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Hello and welcome to episode 24.
I've designed cures podcast, I'm

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your host and mentor of Rebecca 
Ward. 

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Today. 
On the podcast, we have a friend

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and colleague of mine. 
Who's local to me, Lindsay, 

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Kjellberg, and she is out of 
Modesto which is not too far 

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south from where I'm at in 
Sacramento and she has had her 

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Business lhk Interiors since 
2004. 

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For and she specializes in 
custom residential design with a

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lot of experience in kitchen and
bathroom remodels. 

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And I've seen her work is just 
beautiful beautiful work and 

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she's just done so many 
remodels. 

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I've coached her a couple of 
times on raising her rates 

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because she's just slammed for 
work because she did such a 

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great job, but she doesn't 
charge enough in my opinion. 

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So I'm going to talk to her 
about that again. 

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And so she strives to exceed her
customers expectations. 

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Build a relationship that will 
last. 

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And I think the coaching goes 
both ways. 

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I learned a lot from her. 
Even in these two episodes, I 

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broke them out into two parts, 
so you'll hear it today in 

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episode 24. 
And then again, in episode 26, 

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she just has so much wisdom. 
You'll find out that she is a 

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mother of I think five children.
So she has to have all her ducks

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in a row in order to have a be 
running of successful business. 

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And A successful household. 
So without further Ado, let's 

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hear from Lindsay. 
You're now listening to design, 

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curious a place where you 
creative one are here to learn 

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about what it really is. 
Like, to be an interior designer

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and I'm your host and Mentor 
Rebecca, Ward, if you're worried

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about how to succeed in a 
creative career, if you're ready

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to learn your next steps to 
become an Interior Designer. 

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And if you want the satisfaction
of doing something you love 

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every day, you are in the right 
place. 

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Grab a coffee, a notebook. 
And Let's dig into today's 

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episode. 
Alright. 

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Hi Lindsey. 
Thanks for being on design. 

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Curious podcast is great to have
you. 

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Thank you, great to be here. 
And why don't you tell our 

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audience, where you are working 
out of and the name of your 

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business? 
So I am Lindsay with lhk 

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interiors and I'm out of 
Modesto, California. 

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So I am about two hours south of
Sacramento. 

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Okay, great. 
So what we are here to discover 

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is how you got Into interior 
design if it was something that 

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you grew up knowing that you 
wanted to do or if you fell into

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it later in life or what was 
your story. 

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So no, I did not always know. 
I wanted to be a designer. 

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I thought I was going to be a 
criminal prosecutor until my 

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senior year and took a 
decorating and design class sort

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of right as we were starting to 
apply for colleges and ended up 

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going down to San Diego State to
get my bachelors. 

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And major in interior design. 
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And I felt like, I mean, I was 
one of those kids that always 

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rearrange my room and didn't, 
you know, I have that, that hurt

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side that creative art brain. 
But no didn't think I would 

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follow that path for a career. 
So I was a little nervous when 

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it got my bachelor's in case I 
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If I didn't like design, started
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there in Solana Beach and just 
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And, and kept wanting to learn 
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it, and then two years. 
After I had graduated moved back

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to Modesto where my family was, 
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So I thought, you know what, I 
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and start hiring some, why not? 
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And so I was engaged my Then I 
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married. 
I knew I wanted kids. 

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So so kind of my original 
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work as much or as little as I 
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When we have kids and make my 
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through the seasons and so that 
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Didn't quite turn out the way 
you envisioned it, you know, it 

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took me a long time. 
Time to to have it to learn 

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things so that it could turn out
the way I had envisioned in, and

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I feel like I'm getting my 
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I've now owned my business for 
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and my oldest is 14 and how many
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So I have five ranging from for 
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oldest so definitely a handful. 
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between. 
Have five kids. 

