1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,840 I'm Brandon. And I'm Jesse, we're cannabis 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,240 school. Having cannabis infused 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:07,240 conversations. With everyday people. 4 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,440 Cannabis companies. Celebrities. 5 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:12,600 And your mom? Welcome to the sash. 6 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:17,840 I'll tell you do when we cut ties with Steph's dad, he 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:23,960 immediately went on this like crazy tirade of telling 8 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,040 everybody these like horrible things. 9 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:29,160 Oh, yeah, they did this or they said this or they're like this 10 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,840 or don't trust them or like, oh, this is how they are. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,880 I told you about that whole like where I was pulled into that. 12 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,040 The dog thing, yeah, bullshit of that. 13 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:41,000 Yeah, but being contacted by Detective Champagne, right. 14 00:00:41,160 --> 00:00:43,400 I think I talked about that in a previous episode. 15 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:48,200 But anyways, I mean, he, he implemented me in so many 16 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,960 different things. And then dude, there's this 17 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,240 really cool family, the dad, he's an LDS Bishop. 18 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,000 He married Steph and I, I had a lot of respect for this guy. 19 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:04,000 I mean, he helped us buy our first home, all this stuff. 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,920 I mean, the guy was, he is a stand up guy, great guy. 21 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:11,960 I was, he is a stand up guy, great guy. 22 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,240 As we, we just separated, You know, she was going through 23 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,920 therapy. There was a lot of stuff that 24 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:21,960 came to light and she was like, what the fuck? 25 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,240 And it wasn't, it wasn't good at all. 26 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:29,600 And so when she broke those ties, he started to gaslight 27 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,840 everybody, even Grandpa. I believe it. 28 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,160 Like grandpa was like, he came over with your, your Mama 29 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:43,280 dropped him off and he was really upset and, and we had 30 00:01:43,280 --> 00:01:45,480 we're like, no, that never happened. 31 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:48,600 And he's like, but why would he tell me that? 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:51,200 And then? Manipulates people and lies. 33 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:55,880 Well, but I mean, dude, the true, I mean, he was dead. 34 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:57,880 I mean, he's dead. I mean, what else can you do? 35 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:01,800 Like you go for you. I always find it funny when 36 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,320 people say we're going to go pay my respects to the corpse. 37 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:07,120 Yeah, they're not there. They to. 38 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,440 The vessel to the husk, they're not there anymore. 39 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:13,800 You're going there to grieve and just say that like. 40 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,560 For me. I'm going because I want 41 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,440 closure. I feel more connected to grandpa 42 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:21,360 all the time just driving around. 43 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,160 I, I literally sit there and I'll be like, because it feels 44 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,320 like he's there and I'm like grandpa and I'm like, I'm 45 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:31,280 struggling with this. Or like when I'm stressed and 46 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,720 I'm driving, I'm like, no, the car's going to make it. 47 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,760 It's OK. Grandpa's cursing with me like 48 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:40,960 it's fine and it's weird 'cause I feel more connected to him now 49 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,040 than I ever did. No, dude, it's 'cause he's still 50 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:45,800 there with you, man. I mean, he's in you. 51 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:49,120 No, I was just, it was an interesting morning, 'cause like 52 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:52,960 I was not expecting that and it just kind of went. 53 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,360 So she, she messaged me, 'cause she was like, hey, did you guys 54 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,440 ever get your site done? You do this? 55 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:01,280 She's the one who I guess she's been, she said she's, she's been 56 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:03,680 a school teacher for a while, but she's no longer teaching 57 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:06,040 school. She's been doing software 58 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,920 developing for two years. She was like, if there's 59 00:03:09,920 --> 00:03:12,520 anything you need or you guys want, like I, I just need to 60 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:15,000 experience and I would love to help a small business if it 61 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,920 helps, so you know, if there's something I can do. 62 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,640 And so that's how it kind of started. 63 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,440 But then because we've talked off and on over the years and 64 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:28,200 that like it just kind of that's how this conversation went. 65 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,400 And I was like, fucking hey, like wasn't anticipating it, but 66 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,040 I think it's given me a good closure on it. 67 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:39,320 And because it's something that in the back of my head, I've 68 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,360 been like, it's always an unknown of like I always 69 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,280 wondered it's. It's hard because you hear about 70 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:47,880 that and the, the, the narcissistic scars that are left 71 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,160 on all those that are in the wake of that person. 72 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,600 And, and the thing I think is funny, it's like this guy I tell 73 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,080 you about that guy Michael that I know, he says he can cure 74 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,160 narcissism. Maybe. 75 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:04,520 Which is really funny. It's like curing narcissism. 76 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,040 It's like I'm going to cure water from being wet. 77 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:12,720 They don't know. You would have to recognize that 78 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:15,080 there's an issue in order for it to go away. 79 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,040 And they will never know that because they did. 80 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:21,920 They can't see it. They don't want, well, even if 81 00:04:21,920 --> 00:04:24,600 they were shown a recording, they'd be like, they can't see 82 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:25,800 it. You manipulated it. 83 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,040 Yeah, that's not real. Yeah, you're, you're full of 84 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:31,360 shit. It's it's deepfaked. 85 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:37,160 That's very weird. Jesus Christ, I forgot to just 86 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:40,960 coffee at the beginning. Erectia. 87 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,840 Just a wee bit. Yeah, it's really good though. 88 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:50,920 No, it's just I, I feel because I haven't, I mean, I have had 89 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:56,160 relationships where the other person was a gaslighter and all 90 00:04:56,160 --> 00:04:58,360 that and you could define him as a narcissist. 91 00:04:58,360 --> 00:05:02,080 But I, I think of those who are narcissist or those who ruin 92 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:06,600 lives, like you want to be labeling somebody as a 93 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:08,520 narcissist. OK, how many lives have they 94 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,920 fucked up? Not like hurt your feelings or 95 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,360 was just insensitive. Yeah, like, 'cause that's thrown 96 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:16,040 around too much. Like the guy realizes that the 97 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:19,880 chicks nothing but a gold digging whore and he goes fuck 98 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,360 you, I'm out. And she's like, oh, whatever, 99 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:26,360 she gets this attitude. I mean, it's been it's 100 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:30,120 surprising because my dad, God, it's been how many years since 101 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,760 he's not been with Wendy? Yeah, gross. 102 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:38,480 I know. But in this last couple weeks, 103 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,520 helping him remodel an apartment, he, we were talking 104 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,640 about it and he was like, you know, he's finally come to the 105 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:48,600 realization that she would always wanted to live a life of 106 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,880 luxury, glamorous spending, all of that. 107 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,640 So she would find that with the guy, live that, break up with 108 00:05:56,640 --> 00:06:00,160 him, try and do it all on her own, but doesn't have the job, 109 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:02,560 the ability to sustain that or do that. 110 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:07,200 So she'd rack up a lot of debt real fast and not be able to pay 111 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,400 it. So then she'd find another guy, 112 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:13,800 date that guy, he'd pay off all her debt, She'd go have fun, do 113 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,000 all that stuff with him. Magical pussy, bro. 114 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:20,360 Something break up with him, rack up all this debt and do it 115 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,640 again. And somehow my dad went back to 116 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,360 this woman multiple times, paid off her debt multiple times, 117 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,440 bought her many cars, bought like all of this garbage. 118 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,200 He spent $25,000 on a ring for this woman. 119 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,880 Like all this garbage. I was like, what in the hell? 120 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:42,480 And yeah, I don't understand it. I don't understand it. 121 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:46,920 Well, I, you know, you're talking about I'm just making me 122 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:49,600 laugh because, you know, and, and what are we? 123 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,400 We still smoking the same screen? 124 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:53,400 Yeah. Still a little egg roll this is. 125 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:58,400 Very introspective and, and I'm being very open right now, but 126 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:04,200 you know, when I broke up with this one girl, we, it, it was at 127 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,760 the end and it just needed to be done and both of us knew it. 128 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,600 Yeah. And I used to think like, Oh 129 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:14,440 yeah, you know, you mean she has she she gas let me a lot. 130 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:20,680 She used me in many ways, but nothing too big because we just 131 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:26,640 kind of existed in in our own sadness or whatever the fuck it 132 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,600 was, but it wasn't positive that's what it was. 133 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:34,000 I mean, we were sharing space. We we we probably had sex a 134 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,000 handful of times. Connect sometimes on trauma 135 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:41,520 bonding, shit bonding of like jobs, misery loves, misery 136 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:42,960 bonding. Yeah. 137 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:46,080 And that's just it. I feel like unfortunately at 138 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:50,240 times some of us get into a relationship in that in trauma 139 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,320 bonding and misery bonding and whatever it is, and you're like, 140 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,160 oh, hey, look, we connect and we resonate this. 141 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,920 And then maybe that's not the best, healthiest relationship, 142 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,920 but that's what you have. And then you're like, oh, OK, 143 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:03,480 here's where I'm at. But then if they're still stuck 144 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,920 in that or you're still stuck in that, you know you're not 145 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,680 actually working towards a healthier version of you. 146 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:12,360 Yeah, having a conversation and knowing that the conversation 147 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:14,800 comes in time, you can't force that part. 148 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,880 And so a lot of times as the other person over there, if you 149 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:20,800 can recognize that there's definitely something going on 150 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,400 and if you can be cognizant of that one, you just have to have 151 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,120 patience. I think it's coming from feeling 152 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,480 safe enough to open up about those 100% absolutely. 153 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:35,159 And maybe if that's something that you're wanting to foster 154 00:08:35,159 --> 00:08:38,799 within a relationship, maybe start by opening up with 155 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:40,679 vulnerability. You know, if you're wanting to 156 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:44,520 get some from your partner, give a little to see if you can help 157 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,280 open that door. No, no, no, that's, it's, that's 158 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:50,480 interesting to say that because it, it was something that I, I 159 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:54,040 had talked about with an another person about this whole role of, 160 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,480 of being able to build these conversations. 