1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,000 I'm Brandon. And I'm Jesse we're. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:09,040 Cannabis school having cannabis infused conversations with 3 00:00:09,040 --> 00:00:09,920 everyday. People. 4 00:00:10,120 --> 00:00:12,080 Cannabis companies. Celebrities. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:15,280 And your mom? Welcome to the sash. 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:20,000 So this is a fun hobby of mine. I don't even know if it's a hob. 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,680 Yeah, you can call it a hobby everywhere. 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:23,840 It's a time waster. It's my time. 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,840 Fuck you, I'll spend it the way I want. 10 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:32,520 But video games, I enjoy video games and entertainment in 11 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:35,320 general. And I don't know about you guys, 12 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:41,040 but I'm just having a really tough time with any of it. 13 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,000 It's just there's no entertainment. 14 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,760 Have you found? I haven't found really any great 15 00:00:49,160 --> 00:00:53,440 new TV shows any new like, hey, this movie came out and it was 16 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,960 fantastic. Like you know, I I've not been 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,280 super impressed with anything lately. 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:01,360 Everything that's been good has been old. 19 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,400 It's been like my my guilty pleasure still is Top Gear. 20 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,360 That's what I'm. The old top. 21 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:09,640 That's what I watch. Yeah. 22 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:10,880 It's. Not the American top. 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,800 Oh no, it sucks awful. Like and I thought about that. 24 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,120 I'm like, I was just Americans going, oh, we're trying to be 25 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,280 cool. Come look at our cars. 26 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:20,280 And I'm like, but all the American cars that they test and 27 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,320 show in Top Gear are all the great ones that we have here. 28 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,080 And they're all. Pure shit. 29 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,760 So you know. Yeah, well, and plus they they 30 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,560 don't sound as cool 'cause they're not British. 31 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,600 I know. Yep, it's just not the same. 32 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,040 No, they're just not the same. The way they deliver the lines, 33 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,040 everything. And then you have the American 34 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:41,920 guys. Yeah, hearing you. 35 00:01:41,960 --> 00:01:44,680 We get a Corvian. You're just. 36 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:48,240 Like or Dodge, like all these tracks fucking these cars here 37 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,160 and I'm like. What is that new Corvette? 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:51,800 What? The newest one? 39 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,000 The last one I don't like. I hate it. 40 00:01:54,040 --> 00:01:56,280 It always like gets you fooled for a second. 41 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,720 You're like, that's the. Reason why I don't like it. 42 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,280 I've never liked Corvette. I've never thought they were. 43 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:04,240 The only Corvettes that I thought were like the prettiest 44 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,280 versions are in the 60s. Those are the prettiest Gray 45 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:10,160 Corvette that I think they've made, but I've still never 46 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:13,680 wanted or cared for them. Dude, that Corvette. 47 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:17,160 So my wife's grandfather owned one of those. 48 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:20,080 Oh, OK, that's cool. It was an orangish color, the 49 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,720 same color as his. Dune buggy. 50 00:02:22,920 --> 00:02:28,320 Yeah, it's dune buggy. That one is the one that he he 51 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:33,800 had this thing and it he never drove it because well, dude, 52 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,040 one, it's a. Crazy. 53 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,280 It was a classic. Dude, the exhaust, they didn't 54 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:42,600 go out the back out and run along the sides. 55 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:44,360 And win it right out in front of the rear tires. 56 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:48,240 Yeah, yeah, those are cool because it was a classic that he 57 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:52,920 didn't drive it. No, it just he would drive it 58 00:02:52,920 --> 00:02:57,000 for a little while, go out like on Sunday drives and then it was 59 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,800 in the shop. Oh wow mm hmm that sucks. 60 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,360 And it had a 454 in it. Yeah, they have big motors, but. 61 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,680 Fucking, I mean dude. And that thing's impressive. 62 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,840 The other thing that sucked about that thing is when you get 63 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:12,360 into it, it's like you're jump like trying to do a cannonball. 64 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:15,160 You have to jump into your seat like this. 65 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:21,080 And then the great part is you better have a real good base to 66 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:25,640 get out of the car or else you will burn your fucking leg if 67 00:03:25,640 --> 00:03:27,680 you're wearing. Shorts touching the exhaust, 68 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:30,240 Yeah. And there was like a part of it 69 00:03:30,240 --> 00:03:34,040 was a family party and he was taking everybody out for a ride 70 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,880 to show it, which it wasn't. He wasn't going fast. 71 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:41,560 He's all this shit. So he's like, and just a little 72 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:44,960 bit, he gets back and one of his daughters was in there and she 73 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:48,000 gets out. This is like July fucking seared 74 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,040 her calf. It's like why? 75 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,840 Would anybody help? I mean, the The funny thing is, 76 00:03:53,840 --> 00:04:00,160 is both of my kids have a little mark on the inside of one of 77 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,840 their ankles from either a scooter or a motorcycle. 78 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,040 Or branding. That's what they do to hold 79 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,160 their kids. They go hold on, let me see 80 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,080 their ankle. Yeah, that's mine. 81 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,400 Yeah. No, it's just. 82 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,640 Get in the truck. As like the they were it took 83 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,839 you teach them and you're like, don't hop off on that side. 84 00:04:18,079 --> 00:04:22,079 Don't hop off on that side. And yet it takes one time and 85 00:04:22,079 --> 00:04:24,440 then they learn they're like, I will not hop off on that side. 86 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:27,360 And I'm like, I've told you every time, but it's just, you 87 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:31,280 know, sometimes that happens and it it's crazy. 88 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,320 It sucks it but you it's like an instant move your leg. 89 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:37,160 Yeah. It's. 90 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,040 Horrible. I would. 91 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,000 I took us off course. OK, so go back. 92 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:43,800 So with entertainment right now, so like I was talking about 93 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:46,000 video games. So the state of video games 94 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:49,880 right now is totally crazy and it's a good thing. 95 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,280 But it's also going to be like, it's like taking all these 96 00:04:54,280 --> 00:04:57,960 people who love to go to buffets and they eat there all the time, 97 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,400 and then all the sudden they just shut them down. 98 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,360 All of them, even like you were saying, GTA 6. 99 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:08,560 They're talking about raising base price to $100 for the game. 100 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,560 Yeah, 'cause you get some economist. 101 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:14,480 But as that happens, if that game goes to 100, every game, 102 00:05:15,280 --> 00:05:17,040 every normal game will be based at 100. 103 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,800 Well, and that's the great part too, because what it will do 104 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,800 right now if you're, I mean games are $75.00 with tax. 105 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,720 Oh yeah, it's already fucking expensive. 106 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,040 It's super. Expensive for a game. 107 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:30,880 So now I'm way more careful about getting a game. 108 00:05:31,280 --> 00:05:34,440 Like, I'll get it on sale, I'll get it, it's been a couple years 109 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,560 since it launched. Like I don't need a launch game 110 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:39,960 unless I really want to play it. And my mistake, this last one 111 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:44,360 was Baldur's Gate, 'cause I like, I love RPGs, but man, I 112 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,880 can't spend that amount of time into a game. 113 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:50,360 Yeah, well, I didn't. The worst part for me, that was 114 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:53,920 like buying. I'd never bought a release game 115 00:05:53,920 --> 00:05:59,400 or one like that. And then I had heard about, God, 116 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,040 what was it? It wasn't Dark Souls 3, but I 117 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,360 did buy Dark Souls 3 when it was newer because someone was like, 118 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:06,840 oh, it's an amazing game, you should get it. 119 00:06:06,840 --> 00:06:09,440 And I got it. And the worst part about games, 120 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,720 when you buy them like that on PlayStation or anything, you 121 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:15,320 can't return them. So if you play it for 5 minutes 122 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:20,600 and go I fucking hate this. That's what's really cool about 123 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:23,440 like some of the programs that they have on PlayStation and 124 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:27,280 Xbox, because then you can just go, I pay for a subscription all 125 00:06:27,280 --> 00:06:32,200 year for those and I can use it to play this game and to see if 126 00:06:32,200 --> 00:06:34,120 I like it. It lets you play it for like, I 127 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:36,680 think it's 90 minutes of gameplay. 128 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,800 It's a good chunk of time and you get to kind of see how it 129 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:43,320 is, but you don't have to pay for it, but there. 130 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:45,480 Was one other game worth it? And I can't think of what it 131 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,440 was, but it literally just launched and it was like it was 132 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,400 supposed to be such an amazing game. 133 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,760 And that and I didn't look up anything about the actual game. 134 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,960 I just had read and heard from everyone that it was supposed to 135 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,040 be this amazing game. What was that Elden Ring? 136 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,360 No, no, it wasn't that one. It was some other one. 137 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,640 And I downloaded it like I bought it when it was released 138 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:10,840 and it was 6065 bucks at the time I opened it and I was like, 139 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,280 this is the dumbest. I would never play this. 140 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:18,280 I don't like this. And it was like, I can't return 141 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,000 it. I can't do anything with this. 142 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,080 But you know, and then when it's digital, it's not like I can go 143 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,480 sell the disc or take it to GameStop or something. 144 00:07:25,920 --> 00:07:28,440 So I'm just like, well, now I'm out that and I just have this 145 00:07:28,960 --> 00:07:32,440 shitty game that I'll never play that, you know, is a lot of 146 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:35,120 other people might like it. But I guess now I've just got 147 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,880 it. Well, it's like Sid Meier's, 148 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,240 right? Like there's a lot of people who 149 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,920 love Sid Meier's, like they just had a new one drop. 150 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:43,480 Is that a game? Yeah, it's a game. 151 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:48,080 It's a world building game like you can start out as. 152 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,320 Like Sims? No, no, no, no. 153 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:54,800 Like you'll have you'll start out as you can pick a time 154 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:58,640 paint, place it in time and you can go ancient Sumeria or even 155 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:02,120 older than that. And then you start to grow, and 156 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,800 then you're cultivating and you're. 157 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,200 Civilization and stuff. Yeah, that's civilization, 158 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:10,520 right, Sid Meier's Civilization. So I know, I'm sorry. 159 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:13,040 I was saying Sid Meier because it just all over the marketing, 160 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:18,960 but now it's so detailed, like it's all it goes up to today. 161 00:08:19,840 --> 00:08:24,080 And so it's like the everything changes and all that stuff. 162 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:29,600 I can't get into those games. People pay 7000 dollars $150.00 163 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,320 for all the extra DLC no problem. 164 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:36,159 They're like take my money, I can't spend that kind of money 165 00:08:36,159 --> 00:08:38,120 on it. And now I'm even more picky with 166 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,320 games because I just, I just feel like they don't have the 167 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,159 depth that they used. To Yeah, well, the stories 168 00:08:44,159 --> 00:08:47,720 aren't as good that the game plays not as interesting. 169 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:52,320 Like even going back to PS3 or PS2 games, there was so much 170 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,840 better games and Oh yeah, and like gameplay and stuff. 171 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,560 Yeah, they were maybe older shitty graphics because, but 172 00:08:58,560 --> 00:09:00,200 that was at the time what was out. 173 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,840 So I look back and it's like we talk about Splinter Cell and 174 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:07,800 that game, Medal of Honor and all these other games that used 175 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,280 to be really good games. Yeah. 176 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,280 And now it's like the games that come out, I'm like, what is this 177 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,440 garbage? It's all focused on multiplayer. 178 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,240 That's why I don't like Fortnite. 179 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,920 That's why I don't like Co-op campaign multiplayer like used 180 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,920 to be in the great times. It's like. 181 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,640 It's just the Gotham shooters. Yeah, like the Fortnite style 182 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,480 and that where I'm like, I don't. 183 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,760 See dude, that's another game. I I'm big into military shooters 184 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,320 and Brandon and I played Ghost Recall. 185 00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:36,520 You guys know, we talked about that so much and I play 186 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,280 Insurgency. I stopped playing Insurgency 187 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,680 just recently just because I'm over the top right? 188 00:09:43,680 --> 00:09:45,200 You can't get the little rank emblem. 189 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,760 Didn't take a very short break. Yeah, it took like a couple. 190 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:53,440 Weeks, but now I'm like, I have I have no desire because I got 191 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:57,960 Arma Reforger and that game is insanely hard and I don't know 192 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:03,840 what I'm doing and but what I'm interested in is the element of 193 00:10:03,840 --> 00:10:05,600 it. And last night, like you jumped 194 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:09,440 off and I was getting off and Steph's like, don't worry, I got 195 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:11,280 a bunch of stuff to do. She's like, go ahead and play 196 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,000 and I'm like, I haven't done that in a while. 197 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,120 So I played that game and I didn't want to play it long, so 198 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,400 I kept watching, kept looking at my watch. 199 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:20,920 Well, because that game is the other. 200 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:23,120 Night you're up till 3 something playing. 201 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,000 Well, because other games I won't, I won't play that long. 202 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,200 I will be like, OK, that's why I like playing like Batman or 203 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:32,520 Final Fantasy later on, because then I can only play so much of 204 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,640 it. And then my brains like, yeah, 205 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:34,960 we're good, let's just go to bed. 206 00:10:36,680 --> 00:10:43,560 But that game, because nobody's there's nothing except you. 207 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:47,120 And then you got to find people. Yeah, well, and it's crazy, 208 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:50,520 'cause there's no like tactical map on there. 209 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:53,520 You literally pull up a physical map and it doesn't show a marker 210 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:54,760 of you or anything. It's just. 211 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,280 Like they have a how to look, it's going to show that you can 212 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,920 see everybody else on there. So they're little packages and 213 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:04,040 they'll have their name on it. But the what I was learning 214 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:08,040 about that game is that if you want to communicate radio with 215 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:13,240 somebody else, you have to set up radio points, you have to set 216 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:16,040 communication towers, you have to set up. 217 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,880 The frequencies and stuff. Yeah, you can change the 218 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,080 frequencies I did see. That on the radios I was like, 219 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:23,280 what the crap? Yeah, you can create your own 220 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:26,840 security frequency and everybody can talk on that if you have a 221 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:30,680 good team. And then on top of that, like if 222 00:11:30,680 --> 00:11:35,280 you don't have that, you have to be within like 20 feet. 223 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,440 A very short distance to hear a radio frequency or pick it up. 224 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,040 You'll only hear the voices. And so you also have to be 225 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:49,160 careful because when you're walking up on a place that's 226 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:52,960 being held by the enemy, you have to be quiet and you have 227 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,760 to. You can whisper, they can hear 228 00:11:54,760 --> 00:11:56,080 it, but they don't know where it's coming from. 229 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,800 But if you're talking. They'll hear it. 230 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,240 They know where it's coming from. 231 00:11:59,560 --> 00:12:02,920 But last night I was playing it and there was this random dude 232 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,760 and I, I don't know what the fuck's going on. 233 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,920 And the guy's like, hey, Reaper or you're on our Discord, right? 