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Welcome to resurrection church 
if you're new here welcome my 

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name is Daniel I am the lead 
pastor here at res church have. 

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You ever had a moment where you 
were you were face? 

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To face with someone and you 
were you were just like burying 

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your soul like you. 
I mean, you like that 

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excruciating moment where like 
you're getting? 

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Really vulnerable with someone. 
And and man there. 

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Is a potential that they're not.
Going to return. 

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That, that, that. 
It's not going to. 

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Be reciprocated I I remember the
moment. 

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That I. 
First looked. 

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In my wife's eyes when we were 
dating and said I love you. 

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And that pause. 
Is feels like it's never going 

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to end. 
You know you're going. 

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Do they feel the same way? 
And and and you're. 

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Face to face, you're kind of 
analyzing, you know, like, what 

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are they going to do looking at 
body language? 

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And do they feel the same way 
about me? 

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You ever felt that? 
Nobody. 

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Lord, some of y'all got married.
I don't even know how. 

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You ever feel that? 
If you've ever felt that, what 

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is that? 
Scenario another one, but. 

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Where you're face to face in 
this conversation that was just 

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really. 
Intimate. 

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Really vulnerable. 
I would, I would. 

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And maybe in the moment. 
There was a possibility. 

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That you could be rejected. 
I I would say if you've ever. 

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Experienced that? 
Then you've experienced one of 

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the most primal, one of the most
sort of central feelings that 

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makes us human, our need. 
To love and be loved. 

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To know and be fully known. 
In fact, the fear of rejection 

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is so great in our current 
culture that like there are 

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people that completely avoid 
this entire process. 

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Like I'm going. 
To have an online relationship. 

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Who's going to do this whole 
thing via text? 

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That way I can like. 
Because, man, there is a fear of

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of rejection. 
Right there there is a man or am

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I going to be accepted? 
I'm I'm looking at someone face 

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to face and I'm staring in their
eyes and I'm and and it's almost

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terrifying but but we also. 
Want it so much? 

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I do. 
I want to be. 

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Loved and accepted. 
Here's what I would tell you. 

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I would say that this is 
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One of our greatest human needs 
and one of our deepest, darkest 

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fears. 
It's this. 

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Question if someone fully. 
Knows me, Would they really love

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me? 
We were created to love. 

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And be loved. 
To be known and be loved. 

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That's actually what sets. 
Humans apart from all of. 

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Creation. 
You know your dog wants. 

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To be loved, but if you rub its 
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don't care if they know it or 
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We do we care? 
Why do we care so much? 

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Do you ever wonder? 
The Bible says that we. 

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Care because we were actually 
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We were designed in such a way 
to love and be loved, to know 

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and be known. 
And the reason that it's so? 

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Difficult and there's so much 
angst around it is that we. 

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Live in this this fallen. 
World. 

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In which we can never eat like. 
We live in a distorted world in 

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which we. 
Can never really fully see it 

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the way it was intended to be. 
A Pastor Tim Keller, in his book

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The Meaning of Marriage, 
actually says it this way. 

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He says to be loved. 
But not fully known is 

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comforting, but superficial. 
It's shallow. 

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To be known and not loved is our
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known and truly loved is, well, 
a lot like being loved by God. 

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It is what we need more than 
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It liberates us from pretense, 
humbles us out of our self 

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righteousness, and fortifies us 
for any. 

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Difficulty that life can. 
Throw at us. 

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We're starting. 
Today a three-week series on 

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prayer. 
This series is called Teach Me 

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to Pray. 
And if right now you're thinking

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like, if we're starting 
something on prayer, why are we 

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talking about like? 
Romance and and being loved. 

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I'm glad you're paying 
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They're they're related and 
we're going to look at this. 

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So here's what we're going. 
To do over the next three weeks 

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today. 
We're going to talk about. 

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Why we pray like like, what is 
prayer like? 

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What is it really? 
Why are we doing this? 

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Or why are we supposed to be 
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And then next week we're going 
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Talk about how to do it. 
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prayer and then in the third. 
Week of this series we're we're 

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going to practice. 
We're going to come in here and 

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we're going to do. 
Elder LED congregation 

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participation, say yay, open mic
like we're you're going to be 

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part of this. 
We're going to do a prayer and 

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worship service. 
There's not going to be a 

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sermon. 
Yeah, I know you're you're 

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disappointed. 
I am. 

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We're going to pray. 
We're. 

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Going to practice what we 
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OK, so let's start today with 
what is prayer. 

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What is prayer? 
Why? 

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Why are we supposed to be doing 
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Maybe maybe you joined us today 
or you're you're you're. 

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Joining us online and you would,
you would kind of consider 

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yourself maybe a skeptic, A 
skeptical about Christianity or 

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Jesus or, or or faith in 
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So first of all, welcome. 
I'm glad you're here or you're 

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watching. 
I actually am really excited to 

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talk about prayer with you 
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Maybe we can clear up some 
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prayer. 
I'm excited you're here. 