161 00:08:56,880 --> 00:09:01,120 And it takes time for conversations to, to build 162 00:09:01,120 --> 00:09:03,320 because it's so complicated for many people. 163 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,400 No wonder why everybody goes to Tinder, bumble or whatever. 164 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:09,360 They're just like, wait a minute, you mean we have to 165 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:13,800 talk? No, Yeah, you know, cuz that, I 166 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:18,320 mean, now you can have a conversation because now there's 167 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,000 definitely nothing in between you. 168 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:22,840 You're just like, yeah, we've seen each other naked. 169 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,400 We put our mouth on things. You know, there's a stain that's 170 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:30,280 never going to come out, whatever, right, Whatever has 171 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,560 happened during that time. And now you can have a 172 00:09:32,560 --> 00:09:36,400 conversation, but now it's an awkward conversation because you 173 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:38,680 don't know each other. Yeah. 174 00:09:38,680 --> 00:09:43,760 And you did something that was pretty intense, and now you're 175 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:45,680 just supposed to be vulnerable. Yeah. 176 00:09:45,680 --> 00:09:48,040 Extremely vulnerable, dude. Yeah. 177 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:52,440 I mean, dude, that's if. I mean, guys won't even stand 178 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:56,160 next to each other in public stalls, afraid that they. 179 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,160 Might like. Magic glimpse of the other 180 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:01,280 dude's Dick or? The other dude might glimpse at 181 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,160 their Dick. Like I can't let someone look at 182 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:07,240 my Dick, that'll be gay. Yeah, well, I'm gay just from, 183 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,720 from him looking, you know, so funny, dude. 184 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,080 Well, and that, that's something that I think is funny too, 185 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:14,760 because. I like to stand next to those 186 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:16,440 people. Like I just go over there, go 187 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,400 hey. So Emily and all the girlfriends 188 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,920 in our group, they do. It's been like once a year they 189 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,920 get together and they call it a boob painting night and they all 190 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,400 get canvases and they paint their boobs and they put them 191 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,280 all on the canvas and they have all this artistic whatever from 192 00:10:30,280 --> 00:10:33,160 Boo painting and they do that every year. 193 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,280 It's an annual tradition that they do now. 194 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,840 They get together, they do dinner, they have drinks, they 195 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:43,200 just make a whole evening of it. And it's become this tradition 196 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:45,880 that they all love. But then they joke about it 197 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,400 like, oh, the guys will have a a guys night and they'll do Dick 198 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:49,640 paintings. I'm like, yeah, we'll just be 199 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,080 over there like flop. Where he goes flop. 200 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,200 Just, you know, place the balls on the canvas and. 201 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,240 Yeah, that's, I mean, I was, I was listening to that and I, I 202 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,440 immediately was thinking about like this. 203 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,800 It's a Klumberg. No, I was, I lost. 204 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,280 It was a funny thing. It was a skip from a comedian, 205 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,640 but it it's definitely like that where it's like, Oh yeah. 206 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,480 It's talking about how he's like, he was talking. 207 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,880 He's like women have these, like, crazy stories of, you 208 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,200 know, when they when they hook up with another woman, they're 209 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:23,760 just like, well, the boys were fishing and me and Nadine were 210 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:28,520 just hanging out and, you know, she slipped and kind of cut my 211 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,080 breast and. And we laughed and she laughed 212 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:34,320 and then we kissed and, you know, then we went down on each 213 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,160 other. It was very beautiful. 214 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,760 But we're not gay. And like, what? 215 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,480 And this is like, you'd never hear guys talking about that. 216 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,160 Yeah. We were watching the game and I 217 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,680 was reaching for some chips and I accidentally touched Chad's 218 00:11:45,680 --> 00:11:47,640 balls. So what do you do, man? 219 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:48,760 Yeah, he goes. He goes. 220 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,280 And then we started to blow each other. 221 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:53,080 But we're not gay. It's just like what? 222 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,360 What Like it's so funny, but it it really is. 223 00:11:57,360 --> 00:12:01,360 It's like this weird thing that we feel like we can't be near 224 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:03,400 somebody else. Even like women where they're 225 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,480 very more OK being oh, here, let me see your boobs or let's go 226 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,800 try on these things. And yet guys like, oh, don't. 227 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:11,640 Not all women. I mean, they're, they're, 228 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,200 they're definitely someone. But I mean, it's, it's just 229 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:16,280 weird. Like, yeah, why? 230 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:17,800 Why? No. 231 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:19,560 Why? It's just very different. 232 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:22,800 It's like somebody read a book and said this would be a good 233 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,000 idea, but we're going to use boobs instead. 234 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,520 I mean, I like boobs. Yeah, but that'd be kind of an 235 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,320 awkward place. You go in there and there's just 236 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:35,160 like, you know, there's oil paintings on the wall. 237 00:12:36,680 --> 00:12:39,880 It's like, and I won't say the the, the painting, but it was 238 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:41,720 like the painting that used to be up there. 239 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,280 It used to make me very uncomfortable and it was the 240 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,680 purpose of it was to make you uncomfortable and then they, 241 00:12:48,680 --> 00:12:50,280 well, I. Was just like, I understand you 242 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:52,840 want to paint this, but what if my parents come over? 243 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:56,000 What if your parents come over? Like I understand that this is 244 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,640 something you feel OK with, but have you fully thought this 245 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,160 through? And so now it doesn't sit out 246 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:03,360 here. So it's just like. 247 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:04,920 Just above your bed or something. 248 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,720 It's in our room on the side of the. 249 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:07,840 Wall. I bet, I bet. 250 00:13:08,800 --> 00:13:11,400 Yeah, it's it's definitely a different thing. 251 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,400 And that's why you don't yuck. Someone jumps. 252 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:15,080 I mean, hey, there you go. Right. 253 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:16,960 I mean. This is the great prophet, Ruth 254 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:20,320 says. Yeah, as Ruth says, right. 255 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:23,160 We we need to have like a whole cartoon series of Ruth. 256 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:26,760 I know I actually thought of just trying to take her face and 257 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,960 seeing what AI chat like could create with her as a poker. 258 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:31,680 We need to make like, a cartoon character. 259 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:33,880 Yeah, that would be pretty. Cool. 260 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,120 And it's like, and then we have and she runs through and. 261 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:41,840 Then we have daily sayings we'll just make up a bunch of shit and 262 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,160 she'll be over there. I love this. 263 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:46,120 Yeah, let's make that. Let's make that. 264 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,160 That'd be awesome. I don't know. 265 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,280 Ruth, if you listen to this show, I'm sorry. 266 00:13:50,680 --> 00:13:53,320 Or actually, Ruth, if you listen to this show, I'm not sorry. 267 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:55,200 We still are waiting to have you on the show. 268 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,120 Maybe we need you on the show. Oh yeah, Speaking of, I've got a 269 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:03,040 guest I ran into on Wednesday. With your car, are they OK? 270 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:05,240 No. That's why they're going to be 271 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:06,600 on the show. They might be here. 272 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,520 I was like, I don't have any money and he's like, just let me 273 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,320 be on your show and I'm like, done. 274 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:13,080 All you had to do is hit him with your car. 275 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,000 Yeah. We we could totally tell that 276 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:18,480 now. So this is actually really funny 277 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:22,840 because it's all over. So back during the pandemic, I 278 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:28,280 was doing marketing and I got hired by this CBD company to 279 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:31,840 help them come up with content and it was really difficult 280 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:34,800 because it was really low rent. Now here's the thing though, 281 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:41,080 they had a roll on that has been one of the best pains CBD ones. 282 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,880 All the other ones are just like a bunch of menthol and it 283 00:14:44,880 --> 00:14:47,000 literally. Just didn't smell menthol. 284 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:49,120 No, it smelled that it was really good. 285 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,800 Kind of like Coca-Cola. But I liked it because it was 286 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,040 like a stick, like a roll instead of the roll ONS are 287 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:57,680 messy. Yeah, they're so messy. 288 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,240 But the stick? Wasn't super messy. 289 00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,280 I liked it. She called it the trouble Stick 290 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,480 and it worked really well. A lot of these CBD products work 291 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:05,960 really well. I really like this one. 292 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:11,680 But anyways, I worked with her. It it, I mean, she just would 293 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:13,400 didn't have the budget or anything like that. 294 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:15,880 We mocked up some. I was just like, yeah. 295 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:19,040 And I tried a bunch of things and we, we advertise it on the 296 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:23,320 show like just because. And she, I'm, I don't know if 297 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,760 she got any sales permit. It was a lot. 298 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:27,480 It was like in the early days of this podcast. 299 00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:32,880 And then randomly I got sued by her saying that I never did 300 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,200 anything. And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, 301 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,320 whoa. She's like, yeah, yeah, I want a 302 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,440 refund on that. I'm like, this is intellectual 303 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:40,640 property. Ever. 304 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,600 So she took me to court. In small claims court she won 305 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:51,800 and she came after me and I had like literally no money. 306 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:55,040 Like any money that I made went to any of the bills I could pay. 307 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:59,360 Yep. And I'm just like what the fuck? 308 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:02,320 It was the dumbest thing. And then she said finally she's 309 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:04,960 like, hey, I'll let it go if you guys do a couple commercials. 310 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,480 So go back to the episodes and see which ones they are. 311 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,920 What am I going to tell you? But but it was funny because 312 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:15,840 it's like, I don't even know why I brought that up, but I just 313 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:18,200 know that it was funny. Yeah, this is a weird. 314 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,800 It's a very interesting strain. I I do enjoy it, but it takes 315 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,160 you. It's not like lose your train of 316 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:27,160 thought. I feel like it's a very focused 317 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:31,760 strain, but it's a very your mind goes to weird places with 318 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:34,040 it. Yeah, this is watching. 