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 Welcome  to  the  New  Manager 
 Podcast.  I'm 

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 your  host,  Kim  Nicol.  Hello
 and  welcome.  I'm 

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 glad  you're  here  and  I 
 hope  you're  doing  well. 

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 You've 
 tuned  in  to  the  New 

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 Manager  Podcast  with  me, 
 your  host,  Kim  Nicol,  and 

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 today  we're  talking  about 
 meetings.  So 

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 if  you  look  at  your 
 calendar  and  just  had  to 

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 eyeball  it,  how  much  of 
 your  calendar  this  week  is 

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 taken  up  with  meetings? 
 It's 

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 so  easy  for  them  to 
 proliferate  and  to  start  to

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 expand  and  take  up  a  lot 
 of  time.  This 

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 is  something  I  hear  from  a
 lot  of  people  is,  I  don't 

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 know  when  to  do  my  work 
 because  I  have  a  lot  of 

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 meetings.  And 
 when  you  rise  into  higher 

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 levels  of  leadership  and 
 management,  you  will  be 

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 invited  to  even  more 
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 part  of  your  job  will  be 
 to  decide  what  meetings  do 

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 I  attend,  which  do  I 
 delegate,  or  which  ones  do 

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 I  simply  choose  to  get 
 the,  you  know,  maybe  the 

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 notes  from  after  and  not 
 necessarily  being  there  in 

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 person  yourself.  And 
 also  because  you  will  be 

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 running  your  meetings,  you 
 want  to  be  mindful  and 

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 thoughtful  about  how  you  do
 that.  So 

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 for  today,  I  want  to  give 
 you  a  simple  way  to 

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 approach  your  meeting 
 schedule  and  how  to  make 

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 them  better.  The 
 basic  idea  is  you  want  to 

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 reevaluate  how  you  do  your 
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 we're  going  to  do  this 
 using  a  structure  you've 

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 probably  encountered 
 someplace  else,  but  maybe 

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 not  applied  to  this 
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 as  an  aside,  I  kind  of 
 love  that  approach,  because 

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 if  you  can  simply  find  a 
 new  use  case  for  something 

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 that  is  already  familiar  to
 you,  then  you  are  more 

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 likely  to  actually  use  that
 tool  to  make  things  better.

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 And 
 that's  why  we're  here.  So 

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 here's  the  breakdown  of 
 this  framework  that  we're 

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 going  to  use.  The 
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 reevaluate  your  meetings. 
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 you  look  at  the  week,  look
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 your  calendar,  and  then 
 you're  going  to  run  them 

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 through  this  series  of 
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 basic  framework  is  who, 
 what,  when,  where,  why,  and

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 how.  Let's 
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 on  its  own.  So 
 look  at  a  first  meeting 

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 and  ask  yourself,  okay, 
 who,  who  needs  to  be 

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 there?  Are 
 the  right  people  in  this 

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 meeting?  Are 
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 this  meeting?  You 
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 yourself.  If 
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 a  meeting,  ask  yourself,  do
 I  really  need  to  be  here? 

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 Does 
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 in  the  room  includes  me? 
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 some  days  the  answer  might 
 be  no,  when  you  weigh  your

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 other  priorities.  So 
 that  first  one  is  who. 

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 Number 
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 what  are  we  talking  about? 
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 are  we  doing?  What 
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 know,  this  starts  to  point 
 us  towards  what  is  the 

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 desired  outcome  of  this 
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 can  be  easy  for  meetings 
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 an  inertia,  where  they 
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 momentum  and  habit.  It's 
 good  to  pause  and  ask, 

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 wait,  what  are  we  talking 
 about?  What 

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 are  we  intending  to 
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 you  ask  the  question,  what,
 it  may  prompt  you  to 

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 either  revisit  what  is  the 
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 outcome  for  that  meeting. 
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 might  prompt  you  to  think 
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 we  know  why  we're  going  to
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 of  this  meeting  is?  It 
 also  allows  you  to  pause 

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 and  say,  well,  when  we 
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 regular  meeting,  it  was  for
 these  reasons,  are  those 

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 reasons  still  valid?  Or 
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 retire  or  change  something? 
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 taking  that  moment  to  ask, 
 what  are  we  talking  about 

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 here?  What 
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 is  the  point?  Can 
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 opportunities  to  make 
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 ask  yourself,  when,  when  is
 this  meeting  happening?  What

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 is  the  time?  What 
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 you  ask  yourself  the  when 
 question,  consider  it 

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 against  who  is  going  to  be
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 if  you  have  folks  who  are 
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 zones,  this  is  also  a 
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 reevaluate.  Does 
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 land  in  an  equitable  way 
 across  all  the  participants,

