It's how you feel about yourself.
Understanding self worth. That is the real challenge.
Once you begin to understand your own self-worth.
I'm telling you your life will begin to soar.
You can walk out of the darkness into the light.
You can walk out of heartbreak into confidence understanding
your own self worth. Here's a good cake, phrase to
take home. Each of us, must understand how
valuable all of us are. But here's the second part, all
of us must understand how valuable each of us are.
Is your contribution valuable to the whole I'm telling you
without you the whole is incomplete.
I'm telling you, it takes each of us to make all of us.
Each of us with a contribution, think how powerful we can be, if
each of us make a better contribution.
In fact, John Kennedy said it best.
Surely, it's the Cry of the new Democratic party.
John, Kennedy's, ancient words. And he said what?
I asked for everything and see what you wind up with.
No, no, no. John Kennedy said, what?
Ask not what your country can do for you, but ask what, what you
can do for your country. I'm asking you to consider
yourself valuable enough to make an important contribution to all
of us. You make an important
contribution to all of us and then in return you get to draw
from all of us and the gifts that we bring to each of us,
that is the power. And if you walk away from here
today, with that new refined attitude, I'm telling you, you
can have whatever you want, you can have.
The health you want, you can have the income you want.
You can have the future, you want your relationship with your
family will start to improve immediately.
All you got to do is take it serious, and do not neglect,
like an apple, a day. Do not neglect.
Like a new book of your new library.
Do not neglect an entry in your Journal.
Do not neglect. Don't get lazy.
And learning, learning is the beginning of wealth.
Learning is the beginning of Hill, learning is the beginning
of ecstasy, and joy, and pleasure lifestyle, and all the
treasures that are available for the Human family.
I'm asking you start a whole new process today.
You'll be happy that you did, your life will change
dramatically and then what I want back just as a favor from
you, to me. Let me know about it.
I like to get the letters. You cannot believe the letters.
I've gotten my files from teenagers and bigness business
Executives. Now, all over the world.
Some of them have to be translated from other languages,
where I go do seminars like this today.
I want that to be part of your story and your experience.
That's why I came by to This kind of investment.
I don't need to work this hard except for that.
I could be riding my motorcycle on the Jeep trails today, right?
I don't need to work this hard, but I do need the experience
because I want the return. I want this to affect your bank
account today. I'm asking not just to take
notes. If you'll go home and work on
this stuff. I'm telling you, it'll change
your life and your future. And that's why I'm here.
I want it to happen for you. Like it happened for me.
All right, let's just finish up. Number two on attitude.
What shapes our attitude. Let's cover those notes.
What shapes our attitude? You can have more than you've
got because you can become more than you are.
And, of course, the other side of the coin reads, unless you
change how you are, you'll always have what you got.
Success is something. You attract not something you.
Pursue success is looking for a good place to stay.
So instead of going after it. You work on yourself, personal
development. See the major question to ask on
the job is not. What are you getting the major
question to? Ask on the job.
Is what are you becoming? The big question is not.
What am I getting paid here? The big question is, what am I
becoming here? Because true happiness is not
contained in what you get, happiness is contained in, what
you become. Learn to work harder on yourself
than you do on your job. For things to change for you,
you've got to change. Otherwise, it isn't going to
change. The only way it gets better for
you is when you get better. Life and business is like the
changing seasons. One of the best ways to describe
life. It's like the seasons.
You can't change the seasons, but you can change yourself.
And see. That's how life gets better for
you. Not by chance, but by Jane learn
how to handle the winters. They come right after Falls with
regularity. Summer Long and some are short
and some are hard. And some are easy, but they keep
coming. You must learn to handle the
nights. They come right after days.
You must learn to handle difficulty.
It comes right after opportunity.
You must learn to handle recessions.
They always follow progressions for the last 6,000.
See, it isn't going to change the lesson.
You must learn is how to handle it.
And there's all kinds of winters, right?
The winter when you can't figure it out the winter when it all
goes. Smash the winter when it turns
belly-up. The winter when it won't work.
When you run out of money and you've got a broken heart, see,
those are winter times. There's all kinds of economic
Winters, social Winters, personal Winters, when your
heart is smashed in a thousand pieces and the nights are
unusually long, your prayer seem to go, no higher than your head.
