 920 00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:53,480 Weird. I don't know if. 921 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,480 It's maybe where I'm a little bit on the spectrum where I can 922 00:45:56,480 --> 00:45:59,160 look at someone and I know exactly what will look good on 923 00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:02,480 them and like suit their figure. It's it's kind of weird. 924 00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:06,280 And so there'll be stuff that Freya will pull out and I'll be 925 00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:10,560 like, for example, she loves the Sara trouser, which fair enough, 926 00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,800 but we all know that Sara trousers are made for like 6 927 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:15,680 foot girlies because this is what I'm saying. 928 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:20,720 They won't fit you anyway. She puts on after trying on like 929 00:46:20,720 --> 00:46:23,200 all of the suits that she wanted puts on. 930 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,200 I'm like please, just put on the pinstripe suit. 931 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,880 Please. She's like, OK, fine. 932 00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:30,160 Puts it on, fits you perfectly, looks amazing. 933 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,200 And you felt really good in it, didn't you? 934 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,600 Yeah. So look I. 935 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,640 I think the whole thing with like a looks comparison though, 936 00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:41,720 I think that that's something that you've got to kind of like 937 00:46:41,720 --> 00:46:44,960 work on. I think that you can't put that 938 00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:46,880 on your other partner being like, oh, you look so much 939 00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:50,480 better than me and get pissed off by it, but you also can't be 940 00:46:50,680 --> 00:46:53,040 the partner. That's like kind of like digging 941 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,520 at your other partner's appearance as well though, and 942 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,400 actually making that comparison. I think that if that's 943 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:01,360 happening, it just shouldn't be. I think that you should just 944 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,960 always be your like girlfriend's cheerleader. 945 00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:05,720 Exactly. And you have to be your own 946 00:47:05,720 --> 00:47:06,600 cheerleader. As well. 947 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,080 So if you're having those intense feelings, I would 948 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,720 probably say like you need to go to therapy because like, no, I, 949 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:14,480 I don't think necessarily therapy. 950 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:15,640 But I. Think that you need to work 951 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,800 yeah, because if you're comparison and more like 952 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,120 positive. Affirmations, things like. 953 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,720 That I think the more that you call yourself ugly, the uglier 954 00:47:21,720 --> 00:47:23,040 you become. Like quite literally. 955 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,920 So you need to start being nice yourself. 956 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,720 I have just the worst self. Critique. 957 00:47:28,720 --> 00:47:32,800 So I critique myself really badly, but not often in 958 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,040 comparison to other people, if that makes sense. 959 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:39,480 I always want other people's clothes always, but I don't 960 00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,800 necessarily do it with like hair and things like that. 961 00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,520 But I 9 times out of 10 look in the mirror and I'm like, I don't 962 00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:47,840 like something about myself. Yeah. 963 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,000 And I think it's a. Really, really bad. 964 00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,680 It's a real shame. Because you complain so much. 965 00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:53,840 And the one thing that I can say, like if you're sat here, 966 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,360 20, thirties, 40 is whatever, it's like you are right now in 967 00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,280 your prime. You're never going to be any 968 00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:02,200 younger than you are right now. So you better start fucking 969 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,520 embracing who you are because you will get old one day and you 970 00:48:04,520 --> 00:48:06,680 will look back and be like, what a shame. 971 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:10,200 I spent all of those years putting myself down. 972 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,040 I need a good point. Therapy for that. 973 00:48:12,240 --> 00:48:15,320 Yeah. Would you date someone who isn't 974 00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,440 out? No, I wouldn't either. 975 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:18,920 Just no. Just play. 976 00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:23,040 No, I mean, it's just for me like, well, we couldn't, could 977 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:24,160 we really, guys? At. 978 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:27,360 This point now because like we're so out that we'd get 979 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:31,040 caught out quick and we'd catch the other person would probably 980 00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:35,280 get themselves caught out quick. I also just. 981 00:48:36,240 --> 00:48:37,960 I just couldn't. And it goes back to. 982 00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,120 The whole thing of my type, strong personality type, I 983 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,120 couldn't be with someone who's hiding themselves, who's hiding 984 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:44,960 themselves. There are reasons why they're 985 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,320 not out and. Again, it could always be 986 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:49,920 circumstantially, could be really happy in their sexuality, 987 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:52,360 but, you know, not be able to be out in the household for safety 988 00:48:52,360 --> 00:48:53,640 reasons or something like that. Yeah. 989 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,640 And those situations are really sad and really awful. 990 00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,920 I just selfishly perhaps couldn't deal with the emotional 991 00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,760 burden of that because I live so freely and that is something 992 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,920 that I'm so proud of and that I want to continue doing. 993 00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:09,760 I couldn't. I think it also depends on my 994 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:12,080 age as well like I remember. Obviously, when I was younger 995 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,840 and I made my ex, you're both really young and when you're 996 00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,000 still in the closet. I don't think that's that bad 997 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,440 because it is almost like a journey, but if you're like late 998 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:25,600 20s, early 30s and beyond and you're interested in someone 999 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:26,680 who's in the. Closet. 