1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,920 Just ghost. I don't want to hear that you're 2 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,280 so evolved and you're so kind. And because you're so evolved 3 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:06,680 and you're so kind, you can't love me. 4 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,240 I don't want to hear that. I want to hear that I'm so 5 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,600 evolved and I'm so kind that now we're in love. 6 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,560 And if you if and you know, if you're you're trying to do to 7 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:15,960 ease your own guilt, I don't care. 8 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,640 Yeah, you're a bad person. Yeah, well, you're not a bad 9 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,840 person for not dating me. I mean, you're transphobic and 10 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,800 racist, but no. But it's like, fine. 11 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,160 But it's just like, just leave me alone. 12 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,720 I don't care. I've already forgotten. 13 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:31,360 OK, well I haven't forgotten, but I've already processed this 14 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,960 right, that we're not going to be together and that's normal I 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,080 guess. So part of dating leave me 16 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:38,760 alone. I guess yeah, Well, I I first 17 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,640 was a little against it, but now I get it. 18 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:44,520 I get it like I don't want to. I don't want you to show up so 19 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,960 mature and then decide that you don't want to date me. 20 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:48,600 Like I I want to date a mature person. 21 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,600 Yes, and and I don't want. To date an immature person. 22 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:54,680 Exactly. So by ghosting me, you're being 23 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:57,400 immature. So I'm like, OK, yeah, yes. 24 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:00,160 You're doing me a kindness by maybe like fuck that boy. 25 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,200 He doesn't even he can't even talk to me. 26 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,880 He's such a loser. That's good. 27 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,480 Yes, that's good. That's healing for me. 28 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:10,400 Exactly right. So I can go to my friends and be 29 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,840 like, he didn't even text me back. 30 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:14,000 And then your friends would be like, you deserve better. 31 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,240 If he texts you back, you go to your friends and they're just 32 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,760 like wow you really missed out. You're right, you're right, 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,200 you're right. And like, if you can't text me. 34 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:29,160 So between texting because most people can't text within like 24 35 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,480 hours, them realizing that this is not for them. 36 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:35,360 So rather than like, between texting three days later and 37 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:37,200 just ghosting, maybe just ghosting. 38 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:39,480 Absolutely. Three days. 39 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:41,240 You've missed your window, you've ghosted. 40 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:43,240 You've functionally ghosted. You have 3. 41 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:44,440 Three days you've functionally ghosted. 42 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,240 You don't even get the benefit if you text 3 days after. 43 00:01:47,320 --> 00:01:49,720 Hey, I'm not feeling it. You've just rejected me twice. 44 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:58,280 Yes, yes, I have had that. So, R John, Yeah. 45 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,680 What's keeping you up tonight? OK. 46 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:04,080 I I think is this is about it's, it's that if, if we've been on 47 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:07,080 fewer than four dates, you should ghost me. 48 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,400 Like, OK, OK, OK. Not if you, if you don't like me 49 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,040 and we've been on fewer than four dates, just ghost me. 50 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:17,360 I don't want it. Don't send me like, hey, I'm 51 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:19,840 just not feeling it. I don't want that. 52 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,320 Yeah. I don't know I'd I'd rather that 53 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,760 but but you will be waiting if you like the other person. 54 00:02:25,920 --> 00:02:28,640 I'd rather like not having me wait like I'm waiting for three 55 00:02:28,640 --> 00:02:31,400 days for your message. I thought you we hit it off, but 56 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,800 I didn't. I have no idea that you wanted 57 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:35,640 to ghost me or not see me again. I'd rather that you text me the 58 00:02:35,920 --> 00:02:38,640 the what the first day instead of letting me wait for three 59 00:02:38,640 --> 00:02:39,880 days and realize you're ghosting me. 60 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,320 OK, but be honest, be honest. How many times have you ever 61 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,920 actually received the hey, I'm not feeling this in a timely 62 00:02:44,920 --> 00:02:47,880 manner. It's always three days later. 63 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:49,920 You said like, hey, let's hang out again. 64 00:02:49,920 --> 00:02:52,160 Three days later. They're like, I'm not feeling 65 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:55,360 this. And it's like, yeah, I know it's 66 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:58,720 been 3 days. If you were feeling this 24 67 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,760 hours because of. Yeah, yeah. 68 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,080 I imagine, I don't know if you do this, but once I've what if 69 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,760 I'm, if I'm nearly dating somebody, once I've sent the 70 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,000 text, I immediately start processing the fact that they're 71 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,240 never going to text me again. And if they respond, I'm like, 72 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,560 that rocks. But otherwise I'm like, yeah, 73 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,480 well, that sucked. I liked them, but. 74 00:03:16,640 --> 00:03:19,960 OK, well, I guess so. So you go into the texting 75 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,440 thinking that they're never, they're never. 76 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:24,360 So you already have the expectation that they're going 77 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:27,560 to ghost you. Well, I will say I send the text 78 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,880 and then for two hours I'm a normal person. 79 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:34,840 Around hour 3, I'm like the part of me that's like not healed 80 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,440 starts talking. And so then we just start 81 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,520 processing that. Sometimes they text back and 82 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,320 you're like, hell yeah, suck it. I am worthy of love. 83 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:46,640 But if they don't text back, then it's like, OK, if, if we're 84 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,400 not like look, obviously like I've heard stories where like of 85 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,800 ghost, actual ghosting, which I've never like the real 86 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,480 ghosting where it's like, oh, we're dating for six months. 87 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,680 But they stopped talking. I've never had that happen. 88 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,440 I don't even really know anyone that that's I know like one or 89 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,680 two people where that's happened to, but I've never experienced 90 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,440 that. So I thought ghosting, which is 91 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:07,680 where the girl just doesn't respond or the guy doesn't 92 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:12,280 respond or you know, neither doesn't respond after like next 93 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,040 I was like, oh, that's honestly not that bad. 94 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:19,120 I don't know. I, I, I, I can't, I can't agree 95 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,160 with you on that. Do you like getting the? 96 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,320 I'm not feeling this text. Yes, no, I don't like it, but I 97 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,040 feel like it's better than like keeping me waiting, you know? 98 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,040 I'd rather they cut to the chase and tell me like they don't feel 99 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,440 it like so then I move on to chase the next next one. 100 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,040 OK, but if you've been on, what do you mean move on? 101 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:37,960 You've only you've went on three days with this person, you're 102 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:39,320 hung up on them. Yes. 103 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:43,000 Oh, OK. Well, OK, But The thing is, have 104 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:46,280 you ever actually gotten the text in a time where no, no. 105 00:04:46,280 --> 00:04:48,320 Right. So how about this? 106 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,840 You have 24 hours after that, don't respond to me ever again, 107 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:53,200 OK? Because how? 108 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,960 How long does it take for you to realize you're getting ghosted? 109 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,920 I guess, yeah, three days probably. 110 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,560 Yeah, so. Even on days, honestly. 111 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,520 Two days, right? Two days, yeah. 112 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:06,600 After two days you're like, they're not busy. 113 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:07,680 Yeah. No, they just take me. 114 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:09,240 Yeah, probably. And maybe there's something 115 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:10,760 wrong with me. No. 116 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:11,840 Well, no. No, no, no, no. 117 00:05:11,840 --> 00:05:12,840 That's not us. Of course. 118 00:05:12,840 --> 00:05:14,400 Yes. Oh, yeah. 119 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,280 That's a big thing I've learned in dating is that it's really 120 00:05:16,280 --> 00:05:18,040 not about at the first three dates. 121 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:19,400 They got their own stuff going on. 122 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:21,440 If they have sex with you on the first date, they got something 123 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:23,400 going on. They don't something on. 124 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,840 It's just like, you know, it's about them. 125 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:26,960 They're just projecting onto you. 126 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,760 Other than that, you're hot. Right, right. 127 00:05:28,840 --> 00:05:29,480 It just. Depends how. 128 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,040 It really just shows how hot you are. 129 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:34,120 What shows how? What shows like how many? 130 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,720 The first like what happens to you on the first couple dates? 131 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:40,760 Like how easy it is to get and how excited they are. 132 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,640 That's just like downstream of how hot you are. 133 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,480 Oh my God, that's that's like. But not your like, soul, huh? 134 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:47,480 Not your soul, but like, yeah, yeah. 135 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:48,160 Yeah, yeah. Wow. 136 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:49,680 'Cause that's how people think about Eddie. 137 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,480 When you first write, you're just like, look at this person. 138 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:52,720 Look how hot they are. You're not like, oh. 139 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:54,760 Yeah, you're not like. Nobody. 