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You're listening to episode 223 
of the Marathon Running Podcast.

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In this episode, we're going to 
talk about the marathon mindset,

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believe, identity, and attitude.
This is the Marathon Running 

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Podcast by Letty and Ryan from 
We Got the Runs. 

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you from the starting line to 

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the finish line and beyond. 
Hey runners, and welcome to 

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episode 223. 
My name is Letty. 

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My name is Ryan. 
And we are your weekly host of 

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this podcast that we've had for 
quite a while now. 

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Thank you so much if this is 
your first time tuning in. 

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And welcome back to our long 
time listeners. 

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We're really excited to have you
back. 

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As always, we appreciate the 
feedback. 

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It's great to hear how people 
get value out of the podcast and

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helps us to try to figure out 
what you guys want to hear. 

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Exactly, Ryan. 
And that's really what we're all

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about. 
We try to bring value to your 

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life as a runner, try to make 
your runs better, and bring you 

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good information from coaches, 
trainers, nutritionists, and 

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something like Today, a podcast 
about mindset. 

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So lady, you also have a YouTube
channel. 

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You wanna tell everyone what 
this weeks YouTube video is 

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about so that people can 
subscribe and follow you there? 

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Yes, we've been doing a lot of 
shoe reviews lately. 

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It seems like that's where 
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So since we do get to sample 
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a review on the Hoka Sky Flow 
and we are also coming out with 

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another one this week hopefully 
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Elliot. 
The reason being is because they

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are re releasing it this fall. 
So if you want to hear a stop 

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talking about it, then go 
subscribe so we don't have to 

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keep trying to promote it. 
That's right, Ryan. 

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So you can find us at YouTube by
typing in at Running Podcast 

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into the search bar. 
And don't forget to like and 

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subscribe so Letty has lots of 
inspiration to continue the 

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videos. 
So Letty, update on the marathon

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training, how's it been going? 
I've been cramming, Ryan. 

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I've been cramming. 
Some of you guys know I have a 

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marathon coming up and I think 
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Haven't really trained that much
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to over the summer and here we 
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runs though. 
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10-12 milers with marathon pace.
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nice muscle memory and hoping 
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me catapult me into a great 
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What does your Garmin say? 
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saying 341 but that's not what I
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marathon. 
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hopefully like always, Garmin 
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So we will see. 
And you will have an upcoming 

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video about the race where you 
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right? 
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the lights at the Tunnel 
Marathon in Washington happening

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on September 8th of this year, 
so stay tuned for that. 

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So what are we talking about 
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Today the topic is gonna be 
marathon mindset, a topic that 

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comes in quite handy not only 
for me, but everybody else 

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listening to this podcast. 
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the struggle, the internal 
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probably the toughest part if 
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correctly. 
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would love to explore because as
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what's going on between those 
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Maybe even more important if you
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Exactly. 
That's what I'm hoping for, to 

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get out of this. 
So we talked to Whitney Miller 

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from Transcend Health and 
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She is a running coach, but 
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she's also a strength coach and 
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And it was very, very nice to 
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beyond mantras and little things
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go hard. 
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important pillars that accompany
your change of mindset, identity

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as a runner, your attitude, all 
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It was a really great 
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after that conversation, my 
gosh, there's so much more to go

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deeper in. 
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you know, always between half an
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So we're touching the base of 
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But Whitney has a lot of 
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participate in if need be. 
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I think especially with 
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distance or longer time period 
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game or the mindset is so 
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Yeah, absolutely. 
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things that she talks about and 
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work on yourself can really help
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generally in life. 
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So you want to get into it? 
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So without any further ado, I'm 
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conversation with Whitney 
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All right, so I'm on here with 
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Whitley, thank you so much for 
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Yeah, you're welcome. 
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Yes. 
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about you and what you do to 
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also when it comes to mindset 
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that. 
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Well, so I own Transcend 
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Wellness. 
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coaching. 
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business was going to land. 
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business, grow myself, right, 
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athleticism and my expertise in 
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practice. 
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until the end of college. 
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running for a period of time and
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conditioning, I'm doing the 
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endurance goes, and then I'm 
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There's about 10% that we talk 
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of what I do with clients when I
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I love it. 
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I've said this on my podcast 
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it to you that it's so crazy 
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programs, you know, how many 
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you're doing on what day, but 
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information, not a lot of 
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these are the things you can do 
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stronger unless, you know, the 
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oh, yeah, during your long run, 
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so much bigger than just I think
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thoughts and that is true, but 
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identities and attitudes that 
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react in every situation. 
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think, but what you believe, 
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how you identify as a person and
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towards things that really 
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and then react to the world. 
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thoughts, it's so much more. 
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have a lot of work to do in the 
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just focusing on the thoughts 
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reaction to, you know, what 
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game. 
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and that very true. 
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the mantras, it goes so much 
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So how would you tackle that? 
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person that is coming to you. 
You're writing them a training 

