1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,200 I could eat that. Go for lunch, Yeah. 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,280 She dances on my tongue, he said. 3 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:09,080 She might be the one, and I can never get enough. 4 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,040 I could. Buy her so much stuff. 5 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:35,760 It's a craving, not a crush. I'm sorry, but how iconic. 6 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:39,080 I love her. I I could feel this coming a 7 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,360 mile off. I mean, yeah. 8 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:44,040 I don't want to. I don't want to sound weird. 9 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,680 But like when she released Bellyache when she was like 30, 10 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,480 I was like, that's a gay. That's a gay kid. 11 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:55,000 Yeah, and not even just say, by the way she was dressing. 12 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:58,120 She's just got gay energy. She's she's. 13 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:01,200 Yeah. I mean, I'm surprised it's taken 14 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,720 her this long, if I'm honest. She is young, though. 15 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,560 Yeah, but like, she seems like the type of bit she would walk 16 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:08,360 out the room and be like, I'm gay. 17 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,720 I don't give a fuck. Fair do you know? 18 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:12,200 What I mean? Yeah, I feel like she's had good 19 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,160 progression in like her music career. 20 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,560 Then all of a sudden, she could be like, boom, look at this new 21 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,560 era. Gay. 22 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:21,560 Yeah, also other voice on the mic that is Olivia because 23 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,400 Scarlett is dropping off. Scarlett is dropping off Ziggy 24 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:26,720 because we're about to go on holiday. 25 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,080 Yeah, very excited to like get some sun, get some sea. 26 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:37,040 And Ziggy has to get himself really well equipped and settled 27 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,760 in Somerset before Scarlett leaves him because he's quite a 28 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,640 sensitive little dog. So yeah, I'm glad that she's 29 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,160 doing that, but it is just us two today. 30 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,080 But Manager Liv is Manager Liv is back. 31 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,040 Manager Liv, you're very good at stepping in. 32 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,680 When I need you. I'm like, come on. 33 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:53,880 It's got to be done. You've got to do, you've got to 34 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,280 do what you've got to do. It works as well because you're 35 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:58,200 a lesbian. Do you know what I mean? 36 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,720 It's just kind of easy to talk to. 37 00:02:00,440 --> 00:02:01,920 Imagine. Imagine me having a straight 38 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,000 manager. It wouldn't. 39 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,080 Work. It wouldn't work. 40 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:06,440 It wouldn't. They wouldn't get it, no. 41 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,600 I feel like. I feel like it's like being a 42 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,920 lesbian as being like a secret club, like bisexual, queer, 43 00:02:11,920 --> 00:02:14,400 lesbian women. It's like a whole little club. 44 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,080 Yeah, it would have to be a lesbian. 45 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:18,800 A lesbian as well. You couldn't have like a gay man 46 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,800 manager. No, it just wouldn't work. 47 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:22,560 We'd fight. Yeah. 48 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:24,320 I'd fight with a gay man. I know I would. 49 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,320 That's the problem. I couldn't be trusted. 50 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,760 I'd be like, shut up. Oh, this is what I wanted to 51 00:02:29,760 --> 00:02:33,160 mention is I don't know why it's only taken me this long, 30 52 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,800 years to figure this out. But, like, you know how people 53 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:37,520 always say, oh, you're a man hating lesbian? 54 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,960 They never say you're a woman hating gay to gay men. 55 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,680 Yeah, what's that all about? Ever. 56 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:49,000 Yeah, I I don't understand. It's because men are so 57 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,680 incredibly fragile that it has to be kind of like a man. 58 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,760 Like, oh, it's got to all be like a man's fault that you're a 59 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,880 lesbian, because men are so elite, apparently, that you must 60 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:02,040 actually hate men to be a lesbian. 61 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:03,480 I do hate men, but that's not the point. 62 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:05,400 Because I mean, they're just pricks, aren't they? 63 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,560 Yeah, but like, I I find that really weird. 64 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,320 So now I'm going to start saying, oh, woman hating gay man 65 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:14,280 just for the just to. I think you should just to even 66 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:17,240 it out a little bit because why would they ever say like they've 67 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,560 never said to any gay man or you're a woman hating gay man. 68 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,480 And if the same rule applies, wouldn't that be the case? 69 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:26,480 Well, you'd think so. You would. 70 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,840 You would think so. But it's also the same reason 71 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:31,880 why everyone always thinks a a by man is a gay man and a by 72 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:34,520 woman is a straight woman. Yeah, because the default always 73 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:37,680 has to be men, right? Fucking losers. 74 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,200 Anyway, no shit. Can't be asked. 75 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:42,120 Talk about bisexuals. We saw Beth McCarthy perform 76 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:46,720 last night at her Massive, massive fucking concert in 77 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,360 heaven. It was fucking incredible. 78 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:53,000 Like the atmosphere there was insane. 79 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,840 I'm pretty sure this was like therapy for so many of the the 80 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:59,200 people in the crowd. I really. 81 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,920 I was fucking blown. Away the atmosphere was 82 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,080 incredible and I think what is so nice about it, like all the 83 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:10,880 people that were there just seemed so happy and so safe. 84 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,280 Yeah, sure. And it was just so nice to see 85 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,040 that. But just having such a nice 86 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,040 time. But the way that Beth can really 87 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,880 bring out the fun and like, she connects with her crowd so well. 88 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:23,000 She knows her crowd so well, yeah, she even like fucking put 89 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:26,840 rings on these girls fingers. So like she she ordained. 90 00:04:26,840 --> 00:04:31,160 Someone last night she lit. Also massive shout out though to 91 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,560 Katie and Nadia the her support acts. 92 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:36,240 Oh my God. Fucking incredible. 93 00:04:36,280 --> 00:04:38,720 I have never been so blown away by a support act. 94 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,400 Ever. My jaw still hurts like it was. 95 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,920 They were fantastic Fan fucking tastic. 