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I'm excited you're joining us. 
So there's a really interesting.

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Concept that runs all 
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Scripture. 
All throughout the Bible, in 

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fact. 
And it's this idea of. 

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Seeking God's face and I really 
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seeking God's face today, what 
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So we're going to start in 
Second Chronicles 714. 

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If you have your Bible, just 
turn there. 

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We're going to read that first. 
This is kind of our foundational

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verse for the day if. 
My people. 

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Who are called by my name humble
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And these are the important 
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You can underline this. 
Seek my face and. 

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Turn from their wicked. 
Ways then I will hear from 

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heaven and will forgive their 
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A similar concept in Psalm 27, 
eight, there's a psalmist, he's 

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talking about this command from 
the Lord to seek his face, and 

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he says. 
This you have said, seek my 

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face, and my heart says to you, 
your face. 

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Lord do I seek. 
Over 100. 50 times in the. 

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Bible God tells us to. 
Seek his face, seek his presence

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to seek. 
God, it's a proactive. 

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Command. 
We're supposed to seek him and 

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and and whenever. 
The Bible is being specific. 

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It says more than just seek God,
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And so I really wanted to break 
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What does that mean? 
What does? 

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What does he? 
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And it's it's actually 
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Simple and yet you're going to 
find this kind of hard and that 

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is this that. 
Seeking God's face. 

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Means that I'm coming to him in.
Prayer. 

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Not to get something from him, 
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So I'm not. 
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he can give me, I'm after his 
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There's a Hebrew word that we 
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Throughout scripture called 
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Word here that we're. 
Reading for face, but it 

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actually is translated two 
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where you're reading it. 
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So not only does it mean face, 
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Presence. 
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translated as face or presence, 
is mentioned 2100 times in the 

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Hebrew Bible. 
So don't think about God's. 

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Face as like a physical face 
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mouth. 
The Bible is telling us to seek.

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Being with God closely, not just
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me, but to be with God. 
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look through the texts. 
Today and look at some different

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scriptures and, and I hope what 
it means is that maybe we 

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relearn some things about 
prayer. 

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Maybe we reset some 
misconceptions about it. 

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You know, almost every religion 
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Talks about prayer or. 
Or meditation or incantation in 

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some method or another. 
But Christian prayer is vastly 

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different than almost every 
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And the reason it's so 
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Is that only Christianity? 
Is built around an intimate, 

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personal God of the universe, a 
God who knows us, excuse me, a 

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God who loves us so much that he
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to make it possible for us to 
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personally. 
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are with my, my parents. 
They're, they're, they're 

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phenomenal memories. 
My mom and dad praying with me, 

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whether praying before bed or 
just praying at different times 

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and teaching me those things. 
But my earliest memories of 

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prayer at church are horrible 
because they were the Wednesday.

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Night prayer meeting y'all? 
Y'all ever been to a small 

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Southern Baptist country church 
and then Wednesday night prayer 

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meeting? 
As a nine year old, I was pretty

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sure it was medically possible 
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I was sure I was at the verge. 
It's just that no one would show

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up like most prayer meetings in,
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And there'd be a couple of 
people sitting around this big 

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list of, of people that were 
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And then they would just sit and
they would mumble over the same 

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sets of little words and blah, 
blah, blah, blah. 

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And we we'd be praying for so 
and so who's in the hospital and

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so and so and Aunt Bertha's 
bunions, you know, what is this?

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I don't get it. 
And so I grew up most of my 

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life. 
Even most of my Christian life, 

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not really knowing how to pray, 
not really knowing what to pray,

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not really know why we pray. 
Like does this even work like? 

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Maybe maybe you can relate to 
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How come every time I sit down 
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My mind starts to wander. 
Anybody else? 

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Oh my gosh. 
And then I'm. 

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Then I start to get all like. 
Ashamed like this got ashamed of

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me because I can't stay on track
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Pray the right way am I even 
saying the right words man, 

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just. 
Does this even do any good? 

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What am I doing? 
Yet the Bible would tell us to 

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pray without ceasing. 
James, 48, would say to draw 

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near to God, and he will draw 
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To you, that sounds pretty 
personal. 

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That sounds. 
Pretty intimate that does not. 

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Sound like Wednesday night 
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Do you ever think? 
About that. 

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Most of us talk about prayer 
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Like, yeah, I'm going to pray 
about that. 

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You know, you get the text from 
your buddy who's like really 

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going through it and you're 
like, oh, that sounds terrible. 

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I'm going to pray for you, 
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And like, that was the prayer, 
the text, and. 

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Then we just go on with. 
Life like you all realize that 

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the prayer. 
Emoji is not the actual. 

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Prayer. 
So so like. 

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For me, maybe if we understood 
prayer a little bit better, 

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maybe, maybe it would be. 
Easier. 