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program, what to run on what 
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How do you go beyond that? 
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So, you know, every session that
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start with what's going well. 
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is because our brain is so 
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going well. 
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many times I've sat in a session
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well and it's like crickets. 
No one can come up with things. 

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working with me. 
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like what's going well, 
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challenges. 
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client brings to the call. 
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clients about performance 
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doubt, who they are, who they 
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athlete and how that's affecting
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to the surface, but we always 
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you feel certain ways. 
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know, will say, let's just take 
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People will say, like, I get to 
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to the bathroom 600 times. 
I, you know, am checking the 

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time every two minutes. 
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checking to see where the start 
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cycle of anxiety. 
And so we go into, well, what 

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kind of thoughts are feeding 
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then we can move into, OK, well,
what behaviors is that creating 

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for you? 
So maybe that's the, like we 

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said, you know, checking the 
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to the bathroom 600 times, you 
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in themselves, things like that.
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behaviors, we can then rework 
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behaviors. 
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transformation. 
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into identity after we've worked
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really just it takes a lot of 
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your identity with yourself. 
That is creating these negative 

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thoughts, you know, that's 
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anxiety or self doubt or 
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Wow. 
OK, so this is pretty packed. 

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Thank you for that. 
Right. 

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Yeah, you're welcome. 
I love, I love the what is going

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well question because obviously 
as you were talking, I'm kind of

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thinking about my current 
training right now and I had 

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crickets happening. 
As well, Yeah. 

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I, I kind of think it's very 
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gratitude, right? 
Because once you start 

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practicing gratitude in life, 
then it comes very easily. 

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You're very aware. 
So I'm sure that in the same 

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way, what's going well, once you
start identifying the things 

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that are going well, it comes to
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But then when you do that, how 
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safe. 
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thought, it kind of is like this
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I'm safe because what I thought 
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OK, so think about if what 
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like you're thinking like, oh, 
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For instance, on this run, I 
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that I was supposed to, which 
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able to make my pace time for my
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able to make my goal time. 
OK, so that kind of leads us 

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down like this trigger of 
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Well, your brain then is going 
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on a run, look for all the 
things that proves those 

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statements, right? 
So you don't feel strong. 

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There's a proof you don't make a
certain time. 

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There's a proof you don't have a
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You think like, oh, I'm my race 
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There's proof. 
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proof, it's still proving to 
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So your brain feels safe. 
So when we flip that and we move

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into looking for positives, like
what's going well, then when you

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strong in my gait or my 
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So then when you show up at your
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positive, your brain is always 
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that then it's right. 
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oh, I'm safe, great. 
But your brain doesn't really 

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understand that negative maybe 
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Positive does make you feel so 
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I love this. 
I'm so glad I asked this 

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question because it just makes 
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Right, when we think about it, 
it really does. 

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It really does, yeah. 
Because, yeah, no. 

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And then so with that, we're 
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ourselves because we're 
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Right, right. 
And we're finding that safety in

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positive proof versus safety and
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safety is safety. 
Your brain, like it doesn't know

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the difference between anything 
really. 

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I mean, it's just like its goal 
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proof of negative things that 

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you're looking for or safety of 
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just the goal is I have to keep 
this body safe. 

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OK, just wants to be right. 
Yes, yeah. 

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OK, perfect. 
All right. 

