1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,320 Some people might be mad at me for saying this, but I do think 2 00:00:02,320 --> 00:00:06,680 that marriage it shouldn't be like till death do us part. 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:11,040 Till what do us apart then? I think it should, it should be 4 00:00:11,040 --> 00:00:15,200 like a contract like oh, like this five year, 10 year 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,240 agreement. Yeah. 6 00:00:17,240 --> 00:00:20,600 And then like we revisit the agreement and see if we wanna. 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,960 Which is not like a new concept because people like renew their 8 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:26,600 vows and everything, you know, what do you mean you don't know 9 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,720 that? No, people like, so after like 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,680 10 years or 20 years, people are like, oh, we should renew our 11 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:36,400 vows to like, renew our love for each other and like, but that's, 12 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:40,280 that's more of like a, like a like unofficial thing that 13 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,560 people do. But I, I do think that people 14 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:45,400 should have it official. Like every 10 years you have to 15 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,360 renew the contract. But I just think that if there's 16 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:52,440 like an expiration date that you were more inclined to like, keep 17 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,680 dating the person 'cause you 'cause you don't really like, I 18 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,720 feel like marriages end because people stop. 19 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:00,920 They think that, oh, I've got it. 20 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:04,519 And like it's till when we die, you know? 21 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,640 Oh, I like that. I agree. 22 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,640 Yeah, Yeah. Like that's some that has some 23 00:01:09,640 --> 00:01:12,800 truth to it. It's like if you have a contract 24 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,040 with this company for like a certain amount of time and by 25 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,760 the time it expires, you'll have a performance review and they'll 26 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,640 decide if you they want to keep you. 27 00:01:20,640 --> 00:01:23,720 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, if you're like, I don't 28 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:27,040 know, some government jobs, you just basically you can work 29 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,440 there for life. You just stop really working I 30 00:01:29,440 --> 00:01:32,120 feel like. Yeah, yeah. 31 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:33,720 I mean. I like how you're thinking. 32 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:37,760 It's like a business model like with employees. 33 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,120 With employees, Yeah. With like. 34 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:49,160 Kids and and dogs and yeah. OK. 35 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:51,200 So Annie, what's keeping you up tonight? 36 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,440 My business? Your business? 37 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:59,440 What's your business? I own a spa in midtown and a 38 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:00,880 nail salon next to it. Oh. 39 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:04,720 OK, so you've been like, like injecting people. 40 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,560 You've been, you've been giving, you've been making facials, 41 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:12,400 facials and then nails. You've been making New York 42 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,120 prettier. Is that what you're doing? 43 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,720 I guess you can see that, yeah. But most people come in like, I 44 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,440 think they just have something that they want to fix, and then 45 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,960 what we're doing is basically enhancing their natural beauty, 46 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,480 you know? Yeah, that's how I would try to 47 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,440 see it. OK, you're not trying to. 48 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:34,480 OK, I I like that. It's like, have you had any like 49 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,440 high profile guests recently or ever? 50 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,600 High profile? Yeah, I don't know. 51 00:02:40,640 --> 00:02:43,120 I don't think so. Well, you might not know they 52 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,680 might be, they may be a high profile. 53 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,440 Yeah, I would think like, do you have like a big ball or big 54 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:53,120 spenders? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 55 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,880 Some people just spend so much money and I'm just like, where 56 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,320 did they get all this money? What's the most they've ever 57 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,720 spent like? In one sitting, yeah, I think 58 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:06,640 like 3000 dollars, 3000. Well, I was thinking more like 59 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:10,160 like 10,000. Dollars 10,000 is no, no OK 60 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:14,680 anyone has not yet, but 3000 OK. Yeah, I was. 61 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:18,640 Maybe I was thinking like, you know, like surgery, like a nose 62 00:03:18,640 --> 00:03:20,240 drop was probably 10,000, but you don't. 63 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,520 Do that, but we don't do that. Yeah. 64 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,560 What do you do? Tell us if anyone wanna get 65 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,960 facials. Pretty body sculpting. 66 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,040 Facial Body sculpting. Nails. 67 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:32,120 Nails. Pedicure. 68 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,600 Yes. Wait, what? 69 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:35,960 Should I? That's your camera, that's why. 70 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,680 Oh shit. So yeah, these are my nails. 71 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,800 I think they're done by the same people. 72 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,200 Yeah, Raina. Oh, she's. 73 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,880 So great. She's so good, Yeah. 74 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:46,440 How do you even find her? How do you find the nail 75 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,080 technicians that are so? That's so talented. 76 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,760 Oh my God. So I found Raina on Indeed, but 77 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,560 I think I'm starting to like look for people on Instagram 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,080 now, like look for their portfolio and then just like 79 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,840 Dming them. Yeah, you're like a. 80 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,520 Curator for your. Basically now I'm like a 81 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,400 curator. So what make you wanna start 82 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,400 like a? What is it called? 83 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:12,600 How do you call your business? Serene skin club and then serene 84 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:13,800 nail club. OK. 85 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,959 Like what kind of business like Med spa, is that what you call 86 00:04:16,959 --> 00:04:19,040 it? I would call it more facial spa 87 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,079 'cause I think that's like our volume, like everyone wants a 88 00:04:22,079 --> 00:04:24,520 facial. Yeah, but we have injections 89 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,520 too. Yeah, those are the things I 90 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:30,720 really like, yeah. They really like. 91 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:37,320 Both both literally and metaphorically, anyways. 92 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,760 Not to be. Oh my gosh. 93 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:44,680 What type of injections do you like, Rachel? 94 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:54,480 You know, is it just a regular, you know, like a, you know, a a 95 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:59,240 few inches of needles? Yeah, how, how many inches do 96 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:03,920 you do you, how long demonstrate? 97 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:08,560 Well, you know, you know, the longer it gets, the more 98 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:12,440 intimidating it gets. Yeah, I would say start with the 99 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:16,200 smaller ones. Whatever does the job better, 100 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:19,200 right? Yeah, yeah, size doesn't matter. 101 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,080 Oh, it does. It, Yeah, yeah. 102 00:05:22,280 --> 00:05:25,840 Right. From your experience as a owner 103 00:05:26,280 --> 00:05:30,800 of such business? The size of the syringe doesn't 104 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,320 matter, but the size of something else does matter. 105 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,200 Exactly. Exactly. 106 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,280 Have you ever had wait, what we were talking about before I 107 00:05:42,280 --> 00:05:43,800 started talking about this nonsense? 108 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:47,720 Hiring nail tags. Oh, right. 109 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,360 I mean, yeah, now I'm just a curator. 110 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:54,280 I feel like just like hiring people through their art 'cause 111 00:05:54,280 --> 00:05:57,400 I feel like nail is so different from spa where nail there is 112 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:03,360 like like artistic skills to it. Yeah, it can feel artistic, but 113 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,200 it's not like you're painting someone's face like nails. 