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Welcome to the Liberty Baptist 
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Church in Easton, MA. 
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And now we hope that this 

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message from God's Word will be 
a blessing to you. 

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Second Samuel chapter #3 in the 
Word of God tonight, second 

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Samuel chapter #3 and that we 
saw last week the patience of 

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David. 
Remember, even though the goal 

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post moved, even though he 
thought he was going to be king 

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and still was not king yet, he 
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he knew that God was in control.
But tonight, we're going to 

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continue to look at David and 
Ishbasheth, and as Ishbasheth 

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and his splinter Kingdom, if you
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decrease decline, we're going to
see that David and his Kingdom, 

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the rightful Kingdom, Amen, is 
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on the incline. 
You know, for me being a pastor,

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this is not just a job. 
You know, I didn't turn into a 

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pastor because I couldn't do 
anything else for a living. 

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And it's like, well, if you 
can't do something else, just be

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a pastor. 
I guess that's not the way that 

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it works for me. 
It's it's a calling, it's a 

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ministry, it's a, it's a 
passion. 

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I hope that those of you who are
here have known me long enough 

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to know that that's how I feel 
about the ministry, that this is

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not a nine to five. 
This is just not a way to make a

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quick buck. 
If it is, I picked a lousy way 

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to make a quick buck, all things
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But this is all about, it's 
about people and it's about 

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seeing people get it, you know, 
and seeing people get saved and 

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seeing them grow and seeing them
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It's such an incredibly 
satisfying thing to be able to 

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see and one of the things that I
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times and one of the struggles. 
That I have is often times I can

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see. 
Through someone's life and I'm 

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not talking about a strange 
prophetic type thing, but I, I 

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can just look at somebody and 
see I know what God could do in 

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your life if you would just give
your life to him to, to look at 

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somebody who's struggling, you 
know, I know if you got saved 

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your life would change or to see
them save but yet not really 

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living victoriously or not 
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king of their heart. 
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they're not really listening to 
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and we all go through those 
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It's unfortunate, but we do have
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that's the case, but to look at 
somebody know that Jesus, Jesus 

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is the answer to your life. 
He's the answer to your problems

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if you would just allow him to 
do the work that only he can do 

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it. 
It's really one of the things 

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that grieves my heart more than 
anything to be able to see 

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someone and say, won't you just 
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Won't you just let him be the 
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it would change your life 
forever? 

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And by the way, this isn't just 
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This isn't just a problem for 
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Listen, I have seen this issue 
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I've seen this issue from those 
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in the Lord and those who are 
older in their relationship with

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Christ. 
That we all go through times or 

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seasons and some maybe even more
so, who struggle with this. 

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That they just need to make 
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life, whether through salvation,
which is what we have to do 

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first and foremost, but then 
through the everyday struggles 

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and issues and walk of our life 
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Well, this evening. 
We're going to look at the war 

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between the House of David and 
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It's going to end in our text 
this evening, and it's going to 

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come to an end through an 
unlikely source, someone that 

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you don't see as being the 
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But yet I believe there's a 
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this man. 
An unlikely source, an unlikely 

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candidate to be able to say, you
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king. 
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some lessons that we can learn 
from this tonight in a message 

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that I have entitled now, then 
do it now, then do it down on 

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its face. 
That doesn't make a whole lot of

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sense, but we're going to see 
where those 4 words are actually

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found in our text tonight. 
Once you remain seated, then 

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we're going to read second 
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verse one and going to verse #11
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that, but we'll stop at verse 
#11 for time to make some 

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comments as well. 
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Now there was long war between 
the House of Saul and the House 

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of David, but David waxed 
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House of Saul waxed weaker and 
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And then the David were sons 
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And his first born was Amnon of 
a Hinom the Jezreelitis, and his

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second Chilean of Abigail the 
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And the third Absalom, the son 
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king of Gesher. 
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Haggath and the 5th chef Hitath 
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And the 6th Ythrium by Igla, 
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These were born to David in 
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And it came to pass while there 
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Saul, the House of David, that 
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the House of Saul. 
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the uncle of David, or rather 
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I apologies. 
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name was Rizpa, the daughter of 
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And Ishbashaf said to Abner, 
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my father's concubine? 
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the words of Istraceph, and 
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against Judah do show kindness 
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thy father, to his brethren, and
to his friends, and have not 

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delivered thee into the hand of 
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today with a fault concerning 
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So do God to Abdura. 
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has sworn to David Even so I do 
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from the House of soul and to 
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Israel and over Judah from Dan 
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not answer Abner a word again 
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Now, whether you realize it or 
not, there's a great deal of 

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drama that just took place 
within the 1st 11 verses of this

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chapter. 
So we're going to try to unpack 

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it a little bit and then we're 
going to continue on in the text

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to be able to learn some lessons
again in a message that I've 

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called now then do it. 
And if I was to give this 

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message a subtitle, it would be 
this Stop waiting to put the 

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king. 
On his throne. 

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Stop waiting to put the King on 
his throne. 

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Heavenly Father, I do pray to 
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allow me to say what needs to be
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Allow my preparation. 
Allow the work. 

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That. 
Has taken place behind the 

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scenes to have been fruitful for
the admonition for the help of 

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all who are here tonight and all
who listen later on or watch 

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online. 
And Lord, may it help them as it

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helped me and maybe bring them 
to a place of realizing some 

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things even as it did for me 
this last week. 

