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Welcome to Let's Chat with MBB. 
I'm Sarah Burby, A BCBA National

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Wellness. 

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Coach certified in TV. 
And counselor, 7 figure business

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I created this podcast as a 
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confident, and ready. 
To tap into your. 

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Passion, because here is what I.
Know to be true. 

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You can have it all if you allow
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Becoming So let's chat. 
Hi there and welcome back to 

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Let's Chat. 
Today I'm gonna nerd out and 

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talk about quantum leaps because
I am on the brink of a freaking 

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quantum leap in my life right 
now. 

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And a couple people were 
messaging me on Instagram. 

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I post about this last week 
because they're like I think I 

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am. 
How do you know? 

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Tell me more about. 
It so that is the purpose of 

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this. 
Podcast The last time I went 

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through a quantum leap was in 
2022, so I'm gonna take some 

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time today. 
Maybe a A1? 

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Maybe a two-part episode. 
We'll see. 

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I'm gonna take some time and go.
Into what a quantum leap is. 

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So you have some. 
Clarity on that and see how you 

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can have a quantum leap in your 
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So have you ever looked at 
somebody and thought, how the 

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hell did they do that? 
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A year ago they were miserable. 
They weren't a job they hated. 

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They seemed like they were 
feeling really stuck and 

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frustrated. 
And one day you're looking and 

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you're like, what? 
They have a new. 

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Career, They have all this new 
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It's like a new version of 
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And you're wondering how you 
missed the memo and how that 

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transformation actually works. 
And here is the thing, when you 

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have a quantum leap, when people
have quantum leaps, it doesn't 

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happen gradually. 
They don't gradually become a 

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different person over time. 
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It happens in one moment, in one
decision and one insight. 

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One morning they wake up and 
that old. 

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Version of themselves. 
Does not fit them anymore. 

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And that's exactly what I want 
to talk about today, why that 

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change happens suddenly, what it
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and most importantly what you 
can do to stop self sabotaging 

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yourself when you are standing 
right on the edge of a 

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breakthrough. 
So what actually is a quantum 

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leap? 
I'm going to explain this in the

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best way that I know how. 
I am not a physicist, I don't 

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know all the insurance and outs,
and I've been studying quantum 

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leaps the best I can. 
So I'm going to explain this in 

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quantum leaps one O 1 and I want
to make sure that I explain it 

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scientifically because there is 
actual science to what quantum 

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loops are, which I think makes 
it really interesting and helps 

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us reframe how we think about 
personal transformation. 

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So here is an analogy that I 
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Imagine you are warming up water
on yourself. 

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You turn the water on, turn the 
burner on and for a long time 

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but feels like a really clung 
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Nothing seems to be happening 
and the water just looks like 

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water. 
You might even put your hand in 

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it or near to be like what is 
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Why isn't it boiling? 
Is this even on? 

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And then at exactly 100°C 
something completely different 

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happens. 
And it doesn't slowly. 

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Become like a little bit of. 
Steam, it becomes this whole 

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state of changes, this 
transformation, and all of a 

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sudden it's this new energy that
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We just couldn't see it. 
And that is what a quantum leap 

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is in physics. 
Electrons don't gradually drift 

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from one orbit around a nucleus 
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They exist in one place, and 
then they exist in a completely 

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different place. 
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There's no gradual side, just a 
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entirely. 
It's really freaking cool when 

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you start to dive into this, and
here's why it matters for your 

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life. 
Most of us have been taught that

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change is linear, that we work 
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consistent, we make small 
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we'll get. 
There to whatever. 

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Our end goal is and of course 
working hard and discipline of. 

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Course that matters. 
But the story we have not been 

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told is that real identity level
transformation does not happen 

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in a straight line. 
It builds and it builds and it 

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builds underground and then it. 
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And when it does? 
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Sudden from the outside and 
maybe even feel. 

