1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,480 I'm Brandon. And I'm Jesse, we're cannabis 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,880 school. Having cannabis infuse 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:09,880 conversations. With everyday people. 4 00:00:10,120 --> 00:00:12,080 Cannabis companies. Celebrities. 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:18,000 And your mom? Welcome to the sesh, this really 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,440 puts you in a good mood. It really does. 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,080 Holy shit, like I feel. Great. 8 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:27,880 I feel like you ever seen that thing with this kid who comes 9 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:30,760 out of anesthesia? He's like, what's up? 10 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,880 Wait, how's it going? It's pretty good. 11 00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:40,120 Or like that girl or she's like, she's got a popsicle. 12 00:00:40,480 --> 00:00:43,720 She's she goes, hey, mom, check this out. 13 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,280 Look what I could do. And she pushes it all the way to 14 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:47,280 the back of her throat. Oh. 15 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,160 My gosh. And her mom's like, that's, 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,960 that's great. And she goes whatever, mom, not 17 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:58,640 you have never done that before. It's Oh my God, dude. 18 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:02,520 I was like, what the fucks? Oh shit. 19 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:05,040 Have you ever gone under anesthesia? 20 00:01:05,440 --> 00:01:08,600 Yeah. What you what did you have? 21 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:12,240 What happened? So years ago when I worked at 22 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:16,160 the state hospital and you know, severe mental illness really is 23 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,320 taxing on the body and because of all the medications, 24 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:26,480 whatever, like crazy. I mean, the some of the shit 25 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,400 that I, I mean, it's just so much. 26 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:31,240 But anyways, there was this old guy. 27 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,480 I got used to call him shaky cheeks Dave. 28 00:01:33,960 --> 00:01:38,520 I always had a nickname for people shaky on my mouth is all 29 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:40,280 dry. You know what I reminds me right 30 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:45,320 now is our our photo shoot that we had for our displays and shit 31 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:49,000 like that and for the website I like we have this one where 32 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,440 Brandon and I are standing back-to-back and Brandon just 33 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:55,240 smiling and I'm all like. I know I'm all. 34 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:59,080 I've all slant because we went got properly high in the garage 35 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:02,520 real quick before we did the photo shoot and it was great. 36 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:04,120 We had such a good time. Yeah, it was. 37 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:06,680 Fantastic. I sent him to my mom and my mom 38 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:11,880 was like, what in the hell is up with that 80s you standing 39 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:14,960 behind that family photo, awkward family photos. 40 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,800 And I was like, oh, the dog is the best one because it's going 41 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:22,240 to have over there, you know, Cannabis school podcast every 42 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:27,160 Tuesdays and Thursdays. It's like the funniest thing. 43 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,120 I want to use scout more in some of our advertisement just like 44 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:31,400 a. Penny I might have. 45 00:02:31,920 --> 00:02:34,920 Like a dog face like this that. 'D be hilarious. 46 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:40,880 Dude, that'd be funny as shit. Oh yeah, no, it's this is I'm. 47 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,440 I'm pleasantly I OK, what was I talking about? 48 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:48,320 Shit. I have no idea. 49 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:54,040 Well, I'll tell you, it's all about good vibes and something 50 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,640 I've been thinking about lately and it's been kind of nice to 51 00:02:56,640 --> 00:03:02,880 see, but I've seen a lot of like people wanting to help other 52 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:05,520 people regardless. I saw this really cool thing 53 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,560 like I'm always like, I have to have something in the background 54 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:11,080 even if I'm working on something. 55 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,120 And if it's not music, like I can't do this is the weird 56 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,960 thing. I can't do music with words that 57 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:22,040 I want to sing with. I can do like instrumental, like 58 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:26,360 a lot of synthwave, or I can be watching a video. 59 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,560 I can have a video playing in the background. 60 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,960 So most of the time. Is that for everything or just 61 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:36,240 for certain things? It's usually like when I'm in 62 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,320 creativity mode. Oh, OK, yeah, yeah. 63 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,760 Because then you're trying to have your mind create and think. 64 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:47,640 That's like, I can do music with words and stuff when I'm doing 65 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,880 certain things, but then when I'm doing other things I have to 66 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,520 listen to like classical music or synth or something else 67 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,520 because yeah, I, I can't have that distracted. 68 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,880 Yeah, there's a newly loaded Oh. No that. 69 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,760 That one's a newly loaded 1. I don't that one might be newly 70 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,880 loaded, maybe a loaded too. Or it could be a burnt one. 71 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,600 No, no, it's empty. Oh crap, my balls been going. 72 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:13,960 Oh dude, don't do that. Oh, he's not. 73 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:15,840 He's, he's just about there like. 74 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:21,040 Man. He is quite toasted. 75 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,120 Dude, I mean, you know what? And I'm going for bowl #4 here. 76 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:30,080 It's we're we're smoking on what is it called? 77 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,200 Peach Maraschino. Yeah. 78 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,480 It makes me want to try the the strains of the. 79 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:39,880 Yeah, Peach rings and maraschino. 80 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:42,040 Yeah, I really want to try Peach rings. 81 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:44,560 Gosh, we need to get on the road. 82 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:49,760 Start visiting dispensaries. Well, 2025 will be the year for 83 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,080 that. Yeah, it definitely will. 84 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:55,520 Also, for everyone at Home 2025, we're actually looking for 25 85 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:59,160 guests for Yeah 2025. If there's someone in the 86 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,640 cannabis space who has something cool, fun, exciting, like hit us 87 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,440 up, reach out, we'd love to hear from you guys. 88 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:10,200 Yeah, or if you're one of those OG veterans from the year, a 89 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:14,120 veteran from the drug wars would love to talk to you too. 90 00:05:14,280 --> 00:05:18,600 I think it'd be cool to get your years of experience and 91 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,760 perspective. I mean, unless you're going to 92 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:25,000 be like really upset and be like fuck everybody because I've 93 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,800 heard those guys too and I'm not a fan. 94 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:28,480 I'm. Yeah, but see it energy. 95 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:32,840 I realized that the best part about having a show is if 96 00:05:32,840 --> 00:05:35,840 someone comes on and that's literally what it is, we just 97 00:05:35,840 --> 00:05:39,080 wouldn't air the episode. We would literally go, hey, 98 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,400 sorry, thanks for coming on, but. 99 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:43,440 Yeah, we only. It didn't benefit our audience. 100 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,200 We only, yeah, we've only got rid of one episode. 101 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,040 That's it. That's it. 102 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,360 I was actually thinking about it because one of the first ones in 103 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:56,040 there is with Untitled, and Untitled doesn't actually even 104 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,600 exist anymore. Yeah, we should take. 105 00:05:57,600 --> 00:05:59,400 And I was like, Oh yeah, we should actually go pull that 106 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,400 one. But that was just as I was 107 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:06,360 driving the other day because I, you know, I mean, I really was 108 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,240 thinking about it. I'm like, Oh, yeah, we've never 109 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:10,520 really pulled anything. There's never been anything 110 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:12,560 that's like, oh, we should take that down, except for the one 111 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:17,720 that we did choose to pull down. This is a random thought during 112 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:22,480 my childhood man, I I got to do some really fun things like 113 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:27,880 building tree houses and building ramps. 114 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:33,160 Did you ever build ramps? Oh, was almost. 115 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:36,120 Oh, for short change today. Dude, what's up with that? 116 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:41,800 Yeah, dude, I love building ramps and tree houses and forts 117 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,360 down the street. Playing guns. 118 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,760 Oh nerf gun wars and stuff. Like and we used to was like on 119 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:53,760 your honor, we just shoot and we didn't even have because I lived 120 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:55,240 in this poor neighborhood of these kids. 121 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,720 And so whatever gun you could get, like it was there. 