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Or thank you for this message 
and I pray that you would help 

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me as I deliver it. 
And we ask it in Jesus name, 

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Amen. 
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there's enough drama taking 
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that it came from the mind of a 
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But it's not something that came
out of the mind of Hollywood, 

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but rather it's found right here
as we saw this morning, revealed

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to us by the inspiration of the 
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Now, our chapter opens with this
thought process of what's taking

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place in this, well, civil war 
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Judah and the House of David and
the other tribes and the House 

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of Saul, which is being 
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But you remember, Abner is more 
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Abner is more of the kingmaker 
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that Ishbosheth, who we saw last
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certainly a man that I believe 
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of, of real character in and of 
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And we see that David's getting 
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getting weaker. 
That that doesn't surprise us, 

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does it? 
Because we know, as we saw last 

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week, who was promised to be 
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was David who was promised to be
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And so we have this ascension of
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other. 
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about four verses of the family 
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as David has amassed some level 
of wealth and he is he is 

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ascending towards the Kingdom. 
He's also collected a few wives,

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hasn't he? 
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You might say, pastor, why is 
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Because as I've said to you 
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shy away from the hard or 
sometimes the unsavory elements 

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of those who are still 
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David here is shown as a man who
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custom of kings of that time. 
But let me remind you that just 

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because thing is a custom of 
those of the world does not mean

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it should be the custom of the 
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You'd say, well pastor, where on
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explicitly that a man should not
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And my answer to you is that it 
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not have. 
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But I would argue to you that 
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beginning. 
You look right at what marriage 

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is as instituted by God. 
It is what one man and one woman

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that had been brought together. 
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mother and cleave together as 
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Nowhere is it ever introduced 
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It's just implicit in the fact 
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one man and one woman and that 
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this mix as well. 
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this woman, but the same man and
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this woman, the same man and 
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That was never God's intent. 
There's also a Bible principle 

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as well that you can find at 
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something is mentioned and maybe
it's never condemned because 

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it's just being reported to us, 
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But you can see just from the 
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it's not going well. 
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go through the Word of God and 
find a time when multiple 

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marriages by one man is ever 
presented in a way where it 

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works out well. 
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No Did it work out well for 
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No Did it work out well for 
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No. 
Did it work out well for Abraham

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who took of his concubine, who 
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had Ishmael with her? 
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It never worked out well in the 
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Why? 
Because it was never God's plan.

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And if you're to look at this 
list of men that you have these 

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sons that were born of these 
woman in these 4 verses here in 

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chapter #3 of the men who were 
accounted for at this time never

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amounted to anything, or even 
worse, amounted into something 

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quite wicked. 
You could take several of those 

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names, including Amnon and 
Adonijah, and find that these 

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are not exactly a paragons of 
Christian virtue, that these are

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quite the opposite. 
So I feel like we just need to 

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clear off a spot there for just 
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these are brought to our 
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God's stamp of approval on what 
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It's just God reporting on, 
well, exactly what David has 

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done and giving us the 
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But anytime you see this idea of
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goes well. 
And isn't it amazing, by the 

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way, how things that are old 
always become new and polygamy 

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is in the news again, whether 
it's a reality show, Sister 

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Wives a few years ago, or place 
like Somerville where throuple's

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are legally allowed to be able 
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And this is something that is 
becoming in the news once again.

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And we just have to remind 
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always God's word. 
God's truth is always truth. 

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And error just kind of keeps 
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again. 
Does it gets repackaged and gets

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repurposed? 
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throuple the next, but yet what 
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It's all sin in God's eyes, and 
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partook of it here in verses 2 
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Ishbashaf have this 
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Ishbashaf comes up to Abner, and
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Wherefore has thou gone in unto 
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Father's concubine. 
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Something that is going to be an
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verse and Second Samuel, 1st and
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Chronicles, as we look at the 
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of Judah. 
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when someone who perhaps desires
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concubine someone from who used 
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And the idea of so was to be 
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belonged to the king and now she
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So I guess I should be king. 
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backwards way of looking at 
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property, to consider a woman 
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prop, to be able to make the man
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Certainly again, not the way 
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That's not what's being said. 
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Abner. 
He says this. 

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Listen, man, I've heard about 
you. 

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I heard that you took one of my 
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And what he is saying in this is
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you want to make a play for the 
throne. 

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I'm here and you want to take my
spot. 

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And again, we saw that Ishbashaf
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We saw the Ishbashaf is not a 
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is a relation to him. 
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And his response is this look at
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words of Ishbashaf, and said, Am
IA dog's head, which against 

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Judah do show kindness. 
This day unto the House of soul,

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thy father to his brethren, to 
his friends, and have not 

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delivered thee into the hand of 
David, that thou charges me 

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today with a fault concerning 
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So do God to Abner more also 
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to David. 
Even so I do to him to translate

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the Kingdom from the House of 
Salt, and to set up the throne 

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of David over Israel and over 
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Beersheba. 
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that the accusation that 
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Abner was one that was seemingly
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It was not one that was actually
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Ishbasheth either had heard that
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Ishbasheth is trying to poke the
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to try to make Abner mad, 
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from the way, and trying to make
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that he seemingly looks like a 
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I don't know what Ishbosheth 
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this, but it was a bad move. 
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because of a kingmaker, you 
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mad. 
If you are a puppet, you don't 

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want to make the puppeteer mad. 
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He angered Abner and Abner says 
Ish Bashat. 

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Who are you? 
Who are you to say this of me? 

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Don't you know that the only 
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that you have right now is 
because of me? 

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Don't you realize you wouldn't 
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anybody if it wasn't for me? 
And you would dare accuse me of 

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trying to do something to hurt 
the Kingdom when I've done 

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nothing but try to help you? 
He says, you know what I'm going

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to do? 
He says maybe I ought to just 

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wander right over to David and 
talk to him. 