319 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:37,160 This is like going on YouTube rabbit holes of like the Y 320 00:16:37,160 --> 00:16:39,280 files. But it's your mind. 321 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,400 Yeah, your mind just starts drifting. 322 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,160 To it's going through your mind files. 323 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:45,960 Yeah, the mind files. Yeah. 324 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,280 And so that's. What they'll kind of call this 325 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:48,840 one. Egg roll drops into your mind 326 00:16:48,840 --> 00:16:50,680 files and just goes on deep dive. 327 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:54,080 The way back machine. The way back. 328 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:58,360 Oh my gosh, that's the Mr. Peabody and yeah, yeah, Sherman, 329 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,120 Mr. Peabody it. Was a good show. 330 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:03,160 Yeah, I like the I like kids shows too, man. 331 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,640 Some of them are good. Some of them are fucking stupid 332 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,280 as hell. Oh yeah, but you have to watch 333 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:10,040 them with your kids anyway. So then you're like, oh, I just 334 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,680 like, I have to find something that only dumbs me down like so 335 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,960 much. Well, dude, it's like, you know, 336 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,440 it's the unfortunate curse that certain actors have. 337 00:17:20,440 --> 00:17:23,800 Like when we're talking about dumbing down Ryan Reynolds in 338 00:17:23,800 --> 00:17:26,640 anything but Deadpool is something that's not going to do 339 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,040 well. I'm just going to say I. 340 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:32,360 Love Ryan Reynolds's Deadpool, that's like one of my favorite 341 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:35,160 characters. And I feel bad dude, he has set 342 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:38,560 himself on fire recently like. That sounds painful. 343 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:42,040 Yeah, they get him and his wife, his wife, his wife started all 344 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:46,400 this bullshit, but it just sucks because you know, he's a he's 345 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,960 just funny. He's just, he's the guy that's 346 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:51,800 around. He's always cracking jokes and 347 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,320 you just you just you feel funny around him. 348 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:58,360 And I've heard like other actors are like, I, I fucking hate him. 349 00:17:58,360 --> 00:18:00,240 And I'm like, yeah, you probably, you probably weren't. 350 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,040 I mean, who knows? People can hate whoever you 351 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:04,560 want, right? But. 352 00:18:04,960 --> 00:18:06,600 I mean, I don't know him as a person so. 353 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,600 No, no, I don't know. I mean at all. 354 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:10,560 The character that he plays, and I think it's funny. 355 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,520 Deadpool is hilarious and then now it's like either he's fired 356 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:19,720 or he is at a minimal role in the MCU now. 357 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:22,680 What's the MCU? Marvel Universe. 358 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:27,440 Oh, why? Because his wife leaked the 359 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,680 parts of the script. How? 360 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:36,840 To Deadpool Wolverine way before and then they used the Ryan 361 00:18:36,840 --> 00:18:41,920 rewrote parts in there to make fun of the guy that she and his 362 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:44,000 wife and this guy who did a movie together. 363 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:48,160 They're in a lawsuit together and Ryan put this whole thing 364 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,760 into the thing of nice pool is all about this guy. 365 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:57,280 Anyways, it's just tragic because it went from this like 366 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:01,280 somebody being egotistical to a full on like destroying a 367 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:05,040 somebody's reputation. Like it's not even destroying 368 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:07,840 their career. I I destroying your career would 369 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,640 be like someone finding out that you're embezzling money. 370 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:15,080 No, no, I feel like. Trust you destroying your 371 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,800 career. I feel like for someone else to 372 00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,840 destroy your career. I don't know what. 373 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,080 I don't even. I don't even mean career, I'm 374 00:19:21,080 --> 00:19:23,600 just saying like your reputation, it just is so much 375 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,240 more worse. Oh yeah, it's like somebody's 376 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:28,880 you everywhere. Well it's like having like a top 377 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,960 performing only fan site. Good for you, you're making a 378 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,520 shit ton of money and you don't really have to do. 379 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,280 And take out my only fans what could? 380 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:41,080 You imagine your skinny ass on that dude? 381 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,400 Yeah, like moving around on a bed or something. 382 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:44,880 I don't know what the only fans does. 383 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:46,560 I don't want to know. It's easy. 384 00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:51,880 You can call Find me under Auschwitz number 467 dude. 385 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,720 Oh, that's gross. That's so gross. 386 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:58,120 No, it's actually starving Ethiopian #6. 387 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,160 Number six, right? There's actually there's. 388 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:05,800 It's actually starving Ethiopian hashtag 6. 389 00:20:06,360 --> 00:20:08,600 That's what it says, right? It's a hashtag. 390 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:13,520 No, I, I, I, I mean, that's the part, right? 391 00:20:13,520 --> 00:20:19,320 You get this like huge platform, make a ton of money, yet you 392 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:22,440 could never really ever live that down. 393 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:25,360 And it's always going to be a point of contention. 394 00:20:25,360 --> 00:20:30,400 On how you present yourself, the 'cause I think a lot of people 395 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:34,120 have this whole different persona of like they have their 396 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,840 only fans name and then their real life name and the real life 397 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,240 things. And that pastor lady who I had 398 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:46,880 on my other show, she has her own only fan. 399 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:52,840 She was an ex pastor, but her name on her only fans and all of 400 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:56,840 her handles is her actual name. She goes by her real name. 401 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:01,080 Everything she does 'cause she's like, I realized that I am not 402 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,920 here for everyone and I'm not here to appease everyone. 403 00:21:03,920 --> 00:21:07,880 I'm not here to be for everyone. I'm here for me. 404 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:11,920 And if I'm truly just me and living my life, those who are 405 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,440 here for me will be here and those who aren't will leave. 406 00:21:15,560 --> 00:21:17,880 And that's OK. And I was. 407 00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,000 Like it was very interesting, but for most people, I feel like 408 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:24,960 they live this probably two different lives than that, where 409 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:28,400 there is a one side of a, a business aspect where they live 410 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:32,360 that only fans or whatever side. And then the other side, he 411 00:21:32,360 --> 00:21:34,360 hears me outside of work, hears me is this. 412 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,400 And there's a very distinct like show name, screen names, you 413 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,320 know, Oh, this is this, this is my book name, my author name. 414 00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:44,040 You know, a lot of people hide behind a, a screen name of 415 00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,720 sorts, you know, a gamertag, something that's not their name. 416 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:53,640 And I think it's very interesting to see just someone 417 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:59,280 who presents both together at the same as the same versus. 418 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:02,120 I think a lot of us have personas that they play 0. 419 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:04,080 Absolutely. I don't think there's. 420 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:06,920 Or people or things. Even the person who says that 421 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:09,360 I'm I'm always me is not going to always be me. 422 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,120 There's parts of you there, there's three parts. 423 00:22:12,120 --> 00:22:15,720 There's your personal, there's your private, and then there's 424 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:20,200 your your secret life. But even like I feel like I'm 425 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,160 mostly the same person, the only difference is I might not say as 426 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,880 many dirty things and I might not really swear as much 427 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:30,240 depending on who I'm around. Like normally I don't say fuck 428 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:35,040 in front of my family, it's just a courtesy because I know that 429 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,280 that for them is abrasive and they're very. 430 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:42,040 That is hilarious. I did not know that, like you, 431 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,480 you consider that word abrasive. For my family, 100% yeah. 432 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,440 Oh wait a minute, what family we talking about here? 433 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,440 Your mom and my family. Oh yeah, your family. 434 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,480 So Curtis, Alec, I can say that that's fine. 435 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:58,200 Jackie, honestly, I mean like my parents, external family, like 436 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,440 if I were to show up to the whole thing and go in front of 437 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,400 all the Holt, probably wouldn't say fuck. 438 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:04,520 That's funny. If I went down to all the elder 439 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,600 side, I wouldn't say fuck. You know, I'll say hell, shit, 440 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,360 damn, whatever, but I won't say fuck. 441 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:16,640 Randy and Greg. Greg totally. 442 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:18,960 But see, that's just how. But your dad? 443 00:23:19,120 --> 00:23:23,040 No, I keep your dad at an arm's distance because I don't know 444 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,560 how what I'm going to say that may offend him. 445 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,600 So I'm just like. We're good. 446 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,080 Yeah. See, I've learned that most 447 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:32,960 things I say will probably offend him, and so I'm just 448 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,680 going to have to let him get over it and we'll have some hard 449 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:37,000 conversations. Yeah. 450 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,720 So. I've normalized a lot of that in 451 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,440 my household. I mean, and you know what? 452 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:44,040 I've got kids that are like, I don't swear. 453 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,360 And I'm like, that's cool. Like my little boy, he's like, I 454 00:23:47,360 --> 00:23:49,160 don't, I don't like that and I'm cool with it. 455 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:53,080 But like, you know, my son yesterday he goes, fuck, I'm 456 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,480 scared about going to the dentist tomorrow. 457 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:58,840 And this is a conversation we're having and he's 15 and I'm like, 458 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:00,800 and I'm I'm totally fine with this. 459 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,920 My wife sitting at the table and she's on her phone. 460 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,800 She can hear him. She's not getting. 461 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:10,200 Upset So when I grew up, my dad never yelled or he he yelled all 462 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:14,600 the time, but he hardly swore. And the. 463 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:18,160 Only time he would square was if he was really pissed and you 464 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:22,400 knew if he was swearing you sure as hell better not be anywhere 465 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,040 near. And I didn't want my kids to 466 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:27,520 ever feel that way. Like oh shit dad said shit. 467 00:24:28,360 --> 00:24:31,520 Well I don't want it to be oh shit he hurt he said shit or 468 00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,120 damn or hell. Now I need to be scared or 469 00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:36,120 nervous because he said this word. 470 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,160 Well, couldn't it be just that that word is just commonly used 471 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:43,840 because instead of going, I only use this when I'm really pissed, 472 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,280 really fucking irritated. Then I'm going. 