1 00:00:22,260 --> 00:00:26,060 OK, Hello, Hello, everyone. Welcome to. 2 00:00:26,260 --> 00:00:28,900 Season 2 of the Lesbian Supper Club podcast. 3 00:00:29,340 --> 00:00:32,460 It's only been two weeks but it's felt like a lifetime and 4 00:00:32,460 --> 00:00:35,780 I'm so happy to be back because I've realised over these last 5 00:00:35,780 --> 00:00:39,600 two weeks that this podcast is my free therapy and there's no 6 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,880 voice that I'd rather listen to than my own when talking out 7 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,080 loud and getting all of the fantastic thoughts and visions 8 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:49,520 that I have out onto a microphone into the abyss. 9 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:53,640 The grouch is grouching today. The grouch is on full grouch 10 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:54,640 mode. Today, yeah. 11 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:57,160 Do you know what? I, I feel like I've really 12 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,920 embodied this character and I actually really. 13 00:00:59,920 --> 00:01:01,480 You don't embody the character, you are the. 14 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:03,000 Character. I am the character. 15 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:07,640 Like I feel like now Grouch is following me. 16 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:11,160 Like Grouch is a version of me. I'm not a version of Grouch. 17 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:13,840 Do you know what I mean? You just are grouch. 18 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:15,960 Like I just look at you and I just, I can't. 19 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,480 You don't suit Scarlet, you suit Grouch. 20 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,600 You suit many things when I look at you. 21 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:25,960 Like what? I'm not going to go. 22 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,400 There when she says that this is free therapy, I think what you 23 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,560 mean is you can be in a safe arena while she rents the 24 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:34,360 absolute shit out of me. I don't think it's safe because 25 00:01:34,960 --> 00:01:37,360 guys, I'm vaping. Don't be vaping on the bloody 26 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,480 podcast. That is the most annoying thing. 27 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,800 Philip Schofield vaped. Well, why are you using Philip 28 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,040 Schofield as? An excuses to why a lost Mary. 29 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:48,400 Well, yeah, but it's not like he's an icon, no. 30 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:51,040 He's not, but the Lost Mary was a featured icon. 31 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,080 Yeah, but it's like if you were like, oh, well, you know, 32 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:54,760 Britney had a lost Mary in an interview. 33 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,960 I'd be like, yeah, fair. But you can't use Philip 34 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,560 Schofield as like. I'm not using Philip, I'm using 35 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:05,480 the situation whereby the Lost Mary featured and it looked 36 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,760 iconic. It also featured recently 37 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,120 getting lobbed at Lana Del Rey. That's like it's very in it, 38 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,600 but. Also, Can you imagine how 39 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:16,400 annoying that is to hear? No ASMR. 40 00:02:18,640 --> 00:02:20,440 The girls, the girlies will love it. 41 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,160 I know they will. Girls, tell me you love the 42 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:26,520 sound of me sucking on a vape just to prove this motherfucker 43 00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:28,720 wrong. Please don't give her any more 44 00:02:28,720 --> 00:02:31,600 reason, girls, please. We've had a really good couple 45 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,320 of weeks though. We've been in Cornwall. 46 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,960 We went to Pride, which was in Warsaw, which, you know, we've 47 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:42,000 spoken about on our socials. It was genuinely insane, like 48 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:50,360 one of the best weekends of my life, So poignant, so worth it. 49 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:52,280 Do you know what I mean? Well, it was just so nice to 50 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:57,200 actually see pride being what it's there to do. 51 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:00,440 Like the whole point of pride is to stand in solidarity for your 52 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:05,400 sexuality, genders, etcetera, etcetera, and be able to really 53 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:08,760 be, you know, exactly who you are and to really fight for that 54 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,720 freedom. Because what made it so sad is 55 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,280 that you just know that the next day they, they can't be holding 56 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,280 hands, they can't be kissing in public and they can't just live 57 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,000 their, their normal day-to-day life. 58 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:22,320 They're subject to a lot over there, which is just horrendous 59 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,600 to see, but at least it was one day where we could actually be 60 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:29,240 there with everyone to be like, we're here, we see you and we 61 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,720 try and bring awareness to it as much as possible as well. 62 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:34,160 I know that a few people are like, why would you go to a 63 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,200 homophobic country? And it's like we're going to a 64 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,880 homophobic country to stand in solidarity for pride. 65 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,920 We're not going to a homophobic country to promote the country 66 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:47,600 or promote the hotel or. Promoting A5 star where we stay 67 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:49,520 in the hotel all day and tell you it's incredible. 68 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:52,200 We're going to places where we can have an impact. 69 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,600 You know, that's the reason why we started this podcast. 70 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,440 And this is the thing, like this whole podcast is about having 71 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,120 open conversation and dialogue and asking questions and, you 72 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,200 know, talking in the comments and debating things. 73 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:06,160 But like, so many of you saw the reason why we went in the most 74 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,840 positive way. But like before, sometimes you 75 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:11,560 comment and ask questions on things. 76 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:16,640 Just do your research because, you know, why would we not go to 77 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:20,079 countries to celebrate pride? Like, yeah, we know it's a risk. 78 00:04:20,079 --> 00:04:23,320 We know there's risks there. And we know that there was a 79 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,080 risk for us. And it was something that, you 80 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:28,560 know, a lot of work and like planning went into being able to 81 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:32,720 go there, that, you know, trust that we aren't stupid and we 82 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,640 consciously actually make decisions about how we execute 83 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:40,440 this podcast every single day. And everything we tried to do is 84 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,120 for the benefit of this community worldwide. 85 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,000 So if there were more prides to be, you know, happening in other 86 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,680 countries that were also homophobic and we got invited to 87 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,920 go and it was the right thing to do, best believe we're fucking 88 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,120 going. Because that's why we started 89 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,480 all of this, to give people a voice, give people a platform 90 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:02,760 and be out there and show solidarity as two people who you 91 00:05:02,760 --> 00:05:06,680 know now are really lucky enough to have a platform and spread 92 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,200 awareness and yeah, on those things. 93 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,000 Yeah, I completely agree. Exactly. 94 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,360 But lesbians? I mean, we fucking love you. 95 00:05:12,680 --> 00:05:14,440 And talking of pride. We are there. 96 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,560 It's London Pride this week. By the time this podcast goes 97 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,400 out, it will be London Pride tomorrow. 98 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,280 Yeah, I'm going to be shivering me fucking Timbers. 99 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:25,080 No, you're not. I think everyone else this is 100 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:26,720 going to be shivering their Timbers knowing that you're 101 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,320 going to be strutting your stuff around so. 102 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,760 Square guys, I've got a T-shirt that says this isn't my first 103 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,840 rodeo. I can't wait to this. 104 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,600 Ain't my first rodeo. This ain't my first rodeo. 105 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:39,960 I can't wait to wear it. I got one that says Dykes Unite 106 00:05:42,280 --> 00:05:45,080 and liver's got one that says Kim Kardashian's a lesbian 107 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:46,800 sister. Yeah, which is excellent like as 108 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,280 well. I can, however, wait to step 109 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:52,440 foot into Soho Square. I'm not going to lie, I'm 110 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:58,720 dreading it. London Pride is different to a 111 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:03,080 lot of other prides and for the very reason that you know, we 112 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:05,480 are. I'm not saying that homophobia 113 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:09,480 and sometimes homophobic attacks don't happen in London, they do. 114 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,880 I've seen it far too regularly. But on the day-to-day, we are an 115 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:18,320 extremely privileged country slash city when it comes to gay 116 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:19,400 rights. And I know that there's 117 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:23,960 problems, huge problems for other areas of the community, 118 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:27,520 which deserves its own conversation. 