140 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,040 I guess you are like, they're a nurse. 141 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:57,880 Yeah, it's cool that they're a nurse. 142 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,240 Yeah, have you dated a nurse? No, I only date doctors. 143 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:04,000 I I've I've actually. Is that true? 144 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,160 No, I've dated a nurse. I've dated. 145 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:05,480 A nurse? Yeah. 146 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:06,480 Yeah, she was cool. She was cool. 147 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:07,800 She was. You don't even. 148 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,240 Remember. Yeah, I mean, I just, I mean, 149 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:14,480 you know, I'm. I don't think I've dated a nurse 150 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:16,840 anyway. Why not? 151 00:06:16,840 --> 00:06:18,520 They're heroes. They are. 152 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,920 Well, they are you're. Not supporting our not backing 153 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,560 our our our our, our girls in scrubs. 154 00:06:24,840 --> 00:06:26,440 That's crazy. We dated a doctor. 155 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,080 Have I? Have I? 156 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,520 No. Damn, wait, how old are you? 157 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,680 Never ask a woman. No, I'm 25. 158 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:39,160 Oh yeah, I guess it's kind of hard to date a doctor your age 159 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,960 because there aren't many 25 year old doctors. 160 00:06:41,280 --> 00:06:43,800 Although you have to date older, which isn't that hard if you're 161 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,720 you. Well, I mean who? 162 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,600 I mean, it's not hard to date older if you're anyone. 163 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:55,280 So I mean, it's, I can be, I mean, I think if you're a, if 164 00:06:55,280 --> 00:06:58,480 you're a straight guy, like that's tough, It's tougher cause 165 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,560 'cause I think, I mean, imagine, OK, imagine this. 166 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:02,840 How much do you want to date a 24 year old man? 167 00:07:02,840 --> 00:07:04,200 Really. Not really. 168 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:06,200 OK, now imagine this is five years later. 169 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:08,080 Would you be like now I'm gonna. Do it, maybe. 170 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:10,560 Oh, really? Once you, Why? 171 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:16,240 Because like, I don't know, like I can be more like now I'm like 172 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,880 in, in it. I'm, I'm also in the same 173 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,920 struggle as them. But when I'm like out of the 174 00:07:20,920 --> 00:07:24,040 struggle, I can just like see them as like, I don't know, like 175 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:27,720 less I, I know why they're, they can't be more committal. 176 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,040 And I will be OK with that because I'm more secure. 177 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:33,320 OK, Yeah. Four years from now, five years 178 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:34,760 now, you'll be like, they're a child. 179 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:35,520 Sort of. Yeah. 180 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,440 So now I can fuck them. OK, That's crazy. 181 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:39,760 I. Can't believe you're just. 182 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:41,720 You're just. Being like, no, Now I understand 183 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:43,480 that they're immature. Yeah, but you don't. 184 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,000 But you think that. OK. 185 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:47,320 I mean, I guess that'd be nice, yeah. 186 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:48,800 How old are you? I'm 28. 187 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:50,200 OK, Yeah. Would you date? 188 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:57,760 Older. Yeah, but younger, see, I don't 189 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:01,560 well. I'd probably, yeah, I don't 190 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:02,800 know. I mean, I'd just be like one of 191 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:06,680 those things where I was talking to this 22 year old and like 192 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:09,680 there were just a couple of moments where she was just 193 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,520 talking where I was just like, I literally was like, God, you're 194 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:14,040 so young. And so that I don't think I. 195 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:15,440 Could date somebody? What? 196 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:17,280 What did she say? Though, well, she was new, she 197 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:19,800 was just talking about comedy. And you know, I started, I was, 198 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:21,120 I've been doing stand up since I was 18. 199 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,520 So like, and just like, you know, the way she's like 200 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:27,120 thinking about things and and and excited about stuff or 201 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:28,760 looking forward to stuff from the confidence. 202 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,400 That's the young, that's the young part that you can't do. 203 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,159 Well, I mean, I'm still, there's still some I'm excited for, but 204 00:08:34,159 --> 00:08:36,360 it's just different. And so it's just like, I could 205 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:39,039 just see that like you're like, Oh yeah, I remember doing that 206 00:08:39,039 --> 00:08:41,679 and I remember feeling that it's not really what I'm feeling now. 207 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:43,559 Or if I talk to like a 25 year old, it's like, yeah, it's 208 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:45,040 pretty. I mean, yeah, I'm like, I don't 209 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,720 feel that removed from yeah, like your life experiences. 210 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,720 I mean, obviously I don't know. I mean, you seem to have a job 211 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:53,680 which is pretty different but. I don't know. 212 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,520 Oh, OK. What do you mean you don't know 213 00:08:55,520 --> 00:08:57,760 you have a job? Yeah, but it's OK, We don't have 214 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,480 to talk about that in pod. Oh, really? 215 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,240 Oh, I'm sorry. That's OK. 216 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:02,640 No. That's don't have to. 217 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:04,000 You don't have to be sorry. I'm pretty. 218 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:06,640 I think I'm yeah, I'm happy. Well, if you want you can always 219 00:09:06,640 --> 00:09:07,440 tutor. That's what I do. 220 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,040 You do what? Tutor. 221 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,440 Tutor children? You must be smart. 222 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:12,760 What? What? 223 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,320 I said, I said children. I'm smarter than children, but 224 00:09:15,320 --> 00:09:17,240 I'm gonna go. But also, yeah, I'm smart. 225 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:18,280 Yeah, you are. Yeah. 226 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,320 What? What do you, what do you teach, 227 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:20,640 though? Just. 228 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:25,600 Math we should go back to sex but not having sex with people 229 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,720 who are younger but not the students. 230 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,520 No, no, no, no. Not the students, no, they're 231 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:33,320 they're yeah, but it's so yeah, I don't think it's it's harder 232 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:38,920 to date. I think older when you're like 233 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:44,000 there are I don't like, I think you have to be like appealing to 234 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,880 the type of person who wants to date younger and I don't always. 235 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:52,280 Right, yes, OK, I want, I want to date someone who's like 236 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:56,240 older, but this person has to be like, I have to twist their arm 237 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:57,360 to date. Me. 238 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,480 Oh yes, yes, yes, 'cause you don't want something like a 239 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:00,240 creep. Yes, yes. 240 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,760 You want someone who's like, no, I wouldn't, you're too young, 241 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:04,400 but you're just like. Then they just look at you and 242 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:06,440 be like, OK, this one's actually mature. 243 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:08,960 Yes, yes, I have to like, convince them. 244 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:11,600 I have to like, like, like, I have to chase them and convince 245 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:15,040 them that I'm mature and then they finally decide, OK, I'll 246 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,160 give this a chance. OK, OK, OK. 247 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,160 That would. Right. 248 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,920 Yeah, OK. Because that person would. 249 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:24,000 But also The thing is, yeah, I guess that person would text you 250 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,880 immediately. I didn't feel it, right? 251 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:28,920 Yeah, yes. So I guess so. 252 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:31,280 That sucks because if somebody were to actually text you, I 253 00:10:31,280 --> 00:10:32,520 didn't feel it. You'd be like, well, this is the 254 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:38,040 kind of person I want. Oh my God, Oh my God, you're 255 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,800 perfect When you get immediately get the I'm not feeling a text. 256 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:42,080 Oh my God. But that's the thing. 257 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:43,720 That's why don't send it. Don't send it. 258 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,800 If you are actually have the emotional maturity to send the 259 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:49,240 I'm not feeling a text, then we were perfect for each other. 260 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,360 And I don't want to know that. I want to think you're just a 261 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,920 psychotic fuck boy who just doesn't think about me. 262 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:56,240 Oh my. God, so right, OK, I'm convinced 263 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,120 now. Yeah, I'm convinced 'cause you 264 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,160 could, yeah. If you're, if you're mature 265 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,320 enough to send a text, then we are for each other. 266 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,520 Yeah, well, you already said yeah, said no to. 267 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,680 Me, I mean I wouldn't. I don't send that text. 268 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,560 I mean, if I don't like somebody, my tactic because I 269 00:11:10,560 --> 00:11:12,880 just keep going on dates with them until they stop and that 270 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,760 always works. But like do you like try to be 271 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,440 annoying so they like they stop the process like sooner? 272 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:22,680 I don't necessarily have to try. Yeah, I feel like I'm pretty. 273 00:11:22,680 --> 00:11:25,520 I mean, I, I, I, I really struggle with code switching. 274 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,760 This is how I like the way I'm talking to you right now is how 275 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:29,880 I talk at work. What do you do? 276 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,920 Why two children? I don't talk to them about this 277 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,840 stuff, but like if I'm with my Co workers, I'll just be like 278 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:36,920 this. Like when I was working in 279 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,280 offices, I was just like, hey, we all hate it here, right? 