114 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,240 You have to have the skills. Yeah. 115 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:12,520 And I feel like when I did this nail at your nail spot, I really 116 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,320 felt like she, she's really into it. 117 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:16,960 She likes doing this. She likes it. 118 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:17,680 Yeah. Yeah. 119 00:06:17,680 --> 00:06:19,800 Like she's been doing this since she's only 19. 120 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:21,760 Why? She's been doing it since high 121 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:23,320 school. That's crazy. 122 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:26,440 I can't believe she's 19. Yeah, she's so good. 123 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:29,360 She's a 19 year old. OK. 124 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,680 You definitely have to like I don't know is she is she also 125 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,720 like signed with other nail salon or she's like your own? 126 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:40,600 Yeah, she works somewhere else too, but yeah, wow, like you 127 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:44,160 better you better keep her. I know you better like make her 128 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:48,200 like your MVP or your you know yeah like make her like you. 129 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,320 I don't know your. Manager or something? 130 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:54,160 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Then master technician. 131 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,280 Yeah, she needs to be like teaching other people like. 132 00:06:57,280 --> 00:06:58,480 She, I think she has. Been. 133 00:06:58,480 --> 00:06:59,200 Oh, really? Yeah. 134 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:00,560 Oh, wow. Good for her. 135 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:04,520 So what made you wanna start a Met Spa? 136 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:11,320 Facial Spa. I, I basically, I graduated 137 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:16,080 college early and then after college I was doing marketing 138 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:18,640 manager for like I was a marketing manager for like 139 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:23,000 multiple small businesses. And then I just realized I, you 140 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:26,280 know, wanted to do my own thing. And so I decided to take less 141 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:30,360 work on. And then I started doing 142 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,920 marketing for Med spas. And then I realized I was like, 143 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:37,400 oh, I kind of enjoy this, you know, like, like, like doing ads 144 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:41,080 for like beauty treatments. And so my mom was like, oh, I 145 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,360 want to do my own thing, but I don't know what to do. 146 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:48,000 And my mom was like in the injection space. 147 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,960 And so she does injections. Oh, she's. 148 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:54,120 Really good y'all. She is good and she has, like, 149 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,960 really good eye for aesthetics. And then I was like, oh, you 150 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:00,760 should start your own thing. And then she was like, but who's 151 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:05,320 going to do all the logistics and the finances and marketing? 152 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:08,440 And I was like, I can help, but I didn't think she was serious. 153 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:11,040 And so. And she was like, but she took 154 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,320 us so seriously. Yeah. 155 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:15,120 So then the next day she was like, I found a place. 156 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,440 Wow. And then I was like, she didn't 157 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:20,440 talk about anything yet. Like with branding, Like, what 158 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,160 do we want to provide people with? 159 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:23,880 Like like nothing. We talked about nothing. 160 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,600 And so in the following week we went to go see the space and 161 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:29,360 then we just signed it. Wow. 162 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:31,480 That's and then we opened within two months. 163 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:34,400 Wow, wow. You're, you're both like 164 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,159 entrepreneur, you're like an entrepreneur, like mom, 165 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,520 daughter. Like I love that we just like, 166 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,880 we just hustled basically. No, I, I didn't know it happened 167 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:44,920 that quickly because I really. Yeah. 168 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,440 I told you. Wait, I know. 169 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:49,840 I know it happened, but I didn't know like I thought you had like 170 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:52,720 a all like a plan planned out and this is something you always 171 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:56,280 wanted to do, but I didn't know. No, it was just spontaneous. 172 00:08:56,680 --> 00:08:58,080 Wow, yeah. Spontaneous. 173 00:08:58,080 --> 00:08:59,800 Just start a business. Exactly. 174 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:03,240 So two months and then a year into it we open the nail salon. 175 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:08,080 So also really fast. Well, I feel like that's, that's 176 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:12,120 how you have to do it for like, I feel like this podcast is also 177 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,080 like, I set this up within like a month. 178 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,280 Yeah, exactly. Yeah, and like. 179 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:19,920 When you put your mind to it. I know what you have a vision 180 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,560 and you make it into a reality. Exactly. 181 00:09:22,560 --> 00:09:26,760 Oh, look at us. We're we're it sounds like. 182 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,040 But it sounds like your mom really wanted to do it. 183 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:30,560 It sounds like. I think so, yeah. 184 00:09:30,560 --> 00:09:34,720 She was like. Because I was more like, oh, we 185 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,560 should plan this out. Like, duh, duh. 186 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,520 But once she and I kind of like, agreed, you know, it's better to 187 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:42,840 just take the opportunity as it comes. 188 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:44,600 And we're just like all in, yeah. 189 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,200 OK. But you don't really do like the 190 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,240 injection or facial yourself. You're more like the business 191 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:51,800 person. Yeah, but I learned how to do 192 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,080 facials and have a license now. Oh, really? 193 00:09:54,120 --> 00:09:56,200 Yeah. So I that's why today I did a 194 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,280 few facials. Wait, can you do mine? 195 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,040 Next time, yeah. What did you do? 196 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:01,920 Like what exactly? I just did a signature facial. 197 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:03,520 OK, so just like a cleanse and all. 198 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,240 That stuff, I like it when someone does my facial, yeah. 199 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:11,920 Next time, next time. Wow. 200 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,640 And you're. So, but what did you study in 201 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,400 college? Marketing. 202 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:18,960 Oh, I went to FIT. Right. 203 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:24,080 We Speaking of FITI, when you said FITI, it reminded me that 204 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:27,640 my ex-boyfriend wanted to go to FIT, but he didn't he. 205 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:29,800 Wanted to go to FIT. Why? 206 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,800 Because he's rich. I don't know. 207 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,040 It could be no. Because he, he want to do like, 208 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,080 I don't know, fashion designer. It's not. 209 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,720 Interesting, but he didn't want to do like Parsons or something 210 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:41,160 if he's. Rich. 211 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,400 Oh, I feel like he's not that smart or not that good. 212 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,160 Not that good. Yeah, no, I was like so pissed 213 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:52,080 because this is such a like diversion. 214 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:59,200 But if you don't mind, he yeah, he I like my high school 215 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,680 ex-boyfriend. He, I think his family's so 216 00:11:01,680 --> 00:11:03,040 rich. He's like in the international 217 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:08,000 department of like another high school and yeah. 218 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:10,480 And I think his family owns business. 