119 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:31,640 But for us as queer people, you know, generally when you do 120 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,800 compare it to other countries around the world, we are very, 121 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:39,960 very blessed, which is amazing. However, the the problem in some 122 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:44,880 sense with that has been that pride now in London, I feel has 123 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,560 become a bit of a piss up for straight people who show up on 124 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:53,960 the day and coat themselves in flags and what fucking not to 125 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:57,080 show allyship. But would also be the same 126 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,280 people that would probably go around the whole office if a new 127 00:07:00,280 --> 00:07:03,160 employee walked in and they were a lesbian and sort of whisper 128 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,880 being like, do you know that Hannah who just joined is a 129 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:08,960 lesbian if you asked? Do you know what I mean? 130 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,880 It's like hiss off Sharon and it's become a bit of like I'm 131 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:17,040 all for a good time, as we know, but I don't personally feel a 132 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,600 bit pride in London. I also think that people get. 133 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,200 Fucking disgustingly like outrageously drunk. 134 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,760 Yeah and piss on things, yeah, just do disgusting like. 135 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,920 The amount of times and I just like see someone there just like 136 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,000 being sick. Like it's like 12:00 PM. 137 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,360 They haven't even liked just. So British though, isn't it? 138 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,200 So, Well, we can't be fucking trusted. 139 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:34,360 Cannot. Be trusted. 140 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,280 We should not be given nice things. 141 00:07:37,120 --> 00:07:39,320 Gays should just not the population generally. 142 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:42,120 Yeah. If you've been to Pride in 143 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:46,080 London and you've been into Soho Square, you know that on 144 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,200 Saturday the air is going to be thick. 145 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,600 No, the air is already thick with lesbian. 146 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:57,440 I'm already I'm already ready and raring. 147 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,560 Well then like I can actually feel it. 148 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,280 Like I feel like a tension is like palpitations talking about 149 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,480 something's. Even within our direct 150 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:10,240 friendship group, there's already been communications of 151 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,760 prepping and planning to avoid certain situations. 152 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:17,880 My response was let everyone go, and if someone needs a punch in 153 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:19,760 the throat, someone needs a punch in the throat. 154 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:21,840 Apparently that's not a very good way of dealing. 155 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,600 With that, I think it is, I think also gay men are really 156 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:28,000 good at organising like parties and stuff. 157 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:32,840 Lesbians struggling with, I don't know what's happened, but 158 00:08:32,840 --> 00:08:35,960 there seems to be a real struggle and everyone's getting 159 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,080 a bit overwhelmed and nobody really knows what they're doing. 160 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:42,039 And it is literally like herding cats when it comes to pride. 161 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,200 It's herding. So to the point where we've 162 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,040 actually purchased some walkie talkies because we're going to 163 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:51,320 need to have these on hand. So what are my pride 164 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,640 predictions? How many? 165 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:59,800 How many crosswords do you think are going to be hard or how many 166 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:01,280 whispers do you think are going to be hard? 167 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,640 When someone approaches so many whispers and it's like so and 168 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,440 so's, hips so and so's over. I reckon we'll have about three 169 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:08,720 of those. I think more. 170 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:11,840 Do you reckon I'm going 5 to 10 easily. 171 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,400 Really. Oh, easily. 172 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,280 No, I'm saying three. I'm going to stick with three. 173 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:19,760 No, I mean no, I I just know I could. 174 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:24,200 You know what I'm laughing at? I can see Leanna marching up to 175 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,760 me at least five times a day throughout the day being like, 176 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:29,120 have you seen someone so over there? 177 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:32,880 Because Leanna's the one where like so our friend Leanna 178 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,960 fucking you've all seen multiple times and is you know, if you 179 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,640 haven't followed or seen Beth McCarthy's stuff featured in 180 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:41,600 Beth McCarthy's music video, they're not together. 181 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,040 Leanna's got an amazing girlfriend. 182 00:09:43,560 --> 00:09:45,240 Has got a green jacket out there and. 183 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,800 Sent the record straight on that because I'm tired of everyone 184 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,680 simping over something that's not real so I'm just going to 185 00:09:51,680 --> 00:09:55,040 shit on that parade. I know for a fact Leanna is 186 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:58,160 going to be marching over to me in her daddy vest. 187 00:09:58,160 --> 00:09:59,480 I think she's wearing a daddy vest. 188 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,760 She's definitely wearing jorts. Oh. 189 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,840 She will be in the jorts. No, do you know what she also 190 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:06,600 loves doing? Which I've realised recently? 191 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:09,440 She holds her crotch. Yes, she does. 192 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,000 Inside the pants, yes. And do you know what? 193 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,040 Yeah, I saw it and I thought I'm going to have to start doing 194 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,040 that because it looks tremendously comfortable. 195 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:18,560 It. Looks cool when she does it bub. 196 00:10:18,560 --> 00:10:20,720 I think if you did it, it look like you've got thrush. 197 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,680 She's got daddy energy. You're a nasty piece of that, 198 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,680 you are. Nasty, nasty piece of butt. 199 00:10:28,680 --> 00:10:30,520 Do you know what I would do if you started doing that? 200 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,760 You're a bit itchy, babe in front of everyone, but you're a 201 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,520 bit itchy. Well, if you were doing it, it 202 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,480 looked like you were pulling out one of the fucking 10s of 1000 203 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,640 ingrown hairs in your thick pubes, so here we are. 204 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,400 Yeah, Lien is like a Bloodhound, so OK. 205 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:50,360 No, no, going back to that. Do you genuinely want to start 206 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:51,920 standing around with your hands down your pants? 207 00:10:52,560 --> 00:10:55,200 I actually was doing it at Beth's concert when I have my 208 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,640 boxes on under my jeans because I thought it made me look cool. 209 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,640 But thank you. Do you want me to insert the the 210 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,960 a stream of photos of your stance that we've collected over 211 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,120 the last three weeks? Oh, I know that my stance is 212 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,680 terrible, but I don't do it on purpose. 213 00:11:08,680 --> 00:11:10,240 I'm not shoving my hands down my pants. 214 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:11,920 Right. OK, well, I'm not going to shove 215 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:13,520 my hands down my pants. There you go. 216 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:19,480 Done and dusted Liana is going to be like a Bloodhound she can 217 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:21,360 sniff out. So I know that she's going to 218 00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,080 have like X-ray vision that when someone steps through those 219 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,920 black piss filled iron gates, she'll know they're there and 220 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,000 therefore I will know they're. There, no, she sniffs them out. 221 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,680 She's got a real good, she's got some sniffer, A sniffer dog and 222 00:11:33,680 --> 00:11:35,680 she will find them. I think that maybe we should get 223 00:11:35,680 --> 00:11:38,920 her a walkie-talkie as well. So, well, she needs it for 224 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:40,280 security. Purposes she does. 225 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,360 You know she is sing. Well, actually, I'd say she's 226 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:44,960 single handedly protecting us all. 227 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,040 No, it's Annabelle. It's Annabelle, her girlfriend 228 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:51,040 Annabelle, who's also our tattoo artist, who we've spoken about 229 00:11:51,040 --> 00:11:57,040 and put on the stories before. She is honestly a living, 230 00:11:57,040 --> 00:12:01,160 walking avatar. So hot like she is an avatar. 