122 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,520 If not, you just fucking made-up one. 123 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,520 Yeah, it's a stick. It's Yeah, this. 124 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,320 It's your finger. Bang, bang, bang. 125 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:06,120 Like you know, anything you have is. 126 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,520 Then you got creative. We'd make like grenades from 127 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,360 like pissing off my dad, taking duct tape and turning them into 128 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:13,920 balls. We're like grenade. 129 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:16,960 That's hilarious, dude. We got, I mean, it was and it 130 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,320 was all day long, dude. Yeah, my parents didn't. 131 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:23,400 They were both gone. The whole neighbourhood was ran 132 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,640 by children. There was no fucking parents, 133 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,640 dude. Crazy because they all worked. 134 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:33,320 There was like one lady in the ward, She was right across the 135 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:36,080 street from there and she always had this like resting bitch 136 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,000 face. She just she always looks so 137 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,720 upset and now I know why. I mean she. 138 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,160 Was just home, always. She was probably just never had 139 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,240 an orgasm. Yeah, You know what's sad? 140 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:50,320 Like I, I realized that there's a lot of people in marriage who 141 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:54,640 don't actually even like that. The women don't know what that 142 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:57,320 is. They don't have an orgasm. 143 00:07:57,320 --> 00:08:00,080 Like how the fuck is that? Not like we've talked about, 144 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,880 It's like a game. I have to win. 145 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,000 It's like, Oh yeah, yeah, I want to push that button. 146 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,640 Like it's like pinball got to get that high score, you know? 147 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,680 I have to win so. Like how? 148 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,600 How does it not? Well, it's not taught. 149 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,080 That'd be kind of an awkward conversation, really. 150 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,440 Hold on boys, do you know how to pleasure A? 151 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,160 Woman. No, but even like. 152 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,440 Come on over, let me show you how these things work. 153 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:29,200 OK, so it's, it's weird to think about it, but like you have a 154 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,200 daughter, I have daughters. Don't you want it when they're 155 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,799 older that sex hopefully is an enjoyable experience for them 156 00:08:35,799 --> 00:08:38,880 and not just a shitty experience that they're, you know? 157 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,280 Oh, yeah, no, I know plenty of women who have had like, nothing 158 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:45,560 but an onslaught of just horrible men that they have 159 00:08:45,560 --> 00:08:48,000 hooked up with. And it just feel for them 160 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:52,320 because it's just like, I mean, I don't know what was going 161 00:08:52,320 --> 00:08:55,160 through any of their heads, but it just feel bad just like. 162 00:08:55,560 --> 00:08:57,640 And how can you be excited about that, man? 163 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,040 I mean, what's exciting about that? 164 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:06,080 Like, all right, there's a warm towel over there on the counter. 165 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,520 I'm going to sit down, watch reruns. 166 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:12,120 There was a OK, so there's a another podcast. 167 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:17,440 It's 2 girls, 1 blunt. I'm so glad that you said Blunt. 168 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,400 Yeah, 2 girls, 1 blunt. And they had some post and it 169 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:25,520 was talking about like, you know, would you rather have a 170 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:29,520 man who's good at sex or a man who's good at communicating? 171 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:33,120 You know, and either they're bad at communicating or they're bad 172 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:35,880 at sex and they're like, oh, I'd rather have the person who's bad 173 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:39,560 at communicating all day long. The good rather have the person 174 00:09:39,560 --> 00:09:42,760 who's good at sex, because how horrible would it be to live? 175 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:45,040 Which is funny because. Without ever. 176 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:48,480 Good communication, good communication gets it because 177 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:51,800 then you're able to have those conversations openly and 178 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:55,120 honestly, which it's it's very taboo, even for a lot of men, 179 00:09:55,120 --> 00:09:56,920 it's very taboo. I don't need no help. 180 00:09:57,680 --> 00:09:59,120 Oh yeah? Well, because who wants to talk 181 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:02,520 about their struggles, their feelings and go, I can't do it 182 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:06,080 on my own because as a man, well, that makes you feel like a 183 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:08,320 failure. Well, and that's why like, you 184 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:14,720 know, we have, I feel bad for that term of incel where they 185 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:18,760 they're just UN they're they're voluntary celibate. 186 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,200 Yeah, that's like a horrible thing. 187 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:24,080 I mean, you know, and, and I mean, not every guy's going to 188 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:28,280 be 6 feet tall, you know, making six figures. 189 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:31,160 I mean, that's like a. Super ripped, really good 190 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:34,040 looking, full head of hair. Dude, I saw one, there was this 191 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:37,680 chick, she's big as shit, right? And she don't look anything 192 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:39,560 special. She didn't even have a face of 193 00:10:39,560 --> 00:10:41,640 going like, you know, if she lost a little weight, she'd be 194 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:44,360 really hot. No, no, no, not at all. 195 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:48,560 I mean, and, and the guy asked her, he's like, well, would you 196 00:10:48,560 --> 00:10:52,080 ever date a short guy? She goes as long as he's rich. 197 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,560 And he goes, what? And she's like, yeah, as long as 198 00:10:55,560 --> 00:10:58,880 he's rich, She goes, look at me. I mean, dude. 199 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:04,600 And that's the thing that I hate is that these people feel that 200 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,920 they need to be something else to matter. 201 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,320 There are so many people that could connect. 202 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:14,160 That's because we don't feel valuable as ourselves because we 203 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,040 don't have self love and we don't have self value and we 204 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:21,480 don't, you know, so if we can't do that even for ourselves, how 205 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:25,640 do we expect anyone else to, you know, and allowing anyone else 206 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:30,400 to because it's like even, you know, like a lot of our 207 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:34,680 struggles, like how much of our stuff is in, you know, maybe not 208 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:36,600 your relationship. You guys have been together 209 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,640 forever, but you know a lot of other people who have baggage 210 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,720 and damage from other relationships or their own 211 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,480 personal issues. They're oh, that's into it. 212 00:11:44,680 --> 00:11:46,120 That's unavoidable. Oh, yeah. 213 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,280 But you guys have been together longer, so it might not be quite 214 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,040 the same as someone who's, you know, gone through a lot of 215 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:55,480 breakups and that and Oh, no, I've been divorced and that, you 216 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:56,960 know. I dated a lot. 217 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,520 I dated a lot when you. Guys haven't been divorced. 218 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:03,240 No, no, no, but I. I just a different like you guys 219 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:07,880 might have a slightly different relationship or connection or or 220 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:12,440 fears or, you know, things that come in because we every 221 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,880 relationship, every person has baggage, you know? 222 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:17,440 Oh, totally. No, I mean, no one you you're 223 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:21,240 gonna you got scars. Everyone's got scars now. 224 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:25,440 I think the thing that I that's worked for us so well is that 225 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:31,800 we're both really stubborn and so and we, we both can't deal 226 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:36,800 with long term like angst. Like I can't stay mad at her. 227 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:41,080 Even if she did something where I was just really frustrated 228 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:44,240 with. I'm just like, yeah, like it's 229 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,640 minutes and I let it go. I don't like, I don't like 230 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,400 hanging on to it in general because usually I'm like I 231 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,600 notice. Never served me. 232 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,560 Usually when I'm angry, the other person isn't angry because 233 00:12:57,560 --> 00:13:00,080 I'm not wanting to sit there with them when I'm angry. 234 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:05,080 So then I'm what I'm on my own by myself being angry. 