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Maybe we'd be more. 
More motivated to do. 

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It you know, a couple years ago 
I started to really wonder. 

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How? 
How come I say that I believe 

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that prayer is this incredibly 
powerful thing of talking to 

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God, bringing things to God, but
my life doesn't look like I 

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believe that. 
Like it like if I if if I really

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believed what I said. 
I believed I I would be praying 

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a lot harder and a lot more and 
I was just really. 

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Convicted of like. 
Gosh, I need to take, I need to 

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take a better look at this. 
And then someone gave me a book.

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Another pastor friend of mine 
gave me a book. 

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It sat on my night stand for 
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And I finally got to reading it.
And it was about leading through

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prayer, like leading a church in
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really Christian leadership is 
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And so as I begin to read that, 
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that book, our elder room 
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prayer and when we did the 
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to see God move. 
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morning, sitting around tables 
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praying to God, asking for his 
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up. 
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individually by name, by their 
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their prayer request. 
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Pray for you, you. 
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having been first prayed for by 
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Going to the throne room of God 
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praying for you, praying for 
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And so let's let's dig a little 
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We're going to jump around into 
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different quotes, different 
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If we can get a. 
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understanding of prayer, because
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misunderstood. 
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misunderstood. 
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We have some beautiful quotes 
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fathers throughout the last few 
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trying to understand prayer 
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Mother Teresa said prayer is not
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Prayer is putting oneself in the
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and listening to His voice in 
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Henry Newman said to pray is to 
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beloved child. 
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Speak to the center of your 
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that voice resound in your whole
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Of the heart. 
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heaven, is a cry of recognition 
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trial and joy. 
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written about prayer we're going
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So if you don't, if you leave 
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this concept. 
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this and chew on this today. 
Authentic prayer is encountering

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God's astonishing presence. 
Authentic prayer is encountering

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God's astonishing presence. 
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lot of cheap substitutes 
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meant to be a face to face 
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into my wife's eyes. 
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time we are exposed to the 
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universe, we are changed. 
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What happens if if? 
You and I will will begin to do 

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this, begin to proactively seek 
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I want to show you what happens 
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It happens throughout the Bible.
We see it over and over again. 

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It's happened in my life for 
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to get an understanding that God
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He, he, man, He loves it when we
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It's not just a command, it's 
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box. 
He actually desires US talking 

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with him and we see this. 
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Scripture as prayer is described
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If if we turn to the story of 
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Pharisee that Jesus tells we 
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going to look at that one next 
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If we look at David and Psalm 51
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see this. 
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Want you to hear it? 
There's a story of Jesus in a 

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region called Samaria with a 
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and he's speaking to a woman 
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of these, very ostracized, and 
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And he begins to describe to her
what is about to happen when he 

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goes to the cross, when he makes
a way. 

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Here's what he says. 
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But the hour is coming and is 
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worshippers will worship the 
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For the Father is look at that 
Word, seeking such people to 

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worship Him. 
God is spirit and those who 

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worship Him must worship in 
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God desires for you and I to 
seek His face in intimate 

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conversation with Him. 
That, that, that. 

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Means that a lot of the things 
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about prayer. 
Are wrong because if. 

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If that's what God's desire. 
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Then prayer. 
Prayer is not a performance 

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because that's not what God's 
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It's not what he cherishes, not 
what he's looking for. 

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You don't have to pray good or 
pray Gooder. 

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I don't know how's that work. 
You're just talking to God. 

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There are no magic words yet You
wait too often. 

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You've heard somebody pray and 
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I would mess it up like it's 
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Hogwarts. 
Like man, if you may probably 

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not working because I said it 
wrong. 

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It's supposed to be like. 
Wingardium Leviosa. 

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No, you're just talking to the 
Heavenly Father. 

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Let me to get your head around 
what that means. 

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You got to go back to the very 
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beginning of the whole creation 
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God has created the first man, 
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There's a garden. 
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We haven't rebelled against God 
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Everything's perfect. 
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Shalom, perfect peace. 
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that garden. 
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Just the way it was designed. 
We're walking through the garden

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with Jesus, just talking side by
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conversations. 
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Actually how we were created. 
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do. 
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when we rebel against God. 
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fractures that relationship, sin
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The the the curse of sin falls 
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Now all of a sudden, it's not so
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garden with God. 
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And yet, and yet we were still 
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We were still created with that 
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So so when you look around. 
And you go, man, something's not

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right. 
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Because we were created to walk.
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Of a sudden, we're apart. 
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continues to lay out this 
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seek me, seek my face. 
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Because you were designed to 
need it. 

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It's nothing's going to feel 
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Seek my presence. 
Come find me. 

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So prayer is this conversation 
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The The primary way that we 
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The primary way that God. 
Speaks to us is through His 

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word, the Bible. 
We'll talk. 