219 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:15,200 And I remember like when we're together, he's like, his English 220 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:17,680 is so bad, like so much worse than mine. 221 00:11:17,680 --> 00:11:19,560 And I was like, how do, why, why are you in? 222 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,440 I feel like I should be in the international department, but I, 223 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:26,080 I, it was expensive. It is like a private tuition and 224 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,880 but he's his family's OK with that. 225 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:31,960 And he one day he's like, oh, I decided I want to go into 226 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:33,920 fashion design. I'm like, what the fuck? 227 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:38,000 I was like, I was like so pissed because I feel like I'm the one 228 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,640 that's always artistic, but I never dare to think that I would 229 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:43,720 want to go into fashion and design. 230 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:46,200 Right, right. But he has like he doesn't have 231 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,120 the skills, but he has the means, right? 232 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,680 You know what I mean? Exactly, Yeah. 233 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:52,760 Anyway, I'm sure you have the skills. 234 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,880 I can tell. I can for marketing, yeah. 235 00:11:56,120 --> 00:11:59,160 Yeah, I think I've always had the entrepreneurial spirit for 236 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,560 sure. And so marking kind of plays 237 00:12:01,560 --> 00:12:04,120 into it. I wanted to market my own 238 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,720 business, so it ended up happening like that, you know? 239 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,800 You know, I feel like you. I just found out about this when 240 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,720 I asked Annie to be on the pod. Like she had a full on podcast 241 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:18,880 with like, I don't know, 80 100 episode. 80 I think it's 80 242 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:22,160 episodes 80. Episodes that's that's like 10 243 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,280 times more than this this hot cast. 244 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:26,880 But I was not like this. I didn't have this whole set up. 245 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,000 I I literally just had my mic in. 246 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,080 Well, you were. You were a trailblazer. 247 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,680 You, you, you. You run so we can walk, you know 248 00:12:35,680 --> 00:12:38,400 what I mean? So what what was your I want to 249 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:40,200 know more? What was your podcast about? 250 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,920 So I was basically doing something similar, but I was 251 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:46,960 just interviewing people and like, talking about their why? 252 00:12:47,680 --> 00:12:49,440 Like, why in life? Like, why do they do these 253 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,040 things? Like why do they have their 254 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,560 business OK? Why do they live their life the 255 00:12:53,560 --> 00:12:54,760 way they do? OK. 256 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,920 Yeah, it's like that. Imagine this is your podcast. 257 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,000 What would you? What would you ask me? 258 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,040 So at the end of every podcast, I would always ask them, like, 259 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:08,640 if you can go back and change anything about your life, Like, 260 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,320 would you change anything? And usually people say nothing. 261 00:13:12,680 --> 00:13:15,880 And so I feel like that was something that I just kept going 262 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:19,920 and asking because it was so interesting that people had such 263 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:24,840 interesting and dynamic and sometimes sad lives, you know? 264 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,000 But then they would never change anything about it because it LED 265 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:32,960 them to who they are today. Yeah, I mean, I feel like if you 266 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:36,440 interview someone who might not be a good in a good position, 267 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:37,880 maybe they wouldn't want to change something. 268 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:39,320 But I feel like right now I'm doing pretty good. 269 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,960 Yeah. I mean, it's not the greatest, 270 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,440 but I feel like I'm content. Yeah, right. 271 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:51,200 Exactly. Yeah, something else I wanted to 272 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,560 ask. Like I feel like I'm as a host I 273 00:13:54,560 --> 00:13:58,200 shouldn't be having ADHD because I I forgot what like I. 274 00:13:58,560 --> 00:14:00,520 Don't say I was like, what are we talking about? 275 00:14:01,560 --> 00:14:04,880 Yeah, short term memory is is my nemesis. 276 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:11,920 What? What just happened? 277 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:18,880 Wait, OK, you before the podcast happened, I was like asking 278 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,240 Annie what she wanted to talk about. 279 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,640 She had so many. I like she had a good point, but 280 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:29,480 I don't know why you tell us about your your my hot take. 281 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,160 Yeah, your hot take. My hot take. 282 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,520 So I I. Think that's a good one. 283 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,240 I think people should hear it. That's why, like, I really. 284 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:39,400 I Yeah. I think, I think it is a little 285 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:41,400 bit like some people, some people might be mad at me for 286 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:45,240 saying this, but I do think that marriage, it shouldn't be like 287 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:49,200 till death do us part. Till what do us apart then? 288 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,040 I think it should, it should be like a contract like oh, like 289 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,960 this five year, 10 year agreement. 290 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,840 Yeah. And then like we revisit the 291 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,920 agreement and see if we want to. Which is not like a new concept 292 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,400 because people like renew their vows and everything, you know, 293 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:06,960 what do you mean you don't know that? 294 00:15:06,960 --> 00:15:10,480 No, people like, so after like 10 years or 20 years, people are 295 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:14,320 like, oh, we should renew our vows to like, renew our love for 296 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:18,800 each other and like, but that's, that's more of like a, like a 297 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,040 like unofficial thing that people do. 298 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:23,920 But I, I do think that people should have it official, like 299 00:15:24,280 --> 00:15:26,520 every 10 years you have to renew the contract. 300 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,440 Only 10? I feel like it should be longer 301 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,600 or or like anything. Or it depends on the, the 302 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:34,880 partnership. But 10 is just like an example. 303 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:37,320 But it's like, so like if someone was like, I want a 304 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,200 shorter contract, like 5 years, you know, then they, that's like 305 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,360 their prerogative. But if they say 20 years, then 306 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,720 that's their prerogative too. But I just think that if there's 307 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:50,840 like an expiration date that you were more inclined to like keep 308 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,800 dating the person because you because you don't really like 309 00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,120 you got. I feel like marriages end 310 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,320 because people stop. They think that, oh, I've got it 311 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:02,920 and like it's till when we die, you know? 312 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,240 Oh, I like that. I agree. 313 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,040 Yeah. Like that's some that has some 314 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:11,240 truth to it. It's like if you have a contract 315 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:14,480 with this company for like a certain amount of time and by 316 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:17,160 the time it expires, you'll have a performance review and they'll 317 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,200 decide if you they want to keep you. 318 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:23,320 But yeah, if you're like, I don't know, some government 319 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,080 jobs, you just basically you can work there for life. 320 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,240 You just stop really working I feel like. 321 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:34,880 Yeah, yeah, I mean, exactly. I just think that like divorce 322 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:38,760 happens so often now and we we live in such a different time, 323 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:42,240 like till death do us part is such a old concept. 324 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:44,440 Yeah. Because now that's like if I 325 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,640 died at 40, I think it would be OK to like be with someone for 326 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:52,080 20 years, you know, But if I, if I live to like 89, like imagine 327 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:55,360 I got married like in two years and I'd be what, 27? 328 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:59,000 And then I would be married to them for like 60 years. 