235 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,080 And who does that affect? Well, it doesn't affect the 236 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:08,600 other people who's not around me. 237 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,400 It affects me. And so that I'm sitting there 238 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:13,920 and I'm like, I don't feel as good because I'm angry. 239 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:16,440 I'm frustrated. Like all of that versus going 240 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:20,960 like, if I step away from that, can I just step away from that 241 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,720 and go, hey, right now, right here this second, are you OK? 242 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:26,840 Yeah, yes. OK. 243 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:31,360 I will calm fuck down. Like, you know, you don't need 244 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,200 to be stressed or frustrated. And that doesn't always work. 245 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:38,360 Like this last week has been just way more stress added on 246 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,960 that. It's like I feel like my mind 247 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,480 hasn't been in its normal state, you know? 248 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:49,760 No, I know man. It's and it's, it's difficult to 249 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,600 be able to because it's a lot of control. 250 00:13:51,600 --> 00:13:56,080 It's a lot of self-control. It's not easy to be able to keep 251 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:59,240 yourself restraint and, and not emotional. 252 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:04,240 It's so easy to just snap. You know, it's funny, I got my 253 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:08,280 son Xander. He's had a pretty difficult, 254 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,640 like he was a preemie. He had his tonsils out when he 255 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:15,160 was 3. Dang, because adenoids and his 256 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:19,640 tonsils, they had like a rating scale and he was beyond the Max. 257 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,200 He didn't sleep, he couldn't sleep. 258 00:14:22,800 --> 00:14:24,240 His throat was so closed at night. 259 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:27,640 So when we had the operation done, like it was a lot of like, 260 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:31,800 you mean he had, he was deprived a lot of oxygen and stuff like 261 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,480 that. And it was nothing we could do 262 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,000 other than yeah, we were trying to figure out what the fuck is 263 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:37,560 going on. We took him to the doctor and 264 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,000 they're like, yeah, we need to schedule a consult. 265 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:43,960 And so. But Xander's been a difficult 266 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:49,640 kid to work with all growing up. He's 15 now and he has 267 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,760 struggled. He he used to be super outgoing. 268 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,120 Now he's just really receded in and. 269 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,240 It's funny, hard to see that as a parent, like, Oh yeah, your 270 00:15:00,240 --> 00:15:03,800 kid do that 'cause you know, Finn and Addie, like they're 271 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:07,240 very different than when they were super little and that. 272 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,480 And even Addie, I'm finding out she used to be my wild, crazy, 273 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:15,680 super outgoing. She was like, oh, Dad, I the 274 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:17,560 other day she was like, dad, I didn't cry in drama. 275 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:19,000 I was like, you didn't cry in drama? 276 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:20,880 What do you mean you didn't cry in drama? 277 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,040 I was like, are you OK? And she was like, yeah, no, I 278 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,480 just, you know, the first day I had to get up and do something 279 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,040 in front of the class and I was so nervous and I started crying. 280 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:32,360 Oh. I'm like, Oh my gosh, like that. 281 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,720 No, you didn't know that. No, I was like, I didn't know 282 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:38,680 you were that terrified to be up and in front and like, you know. 283 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:41,640 Yeah, 'cause she's in her space. When she's in her space, it's 284 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,000 her world. She can be her. 285 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:47,480 But when she's out there, not around you, she's completely 286 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,640 different. Yeah, when she's home, she's 287 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,080 she's Addy. She's just same. 288 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:54,040 Yeah. Then you get her out there and 289 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,320 she's deserved. You hired her like she's, well, 290 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:58,400 she's. Aware of her. 291 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,960 She's aware of that. It's like Nick, Nick's aware of 292 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,680 sometimes and he feels bad too, because he wants to be like his 293 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,760 brother Xander. Cause Xander's very intelligent. 294 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:12,760 He's, he's got an engineering mind. 295 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,400 I mean, dude, the kid will create these amazing things out 296 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,560 of nothing and he'll tell you how it works. 297 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:22,480 And he's all into science. So I'm like, yeah, dude, do 298 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:25,560 science. The Nick's like what do I do? 299 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,360 Whatever your heart desires. Well, it's hard because he's, 300 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,480 you know, when, when you're autistic and you Start learning 301 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,520 more about being self aware and when they're teenagers, they're 302 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,960 more self aware. It's a really difficult time 303 00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:40,240 because they, they want to be like everybody else. 304 00:16:40,560 --> 00:16:42,640 But the cool thing? Dude, 'cause everyone that's 305 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,960 growing up, everyone wants to be like everyone else because like, 306 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:50,040 Oh well, I'm not cool. I'm no one wants to be like me. 307 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,880 Different than. Cool, I'm sure it is, but like 308 00:16:52,960 --> 00:16:55,240 they want to feel normal. Well, and. 309 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,520 What is truly normal? Well, the be it's a big 310 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,360 difference. I mean, and, and of course you, 311 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:05,319 if, if you're either not working with autism or you don't live 312 00:17:05,319 --> 00:17:07,960 with somebody with autism, it's really difficult. 313 00:17:08,079 --> 00:17:09,720 It's a very different perspective. 314 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:14,240 But they, there's just something they can't pick up a lot of 315 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,520 things like emotions, they can't pick up tonality. 316 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:21,800 They don't pick up the facial recognition of when someone's in 317 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:26,280 distress. They you'll, they'll teach him 318 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,240 like smiling, like what different faces mean. 319 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,480 They'll teach him because they did a lot of autism. 320 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:34,720 They just don't, they don't get that. 321 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,480 And that's why they struggle in a lot of relationships. 322 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,520 Like there's some very successful people with autism, 323 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,840 but they all have struggled relationships. 324 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:48,920 Like Elon Musk, he's autis, he has autistic and he struggles a 325 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:49,480 lot. I mean what? 326 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:53,000 He's got like 15 kids. He's been married like 8 times. 327 00:17:53,560 --> 00:17:57,200 Like he just, he's just too dedicated to what he's doing and 328 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,600 he just needs to find the person that's like, hey, cool, yeah, 329 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,200 you could disappear for months on a time. 330 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,400 We got this. And then when he shows up, like, 331 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:07,400 yeah, cool. No, he's so weird, like a really 332 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:09,280 weird relationship to disappear for months. 333 00:18:09,640 --> 00:18:12,800 Well, the thing too with him is that he didn't have an 334 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:15,720 upbringing that was fostering that because they didn't know. 335 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,280 A lot of people just thought that they were just like 336 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:23,560 retarded or something, you know? I mean, you could have said I 337 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,440 was autistic in high school just 'cause I didn't give a shit. 338 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:32,320 Like I really could care less. And all the hard classes, like I 339 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:35,800 could take like science and I did great psychology, love 340 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:39,520 psychology, math. I was doing basic math all 341 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,400 through high school because I was just like, they're like, 342 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,160 he's just not getting it. I just wasn't. 343 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,040 I didn't care. I just didn't fucking care. 344 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:51,360 So they put me in these classes with kids that I now know we're 345 00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:59,480 all autistic and they were bullied, they were teased, and 346 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:04,280 they just wanted to have this life that they saw but could 347 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:06,840 never get. Yeah, they just wanted to feel 348 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,360 like they fit in. And that's what I love about 349 00:19:09,360 --> 00:19:12,200 like the school they go to, like they're around other kids like 350 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,000 that. And some of my other kids who 351 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:19,200 don't have autism, I only have one son who has autism. 