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 schedules,  and  calendars?  We
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 of  the  decisions  that  we're
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 effect  that  they  will  have 
 on  other  people.  When 

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 you  ask  the  question  of 
 when  is  this  meeting  and 

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 you're  thinking  about  the 
 timing  of  it,  you  also 

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 want  to  consider  the 
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 a  huge  fan  of  creating 
 meetings  that  don't  land 

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 exactly  on  the  half  or  on 
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 if  you  build  in  a  little 
 bit  of  buffer  time,  that 

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 has  a  positive  cumulative 
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 everyone  else.  Because 
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 context  switching  from  one 
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 from  one  task  to  another. 
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 that  takes  energy.  It 
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 flip  a  switch  from  one 
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 another  meeting  or  another 
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 by  building  in  a  little 
 bit  of  buffer,  even  if 

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 it's  only  10  minutes,  even 
 if  it's  only  five,  if  you 

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 really  honor  that  five 
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 in  a  breathing  room,  what 
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 to  show  up  a  little  bit 
 more  prepared,  a  little  bit

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 more  focused.  We're 
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 minutes  instead  of  60,  or 
 we're  going  to  meet  for  25

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 minutes  instead  of  30.  If 
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 means  we  have  a  bit  of 
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 means  that  next  meetings 
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 means  that  there's  room  to 
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 water,  get  a  quick  bite  to
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 you  have  time  built  in  for

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 all  of  the  human  stuff. 
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 to  also  take  a  moment  to 
 perhaps  jot  down  any  notes 

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 and  get  it  out  of  your 
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 that  when  you  go  to  the 
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 you  have  that  bit  of 
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 your  mind  can  kind  of 
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 and  it's  not  like  your 
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 meeting,  but  your  mind  is 
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 conversation  that  you  just 
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 can  be  a  better  use  of 
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 time  when  you  build  in 
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 these  bits  of  breathing 
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 of  that,  that  question 
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 meet  and  what's  the 
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 the  when  question.  Next, 
 we  go  to  where.  Where 

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 is  this  meeting  happening? 
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 it  happening  online?  Is 
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 it  audio  only?  Are 
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 Sometimes 
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 change  where  we  meet 
 because  it  has  a  different 

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 this  in  terms  of  having  a 
 team  off  site  or  simply  or

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 in  some  cases  now  it's  a 
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 of  everybody  being  remote, 
 now  we  decide,  okay,  for 

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 today,  for  this  quarter,  we
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 under  the  same  roof  so 
 that  we're  having  a 

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 conversation  without  the 
 screens  and  that  might 

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 create  a  different  kind  of 
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 be  mindful  to  ask,  where 
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 You 
 know,  you  can  also  do 

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 walking  meetings.  So 
 you  might  say  with  your 

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 one  on  one,  hey,  would  you
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 It's 
 a  really  nice  day.  Maybe 

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 we  can  do  this  meeting  on 
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 for  a  walk  instead  of 
 sitting  in  a  conference 

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 room.  Or 
 even  if  you're  doing  it 

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 remotely,  it  might  be  a 
 walking  meeting  that's  audio

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 only  and  you  and  your 
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 places  with  a  headset  on 
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 having  that  conversation.  I 
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 works  better  when  I 
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 my  body.  So 
 if  I  go  for  a  walk,  my 

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 brain  works  better.  If 
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 my  brain  works  better.  It's
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 sometimes  easy  to  forget 
 when  we're  doing  a  lot  of 

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 thinking  work,  but  actually 
 our  brain  works  better  and 

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 we  can  discharge  some  of 
 the  accumulated  stress  or 

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 anxiety  or  just,  you  know, 
 activity  that  kind  of 

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 builds  up  in  the  body  when
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 care  of  our  body  along  the
 way.  That 

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 comes  up  when  we  ask, 
 where  is  this  meeting  going

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 to  happen?  And 
 then  we  get  to  why.  Why 

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 are  we  having  this  meeting 
 again?  It 

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 gets  us  to  ask,  what  is 
 the  desired  outcome  or  what

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 does  success  look  like? 
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 you  are  having  your  one -on
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 might  change  over  time 
 because  one,  one -on -one 

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 might  be  about  having  a 
 career  conversation.  Why 

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 are  we  having  this  one -on 
-one  this  month?  It's 

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 because  we  need  to  talk 
 about  career  plans,  career 

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 progression,  or  maybe  we're 
 here  to  talk  about  changes 

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 that  are  happening  and  we 
 need  to  make  sure  we're  on

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 the  same  page.  Maybe 
 the  why  for  this  coming 

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 meeting  is  to  talk  about 
 performance  reviews  or  a 

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 performance  issue,  but  even 
 though  you're  having  this 

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 regular  meeting,  the 
 undercurrent  of  why,  what 

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 is  the  focus  of  this 
 particular  meeting,  it  might

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 change  over  time.  What 
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 when  we  have  recurring 
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 pause  and  reevaluate  what 
 is  it  that  we  want  to 

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 accomplish  here.  We 
 can  get  into  a  ret  where 

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 it  feels  like  we're  just 
 doing  the  same  status 

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 updates  and  it  doesn't  feel
 that  connected  or  engaged. 