1000 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,080 I mean, let's be honest. And also come with a lot of 1001 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,600 internalise having just gonna I. Yeah, I just don't think it's 1002 00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,200 going to go down. Very well, I think that's enough 1003 00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,160 questions. Let's move on to a the Horror 1004 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,440 Story. And we've had so many good 1005 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,400 horror stories recently. We are going to have to stop, 1006 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,040 start just dropping more episodes because we can't churn 1007 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,720 out the horror stories. I know we've got that, but 1008 00:49:46,720 --> 00:49:48,200 today's horror. Story is a. 1009 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,680 Follow on from a previous Horror Story which was The Girl that 1010 00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:57,000 Had messaged and said that she kind of had a crush on her gym 1011 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,960 girlfriend and and they had like a sexual tension. 1012 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,680 And they were. Apparently both straight, but 1013 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:03,720 there was like a bit of follow up. 1014 00:50:03,720 --> 00:50:05,360 Yeah, internalised. Homophobia there. 1015 00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,880 And we kind of depicted that whole thing and ended it by 1016 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:10,400 saying just fucking go for it. Just go for it. 1017 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:12,160 Hey lady, so funny. I'm so into. 1018 00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,000 The lesbian supper. Club now I guess it doesn't make 1019 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,960 me feel bad for anything I was feeling so thank you that really 1020 00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,120 helps. Which is great as you know I 1021 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:21,480 wrote in a few weeks ago. Anyway girls it's a shit show. 1022 00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:25,120 We both have decided to stay in denial, completely in the closet 1023 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,680 and both said we must be bisexual but not wanting to be 1024 00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:29,600 with a woman. Question mark until I was 1025 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:31,720 Homophobia. Again, weird behaviour. 1026 00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,240 Imagine being happy and getting something from someone no one 1027 00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:37,640 else has given you but because you're a woman that's a no go. 1028 00:50:38,240 --> 00:50:40,800 Now she's dating and she's loved up with the guy, she's not loved 1029 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,960 up with him. It's a classic move from the 1030 00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:46,800 gym, much to my disapproval and I'm down in another gym thinking 1031 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,480 I'm 100 times better. Is she OK? 1032 00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,120 I can guarantee you're 100 times better. 1033 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,560 All he's got on me is a penis, which he probably doesn't even 1034 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,120 have on you because we can buy Dicks in all shapes and sizes. 1035 00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:01,360 I'm here, I'm sad I've lost whatever we had to be honest and 1036 00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:03,360 neither of us ever expected to catch feelings. 1037 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:07,240 I certainly didn't, but I have. We fell out out and now I'm here 1038 00:51:07,240 --> 00:51:09,840 questioning my sexuality and she's happy with a little pleb 1039 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,360 of a man. He actually isn't little but lol 1040 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,000 fuck him. All I know of this opportunity 1041 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,440 ever comes up again and I feel happy and a person giving me 1042 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,520 what I need no matter the sex even if they are bloody sheep. 1043 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,800 At this rate I won't let the opportunity go. 1044 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,960 Well that's good. It's been a learning curve for 1045 00:51:24,960 --> 00:51:26,280 her. I think that's the thing right? 1046 00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,960 It's been a learning curve. This person clearly isn't able 1047 00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:32,280 exactly accept them. You're clearly further ahead. 1048 00:51:32,280 --> 00:51:33,360 In your journey. Yeah. 1049 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,680 And you're also, but also you're further. 1050 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:38,400 Ahead, like emotionally, maturity wise, she said. 1051 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:40,000 This world is stupid and we should. 1052 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:43,040 Be able to be comfortable enough to explore things when we know 1053 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,800 deep down she wants our friendship back without all the 1054 00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:47,280 other bits. Do you think that's possible? 1055 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,040 To be honest, I'd move on. As much as you want to kind of 1056 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:52,080 stay friends, I just don't think it's worth it for you and your 1057 00:51:52,080 --> 00:51:53,760 growth. As last few weeks I've wanted 1058 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:55,440 spaces I didn't want to see her with. 1059 00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:57,840 Let's call him Greg. Greg also said he wasn't happy 1060 00:51:57,840 --> 00:52:00,880 with her being on holiday with me as he knows she fancies me. 1061 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:04,600 So I think so now I've got to see her with Greg. 1062 00:52:04,600 --> 00:52:07,160 Whatever we had was gone and I've just got to be best 1063 00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:08,080 friends. Question mark. 1064 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,840 I don't know how to, to be honest. 1065 00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,440 I would rather go in avoidance mode until I feel nothing. 1066 00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:14,920 I've cut it. I wouldn't even bother. 1067 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:16,400 I also wouldn't want do you know? 1068 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,320 What? I just know that he's a smug 1069 00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,600 little man. Yeah, he's going to. 1070 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:21,000 He thinks he's one. Hang up. 1071 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:24,680 Yeah, fuck, I also just. Think you don't need to. 1072 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:27,600 Say to her we can't be friends because I'm still in love with 1073 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,560 you or anything. What I actually think you need 1074 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:33,560 to say to her. This has opened a portal or a 1075 00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,440 door to me that I didn't ever expect to open in my life. 1076 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,920 I'm in a position emotionally and mentally where I feel 1077 00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:43,520 confident to take my truth. And it doesn't feel like you 1078 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,280 are. So I think because we're on 1079 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,680 separate paths, yeah, that is why we need to part ways. 1080 00:52:48,720 --> 00:52:50,960 Yeah, exactly. Well, all power to you. 1081 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:53,240 Babe, I'm here. We're here for you. 1082 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,040 We are. If you have anything else, just 1083 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:58,400 send it our way. But guys, and we gotta go, we 1084 00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,200 gotta go, we gotta go. Love you girlies. 1085 00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,280 And we'll speak to you next week. 1086 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:02,880 Bye bye.