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And another kid, which is your 
business, I think it's great, 

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it's great. 
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And you know when people would 
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kids, I kind of joke that 
assembly lines are the way to 

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go. 
If you're whatever it is, I'm 

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like, just assembly line them, 
you know, it'll be perfect. 

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Mhm, it took me a long time to 
figure out that I should be 

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assembly lining my business. 
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I did not have the processes. 
I thought, you know, we go into 

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a kitchen and someone One wants 
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Remodel why was I Reinventing 
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into the kitchen. 
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And so it did take me a good 
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procedures and the hostas is in 
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Yes, their project was custom 
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kind. 
I was one of their designed to 

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be one-of-a-kind. 
However, the paperwork should 

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not be right. 
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the same. 
Every project. 

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It's just the individual 
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for the design change, right? 
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When the kids will all my 
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little, but when my oldest was 
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working way more hours than if I
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design firm, you know, if I just
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the 925, I was putting the kids 
to bed and then I was going back

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to paperwork and Getting up 
early before they got up and and

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still working and answering 
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I think the side, the paperwork 
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just really figured out. 
I also needed to set boundaries 

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with my clients, I almost 
pretended like they were the you

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know those clients were the only
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wasn't acted like you are so 
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Don't you worry, I don't have 
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For games, and cheerleading and 
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different things on the weekends
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I would like Duck into the car 
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If it was nine o'clock on a 
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Right. 
Why. 

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Yeah, just admire is a call. 
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Exactly. 
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getting into design or new in 
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working for someone or going out
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figuring out that At where do 
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If you want to work Saturdays, 
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Okay. 
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take, you know, as Monday year 
yoga day and instead of go into 

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the office at 9:00 a.m. and how 
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boundaries, this is my personal 
cell, I'm not giving that number

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out. 
If there's an emergency, how can

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you get a hold of someone and 
you know most of the time and 

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design there. 
No real emergencies. 

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Oh yeah. 
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Think that it's an emergency for
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life-or-death situation can be 
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Monday through Friday, right? 
Because you're freaking out that

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you pick the wrong shade of 
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So, there's a couple of things I
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More about, you went to school 
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What was that about? 
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going to go to school and right 
when I had to declare my major, 

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I decided, you know what that 
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really wanted to go into a 
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for me a more enjoyable career 
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major, I thought, you know, I'm 
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architectural And see where that
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So okay interesting that it 
because if they seem kind of far

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away from each other, so it was 
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of lean towards criminal 
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pick a completely creative 
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So I think because I like to 
argue when I was younger 

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everyone said oh you should be 
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lawyer, you know, I just kind of
always heard that happened. 

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I thought It's okay. 
I don't like to argue with 

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anyone other than my family, and
in high school I had, I had 

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taken a kind of an intro, to 
decorating and design. 

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Oh, okay. 
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And I had, yeah, I had already 
started looking into colleges, I

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guess, actually, it was my 
senior year that I decided 

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instead of going into Law. 
I wanted to go into an art or 

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you know and interior design 
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So I started to look and yeah I 
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I'm from Modesto area in 
California, wanted to get kind 

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of a Faraway Beach Town, stay in
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Started looking at where that 
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down to San Diego. 
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Yeah. 
I had San Diego and my sites as 

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well for a while. 
While so so you enjoyed the 

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private down there? 
Yeah I did it was a great school

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at San Diego State. 
We had to do a, I don't remember

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if it was 100 200, you know 
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Then we did the free internships
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design firm in Solana Beach. 
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guess about a half hour north of
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the Her ship it was so great. 
I felt like we get thrown into 

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so many roles because it's just 
kind of, you know, the designers

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are busy. 
They're like okay start 

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organizing the tile library or 
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and and you get thrown so many 
different aspects which is so 

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great and the firm that I worked
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in Hawaii and no one in the 
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Knew how to use AutoCAD or 
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around back then. 
But no one knew how to use 

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AutoCAD and everything was hand 
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And here, you know, I come in as
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they're having me design a bar, 
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I to work on things that I 
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But then, what I realized is I 
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side. 
I didn't meet with clients, I'd 

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call through the tracking list 
of Our materials then fixtures 

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were at, but I never had 
anything to do with how those 

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items got put on to the tracking
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Or really learned about what 
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okay, this is a pin blur fabric.
So I'm calling pin puller 

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because the numbers on there, 
but I didn't really know 

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anything about the vendor. 
I didn't know the different 

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fabric, you know, what which 
Fabrics went with which company.