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And maybe David ought to be the 
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other than you. 
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Berseth could not answer Abner a
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What a weak man he is. 
And we're going to find out how 

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weak even greater he is in just 
a moment. 

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But yet Abner says this. 
Hey, buddy, you want to? 

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You want to, you want to play 
with the bull and grab the 

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horns. 
He says you might get the horns.

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And that's exactly what's going 
to happen right now. 

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He says, you think you're going 
to going to cross me? 

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He says, how about I cross the 
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maybe we unify this Kingdom and 
guess who's going to be out? 

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It's going to be you. 
And we see as we continue on in 

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our text from verse #12 on, 
that's exactly what took place. 

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Now there's a lot of bitterness 
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In fact, there's some of second 
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not address last week that I 
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because it will pick up with 
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Samuel chapter #3 if that makes 
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And so there's a lot of 
bitterness. 

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There's a lot of animosity 
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the House of Saul. 
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all up in the 1st place? 
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Abner was the one who could not 
accept the fact that day would 

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be the king of all 12 tribes. 
He was the one that grabbed 

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Isbush Chef. 
He was the one who tried to make

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him to be the king. 
He's for two years the one 

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that's been stirring the pot and
keeping the animosity burning. 

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But even Abner realizes, man, 
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He's a fool. 
He's he's dangerous in the fact 

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of what the way he thinks he 
doesn't understand who he is. 

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He doesn't understand where he's
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David is. 
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Let's just end this right now. 
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Abner's motives. 
It could have been just the fact

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that he just felt wounded in his
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Look, I don't know what it is. 
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He says this has got to stop. 
And there's only one person who 

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could make this stop, and it's 
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that's me. 
So let's pick up at verse #12 

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and move on. 
Then we left off at verse #11 

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Look at verse 12. 
And Abner sent messengers to 

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David on his behalf, saying, 
Whose is the land? 

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Saying, also make thy league 
with me. 

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And behold, my hand shall be 
with thee to bring about all 

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Israel unto thee. 
And he said, Well, I will make a

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league with thee. 
One thing I require of thee, 

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that is, thou shall not see my 
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Michael, Saul's daughter, when 
thou comest to see my face. 

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Do you remember in First Samuel 
chapter 18 that David was 

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promised that he would have 
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but yet Saul, in a bit of deceit
towards David, ended up trying 

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to use it as a way for David to 
be killed. 

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David was not killed. 
And so he ended up giving away 

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Michael to another man. 
And so David says this, Hey, I 

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want to know that you're 
serious, Abner. 

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I want to know, I want to ask 
you to do something that's going

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to cost you a little bit and 
it's going to cost the family a 

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little bit, he says. 
I want my wife back now again, 

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are we agreeing with this? 
David already has five more 

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wives than he ought to have, but
yet this is what David perceives

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as the correct way to go to be 
able to say listen she was 

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promised to me. 
I want to see her before we go 

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any further. 
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and David sent messengers to 
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deliver me my wife Michael, who 
my spouse to me for in 100 and 

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foreskins of the Philistines. 
Again, going back to that story 

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in First Samuel chapter 18. 
And Ishbosheth sent and took for

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her from her husband, even from 
Faulty Elle the son of Laish. 

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And her husband went with her 
along weeping behind her to 

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Bayrum, and said Abner unto him,
go return. 

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And he returned. 
This man's This man is married 

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to Michael and he's been married
to her seemingly for probably 10

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to 15 years, somewhere around 
that length of time. 

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And so Abner comes and he says, 
listen, Michael, remember, 

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David, remember, you're supposed
to be married to him. 

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You're going to him. 
Hey, you, Sir, sit down. 

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She don't belong to you anymore.
And so this man, well, he's 

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upset and you ought to be upset.
He's about to lose his wife. 

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And so he's following behind 
Abner and he's crying and he's 

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weeping. 
And Abner says, hey, man, go 

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home. 
She don't belong to you anymore.

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And talk about a weak man. 
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We never hear from him again. 
I mean, what a crazy thing is 

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that, huh? 
That his man's wife's taken away

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from him. 
And he's like, well, I'll try a 

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little. 
I'll cry a little bit. 

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But you know, oh, well, I guess 
I'll move on. 

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And that's what happens there. 
Verse 17 Abner had communication

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with the elders of Israel saying
you sought for David in times 

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past to be king over you. 
Now then do it, for the Lord has

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spoken of David, saying, By the 
hand of my servant David, I will

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save my people Israel out of the
hand of the Philistines, out of 

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the hand of all their enemies. 
And Abner Spake also in the 

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years of Benjamin, and Abner 
Witt to speak in the years of 

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David and Hebron, all that 
seemed good to Israel, and that 

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seemed good to the house, whole 
House of Benjamin. 

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Sorry, I lost my space there. 
Verse #20 And Abner came to 

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David to Hebron, and 20 men with
him. 

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David made Abner and the men 
that were with him a feast. 

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And Abner said unto David, I 
will arise and go, and we'll 

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gather all Israel unto my Lord 
the king, that they may make a 

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league with thee, and that thou 
mayest reign over all that thine

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heart desireth. 
And David said Abner away, and 

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he went in peace. 
So what takes place from verse 

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#17? 
And on Abner takes Michael, 

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delivers Michael to David, and 
says, David, I have kept my 

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word. 
Then he goes and he talks to all

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the tribes of Israel. 
And he says this, listen, it's 

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time to bring the tribes 
together. 

