1 00:00:00,640 --> 00:00:05,720 Just get through the day. This is every widow thing. 2 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:13,320 Hey everyone, I'm Whitney from Every Widow thing and we are 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:14,720 back. With another episode. 4 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:17,840 We have so many great ideas to share with you, but I think 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:22,080 we're going to start with something lighthearted the the 6 00:00:22,080 --> 00:00:23,680 shows that we're watching right now. 7 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,000 Kyra, you thought this would be a good topic because? 8 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:31,120 Well, I think because it's February and it's kind of a time 9 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:34,800 of year when everyone's hunkered down some. 10 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,200 Depending on where you live, weather's not great. 11 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:41,040 A lot of new shows to watch. I feel like when I run into my 12 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:44,240 friends, whether we're walking or working out or whatever, it's 13 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:45,160 always like, what are you watching? 14 00:00:45,160 --> 00:00:47,640 What are you watching? Well, and you said something 15 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,840 about, you know, and I'm guilty of this. 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,440 You watch shows that then work you up and get your cortisol 17 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,000 levels all. Yeah, that's something that I 18 00:00:56,000 --> 00:00:59,040 was noticing too. I think at this age, like 19 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,920 Brendan likes to watch really action-packed. 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:06,160 You know, one example is we've been watching Land Man and we 21 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:10,040 were watching American Primeval, and both of these shows have a 22 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:16,040 lot of drama and violence and they kind of tend to stress me 23 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,840 out, feel like if I'm watching this late at night, it can 24 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,920 affect my ability to fall asleep. 25 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,720 So anyway, so I like to watch more lighthearted thing. 26 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:27,280 I need some new ideas 'cause I just finished watching. 27 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,280 What I was? Watching younger. 28 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:33,200 So it's. Fun it's a fun fantasy like I 29 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:35,520 mean, let's be honest well, I'll just speak for myself. 30 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,000 I always imagine being younger and how much fun I would have 31 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,880 knowing what I know now. And she's actually doing it and 32 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,480 she's getting to have, she's got these younger friends, she's 33 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:48,280 dating younger men, she's getting a do over. 34 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,600 And and of course, then it's in publishing, which is like super 35 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,800 sexy and. Well, I'm going to add to the 36 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:57,240 younger thing that I thought was really funny because one time I 37 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:02,000 lied on the dating app so that you'd make the the 55 like 38 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:05,440 whatever, like 45 to 55 because it's done in decades most 39 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,960 people, right. So you wanted to, and Oliver was 40 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,320 nine years younger. So I was thinking, you know, I 41 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,400 want to be somewhere around my age, but not 2, like not 20 42 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,040 years or whatever, but on younger, This is a woman who 43 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:18,440 lied about her age, like, in a significant way, right? 44 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,320 And the people kind of forgave her. 45 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,560 But yet on the dating apps, if you lie for like a year or two, 46 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,760 they get really upset. Like, what else are you lying 47 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:27,040 about? So that part of you. 48 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,480 Lie on the dating app. You just put a different age 49 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,600 like it's devastating. You can only do it once. 50 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:33,760 Change your age. No, you just start it out. 51 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:34,360 You. Start. 52 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,520 Yeah, I've started rewatching Schitt's Creek, which is 53 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:42,400 hilarious about show, Yeah. When I really like, which has 54 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,160 some dark humor which I think goes along with everyone a thing 55 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,520 a little bit is bad sisters. Oh yeah, I'll. 56 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,000 Watch you as that if that is super fun. 57 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,360 There's two seasons, there's some death. 58 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,560 He definitely some death. It's basically the tell the 59 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:01,080 synopsis to everybody. Well, it's just it's in Ireland, 60 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,080 which is kind of different and cool. 61 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:08,680 And oh, Holly's been to the bar that they plot the murder in or 62 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,520 whatever they're doing. I don't want to get too much 63 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,200 away because we want you guys to. 64 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,560 But one sister is married to a jerk. 65 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:15,960 Yeah. The show is. 66 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:17,000 Really. Cute. 67 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:20,520 And they, you know, hilarity ensues. 