Success is not a Ferrari. Success is not an automobile.
It's not a house, it's not a place, it's not money in the
bank. It's not $1,000,000.
That's not success. Success is the continual
unfolding of the design of your own life and pulling it off.
That's what success is. The continual unfolding of the
design of your own personal life and pulling it off in whatever
degree you wish. That is success.
Successful in doing whatever you want to do that makes sense to
you, for you, your family, your responsibilities?
Or take on responsibilities or refuse responsibilities.
That's strictly all up to you. Most people think success
changes your life. What actually changes your life
is discipline. The ability to keep going when
your feelings change. The ability to stay focused when
distractions become comfortable. Because weak habits don't
destroy people overnight. They do it slowly, quietly,
repeatedly. That's exactly why the
self-discipline Hacks Playbook exists, for those tired of
starting over and ready to finally become consistent.
Link in the description. We've been given the power of
choice. Every life form except human
beings operates by instinct in the genetic code.
It has no multiple choice. Only humans have multiple
choice. In the winter the goose flies.
S Why 'cause he's a goose, can't fly N couldn't fly W if you said
that the goose would be better to go West this year.
He ignores that advice, keeps on flying.
S why? Has no alternative, has no other
way. He is only driven.
All life form is driven by instinct in the genetic code.
Except human beings. Now, why not human beings?
Because here it is. We've been given the dignity of
choice. We're not like a robot.
We're not stuck like a tree using up all the nourishment.
Nothing left. Now you died because you can't
change location. Not true.
Humans can go north-south, east, West.
Humans can change, do anything they want to do.
We've been given the dignity. But here's what's interesting
about all life form except humans.
Every life form except humans strives to the Max of its
potential. How tall will a tree grow?
As tall as it possibly can. You never heard of a tree
growing half as high as it could?
No, no, that is impossible. A tree grows as high as it can,
drives down every route it can, produces every leaf it can,
extends itself as far as it possibly can.
Every life form extends to the Max.
Except human beings. Now, why not human beings?
Because we're not robots. We've been given the dignity of
choice, and here's a couple of alternatives on the dignity of
choice to be part of or all of you have the potential to be and
you got the choice. Do a little to make yourself
comfortable and forget the rest. Or do it all and there's nobody
here to dictate. You got to do it all.
That's nonsense. You got to be rich because we
live in a rich country. That's nonsense.
You don't have to be rich. You don't have to do it all.
You can do a little, do some, do some more, take advice, but
don't take orders. Take information, take training,
take teaching, but don't take orders from no one that tells
you how you need to live and what you need to own and what
you need to do. Somebody says, well, you need to
be successful, that that's a personal choice, being
successful. What we teach is the
possibilities, the possibilities, and everybody
chooses. Take a little, take a lot, do
some, do nothing, ignore the subject.
This is why I put this in here. You've got to learn to do that,
Abraham Lincoln said. Since I would be no one's slave,
I will be no one's master. Excellent philosophy.
If a guy says, hey, I'm soon cashing it in, I'm heading for
the mountains, I'm going to live in a little cabin, live off the
land and feed the squirrels. If he goes and does that, guess
what? He's a smashing success.
Why? He's doing what he designed to
do and went and did it and pulled it off.
You can't say no, no, that that's not successful.
That is the epitome of success is giving a design to your life
and go pull it off, making progress in that direction that
satisfies you. If it doesn't satisfy you, make
alternatives and you change. And if you get some better
ideas, sure, you may follow someone's suggestion and ideas,
but not orders. Design your own life like you
wanted. That will fit.
Now if you take on some responsibilities now you got to
consider those. Yes, you can ignore your
responsibilities, but you won't feel good about that.
Guess what the old prophet said? Some things that taste good now
in the mouth turns bitter later in the belly.
So you don't want to sacrifice. We all must suffer one of two
pains. Regardless of your choice of
lifestyle and what you want to do, we must all suffer one of
two pains, the pain of discipline or the pain of
regret. And what we suggest to everybody
is to consider the disciplines, because disciplines weigh oz,
regrets weigh tons. You don't want to substitute a
discipline for a regret. In our opinion, that would be a
poor choice. Now you can do it, but some
things are poor trade-offs. The old prophet said what if you
gained the whole world, but it cost you your soul?
Would that be worth it? And with a bit of intelligence,
we say, no, that doesn't seem worth it.