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He's what showrooms you could go
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So, although I felt like I 
learned so much, I learned a lot

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about a little, or a little bit 
about a lot of things I did. 

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Yeah. 
It almost was too much into 

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short of time. 
And, and, and I lucked out, I 

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mean, I know some people finish 
their internship and, and then 

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head head back to school and 
leave the internship. 

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And I got asked if I wanted to 
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And so I worked part time while 
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That was great because I got to 
keep learning and, you know, 

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really expand my knowledge but 
still didn't really see the 

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business side of the firm that I
was at, right? 

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That's unfortunate. 
How big was that firm. 

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It was the owner, the principal 
designer, and then one lead 

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designer and one assistant 
designer. 

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Okay, well, not as of my firm's 
trying to think about it for our

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interns perspective like, We 
usually do try to take them in 

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with all the business side and 
on meetings and stuff like that.

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But I can see how when you're 
really busy to just throw that 

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in, turn out, like what you 
mediately need, and then you're 

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not giving them the variety that
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they're there. 
And with this design firm, it 

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was open. 
Open to Walkins, I mean, we 

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didn't have a lot of walking and
but pretty much. 

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I'm and the front desk or woman.
Okay. 

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Yeah, and so I saw the clients 
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their meeting. 
So I didn't hear how the 

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presentations went. 
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the firm that I was that, but 
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the phone's ringing. 
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That's good. 
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with any of the meetings or I 
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sites, but if there weren't 
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weren't tasks to do then she 
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and how the whole process went. 
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think I knew what to ask. 
I don't. 

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Ya think, I don't know, it's 
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Yeah. 
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was missing and then I moved 
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my firm and realized huh. 
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the clients for the first time. 
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what I was doing and in the 
design world, but I don't think 

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I really knew how to and finish,
right? 

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How to navigate its way through.
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my own business, it was a lot of
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hadn't met any mentors yet. 
I hadn't, you know, podcasts 

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weren't really around. 
Hmm, back when I started my 

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business, It snows. 
Wow, yeah, it was harder the 

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before all this, these great 
resources. 

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That's why we're here though. 
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to ask you, was you mentioned 
how with your kids, you 

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developed an assembly line, you 
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all the things he had to do and 
did your brain automatically 

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transfer that into your business
or did not. 

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definitely you know, when I had 
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assembly lines yet, you know, 
it's kind of the same with when 

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you have your first client and 
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okay, what should the process B 
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client? 
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realized very quickly that I 
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a blank Excel page and thinking.
Okay, Working on a kitchen. 

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What do I need for a kitchen? 
So, and I'm list and now, we 

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need. 
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What are the drawer fronts going
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What are the doors? 
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Okay, I forgot. 
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be on these? 
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would, you know, my Excel page I
type in, okay? 

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We need Outlets well, the 
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What we need a line for that and
the third project would come 

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along, okay? 
It's a kitchen, I'd say Sit at 

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my blank Excel page and went, 
why am I typing this out again? 

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And so I think just really 
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Yes. 
We're going to customize each 

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project specifically to that 
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time. 
So not only did I start 

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realizing okay. 
Yeah, I was quickly smarter in 

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my processes and realizing. 
Okay, I need to save these Excel

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pages but then I started, Ding 
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so that anyone in my office 
could at and at the beginning, I

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didn't have any stuff but I 
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How would I even tell them? 
How to open up the blank Excel 

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page? 
How to name it? 