231 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,000 I have never known strength. Like isn't she puts you to shame 232 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:08,160 and that's that's not likely because you're very Avatar like 233 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,920 and then you see her Annabelle and you're like, fuck, OK. 234 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,600 Tramples all over. She is so strong, she looks so 235 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,640 slim and slender. She looks like she got nothing. 236 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,440 Yeah, and she probably. Doesn't, but she's dense and 237 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:26,480 she's got some strength in there like I. 238 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:30,440 She's protecting. That bone mass is heavy. 239 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,200 Oh yeah. Like her skeleton, I think if 240 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,920 she died and was found like 100 years later they'd think it was 241 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,760 a man because the bone density. No, I think that they would 242 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,480 think it was another species, like an evolved species. 243 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,800 So literally, I mean, she definitely beats up Liana, which 244 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,200 I love. I love not, you know, quite 245 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:51,320 like, but Liana won't even play fight with her because she knows 246 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:53,440 that she'll win. And Liana really wants to keep 247 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:55,040 that daddy. Title that she has. 248 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:56,760 Liana now has a daddy tattoo as well. 249 00:12:56,760 --> 00:12:58,520 She's just like, that's quite iconic. 250 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:02,320 Yeah, I love that. So the air is going to be thick 251 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:05,360 in Soho Square. I'm going to be spending most of 252 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:10,040 the time somewhat ready to fight, somewhat panicking, 253 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:11,640 shivering, shaking in the corner. 254 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,520 I thought that there may actually be a physical fight 255 00:13:13,520 --> 00:13:15,120 this year. I don't think with anyone that 256 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:17,120 we know. I don't think with anyone that 257 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,280 we know, but I feel like I'm going to feel like I'm going to 258 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,360 see one. Well, I feel like over the last 259 00:13:21,360 --> 00:13:26,160 12 months, a lot have, a lot has happened in lesbian. 260 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,040 It has Lestopia, London style. Yeah. 261 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,280 Like there's a lot of breakups that have gone on. 262 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:35,800 There's a lot of like through the community of we've just seen 263 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:38,920 like, a lot of like, there's been shit. 264 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,080 Kicking off, some real shit kicking off. 265 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,720 And also because it is just like an isolated space. 266 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,400 So they all get together. They all say that they don't 267 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,920 want to bump into their acts, but they all assassin out where 268 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:51,560 their acts is going to be to find them, no doubt at all. 269 00:13:51,560 --> 00:13:53,520 It's so true. But they do though, don't they? 270 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:55,960 It's like, Oh, I really, I really hope I don't bump into 271 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,040 them and then they're checking their stories and I can on a 272 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:03,480 finster to see where they are. Oh. 100% so I'm shitting myself 273 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:07,080 a little bit. Happy buzzing to see my friends. 274 00:14:07,080 --> 00:14:10,960 Yeah, there will be fun parts. We're going to do an after pride 275 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:12,920 garden party as well. Which lesbian? 276 00:14:12,920 --> 00:14:15,480 Supper club style. Lesbian supper club pride. 277 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:18,280 Which I'm really looking forward to. 278 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:20,000 Yeah, I'm really looking forward to that part. 279 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,600 Same. Because we know that that won't 280 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,960 be tame, but it will definitely be positive. 281 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,760 Yeah, are we good? Got some like good vibes, some 282 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:29,560 good vibes, some good people coming. 283 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:31,000 So I feel like that would be great. 284 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:32,720 And then the rest of them all clubbing. 285 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:36,520 And trust the content will be will be coming in thick and. 286 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,800 Fast we should do. We should do a live. 287 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,480 That would be fun. Maybe we will. 288 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,320 Just set up a camera and just live stream. 289 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:48,960 This live stream the banner. I mean, it is risky because I 290 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:51,280 can't be trusted. I'll have two beers and. 291 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,520 The managers in the corner going, you're not doing that, 292 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:59,040 you're just not doing that. So that's already off the cards. 293 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:03,920 But best believe the week, next week's episode post Pride, we're 294 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,200 going to be coming in with some tea. 295 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:10,480 Oh, we're going to come in. We're going to spill the tea. 296 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,720 Joe, what? Actually, guys, we've got some 297 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:16,840 tea to spill for you, and that is off of our own personal 298 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:20,680 experience from what we've learned the past few days when 299 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:22,600 we were in Cornwall. Do you know what Freya is doing 300 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:24,560 right now? She's signalling for me to 301 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,680 handle the lost Mary. Are you taking the absolute? 302 00:15:28,720 --> 00:15:31,640 I now want to really because I feel like I can see it. 303 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:33,920 Wow. On it, no. 304 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:35,720 So what's the tea we've got to spill? 305 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:42,880 Attic shenanigans. I am guys when I tell you I've 306 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:46,680 never been so fucking angry in my life to the point where I was 307 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:52,600 shaking in my boots. We went over to Cornwall a 308 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:56,680 couple of days ago. We were speaking to our a friend 309 00:15:56,680 --> 00:16:01,640 of ours that lives there and it turns out we had work done on 310 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:03,680 our place last year. We had a builder that. 311 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,040 Was two years ago. Two years ago we had a builder 312 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:11,080 and a plumber over. Can I just say they were shit by 313 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,880 the way guys, so. The plumber was really. 314 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:16,640 Shit, the plumber was shit, but the builder was good, but the 315 00:16:16,640 --> 00:16:19,480 plumber was fucking awful and I'm still having to rectify. 316 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,880 Also the type of guy that, you know, straight up sees two women 317 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,240 and just thinks that we're stupid and can take the piss out 318 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:28,680 of us. So like, it took four times as 319 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,600 long to complete the work as what they first estimated. 320 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:36,200 This person put the plumbing to the toilet on back to front so 321 00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:38,320 the toilet doesn't work properly. 322 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:46,080 And yeah, like just, you know, when someone just got an air of 323 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,160 fucking ignorance. Ziggy hated them, and I think 324 00:16:49,160 --> 00:16:50,920 that that's always just a telltale sign. 325 00:16:50,920 --> 00:16:52,400 Ziggy hates them. Piss off. 326 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,680 But basically, Long story short, you guys. 327 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:58,920 Because obviously we weren't there for some of it. 328 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:00,800 No, we weren't there for about 6 weeks. 329 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,240 Yeah, yeah, because it took them so long. 330 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:04,839 By the way, the bathroom is tiny. 331 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:06,720 Yeah, the bathroom's tiny. Yeah, Yeah. 332 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:10,440 And it took them so long. So basically what had happened 333 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:15,200 is these men had gone up to our attic to go and sort out the 334 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,200 soil stack which was connected to the bathroom. 335 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,880 When they were up there in the attic, they rummaged through our 336 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:25,480 personal belongings. They took photos and videos of 337 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:29,720 our underwear and our sex toys by the way, waved them around. 338 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,160 Not only did they take these photos and videos, they also 339 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:34,800 apparently shared them to some like different social media 340 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,960 accounts that we have no idea how to access. 