68 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,320 It's, I thought it was fun. That's the kind of show I'm kind 69 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,120 of drawn to. There's so bad humor. 70 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,440 There's some darkness. I'm not worried about myself. 71 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:31,560 You guys are watching the fluff every Friday or Saturday night. 72 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:35,640 If I'm home one or the other one night I'll watch Dateline. 73 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:38,320 It's murders and it puts me to sleep. 74 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,800 The anchor. As soon as he starts talking I 75 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,280 can feel myself getting really sleepy. 76 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:46,080 So I, I do think a lot of you find them kind of soothing. 77 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:49,200 It's weirdly soothing because, and maybe it's because if your 78 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:53,200 life is like horrible, it kind of makes you feel a little bit 79 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,720 better about yours. Amazing. 80 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,520 I think that's what I'm watching in the evenings is that kind of 81 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,120 stuff. I'm not watching the Fluffy, the 82 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,920 Youngers or not much. I sort of like that shows sort 83 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:07,480 of along those lines that make you go wow, like like I've been 84 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,000 watching Scamanda. That's not a. 85 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,160 Feel good show, though it's not a feel good. 86 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:16,399 Speaking of feel good, we all sat down last night here in 87 00:04:16,399 --> 00:04:22,040 Round Top in our PJS and we put on the new Bridget Jones movie 88 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:23,880 about the boy. Mad about the boy? 89 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:27,600 Mad about the boy? First of all, if you don't, if 90 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,480 you haven't watched the Bridget Jones movies, they are 91 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:32,880 hilarious. I read the books and I was 92 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,160 crying. I was laughing so hard. 93 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,360 I thought that this one would. Be the. 94 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:43,560 Same, but I look around the room and we're all crying instead of. 95 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:45,320 Well, I had no idea what it was about. 96 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,680 Yeah, it really sweet in the end. 97 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,000 I mean, of course, a lot of it you had to kind of suspend 98 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:55,000 belief. I'm trying to find the name of 99 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,120 the really cute actor. Oh, he. 100 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:03,440 Was in one day and I find it very interesting and I don't 101 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,960 know if it's because I don't think it's because I'm a widow. 102 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:12,520 There is a grief and tide to so many of the shows that I'm 103 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:16,400 watching and and the movies, like one day I didn't realize 104 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:19,520 what it was about and then I'm not going to spoil it, but there 105 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:24,000 is grief and loss in that movie. What's going on in the world? 106 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,640 And the writers are not immune to being a part of the world, 107 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,640 and they come up with these ideas based on real life. 108 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:33,520 I thought one day it was. Just so crazy. 109 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:34,520 It was so. Good. 110 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:38,440 There's some heartbreak there. It's a romance and it's really 111 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,560 well done. And the actor is Leah Woodall. 112 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:44,480 He's phenomenal. He's in the second season of 113 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,960 White Lotus. He is in this Bridget Jones new 114 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,560 movie as the younger love interest. 115 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,000 And, you know, we were all watching that last night. 116 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,920 And I would say it starts out really kind of light hearted, 117 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,800 like a lot of the Bridget Jones. And she is kind of struggling as 118 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,200 a widow and all of us can with young kids and all of us can 119 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,400 relate. And so we were kind of like, Oh 120 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,680 yeah, you know, we recognize that. 121 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,960 But then she just sort of miraculously lands this hot 122 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,200 younger guy. Which might not. 123 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:19,320 Be the most realistic storyline for some of us. 124 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,920 I hope you guys can find your Leo out there. 