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How to copy and paste it into a 
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Okay, what's that folder even 
named? 

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I mean that's I had at one time,
one employee and two interns and

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I realized everyone wanted Added
to name folders very 

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differently. 
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working with three women that 
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same last name, and one of those
women had two houses that she 

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owned on the same road. 
Well, if you don't have a 

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process to how to save those 
folder names, like we would 

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never find each project that we 
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like, okay, where's Kathy's? 
Where is Ashley's? 

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Well, why is one under the first
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Wondering who the last name. 
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that realizing I can't sit and 
hand hold. 

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Every person that comes into my 
office to help me. 

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And so making sure that you 
know, assembly line concept is 

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on the operations manual and 
being utilized her, as best as 

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possible, right? 
Right. 

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Is there an operation manual for
kids like something? 

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I mean, so you like, did the 
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your business? 
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sometimes you feel like, you 
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your kids? 
Yes. 

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Oh my goodness I wish there were
14 the kids. 

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Yeah, well and there should be 
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each. 
I feel I have to come up with a 

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different parenting style for 
each personality for each of my 

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kids. 
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And my littlest just started TK.
So she's four years old, just 

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started TK. 
And I have not figured out I 

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guess if she is a bribable or a 
threat Noble child. 

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Anyway, yeah. 
Yeah. 

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Well, I mean, how do we parent? 
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parallels though you can drive 
that because even presenting to 

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a client or selling, you know, 
because we sell is a huge part 

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of our company is that we are 
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design, but each client's going 
to race. 

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Receive it or want to receive it
in a different manner to based 

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on their personality. 
So it's kind of understanding 

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your clients like the way that 
your understanding your kids. 

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Yeah. 
And so I actually have two 

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clients. 
YN is an attorney, she loves 

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billable hours, loves them. 
She loves how detailed we write 

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them out. 
She loves paying them and the 

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second we put $1 a markup on 
product. 

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She is she'll fight us. 
I mean, fight us all. 

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And the bill, like, oh why did 
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cheap at all, but she fills our 
Lily. 

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That's how she wants to be built
by us and there stands. 

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Yeah. 
Right. 

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Right. 
And I have another client, that 

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is a real estate agent. 
He gets paid on commission. 

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He hates seeing our billable 
hours and he's like Lindsey just

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put it in the product. 
Hi. 

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It basically has told me, just 
hide it in there and send me the

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bill. 
I don't want to see your hourly 

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list it out. 
And and you know, it's very much

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a joggle of, okay, wait a 
minute, who's running the 

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business, right? 
My going to let them run my, you

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know, tell me how to run my own 
business, but it's also if he 

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doesn't want to see. 
So I have learned just to do 

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kind of a package price for him.
I don't tally up every minute, 

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he doesn't feel nickel and 
dimed, whereas we know, Purdue a

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package price for our attorney 
client and we just list 

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everything out. 
Every minute I spent on her 

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project, she is build and she is
happy to be built for it and see

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it. 
She really just wants to see 

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that detail. 
So it's yeah, same size box for 

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anyone. 
So, as you started growing your 

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business, do you grow your 
business and your family 

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simultaneously? 
Basically was there. 

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A point where you're you 
thought, maybe having kids were 

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being put on the back burner or 
that, your, your business was 

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taking too much of that 
bandwidth in your life that you 

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need to set some boundaries. 
Yes, definitely seasons of 

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sometimes. 
I felt like I was neglecting 

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clients and they were kind of 
getting frustrated with my 

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timelines or or neglecting the 
kids and they were getting 

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frustrated that, you know, maybe
I was at that baseball game. 

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But I'm answering emails on my 
phone or just not being present.

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Hmm. 
One thing I really had to do is 

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sit down and figure out what do 
I want my hours to look like? 