341 00:17:37,520 --> 00:17:41,000 And they went around the whole of Saint Ives showing people who 342 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:45,480 live there the videos and photos and telling them that it was us. 343 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:49,120 So we had no fucking clue this was going on. 344 00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:52,520 Not only were we, you know, entering into a place that maybe 345 00:17:52,520 --> 00:17:56,640 wasn't as accepting as London for lesbians, we were ostracised 346 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:59,520 as the lesbians of Carvers Bay, which initially, I fucking love 347 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,560 that title. Secondly, I'm fucked up. 348 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,800 It's funny unless you realise it's coming from. 349 00:18:05,120 --> 00:18:07,320 A place of malagates. Exactly right. 350 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,200 It's not funny. A bunch of bigots. 351 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:13,960 I am so beyond disgusted. I think that these men are, 352 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,560 quite frankly, the scum of the fucking earth because they've 353 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,600 also done some other things. These men also like, there's a 354 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,320 lot of things we know about these guys that they won't want 355 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,720 us to be able to speak about. And obviously I'm not interested 356 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:28,640 in what other people are doing. No, but they should be very 357 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:32,160 careful before they think that we're two silly little girls, 358 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:36,640 that they can go round and air all of our personal belongings 359 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:42,320 and our, you know, our lives to a bunch of strangers around a 360 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:45,840 tiny town, absolute humiliate and embarrass us. 361 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,760 But actually, do you know what? The only people there in 362 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:51,280 humiliating is themselves. These are fully grown men. 363 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,440 And do you know what saddens me the most? 364 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,160 Both of them have. Daughters, I know. 365 00:18:56,720 --> 00:19:03,080 And you just think how pathetic. Well, surely you've got some 366 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:07,960 ounce of like respect for women. But clearly, knowing what we 367 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,440 know they're doing, they don't, they don't have respect for 368 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,720 women, so. Both of them are bad news. 369 00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,360 I like. I also think that it's just like 370 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:19,560 it's slightly hilarious because I know that that sex toy that 371 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,320 they were waving around would cause so much more pleasure to 372 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,160 any woman that they were to ever sadly encounter. 373 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,560 Probably crying over the fact they've got a 2 incher. 374 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,480 Do you know I've? Been less offended had they have 375 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,240 stolen it and used it. Well, maybe they shoved up 376 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:34,960 their. Ass and spread some joy in the 377 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,360 world because clearly they're not spreading it with their own 378 00:19:37,360 --> 00:19:39,920 mechanisms because that's why they're behaving in the way that 379 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,360 they are. Oh yeah, insecure little men do 380 00:19:42,360 --> 00:19:45,520 that sad little life. Shout out to you. 381 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,360 We know that you've done it. We are seeking legal action and 382 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:55,920 good luck and lesbians best believe please go crazy on all 383 00:19:55,920 --> 00:20:00,040 of their accounts that we will be posting post episode because 384 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:04,440 people do you know what I'm not even I'm not even that bothered 385 00:20:04,440 --> 00:20:07,720 about myself right? Because like I'm a big girl and 386 00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:10,800 I'm not going to lose sleep over pathetic little men. 387 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:16,480 But what worries me is who? Elses property are they these 388 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,000 people going into and doing these kinds of things? 389 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,480 Some people that could be a lot more vulnerable than us. 390 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,320 That's what bothers me. What gives you the fucking 391 00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,280 right? No go through someones 392 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:31,600 belongings like it's actually the lowest of the low, but you 393 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,080 are the scum of the earth. Yeah, exactly so. 394 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:36,240 We'll be the lesbians of Carpus Bay. 395 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,320 You'll be the scum of Carpus Bay. 396 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:39,000 It's all good. Yeah, but I think everyone knows 397 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,240 that. I mean their business reviews 398 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:42,480 are already. Dipping so one of them's had to 399 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,680 delete his whole business off of Google. 400 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:47,800 Because I wonder why. Bad reviews and was like well I 401 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:48,920 might as well just not have it there. 402 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,240 So a little rant. Yeah, that rant had to be had 403 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,880 though, because like, I don't stand for this shit, guys, you 404 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,320 know that we don't stand for this shit. 405 00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,400 So if something like this comes up, it is getting aired, it's 406 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:02,080 getting spoken about, and if you guys have ever had anything 407 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,480 similar happen to you, I really fucking hope you haven't. 408 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,600 But if you have, let us know. Maybe we'll just start a little 409 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,000 clap carrying. Out all these businesses. 410 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,880 That'd be brilliant. I would love to do that taught. 411 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:15,040 Me that you know what, going forward, I will absolutely go 412 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:18,480 out of my way to ensure that if I have to have any work done on 413 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,400 my property, that is generally seen as a man's job, I'm gonna 414 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,920 go out of my way, and if I have to spend more, I don't give a 415 00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,720 shit to get a woman to do it. There's two things. 416 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:31,160 Men then talk to you like you're an idiot when you ask questions 417 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:32,880 about the work that they're doing 'cause they couldn't 418 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,400 possibly believe a woman would question them. 419 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,400 Yeah, or under understand. And secondly, 9 times out of 10 420 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,040 they're all fucking hopeless as well. 421 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,200 They're so shit. They like look at you and kind 422 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,240 of look at you like you're stupid for asking questions 423 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:49,440 about a trade that you don't understand because it's not what 424 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:50,560 you do. Well, I actually. 425 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,280 I'm figuring it in figuring out. About one of the the soil stack 426 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:55,960 issue, Yeah, when he couldn't give me the the appropriate 427 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:58,000 answer. Yeah, very, very worrying. 428 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,600 You, you can't have a lot of intelligence to do what they've 429 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,800 done either, Like both emotional and just general intellect, 430 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,560 which, you know, having to spend a significant amount of time 431 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,320 with these people, sadly was very obvious. 432 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,520 So I can't say I'm surprised. No, neither can I. 433 00:22:12,120 --> 00:22:15,960 Moving on from that though, in lighter news, well, maybe not so 434 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,960 light in news, actually, a few of you have messaged us and 435 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:24,040 asked us to talk about Slash shared advice on how to feel 436 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:30,680 comfortable with your other half in public and, and how you, you 437 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:35,680 know, have we got any tips or advice for how to deal with that 438 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,560 and feel confident dealing with that. 439 00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,400 So Freya, what is your kind of tips and advice on that one? 440 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:46,200 I think honestly I hate giving this answer because I always 441 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:50,520 feel like it's the same right? But it is having that confidence 442 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:54,360 within yourself to walk around with someone unapologetically. 443 00:22:54,360 --> 00:22:58,720 Like the way that I would view PDA is that I would never do 444 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,720 anything that a straight person like wouldn't do. 445 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,520 You know what I mean? If straight people can go around 446 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,680 holding hands and kiss and make out whatever, I will do exactly 447 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,520 that with my girlfriend. I cannot possibly think of a 448 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:15,480 reason why it is wrong. And if somebody, I think The 449 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,520 thing is that internally sometimes you can, you can 450 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,320 really get caught up in thinking that people are watching you 451 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,600 because let's face it, people do fucking watch. 