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It's time to bring Israel 
together. 

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It's been a long two years. 
Saul died two years ago, and 

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we've been split in half. 
Judah, the larger tribe with 

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David, the 11 other tribes with 
Ishbasheth. 

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It's time to bring the family 
together. 

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Then he goes to the tribe of 
Benjamin, his own tribe. 

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Why is that important? 
Well, that's the tribe of Seoul.

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And of course, they had great 
pride in knowing that Seoul was 

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their king and he was one of 
their own. 

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And he went to them and he told 
them the same thing. 

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He said it's time for us to 
bring everybody back together. 

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It's time for the civil war to 
be over. 

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And then he goes to David, and 
David very graciously throws a 

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banquet for him. 
And David very graciously 

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decides to be a unifier instead 
of trying to make things worse 

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and instead of trying to get a 
pound of flesh, an ounce of 

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blood from Abner, he says this, 
Listen, the time for this is 

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over. 
It's time for us to come 

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together. 
It's time for the Kingdom to be 

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is 1. 
It's time for me to be the king 

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as God has promised all of that 
time ago. 

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So with all of that being said, 
there is an interesting 

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statement you might have caught 
because it came from our text 

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just a few moments ago. 
There's an interesting statement

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that I want to focus on for the 
remainder of the message that we

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have tonight because it's 
something that I think is really

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helpful to us when we consider, 
look at verse #17 and it says an

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Abner had communication with the
elders of Israel, saying you saw

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it for David in times past to be
king over you now, then do it. 

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I'm going to stop right there 
for a minute. 

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He says there have been times in
the past when you knew David 

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should be king. 
Now when exactly that is, I 

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don't know. 
It very likely could have been 

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that after Saul died that the 
tribes were starting to believe 

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that they needed to coalesce 
together under David and that as

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they were starting to that 
process and allowing it to 

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begin, that Abner ended up 
saying, no, no, no, hold on a 

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second. 
Before you go to David, there's 

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another option. 
Before you go to David, there's 

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another way. 
You may not have realized it, 

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folks, but there was a another 
son of Saul that I have hiding 

442
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,400
over here, and he was hiding 
because I believe he wasn't in 

443
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:22,200
battle. 
He was not a man who was. 

444
00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,400
Honorable in any way? 
But he says, listen, you don't 

445
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,000
have to have David. 
You could have this guy over 

446
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,120
here and wouldn't he be so much 
better for you? 

447
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,800
And, and so Abner was saying, 
look, there was a time when you 

448
00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,440
all sought for David and then 
you let him be. 

449
00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:39,880
He said, but now listen, now 
then do it. 

450
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,840
It's time to make the king the 
king. 

451
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,040
It's time to stop talking about 
this. 

452
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:49,680
It's time to stop talking about 
putting him on his throne, and 

453
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:54,120
it's time to get this done now. 
Then do it. 

454
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:57,920
You know, I feel like we've been
calloused by the phrase just do 

455
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:00,440
it over the years. 
And we can probably thank Nike 

456
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:03,640
for that, can't we? 
Because starting in 1988, they 

457
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,000
started one of the most popular 
advertising campaigns in history

458
00:24:08,240 --> 00:24:12,200
by simply saying those 3 words. 
Just do it. 

459
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:17,640
And Nike came became from a 
boutique shoe resaler or seller 

460
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,600
rather, to becoming an 
international juggernaut, which 

461
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,760
it is today. 
And much of that can be 

462
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,360
attributed to that phrase. 
Just do it. 

463
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,360
And so I feel like we've heard 
it so many times that it's 

464
00:24:29,360 --> 00:24:32,080
something that almost we don't 
really think about very much 

465
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:33,880
anymore. 
And it's just become a slogan. 

466
00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:36,200
It's become an advertising 
phrase. 

467
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,640
It's not really something that 
maybe we internalize as we ought

468
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,440
to do. 
But, you know, there is an 

469
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,680
element of the Christian life 
that it really comes down to 

470
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,200
this. 
Just do it. 

471
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,240
There's enough of the talk. 
There's enough of the preaching,

472
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,120
there's enough of the teaching. 
You say there's enough preaching

473
00:24:53,120 --> 00:24:55,480
and teaching. 
Well, obviously there's never 

474
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,880
enough in one sense. 
But what I'm trying to say is 

475
00:24:57,880 --> 00:24:59,400
this. 
There's some people who just 

476
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,080
want to absorb preaching and 
absorb teaching and read and 

477
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,120
hear and learn, but yet they 
never want to put it into 

478
00:25:06,120 --> 00:25:08,120
practice. 
They never want to. 

479
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:12,240
They never just want to do it. 
They want to feel like they're 

480
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:13,880
learning. 
They want to feel like they're 

481
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:15,800
growing just by sitting under 
the Word. 

482
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,800
But listen, God didn't give us 
the Word just so that we could 

483
00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:23,040
expand our minds and not 
actually put it into practice in

484
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,320
the 1st place. 
When it comes to the issue of 

485
00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:29,360
having the King on the throne, 
just do it. 

486
00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:33,560
And when it comes to having the 
King on the throne of our heart,

487
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:36,000
what are we to do? 
Just do it. 

488
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,600
Is Jesus Christ the King of our 
heart? 

489
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,960
You know what's interesting 
about David? 

490
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,480
David never forced himself on 
anybody, did he? 

491
00:25:46,120 --> 00:25:51,720
David's passive here, David is a
representation, I believe, of 

492
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,080
Jesus Christ. 
What is he doing? 

493
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,400
David is ready, David is 
available. 