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Sudden on the inside, but it. 
Wasn't it was everything that 

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you've been doing and thinking 
and feeling and it finally hit 

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that tipping point? 
Another way to think about this 

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is like Caterpillar caterpillars
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They dissolve into a kind of 
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what to call it, like a soup 
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Parker's been reading The Very 
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I know way too much about 
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And anyway, everything, it was 
everything, it was completely 

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broke down and then it 
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So like I said, I've been really
studying and really trying to 

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learn as much as I can about 
personal transformation and 

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quantum leaps. 
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noticing is that a set of signs 
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right before a major shift. 
And so I'm gonna talk about the 

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seven signs that I've noticed 
that 7 signs that are in anytime

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you read about quantum leaps. 
And I want you to see how many 

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of these feel familiar to you. 
So #1 everything old feels 

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unbearable. 
Your job, relationship, habit, 

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identity, the things that you 
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feel intolerable. 
And it isn't you getting worse 

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in those things, it's your body 
signaling to you that you have 

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grown that container that used 
to fit you right and that 

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friction should be used as fuel 
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you're feeling restlessness but 
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So you have almost this itchy, 
unmanageable, really hard to 

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describe type energy. 
You're maybe scrolling on your 

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phone more. 
Maybe you're sleeping gets 

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worse. 
Maybe you feel this really vague

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sense of longing or 
unfulfillment that you can't 

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quite describe. 
You can't quite pin it down, and

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it might feel like anxiety, but 
underneath it, it is your system

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that's preparing to reorganize. 
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looking for this new direction 
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Different cydiosyncrasies start.
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So you think of someone and all 
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You read a sentence that is 
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situation. 
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with someone and you have the 
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this is happening. 
Your Ras, your system, your when

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this is happening, your Ras, 
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your brain's filter is turning 
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noticing what you're now ready 
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K #4 your old relationships 
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So what I mean by this is the 
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your time with, suddenly those 
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shallow or the dynamic just 
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Signal or sign I should say, 
because it can feel like lonely,

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like you're at a loss. 
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your identity is shifting and 
you can still love people and 

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still be growing beyond certain 
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with them #5 you start doing 
things that feel slightly 

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irrational. 
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that you're not ready for. 
Maybe you are telling someone a 

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truth or what's been on your 
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for a really long time. 
Maybe you booked that trip that 

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you can't actually afford in 
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You know that money is gonna 
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Something in you starts to move 
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and that is actually perfect. 
Your body acts and the mind 

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justifies later, so when you 
feel pulled towards something 

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that scares you a little bit, 
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To listen. 
Is your direction number six? 

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Your internal monologue is 
changing, so I really want you 

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to pay attention to this and pay
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been telling yourself about 
what's possible for you, about 

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what you deserve, about who you 
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Start to feel those stories, 
start to feel like someone 

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else's story. 
They don't feel like your story 

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anymore. 
You start catching your old 

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thoughts and thinking, wait a 
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And that questioning is the 
beginning of a new neural 

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architect, of a new neural 
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Literally, that is your reign 
rewiring and #7 you feel like 

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you're almost there, but you're 
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is. 
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and most telling. 
A feeling of imminence, like 

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standing at the edge of 
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Something is about to click. 
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in your soul and you know that 
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So hands up, metaphorically, 
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How many of those felt like you 
right now 'cause even if just 

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two or three of those resonated,
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You are activating, you are 
loading, something is coming. 

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So why does this change happen 
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When we look at the neuroscience
research, it tells us something 

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really cool, that understanding 
that our brain is not fixed and 

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it's not set in stone after 
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It's plastic, it can rewire 
itself, and not just in small 

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ways, in huge fundamental ways. 
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neuroplasticity in our health 
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this is probably what kick 
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area. 
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your brain feels stuck, or when 
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Your brain over time, has 
literally built a physical 

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structure around your current 
identity and the thoughts you 

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think most often, the emotions 
you feel most regularly, the 

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behaviors you repeat. 
They carve grooves in the neural

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network, like a river cutting 
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And the deepest Grove becomes 
your new default route, and your

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brain runs the same program 
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not trying to trap you and it's 
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So when change feels impossible,
that is literally as long as 

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you're using the same mind, as 
long as you're having the same 

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thoughts, triggering the same 
emotions, choosing the same 

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behavior, you're reinforcing 
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And you cannot think your way 
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You're thinking your way through
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And here's where it gets super 
cool is when someone experiences

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A genuine quantum leap, when 
they have what looks like all of

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a sudden this sudden 
transformation, what's actually 

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happened is. 
The repeated. 

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Attempts at change their new 
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their new behaviors. 
They finally hit a threshold 

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where the new neural pathway is 
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And when that happens, the brain
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new neural pathway. 
It shifts to it. 