96 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,560 They blew it out the fucking park. 97 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:51,480 It was amazing. Nadia also made sure to mention 98 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,920 about Free Palestine, which I thought was really, really 99 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:57,880 powerful, Fucking incredible. You know, we all need to be 100 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,400 doing this as people saying enough time Free Palestine. 101 00:05:01,840 --> 00:05:05,440 We are on the side of Palestinians and everything 102 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:09,280 that's going on in HAFA right now, which is horrendous, 103 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:18,000 Absolutely horrendous. So I think the more people that 104 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,640 can speak out, the better. Fuck me. 105 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,000 It was just it was amazing. It was so, but like. 106 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:24,680 I was saying, and I messaged Beth this morning. 107 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,240 I was like, Oh my God, like when me and Scarlett would go and see 108 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:30,640 her perform at The Swan, which is the Shittest pub by Hyde 109 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,200 Park. And we're not even talking two 110 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:35,240 years ago. Yeah, I mean the progression, 111 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:36,440 Beth. She would do it because she 112 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:40,640 needed money, so she'd do a gig for about £100 where she would 113 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,640 just play that. Everyone would just ignore her 114 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:46,760 pretty much because they're all just like old men and but she 115 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,480 would fucking go for it and just do it. 116 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:51,720 And the persistence that she's put through, it's all paid off. 117 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,720 And I felt so emotional. I felt like her mum, like I felt 118 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:58,920 so emotional while she was performing and she's a fucking 119 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,200 rock star, like she is amazing. Also her guitarist. 120 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:03,960 Yeah. Wow. 121 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:07,080 Yeah, you are hot. You are sexy, yeah. 122 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,800 I mean, it was such a proud moment, like she should be so 123 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,360 proud of herself and it's just, yeah. 124 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,320 Yeah. And if you guys haven't, if you 125 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,000 know about Beth McCarthy or if you don't, please listen. 126 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:20,040 And if you know anything about Ket Ketty, if you know anything 127 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,600 about Ketty, men call me. Absolutely not. 128 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,000 Don't. Don't listen to me. 129 00:06:25,280 --> 00:06:28,520 If you know about Catty or Nadia, you should look them up 130 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,520 now if you've never heard of them. 131 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:34,600 So it's Nadia. It's like NXDIA and Catty is 132 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:40,080 CATTY MP3. And they are amazing and they're 133 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:43,320 both lesbian women. So what more could you want? 134 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:46,000 What more could you want? Hot lesbian women with amazing 135 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,440 vocals and great songs. Tick, tick, tick. 136 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,480 Yeah, Amazing. Ding Dong, Ding Dong. 137 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,240 So today I've really there was like, what we're going to talk 138 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:56,160 about. We're going to get people to 139 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:57,720 write in and stuff. I was like, I want to make it 140 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,120 really not hired. I want to make it fun. 141 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,160 I'm in the holiday mood. Yeah, we're going on holiday. 142 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,240 We're feeling fun and we're feeling silly. 143 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:07,720 I fucking need that holiday and I've been trying to sort my shit 144 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,200 out, so I've been going to hypnosis sessions recently. 145 00:07:11,680 --> 00:07:13,920 For those who don't know, I struggle with really bad 146 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:17,800 emetophobia and just like generalize really bad anxiety 147 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,240 and I have been going to therapy big up better help which has 148 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,480 been amazing. Do you want me to say what a 149 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,760 metaphorbia is? Oh, people know that's fine. 150 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:29,240 Yeah, you can look it up it better. 151 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,680 Help is fucking incredible. But I was like, this is so deep 152 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,560 rooted in my brain. It's been 20 years of just like 153 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,200 pure anxiety every single day that I was like, I need to do 154 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,680 something about it. So I went to this woman and it's 155 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:46,320 under Kensington hypnosis. She is amazing. 156 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,880 She's been like featured on some like radio shows and stuff like 157 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,440 this as well that she she's got around. 158 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:56,040 She's very, very good and I feel a lot lighter after doing it. 159 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,360 She even had me back like the other day, free of charge 160 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:00,720 because I had a wobble. I had a wobble. 161 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,240 I think you do seem lighter in yourself. 162 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:06,840 I can see like it's like a sense of relief almost. 163 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:08,840 Well, she did this really incredible thing with me 164 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,720 yesterday where she made me regress back into my years with 165 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:17,120 every step that I took. So it's like 30292827 by the age 166 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:21,120 of like 12, then 11:00, then to I was bawling my eyes out, like 167 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:24,840 I was really crying and but you know when you're like 168 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,560 embarrassed to cry. So I would just let the tears 169 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:30,760 run down my face whilst trying not to react. 170 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:32,559 Just like tears, tears are coming. 171 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:35,919 I felt yeah. And and then she basically also 172 00:08:35,919 --> 00:08:37,559 was like, OK, well, you've gone through this now. 173 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:41,480 You've got to imagine yourself at 33, so like three years in 174 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,679 the future. What does that look like? 175 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:48,560 She's powerful, she's successful, blah, blah, blah, 176 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:52,080 very in tune, very emotionally in control, all this kind of 177 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:53,920 stuff and kind of let her be your best friend. 178 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,960 So it's really interesting. Yeah. 179 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,600 Because I think because she was like, what you do is you just 180 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:02,240 continuously carry on your past and with every single step that 181 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,360 you took there, you had to let go, let go of that kid. 182 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,080 Let go of that kid. And also for me to like as my 30 183 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:11,200 year old self, greet the younger versions of myself, give them a 184 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,240 hug, tell them everything's going to be OK, all that kind of 185 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:15,080 stuff. So I was like. 186 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,040 It sounds good, though I feel like more people should do this 187 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:24,560 a. 100% would recommend it. And yeah, and also, I didn't get 188 00:09:24,560 --> 00:09:26,960 it for free. Like, this is coming straight 189 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:29,680 for me, like I paid for it. It was really good. 190 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:34,800 This is a genuine, genuine review of, yeah, of my 191 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,920 experience there. So look, sometimes we've got to 192 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,640 do what we've got to do. Mental health, we always 193 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:42,240 advocate for it, but I know a lot of you as well struggle with 194 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,800 mental health issues, and we're looking at doing a few things 195 00:09:46,320 --> 00:09:47,640 with the lesbian Supper Club brand. 