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A lot about that next week, and 
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This is just the conversation. 
I just want you to consider that

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God has always wanted us to seek
His presence. 

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He's always wanted us to come 
and talk to Him. 

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He created us with that very 
need inside of us and so often. 

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Your dissatisfaction in life is 
that there's actually a need to 

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talk to him, and you're doing 
other things with that need and 

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wondering why it doesn't 
satisfy. 

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He desires this conversation 
when we step into that, when we.

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Intentionally. 
Proactively. 

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Begin to do that. 
Begin to seek his face. 

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Begin to talk. 
To him begin to have. 

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Those conversations, Here's what
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This is .2 in there that 
authentic prayer begins to 

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expose my heart. 
Now here's what I mean by that. 

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OK, I should define quickly 
God's presence. 

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So we're talking about seeking 
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There's actually three types of 
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God. 
God is present in three ways in 

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the Bible. 
And, and, and I want to 

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articulate some of that 
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understand which one we're 
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It says that God is omnipresent 
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God is everywhere all the. 
Time there's nowhere to hide 

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from God. 
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of Christ, if we've given our 
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called indwelt with the Holy 
Spirit. 

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He's put his spirit inside of us
and all the time Spirit doesn't 

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come and go, but but there's a 
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we're going to be talking about 
today. 

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And it's this idea of the 
intimate presence of God that 

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the face to face conversations 
with God. 

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Now how? 
Can there be three types? 

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That's a? 
That's a logical. 

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Question. 
And so I'm going to give you an 

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analogy. 
That I hope is helpful. 

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How many of you here have ever 
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OK, like literally some of you 
are parents and not raising your

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hand. 
I'm just wondering what happens 

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with your kids. 
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If you've ever babysat a kid, a.
Small kid, you know that they 

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they could like sit in the 
living room floor and you could 

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be in the room with. 
Them kind of watching them. 

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And they could be. 
Oblivious to the fact that 

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you're there because there's 
some amazing thing that has 

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caught their attention like a. 
Cardboard box and they could 

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just be enthralled with that. 
Thing for like hours and have no

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idea you were there and then but
there's a moment right where 

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they turn and they see you and 
they make eye contact and 

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they're like and there's a spark
of. 

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Recognition and they're like 
mom, y'all know what I'm talking

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about right? 
For me, it's it's, that's not 

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mom, you know what I mean? 
Yes, everybody with me. 

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It wasn't that you weren't there
the whole time, but something 

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different happens when they turn
face. 

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To face and make eye contact 
with you, yes, that's. 

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The type of. 
Presence we're talking about so.

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It's not that. 
God's missing. 

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It's that there's this moment we
begin to turn and look. 

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For God. 
'S face that everything changes.

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I'll give you another example. 
How many people here are 

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married? 
OK. 

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That was not a hard question for
some of you. 

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I hope you're not in trouble 
later anyways. 

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Now, men. 
Y'all know you're still 

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technically? 
Married when you're at work, 

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Yes. 
OK, yes, it's a weird crowd 

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today. 
You're still married. 

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When you're at work, if you're 
at home and you're doing the 

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dishes and your spouse is in the
other room, you know, cleaning 

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some floors, you're still 
married. 

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OK. 
Thank you. 

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But but don't but aren't. 
Everyone like a good date night?

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Come on. 
Yeah. 

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Everyone like a good date? 
Night Yes, trying to grow this 

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shirts the old fashioned way. 
It wasn't that you weren't 

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married and you are married. 
But there's something about 

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intentional time. 
We put our phones down, put the 

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distractions down. 
Some of you have. 

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Young kids. 
Are like, what's that like? 

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We turn toward one another, 
we're face to face. 

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I'm actually spending time in 
intimate conversation with my 

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spouse. 
Connecting, talking, listening, 

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enjoying. 
I'm looking at those beautiful 

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brown eyes. 
What's different? 

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What's different? 
I'm face to face, man. 

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I'm I'm intentionally seeking 
the presence of that person into

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an intimate conversation. 
Authentic prayer is seeking 

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God's manifest presence. 
In my life now, news flash, 

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buckle in, we're not in the 
Garden of Eden. 

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I know Bakersfield in the fall 
tricks some people as soon we 

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take all the photos as we invite
all of our friends and they 

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think Bakersfield's amazing 
because they haven't been here 

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in August. 
We're not we're not in the we're

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not in the Garden of Eden. 
And here's what I. 

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I mean by that like. 
Because we're not in the Garden 

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of Eden. 
We're not just walking with. 

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God, through the cool of the 
evening anymore. 

459
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:44,720
And so to to to seek God. 
One means we have to be 

460
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,960
intentional. 2 It means that. 
As we draw close to God, as we. 

461
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,360
Begin to to turn. 
Face to face, we get to 

462
00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:53,840
experience his presence. 
Here's what's going to happen. 

463
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:56,440
In the garden. 
It was perfection. 