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It jolts to it. 
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like that water becoming steam. 
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called Head's Law. 
And that simple version is that 

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neurons that fire together wire 
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Every time you choose a new 
thought, practice experiencing a

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new feeling. 
Take an action that belongs to 

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the future version of you. 
You're laying down the new wire.

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You might not feel it happening.
In fact, you probably won't feel

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it happening for a while. 
But you are physically 

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constructing a new self, and at 
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a dominant network. 
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From the outside, that looks 
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Now I wanna tell you why most 
people don't actually experience

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this quantum leap and 
specifically on how we typically

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self sabotage when we are the 
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So if you've ever seen those 
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Instagram or Facebook, when it's
like, Oh my gosh, I've gone so 

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far. 
I'm not getting anywhere. 

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And there's like a horizontal 
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the mountain or whatever. 
I know it's really a bad 

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example, but that's what I'm 
picturing in my head. 

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That's what happens when. 
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We interpret this feeling of 
discomfort, this feeling of 

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uneasiness, as a sign that we 
aren't supposed to do the thing.

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And that uneasiness, that 
anxiety is that unbearableness, 

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for lack of better words, of 
your old life and the 

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restlessness, the relationship 
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People oftentimes feel this and 
then conclude that it's just 

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something's wrong with them or 
all the effort they put forth so

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far and hasn't worked. 
And then they'd retreat back to 

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their old patterns because they 
feel safe and they misinterpret 

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what that feeling of discomfort 
is. 

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That feeling of discomfort is 
not evidence that you're doing 

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something wrong. 
It's not evidence. 

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That you're going backwards. 
In fact, it's the exact 

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sensation that is going to move 
you forward towards that next 

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step. 
Number 2 is feeling like you 

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need all the evidence first. 
So what I mean by this is 

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feeling like you need proof that
you should commit to the thing 

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or believe the thing. 
Show me it's working. 

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Show me that it's going to work 
out in my favor, and then I'll 

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go all in and I get it. 
It makes sense. 

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We live in a very show me prove 
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But the problem with waiting for
that evidence is your external 

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reality can only rearrange 
itself to match that internal 

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shift if that internal shift has
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So the outside follows the 
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The thing about someone who 
wants to feel confident and they

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keep waiting to feel confident 
so they can finally start 

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showing up differently and they 
can finally start showing up 

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authentically, put themselves 
out there, apply for that thing.

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Speak in the room. 
But they're waiting for 

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confidence to be handed to them 
by circumstances that are quite 

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literally never going to arrive 
until they start. 

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Acting like a confident. 
Person first. 

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The confidence comes from doing 
the thing scared from doing the 

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thing, uncomfortable, not from 
waiting until that feeling is 

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gone. 
And every transformation story 

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I've ever admired works in that 
same order. 

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Internal shift first, external 
evidence second. 

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Internal shift, Stack the 
evidence, internal shift stack 

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the evidence, and you also get 
the new job. 

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Start believing in themselves. 
They start believing in 

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themselves in a way that made 
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Get that new job. 
Possible. 

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You cannot stand in your current
reality, feeling like your 

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current self, thinking your 
current thoughts, and then 

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expect something to just 
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your doorstep. 
You have to become it before you

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can see it. 
And yes, I know it is 

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terrifying, but that's just the 
way it works. 

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I say this all the time. 
I'm constantly doing things that

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make me feel so uncomfortable, 
like I'm going to vomit right 

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now. 
One of the reasons I say I'm in 

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a quantum leap is because I'm 
spending or invest safe. 

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I have to keep reframing, 
rewording how I feel this. 

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I'm investing so much money in 
the business, in my team and it 

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like doesn't even really make 
sense right now. 

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But I know, I know it's going to
10X very, very quickly. 

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And that's what I mean by 
quantum leap. 

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And then I'm going to start 
showing up as its next version 

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of myself. 
I can't wait for you guys to see

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like behind the scenes and stuff
of the new branding shoe that 

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I'm doing. 
All this stuff is me just having

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the internal shift 1st and then 
it's going to become a reality. 

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It's not a matter of if, it's a 
matter of when. 

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So #3 when you start to change, 
the people who love you will 

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sometimes get really 
uncomfortable, meaning your 

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change the way that you show up 
is going to make others 

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uncomfortable. 
They might not even know what's 

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happening and it might come out 
as, oh, you're acting different 

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lately. 
Or I don't know if you just seem

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off or there's just this vibe, 
this energy shift and they want 

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you or expect you to go back to 
the version of yourself that 

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they recognize. 
And I think about this a lot. 