352 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,320 Sandra has a couple of, like, anxiety disorder, stuff like 353 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:22,840 that. But. 354 00:19:24,080 --> 00:19:26,720 And that's like him. It's hardcore real. 355 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:30,240 But he's doing good now. He's doing really good. 356 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:34,520 Like, I've been working with him on understanding tonality and 357 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:38,000 being able to bend reality. And he did it to his brother 358 00:19:38,120 --> 00:19:41,840 because Nick loves to swear as much as possible. 359 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:45,280 And I'm not yelling. I mean, sometimes he takes too 360 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,400 far. And I'm like, dude, seriously. 361 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:51,240 Like, yeah, who was the fucking controller who didn't fucking 362 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,960 charge his fucking controller? And I'm like, calm down. 363 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:56,600 Yeah. It's a controller, there's two 364 00:19:56,600 --> 00:20:04,640 other ones don't be a Dick and but he was getting ad Zander 365 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,200 real pissed and the last time this happened. 366 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:13,160 Zander is pretty reserved. He doesn't swear very much 367 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:17,520 unless he's mad, but if you piss him off. 368 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:22,680 He is fucking strong. It might, I mean, my son Max 369 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,640 rarely listens to this podcast, but Max is, he's quite a bit 370 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:31,800 taller than me now and he's not bigger than me, but he thinks 371 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:33,720 because he's taller he's going to be stronger. 372 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,600 So we I had to like a little impromptu jujitsu match with my 373 00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,400 boys. They don't know jujitsu, but I 374 00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:41,560 do. And Max is really trying. 375 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,080 And it was easy. I was submitting this boy like 376 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:49,000 everything other Xander that kids strong as a fucking ox. 377 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,320 And I was trying. I was like, I was wrestling a 378 00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,520 man. I was like, fuck, that's crazy. 379 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,320 I had to try. Yeah. 380 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,680 And I'm like, and I haven't rolled for a long time, but it's 381 00:20:57,680 --> 00:21:01,160 it's muscle memory and everything I try to do, dude, 382 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:03,600 he'd power through it and I'm like, Oh yeah, he's just 383 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,920 naturally strong. He doesn't do anything. 384 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:13,040 That's like Addie when when she got bit by a dog in the face and 385 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,480 they had to give her, they had to do stitches. 386 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,840 It took four grown adults to hold her still. 387 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,800 She was 6. That's like Xander. 388 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,840 And I was like, holy shit, this kid is like super strong. 389 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,960 Like she's just so. She didn't want him to give him 390 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:35,840 a shot. Not well. 391 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:41,760 She she she hated needles 'cause she got when she was a baby, she 392 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:45,880 would get croup. She got RSV, she was in the 393 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,600 hospital almost like every year for croup. 394 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,640 She because she was a preemie and so her lungs weren't fully 395 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,760 developed and so she just. Yeah, Zander, he's got asthma. 396 00:21:57,960 --> 00:22:00,080 Yeah, she had a lot of issues when she was young. 397 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,920 Now it's not as bad. Her allergies have all gone away 398 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,280 of like all the other. She used to be allergic to dogs, 399 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:14,480 like super allergic to dogs and applesauce, like all sorts of 400 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,640 stuff. And now she's not now all her 401 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:20,400 allergies like they went in and did test and she's not allergic 402 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,720 to anything now. But like, it was scary because 403 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:28,200 she was in the hospital almost every year from it and it was 404 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:32,600 just so I I can totally understand that they but they're 405 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:36,840 they're just some of them are like crazy strong and I can 406 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,280 imagine Zammer. Dude, he's strong as shit. 407 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:45,800 No, he got really pissed off 'cause Nick kept pushing. 408 00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:48,320 And Nick loves to tease. That's another thing with autism 409 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,520 sometimes they really like to be able to see the raw emotion. 410 00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:55,080 A lot of them love horror movies. 411 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,080 They're tracked. They just can't get enough. 412 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,440 Like Nick's like, I gotta watch that. 413 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,000 And I'm like. That's funny. 414 00:23:02,120 --> 00:23:03,440 And he did. We did, stranger. 415 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,680 Things horror movies. Yeah, I, I just had me. 416 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:10,360 Now they're just like. I like suspenseful ones, like 417 00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,240 there's a good story. But most of them are pretty 418 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,320 shitty. I like aliens, I like pretty 419 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,600 dumb horror. Like is in the horror part. 420 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,520 I'm like who would really do that? 421 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,360 Why is like this movie shouldn't even exist? 422 00:23:22,360 --> 00:23:25,920 Why is this a fucking movie? Like, that's what I feel like 423 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:30,360 with half of the horror movies when I'm like, saw that coming. 424 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,120 That wasn't scary. Like, who wrote this? 425 00:23:35,120 --> 00:23:38,360 You know, it's just they're not great horror movies. 426 00:23:38,360 --> 00:23:41,320 It's like everything that happens is like, no one in their 427 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:42,840 right mind would have logically done that. 428 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,200 Nothing. Yeah, nothing in this story 429 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:48,320 makes sense, But yet it all unfolded this way. 430 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:50,480 OK, well that's a horrible rider. 431 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,240 But the modern horror ones like IS, sometimes they just get too 432 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,440 caught up and trying to be like really innovative, like a 433 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:01,840 Shyamalan movie or something like A twist like Midsummer that 434 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,840 was. Dumb it was dumb it. 435 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:07,240 Was such a drag. It was meh but that's to me. 436 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,960 That's like the village or the other one. 437 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,520 I thought that was dumb as shit too. 438 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,880 Oh dude the ending was so fuck it's. 439 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,160 Stupid. That's why I hated the movie. 440 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,360 I'm like this is. Oh yeah, the. 441 00:24:15,360 --> 00:24:18,120 Plane Why do we even watch this? Planes aren't even allowed to 442 00:24:18,120 --> 00:24:19,000 go. Oh, what? 443 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:20,280 Yeah. What? 444 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,000 Where does this world exist, bro? 445 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,320 Yeah, seriously. Like you created this entire 446 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,880 reality, but put it in this world and like this is real. 447 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,840 All of a sudden we did this. To help us. 448 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,840 Yeah. This is Oh my gosh, that's so 449 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,360 stupid. But that's that's what I I just, 450 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,680 I struggle with that aspect, but I love a good horror movie, like 451 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:45,480 one that actually feels like it could have been a real thing. 452 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:49,120 Or, you know, you're like, OK, this isn't every stupid decision 453 00:24:49,120 --> 00:24:50,840 was made that no one would have ever made. 454 00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:52,560 And This is why this story exists. 455 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:56,680 Like, you know, it's like, OK, that that's a way better written 456 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,800 story. Even like Emily and I went and 457 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:03,920 saw Nosferatu, the new version. Yeah, that was interesting. 458 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,840 But that's like a nine 1800s or 1900s. 459 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,160 How was it like? Was it good? 460 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,720 It was good. It was kind of fucked, but like, 461 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:14,040 it was good fucked. Yeah, Just like the story of it, 462 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:15,680 the whole idea. I'm like, what the hell? 463 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,880 But I I knew nothing about Nosferatu. 