473 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,640 Well, then they learn that these words come out. 474 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:51,920 You better be worried. You better be scared because 475 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,720 dad's hiss, dude. And I'm like, I never want my 476 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:58,800 kids to feel that way. So instead it's I will say fuck, 477 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,160 I will say shit, hell, whatever it is because to me it's just a 478 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,680 noise. It is just another noise and I. 479 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:09,880 No, it's a word that has. Very long, you know, elaborate 480 00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:13,160 words, but to me, does that really benefit anyone? 481 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,360 Do I really think that most people today speak in that way? 482 00:25:17,120 --> 00:25:20,160 Or am I going to have a disconnect because I'm going, 483 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,400 well, I'm choosing to speak above you like? 484 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,160 Yes, I can't. So wait a minute, where are you 485 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,720 going with that? Like you're saying like if 486 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,440 anybody uses a word that. May No, no, because to me it's 487 00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,360 just, it's just a sound. So I'm not choosing it as like, 488 00:25:32,360 --> 00:25:35,200 well, this is an offensive word. This is an unoffensive word. 489 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:38,160 It's just fuck or like you should be worried because I'm 490 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,480 saying fuck now or, you know, it's not an angry term or 491 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:43,800 anything. It's just to me, it's a word, 492 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:47,680 you know, it's, it's not classified as like, hey, this 493 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:53,240 needs to be tied to any sort of feeling, emotion, anything. 494 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,040 It can just be used anywhere, but I'm also not having to talk 495 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,720 incredibly high brow where I'm like, Oh well, I just don't 496 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,520 swear because. Oh, I see where you're going. 497 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,840 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, you know, because when 498 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,920 I've had talks with my dad and we got in that argument and I 499 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:12,160 said fuck twice in 5 minutes and he got frustrated about how 500 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,120 that's very low brow and uneducated and and I was like. 501 00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,440 And so that that's what I'm saying is, you know, it's not 502 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,880 necessarily that it's a low brow or that it's, you know, that I 503 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,720 don't need to speak high brow, like, Oh, I'm talking down or 504 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,400 like, Oh, I only talk in these types of of ways. 505 00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:32,800 I'm like, I can talk on a way that someone else can understand 506 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,080 because that's where most people talk. 507 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:38,800 Why use very eloquent or high words when most people aren't 508 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,160 using those? They're not going to, they're 509 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:41,960 going to go, what the fuck did he just say? 510 00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:43,800 What? Why is he throwing that in? 511 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:46,880 Do I have to go Google his word? Well, you can feel the intent 512 00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,760 behind it, especially with the inflection that's coming with 513 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:52,880 it, 'cause now you're just like, you're doing that because you're 514 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,720 upset with me and you want me to feel lesser than you. 515 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,360 But it's the same to me. That's when I'm like, it's the 516 00:26:58,360 --> 00:27:01,160 same as them going Frick. Heck, Dang no. 517 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,760 They're saying the same thing. You know, and that's how I'm 518 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,680 like. All of these things, when you do 519 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,080 them, they're in the same tone, same inflection, same sentence 520 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,000 structure, everything. The only difference is you're 521 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,000 changing the noise that's made and choosing to get a offended 522 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,240 by the noise that I make in that exact same spot. 523 00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:18,240 Exactly. It's it, you know, it's it's 524 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,560 like you could go out there and swear in another language and 525 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:22,880 nobody's going to know the difference. 526 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:23,320 They'll. Just go. 527 00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,240 Oh, OK, cool. He's, oh, he's being fancy. 528 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:27,800 He used French there. Yeah. 529 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:31,200 Oh, that's so highbrow. You know, it's just like me out 530 00:27:31,360 --> 00:27:34,480 of the right, you said that and somebody be like, oh, what is 531 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,120 that? Is that something that you put 532 00:27:36,120 --> 00:27:38,520 on a Taco? You know, like you could. 533 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,880 Oh, that sounds spicy. Oh, it is. 534 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,640 It is. Spicy, spicy shit. 535 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,240 There you go. That's just it, you know, and, 536 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,920 and I, I think that that's something I never wanted my kids 537 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,760 to feel. So I think it's great when I see 538 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,040 kids or that that do it because I'm like, as long as they use it 539 00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,160 in nice ways, I'm like, because to me, I'm like, I don't, I will 540 00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,640 never swear out my kids. Hey, you're this, you're that, 541 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:04,040 you're whatever. I will use swear words like I am 542 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:08,640 so fucking frustrated and they will hear fucking but it's not 543 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:13,000 you are this or you are dumb or like there's never a you are 544 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,800 this. The swear word is never towards 545 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,040 that. It's just an exclamation. 546 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:22,440 That's it. Yeah, no, I, I typically now use 547 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:26,840 it as just part of the lex. It's just part of my daily 548 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,480 vocabulary. Yeah, but I, I understand what 549 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:35,480 you're talking about because as you know, I, I'm very big on, on 550 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,800 tone and inclination, intonation. 551 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,400 What what's the meaning behind my words as opposed to just 552 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,920 saying the word itself. And so I know exactly what 553 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:48,600 you're saying with the kid because I, I won't get pissed 554 00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,720 even if something happens in front of me that could be really 555 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,640 frustrating. I don't swear anymore because I, 556 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,920 I don't want them to think that I, I think that this is an, a 557 00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:03,520 frustrating moment. They they usually hear that and 558 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,000 it usually is. I mean, nobody says it like, you 559 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:09,680 know, unless it's the shit. This is the shit. 560 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,280 Yeah, right. That's fucking dope. 561 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,960 Like this one guy is like every word in the English language is 562 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:15,840 great but except shit. What? 563 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,240 That's one of the best words. He's like, but The thing is, 564 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,080 it's great because he's like, This is why he's a he's a he's a 565 00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:25,840 foreigner and he's like, because it can be, Hey, whose shit is 566 00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,720 this? Be going? 567 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:31,200 That's not my shit, right? Take your shit. 568 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:36,880 But then you can shit, but then you also go on, Hey, that's 569 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:38,920 bullshit, right? That's a bad thing. 570 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,240 But then you could also go, Hey, this is the shit, right? 571 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,800 So it's the same thing. It's it's tone. 572 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,120 Your, your tone can change the meaning of the word. 573 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:54,160 And I, I, I, I feel for a lot of these people who get so hung up 574 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,920 on the tone of the word because if you said, oh, fuck, like 575 00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,280 you're British should be like, yeah, I, I, I was talking to 576 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,320 this British woman who owns this agency out in New York, and she 577 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:08,800 was looking for a copywriter. And as we were talking, I was 578 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,160 like, oh, I'm not a good fit for her. 579 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,920 Like she has a certain writer, she's looking for her. 580 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,120 So I was like, oh, that's no problem. 581 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,000 Pretty soon she's like, and you know that that's great. 582 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:22,000 She goes, I'm LDS as well. And I'm like, OK, so I tested 583 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:24,560 her because I'm like, she's from New York and she's British. 584 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,960 Yeah, sort of talk. And I'm just like, yeah. 585 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,800 And that's like, it's a bunch of dumb fucks, but what do you do? 586 00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,640 Yep. And I didn't, I didn't say 587 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:33,520 anything. I just wanted to drop a fuck in 588 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,240 there. And she goes, well, you can't 589 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,800 fucking win all the time. And you. 590 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,760 Yeah. And I'm like, oh, she goes, I'll 591 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,360 apologize. And I'm like, no, I was testing 592 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,080 you. We're cool. 593 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,320 And it's The funny thing. It's it's that what you said. 594 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,920 It's the euphemisms. Like the meaning behind your 595 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:54,480 word is not the word itself. Yeah, it's the tone and intent. 596 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,800 And so it's like, it's like the word fuck, fuck's great. 597 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,520 What can fit in so many things and that too. 598 00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,280 And I'm like, it's kind of like that shit. 599 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,960 You can place it in so many things and it can mean so many 600 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:11,720 variations of stuff and so like it's, it can be used in so many 601 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,120 different ways so. It's just a word, but the, the 602 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:19,280 meaning, I mean, yeah, you can even take the word love. 603 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,400 And now the different context comes with it because what is 604 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:28,920 what is that word used for? It's used for manipulation. 605 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,080 Often. Right, but it can also be used 606 00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:38,200 to be able to describe a feeling that's undescribable, right? 607 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,920 Because it's like it's we, we have to, we have to 608 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,760 contextualize it. We have to, it's got to be 609 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:45,280 tangible. And if it doesn't have a word or 610 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,120 a meaning, it's just a, it's something you feel and you can't 611 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,600 really describe. That's really hard. 612 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:53,920 So you got to give it something. And the word love is awesome for 613 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,200 that feeling because it just it just it feels like the word fits 614 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,560 the meaning and that's strange to the sound fits. 615 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:03,480 So it's same as the word fuck, like go fuck yourself. 616 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:08,960 Like whoa, dude, that guys pissed or hey, I can't wait for 617 00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,440 a real good fuck. Now all of a sudden it's like, 618 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,000 oh, that sounds like a great time. 619 00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:14,880 That sounds like he's going to be having an amazing time. 620 00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,400 Yeah. And I forgot the fucking cake. 621 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,560 Oh yeah, oh, that's fucking amazing. 622 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,640 Or like, oh, that's fucking disgusting. 623 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:24,040 It's just. Watch the fuck out. 624 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,800 It's. Just an exclamation added to 625 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,000 whatever descriptive word like it's just. 626 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,680 But that's the cool part is that is that the tone dictates how it 627 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,960 works. And so it's so important to 628 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,760 really understand that. Like, I'm hypersensitive to it. 629 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:45,880 So when my son who's autistic, I'll say, hey, Nick, game times 630 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,120 over, dude, I need you to turn it off. 631 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:53,200 He goes, okay, and all my old mind goes, are you threatening 632 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,640 me, right? Yeah. 633 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:57,040 Are you for my back order? Right. 