494
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:03,320
He's the king of promise, but he
is not going to force himself 

495
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,840
upon anybody. 
Do you realize our king, King 

496
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,200
Jesus? 
Is there any other king, I mean,

497
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,320
any other king can only get 
their power from the King of 

498
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:17,480
kings and the Lord of Lords. 
But Jesus will not force himself

499
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,280
upon you. 
He does not force himself upon 

500
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,400
you in salvation. 
He does not force himself upon 

501
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,240
you in your daily life. 
You know what we have to do. 

502
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:30,440
We have to take that which we 
understand the word of God and 

503
00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,040
do it. 
And every day we have to wake up

504
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,360
and say, Lord, you're in control
of this day and not me. 

505
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:40,280
Lord, you're in control of my 
wallet and not me. 

506
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,720
Lord, you're in control of my 
agenda and not me. 

507
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,640
Lord, you're control of my eyes 
and not me. 

508
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,360
Lord, you're in control of my 
mind and not me. 

509
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,000
You're in control of my ears. 
You're in control of my hands. 

510
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,880
You're in control of my feet and
where they go. 

511
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,840
You're in control of my heart. 
You're in control of my car. 

512
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,840
You're in control of my house. 
You're in control. 

513
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:01,880
You say, pastor, that's a lot of
stuff, and I'm not even close to

514
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:04,920
being done. 
If he's the king, he's in 

515
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:08,440
control of everything. 
But yet I've often found to be 

516
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:12,360
the case is that you and I as 
believers, we want him to be the

517
00:27:12,360 --> 00:27:14,080
king. 
But we only wanted to be the 

518
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,080
king so much, and we only wanted
to be the king so far. 

519
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,760
And sure, we like having him 
around. 

520
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,400
It's comforting to know that 
he's there. 

521
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:26,080
But we still want to exert some 
level of autonomy on our own. 

522
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,920
We still want to be our own 
person. 

523
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,520
And here's Jesus. 
He's waiting to be crowned. 

524
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,320
He's waiting to be put on the 
throne. 

525
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,080
And we get to a place where even
Abner looks at this. 

526
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:39,200
He says, man, just do it. 
Just do it. 

527
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:43,880
Get it done. 
And you know, there's another 

528
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:48,320
part of this that's it's almost 
galling when you think about it.

529
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:51,200
And I don't know that I caught 
this. 

530
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:53,320
I, I've been working on this 
message all week and I've 

531
00:27:53,320 --> 00:27:55,720
actually struggled with this 
message all week and trying to 

532
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,880
the compose it and trying to put
it together. 

533
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:01,840
I've been working on it as early
as Tuesday and just not, not 

534
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:05,400
happy with how things lined up 
and, and, and I don't know. 

535
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,920
But every time I came back to 
this thought because it was 

536
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,600
troubling to me, because listen 
again, do you think Abner's a 

537
00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,760
hero here? 
I mean. 

538
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,200
Abner's the. 
One that got everyone into this 

539
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,520
mess in the first place. 
Abner's hands aren't necessarily

540
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:25,880
clean here, but for whatever 
issue, the insult by Ishbashaf, 

541
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,760
whatever it was, Abner did come 
to his senses and we can be 

542
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,120
thankful he came to his senses 
again. 

543
00:28:33,120 --> 00:28:35,520
I, I can't really say the 
motives of his heart and 

544
00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,520
entirety because the Bible 
doesn't tell us. 

545
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,560
We can probably infer some 
things, but you and I have 

546
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,120
probably been someplace in our 
lives where, you know, we got to

547
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,360
the right side of things and 
it's because we got to a pretty 

548
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:49,040
low place. 
And perhaps this is what 

549
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,920
happened to Abner here. 
He realizes that even the level 

550
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,280
of control he thought he had, he
doesn't even have the level of 

551
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,640
respect he thought he engendered
from Israel he didn't have. 

552
00:28:59,960 --> 00:29:03,000
And he got to a low place. 
And he said, look at this. 

553
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,000
Just look at this verse 17 or 
verse #18 Now do it. 

554
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,760
For the Lord has spoken of David
saying, by the hand of my 

555
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,640
servant David, I will save my 
people Israel out of the hand of

556
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:16,200
the Philistines and out of the 
hand of all of their enemies. 

557
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,640
The part that really troubled 
me, of course, the first part. 

558
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,280
Now then do it. 
You know, that's where we're 

559
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,360
we're we're kind of getting the 
thrust of the message. 

560
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:31,640
But Hebner admits in that second
phrase that he knew all along 

561
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,240
that David was supposed to be 
king. 

562
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:36,520
Am I reading the same thing you 
are this evening? 

563
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,120
Look at it now then do it. 
For the Lord has spoken of 

564
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,120
David. 
Well, how long? 

565
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,040
Has he known that? 
I would have to wonder that he's

566
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,280
known that for some period of 
time, and he's saying it in a 

567
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:50,440
way to the men of Israel, to the
leadership of Israel, as if 

568
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,000
they've known that for some 
time. 

569
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:55,480
And so what's the problem here? 
And you're saying basically for 

570
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,520
the last two years, I knew David
was king. 

571
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:02,240
I knew he was supposed to be on 
the throne, but yet I decided to

572
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:06,200
do my own thing anyway. 
You know what often times is the

573
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,280
problem with believers. 
And listen, I am. 