329 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,560 Like, of course, like, divorce rates are so high. 330 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:04,880 Yeah, I mean, it's it's normal because like I guess we just. 331 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:08,839 Live longer, Yeah. So we have more marriages and 332 00:17:08,839 --> 00:17:11,359 more divorces. Yeah. 333 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,920 I mean, I, I, I thought I saw like the divorce rate is like 334 00:17:14,920 --> 00:17:19,000 50% now is, yeah. And so you have a 5050 chance of 335 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:21,319 like, yeah, keeping the relationship. 336 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,400 Yeah, and. Yeah. 337 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:26,800 I feel like divorce. It's like, I feel like when you 338 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,640 get into the marriage, you have to be prepared for the 339 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:31,360 possibility of getting a divorce. 340 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,880 Yeah, I. Mean which is why there's there 341 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:37,640 should be an expiration date, but with the expiration date you 342 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:40,320 can still divorce. It's just that you agree like 343 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:43,440 this is gonna end like. I like how you're thinking. 344 00:17:43,440 --> 00:17:47,520 It's like a business model, like with employees. 345 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,000 With employees. Yeah, with like with. 346 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:53,080 Kids and and dogs. Yeah, yeah. 347 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:58,760 I like, I don't know how I can. So are you implementing? 348 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:00,800 Have you talked about this with your partner? 349 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,560 With my boyfriend. Oh we've been together for like 350 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:08,680 4 in a in like almost a half years. 4 1/2. 351 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:13,400 So have you like visited this topic of expiration date for a 352 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:15,320 marriage? I think so. 353 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:18,520 I feel like for him, him and I, we don't really see marriage as 354 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,160 like a necessary thing. So it's like different. 355 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:25,160 Like we're like like I feel like we're more non traditional, if 356 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:26,840 that makes sense. Like, I feel you. 357 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:31,200 What? You know you're Asian? 358 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:34,120 No, I know. Right, you know, but my parents 359 00:18:34,120 --> 00:18:37,080 like I feel like they kind of understand too, like the the day 360 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:38,600 and age is like so different now. 361 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:44,680 Like I feel like I don't need to marry him to like be with him 362 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:47,640 forever, if that makes sense. But if it comes and it comes 363 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,840 like, but it's not a big deal. Like to me where I'm like, I 364 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:52,960 need to get married. I need to have a wedding ring. 365 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:57,440 I don't have that need. But in terms of like all the 366 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:01,560 traditional stuff of like living together and like having kids 367 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,400 and buying a house together, all that stuff. 368 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:08,240 Like we, I feel like I can also like not live with him and still 369 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,600 be with him forever. Like I don't need all those 370 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:13,520 things I feel like. I also feel like I would want it 371 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:18,160 later in life cause to my point like we die later. 372 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:22,200 I feel like if I have the rest of my life to live with him, I 373 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,720 can start when I'm 45, you know what I mean? 374 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:36,360 I mean, I get it and but if you what do you mean start when 375 00:19:36,360 --> 00:19:38,080 you're 45? Start what? 376 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:39,600 When? You, oh, start living together. 377 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,480 When you're 45. Cause like we have like many 378 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:43,920 more years together. That's true. 379 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:47,520 So I can live alone for like until 45, but that's like an 380 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,160 example. Yeah, but you don't necessarily 381 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:54,840 have to be with him for like, like, like, what if you're all 382 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,800 of like you are living by yourself for most of your life 383 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:03,360 and you're changing that aspect of your life so. 384 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:09,560 Like it's a drastic change and you're already 45. 385 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,080 You're like, oh, I'm, I'm done with this. 386 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,360 I don't want to like change myself to live with another 387 00:20:13,360 --> 00:20:16,520 person. I think it's OK People change 388 00:20:16,520 --> 00:20:20,400 all the time in every decade of their life, so I think it's OK. 389 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,560 Yeah. It's like if I live with him now 390 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,640 and I don't live with him in five years, that's also a 391 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,000 change, you know? So it's like, it's just like 392 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:31,240 when you choose like your pace, yeah. 393 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:34,760 Yeah, I feel like for married couples, it's like harder for 394 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:39,040 them to live together and then take a step back and not live 395 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:40,440 together, right. Yeah. 396 00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:43,480 So it's okay to push those milestones later that I think 397 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:45,200 that's my point. And it's like, it's like we 398 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,920 don't need to do all these things like because we dated 399 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,560 like for five years, you know? But I feel like it's such a 400 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:54,400 conscious decision because I feel like if I'm madly in love 401 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,400 with someone, I just want to be spend time with them 24/7. 402 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,640 Right, Yeah no, I agree. I was like that too. 403 00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,760 The first like 2 years of dating. 404 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:02,800 Yeah him. I was like that. 405 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,480 I was like, I need to spend all my time with you like I don't 406 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,240 care. But then I was like, I think 407 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,960 once I started my own business, it it changed for me where I'm 408 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:16,600 like more independent and like, I want my own space and time and 409 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:19,400 like, that is more precious 'cause I have less of it, yeah. 410 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,200 Yeah, I get it. Yeah. 411 00:21:23,120 --> 00:21:25,720 OK Tell us more about why are you dating a white man A. 412 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:30,720 White Man I. Know when I first met you I was 413 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:32,880 like, oh, you said you have a boyfriend and then I had your 414 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,800 Instagram like. When you're laughter. 415 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,280 That's, well, I want to know your answer first. 416 00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:44,160 But yeah, it was like, I wouldn't say shocking, but I was 417 00:21:44,160 --> 00:21:48,520 like, no, no, it was because I didn't know. 418 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:52,160 And then I saw your Instagram and you're, you're posting it 419 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,000 with your boyfriend. I wasn't shocked. 420 00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,320 I was mostly. Surprised. 421 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,960 Isn't that the same thing? Shocked is like. 422 00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:02,840 Yeah, surprised. Surprise. 423 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,680 I mean, I, I'm not surprised. I mean. 424 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:07,720 You're not surprised, are you? Are surprised. 425 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:09,920 I'm not surprised because like, I mean, we're Asian. 426 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:16,280 Oh, kisses the the Oxford study. Oh my gosh. 427 00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:20,640 So my friend said that oh, I should dress up as like Yoko Ono 428 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,920 and John. No, I messed up. 429 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:29,000 Is it that guy who the guy from The Beatles that like dated 430 00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:29,840 that? Oh. 431 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:33,080 Gosh, I forgot his name. See I'm so bad with like names. 432 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,600 I don't know. Must be John Lennon. 433 00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,960 John Lennon dated an Asian girl. Is it John Lennon or is it 434 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,320 someone else? I didn't know. 435 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,880 I didn't know someone in The Beatles dated an Asian girl. 436 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,560 That's that's why she was like, oh, you should be them for 437 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:47,720 Halloween next year, like me and my boyfriend. 