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And the woman that I coach and 
the women who start to set 

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boundaries for the first time, 
like real, actual boundaries, 

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not, oh, I'm working on it, but 
actual hard nosed speaking up 

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for themselves, communicating. 
And suddenly the people who had 

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always called on the them, the 
dependable one, the always 

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available ones, start pulling 
back. 

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And they weren't mean about it. 
They just stopped reaching out. 

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They stopped communicating. 
And I know one particular client

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felt like it was just this proof
that she had to keep doing this 

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thing. 
It was this pressure to keep 

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showing up in the way that she 
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And it was very easy to just 
undo all the work that we've 

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done and to go back to the easy 
one, the one that says, yes, 

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everything, because at least 
then everyone around her would 

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be comfortable. 
But she wasn't right? 

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And here's the thing, We are 
literally wired for belonging or

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wired for a community. 
We're wired for a connection, 

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like at a biological level. 
And being rejected from the 

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group used to mean not 
surviving. 

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So when people around us get 
uncomfortable with our growth, 

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our nervous system tracks that 
or reads that as, oh, shoot, 

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this is danger. 
And it's going to feel really 

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compelling to shrink back, to go
back into the old patterns. 

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But what those people are 
reacting to is not the real you,

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it's the loss or the aversion 
that you used to be. 

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And that is their discomfort to 
work through, not yours. 

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Listen to that as many times as 
you need to. 

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That is their discomfort to work
through, not yours. 

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You can love people deeply and 
still grow beyond a dynamic that

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no longer fits. 
Both of those two things can be 

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true. 
Like #4 a lot of times people 

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stop the practice. 
Right before that ship, right 

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before that leap is going to 
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So it's stopping the inner work 
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And it makes sense, right? 
You're visualizing, you're 

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meditating, you're journaling, 
you're doing all the things and 

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nothing looks different from the
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And you're like, OK, well, 
clearly it's not doing anything.

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What am I even doing? 
This is a waste of time. 

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And then you stop. 
So think back to the example of 

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water in a soap. 
You've been heating it for so 

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long and it just looks like 
water. 

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And you're like, OK, yes, the 
burger is not working, but I 

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need to troubleshoot. 
What do we need to do? 

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When you turn it off and at 98°,
two degrees away from boiling, 

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you don't see the 98° of work 
that happened. 

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You would just see that water is
not boiling yet. 

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This is so good. 
It's like, I need to make an 

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Instagram post about this. 
So I'm just getting in the well 

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right now, right? 
Because we're not seeing it, we 

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just give up. 
And that water never gets to 

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boil, never gets to become steam
because it couldn't in that 

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moment. 
But you just stop the heat. 

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You turned it off, you did 
something different. 

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And the practice feels nothing 
like nothing is happening up 

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until it feels like everything 
is happening all at once. 

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And there's no warning. 
There's no crystal ball that can

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tell us about the future. 
There's no heads up this shift 

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is happening tomorrow. 
Don't put today. 

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No, it's really hard, but don't 
stop. 

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It just happens. 
And the people who experience 

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quantum leaps are not the most 
talented, they're not the most 

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gifted, they're not the most 
naturally. 

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Whatever. 
I say this all the time. 

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I am not the smartest person in 
the room figuratively and IQ 

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wise, I am so average. 
But I keep going even when there

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is no evidence yet. 
So I want you to think about how

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you can do that. 
How can you keep going even when

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there's no evidence? 
How can you keep going knowing 

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that it's worth it? 
That is the secret sauce. 

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So what does this actually look 
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And someone's like, I know I 
gave you the seven signs that 

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you are about to go through this
quantumly, but I want to revisit

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them briefly because I know that
the descriptions are one thing, 

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but I think the examples might 
help out land a little bit more 

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too. 
So I want to give you some real 

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life examples and then also how 
I noticed this in my life right 

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now. 
So sign 1 is that everything all

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of a sudden feels unbearable. 
It's like, I, I want you to get 

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really specific about what your 
version of unbearable means 

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here, because it doesn't always 
look like a mountain, right? 