234 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,360 And I'm like, no, I, I'm not even on Discord, dude. 235 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:16,280 And he's like, oh, oh, I got a guy in my team that has Reaper 236 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:20,040 in his name. He's like, well, what do you 237 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:21,640 want to do? And I'm like, I, I don't know, 238 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:22,880 dude, I'm brand new to this game. 239 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:25,240 He's like, oh, hold on. He pulls out his map and you see 240 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,640 the guy pull out his map, he's looking at it. 241 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,520 And then he puts it away and he goes, all right, we're going 242 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,880 this way and we're just following. 243 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:34,080 And we walked forever. Oh, yeah. 244 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:36,840 And then all of a sudden he's like, OK, around this corner, we 245 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,440 should have see somebody. And they pull up my scope, and 246 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,720 there's one dude you could see this head. 247 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:45,960 And I'm like, oh, shit, I was OK I got guys over here and here. 248 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,480 And because we're so far away, they can't hear us. 249 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,840 Yeah. Because we don't have radio 250 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,320 comms. Set up or we. 251 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:54,960 Can't they can't intercept the radio comms? 252 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,880 So it was really cool. But The funny thing I was 253 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,200 shooting at dudes and like when you shoot dudes usually like in 254 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:03,760 Call of Duty, there's like a big dramatic fall. 255 00:13:04,400 --> 00:13:08,040 This one he just drop. Yep, like a real guy. 256 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:12,040 Oh yeah, 'cause I, I had shot and I was like, man, I missed. 257 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:14,760 And then a second later it was like boom. 258 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:17,440 And I was like, Oh no, it's like a real bullet. 259 00:13:17,680 --> 00:13:21,520 It had to travel. Hit him and then he dropped it. 260 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:23,360 Yeah. Like I was like holy shit. 261 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:26,240 'Cause in the other games it's like they're going like four 262 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:29,480 times the speed of real bullets. Yeah, it's like Boo, Boo, Boo. 263 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,760 Ohh he yeah. Yeah, he's dead across there, 264 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:34,480 but it took time to get to him. It's exactly what happened. 265 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:38,080 But then I I got a little too excited and me and this guy 266 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:40,280 Ghost took all. I'd watch this video and it was 267 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:43,960 like if you hear shots coming towards you, drop to the ground. 268 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,360 Yep. And so I was like, OK, so I 269 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:48,200 dropped to the ground and he was here. 270 00:13:49,680 --> 00:13:52,560 Snap, snap. And I'm like, oh, shit. 271 00:13:52,560 --> 00:13:57,240 And then you're looking through these blades of grass and your 272 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,840 eyes get blurry because you're squinting. 273 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,080 That's why they're trying to. And it's just like, and the 274 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,440 bullet's going over. So it's making you nervous and 275 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,720 all of a sudden I'm shooting at these guys and they start 276 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,480 shooting at me. This guy is ghost on there and 277 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:16,960 he just goes hold on Reaver and just he shoots one of the guys 278 00:14:16,960 --> 00:14:20,480 and I get up and I run over and I see two guys running and I 279 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:24,040 shoot 1 and I shoot the other and he goes, oh, wait a minute. 280 00:14:24,560 --> 00:14:28,720 I think that's one of our guys. And I'm like, no, he goes, dude, 281 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:30,000 I think he shot it on one of our guys. 282 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:31,240 I'm like, I wouldn't have done that. 283 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,680 I I clearly saw that guy. I would have seen his name 284 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:37,280 marker and I'd get over to him and the guys on the ground and, 285 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,560 and the cool thing is you can check him for injuries. 286 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:41,640 Yeah. So I check him for injuries and 287 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:44,640 I'm like, dude, he's messed up. And he's like, oh, I got to get 288 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:46,680 a saline and I'm like, hold on. We got to get a. 289 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,120 Bandage and Oh my God, it was your guy. 290 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:52,080 Yeah, it totally was. And then you know what, dude? 291 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:54,520 It's not like you heal him and they just get up. 292 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,200 You have to wait for them to get better. 293 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:00,080 What? So the guy's slowly getting 294 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,880 better. Like the, the, you remember, 295 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,120 like in punch out, you had to sit there between matches and 296 00:15:05,680 --> 00:15:08,560 anyway, I played that. But anyways, you, you go through 297 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:12,320 this and then all of a sudden the guy like he wakes up, his 298 00:15:12,320 --> 00:15:15,360 gun is dropped. So he has to pick up his gun and 299 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,960 he gets up and the and the character just like laying there 300 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:22,680 one second and then he rolls over to his face and then he's 301 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:27,560 up like he teleported and he's like what the fuck? 302 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:32,080 That's nuts. 'Cause you don't see the person, 303 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:36,600 what you see is wow. We get the the wow, wow. 304 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,560 Wow, and there's green light. Cause dark horse is. 305 00:15:40,560 --> 00:15:43,760 Dropping. But you can't hear or see 306 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,680 anything really, 'cause you're blacking out. 307 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:51,520 And you could black out totally, but your screen hasn't left, so 308 00:15:51,520 --> 00:15:53,360 you're just like, OK, maybe they'll bring me back. 309 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,560 We brought the guy back and you're injured. 310 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:58,000 After that point, you're injured. 311 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,040 You go to a hospital, you can get fixed up, but you're 312 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,800 injured. And that's how deep this game 313 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,320 goes. And that's why I could disappear 314 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:07,280 forever. And I killed like four people. 315 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,840 I got in this car. The last part I played, I got in 316 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:13,200 this car and I'm like, yeah, this time 'cause we were going 317 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:14,680 around this corner, I'm like, where are we going? 318 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,680 The guy's like, oh, I know it's a really good place. 319 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:19,200 And I'm like, hey, shouldn't we avoid the main roads? 320 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,960 And he's like, no, no, no, it's cool. 321 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:24,960 I know a shortcut. We get around this corner and 322 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:29,320 you see the dudes like in the front blood's like flipping all 323 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,000 over. And I'm like, get out of the 324 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:32,720 car. Get out of the car, man, I'm 325 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,840 dead. And then these I hear over the 326 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,960 over the voices. Oh shit. 327 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:43,160 Oh, that was our guys. Hey guys, we're really sorry 328 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,320 about that. We. 329 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,440 Oh that's hilarious. You got killed by your own team. 330 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:49,040 Dad, you got to really pay attention to what you're 331 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,240 shooting at and are. You supposed to know? 332 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:55,360 By the by the. By the color of their clothes. 333 00:16:55,360 --> 00:17:01,280 So you, you really have to be careful and wow, it's pretty 334 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,120 good. It's, it's, it's really funny. 335 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:05,680 It's super hard to know what the fuck to do. 336 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,680 That's a crazy sound. I've only played a little bit in 337 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:13,200 it still, that's like. This guy, I met this guy in the 338 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:16,160 game and he was like, yeah, I've been playing for about two weeks 339 00:17:16,160 --> 00:17:17,640 now. And I said, well, what do you 340 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:18,839 mean? He goes, well, I bought it in 341 00:17:18,839 --> 00:17:23,079 December, but it was such a janky game at the time. 342 00:17:23,079 --> 00:17:26,319 Yeah, he's like, so I just wait and I he goes in and they're 343 00:17:26,319 --> 00:17:27,680 still having troubles because it's. 344 00:17:27,839 --> 00:17:30,920 Yeah, they're they didn't anticipate it to grow this big. 345 00:17:31,080 --> 00:17:34,520 And so they're it's kind of like hell divers, but. 346 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:37,160 Oh yeah, I mean, we haven't touched that in ages. 347 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:41,680 I just. It just got so insanely, just 348 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:47,480 overwhelmingly anxiety inducing. This is like, but it it wore, 349 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:49,280 but it was fun for a while. It was, yeah. 350 00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:52,160 I mean, it wasn't bad. It just, I mean they reached the 351 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:54,640 point of what was it? The bots or something were so 352 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:57,800 fucking hard and it would just come in crazy ass waves, but 353 00:17:57,800 --> 00:18:00,480 then it seemed like we almost defeated everything they had in 354 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,640 the game for a bit and it was like, wait, what the hell? 355 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,280 Like, are they not gonna give us more? 356 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,080 Now it's super insane. We haven't gotten back on and. 357 00:18:07,080 --> 00:18:09,440 Oh man, there's people. What do you guys play? 358 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,920 What are you playing lately? What's your style of games that 359 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,160 you guys play or do you even play games? 360 00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:19,280 What do you like to do in your free time when you're, you know, 361 00:18:19,360 --> 00:18:21,080 not working? Comment below. 362 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,200 Let us know what you actually like to spend your time doing. 363 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:28,040 Maybe it's just sitting, smoking weed, listening to Brandon and 364 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,800 Jesse's soothing sounds of the Sabbath. 365 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:34,960 I mean, the way he was going out, I was almost like one of 366 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:38,160 those radio show announcers, kind of like Casey Kasich. 367 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:41,080 And we're going to be able to listen to the top hits. 368 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:45,520 Just pay attention over here. Never got Bono, you 2. 369 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:49,400 Wow, Bono, you 2. I don't know if that would be on 370 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:52,240 my. No, I'm I'm not AU2 fan. 371 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,160 There was what was it? There was this girl at the 372 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,720 dispensary, the bud tender, real nice girl. 373 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,840 Couldn't tell she was being fake though 'cause. 374 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,800 Oh my God, there was, So I went. To the way she was smiling and 375 00:19:05,800 --> 00:19:08,640 I'm just like, are you OK? Did you have lemon juice? 376 00:19:09,120 --> 00:19:15,040 I went to some place with my kids and we were at the where 377 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:19,600 you It was a drive in drive through and I was ordering at 378 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:25,600 the wind at the speaker thing. And the lady sounded like so 379 00:19:25,600 --> 00:19:29,880 over the top, like happy and shepherd and like, Oh my God, 380 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,760 welcome hi. And then when we get up to the 381 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:37,720 window, she talks like that and every time her voice stops, her 382 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:42,680 face goes literally just like hi. 383 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:46,080 Oh my God. And I was like, what in the 384 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:49,080 world? Is this faking it 'cause she's 385 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,720 up there so? Fake seeming, but it was just so 386 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,440 really clear when you saw her face. 387 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,040 And I was like, well, that was very interesting. 388 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:01,840 Dude, I'd love to fuck with. If I worked at the drive 389 00:20:01,840 --> 00:20:03,880 through, I would fuck with people all the time. 390 00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,240 I'd be like talking different accents. 391 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,720 Totally. Yeah, yeah, that's all I would 392 00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:10,880 do. Like, I mean, you just have 393 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,360 like, a really horrible, like, Latin accent. 394 00:20:13,840 --> 00:20:15,800 Yeah, I did. Somewhere down to the window. 395 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,000 And I would do accents all the time because I got bored. 396 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:24,160 And it that job, it wasn't my fast, it was this little rinky 397 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,160 dink one in this shitty call center. 398 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,520 But it was literally a script. So I had it memorized and I'm 399 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,640 like, yeah, I'm gonna see if I can do this in different 400 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,440 accents. And so then our like, the floor 401 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:40,560 manager had the highest record for the day and I beat him. 402 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,080 And so then I was like, well, I wonder if I could do it in a 403 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,680 British accent and beat him. So I did that. 404 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:48,640 And then the next day I was like, I wonder if I could do it 405 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:51,320 in an Indian accent. I didn't beat him, but I still 406 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:54,160 got like, more than probably anyone else on the floor. 407 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,920 But it was just like these shits and giggles of like, hey, yeah, 408 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,960 I'm just here like, fuck it, why not? 409 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,240 Well. It'd be so much fun to do it at 410 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,280 the drive through because they hear your voice and then they 411 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,840 get up there and they're like, what the fuck? 412 00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,680 And he just go to your regular voice going, yeah, it's going to 413 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:10,600 be 573, right? And they're like. 414 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:13,000 'Cause the other one, they never saw me, it was all over the 415 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,120 phone, so it didn't. Matter. 416 00:21:14,120 --> 00:21:16,440 And then when you give him the food, you go have a good day, 417 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,880 right? So they're like you, son of a 418 00:21:18,920 --> 00:21:20,680 poo. Take you come. 419 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,960 In slides close. That'd be awesome. 420 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,640 That'd be so much fun to do. Just because I know. 421 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,640 You know what? That would be fun for the person 422 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,120 too, because then they can have a good laugh. 423 00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:34,600 Unless they're super sensitive, they're like, you know, that's 424 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,200 not very nice. Yeah. 425 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:40,760 Oh well. I'm really surprised and people 426 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,920 may be disappointed. I went to pick up food at a 427 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:48,080 place and walked in and the guy had just a ton of orders. 428 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,560 He was dealing with tons of stuff and I'm standing there and 429 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:56,480 it's maybe 1015 seconds, maybe like it's no time at all. 430 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:58,560 He's like, oh man, I'm I'm so sorry. 431 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,360 I'll be with you in just a just a minute. 432 00:22:00,360 --> 00:22:02,800 And I'm like, oh, it's fine. Take your time. 433 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,520 And it's literally maybe another 20 seconds as he unloads what's 434 00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,440 in his hands. And then he turns to me. 435 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:10,560 He's like, oh, thanks for your patience. 436 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,520 Like I appreciate that. I was like, no, it's not a big 437 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:14,760 deal. You got a shit ton of stuff 438 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:16,400 there. Like, yeah, but don't even worry 439 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,360 about it. And he's like, and at the end he 440 00:22:18,360 --> 00:22:20,280 was like, no, I, I truly appreciate that. 441 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,080 I'm like, how sad is that? That that is what people are 442 00:22:23,080 --> 00:22:25,440 thankful for at their job when it, it's dealing with another 443 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,400 human. It's like, how shitty do we have 444 00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,480 to be as people? That, that that's the 445 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,840 thankfulness that where they're like, how many bad interactions 446 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:36,000 do they have with someone like hurry up, Hey, where's my food 447 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:39,000 or like, or whatever it is, the interaction, it's always like 448 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:43,080 negative for, you know. Yeah, no, I, I that's a good 449 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,600 observation because I, I thought that same thing. 450 00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:50,840 And I think what it is, is that there's before like waiters 451 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,480 weren't treated. I mean, you had a couple 452 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:54,840 assholes here and there, but mostly the, you know, anybody 453 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:56,520 who helps you treated them very kindly. 454 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,080 Oh yeah, because it's the service they're doing for you. 455 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:03,680 But at the same time, like there's this notion that came 456 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,960 out the customers always, right, right. 457 00:23:06,120 --> 00:23:08,280 And that could have worked in the department store. 458 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,360 But when it comes to like food service or any type of like 459 00:23:11,360 --> 00:23:15,080 actual manual service, you can't talk to people that way or ever 460 00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,840 be that way to them. But there was this whole 461 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,120 entitlement. It's the same shit where there 462 00:23:21,120 --> 00:23:24,080 is a fucking crosswalk. Guess where you cross the 463 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:27,040 crosswalk? Not anywhere that you fucking 464 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:28,480 please. There's laws against, there's. 465 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,000 Jaywalking, but a lot of. Cops don't bust people for 466 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:33,640 jaywalking because it's annoying to them. 467 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,840 I get it. But at the same time there's 468 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,520 this entitlement. Like if you go into a parking 469 00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:42,520 lot, it's customary giant vehicle, why don't you go 470 00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:43,600 through? It's going to be a lot quicker 471 00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,680 for you to go through. And I know you're trying to get 472 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:46,920 to a parking spot. No problem. 