452 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,120 Whenever we've like made out or kissed whatever in public, 453 00:23:26,360 --> 00:23:29,880 people do watch, right? But that's on them. 454 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:31,880 That's got nothing to do with you. 455 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,200 You can't let it affect you negatively because ultimately 456 00:23:35,360 --> 00:23:40,520 there's so many beautiful lesbians, gays, bisexuals, you 457 00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,520 know, every, everything that are out there. 458 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,760 You've got to just own it. You've got to be happy with 459 00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:47,320 that. And you know what I've actually 460 00:23:47,320 --> 00:23:52,280 noticed as well, like quite more times than negative responsive. 461 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,120 We've had a lot of positives. So yeah, we were in Cornwall the 462 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:59,600 other day holding hands or just just kissing or something. 463 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:03,040 Was waiting for our coffee and there was this like older lady 464 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:06,080 sat behind us just looking at us with like the sweetest smile on 465 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,160 her face. And that's that happens now 466 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,520 more. Regularly than nasty looks. 467 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:15,800 Than nasty looks so as well, you have to you have to. 468 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,280 So what you were saying though, Frey, it does depend on where 469 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,440 you are. Like obviously check about check 470 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,640 that you're going to get assholes wherever you are. 471 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:24,200 You could be in the most liberal place in the world. 472 00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:25,840 You're going to get assholes. But make sure that you are in a. 473 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:30,120 Safe space that you're in a safe space, But my advice would be 474 00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,200 just be ready for a fight. Yeah. 475 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,360 Like, and I don't mean like a physical fight, but B, you have 476 00:24:36,360 --> 00:24:42,440 to learn to defend your right to exist equally in the world as 477 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:46,880 straight people and you have to be fully committed and sort of 478 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,520 like dedicated to doing that for yourself. 479 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,880 And if you can't do it for yourself, try and take that 480 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,360 strength and think about if someone else was in the position 481 00:24:55,360 --> 00:24:57,800 of being questioned or getting dirty looks from someone. 482 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:00,720 Do it for the other people, do it for the younger people, do it 483 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,040 for the baby gays. If you are the baby gay, you 484 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,520 know, step forward and try and start making a stand because you 485 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,840 don't know who else could be watching that interaction. 486 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:12,800 You could be giving them the confidence to be who they want 487 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:16,840 to be in public as well. And also like be what you would 488 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,560 like to see when you're walking down the road. 489 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,720 Do you know what I mean? It's like the more of us that 490 00:25:20,720 --> 00:25:24,240 that show that that acceptance and love for our partners, 491 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:28,600 etcetera in public, the less rare it's going to become. 492 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,280 Yeah. So exposure, openness, straight 493 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,320 for. Straight people and they need 494 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:35,880 it. God knows they need it. 495 00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:39,680 They do need exposure therapy. I also just do this thing 496 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,880 because most of the time it is just looks right. 497 00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:45,400 Like 9 times out of 10 these pathetic little people are never 498 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,400 going to have the balls to approach you or do anything so 499 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:50,400 it's just little looks. Practise your death glare 500 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,600 because you know, being grouch, mine's iconic and I just look. 501 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:59,640 Turn around and just look the fuckers dead in the eye. 502 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,760 And just whenever I keep looking, I'll keep looking until 503 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,800 they look away. Best believe I've won every 504 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,440 fucking time because they suddenly get embarrassed. 505 00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,480 And it comes back to when people question you. 506 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,120 Question your sexuality, whether it be friends or family. 507 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:17,840 If you give people a space to get the upper hand and make you 508 00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:20,400 feel like you're doing something wrong, they will continue. 509 00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:25,400 The quicker you own yourself and shut them down, the faster 510 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:29,200 they'll fucking quivel back into their little heart and stay 511 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,880 there. Yeah, Amen. 512 00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,880 Yeah, fucking Amen. And also just think to yourself, 513 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,520 whenever someone starts to come over to you or like looks at 514 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,480 you, just think to yourself, what would Grouch do? 515 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,360 What would grouch? Do What would Grouch do? 516 00:26:42,360 --> 00:26:45,680 Also another bit of advice on that actually, if you're 517 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,160 practising it and trying to become confident, go to places 518 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,520 where you know are safer places. So like I'm going to say gay 519 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,560 bars, although that's not always the case because you always get 520 00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,320 the particularly in London, you always get the banker wankers 521 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,200 from Canary Wharf going into the gay places. 522 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:03,960 But anyway, like maybe it might be a local cafe, you know, the 523 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,920 owners or you know, the regular people that go in there or, you 524 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,600 know, a local bar, bar restaurant that you really like 525 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,280 or you know, like in London again, for example. 526 00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,240 Just rent us out for half a day and we'll walk hand in hand with 527 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,160 you. Yeah, I would happily do same. 528 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,800 Actually, I'd be looking for a fight. 529 00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,160 Practise in those spaces and start to realise as well, 530 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,560 because there's also another part that like someone might 531 00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:30,480 stare for two seconds but once they've walked away, best 532 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,480 believe they're not thinking about you like you are. 533 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,920 Actually, we all need to realise we're so insignificant. 534 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,600 People are just getting on with their days. 535 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,400 Start practising in places that you feel that you could be more 536 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,440 confident. Yeah. 537 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,280 And then develop that into places that would usually be a 538 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,040 bigger worry and before you know it you won't even be thinking 539 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,720 about. It, I mean, I really don't think 540 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:51,760 about it anymore. Like I really, really don't 541 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:53,840 genuinely no. And I think as well, though, if 542 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:56,680 you're with someone who is saying that they don't like PDA, 543 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,440 I totally get, I totally get it when people are like, I don't 544 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,200 like PDA. I don't like like making out in 545 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,280 front of people. OK, I do get that. 546 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:06,240 And some people can just be a bit more like I'm not, I don't 547 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,840 really give a fuck, right? Whatever. 548 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,960 But some people just don't like doing that in public, which is 549 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:12,960 fine. But if they say I don't like PDA 550 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:16,440 and that comes to hand holding or like a Peck on the lips or 551 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,560 you know what I mean? And kind of like looking Copley, 552 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,320 you need to be able to have a conversation to be like, is 553 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,920 there a deeper issue here? Is it really about PDA or is it 554 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,520 because you're not able to fully accept your sexuality? 555 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:30,520 Because a lot of the time I could imagine that it would be 556 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,960 because they're not able to accept that part of themselves. 