464
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,040
I could walk. 
With him with no big deal but 

465
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,200
right now? 
We live in a fallen, distorted 

466
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:06,360
world, so as I get close to a 
holy God every time I'm. 

467
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:10,080
Going to go, oh, I'm not like 
that. 

468
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:20,120
It's like the illumination of. 
Holiness on our life and every. 

469
00:26:20,120 --> 00:26:22,360
Time that happens, we're going 
to begin to. 

470
00:26:22,360 --> 00:26:25,560
See. 
A gap between God's character 

471
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:26,840
and my. 
Character between. 

472
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,280
God's attitude and my attitude 
between God. 

473
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,720
'S power and my weakness between
his humility and my. 

474
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,280
Pride and there's going to be a 
gap. 

475
00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,080
Amen. 
And it'll. 

476
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,600
Be that moment, no matter where 
you're at. 

477
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,200
When you get close to holy God, 
you go. 

478
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:50,760
Oh, he's not like me. 
It exposes my heart when I begin

479
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:57,760
to interact with the perfection 
of God and so So what will 

480
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,920
happen is your heart. 
You know your. 

481
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:02,000
Circumstances. 
Your attitude like all. 

482
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,880
Those things you're just going 
to all of a sudden you're going 

483
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,120
to go, oh God, is so different 
than I am. 

484
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,880
Now here's the thing. 
Not, not in shame. 

485
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,320
Shame is not from God. 
Adam and Eve used to walk. 

486
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,600
With God naked that. 
Shame is not from God. 

487
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,960
We we did that. 
So as we draw close to God, we 

488
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,880
don't we don't get. 
Shame because we're not perfect.

489
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:32,240
Actually, there's this this 
gentle correction that is the 

490
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,880
beauty of Christ, the standard 
of holiness where we go. 

491
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,960
Oh, and the and the third. 
Thing will happen. 

492
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:44,320
Which is that that exposing my 
heart to God in humility allows 

493
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:48,800
him to work on it. 
Now I say in humility why? 

494
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,920
Because the moment we begin to 
see a gap between God and. 

495
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:57,800
Us, we have. 
To have a recognition I'm the 

496
00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:01,080
one that's wrong. 
We're not going God. 

497
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:07,920
Come down here, get in line. 
We're going, oh, oh, I have some

498
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:12,280
things that are not right. 
There's there's a, there's a a. 

499
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,520
Theological concept that we get 
from scripture called 

500
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:19,960
immutability, immutability, say 
immutability, immutability, it 

501
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,360
means that God does not change. 
There's no variation. 

502
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,920
And and we get that from Malachi
36, from James 117, from a lot 

503
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,320
of other verses. 
God does not change, but I do 

504
00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,640
Amen. 
You do. 

505
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,880
Amen. 
You ever had a bad day? 

506
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,560
God hasn't. 
You ever been wrong? 

507
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:48,080
God in God doesn't change. 
So what happens is I take my. 

508
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:54,360
Broken, warped, Emotional. 
Self and I seek the face of God,

509
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:57,240
and as I get closer and closer 
to a perfect. 

510
00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:03,480
God, I go, whoa, I'm not like 
that. 

511
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:13,680
And that recognition allows him 
to begin to change me, to begin 

512
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:18,640
to transform my heart, to begin 
to refine my character moment by

513
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,160
moment, minute by minute, degree
by degree, little bit by little 

514
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:27,120
bit. 
Just like when you're doing 

515
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,080
something with a little kid and 
they get to watch Dad do it. 

516
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,280
They try to be like Dad. 
That's what's happening, right? 

517
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:34,560
You're going, oh, I need to be 
more like Dad. 

518
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:43,080
And that can be in conviction, 
that can be in encouragement. 

519
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,680
That can be all kinds of 
different correction. 

520
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:52,240
Let me give you an example. 
Wednesday night I had a 

521
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,000
particularly rough night and and
it's just been tough. 

522
00:29:56,160 --> 00:30:04,960
And statistically, pastors have 
one of the loneliest jobs in the

523
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,160
world. 43% of all pastors who 
consider quitting sight, 

524
00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:11,240
loneliness, isolation is the 
reason they quit. 

525
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,960
And I remember Pastor Ray 
Johnson said he was talking to a

526
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:18,840
group of pastors and he said be 
careful pastor because a a 

527
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,560
church will use you up and throw
you out like a Kleenex and move 

528
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,640
on to the next pastor. 
And I and I thought at the 

529
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,200
moment, like, man, that's 
awfully cynical. 

530
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:29,520
You know, like, and, and I 
actually, I think I know what he

531
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,440
was trying to say in that 
moment. 

532
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,040
I think what he was saying is 
like, the churches aren't 

533
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,680
malicious. 
It's just that they rarely 

534
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:37,600
realize the burden that they're 
putting, you know? 