464 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,160 I've never read the original or anything, you know, So it was 465 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,760 just very different. I was like, oh, man. 466 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,360 All right. Well, but I, yeah. 467 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:31,480 Dude, they had a it's funny is they have William Dafoe in that 468 00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:35,720 movie and he was in a movie with Nosferatu where he played 469 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,440 Nosferatu. So is it and he plays like I I 470 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:42,360 know he plays like a Van Helsing type character from the lore of 471 00:25:42,360 --> 00:25:45,400 Dracula. OK, You know, it's where Van 472 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:49,360 Helsing is this vampire hunter, and he goes after him. 473 00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:52,000 I mean, crazy stories. I mean, if you think back to 474 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,960 like that day, like you think about Frankenstein, that's 475 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,800 pretty fucked up. Oh yeah. 476 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:02,160 Then they re tried to redo it with Kenneth Braniff and Robert 477 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,080 De Niro as Frankenstein. What the fuck? 478 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:08,480 Like you can't find any? Yeah, Frankenstein is not this 479 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,680 short little Italian dude with the big nose. 480 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:14,280 Well, next time they're gonna have him played by Danny DeVito, 481 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:15,240 so it's cool. There we go. 482 00:26:15,360 --> 00:26:16,520 That would be actually be funny it. 483 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,360 Would be funny. I would watch that one. 484 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,520 Hey, what are you doing right? You're just getting all upset. 485 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,080 Danny DeVito freaking. Yeah, with his little arms 486 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,800 waving around like the guy doesn't have, he's just like a 487 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,840 shoulder to wrist that he doesn't have elbows. 488 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,840 When his hair's perfect because it already looks like he's been 489 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,200 electrocuted, so it's. Great. 490 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,240 Yeah, he's funny too. He's he's up there, man. 491 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:39,800 I've been watching that guy for years. 492 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,800 I used to watch Always Sunny for a little bit. 493 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,360 Did. You ever see Twins with Arnold 494 00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:48,080 Schwarzenegger? No, that's funny. 495 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,200 What we did. It's so. 496 00:26:50,360 --> 00:26:53,440 Him and Danny DeVito. So the here's the promise. 497 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:58,840 Here's the promise. There was I know, I know they 498 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,640 there was these scientists and they wanted to see if they could 499 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:08,480 create like a super person right through genetics. 500 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:13,480 And So what they did is they combine like all of these 501 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,600 different genetic types from different men, OK. 502 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,200 And they made a super sperm, right? 503 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,080 Like a bunch of them. Yeah. 504 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,120 But they were all the same type of sperm. 505 00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:27,120 So they, you know, this is the 90s, so you could do whatever 506 00:27:27,120 --> 00:27:28,560 you want. Yeah, exactly. 507 00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,080 All you need is the CSI kid kit. Yep. 508 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:35,720 And some. Spy kit. 509 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,200 Rubber cement to get high and think you're really doing it 510 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:41,600 right. So you're huffing glue and 511 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,120 you're like, oh, let's do this shit. 512 00:27:43,120 --> 00:27:45,840 Like, like, yeah. Pop in your cardboard box. 513 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:51,320 Yeah, 90s. Right, 90s, but like, so they 514 00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:56,960 put this, they put this baby batter goo together, right? 515 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,360 And then they impregnate this one woman. 516 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,320 She volunteers. So you know, it's like a Turkey 517 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,760 baster or something. I don't know, like this is the 518 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,600 90s again. It's one of those shirt cannons, 519 00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,320 yeah. But. 520 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:11,520 All right, three should do, Yeah. 521 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:19,640 Three got a good load cream pie anyways, but so she gets 522 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:24,920 pregnant, but it ends up she has twins and the first one comes 523 00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,640 out and it's this perfect specimen of a, of like a super 524 00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:30,440 healthy human. Yeah. 525 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,800 And then there's this tiny little, like side effect. 526 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,520 Yeah. And they're like, OK, like. 527 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:39,600 Schmeagle as a baby? Yeah, so I mean, this is a 528 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:42,240 comedy, but it's really dark overtone. 529 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:48,360 OK, so but they don't keep them together because the one who's 530 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,920 perfect, they're like, ah, we're going to keep him on this island 531 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:54,400 with these scientists and we're going to give him everything in 532 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:55,240 life. We're going to give him 533 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,680 education. We're going to give him proper 534 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,480 food. We're going to teach him how to 535 00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,360 be healthy. He's going to be able to 536 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:01,920 survive. He's going to speak languages. 537 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:04,520 It's going to be great. This other one, fuck that kid. 538 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,760 Put him in the system. He's going to get adopted, go 539 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,400 from foster home to foster home. Like that's the back story. 540 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:13,240 And they treat it like it's funny, right? 541 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:17,760 And then so one day Arnold Schwarzenegger, who plays the 542 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,400 Bing, when he goes, what do you mean? 543 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:23,280 I have a brother? And so he goes on this quest to 544 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:27,280 find his brother and he finds Danny DeVito and he's a fucking 545 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,560 con man. And it's, it's funny because 546 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,960 he's like a child because he's never interacted with anybody. 547 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,560 Oh shit, and Danny DeVito or? No. 548 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,960 Arnold Schwarzenegger. And so. 549 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,480 And when he beats him, he goes, it's you, Vincent, you're my 550 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,760 twin. And he goes, oh, of course you 551 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,320 are. It's like I'm staring into a 552 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:49,560 mirror, Right? It was. 553 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:53,880 Super funny dude, right? Like man down. 554 00:29:55,960 --> 00:30:01,200 Luckily it didn't spill, but it it's this really ridiculous, and 555 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,840 that's one of the things too, man, that's nice, is that if you 556 00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,400 get bored, one of the best things to do is just go through 557 00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,200 90s movies because they're ridiculous. 558 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:15,440 My, my cousin's husband, the one who he has like a whole Oh yeah, 559 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:21,160 yeah, yeah. He said he's just gone on 'cause 560 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,400 he's like, you know, there's not really any good TV shows or 561 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,960 things that are coming out. It's all just pretty much shit 562 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:30,000 that's being produced. He's like, so I actually just 563 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:34,240 have been on a binge of like 90s comedies. 564 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,320 Oh yeah. And so he's like, I've just been 565 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,320 going through and watching every comedy. 566 00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,480 Called the Sandler shit. That was like, oh, that's gotta 567 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,520 be like a blast 'cause there's so many really good old, just 568 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,280 random dude like Groundhog's Day and shit like. 569 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,480 Oh hell yeah. Funny, you're like what is this 570 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,440 but. Bill Murray was funny as shit. 571 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,000 Funny. Do you ever go back and watch 572 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,920 like old shit like Stripes? Probably. 573 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,120 I don't think I've seen. The early 80s Oh dude, it's 574 00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:03,800 funny. Old Ghostbusters, that's. 575 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,800 Funny too. There's this guy on YouTube that 576 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,920 will do like these crazy like tables and shit. 577 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:13,280 Lots of rosin tables, Yeah, and they're insane. 578 00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:14,160 And like, I can. Imagine. 579 00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:20,000 When he fucks up you're like but he how he repairs. 580 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,120 It is so cool that the way the guy does it. 581 00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:27,400 There was another one, I saw 2 of this guy who's teaching like 582 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:32,440 more of ancient masonry where they're doing like polygonal 583 00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:36,640 masonry, no mortar, and it was really cool. 584 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,920 And then they're like teaching people how to do it with chisels 585 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,440 and hammers. See, I thought of my coffee 586 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,920 table in the front room is made from. 587 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,040 I think it's dragon wood and it's from. 588 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,000 The penis of a dragon. I think if it came from South 589 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,080 Africa or something. Yes, that's where Dragons 590 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,120 usually. Yeah, there was some dude in 591 00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,720 Park City, he had a wood shop and he was closing it down and 592 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,880 so he was selling everything for like really cheap in comparison. 