280 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,400 And people would be like, really? 281 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:44,200 No, yeah. So and then on date, this is how 282 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,400 we talk on dates. But I feel like if you're 283 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,240 straightforward then I feel like you will be have no problem 284 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,240 sending the texts that were not for each other. 285 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,160 Like what's the? Yeah, I guess I'm not really. 286 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:59,360 I guess I sound straightforward, but in dating, I lie a lot. 287 00:11:59,560 --> 00:12:00,720 Oh, OK. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 288 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,640 But not like intentionally to be manipulative. 289 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,440 I just would like, I never want to make anyone feel bad. 290 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:09,360 And also, please don't be mad at me. 291 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:10,680 So that's a little bit manipulative. 292 00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:12,480 But yeah, no, if I don't like somebody, it's like, well, 293 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,720 that's not my place, you know, especially if I'm dating a 294 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,000 woman. It's like, who am I to say that 295 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,720 you're bad? We'll just keep seeing each 296 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,280 other until you kind of figure out that I don't like you. 297 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:22,800 Well, you. Don't have to say they're bad. 298 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:24,480 You can just say like, this is not a good match. 299 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,560 I feel like you, you like if I ever have to send a text, I have 300 00:12:27,560 --> 00:12:29,120 to be like, oh, this is not you, this is me. 301 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:31,440 Like it's not. You say it's not you, it's me. 302 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,040 Yeah, like I'm not ready for this. 303 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:34,600 What? You said you hit them with and 304 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,160 it's not you, it's me. Yeah, why not? 305 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,840 Do you not, do you guys not have that where you're from? 306 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,680 What? It's not you, it's me. 307 00:12:41,680 --> 00:12:44,160 It's like a classic line. Yeah, for what? 308 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:45,720 For breaking up with someone, right? 309 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,960 Yeah, yeah, yeah. But you say it isn't it. 310 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,440 But everyone knows it's not you. It's me is wrong. 311 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:52,640 It's 100% you. But. 312 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:56,080 Maybe it's. That's that's a Seinfeld 313 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:57,960 episode. Well, have you seen Seinfeld? 314 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,440 Yes, but maybe not that episode. I don't remember. 315 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:02,520 OK, right now, yeah. But yeah, it's not. 316 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,480 It's always the other person. I'm fine on a first. 317 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,240 First of all, on three dates, there's absolutely no way it's 318 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,640 you. What could possibly be going on 319 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:13,320 in your life that would prevent you from going on four dates 320 00:13:13,320 --> 00:13:15,920 with someone? Well, you know, I don't know, 321 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:18,720 like I, I don't know, I like prettier people. 322 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,480 Because they're ugly. Well, you would know that after 323 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,320 day one. I I guess maybe it like. 324 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:24,760 But that's not it's not you, it's me. 325 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,080 If they're ugly, it's 100% them. I don't know. 326 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:30,920 Or maybe I should be less shallow. 327 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:35,080 Maybe it's me. 25 You don't have to be less shallow. 328 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:38,000 You live in New York, right? Not only are is the perfect 329 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,920 person for you, there's a hotter version of that person and they 330 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:43,520 live here. Oh my God, Yeah, come to me. 331 00:13:43,600 --> 00:13:48,160 So no, it's awesome. No, New York's great because 332 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,400 like there's so many people here that you can date a hot person 333 00:13:50,680 --> 00:13:52,600 and it's not you're not even doing a wrong thing. 334 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:54,720 You know where you're like taking there's just so many, 335 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,840 there's just way more hot people. 336 00:13:57,360 --> 00:13:59,200 Like they can't all pair up because they don't all look 337 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:00,960 perfect. So you just there's so many 338 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,520 couples where you're like what and like right. 339 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,480 The one thing about I like about New York is sometimes you will 340 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,600 see it where the what is the man is hotter. 341 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:09,240 That's something I only see in New York. 342 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:10,440 Really. I've never seen it. 343 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,880 I've seen it. OK, give me a much hotter man, 344 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,160 please. Yeah, no, because in San 345 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,440 Francisco. OK, Yeah, you're. 346 00:14:16,680 --> 00:14:18,760 Already in I'm from Have you been? 347 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:21,280 Like a couple days. Oh, cool. 348 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:24,680 And do you do? I was going to ask if you worked 349 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:26,760 in, did you work in tech? No. 350 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:27,760 Damn. OK, then. 351 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:28,960 Never mind. It's not the place to be. 352 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,240 I'll just be like if you worked in tech, SF's great. 353 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,560 If you have a good job, SF's a wonderful place. 354 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:38,640 Or if you're from there or if you're visiting, it's great. 355 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:42,360 But there you see couples where almost every what couple is like 356 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:46,840 a ugly man and I've never seen it the opposite in SF but here 357 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,200 here sometimes you see reverse. Here OK. 358 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,040 But still the most commonly it's it's hot girl. 359 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:55,760 But I think there's a lot more parody out here. 360 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:57,560 You see, hot girl, hot guy. Right. 361 00:14:57,560 --> 00:15:00,400 Yeah, yeah, yeah, I do, I do. But sometimes I feel like they 362 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:01,840 might not. They might be like friends. 363 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:04,400 I don't know if they're that's. True, if they're equally hot, 364 00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,520 because if you see a really hot girl with an ugly guy, they're 365 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,840 definitely dating. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they're hot 366 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:12,040 people aren't will date ugly people. 367 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:13,640 They're actually not really going to be friends with them, 368 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:15,480 right, Right. Because you'll see like groups 369 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,160 of girls and you're like, do you guys only? 370 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,640 Do you guys like vet your friends based on how hot they 371 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:20,920 are? I think they do. 372 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,400 I mean, but that's like, do they think that? 373 00:15:22,680 --> 00:15:24,400 I mean, I'm friends with hot girls and I'm like, sometimes 374 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:25,920 I'm like, hey, if you notice, all your friends are hot and 375 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:27,080 they're like, yes, my friends are beautiful. 376 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,120 I was like, no, no, no, no, they're not like beautiful in 377 00:15:29,120 --> 00:15:30,480 the way that like your friends are beautiful. 378 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:34,160 I'm like, they're like, they like they're, they're, they're 379 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:35,960 like, they're like capitalist hot, you know, I mean. 380 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:39,440 Yeah, they're like, mean hot. Yeah well not mean hot they're 381 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:42,800 just like like they the a picture of them has like 382 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,800 economic value okay like on Instagram and stuff yeah like 383 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,440 they're conventionally. OK, I talk to me. 384 00:15:49,480 --> 00:15:50,200 OK. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 385 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,240 Not just like in the way that like, people are like, yes, hot, 386 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:55,120 you know what I mean? You know, people are like hot 387 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:56,880 where they're just like, I love what you have going on. 388 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:58,680 Yeah, I'm not talking about that, OK? 389 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,560 I'm saying the way their eyes and face and body look is like 390 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:02,760 good. OK. 391 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,600 And I don't even and then and then all the but they don't have 392 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,440 an answer. They're just like, OK, I guess 393 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:09,600 that's. I think they attract each other. 394 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,800 Yeah, I guess they're just lives are similar yeah 'cause some I 395 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,080 do have hot friends yeah when you talk to hot I have do have 396 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:17,400 hot friends and I have a hot friend and she just like. 397 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:19,560 You have a hot what? I have a hot. 398 00:16:19,560 --> 00:16:22,560 Friend and she'll just like when we're talking she's like, you 399 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,760 know how everybody's having sex with everybody and I was like, 400 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:25,880 no, that's actually just you guys. 401 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,360 Actually, you guys are the beautiful people are all having 402 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:31,440 sex with each other, but most of us aren't. 403 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,040 Most of us have sex occasionally and it's like we're like that 404 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,560 rocked. But OK, so like you said then 405 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,240 beautiful people have sex with each other, so where's the ugly? 406 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:43,680 You were just saying like they're dating on ugly. 407 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:45,560 People, I said. The beautiful people all fuck 408 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:46,840 each other, but they date whoever. 409 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:50,000 Oh, so you can date 1, You can snatch one from the beautiful 410 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,680 people having sex with beautiful people thing. 