557 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,560 And that could then breathe into like different issues within 558 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,200 your relationship if it's not spoken about. 559 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,360 And kind of like tackled again, like Scarlett said, it's like 560 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:44,080 it's practise. Practise makes perfect. 561 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:49,360 Just yeah, obviously never push anyone, but I think that it's, I 562 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,320 think that it's really important that we show that, you know, we 563 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:56,480 can be and exist in the same space as a straight couple 564 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:59,680 would. And I fucking love to see it as 565 00:28:59,680 --> 00:29:01,400 well. Whenever I see a lesbian holding 566 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,800 hands, I'm like, oh, how do I tell them that I'm gay? 567 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,640 Don't know. I just look at them in the 568 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,240 weirdest fucking pervy way, probably because I'm just 569 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,560 staring at them and I'm like, I. Don't know who's queer and not 570 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,000 queer around you. I mean, some people, I think you 571 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,080 know, have the obvious signposts across the community, which is 572 00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,640 fucking great. I love that some people don't. 573 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,200 So you, you don't know who's there, who's actually part of 574 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,320 your community and again, would really welcome that and fucking 575 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:27,120 love to see. It yeah, love that shit. 576 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,400 I love. Freya honked the horn at a group 577 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,440 of lesbians the other day, which I had to tell her off for 578 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:35,360 because I said you do realise that comes across as cat 579 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:37,440 calling. She was like, well I would love 580 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,520 it if a group of lesbians done that to me. 581 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,360 They don't know guys. Can we start doing that whenever 582 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,360 we see lesbians? Can we start honking at each 583 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,960 other? Can that be a thing? 584 00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:50,680 No, we'll use like a ringtone, like a like a beeper, like beep, 585 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,000 beep, beep, beep. Because a honk could be 586 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,840 anything. A honk. 587 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:57,960 Could be anything but it could be like girls in white dresses. 588 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:04,240 Yeah, or just be like, I'm gay too, I'm gay, you're gay, I'm 589 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,720 gay. Yeah. 590 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,160 Anyway, another someone else wrote in asking for more tips, 591 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:16,960 tips and tricks for first dates and 1st sexual experiences for 592 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,080 baby gaze. I feel like we've touched on 593 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,520 date first dates and dating advice quite a lot so I'm not 594 00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,320 going to talk about. That Let's talk about sex. 595 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:28,440 But I will talk about the sex dive right in. 596 00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:32,640 Right, well, that would be my first thing to not do. 597 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:37,440 Let's dive right in. That's funny because you dive 598 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,800 right in all of the time now. No, I. 599 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,920 Don't. No. 600 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,920 Oh no, no, I make sure that you're prime and prepped and 601 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:46,680 ready before I die. No, you don't. 602 00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,680 You come in thick. OK, So what about when I was in 603 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,800 the shower the other day? That was different. 604 00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,280 How? That's not prime prepped and 605 00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,520 ready is it? No, it wasn't right, exactly, 606 00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:57,400 but that was all. Sit. 607 00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:00,160 There and give it the big licks. That was a one you come diving 608 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,720 in quite often. Thank. 609 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:02,400 You. No, I don't know. 610 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,480 OK. Tips for the baby gaze tips. 611 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:10,640 For the baby gaze, honestly, like before you even touch 612 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,480 anyone, make sure that they're just like really fucking turned 613 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,560 on. I feel like that is what makes 614 00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,040 sex so good. Like you don't even need to be 615 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:21,560 that great in bed if you make them really, really turned on 616 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,160 1st, like a lot of kissing, a lot of touching that's like not 617 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:31,040 the vagina and like kissing the neck and like teasing. 618 00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,200 Like if you're on a date, like it's quite cute to like tease, 619 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,000 like a bit of like hand holding, stroke the arm, etcetera. 620 00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,360 A good kiss on the neck does everyone in the world of good. 621 00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:42,040 And trust me, by the time they're turned on, it does not 622 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,760 matter what what it does matter what you do, but like, no, it 623 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,480 does. But what I'm saying is, is that 624 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:50,600 like you can go in a bit more like gently and. 625 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,440 I think. It'll be great. 626 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,280 That we all worry about this too much and baby Gaze worry about 627 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,400 this too much. Trust me, it's almost like a 628 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,560 duck to water. Well, you know what you're doing 629 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,760 having. Lesbian sex like you know what 630 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:08,560 you like as a woman, right? So therefore like generally 631 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:12,520 you're going to know how to pleasure another woman so. 632 00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,360 Because all women are so different with what they like. 633 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:17,720 I know, but I know what you mean. 634 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,520 What I'm saying is, you know how to never navigate the anatomy. 635 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,080 That's what I mean. Like you're not going to be 636 00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,920 shoving a finger in someone's arse like a man might do because 637 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,080 they're not like, working out. Because they don't know where it 638 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,760 is. And I do think like, there's 639 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,400 absolutely nothing wrong with wrong with open communication. 640 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:39,560 So just ask people like, you know, own it and have the 641 00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,040 confidence to say what? Do you like? 642 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:44,760 Yeah. And also it's like, obviously 643 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,880 you don't want to be doing it the whole time, but it's like 644 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,840 you just have to learn how to read someone's body language as 645 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:51,800 well. Because like once you start kind 646 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,840 of like moving your like fingers around your tongue or whatever 647 00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,360 you might be doing and you notice the change in, in their 648 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:02,680 body language, you then stick to what you know they're liking 649 00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,240 more because they will tell you through body language if they 650 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,320 don't physically, if they don't actually vocally say that's 651 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,080 fucking amazing. Do you know what I mean? 652 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,000 Although I feel like I do, I feel like when it's like really 653 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,800 good, I will vocally say, yeah, that is fucking amazing. 654 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:23,240 Or like that feels so good. Learn how to say that because I 655 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,200 feel like that that makes it so much better because then that 656 00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,240 other person definitely knows what you like. 657 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,280 Because it's like it's two way thing as well. 658 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:34,120 You want it to be great for you too and you want to kind of like 659 00:33:34,480 --> 00:33:36,640 have confidence in it. If it's if it's your kind of 660 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,640 like first time, don't go all in like fucking hammering them. 661 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:43,560 Do you know what I mean? Like really just like take time 662 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:46,200 to to learn their body and be a bit more gentle about it. 663 00:33:46,200 --> 00:33:50,360 Because if you go straight in with a finger pumping, then that 664 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,200 was true though, isn't it? I've had that before where girls 665 00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,920 have just been like I'm doing, I'm doing a little like fist 666 00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,240 movement right now. Like that's what. 667 00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,600 You just done. But it isn't it. 668 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:04,200 I only had to watch it out the side of my lap. 669 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,680 It is a neck, though. Yeah, but it's too much. 670 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,159 Yeah, but it is a neck. Jesus. 