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 Taking 
 that  moment  to  pause  and 

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 reflect,  why  are  we  doing 
 this?  What 

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 is  the  desired  outcome  of 
 this  meeting?  Checking 

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 in  every  month,  every 
 quarter  to  see  what,  if 

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 anything,  has  changed.  What 
 does  success  look  like?  You

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 can  also  think  about  this 
 when  you  are  thinking  of 

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 your  meetings  with  your 
 manager  for  your  one -on 

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-ones.  If 
 your  manager  is  not  setting

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 the  tone  and  there's  lots 
 of  reasons  why  that  might 

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 be,  you  can  kind  of  help 
 out  by  influencing  or 

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 taking  the  lead  and  letting
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 our  upcoming  one -on -one, 
 here  are  the  things  that  I

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 would  like  for  us  to  go 
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 how  we  are  structuring  and 
 doing  a  meeting,  when  we 

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 this.  Therefore, 
 let  us  change  the  way  that

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 that's  the  why.  And 
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 is  about  structure.  How 
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 the  end  and  do  the 
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 running  the  meeting?  When 
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 for  your  team,  there  are 
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 delegate  some  of  the 
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 else.  It 
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 career  and  professional 
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 speaking,  the  facilitation, 
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 necessary  delegation  if  you 
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 you  can  think  of  this  as 
 tapping  into  the  brilliance 

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 and  the  ability  of  your 
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 come  together.  So 
 thinking  about  how  will  it 

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 work,  how  will  this  meeting
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 more  and  more  AI  tools, 
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 who  are  also  now  using  AI 
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 capture  the  summary  of  the 
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 review  those  notes  because 
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 you  might  think  about,  is 

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 there  a  way  that  will  make
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 be  on  the  same  page  and 
 to  have  a  point  of 

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 so  maybe  now  you  start 
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 AI  enabled  meeting  tools  to
 help  you  have  a  more 

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 effective  meeting.  The 
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 mindful  that  you're  not 
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 you  actually  have  a  lot  of
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 meetings  you  attend,  which 
 meetings  you  don't,  and  how

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 the  meetings  that  you  do 
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 how  they  work.  It's 
 important  to  pause  to  do  a

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 bit  of  an  inventory.  I 
 would  recommend  you  do  this

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 organization  that  you're  in,
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 activities.  So 
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 busy  season  for  your 
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 really  understanding  that 
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 of  the  organization,  there's
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 it  might  be  that  as  you're
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 you  know  that  folks  on 
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 vacation  or  you  will  be 
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 thinking  about  how  will 
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 to  simply  reflect  how  we 
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 like  you're  having  a  little
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 uncomfortable,  specifically 
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 know  if  I  can  decline  this
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 feel  like  I  should  go  to 
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 to.  You 
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 should  expect  to  be  invited
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 part  of  your  work  will  be 
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 yes  to  and  what  do  you 
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 read  something  on  LinkedIn 
 recently  and  I'll  see  if  I

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 it  was  this  person  who  was
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 most  people  organize  their 
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 that  they  have  rather  than 
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 and  the  priorities.  And 
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 drive  the  work.  It 
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 when  you  look  at  your 
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 got  all  these  meetings,  you
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 these  line  up  with  my 
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 if  not,  then  change  it. 
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 run  your  week  based  on  the
 meeting  invites  in  your 

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 calendar.  And 
 again,  I'll  see  if  I  can 

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 find  where  I  read  that 
 because  I  thought  it  was  a

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 today  it's  all  about 
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 better,  maybe  question 
 what's  on  your  calendar  and

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 why.  And 
 again,  run  this  simple 

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 framework,  who,  what,  when, 
 where,  why,  and  how.  And 

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 use  it  to  begin  to  look 
 with  new  eyes  at  what  you 

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 have  on  your  calendar,  how 
 the  meetings  work,  and  then

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 make  some  small  adjustments 
 to  make  them  better.  That's

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 what  I  had  to  share  with 
 you  today.  Take 

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 it,  use  it.  I 
 hope  you  have  a  great  day 

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 at  work.  Thank 
 you  for  listening.  And 

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 I  will  talk  to  you  again 
 next  time.