Even if you got the whole world, if you traded your soul, that
experience would be so bitter and so awful and so devastating,
it wouldn't be worth it. What if you got some gain by
greed instead of legitimate ambition?
I'm telling you, it might taste good up front, but it's going to
turn bitter in the belly. And a bit of that advice saves
some people from devastation. Say, well, you're right, I
better think twice about that. So we must confront all laws,
spiritual laws, agricultural laws, basic laws, fundamental
laws. We must confront all of those.
But you still now can design your own life a little a lot go
ENS OK, so approaches time management might be to step down
to something easier that doesn't harass you with the constraints
of time. Guy works for a company, says,
oh, I got to own one of these. Finds out you've now got to work
24 hours a day all around the crock and you got to worry about
all these people. Guys as heck with this.
I'm going back where I used to be.
I played G3 times a week and made three times as much money
as a salesperson. Heck with this running a
company, that's the deal right? Don't put yourself in the
straitjacket of something that's not to your choosing and not to
your liking. Now if you really want the
prize, you know to become a multi millionaire and run a
company, fine then you got to pay the price.
But hey, it's strictly up to you.
There's no requirements here. Where is it written?
There is no law. The key is to try to design your
life. Yes, you might try something and
say this, this cost me too much. This I'm I'm away from my
family, I'm gone. So this is valid.
Little girl said to her mommy said daddy never plays with me.
Comes home and he's got this briefcase and he disappears and
works on his papers and tells me to go to bed.
And she's tried to explain to look, your father loves you very
much, but he's so busy at work he can't get everything done.
He has to bring it home. She said why don't they just put
him in a slower group? Not a bad idea.
If you haven't got time for your kids, you should consider a
slower group. It's not the money, it's not the
success. You got to make sure everything
works, not something at the expense of everything.
And this something at the expense of everything turns out
to be too costly. Life in its best and most
fulfilled, I think is a balancing act to make everything
work. A mother's got the challenge, a
father's got the challenge. And all of this imbalance, it's,
you know, even the tug of war and trying to make it work.
His husband and wife with, you know, a little different
concepts. Guy's a baseball player and gets
four, $5,000,000 a year. And his talent takes him right
185 games, whatever the games are that they play, that's a
pretty tough one to do. Gone most of the time.
Should he go where his talent leads or should he should he
work at the bank from 9:00 to 5:00?
It's a challenge to try to fit, compromise, make it work, make
all systems work so you don't sacrifice everything for
something. And it's all a dilemma, she
says. Go conquer the world and be home
by 5:00. And he says, wow, that's a real
challenge, right? But if you've got partners now,
it's it, it's this combination of working it out.
But let me tell you what, it can be worked out.
Here's what happens if you ignore it.
It just gets worse. You just got to confront and
say, let us work it out so that we bless our life with all of
the systems that furnish us with a good life.
And guess what? It never ends.
This trying to balance your life with everything.
So in the management of time, step down to something easier.
Rearrange your program. Pick up someone else's advice,
not orders, but advice that says, hey, I went for the money
instead of and cost me too much. Here's the real time management.
Make yourself more valuable, get more from yourself so that you
become much more accomplished in an hour than it used to take a
week. That is the easiest of time
management is to make yourself more valuable.
So now let me quick give you the rundown here.
Some key pieces to time management key phrase.
Either you run the day or it runs you.
Getting in charge, mastering the situation.
This is the big challenge. I remember some companies I
started years ago, I'd start the company.
I'm running the company. First thing, you know, the
company's running me and along about that second year, I say
hold it, hold it. I used to be in charge and now
I'm out of control. I used to have it on the run.
Now it's got me on the run. And the same is true whether
it's a company or an enterprise Oregon, whether it's it's the
day. The key is you just got to take
charge and say I'm going to start getting a handle and
taking charge of my day and not let it get out of control
because it's so easy to be persuaded and distracted by, you
know, things that use up time take up time.
And then first thing you know, it's it's all out of control.
Here's the key we've all learned.
Maybe we just need to be reminded it's not the hours you
put in, it's what you put in, the hours that kept guy comes
home at night exhausted, falls into the chair and says I've
been going, going, going. Here's the key, Doing what?
Here's what we learned. Don't mistake movement for
achievement. Busy, busy, busy.
That may not be the deal. That is the doing what?
That's the deal. Some people are busy all day
long doing.