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Sometimes it's sitting at your 
desk, like I said on a Monday 

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and feeling like blah. 
This just too right that you 

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can't really pinpoint and put 
your finger on and can't really 

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explain. 
And I heard someone describe it,

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I don't remember who it was to 
give them credit to, but they 

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described it as wearing a coat 
that's always been slightly too 

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small. 
That feeling is the worst it. 

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Fit technically you. 
Could get an aunt, did the job 

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one day you put an aunt and 
you're just like, I cannot 

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breathe, right? 
The code hasn't changed that, 

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but that person has grown and 
that's exactly what's going on. 

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The job's not getting worse. 
The relationship didn't suddenly

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become toxic. 
The life you didn't objective, 

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the life you want didn't 
objectively like you have, 

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didn't objectively far apart. 
You just grew past that 

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container and the discomfort 
there is your sign to keep 

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going. 
So something in your life has 

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gone from tolerable like a. 
Coat, that's just. 

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Slightly too tight, too 
intolerable, like all of a 

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sudden doesn't fit recently and 
you can't explain why. 

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I might pay attention to that, 
to that a little bit. 

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Because your body knows before 
your brain does, OK. 

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And think about #2 with that 
restlessness, what we can't 

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really name it and what it 
actually looks like about this 

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one, because it's so easy to 
think about. 

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Because a lot of people in this 
phase end up convinced that 

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something's wrong with them or 
that they have burnout, or they 

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should be more grateful for what
they have. 

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Because why else would they feel
this low grade unsettled feeling

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when their life looks totally 
fine on paper? 

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And so someone described this to
me in coaching as feeling like 

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there was like kind of like a 
song playing in the room that 

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they couldn't quite make out 
what it was like start, they 

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start to recognize it, but they 
can't figure out what the tune 

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is, what the words are. 
So they keep trying to turn all 

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of the noise down around them. 
So think about this in your 

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life. 
Try to do fewer commitments, 

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less screen time, more walks and
just trying to hear the song 

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playing in the background 
clearly. 

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But this client didn't know what
she was listening for. 

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So just she just knew that it 
was there. 

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She just knew she could hear 
bits and pieces of it and that 

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feeling. 
That is your. 

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Potential quite literally 
knocking at your door, and the 

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worst thing that you could do is
try to drown out that noise. 

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Instead, you want to really 
TuneIn and get quiet even though

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it feels really uncomfortable. 
We don't like to get quiet. 

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We like to be go, go, go, go, 
go, but get really quiet and try

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to really TuneIn to what that 
noise is in your body. 

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And again, I know this sounds a 
little bit, I don't mean it that

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way, maybe I do, but what's 
actually going on, what's 

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actually happening 
neurologically is that your 

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system is generating more energy
than your current life has 

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outputs for. 
You've outgrown your bandwidth 

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and that pressure has to go 
somewhere. 

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So if you don't channel it 
forward, it keeps cycling as 

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anxiety or restlessness. 
So the move is really not to try

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to stifle and calm it down. 
It's just to get curious about 

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what's appointing to what in 
your heart is it telling you 

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that next step would be. 
So let's talk about your 

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internal monologue changing and 
what that actually looks like. 

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And this is number six, I think 
that you talked about and that 

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internal, you're going to notice
your internal monologue is 

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shifting. 
And this one is so subtle that 

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people typically even miss this 
and they think that it's just 

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them being more self aware or 
working on their mindset without

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realizing what's actually 
happening in their brain. 

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I want you to think about some 
like almost present with 

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awareness and diffusion with 
this one and kind of noticing 

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the gap or that model space 
between you and the stories that

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00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:39,600
you're telling yourself. 
How you are disqualifying 

461
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yourself before you even put 
yourself in the game. 

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The belief where these beliefs 
came from, that you're not good 

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enough, that you don't deserve 
it. 

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How long you've been carrying 
those beliefs, for how long 

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you've been carrying other 
people's opinions about yourself

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for where they show up, how 
often they show up. 

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And instead of automatically 
agreeing with that story and 

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that voice and letting it 
dictate your behavior, can you 

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create that space where your new
identity is built? 

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You cannot dismantle a belief 
that you've never questioned. 