196 00:09:47,640 --> 00:09:50,840 We've got some really, really fucking exciting shit coming up 197 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,880 that is going to be impactful as well. 198 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:58,200 To, like, healing and owning exactly who you are, 'cause you 199 00:09:58,200 --> 00:09:59,440 bitches are doing a great job at it. 200 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,520 But we can always do more. We, you know, we have to put the 201 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,480 fucking word out there. Lesbians are ruling the world 202 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:06,720 right now. We just need to get bigger and 203 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:08,160 bigger. But yeah, there's going to be 204 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,640 another event as well. The Lesbian Supper Club events 205 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:15,080 have been popping. Off recently we have the event. 206 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,440 The event was amazing. I love seeing everyone. 207 00:10:18,680 --> 00:10:21,520 There's always like the best atmosphere, the best vibe, 208 00:10:21,560 --> 00:10:24,080 everyone's always like. Really like, happy. 209 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,040 So nice. Drinking, smoking, just having 210 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:31,200 fun and like letting go and just being in a safe space. 211 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:34,000 Because a lot of women come alone and a lot of you do ask 212 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,600 me, is it OK if I come alone? Of course it fucking is. 213 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:38,960 We welcome you with open. Arms. 214 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,960 I quite literally do. You do you take your under your 215 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:44,240 mummy wing? Yes. 216 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,200 Yeah. Because I I genuinely love all 217 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:52,240 of you and it's so nice to actually hear your own story. 218 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:54,920 So I feel like now when I'm like talking into this mic, I'm 219 00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:58,600 talking to all of these amazing people that I've met, and for me 220 00:10:58,600 --> 00:11:00,920 that means a lot more. So thank you and hello. 221 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:02,720 And it was so nice to meet you. If you have met me. 222 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:04,240 I've loved every single minute of it. 223 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:06,200 Yeah, it's nice to put the faces. 224 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:09,640 What's Wait, how would I? Say, yeah, faces the names and 225 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:12,160 the numbers, because we don't even know names really like 226 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:13,520 either. You know it's. 227 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,680 Really nice. It's a nice it's a nice 360 228 00:11:15,680 --> 00:11:17,840 moment, I feel. Yeah, everyone's really 229 00:11:17,840 --> 00:11:19,440 beautiful too. It's a bonus, yeah. 230 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,360 But yeah. We're going to be doing another 231 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,400 pub night next month. It's going to happen. 232 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,400 Yeah, so keep an eye out on socials for the ticket is. 233 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,880 This going to be Pride month. Pride month, baby, we. 234 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,320 Should do one like every week in Pride month. 235 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,320 Oh my God, could you? Yeah. 236 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:36,920 IA 100% would. If you guys want a lesbian 237 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,360 supper club event every single week for Pride month, hit me up. 238 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:43,160 Tell me now, because this this girl right here. 239 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:45,160 Well, we're. Going to have to make some 240 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,440 planning after this recording if we want to get this sorted 241 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,960 before we go on holiday on Sunday. 242 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,520 Yeah, but. It's a lesbian domination. 243 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,720 Hell yeah, baby. It doesn't take me much to 244 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,360 organise it. I could be laying on a sunbed 245 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,080 and just fucking clicking away. What do you mean I do? 246 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:04,000 It what I liaise with Dre. Yeah, but I did the Eventbrite. 247 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:07,400 OK, Eventbrite. Eventbrite. 248 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,520 You're a Eventbrite. It's going to be an expensive 249 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:14,120 month. 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We love you, Ripple. 269 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:13,200 I know. But going back to the topic that 270 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:16,040 I wanted to talk about, I really wanted to talk about first 271 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:19,120 dates, because I was saying this to you earlier that I was like, 272 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:22,440 it's the weirdest thing, a first day, if you think about it. 273 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,040 Especially if it's like a first. Day where you haven't spoken. 274 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:27,680 Well, just off like a dating app. 275 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:29,840 Yeah. I mean, I I did that. 276 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,000 I've 100%, yeah. I've got some stories. 277 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:35,560 I'm actually going to tell some stories because I think it's it 278 00:13:35,560 --> 00:13:37,280 is weird. I don't think it's a bad thing. 279 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,560 It's just weird because it's like you've never really spoken 280 00:13:40,560 --> 00:13:42,440 to this person before, never even met them. 281 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,520 Guaranteed. 11:00 PM You're making out. 282 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:48,600 Yeah, I think the concept of his concept of first date is 283 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,760 obviously normal, but if you deep it enough and think about 284 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:54,960 it, it's actually just quite bizarre. 285 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:59,080 Well, I went on a date I when I was, so I just come out of my 286 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:01,240 relationship like a long term relationship. 287 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:08,680 And I was about 22, like 2122. This woman was Spanish and so I 288 00:14:08,680 --> 00:14:11,520 was like OK that's cool. She had like massive hair. 289 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:14,880 I was all over it and she. Glass of hair just did it for 290 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:16,840 you. Yeah, Tinder, of course. 291 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:21,120 When like, oh, I just loved it. I love fucking swiping, swiping 292 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:21,680 away on that. It's. 293 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:23,120 Fun. It's like a little game. 294 00:14:23,120 --> 00:14:24,480 It's a game. It is a game. 295 00:14:24,480 --> 00:14:26,360 Yeah, and I treated it like a fucking game. 296 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:29,640 Ever tell you that? But this girl woman, shall I say 297 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,640 she was about like, she actually, OK, red flag. 298 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,600 She wouldn't tell me her age. She just said it in my 30s. 299 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,040 Oh, so like, OK, well, how old is that? 300 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:37,200 Like B31. Like B30. 301 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:37,560 Nine. Wait. 302 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,440 But if it was on Tinder, surely her age was there? 303 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:43,680 Or were you just blindsided by the big head? 304 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:45,880 Yeah. I can't remember because it 305 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:46,840 should. Have said the age. 306 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:51,080 I know that I wasn't so sure of her age, but she was in her 30s 307 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,680 for sure. Probably I would say about 35. 