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So then you were saying that. 
So this kind of covers, you said

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believe identity and attitude. 
You said the hardest one to 

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change is the identity. 
So once we kind of, I know this 

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is obviously going to be a lot 
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more, but just to touch the top 
of it when it comes to identity,

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how, how does that whole thing 
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So identity, I mean, takes a lot
of willingness from the person 

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to, to work on because identity 
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So think about, you know, these 
things you identify as that 

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you've identified As for your 
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So for instance, like, let's 
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right? 
You've identified as an athlete 

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for your whole life. 
And then let's say after 

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college, what is your identity? 
Because you don't have an 

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organized sport that you're 
doing anymore, so identity 

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becomes this really difficult 
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and really difficult thing to 
rework and recreate a different 

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relationship with. 
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understanding what thoughts are 
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the belief of I'm not an athlete
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not strong enough to be an 
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of I'll never find a sport that 
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Fill in the blank. 
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having, it's kind of 
understanding that how the 

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thoughts are connected to those 
beliefs. 

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So it's kind of like A leading 
to B. 

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So that thoughts are A, they 
lead to the beliefs which are B.

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Then you have to look at those 
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how to challenge them in a very 
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And that's where really I always
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professional on identity shift 
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intentional exercises. 
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questioning, a lot of 
intentional coaching that allows

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you to see your identity and 
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create a different relationship 
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So here's a great example. 
I have a client who is in her 

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60s. 
She ran in college, ran 

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throughout high school, was one 
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college for running. 
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she's still dealing with some of
the beliefs of if I don't run 

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fast, I'm not good enough. 
So that is an identity she's 

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taken on. 
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a fast runner to be good enough.
So she spent the last 45, you 

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know, however many years, right,
dealing with this identity 

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that's affecting how she is 
connecting to her sport, how 

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she's connecting to herself, but
also probably how she's 

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connecting to her life as well 
in some sense. 

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So really working with a coach, 
sitting down, understanding what

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that identity is and what 
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then it's like going back and 
reworking those thoughts and 

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beliefs, if that makes sense. 
And that's kind of like a very 

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short answer to a very potent 
question, if you know. 

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Oh yeah, I know we can't wrap up
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podcast, but I mean, I think 
this is a great way of going at 

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it. 
I personally know a lot of 

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retired elite runners and a 
reason for them not to run 

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anymore is because probably of 
that they just don't even know 

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how to approach a race. 
A personal friend of mine who is

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a coach who's come onto the show
a lot of times, he used to be 

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one of the top marathon runners 
in the country and he. 

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Said after he had retired it was
very difficult for him to even 

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go to a marathon because he was 
starting in the middle and he 

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was like, what am I even going 
for if I'm not going for 

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everything, right? 
Yeah. 

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And so that identity that he had
is then affecting how he is 

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experiencing something that he's
trying to do, probably for Joy, 

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like that, right? 
Like, he's not racing anymore, 

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but he's trying to do something 
for Joy. 

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But it's totally affecting his 
experience because his identity 

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is wrapped up still in that, you
know, I'm here to compete. 

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I'm here to do the, you know, be
the best, whatever his thoughts 

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are, you know, and beliefs are. 
So that's a great example of how

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identity can affect people. 
Yeah. 

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And. 
On the flip side, though, a lot 

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of our listeners are people that
started and when I say quote UN 

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quote later on in life weren't 
collegiate athletes and started 

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running in the 30s, forties, 
50s. 

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And so then on the flip side, 
how do you best start 

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identifying as an athlete when 
you know, you know, in high 

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school you hated the mile you 
didn't run until you know you 

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did the 5K to or couch to 5K 
program or whatever? 

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That's a great question and I 
love to dive into that in a 

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workshop that I do called 
Transcend Your Mindset, but I'll

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talk a little bit about it here.
So really it's kind of the same 

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thing like identifying those 
thoughts that are connected to 

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athlete and where did those 
thoughts come from? 

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So did they come from society? 
Did they come from? 

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Maybe it's not even your 
thought, like maybe it was your 

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parents thought or a friend's 
thought, right? 

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But where do they come from? 
And then becoming aware, so 

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noticing when you are saying 
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So when you notice getting 
really curious, so noticing and 

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not going, oh, there it is 
again. 

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Why did I think that? 
And getting really down on 

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yourself, but getting really 
curious and going, huh, It's 

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really interesting that I keep 
saying that to myself and 

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pausing and not answering your 
question like it's a very 

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rhetorical question because what
that allows you to do, it allows

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your brain to have some time to 
marinate. 