535
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,440
Pastors sit in the spot. 
Where everyone in their trauma, 

536
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,600
in their hurt, in their pain, 
run to the pastor and when, when

537
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:45,280
you know when your nose is 
running, you're not thinking 

538
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:46,120
about it right? 
You're grabbing the. 

539
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:49,000
Kleenex or your sleeve if you're
my kids or whatever, right? 

540
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:55,880
And you just, you just use it. 
And so inherently pastors end up

541
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,400
with, with a lot of that. 
And I was just laying in bed 

542
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,120
Wednesday night, like really 
kind of struggling with 

543
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:04,400
isolation, loneliness and 
talking to God, just talking to 

544
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,000
God in the middle of the night, 
just talking and talking and, 

545
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:08,880
and just pouring out my heart 
and, and I, I just, I could feel

546
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,760
the Lord talk to me through that
and just say, man, you're not 

547
00:31:13,760 --> 00:31:16,560
alone. 
I'm right here. 

548
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:21,680
I have not hidden my face from 
you. 

549
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:27,920
There are days for a pasture 
where no human is safe to relate

550
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:30,280
to. 
But he is. 

551
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,280
He is. 
And so he's he's. 

552
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:36,400
We're just in the middle of the 
night. 

553
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,320
God is ministering to it. 
He's just reminding me. 

554
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:40,520
Like, you know, Daniel, you 
might, you might be a little 

555
00:31:40,520 --> 00:31:41,520
emotional. 
Right now. 

556
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,360
And as I draw close to the 
goodness of God, I'm like, oh, 

557
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,560
yeah, I think I'm a little 
emotional right now. 

558
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:49,800
Not in the shameful way. 
In a way. 

559
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:54,720
Oh man, God now can correct some
of those things in my heart in 

560
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,040
the middle of the night, just in
a conversation. 

561
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,920
Why? 
Because God, without any, 

562
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:07,760
without any magic words or 
formal incantations, God can 

563
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:12,480
change me simply by me drawing 
near and seeking His face and 

564
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:16,720
getting closer to Him and 
realizing He's so good. 

565
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:22,680
You can encounter God's presence
face to face and that that 

566
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:27,920
changes me every single time. 
That's what it does in this 

567
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,000
life. 
You know all the circumstances 

568
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,200
we're going to go through our, 
our emotions and, and our 

569
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,600
reactions and our perspective. 
They're going to change wildly. 

570
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,360
You're just going to go through 
some stuff. 

571
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:42,160
And here's the thing, we have a 
heavenly Father who says he has 

572
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,560
he Jesus came down and suffered 
so that he would have 

573
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,240
experienced everything that 
we've experienced, suffered, 

574
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:55,200
struggled, lived, died so that 
we could have confidence that 

575
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,200
when we draw close to him, he's 
gone through. 

576
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:03,000
He knows exactly what you're 
going through and his word says 

577
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:08,280
bring that to me. 
Seek my face, seek me with all 

578
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:10,920
of your heart. 
Bring that to me and I will give

579
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:21,040
you rest it in in the Bible, 
every time we see God, God speak

580
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,480
about his face, it's every time 
he blesses someone, it says he 

581
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,720
shines his face upon them. 
Where where God's face where his

582
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:32,200
presence is his joy and 
satisfaction and peace and 

583
00:33:32,200 --> 00:33:33,960
comfort. 
And when like really horrible 

584
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:37,600
stuff happens, it you'll see it 
says God hid his face from them 

585
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,920
and he turns and and and and all
of the evil and ills of the 

586
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:51,080
world flood in and we actually 
have the choice to seek his face

587
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,680
again and again and again. 
He says, come talk to me, come 

588
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,000
spend time with me. 
Come worship me. 

589
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,600
Come and join me. 
Won't you come? 

590
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:12,960
That's prayer. 
That's prayer above and beyond 

591
00:34:13,199 --> 00:34:14,800
anything else you understand 
about prayer. 

592
00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:19,520
That's what it is in any 
fashion. 

593
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:24,040
It's seeking the face of God. 
And in those moments, in the 

594
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:30,639
authentic, proactive, seeking 
God's face, He begins to 

595
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:35,080
illuminate our life and our 
heart, our situation, our 

596
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:39,280
circumstances, and change us in 
the process. 

597
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:44,159
This is what's happening when we
really pray, when we genuinely 

598
00:34:44,159 --> 00:34:48,000
seek God's presence, because 
authentic prayer is encountering

599
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,000
God's astonishing presence. 
And every time this happens, it 

600
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,199
changes us and and the. 
Ability. 

601
00:34:56,199 --> 00:35:01,840
To do this, to just come to God 
at any moment, it is only 

602
00:35:01,840 --> 00:35:07,560
possible because Jesus came and 
went to the cross and broke down

603
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,480
this barrier between US and God 
that was fractured, and now we 

604
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,880
can freely do this. 
In the Old Testament, when this 

605
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:19,080
relationship was fractured, 
God's presence was in this one 

606
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:21,680
little spot in the temple, in 
this one little place. 