473 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,520 Go through. What is it? 474 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,440 Fucking people just walk through, moving around here. 475 00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,240 It's like fucking Disneyland or something. 476 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:57,520 Like I walk where I want. I know like, fuck these people. 477 00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:58,080 It's so. Weird. 478 00:23:58,120 --> 00:24:00,480 Well, it's. Even inconsiderate, rude 479 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,400 assholes. That, yeah, 'cause even going to 480 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:05,960 the grocery store and I'm in the grocery store and I'm like, 481 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:09,080 you're walking one way and then you see someone else and they 482 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:13,360 literally intentionally like go in front of you and then they're 483 00:24:13,360 --> 00:24:17,520 like not even going that way. They like, I don't think many 484 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,800 people put a lot of thought into way they walk in grocery stores. 485 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,520 And I think about it, I'm like, you probably drive the very 486 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:28,080 similar way that you're not very much seeming like you're paying 487 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,480 attention. You are very distracted because 488 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:34,440 people, I notice they're walking and they're walking out, but 489 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,600 their heads looking a whole different way and like you're 490 00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,520 going to walk into someone. You're an adult, you should have 491 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:43,160 a like situational awareness enough to go, hey, I'm walking 492 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,040 out into another thing. It's like people at a stop sign 493 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,160 and I see them. I'm always curious with this 494 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:51,440 because I think about it like flow of traffic would be so much 495 00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:53,440 better. But I noticed that this is how 496 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,960 stop signs work here. It's a four way stop. 497 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,920 I'm coming up to the stop sign. There's already a car stopped 498 00:24:59,920 --> 00:25:02,680 there. I'm still 3040 fifty feet away, 499 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,560 slowing down as I get there. They're still stopped there. 500 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:09,000 I pull up to stop. They're still stopped there. 501 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,640 They then go because now I'm stopped and I'm like, what the 502 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:15,120 fuck is this traffic? Like are you not that aware? 503 00:25:15,120 --> 00:25:17,200 You can go, Hey, look, I can use my eyes. 504 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,360 Hey, they're slowing down. Yep, I can see they're slowing 505 00:25:19,360 --> 00:25:21,080 down. I'm going this direction. 506 00:25:21,360 --> 00:25:25,560 I've got so much time that I can make the drive move that I'm 507 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,120 doing and have tons of time. I'm not going to have to floor 508 00:25:29,120 --> 00:25:30,000 it. I don't have to punch it. 509 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,240 I can just accelerate at a normal rate. 510 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,280 Like there's all these things and I look at, I'm like, most 511 00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:38,320 people don't live life aware. I feel like they live it so 512 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:41,560 subconsciously that they're not almost there. 513 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,680 Well, it's, it's manners. Manners have been kind of tossed 514 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,920 aside because, you know, well, we don't need to be told how to 515 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:51,720 act in society because, you know, that's just a way to 516 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,760 control us and to keep us docile, whatever that means. 517 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,880 But it's like, excuse me, pardon me, You know, all the time if I 518 00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:03,080 walk in front of someone at the store, I'm like going to grab 519 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,960 something in front. I'm like, oh, pardon me, excuse 520 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,480 me. Because they're not paying 521 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:07,800 attention. They're just standing there. 522 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,680 But I'm letting them know, hey, I'm coming to grab this. 523 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,360 I'm not trying to just because I noticed that all the time. 524 00:26:13,360 --> 00:26:15,840 I'll be if I'm there grabbing something, there's so many 525 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,080 people that will literally just step right in front of me and 526 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:22,880 I'm like, what? Yeah, like, well, and it's the 527 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,080 same thing. Like, I mean, you want to see a 528 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,840 real good example of why manners have kind of fallen off is just 529 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:34,080 watch these fat little tubby kids with a ton of fucking 530 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,640 snacks and the shirts too small and their bellies hanging out. 531 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:41,360 And it's not because, you know, they they can't afford to clothe 532 00:26:41,360 --> 00:26:45,000 the kid as the kids growing too fucking fast and they don't have 533 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,040 time to go do it 'cause they're trying to keep up everything 534 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,200 else. And those kids act like entitled 535 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,560 shits in the store. The first thing I do is I look 536 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,200 at the parent and the parent just. 537 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,480 Yeah. Like, yeah, whatever. 538 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:57,800 What do you want me to do? Like. 539 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:02,200 I know I'm so surprised at how many people 'cause I'll be 540 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,280 walking through a store and I'm like, man, there was a perfect 541 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,440 parenting opportunity for that parent, but they just, they're 542 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,280 so oblivious to or just don't care. 543 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,600 Like they're just so numb to it's. 544 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,280 Not even just numb dude. It's it's. 545 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,560 This. They're so used to it. 546 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,040 They're they're being taught to be entitled. 547 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,640 They've been taught to be entitled. 548 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:24,360 They've been indoctrinated to be entitled. 549 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,200 The customer's always right. Guess what? 550 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,040 No, you're not. No, you're not. 551 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,160 Sometimes the food is fucked, right? 552 00:27:30,360 --> 00:27:30,760 Yeah. Nope. 553 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:32,440 Sometimes the food gets fucked up. 554 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,080 And that's just, that's just the laws. 555 00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,720 I. Think you're always right, you 556 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,160 have a problem. No, you're probably wrong. 557 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,240 Yeah, that's the same. Yeah. 558 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:45,640 But it's like, Oh my goodness. But everyone's wrong, you know? 559 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:47,400 No ones ever always right? Did. 560 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,320 That's why I, I try to, it's not that I, I, I just try to be 561 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,720 really good to people. So I have to remove that. 562 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:57,560 It hasn't always been that way. But I understand I haven't 563 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,920 either, right? I'm way more appreciative now 564 00:27:59,920 --> 00:28:03,800 and understanding and like trying to see the situation go 565 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,200 like, hey, what is all this other stuff that I don't see? 566 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,320 Like, I have no idea what's going on this person's life 567 00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,400 right now. Oh, dude, like I had a good 568 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,520 parenting moment. My son Phoenix, he had the 569 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,640 mouthwash in his hand and was going to pour it and it slipped 570 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,360 out of his hand and it poured all over the ground. 571 00:28:20,360 --> 00:28:24,280 And my wife and I are standing there and my wife was just like, 572 00:28:24,360 --> 00:28:26,280 oh, shit, what's Jesse going to do? 573 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:29,440 And I paused because I was just taking it in. 574 00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:32,200 I'm like, cool, you don't need to tell him. 575 00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:34,920 Why'd you do that? You don't need to yell at him. 576 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,760 Just offered to help in cleaning it up. 577 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,040 And I was like, hey, buddy, this happens. 578 00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,560 Don't worry about it. Let's get some paper towels, get 579 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:44,560 this cleaned up. And my wife was just like, whoa, 580 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,560 right. But it's not like, hey, cool how 581 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,320 I'm looking at myself. It's, it's being aware. 582 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,280 It's being aware. Do I really need to be upset 583 00:28:53,280 --> 00:29:00,040 that I'm not able to order my meal Fucking, you know, Panda 584 00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:04,360 Express, I have to wait like 3 or 4 minutes to get up to the 585 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,520 line to take 3 or 4. It would take you hours to cook 586 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,080 all that shit, but then you're gonna fucking bitch about it. 587 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,240 But then I look at it and like how many other people are in 588 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:16,880 line in front of me? How many people are behind the 589 00:29:16,880 --> 00:29:18,360 counter there? You know what? 590 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,040 You. Can see how much work they're 591 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,040 physically doing. It's not like they're going 592 00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,240 sitting there in the corner. They're all texting, laughing, 593 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:26,840 giggling. No, they're all working. 594 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,880 Yeah. So I can understand that. 595 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,360 Hey, as a person, I can understand. 596 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,680 There's only so much you can do in so much time. 597 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,080 And they're doing what they can. So instead of going in and 598 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,240 going, and sometimes it's hard because life is frustrating. 599 00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,280 We just came through a lot of traffic. 600 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,800 We came from shitty job, whatever, but at the end of the 601 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:50,240 day, the person that human you're interacting with well. 602 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,400 Depending on where you're at. If it's Taco Bell, there's no 603 00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:53,640 peep. Right. 604 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,960 But like that is just like they're another person just 605 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,320 doing their job and maybe they've had a really long day of 606 00:29:59,960 --> 00:30:03,040 eight hours or 10 hours or whoever dealing with other 607 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:06,160 assholes coming through getting mad at them or frustrated 608 00:30:06,160 --> 00:30:09,560 because their work is really busy and they're doing their 609 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:11,720 job, but the workplace is really busy. 610 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,680 Mm hmm. I'm sorry that my job is really 611 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,240 busy. I would you like to switch me 612 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:19,600 spots because I'd love to be in your position instead of mine 613 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,680 like. Yeah, it's facts, dude, facts 614 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,960 and, and but The thing is, is like, you know, the other I I 615 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:32,280 look at is need not one of these jobs out there is not important. 616 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:37,440 Like there are jobs there that can be replaced, Data entry jobs 617 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,760 I I feel bad for those. Guys, no, like we've talked 618 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:42,400 about, there are jobs that are unimportant. 619 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,720 It's like all the SAS companies that are going the way that are 620 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,000 not actually needed. Well, the positions that they 621 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,800 had there, like even look at the social media landscape, like you 622 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:54,360 had project managers that weren't project managers and 623 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,400 they would do like a day in the life of working over at Google. 624 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:00,640 And you're like, what the fuck do you do all day? 625 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,840 And they make like killer money too. 626 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:07,880 And you're like, fuck you like, but it was just, it was a small 627 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,560 dream that was going to go away. And it did. 628 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,920 And they all lost their jobs. And they're like, where do I go? 629 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,520 And that, that's another thing. It's this false sense of, of 630 00:31:18,520 --> 00:31:21,640 achievement that I think is given to those individuals 631 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:23,720 because now they like a good friend of ours. 632 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:27,520 I go, I won't say her name, but you know, she went through this 633 00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:29,680 time where she was like, I'm worth this. 634 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,680 She got a job finally. She says she goes, I don't know 635 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,120 how I did. She interviewed so many times. 636 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,360 Yeah. And she end up having to go for 637 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:41,760 way less than what she expected. And I was like, yeah. 638 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,760 And I was saying to her, I was like, yeah, some companies set 639 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:48,760 up realistic, real, unexpected, unrealistic. 640 00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,760 Thank you. Yeah, big time. 641 00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:55,160 And you get out there, it's like, that should be a big red 642 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:56,960 flag. If a company's like giving you 643 00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:01,160 quick raises and stuff, it's like, oh shit, like maybe I need 644 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:04,680 to be looking for another job. Oh yeah, you know what's crazy? 645 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:09,960 They're going out. So Tesla gives bonuses, but then 646 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:11,720 the bonus you can't actually use. 647 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:15,800 You don't get all the money if you take it as a a physical cash 648 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,280 bonus. They just break that into 52 649 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,720 checks. And so you just get like another 650 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:25,080 30 bucks per check. Or you can put it all in stocks, 651 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:27,360 which you don't get if you leave before the year. 652 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:32,760 Yeah, or you can take it in PTO, but you can only use 20 hours of 653 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:35,440 it in PTO, so you can't actually use all of it. 654 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,800 And so you actually have to diversify it in all of those 655 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:42,640 basically to do it or like keep it all in stock or something. 656 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,200 I would type it in stock, wait for a year and so. 657 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:50,000 I was like, wow, that's such a weird, but honestly, they, they 658 00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:52,680 seem to take out the human side. Like don't have anything at your 659 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,880 desk that makes you, you don't have any pictures, any anything. 660 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,040 Don't bring in blankets, don't bring in like they don't want 661 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:03,200 anything 'cause they're very interesting company I would 662 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,880 think. They're very efficient company 663 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:10,400 on many things that they want to be able to do and the reason why 664 00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:12,600 it's just because they're in the technological space. 665 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,960 You have an autistic guy who is leading the company. 666 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,760 He didn't found the company, he's leading the company and 667 00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,600 they've done great things underneath his leadership, but 668 00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,080 he is disconnected. He knows that. 669 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:29,360 It's not a hard thing for him to know that, but it's it's hard 670 00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,720 for other people when you don't understand it and you think 671 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,640 he's. Underneath him, yeah. 672 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,600 Right. Or, or he's just impossible. 673 00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,400 Like, no, he's not being personal with you. 674 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,560 Oh. 100%, yeah. No, there's no personality in 675 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,960 that company. Dude, he was saying on the news, 676 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,000 it was hilarious that he got an interview with him And, and, and 677 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,800 the best part about it, one of these reporters was just like, 678 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,720 well, you know, we need to be making sure that you're keeping 679 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,400 all your checks and balances to make sure that you're being 680 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,680 appropriate and not being counterfeit and not being 681 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,600 deceitful. And he goes no, and I'm going to 682 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,400 be completely, he's like, this has been extremely transparent. 683 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:09,280 You can go to the website on X. We post every single day what we 684 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,719 find. That's it. 685 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,159 I'm being completely transparent. 686 00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,639 But I understand that all of you are going to clock crawl up my 687 00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:17,920 orifices and that's totally fine. 688 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,280 It'll be like a going a proctology exam. 689 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,320 The only thing I'm going to say to you guys is you better camp 690 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,320 out there for a while because I ain't going anywhere. 691 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,639 And I was like, literally he just said to him in the nicest 692 00:34:28,639 --> 00:34:31,679 way, you guys can go up my ass and hang out. 693 00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:35,600 I don't care. And it was like that, the way he 694 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,400 talked. I'm like, people are like, oh, 695 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,440 he's he's you don't understand autism. 696 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,199 There's no bullshit in their mind. 697 00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:48,440 They don't think in allegories or in metaphors. 698 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:52,639 It's straight. So he can't be deceitful even if 699 00:34:52,639 --> 00:34:56,159 he wanted to, because he doesn't understand what that means. 700 00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,560 He just doesn't. Think any autistic person 701 00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:02,040 understands deceit? No, no, they, they can learn. 