634 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,920 This is like, but then I just go, hey dude, are you just 635 00:32:59,920 --> 00:33:01,360 saying it 'cause you're just doing a funny voice? 636 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,920 He goes, yeah. And I'm like, oh, OK, yeah, 637 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,320 that's what it is. That's what it is. 638 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:07,360 OK, cool. Do not take offense from it. 639 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:11,360 But again, that's that's the. It just sounds like it's in a 640 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:12,800 smart ass remark. It's. 641 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:16,680 A double edged sword, yeah. So you have to if if you don't 642 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:19,240 understand, then ask for clarity. 643 00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,600 Yeah, but that's why I had to ask I. 644 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,080 Mean I make weird voices and shit all the time. 645 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:25,800 That makes perfect sense. Yeah. 646 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,720 You know, like. When we do like, I mean, it, 647 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,920 it's, it's the same thing. Like what's the what's the best 648 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,560 line with any significant other? Are you OK? 649 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,640 Yeah, I'm fine. And you're like, you know, now 650 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,400 listen to that right there. Fine. 651 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,320 Yeah, yeah, I'm fine. Yeah, I'm fine. 652 00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:47,040 Right. Instead of yeah, I'm fine or 653 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,920 yeah, I'm fine. Yeah. 654 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:53,120 It's just I'm fine. And you're are you? 655 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,840 And then and then what do you say? 656 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:59,080 You typically want to go and you want to call it out because you 657 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:01,360 feel like for some reason that's not going to go bad. 658 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,560 And you go, yeah, well, you sound mad. 659 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,760 Yeah. Fuck. 660 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:11,080 Why did I just say that? He said going, oh, and I just 661 00:34:11,080 --> 00:34:14,199 go. Now when I hear that tone, I go, 662 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:19,120 OK, you need some space inside me that I've had to learn that I 663 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,400 don't need to fulfill is that if they're feeling bad, it doesn't 664 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:27,600 mean that I have to feel bad. And I and somewhere in my 665 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,280 growing up, I learned that where I need to feel the pain of 666 00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:32,520 others. Yeah. 667 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:39,120 And and meaning like if they're just frustrated and upset, is it 668 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,320 OK? Is that a learned trait? 669 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,040 I believe so. Because when you look at 670 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:48,960 children, they don't do that. What they do is they comfort one 671 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:50,920 another. If you take toddlers, what 672 00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,280 causes that? Because I feel like that's, I 673 00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,400 think it's a protective. Thing it's a protective thing 674 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:57,920 that's taught. It's it's almost like getting 675 00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,800 mad at your kid because they got hurt. 676 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:01,920 Yeah. Why did you do that? 677 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,560 And like, I don't know, too. I was really just. 678 00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,400 Trying to experiment doing this and saw how far my arm could 679 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,680 bend the other way. Yeah, I was riding my. 680 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,360 Bike and suddenly gravity took over. 681 00:35:12,720 --> 00:35:15,600 Fucked my knee up. You're like, well, stop playing 682 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,680 with gravity. I mean, it's it, it, it's always 683 00:35:19,680 --> 00:35:22,520 from a protective nature, right? But the tonality that's used 684 00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,080 like now I need to be more cognizant of it. 685 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,280 So like whenever I'm talking to my wife and, and I hear that 686 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:31,720 she's upset, part of me is like, you need to feel OK. 687 00:35:31,720 --> 00:35:33,040 You need to ask her what's wrong. 688 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,560 You need to find out if it's you that she's upset about. 689 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,600 And if it's you that's upset about, then you need to propose 690 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,520 us a way to fix it. Like this whole thing used to go 691 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:44,400 through my mind every time. And I know it goes through a lot 692 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,960 of people's minds because they're just like, fuck. 693 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:52,280 Instead of just going, the tone is telling me that either it's 694 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:54,800 not important right now or that she needs space. 695 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:59,280 No problem. I'm fine, OK, I don't, I don't 696 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,240 need to go into that. And she'll come up to me later 697 00:36:01,240 --> 00:36:02,920 saying, hey, look, I'm upset about this. 698 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,760 Like, OK, cool. And it's, it's understanding. 699 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,760 Like when you, when you leverage that and you start being able to 700 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,240 do it, like it's, it's something that I've, I've been teaching 701 00:36:12,240 --> 00:36:14,800 for a while now. And it's so funny because you 702 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,320 just watch people's faces when you use a different tone and 703 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,960 they're like, oh, OK. And when you meet somebody who 704 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,120 understands it and is doing it naturally, it's also it, there's 705 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:28,960 a, a form of a called paralinguistics. 706 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:32,320 And when you're able to do that, like it's, it's funny because 707 00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:34,200 the other person starts to mimic you. 708 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,440 Like even down to the point, you know, NLP with breath. 709 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,160 Yeah. So I use that, yeah. 710 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:43,880 To calm people down. Well, because you match them. 711 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,480 And then you bring them to match you continuously through it to 712 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:47,560 where you. Yeah. 713 00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,720 Yeah, and then they all started and they they start slowing down 714 00:36:54,280 --> 00:37:00,280 and it's so cool because they we have this drive to be connected 715 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:04,240 to others and will mimic them. That's why it's like my boy who 716 00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:07,640 loves wrestlers. And I think it's so cool. 717 00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,120 It's not a sports guy. It's not a real. 718 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,960 Like it's not on a sports team like LeBron James. 719 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,600 Fuck LeBron James. OK, let me tell you that right 720 00:37:15,720 --> 00:37:16,880 now, LeBron. James. 721 00:37:17,240 --> 00:37:18,680 LeBron James. Not because he's great at 722 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:20,480 basketball. Not because he makes millions of 723 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:23,720 dollars is because he feels the need to impose his ideas on to 724 00:37:23,720 --> 00:37:25,600 everybody else and that you should do it with him. 725 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,040 Yeah, I don't like. That with anyone though. 726 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,480 No, I don't like when anybody does. 727 00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,280 That, yeah. And the best part is he's in the 728 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:36,680 ditty pictures. Same with Leonardo DiCaprio, 729 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,400 dude. Yeah, that was a lot of them. 730 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:43,280 I don't know. Much about him, but yeah, I he's 731 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,560 a quiet dude I'm really. Disappointed. 732 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:50,360 With just how many gross like. People were in there. 733 00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,800 I. Just everyone, I'm like, what in 734 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:56,080 the fuck? Because I just so the court case 735 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:59,680 that I keeps getting pushed down is to go go after child predator 736 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:03,160 who molests children. And it just all this ditty stuff 737 00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,640 and that. And it it really frustrates me 738 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:09,080 because it just makes me wonder how much of our system is just 739 00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,440 supporting of that because when this was reported and like the 740 00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:18,080 whole police thing happened is almost a decade ago, a decade 741 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,160 ago, and it still hasn't gotten to court yet. 742 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,520 Yeah, dude. And you know it the honestly. 743 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,440 And this is just one case. Did you you know? 744 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:35,440 The the reasons are as old as time and it's those who possess 745 00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:39,120 a lot of money, who don't want to ruin their image will pay to 746 00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:40,720 have it cleaned. That's it. 747 00:38:40,720 --> 00:38:43,160 He had enough money. To make bail and stay out. 748 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,600 And his attorney has kept it going and pushing back this 749 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:46,760 long. Can you believe that? 750 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,680 That's it. And then that's. 751 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,760 The thing, dude? Because if this is a high 752 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:56,760 profile case with some random dude who had a shitty job, he 753 00:38:56,760 --> 00:38:59,440 worked at Amazon fulfillment center, right? 754 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:03,120 He's pissing in bottles because they won't give him a break. 755 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,520 And, and he's just like, you know what I'm going to do? 756 00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:11,280 I'm going to go molest this kid. One kid molested. 757 00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:15,840 And this guy isn't anybody in society that's noteworthy that 758 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,240 has a lot of wealth or anything like that. 759 00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:19,400 Not that they're a shitty person, it's just that they 760 00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,720 don't have like a huge footprint. 761 00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:23,800 Yep, that guy. Would go to. 762 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:28,160 Prison he thrown away, getting mass raped in prison or fucking 763 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,160 killed right away. Right away. 764 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,360 And and if. I mean, he would, he should tell 765 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,560 everybody that he he, he cookbooks, right? 766 00:39:35,720 --> 00:39:37,360 I got busted for financial fraud. 767 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,800 But The thing is. That wouldn't matter because 768 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,640 they put you in a separate section that only the Mos are in 769 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:46,040 so everyone would know you're a Moe even if you told them I'm in 770 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:48,160 here for this, they think about that. 771 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:51,960 That's like the the description of hell is being trapped with 772 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:55,840 other people that are like you and everybody is aware of it, 773 00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,280 but nobody talks about it. Like that's a special kind of 774 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,520 hell. Well, that was what I thought. 775 00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,680 Because for me, that's what you thought was going to. 776 00:40:03,720 --> 00:40:05,840 Happen, I don't believe. In a heaven or hell. 777 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,160 So I don't think there's this concept of this invisible guy 778 00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:11,880 and this guy who's going to judge and send anyone anywhere. 779 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:16,320 So I don't feel that like him dying, if I ever went and killed 780 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,680 him, that that would value 'cause it would literally chance 781 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,880 that I go to prison, which puts more harm against my kids. 782 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:27,600 And then it ends this life for this man who tortures children 783 00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,280 and causes trauma for the rest of their lives. 784 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:31,960 Yeah, but. And I'm like. 785 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,480 The only hell I. Can imagine is the hell where he 786 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,800 has the same exact experience he's giving to all these kids to 787 00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,840 him and prison would do that. I don't I. 788 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:44,520 I I disagree. I mean I look at child molesters 789 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,600 as people as a punishable crime of death. 790 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,640 I know and I feel. Like and the reason why I say 791 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:51,160 that. Is. 792 00:40:52,240 --> 00:40:58,160 I want that and maybe it's the the monster in me because I want 793 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,000 him to suffer and if if he dies, there's no suffering. 