671 00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:13,520 Oh, God. And if you're going down on 672 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,800 them, I mean, just make sure. That you're also, if it's your 673 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,920 first time and it's your first time for both of you, even if 674 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,960 the sex isn't that great, you'll have a fucking amazing time. 675 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,080 Because like sleeping with a woman for the first time, it's 676 00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:29,199 gorgeous, is always amazing, even if the sex is not 677 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,120 incredible. So I really don't think fun, 678 00:34:32,120 --> 00:34:37,120 like even if it is a bit fumbly and a bit like awkward at times 679 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:39,000 and a bit, you know, learn how to laugh. 680 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,719 Yeah, it. You, you'll walk. 681 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,840 Away and you'll feel amazing no matter what because like again, 682 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,600 we have to go through so much to be able to get to that point. 683 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,719 The barriers are harder and higher. 684 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,440 You know, we're typically, we're not having those like stupid 685 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,680 like make out sessions with boys all like encountering things the 686 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:01,400 same times as our friends are like during school from the ages 687 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:05,400 of like what, 14 to 16? And if we are, we're definitely 688 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:07,520 not enjoying it if we're gay, we're just doing it because 689 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,240 everyone else is. So like all of the experiences 690 00:35:10,240 --> 00:35:13,200 leading up to that first time would have been a bit shit if 691 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,840 you are a lesbian. So when you finally do get to do 692 00:35:16,840 --> 00:35:20,400 that, like you'll be so ready, like ecstatic at. 693 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,520 The fact that you're. Sleeping with a girl that will 694 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:27,400 overcome like any potential awkwardness or issues or, you 695 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,880 know, potentially not being very good. 696 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,040 Practise takes perfect, baby. I mean, not in my case. 697 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,320 I was fucking Stella from day Dark, were you? 698 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,880 If I do say so myself, I definitely had some. 699 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,560 Really awkward experiences when I first started Supergirls. 700 00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:45,440 I mean, it was amazing, but it was just a bit weird. 701 00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,760 Yeah, it was just a bit strange. Like, I remember just some very 702 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,760 suspicious places outside of a church at one point. 703 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:59,240 That was not my wisest decision. It was dark, so it's all good. 704 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:01,200 Not really going to hell. Don't worry about. 705 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,280 Well, exactly. Well, actually we don't know 706 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,080 that God probably loved. It no God loves the gays. 707 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,440 Come on, we've. Already established this. 708 00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,080 That is very true I. Yeah. 709 00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:13,560 It was definitely like a bit fumbly was very, very drunk 710 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,320 because it was one of those things where it's like you 711 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,600 experiment when you're drunk kind of thing you know, and the 712 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:20,320 other girls were straight sometimes when you're too pissed 713 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:21,480 as well, you're. Just not. 714 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,360 You can't. You can't. 715 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,000 If I'm honest with you, I can't. Really remember it very well. 716 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,600 That's another bit of advice. Don't get too. 717 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,440 Drunk, definitely. Two or three drinkies, yeah, but 718 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,800 don't get plastic. But don't get too drunk because. 719 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,360 No one's having good sex when they're really drunk. 720 00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:39,320 It's hard No And. Also, I really can't. 721 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,040 I mean, look, I was 16 when I had my first sexual experience 722 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:47,360 with a woman, so we're talking a good thirteen years ago. 723 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,960 Yeah, I can't really remember it very well, but I am. 724 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:53,160 I remember my first ever like proper lesbian sex. 725 00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:56,960 And that was magnificent. And I really, really loved it. 726 00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,760 And like, I think that a lot of girls are really scared about 727 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,480 like going down on a girl. I feel like that's the one thing 728 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:04,200 where they're like, that's what I'm terrified to do. 729 00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:07,760 And trust me, it is fucking brilliant. 730 00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:09,280 It'll be fantastic. It'll be. 731 00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:12,200 Fantastic, don't you worry. Honestly, girls, just go for it. 732 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:13,920 Like I want you to have a lot of fun with it. 733 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,400 I think that you will. And if you have any like 734 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,320 specific things about it that you want to ask, just pop it in 735 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:24,440 the DMS or e-mail us and be like, there's this one area of 736 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,800 sex that like I'm really struggling with because I 737 00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:31,640 fucking love talking about it. So yeah, give us give us all the 738 00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:34,160 goods. Talking about all the goods. 739 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,640 We've got a horse coming in hot, coming in hot. 740 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,280 It's. Coming in hot. 741 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,680 So this one again wants to be anonymous. 742 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:45,600 And I'm going to say upfront, we've definitely had more 743 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,640 disgraceful ones. This one's actually not that 744 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,640 disgraceful. It's just a classic to say the 745 00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,640 least. So here goes. 746 00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,440 This person wrote in and said So I've recently started listening 747 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:57,920 to your podcast and I bloody love it. 748 00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,520 Thank you very much. Thank you. 749 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:01,480 You're both so relatable. And on SO. 750 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,680 Many levels. Anyway, I'm a couple of episodes 751 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,880 behind, but I thought I'd share with you the situation that I 752 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,880 got myself back into into back when I was single. 753 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,760 One weekend I came back to my hometown from university. 754 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,640 I was going out with my friends back home. 755 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,840 Anyway, we bumped into a bunch of girls who went to our sixth 756 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,280 form college and we got some drinks with them and hung out. 757 00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,080 However, there was one girl in particular in particular in this 758 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:27,480 group who I just really never got on with. 759 00:38:27,600 --> 00:38:30,480 We frequently got into heated debates and arguments during our 760 00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:33,280 course and just generally didn't like each other for the entire 761 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:36,280 two years at college. Sexual tension. 762 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:41,320 Oh she definitely gave off Mean Girls vibes and I wasn't afraid 763 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,320 to speak up when I didn't agree with something. 764 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,840 Anyway, said girl and I began chatting and she seemed to show 765 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,560 genuine interest in talking to me. 766 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,080 Somehow we ended up going to the same university so we had seen 767 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,800 each other in passing but never actually spoke since college. 768 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,760 She was asking what course I was doing and asking which uni 769 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,520 accommodation I was in and for some reason seems quite pleasant 770 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:02,320 to talk to despite our differences. 771 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,320 As the night went on, we all became progressively more drunk 772 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,040 and spent the night on the dance floor. 773 00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,320 I noticed that girl seemed to keep gravitating towards me and 774 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,640 at one point began dancing and grinding on me. 775 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,080 I didn't know quite how to feel because she asked. 776 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:18,240 She was hot, but damn she pissed me off. 777 00:39:18,240 --> 00:39:20,240 But this time she just seemed different. 778 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,840 Me and you. Yeah, quite. 