574
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:16,320
I'm right there with you is that
we know what's right, we know 

575
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:22,280
what we ought to do, but yet we 
just don't want to do it because

576
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,440
the throne of our heart is ruled
by self instead of by King 

577
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:31,480
Jesus. 
Abner knew David was supposed to

578
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:33,600
be king. 
There's an argument to be made 

579
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,800
that all the people of Israel 
knew David was supposed to be 

580
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:40,880
king, but they wanted to be the 
ones in charge and not David. 

581
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:45,560
And so many times, when it comes
to the life of the believer, so 

582
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,560
many times we know that Jesus 
should be on the throne of our 

583
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,840
heart, but yet we're just too 
comfortable with the Kingdom 

584
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,840
that we have created ourselves. 
And so we know what's right. 

585
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,160
We know we shouldn't be doing 
these things. 

586
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,600
We know we shouldn't be watching
these things. 

587
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,080
We know we shouldn't be saying 
these things. 

588
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,680
We know we shouldn't be acting 
this way. 

589
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,440
Or we know we should be doing 
certain things, or we should be 

590
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,400
acting in certain ways, or we 
know we should be doing things. 

591
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,120
The things we're not supposed to
do, we know not to do them. 

592
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,080
The things that we're supposed 
to do, we know to do them. 

593
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,840
But yet, as Paul said, but yet 
we do the opposite. 

594
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,320
Why? 
Because who's the king of the 

595
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,920
heart? 
We ourselves are. 

596
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,920
And now Abner says, listen, I 
realized I was wrong. 

597
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:32,680
David needs to be the king now. 
Do it now. 

598
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:37,320
Do it too many times. 
We as believers just get to the 

599
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,280
place where we know what we're 
supposed to do. 

600
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:46,040
But yet the Kingdom of self is 
far too great and it cannot be 

601
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,800
overthrown. 
So what do we do? 

602
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:53,240
We stop waiting to make Jesus 
the King of our hearts and make 

603
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:56,600
him the King of our hearts, both
in position and in practice. 

604
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,920
We stop waiting for Jesus to be 
the King of our hearts, and we 

605
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:04,040
make him the King of our heart, 
both in position and in 

606
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:08,720
practice. 
Listen, Jesus could force 

607
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,320
himself upon you as sovereign, 
but He will not. 

608
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:17,760
He's there like David, waiting 
for you to acknowledge who he 

609
00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:20,560
is. 
Now is was David the King of 

610
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:21,760
promise? 
Absolutely. 

611
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:24,560
It didn't matter who said he was
or he wasn't. 

612
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,320
God had said he was, but yet it 
was important for all those 

613
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:31,920
people to recognize it as well. 
Listen, whether you admit Jesus 

614
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,640
is the Lord of your life or not,
He is the Lord of your life. 

615
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,480
But it sure does make a 
difference in your life whether 

616
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,440
you admit it or not, doesn't it?
But he's the Lord of your 

617
00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:43,720
speech, No, He should govern the
way that you speak. 

618
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:49,920
He's the Lord of your actions. 
He's the Lord of every area of 

619
00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,720
your life, and there's no area 
that the sovereign is not 

620
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,360
allowed to be in control of. 
You know, we have trouble 

621
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,160
understanding this in our 
society because we don't live in

622
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:02,480
the monarchy. 
I don't know about you. 

623
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,600
I'm happy for that. 
We kind of did a war over that 

624
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,360
to make sure we didn't have a 
monarchy anymore. 

625
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,080
Threw some tea overboard. 
I don't know if any of you heard

626
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,600
about that, but that happened 
around these parts a little 

627
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,080
while ago. 
We don't have a king, but I do 

628
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,720
realize that maybe we have a 
little bit of overlap with a 

629
00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:21,600
work relationship. 
My very first job that I had, I 

630
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,160
worked at McDonald's because 
that's, you know, America, 

631
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,480
right? 
You know, I was 15 years old and

632
00:33:26,480 --> 00:33:29,240
I was working at McDonald's 
making $5.00 an hour thinking 

633
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,560
that I would pretty cool stuff, 
let me tell you. 

634
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,080
And there I was on the keyboard 
making the orders, getting 

635
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:37,040
everything done. 
And it was amazing to me that 

636
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,200
there were times I only worked, 
I think maybe 10 hours a week 

637
00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,160
for the longest time because my 
parents, you know, I was just 

638
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:46,880
working maybe a 5:00 to 8:00, a 
5:00 to 9:00 after school. 

639
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,760
My parents were very careful 
with how much I worked at the 

640
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,440
store there. 
And, but I remember, you know, 

641
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,240
you go in at night and a lot of 
times there'd be a little bit of

642
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,120
a dinner rush and then it was 
quiet and I didn't know what to 

643
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,320
do. 
And so a lot of times I would 

644
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,080
just start cleaning stuff up 
because I didn't want to just 

645
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,200
stand behind the counter. 
I just kind of started to work. 

646
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,280
And I remember working with 
other people because back in 

647
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,600
those days there wasn't those 
kiosks that you had to order 

648
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,000
from. 
They're like real live people 

649
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,840
taking orders. 
And there are usually two or 

650
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,400
three of us each at our station 
to get people through the line 

651
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:16,480
quickly. 
I know that's a concept that's 

652
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:18,480
from a long time ago, 
McDonald's, It's not that way 

653
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:19,719
anymore, but that's the way it 
was. 

654
00:34:20,159 --> 00:34:22,000
And I remember I had a manager, 
his name was Jose. 

655
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,880
He's the very first manager that
I ever had. 

656
00:34:24,159 --> 00:34:28,360
And Jose would tell us, listen, 
if there's time for you to 

657
00:34:29,199 --> 00:34:31,040
stand, then there's still time 
for you to work. 