411 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:52,920 Yeah. And you take them out of the 412 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:55,120 pool and it sucks, but I don't know what they got going on. 413 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,240 They got something going on in their head that makes you think 414 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,440 that they like you. Yeah. 415 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:02,280 This reminds me of like, obviously Samantha's hot. 416 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:05,440 Have you seen Sex in the City? Have I seen Sex in the City? 417 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,520 Like I always have to ask, you know, people have been 418 00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:10,119 surprising me. And how long have? 419 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:11,560 You been watching Sex in the City? 420 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,119 Well, how many times or? Like no. 421 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:16,319 When, when did you start? How old were you? 422 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,240 No, not not old. Oh, OK. 423 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:18,920 Recently. Yeah. 424 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,560 Oh, OK, OK, OK. But you've gone. 425 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:21,760 How many times have you watched it? 426 00:17:21,839 --> 00:17:24,920 I mean, I don't know, like 2. Oh, OK, OK, OK. 427 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:28,319 OK, so not a so you've you've watched it, but you wouldn't say 428 00:17:28,319 --> 00:17:31,040 you have deep knowledge of it. I might. 429 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:32,680 OK, well, that's interesting. Anyways, continue. 430 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:37,200 No, it's reminding me of like Samantha and the like the model 431 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,040 that she was dating like at the end of the. 432 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,200 Oh my God, what is his name? I forgot his name. 433 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,120 The one who stays with her when she has cancer. 434 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:46,760 God, what is his name? Jamie, pull that up. 435 00:17:47,560 --> 00:17:49,440 Wait. That's from Joe Rogan. 436 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,600 Oh, have you? No. 437 00:17:52,120 --> 00:17:53,640 I just may not be in the podcast. 438 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,680 The guy, the guy that Joe Rogan has to do Google things is named 439 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,240 Jamie. And so he says, Jamie, pull that 440 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:00,400 up. We have Brianna. 441 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:02,600 Brianna could help. Yeah, that's was a joke. 442 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:03,760 I didn't think your name was Jamie. 443 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:04,920 I just thought that was a fun joke. 444 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,720 Google Samantha. Boyfriend. 445 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:10,360 Cancer. Samantha Boyfriend Season 6, 446 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:12,960 Yeah. Season 6 Samantha boyfriend yes 447 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,560 and while yes you can cut out. No, I don't have to. 448 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:18,000 OK, we'll put that in. Well, we'll give Brianna credit 449 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:19,080 if. She's I mean, I got my phone 450 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,440 right here and it's also on theme so can I Google it? 451 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,920 No, wait, can you put that down? Like put the water bottle on the 452 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:26,880 floor. Sorry, I guess you're gonna have 453 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:30,880 to edit it out. That's OK or they might be send 454 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:31,960 me money. Please send me. 455 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:32,560 Money. Oh yeah. 456 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:36,640 No, it's OK. An episode of Seinfeld, Poland 457 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:38,280 Spring. Yeah, no. 458 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:39,680 What? Wait. 459 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:41,800 No, I have no idea. Wait. 460 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:46,880 They're the with the one that Elaine, how many times have you 461 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,440 seen Seinfeld? Not many. 462 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:52,960 There's a good, I don't know, Anytime I see AI see like brands 463 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:55,000 from Seinfeld, I'm like New York. 464 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:59,680 What? S AM ANTHANTH. 465 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:07,520 A Yes. Wait, why? 466 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:09,880 We're OK? Yes, because because that's a 467 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,880 hot guy that stayed. I mean, obviously Samantha's 468 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,000 very hot and they're successful too, but like she's like much 469 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:19,760 older and like you would think a guy like that would like ditch 470 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,760 this woman who's like much older than him, like immediately after 471 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,880 she made him famous. But but he stayed and he's the 472 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:30,720 one that's like like more attached. 473 00:19:31,320 --> 00:19:35,720 Yeah. So I, I think, OK, I, OK, I 474 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:39,680 think the hot and beautiful, like top of the world 475 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,480 capitalistic hot people, they are actually lonely. 476 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:43,680 So that's why. Oh. 477 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,920 OK. Yes, and if they did another hot 478 00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:50,080 and hot person that's like equally as hot as as them, they 479 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:54,200 probably don't have that much of A emotional capacity to like be 480 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,520 there for each other. That's why they. 481 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,240 They need somebody who's lonely. They need, they need a normal 482 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,560 yeah, yeah. To be, to like ground them. 483 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:03,080 Yeah, OK. Maybe. 484 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,960 I don't know. Since I've gotten here, all the 485 00:20:06,120 --> 00:20:08,120 people I've had like really intense relationships with have 486 00:20:08,120 --> 00:20:10,240 been really hot and I'm like, this is the greatest city in the 487 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,560 world. Okay, that's pretty good. 488 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:13,960 No, I love New York, NY is a great place to date. 489 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,560 Yeah. Very, I don't know and a great 490 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,280 place to transition. So if you're thinking about it, 491 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,160 are you thinking about it? Not. 492 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:21,200 Not yet. OK. 493 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,280 I mean, you know. I mean, I I want to take more 494 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,160 like I want to take more estrogen. 495 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,760 I feel like I'm not women enough. 496 00:20:27,800 --> 00:20:29,760 Oh, OK, girl. Me too. 497 00:20:30,120 --> 00:20:31,920 By the way, I didn't know much on the podcast. 498 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:36,000 I am transgender, which is why I'm saying transition. 499 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,760 I'm a transgender woman, which I know isn't immediately clear, 500 00:20:39,120 --> 00:20:42,600 but that's me. But that I I'm not going to do 501 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,760 anything with my voice. It's too hard, but you want to 502 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,560 take more estrogen to be more like a woman. 503 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:50,800 No, I want to be more like a woman but I don't know if taking 504 00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:51,920 estrogen. Probably just. 505 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:53,600 Yeah, that's probably. A joke. 506 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,320 It's just like I, I think I mentioned this before because 507 00:20:56,320 --> 00:21:00,920 like, I feel like I've met trans women and they have bigger boobs 508 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,160 than me. Yeah. 509 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:03,560 And I'm like. What? 510 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,320 Well, the OK, so the thing about the boob thing is it's actually 511 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,560 not it's hormones, but it's also genetic how your genes interact 512 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:13,280 with. So it's just like all people 513 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:15,720 have in them sort of genetically encoded boob size. 514 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,760 Okay. And so if their hormones make 515 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,560 their tits big. Also a lot of them have implants 516 00:21:20,120 --> 00:21:22,440 I'm. Saying not the implants what I'm 517 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:23,720 not. Even without the implants, yeah. 518 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:27,280 So yeah, no, so you can. You are growing tits. 519 00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:30,720 Yeah, and they're still growing. You know, girl, like, they're, 520 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:31,880 no, they hurt kind of in the morning. 521 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:33,200 Oh, damn. That's how, you know, they're 522 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:33,680 growing. Yeah. 523 00:21:33,680 --> 00:21:35,640 No, I just. And it's it's it's awesome. 524 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:36,640 I love them. Oh, my God. 525 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:39,200 I've never had tits before. And they're the best part. 526 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:40,800 Yeah, they're by far the best part. 527 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:42,000 OK. So far. 528 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,320 Yeah. That and I guess just like being 529 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:48,000 happier all the time. Aw, but like, not like a state 530 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,920 of bliss, but just sort of like I'm way less miserable. 531 00:21:51,360 --> 00:21:56,080 OK, wait, so is that like a effect of hormones or is that 532 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,640 just you're more happy because you're living as yourself? 533 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,920 Probably the second thing, but the hormones help do the first 534 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:01,520 thing. OK. 535 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,800 Because I know like, you know, like when I get period, it's 536 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:06,640 because like when women get period, there's like more cramps 537 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,480 and like maybe the emotion it will, there's like an emotional 538 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:15,000 fluctuation because there's more testosterone or like the male 539 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:17,640 estrogen and the male testosterone, yes, yeah. 540 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,040 In the woman's body. So that's why I'm like, that 541 00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:23,880 makes me feel like anxious. So maybe. 542 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,920 Maybe it makes all yeah, yeah, maybe it reduced my It does not 543 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:28,040 do that. If anything, I'm actually 544 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,880 slightly more anxious, but that's probably just because 545 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:35,400 life gotten harder. But like the world and but no, 546 00:22:35,560 --> 00:22:36,960 are all men anxious all the time? 547 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:38,800 God, it will. That would be wonderful. 548 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:42,280 No men men are have lower rates of anxiety because they're 549 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:46,840 actually less conscientious. And no, I think it's the 550 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,440 hormones, the hormonal fluctuations. 