438 00:22:47,720 --> 00:22:50,160 And I was like, I was like, thanks. 439 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,600 Like just just just be myself, I guess. 440 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:55,240 Like, and she can just dress up like a like a rock star. 441 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,520 Yeah. You should be the guy and he 442 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,560 should be the girl. You should be like, I don't 443 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:05,880 know, Margaret True and Quentin Tarantino, that's also a classic 444 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,800 white man, Asian woman. Really. 445 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:09,960 Do you know? They were dated. 446 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,280 They were dating. I didn't know that. 447 00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:15,800 Yeah, Quentin Tarantino was dating the Korean comedian. 448 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:19,440 What You know the? Like I know they are, I know the 449 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,920 the director, but I don't know the. 450 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,680 Margaret True. Margaret True. 451 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,880 Yeah, yeah. I'll show you a picture. 452 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:27,880 You don't know her. Yeah. 453 00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,600 Yeah, she's yeah. But my reasoning for dating a 454 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,800 white man? Have you always dated a white? 455 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:36,480 Man no, I started with Asian. OK, me too. 456 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:41,200 No, no. No, that was the one that I 457 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,160 wanted to go to FIT that I was just complaining about. 458 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,600 Yeah, yeah. So it was Asian and then it was 459 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,720 black. Oh hell yeah. 460 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,000 And I. Literally thought like I was 461 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:56,680 like if I go black, I can't go back. 462 00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,000 I literally thought that I was like, oh, I can't go back. 463 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,480 So I literally dated like like black, like dated multiple black 464 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,280 men. But I didn't like it was a long 465 00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:05,440 time. I was like just for fun. 466 00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,280 And you were. You're, you're, you're out there 467 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,560 breaking all these black men's heart. 468 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,200 Yeah, literally. And I was like, I was like, I, I 469 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,160 just. And then after that I, I was 470 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:17,280 like, you know what, I should try something different. 471 00:24:19,120 --> 00:24:20,680 And then it was like Asian black. 472 00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:23,880 And then it was, it was Hispanic. 473 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:27,120 Oh, OK. And then after that I was like, 474 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:30,920 Nah. And then I was like, that's when 475 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,080 I was like on Bumble and like Tinder and all that stuff. 476 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,240 And so then it was like a white man. 477 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,120 Wow. And then it's been a white man. 478 00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,560 It's been a white man, so a white man's. 479 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,640 The keeper, yeah, I guess. Interesting. 480 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,080 I don't know. I don't know what it is about 481 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:47,480 him that. No, I no, I mean I'm like making 482 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:50,400 this a joke, but obviously it's because his personality, not the 483 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:51,200 fact. That he's white. 484 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:52,440 White. Yeah, right, right, right. 485 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,120 But yeah. But of course it's because he's 486 00:24:56,120 --> 00:24:58,400 white, no? Of course, of course. 487 00:24:59,360 --> 00:25:03,360 No, I we have very similar trajectory. 488 00:25:03,360 --> 00:25:06,760 I really, I started with Asian, with Asian guys. 489 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,240 I mean, 'cause I lived in China, I can't really date other other. 490 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:12,760 Yeah, and I wasn't really thinking. 491 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:18,840 And I dated a black guy and you didn't know. 492 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:22,080 No, wait, what? That's why I was like, hell 493 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,880 yeah. Oh my God, I thought you were 494 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,280 just hell yeah 'cause you weren't being like. 495 00:25:27,280 --> 00:25:31,800 Appropriate. No, it's funny. 496 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,640 Like it's like, yeah, so Asian, black. 497 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:36,040 Yeah. And then I don't know. 498 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:41,080 I not really, no. I haven't dated someone like 499 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,960 seriously or boyfriend girlfriend a Hispanic guy, but I 500 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,160 when I'm yeah not not yet. Boyfriend. 501 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:49,840 Girlfriend. No, no I didn't. 502 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:50,640 OK, OK. Yeah. 503 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:55,000 And then it's white. I don't know when I came here. 504 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:57,920 I don't know. It's something about America 505 00:25:57,920 --> 00:26:00,560 transitioned me into liking white man. 506 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:01,960 It's a. Soul the white, the white 507 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,480 privilege and the white status quo it is. 508 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,440 Yeah, maybe. It's the side, it's the water 509 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:13,120 here. Maybe yeah, whenever I see like 510 00:26:13,120 --> 00:26:19,240 an Asian girl and a white guy couple, I feel I'm like, but no, 511 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,640 your your boyfriend is not mid. So I I approve. 512 00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:24,800 I approve. He's not mid, so he I. 513 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,200 Don't know too much about him, but I saw his picture. 514 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,040 He's not like he's taller than you. 515 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,680 And he's like, yeah, well put together. 516 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,680 He looks put together, yeah. He's like 6 three. 517 00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:40,120 Wow, OK, pretty nice. So he's like he's like an inch 518 00:26:40,120 --> 00:26:45,160 short of like the the finance, the do you know 64 blue? 519 00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:49,240 Like is this 65? It was like 65 blue eyes. 520 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,280 Is he in fact finance? No, he's not. 521 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:52,880 He's in tech. He's in tech. 522 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:58,600 OK, well my my OK, I reason must tell me. 523 00:26:58,720 --> 00:26:59,880 No, I don't have to know. Now I don't. 524 00:26:59,960 --> 00:27:03,560 Have a reason? I think when I was in China, 525 00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:09,120 interestingly, I did more people from all over the world because 526 00:27:09,120 --> 00:27:11,680 I was in Shanghai and there's a lot of international people I 527 00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:16,440 dated like people from not dated, but like went on dates 528 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:25,400 with people from Brazil, like Mexico, Ecuador, Spanish, Spain, 529 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,840 France, Belgian, whatever. Miss worldwide. 530 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:36,320 Yeah, literally. But I feel like when I, well, 531 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:40,080 when I came to the USI was in fucking North Carolina, there 532 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,600 wasn't that many international people. 533 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:44,800 Right. It was, like, mostly white. 534 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,400 Yeah. Very white, Yeah. 535 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,160 Oh. I just, I just went back to Duke 536 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:55,560 this past weekend and you know, I, I did a stand up set there 537 00:27:55,560 --> 00:28:00,280 and I have a joke about like I have a line about, I guess I can 538 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:03,560 say it here. I like white guys so much that I 539 00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,040 got into stand up comedy. That was the original line. 540 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:11,360 Oh my gosh, that's good and. Then I just riffed there. 541 00:28:11,360 --> 00:28:12,920 I was just like, it just came to me. 542 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,960 I was, I didn't prepare for this line, but on stage when I was at 543 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,240 Duke, I just said I like white guests. 544 00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:21,560 I like white guys so much that I got into Duke and oh. 545 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:25,000 My gosh. I didn't feel like it made it 546 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,360 made so much sense. I'm so sorry. 