658
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,560
And he would give U.S. jobs to 
do. 

659
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,040
You need to clean the Mcflurry 
machine. 

660
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,400
You need to clean the milkshake 
machine. 

661
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:37,679
Oh, my kid, the milkshake 
machine didn't work even 25 

662
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,679
years ago. 
But anyway, these are all these 

663
00:34:39,679 --> 00:34:42,320
different things that you had to
do to be able to clean, you 

664
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,840
know, go clean up the dining 
room. 

665
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,199
You know, just make sure you 
sweep up, make sure the tables 

666
00:34:46,199 --> 00:34:49,000
are wiped over all that. 
And I remember I'm 15 years old.

667
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,320
And so I'm just dumb enough to 
think that when the manager 

668
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,520
tells you do something, you just
do it. 

669
00:34:54,639 --> 00:34:57,480
But yet I was working with 
people sometimes twice my age, 

670
00:34:57,720 --> 00:34:58,800
who would say something like 
this. 

671
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:03,400
Jose can't tell me what to do. 
Like he thinks I'm gonna go 

672
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:05,960
clean the dining room. 
I work the I work the register. 

673
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,320
I'm I'm not Mcflurries. 
I'm not dealing with Mcflurries.

674
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:13,000
Help the drive through. 
Why would I do that? 

675
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,760
And it was amazing to me, people
that would sometimes behind his 

676
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,800
back and oftentimes to his face,
say something like this. 

677
00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:23,360
I'm not doing that. 
And it just struck me as odd. 

678
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:26,880
I'm thinking they're paying us 
right, but they're telling us 

679
00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:30,080
what to do. 
We knew when we came in that for

680
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:33,040
whatever time we're here, we 
have to follow the instructions 

681
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,600
that they're giving us. 
And I just never understood why.

682
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,240
Why would I even want to stand 
around? 

683
00:35:37,240 --> 00:35:40,320
I'd rather work and keep myself 
busy than I would just standing 

684
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:42,440
there for 20 minutes waiting for
the next customer to come. 

685
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,520
I'd rather wash a Mcflurry 
machine. 

686
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,480
I'd rather pray over the 
milkshake machine, see if we can

687
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,360
get it to work. 
I'd rather do all these things. 

688
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,120
This would be a much better job 
to do. 

689
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:54,120
And I was just dumb enough to do
what the supervisor told me to 

690
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,280
do. 
And I was told at 15 years old 

691
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,720
that they would have made me a 
manager if I wasn't 15 years old

692
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,960
because I was one of the few 
people. 

693
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,880
It just worked. 
And it wasn't because I was 

694
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,080
special. 
It's just because like, well, 

695
00:36:06,600 --> 00:36:07,960
that's what you're supposed to 
do, right? 

696
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:11,440
Well, after a while, I was 
making $5.00 an hour at 

697
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:12,840
McDonald's and that wasn't 
enough. 

698
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:15,200
And so I went over to Target to 
work. 

699
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:19,680
I was now 16 1/2 and I was 
making 650 an hour. 

700
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:23,440
Whoa, baby, 650 an hour. 
I mean, that was a, that's a big

701
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,880
deal from $5.00 an hour, 650. 
I mean, come on, you know, so 

702
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:29,160
I'm going to go over work at 
Target. 

703
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,760
They hired me to work at the 
cash register. 

704
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,160
And by the way, I'm old enough 
to remember that when you had a 

705
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:35,800
credit card, there was no PIN 
pad. 

706
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,120
We got to pull out the carbon 
copies and the, you know, kind 

707
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,360
of the old fashioned way. 
That's how we used to do things 

708
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:44,480
back when I worked at Target. 
And that was the way it was. 

709
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,440
Back in those days, so anyway, I
worked for a while, they would 

710
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,920
say, hey Adam, we need somebody 
to work carts, go fetch those 

711
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,960
carts. 
And you know, it looks fun up 

712
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,960
here in the spring when it's 75°
in Florida, when it's 95 and 

713
00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:00,320
100% humidity, it's really not 
fun. 

714
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,160
But I didn't know that I had a 
choice to tell them I didn't 

715
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:04,880
want to do it. 
So I just went. 

716
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,240
I worked carts for a while. 
I learned how to do customer 

717
00:37:08,240 --> 00:37:11,040
service. 
I ended up learning how to be 

718
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:14,280
able to process returns. 
One day they said, hey, we need 

719
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,720
you to work in the Food Ave. 
That was the where you did short

720
00:37:17,720 --> 00:37:18,800
order cooking back in those 
days. 

721
00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,240
There's a little fat flat top 
grill and you would work there. 

722
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,640
They gave me one day of training
and then left me alone. 

723
00:37:25,240 --> 00:37:26,880
And I would say there's a lot of
people should have got their 

724
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:29,840
money back for their food for a 
while because I was cooking eggs

725
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,600
and omelets and all kinds of 
things for breakfast and going 

726
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,520
to lunch, cooking hamburgers and
stuff like that. 

727
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,000
He said, well, you should have 
told him no, I didn't know I had

728
00:37:37,000 --> 00:37:40,280
an option. 
They were in charge, they were 

729
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,880
paying me how I worked out in 
the lawn care center. 

730
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,160
Hey, should this plant get sun? 
Should this plant get shade? 

731
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:50,640
Does it have A tag on it? 
Because I don't know. 

732
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,480
We had a big book back in those 
days because there was like no 

733
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,240
Internet. 
Or if there was, it took an hour

734
00:37:55,240 --> 00:37:58,160
to be able to pull up a picture.
And so we had a big book that 

735
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,760
was about this thick that we 
would go through and check out. 