551 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:49,920 I mean, there are definitely more. 552 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,160 Like there are times when sometimes I'm a lot more 553 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:56,480 sensitive and I know some trans girls, they will start getting 554 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,600 period cramps even though really, yeah, I'm so I don't 555 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,760 have that I'm. So that would be crazy if I had 556 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:03,640 that crazy like. What? 557 00:23:04,360 --> 00:23:06,000 Really. I have no, I thought that's like 558 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,560 because like your uterine. Contractor, I have no fucking 559 00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:15,160 glue apparently, but hey, you know, God sucks and just wants 560 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:17,480 to punish people, but you know, part of the pain is you know the 561 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:19,200 pain's good. You gotta if you don't, part of 562 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:23,600 you know, you know. Fleabag speech season 1 and do 563 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:24,280 you know? What I mean by that? 564 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,800 No, OK, I'm like thinking. Well, does people know here? 565 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,560 It's the one where she says the older woman gives a speech about 566 00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:32,160 like, how being a woman is like pain built in, OK. 567 00:23:32,360 --> 00:23:36,720 And so which I don't necessarily subscribe to, but you know, when 568 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,920 you experience it, you're like, OK, this is making up for all 569 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:42,360 the periods I've missed and we'll never have, which I'm very 570 00:23:42,360 --> 00:23:43,640 grateful for. Well. 571 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,760 Yeah, I yeah, I probably don't. No, I mean, it's a it's it's, 572 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:49,360 yeah. Yeah, they seem, they seem. 573 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,440 It's just messy. I don't seems. 574 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,320 Messy. They seem awful, Yeah. 575 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,280 Every experience I've had with them. 576 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,160 No. Not great, not great, although I 577 00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:04,800 love supporting Yeah and being there and to that, but yeah, no, 578 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:10,280 I. Wait, do we get the name? 579 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,160 Oh my God, yes. What's the name? 580 00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:16,560 We taught you how to spell it. Samantha's boyfriend? 581 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:17,440 Yes. Yes. 582 00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:22,640 What's the name? Chase. 583 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,840 Nick. Oh, my. 584 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,680 Oh, girl, let me, let me. I'll do it. 585 00:24:34,560 --> 00:24:40,760 That is too Chinese. That is not the right person, is 586 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,400 it Samantha? Sex. 587 00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,240 No, no, no. Wait. 588 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:49,160 Sorry. I think that's the wrong 589 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,680 Samantha. Yeah. 590 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:53,480 Samantha Jones. OK, Yeah, that's the wrong 591 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:54,160 Samantha. I don't know. 592 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:58,400 I actually my autocomplete was the same woman as that gender. 593 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,800 Wait. What Jerry Smith, Jerry. 594 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,640 Smith. Yes, Smith, Jerry Smith. 595 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:07,000 Jerry Smith. She even gave him a real a new 596 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,120 name. Yes, I. 597 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,520 Forgot about. That Yeah, Yes. 598 00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,000 So yeah, she stayed with a hot She she was a hottie and he but 599 00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:15,640 they were both hot. Yeah. 600 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,000 And you like that show. Yeah, I love that show. 601 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:20,160 I love it. Yeah, like I quote too much from 602 00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,440 that. And you live in, like, 603 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,880 Manhattan. Exactly so. 604 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,760 Yeah, cuz I love Brooklyn. Oh well, how did how does 605 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,800 Brooklyn feel? Brooklyn's great, but they talk 606 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,560 so much shit about Brooklyn. I'm like, they're like, 607 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:30,760 Brooklyn's pretty much the slums. 608 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:31,880 Yeah. When Miranda wants to move in 609 00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:33,920 Season 6, he's like, I might as well be dead. 610 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:34,920 I was like. And then you see their 611 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,280 apartment. It's like, this is Park Slope. 612 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:37,480 You live in a very nice neighborhood. 613 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,320 Yeah, But this was back in like, both like pretty gentrification. 614 00:25:40,360 --> 00:25:41,200 Brooklyn. Yeah. 615 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:42,920 So they were there gentrifying it. 616 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,240 So. Yeah. 617 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:45,240 Oh, so they were the prop. Yeah. 618 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,160 Did you think Miranda's? But I always felt like Steve was 619 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:49,560 the hottest of all the boyfriends. 620 00:25:49,560 --> 00:25:51,320 Do you share that? No. 621 00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:52,120 Who's yours? Oh. 622 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,960 My God. Oh my God. 623 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,360 Wait, I don't know. I I don't. 624 00:25:58,360 --> 00:26:00,880 Maybe the Jared guy? Smith OK, OK. 625 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,320 Smith. But I think about Smith, Jared 626 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,760 is that he's just kind of nothing, you know? 627 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:06,920 He's nothing. Yeah, he's just, he's just had a 628 00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,240 lot going on. He just kind of exists to 629 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:11,240 support Samantha. They don't really explore him at 630 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,760 all. I think Aiden was interesting. 631 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:17,720 Obviously, Mr. Big, I like. No, if you like Mr. Biggs. 632 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,720 Too toxic? Mr. Biggs sucks. 633 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:20,880 Yeah. I mean, you could tell that the 634 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,720 actors are rapist. Like he. 635 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,560 Yeah. And then like, but then I like 636 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,480 Steve. I get all of his insecurities. 637 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,160 I understand. I think they have a good 638 00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,320 dynamic. I would. 639 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,040 I like that he's obsessed with Miranda. 640 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:36,520 Yeah, because Miranda's probably my favorite. 641 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:41,520 And I think it's good, you know? We actually like the the bald 642 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,320 guy Charlotte married. Oh, the lawyer. 643 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:47,760 Yeah, they were super weird about him being Jewish. 644 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:48,960 Right. Yes. 645 00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:50,400 We're just like, you live in New York. 646 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:52,680 Why are you talking about Jews like they're foreign? 647 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,760 I know you know so many. And they were just. 648 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:59,480 And they would just say Jews so many times and they sound weird 649 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,080 every single time they say it. Yeah. 650 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,000 And she like, converted to Judaism. 651 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,600 Like I was thinking like, oh, I didn't know you can do that. 652 00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:09,440 Yeah, I guess, yeah. Yeah, yeah, you. 653 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,720 Can you can and you can for marriage and stuff, But like the 654 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:15,000 way they not the, the, the converting, I don't think is 655 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:16,720 that strange because like, you know, there's just a religious 656 00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,480 person, But like the way the girls talk about it where 657 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:21,080 they're just like, Oh, she he's Jewish. 658 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,760 Oh, it's so weird. It's like, what are you talking 659 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:23,800 about? Yeah, that's New York. 660 00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,040 You live in New York, you know, so many. 661 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,200 And it's just like, it's such a, it's just like a part. 662 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,080 It's like saying someone's Italian and being really like, 663 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,920 whoa, they're Italian. It's like, yeah. 664 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:34,560 Yeah. That's here. 665 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:40,840 I guess if you were like really Nigerian and like really into 666 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,160 Nigerian culture, then you could sort of be like, people would be 667 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:46,240 like, I guess I don't know that many Nigerians. 668 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,040 Yeah, even in New York, it's like, you know. 669 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,120 It's not that. You know a lot of Nigerians. 670 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:53,200 Yeah, I guess if he's like Lao, right? 671 00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:54,920 Yeah. Let's just start naming 672 00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:57,520 ethnicities. That would be Finn. 673 00:27:57,800 --> 00:28:00,200 It'd be crazy if he was Finnish. And it was like really into 674 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:00,840 being. Finnish, I guess. 675 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:01,920 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 676 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,920 Because like cuz like her previous husband was into Scott 677 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,080 Scottish stuff, right? That was normal but like he 678 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:09,760 wasn't doing a normal amount, no? 679 00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:11,680 And they would write this. Yeah, like everybody, I guess. 680 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,840 Yeah, everybody Charlotte dated like was very into their 681 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,960 religion. Yeah, yeah, that is true. 682 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,960 She's very proper. Yeah, I thought she was. 683 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,360 She was always my favorite. I feel like she wouldn't like me 684 00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:23,240 though. No, I feel like she wouldn't 685 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,560 like me either. Yeah, well, I'm not very 686 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:27,400 improper. Well, but I feel like. 687 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,880 But I feel like that's why I'd be like I'd really want to date 688 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,520 her cuz I'd shock her all the time. 689 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,040 Oh, cuz she's proper. She's. 690 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,720 So proper? Do you meet people like that? 691 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:37,040 Are you proper? No. 692 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:38,240 OK. Are you from a place? 693 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:38,960 Where are you from? I'm. 694 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:40,560 From China. But where in China? 695 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,800 So China's each place the proper. 696 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:45,960 The proper is to part of China. It's like where Confucius is 697 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:47,080 from. So it's like. 698 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,520 It's famous for its. But where? 699 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,920 Where is that? It's called Shandong, OK, It's 700 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:58,880 on the coast, and it's famous for its people's obsession with 701 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,200 having a governmental stable job. 702 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,960 Oh, OK, OK, OK. And is that long standing or is 703 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,520 that recent? No, it's long standing. 