125 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,640 But then it has an interesting arc and I think it's worth a 126 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,320 watch. I mean, they're definitely some. 127 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,480 Grab your Kleenex for sure 'cause there's going to be. 128 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:32,920 But I, I thought overall and somebody it might have been you, 129 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,240 Laci said last night. I'm glad that they started four 130 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:38,280 years in or because it. Felt like that was more 131 00:06:38,280 --> 00:06:39,880 realistic. I don't think anybody comes 132 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,240 right out of the gate feeling really well. 133 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,400 Takes. A long time and yet, and people 134 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:49,560 may have dalliances early on because, Whitney, you said you 135 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,320 did. Everybody's calling me out all 136 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,840 the time. Well, there was one of our. 137 00:06:52,840 --> 00:06:55,600 Listeners that said she did. No, I know. 138 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:56,720 Hey, they're. Gone. 139 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:58,360 You can do whatever you want to do. 140 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,960 I don't think there's anything. It's not a judgement, it's more 141 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:05,320 like I just so grossed out about the fact of how to have to get 142 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,040 dressed up and go out and meet somebody. 143 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:08,800 Just the thought of it was overwhelming. 144 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:12,240 Well, and they do a whole scene in Bridget Jones of her getting 145 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:15,120 ready for the date that a lot of people can probably relate to. 146 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:16,200 Yeah, you. Haven't. 147 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:17,960 Well, Holly just talked about her. 148 00:07:17,960 --> 00:07:21,400 Spent more time getting ready than actually, you know, 'cause 149 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:23,880 you do you worry about everything, Yeah. 150 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:27,880 Anyway, it's a fun. It was a fun, lighthearted. 151 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:29,960 And there's definitely. Crying at the end. 152 00:07:30,040 --> 00:07:31,920 Yeah, there's some relatable scenes. 153 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,360 Have y'all? I think all of you guys have 154 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,120 watched Shrinking with Harrison Ford. 155 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:40,000 I did. I loved it. 156 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,840 And it's again about grieving. Have you watched it, Kier? 157 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:45,120 It's a little bit of it, but didn't it didn't stick. 158 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,480 It didn't resonate. Yeah, I I watched it a while 159 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,480 ago. I couldn't stick with it either. 160 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,320 Maybe I need to revisit? I love the characters. 161 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,920 I mean the next door neighbors crack me up. 162 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,240 I love the female next door neighbors. 163 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:02,520 Very funny, yeah. I loved that it shows a lot of 164 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,520 different sides of grieving is showing how the daughter is 165 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:09,040 grieving, is showing how the father who is a therapist is 166 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:11,640 grieving and how that plays into his work. 167 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:16,040 The relationships and dynamics between the friendships once the 168 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:19,400 wife has died was interesting to me. 169 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,920 And then in the last season, they actually. 170 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,400 So I'm not really spoiling anything by telling you that the 171 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:30,000 wife was killed in a car accident and and. 172 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,360 Is that that's just revealed early, Yeah, yeah. 173 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,919 And the the husband is just a mess. 174 00:08:35,919 --> 00:08:37,679 And just like how many? Seasons are. 175 00:08:37,799 --> 00:08:42,400 There, I think there's three now, but the third season they 176 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,680 actually do a storyline where the driver that killed the, you 177 00:08:47,680 --> 00:08:51,680 know, he was driving the car that killed the wife comes into 178 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:58,520 the storyline and how the daughter and everybody reacts to 179 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:00,280 him, responds to him and what happens. 180 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:05,120 And it was just very, I don't know, it's funny, it's dark and. 181 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:07,560 Harrison Ford's. Really amazing because you've 182 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:10,280 never seen him like this before. But you know what I thought is 183 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:13,440 interesting, and this is jumping it way ahead, but we're going to 184 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:17,200 have a guest on our show in the future, near future, Cheryl 185 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,920 Martin, who is a therapist. She's retired. 186 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:23,400 She was actually my therapist the first year, but kind of a 187 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,560 similar thing. Her husband died in 2023. 188 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,640 So much like her, she's now. Not only was she a therapist for 189 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,080 grief and loss, she's now experienced a great loss. 190 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,640 Yeah, I think it's going to be really interesting to get her 191 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:42,560 insight as a therapist before she suffered that kind of loss 192 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,400 and after. And that's when excited oh, 193 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:47,880 shrinking I. Mean there seems to be a lot of 194 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:49,720 I mean. Sex in the City. 195 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,200 One of the characters is widowed in that. 196 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,960 What's the reprisal of Sex in the City? 197 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:56,480 What's it called? Oh, and just like. 198 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,960 That yeah, I don't. I didn't particularly like the 199 00:09:58,960 --> 00:10:00,760 way they handled widowhood in that one. 200 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:05,520 It didn't seem real at all. Wasn't that in the pandemic? 