736
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,000
You know, it gets this much 
water, it gets this much light, 

737
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:04,760
it gets this much shade. 
You plant in the summer, you 

738
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,200
plant in the in the, in the 
spring, you do all these things.

739
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,120
I did all of it. 
Why? 

740
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,280
Because they told me to. 
I didn't know I had any choice. 

741
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,120
And the fact of the matter is I 
did have a choice. 

742
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,400
I could say no and get fired. 
That might have been a long 

743
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:22,760
processes. 
It seems like in a lot of these 

744
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,000
places, sometimes it is a long 
process of defiance to firing. 

745
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,320
But yet in the end, it's always 
the same. 

746
00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:32,200
You're fired, you don't want to 
follow instructions, you're 

747
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,240
gone, bye bye. 
That's the way it works. 

748
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,960
But you know what I found? 
I found this to be true. 

749
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:44,680
God tolerates a level of self 
will that no manager, no 

750
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:50,440
employer, or no king ever would.
He allows us to say no. 

751
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:56,400
He allows us to push away His 
lordship of our life. 

752
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,960
Why? 
I would submit it's because He 

753
00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:04,840
loves you more than any 
supervisor, than any employer or

754
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,400
any king ever could. 
He loves you so much that He 

755
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:13,240
will allow you to say no, even 
to your own detriment, because 

756
00:39:13,240 --> 00:39:16,240
he will not force his love upon 
you. 

757
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:20,400
He will not force his kingship 
upon you. 

758
00:39:21,240 --> 00:39:25,280
He wants to be your king, but he
only wants to be your king if 

759
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,040
you put him on the throne 
yourself. 

760
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:34,160
We all know what to do. 
I would submit. 

761
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:35,720
We all know what to do. 
That's right. 

762
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,520
But the issue is this are. 
You going to do it, We make him 

763
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,600
the king of your heart and 
Abner's a great example. 

764
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:47,440
He was a flawed man. 
He was a man that had a lot of 

765
00:39:47,440 --> 00:39:50,400
problems. 
He was a man that knew to do 

766
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:54,080
right and actively went against 
that which was right for a long 

767
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,240
period of time. 
But even he came to his senses. 

768
00:39:56,240 --> 00:39:59,400
He says, you know what, we just 
got to do this. 

769
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,080
We've got to make the rightful 
man the king. 

770
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:08,160
And you and I, we might have a 
long complicated back story, but

771
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:12,800
by the grace of God. 
We need to make him King, who is

772
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,320
King in our lives first through 
salvation. 

773
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,280
He needs to be king of 
everyone's life through 

774
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:22,000
salvation, but then He's 
sovereign in our day-to-day life

775
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,640
that every minute of every hour 
we allow Him to be in control. 

776
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,640
And there's no area of life that
we say He doesn't control. 

777
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,320
Lord, you can have everything 
except my finances. 

778
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,480
Lord, you can have everything 
except my family. 

779
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,000
Lord, you can have everything, 
but I'll worship as I want to. 

780
00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:38,480
Lord, you can have everything, 
but I talk the way that I want 

781
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:39,680
to. 
Lord, you can have everything, 

782
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,120
but my friends are my friends. 
Lord, you can have everything, 

783
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,000
but I look at what I want to 
look at. 

784
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:45,680
I experienced what I 
experienced. 

785
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:50,760
You know, then he's not the king
because David wasn't the true 

786
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,600
king until he was the king of 
every tribe. 

787
00:40:55,040 --> 00:41:00,640
If Abner got it and Israel got 
it, you can get it and I can get

788
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,640
it. 
And to the final admonition is 

789
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:07,280
this Now then do it. 
Do you bow your head and close 

790
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:16,730
your eyes with me this evening? 
It's not just enough to know 

791
00:41:16,730 --> 00:41:20,170
that he should be the king. 
You've got to do it. 

792
00:41:21,530 --> 00:41:24,400
I can't do it for you. 
Your spouse can't do it for you.

793
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,920
The kids can't do it for you. 
Your boss can't do it for you. 

794
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:31,040
Diane can't do it for you. 
No. 

795
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,480
Who does it? 
You have to put him in his 

796
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,440
rightful place. 
And here's Abner. 

797
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,600
He do all along. 
David was supposed to be king 

798
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:46,640
because of his own selfishness. 
He caused those problems for two

799
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,040
years. 
Don't allow your own 

800
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,280
selfishness. 
Don't allow your own self will 

801
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,040
to keep you from doing that. 
What you must do to allow God to

802
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:58,480
be sovereign over everything, 
that He has control over every 

803
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,840
area of your life. 
Just as a manager can tell you 

804
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:06,080
to work in whatever area, just 
as a king can require anything, 

805
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:11,400
then yes, our God requires all. 
But may I remind you, our God is

806
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,040
more loving and benevolent than 
any manager, than any 

807
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,280
supervisor, than any CEO, than 
any king. 

808
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:23,400
There is no more loving 
sovereign then your King Jesus. 

809
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,080
Thank you for listening to the 
sermon from the pulpit of 

810
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:30,000
Liberty Baptist Church. 
If this message was a blessing 

811
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,480
to you, or if there's any way we
can serve you, please let us 

812
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:38,080
know by contacting us at 
info@mylibertybaptist.org. 

813
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,880
Or you can visit us this Sunday 
at 800 Washington St. in Easton,

814
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:45,720
MA. 
May the Lord bless you as you 

815
00:42:45,720 --> 00:42:46,920
grow in His Word.