308 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:56,120 OK And I was 22. Oh. 309 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:59,120 Oh oh God. Oh dear, oh. 310 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,440 Dear Look, there's nothing wrong with it. 22. 311 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,880 You're old enough you can make your own decisions. 312 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:09,160 Yeah, disclaimer, I would never go any younger than 25 ever. 313 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:14,720 And so yeah, I I remember she like, she was from London, so 314 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:16,840 and I was still in Windsor and she was like, I'll come to 315 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:17,960 Windsor. I was like, OK. 316 00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:20,440 And then she came to Windsor, we went to all by one. 317 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:22,720 And I straight away she was like, shots, Let's just fucking 318 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,240 smash them. Let's smash these shots. 319 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:25,480 Shots. Did you say shots? 320 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,640 Yeah, right. It's obviously me being like me, 321 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:29,720 especially me when I was younger, I was like Ferrell. 322 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,560 So I was like in. Your in your big drinking. 323 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,360 Era, big drinking, big drinking era. 324 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,680 So I was like, shot, shot, shot, having a great time, having a do 325 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,480 valve, like an 8% Belgian beer, just top myself off. 326 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:42,120 And she was like, should we go to London, Should we go to Soho? 327 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:44,360 I was like, yeah. Hang on, where was she? 328 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:47,720 From Oh, she's Spanish Spain. I don't know what I did. 329 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,280 Fat knows what that was. And then we went, so we went 330 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,120 just like on the train, went to Paddington, went to Soho. 331 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:57,880 Like too far. It's not too far from Windsor. 332 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,480 But you know, I was in my adventure series. 333 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:00,960 I was, oh, going away with a stranger. 334 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:05,120 We had literally met for about 45 minutes by this point and you 335 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:06,760 just. Go all around London. 336 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,440 I'm following her. This is like something I've 337 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,160 taken. I I could have been set a 338 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,320 traffic that night so easily. Yeah, I was just like and we 339 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:16,000 went over to, we went over to Soho. 340 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,040 We hung out in like a few bars and she was like, I'm going to 341 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:22,040 get a hotel. So I was like Mummy, yeah. 342 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:24,320 And I was like that would do. You know what that would do? 343 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:25,560 Yeah. I mean, me and you both love a 344 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,120 hotel as well. We're hotel snobs. 345 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,080 Yeah, and it was a lovely hotel too. 346 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:32,320 She was minted. So I was like, OK, Take Me Out 347 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,960 then. That's fine, but it got weird. 348 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:36,840 OK. So we ended up going back to the 349 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:40,800 hotel and obviously Shag is on the cards. 350 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:41,640 Yeah. I mean, yeah. 351 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:43,200 I don't think I fancied her that. 352 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:44,640 My God, I really hope she's not listening to this. 353 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,480 I really don't think I fancied her that much. 354 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:50,680 But you know, drinks, hotel. It just happens sometimes. 355 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:53,720 It happens sometimes, but she was so incredibly Spanish whilst 356 00:16:53,720 --> 00:17:07,560 I was looking her out. Wait, what do you mean, wait? 357 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:13,599 Do that again. I don't know if I can look at 358 00:17:13,599 --> 00:17:19,960 you the same now. So her her moans were in. 359 00:17:19,960 --> 00:17:24,800 I thought she was going to go. It just wasn't cool. 360 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:28,319 It wasn't sexy. I mean, and I find Spanish women 361 00:17:28,319 --> 00:17:30,240 like, incredibly hot. And I've been with Latinas, I 362 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:31,360 love them. But there was something 363 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,840 different about this one. She's putting it on. 364 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:37,120 She's been on too much. And that kind of shit really, 365 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:39,640 really, really embarrasses me. How did? 366 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,760 You not start laughing? I would. 367 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:47,560 It was just, I was kind of mortified for her. 368 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,320 For her. I had like second hand 369 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:51,360 embarrassment big time. So I was like, Oh my fucking 370 00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:54,200 God. Anyway, I don't think she'd do 371 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:55,840 anything to me, but whatever, I don't really give a fuck. 372 00:17:55,840 --> 00:18:00,040 We then obviously went to sleep, woke up in the morning, and she 373 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,880 was like really cute by the way. Like, she was really nice. 374 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:04,880 Like, she went to the shop and she bought some paracetamol. 375 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:08,640 Some orange juice was like, here you go, I was having a shower, 376 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,360 both had a shower in the morning and then went down for 377 00:18:11,360 --> 00:18:13,240 breakfast. That's where, I guess, Buddha. 378 00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:15,840 So I've got my little poached egg on avocado. 379 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:19,000 I have a mid brekkie. In still in last night's 380 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,600 clothing, I'm assuming. Well, yeah, I have had a shower. 381 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,080 But obviously I. Haven't got any fresh clothes. 382 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:29,680 Nice, nice, classic. And eating this breakfast and 383 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:31,360 she's like, I'm going to go to the bathroom. 384 00:18:31,360 --> 00:18:34,280 She goes to the bathroom. I'm sat there for a good half 385 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,600 hour. I'm like, what is going on here? 386 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,960 This girl is shitting. Oh yeah. 387 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,200 Came back. It was worse. 388 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,680 She was crying. I was like, oh. 389 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,120 Oh no. Her uncle had just died. 390 00:18:47,120 --> 00:18:51,320 Oh, Buck. Me being 22 and sat there not 391 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,560 really knowing who this person is having to console her to be. 392 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:58,160 Like, I'm so sorry. Another part of me is thinking, 393 00:18:58,160 --> 00:18:59,760 is that just, well, you just come for a shit? 394 00:18:59,760 --> 00:19:03,000 Anyone. Sorry I didn't say long. 395 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:04,480 My uncle died. No, I. 396 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:07,160 Just an excuse for being constipated. 397 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:10,560 No, but I was like, oh God, I'm so sorry. 398 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:12,240 I'm so sorry. I was like, do you want to do 399 00:19:12,240 --> 00:19:14,440 you want to go for a drink by this point? 