779 00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:23,680 I can. Relate. 780 00:39:24,240 --> 00:39:26,520 Next thing I headed to the toilet and she follows. 781 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,640 Then somehow we ended up in the same cubicle and together just 782 00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,640 started making out. It was halfway between 783 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,800 passionate and aggressive or I love that. 784 00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,680 Getting out that like hateful, Yes, I love that. 785 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,480 You go girls, next minute I'm somehow fingering. 786 00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:43,000 Her in the bloody toilet. Another classic. 787 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,920 Yeah, like how is the toilet? I love because. 788 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,000 We love straight people. Can't do that. 789 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:49,640 It's so. True to being gay? 790 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,600 Yeah, I agree. Like how did it get? 791 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,040 To this after. This unexpected event we both 792 00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,240 look at each other and we're pretty speechless but it was 793 00:39:56,240 --> 00:40:00,400 actually quite hot until she looked at me and said I've got a 794 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:04,120 boyfriend please don't tell him. I was like what the fuck. 795 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:07,640 Anyway, I was quite drunk so everything seemed to blur and at 796 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,360 this point we both headed home separately with our friends and 797 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,440 I carry on with my weekend. After this when I got back to 798 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:17,400 uni, no word of a lie, I was bumping into her all of the time 799 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:21,040 with said boyfriend. Fast forward a couple of years, 800 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,480 both of us have moved back home and now I see them together with 801 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,240 their two children. I don't know if I should laugh 802 00:40:28,240 --> 00:40:28,800 or. Cry. 803 00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,040 I feel terrible because I was a shitty human. 804 00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,760 Didn't tell him, but maybe I didn't imagine seeing him as a 805 00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:37,200 happy family regularly reminding me of the weirdest night. 806 00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,800 What is it with people? Like how does she sleep at 807 00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,880 night? First of all, don't feel bad, 808 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:45,200 it's not your fucking problem. I don't feel bad at all, even 809 00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,000 just by. Listening to it and not even by 810 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,560 association. Darling, I don't feel bad. 811 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:49,880 I think you gave her the night of your life. 812 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,560 Same. Imagine how much though her 813 00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:53,120 stomach. Falls out of her ass when she 814 00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:54,840 sees you. Oh my God, are she with the? 815 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:58,280 Kids walking past me like oh for fuck's sake, now I've got these 816 00:40:58,280 --> 00:40:59,960 kids in the oh, it's gone too fast. 817 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:02,720 Snotty kids. I just want to I just want to be 818 00:41:02,720 --> 00:41:05,840 fingered in that toilet cubicle and now probably gets wet every 819 00:41:05,880 --> 00:41:06,680 time she walks. That's. 820 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:08,560 Probably how she managed to have the kids. 821 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:10,640 She just thinks, just thinks about it every time. 822 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:15,600 Yeah, I don't blame her. It's so weird how how do girls 823 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:20,960 do this where like they just enter a cubicle with another 824 00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:25,800 girl, get fingered by them, leave Obviously I've never told 825 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,520 a soul I know for a fact this girl's never known never, then 826 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,960 just goes on in a heteronormative life and has 827 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,960 children it to yourself. Oh. 828 00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,120 God, because I've just got, well, her. 829 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,920 Therapist clearly knows it all. I mean, that's the only way that 830 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:39,000 you'd be able to deal with it, right? 831 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:40,520 I just find it such a shame because. 832 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,160 She clearly fucking loved it. I know she would have. 833 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,680 Well, if it's aggressive, that's like. 834 00:41:44,720 --> 00:41:46,560 Passion. Yeah, that's pure passion. 835 00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:48,240 And I also just love the. Fact that they kind of like 836 00:41:48,240 --> 00:41:49,880 fucking hate you to each other. Same. 837 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,080 I really love that. Same, but it must have been I. 838 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,560 Reckon what it? Was is the mean girl, So the the 839 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,280 straight girl, she would have fancied her. 840 00:41:57,560 --> 00:41:58,840 Yeah. So she would have been. 841 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:02,360 So when this girl that wrote in kind of called her out on some 842 00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,240 of her bullshit behaviour, she would have been ultra offended 843 00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:07,920 more so than if anyone else done it because she fancied her. 844 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,640 It's like getting told off by your favourite school teacher. 845 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,440 Right. You I also simultaneously want 846 00:42:13,440 --> 00:42:15,160 to cry and die. Yeah. 847 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,200 Because it's so embarrassing. Because you like them so much. 848 00:42:18,240 --> 00:42:20,160 Honestly, that sounds really. Hard. 849 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,280 Like I'm I'm just gagging for a Part 2. 850 00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,600 I know that this is happening all the time as well. 851 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,920 And this is this is a thing. It's like an epidemic of 852 00:42:26,920 --> 00:42:30,280 straight girls getting fingered in a toilet, then blurting up 853 00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:33,680 they've got a boyfriend post finger blasting and then just 854 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,240 going on and having two kids. Oh, have a happen all the time. 855 00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:40,000 But it's kind of iconic. It is, but not them leaving. 856 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,760 But I mean like just it's kind of iconic that they even like 857 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,800 get into that space. I just love how they're bumping 858 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,720 into each other all. The time brilliant, a happy 859 00:42:46,720 --> 00:42:49,040 family and then the lesbian. I'm assuming this girl's a 860 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,000 lesbian and she didn't give her sexuality. 861 00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,640 I really want it to. I really want them to have a 862 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:54,760 hot, steamy night. Again. 863 00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,560 Sorry to her husband and kids, but you know what? 864 00:42:56,720 --> 00:42:58,880 No, no, we. Can't be encouraging that 865 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,280 behaviour, Freya, We can't, we can't be breaking up families. 866 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:04,680 I'm not going to suggest it, but what I am going to say, wouldn't 867 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,040 it be fantastic for the script if you just reached out to her 868 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:09,320 and asked her to go for a coffee? 869 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,240 Yeah, I'm not suggesting anything. 870 00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,040 Not suggesting saying just. Saying how great would it be for 871 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:16,040 the plot? It would, yeah. 872 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:17,400 I'm not. Telling you to do it? 873 00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,840 No, I'm just saying. But think about the plot. 874 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:23,800 Think about the plot. The Grouch plot. 875 00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,920 Yeah, the grouch. Plot the Grouch do. 876 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:30,320 Yeah, we all know exactly what Grouch should do. 877 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:34,040 It's not Grouches problem. As far as Grouches, no, exactly. 878 00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,800 You know, you don't know what their marriage is like. 879 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,480 He could be a fucking asshole. Well, he probably is. 880 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:42,760 He probably is. Guys, we need more of these 881 00:43:42,760 --> 00:43:44,120 horror. Stories because I fucking love 882 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:46,720 him. Thank you so much for another 883 00:43:46,720 --> 00:43:47,920 episode. We're so. 884 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,080 Happy to be back. We're so happy to be back. 885 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,960 I feel like I feel like a better person now. 886 00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,080 Same. I really glad to be a big weight 887 00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:55,280 has been lifted off my shoulders. 888 00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:59,560 And guys, we've got some iconic guests lined up for Season 2. 889 00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:03,160 Yeah, I can't wait. Like we have got some really 890 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,240 good so strapping girls. Strap in. 891 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,160 Emphasis strap actually talking Just. 892 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,520 Really quickly send us good strap recommendations. 893 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,240 Oh please, yeah, send them in because ours. 894 00:44:14,240 --> 00:44:17,640 Keeps falling out. And on that note, bye. 895 00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:18,040 See ya.