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And then when you're driving 
somewhere, when you're in the 

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shower, right, whenever your 
brain has space, oftentimes 

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you'll go, oh, that's why I keep
saying that. 

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So it, it gives your brain some 
brain some time to marinate. 

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And so once you identify the 
reasons why you're saying these 

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things to yourself, then you 
have to change your operating 

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system. 
So this is where I always 

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compare this to like, let's say 
you have a car, it's reliable, 

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it's gotten you to and from 
places, you've had it for years.

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But you notice like I just, I 
kind of want an upgrade. 

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Like I'm I'm ready for an 
upgrade. 

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I'm ready for the new gadgets. 
I'm ready for, you know, like 

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Bluetooth connection, I'm ready 
for whatever, all the things. 

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So you go shopping and you end 
up buying a different car and 

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it's an upgrade. 
So that's what we're doing with 

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identity and mindset is we're 
not firing this old version of 

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ourselves. 
We're just upgrading it because 

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this old version of ourselves 
isn't really working anymore for

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what we're doing in our life 
currently. 

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So as a someone who, you know, 
is trying to identify as an 

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athlete, it would kind of be 
saying, OK, you know, these 

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thoughts that I had of like, I 
hated the mile in high school 

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and you know, I wasn't very 
athletic quote or whatever those

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thoughts are like, are they 
really serving you in this 

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version of yourself that you are
today? 

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And once you realize they're 
really not, then it's like, 

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well, what what do you want to 
serve you? 

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What is the thought that you 
want to serve you? 

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And then it's recreating those 
thoughts and allowing them to 

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marinate and then eventually, 
like, upgrade to this newer 

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version of yourself. 
I love this. 

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Yeah. 
I mean, who doesn't like an 

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upgrade right now? 
It's better than changing your 

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entire identity. 
You're still the same person. 

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You've just improved, right? 
Yeah, and that's always 

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something good to remind the 
brain too, is like, I'm not 

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firing any part of me, I'm just 
upgrading it. 

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Like those parts of me did a 
really great job and protected 

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me when I was in high school or 
whenever I had those thoughts. 

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But now, like I, I have new 
thoughts and those thoughts are 

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going to do their job in 
protecting me for what I want to

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do now. 
OK. 

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All right, so then the last 

459
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,800
element that you were talking 
about was the attitude. 

460
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,000
Can you dive a little bit into 
that? 

461
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,680
Yeah. 
So, you know, our attitude 

462
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:43,600
effects how we interpret and 
react to situations. 

463
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:49,560
So if we think about like a 
thought, let's just do an 

464
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:54,080
example here, like maybe the 
thought is let's just do, I'm 

465
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,040
not very athletic. 
How about that? 

466
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,160
So the thought is I'm not very 
athletic. 

467
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,440
The belief is I'm not an 
athlete. 

468
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:08,040
The attitude is maybe fear or 
disgust towards trying athletic 

469
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:12,320
things. 
So think about then every time 

470
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,280
you see something athletic, 
you're interpreting it as scary,

471
00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:24,640
too hard, challenging, fearful. 
You're reacting to those things 

472
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:29,880
as I don't think I'm going to 
try that, like standoffishness 

473
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,360
or oh, you go ahead and do that.
I'm not going to join the 

474
00:28:33,360 --> 00:28:38,200
kickball team, right? 
So attitude really effects how 

475
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,400
you see situations, but then how
you react to them. 

476
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:48,600
So it's kind of like this, this 
rain trickle, right? 

477
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:52,200
It starts at the top with the 
thought, it goes into the belief

478
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,520
and then it goes into who you 
are, right? 

479
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,160
Your identity. 
And then it affects how you see 

480
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:02,160
situations, but how you then 
react to them. 

481
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:07,400
So the attitude is really kind 
of that belief and identity kind

482
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:11,040
of coming into its own, like 
personality in a sense, right? 

483
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:17,640
And just reacting to whatever 
The thing is, but then also 

484
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:24,200
interpreting it as good, bad, 
neutral, awesome, scary, 

485
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,400
whatever The thing is. 
OK. 

486
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:30,320
So, so kind of based on that, it
almost sounds like, and 

487
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,480
obviously correct me if I'm 
wrong, your attitude will change

488
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,680
once you have worked on your 
belief and identity, yeah. 