400 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:15,600 I mean. Fair. 401 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,760 It was only 12:00, but I was like, you seem sad. 402 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:19,960 Let's get some hair with the dog. 403 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:21,800 She was like, yes. So I was like, OK, cool. 404 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:25,400 So we ended up going to some, like, nice bars and stuff like a 405 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,240 long, like, hold on. I'm thinking there's like a 406 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,000 bridge and it's like South. Bank. 407 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,880 South Bank had a load of like beers there and then she was 408 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:36,160 like, come to this party. My friend's hosting a party. 409 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,360 I want you to come. Right. 410 00:19:38,360 --> 00:19:40,800 So now I've been drinking since 12:00. 411 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,640 We're now heading to our friends at like 7 Go over there. 412 00:19:44,360 --> 00:19:46,720 I guess it's even fucking weirder I'm turning up. 413 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,640 Obviously I am the youngest by about 13 years. 414 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,160 Yeah, for everyone. Yeah. 415 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,280 So I was feeling quite insecure at this point because you know 416 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:58,360 how I can talk in any room. I was still talking, but I was 417 00:19:58,360 --> 00:20:01,400 like, I feel very young, like I feel a bit silly. 418 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:03,840 I've come along with her. I don't really know her very 419 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:07,440 well, but I've said yes now. So I'm following it through and 420 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,240 her very recent ex was there and now it starts to clock. 421 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:17,000 In my mind, she wanted to bring a date because her very recent, 422 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,400 recent ex was there. Make her jealous. 423 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:21,760 Make her jealous. And it's like, oh, look at me 424 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:24,160 with this, like young, like hot girl and. 425 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,000 But like, that's so not how I would look at it. 426 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,840 Like me and Scarlett broke up and we were like 35 and she 427 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:30,400 turned up to a party with a 22 year old. 428 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,440 I'd laugh. I would too. 429 00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:35,960 I'd be like how embarrassed. Then they start fighting, 430 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:38,240 arguing. I'm stood there like, oh, 431 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,720 there's also a cat there that hates me for some reason. 432 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,520 Like, it's one of those cats that's like all the time. 433 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:47,080 Like you go near it and it like scratches you out of nowhere. 434 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,520 I would. But again, this is obviously 435 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:52,160 where your prefrontal lobe cortex just isn't developed 436 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,440 enough because me now would be that right when I'm going home. 437 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,080 Yeah. Did I say Yeah, of course I did. 438 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,600 So then, how did the day end? What happened? 439 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:00,400 I then just got a train back the next morning. 440 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:01,960 As you went back to the hotel again. 441 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,280 No, I stayed at the fucking friend's house with her. 442 00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:08,480 I don't know, honestly. I this is what I mean. 443 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,880 I was feral. It's weird, the shit that you do 444 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,760 when you're younger, then you look back and think. 445 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:18,760 I would never me now, would have never have even gone into London 446 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:19,680 with her. I would have just stayed at 447 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:20,840 Windsor and been like, Nah, I'm not. 448 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,640 I'm not going anywhere. You've come all this way, Yeah. 449 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,160 You can get a train home that is honestly like me now, but 450 00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,360 obviously I was just swept away with the moment I was living La 451 00:21:30,360 --> 00:21:34,200 Vida Loca, I was I. Was that big Spanish hair, baby? 452 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:38,680 It was really magic. And then she tried to go for 453 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,360 another date and I met my other girl that I was then dating at 454 00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:42,840 that time. So then how did you start 455 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,000 speaking to her? Did you just cut contact? 456 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:48,040 Yeah, stop talking to her. Sorry. 457 00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:51,120 It's a bit of a traumatic couple of days, really, but it was also 458 00:21:51,120 --> 00:21:51,840 fun. Do you know what I mean? 459 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,440 Like it's just. The thing is, you've got to 460 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:54,840 take. You just got to laugh at it, 461 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,880 don't you? I also really like, at the same 462 00:21:56,880 --> 00:22:00,480 time, I really liked this other girl that I had been dating who 463 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,680 was so hot and cold with me that I was then like, fuck it, I'll 464 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:06,160 put myself in a situation where I'm like, going on a date with 465 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:07,200 someone. So I think that's why I was a 466 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,200 little bit unhinged that night. Fair enough. 467 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:10,720 I wasn't thinking straight, Yeah. 468 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:15,240 I feel like in terms of first dates, I haven't really had that 469 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,640 many. I haven't really haven't really 470 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,320 been been. I've been a data. 471 00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:23,920 I've had like my first girlfriend, who I met in, who I 472 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:27,040 met in school and that just. How old were you, 30? 473 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,840 I was is that? Where you pick up all your 474 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,720 girls. Yeah, just the local school. 475 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,840 School playground. No, just no, no. 476 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,480 We were in sixth form. She was in the year above me. 477 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,240 So that just kind of was like, it just naturally happened. 478 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,760 And then we went to the cinema. But I wouldn't class it as a 479 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,320 first date because we already knew each other. 480 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,240 Yeah, but did it feel like a date? 481 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:55,840 Did you know it was a date? No, because we both hadn't come 482 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:58,400 out and we were like just talking to each other. 483 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:02,960 So how did you make the move from Friends to more than that, 484 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:04,600 like? Well, let me tell you. 485 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,200 Yeah, So we went to the cinema. I remember having to wait 486 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,640 outside of school because she had detention. 487 00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:13,000 We love a bad girl. We. 488 00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:17,840 Love a bad bitch? We went to the cinema to see 489 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,800 Paddington 2 and I don't know why. 490 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,760 That is hilarious. That was also so wholesome. 491 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,080 How old were you? Like 17. 492 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,720 Oh, I said six form this. You know what? 493 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,200 I actually might. I might need to ask her. 494 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,480 I might need to get back in touch and be like why did we go 495 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:38,280 and see Paddington 2? Why, out of all of the films, 496 00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:40,520 was it Paddington 2? I don't. 497 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,960 I I don't know. Interesting. 