201 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,320 And I had just gotten the Peloton And then I guess Mr. Big 202 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,080 like it has a hard Yeah, he did. Was like, you've got to watch 203 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:12,520 it. I'm like, I don't think I do. 204 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:16,360 The fact she moved through the grieving process so quickly to 205 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:18,160 the point that I was just like, really? 206 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:21,280 Like that's weird. I don't know, maybe it's hard to 207 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,040 do in ATV. Show Series. 208 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,520 That doesn't have that many. Episodes, which is why the 209 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:29,240 Bridget Joes that was smart that they had at four years out, you 210 00:10:29,240 --> 00:10:34,080 can't really capture as we all know how long the process could 211 00:10:34,080 --> 00:10:37,080 be right how how much time it takes. 212 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:39,320 To that's a good point. That's probably a really good 213 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,280 point because hers was right after his death. 214 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,680 Another movie that I just watched a couple of weeks ago. 215 00:10:44,680 --> 00:10:48,320 It's with Reese Witherspoon and Will Ferrell cordially invited. 216 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:53,560 Have y'all heard about it? There's a dead wife that in that 217 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,240 movie and the and the daughter is getting married. 218 00:10:56,240 --> 00:11:01,600 And I really like, again, I'm drawn to the the death part of 219 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,640 the story, you know, And there were funny parts and stuff, and 220 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,560 there were some silly parts. Will is bending over backwards, 221 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:10,520 right? Oh, make up to his dog. 222 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:14,920 Yes, but it also the daughter was his whole life. 223 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:21,520 So when she comes home with the the boy and is engaged, he does 224 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:26,480 not like it. His first reaction is not one of 225 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:31,480 oh, congratulations, which I really think is probably more 226 00:11:31,480 --> 00:11:35,120 true than than people realize, you know, a lot of time. 227 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:39,000 Little bit of like dedicating your life and maybe this happens 228 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:42,920 more with fathers and daughters like, oh, you lose your spouse 229 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:47,960 and then you kind of dedicate your life to the children and 230 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,680 this is now sort of your wife figure. 231 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:54,880 But yeah, there are. These themes seem to be coming 232 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:58,600 into a lot of the current. Like Laci was saying, the 233 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:01,880 writers are picking up on, you know, reality, I guess. 234 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:06,600 Can we talk about land man? Because now this is definitely a 235 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:10,680 cortisol raising. The show? 236 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,280 Guess what? Spoiler alert, there's a widow. 237 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:16,720 Right, but. I guess I need to get Peacock 238 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:19,320 and watch it. So for those of you who don't 239 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:23,240 know what Land Man is, it's got Billy Bob Thornton, it takes 240 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:28,480 place in Midland and it's all around the oil fields and sorry, 241 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,440 Midland, TX. Far from where we are, right? 242 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,440 Now, now, my mom's grew up there, Midland. 243 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,760 Is in West. Texas. 244 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:37,200 What'd you say she's? In the same. 245 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:38,360 She's in the same. State. 246 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,080 Guess. What? 247 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:45,440 Else is close Australia. OK, Kira and Whitney do not 248 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:46,240 know. They're not. 249 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,160 Teaching GI breathing. Out East Coast. 250 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,200 West Coast. Exactly. 251 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:53,080 But it's in West TX which I've. Been Yeah. 252 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,320 And it. And when I got locked into it, 253 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,720 my friend, I was in Connecticut visiting a friend and she was 254 00:12:58,720 --> 00:12:59,960 like, Oh my gosh, have you seen land? 255 00:12:59,960 --> 00:13:02,040 Man? It's so funny. 256 00:13:02,560 --> 00:13:06,320 So I sit down and I watch the first episode with her and it is 257 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,280 horrifying. It is violent and graphic and 258 00:13:09,680 --> 00:13:13,760 you know, I mean, hammers to the head like it is terrifying. 259 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,840 Say it's funny. Billy Bob Thornton's 260 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:18,760 relationship with his daughter and his wife, his ex-wife. 261 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,480 This is. That's what. 262 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,000 She ended up saying, I look at her and I'm like, what in the 263 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:25,680 world do you find hilarious about this? 264 00:13:25,680 --> 00:13:26,960 And she's like, Oh well, it gets better. 