547 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:30,840 I did they did they laugh? Were they like? 548 00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:37,520 I agree they were like. Oh no, no, there was like 1 549 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:39,640 black guy. He was like laughing like 550 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,480 non-stop. He's like banging his head. 551 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,280 I didn't even see his face. I was trying to like talk to him 552 00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:46,120 after the show but I couldn't see his face. 553 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:51,920 I don't know who it it was. Anyway, what was I talking about 554 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,200 before I started? OK, yeah, I moved here and it 555 00:28:55,200 --> 00:29:00,960 was North Carolina, very white. I I remember my first stop in in 556 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,880 the US was Nashville and I. Remember, that's more white. 557 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:07,360 Really. I think so. 558 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,120 That's where my black ex-boyfriend is from. 559 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:14,440 But I mean, downtown Nashville is very white. 560 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:15,760 It's like country music and stuff. 561 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,920 And I remember the first time I go into an American restaurant, 562 00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:24,080 a restaurant in America, which is in Nashville, I was like, 563 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,800 there's too many blonde people. Oh my God, why is everybody so 564 00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:34,680 blonde? And yeah, I feel like it's just 565 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,960 like, unavoidable. It's like if if I don't date a 566 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,200 white guy when I was in North Carolina, it was weird because 567 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,240 then it feels like I'm avoiding it because it's. 568 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,520 Like, because there's like, not like Asian men like freely 569 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,920 walking around. Yeah, there are some. 570 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,240 But like, not a lot. Yeah, I mean, I would still, I 571 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,120 would go on dates with them, but the dominant group like 572 00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,080 statistically? Was white men. 573 00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:03,640 Yeah, I mean, it's just like if you're living in, if you're, I 574 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:06,520 don't know, if I'm living in Thailand, I can't just date 575 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,280 Chinese people. I would date like a Thai guy I 576 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:11,400 guess. Exactly. 577 00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:15,320 Yeah, I don't know, I feel like this is like how white guys 578 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:18,640 justify dating Asian women when they're living in Asia. 579 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,720 But like what? Well, that's interesting because 580 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,560 like, we're both in New York now, but it's still, even though 581 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:29,040 there's like more diversity, we still ended up with, oh, I do. 582 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:35,200 Well. Oh well, cancel us. 583 00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:41,360 Well, I feel like this is the least cancellable combination, 584 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:46,480 isn't it? I feel like it's because isn't 585 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,760 like, yeah, Mark Zuckerberg? It's like. 586 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,640 Oh yeah, Mark Zuckerberg. That's a big one, right? 587 00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,360 Yeah. Priscilla Chan. 588 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,480 Yeah, I Oh my gosh. But she's like, she's like, 589 00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,560 amazing in her own right, too. Yeah. 590 00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,120 She's like a doctor and everything. 591 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,200 Yeah, I know. I feel like she's very she's 592 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:11,160 amazing. But I feel people say that an 593 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:15,080 Asian wife is like an accessory for billionaires. 594 00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,080 It's like or a tech. Billionaire Do you know Becca 595 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:20,120 Bloom? Yeah. 596 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,720 What about she's also Asian woman, white guy? 597 00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:27,200 Yeah, yeah, yeah. When you're that rich, she's got 598 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,280 why are you? Yeah, well, you have so many 599 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,680 options. Like, so it's like, I don't know 600 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:35,240 what it is like people who really should study this, like 601 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,720 actually. Yeah, I think. 602 00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:39,120 People because like, the Oxford study was really about like 603 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:40,720 television. That's what I heard. 604 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,240 Like TV. Oh, I thought what I heard about 605 00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,560 like Oxford study was more about like dating apps. 606 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,600 Oh, really? Yeah, I need to look into it 607 00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:52,920 more deeply. Yeah, I feel like everyone's 608 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,080 saying, like, different things. Oh yeah. 609 00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,600 Yeah. And do you know like the owner 610 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:06,280 of Oracle? No, I think yeah, right now he's 611 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,720 like the most the richest person. 612 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:10,280 Really. Right now, yeah. 613 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,320 Right now he's like, did he buy like TikTok? 614 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,880 I'm not sure. Yeah, Oracle is like more like, 615 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:21,120 I don't know, assess SASSAAS. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 616 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,000 I don't. I remember seeing that they 617 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,160 bought Oracle but like I mean bought TikTok but I don't know 618 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:29,120 if it's the same company. I don't know, but whatever. 619 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,760 Yeah. So yeah, what happened? 620 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:35,240 The owner's like 81 and he married someone who's like 30 621 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:41,400 something who's Chinese. OK, another bag. 622 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:47,880 Yeah, another bag. It was I and, you know, like 623 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:52,920 Wendy Murdoch. Yeah, what about her? 624 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:56,440 Yeah, she's like she married a what is it? 625 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,520 What's the, what's the Murdoch guy? 626 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,520 Rupert. Yeah. 627 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,520 Robert Rupert. I think it's Rupert. 628 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:07,080 Rupert Murdoch Yeah, Yeah. It's like these women's story is 629 00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:11,640 like very like well, spread in Chinese social media. 630 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:12,840 Really. Yeah. 631 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,760 Like everybody like trying to look into their, their, their 632 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,600 life story and see how they got into it because they're all like 633 00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:24,560 from not so not the greatest or most like prominent families in 634 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,960 China and they but. They still like, yeah, they got 635 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:30,040 nailed the bag. Oh my gosh. 636 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,160 I mean. Have you heard about their 637 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:35,960 stories? I know Wendy, the Wendy one, 638 00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:44,520 because one of my aestheticians, she saw her on our floor at the 639 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,840 spa and she was like, do you know her? 640 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:49,040 And I was like, I don't know her. 641 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:50,880 And she's like, you don't know her. 642 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,360 She's like that wife of Rupert Murdoch. 643 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,920 And, and apparently they were in the bathroom together and she 644 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,840 saw her and she's like, it's definitely her. 645 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,600 And she brought her daughter to get nails done somewhere on our 646 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:05,720 floor. What? 647 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,920 Not your nail salon? That's when I didn't have a nail 648 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:12,600 salon yet, but it was so crazy. Oh my God, I hope she comes back 649 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,320 and find your nail salon so you can do. 650 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,800 No, I think she thought it was like disgusting or something. 651 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:21,320 That's like the attitude that mine, oh, my aesthetician got. 652 00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:24,280 She was like, she probably thought like, this is like so 653 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,159 dingy. Like how did my daughter even 654 00:34:26,159 --> 00:34:29,520 find this place? You know, really like, not like 655 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:32,360 she wasn't like expressing that, but it's just like, you can 656 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,000 tell, like she's like, I'm a bougie lady, Like, Oh my hair, 657 00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,560 you know? I wonder where bougie ladies get 658 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:40,080 their nails done in New York? I agree. 