794 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:07,040 And so the the law abiding citizen man in me is like God. 795 00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:08,680 This is what I would do to that person. 796 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,440 This is the type of torture I would do to that person, like to 797 00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,240 put him through the things that he put kids through and stuff. 798 00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:19,320 But that's not who I am and the deepest parts. 799 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,040 That's not something I really want to do at the same time. 800 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,960 And I think a bullet in the head or something like that is way 801 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,440 too good for a child molester. Oh, I'm I'm the. 802 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,360 The why? I suggest that it's not for me, 803 00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:36,920 it's for to prevent more harm, because what does that do? 804 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:41,280 They can't be reformed and they will only serve a small period 805 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:45,520 of time unless they did a lot of kids and there's actual proof 806 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,640 because his has lots of kids. OK, lots of periods of time. 807 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,920 You know how it goes, man. It's it's going to go to trial. 808 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:55,520 And if they don't have enough evidence, they can't convict. 809 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,720 And what happens? He gets, he stays out. 810 00:41:57,720 --> 00:41:59,480 Yeah. And he continues to do the same 811 00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,120 thing. There's like this guy, he's like 812 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,200 a serial killer. They call him the monster of the 813 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,800 Andes, saying that he has killed hundreds of children up there. 814 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,480 He he rapes them and kills them. Hundreds. 815 00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,600 And he was in prison and then he escaped and he's still on the 816 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:15,840 loose. What the fuck? 817 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,360 But. I mean, when we think about our 818 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,920 system is bad, that system is like they don't give a fuck. 819 00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:25,240 But that's that's my. Struggle is yes, I do think like 820 00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:28,360 in that moment the best option probably is to just put them 821 00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,840 down Yeah totally, dude like we. Do it with dogs. 822 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,640 Oh, hey, this dog bit a person. OK, well, you've got one time 823 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,720 you did it. OK, well, now the next time that 824 00:42:36,720 --> 00:42:41,480 dog we're putting it down, it is getting put down like I'm sorry, 825 00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,720 your dog is dead. Well, we put dogs down because 826 00:42:45,720 --> 00:42:49,360 it's humane, because, you know, we don't let them get old and 827 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,080 decrepit in that too. So why in the hell wouldn't we 828 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:55,480 do the same for, you know, child molester you're protecting. 829 00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,560 And then that's the thing. It's a deterrent and it's a 830 00:42:57,560 --> 00:43:01,440 protection because when you it it's this reminds me of a really 831 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,040 old Robin Williams stand up comedy. 832 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,680 His his oldest stand up comedy was great. 833 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,640 It was all cocaine filled. She was full of cocaine or it 834 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,240 was all about. Cocaine filled and then when he 835 00:43:11,240 --> 00:43:12,600 was. Sober, it was really funny, but 836 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,960 you knew he was still doing shit because he would say, oh, I'm 837 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,480 sober now. Like you're not drinking but got 838 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,880 the Peruvian marching powder. But he was talking about, and 839 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:26,200 this is where I think about a lot of people in laws and a law 840 00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:30,480 will be, this is the line. If you cross this, it's over. 841 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,760 And then they step over that line, they go, OK, wait a 842 00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:34,880 minute, this is the line. Yeah. 843 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,200 And if you step over this one, we're done. 844 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:41,400 And they go, OK, if you step over this line, I'm not going to 845 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:43,840 talk to you. And we're not friends anymore. 846 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,400 Like it. It just keeps getting pushed 847 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:50,400 back. And so the crime isn't as bad 848 00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:54,680 and it gets pushed down. Like my biggest issue that I saw 849 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,760 that happened in California was this whole push to be able to 850 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:03,840 allow to call them maps, minor attracted persons. 851 00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,200 Yeah, I when? I heard that. 852 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,120 I was like, that's the most fucked up thing. 853 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,440 I identify as someone who likes kids. 854 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,920 So a pervert. You identify as a fucking 855 00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,720 pervert, as a dead man. Or, and and the thing too that 856 00:44:16,720 --> 00:44:19,440 needs to be talked about like, you know what happens? 857 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,560 So is some crazy junior high school teacher. 858 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:26,480 She fucking blows a fuse and and sucks a bunch of Dicks and and 859 00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:28,280 fucks some kids. Yeah, and they're like good 860 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,520 looking women too. Boggles my mind. 861 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:31,440 They're in the news and I'm like. 862 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:33,720 You're like an attractive looking person. 863 00:44:33,720 --> 00:44:35,760 You truly do seem so are you nuts? 864 00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:38,800 Like what snapped that you went and you're like, it's hey, this 865 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:43,400 15 year old this like whatever it is do everybody's everybody. 866 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:47,760 At one point at a time has had this like twisted urge to do 867 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:52,320 something, whether it was to push someone off a bike or steal 868 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:53,800 something. Whatever it. 869 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,120 Is something that. You're like, this isn't the 870 00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:59,840 moral compass I typically have been told to follow or follow, 871 00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:03,760 but if you steal a car. Off of a car lot because you 872 00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,000 were stealing like gum as a kid. And they go, why did you do 873 00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:07,880 that? And you're like, I didn't know 874 00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,280 any better. Like that's just stupid because 875 00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,880 you understand that it's there and that's the problem that 876 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,480 keeps persisting with it. And so it's just like if you 877 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:23,000 make it OK and normal and not that big of a deal and if you 878 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:27,440 get caught, don't worry, it could be a while until you even 879 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,320 seven years and there's not even like. 880 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,960 It's finally getting to the court that they, you know, there 881 00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:33,720 was a subpoena. We were thinking we were going 882 00:45:33,720 --> 00:45:36,160 to get court date. And now it's two months pushed 883 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:39,560 out like two to three months. And it's like, OK, there was a 884 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,880 guy recently. That was convicted of killing 885 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:47,960 his brother because his brother molested and raped his daughter, 886 00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,240 his his little girl. And So what he did is he drove 887 00:45:51,240 --> 00:45:55,280 over the house and beat him until he was unconscious and 888 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,560 then keep beating him. And then he took it a step too 889 00:45:57,560 --> 00:45:59,440 further and he cut him up into pieces. 890 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,960 So if he would have killed them and stopped and called the 891 00:46:02,960 --> 00:46:05,640 police and I killed my brother, here's what happened. 892 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:11,160 They come over act a passion. There was a guy in the 80s where 893 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:15,640 his karate instructor was molesting this kid and then 894 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:20,920 abducted him and took him. And luckily, luckily because of 895 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,280 milk cartoons and billboards and all the stuff, they found that 896 00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,800 kid real fast. And they arrested the guy and 897 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,400 they flew the guy back. They extradited him back and 898 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:32,360 they brought him like on a regular flight. 899 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,880 And the news cameras were all around there. 900 00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,880 And the father was at a payphone, turned around, shot 901 00:46:40,040 --> 00:46:42,320 him and shot him right on live TV. 902 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:47,160 And he was acquitted. Probably, but then other places 903 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:48,840 it. Depends on the jury it. 904 00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:51,560 Depends on it. It depends on the laws. 905 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:56,840 Too, like I mean state, it's so crazy and it's those things like 906 00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:59,960 when it that's why I don't believe it. 907 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:06,360 What prison is for is for you to sit alone with what you have 908 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:11,280 done and why you are there and why you can't have freedoms, why 909 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,680 you can't go out. We also put people in there. 910 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,680 Unjustly, I wish that that's a that's. 911 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:18,560 A whole different it's it's been. 912 00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:20,760 It that's not. Just a current thing that's been 913 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,000 a for everything, right, Wrong. People being convicted. 914 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:25,960 I agree. And there's certain things that 915 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,080 shouldn't require prison. I think that prison should only 916 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,440 be for those who have hurt people. 917 00:47:31,720 --> 00:47:33,360 Yeah, really badly. Yeah. 918 00:47:33,520 --> 00:47:36,440 And that's including financial. And they shouldn't go to some 919 00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:39,280 nice like white collar prison with fucking tennis. 920 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,200 Yeah, tennis courts and oh, it's tea time. 921 00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:46,040 OK, get the crumpets, dear dude. Have you heard of like Jordan 922 00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:47,600 Belfort? He was served in a Jordan 923 00:47:47,600 --> 00:47:51,600 Belfort's the guy that the whole movie Wolf of Wall Street was 924 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,600 based on. Why is her name so? 925 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,360 Jordan Belfort did. When he went to prison because 926 00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:00,920 he stole millions and millions and millions of dollars from 927 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:05,640 people who couldn't even afford anything, and he made all this 928 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:08,880 money, he went to prison and he was like, yeah, it wasn't bad. 929 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:11,480 Like he was in there with Tommy Chong. 930 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:16,040 Tommy Chong was his bunk mate. And he told Tommy Chong why he 931 00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:18,200 was in there. Yeah, Tommy. 932 00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:19,760 Chong's all. Hey, man. 933 00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,560 You, you should do a movie, man. You should write a book. 934 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,040 So he didn't turn into a best seller and he's using that 935 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:27,920 money, at least that's what he says, to pay back all those 936 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,280 people that he stole money from, hopefully. 937 00:48:30,720 --> 00:48:32,240 And that's cool. That's admirable. 938 00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:36,320 But at the same time, dude, it's, it's this, it's just so 939 00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,880 fucked up. It the laws allow you to 940 00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:44,520 continue to get away with things and if you have money, you. 941 00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:47,480 Can do it easier. Yeah, so much easier and. 942 00:48:47,480 --> 00:48:50,960 Is like this guy, like I, I think the most humane thing to 943 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,160 do for society would have been to put a fucking bullet in that 944 00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,960 guy's head after the first time he did that. 945 00:48:56,000 --> 00:49:00,040 I know that's true because. Even in the last 10 years since 946 00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:04,040 my kids thing, there's been another kid who has a case going 947 00:49:04,040 --> 00:49:07,720 on right now from him too. And before that, before my kids, 948 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,760 apparently, like I found out through all of this, there was 949 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,040 another case like a decade before my kids won. 950 00:49:13,520 --> 00:49:15,840 Like there's these things that it's like, OK, this is not the 951 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,960 first time. This is a perpetual thing. 