593 00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:08,160 And I got that slab for I think it was like 200 bucks just for 594 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,160 that piece. Of holy shit. 595 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,360 But I've I've actually thought about, they have really cool 596 00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,480 rosin tables and I thought of slicing in half, turning it in 597 00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:18,640 so the raw edges are on the inside and then doing like a 598 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,400 rosin river with stuff in the middle. 599 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,960 Oh yeah. But I just, it's the whole 600 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,960 project that I have. It's in my head but not not 601 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,040 being done yet so. Dude. 602 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,760 Yeah, but that would. Be cool. 603 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,800 That would be cool. And get like those planning 604 00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:34,800 tables. Yeah. 605 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:35,920 Oh yeah. You ever use a lathe? 606 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,960 A wood lathe. I don't think so actually, dude. 607 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,480 When I was in high school they still had that and it was 608 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,520 awesome. Oh, I didn't, I didn't do any of 609 00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,400 those because I got kicked out of Tim View early and then I 610 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,960 went to Leahona. So I had no actual like really 611 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,360 cool extracurricular activities that I got to do. 612 00:32:55,440 --> 00:32:58,120 I only did my, it was my sophomore year. 613 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,560 I did that class and you had to have like one big project. 614 00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:06,000 And I was obsessed with martial art. 615 00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,480 I mean, one, that's all I wanted to do. 616 00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:11,280 Like, I would love a girlfriend. That's all I thought about. 617 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:12,920 Yeah. But if she gets in the way of 618 00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,200 Kung Fu, I mean. There's the door. 619 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,240 Yeah, he's going to have a really strong conversation. 620 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,560 But no, I was obsessed with it, dude. 621 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:28,000 And I made this wooden dummy and, and when I studied, lots of 622 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,760 different Kung Fu styles use different things. 623 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,600 But at the time, when I was learning Wing Chun, I wanted to 624 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,240 build the wooden dummy. Yeah. 625 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:39,160 And I ended up fucking breaking that thing so quickly just. 626 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,560 Wasn't made from strong enough. Well, it wasn't made the way 627 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:45,080 that you're supposed to make it like they would use like a lot 628 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,920 of like there was no screws or anything. 629 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:52,000 Yeah. And I just like drilled big old 630 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:55,920 fucking holes and then use the lathe and made like these arms 631 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:57,240 to be able to. Yeah. 632 00:33:57,240 --> 00:34:00,160 And when I'm like hitting them with my forearms and doing all 633 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,000 the movements. And I didn't have any. 634 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,920 I had to tie it to a tree because my parents were, my 635 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,400 parents were tolerant of my martial arts training. 636 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,320 They just got annoyed because what I would do, like I was 637 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,159 nuts, Dude. We had an apple train in the 638 00:34:13,159 --> 00:34:15,360 backyard. My dad was like, maybe one day 639 00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:18,679 grow apples. Yeah, I never grew apples 640 00:34:18,679 --> 00:34:20,440 because I was fucking it up all the time. 641 00:34:20,679 --> 00:34:22,600 I had a heavy bag hanging from it. 642 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:26,000 And when the heavy bag fell down over years of kicking it, I 643 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:29,280 kicked the fucking tree because I got these combat boots with 644 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,520 metal. Dude, the 90s action movies 645 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,480 totally fucked up my perception of what I should be doing for 646 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,560 training. They would do the dumbest shit, 647 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,840 that dumbest shit. Hey, we're going to take your 648 00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:43,199 legs, We're going to pull it apart with ropes. 649 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:47,880 And you know how many dumps, dude, OK, there's this movie 650 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,710 Bloodsport, and even in Kickboxer where Jean-Claude Van 651 00:34:51,706 --> 00:34:54,719 Damme, he's getting pulled by ropes on all of his limbs, but 652 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,440 he's ultra flexible. So it doesn't. 653 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,440 It's trying to make it look like this is how you make people 654 00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:02,360 flexible. You fucking torture him and the 655 00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,160 Chinese are really good at torturing kids for their circus. 656 00:35:06,800 --> 00:35:10,760 Oh Dang. So like Jackie Chan, he when he 657 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,720 was a little kid, he expressed interest in being an actor. 658 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,480 So you have to go to this acting school, which is nothing but 659 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,520 martial arts training and abuse. They beat the living shit out of 660 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,440 these kids. And if you screwed up, you would 661 00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:25,200 get horrible torture. Like one of them, one of his 662 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,760 friends, Samo Hung, he had to stand on clay pots full of water 663 00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:34,960 comes out like this and balance clay pots of water on his and 664 00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,960 that and he had to do that. And if you dropped it, you got 665 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,080 hit. And Jackie had talked about that 666 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,880 when he was younger. He screwed up on something. 667 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,080 He got hit in the face still has a scar of his day from it. 668 00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:47,520 That's crazy. I mean they. 669 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:48,160 Beat the. Lid. 670 00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,760 And then they would put your feet between like marble blocks 671 00:35:52,240 --> 00:35:56,960 and push you to the point where it just stretched you out and 672 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,800 you'd be screaming and they didn't care because they need to 673 00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,120 get you to a certain state. So that's why Jackie Chan could 674 00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:06,840 do all these flips and it because that's what And they 675 00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,400 wanted it yeah. And he met some of his best 676 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:11,760 friends in there. And that's where the whole Hong 677 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,440 Kong cinema came from, was with these three guys. 678 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,760 And yeah, but I used to think like, that's the way you're 679 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,240 supposed to train. Yeah. 680 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,200 To make your body strong. We did one where my buddy, he 681 00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:24,880 was like, he was obsessed with Van Damme. 682 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:29,480 Still is weird ANYWAYS. But he he was, he was like, 683 00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,600 let's do like blood sport type thing. 684 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,080 And I'm like, like what? And he goes, well, here, you, 685 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,760 you and I had this heavy bag underneath our deck and I was 686 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:41,240 holding on to the rope. And he goes, hold on the rope 687 00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:44,320 and then lower yourselves down. He's like, put your feet on my 688 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,920 ankles and then lower yourself down to press my legs out so I 689 00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:51,560 can stretch 'cause we didn't have any money for these, like, 690 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:52,880 cool stretch machines. Oh yeah. 691 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:56,440 And I'm like. All right, 'cause this sounds 692 00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:00,720 like a good idea, right? And as I started to do that, he 693 00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:03,840 starts screaming too much. Too much. 694 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,040 That would fucking hurt. Dude we did that though. 695 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:11,920 I would kick, I would kick and punch anything. 696 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:16,360 Like dude, I had 4 by 4 Osts cemented into the ground and I 697 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:23,320 would kick it on my shins before training O 5050, 5050 and now my 698 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:26,880 kids like my son sort of playing around and he kicked at me and I 699 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,600 tapped him yeah and he crumpled. Oh yeah, 'cause your fucking. 700 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,840 Shins would be like rocks. Yeah, and. 701 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,080 And he just. Goes oh, and I'm like, I'm 702 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:38,800 sorry, 'cause I I feel filled the skin yeah, that'll sting, 703 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,200 but the bone is still really strong so yeah, so. 704 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:45,560 It's it but dude. That's what I did to myself and 705 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:49,920 my parents were so annoyed with that because I would just, they 706 00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:51,160 wouldn't allow me to have anything. 