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So, working with my husband, 
through the schedule of, if I'm 

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drop off in the morning and then
he's pick up in the afternoons, 

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just making sure that my staff 
knows that my clients now, I'm 

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not going to tell them that I'll
call them at 8:00, if I'm 

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dealing with. 
The drop-offs. 

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And then also, looking at the 
schedule of Summer, if my kids 

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are out of school and I really 
want to focus on them, I've 

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gotten to a point where I will 
Roar really, really hard to 

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catch up on things before 
summer, so that I can kind of 

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take a refresh. 
And part of that also is a lot 

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of my clients, my ideal client. 
They want to spend Christmas 

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time with their families or, you
know, the holidays right with 

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their so, Not contacting me, 
they're not wanting new 

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consultations watching my 
numbers and just my data from 

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the year and going okay, if 
August is my slowest time of 

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getting new calls take that as 
my own time. 

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Mhm. 
And so maybe that you know it's 

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telling the kids. 
Okay. 

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Well I'm going to work a whole 
lot this month so that next 

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month, I can take some time off.
And we'll go on vacation and 

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yeah, and just gonna planning 
everything around And when my 

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data says I'm busy and when it 
says I'm not right, right? 

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And that's one of the luxuries 
that we can have as business 

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owners is taking that time off 
when ever, we decide is best for

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us. 
Yeah, I closed in December for 

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at least two weeks and 
sometimes, two and a half, I 

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think it's just good for the 
company. 

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I mean, because like you said, 
nobody really needs to get. 

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They want to be with their 
family. 

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Nobody really needs to get 
anything done between those two.

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Right? 
And I mean, isn't that why we 

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started a business? 
That's that was the dream. 

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Yeah, I think that definitely 
for me as well played a part as 

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like thinking. 
This is a career that I could do

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both like be a mom and kind of 
present for the kids, not just 

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have them, you'll be able to 
work from home and not just have

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them in daycare all day. 
And then also have a business 

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For myself, but I definitely 
would say that it didn't 

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organically happen the way I 
thought it would. 

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I ended up, you know, having to 
make up hard choices of being 

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like okay. 
Do I take this meeting today or 

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tomorrow or should I hire a 
babysitter and then you know 

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trying to find that good balance
between being partly a 

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stay-at-home mom and then partly
a working mom was challenging? 

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Yeah I do love one thing though 
is as the kid Get older and 

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especially so for me, my oldest 
is about to turn 15 and she her 

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whole life has kind of been 
drugged to vendors, and 

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retailers and vendors in the 
paint store. 

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And when she walks in my 
flooring, guys, they know her. 

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They asked her how, you know, 
oh, how'd your last game go and 

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just two things that have been 
so beneficial to cr1, how the 

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older kids interact with Adults,
because they've been taken into 

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stores and they've, they see 
that I'm at work. 

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They know. 
They have to behave a certain 

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way. 
They know they need to speak to 

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adults, they know, or don't know
a certain way and you know, it 

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was hard when they were young 
and I'm trying to either pick 

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paint picked I'll you know, 
shoot we leave and I forgot to 

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pick the grout because one of 
them starts running around. 

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I'm like, nope. 
Okay, we're done and but then 

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also, Seeing that the older kids
have pride when they talk about.

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I own my own business and what 
their mom does and and seeing 

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them like explain it to a 
friend. 

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It just gets me. 
Well that's really sweet. 

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I think it's sort of that 
affirmation that. 

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Yes sometimes I wasn't there and
sometimes I was there and not 

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100% pleasant but I tried my 
hardest and Then to see them 

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have benefited from it that. 
Yeah, just I don't know. 

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It's nice to see we all need 
that affirmation sometimes and 

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for sure. 
Yeah. 

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As they're getting older, I go 
okay, I did something right, 

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right? 
Yeah, I mean, you're modeling to

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them, what it's like to be an 
entrepreneur and owning your own

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business and finding that 
balance in life, with, they're 

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going to have to do themselves, 
to do any of your kids 

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interested in following in your 
But steps so far, you think 

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anybody in designers? 
I don't know that any of them 

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will do design, but one of my 
son's has talked about being an 

449
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:26,300
architect and I already actually
last Market. 