952 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,800 And you know, so like you said, you how many kids do you save? 953 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,400 Well, and and think about it like. 954 00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:28,120 They don't and I'm going to use the word sin, not necessarily in 955 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,160 the the religious context, but the weight of the word, what it 956 00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:34,040 what it would mean in that religious context. 957 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,760 Like it's actual, it's a, it's a. 958 00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:38,000 Moral action. So it's a sin as far as a moral 959 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:39,880 action, not a theological based action. 960 00:49:39,880 --> 00:49:41,360 That's what I'm talking about, societal. 961 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,240 Sin not Theo. No, no, no. 962 00:49:44,240 --> 00:49:46,680 I'm talking like a. Societal sin of doing that? 963 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,000 What other things happened that require death? 964 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,320 They call capital capital a capital murder, killing two 965 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:56,360 people or there's a certain intent or the state has a 966 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,280 different meaning for capital murder. 967 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:02,160 But the federal, the federal mandate states of what they're 968 00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:04,840 doing right. If they kill some, if they kill 969 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:10,520 multiple people with intent, what happens to them? 970 00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,480 They're supposed to be they, they'll put them to death. 971 00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:16,200 And what do they do? They they talk about humane. 972 00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:20,880 What's humane, humane to let somebody? 973 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:25,040 I'm very curious what humane is. Exactly what did they do that 974 00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,360 area and and dude executioners. Have been around for a long 975 00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,440 time, but they they were for far less. 976 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:38,040 They were for far less crimes. To be hung, to be shot, to be 977 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:40,560 quartered. Yeah, dude, there was far. 978 00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:43,200 Less crimes. Like, oh, did you hear about 979 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:44,640 Kathy? No, they killed her. 980 00:50:44,720 --> 00:50:47,760 She ate meat on Friday. Fucking bitch shouldn't have 981 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:49,080 done it. Yep, she knows that's. 982 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,800 Only a Wednesday thing. Bitch should have had a fucking 983 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,200 squaw. Yeah, exactly. 984 00:50:53,280 --> 00:50:55,120 Something makes. Karen suck eggs. 985 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:57,040 And how's her family gonna feel later on? 986 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:59,440 When they took that shit out. Yeah, right. 987 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:01,320 So frustrated. Well, 'cause I mean, that's. 988 00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,000 Like about same with. Cannabis How many people are in? 989 00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:08,240 In jail for stupid cannabis laws in states where now that's like 990 00:51:08,240 --> 00:51:11,880 it's legal and they're like wait everything I'm doing now would 991 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,240 have been just fine and I would be not put in jail for this I 992 00:51:15,240 --> 00:51:18,480 would be out just fine for the same plant that my friends are 993 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,560 using for this same stuff and I'm like I can totally 994 00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,520 understand that frustration or that thing especially if a lot 995 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,800 changes going hey this changed we're not following this but 996 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,440 you're still being held those kind of laws are bullshit and 997 00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:33,720 they. Usually stay on their record. 998 00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:35,920 It's not. Like, hey, your record, record's 999 00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:37,520 wiped clean. You don't have that anymore. 1000 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,480 It's like, hey, you know, if someone you're trying to get a 1001 00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,720 job, they run that that's still on your background. 1002 00:51:43,240 --> 00:51:46,240 Like, you know, there's these things that that affects their 1003 00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:49,960 life, their, their well-being, their like livelihood, all of 1004 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:54,840 this shit and our system, I hate our system, but it's, it's just, 1005 00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:57,040 it's a legal. System anyway you shape it and 1006 00:51:57,040 --> 00:52:00,080 it you know where we're talking like yeah, this sucks and it's 1007 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:01,520 bad. I totally agree. 1008 00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,440 Like I think that if anything starts to become legalized 1009 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:06,920 immediately anybody who's in prison for that one, as long as 1010 00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:11,040 it's a non violent one then or or nobody had to die to be able 1011 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,760 to get that yeah, I'd be released. 1012 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,160 Release them. Yeah, but that's the thing, like 1013 00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:20,480 we, we will imprison people for ridiculous things such as moving 1014 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:23,680 a large amount of plant material, and I'm only talking 1015 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:27,600 about cannabis here, moving a large amount of plant material 1016 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:34,360 across an invisible border to. Get into the same country right 1017 00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,880 the. Same fucking dirt in those 1018 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:38,960 areas, yet all the sudden it's different. 1019 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:42,400 And then all the sudden you can go to jail for a very long time, 1020 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:48,080 but you can put your hands on a child, you can destroy 1021 00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:53,720 generations of people by doing that and and wander around 1022 00:52:53,720 --> 00:52:55,160 freely. Just fine. 1023 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,360 Yep, Yep. They'll put people in prison for 1024 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:02,760 far less and that's why I don't I think that there should be 1025 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,040 less. If the prisons are going to 1026 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:10,640 exist, it's going to be for extreme people, yeah, and it 1027 00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:11,960 needs to be. Extreme it's. 1028 00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,520 Only my my personal struggle. Because of the situation that 1029 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,160 I've been in, dude, totally. Because I think if I truly sat 1030 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,160 down and thought it through and like put logic into it and that 1031 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:26,320 I would go no death penalty would be the best, most like 1032 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:28,360 best way for it, for humanity as a whole. 1033 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:33,200 Imagine if he had grown up in. A world where it was very see, 1034 00:53:33,240 --> 00:53:36,480 and I know this is like there's there's Christians that are 1035 00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,280 listening to this right now. They're nerd like dude, that's 1036 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:39,760 not the Christian way. I don't care. 1037 00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,120 This is just how I think God put down like tons of. 1038 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:46,160 People, they were horrible. Yeah, even then, if they believe 1039 00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:50,560 in the Bible, he drowned 90% of all fucking humans because they 1040 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:52,680 were sinful. So there's so the child. 1041 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,320 Molesters, according to God. Would be just fine. 1042 00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:56,760 It's biblical. Kill him. 1043 00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:58,480 Yeah, well, in literally, he said. 1044 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,760 So well, because look at it, it's, it's like the tree. 1045 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:04,880 I mean, what tree is, what kind of fruit is coming from that 1046 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,200 tree? And if it's bad, it needs to be 1047 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,200 burned because it's not going to rehabilitate. 1048 00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,680 We do that to animals, just like you talked about with dogs, like 1049 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:18,080 the dog is put down if it bites, it's not safe, it's not out. 1050 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,640 In even in like it's not safe to have so they put it down. 1051 00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:24,720 That's like, this is the best rapists and child molesters. 1052 00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:28,640 I'm sorry, once you once you have done that, you have crossed 1053 00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:35,000 the line and society has continued to enable it, yes and 1054 00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,800 allow it just. Wally and a lot of times. 1055 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:41,240 It's underneath this guise of being humane because if you 1056 00:54:41,240 --> 00:54:44,120 think about it. If we started doing that well, 1057 00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:47,160 how many people like Diddy and all these other people who that 1058 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:50,040 is what they've done for so long and are really affluent? 1059 00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,800 Well, to do people, I think. That's why I think. 1060 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,800 That's why so much has been allowed to slide is because we 1061 00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:01,080 have such a large high up people that are doing it that as long 1062 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,680 as you're within, like we said, the wealthy, affluent percent 1063 00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:06,560 that you can get out, well, then you are. 1064 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:09,920 But everyone else while they're in jail and then they get Moe's 1065 00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:13,440 don't do well in prison. And so, but that's the, that's 1066 00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,520 the bad thing. Dude, is that the Moe's that 1067 00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:17,960 need it the most? Never really get there. 1068 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:19,720 No, they're the ones who are out. 1069 00:55:19,720 --> 00:55:24,040 Wealthy doing it tomorrow and hiding it or paying dude it's 1070 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:25,160 like. Tim Ballard. 1071 00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:27,320 Bullshit. Or, well, dude, even worse than 1072 00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:31,240 Tim Ballard. To the Tyler's the Taggart guy, 1073 00:55:31,240 --> 00:55:33,000 his dad. I haven't. 1074 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,280 Looked into all his stuff. Well, dude, he. 1075 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:39,600 That one dude, like he, you got to think about like again, 1076 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,440 that's that for me. He was like. 1077 00:55:43,240 --> 00:55:45,960 Child molester. Well, OK, so his. 1078 00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:52,840 Daughter had a friend that came over and I think she was 1516 or 1079 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,840 something like that, and he coerced her into having sex with 1080 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,640 him and they did it for a while and then she told somebody and 1081 00:56:01,640 --> 00:56:04,680 then he got confronted. And this is one of the founders 1082 00:56:04,680 --> 00:56:07,200 of Ancestry. Yepancestry.com. 1083 00:56:07,720 --> 00:56:11,120 And and we knew his son. Yeah, we worked with him, yeah. 1084 00:56:11,240 --> 00:56:15,840 And he, he, he tried to help me start a business too. 1085 00:56:16,240 --> 00:56:18,360 Later. Yeah, he's full of shit, but. 1086 00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,960 But the thing was is really horrible is that he destroyed 1087 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:24,960 his family's lives. Yeah. 1088 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:30,320 Like it's something that will never leave his family. 1089 00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:33,160 No, and they don't. I mean I. 1090 00:56:33,520 --> 00:56:36,280 Think the guy served time. He served like five years or 1091 00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,080 something. Oh wow. 1092 00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:40,000 Maybe it was because it was. Consensual. 1093 00:56:40,200 --> 00:56:41,960 I don't know. I don't know how that works. 1094 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,920 Well, that's the thing. Like now. 1095 00:56:43,960 --> 00:56:45,520 Now put it in a different context. 1096 00:56:45,640 --> 00:56:49,040 This wealthy, well to do business owner gets caught, 1097 00:56:49,600 --> 00:56:53,040 served some time, but more than that, he had to pay a big fine. 1098 00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:54,960 I don't even know if he served time to be honest. 1099 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,400 He might have not had to, I don't know. 1100 00:56:57,600 --> 00:56:59,160 And that's another. Bullshit thing is that. 1101 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,480 They can pay it off. Yep, right. 1102 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,000 They can pay it. Off money makes all the. 1103 00:57:04,000 --> 00:57:08,320 World of a difference. Well, even like so, even when 1104 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:12,480 you get wrongly accused. So we had Jeremy Fritch. 1105 00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,800 Jeremy. From greenskeeper on Oh yeah, on 1106 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,240 the show and he was talking about how he went to jail for 1107 00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:21,240 something he didn't do, but because he didn't have the 100 1108 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,960 and something thousand it would take to pay the attorneys to, he 1109 00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,040 just had to stay in jail. He had to go to jail. 1110 00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:27,520 For. That and I'm like that's 1111 00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:31,360 horrible that we do this to our like this is our system that we 1112 00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:35,200 live in the guy I've sat in jail, which is crazy I've. 1113 00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,920 Never been in jail, you know, and, and I'm like, I don't. 1114 00:57:38,280 --> 00:57:40,920 I don't feel like I'm a terrible, horrible person. 