607
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,960
And nobody else could go. 
The high priest could go. 

608
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,280
There's a big veil that. 
That, that, that that was. 

609
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,040
A barrier no one could get in 
and one person once a year. 

610
00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:37,440
Could go in, but not anymore. 
Now you and I have access at any

611
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:41,440
time in the middle of the night,
driving in your car on a walk, 

612
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:43,520
at any point and listen, it 
doesn't. 

613
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:48,840
Prayer is any moment from a 
short thought to dedicated hours

614
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,360
of intentionally trying to seek 
and experience God any moment 

615
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:54,240
when you're seeking God's 
presence. 

616
00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:55,840
And so that might be. 
Conversational. 

617
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,720
I talk to God all the time. 
That might be angry. 

618
00:35:59,960 --> 00:36:01,880
You can. 
You can be angry and yell at 

619
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:02,720
God. 
He's a big boy. 

620
00:36:02,720 --> 00:36:07,920
He can handle it. 
It could be a cry of 

621
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:12,280
desperation. 
It can be a list of Thanksgiving

622
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,960
and things you're grateful for. 
He could be just worshipping and

623
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:19,960
appreciating his good. 
It's all prayer because it's 

624
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:25,360
seeking his presence. 
And so, you know, I always, I 

625
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,480
always want to give you 
something to do with with the 

626
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,160
truths that come out of. 
Scripture as we. 

627
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,600
Preach on a Sunday morning and 
so here's my my my number one 

628
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:35,800
goal today is actually that you 
would you would take this 

629
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:39,760
concept, this idea and then it 
would reshape and refashion how 

630
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,520
you consider and think about 
prayer. 

631
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,360
Then it would change your 
perspective about what it is to 

632
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,440
talk to God to seek God to look 
for his presence. 

633
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,240
But let me give you something to
do like. 

634
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,040
Next week. 
We're going to actually spend 

635
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,800
some real time on, on doing 
things right? 

636
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:57,480
Like like here's some here's 
some concrete examples of, of 

637
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,240
ways to pray and how to pray. 
But let me give you give me one,

638
00:37:01,240 --> 00:37:04,160
one challenge for this week as 
we move into next week here, let

639
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,560
me just ask you this question. 
What would it look like to seek 

640
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:12,800
God's face instead of his hand 
and any? 

641
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,720
And what I mean by that is this,
to seek God's hand is to say. 

642
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,640
God, I need you to do something 
for me. 

643
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,960
To seek God's face is. 
To say, man, I just want to be 

644
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,920
near you and. 
The interesting part is that you

645
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:27,600
can seek God's hand and miss his
face entirely. 

646
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,760
We we, we can get into this 
thing where we treat God like a 

647
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,360
like a genie in a bottle. 
And we do we. 

648
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,360
Figure if we rub it and we say 
the right things, we might get 3

649
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:40,520
wishes, but if you seek God's 
face you get the whole thing. 

650
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,480
What would it look like in our 
life if our prayer life begin to

651
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,600
start with? 
And maybe at some point. 

652
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,800
Centre around just wanting to 
experience. 

653
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:55,280
The presence of God in our life.
And, and here's the the crazy. 

654
00:37:55,280 --> 00:38:02,840
Thing we were designed. 
For it, we were designed for it.

655
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,800
You're not actually going to 
feel real satisfaction until 

656
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:07,600
you. 
Begin to do it. 

657
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,760
What would it look like if every
day this week? 

658
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,520
You stopped. 
Before, you just rushed off into

659
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:18,080
the busyness of life and. 
You just said for 60 seconds, 

660
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:22,880
sit still in silence. 
Say God, will you show yourself 

661
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,120
to me today? 
Will you show me more of you 

662
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,480
today? 
Maybe. 

663
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,440
Maybe you're. 
So new to this that it all seems

664
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,440
intimidating. 
You could literally set an alarm

665
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,600
on your phone and when it goes 
off, just say God, will you? 

666
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,400
Will you show yourself to me 
today? 

667
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,280
Will you show me more of your 
presence today? 

668
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,160
Will you help me to enjoy you 
more today? 

669
00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:48,600
I I just tell you from my own 
life, it will change everything 

670
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:50,440
about. 
The way you see God about the 

671
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,160
way you approach life, if you 
will simply slow down and 

672
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,720
attempt or just ask for God to 
show himself to you more deeply,

673
00:38:58,720 --> 00:39:00,760
He will. 
He's not embarrassed, you're 

674
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,640
asking, he's actually. 
Waiting for you to ask. 

675
00:39:03,240 --> 00:39:08,400
He wants to be wanted. 
Here's the crazy thing. 

676
00:39:10,480 --> 00:39:11,840
I. 
Think you already want to let? 