450
00:28:26,300 --> 00:28:31,000
I drug my oldest daughter with 
me and I said, oh my goodness, 

451
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:32,800
she was awesome, I put her to 
work. 

452
00:28:33,100 --> 00:28:37,900
She was writing down everything 
I was Finding what fly into 

453
00:28:37,900 --> 00:28:40,200
snapping all the pictures she 
was saving it. 

454
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:44,100
She was posting on Instagram 
Damn, you know, stuff that I 

455
00:28:44,100 --> 00:28:46,200
didn't want to do and didn't 
have time to because I was 

456
00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:50,800
trying to focus on each client 
and I mean I bribed her with a 

457
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:59,100
Cirque du Soleil show and so 
what I thought yeah, just the 

458
00:28:59,700 --> 00:29:06,000
ability to just kind of hand or 
my phone and say you're younger 

459
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,200
than me. 
You know how to cook works? 

460
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,800
Yeah, it was something for me. 
And so it that, Exciting. 

461
00:29:12,900 --> 00:29:17,700
That was kind of my first like, 
wow, okay, my children are 

462
00:29:17,700 --> 00:29:20,500
hireable. 
Yeah. 

463
00:29:20,500 --> 00:29:25,100
I mean it's not a bad job for 
them to have in the high school 

464
00:29:25,100 --> 00:29:27,800
or you know, start going to 
college or something just to be 

465
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,800
an assistant in the office and 
helping you out with things and 

466
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:34,000
can learn skills that are 
transferable even if they don't 

467
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:37,800
stay within the industry, right?
Right. 

468
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,800
And even through the summer, we 
received most of our deliveries 

469
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:46,000
at a Receiving and delivery or 
or the office, however, it's 

470
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,600
still astounding. 
How much shows up at my house 

471
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,700
when I'm not expecting it. 
Yeah. 

472
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,100
And so he and a, my son, the 
tracking figure it out. 

473
00:29:56,300 --> 00:29:59,000
Start start putting together 
piles. 

474
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,800
So I don't know. 
That's been fun. 

475
00:30:01,100 --> 00:30:05,000
So we talked about how we had to
set more boundaries with your 

476
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:09,500
clients, as you added more kids 
like into the mix. 

477
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,300
Was that hard for you too? 
To set those boundaries with 

478
00:30:13,300 --> 00:30:16,900
your clients and to advocate for
our family time or is that 

479
00:30:16,900 --> 00:30:18,800
something that you struggled 
with for a while. 

480
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:21,800
Yes. 
And I mean, I can't say that 

481
00:30:21,800 --> 00:30:26,000
even to this day on perfect with
it because I am definitely 

482
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,900
someone who doesn't know how to 
say. 

483
00:30:28,100 --> 00:30:29,500
No. 
Very well. 

484
00:30:30,100 --> 00:30:34,100
So if a client, you know, really
needs a week and, and really 

485
00:30:34,100 --> 00:30:38,600
wants an evening or and if I 
really want to do the project, 

486
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:44,200
I've gotten to a point where I 
have my Boundaries it if they 

487
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,600
need a weekend. 
I migrated I'm willing to work 

488
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:51,700
on a Saturday if I want that 
project bad enough, but the 

489
00:30:51,700 --> 00:30:54,400
hours are going to be doubled 
the rate. 

490
00:30:54,500 --> 00:30:59,200
You know, my rate is going to be
doubled and so if that deters 

491
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,500
them and they go, never mind 
will fit into a weekday then 

492
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,600
great. 
You know, I accomplished my 

493
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:10,200
goal, but I also feel if they, 
you know, I'll tell them what 

494
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,300
time of the weekend or what. 
A more I'm not willing to do and

495
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:18,000
I don't feel taken advantage of 
because they're willing to pay 

496
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,300
double my rate and I feel. 
Okay? 