702 00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,520 They can learn, but it's very it's it's over. 703 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:09,240 Time and he's definitely old, so he could definitely have learned 704 00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:11,320 it over time. Yeah, but he's very, he's very 705 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,640 childlike in many of his sense, because it's his. 706 00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:15,040 Way. It's his way. 707 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,760 You know, Steve Jobs was very much like that, too. 708 00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:19,520 It's my way, not your. Way was he? 709 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,200 Do you know if he was autistic? I don't know, I have no idea. 710 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:25,120 I think we all have autistic traits in one way or another and 711 00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:26,680 autism is just a. Brand. 712 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,200 Well, it's yeah. But there's just a specialized 713 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:32,320 mind, like with my son, like when one of the teachers told 714 00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:37,480 him at school that because it was awesome, because my son 715 00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,040 goes, they asked, one of the teachers asked him. 716 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:42,800 I said, So what does your dad do all day? 717 00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,280 He go, I don't know. He smokes pot a lot, though. 718 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,320 And they're all what? And he goes, you know, weed. 719 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:54,800 He smokes weed. And they're like, I no, you 720 00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,320 you're not. And my sister-in-law works there 721 00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,880 as an aid and she's like, oh, Dick, here's the she's like, oh, 722 00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:01,960 my gosh. And I'm like, why are you 723 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,160 worried about it? Yeah. 724 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,360 And they were telling him they're like, there's no way 725 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,760 your dad does that because it's bad for you. 726 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,320 You can die from it. All this nonsense, right? 727 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:13,680 Yeah. And fear in him of. 728 00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,800 Yeah. And, and he comes back home and 729 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,720 I just came out of the garage smoke. 730 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,960 Yeah, Yeah. And he's like, Dad, I want to 731 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,920 talk to you. And they're like, sure. 732 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,320 And he started telling me what they said. 733 00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,400 And I said, hey, no problem. But it's like they're, they just 734 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,760 learned something a long time ago that isn't that way. 735 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,840 And I said, let me teach you about it. 736 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,280 And I went through it, and he just absorbed it all. 737 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,720 And then one of the teachers said something, I'm sure. 738 00:36:37,720 --> 00:36:41,720 And he just said he goes, yeah, I explained to him that you talk 739 00:36:41,720 --> 00:36:43,360 about medical cannabis. Yeah. 740 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,440 And that nobody's ever died from it. 741 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,600 And that's a lie. Yep, that's true. 742 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:54,080 And and so that was it. The that's where I think mind 743 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:58,360 controlled like a SIOP done on on the US population. 744 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,640 There's a crazy thing I'll share with you on it, but and it's not 745 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,640 from a conspiracy website. It's legit like a dude who's 746 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,560 studied economics and a lot of these things. 747 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:13,160 And US aid is one of the things and it is ACIA front to 748 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,880 distribute funds. And there's a cool crazy thing. 749 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,480 But if you think about it, if you train a society to be 750 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:25,880 consumers like ours, then they won't question as much. 751 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,000 No, we don't question much at all actually, I feel like. 752 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:33,840 Not not until recently. You're seeing more questions 753 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,760 come to light. There are definitely some you 754 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,080 know now starting to question. And it's good. 755 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:39,480 It's good. It's about time, yeah. 756 00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:45,040 But the the same time it's dude, it's a lot of it comes down to 757 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:50,240 just really wanting to connect with other people because you 758 00:37:50,240 --> 00:37:53,440 realize that life is a lot easier when you got a lot of 759 00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:56,360 friends. Yeah, when you have people 760 00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,840 surrounding you that you like genuinely connect with, because 761 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:03,160 the thing that sucks is being surrounded by people and feeling 762 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:07,040 totally alone or feeling lonely when you're surrounded by people 763 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,640 because there is no connection, because there's no actual true 764 00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:13,880 deep bonding or, you know, understanding of who each other 765 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,880 are. And that can be one of the 766 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:20,280 loneliest places to be is surrounded and yet alone. 767 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:26,160 Yeah, I no better example than a few nights ago, I was invited to 768 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:30,600 speak to this group of of young adults and young adults beating 769 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:36,720 from like 19 to like 27. And the this ecclesiastical 770 00:38:36,720 --> 00:38:41,280 leader and locally set it up and had reached out to Kim for 12 771 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,200 shapes. And she's like, I'm in Mexico, 772 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,480 but I have a bunch of coaches that are close by. 773 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:49,920 And she put it out to all of us. And she's like, who wants to do 774 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,040 it? And nobody raised their hand. 775 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,400 And I just was like, and then before I could even answer, 776 00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:01,400 Kim's like, hey, Jesse, you're you're close to him, you should 777 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,240 do it. And I'm like, yeah, OK, no 778 00:39:03,240 --> 00:39:07,200 problem, I'll do it. And then when I went to hear 779 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:10,840 these young people talking about how confused they are to just 780 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:15,120 talk to one another, which I can understand because they didn't 781 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:18,040 learn. A lot of the things that I had 782 00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:21,120 to learn, you had to learn growing up, which was if you 783 00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:23,160 want something, you have to talk to somebody. 784 00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:28,000 Well, because everyone even in this like it sucks, but our kids 785 00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,040 generations and when you talk to everyone grew up with a cell 786 00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:35,040 phone, everyone grew up attached to that cell phone. 787 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:38,400 And so that became the easiest way to talk was texting. 788 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:42,280 So between that or a keyboard, like unless it's done with your 789 00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,360 fingers, they're like, I don't know how to talk to someone. 790 00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:48,520 Yeah, and, and you would think that like paralinguistics and 791 00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:51,480 things like that would, you know, people are like, oh, it's 792 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:55,720 cool, you just text it. But when the power goes out or 793 00:39:55,720 --> 00:39:58,480 when shit goes crazy. Yeah. 794 00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,160 You need to be able to talk to people and a lot of people don't 795 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:03,960 understand that. And when I was talking to these 796 00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,000 kids, I mean there were sixty of them there and they all took 797 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,920 that 12 Shapes quiz. And then after that one I did a 798 00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:13,400 whole like breakout session with them and. 799 00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,320 It was crazy. Like I could see from physical 800 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,760 features, like who they were and I knew them from their face. 801 00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,760 I'm like, oh, you're this, and this is this and this, and you 802 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,800 do these things right? And they just look like I 803 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,120 snatched their soul out. But why? 804 00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,080 It was so crazy because if I was a kid, they wouldn't have 805 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:31,600 somebody like that talking to them. 806 00:40:32,240 --> 00:40:36,040 Because you have to imagine what the world would be like for all 807 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,000 those people. Because if we you couldn't 808 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:43,560 communicate in memes or texting, I mean if there's a massive EMP 809 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,040 whatever all electricity went out, well you guys wouldn't be 810 00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,960 listening to this because this shit won't work, no. 811 00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:50,920 But like well, you can see us that the if. 812 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:56,720 We know how to do is communicate in memes or like HRU. 813 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:58,640 You know you know all. These questions you're like. 814 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,640 And then thousands of years in the future, they're finding 815 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,160 these paintings of like emojis. Yeah, and you're like, what the 816 00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:06,160 fuck? This. 817 00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:07,680 This is how they talk. This is how they talk. 818 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,120 Language that they use. For reals but I'm like how would 819 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:14,200 they communicate because they they literally, well I just send 820 00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,800 memes back and forth to my friends. 821 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:20,120 Or dude, the the language that is used like it it it is it 822 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:24,000 always like every generation it gets like way more complex. 823 00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:26,760 They read these things. What the hell is a Skippity Ohio 824 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,280 riz? I don't know. 825 00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:29,760 It must have been this. Really. 826 00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,240 You know, for me. I'd be it's an ancient spell. 827 00:41:32,240 --> 00:41:34,600 When I heard Skippity. Oh my God. 828 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:38,000 You know where I went to because of where I heard that a long 829 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,480 time ago. Not Adam Sandler, Skippity Doo. 830 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,960 He would say stuff like that. And I'm like. 831 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,080 Waterboy, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 832 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:49,320 But no, no waterboy. It was like Billy Melissa. 833 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,080 Yeah. It's. 834 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:51,440 Scibbity do. Yeah. 835 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,400 And and that's the thing. It's like when my daughter said 836 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,160 that she goes, oh that's Scibbity toilet. 837 00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,920 Right. What the fuck is a scibbity? 838 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,440 And I'm like, I know what Scibbity do is and she's like, 839 00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:05,680 like. Right. 840 00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,280 She's like, what? What are you talking about, Dad? 841 00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,920 What? Are you talking about and she's 842 00:42:09,240 --> 00:42:12,960 and all these other things like drippy and rizz? 843 00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:17,360 Yeah. But bricked up, like for me, 844 00:42:17,360 --> 00:42:21,240 bricked up means like I think that I've got like a massive 845 00:42:21,240 --> 00:42:24,840 turd blocked up and I can't shit Yeah, but it's not right. 846 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:28,440 It's a hard on. And and my son was like my 15 847 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:31,400 year old, someone of my twins, he's like, he's like, yeah, that 848 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,680 guy totally thought he was being that girl. 849 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,240 Thought he was bricked up. And I'm like, I couldn't take a 850 00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:39,480 shit. My sucked Dick goes no, yeah, 851 00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,320 like just obvious autistic kid. And he goes no. 852 00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:46,600 And I'm like, no. And he goes, no, that's stupid. 853 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,920 If you think it was that, I'm like, OK, well, what is it? 854 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,920 He goes, it's a hard on. And I'm like, OK, cool. 855 00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:55,240 And and what's cool too is that I don't filter my son. 856 00:42:55,240 --> 00:42:56,160 I don't say, hey, watch your mouth. 857 00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,520 Like when he gets aggressive with his language, I'm like, OK, 858 00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,920 you need to take it down. Oh yeah. 859 00:43:00,240 --> 00:43:02,120 Like he'll be like, I don't know what the fuck you want me to do. 860 00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,200 And I'm like, hey, yeah, you will watch your mouth. 861 00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:10,080 Right. Speak with respect, but it's I 862 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:11,240 don't even know where I was going with that. 863 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,640 That's okay I I'm the same way like and I realized because 864 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:19,000 growing up my parents were like there's no swearing allowed 865 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,920 unless my dad was mad and really pissed in which case he was 866 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,160 allowed to curse some but nothing past that. 867 00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,640 No one else wore and if you did you probably got well. 868 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,640 I did get my ass paddled when I did swear. 869 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,120 Your your your upbringing. Sounds like a comedy show if we 870 00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:34,680 put a comedy spin on it. God. 871 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,440 It could be, it could be hilarious and we put a comedy 872 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,400 spin on it. But you have to be rated R 873 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,720 because this kids always being beat up named Curtis. 874 00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:48,000 It's like, no, it's only on Max. It's only on Max. 875 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:52,040 It is on Max, right? He's just like everybody hates 876 00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:54,320 Curtis. Right, it's just called the 877 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:57,720 Elders. The elder elders, elders, the 878 00:43:57,720 --> 00:44:00,520 elders, they're just like, this is going to be about elderly 879 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:01,960 people. No. 880 00:44:02,720 --> 00:44:05,800 And like you're, you know, this person is the mother. 881 00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,840 She's like always, constantly like, you know all. 882 00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:12,560 Of my friends were terrified of my mom growing up everyone. 883 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:16,120 And I was like, what? Even when I was 21, I was out 884 00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,560 knocking doors in Kentucky with my buddy Aaron. 885 00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:22,760 And he knew me since I was four. Maybe we we grew up together and 886 00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:26,720 he, we were going out there and he was like, yeah, always been 887 00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:28,280 afraid of your mom. I was like, what the hell are 888 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,280 you talking about? She's like 100 lbs with her army 889 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:35,040 boots on and soaking wet like. And he was like, Oh, no, she was 890 00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,480 just always seemed so angry and so like control it and like, oh, 891 00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,720 I mean, everything had to be done a specific way and, you 892 00:44:41,720 --> 00:44:44,080 know, her way and but that's just. 893 00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:46,920 Sorry about that. You know, I feel like lots of 894 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,880 people had parents that were. Well, I mean, considering who 895 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,960 her mom was, I mean. Narcissistic. 896 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,520 Yeah, she was a spitting image when it came to that. 897 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,800 Like, you know, if you had to do this her way. 898 00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,920 And it was, and I only imagine like your mom, like if there was 899 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:04,080 like some commercial that came on with the bikini on and she'd 900 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,160 step in front of the TV. She would hold up a blanket over 901 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,200 the TV. The movies that they bought 902 00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:13,480 weren't edited by the editing company here locally they my mom 903 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,600 would literally stand up with a blanket and cover the TV during 904 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,080 like a bikini scene or someone you know in their bra and 905 00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:23,360 panties or something. And then after that, get a warm 906 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,680 washcloth, wash out your eyes, get that sight out of you. 907 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:30,760 And then like they bought this DVD player for downstairs where 908 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,000 the projector was that would edit out swear words. 909 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:37,840 Out of the movie, so that one. When it would say sex, it would 910 00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:41,560 mute it and put hugs. So it would have a subject. 911 00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:43,920 Yeah. So it would have a subtitle for 912 00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:47,600 that one, like sentence that it bleeped out and it would put a 913 00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,560 different sentence in that area. So it'd be like, oh, we just had 914 00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,920 the best hugs or, you know, whatever, We're going to get 915 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,040 some really nasty hugs, whatever it was. 916 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,640 And so we just, we started laughing about that because we 917 00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,560 knew what it was saying, but we're just like, OK, yeah. 918 00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,680 So we'd start making jokes about that. 919 00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:06,120 And it would always, it would do that for like swear words and 920 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,600 that too. Like this is the weirdest shit. 921 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,440 That would be That's a Mystery Science Theater 3000. 922 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,560 Shit, you ever seen that that show? 923 00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:14,720 No. Oh my God I got to show you some 924 00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:18,520 clips but no dude that made me laugh like. 925 00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:20,960 When I was, Oh my God, it's crazy. 