707 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:54,400 I had to make my own weapons. I learned how to do nunchucks by 708 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,600 cutting up a fucking broom handle and putting rope, nailing 709 00:37:58,600 --> 00:37:59,680 it to there. And then they started 710 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,000 practicing. Dude, I was obsessed with it. 711 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,600 That's all I wanted to do. If I could see somebody do it, 712 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:06,440 I'd practice it and I could do it. 713 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,480 So I just, those movies were a big inspiration for me. 714 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,560 Dude, my dad used to Take Me Out of school to go see the latest 715 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:18,320 Jean-Claude Van My parents took me out of. 716 00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,880 School when the nurse called them and told me I had to go 717 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,840 home because I was too sick to be at school because my mom was 718 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,360 like no, you're good go to school. 719 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:32,680 It's the 90s and you know, we never I every year growing up we 720 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:35,120 had the attendance award. We never were late. 721 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,680 We never miss school, like ever dude. 722 00:38:38,480 --> 00:38:43,000 Yeah, but you have a good, your children will be good. 723 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,520 But that's I think that's. Why so ingrained? 724 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:53,040 It's 999 so ingrained and to me of like I'm I always try to be 725 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:57,960 on time like it bothers me if I'm not on time like and. 726 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,320 I yeah, it's just from. The youngest age that it was 727 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:03,280 just this is my parents tried with. 728 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:06,720 Me, they really tried and I was like, yeah, but my parents 729 00:39:06,720 --> 00:39:10,480 weren't. I mean, my dad's ADD and my mom 730 00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:13,280 is all over the place so, well, my mom was always. 731 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,920 Home. I didn't have a, you know, 732 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,680 latchkey kid. Yeah, no, I mean luckily. 733 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:21,160 You know, that's one of the things that, you know, when we 734 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:26,960 had Max, my wife, she says I don't want somebody else raising 735 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,800 her children. And I said, me neither. 736 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,480 And she goes, I want to quit and stay home. 737 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,720 And I'm like, I don't have the kind of job to do that. 738 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,920 And she goes, we'll figure out a way. 739 00:39:39,240 --> 00:39:42,000 And I'm like worth it to me. Like I literally said I'm like, 740 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,720 it could be a life of poverty. And she's like, I'm aware of 741 00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:48,160 that. She's like, but I want. 742 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,040 And you know what? I'm so grateful that she did 743 00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,960 because I've got really good kids. 744 00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,320 They're very loving, you know, despite all the shit that goes 745 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,200 on and it's in your house. But whenever I hear from other 746 00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,280 people, they're like, you know, your kids really respectful. 747 00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,880 You know, you really your kids very, you know, caring and kind 748 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,200 and more considerate for others. Like, you know, I've never had 749 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,840 that where your kids an asshole and he's picking on this other 750 00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:11,320 kid. That's good. 751 00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:14,640 My kids are all about like, you know, especially my twins. 752 00:40:15,320 --> 00:40:17,720 Like, they'll quarrel and fight with each other. 753 00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,360 Yeah. But anybody, anybody fucks with 754 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,720 their family. He's just like what you say. 755 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,680 Yeah, right. Oh dude, something is different. 756 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,960 It's always like siblings, you can fuck with each other. 757 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:29,960 It's your family. Yeah, yeah. 758 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:31,480 But the second someone. Else steps in you're like. 759 00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,280 Hey, no, shut up. You can't say that. 760 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:36,280 No, no, no out of here. Yeah, You have not earned the 761 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:37,720 right. Yeah, Yeah. 762 00:40:37,720 --> 00:40:39,760 And it's it's cool though, to see that. 763 00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,640 And, you know, despite everything that goes on and all 764 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:46,160 their iniquities and things that they think are in iniquities, 765 00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,400 especially like my son Max, who's like, oh, what am I going 766 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,840 to do with my life? I suck at school. 767 00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,600 And I mean, I'm not gonna get. I said stop listening to those 768 00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,360 people who tell you that. And he's like, well, I need to 769 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,240 do something meaningful. And I'm like, you're fucking 17. 770 00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,760 Yeah, don't worry, right? You just keep learning stuff. 771 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,120 Yeah. And it's fun. 772 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,880 I have a desire to learn. Stuff because it's the thing 773 00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:10,760 that sucks is our school system is very broken. 774 00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,000 It teaches you how to learn in a specific way, dude. 775 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,600 And if you don't learn in that specific way, it's really not 776 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,920 the best way for you. And you can learn endless 777 00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:20,880 amounts of things even outside of that. 778 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,200 And you never have to stop learning. 779 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:26,560 It's just find what's interesting to you Well and you 780 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:28,600 know the. Bad thing for him is that it 781 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,640 gets to the point where and it just kind of goes to show that 782 00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:35,240 maybe education could get a little bit different if they run 783 00:41:35,240 --> 00:41:37,480 it this strict. But the school he goes to now, 784 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:42,080 like he got kicked out of his school like when he's in now, 785 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:43,640 no. When he was going. 786 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:46,040 To Lehigh High. Oh yeah, he got kicked. 787 00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,600 Out for. Attendance and he's so far 788 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,080 behind in his grades, in his credits, and he's like, it was 789 00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:54,680 not a big deal. And I'm like, dude, you're 17 790 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,640 credits behind and you're going to be a senior. 791 00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:58,000 Yeah, you're going to be a super. 792 00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:59,840 Senior bro. And he's just like. 793 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:06,560 So the last step is this school called Polaris, and this is 794 00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:08,720 literally like another 90s movie. 795 00:42:08,720 --> 00:42:11,720 Like there's this movie called Dangerous Minds. 796 00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:14,000 They had that Coolio song, Gangster's Paradise. 797 00:42:14,240 --> 00:42:16,200 Everybody knows that song, right? 798 00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,920 But that was like the theme music for the movie, like Got 799 00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,360 playing it and you get the whitest white woman to come into 800 00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:26,360 the darkest part of the ghetto to teach these kids who could 801 00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:32,080 give a fuck, right? Legit, this is what this school 802 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:36,400 is like. Like Max was the first week. 803 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,080 He's telling me he's just like, I'm like, dude, how's school 804 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,040 going? I can't be there. 805 00:42:42,720 --> 00:42:48,200 Like what's going on? He goes first day I watched this 806 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:52,120 kid get jumped and beat the shit out of in the hallway for no 807 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,920 reason. I saw a kid beat up a teacher. 808 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,840 He's like, I am terrified dad, I need to learn how to fight and 809 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:02,240 I'm like, no, no, no, no, no, that's not overnight. 810 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,400 That's not overnight. And and plus you'd be better off 811 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:07,680 just making friends with everybody. 812 00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:09,880 I was like the thing I've. Learned I've never learned to 813 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,360 fight, but I've learned I've never actually had to beat. 814 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,360 Like, I've never had to deal with that. 815 00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,680 But it's because I was always more prone to, like, trying to 816 00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:22,640 make friends with people. And, you know, yeah, I, I. 817 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:27,040 Just had unfortunate circumstances, yeah, but I was. 818 00:43:27,720 --> 00:43:29,160 But you know what though? But I'm really. 819 00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:31,520 Good at violence too. So I was attracted to it. 820 00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:36,640 Like I picked it up fast and I enjoyed it because, you know, as 821 00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,560 a child you need praise. You need praise, You need to be 822 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:40,720 told you're doing something good. 823 00:43:40,720 --> 00:43:42,240 Not always when you're doing something wrong. 