498 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,720 Anyway, we went to the cinema and you know how you can get 499 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:49,320 those like, double seats? Obviously we sat there in the 500 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:54,600 double seats, of course. Of course, it's actually really 501 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,200 cute to think about it when we were sat there, You know when, 502 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,720 like, your hands are like, next to each other? 503 00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:01,640 Yeah. And then they start edging a bit 504 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:03,440 closer. And then the pinky. 505 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:05,520 Starts touching. How sweet? 506 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,520 And then the rest of the hands. So then we're holding hands. 507 00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:11,760 Went back to her house. Stayed the night. 508 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,640 Nothing happened like that. Just didn't. 509 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,720 And then I think the following week again, because we were like 510 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:19,680 acting as if we were friends and it's just like we were 511 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,360 definitely like flirty with each other but hadn't addressed the 512 00:24:22,360 --> 00:24:25,840 situation. And then I was in the shower one 513 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,840 day at hers the next morning, got out of the shower, just 514 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,040 lying laying in bed. And I just don't know how this 515 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:35,440 happened, but she just she kissed my forehead and then just 516 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,480 started like kissing all down my face. 517 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,040 Oh, that is so cute. And then got to my lips. 518 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,400 And then we just made out. And then we had sex. 519 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:44,920 Oh, there and then. There and there. 520 00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:46,760 Done. Also, funny enough, that was on 521 00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,480 Valentine's Day, so it was very romantic. 522 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,000 So yeah, that was that's. Really cute though. 523 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:53,320 It was whole. Yeah. 524 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,160 I think it's really nice that you got to have these 525 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,760 experiences at 17. Oh yeah, for. 526 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:01,880 Like such a young age. Like, I really wish that I could 527 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,600 have had that when I was younger. 528 00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:07,480 Everyone was just too painfully in the closet, including myself, 529 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,160 but it just never would have happened and I just put myself 530 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,520 on endless dates with ugly boys. I mean, I've done that. 531 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,600 Too. Yeah, But to like, find your 532 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:19,320 first love when you're 17, I think is really. 533 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:21,440 Oh, it was very cute. I mean, she fucked me over in 534 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:23,600 the end, but that's that was fine. 535 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,040 Yeah, but. Also like relationships end. 536 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:28,880 Especially first ones, yeah. They never last. 537 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,520 No, no. And but I think that that was 538 00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,520 that was really fucking cool on her to own it too though. 539 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,760 Oh yeah, for sure. It was great. 540 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:38,840 But I don't. Think you would have ever have 541 00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,960 made the first move? Hell no. 542 00:25:41,360 --> 00:25:43,920 Absolutely not. I'm too scared to do stuff like 543 00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,680 that. I know. 544 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,120 But then after that, when we broke up, like, you know, when 545 00:25:48,120 --> 00:25:51,000 people break up and think I'm going to go on Tinder or Hinge 546 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,960 or something like, then start dating. 547 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:57,720 I would go on these apps, swipe, talk to someone, and then when 548 00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,640 it got to the like, let's meet up for a date, I'd be like. 549 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,640 I really wasn't for. You. 550 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,600 I've never just. I've just never been into it and 551 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,000 I don't know why. I mean, like each of their own. 552 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,640 I think it's a really good way to kind of like discover like a 553 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:14,560 wider bunch of people, people that you would never normally 554 00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,080 meet. That's what I like about it. 555 00:26:17,360 --> 00:26:19,920 Yeah. I it's also, it's it's kind of 556 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,000 nice to like take your mind off things. 557 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:26,240 Like when me and my ex broke up, I went on Tinder, but I didn't 558 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,240 meet up with anyone. I think it's a good distraction. 559 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,120 Sometimes. So I was like talking to girls 560 00:26:30,120 --> 00:26:33,040 and stuff, but I would have never have wanted to have taken 561 00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:35,200 it any further. I couldn't have done that. 562 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:38,120 I love it. I was fucking love it. 563 00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:41,480 Where were we? It was like, I can't remember 564 00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:44,440 where we were, but anyway, I Remember Me, you and Scarlett. 565 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,040 We were walking around and we saw loads of like young lesbians 566 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,280 and they literally were like 1415 holding hands. 567 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,280 And we were like, this is insane. 568 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:54,240 Like is in the best way. Like we're like. 569 00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:58,560 I was like, I'll put it inside, take it into the bedroom. 570 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:00,280 Well, yeah, just get a room. Get a room. 571 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,040 No, it's really, really cute. I'm like just. 572 00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:06,120 And I just love that they can. They can embrace it and have the 573 00:27:06,120 --> 00:27:08,440 confidence to do that. As they should I. 574 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,160 I wouldn't have ever been able. No, but as they should. 575 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,480 Yeah, it's amazing. It's fucking amazing. 576 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,040 This new generation is like fucking ballsy as hell go you, 577 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,880 but all the but all of the generations have been ballsy as 578 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,200 hell. It's just that we had more to 579 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,560 fight against, you know? And people are like, oh, they're 580 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,960 the bravest generation. It's like, I'm sorry. 581 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:29,320 We all fucking were like. Everyone. 582 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:34,480 Everyone who's like been out and queer, yeah, have been very 583 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,120 brave because there are some people who listen to this where 584 00:27:37,120 --> 00:27:40,680 it was literally classed as a mental illness to be gay when 585 00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:41,160 they came. Out. 586 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,000 Well, what did? What was the fact that Leo 587 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:46,080 Santolis actually? Two day, which is the 17th of 588 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:52,760 May in 1990, was when the NHS took being homosexual off of the 589 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,360 mental illness list. That's not even that long ago. 590 00:27:56,360 --> 00:27:58,480 No, that's four years before I was born, Yeah. 591 00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:02,000 That's yeah, it's crazy. To think that they thought it 592 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:06,680 was an actual mental illness. Yeah, Fucking being straight as 593 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,040 a mental illness. Imagine being attracted to your 594 00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,200 natural predator. That's a mental illness. 