926 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:25,480 I had a weird childhood when there was I was downstairs 927 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:28,000 playing pool, the girl that I was dating when I was like 928 00:46:28,720 --> 00:46:36,000 probably 18 and my mom sent down Thomas, who's maybe 12 or 13 to 929 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,320 hang out in the basement so that I wasn't alone in the basement 930 00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,880 with a girl. And that's what would happen is 931 00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:46,000 my mom would send down another sibling or if we were watching 932 00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:48,320 movies, she'd come down and like, you have to be under 933 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,520 separate blankets. You can't be under the same 934 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:54,920 blanket. Like they were just very sick 935 00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:57,360 now kind of, you know, household so. 936 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:02,040 Well, it's so funny because the more, and it's just like any 937 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,320 person, right? The more oppression you put onto 938 00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:08,160 them, eventually they're going to snap and they're going to be 939 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:14,080 like complete, like the the old standby around here in Utah is 940 00:47:14,080 --> 00:47:16,920 like the Bishop's daughter. She's always all four. 941 00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,520 Yeah, she's always like, really all. 942 00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:23,560 Yeah, she's always giving it up. She's down for whatever it's. 943 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,520 The Bishop's daughter. You're like, usually the Bishop 944 00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,440 stars like, Yeah. And like, I have a friend. 945 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,800 I've had several friends that became bishops, and one of them, 946 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:34,520 Eric, he was just. I was like, man, how's it going 947 00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:35,960 being Bishop? He goes, oh, it's good. 948 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,800 He's like, but I got the stereotypical Bishop's daughter, 949 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,240 and I'm like a little rambunctious. 950 00:47:41,240 --> 00:47:43,600 He goes sleeping with every guy she meets. 951 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,000 Rambunctious. Yeah, rambunctious. 952 00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:49,800 And I was like, Oh my gosh. I'm like, I have a niece like 953 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,440 that supposedly, and it scares the shit out of me because 954 00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,240 you're a you. Repeat history. 955 00:47:55,240 --> 00:47:56,560 Yeah, that's all I'm worried about. 956 00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,680 And I'm like, he's too young to be a grandpa right now. 957 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,760 Like, I know. I mean, I'm sure it's probably 958 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,240 pretty close to around the time my dad was because Curtis was 959 00:48:05,240 --> 00:48:07,800 super young when he had his first SO. 960 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,480 Yeah, and mom was his. The the mom was very young. 961 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,560 Yeah. So it was like, Oh my gosh. 962 00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:16,560 It's it, dude, it's and I don't worry about with my kid, you 963 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:22,000 know, a lot of that dealing with is I am, I've, I've got a 964 00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,480 partner that we work on our marriage together openly and we 965 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,600 work together and as a, as a team. 966 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:32,640 And we give them a really good example as far as like what a 967 00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,120 marriage can be like. Even when we have disagreements, 968 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:39,640 they can see that and it's it's few and far between because we 969 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,480 know that it's just people and that we're going to act. 970 00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:43,960 I mean, I'm more open about it now. 971 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:46,120 If I start being a Dick and I'm like, I don't know what's going 972 00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,600 on. Something's up in my mind. 973 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,360 I'm going to check my blood sugar because maybe it's my 974 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:50,680 blood sugar. It could be low. 975 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:53,240 And I'm like, I'm sorry, I'm, I'm nitpicking. 976 00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,160 I'll leave you alone and I go away. 977 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:56,600 And I would never do that before. 978 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:02,840 And it's really, I've seen a good interaction because my kids 979 00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,800 are more open with me now because of that. 980 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:09,760 And they're talking more about their personal lives, like, you 981 00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:13,960 know, yeah, my oldest was, you know, having sex with this girl. 982 00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:17,480 And I'm like, yeah, you know what? 983 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:20,560 He got to 17. I'm pretty proud of him. 984 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,360 Yeah. Because I was younger than that. 985 00:49:24,480 --> 00:49:25,600 Really. Yeah. 986 00:49:25,840 --> 00:49:29,760 And I started fooling around, but I didn't lose my virginity 987 00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:33,600 till I was 18. So I yeah, I was just. 988 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:36,400 I don't know. Well, I mean, but you know, 989 00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,800 that's kind of a tale as old as time, right? 990 00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:44,200 You know, I mean, young love and shit happens and you're feeling 991 00:49:44,200 --> 00:49:45,640 stuff and you're like, this feels real. 992 00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,080 Pretty awesome. You want to do this all the 993 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,320 time. We used to do it all the time. 994 00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:52,440 Why aren't we doing this all the? 995 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,120 Time. Yeah. 996 00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:55,240 I don't even know why we eat. Yeah, right. 997 00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,320 We should just get protein shakes with the Yeah, you 998 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:00,480 imagine that. Coffee, protein shakes, we stay 999 00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,840 awake all day. Coffee and protein shakes. 1000 00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:08,200 That sounds like the perfect mix of just farting, right? 1001 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,000 Imagine that you're mid stroke. I don't want. 1002 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:16,080 To and you're all sweaty, your ass cheeks clap from the fart. 1003 00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,480 But you guys are like this feels so amazing. 1004 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:22,040 I don't want to stop, but that's when you're young. 1005 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:23,440 Teenage you're. Totally. 1006 00:50:23,440 --> 00:50:25,600 It's a new excitement of what's this new toy? 1007 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,600 But they think really deeply about their relationships that 1008 00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:33,560 they have with people now, like my daughter, this kid just kind 1009 00:50:33,560 --> 00:50:36,480 of wanted to be her boyfriend and kind of assert himself. 1010 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:38,920 And she's so nice. And she's like, how do I tell 1011 00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:40,720 him to go away? And I'm like, you just tell him 1012 00:50:40,720 --> 00:50:42,760 like, Hey, I'd like you, you're an awesome guy. 1013 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:45,880 But I'm not, I don't, I don't want to be that way with you. 1014 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,400 I'm too young for that. And this is not my thing. 1015 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:50,720 But we can be cool friends. I'm I'm cool with that. 1016 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,080 And that kid was really hurt. And I'm like. 1017 00:50:53,480 --> 00:50:55,160 Yeah, they will be. He's 12. 1018 00:50:56,240 --> 00:51:00,840 So Addie has a friend. And I guess that friend liked 1019 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:03,560 another friend of theirs months and months and months ago. 1020 00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:05,920 But then it said, oh, I like someone else now. 1021 00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:09,960 And you know, so Addie was like knew that one of these friends 1022 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:13,280 like someone else. So she was like, oh, and now 1023 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,080 those two are dating and the other friend that used to like 1024 00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:19,360 that one is upset and got upset at daddy. 1025 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,920 Like, oh, you hurt me because you connected them and I bought 1026 00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,360 a necklace for her three months ago and was going to give it to 1027 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:27,440 them on Valentine's Day because I still like them. 1028 00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:30,240 Well, you didn't tell me that and now you're. 1029 00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,400 And so she was like, I'm not going to be friends with you or 1030 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,920 talk to you because you hurt me and I don't want to. 1031 00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,640 And I was like, what? I'm like, honey, she's, she's 1032 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,400 12. You know what, though? 1033 00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:42,920 The adults do that too. They're just. 1034 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:46,320 They're just. Some children are children and 1035 00:51:46,320 --> 00:51:49,800 some adults are children. Well, it's not, it's just, it's 1036 00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:53,760 just a lack of understanding. Like your daughter's very self 1037 00:51:53,760 --> 00:51:56,920 aware of what's going on and she doesn't understand why. 1038 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,920 I mean, I guarantee she has those moments, which is like, 1039 00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,120 why is that chick like that's the dumbest thing ever. 1040 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,160 Like I didn't do anything. And it is it's this weird, 1041 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,160 stupid thing that people do all the time. 1042 00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:08,600 They're like, oh, you associated this with that. 1043 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:12,760 Like, why I laughed was I saw this guy was talking about how 1044 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,720 he took this woman on a date and, you know, he was having a 1045 00:52:16,720 --> 00:52:20,200 good time and all that stuff. And the woman goes just so you 1046 00:52:20,200 --> 00:52:23,320 know, I don't give it up on the first date, OK. 1047 00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:24,880 And he's like, I was all pissed off. 1048 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,440 I'm like, what? What the hell? 1049 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,320 First of all, I was pissed off. I'm like, why are you just 1050 00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:29,720 assuming? I'm thinking we hooking up. 1051 00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:32,800 Yeah, but while we had it, why don't you give it up on the 1052 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:35,160 first day? And she just goes, well, see, I 1053 00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:36,800 got a lot going on in my life right now. 1054 00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:41,240 And you know, I, I don't want to like give it up. 1055 00:52:41,240 --> 00:52:43,600 And then all of a sudden you don't next day, you don't call 1056 00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:44,720 me. You don't want to be around me 1057 00:52:44,720 --> 00:52:47,440 no more. So, you know, that's why I don't 1058 00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:49,240 give it up on the first date. And he goes, all right, all 1059 00:52:49,240 --> 00:52:52,080 right. And then the check came really 1060 00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:58,480 fast and the check was $190.00. And he looked at it and he said, 1061 00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:01,720 well, I only ate. He looked at what he ate and he 1062 00:53:01,720 --> 00:53:04,120 only had cheese sticks and two beers. 1063 00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,760 And she spent. Wow. 1064 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:11,840 So she's he's like, all right, well, I'll give you 40 that'll 1065 00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:13,800 cover more than mine. And tip. 1066 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:16,440 Yeah. And she goes, what the fuck? 1067 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,440 He's like, I don't give it up on the first date. 1068 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:21,120 Because, well, you got to understand that I don't pay on 1069 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:26,120 the first date because, you know, I don't want you thinking 1070 00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,680 about all I do is just pay for things. 1071 00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:31,000 And, you know, how am I going to feel? 1072 00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:33,560 I'm going to feel really bad if I I pay for all this, Whether 1073 00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:36,160 that you'd ever talk to me again, because I got a lot going 1074 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:37,760 on in my life right now. Yeah. 1075 00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:41,040 Like, he threw it right back. And it was such a perfect thing. 1076 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:43,720 And that's what people don't realize is they always think 1077 00:53:43,720 --> 00:53:46,440 about themselves like, I'm hurt. Yeah. 1078 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,760 Because you were associated with this. 1079 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:52,000 And it's like, oh, yeah. And and it my smart ass. 1080 00:53:52,000 --> 00:53:53,840 If I was Addie, I would have been like, you know what, You're 1081 00:53:53,840 --> 00:53:55,880 right. And I'm pretty sure you're upset 1082 00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,560 about, you know, that pain you have in your ass because when I 1083 00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,920 took a shit, it was so big it actually kind of tore my asshole 1084 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:04,080 open. So I apologize about that, too. 1085 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,720 They go, what the fuck? And like, yeah, that's how 1086 00:54:06,720 --> 00:54:11,640 ridiculous this connection is. Yeah, I was just like. 1087 00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,160 But adults do that more. Yeah, then that's what I told 1088 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,480 her. I was like, honey, some children 1089 00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,360 are children and adults. Some adults are children because 1090 00:54:19,600 --> 00:54:22,400 some people I was like, they don't know how to emotionally, 1091 00:54:22,520 --> 00:54:25,320 emotionally regulate and they're frustrated or hurt and they're 1092 00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:28,000 taking it on you because, well, it's easier than looking at 1093 00:54:28,000 --> 00:54:29,880 themselves and going. I never told anyone. 1094 00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,680 I never actually went and talked to this person. 1095 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:35,280 And now I'm frustrated because they're with someone else and 1096 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:38,280 now I need to retaliate because otherwise I'm looking at it and 1097 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:39,960 going, hey, you didn't do anything. 1098 00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,320 And that most times we would much rather blame someone else. 1099 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,360 Then we would look at our own ego and go, hey, did you fuck 1100 00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:47,880 up? What's your role in this? 1101 00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:51,160 What did you actually do? Well, if they don't admit, I 1102 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:54,320 mean, if it's clear as day, that's, I mean, I don't even 1103 00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,760 consider that childish. I just consider that stupid 1104 00:54:57,120 --> 00:55:00,280 because that is illogical. That doesn't make any sense. 1105 00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:03,320 And that's not true. But I mean, I could understand 1106 00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:05,840 if they were being childish. Like, well, that's not fair and 1107 00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,280 I'm not playing with you today. Like, OK, that's pretty 1108 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:10,960 childish, but that's just stupidity because I started 1109 00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,880 thinking about that. Like, how many people do you, 1110 00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:17,080 you see like it's a it's like that woman who sued McDonald's 1111 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,000 and won millions of dollars because her coffee was hot. 1112 00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:22,640 Have you ever read the whole story around that though? 1113 00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:29,560 So the the lady was like 708090. She was an old lady and it's 1114 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:34,000 been a long time since I've read it, but basically it was, she'd 1115 00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:37,800 gone in originally and she got third degree burns for her first 1116 00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,520 degree, whatever the worst degree burns were. 1117 00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,400 But it was all in her crotch and everything else. 1118 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,160 And all she was requesting originally was just for her 1119 00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:49,360 medical bill covered because it was like way beyond the normal 1120 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:53,040 level of hot, because hot even with coffee won't give you first 1121 00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:57,800 degree burns or whatever it was. And so when she got that her 1122 00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,040 thing, it was like they came back and was like, no, we're not 1123 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,680 going to do it or blah, blah, blah. 1124 00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,840 So that's when it came back with the other case of like, hey, she 1125 00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,840 actually tried. But it came back as, oh, this 1126 00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:09,160 lady bitch. Cause for the longest years and 1127 00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,760 years and years, I was always like, yeah, some lady bitched 1128 00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,880 about her coffee being too hot. And then when I heard that or 1129 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:17,200 read more of it, I was like, I'd never heard that. 1130 00:56:17,720 --> 00:56:21,320 Because, you know, like most of them, I was the person always 1131 00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,640 who would read the headline and go, man, that's fucked up. 1132 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,440 But never spend the time to, you know, read down it or 1133 00:56:27,440 --> 00:56:29,280 investigate it or look more into it. 1134 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:31,920 But then this, like this article or something you haven't 1135 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,800 crossed. And then I actually read it 1136 00:56:34,240 --> 00:56:37,680 because later in life now I found that headlines don't mean 1137 00:56:37,680 --> 00:56:39,760 anything. And I've learned a lot of stuff 1138 00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,960 and headlines is actually incorrect for most of the data 1139 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:47,960 that's actually in the stuff. And so I, I like to look more 1140 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:50,520 into them. You have to check and see, but I 1141 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,160 swear that's what it was was it was like a way more in depth 1142 00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:56,000 thing than just. Oh, I I guarantee that. 1143 00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:58,840 But. And it kind of surprised me 1144 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,080 because I was like, oh. So lay back versus McDonald's in 1145 00:57:02,080 --> 00:57:06,960 94 said the award they awarded her 2.86 million. 1146 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:10,680 So that is reasonable for a lawsuit. 1147 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,800 Nowadays it's hundreds of millions of dollars for like, 1148 00:57:13,800 --> 00:57:17,520 you know, my daughter was told no for something. 1149 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:23,760 And but then again, dude, that's that's the thing that it's taken 1150 00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,080 out of context exactly what you're saying. 1151 00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,040 You hear this, don't realize the context behind it. 1152 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,440 But then the other thing is all these other subsequent lawsuits 1153 00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,920 after that one because it tells people that you can win money. 1154 00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,640 So it's exactly that. Well, it's because it's because 1155 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:40,520 everyone's too happy, because everyone and I think about this. 1156 00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:43,040 Everybody's very. Everyone wants to make quick 1157 00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:46,400 money, whether it's the lottery, whether it's, you know, like 1158 00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:49,920 whatever it is, everyone wants money fast, easy. 1159 00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,600 Now, Hey, could I get something that I didn't work for? 1160 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:54,640 Because we all have dreams and aspirations. 