659 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,120 Wait, I need to know. Yeah, I need to know, like 660 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:47,400 what's in that group chat of, like rich ladies over $1 661 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,760 billion? They probably, I feel like they 662 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,440 sometimes have really busted nails to be honest. 663 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,199 Yeah, and like, not so good skin. 664 00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:59,600 Yeah, not to be misogynistic, but I just feel like they 665 00:34:59,960 --> 00:35:02,480 deserve, they deserve better. That's what I'm saying. 666 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,480 Like the nails deserve better, yeah. 667 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:08,600 Yeah, yeah. I feel like sometimes, like, 668 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:12,840 like it's still, sometimes I see like, rich women's nails and I 669 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,520 feel like, oh, it's so thick and the shape is not the greatest. 670 00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,560 I'm like, girl, you need to do. You deserve better. 671 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:22,040 Yeah, like whoever's doing your nails is not doing your justice. 672 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,360 Yeah, I agree. Yeah, that's why good nails are 673 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,880 so important. Exactly. 674 00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,840 No I feel like I was just thinking about this like if I 675 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:35,320 have well if I have a limited money which I do but not enough 676 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:39,560 to afford facials every day. But I would probably do facials 677 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,880 before I do my nails though. I feel like it's more like face 678 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:47,280 first I guess. Yeah, face 1st and then nail 679 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,640 second. Yeah, but that's if like my skin 680 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,520 was so bad. If my skin is OK, I think it's 681 00:35:52,520 --> 00:35:54,400 OK to like not do it every month. 682 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,960 I'm so like, like I, I, I'm like, I, I keep thinking about 683 00:35:59,960 --> 00:36:02,800 your business, 'cause I feel like if you, if I have a 684 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,480 business that's like a mid spot and it can give me unlimited 685 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,920 facials and like Botox and like fillers, I'm like, I'm gonna go 686 00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:10,800 crazy. How do you not go? 687 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:13,400 How can you like not control yourself? 688 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:19,120 I mean, I think it's kind of like, why do nail techs, like, 689 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:23,040 don't always do their own nails, you know, 'cause it's like, it's 690 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,160 like your job, you know? And then you're just like, oh, 691 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,400 OK, I wanna check out after your job, you know? 692 00:36:27,720 --> 00:36:31,040 And sometimes they don't have, like, the best nails or like, my 693 00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,520 Lashtech, she doesn't have lashes herself. 694 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,360 Like, she doesn't do her own eyelashes because you can't. 695 00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,760 And so she was like, and I don't trust anyone else with 696 00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,160 eyelashes. So then she doesn't have lashes 697 00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:42,720 herself. And I was like, oh, why don't 698 00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:44,960 you have any lashes? Like, you're a lashtech? 699 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,240 She's like, well, I can't do it on myself, and I don't trust 700 00:36:48,240 --> 00:36:51,840 anyone else to do it. So I just leave them bare. 701 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,120 But it's like you can't really do. 702 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,680 I feel like it's more like because you're not. 703 00:36:59,840 --> 00:37:03,120 Because I'm the business owner, I can like like get all the 704 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:04,880 services. Yeah, because you're not the one 705 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,240 providing the service. Yeah, I mean, when I provide 706 00:37:07,240 --> 00:37:11,080 facials now, I just like, I don't really like care to get 707 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,440 facials either, but I just do my own skin care. 708 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:18,320 But then with a very like different treatment, maybe like 709 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,440 nails. Like nails. 710 00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,560 I think I switch every two weeks now because I can. 711 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,680 Yeah. Oh, hell yeah. 712 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:28,520 Hell, yeah. But what else do I do? 713 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:30,880 I mean, I guess, I guess I can ask my mom for injections. 714 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:33,480 But then like, and then she would always say like, oh, 715 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,280 you're beautiful already, you know, like, don't, don't try to 716 00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:39,120 like add too much or whatever. Yeah. 717 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,520 So she's like sweet like that. And then, and then I'm like, oh, 718 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,440 but like, my face is uneven. And she's like, but every face 719 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,120 is uneven, you know, like things like that, Yeah. 720 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:52,560 That's that's no, that's how you know it's she's legit because 721 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,960 she's not like. Yeah, like injecting me like, 722 00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,080 non-stop. Yeah. 723 00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,080 But she's like that with clients, too. 724 00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,120 She's like, like, you don't need that. 725 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,480 Like they'll be like, I want to get rid of this. 726 00:38:03,480 --> 00:38:05,240 And then she's like, you don't need to do that. 727 00:38:05,240 --> 00:38:07,000 Like you would just look so unnatural. 728 00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,560 Yeah. So like, her goal is always 729 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:11,480 like, make people look natural. Oh, that's the best because 730 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,720 she's like, yeah, I remember when I like I had an interaction 731 00:38:15,720 --> 00:38:16,920 with her. I should have her on the pot. 732 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,400 Does she can she be on? I don't know. 733 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:19,760 No, no. I don't think. 734 00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:24,440 So yeah, I feel like she's not. Yeah, but I remember when I was 735 00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:26,800 hit with her with So Funny, she was like encouraging me because 736 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,120 I did like the. What is it called? 737 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:30,640 Like Shrikhandran? What's the? 738 00:38:30,720 --> 00:38:33,000 Skin Booster. Yeah, the skin booster and I was 739 00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:37,560 like, I'm like so scared and and and I just thought it was so 740 00:38:37,560 --> 00:38:39,240 funny. So don't cry. 741 00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:41,680 She's like, oh, you're so poor, baby. 742 00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,920 Yeah, don't cry. Yeah, it. 743 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:49,280 Was very sweet. She would always say like, yeah. 744 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:55,000 Very that's like how I feel like she and Rain. 745 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,680 What's her Raina? Raina. 746 00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,680 Yeah, yeah, you should like, I don't know, put I don't know. 747 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,240 I feel like if you're doing social media, I feel like that's 748 00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:05,760 like the personalities you should put as the front. 749 00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:07,960 I don't know. But like, not everyone wants to 750 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:12,320 be like, like, you know, in front of a camera, like, do all 751 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:13,640 this stuff. Yeah. 752 00:39:14,440 --> 00:39:17,760 Yeah, it's tough. It is tough, so that's why we 753 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:21,040 just get influencers to come. Right, if you're influencer. 754 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:22,640 Contact. Yeah. 755 00:39:22,720 --> 00:39:26,000 Come, yeah. What do you need influencers 756 00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,360 too? What do you what are your like 757 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,560 right now or like in a month? Because this will probably be 758 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:33,400 posted in a month. Really. 759 00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:37,000 Yeah, I guess in a month they'll be like December, right? 760 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:41,600 So like Christmas specials maybe just like different like 761 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,920 treatments we want to promote this like lifting treatment like 762 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,760 non invasive like does actually work. 763 00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:49,880 Yeah, it does. It looks it is really good. 764 00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:54,680 It's like using like RF with RF radio frequency to like 765 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,240 stimulate the collagen in the face and so that your face just 766 00:39:58,240 --> 00:39:59,800 like naturally gets like tighter. 