It's winter time but see the disappointments Come, Those are
normal, that's part of life. But the question is, how do you
handle it? How do you handle the coming
Winters in the disappointments in the down times?
Well, you can't get rid of January by tearing it off the
calendar. But here's what you can do.
You can get stronger, you can get wiser and you can get
better. The Winter's won't change, but
you can and that's how life changes for you.
Don't wish it was easier. Wish you were better.
Don't wish for Less Problems. Wish for more skills.
Don't wish for Less challenge wish for more wisdom.
That's the key. Learn how to take advantage of
the spring. Spring is called opportunity.
And spring follows winter. What a great place for.
If you're going to put it somewhere.
That'd be the place to put it right after winter and pray.
Tell how often does spring fall winter.
Every year with regularity 6000, you can almost count on it.
See opportunity always comes days.
Follow nights isn't that terrific opportunity follows
difficulty. But here's what you must learn
to do. Take advantage.
You must learn to take advantage of the spring.
See, just because spring rolls around is no sign.
You're going to look good. Come fall.
You got to do something with it. In fact, you have to get good at
one of two things in life planting in the spring or Beggin
in the fall. Or get somebody to do it for
you. See, those are about the only
alternatives. Now here's what else you must
do. Take advantage of the Springs
quickly because there's only a few just a handful of Springs
have been handed to each of us. They don't come forever life is
fairly brief. So you got to read every book.
You can get your hands on and what to do with your Springs
while they're here and take advantage they soon, run out.
So whatever you're going to do with your life, you got to get
at it. Don't just let the Springs pass
pass pass. Learn how to protect your crops
all summer. You got to take care of what you
start. Sure enough, as soon as you've
planted your garden in the spring, the busy bugs and the
noxious weeds are out to take it.
And here's the next bit of Truth.
They will take it unless you prevent it.
And that's the third, major skill to learn.
You've got to learn to prevent the Intruder from taking all the
good you start. It's one of the challenges.
All good will be attacked. On this planet, maybe not the
next one, we get to but on this one all good will be attacked.
Every Garden will be invaded. Not to think.
So is naive. All values.
Must be defended. Political values, social values,
Community Values, Family Values, marriage values, friendship
values business values. Every Garden must be tended.
All summer. Learn how to reap in the fall
without complaint. Learn to reap.
Come Harvest time without complaint.
Take full responsibility, for what happens to you?
It's one of the highest forms of human maturity accepting full
responsibility. It's the day, you know, you've
passed from childhood to adulthood the day.
You accept full responsibility. Learn to reap in the fall
without apology without apology, if you do well, and without
complaint, if you don't That's maturity.
It's not what happens. It's what you do.
What happens is about the same, you might put that in
parentheses here, same what people do?
That's what's different. Anything can happen tonight.
Everything can happen. I've heard all the stories.
I've been one of the stories. Hey, we could all tell stories
all night long, right happenings.
Anything Can Happen. Everything can happen.
Anything can happen. But it's not the happenings.
It's what you do about it. Somebody says yeah, but you
don't understand the disappointments.
I've had. Come on, everybody's had their
share, disappointments are not special gifts, reserved for the
poor. Everybody has them.
The difference is what you do about.
Starting tomorrow. What are you going to do?
That will make a change in your life's Direction.
Good question. What are you going to do?
Starting tomorrow? That'll make a difference.
Now, see if you don't do something starting tomorrow.
That'll make a difference. Guess what?
It's gonna be the same and see that way.
You can, guess what the next five years are going to be like,
look at the last five because the next five are going to be
like the last five, unless you major key tomorrow, change it
all or change a little or change, something or don't
change its Choice time. You can do whatever you want,
but it's nice to know any day. You wish you can change your
whole life. What can you do?
Starting tomorrow? It'll make a difference and
reach down inside of you and come up with some more of those
remarkable human gifts. They're there waiting to be
utilized. And then, change anything for
you. You want to change?
And I challenge you to do that because you can change.
If you don't like how it is for you change it, if it doesn't
suit you change it. If it doesn't, please you change
it. If it isn't enough change it.
And I challenge you to do that because you can change.
See you, don't ever have to be the same again after tonight,
only by choice.