1161 00:57:54,640 --> 00:57:59,200 And it's like, you know, even my girlfriend's dad, I feel like 1162 00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:01,840 he's a pretty level headed, logical person most of the time. 1163 00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:04,960 He, he works really hard. He's set aside good retirement 1164 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,520 stuff like that. And he was still getting caught 1165 00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,920 up in the idea of like, Oh, we, we bought lottery tickets and 1166 00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:15,000 you know, we, we were thinking, oh, if we win, we can buy this 1167 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,760 and this and this and this. And it's like, how many people 1168 00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:19,800 dream like that? Like I, I think it's pretty 1169 00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:25,080 human, but it's that that want that excitement that, that for 1170 00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:28,360 that we're always trying to do that, that it's, you know, the 1171 00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:32,320 sue of like, Oh well, and some people are extremely desperate 1172 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:36,080 or selfish or don't care about anything else that it's like, 1173 00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:38,280 well, could I lie about something and get money? 1174 00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,640 Could I just do this and get money because like, oh, what 1175 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:44,120 could I do? And, and McDonald's doesn't need 1176 00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:45,240 it. They're a billion dollar 1177 00:58:45,240 --> 00:58:47,200 corporation. Like they'll be, they'll be just 1178 00:58:47,200 --> 00:58:50,320 fine or, you know, whatever it is and going well, but how much 1179 00:58:50,320 --> 00:58:52,600 money do I have? And look how big they are. 1180 00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:54,880 They've got more money. They're totally fine. 1181 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:58,880 They can afford this and not realizing well, but yes, 1182 00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,320 McDonald's probably has enough money for that. 1183 00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,800 But how many other companies, how many other companies have, 1184 00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,120 like Armand paw shops or startups? 1185 00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:11,200 And it's like, well, they're taking care of 30 families and 1186 00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:15,000 this multi $1,000,000 lawsuit now took away part of their 1187 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,960 capability to help support those thirty families. 1188 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,760 So then this one person, I imagine, you know, my mind right 1189 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,320 now, pictures Bennett when he had all those families and he 1190 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:26,840 was stressing about like, oh shit, what happens if I have to 1191 00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:30,480 let all these people go? What happens if I can't take 1192 00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,600 like where they're comfortable and I was responsible taking 1193 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,480 care of them. Now I can't and they have to try 1194 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,280 and figure something else out. Like, what does that do to it? 1195 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,040 And like, you know, versus the selfishness of like, well, I 1196 00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:45,240 need or deserve this because, well, they've got more money 1197 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,680 than me and I need money. Well, that's what happens, man. 1198 00:59:48,680 --> 00:59:50,560 I mean, you look at the story of Ray Kroc. 1199 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:53,880 Like at first it was this really cool idea and he thought it'd be 1200 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,520 great to give it to the US and the world. 1201 00:59:56,520 --> 01:00:00,120 And, and what ended up happening, he fucked over the 1202 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,440 McDonald brothers, gave him a small check that they never 1203 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:07,440 cashed. It was like a million or so, but 1204 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,520 the company is worth million because he turned it into a real 1205 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:11,640 estate empire and that's how he was able to take it away from. 1206 01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:14,800 Oh damn. He took it right underneath him 1207 01:00:14,800 --> 01:00:17,800 and these guys didn't want that. What they wanted to do was keep 1208 01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,560 and maintain the integrity of it. 1209 01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:22,400 And he's like, well, you can't mass scale. 1210 01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,880 Yeah, you can't do this and that at the same time. 1211 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:27,800 And the way it worked, like he, you know, he would tell people 1212 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,200 like, you're going to do it my way. 1213 01:00:29,800 --> 01:00:32,880 And he was smart about it. He was very smart about it. 1214 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:39,400 That however, because of greed, like even his first wife, his 1215 01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:44,520 first wife left him and he made sure that she couldn't get 1216 01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,840 anything. No, you were married to me 1217 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:52,600 before McDonald's, so you're you're not entitled to any 1218 01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:55,200 totally fucked her. I think he left her a house, 1219 01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,400 gave her the house that she was living in and that's it. 1220 01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:01,840 And then he ended up he was nicest one woman that he met 1221 01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:04,440 that the bot franchises her and her husband and she left her 1222 01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,120 husband for him. Of course. 1223 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:08,400 Yeah. And it just went on and on and 1224 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,280 on like that. Like it just you realize that 1225 01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:15,960 the heart of every giant company comes a real greedy, sadistic 1226 01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,960 sick fucker. You know Mark Zuckerberg is not 1227 01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,840 the sweetest weird dude. Like he's not. 1228 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,920 Neither is Bill Gates, neither was Steve Jobs, neither is Elon 1229 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:30,240 Musk. Like they all make they all cut 1230 01:01:30,240 --> 01:01:33,320 parts of humanity out. Not they don't give up things. 1231 01:01:33,320 --> 01:01:36,800 They cut parts of humanity out of them in order to survive that 1232 01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:42,760 because they are obsessed with innovation at first, and then it 1233 01:01:42,760 --> 01:01:45,240 becomes money. And now I trust Elon a lot more 1234 01:01:45,560 --> 01:01:48,960 because he doesn't care about any of his money. 1235 01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:53,760 And so it's like, OK, well, he's truly showing it. 1236 01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:56,120 But when he was younger, it's all about money. 1237 01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:59,400 How many wives is he? He's got like 15 kids. 1238 01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:02,400 Yeah, I always. My favorite thing about it was 1239 01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:09,840 the mention of when they brought the Tesla Roadster on Top Gear, 1240 01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,720 Tesla's very first car that they put out and they drove it and 1241 01:02:14,720 --> 01:02:17,720 they shit all over it because, well, it was a piece of shit. 1242 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,520 And Elon was a little baby came out and was like, Oh no, you'll 1243 01:02:22,520 --> 01:02:25,280 never have my cars again. Don't talk and like try to 1244 01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:28,600 threaten them with a lawsuit. And they basically gave him the 1245 01:02:28,600 --> 01:02:32,040 middle finger. And it was funny because he's 1246 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,560 like, oh, you're never going to talk about my. 1247 01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:35,320 They're like, we don't want to test an electric car. 1248 01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,320 Yeah. I, I remember that because like 1249 01:02:37,320 --> 01:02:40,920 even at that time, like when he sold PayPal, the first thing he 1250 01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:43,280 bought, he had it shipped to his home, like I think it was in New 1251 01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:45,720 York, was a McLaren. Probably. 1252 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,360 And he was so excited and it was like A1 seater McLaren, you 1253 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:50,760 remember those? No, that's. 1254 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:52,080 Weird. Yeah, it's really crazy. 1255 01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:54,560 But. That, I mean, you think about it 1256 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,760 though, if you have that much money, if you sell a tech 1257 01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:01,920 company, how many kids growing up wanted all of these nice 1258 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:03,600 cars? I had Hot Wheels grandma and 1259 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,040 grandpa bought me, like the model cars and stuff. 1260 01:03:06,280 --> 01:03:08,080 I had Ferraris. I had classic cars. 1261 01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:12,360 I loved those. I loved cars since I was little. 1262 01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:16,920 And if I had sold a company and made insane amounts of money as 1263 01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:21,560 a young egotistical, like fuck, 100%, I would have gone, man, I 1264 01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:23,280 want a Lambo. I want a Ferrari. 1265 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,280 I want this thing. Yeah, let's get that here 1266 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:27,640 because it would have just been like, this is my dream that I've 1267 01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:30,920 always wanted, and I never really put a lot of thought into 1268 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,160 it. Now I have no desire to own one 1269 01:03:33,160 --> 01:03:35,000 of those. It seems like a waste of money, 1270 01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,120 a waste of space. I don't really have a place in 1271 01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:39,760 that to drive it to effectively use that. 1272 01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:43,360 It seems like a waste. Yeah, but I'd be at the same 1273 01:03:43,360 --> 01:03:45,400 time, but I. Could rent one and it would be 1274 01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:47,680 fun as hell to go to a track and drive one day. 1275 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:49,840 But you know, that's, that's me now. 1276 01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:52,200 And I've looked at it and like, well, I feel like I've also 1277 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:56,200 grown a lot as a person in the last 20 years and. 1278 01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,320 I, I think you can get something like that and then, you know, 1279 01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:02,360 when you go without, it's good. But it, it's the one thing, it's 1280 01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:07,640 also like a, it's a cautionary tale because it's like, Hey, 1281 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:10,560 remember that this cycle can happen again. 1282 01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:16,240 So don't overdo it. And if you, you're starting to 1283 01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,920 succeed because it takes time, right? 1284 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:23,720 That's what I love about all of these SAS companies failing 1285 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,000 right now. I know if you are employee one, 1286 01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,720 I'm sorry. It has nothing to do with you. 1287 01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,080 It has everything to do with how the business was structured. 1288 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:36,000 And the more these companies are going under, that's good because 1289 01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:39,760 it's showing that people don't spend frivolously when you take 1290 01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,480 it away. So it's like, OK, what do I 1291 01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:47,520 truly want? Like I, I am like I, oh, man, I 1292 01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:51,680 probably go out to eat four times a year on my own to buy 1293 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:53,080 it. Yeah, maybe. 1294 01:04:53,360 --> 01:04:56,840 And it's small. Not because I don't enjoy it, 1295 01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:00,040 it's because it's wasteful. I don't it. 1296 01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:08,040 Is when you pay when you pay 10 to $30 per person for a normal 1297 01:05:08,040 --> 01:05:12,360 meal versus being able to make a meal for a family for. 1298 01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,680 Which is a is a dying art too. A lot of people, even though 1299 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:17,680 there's all these fucking cooking shows now, everybody. 1300 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,120 'S like us, yeah. No one cooks. 1301 01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:22,360 It's interesting. I'm like, I don't know or even 1302 01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:24,800 like the cooking they do. You know, I look in them like 1303 01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:26,920 Alec is cooking at home sometimes and stuff. 1304 01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,440 But it's most of it I feel like is like, hey, this comes from 1305 01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,680 the freezer. It's like not a lot of really. 1306 01:05:32,680 --> 01:05:35,960 Tons of preservatives and shit. Like, oh, here's some chicken 1307 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:38,160 Nuggets, here's some this, here's some chicken patties. 1308 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:41,480 We'll make sandwiches with like not a lot of cooking cooking, 1309 01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:43,960 but a lot of just like here, let's heat up this thing that's 1310 01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:47,080 you know, and I'm like, that's fine. 1311 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:50,040 My sister cooks. She does quite a bit of cooking 1312 01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:54,960 but also she does I think a lot of pre done stuff from Costco or 1313 01:05:54,960 --> 01:05:59,120 other places that's just already made because she is a nurse and 1314 01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:04,160 does other jobs on the side too. Like she just has too much time 1315 01:06:04,160 --> 01:06:04,840 on her hands. She's. 1316 01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,680 Got a She's got a lot of your dad in her. 1317 01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:08,640 Yeah. Alec does too. 1318 01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,200 We talked about that yesterday when I was helping my dad 1319 01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:14,640 because he was like, oh, yeah, my, I have a gay cousin. 1320 01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:21,240 He married, he's married now. And he, my dad was saying, oh, 1321 01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,320 he was talking to him and asking about his childhood. 1322 01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:27,440 And that was saying that his dad was always nice but always 1323 01:06:27,440 --> 01:06:28,840 working. And his mom was very 1324 01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:30,880 controlling. And, you know, this, this, this 1325 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,720 and had to be a certain way and, and all this stuff. 1326 01:06:33,720 --> 01:06:37,840 And I was like, okay. And he's like, yeah, now his 1327 01:06:37,840 --> 01:06:40,160 daddy's realizing and regretting that and trying to build a 1328 01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,360 relationship. But his kids are 3540, you know, 1329 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,120 and. That's a hairy Chapman song 1330 01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:48,080 right there. Yeah, so trying to figure shit 1331 01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,000 out at that point, but just, you know, I'm like, well, that's 1332 01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:54,440 because you and your brother grew up in the same home and 1333 01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:56,640 both of you guys had trauma cause, well, your dad. 1334 01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:00,440 And what do elders do? Well, when we're stressed, we 1335 01:07:00,440 --> 01:07:02,000 work. When we're bored, we work. 1336 01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:04,120 When we're, you know, angry, we work. 1337 01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,560 When we have this, we work. So what do we do? 1338 01:07:06,560 --> 01:07:09,400 We work. So that's why Bob has the most 1339 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:13,360 like he owns, he created the largest engineering firm here in 1340 01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:15,560 Utah. He designs every temple one. 1341 01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:19,120 He's designing all the electric cities like he's an incredible 1342 01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:23,960 man, really fucking smart. But that's what we do is we 1343 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:25,360 work. And I look at Jackie, I look at 1344 01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:26,920 Alec. It's like the things that it's 1345 01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:28,360 like, oh, we've got time, what are we doing? 1346 01:07:28,360 --> 01:07:29,960 Oh, well, I'm going to go work on something. 1347 01:07:29,960 --> 01:07:31,960 I'm going to go do this. I'm going to go do this because 1348 01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,360 that's what we do. No, and I mean, you know, in in 1349 01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:37,760 a, in like a community that's awesome. 1350 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,600 Like, you know, if shit went to that's why I love about Utah. 1351 01:07:40,600 --> 01:07:43,800 I mean, you can say what you want about the people, but you 1352 01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:47,600 know, in crazy times, they know how to gather together and get 1353 01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:52,680 shit done pretty quickly. But at the same time, it's you 1354 01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:56,280 want people like that in your society that are hard workers 1355 01:07:56,280 --> 01:07:58,840 and want to do that. But they also need to be taught 1356 01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,920 that, hey, you need to learn how to deal with your emotions. 1357 01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:03,800 You can. You don't have to stop working, 1358 01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:06,560 but you also need to address what you're doing instead of 1359 01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:08,840 just being angry all the time. Oh, yeah. 1360 01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:11,120 And it's just a lot of times what I've learned is that these 1361 01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:14,240 people feel misunderstood. Well I'm surprised, See it's 1362 01:08:14,240 --> 01:08:17,279 more over time. He's definitely not as angry 1363 01:08:17,279 --> 01:08:19,520 now. No, they slow down and get 1364 01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,080 amnesia when they get older. Yeah, definitely. 1365 01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:24,840 There's moments of things that I'm like talking to my dad and 1366 01:08:24,840 --> 01:08:28,640 like this was really hard and he's like, oh, I don't, I don't 1367 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:30,920 remember that. I'm like, yeah, he's like, that 1368 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:32,840 didn't happen. I'm like, dad, I will text all 1369 01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:35,279 of our siblings right now. Every single one will confirm 1370 01:08:35,279 --> 01:08:38,600 this. I said 100%, I'm sorry you don't 1371 01:08:38,600 --> 01:08:39,880 remember it. Or maybe I'm. 1372 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:41,399 I'm happy for you that you don't. 1373 01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:46,080 But like, it still happened, you know? 1374 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:50,520 And it's just, I mean, at the same time as we get older, maybe 1375 01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:52,960 we don't remember every single memory, you know, and there's 1376 01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:55,240 things that we don't remember and someone else is like, oh, do 1377 01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:59,640 you remember this? Oh shit, I forgot you know, and 1378 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:03,359 I I don't know I've never been 60 yet so I have no idea or it's 1379 01:09:03,399 --> 01:09:05,200 bullshit. Have his brain damage that he 1380 01:09:05,359 --> 01:09:06,920 has. No, there's no brain damage. 1381 01:09:06,920 --> 01:09:08,880 It's just it's perception, right? 1382 01:09:08,920 --> 01:09:12,040 Oh no, his has like half his brain, has no electrical current 1383 01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:13,560 through it. He's had brain scans and that 1384 01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:15,560 yeah, he has like half a working brain. 1385 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:18,479 What happened? Brain damage from accidents, 1386 01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:23,640 from all the stuff from probably abuse of his dad and that like, 1387 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:25,359 yeah, so. That explains a lot. 1388 01:09:25,359 --> 01:09:28,760 They've said that he has, like all sorts of. 1389 01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:30,560 TBI and all that other fun stuff. 