489
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,840
Yeah. 
And like these things, I'm 

490
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,600
talking about them as if like, 
oh, these things can like they 

491
00:29:44,600 --> 00:29:46,600
change like that. 
They don't. 

492
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,640
This is like a practice. 
I always say mindset is a power 

493
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:53,080
practice. 
It's not something that just 

494
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:56,280
like you change over an eye and 
then you never have to work on 

495
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,120
it again. 
It's something that is a 

496
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,200
practice. 
Just like you might exercise 

497
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,840
every day or make your bed every
day. 

498
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:07,200
Like it's the same thing, right?
So it's a practice that you put 

499
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,640
into play every day and you're 
going to have moments where like

500
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:16,840
your old beliefs, they pop in 
and you've got to say, OK, I 

501
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,640
hear you. 
And I choose to believe my new 

502
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:24,560
belief today, right? 
Or maybe you're like, screw it. 

503
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,000
I choose to believe my old 
belief because I'm in a bad mood

504
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,080
and I just need to be in a bad 
mood for a minute. 

505
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,920
OK, right. 
Like, but don't judge yourself 

506
00:30:32,920 --> 00:30:36,240
for that. 
So these things can shift and 

507
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:41,320
evolve as you shift and evolved,
but they're, they're very like 

508
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,240
fluid and you have to control 
the fluidity of them by 

509
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,360
practicing these new thoughts, 
these new behaviors, these new 

510
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:53,280
identities, new attitudes every 
day. 

511
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:56,320
OK, perfect. 
It makes sense. 

512
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,560
And it sounds like it's going to
be a lot of work. 

513
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,160
But I think by even just 
listening to this podcast and 

514
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,600
creating awareness about it, I 
think that's already step number

515
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,320
one, right? 
Yeah. 

516
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,960
And I think we saw a lot of 
that, like in the Olympics that 

517
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:12,760
people watch the Olympics 
recently, we saw a lot of 

518
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:17,560
discussion about mental health 
and about understanding balance 

519
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:21,200
and understanding that your 
sport is not your identity. 

520
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:25,480
There's a lot of discussion 
about that from Simone Biles to 

521
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:27,440
Reagan Smith. 
Like there were tons of 

522
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,920
discussions. 
And I think the more we're 

523
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:32,200
seeing those discussions, the 
more we're hearing those 

524
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,600
discussions, it gives us 
permission to have those 

525
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:39,160
discussions with one another. 
And so that's where all this 

526
00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:41,400
work starts. 
And then obviously you've got 

527
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,360
professionals out in the world 
that work with people on these 

528
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:49,040
things particularly, and those 
people are always available to 

529
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,000
help you go further in that 
journey if you wish. 

530
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:53,760
OK. 
Perfect. 

531
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:58,080
And I guess my last question 
would be what are your or do you

532
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,960
have one or two practical tips 
for marathoners that? 

533
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:08,360
Are going to. 
Be very much in their heads once

534
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,000
they start their journey to 
26.2. 

535
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,760
What to do when things get hard?
Yeah, so. 

536
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:19,560
That's a really good question. 
My first thing is I always like 

537
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,600
to tell athletes that I work 
with who are training for a 

538
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:27,760
marathon is find evidence. 
So when you are in a hard spot 

539
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:32,360
of your race, find evidence that
you can overcome that. 

540
00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:37,560
So search back in your, you 
know, mind of all the times that

541
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:42,680
you were in practice, that you 
ran, you know, a workout and 

542
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:46,520
that you had a hard workout and 
you were able to overcome it. 

543
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,520
Find that evidence and start 
building that evidence as you're

544
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,880
in your race and do it as many 
times as you need. 

545
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,920
But that I would say is my like 
top strategy that I like to 

546
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:03,440
share with people is borrowing 
strength from a past experience 

547
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,600
and bringing it into the 
present. 

548
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,280
So it's finding evidential proof
which helps your brain feel 

549
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:15,280
safe, right? 
And using that as fuel in a time

550
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:19,840
where you're feeling a little 
uncertain, scared, overwhelmed, 

551
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:24,760
tired, pain, all the things that
come with those moments in 

552
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,640
marathons. 
I love this. 

553
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,840
Thank you so much and yeah, 
you're welcome. 