767 00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:01,400 OK. Yeah. 768 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:08,080 I need OK what's the if? If I can only do me like me, 769 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,000 like someone who looks like me at the same age as me, like, you 770 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,760 know, skin condition, whatever, what should I do? 771 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:20,080 Do you think that's that going to be like the most, you know, 772 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,920 useful for right now? And what is it that I'm going to 773 00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,280 do like maybe in 10 years? Oh, in 10 years, yeah. 774 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,040 I think now I think just like a general cleaning, like skin, 775 00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,280 like, you know, signature facial is going to be just OK. 776 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,200 You know, I feel like you don't have to do too much. 777 00:40:36,200 --> 00:40:39,640 Like I think people think that you have to do so much to your 778 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,560 skin to make it good. But I think the more I 779 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,960 simplified my routine, the better my skin got. 780 00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:48,880 It's like when I like try to do like the whole like 10 step, 20 781 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,520 step, that's when my skin got like so bad. 782 00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:53,960 Really. Yeah, that's why I broke up so 783 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:55,440 much like, but now it's like healing. 784 00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:59,120 I just reduced it to like 5 things and my makeup routine is 785 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,000 like like 4 things. OK, yeah. 786 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:05,000 But I, I'm just like I'm so recently. 787 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,880 I've been not recently but in the back of my head I'm so 788 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:13,040 scared of aging. So in 10 years, yeah, I'll do 789 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:17,000 more anti aging stuff. But shouldn't I be worried now? 790 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:21,360 I feel like the the the sooner I start anti aging the slower. 791 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:25,080 Slower, yes. Maybe just includes like a 792 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:29,280 retinol or a tretinoin to your your skin care routine. 793 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:32,160 You're not even suggesting me to do any of the stuff that you're 794 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,000 providing you. You don't think I should do like 795 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,600 a lifting or anything like that? Now, I mean, you can start now, 796 00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:42,360 but you don't have to do it like as often as like, as like 797 00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:45,600 someone who's older with like fine lines and like wrinkles, 798 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,280 you know what I mean? Yeah. 799 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,400 Do you think? OK, one last question before you 800 00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,520 end the pod. Do you think it's true that 801 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,440 Asian women don't age? Do you think that's true that 802 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,400 with Asian women age more gracefully? 803 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:07,200 Honestly, I don't know, 'cause like, I, I've seen like both, 804 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,960 like I've seen like, there's some Asian women that like, age, 805 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,560 like, not well, and then there's some that age really well. 806 00:42:14,080 --> 00:42:16,720 I think it really, you know, it's like what you put in your 807 00:42:16,720 --> 00:42:19,720 body, how you take care of yourself, you know, how you 808 00:42:19,720 --> 00:42:21,960 treat yourself and like, how you surround yourself with, like, 809 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,200 good people. Yeah. 810 00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,480 So. So yeah, I guess it's a myth, 811 00:42:26,960 --> 00:42:28,480 so. I do think it's a myth. 812 00:42:28,480 --> 00:42:31,800 I think my mom aged really well, so maybe I just inherited her 813 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,800 genes. Maybe. 814 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,520 But like, that all depends. You know, like how I take care 815 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:39,440 of myself. How does she take care of 816 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:42,520 herself? I think so. 817 00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,480 How? How did she? 818 00:42:44,720 --> 00:42:47,240 Oh, just like eat well, like laugh a lot. 819 00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:50,640 Did she like do anything 'cause I mean she is a technician? 820 00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:52,480 Oh yeah, like she. And then she also injects 821 00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,600 herself. Oh yeah. 822 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,360 I can't imagine like the other day she was telling me that she 823 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,000 injects herself. I'm like what the fuck? 824 00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,040 Yeah, not a lot of injectors can say that. 825 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,320 Oh, really? Yeah, 'cause like, they can't. 826 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:06,320 Like most injectors probably will get it from someone else, 827 00:43:06,720 --> 00:43:07,960 but my mom just does it on herself. 828 00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,560 She's like. Does it mean that she's more 829 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:14,560 skilled or she's just she just? She just used her face as like, 830 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,000 like a canvas, like, she tried a lot of stuff on herself. 831 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:19,400 So she knows. Wow. 832 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:22,480 Yeah. Wow, that's that's that's how 833 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,200 you know you can trust her 'cause she's tried it herself. 834 00:43:25,240 --> 00:43:26,080 She's. Tried it all. 835 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,800 I'm so scared of needles I can't imagine. 836 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,920 Her trying everything. Yeah, you know, not everybody 837 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:38,480 can handle a lot of injections. Yeah, like that I agree. 838 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,720 But I do think, I mean that could be part of her aging well, 839 00:43:42,720 --> 00:43:46,240 but she's always aged well like like before injection. 840 00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:50,440 So she's always looked young. I thought it was something that 841 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:52,480 I can replicate. I guess it's your genes. 842 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,200 I think it's genes too, 'cause my grandma looks like really 843 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:57,360 young too. Damn. 844 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:01,000 Yeah, I think it's genes. So like, I think it's part 845 00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,520 genes, but I think it's part and like how you take care of 846 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,920 yourself and like environment, you know, how happy you lived 847 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:11,600 your life because some people who lived like really like in, 848 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,960 in Cantonese, we call it Foo. Like really like like not 849 00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,240 fortunate lives, really just like not like happy lives. 850 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,800 And you just don't age well. You just like your body 851 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,600 naturally, like you know. Yeah, just yeah, I I agree. 852 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:28,120 Like happier life will make you. Like you're you're. 853 00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:30,840 You will keep your youth longer. Yeah, exactly. 854 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,280 OK. And I think that applies to all 855 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:34,760 races. Yeah. 856 00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:38,400 Like, you know, like there's always like a joke about that 857 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:41,200 like Asian don't raise in or like blocked on crack. 858 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:43,280 You know, like there's always 1 like. 859 00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:46,080 But that's not true in your opinion as a Med. 860 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,800 Spot owner Yeah, I think it depends. 861 00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,440 Some people really fool you with their age. 862 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,560 Something should be secret. Something stopped. 863 00:44:58,720 --> 00:45:03,520 What stopped? Oh wow, It it overheated. 864 00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:06,800 It's overheated, that one. Really. 865 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:07,880 Yeah. Oh my gosh. 866 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,000 Because you're too. Hot. 867 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:12,800 Oh my gosh, yes. Sad that that didn't make it in 868 00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:14,880 that line. Well, it's in the. 869 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,360 Oh yeah. Technically, yeah, yeah, yeah, 870 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,400 yeah. So we have backup. 871 00:45:18,720 --> 00:45:20,760 So yeah, I guess that's all for today's podcast. 872 00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:23,720 Thank you so much for coming. Thank you for having me. 873 00:45:23,720 --> 00:45:30,600 This is so nice. Of course, yeah.