1390 01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:33,319 That's what's crazy to me was like he's had this brain damage 1391 01:09:33,319 --> 01:09:36,200 for years and then the entire home he just built he did that 1392 01:09:36,399 --> 01:09:38,439 with. I mean, it's not going to take. 1393 01:09:38,439 --> 01:09:42,359 His like faculties from him, but he's definitely like stunted in 1394 01:09:42,359 --> 01:09:45,960 other areas because he's not able to pick up on certain 1395 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:48,560 things. Or maybe long term memory could 1396 01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:51,120 be an issue just not being able to see it yet. 1397 01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:53,960 I have no idea. And because he's repeated 1398 01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,560 construction things so many times over and over and over, 1399 01:09:56,560 --> 01:09:59,520 his body and his brain just know what to do when they see these 1400 01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:00,160 things. So it's. 1401 01:10:00,480 --> 01:10:03,320 I'm really impressed cause a lot of it like his calculations and 1402 01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:05,760 stuff, he's really good and he does it in his head still and 1403 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:07,400 like so there's a lot of things that I'm. 1404 01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:10,920 Just he has that gift. I'm like, OK, this is like he 1405 01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,520 seems all there in some aspects, but then other things I'm like, 1406 01:10:14,440 --> 01:10:19,200 you know, maybe you know, but. Well, yeah, my, my dad turned 72 1407 01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:21,960 this year. And you know, my brother and I, 1408 01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:27,040 we had lunch for my birthday and, and my dad came with us and 1409 01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:29,160 he's like, yeah, my, I have to tell my daughters. 1410 01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:33,040 Like that sweet old man over there was not so sweet when he 1411 01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:36,360 was younger. And he's, he thinks he fucking 1412 01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:38,280 forgot all of that shit, but I didn't. 1413 01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:40,280 And I was like, oh, yeah. And he goes, do you remember 1414 01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:42,760 that time when dad was on top of you fucking punching you? 1415 01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:46,640 And dude, it came to me. I totally repressed it, but I 1416 01:10:46,760 --> 01:10:48,600 relived it. I remember why. 1417 01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:52,400 And my brother jumped on him and socked him in the side of the 1418 01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:55,680 head. And it took my dad's attention. 1419 01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:57,200 Wayne, what are you doing? Got mad. 1420 01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:00,360 Like, don't you touch him? And my brother always was like, 1421 01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:04,240 why didn't you beat him up? Because you knew how to from way 1422 01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,800 younger. And I was like, I just couldn't. 1423 01:11:06,960 --> 01:11:10,360 Not until it was like 18 when we finally went to blows and it 1424 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:13,360 didn't go very well for him. Then after that, it was like 1425 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:18,800 when we're done and no more arguments, but it it was this 1426 01:11:18,800 --> 01:11:22,920 perception that I had to have that my father is right because 1427 01:11:22,920 --> 01:11:27,000 he's an adult and because I'm only getting this because I 1428 01:11:27,000 --> 01:11:30,480 deserved it because I didn't listen or I did something like 1429 01:11:30,480 --> 01:11:32,520 when I was a kid throwing rocks across street. 1430 01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:34,840 Yeah, it was dumb thing to do, but we're kids. 1431 01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:39,520 Like I was literally 7 and we're throwing rocks across the street 1432 01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:43,080 to each other's yard. It's not a busy Rd. over by 1433 01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:46,440 Timpanogos Elementary. You know that road that goes 1434 01:11:46,440 --> 01:11:49,280 alongside it and if you go down it you can go to the park? 1435 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,280 No idea. We go around, you would know 1436 01:11:51,280 --> 01:11:54,800 where it's at. But anyways, I throw this rock 1437 01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:56,920 because we're trying to get the biggest rock onto each other's 1438 01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:58,600 lawn. This kid named Koramelot 1439 01:11:58,600 --> 01:12:01,720 Malachi, and he threw one, I threw one. 1440 01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:03,160 I got a bigger one to try to throw it over. 1441 01:12:03,480 --> 01:12:06,560 It doesn't even make it halfway across the road. 1442 01:12:06,920 --> 01:12:11,360 Skips on the ground. Just as this old VW bugs going 1443 01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:16,600 by and it pops up, hits his muffler, muffler comes to tach, 1444 01:12:16,600 --> 01:12:20,760 slides on the ground and Corey runs into his house. 1445 01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:23,560 And I ran to the backyard and hit between the shed and this 1446 01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:26,640 chain link fence and I was like sandwich stand. 1447 01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:29,160 I'm like, nobody hear me. Then I start hearing my dad yell 1448 01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,120 my three, my my full name. And then he starts yelling and 1449 01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:36,480 swearing in Spanish. And I'm like, oh shit, I'm about 1450 01:12:36,480 --> 01:12:37,880 I'm about moving. I'm about moving. 1451 01:12:37,880 --> 01:12:41,840 Then all the sudden what? Grabbed me by my hair, pulled me 1452 01:12:41,840 --> 01:12:47,480 out, brought me to the man. He says, did you do this? 1453 01:12:47,480 --> 01:12:51,920 And the guy's holding his muffler and the guy's and I, and 1454 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:56,960 I said yes. And he just, my dad threw me to 1455 01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:01,120 the ground. And the guy's just like, you 1456 01:13:01,120 --> 01:13:04,440 know what, let it go. I'll tell you I can fix this. 1457 01:13:04,440 --> 01:13:08,520 But whatever's coming to you, I wouldn't want to be you. 1458 01:13:09,600 --> 01:13:14,400 And that was what was said. And I got my ass beeped, but it 1459 01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,880 wasn't that. I learned a lesson of don't 1460 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:19,760 throw rocks across the road. What I learned is get out of 1461 01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:25,280 there as fast as you can. Don't get caught and don't tell 1462 01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:27,600 your parents. So I was taught at a young age 1463 01:13:27,600 --> 01:13:30,240 not to tell them anything. Yeah, because you didn't. 1464 01:13:30,720 --> 01:13:33,680 I, I talked with his to my dad yesterday and I was like, it's, 1465 01:13:34,080 --> 01:13:36,280 you know, a lot of people or kids don't come and talk to 1466 01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:39,920 their parents because they don't feel safe because their parents 1467 01:13:40,200 --> 01:13:45,080 are not a safe spot. We think we are, but it's the 1468 01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:48,760 reactions, the things they say. Oh, well, we reacted and got 1469 01:13:48,760 --> 01:13:50,520 pissed off. Well, we grounded them for that. 1470 01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:53,240 Well, they were just trying to be honest and go, this is the 1471 01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:55,240 experience I'm experiencing as a child. 1472 01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:57,920 This is what happened. You're supposed to be my safe 1473 01:13:57,920 --> 01:13:59,800 spot. Well, when you're safe spot that 1474 01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:03,000 loves you and the love they give is violence and abuse. 1475 01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:05,240 And that well what is love to you? 1476 01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:06,920 Violence and abuse. Yeah. 1477 01:14:07,280 --> 01:14:10,760 And it's not falling in line. Well, I'm gonna get hit 'cause 1478 01:14:10,760 --> 01:14:13,480 that's what love is. And it's. 1479 01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,960 That doesn't teach or pass down. And I was talking right down. 1480 01:14:16,960 --> 01:14:19,680 I'm like, it just creates generational trauma and then you 1481 01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:22,120 have a trauma that's passed down and if you're not addressing it, 1482 01:14:22,120 --> 01:14:24,320 then you're passing it down. Yeah, but it's almost 1483 01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,200 unavoidable. You're gonna get this is no 1484 01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,160 one's gonna get out unscathed. But I was like, most people 1485 01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:32,280 probably have that, but how many people don't actually try and 1486 01:14:32,280 --> 01:14:35,120 work on that or even know that they have that as well? 1487 01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,800 Well, and it's hard to I mean, especially, you know, the one 1488 01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:41,600 term I really can't stand now more never is narcissism because 1489 01:14:41,920 --> 01:14:43,880 a lot of people say, well, they're just being narcissist or 1490 01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:47,240 you mean selfish right now. If they were narcissist they 1491 01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:49,840 would have a wake of destruction behind. 1492 01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:55,320 Every human has a narcissistic trait or traits of some sort or 1493 01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:58,200 like tendencies. Maybe that it's like that was a 1494 01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:00,400 little narcissistic, but it's not. 1495 01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:02,800 They as a person are a narcissist. 1496 01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,760 Yeah, but it's all it's, it's even then, though, now that that 1497 01:15:05,760 --> 01:15:09,000 term's been thrown around, I'd rather just call it the simple 1498 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:10,440 fashion. You're being a selfish fuck. 1499 01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:16,800 Can you stop? But it, it's, it, it just people 1500 01:15:17,400 --> 01:15:23,040 have learned to put it off like debt or anything else. 1501 01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:26,400 I'll just throw it away. And it doesn't come out until 1502 01:15:26,400 --> 01:15:28,360 much later. And that's, I think there's a 1503 01:15:28,360 --> 01:15:33,480 lot of suicide because of no one teaching others that you can 1504 01:15:33,480 --> 01:15:36,360 talk about these things. I think we're seeing a lot of 1505 01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:39,240 marriage break up because you're not supposed to work on it. 1506 01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:42,280 It's either works or it doesn't. And. 1507 01:15:42,360 --> 01:15:45,560 I think marriage is a weird thing because so many people go 1508 01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:49,040 into it with either like this is the person I want you to become 1509 01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:54,440 or I never want you to change and both of those never happen. 1510 01:15:54,760 --> 01:15:57,320 Someone changes. You know one way or the other. 1511 01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,320 Someone changes or both of you. Well, you grow. 1512 01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:01,120 You mean you don't stop growing just because you become an 1513 01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:04,000 adult? Yeah, so it's like, so there's 1514 01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:08,200 it's been months, but Emily Wood had sent me Tik Toks forever ago 1515 01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:10,560 and there's this couple on there and I really liked what they did 1516 01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:14,000 because they're like, you know, we're in a relationship and 1517 01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:15,920 we've been here for years and we love each other. 1518 01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:19,320 We're married, we're whatever. But we don't just expect that 1519 01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:22,360 things will change either. We just are here together, said 1520 01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:24,800 we actually sit down together every three months, six months, 1521 01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:26,600 whatever it is. And they go over their 1522 01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,360 relationship goals. They have things that they 1523 01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:31,440 actually expect or want to look for in a relationship, if it's 1524 01:16:31,440 --> 01:16:34,480 fitting it, if there's things that changed and they just check 1525 01:16:34,480 --> 01:16:36,560 in and go, hey, where are you as a partner? 1526 01:16:36,560 --> 01:16:38,280 What what things are you looking like? 1527 01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:42,680 Is there things that changed? And I'm like re evaluating, are 1528 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:44,760 we good in our relationship? Are we needing to work on 1529 01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,400 something like do we feel like we want to be together? 1530 01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:50,000 And it's like we don't have to stick together because they 1531 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:52,000 understand people can change and things like that. 1532 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,320 Instead of holding this accountability over their 1533 01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:56,880 relationship, they're holding this like, hey, we're just 1534 01:16:56,880 --> 01:17:00,240 checking in, readapting, going. Is this still good? 1535 01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:03,120 Are you good? I'm good like and checking in 1536 01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:05,920 and going, but I don't think a lot of relationships do that. 1537 01:17:06,200 --> 01:17:08,880 It goes through this thing and then something happens at some 1538 01:17:08,880 --> 01:17:12,640 point resentment builds and then things change and then it builds 1539 01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:16,200 a wedge and then things break, but they're not usually in a 1540 01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:19,640 healthy good break. It's like animosity and pain and 1541 01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:23,480 hurt and, and anger and all this stuff and like, and like 1542 01:17:23,480 --> 01:17:27,600 vengeance and like malicious stuff comes in at that point 1543 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:31,240 versus like, hey, I noticed, I love who you are. 1544 01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:34,680 I love that you're changing and growing, but I'm changing and 1545 01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,920 growing this way. And I noticed that we might be 1546 01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:40,320 coming slightly different people, you know, and, and 1547 01:17:40,320 --> 01:17:42,960 sometimes maybe that that's not every relationship, but. 1548 01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:44,400 No, not at all. But that. 1549 01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,520 You know, maybe there's a healthy way to to navigate that 1550 01:17:47,520 --> 01:17:50,120 versus, you know, we get in a relationship and it's like, 1551 01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,200 well, we're just here now because we are. 1552 01:17:52,440 --> 01:17:55,240 So we're just going to be here forever without ever looking at 1553 01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,600 a relationship and going, hey, is there something more you need 1554 01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:00,680 or something different or like, is there, you know, we've just 1555 01:18:00,680 --> 01:18:03,240 been doing the same routines and habits because we've been in 1556 01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:06,440 this for 10 years, five years, three years, you know, six 1557 01:18:06,440 --> 01:18:09,520 months, whatever it is that you're not actually checking in 1558 01:18:09,520 --> 01:18:13,400 with all these normal things that maybe we we would, could, 1559 01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:17,400 should do to, and that might help navigate better 1560 01:18:17,680 --> 01:18:21,000 relationships or marriages or, you know, and less divorce or 1561 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:23,800 healthier divorces. Well, and it's something to be 1562 01:18:23,800 --> 01:18:27,120 said about it because a lot of the issues too that I see 1563 01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:30,480 currently, not necessarily it's always been, but the hookup 1564 01:18:30,480 --> 01:18:35,040 culture has gotten even crazier now where you got apps and and 1565 01:18:35,040 --> 01:18:39,240 now they've monetized sex to the highest degree beyond porn. 1566 01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:43,160 Now where porn was just a select few of people who fucked around 1567 01:18:43,160 --> 01:18:45,960 in LA and maybe a couple other places. 1568 01:18:45,960 --> 01:18:51,000 Now it's like your bedroom and you get a dildo and a bunch of 1569 01:18:51,000 --> 01:18:55,080 Lube and ching, ching, ching, ching, ching, ching, Ching. 1570 01:18:55,080 --> 01:18:57,720 And you're just like, OK, I do things because you pay me money, 1571 01:18:58,120 --> 01:19:01,040 Like, and they try to justify going, well, it's safer and 1572 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,360 like, yeah, but you don't realize what you're doing to 1573 01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:07,440 yourself. It's, you know, I, I haven't, I 1574 01:19:07,440 --> 01:19:10,600 don't shame anybody if, if they sleep around a lot. 1575 01:19:10,640 --> 01:19:14,160 But if you sleep around purely for the fact, like did you hear 1576 01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:16,600 about this woman in Australia? Probably not. 1577 01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:24,720 Where her goal was to sleep with 118 year olds in a short period 1578 01:19:24,720 --> 01:19:27,320 of time. Honestly, I think and I. 1579 01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:28,920 Think she did a gangbang or something like that. 1580 01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:31,680 Gross. I think in any aspect I'm not a 1581 01:19:31,680 --> 01:19:35,440 fan of the gangbang, but that's just my personal perspective. 1582 01:19:35,440 --> 01:19:37,480 Don't, don't yuck. Someone jumps but for me that's 1583 01:19:37,480 --> 01:19:39,160 not my Yup but. That's the thing, like you, 1584 01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:41,800 you're seeing that and then they're pissed off because 1585 01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:46,800 they're like well I'm not getting my 6 to $200,000 a year 1586 01:19:47,120 --> 01:19:50,520 driving a really cool car and pays for all my shit guy, which 1587 01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:55,200 counts for 0.0002% of the population. 1588 01:19:55,440 --> 01:19:57,960 So it's very unlikely. I think it's just because 1589 01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:01,280 everyone now has this platform where we can. 1590 01:20:01,360 --> 01:20:03,120 We've had this platform for a while. 1591 01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:06,200 No, no, no, I mean TikTok, Instagram, everything is a video 1592 01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:09,720 now that it's like so visible. So this like, oh, this is this 1593 01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:13,560 that we're all so vocal in public with all of our, our 1594 01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:17,080 bitching, our moaning or this and that, that that those types 1595 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:20,040 of people can go, Oh, I'm not happy that this isn't what I'm 1596 01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:22,760 getting. That's fine, because you want 1597 01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:26,280 this and maybe that doesn't want you and that's okay. 1598 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:28,560 You can sit and bitch and moan and complain all you want, but 1599 01:20:28,560 --> 01:20:31,680 at the end of the day that doesn't actually attract those 1600 01:20:31,680 --> 01:20:33,680 types of people to you. All it does is show people who 1601 01:20:33,680 --> 01:20:37,560 you are and then they go, what about that is attractive? 1602 01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:40,120 Why would I want to to be with you? 1603 01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:42,360 Yeah, exactly. You know, but that's the same 1604 01:20:42,360 --> 01:20:44,200 with anything. It's like you get these people 1605 01:20:44,200 --> 01:20:47,560 and they're like, oh girls this girls this dude, you're coming 1606 01:20:47,560 --> 01:20:49,200 off as an arrogant asshole. Fuck. 1607 01:20:49,200 --> 01:20:50,840 Of course a girl's not going to want to be with you. 1608 01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:52,720 It's the same as the women doing the other. 1609 01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:55,760 There's both sides and people look at it and go, you're a 1610 01:20:55,760 --> 01:20:57,960 garbage human. I don't think it matters. 1611 01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:00,640 No one wants to be with you. No. 1612 01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,760 And it's, it's really difficult. I mean, just from the outside 1613 01:21:03,760 --> 01:21:07,280 looking in, like, has my marriage been perfect? 1614 01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:08,640 No marriage has ever been perfect. 1615 01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:11,560 But The thing is, is that we've had disagreements and I don't 1616 01:21:11,560 --> 01:21:14,240 look at perfection because I'm completely content. 1617 01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:17,600 I have no desire to go with anybody else because not because 1618 01:21:17,600 --> 01:21:19,320 I'm bored. Or we have, do we have a lot of 1619 01:21:19,320 --> 01:21:21,640 hardships? We've had a lot of hardships and 1620 01:21:21,640 --> 01:21:25,400 it's still never broke us. But for us, we broke the cycle 1621 01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:28,240 because we saw her dysfunctional parents, my dysfunctional 1622 01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:30,680 parents saying, I really don't want to repeat that. 1623 01:21:30,680 --> 01:21:34,280 That's why I waited so long to get married and because I'd met 1624 01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:35,600 a lot of women that I wanted to marry. 1625 01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,520 And, and it's not like, you know, I want to give it up to 1626 01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:38,880 the government institution over there. 1627 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,280 It's a sign that I want to be with them because a lot of times 1628 01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:45,240 when I see people who've been together for a while and they're 1629 01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:46,680 like, yeah, we're going to be together. 1630 01:21:46,680 --> 01:21:49,760 And then they just separate and they've been together for like 1631 01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:53,280 10-15 years. That's like a marriage. 1632 01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:56,360 It's exactly a marriage. And they're like, well, and then 1633 01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:58,680 the law is like, yeah, you got to split everything other than, 1634 01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:00,720 you know, And then they have kids together. 