704 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,200 Oh, that's so interesting because you know, government, 705 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,400 the government's changed quite a bit. 706 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:10,280 I know. Yeah. 707 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,200 OK, so like from like the even before the Chinese Communist 708 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,000 government, like before, like when there's like emperors, 709 00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:19,600 yeah, that part of China, I think that was the. 710 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,240 Very center of the bureaucracy. Yeah, yeah. 711 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,480 Oh, that's so interesting. The center of the bureaucracy 712 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:25,400 just people are obsessed with. That oh, OK. 713 00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,760 I think really. Yeah, interesting. 714 00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,840 Is that your family? They were like everyone's works 715 00:29:29,840 --> 00:29:31,440 in government. Everyone wants a government job. 716 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,760 Yeah. So I'm like, I, I got out of 717 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,200 that like, OK, I'm very much of A but. 718 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,560 The jobs are quite competitive, right? 719 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,320 I mean, I know that the like imperial China was very 720 00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,760 competitive to get a bureaucratic job, but in modern 721 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,640 China is it is still I don't. Know I I haven't tried but I 722 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,480 don't know like I. Mean, what did your family say? 723 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,760 Like, oh, you have to do really well? 724 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,720 Or was it kind of like stable like the post office? 725 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,880 No, it's like you have to, well, you have to do very well to get 726 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,040 in. But once you get in and you can 727 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,400 basically like, like, it's very like not a lot of work or like 728 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:03,480 you can have like a like a job that that's like not a lot of, 729 00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,760 well, there's gonna be a lot of welfare and like, you know, 730 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,800 housing and stuff like that, but. 731 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,320 You get housing from the job like. 732 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,240 Cheaper for housing? Interesting. 733 00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,000 Yeah. OK. 734 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,200 And you have to be a party member. 735 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,560 Yeah, but pretty much everyone is a party member or. 736 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,040 Yeah or no to. Join the party itself is 737 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,800 actually kind of hard. To join the party, yeah. 738 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:29,520 Like to join the party in the beginning of your career is 739 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:33,680 well, most people who want to get into a party job or like a 740 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,040 governmental job, they would join the party in college and 741 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:39,400 like the student. Colleges were partying. 742 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,800 Exactly. The party during college? 743 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:45,560 Yeah. Party school. 744 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:49,280 That's what it means. Yeah, we have party school too. 745 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:53,800 We have party school too. Yeah, But no like the sooner 746 00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:57,560 like some people who are like very like exceptionally great at 747 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:01,200 academics or any and like extracurricular activities they, 748 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,680 they get to join in the first year of college or like the 749 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:07,520 first beginning of college. So that's more like more pride. 750 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,680 Oh, OK, yeah. Yeah, I don't know. 751 00:31:11,160 --> 00:31:13,720 I mean, yeah. I mean that you. 752 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:15,800 Well, I can't say that, can I? No. 753 00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,360 Well, don't say anything you can't say. 754 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,040 So yeah, because that's why I stopped. 755 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:21,680 Like, I was going to ask a couple questions, but I was 756 00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,920 like, you know, you got your. Yeah, no, it's okay. 757 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,280 Okay, sorry, yeah, he turned up the cameras. 758 00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,520 We're like, OK, now let's talk about the party. 759 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,160 But that's cool. So was that something you ever 760 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,160 thought about or were you like, I'm going to America? 761 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,880 Yeah. No, I'm I'm coming to America. 762 00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:40,760 You were like the whole time. Yeah, really. 763 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:42,520 From like, maybe like 10. Oh. 764 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:44,840 OK, yeah, you were just, you were like, OK, I have to do 765 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,240 well. Yeah, like. 766 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,120 Get into. I mean, you want to Duke, That's 767 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,040 a good school. Well, I think I'm pretty lucky 768 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,720 because like, well, when I was very young, I was like already 769 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:56,480 like planning on like how to like deceive my parent to like, 770 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,800 no, tell them that I'm coming here temporarily, but I'm also, 771 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,360 but I'm. We are never gonna leave here. 772 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:04,720 Yeah, well, luckily immigration's super cool right 773 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:06,040 now. Fuck. 774 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:07,760 Yeah. That's not great. 775 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,400 Yeah. Cool. 776 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:11,400 What happened? What happened? 777 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,280 So you said I'm gonna be here temporarily and they were like, 778 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,840 fine. No, they're not fine. 779 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,480 Oh, they were like, we can't stop you. 780 00:32:17,760 --> 00:32:18,880 Yeah. Oh, damn. 781 00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:20,400 Yeah. That's cool. 782 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:21,800 I guess. I guess so. 783 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,960 Wait, I think I'm very lucky because the Duke. 784 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:31,000 Duke has a like a full campus in China And what? 785 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:33,520 Yes. Oh, OK. 786 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:35,960 Like NYU also has a full campus in China. 787 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,520 OK. So I first wanted to get into 788 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,800 NYU because I like New York and China, but that's like much 789 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,560 cheaper. Like the government pays for 790 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,840 like half of the tuition for Chinese students. 791 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,280 In the Chinese and the China campus, yes. 792 00:32:49,800 --> 00:32:52,320 And for both campus? For like the China campus. 793 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,040 Damn wow that's actually awesome. 794 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,240 Yeah wait cuz NYU is so expensive. 795 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:58,120 It is. But if you get half of it 796 00:32:58,120 --> 00:32:59,880 covered by the Chinese government, yes. 797 00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:03,800 Damn, but you just have to. Look, cool government, I haven't 798 00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:07,120 looked into it so don't quote me on that, but from what I've 799 00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:09,440 heard Chinese Communist party really cool. 800 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:11,600 They yeah, they've got a lot of money. 801 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,040 They do not that much. Well, not as much as they could. 802 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,480 Yeah, Yeah. So they cover like the only the 803 00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,080 Chinese students. So I don't know, you have to 804 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,080 convert to. I don't know. 805 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,960 Convert to Chinese. To get that to. 806 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:26,040 Get that? No, no, no, no. 807 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,600 I mean, I don't. Yeah, Yeah. 808 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,520 No, I'm. Also 28, so I'm not trying to go 809 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,560 to undergrad again. Yeah, I went to school. 810 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,400 I'm done. The California State government 811 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:38,960 subsidized my my education because I went to I went to AUC, 812 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:40,880 University of California one Nice. 813 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,000 Yeah, yeah. Wait, that's like University of 814 00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:45,120 California. I went to Berkeley, which is 815 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,760 much better. What what I'm like so. 816 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:49,880 Which I'm very proud of. You should. 817 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:51,160 No, Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's cool. 818 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,440 I didn't really didn't really. SoCal's not from it's very hard 819 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,800 to get into from yeah, international students very hard 820 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,080 to get in for international from California. 821 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,600 They accept interest like 10%. So it's not like it's not the 822 00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,880 same as getting it into like, you know, the our Chinese 823 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:08,719 international students are super brilliant and how to say 824 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,000 students are also very smart. The kids from California are 825 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,360 like, it's like you're excited. It's good. 826 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,040 It's a good school, but you should have gone to Harvard. 827 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,760 That's like my vibe. But I do the one thing I do like 828 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,719 about what I do, because I tutor kids and I like do like SITACT 829 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,400 prep is like it's nice. It's I like telling people, 830 00:34:23,639 --> 00:34:26,239 yeah, I went to a school that I'm happy to tell people for. 831 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,920 But on the East Coast, if you I don't do it to a school where 832 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:30,679 I'm embarrassed to tell people where I went. 833 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,239 Like what if? You don't talk to Yale. 834 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,280 People like you don't even want to like Harvard or Yale. 835 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:35,639 They're like. Yeah, you're embarrassed. 836 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,600 I don't want to say cuz, you know, cuz the anyone says they 837 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,080 go to Harvard, you're like, Oh yeah, they're like, I'm 838 00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,560 embarrassed. But like for me, I'm like, no, 839 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,280 I'm, I'm not embarrassed because like people went to school in at 840 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:48,440 Harvard. They're like, I went to school 841 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:49,960 in Boston, you know? Right. 