497
00:31:20,300 --> 00:31:22,700
You know, if they really 
couldn't make a weekday work, or

498
00:31:22,700 --> 00:31:26,400
couldn't make my hours work, but
then at least I feel. 

499
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:30,000
I'm the one in charge of those 
guys, that's important. 

500
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,900
Yeah. 
So whereas I used to just say 

501
00:31:33,100 --> 00:31:38,800
sure I'm available anytime any, 
you know, and and I think 

502
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,000
sometimes too, I feel this in, 
this might be sure. 

503
00:31:42,100 --> 00:31:46,000
Rio typing just a little bit, 
but I feel sometimes as a mom 

504
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:50,700
and sort of pretending like I 
don't have other priority. 

505
00:31:50,700 --> 00:31:55,600
Don't have kids that are my 
number one priority and I'm sort

506
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:59,900
of pretending like, oh, I'm this
even though I'm a working mom, I

507
00:31:59,900 --> 00:32:01,800
feel sometimes. 
Like I have to prove that my 

508
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,400
career is the most important 
thing to me. 

509
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:08,100
Yeah. 
And I mean the reality it's not 

510
00:32:08,100 --> 00:32:10,200
I mean my little ones are. 
Yeah. 

511
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,200
But I've seen my Take a phone 
call with all of the kids in the

512
00:32:14,208 --> 00:32:18,300
car and and you know, it gives 
me a panic attack, just the fact

513
00:32:18,300 --> 00:32:21,700
that he's taking a phone call, 
and it might be from his boss. 

514
00:32:21,700 --> 00:32:24,900
And he's like my boss knows it's
the weekend. 

515
00:32:24,900 --> 00:32:26,700
I'm with the kids and with the 
family, I'm going to take a 

516
00:32:26,700 --> 00:32:31,600
phone call and he's not going to
apologize though, right. 

517
00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:34,500
Nice. 
Well, where can people go to see

518
00:32:34,500 --> 00:32:36,500
your beautiful work and all your
projects. 

519
00:32:36,900 --> 00:32:42,500
So my website is lhk 
Interiors.com Calm. 

520
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:47,800
And then also, I try to post 
more current things on Instagram

521
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:55,100
at lhk, interior. 
So Interiors.com for my website 

522
00:32:55,100 --> 00:33:06,300
and could not get the S4. 
My monster will put those links 

523
00:33:06,300 --> 00:33:08,200
in the show notes. 
It's our bacon. 

524
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,000
Go find you. 
But thanks for sharing your 

525
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,800
wisdom and insight. 
Eat today. 

526
00:33:13,100 --> 00:33:15,200
Oh, well, thank you so much for 
having me. 

527
00:33:22,300 --> 00:33:25,500
So fun talking with Lindsay and 
it's not over yet. 

528
00:33:25,500 --> 00:33:31,200
We have some more great Insight 
from her for episode 26. 

529
00:33:31,700 --> 00:33:34,100
So you want to get a stick 
around and come back and do 

530
00:33:34,100 --> 00:33:37,100
weeks to hear what else Lindsay 
has to say. 

531
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,400
And don't forget, you can get 
all of the information about 

532
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:44,200
Lindsey connect with her in the 
show notes. 

533
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:49,600
And while you're on my website 
on the show notes, you can go to

534
00:33:49,700 --> 00:33:53,200
download the three things. 
I I wish I had known when I was 

535
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,100
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536
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00:34:10,699 --> 00:34:15,400
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541
00:34:16,100 --> 00:34:18,699
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542
00:34:19,300 --> 00:34:23,199
You'll be hearing the five. 
Courses that you need to take to

543
00:34:23,199 --> 00:34:27,600
start your career and it was 
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544
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,600
I will admit so but there's one 
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So find out next week with that 

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is and we'll talk to you, then, 
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