1635 01:22:01,160 --> 01:22:04,120 And then all of a sudden they act all confused like whoa, who 1636 01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:06,080 gets them? But at that point, you should 1637 01:22:06,080 --> 01:22:09,880 know because if you live in any state, like, I don't know the 1638 01:22:09,880 --> 01:22:12,600 amount of people, I'm sure they exist, but I don't know how many 1639 01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:15,320 people truly have never heard of common law marriage in any 1640 01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:16,080 state. Oh yeah. 1641 01:22:16,080 --> 01:22:18,000 So at that point, you know, it doesn't matter. 1642 01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:21,640 At some point if I live with this person, there is a date, an 1643 01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:24,760 expiration date of hey now you are legally married according. 1644 01:22:24,760 --> 01:22:28,800 To that, yeah, I know, right? If you don't pick up a book, 1645 01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:32,320 stop looking at YouTube. Maybe figure something that's 1646 01:22:32,440 --> 01:22:36,760 out aside from video game, movie, TV show something. 1647 01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:39,200 Like, well, you know, and there's nothing to be something, 1648 01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:40,880 nothing bad about that. But at the same. 1649 01:22:40,880 --> 01:22:42,520 Time never learning I would think I. 1650 01:22:42,520 --> 01:22:43,960 Didn't say that. I didn't say that. 1651 01:22:43,960 --> 01:22:46,720 You took it out of context. I'm saying like it's not bad to 1652 01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:48,600 be able to go and look at entertainment and all these 1653 01:22:48,600 --> 01:22:50,000 things. But I said to never. 1654 01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:54,680 Comes into the obsessive compulsive and dude, the 1655 01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:56,720 lockdown had a ton to do with that. 1656 01:22:57,040 --> 01:22:59,560 Oh yeah, I mean, that's all you did COVID. 1657 01:22:59,560 --> 01:23:01,360 Fucked everyone. Yeah, it totally did. 1658 01:23:01,360 --> 01:23:04,280 Like psychologically it really messed with a lot of people. 1659 01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:08,200 But going back to what I was, I was going to originally say was, 1660 01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:14,000 is that when you have both sides that are 1 extreme or the 1661 01:23:14,000 --> 01:23:17,960 another, right? You got insoles, right where 1662 01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:20,160 they're just like, yeah, I'm just going to admit I'm this 1663 01:23:20,160 --> 01:23:22,960 person, right? And they're buying plastic fuck 1664 01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:27,120 dolls and they are the biggest subscribers to only fans. 1665 01:23:27,720 --> 01:23:31,120 And then you got a bunch of women who are doing almost the 1666 01:23:31,120 --> 01:23:33,920 exact same thing going well, we're swearing off men. 1667 01:23:33,920 --> 01:23:37,440 We're not doing any of that. I don't need men to be alive. 1668 01:23:37,440 --> 01:23:40,000 And it's just like, Oh my gosh, you guys are ridiculous. 1669 01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,920 And then you get some like argument go do you know that the 1670 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:44,280 infrastructure is made out of men? 1671 01:23:44,440 --> 01:23:49,440 So what what they're saying is, is psych socially, socially, I 1672 01:23:49,440 --> 01:23:51,360 don't need men to survive. Yeah. 1673 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:55,320 So I but why is there this big divide? 1674 01:23:55,320 --> 01:23:57,080 It's haves and haves. Everywhere. 1675 01:23:57,160 --> 01:23:59,040 It's always so bad. It's the divide. 1676 01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,200 We talk about it all the time. It's in everything. 1677 01:24:01,200 --> 01:24:04,120 It's the US and the them. You know, it's in genders, it's 1678 01:24:04,120 --> 01:24:08,360 in religions, it's in races, it's in, you know, economical 1679 01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:10,720 classes. It's in like all of these 1680 01:24:10,720 --> 01:24:13,840 things, even schools. Like it's, it's in everywhere. 1681 01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:15,600 It's like, oh, you're not this. We're this. 1682 01:24:15,600 --> 01:24:19,320 And it's like tribalism. Well, it's, it's, it's a polar, 1683 01:24:19,400 --> 01:24:22,680 it's polar differences. You, you, one cannot exist 1684 01:24:22,680 --> 01:24:25,560 without the other. It, it feels like that, like the 1685 01:24:25,560 --> 01:24:29,080 entire planet can't be at peace, but it can also be at war. 1686 01:24:29,080 --> 01:24:30,760 Why? Do you think we're so always, 1687 01:24:32,320 --> 01:24:35,640 maybe not every person, but like as a whole more humans? 1688 01:24:35,640 --> 01:24:38,200 Why do you think we're more drawn to finding the differences 1689 01:24:38,200 --> 01:24:41,240 than the similarities? Because it's unique, because 1690 01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:44,240 it's if everything looks the same, then you don't think of 1691 01:24:44,240 --> 01:24:46,200 it. But when it's unique, at first 1692 01:24:46,400 --> 01:24:48,960 it's exciting. As a child, everything's 1693 01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:50,760 exciting. Yeah, but as we get older 1694 01:24:50,760 --> 01:24:52,640 though, like we still. Have the same thought. 1695 01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:55,720 When we're with people and that a lot of like all this, us and 1696 01:24:55,720 --> 01:24:58,200 them is not finding the similarities, it's the 1697 01:24:58,200 --> 01:24:59,600 differences. Like, no, it's finding the 1698 01:24:59,600 --> 01:25:02,280 differences, but it's in a different way because you learn 1699 01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:04,800 that from older people who say don't do this. 1700 01:25:04,800 --> 01:25:09,160 They preemptively trigger you to be able to understand that their 1701 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:10,880 view is the view that you need to see. 1702 01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:14,200 Yeah, not necessarily the right way, but their view is the best 1703 01:25:14,200 --> 01:25:17,400 view that you can get. Wouldn't that be the same? 1704 01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:20,840 For an example, I was just listening to a book, behavioral 1705 01:25:20,840 --> 01:25:24,120 science book, but one of them was it was talking about if you 1706 01:25:24,120 --> 01:25:28,520 introduce somebody saying, oh, I want you to be Brandon, by the 1707 01:25:28,520 --> 01:25:32,360 way, Brandon's a little handsy and he farts a lot, just letting 1708 01:25:32,360 --> 01:25:34,520 you know. So the whole time that person's 1709 01:25:34,520 --> 01:25:36,560 going to be there. And if there's a woman, they'd 1710 01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:39,000 be getting away from you the whole time and then wondering 1711 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:41,040 when you're going to drop a fart, right? 1712 01:25:41,040 --> 01:25:42,320 I mean, that's like a really dumb thing. 1713 01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:45,320 But if I said, hey, he's a real sleazeball and he fucks 1714 01:25:45,320 --> 01:25:47,160 everything with a heartbeat. Harpy optional. 1715 01:25:47,560 --> 01:25:51,200 Hey, Brandon, meet Cindy. And she's like, cool, this guy 1716 01:25:51,200 --> 01:25:53,760 is a pig. All he wants to do is fuck me. 1717 01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:57,920 And she's just angry. And that's an assumptive role 1718 01:25:57,920 --> 01:26:00,200 that we all play. When I used to go to the bars 1719 01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:03,360 with friends, all the girls were just guards up. 1720 01:26:04,440 --> 01:26:05,800 Guys were like, I want to fuck you. 1721 01:26:05,920 --> 01:26:07,680 Girls are like, you're not fucking me at all. 1722 01:26:07,680 --> 01:26:10,320 And you're just like, what are we doing here? 1723 01:26:10,400 --> 01:26:12,200 Yeah, why Why did we even show up? 1724 01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:14,880 Like we're trying to meet each other, yet there's walls up. 1725 01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:18,400 And it's because we we preframe everything. 1726 01:26:18,400 --> 01:26:21,960 We preframe it instead of looking at it in an open way 1727 01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:24,040 going, well, they look like a nice person. 1728 01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:26,720 It's because there's always an intention behind it. 1729 01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:29,760 It's never just I'm curious who this person is. 1730 01:26:29,960 --> 01:26:31,160 I want to get to know this person. 1731 01:26:31,160 --> 01:26:33,160 It's like, yeah, I want to stick my Dick in that. 1732 01:26:33,680 --> 01:26:34,960 Oh, I, I want. I want. 1733 01:26:34,960 --> 01:26:37,960 This out of their, this, their skin colors, this oh, they came 1734 01:26:37,960 --> 01:26:40,320 out of that church. They're going to be like this. 1735 01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:44,280 I want this out of it for me, but I want to make a connection 1736 01:26:44,280 --> 01:26:47,080 because they might be an interesting person and I might 1737 01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:48,880 learn something new today that I didn't know. 1738 01:26:49,040 --> 01:26:50,560 I I, well, and that's interesting. 1739 01:26:50,560 --> 01:26:54,040 I mean, for me, I'm just like, I know somebody else and that 1740 01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:56,480 that's great because I love making connections with people 1741 01:26:56,480 --> 01:26:58,840 because it's, it's great. It's good. 1742 01:26:58,840 --> 01:27:01,160 I mean, it feels good to be go somewhere and somebody just 1743 01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:03,480 knows you right away and they they want to talk to you because 1744 01:27:03,480 --> 01:27:06,120 they find you interesting. Like that's it. 1745 01:27:06,120 --> 01:27:08,440 That's cool for me. And that's the way I look at 1746 01:27:08,440 --> 01:27:10,720 life now. I don't look for differences. 1747 01:27:10,720 --> 01:27:12,720 I've been colorblind for many years. 1748 01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:15,960 I don't care. And, and the funniest thing is 1749 01:27:15,960 --> 01:27:18,480 the people who get really upset with me about that are the 1750 01:27:18,480 --> 01:27:22,000 people who are upset that people aren't respectful about their 1751 01:27:22,000 --> 01:27:24,840 religion, their color, the people the. 1752 01:27:25,080 --> 01:27:28,760 Ones who get frustrated and that's not the word. 1753 01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:33,320 The people who get offended because most people who get 1754 01:27:33,320 --> 01:27:36,280 offended is like, oh, you said did whatever. 1755 01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:40,040 I'm going to choose to let that. I'm going to get it. 1756 01:27:40,080 --> 01:27:44,200 Like I'm going to choose my emotion to be changed because of 1757 01:27:44,200 --> 01:27:46,280 whatever your action. Was yeah, there's something to 1758 01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:49,440 be said about the the art of forgiveness, because it really 1759 01:27:49,440 --> 01:27:51,400 is an art. Because you can say you forgive 1760 01:27:51,400 --> 01:27:54,080 them, but you got to let it go. And if you let it go. 1761 01:27:54,160 --> 01:27:56,280 Harder said then done. It can be. 1762 01:27:56,320 --> 01:27:59,920 It really can be, but you know, in extremes it's really. 1763 01:27:59,920 --> 01:28:03,360 Hard in minors, true forgiveness, like all the easy 1764 01:28:03,360 --> 01:28:04,560 stuff. It's easy because it's like, 1765 01:28:04,760 --> 01:28:07,160 fuck it. It's like, no, it just rolls off 1766 01:28:07,160 --> 01:28:08,840 your back and you're like, that's totally fine. 1767 01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:12,160 It's not the end of the world. I hold no animosity towards any 1768 01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:15,520 person, even if they've wronged me because like I've, I've had 1769 01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:19,800 business partners screw me and unintentionally, but still did 1770 01:28:19,800 --> 01:28:22,640 it. And I and I would never be like, 1771 01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:24,960 oh, you know, I will never talk to them again. 1772 01:28:25,440 --> 01:28:27,720 Like I've done that kind of petty shit when I was younger, 1773 01:28:27,720 --> 01:28:31,200 like my friend who he was just a magnet for cops. 1774 01:28:31,200 --> 01:28:34,480 And I got my two possession, my two only possession and 1775 01:28:34,480 --> 01:28:37,000 consumption charges because I was with that fuck head. 1776 01:28:37,000 --> 01:28:38,720 Wow. And I didn't even drink 1777 01:28:38,720 --> 01:28:40,840 anything. But because I was near him. 1778 01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:42,680 That's crazy. I got a possession and a 1779 01:28:42,680 --> 01:28:46,280 consumption charge and I was like, great, this is fucking 1780 01:28:46,280 --> 01:28:47,320 great. Yeah. 1781 01:28:47,320 --> 01:28:49,720 And I was like, I'm not talking to a motherfucker for and I, I 1782 01:28:49,720 --> 01:28:51,640 didn't talk to him for years. Yeah. 1783 01:28:51,920 --> 01:28:54,880 And that was stupid of me because it was just an incident. 1784 01:28:55,560 --> 01:28:58,200 Well, sometimes, I mean, there was a friend that I cut out for 1785 01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:01,080 a couple years and that was because he didn't respect me. 1786 01:29:01,080 --> 01:29:03,680 He didn't listen. He actually walked all over me. 1787 01:29:04,160 --> 01:29:07,160 And that was something that I was like, you know, I'm sorry, 1788 01:29:07,160 --> 01:29:09,920 I've tried to talk to you and you can't do this. 1789 01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:12,840 And I'm done. And sometimes I think that it is 1790 01:29:12,840 --> 01:29:16,840 OK and healthy to set those boundaries or walk away, whether 1791 01:29:16,840 --> 01:29:20,960 it's from a friend, a partner, a parent, a sibling, whoever the 1792 01:29:20,960 --> 01:29:21,840 fuck it is. Yeah. 1793 01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:24,760 Because honestly, yeah, there's a difference between being a 1794 01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:27,680 selfish fuck and prioritizing yourself going. 1795 01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:30,440 This isn't healthy for me. Yeah, and it's a good thing I 1796 01:29:30,440 --> 01:29:32,360 found that book, because now Brandon talks to me again. 1797 01:29:32,760 --> 01:29:36,800 Yeah, exactly. No, I, I, I, I agree with you, 1798 01:29:36,800 --> 01:29:38,760 man. And it's a societal thing that I 1799 01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:42,640 think about right now where, you know, my role as a person to be 1800 01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:47,360 a good member of society is to just be generally good to people 1801 01:29:48,000 --> 01:29:50,240 across the board, no matter who they are. 1802 01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:53,680 And if you start doing that and you can trigger that in other 1803 01:29:53,680 --> 01:29:56,160 people and then everybody else starts following. 1804 01:29:56,360 --> 01:29:58,400 I'm not saying I'm going to start this happy trend of 1805 01:29:58,400 --> 01:30:00,680 everybody's like, you know, paying it forward or anything 1806 01:30:00,680 --> 01:30:03,240 like that. But it's just what does it cost 1807 01:30:03,240 --> 01:30:05,120 to be nice? That's even the stupid small 1808 01:30:05,120 --> 01:30:07,720 stuff. Like I have neighbors across the 1809 01:30:07,720 --> 01:30:12,720 street who are, I'd say it's like a disabled home of sorts. 1810 01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:15,720 Like they're I don't know the correct term or something. 1811 01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:17,320 Yeah, no, it's yeah, yeah, I know. 1812 01:30:17,480 --> 01:30:19,120 It's like a halfway. They call them halfway homes. 1813 01:30:19,120 --> 01:30:21,880 But they're, there's a bunch of adults who live in there and 1814 01:30:21,880 --> 01:30:24,200 they're they. Special needs and stuff like 1815 01:30:24,200 --> 01:30:26,640 that, but. They, they're ones that like 1816 01:30:26,840 --> 01:30:29,720 Emily at the first was like, Oh my goodness, they seem so weird. 1817 01:30:29,720 --> 01:30:33,760 So like, and she was all weirded out and that, and then I've just 1818 01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:35,360 started saying hi to him, waving to him. 1819 01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:38,640 And so now every morning after I drop off, Addie and I hop out of 1820 01:30:38,640 --> 01:30:40,800 my car and they're sitting out on the sidewalk smoking 1821 01:30:40,800 --> 01:30:43,600 cigarettes, I say hi. They always wave back and say hi 1822 01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:46,640 every time they come out. Like they wave and say hi. 1823 01:30:47,440 --> 01:30:50,640 And I'm like, it's just these simple stupid things like how 1824 01:30:50,640 --> 01:30:53,040 many people don't even say hi to their neighbors. 1825 01:30:53,720 --> 01:30:56,320 You know, I'm blessed because I I worked at the state hospital 1826 01:30:56,320 --> 01:30:59,200 for as long as I did. I don't see crazy people. 1827 01:30:59,200 --> 01:31:01,960 I see someone who's suffering from schizophrenia or someone 1828 01:31:01,960 --> 01:31:04,840 who's manic depressant. Or I was like, it's just another 1829 01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:07,680 human who, yeah, functions different than I do. 1830 01:31:07,680 --> 01:31:09,880 Yeah, nobody treats me. I mean, you know, the way that 1831 01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:11,520 we treat people when they have a cold. 1832 01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:14,120 That's understandable because you're going to get. 1833 01:31:14,200 --> 01:31:16,760 You can get sick too. But if somebody's talking to 1834 01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:17,880 themselves, you're not going to get it. 1835 01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:20,280 Yeah, it's not contagious. You're not going to go. 1836 01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:21,880 Oh shit. Like I told you about my friend, 1837 01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:22,840 you're. Like a homeless person. 1838 01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:25,640 You're not going to get homeless by talking to a homeless person, 1839 01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:27,640 no. And it, it sucks because, you 1840 01:31:27,640 --> 01:31:30,960 know, a homeless person makes you feel it, It's reflective. 1841 01:31:30,960 --> 01:31:33,560 That's why we don't want to look at them, because we, we don't 1842 01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:35,080 ever want to see ourselves that way. 1843 01:31:35,680 --> 01:31:38,240 And so we, we avoid them because of that. 1844 01:31:38,240 --> 01:31:40,840 And it's not that we don't want to help them, it's just what can 1845 01:31:40,840 --> 01:31:43,760 you do to help them? Like truly if we could do to 1846 01:31:43,760 --> 01:31:46,400 help them would be like just have this random business that 1847 01:31:46,400 --> 01:31:49,240 just provides jobs. And they get jobs and a place to 1848 01:31:49,240 --> 01:31:52,000 stay as they get their back on their feet till they can go out 1849 01:31:52,000 --> 01:31:54,400 and get another job or. How many, how many rich fucks 1850 01:31:54,400 --> 01:31:57,800 out there could take a giant a tiny chunk of their company and 1851 01:31:57,800 --> 01:32:00,760 create those things around to? Because what does that do? 1852 01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:03,760 You're building new consumers. If you build new consumers, 1853 01:32:03,760 --> 01:32:05,800 they're going to buy your new shit because they make enough 1854 01:32:05,800 --> 01:32:09,920 money to buy your useless shit. So why not invest into the no, 1855 01:32:10,000 --> 01:32:13,600 I'm going to build a massive fucking yacht that when I get it 1856 01:32:13,600 --> 01:32:16,360 taken out of the place that was built, they're going to have to 1857 01:32:16,360 --> 01:32:19,280 remove a bridge. Yeah, just to move it. 1858 01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:22,600 To get it out and I can't even dock at regular places and I 1859 01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,600 have a mini yacht that follows. Just to get there or for your 1860 01:32:25,600 --> 01:32:27,880 whole crew. It's, it's ridiculous. 1861 01:32:27,880 --> 01:32:34,040 It's, it's this notion that I need all of this and there's 1862 01:32:34,040 --> 01:32:37,680 more than enough to go around. And I mean, I want to get on my, 1863 01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:41,080 you know, hippie sandbox about that, but I mean hippie milk. 1864 01:32:41,880 --> 01:32:43,240 Yeah, you're good. Yeah, Crepe. 1865 01:32:43,680 --> 01:32:44,680 Milk crepe. Yeah, I'm. 1866 01:32:44,880 --> 01:32:49,400 Going to get off my crepe, but it's, it's just looking at it 1867 01:32:49,400 --> 01:32:51,600 like, what's the simple things? What does it cost for me to be 1868 01:32:51,600 --> 01:32:54,400 nice? Yeah, nothing. 1869 01:32:54,600 --> 01:32:59,040 And and if if I do that, like, you know, simple things like 1870 01:32:59,040 --> 01:33:02,840 gestures and mannerisms, like stuff I teach, that's what I 1871 01:33:02,840 --> 01:33:05,400 love about that, where I'm talking to those kids like I 1872 01:33:05,400 --> 01:33:08,720 told you, and they are just like, how do I do that? 1873 01:33:09,320 --> 01:33:14,200 And to me, I used to think that's stupid, but I'm just 1874 01:33:14,200 --> 01:33:16,360 like, no, you don't understand. I totally. 1875 01:33:16,360 --> 01:33:20,560 And it's a new language for them, which comes so easily to a 1876 01:33:20,560 --> 01:33:23,440 lot of other people. Or at least I think that like 1877 01:33:23,440 --> 01:33:25,560 Gen. Xers, millennials, they're 1878 01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:28,480 they're pretty decent because they they've already lived a 1879 01:33:28,480 --> 01:33:32,680 bunch of shit and now they're just like, yeah, I mean, I'm 1880 01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:35,120 stereotypical 45 year old, 46 year old guy. 1881 01:33:35,120 --> 01:33:38,960 Now I'm terrible. It's typical 46 now. 1882 01:33:38,960 --> 01:33:41,840 I have no idea what other 37 year olds are like. 1883 01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:44,600 Yeah, I'm just like them. But I, I'm saying like, you 1884 01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:47,960 know, things I get into, things I talk about, things I complain 1885 01:33:47,960 --> 01:33:51,680 about and I used to complain about and I the only thing is I 1886 01:33:51,680 --> 01:33:53,800 look at politics, I'm like, oh, that's interesting. 1887 01:33:54,400 --> 01:33:57,280 I wonder where they, they found that or oh, OK, why are they 1888 01:33:57,280 --> 01:33:58,280 trying to pass that bill? I. 1889 01:33:58,600 --> 01:33:59,120 Have no idea. Oh. 1890 01:33:59,120 --> 01:34:02,160 OK and I Start learning about it, but when I was younger I 1891 01:34:02,160 --> 01:34:04,360 could care less. I could careless. 1892 01:34:04,360 --> 01:34:06,920 But anyways, hey guys, it's been a fun conversation. 1893 01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:10,280 It has go check out cannabis school approved. 1894 01:34:10,400 --> 01:34:13,120 Yeah, go to cannabis school dot US, check out the website. 1895 01:34:13,120 --> 01:34:15,920 We're going to be adding more to it as time goes on. 1896 01:34:16,080 --> 01:34:17,600 We're getting some things tweaked over there. 1897 01:34:17,600 --> 01:34:19,360 We're going to bring you more dispensaries on. 1898 01:34:19,360 --> 01:34:21,640 If you're a dispenser and you haven't reached out to us yet, 1899 01:34:21,920 --> 01:34:25,160 go ahead down below. Just e-mail us and saying I want 1900 01:34:25,160 --> 01:34:27,120 in. 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