842 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or like. 843 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,360 Connecticut. Yeah, Well, I feel like people 844 00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:56,440 also say, like, you know, I went to school in Palo Alto. 845 00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,080 I've. I've heard that, yeah. 846 00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,840 Yeah, well, I do that now, too. I'm like, I went to school in 847 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,360 Berkeley. Yeah, but you know, there's only 848 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,160 one, right? Yeah. 849 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:10,720 Yeah, but yeah. So you wanted to go to, you 850 00:35:10,720 --> 00:35:14,800 wanted to go to NYU or Duke? Yeah, but the campus in China, 851 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:18,320 but I mean, it's still expensive, but it's so much more 852 00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:21,440 cheaper than here. Like coming to the States to do 853 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:26,360 that but NYU rejected me so I got to the Duke campus. 854 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:28,640 And then you just transferred over here. 855 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,880 No, I'd finished and then after I graduated, I came here. 856 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,960 I mean, there's also like weight exchange. 857 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,360 The Duke you went to was the one in China, Yes, but went to Duke 858 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,560 in China. Yes, but I came here like 2022 859 00:35:41,240 --> 00:35:45,200 to go to North Carolina 1. So it's like not full year, full 860 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,840 four year in China you. Did three years in in China? 861 00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:49,280 Yes. And then the last year you did 862 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,160 out here. Basically, I was going to come 863 00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,480 here in my junior year, but there's COVID. 864 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,960 OK. Yeah, yeah, that was a big 865 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,720 disruption, I know. Yeah, I was. 866 00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:01,560 How was Covic in, I mean you were in China during Covic? 867 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,320 I was. So that was 0 Covic. 868 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:04,920 How was that? Pretty intense, right? 869 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,520 Yeah, I've never got I've Yeah. You've never gotten it. 870 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,320 I've gotten it but like I got what? 871 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,840 You got to America. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 872 00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:13,680 No, yeah. I mean, I heard zero. 873 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,040 COVID was like, you know, they were really, I mean, I know you, 874 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,360 you know, it wasn't actually as intense. 875 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,040 I mean, there were some pretty extreme examples, but I know 876 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,360 they were really, it was really pretty. 877 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,440 Yeah, it was very intense. You know, I mean, like the most 878 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:27,160 intense was when I was here. So I like the revolution, 879 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,840 everybody going on the street protest. 880 00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,520 Yeah, that was like when I was here. 881 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,720 So I I didn't I get to witness that, but. 882 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,640 You know you weren't. Wait, what year did you get 883 00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:37,080 here? 2022. 884 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,320 So 2020 you would have missed. 2020. 885 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:41,880 You were in 2020. You were in. 886 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:43,040 China, yes. Yes, yeah. 887 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,480 Yeah, but that's like like when COVID first happened, so. 888 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,160 Oh, sorry. OK, OK, OK, OK. 889 00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,880 The sort of the the the push back against the lockdowns in 890 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,960 China, yeah, were in 2022. Yes, because it's already 2022, 891 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,360 nobody's doing lockdowns anymore. 892 00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,480 Yes, that was. Crazy. 893 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:00,080 Yeah, Yeah. I mean, they really just wanted, 894 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,440 yeah, I think they were just too committed to this, like success 895 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:04,200 that they had. Yeah. 896 00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,720 But you know. That's the thing about it. 897 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:08,000 Whatever. Anyways, Yeah, so one. 898 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,000 That's OK. It just have, you know, I mean, 899 00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,120 there's it's like it's so much more motivated by just people's 900 00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:15,200 internal like, yeah, rather than like these two. 901 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:18,640 I mean, it's not great over here, so I'll tell you that. 902 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:19,520 Still not. Yeah. 903 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:22,600 Things are kind of out of the frying pan into maybe a 904 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,200 different frying pan. Yeah. 905 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,200 Not the fire. OK, a different fire. 906 00:37:26,200 --> 00:37:27,760 How do you feel about the comparisons? 907 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,240 If you had to get like, let's say you could be equally 908 00:37:31,240 --> 00:37:33,280 successful and stand up in either places. 909 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,400 Considering the like situations and both economic and political, 910 00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,440 is there one you would prefer to be in? 911 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,680 No, I don't know. I don't know if I could be. 912 00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,400 I don't know if I could be as successful as let's say it 913 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,560 could. Be successful as a as a create 914 00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,960 like because I know that because of that, like here's undeniable, 915 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,640 right? The stand up stand up is so much 916 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:54,680 more like the infrastructure, so much more built. 917 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:56,160 Out. No, but it's like you can't say 918 00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:59,720 everything in stand up in China. So it's like, yeah, I don't know 919 00:37:59,720 --> 00:38:02,600 if that's like, yeah. Well, I mean, I don't know how 920 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,640 secure your visa is, but you can't say everything here 921 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,320 anymore, right? That's true because I don't 922 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,320 know, They're probably going to cancel Trevor Noah's visa. 923 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,440 Oh, right. Yeah, Yeah. 924 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,240 So it's just like, you never know, I feel like. 925 00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:14,080 But don't. But this time he's probably got 926 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:15,040 his friendship. Yeah. 927 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,120 Yeah, it'll be fine. Yeah. 928 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:17,760 No, I saw that. Oh, that's so funny. 929 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,640 Like yesterday. Like at Grammys. 930 00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,400 Do you see that? Yeah, I mean, I didn't watch 931 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,680 what he said, but I saw that Trump was mad about it. 932 00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:25,600 Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, you know, you actually 933 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,960 can't. I mean, I've never said this on 934 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,360 a podcast before, but you can't say anything these days. 935 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:36,040 I but no, there's a limit, I think if you aren't a citizen 936 00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:37,280 and even if you are, I mean, who knows? 937 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,320 But yeah, that is fair. You definitely can say a lot 938 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,200 more out here. Although yeah, pre speech rights 939 00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:44,440 are pretty robust. I was a little they're. 940 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,880 Pretty weak. I mean, they're at, they're at 941 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,720 the weakest point right now, but they're still extremely strong, 942 00:38:48,720 --> 00:38:50,480 probably still strongest in the world. 943 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:52,280 The culture is. Very, I know. 944 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,040 Yeah. I feel like, oh, OK, I try not 945 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:57,200 to talk about topical contents because I usually post these 946 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,240 like very, like late but but I was like, so surprised by what 947 00:39:01,240 --> 00:39:04,440 Trevor Noah was doing like at the Grammys last night because, 948 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,000 like, he's an immigrant and he he was talking about. 949 00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:11,120 So basically he was saying, oh, Nicki Minaj isn't here tonight 950 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,440 because he's like, she's like talking about she's still at the 951 00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:14,720 White House. And talking about. 952 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,000 With Donald Trump. And I'm like, that's like you 953 00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:20,880 can say that on national TV, Like I'm like. 954 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:22,560 Oh, really? Yeah. 955 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:25,040 That's really nice. What a cool moment. 956 00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:30,240 You know, America, I will say, is very, very, very like, I do 957 00:39:30,240 --> 00:39:33,040 feel quite strongly like, and I do feel proud of this word. 958 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:38,360 Like the culture is very proud of free speech to like, Yeah, I 959 00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:42,560 mean it, it really doesn't like censors. 960 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:44,880 The censorship does bother people. 961 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,840 And if you bring it out, if you like, can point out that it's 962 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:49,360 happening, people don't like it. Yeah. 963 00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:51,680 So like even if people like, yeah, yeah. 964 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,760 Which I think is good, Yeah. I think overall I'm very proud. 965 00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,160 Like, I'm actually probably a very proud free speech, yeah. 966 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,120 Which is like, you know, 'cause like, I mean, I'm not like, I'm 967 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,080 definitely not like, no one. Like I think, you know, if 968 00:40:04,080 --> 00:40:06,240 someone's like that person's like. 969 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:08,720 Fascist. Don't book them on your comedy 970 00:40:08,720 --> 00:40:10,040 show. I'm fine with that. 971 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,480 Yeah, but I definitely like the arresting and the government 972 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:13,920 retaliation stuff. I'm like super strong. 973 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,440 On Yeah, also like I feel like, but Trevor Noah saying it as an 974 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,680 immigrant makes it like, so like, oh, I'm an immigrant. 975 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,120 Can I say that too? Like, like now there's a 976 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,200 possibility of me like, practicing free speech because 977 00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:27,800 I'm seeing someone doing it on the TV. 978 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,680 Yeah, yeah, that's exciting. So yeah, just start saying shit, 979 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,640 start spouting off. But you know. 980 00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,160 Maybe before, maybe after I get citizenship. 