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And that's why I always 
encourage you to go deeper and 

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do the work. 
And I'm it's wildly 

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uncomfortable sometimes. 
Everybody does this at their own

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pace, but do the work of where 
this beliefs really came from, 

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like the first time you had this
I'm not good enough story or I 

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don't deserve this story. 
And the moment that you start 

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questioning those beliefs, even 
the old ones, even a little bit,

478
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even just be, is this actually 
true? 

479
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That is your brain starting to 
rewire into these new networks. 

480
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So I think I went over my 
typical 20 minutes today, which 

481
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is not like me, but I lost track
of time. 

482
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:58,920
But this is all the intro 
appetizer into Quantum leaps. 

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I'll share more about my 
experience 'cause I'm still 

484
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,400
going through this and I'll 
share more specifics about what 

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I'm doing and what I'm 
experiencing in the sleep. 

486
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I tried to, I don't really like 
journal, just take out a 

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notebook and start writing. 
But I've tried to jot down 

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00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,840
thoughts and bullets and things 
that are coming up and I've been

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00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:20,760
trying to get better at noticing
even sensations that I'm feeling

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00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,480
in my body. 
I'm hesitant to share those. 

491
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,920
I don't want you to think that 
what I'm feeling, my sensations,

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00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:27,160
where I'm feeling it is how 
you're going to feel it because 

493
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,240
it's probably not how and where 
you're going to feel it. 

494
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But I have been noticing it a 
lot becoming really assumed with

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my body. 
I will tell you, I'll leave you 

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with one example of things that 
I'm doing that makes sense but 

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00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,480
don't make sense and make me 
feel terrified and excited all 

498
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,920
at once. 
Is I just invested in a $10,000 

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training for myself and for my 
team. 

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And it was one of those things 
that I don't want to say I 

501
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,800
bought it on a whim because I 
bought a lower ticket course and

502
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I knew they were going to upsell
me to something. 

503
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,960
And the person that slang this 
course I love and trust in. 

504
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,520
It's not like I just made a 
decision on the whim. 

505
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,520
I know this person who is 
offering this investment for our

506
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:11,120
team, but holy cow, guys, it 
still feels scary. 

507
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:15,120
It still feels scary to hand up 
my credit card and pay that 

508
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,520
amount. 
I don't have the exact evidence 

509
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,960
of how this is going to propel 
us forward, but that's what I 

510
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:24,280
mean by acting before you have 
the evidence, making decisions 

511
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,800
before it makes sense because 
it's also we are the ROI, right?

512
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:31,360
I'm not going to take this 
course and say nothing happens. 

513
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,160
We don't get, we don't get an 
ROI on this. 

514
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,280
I'm not going to blame the 
person who's selling the course.

515
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,680
It's hey, well, I'm the ROI. 
My team is the ROI. 

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00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,360
What did we, what didn't we do 
that we could do, that we could 

517
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:45,120
have done differently? 
But that's a conversation for 

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00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,960
another. 
Cat so for today. 

519
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,080
Quantum leaps, think about the 
seven different signs. 

520
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,200
Think about if you have ever 
self sabotaged right before a 

521
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,880
quantum leap and maybe you just 
noticed that that's your 

522
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,920
starting point and more on the 
spec seq right Tatsu guys? 

523
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,840
One more thing before you go if 
you are a BCVA or a. 

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00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,280
Board Center for health coach 
who's really good at what they. 

525
00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:11,200
Do and really tired of doing it.
Someone who's built your whole 

526
00:30:11,200 --> 00:30:13,280
identity. 
Around your credentials and 

527
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:15,160
your. 
Clients, but somewhere. 

528
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:17,400
Along the way. 
Stop showing up for yourself. 

529
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,600
If you're feeling burnout. 
Like your boundaries are pretty 

530
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,560
much nonexistent and you 
secretly want more money, more 

531
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:30,120
freedom, more impact, more 
purpose and more fun but somehow

532
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,600
feel selfish for wanting it. 
Then permission for more is your

533
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:35,840
community. 
It's a space where we work on 

534
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,440
mindset. 
And actually give you practical 

535
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:41,920
tools to stop shrinking 
yourself, whether that means 

536
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:43,840
building your business or your 
side hustle. 

537
00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,040
Finally, setting boundaries at 
work asking for that raise. 

538
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,360
Or just posting that selfie on 
social media. 

539
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,040
We'd love to have you. 
You can check out the link in 

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00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,080
the show notes for all the 
information. 

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00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,680
On another note, if you missed 
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