677
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,360
Let me ask this question. 
How many? 

678
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,440
People, if I just asked you if 
I. 

679
00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,080
Just came to you after service 
said hey would you like to 

680
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:19,120
experience God more deeply in 
your life? 

681
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,200
How many people would raise your
hand? 

682
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:22,320
Man, like logically we're like, 
well, yeah, of. 

683
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,520
Course. 
OK, cool. 

684
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,640
Let's ask for it every day this 
week. 

685
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:28,520
Let's just say, hey guy, will 
you? 

686
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,640
Will you help me to experience 
you more deeply this week? 

687
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:39,480
Just ask now for some of you, 
maybe, maybe online, maybe you 

688
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,840
just kind of got him hanging out
listening, what have you. 

689
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,040
You're hearing this and. 
And here's the thing to to ask 

690
00:39:45,040 --> 00:39:48,520
God for that to to ask a God to 
to show himself. 

691
00:39:48,520 --> 00:39:50,440
More deeply, to experience His 
presence you actually have to 

692
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:55,640
know God and and for some. 
Of you, you've. 

693
00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,560
You don't know Him, You know 
about him, you know of Him, you 

694
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,400
know somebody that knows him, 
but you don't know him. 

695
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,400
As you see, we only come to God 
in relationship. 

696
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,600
Through belief in Jesus Christ. 
Without Christ we have no 

697
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,920
access, we have no relationship.
We have no Heavenly Father. 

698
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:18,800
It takes a surrendered heart. 
To Jesus. 

699
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:21,000
So if you've if. 
You've never. 

700
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,400
Done that the Bible actually 
lays out an instruction. 

701
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:26,560
Of what that looks like. 
In Romans 10/9 and 10, it says 

702
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:32,280
if you confess with your mouth 
that Jesus is Lord, I believe in

703
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,240
your heart that God raised him 
from the dead, you will be 

704
00:40:34,240 --> 00:40:35,920
saved. 
For with the heart 1 believes 

705
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:38,880
and is justified, and with the 
mouth 1 confesses and is saved. 

706
00:40:41,360 --> 00:40:43,600
And so if you've not done this 
before, but you're willing to 

707
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,960
surrender your life to God 
today, I want to give you an 

708
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:48,600
opportunity to do that. 
I want to invite you to do that.

709
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,080
Will you please bow your heads 
and close your eyes as we wrap 

710
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:54,600
up our service? 
Just a moment, for just a moment

711
00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,840
God is calling to you and if 
you're willing to ask him for 

712
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:03,680
forgiveness and salvation. 
As we close our eyes and bow our

713
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,080
head, I just want you to repeat 
this prayer after me. 

714
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:16,360
Jesus, I know I'm lost and I 
need you to save me. 

715
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:24,320
I'm not satisfied and I need 
relationship with you, so I 

716
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:30,800
surrender everything to you and 
I receive your promise of 

717
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:36,520
forgiveness, of adoption, of 
eternal life. 

718
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:46,240
Be my Lord. 
Please Jesus, if you prayed that

719
00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:50,480
prayer moments ago, would you be
brave and raise your hand for me

720
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:56,200
to see? 
Thank you, thank you. 

721
00:41:56,200 --> 00:42:00,920
You put your hands down in Jesus
name, Amen. 

722
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:07,240
Real quick, whether a moment ago
or or maybe sometime in the last

723
00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:12,200
couple weeks, if you surrendered
your heart to Christ to call him

724
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:20,730
Lord. 
Welcome to the family in in just

725
00:42:20,730 --> 00:42:21,770
a moment. 
We're going to we're going to 

726
00:42:21,770 --> 00:42:25,400
respond to this sermon. 
We're going to sing a song to 

727
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,120
close our service. 
And in the back there are 

728
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,000
tables. 
The banners say I raised my 

729
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:29,920
hand. 
Whether you raise your. 

730
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,000
Hand or not, if you've. 
Made a decision to follow 

731
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,480
Christ, to surrender to Christ. 
I want you to go back there 

732
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:36,680
during the song, and I want you 
to. 

733
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,040
Tell someone what happened. 
We want to celebrate with you. 

734
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,760
We're going to give you a Bible 
and a gift and follow up with 

735
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:44,440
you. 
We're going to talk about what 

736
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,920
it looks like to follow Christ. 
The rest of you, where you 

737
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,000
stand. 
We're going to sing a song. 

738
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:51,600
Our prayer team is going to come
up. 

739
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:54,280
We, we, we love Fran with you 
and for you for all sorts of 

740
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:55,680
things. 
What a great time to. 

741
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,800
Be prayed for during a series on
prayer. 

742
00:43:03,620 --> 00:43:05,940
So don't miss an opportunity to 
have someone pray for you today.

743
00:43:07,020 --> 00:43:08,980
You move as the Lord leads you. 
We love you.