595 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:16,400 Yeah. Second ahead that is, that's 596 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,960 disgusting. No, but it is. 597 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,240 I think that that's the main thing is that we're we're coming 598 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,840 so far, but there's still so much to do. 599 00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,280 And recently we've been working with some brands and they've 600 00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:27,040 been asking us like very similar questions, which is like what 601 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:30,840 does pride mean to you and all these kind of things. 602 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,040 And I, but I'm like we're still not there yet. 603 00:28:34,120 --> 00:28:36,400 No, I think one of the questions which I thought was really 604 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,880 interesting is like, why now? Like why now all of a sudden all 605 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,920 this really positive change is happening? 606 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,120 I think 1. Because we've got more control 607 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:46,480 over our media. Yeah. 608 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,840 So like, we've now got access to do things like podcast Tiktok. 609 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,800 We've got a bigger algorithm reach on Tiktok and on 610 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:55,640 Instagram. Now the algorithm's changed, so 611 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:57,240 you got a bigger reach, which is great. 612 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,080 Secondly, I think it almost starts as like a domino effect, 613 00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,600 like one person starts, then the next person and the next. 614 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:04,680 Person. I think it gives people the 615 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,160 confidence if they see one person doing it and then another 616 00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,240 person will help will do it like you said, then another, then 617 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:13,840 another. Yeah, and I think it is time for 618 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:15,960 the lesbians to have their fucking moment. 619 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:19,400 I agree, because it's been a long time coming. 620 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,400 Yeah, a really, really long time coming. 621 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:22,960 But there is still so much to be done. 622 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,560 There's still rights that are being taken away from us, left, 623 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:26,800 right and centre, across the world. 624 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,480 And with everything that's going on right now, we just need to, 625 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:34,200 like, stick together, get gayer, get stronger and just keep 626 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:35,840 going. Keep pushing. 627 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,240 Keep keep strapping. Keep strapping. 628 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:42,280 Keep strapping along. That is the one piece of advice 629 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,400 that you could get from Freya. To keep strapping, What was it 630 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:47,280 you were saying this morning to me about the strap on when we 631 00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,760 were walking? Oh, if you were to ask me what 632 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:58,120 my passion is. Not this podcast, no, but. 633 00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,000 Shopping. Fair enough. 634 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:03,560 We should, I should put that in your bio when I'm speaking to 635 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:04,680 people. I mean it makes. 636 00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,600 Sense Freya's biggest passion. Is a strap on. 637 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:11,920 I can't wait for your mum to listen to. 638 00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,800 This. I hope my mum doesn't listen to 639 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:14,800 this one. Hi, Jill. 640 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,640 No, I will actually. Is there a way that you can, 641 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,160 like, actually ban people from listening to your podcast? 642 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,960 No, no, I'm glad. Because I know Lauren's going to 643 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:25,920 be listening to this as. Well, Jill, what's funny, 644 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,400 Lauren? I'm like, oh, fuck off Jill. 645 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:30,920 My mum, like, will ask. And Alexa, oh, she's listening. 646 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:37,640 Alexa, hello Alexa. She'll she'll ask Alexa to play 647 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,840 a podcast. I can just imagine her in the 648 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:44,800 kitchen going. Alexa play lesbian Supper club 649 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,560 podcast. But she's still listening to me. 650 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:48,800 That bitch Joe. What? 651 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:50,560 I have a daily argument with that cunt. 652 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,400 Not my mum, Alexa. Oh, she's she's doing. 653 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:56,840 She's up to no good. She's flashing yellow. 654 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:58,160 The she is. She's going to kill me. 655 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:01,680 When she becomes a robot, she's going to me. 656 00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,160 And you are the 1st to go because we treat her like 657 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,480 vermin, like like shit on the floor. 658 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:12,560 We need, we need more therapy. Because our hatred to Alexa 659 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:18,200 isn't normal, isn't normal. But because she does that thing, 660 00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,800 you ask for a song and she's like, try Amazon Music for 499. 661 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,120 Shall I sign you up? It's like, no, play my song. 662 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:27,280 Here's Espresso by Sabrina Carpenter. 663 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:32,280 If I have to listen to that song one more time, I'm going to lose 664 00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,560 my shit. I'll be happy listening to a 665 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:36,880 song. Every single song that comes 666 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:45,160 next on shuffle is Fuck off. Fuck off with it. 667 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:46,080 Oh. Do you know what you should 668 00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:49,560 mention? Well, how much Jilly is loving I 669 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:50,800 kissed a girl. Oh. 670 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,360 My God, because this is a big turn. 671 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,200 This is a big turn of events. So obviously we've been watching 672 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,120 I Kissed A Girl, which is incredible. 673 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,760 If you haven't already watched it, watch it on iPlayer. 674 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:04,960 The girls are fucking fantastic. The show is amazing. 675 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:08,040 Danny Minogue is great. The whole everything is great, 676 00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:10,160 and it's run and produced by queer women. 677 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,960 It's just yes, it's amazing. It's so good. 678 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:17,320 I saw wait, I saw a tweet the other day and it was like, I now 679 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,240 understand why straight people were obsessed with Love Island. 680 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,400 I totally get it. Yeah, now I get it. 681 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,720 I'm like, yes, it all makes sense. 682 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,440 We're just gay. Yeah, we're just gay. 683 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:32,960 We're just gay. I that made me think of Georgia 684 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,200 Wood. Honestly, if you guys haven't 685 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:39,800 seen the lesbian icon, which is Georgia Wood on Twitter, is it 686 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,440 Georgia Woods? I swear it's Georgia Woods. 