265 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:28,760 It gets better it. Really was good. 266 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:33,160 What I love about it is the widow storyline and in a way 267 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:38,640 that they are handling it and and really teaching somebody how 268 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,640 to handle dating a widow, I think. 269 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:44,040 How many episodes is it? Just one. 270 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:47,320 Season 2 Seasons I. Heard Billy Bob Ford Ditto an 271 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,800 interview where he said there might be another one. 272 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,120 But you know what I liked the the ex-wife and the daughter at 273 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,800 first I found them annoying and not at all believable since 274 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:59,840 everything else was really like a certain tone right when they 275 00:13:59,840 --> 00:14:01,480 took on the old folks. Hello. 276 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:05,040 Yeah, and I think because my mom was in a memory care for a year 277 00:14:05,040 --> 00:14:07,200 and I just kept in my. Mind imagining her? 278 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,720 That had happened at my mom's place. 279 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,640 That would have been so hysterical. 280 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:12,720 Well. So not to. 281 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,400 Give it too much away, but if you were a fan of. 282 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:17,240 Yellow. Stuff. 283 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:20,240 Oh yeah, Which is? Taylor shared Taylor Sheridan. 284 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:21,680 Yeah. Taylor Sheridan, it's. 285 00:14:21,720 --> 00:14:23,640 Very there are a lot of similarities. 286 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:27,920 I mean that his style is very comes through and lay a man. 287 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:32,000 But they do hit on a lot of really important themes. 288 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,240 I think family, dysfunctional family it. 289 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,800 Was kind of Friday Night Lights ish too. 290 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:39,920 It had a lot of the music and the way that the lot of the 291 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,480 shots that they. Do is they dress like the Texas 292 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:45,240 background was kind of like oh OK, they're hot like honey. 293 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:49,000 Brenda kept saying they're romanticizing West, TX. 294 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,680 But Midland? Is. 295 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:55,920 There's a lot of money there. So it's, it's, it's, it's our 296 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,880 little plan, I mean. There's just nothing out there. 297 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:05,720 Oh, and very current. Also, there's a whole drug 298 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:08,800 smuggling. Yeah, Mexican cartel border 299 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,280 storyline, which is very current also. 300 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,680 So if you're into like that kind of stuff, I mean, that's part of 301 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,600 it, makes it a little scary for me and raises my cortisol. 302 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,880 But that's another theme running through this. 303 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:26,120 And there is a widow storyline. For a long time I was trying to 304 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,040 find things that I could watch with the kids because I was 305 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,840 trying to connect with them. We just landed on Shark Tank and 306 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:35,640 that's what we ended up watching and they they used to watch it 307 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:36,840 with Hunter. So it. 308 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,480 It just kept, you know, it just was something that everyone 309 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:42,880 would watch. But I feel like most of the 310 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:45,720 things that I want to watch, my boys wouldn't be interested in. 311 00:15:45,720 --> 00:15:50,960 But Land man would be something that would hold a teenage boy's 312 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:53,920 attention. My daughter, maybe not so much, 313 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:56,080 but you know, so. My Brandon likes it so. 314 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,600 Much, Yeah. I mean, it's got a little of 315 00:15:57,600 --> 00:15:59,640 everything, you know, it's got some humor. 316 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:01,880 It's got the, it's got some sex stuff. 317 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:04,720 It's got some bio. I'm going to start it this week. 318 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:07,080 All right, Holly, I'll. Let you know what I think. 319 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,320 OK, good. Is there anything else that 320 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:10,600 you've watched? I. 321 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,480 Recently finished and I know it started a while ago. 322 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,040 Virgin River. Did you like it? 323 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:21,880 I did Jack Sheridan. Don't we all want to Jack 324 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:24,480 Sheridan? I mean, I liked the first. 325 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,360 That was one of those shows for me where the first season was 326 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,800 good and then it just started getting. 327 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,080 Cheesy, slow, but then it. OK. 328 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,960 And then they win. I mean, they, they, they jumped 329 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,760 the shark, yes. I watched one episode that was 330 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,960 out. Jumps the shark, but it gets 331 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:44,360 better at the end and OK, the girls I work with, we were all 332 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,720 watching it and I was like, OK, I'm going to go back and finish 333 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:49,280 it because that same I was like, I don't know. 334 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:54,600 But I went back and finished and and she's a widow, the main 335 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:56,200 character. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot. 336 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,000 To make fun of me, this is what I think is funny. 337 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:02,920 So my mom watched this show but I've never talked to my mom 338 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,119 about it again. And like recently, but the last 339 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,680 season, there is a lot of sex. Your mom's loving it. 340 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,040 I was like talking to my sister. I'm like. 341 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:13,599 Do you think? Moms had. 342 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,319 Finished. Oh, she finished it. 343 00:17:16,359 --> 00:17:18,359 Ask her. What her thoughts because I 344 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:22,160 can't see her watching that. OK this is totally off topic. 345 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,599 Did y'all hear about this Home Depot trend on TikTok? 346 00:17:25,599 --> 00:17:30,640 No OK so the Home Depot trend. Women are going to Home Depot to 347 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:32,800 find men because they're tired of the dating apps. 348 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:36,560 So this one woman on TikTok decides that she's going to try 349 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:38,160 the trend and she's going to record it. 350 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:39,480 She's going to video her. What's her? 351 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:44,400 Age around. She's in her 30s or something, I 352 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:45,200 don't know. She has 2. 353 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,560 Children recording or she has somebody no. 354 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:50,480 She recording herself at Home Depot and being like, hey, I'm 355 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:51,880 at Home Depot, OK, I'm going to try this. 356 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:54,800 And then she's kind of like going down the aisles, like 357 00:17:54,800 --> 00:17:56,960 secretly with her phone and she sees somebody. 358 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:00,640 And so then she puts her phone down, but you hear her go up and 359 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:04,960 be like, hey, so I, I needed to hang a picture. 360 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,960 Can you help me? So he goes over and. 361 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:10,720 And at the end of the conversation, he asks for her 362 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:12,960 phone number. And they're still dating. 363 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,200 And they're like, they were on the Today show. 364 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:19,800 And it was. Yeah. 365 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:23,480 And she's from Dallas. Let's go to Home Depot. 366 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:27,360 But it was funny because some of the people in the comments, they 367 00:18:27,360 --> 00:18:30,360 were laughing because she's videoing what he's picking out 368 00:18:30,360 --> 00:18:33,240 for her and people are like no dude that will not hang a 369 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,600 picture the size that like he had no idea what he was doing 370 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,160 was. In hard get rich environment so 371 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,280 she's smart. Yeah, Then people in the 372 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:44,880 comments were saying things like always go to the plumbing aisle 373 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,280 because they make the most money. 374 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:50,400 One of my friends says you should go to the because I love 375 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:53,080 soup, especially when it's cold. She was like, why aren't you at 376 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:54,080 Central Market? The soup? 377 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,720 So I was like, yeah, right. Like anybody's talking to 378 00:18:55,720 --> 00:18:56,840 anybody at the soup because they do it. 379 00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:58,360 To her. Soup and so. 380 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:01,520 But she was not wrong. I went to the soup and some guy 381 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:03,360 goes, well, which one of those are you like? 382 00:19:03,360 --> 00:19:06,360 And I was like, I didn't think he was that cute, but she was 383 00:19:06,360 --> 00:19:07,880 not wrong. So it was kind of fun and. 384 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:09,080 Then you can be like you need like a. 385 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,960 Soup Romance. I love that you call it the. 386 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,080 Soups, the soup, the soup. What did you recommend? 387 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:18,200 Like a minestrone. Well, I like mushroom soup. 388 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:19,640 The. No. 389 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,280 You don't want to lead with fungus, I'm sorry. 390 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:24,200 Maybe. That's what happened. 391 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:26,520 Right, you needed to be. And that moment you're like, you 392 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,080 know what? I'm hearty, girl. 393 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,800 I like a little spice soup. Tortilla. 394 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,240 Yeah. We got to help you with your 395 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:34,400 answers, with your your soup flirting. 396 00:19:34,400 --> 00:19:35,480 Same. Interest as you. 397 00:19:35,480 --> 00:19:37,480 Then that's true. That's true. 398 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:40,440 What? Just be at the soups and wait 399 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:42,720 for someone to dive into the mushrooms. 400 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:47,440 It's snowing out. I know there's dorms everywhere. 401 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,280 I don't mean hear from anybody in a cold climate. 402 00:19:50,360 --> 00:19:52,360 He's looking for men in the soups.