554
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,320
Maybe let our. 
Listeners know which like I told

555
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:37,360
you, you know is is a lot of 
runners, how you and your 

556
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,960
capacity can work with them and 
then also how they can best 

557
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,680
contact you. 
Sure. 

558
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:44,200
So I am a certified running 
coach. 

559
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:46,800
I do work with runners and 
endurance athletes. 

560
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:51,480
So if you're looking to train 
for anything from a 5K to an 

561
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:56,080
ultra marathon or an endurance 
race, so something like, you 

562
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:01,960
know, running up, you know, big 
mountain multiple times, there's

563
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,960
all kinds of hiking races, 
things like that. 

564
00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:07,720
You can work with me in that 
facility or that capacity as 

565
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,840
well. 
So you can also do strength and 

566
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,800
conditioning with me. 
And so if you're looking to get 

567
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,880
stronger as a an endurance 
athlete, that is an option as 

568
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,560
well. 
And then you have the mindset 

569
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:24,239
that is tied into both of those 
pieces that you'll get as a just

570
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,040
a client of mine. 
So that would be how somebody 

571
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,040
can work with me. 
And if you're interested in 

572
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,600
contacting me, you can always 
reach out on Instagram at train 

573
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,280
dot with dot transcend and also.
Whitney, you were saying that 

574
00:34:37,280 --> 00:34:40,040
you do workshops. 
How do those work? 

575
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,120
Are they in person, online and 
what topics do they cover 

576
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,800
normally? 
Yeah, great. 

577
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,639
Question. 
So I love mindset workshops and 

578
00:34:48,639 --> 00:34:53,800
I have a series of six that I 
typically do together and 

579
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:59,040
they're about mindset, judgment,
overcoming perfectionism. 

580
00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,000
Let's see, what are the other 
ones? 

581
00:35:03,240 --> 00:35:09,040
Race day mindset fear. 
And there's one more that I'm 

582
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:12,560
forgetting, but there's six that
I typically do together and 

583
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:16,400
they're they're all virtual. 
So you can attend live or if you

584
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:19,200
can't attend live, you can 
always sign up and register and 

585
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:23,280
then get the replay. 
I actually am starting my series

586
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:28,160
of six workshops starting in 
September and it's just a series

587
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,360
called Master Your Mindset. 
So if you're interested, I can 

588
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,040
always share the link and you 
can put that in the show notes 

589
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,960
for people to share and register
if they wish that is. 

590
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,840
Perfect. 
Thank you so much, Whitney. 

591
00:35:40,240 --> 00:35:46,600
You're welcome. 
Thank you, Whitney so much for 

592
00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:48,160
your time and all your 
knowledge. 

593
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:51,200
We super appreciate you. 
And for all you listeners, if 

594
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,080
you feel like you got some great
value out of this and you want 

595
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:58,120
to learn more about Transcend 
Health and Wellness, then you 

596
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,920
can go to her website, 
transcendhealthandwellness.com. 

597
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:04,520
As she mentioned, and like we 
said again, everything is going 

598
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:09,160
to be LinkedIn our show notes. 
So we'll see if lady's mindset 

599
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:13,800
can overcome the 340 marathon 
and get to sub 3:30. 

600
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:18,320
Yeah, hopefully with Whitney's 
help and little tips here, it 

601
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,920
can only get better, right? 
And I'll be able to tell Garmin 

602
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:24,720
you were wrong. 
Yes, indeed. 

603
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,520
So that's. 
It for today guys, stay tuned 

604
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,360
for next week next week we're 
going to have another very 

605
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,080
awesome wholesome episode coming
on. 

606
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,680
We're going to talk about speed 
versus endurance and not just 

607
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:40,400
how you train differently for 
them but the importance of each 

608
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,680
one of them and how they can 
work together to make you 

609
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,440
ultimately what we want to be 
better long distance runners. 

610
00:36:46,720 --> 00:36:48,840
But maybe while you're doing 
that, you'll fall in love with 

611
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:50,960
shorter distances as well, so 
who knows? 

612
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,160
It'll be an exciting episode. 
So TuneIn. 

613
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,120
And with that and have a good 
weekend running. 

614
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,920
Thanks for tuning in. 
For more information and 

615
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:05,840
marathon running news, please 
head to 

616
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:11,200
www.marathonrunningpodcast.com 
and we'll be back next week. 

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