824 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:45,400 And if you do something wrong, like one of the things that I, 825 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,160 I've worked on really hard and is really easy because my 826 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:52,840 parents would be pissed. And you spill that for why'd you 827 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:56,800 hurt yourself making accidents? Yeah, why would you do that? 828 00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:58,320 Yeah, although it was intentional. 829 00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:01,160 Mom, I really meant to do this. Like, yeah. 830 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:04,040 And I've and I've I. Did those same things to my kids 831 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,560 for a while. And when I'd realized that I 832 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,760 needed to make it what I was doing. 833 00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,160 Now I make it a strong effort. Like if something happens to 834 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,200 him, like, hey, what's going on? Are you all right? 835 00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:15,520 You need help? Yeah. 836 00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,480 And kind of let them kind of dictate how it works. 837 00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:22,000 Yeah, I've always tried. To make it 'cause you know, kind 838 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,080 of like your iPad thing when Max sat on it, you know, it's, it's 839 00:44:25,080 --> 00:44:27,960 trying to prioritize the people and not the stuff too of like, 840 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,080 yeah, it was like Addie dropped a bowl and it broke. 841 00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:33,760 It was like, it's fine, it's a bowl. 842 00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,320 It's a bowl. She's like, I'm so sorry. 843 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,000 I'm so sorry, honey, Who cares? We've got more bowls. 844 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,520 We can buy another bowl. Are you OK? 845 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,320 Are you are you cut? Are you bleeding? 846 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,240 Like, no, Well, you don't have shoes on. 847 00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:47,320 So let me carry you out of the kitchen. 848 00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:49,440 You go over here. I'm going to clean this up 849 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,720 because I've got some shoes on and you know, I don't have to 850 00:44:52,720 --> 00:44:54,960 worry about cutting my foot if if they do something. 851 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:57,720 Really fucking stupid. Blatantly stupid. 852 00:44:57,760 --> 00:44:59,600 Like they're doing something to think it's going to be a funny 853 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:02,480 idea. Max has done that several times. 854 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,200 And I'm like, don't do it. And he does it. 855 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,320 Well, yeah. Feel feel fucking smart now. 856 00:45:09,240 --> 00:45:13,040 Like, I mean, it's it's so eared, but at the same time it's 857 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,720 like, it's like a kid. Well, you know, and it's really 858 00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:17,360 hard. We as parents, we want to 859 00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,040 protect our kids, but we want to make them strong. 860 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:21,080 But we want to protect your kids. 861 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:24,480 We want to make them strong. And, and I've been really making 862 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,520 them strong lately. Like they are so dependent on 863 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,720 their mom to do everything. And Steph's just been a mom for 864 00:45:30,720 --> 00:45:32,640 a really long time. So that's what she knows. 865 00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,960 And so I've been a little harder on my kids and they'll be like, 866 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:40,760 hey, I'm, I'm, I'm bored and I'm like, we'll go figure it out 867 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,160 somewhere else. They'll sit by me, right. 868 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:44,400 There's a. Million things to do? 869 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,960 Yeah, go do something you want. To ask me to do something. 870 00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:48,480 Let's talk, right? Yeah. 871 00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:50,880 What do you? Want to do versus You want to do 872 00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:51,520 something? I don't know. 873 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,520 What do you want to do? What do you want to eat? 874 00:45:54,800 --> 00:45:57,040 Yeah. Right, that wonderful 875 00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,360 conversation you can have with your partner, your. 876 00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:03,760 Partner, I don't know. What do you want to eat? 877 00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:06,040 This. No, that doesn't sound good. 878 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,280 How about this? No, no, that doesn't sound good. 879 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:09,840 Well, what do you want to eat? I don't know. 880 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:12,240 What do you want to eat? That's what that video dude. 881 00:46:12,240 --> 00:46:14,360 That guy go guess what we're going to eat. 882 00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:18,440 They're like where? And I'm like, guess you like it. 883 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:23,080 They're like, is it this place? Like, Yup, we're going there. 884 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:27,160 Fuck yeah. I, I, I haven't tried it on the 885 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:31,120 staff, but I know if I did, she would just glare at me going 886 00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:34,240 just ask me what you want. That's funny. 887 00:46:34,240 --> 00:46:36,640 Dude. She's she's so compromising on 888 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,600 food. I, I, I say I don't care, but I 889 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,640 do. It depends on the day. 890 00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:44,880 Like sometimes I'm not something doesn't sound good, but I'll 891 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,800 still eat it. Yeah, You know, 'cause it was 892 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,800 how I grew up. It's this is what's for food. 893 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,840 This is what's for dinner. This is what you're eating, 894 00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:53,960 right? So now, yeah, I have 895 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:55,880 preferences. And some days I'm like, oh, this 896 00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,880 sounds really good. But at the end, at the end of 897 00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:02,360 the day, as long as it's not sweet potatoes or pumpkin pie, I 898 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,480 probably don't care. I'm down with both. 899 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,560 I'm. Down with both. 900 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,240 Love sweet potatoes dude. Like I I've had to change 901 00:47:10,240 --> 00:47:13,920 everything about my diet and now I just like the sweets I get are 902 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,440 apples and sweet potatoes. I know sweet potatoes are 903 00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:17,880 supposed. To be really good for you and 904 00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,280 stuff. I just, I just like it with 905 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,560 butter flavor. No, I totally get it. 906 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:23,240 I didn't like it for a really long time. 907 00:47:23,240 --> 00:47:26,440 But for me, it was more on the fuel side. 908 00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:29,760 When I was like really wanting to get into shape. 909 00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:32,720 I started thinking about what kind of fuel do I want to put in 910 00:47:32,720 --> 00:47:35,040 my body? And cocaine. 911 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,640 So hard to get. It's like sweet potatoes. 912 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,280 See every time I hear the word. Cocaine. 913 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:43,280 There's this video online where this lady's like this news lady, 914 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:45,840 she's over this place where people are buying like lottery 915 00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:49,840 tickets and she's like blah, blah, blah, and they're going 916 00:47:49,840 --> 00:47:53,160 for blah, blah, blah million, blah, blah, blah. 917 00:47:53,160 --> 00:47:56,480 Like this is what she's just describing when she's there and 918 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,600 she gets this one guy. Sir, Sir, if you were to win 919 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:00,960 that, what would you spend it on? 920 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:06,920 He goes hookers and cocaine. She's like, she pulls it away. 921 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:10,320 Oh, my God. Or that one guy, the old guy 922 00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:13,280 comes over there and he goes, yeah, you know, I need to fuck 923 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,080 her right in the pussy. And then he runs off. 924 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:16,080 What? Yeah. 925 00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,440 And this guy. And then he, they knew who he 926 00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,160 was because he would do this to him all the time when they were 927 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,280 on air. And the guy was older, too. 928 00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:24,640 That's what makes it even better. 929 00:48:24,800 --> 00:48:27,480 Like he's got to be in his 50s. He was fucking retired. 930 00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:29,920 He's like, I'm going to go fuck with the news. 931 00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:33,000 Oh, man, Dude, it was hilarious because he had like it was 932 00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,840 during Halloween. It's like a completely different 933 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,560 one. And he's got this mask on and 934 00:48:38,240 --> 00:48:41,880 and they're like, Oh my God, this is really scary because 935 00:48:42,240 --> 00:48:43,920 because you really want to see a scary face. 936 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,920 And they're like, yeah, that he pulls down, he's got a hoodie on 937 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:50,080 and he pulls the mask off. When he comes up, he goes bugger 938 00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:52,960 right in the pussy. Then they're like they get all 939 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:56,040 mad. Oh dude. 940 00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,640 It was classic. It's wild. 941 00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:03,320 Classic. Dude, hey, we love you. 942 00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:08,400 Guys thanks for tuning in today we have a bunch of sash episodes 943 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:12,640 this year looking for new guests and stuff you have people or you 944 00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,080 are an exciting person to be on the show reach out love being 945 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,160 here for me yeah all right until. 946 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:18,960 Next time, kids.