981 00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,880 Get citizenship for sure. Yeah, I want to go back to like 982 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,200 what we're talking about at the beginning so we can like wrap 983 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:42,760 up. We're talking about oh, don't 984 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,920 text. Don't. 985 00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:44,680 Don't. Yeah. 986 00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:46,800 Don't just ghost. Just ghost. 987 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,080 I don't want to hear that. You're so evolved and you're so 988 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,320 kind. And because you're so evolved 989 00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,760 and you're so kind, you can't love me. 990 00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:55,240 I don't want to hear that. I want to hear that I'm so 991 00:40:55,240 --> 00:40:57,640 evolved and I'm so kind that now we're in love. 992 00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:00,560 And if you if and you know, if you're you're trying to do to 993 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:01,960 ease your own guilt, I don't care. 994 00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,680 Yeah, You're a bad person. Yeah, well, you're not a bad 995 00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,880 person for not dating me. I mean, you're transphobic and 996 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:09,840 racist, but no. But it's like, fine. 997 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:11,160 But it's just like, just leave me alone. 998 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:12,720 I don't care. I've already forgotten. 999 00:41:12,720 --> 00:41:17,360 OK, Well I haven't forgotten, but I've already processed this 1000 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:20,000 right, that we're not going to be together and that's normal I 1001 00:41:20,040 --> 00:41:22,080 guess. So part of dating leave me 1002 00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,800 alone. I guess yeah, well, I I first 1003 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,680 was a little against it, but now I get it. 1004 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,960 I get it. Like I don't want to. 1005 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,200 I don't want you to show up so mature and then decide that you 1006 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:34,200 wouldn't want to date me. Like I I want to date a mature 1007 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:35,920 person. Yes, and and. 1008 00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,760 I don't want to date an immature person exactly so. 1009 00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:41,160 Like ghosting me. You're being immature. 1010 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,520 So I'm like, OK, yeah, yes. You're doing me a kindness by 1011 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:48,320 maybe like, fuck that boy. He doesn't even he can't even 1012 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,760 talk to me. He's such a loser. 1013 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:53,120 Yeah, that's good. Yes, that's good. 1014 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,080 That's healing for me. Exactly. 1015 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:56,440 Right. So I can go to my friends and be 1016 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:57,880 like, he didn't even text me back. 1017 00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:00,040 And then your friends would be like, you deserve better. 1018 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,240 If he texts you back, you go to your friends and they're just 1019 00:42:02,240 --> 00:42:05,760 like wow you really missed out. You're right, you're right, 1020 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:09,240 you're right. And like, if you can't text me. 1021 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:15,160 So between texting because most people can't text within like 24 1022 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:17,480 hours, them realizing that this is not for them. 1023 00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:21,360 So rather than like, between texting three days later and 1024 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:23,200 just ghosting, maybe just ghosting. 1025 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:26,520 Absolutely yes, Three days. You've missed your window, 1026 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,320 you've ghosted. Yes, you've functionally 1027 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,200 ghosted. You have 3. 1028 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:30,440 Three days you've functionally ghosted. 1029 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:33,200 You don't even get the benefit if you text 3 days after. 1030 00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,720 Hey, I'm not feeling it. You've just rejected me twice. 1031 00:42:35,720 --> 00:42:41,000 Yes, yes, I have had that. Sorry I touched you, I didn't 1032 00:42:41,000 --> 00:42:42,080 ask. This podcast is over. 1033 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:44,440 I can't believe. No, no, no. 1034 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:45,160 It's fine. It's fine. 1035 00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:46,600 No. If you do, Yeah. 1036 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,400 No. I'm also sorry I'm in your bed. 1037 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:53,840 I, I I. We're actually in lock and post 1038 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,600 right now. No, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, 1039 00:42:55,640 --> 00:43:01,680 just like gripped, but no, if you if you if you you yeah, I've 1040 00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,280 had that happen so many times where I've immediately processed 1041 00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,400 kind of forget get the text from the person. 1042 00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:10,320 I get kind of excited yes and then it's like I'm not into it. 1043 00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,120 It's like yes, brutal yeah Oh, wait. 1044 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,440 Do you know that thing? I don't know if this might they 1045 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:24,240 do this on it on on Apple on Androids yeah, they will send 1046 00:43:24,240 --> 00:43:27,400 you a reminder. That's like they'll if you send 1047 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,680 a text and then you don't get a response, yeah, they will 1048 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,200 literally like up jump it in your like sender notifications 1049 00:43:33,240 --> 00:43:35,880 will be like, hey, they haven't responded in three days. 1050 00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,200 Would you like to send a follow up? 1051 00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:41,600 And it's like, don't brutal fucking yeah, they haven't 1052 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:43,680 responded in three days. No, I wouldn't like to send a 1053 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,400 follow up because they don't love me. 1054 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,160 Why are you doing this to me? It's wonderful for emails to 1055 00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:52,520 circle back, yes, but for fucking texts, yes. 1056 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:55,760 I don't know. I don't they don't they the 1057 00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:57,440 reason they don't respond is because they're bad people. 1058 00:43:57,440 --> 00:43:59,680 Well, they're not bad, but they're, you know, they don't 1059 00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:01,760 recognize that I'm going to be a huge *. 1060 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,960 Yes. So yeah, I agree. 1061 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,720 No, I can't believe. I can't believe Android does 1062 00:44:07,720 --> 00:44:08,920 that. It is really brutal because 1063 00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,240 they're just like you just want to like hey, send so you haven't 1064 00:44:11,240 --> 00:44:12,560 responded in five days. Send a follow up. 1065 00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:13,800 No Android. I mean ghosted. 1066 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,280 Yeah, I don't want to send a follow up. 1067 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,120 Well, I do want to send a follow up, but you're not really 1068 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:18,320 allowed to say the things I want to say. 1069 00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,520 I. I feel like Android should like 1070 00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:23,960 send the other person like something. 1071 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:27,760 Yes, they should be like, wow, she seemed really sweet and 1072 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:28,640 funny. Yeah. 1073 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,160 And I don't know what you're doing. 1074 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,520 You're fucking crazy. Yeah. 1075 00:44:31,720 --> 00:44:34,640 Yes, that's that's what they. Should do on that, yeah. 1076 00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,080 Yeah, instead of reminding me this, this person hasn't 1077 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:40,320 responded. I can't believe that's so 1078 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:41,040 brutal. I know. 1079 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:44,200 I mean I get that from like Gmail but not like text. 1080 00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,640 They do that for your text, they do for G text or whatever the 1081 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:47,560 app's called. I mean the app's called 1082 00:44:47,560 --> 00:44:48,560 Messages. Yeah. 1083 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:53,240 Well, well, I guess we can end on that. 1084 00:44:53,240 --> 00:44:55,280 Do better Android. Do better Android. 1085 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,120 Do better everyone who's ever dated me. 1086 00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,760 I know, me too. Yeah, everyone, you too, Yeah. 1087 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,280 Everyone who's ever ghosted or rejected. 1088 00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:04,480 Well, ghosting is fine. They should reject you. 1089 00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,080 They should ghost. They shouldn't reject you. 1090 00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,160 I guess everyone should just love you forever and then you 1091 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:13,640 get to be like. Yeah, I get. 1092 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,320 To but if you text them again when you're bored, they should 1093 00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:19,680 respond yes, yes, those are people who that just lives their 1094 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:21,040 lives. That's just how it is because 1095 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:23,320 they're so desirable. Like, you know, Andy Taylor Joy, 1096 00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:24,560 you know that's just how she lives. 1097 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,280 Who? Who? 1098 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,680 Andy Taylor Joy, the one with the wide eyes. 1099 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,400 No. What do you the one with the 1100 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,000 wide eyes from Queen's Gambit? Oh, right. 1101 00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:37,000 Right. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1102 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:39,520 Horror. OK, Yeah, yeah, I know her with 1103 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:40,640 big guys, yeah. But big. 1104 00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:41,840 They're big. And they're kind of like. 1105 00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,400 Yeah, and like, like brown hair and. 1106 00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:44,800 She's so beautiful. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she is. 1107 00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,640 You know she, just like her life, rocks. 1108 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,240 Yeah, so respond to our text. Don't. 1109 00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,440 Oh, don't. OK, no like. 1110 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,880 Oh respond to it cuz you're saying yes yes, but if you're 1111 00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:03,400 not saying yes. Only only that's not an option. 1112 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,920 That's not an option. Yeah, No. 1113 00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,200 Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1114 00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:08,960 Yeah, now that I've transitioned, I can say that now 1115 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:10,640 it's empowering instead of really scary. 1116 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,920 OK. Well, yes, thank you so much. 1117 00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,280 All right, thanks. So fun. 1118 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:16,520 Yeah.