687 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,360 Georgia Woods. I'm pretty sure it's Georgia. 688 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:44,960 Woods. It's Georgia Woods. 689 00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,960 It's Georgia Woods. Because actually you have it 690 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,840 saving your phone as Georgia Wood, don't you? 691 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:54,520 Hold on. You're going to. 692 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,240 Have to chat? Hold on, Hold on. 693 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,840 Definitely Woods. Oh, OK Well, Georgia woods, 694 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:00,480 whatever. I've got down the Georgia woods. 695 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:08,280 Just the one word she She has been my Comic Relief recently. 696 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:10,960 I wish we could get her on the phone right now. 697 00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,840 Oh, she's been on a fucking flight to Corfu. 698 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,880 She is, I think, one of the. Funniest people. 699 00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,600 Oh, she has. I literally thinking about her 700 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,480 now is making me laugh. I know. 701 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,440 I just think about her little face and I laugh and and go and 702 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:30,760 that's it. Well, she is hysterical. 703 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,200 She's really, really fucking funny. 704 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,160 We're definitely going to be having her on the podcast soon 705 00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:35,000 as well. And she's too. 706 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:38,120 I just love her. If you shove an Aperol spritz in 707 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,480 her hand immediately so she's in sound. 708 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:41,200 It's in her hand. You. 709 00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:44,000 Guys need to check her out on TikTok and Instagram. 710 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,760 Oh my God, George Woods. Whatever Woods. 711 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,400 You'll find her. But going back to I Kiss a Girl, 712 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,360 My mum, who if you guys have listened to the coming out 713 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,320 episode, will know that I didn't have the best time coming out to 714 00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,600 my mum. And I didn't even mention this 715 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,720 show to my mum. I think I said that I went to 716 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,560 the screening of it but like I haven't been like oh you should 717 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:04,280 watch it, she messaged me the other day. 718 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:06,480 Being like I am obsessed with Ika Segal. 719 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,679 I've watched all the episodes and I can't wait for more. 720 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,400 I love this. What the? 721 00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,360 Fuck. Also, she loves all like, the 722 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,679 more masked lesbians. It's like, I just feel like they 723 00:34:15,679 --> 00:34:17,560 can take control. What? 724 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,120 I mean, I was like, oh, Julie, I love you. 725 00:34:20,159 --> 00:34:23,840 I was like, this is such a turn of events, something that I 726 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,400 never thought was ever going to come out of her mouth. 727 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,760 So I really appreciate that. And it does just show that 728 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,800 people can change. It just shows the growth and I 729 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:32,400 think it's amazing. Growth, yeah, good for her and 730 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:36,280 maybe she'll, she'll probably slide in the DMS now of Fiorenza 731 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:37,400 or something I think. She should. 732 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,679 I think she should slide into Nay's DMS. 733 00:34:39,679 --> 00:34:40,520 Yeah. Oh, she does. 734 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,120 Love. Nay? 735 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,480 Yeah, she loves. I love nay, to be fair. 736 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,000 I really hope that, you know, obviously, like, the straight 737 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,080 people will watch Love Island with their parents. 738 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:52,159 I hope now this is the thing, like the younger, like 16 year 739 00:34:52,159 --> 00:34:54,360 olds are watching. I kissed a girl like their mum, 740 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:55,760 totally. I really hope 'cause I just. 741 00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,760 Think it's amazing? Absolutely, absolutely, 'cause 742 00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,480 it's very. Informative as well. 743 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:02,560 As much as it's like a dating show, there's a lot of. 744 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,480 Very interesting conversations, yeah. 745 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,800 And also just, I do think that the girls communicate really 746 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,720 well as well. So I think it shows that, like, 747 00:35:10,720 --> 00:35:14,920 women are fucking iconic. They're straight to the point. 748 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,720 There's no drama. If they don't like someone, 749 00:35:16,720 --> 00:35:18,520 they'll say, and if they like someone else, they'll just go 750 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:19,080 and tell. Them. 751 00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:20,560 Yeah. Amazing. 752 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,360 So good. More and more and more. 753 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,760 I can't wait more. Hang on. 754 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,760 I think I owe you an apology, Fryer. 755 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,520 Yes. It is Georgia Wood. 756 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,960 Knew it. Why have I been calling her 757 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,680 Georgia Woods? I'm so sorry, Georgia. 758 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:38,520 She's just the one, Wood. She's just one wood, one wooded 759 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,400 girl. One Wood, we do have a Horror 760 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:44,080 Story. We have plenty of horror 761 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,320 stories, right? There are plenty of them. 762 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,640 Go on. But. 763 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:54,320 You just don't want to read. One out I need to pack and my 764 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:58,240 ADHD brain is now not letting me think about anything. 765 00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,800 Rather than pack it. To be fair, this whole time 766 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:03,200 we've been doing this, I'm staring at my suitcase. 767 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:05,800 I've had to look at you so that I don't look at it. 768 00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,800 It's just fuelling me with so much joy because I'm looking at 769 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,040 our little toiletry bags filled with our sun cream and our 770 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,000 tanning oil and I'm just so excited. 771 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,640 I can't wait. Yeah, I can't. 772 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,360 I can't. I can't wait for how much Polly 773 00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:24,080 is going to annoy Scarlett. I think if Polly survives this 774 00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,040 trip, it will be a fucking miracle. 775 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:29,400 Look guys, if Polly doesn't return, just don't ask any. 776 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:30,360 Questions. Don't ask questions. 777 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,920 Don't ask questions that you don't want to know. 778 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,080 The answer to no. Don't bother. 779 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,480 And you're lesbians. We love you. 780 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:41,000 We will see you when we're tanned and have a great weekend. 781 00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:43,720 Have a fabulous time. Listen to Billy Eilish's album? 782 00:36:43,720 --> 00:36:45,880 Yeah, please do. I'm Beth McCarthy and Nadia and 783 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,880 Katty. Woo, it's lesbian season bitch. 784 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:50,280 Bye. Bye.