1115 00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:43,200 I mean, you know, they don't know you. 1116 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,880 I know. But like. 1117 00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,840 Not something that I feel like I should have to go sit in a cage, 1118 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:50,920 no. And and honestly. 1119 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,240 That those are the things that that's why I feel that the penal 1120 00:57:54,240 --> 00:57:58,120 system has become something that is penal. 1121 00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,240 Brandon's favorite word and snack. 1122 00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,800 And I do like snacks, little snacks though. 1123 00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:09,560 But anyways, but fuck it totally took me off the penal system. 1124 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:12,640 You know a lot of people. Don't think about that. 1125 00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:16,000 The prison system is an actual industry too. 1126 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,800 Yeah, and. That's. 1127 00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,840 That's that's with our. Courts too and so cuz all of our 1128 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,640 courts are just businesses and so each city you go into is just 1129 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:30,520 another business and so well, it's like parking tickets like. 1130 00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:35,960 Or or speeding tickets like, you know, like everybody, every cop 1131 00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:37,800 tried to say, Oh no, we don't have a quota. 1132 00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:40,920 Yeah, at certain times of the month, which is funny because 1133 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:42,880 when my brother. Works for the police thing. 1134 00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:44,400 He was like, Oh yeah, we have quota. 1135 00:58:44,400 --> 00:58:45,880 We had to get this many tickets we had. 1136 00:58:45,880 --> 00:58:46,880 Oh yeah. So quota. 1137 00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:50,480 All right, so the rest of you lying Fox, stop that. 1138 00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:53,400 Yeah, well, I mean, and again. But what are you teaching those 1139 00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:56,280 cops so that this is what you go after all? 1140 00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:58,040 Petty shit? Yeah, it's a business. 1141 00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:00,640 It's not. A Protecting the People keeper 1142 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,600 TV shows where the cops stride. Around but they're like actually 1143 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:07,240 people a part of the community like that's. 1144 00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,640 Such a fictitious. They the reason why is because 1145 00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:13,480 they don't emphasize any type of training of how to communicate 1146 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,400 with the general public. Not even they teach them what 1147 00:59:16,760 --> 00:59:20,240 how to use your gun, how to defuse them and how much with 1148 00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:22,280 that and that. Well, that's what they're 1149 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,040 they're. They go, they're doing, here's 1150 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,920 this. No, no, no, they have steps they 1151 00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:27,880 have to go through before they can go to force. 1152 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,280 Yeah. So they'll, they'll say to 1153 00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,120 follow. Yeah, they there, there's levels 1154 00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,080 of escalation that they have to follow, right. 1155 00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:38,680 And so or what I, I refer to as the circles of violence. 1156 00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:42,320 So once they start being able to go past these circles and start 1157 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,560 getting closer to the core, then they can start leveling up their 1158 00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,920 violence. So the level of violence is 1159 00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:52,160 going to be pepper spray, then Taser, then ASP and then pistol. 1160 00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:54,840 What is ASP? ASP is the batons, the 1161 00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:57,160 collapsible tons and they'll use. 1162 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,960 Those right? And people are like, oh, they 1163 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:00,440 can hurt. Yeah, they can hurt. 1164 01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:02,400 It would hurt. But they're they're. 1165 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,120 They're. Thin enough that it's just going 1166 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:06,440 to hurt. You could break bones with it, 1167 01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,760 but you were to have to put a lot of force into breaking 1168 01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,040 bones. And they're taught to hit the 1169 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:13,040 lower extremities in the outside of the arms, but they don't. 1170 01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:16,600 They don't. I'm all like, I'm going for the 1171 01:00:16,600 --> 01:00:18,360 clavicle. I'm going to stop you dead. 1172 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:21,720 I want to make sure you can't use that arm anymore because I 1173 01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:24,160 broke my collarbone one time. And if you lift it up, the 1174 01:00:24,160 --> 01:00:27,080 little bones go clickety clack and it hurts. 1175 01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:30,280 Oh yeah, that sounds painful. Yeah, just just the. 1176 01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,000 Hard no imagining, Yeah, I've never had that happen. 1177 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:34,920 And that sounds like. It's yeah, I. 1178 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:36,400 Jumped up. I never broke a bone. 1179 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:39,200 I've broken a few, I've dislocated. 1180 01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:41,960 Fingers. I've sprained ankles and stuff. 1181 01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,920 I fucked my knee playing soccer. I've never broken a bone. 1182 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,680 Yeah, I had lots. Of stitches, the only thing I 1183 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:48,240 have. Like a couple. 1184 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:52,960 Yeah, I've had a lot. Lots of stitches, the stitches 1185 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,160 for sure. You know what? 1186 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,960 I, I don't know, I, I know we got off until like almost as 1187 01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:58,840 well. We always do. 1188 01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:02,760 But the, the, the serious note isn't necessarily like we need 1189 01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,640 to change all these things. But honestly, as a, as a 1190 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:09,280 community, we need to be more aware of this shit because we're 1191 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:15,720 so into our, our fucking digital lives and our, our pretending. 1192 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:19,960 What's in it for me? I I'm looking more at it myself. 1193 01:01:19,960 --> 01:01:23,000 I'm like, what do I need to do to be more aware of things? 1194 01:01:23,360 --> 01:01:27,320 And I've been doing purges of social media and YouTube. 1195 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,840 I did a day where I only watched an hour total. 1196 01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:32,480 Dude, I'm fucking proud of you, right? 1197 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:34,840 That's impressive. That's pretty good because I. 1198 01:01:34,960 --> 01:01:38,640 I was finding myself bored looking at it and it was just 1199 01:01:38,640 --> 01:01:42,120 like, OK, like like I'll I'll fast. 1200 01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,960 I'm like I'm cutting a fast because I need to lower my carbs 1201 01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:47,880 to be able to get down to my sugar. 1202 01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:50,680 So then I can figure out what foods to add. 1203 01:01:51,560 --> 01:01:55,160 And a good fast is really good to clear up the mind too. 1204 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,560 And dude, it's exact same thing. I'm doing the exact same thing 1205 01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:04,880 with with technology, like even games like I don't have to play 1206 01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:08,720 every day. I just go, OK, I want to play, 1207 01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:12,400 but I want to play for a good amount of time where I'm having 1208 01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:14,040 to worry about somebody kicking me off. 1209 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:15,400 Yeah. So I'm just like. 1210 01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:20,320 I don't think I've played in a few days at all and. 1211 01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:22,440 And I feel. Like right after Christmas when 1212 01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:25,280 I got the wheel, I was playing more regularly. 1213 01:02:25,360 --> 01:02:26,760 Well, yeah, 'cause you got time too. 1214 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,640 But. Now like I feel like it's. 1215 01:02:28,640 --> 01:02:32,520 Been the last couple weeks I have not played anywhere near as 1216 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:36,880 much which it hasn't been bad but I've just I felt I've 1217 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:41,440 literally felt exhausted like so drained. 2 nights ago it was 1218 01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,600 like 830 and I felt like I was ready to go to bed. 1219 01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:46,520 I was like, I go to bed right now. 1220 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:49,000 I'm like, no, no, don't, don't go to bed. 1221 01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:52,160 It's like 830. Just just stay up like. 1222 01:02:52,320 --> 01:02:54,720 My wife's laughing because she's just like, sometimes I'm falling 1223 01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:58,600 asleep at 11:30 and that's early for me. 1224 01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:03,160 Yeah, your kids are still up. Well, some of them are like. 1225 01:03:03,160 --> 01:03:07,560 My little like Phoenix, if he's like really on one, he just what 1226 01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:11,600 got done watching a wrestling match got him hyped the kibble 1227 01:03:11,600 --> 01:03:16,120 just he's he's a ball of energy. But like my twins are pretty 1228 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,040 good. My son Max, he's 18. 1229 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,000 He's whatever he's 18. That's a. 1230 01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,520 Story Yeah, he's 18. But I mean, it's yeah, dude, 1231 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:27,440 you, you start to feel it a lot more. 1232 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:30,800 I just. I don't know, ma'am. 1233 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:33,640 Yeah, I thought about getting. Into archery again. 1234 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:38,440 So I actually, yeah, I because I, I lost the my Turkish horse 1235 01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:39,680 bow. That's what I want to use again. 1236 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,520 I lost the little thumb thing that I had been using. 1237 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,480 Oh, the leather strap. Yeah, but I bought the ring. 1238 01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:46,360 One this. Time So I bought the ring. 1239 01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:50,480 So I got that and then I got a new arm guard and then I 1240 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:53,440 thought, oh, I have the glue. That's what that's why we 1241 01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:57,480 stopped shooting because either the tips on the one were coming 1242 01:03:57,480 --> 01:04:00,400 off and I needed to glue them so they stayed on 'cause I had 1243 01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:01,240 bought. What were you using? 1244 01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:03,400 What kind of glue? I hadn't glued them yet. 1245 01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:05,200 Remember we. Were just shooting a bunch and 1246 01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:07,320 we kept losing either the back end or the front. 1247 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,320 Yeah, we always lose it in the new bamboo. 1248 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,520 Arrows that I had got. I think it was either of those 1249 01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:13,240 the tips weren't on, tips were coming off and I was. 1250 01:04:13,240 --> 01:04:15,880 Like oh I have to glue these. Because they were losing them in 1251 01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:18,600 the target and they'd pull off and I'm like, fuck, I have no 1252 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,520 type. So I'm like, I have to get new, 1253 01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,200 oh, I need more tips. And then I need to glue 1254 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,240 everything on real nice. I've got a really good glue. 1255 01:04:25,240 --> 01:04:27,320 I've got an epoxy. Yeah, that I'll just leave 1256 01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:29,200 aside. Yeah, so I've got, I've got one 1257 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,280 right here that I. Bought for it, I just never did 1258 01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,640 it because we stopped using them and then I yeah, we need to get 1259 01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:36,000 back into that and. That's another thing too, like 1260 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:39,320 guys, get out there, start finding something that's beyond 1261 01:04:39,320 --> 01:04:42,320 your technology and even if you're listening to, I mean, 1262 01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,360 we're like we're on your phone, we're in your ear, but what's 1263 01:04:45,360 --> 01:04:47,360 your favorite like outdoor? Hobby. 1264 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:50,000 What do you guys like to do that's outside or if it's not 1265 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:52,280 even outside like? What do you do that's physical? 1266 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:55,400 Go to the gym? Are you like a runner when 1267 01:04:55,400 --> 01:04:57,320 you're not on your phone? Computer. 1268 01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,000 TV. Yeah, what the fuck you like to 1269 01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:01,880 do? All right, guys, till next. 1270 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:03,480 Week see you then later.